Very poor title decision. She said so many important things but prioritizing clicks when deciding the title is sad. Especially for such a well known podcast. Again a woman put on the spot for her relationship over her achievements.
I agree. Jay, most people listening to you are not looking for drama, but for growth. So the titles should reflect that. Plus it's a simply disrespectful title to Melinda, who is so much more than a person who divorced Bill Gates.
She's a fool you can see how she talks and doesn't go into any details. Just says women this and women that to make her point and getting divorced at her age for what ? to date who ?
Thank you for sharing, Melinda. I just turned 60 and went through my own divorce after 18 years of marriage. I applaud you for sharing your journey so that others realize that these challenging circumstances occur to everyone despite social standing. Bravo.
Do you think you will be like Elaine Schwartzenburg Edwards, who also divorced when she was 60 in 1989, and spent her last 28.5 years without a spouse?
The title dishonours the conversation and this awesome, wise, accomplished woman. I suspect she is one of them, those women who despite their many accomplishments, were never fully recognized for what they’ve achieved, but for whom they did or didn’t marry. She is all the women she tries to support and speak for, perhaps this is why helping women tap into their potential is such a central theme in her life and mission. So yes, that title is problematic because it doesn’t allow people to see her as a fully fledged woman beyond her marital status. Stories and words matter and in instances like this they help perpetuate same old stereotypes.
I love people like Melinda who have enough money to just live and enjoy their lives, but instead choose to try to make the world a better place to live for everyone. Awesome interview Jay, it was great to see that you were talking to Melinda and not just Bill Gates ex wife.
She’s wonderful… I’m taking notes Also, I’d bet money Bill is the type of person who sneakily undermines ones confidence … bc mine does and my imposter syndrome is slowly being dismantled but it’s hard
Being so rich but it is a sad to hear her story and talking of empowerment of woman, seems she feels upset but since she has money and she has been in philaontherapy for whole her life her talk is valuable it is true that woman have to ovrercome the glass cieling. What about herself is looking for something more life becomes tacky after divorce , one would like to hear is she lonely, does her heart filled with pain. Nice to know about kejabi i am from new delhi we want to know kejabi how does she follow this lonely road in her life. People love her as a gamechanger and a great figure of this century with bill gates. We advice her to do some meditation, we understand her sad moments. Life is beautyfull it is like a celerebation, a dance and happiness will be attained like enlightment all restvl is surreal good to hear such profound words we all players in this chessboard of life and have come in this world to play of in the chessboard world of life and we perform her duties in the world for age is just a number and the best is yet to come mam all over the world woman are siddlined in the world woman have to raise children and start her family as said by honrable melinda, yes it is awefull age . She has piinted rightlt
Thank you for inviting such an inspiring woman on your Podcast. She’s the real deal; no hype, a good listener, thoughtful and above all honest . She’s powerful because she knows who she is and her faith stablizes her to move forward. I wish her all the joy and contentment this life has to offer. Thank you Mr. Shetty for your thoughtfulness and depth as well
“Imposter syndrome can be powerful!” This is such a great interview. So many life truths and aha moments. The most important takeaway for me was the power of faith! It is so humbling- the most influential people need to go back to faith in trying times. Thank you Jai Shetty for sharing Melinda’s beauty with us ❤
Doesn't it bother you that a woman who is married to a person for 27 years not knowing what her husband was doing with Epstein? And the person asking the questions, doesnt even go anywhere near it?
Wow!!! I am admire her so much. I came from an Asian country and understand how women had no voice , I think she should run politics we need more women like her. Thank you for interview her 🙏
Key insights 😔 "I thought I'd be married 50 plus years for me. I couldn't go forward. There wasn't enough trust any longer." 👩💻 The lack of women in the tech sector is due to a lack of opportunities and the industry not welcoming women. 📜 The US Constitution was written without the input of women and black people, leading to a society that did not value their rights and contributions. 🔥 Melinda French Gates faced backlash and fear when speaking out on the need for more contraceptives, even from her own church. 👨👩👧👦 Talking to her kids and parents about her decisions gave Melinda the strength to face attacks from both the left and the right. 💔 Melinda French Gates opens up about the difficulty of giving herself grace during her divorce, acknowledging it as one of the hardest challenges she has ever faced. 😢 Melinda Gates never expected to be divorced in her late 50s but found beauty and grace on the other side of the struggle. 🌈 Learning to hold joy and sadness side by side is a powerful realization that can bring comfort and hope in difficult times. 💼 Melinda French Gates emphasizes the need for women and people of colour to be empowered financially and in policy-making positions to reflect all of society.
TLDR: Women, especially women of color, face numerous challenges in both personal and professional life, and it is crucial for them to be empowered financially and in policy-making positions to create a more inclusive and equitable society. 1. 00:00 🔍 Melinda French Gates discusses her unexpected divorce, embracing change, and the importance of learning and growth. 1.1 Melinda French Gates discusses the complexities of holding joy and sadness together, her unexpected divorce, and the importance of subscribing to the channel for creating a habit of learning and growth. 1.2 Melinda French Gates discusses how she has embraced change throughout her life and sees it as an opportunity for growth and learning. 1.3 Melinda French Gates discusses her positive mindset towards change, attributing it to her parents' encouragement to embrace new experiences and opportunities. 1.4 Melinda French Gates discusses her upbringing, the influence of her parents, and her early dreams and goals, including her desire to pursue a career in computer science and become a professional working woman with children. 1.5 Melinda French Gates discusses the formative influence of her education, including the value of silence and serving others, and how she still finds value in spending time alone. 1.6 Melinda French Gates discusses the importance of quiet reflection, gratitude, and setting goals in her daily routine. 2. 12:16 🔍 Melinda Gates reflects on the lessons she learned later in life, including the lack of opportunities for women in male-dominated industries and the need for change, as well as the challenges faced by women and people of color in their professional careers. 2.1 Trusted relationships are important for achieving goals, as sharing plans with too many people can lead to discouragement, while sharing with only one person may not provide the necessary guidance. 2.2 Melinda Gates reflects on the lessons she learned later in life, including the realization that the world isn't built for everyone and the challenges women and people of color face in their professional careers. 2.3 Melinda French Gates discusses the lack of opportunities for women in male-dominated industries and the need for change. 2.4 Women and people of color face roadblocks and barriers that don't exist for white men, and studying history, particularly the US Constitution, can help understand the impact of exclusion and the need to dismantle these barriers. 2.5 Melinda French Gates discusses the importance of access to contraceptives for women's health and empowerment, despite the controversial nature of the issue. 2.6 Melinda French Gates discusses the challenges of navigating difficult paths and positively impacting the world. 3. 22:05 🔑 Melinda French Gates discusses her fear of speaking out on contraceptives, finding strength in pushing against man-made rules, and the importance of recognizing the challenges and consequences of big decisions. 3.1 Melinda French Gates discusses her fear of speaking out on the issue of contraceptives the backlash she anticipated from her church, and how she took time to reflect on her beliefs and seek support before taking a stand. 3.2 Melinda French Gates found strength in pushing against man-made rules, facing criticism from the Catholic church and both the left and the right, but was okay because she had already talked to her kids, and parents, and knew the impact of her platform on women in the developing world. 3.3 Melinda French Gates discusses the process of finding the courage to make difficult decisions and the importance of knowing oneself and what truly matters. 3.4 Melinda French Gates discusses the importance of recognizing the challenges and consequences of big decisions and shares her experiences with impostor syndrome. 3.5 Melinda French Gates discusses her transition into the field of global health and her initial feelings of inadequacy due to her background in computer science and business. 3.6 Realizing her own knowledge and experiences, Melinda French Gates decided to speak out on behalf of women she had met and share their truths with the world. 4. 28:06 🔍 Embracing imperfections, making amends, and learning from difficult experiences can lead to feeling more integrated and humble, as Melinda French Gates discusses the importance of trust and support from peers in her life. 4.1 Embrace imperfection and impostor syndrome as a way to grow and learn, and guide others to do the same. 4.2 Embracing imperfections, making amends, and learning from difficult experiences can lead to feeling more integrated and humble. 4.3 Melinda French Gates discusses her spiritual group, formed in 2001 with eight women of different religions, who meet monthly to share their innermost thoughts and go on a silent retreat at least once a year. 4.4 Melinda French Gates discusses the deep sense of community and trust within her group, formed over 23 years ago, and how they select members based on connective tissue and trust. 4.5 Melinda French Gates discusses the importance of trust and support from peers in her life. 4.6 Melinda French Gates discusses the impact of loss and the importance of surrounding oneself with people on a growth path, regardless of age. 5. 36:08 🔑 Melinda French Gates opens up about overcoming perfectionism, self-criticism, and the importance of giving herself grace during her divorce. 