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WORLD LEADING THERAPIST Answers Relationship Questions Most People Are Afraid to Ask | Lori Gottlieb
World leading relationship therapist, Lori Gottlieb, is back to answer the top relationship questions most people are afraid to ask. From the pressure of finding love in your late 20s and 30s, to whether true love should "just feel easy," Gottlieb exposes why popular beliefs may be holding you back. Learn why many couples break up at the 5-year mark and what makes relationships actually last. Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, this conversation offers crucial insights about building lasting connections.
If you liked this episode you may enjoy my conversation about attracting love with Joe Dispenza ua-cam.com/video/F-MEegYIWaM/v-deo.html
In this interview, we discuss:
00:00 Intro
01:40 Are You Behind In Love?
05:02 We Date Our Unfinished Business
11:51 Attachment Styles
16:48 You're Doing First Dates WRONG
22:02 What Does Love Feel Like?
25:31 Do You Fully Understand Your Partner?
28:13 The Secrets To Long-Lasting Relationships
37:43 Be Consistent With Your Boundaries
46:13 You’re Not Ready For Marriage
50:12 Communicate Your Needs
52:56 The Blind Spots of Dating
56:56 The Truth About Future Tripping
01:00:33 The Truth About Dating Shows & Media
01:01:58 This Is When Most Relationships Fail Statistically
01:04:11 Can Having Children Save a Marriage?
01:07:05 The In-Law Issue
01:12:21 When Couples Therapy Is The Right Choice
01:17:09 How Long Can You Tolerate Disrespect From Your Partner?
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ALICIA KEYS Reveals 5 Daily Rituals To Calm Your Nervous System
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16-time Grammy winner Alicia Keys opens up to Jay Shetty about the daily rituals that keep her grounded amidst chaos. She reveals her powerful morning practices, including the self-talk habit that changed everything. Learn the tools this music icon uses to maintain peace while balancing family, creativity, and success. In this interview, we discuss: 00:00 Intro 03:54 What Would You Say to Your ...
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Dr. Joe Dispenza: WATCH THIS To Rewire Your Brain & ATTRACT Anything You Want
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⁠Andrew Huberman's Hack To Increase Your Dopamine Levels & Boost Motivation By 60%
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#1 Parenting Psychologist: What Is Over-Parenting & Are You Doing It?
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КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @Jordanlakesha
    @Jordanlakesha 9 годин тому

    ❤❤

  • @CarmQ
    @CarmQ 9 годин тому

    @JayShettyPodcast Isn't Joe Dispenza a chiropractor, pseudo-scientist? I'm surprised you have him on your show.....

  • @viktoriaviolet
    @viktoriaviolet 9 годин тому

    It took me few hours to watched this video. I had to pause it many time. It made me feel like, " Hang on a sec I need to think about this right now".This conversation felt deeply meaningful. Thank you for that. 💜

  • @Houda-r1p
    @Houda-r1p 9 годин тому

    When i become aware in a dream everything crumbles and I wakeup

  • @Lie-cd4du
    @Lie-cd4du 9 годин тому

    Did they talk about God at all?

  • @aradhanamila4579
    @aradhanamila4579 10 годин тому

    I've been this narcissistic abuse.. Narcissists are monsters who are filled with Self Pride,, but they deserve love,, care and support too...only without emotional attachments....they have a lost child inside them...😢Jesus can break every chain of narcissism..Have faith in Him and Pray... That doesn’t mean you have to endure the abuse..,, please don't do that. Praying for them and Loving them from a distance is the Best thing... ❤❤

  • @Andelf-Awaken
    @Andelf-Awaken 10 годин тому

    She makes an error, which is very typical for a academic educated in today's standards - she refuses to focus on man-made 'refined sugar', which is EVERYWHERE - and is a main reason for: tooth decay, emotions swings and more... The problem she should address is not; 'people eat to much glucose' but rather: 'people eat wrong (man-made) kind of glucose'

  • @larisamavromati3302
    @larisamavromati3302 10 годин тому

    "the more you grow you become more compasionate" so true Matthew ❤️🙏

  • @dannydonnelly8345
    @dannydonnelly8345 10 годин тому

    Sean to me is an unusual looking fellow. He's incredibly nondescript. Very plain looking. Almost impossible to describe. If I seen 10,000 pictures of him I still wouldn't recognize him if I walk past him.