5.1 Melinda French Gates discusses her struggle with perfectionism and how it affected her energy and relationships. 5.2 Melinda French Gates discusses overcoming perfectionism and the pressure to know everything and the importance of letting go and being oneself. 5.3 Melinda French Gates discusses the internal voice of self-criticism and judgment, and how she learned to quiet it by not judging herself or others. 5.4 Melinda French Gates discusses the importance of humanizing herself and giving herself grace, rather than striving for a perfect performance in every conversation. 5.5 Developing and cultivating grace is important, as it allows for self-kindness and space to grow, while guilt can be draining and push you down. 5.6 Melinda French Gates discusses the importance of grace in difficult situations and how she struggled to give herself grace during her divorce. 6. 44:29 🔍 Melinda French Gates opens up about the emotional toll of her divorce in her late 50s, finding strength and hope through friends and moments of grace. 6.1 Melinda French Gates discusses the unexpected challenges and emotional toll of going through a divorce in her late 50s but also finds beauty and strength in the experience. 6.2 Melinda French Gates discusses the ability to hold joy and sadness together, and the emotional struggle of knowing something is ending and not knowing what comes next. 6.3 Melinda French Gates discusses the emotional process of navigating a difficult decision and the importance of feeling deeply and being kind to oneself during a consequential time. 6.4 Friends and moments of grace can help you find hope and happiness after a divorce, even in unexpected ways. 6.5 Accepting help and being part of a community is important in moving forward through difficult times, whether it's in professional pursuits, love life, or parenting. 6.6 Melinda French Gates discusses seeking help from friends and the biggest issues facing the world. 7. 52:48 🔑 Melinda French Gates advocates for empowering women and people of color in all aspects of society, including politics, finance, and culture, in order to create a more inclusive and progressive world. 7.1 Melinda French Gates advocates for empowering women and people of color in all aspects of society, including politics, finance, and culture, in order to create a more inclusive and progressive world. 7.2 Melinda French Gates discusses the need for more women in positions of power to create policies that support working parents and the behind-the-scenes work required to make it happen. 7.3 Supporting women in politics and funding women's businesses is essential to breaking down bias and creating diversity in society. 7.4 Melinda French Gates discusses the lack of diverse female role models and the impact of race on opportunities. 7.5 Melinda French Gates discusses the double standard she faces in sharing her culture and traditions compared to others, and the bias and projection she experiences as a result. 7.6 Melinda French Gates discusses the barriers women and people of color face in the workforce and the importance of supporting and empowering them. 8. 01:00:03 🔑 Melinda French Gates discusses parenting, giving back, and the importance of service and diversity in positions of power. 8.1 Melinda French Gates discusses the values she wanted her kids to embody and how she guided them through growing up with famous parents. 8.2 Melinda French Gates discusses her approach to parenting and the rules she implemented for her children, including chores, allowances, and phone usage, as well as the impact of social media on parenting. 8.3 Melinda French Gates discusses the importance of giving back, regardless of financial status, and encourages people to start small by giving their time, energy, or money to make a difference in someone's life. 8.4 Service has given Melinda French Gates many gifts in her life, and she believes that success is defined by making someone's life easier and having a meaningful impact on others. 8.5 Melinda French Gates dreams of creating a service list to recognize individuals and groups who are doing the most service, not just those who give the most money, to shift society's focus from wealth to service. 8.6 Melinda French Gates shares advice, lessons learned, and a message of unlocking potential, and emphasizes the importance of diversity in positions of power.
When my husband passed, I felt the most intense grief I have ever felt in my life and at the same time I felt so much love from friends and family…so at a time of much grief I also felt great love. They can and do coexist.
The thing I like about this podcast is that it shows everyone's weaknesses. We all know we have them but to have it admitted, seen, discussed is great. 👏🏽👏🏽 We are not alone. 🧡
This was an extraordinary conversation that held so much wisdom, intelligence, kindness, hope, faith and grace from beginning to end. Thank you both. ❤❤❤
@@JayShettyPodcast. Who was the joke you had on who said the water in humans bodies was crystal in form! 🤦♂🤣 You should get people to check simple facts for you (since you need it) or doesnt facts matter for the show?
I did not know anything about Melinda except what I heard on the news... because of this interview I found that she's a wonderful person... thank you for enlightening me on Ms. Gates. She has the power to change systems in the world for the better. ❤❤🎉🎉
I didn't know anything about her or hear anything until her divorce. What I heard was that her divorce settlement (or whatever you want to call it) was given to charity. Of course it's much more than that but you know what I mean.
I’m so glad I listened to this episode. I had know idea how she was as a person. I love that she is deep in her faith. I just started a book Richard Rohr wrote was recommended at a retreat. God bless you both. She seems like an amazing mom and woman of faith.
🤟) THE GOSPEL OF THE WORD OF ALMIGHTY GOD "the Salvation of the last day that Christ brought in the second and last incarnation of His new and holy name" "The Work of the Holy Spirit and the Work of Satan" ... (When the Holy Spirit works within a person, the physical things of the person are still there and his stature remains as before, but he achieves the clarification and enlightenment of the Holy Spirit, and so his condition becomes normal, andhe changes quickly. The work of the Holy Spirit is positive advancement, while the work of Satan is retreat, being negative, being rebellious, resisting God, losing faith in God, and not even singing hymns, and being too weak to perform thedutyWhen there is the enlightenment of the Holy Spirit, nothing in what you do will interfere or hinder; you will be freed, will have a path in carrying out your actions, and you will not be subject to any prohibitions, but will be able to act according to the will ofGodThe work of Satan causes you to interfere in many things; it deprives you of the desire to pray, makes you too lazy to eat the words of God, and has no desire to live the life of the church, and it separates you from the spiritual life. If you can clearly discern which things are from Satan and which are guided by the Holy Spirit, you will not be misled in your experiences right away. Because you know what is the work of the Holy Spirit and what is Satan's, you can compare them to your own condition during your experiences, and to your own condition during your experiences, and to your own experiences, and in thisway there will be many more truths related to the principle in your experiences. Of course, that is as long as your motivations are right, and as long as you are willing to search and execute. People must understand both how the Holy Spirit works and how Satan works; they are both indispensable parts of human experiences.) Almighty God said When the HOLY SPIRIT WORKS WITHIN MAN, man's innate things are still there and his STAGE REMAINS as before, but he ACHIEVES the ILLUMINATION and LIBERATION of the HOLY SPIRIT, and so the his STATUS becomes more urgent,the conditions INSIDE him become NORMAL, and he CHANGES FAST. 🌷 In people's real experiences, they mainly experience the work of the Holy Spirit or Satan, and if they cannot understand these conditions and do not know the difference, entering into real experiences is not possible, especially yet the changes todisposition. So, the KEY to EXPERIENCE the WORK of GOD is to BE ABLE to reflect on such things; this way, it will be easier for them to experience it. The WORK of the HOLY SPIRIT is POSITIVE PROGRESS, while the WORK of SATAN is retreat, being NEGATIVE, being REBELLIOUS, RESISTING GOD, LOSS OF FAITH in GOD, and DISLIKE even SINGING hymns, and being TOO WEAK to PERFORM theDUTY. Everything that comes from the LIGHT of the HOLY SPIRIT is truly NATURAL; It is NOT FORCED on you. If you FOLLOW it, you WILL HAVE PEACE; otherwise, you will be criticized afterwards. When there is the LIGHT of the HOLY SPIRIT, NOTHING you DO will INTERFERE or PREVENT; you will be freed, will have a path in carrying out your actions, and you will not be subject to any prohibitions, but will be able to act according to the will ofGodSATAN'S WORK CAUSES you to INTERFERE with many things; It LEAVES you of the desire to PRAY, MAKES you too LAZY to EAT the WORDS of GOD, and UNWISHING to LIVE the LIFE of the church, and it separates you from the SPIRITUAL LIFE. 🛑 The work of the Holy Spirit does not interfere with your daily life and does not interfere with your entry into a normal spiritual life. You cannot perceive many things at the very moment they happen, however, after a few days, your heart becomes brighter and your mind becomes clearer. There is a little understanding of spiritual things, and gradually you are able to tell whether a thought is coming from God or from Satan. Some things clearly make you oppose God and rebel against God, or prevent you from practicing God's words; these things are all from Satan. Some things are not obvious, and you cannot tell what they are at that moment; then, you will see their signs and then take the hint. If you can clearly discern which things are from Satan and which are guided by the Holy Spirit, you will not immediately be led astray by your experiences. There are times, when you are not in a good mood, that you have certain thoughts that take you out of your normal state. This shows that even if your situation is not pleasant, some of your thoughts may still come from the Holy Spirit. It is not the case that when you are convinced, all your thoughts are sent by Satan; If that is true, when will you be able to move into a positive state? Because you have been in the dark for some time, the Holy Spirit gives you the opportunity to be perfected; He touches you and removes you from your precarious state. ☀️ Because you KNOW WHAT THE HOLY SPIRIT WORKS and WHAT SATAN WORKS, you can compare them with your own SITUATION AT THE TIME of your EXPERIENCES, and with your own experiences, and in this way HAVE more that there are many moreFACT that is PRINCIPALLY RELATED to your EXPERIENCES. Since you have understood these truths about the principle, you will be able to manage your actual situation, you will be able to see the difference between people and circumstances, and you will not need to spend so much effort to achieve the work of the Divine. spirit ☀️ Of course, that is as long as your motivations are right, and as long as you are willing to search and execute. Language like this--language related to principles---must feature in your experiences. Without it, your experiences will be filled with Satanic interference and foolish knowledge. If you don't understand how the Holy Spirit works, you don't understand how you get in, and if you don't understand how Satan works, you don't understand how, you will be careful with your every step. PEOPLE must both UNDERSTAND how the HOLY SPIRIT WORKS and HOW SATAN WORKS; they are BOTH NECESSARY parts of HUMAN EXPERIENCES. 🙏 From "The Word Appears in the Flesh" Fulfillment of (John 1:1) and (Ezekiel 2:9-10), (Rev. 19:9,13) 📩 All who have "ears to listen" are led to what the Spirit of God is saying in His lowered and built kingdom/Church engraved with His new name, His totality, the ownership of this disposition, "THE CHURCH OF ALMIGHTY GOD "💐 fulfillment from what was said He to Peter 2,000 years ago recorded in (Matthew 16:18-19). His Coming is the fulfillment of all that was prophesied in the great book of Revelation, so the last "Salvation" He brought the whole truth, the way for eternal life. So the "victorious" ones who will receive them are the wise "virgins" because as recorded in the prophecy of His return no one knows it except the one who will receive it! So "come" and come to His kingdom/church standing in the holy place in the air/UA-cam! This is also a fulfillment from the book of (Isaiah 2:2/9:6) which He first fulfilled in His first incarnation. 📥 "They say with a loud voice, "Salvation comes from the Lamb, and from our God who sits on the Throne!" (Rev. 7:10). ... and (Isaiah 2: 2 / 9:6) "On the Last Day, the mountain on which Jehovah's temple stands will stand out above all the mountains. All nations will flock there. " . "For a baby boy is born to us. The rule will be given to him; and he shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Almighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace." 💌
I really enjoyed this! Loved that Melinda mentioned Richard Rohr. I was first introduced to Richard's "Breathing Under Water, Spirituality and the 12 Steps" by a recovering alcoholic addict while I was in a family co-dependency recovery program about 20 years ago. It was a life saver for me. As were many of the writings of Brene Brown. Its cool to hear her talk of them as part of her journey. And so many of us can also relate to the discussion on divorce. Ending a marriage...breaking apart a family... and finally, accepting that what you thought was going to be your future is no longer possible, is one of the hardest challenges to navigate. Thanks so much for this interview, Jay. I really knew little about Melinda (other than the usual headlines) She seems like a lovely person who wants to make a difference. ❤️💕
This is empowering. I am so grateful to have a woman to be in a space of Grace and share the difficulties of divorce. Thank you Jay. Excellent questions. ❤
Praying for GRACE in any situation 🙏 my favorite word is also, "Grace". Thanks Melinda, thanks Jay. I have learned a lot from this interview. Almost life changing.
Wow…. Melinda Gates. Who knew…✨ PURE. Honest. An example that Money has nothing to do with a persons HEART. It’s simply about choosing to BE Human. So much wisdom and insight shared here. Thank you for staying TRUE to yourself. I am inspired. I am here to help HEAL others because I vowed I would take time to Heal myself. “I know enough to speak my TRuTH.” I resonated with sooo much here. Thank you for doing the deep work. So Beautiful 💛
When I was in high school we were tracked. I was allowed to be on the secretarial track not bookkeeping (for boys). I was told by the HS counselor I was not college bound. I worked as a secretary during the day. I won a teaching scholarship from Metropolitan Life Insurance. I graduated Magna Cum Laude and also got a degree in Business Administration. Being a Puerto Rican girl from the Bronx, NY (no support from family) my teachers in Public Schools gave me self-esteem and not accept doors closing because other doors opened.
@@MiyangChoi I graduated HS with a Secretarial Science Diploma. I then was one of the first recipients of Future Teacher Scholarship Program from Metropolitan Life Insurance.
🤟) THE GOSPEL OF THE WORD OF ALMIGHTY GOD "the Salvation of the last day that Christ brought in the second and last incarnation of His new and holy name" "The Work of the Holy Spirit and the Work of Satan" ... (When the Holy Spirit works within a person, the physical things of the person are still there and his stature remains as before, but he achieves the clarification and enlightenment of the Holy Spirit, and so his condition becomes normal, andhe changes quickly. The work of the Holy Spirit is positive advancement, while the work of Satan is retreat, being negative, being rebellious, resisting God, losing faith in God, and not even singing hymns, and being too weak to perform thedutyWhen there is the enlightenment of the Holy Spirit, nothing in what you do will interfere or hinder; you will be freed, will have a path in carrying out your actions, and you will not be subject to any prohibitions, but will be able to act according to the will ofGodThe work of Satan causes you to interfere in many things; it deprives you of the desire to pray, makes you too lazy to eat the words of God, and has no desire to live the life of the church, and it separates you from the spiritual life. If you can clearly discern which things are from Satan and which are guided by the Holy Spirit, you will not be misled in your experiences right away. Because you know what is the work of the Holy Spirit and what is Satan's, you can compare them to your own condition during your experiences, and to your own condition during your experiences, and to your own experiences, and in thisway there will be many more truths related to the principle in your experiences. Of course, that is as long as your motivations are right, and as long as you are willing to search and execute. People must understand both how the Holy Spirit works and how Satan works; they are both indispensable parts of human experiences.) Almighty God said When the HOLY SPIRIT WORKS WITHIN MAN, man's innate things are still there and his STAGE REMAINS as before, but he ACHIEVES the ILLUMINATION and LIBERATION of the HOLY SPIRIT, and so the his STATUS becomes more urgent,the conditions INSIDE him become NORMAL, and he CHANGES FAST. 🌷 In people's real experiences, they mainly experience the work of the Holy Spirit or Satan, and if they cannot understand these conditions and do not know the difference, entering into real experiences is not possible, especially yet the changes todisposition. So, the KEY to EXPERIENCE the WORK of GOD is to BE ABLE to reflect on such things; this way, it will be easier for them to experience it. The WORK of the HOLY SPIRIT is POSITIVE PROGRESS, while the WORK of SATAN is retreat, being NEGATIVE, being REBELLIOUS, RESISTING GOD, LOSS OF FAITH in GOD, and DISLIKE even SINGING hymns, and being TOO WEAK to PERFORM theDUTY. Everything that comes from the LIGHT of the HOLY SPIRIT is truly NATURAL; It is NOT FORCED on you. If you FOLLOW it, you WILL HAVE PEACE; otherwise, you will be criticized afterwards. When there is the LIGHT of the HOLY SPIRIT, NOTHING you DO will INTERFERE or PREVENT; you will be freed, will have a path in carrying out your actions, and you will not be subject to any prohibitions, but will be able to act according to the will ofGodSATAN'S WORK CAUSES you to INTERFERE with many things; It LEAVES you of the desire to PRAY, MAKES you too LAZY to EAT the WORDS of GOD, and UNWISHING to LIVE the LIFE of the church, and it separates you from the SPIRITUAL LIFE. 🛑 The work of the Holy Spirit does not interfere with your daily life and does not interfere with your entry into a normal spiritual life. You cannot perceive many things at the very moment they happen, however, after a few days, your heart becomes brighter and your mind becomes clearer. There is a little understanding of spiritual things, and gradually you are able to tell whether a thought is coming from God or from Satan. Some things clearly make you oppose God and rebel against God, or prevent you from practicing God's words; these things are all from Satan. Some things are not obvious, and you cannot tell what they are at that moment; then, you will see their signs and then take the hint. If you can clearly discern which things are from Satan and which are guided by the Holy Spirit, you will not immediately be led astray by your experiences. There are times, when you are not in a good mood, that you have certain thoughts that take you out of your normal state. This shows that even if your situation is not pleasant, some of your thoughts may still come from the Holy Spirit. It is not the case that when you are convinced, all your thoughts are sent by Satan; If that is true, when will you be able to move into a positive state? Because you have been in the dark for some time, the Holy Spirit gives you the opportunity to be perfected; He touches you and removes you from your precarious state. ☀️ Because you KNOW WHAT THE HOLY SPIRIT WORKS and WHAT SATAN WORKS, you can compare them with your own SITUATION AT THE TIME of your EXPERIENCES, and with your own experiences, and in this way HAVE more that there are many moreFACT that is PRINCIPALLY RELATED to your EXPERIENCES. Since you have understood these truths about the principle, you will be able to manage your actual situation, you will be able to see the difference between people and circumstances, and you will not need to spend so much effort to achieve the work of the Divine. spirit ☀️ Of course, that is as long as your motivations are right, and as long as you are willing to search and execute. Language like this--language related to principles---must feature in your experiences. Without it, your experiences will be filled with Satanic interference and foolish knowledge. If you don't understand how the Holy Spirit works, you don't understand how you get in, and if you don't understand how Satan works, you don't understand how, you will be careful with your every step. PEOPLE must both UNDERSTAND how the HOLY SPIRIT WORKS and HOW SATAN WORKS; they are BOTH NECESSARY parts of HUMAN EXPERIENCES. 🙏 From "The Word Appears in the Flesh" Fulfillment of (John 1:1) and (Ezekiel 2:9-10), (Rev. 19:9,13) 📩 All who have "ears to listen" are led to what the Spirit of God is saying in His lowered and built kingdom/Church engraved with His new name, His totality, the ownership of this disposition, "THE CHURCH OF ALMIGHTY GOD "💐 fulfillment from what was said He to Peter 2,000 years ago recorded in (Matthew 16:18-19). His Coming is the fulfillment of all that was prophesied in the great book of Revelation, so the last "Salvation" He brought the whole truth, the way for eternal life. So the "victorious" ones who will receive them are the wise "virgins" because as recorded in the prophecy of His return no one knows it except the one who will receive it! So "come" and come to His kingdom/church standing in the holy place in the air/UA-cam! This is also a fulfillment from the book of (Isaiah 2:2/9:6) which He first fulfilled in His first incarnation. 📥 "They say with a loud voice, "Salvation comes from the Lamb, and from our God who sits on the Throne!" (Rev. 7:10). ... and (Isaiah 2: 2 / 9:6) "On the Last Day, the mountain on which Jehovah's temple stands will stand out above all the mountains. All nations will flock there. " . "For a baby boy is born to us. The rule will be given to him; and he shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Almighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace." 💌