  • @dannydonnelly8345
    @dannydonnelly8345 10 годин тому

    That's what it means to be a public figure. I guess you have to trade some of your privacy for millions of dollars. Keep in mind money buys all the privacy he wants.

  • @CNK_CNK
    @CNK_CNK 10 годин тому

    If only some parents can be that understanding lol I'll never see my mom again if I say that to her. Her EQ is too low to take any criticism. She has her good qualities, EQ is just not one of them unfortunately 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @jamesmaness6308
    @jamesmaness6308 11 годин тому

    Brilliant interview 👏 well done 👍

  • @maria8383ful
    @maria8383ful 11 годин тому

    Do you know which retreat and shaman she is referring to? More information and the location would be greatly appreciated.❤

  • @ThogreKaveri
    @ThogreKaveri 11 годин тому

    Hey Jay brother i listen to your podcast...it's really very good

  • @deannawhite3180
    @deannawhite3180 11 годин тому

    This is good. Thank you

  • @Mona-wz5bb
    @Mona-wz5bb 11 годин тому

  • @gabriellasophia222
    @gabriellasophia222 11 годин тому

    With a 10 and 11 year old I can’t handle this conversation with his son. Sobbing. So good. ❤

  • @malerieestes2342
    @malerieestes2342 11 годин тому

    What's up with abstract dreams? I ran across a TikTok about a year ago where someone said "what was up with the abstract dot-line dream we all had as kids?" and it was mega viral with people agreeing, and so it would seem that there's a large population (including myself) who had a reoccurring dream about colorful dots and abstract lines, and then they disappeared with aging.

  • @BlancaLacosta
    @BlancaLacosta 12 годин тому

    Brilliant interview from both parts. Jay is capable of really hearing and putting his own feedback in what Dr. Maté is saying, and Dr. Maté's answers are, as always, beyond all my expectations.

  • @jacovanderschaaf3044
    @jacovanderschaaf3044 12 годин тому

    what about if your (me) is autistic. em i just compatible with anyone, because of what i have that i dont know how to communicate with? because you might love some one that has or is autistic, does that mean you have to avoide does people?

  • @christinaraestott710
    @christinaraestott710 12 годин тому

    First I would not take Any beauty advise from Anything Kardashian considering all their plastic surgeries ! Come on!

  • @MonarKist
    @MonarKist 12 годин тому

    One of my friend's girlfriend used to have dreams of talking and spending time with her first love of life which she didnt get.. my friend was unable to understand how to deal with it. She used to tell him happily about the dream but he used to. Get sad and blank of emotions.. though their relation is good now but he was unable to how to reach on some conclusion... my friend decided to listen to her and keep himself in control but he told me how hurt he felt about all this.. any intellectual views I can get about this...

  • @babettejennichan9228
    @babettejennichan9228 12 годин тому

    Women don’t need to get married because we are going to end up doing everything. Women generally do more than men.

  • @Itsgorgejess
    @Itsgorgejess 12 годин тому

    Loved this!!!! ❤🙏🏾

  • @DaennaFilms
    @DaennaFilms 12 годин тому

    ❤❤

  • @leonhard_rosner
    @leonhard_rosner 12 годин тому

    #LiveRightLiving 💛🙏✨🌞🫶🌞✨🙏☀️

  • @peacewarrior8785
    @peacewarrior8785 13 годин тому

    Such a great episode!!

  • @Centimilli
    @Centimilli 13 годин тому

    Yes ma'am

  • @CarmQ
    @CarmQ 13 годин тому

    I'm 53 and I have rarely ever had nightmares. Is this a good thing, or a bad thing...

  • @MelHyde
    @MelHyde 13 годин тому

    As a Filmmaker myself, Hollywood is soul sucking, having that balance is so important 🙌

  • @amberdschaak1289
    @amberdschaak1289 13 годин тому

    I LOVED HEARING YOUR STORY. YOU ARE A GOOD HUMAN!