Dear Jay Shetty. Loved your insight, ‘we repeat what we reward’ re a top 100 rich (in service) list ❤. I am a mother of a severly learning disabled autistic young man and i have personally experienced a huge cohort of people who ‘figuratively’ - climb mountains and live out daily the truest meaning of ‘Grace’ in the nitty gritty shitty ‘on the ground’ type way. These ppl have inspired me, helped me and carried on in unbelievable circumstances at times! In fact, there are so many seemingly ‘ordinary’ people in daily life, who have served us, quietly carrying out daily miracles and heroic acts (like the coach you mention) who have huge profound influences on our lives. Just like the ‘helping another to breathe easy’ quote Melinda mentions’. How about we start honouring them? How about we hold up acts of love & kindness & daily strength in massive adversity as our role models in society? There is a sea-change with a cohort of influencers like yourself (DOAC for eg.. both of you singing from the same hymn sheet.. but many others to!) .. the upticks in following & guests you are all getting on will give a platform to create a different ‘rich list’ such that you dream of. Together you CAN make this happen! It’s about time we honoured & appreciated those who oftentimes don’t even realise what a magnificent service they are giving to another. The more light we shine on our beautiful acts the more light is reflected ❤.
@@TeamAwesomeDadNope, it doesn't come to people like that. There is integrity and then there are those who support the most despicable people, yet SAY they representing the best for the world. Sadly, I agree that there are far too many who are only out for their meager little desires.
I am really happy that Melinda Gates brought up the lack of federally mandated family leave in the US. It’s absolutely imperative to creating more equal opportunities for women and empowering them to stay in the workplace. Another big one is the lack of affordable, quality childcare that allows families the flexibility to both work outside the home. It’s an uphill battle for families with young kids and two working parents without family to rely on.
🤟) THE GOSPEL OF THE WORD OF ALMIGHTY GOD "the Salvation of the last day that Christ brought in the second and last incarnation of His new and holy name" "The Work of the Holy Spirit and the Work of Satan" ... (When the Holy Spirit works within a person, the physical things of the person are still there and his stature remains as before, but he achieves the clarification and enlightenment of the Holy Spirit, and so his condition becomes normal, andhe changes quickly. The work of the Holy Spirit is positive advancement, while the work of Satan is retreat, being negative, being rebellious, resisting God, losing faith in God, and not even singing hymns, and being too weak to perform thedutyWhen there is the enlightenment of the Holy Spirit, nothing in what you do will interfere or hinder; you will be freed, will have a path in carrying out your actions, and you will not be subject to any prohibitions, but will be able to act according to the will ofGodThe work of Satan causes you to interfere in many things; it deprives you of the desire to pray, makes you too lazy to eat the words of God, and has no desire to live the life of the church, and it separates you from the spiritual life. If you can clearly discern which things are from Satan and which are guided by the Holy Spirit, you will not be misled in your experiences right away. Because you know what is the work of the Holy Spirit and what is Satan's, you can compare them to your own condition during your experiences, and to your own condition during your experiences, and to your own experiences, and in thisway there will be many more truths related to the principle in your experiences. Of course, that is as long as your motivations are right, and as long as you are willing to search and execute. People must understand both how the Holy Spirit works and how Satan works; they are both indispensable parts of human experiences.) Almighty God said When the HOLY SPIRIT WORKS WITHIN MAN, man's innate things are still there and his STAGE REMAINS as before, but he ACHIEVES the ILLUMINATION and LIBERATION of the HOLY SPIRIT, and so the his STATUS becomes more urgent,the conditions INSIDE him become NORMAL, and he CHANGES FAST. 🌷 In people's real experiences, they mainly experience the work of the Holy Spirit or Satan, and if they cannot understand these conditions and do not know the difference, entering into real experiences is not possible, especially yet the changes todisposition. So, the KEY to EXPERIENCE the WORK of GOD is to BE ABLE to reflect on such things; this way, it will be easier for them to experience it. The WORK of the HOLY SPIRIT is POSITIVE PROGRESS, while the WORK of SATAN is retreat, being NEGATIVE, being REBELLIOUS, RESISTING GOD, LOSS OF FAITH in GOD, and DISLIKE even SINGING hymns, and being TOO WEAK to PERFORM theDUTY. Everything that comes from the LIGHT of the HOLY SPIRIT is truly NATURAL; It is NOT FORCED on you. If you FOLLOW it, you WILL HAVE PEACE; otherwise, you will be criticized afterwards. When there is the LIGHT of the HOLY SPIRIT, NOTHING you DO will INTERFERE or PREVENT; you will be freed, will have a path in carrying out your actions, and you will not be subject to any prohibitions, but will be able to act according to the will ofGodSATAN'S WORK CAUSES you to INTERFERE with many things; It LEAVES you of the desire to PRAY, MAKES you too LAZY to EAT the WORDS of GOD, and UNWISHING to LIVE the LIFE of the church, and it separates you from the SPIRITUAL LIFE. 🛑 The work of the Holy Spirit does not interfere with your daily life and does not interfere with your entry into a normal spiritual life. You cannot perceive many things at the very moment they happen, however, after a few days, your heart becomes brighter and your mind becomes clearer. There is a little understanding of spiritual things, and gradually you are able to tell whether a thought is coming from God or from Satan. Some things clearly make you oppose God and rebel against God, or prevent you from practicing God's words; these things are all from Satan. Some things are not obvious, and you cannot tell what they are at that moment; then, you will see their signs and then take the hint. If you can clearly discern which things are from Satan and which are guided by the Holy Spirit, you will not immediately be led astray by your experiences. There are times, when you are not in a good mood, that you have certain thoughts that take you out of your normal state. This shows that even if your situation is not pleasant, some of your thoughts may still come from the Holy Spirit. It is not the case that when you are convinced, all your thoughts are sent by Satan; If that is true, when will you be able to move into a positive state? Because you have been in the dark for some time, the Holy Spirit gives you the opportunity to be perfected; He touches you and removes you from your precarious state. ☀️ Because you KNOW WHAT THE HOLY SPIRIT WORKS and WHAT SATAN WORKS, you can compare them with your own SITUATION AT THE TIME of your EXPERIENCES, and with your own experiences, and in this way HAVE more that there are many moreFACT that is PRINCIPALLY RELATED to your EXPERIENCES. Since you have understood these truths about the principle, you will be able to manage your actual situation, you will be able to see the difference between people and circumstances, and you will not need to spend so much effort to achieve the work of the Divine. spirit ☀️ Of course, that is as long as your motivations are right, and as long as you are willing to search and execute. Language like this--language related to principles---must feature in your experiences. Without it, your experiences will be filled with Satanic interference and foolish knowledge. If you don't understand how the Holy Spirit works, you don't understand how you get in, and if you don't understand how Satan works, you don't understand how, you will be careful with your every step. PEOPLE must both UNDERSTAND how the HOLY SPIRIT WORKS and HOW SATAN WORKS; they are BOTH NECESSARY parts of HUMAN EXPERIENCES. 🙏 From "The Word Appears in the Flesh" Fulfillment of (John 1:1) and (Ezekiel 2:9-10), (Rev. 19:9,13) 📩 All who have "ears to listen" are led to what the Spirit of God is saying in His lowered and built kingdom/Church engraved with His new name, His totality, the ownership of this disposition, "THE CHURCH OF ALMIGHTY GOD "💐 fulfillment from what was said He to Peter 2,000 years ago recorded in (Matthew 16:18-19). His Coming is the fulfillment of all that was prophesied in the great book of Revelation, so the last "Salvation" He brought the whole truth, the way for eternal life. So the "victorious" ones who will receive them are the wise "virgins" because as recorded in the prophecy of His return no one knows it except the one who will receive it! So "come" and come to His kingdom/church standing in the holy place in the air/UA-cam! This is also a fulfillment from the book of (Isaiah 2:2/9:6) which He first fulfilled in His first incarnation. 📥 "They say with a loud voice, "Salvation comes from the Lamb, and from our God who sits on the Throne!" (Rev. 7:10). ... and (Isaiah 2: 2 / 9:6) "On the Last Day, the mountain on which Jehovah's temple stands will stand out above all the mountains. All nations will flock there. " . "For a baby boy is born to us. The rule will be given to him; and he shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Almighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace." 💌
You've just described feminism but people instead attacked feminism and vote against legislation that give that kind of power to not only women but people in general.
I love your list idea for people who give of themselves in service. We can all make it happen with awareness. You were both great, thanks. Melinda you are terrific, you make a difference.
Melinda have you heard of Alana Moor. She was on the Physicians Committee Podcast. She is canadian and got in prison for almost 7 years in Panama and is now starting ways to help women in prison. As I listened to her story I thought you and her could do wonderful work together. I really think this girl is absolutely amazing. Sending a little seed in the universe 🤗. Jay this conversation was a delight. Thank you.
Melinda Gates is so wise...it isn't easy to begin again but she is an excellent example for us- by choosing herself in the face of great deception she chose LIFE on her terms. This conversation of grief & joy coexisting moment to moment in our lives is so true and incredibly poignant. Love this conversation 💜💜
You’re an admirable woman of substance Ms Melinda French Gates. I admire you for your honesty courage and generosity for giving back to others less fortunate people. You’re an inspiration to women ❤
I loved and admired Ms. Melinda’s interview so much! She is down to earth, raised her children with integrity and kept her soul true to her life’s mission. The courage and peace she radiates are very uplifting. I feel hope as a woman of color who faces barriers despite high standards in my societal contributions. I also love that she is Catholic 🥰😍❤️🙏. Thank you for all the work you do through your foundations for African women: may the Lord bless you and keep you in perfect peace. Amen.
Wish Melinda ruled the world!!! Intelligent , kind,understanding,unselfish,realistic,and trying to bring good into this world keep doing what your doing may you live a long prosperus life! Love you Melinda!!!
Staying in silence is so important. I stay in silence when I walk my dog. No phone just enjoying nature and the sauna at the gym after a workout for 15 mins. It's so good. Clears the brain.
😇I so enjoy seeing this woman strive we hit a few mile markers together we were both pregnant with our first child at the same time, got married at the same time, divorced at the same time I didn't realize we're both 60 either one of my best lines is when she said of her divorce not what she planned but what happened. I love seeing her smile and move on after the end of her marriage in a cheerful way
Excellent podcast!!! I’m glad to get to know her. It is so tough for anyone to go through divorce. No one wants to, but many couples in their 40s and 50s start to grow apart. I’m glad she’s providing contraception to women. We all need to help make the world a better place in whatever way we can. ❤
What a pleasure to see and hear directly from Melinda Gates. I’ve always held her in such high regards but after this insightful interview I see her as an even more amazing woman. God bless her for being who she is and always wanting to make the world a better place for young girls and women. Thank you Melinda for all you do.
No doubt a very intelligent and nice woman. Admirable person. She went to Duke (my nephew did too) for the same Computer Science, and it’s a great school In all respects. The students are bright and rounded.
Thanks for sharing , Melinda ! I went through the similar situation. You described it correctly - stubbing in the body. Happy you feel content now. Thanks for standing up for all women -all colours and all social status. We need changes! You’re also a wonderful mother who is passing on the great values to your kids. Thanks for sharing again.
I would love a wonderful group of women to gather like her! I am now in my 60’s and wanting a divorce as I don’t trust him. “Is that person on a growth path?” I love that!
In our perilous times when our democracy is crumbling and narcissism is rampant it is reassuring that people like Melinda are being visible and vocal about the better angels of our nature and bringing it down to the personal. The personal is political and she’s an excellent spokesman for keeping it real, unifying and compassionate. I’m extremely happy that she and Bill exist and are who they are.
Very relatable. I learned through my hard there's no way around it. It will pass even sooner if you stop trying to avoid it. Now I just sit in it until it's over. Once the tears start to flow I then know I'm releasing it and change is coming.
What an amazing and powerful podcast. Melinda is so empowering and it was such a gift to hear such an indepth, personal, conversation. I gained a deep appreciation for her, so real, down to earth, able to connect with others, incredible values, so giving. What an advocate for women worldwide. She is destined to have an even deeper impact, and it is refreshing to hear of her parenting style and values she instilled in her children, who can now also go forward in this world and have there own impact. It was so refreshing to hear her being so real and being herself. Jay thank you for such a great podcast.
Thanks, Jay, for this fabulous interview! I admire Melinda so much! What a class act, great philanthropist, parent, businesswoman, humanitarian, good friend, inspiration to all. Melinda for President!
I am almost her age and could really relate to her on so many levels and issues. I teach and my goal is to find each student’s strengths and am committed to making sure that every student can achieve their potential. I don’t know which student sitting in my classroom has the cure for cancer or the solution to climate change, etc. All of my students are non-white and economically challenged and as a society we need to ensure that all people achieve their potential since that is the only way we will survive.
Honestly, this podcast is a blessing to me. I have listened it so so many times because I find it relatable, inspiring and reassuring. Belinda , you have rekindled my almost lost hope, worthiness and self esteem particularly at times when your world comes crashing down on you. Thank you
This was an awesome episode Jay! Great job interviewing and going deep with someone like Melinda. It has inspired me in so many ways and you both enriched my life a lot. God bless you and Melinda in her vision of getting more women and POC in place of power and your wish of the Service List. That was beautiful and creative. LOVED it!
Thank you, Melinda you are a wonderful woman. Best wishes. There are so many things that we never thought would be part of our script.... let life flow, have faith, all things are for good.
one of the importent points in her conversation was when she said its good for us to have a time in each day in silence and quite to hear ourselvs, then we have gratitude and we all know to have greater acheivements we should first be gratefull of what we have and what we are hope all of us make time for ourselves dont understimate you self your more than even mores
For anyone watching the beginning, just want to point out that yes, something like divorce is also change... and change can't always inherently be fun... This seems just to have been forgotten at the beginning of the conversation... so don't rush yourself if people who seem to have it together make it look easy - now, or ever...
Very inspiring episode. Currently going through life with spouse diagnosed with dementia. This has had profound impact on my life and of course his. Times having been so challenging and depressing lately. Thanks for the insights provided here.
I really liked this interview. Melinda is an inspiring, smart and kind human being. Well conducted interview though I agree with the comment about using her divorce as a hook on the title seems cheap sensationalism but it was comforting to hear it mentioned just briefly and used to deliver hope instead of venting. Well done.
1:09:51 service to others Here in Taiwan we have the love-heart mamas and papas. In the dark of the night they are on their scooters feeding the stray dogs and cats. They don’t have non-profit organizations. They are often very poor. When there is an emergency, they are often willing to help. They have inspired me and I humbly followed their light, their example. There is nothing more important in this world than to be of service. Even animals are of service to each other.
It is inspiring to listen to Melinda French Gates talking about her past and her work to make the world a better place for everyone to live in. I went to an Ursuline Sisters' college and also learned the valuable lessons of life which helped me to be an independent woman of my own.
Thank you Melinda French Gates. Thank you so much for reconfirming Grace and the place it has in life and the immeasurable impact of Grace in life. I’ve lived my life up until now believing in this and hearing from you was my moment here in this podcast 💜🥹 I am walking the path of working with grassroots women here in India and to work with them to help them realise their full potential, unlock their potential as you said because every life deserves their place under the Sun. All I know and all I understand is step by step if we are able to impact and transform one life and then one more and then one more, there will be large scale impact. There will be what we so wish to see - a world where one gets to live the life of our full potential. Thank you so much for reaffirming we’re ok and we’re going to get there even if the issue at hand feels complex and complicated but we will break it down to simpler ways one by one 🙏🏼
Just got this recommended to me by UA-cam. Very interesting and enlightening interview. I wish I had money to travel. My dream is to see France. Maybe one day.