  • @HayleyRobinson34
    @HayleyRobinson34 14 годин тому

    Love this. ❤

  • @vatrahakisou
    @vatrahakisou 14 годин тому

    I don't need more than I can pack in the car so my kids husbend my pet and 2 bags of clothes so we can be clean humble and kind...I think my kids needs more maybe a van ;)

  • @congkhai4620
    @congkhai4620 14 годин тому

    22:32

  • @JJOK1818-okthen
    @JJOK1818-okthen 14 годин тому

    👌🏽✨ love

  • @viviansolovjevova8207
    @viviansolovjevova8207 15 годин тому

    Thank you so much for this❤❤❤ i love your energy guys and the informations are mindblowing eventhough i was reading about this topics for quite a long time already🎉🎉🎉🎉 wish you all the best and i hope there will be next epizode about the symptoms and listening to your body:)) take care❤

  • @angilong4292
    @angilong4292 15 годин тому

    Mindblowing! All of these constituents feel disparate in our modern lives, but listening to Zach felt like I was 'remembering ' the truth of who I am, who we are and what we need. Realising how far away from that we have been led over generations, in many ways by the ignorance of those 'leading' us, but so often by the greed of those we entrust with the welfare of ourselves, our communities and our planet. But that is the crux - we have delegated so much of our personal responsibility for those things and have to take that responsibility back and replenish our world.

  • @aappkaa
    @aappkaa 15 годин тому

    Cardio is not waste of time

  • @isabelcorreia740
    @isabelcorreia740 15 годин тому

    Jelly Roll, What a beautiful humanbeing……

  • @anarisaac
    @anarisaac 15 годин тому

    Love the podcast but would love to know what I can do once the damage is done. What if you have chronic inflammation and your fingers are deformed and you feel the inflammation for years. You made appropriate changes but still suffer from chronic inflammation. What help is available? Can it be stopped? Can the damage that was done improve?

  • @julieklick4321
    @julieklick4321 15 годин тому

    The best interview! I need to listen to this over and over to get all of the pearls of wisdom! Thanks for both of you!

  • @APM1978
    @APM1978 15 годин тому

    Jellyroll needs to meet up with Daniel Adams ❤

  • @Lumen-e1p
    @Lumen-e1p 15 годин тому

    Cynthia! Wicked에서 당신은 정말 멋졌어요❤Wicked에서 당신을 보고 푹 빠져버렸어요🩵한국에서 무한한 사랑과 응원을 보냅니다💚💛💜

  • @marilynjurhill8836
    @marilynjurhill8836 16 годин тому

    My wife and I 😉 instead of Me and my wife.

  • @ريمالمدهشة
    @ريمالمدهشة 16 годин тому

    Why am i so into this guy.

  • @richardeast3328
    @richardeast3328 17 годин тому

    Wow, that puts Socrates and Plato to shame.

  • @marvelmaweni1451
    @marvelmaweni1451 17 годин тому

    Hi, thank you so much for this enlightening conversation. I am 31, have been with the same guy for 8 years now, we are not married and have no kids (my goal has always been marriage before kids). I feel he hasn't taken much initiative over the years to work on being the future provider I'd like him to be. We are not in a good space financially (he's been in the same job with no promotion for 6 years now, and I've switched jobs in that period for better income. It's only now that he's actively looking for better roles on the job market, nothing's come up yet). He says he does plan to marry me and would like us to start a family, but I don't see how when he's not making much effort to be financially stable. I'm starting to doubt his love and commitment for me. Am I wasting my time with him?

  • @SereneTeachings
    @SereneTeachings 17 годин тому

    "Money doesn’t bring happiness, but the lack of it can bring misery." Money is just a tool, but if you don’t know how to use it, you’ll always be controlled by it. Learn to make money work for you instead of chasing it - that’s the key to financial freedom and a fulfilling life. Pause and reflect: Are you living just to survive, or are you living to build your future?