I LOVE the idea of “The Service List,” and I especially love that it’s not called “Unsung Hero” or something like that. Life is about service, there’s humility in that!
Very poor title decision. She said so many important things but prioritizing clicks when deciding the title is sad. Especially for such a well known podcast. Again a woman put on the spot for her relationship over her achievements.
I agree. Jay, most people listening to you are not looking for drama, but for growth. So the titles should reflect that. Plus it's a simply disrespectful title to Melinda, who is so much more than a person who divorced Bill Gates.
She's a fool you can see how she talks and doesn't go into any details. Just says women this and women that to make her point and getting divorced at her age for what ? to date who ?
Agreed with above. When clicks matter more than content. You can do better Jay
The clicks were worth the content
Click bait
Thank you for sharing, Melinda. I just turned 60 and went through my own divorce after 18 years of marriage. I applaud you for sharing your journey so that others realize that these challenging circumstances occur to everyone despite social standing. Bravo.
Do you think you will be like Elaine Schwartzenburg Edwards, who also divorced when she was 60 in 1989, and spent her last 28.5 years without a spouse?
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The title dishonours the conversation and this awesome, wise, accomplished woman.
I suspect she is one of them, those women who despite their many accomplishments, were never fully recognized for what they’ve achieved, but for whom they did or didn’t marry.
She is all the women she tries to support and speak for, perhaps this is why helping women tap into their potential is such a central theme in her life and mission.
So yes, that title is problematic because it doesn’t allow people to see her as a fully fledged woman beyond her marital status. Stories and words matter and in instances like this they help perpetuate same old stereotypes.
I love people like Melinda who have enough money to just live and enjoy their lives, but instead choose to try to make the world a better place to live for everyone. Awesome interview Jay, it was great to see that you were talking to Melinda and not just Bill Gates ex wife.
Exactly. I had no idea how interesting she is.
Melinda is awesome! That is a GREAT interview!! Thanks! Elizabeth in Texas
She’s wonderful… I’m taking notes
Also, I’d bet money Bill is the type of person who sneakily undermines ones confidence … bc mine does and my imposter syndrome is slowly being dismantled but it’s hard
Enough money ❌
Insane amount of money ✅
Being so rich but it is a sad to hear her story and talking of empowerment of woman, seems she feels upset but since she has money and she has been in philaontherapy for whole her life her talk is valuable it is true that woman have to ovrercome the glass cieling. What about herself is looking for something more life becomes tacky after divorce , one would like to hear is she lonely, does her heart filled with pain. Nice to know about kejabi i am from new delhi we want to know kejabi how does she follow this lonely road in her life. People love her as a gamechanger and a great figure of this century with bill gates. We advice her to do some meditation, we understand her sad moments. Life is beautyfull it is like a celerebation, a dance and happiness will be attained like enlightment all restvl is surreal good to hear such profound words we all players in this chessboard of life and have come in this world to play of in the chessboard world of life and we perform her duties in the world for age is just a number and the best is yet to come mam all over the world woman are siddlined in the world woman have to raise children and start her family as said by honrable melinda, yes it is awefull age . She has piinted rightlt
This was inspiring. Love how she does research before forming an opinion. Thanks Melinda on behalf on women and people of color.
Thank you for inviting such an inspiring woman on your Podcast. She’s the real deal; no hype, a good listener, thoughtful and above all honest . She’s powerful because she knows who she is and her faith stablizes her to move forward. I wish her all the joy and contentment this life has to offer. Thank you Mr. Shetty for your thoughtfulness and depth as well
“Imposter syndrome can be powerful!”
This is such a great interview. So many life truths and aha moments. The most important takeaway for me was the power of faith! It is so humbling- the most influential people need to go back to faith in trying times.
Thank you Jai Shetty for sharing Melinda’s beauty with us ❤
Doesn't it bother you that a woman who is married to a person for 27 years not knowing what her husband was doing with Epstein? And the person asking the questions, doesnt even go anywhere near it?
Wow!!! I am admire her so much. I came from an Asian country and understand how women had no voice , I think she should run politics we need more women like her. Thank you for interview her 🙏
Key insights
😔 "I thought I'd be married 50 plus years for me. I couldn't go forward. There wasn't enough trust any longer."
👩💻 The lack of women in the tech sector is due to a lack of opportunities and the industry not welcoming women.
📜 The US Constitution was written without the input of women and black people, leading to a society that did not value their rights and contributions.
🔥 Melinda French Gates faced backlash and fear when speaking out on the need for more contraceptives, even from her own church.
👨👩👧👦 Talking to her kids and parents about her decisions gave Melinda the strength to face attacks from both the left and the right.
💔 Melinda French Gates opens up about the difficulty of giving herself grace during her divorce, acknowledging it as one of the hardest challenges she has ever faced.
😢 Melinda Gates never expected to be divorced in her late 50s but found beauty and grace on the other side of the struggle.
🌈 Learning to hold joy and sadness side by side is a powerful realization that can bring comfort and hope in difficult times.
💼 Melinda French Gates emphasizes the need for women and people of colour to be empowered financially and in policy-making positions to reflect all of society.
TLDR: Women, especially women of color, face numerous challenges in both personal and professional life, and it is crucial for them to be empowered financially and in policy-making positions to create a more inclusive and equitable society.
1. 00:00 🔍 Melinda French Gates discusses her unexpected divorce, embracing change, and the importance of learning and growth.
1.1 Melinda French Gates discusses the complexities of holding joy and sadness together, her unexpected divorce, and the importance of subscribing to the channel for creating a habit of learning and growth.
1.2 Melinda French Gates discusses how she has embraced change throughout her life and sees it as an opportunity for growth and learning.
1.3 Melinda French Gates discusses her positive mindset towards change, attributing it to her parents' encouragement to embrace new experiences and opportunities.
1.4 Melinda French Gates discusses her upbringing, the influence of her parents, and her early dreams and goals, including her desire to pursue a career in computer science and become a professional working woman with children.
1.5 Melinda French Gates discusses the formative influence of her education, including the value of silence and serving others, and how she still finds value in spending time alone.
1.6 Melinda French Gates discusses the importance of quiet reflection, gratitude, and setting goals in her daily routine.
2. 12:16 🔍 Melinda Gates reflects on the lessons she learned later in life, including the lack of opportunities for women in male-dominated industries and the need for change, as well as the challenges faced by women and people of color in their professional careers.
2.1 Trusted relationships are important for achieving goals, as sharing plans with too many people can lead to discouragement, while sharing with only one person may not provide the necessary guidance.
2.2 Melinda Gates reflects on the lessons she learned later in life, including the realization that the world isn't built for everyone and the challenges women and people of color face in their professional careers.
2.3 Melinda French Gates discusses the lack of opportunities for women in male-dominated industries and the need for change.
2.4 Women and people of color face roadblocks and barriers that don't exist for white men, and studying history, particularly the US Constitution, can help understand the impact of exclusion and the need to dismantle these barriers.
2.5 Melinda French Gates discusses the importance of access to contraceptives for women's health and empowerment, despite the controversial nature of the issue.
2.6 Melinda French Gates discusses the challenges of navigating difficult paths and positively impacting the world.
3. 22:05 🔑 Melinda French Gates discusses her fear of speaking out on contraceptives, finding strength in pushing against man-made rules, and the importance of recognizing the challenges and consequences of big decisions.
3.1 Melinda French Gates discusses her fear of speaking out on the issue of contraceptives the backlash she anticipated from her church, and how she took time to reflect on her beliefs and seek support before taking a stand.
3.2 Melinda French Gates found strength in pushing against man-made rules, facing criticism from the Catholic church and both the left and the right, but was okay because she had already talked to her kids, and parents, and knew the impact of her platform on women in the developing world.
3.3 Melinda French Gates discusses the process of finding the courage to make difficult decisions and the importance of knowing oneself and what truly matters.
3.4 Melinda French Gates discusses the importance of recognizing the challenges and consequences of big decisions and shares her experiences with impostor syndrome.
3.5 Melinda French Gates discusses her transition into the field of global health and her initial feelings of inadequacy due to her background in computer science and business.
3.6 Realizing her own knowledge and experiences, Melinda French Gates decided to speak out on behalf of women she had met and share their truths with the world.
4. 28:06 🔍 Embracing imperfections, making amends, and learning from difficult experiences can lead to feeling more integrated and humble, as Melinda French Gates discusses the importance of trust and support from peers in her life.
4.1 Embrace imperfection and impostor syndrome as a way to grow and learn, and guide others to do the same.
4.2 Embracing imperfections, making amends, and learning from difficult experiences can lead to feeling more integrated and humble.
4.3 Melinda French Gates discusses her spiritual group, formed in 2001 with eight women of different religions, who meet monthly to share their innermost thoughts and go on a silent retreat at least once a year.
4.4 Melinda French Gates discusses the deep sense of community and trust within her group, formed over 23 years ago, and how they select members based on connective tissue and trust.
4.5 Melinda French Gates discusses the importance of trust and support from peers in her life.
4.6 Melinda French Gates discusses the impact of loss and the importance of surrounding oneself with people on a growth path, regardless of age.
5. 36:08 🔑 Melinda French Gates opens up about overcoming perfectionism, self-criticism, and the importance of giving herself grace during her divorce.
5.1 Melinda French Gates discusses her struggle with perfectionism and how it affected her energy and relationships.
5.2 Melinda French Gates discusses overcoming perfectionism and the pressure to know everything and the importance of letting go and being oneself.
5.3 Melinda French Gates discusses the internal voice of self-criticism and judgment, and how she learned to quiet it by not judging herself or others.
5.4 Melinda French Gates discusses the importance of humanizing herself and giving herself grace, rather than striving for a perfect performance in every conversation.
5.5 Developing and cultivating grace is important, as it allows for self-kindness and space to grow, while guilt can be draining and push you down.
5.6 Melinda French Gates discusses the importance of grace in difficult situations and how she struggled to give herself grace during her divorce.
6. 44:29 🔍 Melinda French Gates opens up about the emotional toll of her divorce in her late 50s, finding strength and hope through friends and moments of grace.
6.1 Melinda French Gates discusses the unexpected challenges and emotional toll of going through a divorce in her late 50s but also finds beauty and strength in the experience.
6.2 Melinda French Gates discusses the ability to hold joy and sadness together, and the emotional struggle of knowing something is ending and not knowing what comes next.
6.3 Melinda French Gates discusses the emotional process of navigating a difficult decision and the importance of feeling deeply and being kind to oneself during a consequential time.
6.4 Friends and moments of grace can help you find hope and happiness after a divorce, even in unexpected ways.
6.5 Accepting help and being part of a community is important in moving forward through difficult times, whether it's in professional pursuits, love life, or parenting.
6.6 Melinda French Gates discusses seeking help from friends and the biggest issues facing the world.
7. 52:48 🔑 Melinda French Gates advocates for empowering women and people of color in all aspects of society, including politics, finance, and culture, in order to create a more inclusive and progressive world.
7.1 Melinda French Gates advocates for empowering women and people of color in all aspects of society, including politics, finance, and culture, in order to create a more inclusive and progressive world.
7.2 Melinda French Gates discusses the need for more women in positions of power to create policies that support working parents and the behind-the-scenes work required to make it happen.
7.3 Supporting women in politics and funding women's businesses is essential to breaking down bias and creating diversity in society.
7.4 Melinda French Gates discusses the lack of diverse female role models and the impact of race on opportunities.
7.5 Melinda French Gates discusses the double standard she faces in sharing her culture and traditions compared to others, and the bias and projection she experiences as a result.
7.6 Melinda French Gates discusses the barriers women and people of color face in the workforce and the importance of supporting and empowering them.
8. 01:00:03 🔑 Melinda French Gates discusses parenting, giving back, and the importance of service and diversity in positions of power.
8.1 Melinda French Gates discusses the values she wanted her kids to embody and how she guided them through growing up with famous parents.
8.2 Melinda French Gates discusses her approach to parenting and the rules she implemented for her children, including chores, allowances, and phone usage, as well as the impact of social media on parenting.
8.3 Melinda French Gates discusses the importance of giving back, regardless of financial status, and encourages people to start small by giving their time, energy, or money to make a difference in someone's life.
8.4 Service has given Melinda French Gates many gifts in her life, and she believes that success is defined by making someone's life easier and having a meaningful impact on others.
8.5 Melinda French Gates dreams of creating a service list to recognize individuals and groups who are doing the most service, not just those who give the most money, to shift society's focus from wealth to service.
8.6 Melinda French Gates shares advice, lessons learned, and a message of unlocking potential, and emphasizes the importance of diversity in positions of power.
Thank you
@@jaykay-_-ok Can you summarize it shorter and more effectively?
@@MiyangChoi no, please do it better for us with a reply back here.
Well done
When my husband passed, I felt the most intense grief I have ever felt in my life and at the same time I felt so much love from friends and family…so at a time of much grief I also felt great love. They can and do coexist.
Bittersweet ❤
The thing I like about this podcast is that it shows everyone's weaknesses. We all know we have them but to have it admitted, seen, discussed is great. 👏🏽👏🏽 We are not alone. 🧡
I like this lady. She is somehow down to earth and relatable.
1. Give yourself grace
2. Guilt blocks growth
3. Money does buy happiness
This was an extraordinary conversation that held so much wisdom, intelligence, kindness, hope, faith and grace from beginning to end. Thank you both. ❤❤❤
Thank you, Jay, for this in-depth interview. And, thank you, Melinda French Gates, for advocating for women, girls, and minorities. ❤
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@@JayShettyPodcast. Who was the joke you had on who said the water in humans bodies was crystal in form! 🤦♂🤣
You should get people to check simple facts for you (since you need it) or doesnt facts matter for the show?
@@JayShettyPodcast.
EVERY ONE OF US SHALL GIVE ACCOUNT TO GOD.!!!!
Romans 14:12
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Divorcing someone you still love is heartache. It seems like you'll never be happy again but you will. 🧡
no it means your love is fake
I admire how Melinda carries herself with such grace and class. Thanks for making a difference in the world. All the best to you.
I did not know anything about Melinda except what I heard on the news... because of this interview I found that she's a wonderful person... thank you for enlightening me on Ms. Gates. She has the power to change systems in the world for the better. ❤❤🎉🎉
I didn't know anything about her or hear anything until her divorce. What I heard was that her divorce settlement (or whatever you want to call it) was given to charity. Of course it's much more than that but you know what I mean.
I love her humility, an exceptional woman
I’m so glad I listened to this episode. I had know idea how she was as a person. I love that she is deep in her faith. I just started a book Richard Rohr wrote was recommended at a retreat. God bless you both. She seems like an amazing mom and woman of faith.
When I lost my son over 25 years ago I knew I would never be happy as I knew it. Time does not heal such an unspeakable loss. You just endure.
Loss of a child and divorcing a weirdo are not same categories. She lost nothing of value unlike you. 🌹
@@Satori100not true. You can’t judge this for another person.
You do, but it helps to remind yourself that suffering is not what they would want for you.
🤟) THE GOSPEL OF THE WORD OF ALMIGHTY GOD "the Salvation of the last day that Christ brought in the second and last incarnation of His new and holy name"
"The Work of the Holy Spirit and the Work of Satan" ... (When the Holy Spirit works within a person, the physical things of the person are still there and his stature remains as before, but he achieves the clarification and enlightenment of the Holy Spirit, and so his condition becomes normal, andhe changes quickly. The work of the Holy Spirit is positive advancement, while the work of Satan is retreat, being negative, being rebellious, resisting God, losing faith in God, and not even singing hymns, and being too weak to perform thedutyWhen there is the enlightenment of the Holy Spirit, nothing in what you do will interfere or hinder; you will be freed, will have a path in carrying out your actions, and you will not be subject to any prohibitions, but will be able to act according to the will ofGodThe work of Satan causes you to interfere in many things; it deprives you of the desire to pray, makes you too lazy to eat the words of God, and has no desire to live the life of the church, and it separates you from the spiritual life. If you can clearly discern which things are from Satan and which are guided by the Holy Spirit, you will not be misled in your experiences right away. Because you know what is the work of the Holy Spirit and what is Satan's, you can compare them to your own condition during your experiences, and to your own condition during your experiences, and to your own experiences, and in thisway there will be many more truths related to the principle in your experiences. Of course, that is as long as your motivations are right, and as long as you are willing to search and execute. People must understand both how the Holy Spirit works and how Satan works; they are both indispensable parts of human experiences.)
Almighty God said
When the HOLY SPIRIT WORKS WITHIN MAN, man's innate things are still there and his STAGE REMAINS as before, but he ACHIEVES the ILLUMINATION and LIBERATION of the HOLY SPIRIT, and so the his STATUS becomes more urgent,the conditions INSIDE him become NORMAL, and he CHANGES FAST. 🌷
In people's real experiences, they mainly experience the work of the Holy Spirit or Satan, and if they cannot understand these conditions and do not know the difference, entering into real experiences is not possible, especially yet the changes todisposition. So, the KEY to EXPERIENCE the WORK of GOD is to BE ABLE to reflect on such things; this way, it will be easier for them to experience it.
The WORK of the HOLY SPIRIT is POSITIVE PROGRESS, while the WORK of SATAN is retreat, being NEGATIVE, being REBELLIOUS, RESISTING GOD, LOSS OF FAITH in GOD, and DISLIKE even SINGING hymns, and being TOO WEAK to PERFORM theDUTY. Everything that comes from the LIGHT of the HOLY SPIRIT is truly NATURAL; It is NOT FORCED on you. If you FOLLOW it, you WILL HAVE PEACE; otherwise, you will be criticized afterwards. When there is the LIGHT of the HOLY SPIRIT, NOTHING you DO will INTERFERE or PREVENT; you will be freed, will have a path in carrying out your actions, and you will not be subject to any prohibitions, but will be able to act according to the will ofGodSATAN'S WORK CAUSES you to INTERFERE with many things; It LEAVES you of the desire to PRAY, MAKES you too LAZY to EAT the WORDS of GOD, and UNWISHING to LIVE the LIFE of the church, and it separates you from the SPIRITUAL LIFE. 🛑
The work of the Holy Spirit does not interfere with your daily life and does not interfere with your entry into a normal spiritual life. You cannot perceive many things at the very moment they happen, however, after a few days, your heart becomes brighter and your mind becomes clearer. There is a little understanding of spiritual things, and gradually you are able to tell whether a thought is coming from God or from Satan. Some things clearly make you oppose God and rebel against God, or prevent you from practicing God's words; these things are all from Satan. Some things are not obvious, and you cannot tell what they are at that moment; then, you will see their signs and then take the hint. If you can clearly discern which things are from Satan and which are guided by the Holy Spirit, you will not immediately be led astray by your experiences. There are times, when you are not in a good mood, that you have certain thoughts that take you out of your normal state. This shows that even if your situation is not pleasant, some of your thoughts may still come from the Holy Spirit.
It is not the case that when you are convinced, all your thoughts are sent by Satan; If that is true, when will you be able to move into a positive state? Because you have been in the dark for some time, the Holy Spirit gives you the opportunity to be perfected; He touches you and removes you from your precarious state. ☀️
Because you KNOW WHAT THE HOLY SPIRIT WORKS and WHAT SATAN WORKS, you can compare them with your own SITUATION AT THE TIME of your EXPERIENCES, and with your own experiences, and in this way HAVE more that there are many moreFACT that is PRINCIPALLY RELATED to your EXPERIENCES. Since you have understood these truths about the principle, you will be able to manage your actual situation, you will be able to see the difference between people and circumstances, and you will not need to spend so much effort to achieve the work of the Divine. spirit ☀️
Of course, that is as long as your motivations are right, and as long as you are willing to search and execute. Language like this--language related to principles---must feature in your experiences. Without it, your experiences will be filled with Satanic interference and foolish knowledge. If you don't understand how the Holy Spirit works, you don't understand how you get in, and if you don't understand how Satan works, you don't understand how, you will be careful with your every step. PEOPLE must both UNDERSTAND how the HOLY SPIRIT WORKS and HOW SATAN WORKS; they are BOTH NECESSARY parts of HUMAN EXPERIENCES. 🙏
From "The Word Appears in the Flesh"
Fulfillment of (John 1:1) and (Ezekiel 2:9-10), (Rev. 19:9,13)
📩 All who have "ears to listen" are led to what the Spirit of God is saying in His lowered and built kingdom/Church engraved with His new name, His totality, the ownership of this disposition, "THE CHURCH OF ALMIGHTY GOD "💐 fulfillment from what was said He to Peter 2,000 years ago recorded in (Matthew 16:18-19). His Coming is the fulfillment of all that was prophesied in the great book of Revelation, so the last "Salvation" He brought the whole truth, the way for eternal life. So the "victorious" ones who will receive them are the wise "virgins" because as recorded in the prophecy of His return no one knows it except the one who will receive it! So "come" and come to His kingdom/church standing in the holy place in the air/UA-cam! This is also a fulfillment from the book of (Isaiah 2:2/9:6) which He first fulfilled in His first incarnation. 📥
"They say with a loud voice, "Salvation comes from the Lamb, and from our God who sits on the Throne!" (Rev. 7:10). ... and (Isaiah 2: 2 / 9:6) "On the Last Day, the mountain on which Jehovah's temple stands will stand out above all the mountains. All nations will flock there. " . "For a baby boy is born to us. The rule will be given to him; and he shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Almighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace." 💌
Great interview, wonderful and inspiring guest - Melinda French Gates is incredibly wise and a voice of reason - thank you 🙏🏼 😊
I love an empowered woman bringing love and empathy and effective change to the lives of other women.
Yes!!! 🙌
Yes! Same. She’s a class act, and it has so little to do w/ money. ❤
Yikes.
@@kiefpief I agree! ❤️
I really enjoyed this! Loved that Melinda mentioned Richard Rohr. I was first introduced to Richard's "Breathing Under Water, Spirituality and the 12 Steps" by a recovering alcoholic addict while I was in a family co-dependency recovery program about 20 years ago.
It was a life saver for me.
As were many of the writings of Brene Brown. Its cool to hear her talk of them as part of her journey.
And so many of us can also relate to the discussion on divorce.
Ending a marriage...breaking apart a family... and finally, accepting that what you thought was going to be your future is no longer possible, is one of the hardest challenges to navigate.
Thanks so much for this interview, Jay. I really knew little about Melinda (other than the usual headlines)
She seems like a lovely person who wants to make a difference. ❤️💕
This was an awesome interview ! ❤Melinda Gates is a beautiful soul . I love that she wants to make a difference in the world!
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This is empowering. I am so grateful to have a woman to be in a space of Grace and share the difficulties of divorce. Thank you Jay. Excellent questions. ❤
Thank you to Melinda for emitting peace and radiance ✨
Congratulations Jay, for another thought provoking interview 💛
Praying for GRACE in any situation 🙏 my favorite word is also, "Grace". Thanks Melinda, thanks Jay. I have learned a lot from this interview. Almost life changing.
Wow…. Melinda Gates. Who knew…✨
PURE. Honest. An example that Money has nothing to do with a persons HEART. It’s simply about choosing to BE Human. So much wisdom and insight shared here. Thank you for staying TRUE to yourself. I am inspired.
I am here to help HEAL others because I vowed I would take time to Heal myself. “I know enough to speak my TRuTH.” I resonated with sooo much here.
Thank you for doing the deep work. So Beautiful 💛
When I was in high school we were tracked. I was allowed to be on the secretarial track not bookkeeping (for boys). I was told by the HS counselor I was not college bound. I worked as a secretary during the day. I won a teaching scholarship from Metropolitan Life Insurance. I graduated Magna Cum Laude and also got a degree in Business Administration. Being a Puerto Rican girl from the Bronx, NY (no support from family) my teachers in Public Schools gave me self-esteem and not accept doors closing because other doors opened.
What's that high school giving you a diploma and a degeree?
@@MiyangChoi I graduated HS with a Secretarial Science Diploma. I then was one of the first recipients of Future Teacher Scholarship Program from Metropolitan Life Insurance.
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Such an eye opener to get to know Malinda French Gates better..what a beautiful soul she's the real deal. Thank you much❤
What an amazing Lady 👏👏👏WE NEED MORE MELINDAS FRENCH IN THIS WORLD TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE🤩🤩🤩
Yikes. .!’ 😱
🤟) THE GOSPEL OF THE WORD OF ALMIGHTY GOD "the Salvation of the last day that Christ brought in the second and last incarnation of His new and holy name"
"The Work of the Holy Spirit and the Work of Satan" ... (When the Holy Spirit works within a person, the physical things of the person are still there and his stature remains as before, but he achieves the clarification and enlightenment of the Holy Spirit, and so his condition becomes normal, andhe changes quickly. The work of the Holy Spirit is positive advancement, while the work of Satan is retreat, being negative, being rebellious, resisting God, losing faith in God, and not even singing hymns, and being too weak to perform thedutyWhen there is the enlightenment of the Holy Spirit, nothing in what you do will interfere or hinder; you will be freed, will have a path in carrying out your actions, and you will not be subject to any prohibitions, but will be able to act according to the will ofGodThe work of Satan causes you to interfere in many things; it deprives you of the desire to pray, makes you too lazy to eat the words of God, and has no desire to live the life of the church, and it separates you from the spiritual life. If you can clearly discern which things are from Satan and which are guided by the Holy Spirit, you will not be misled in your experiences right away. Because you know what is the work of the Holy Spirit and what is Satan's, you can compare them to your own condition during your experiences, and to your own condition during your experiences, and to your own experiences, and in thisway there will be many more truths related to the principle in your experiences. Of course, that is as long as your motivations are right, and as long as you are willing to search and execute. People must understand both how the Holy Spirit works and how Satan works; they are both indispensable parts of human experiences.)
Almighty God said
When the HOLY SPIRIT WORKS WITHIN MAN, man's innate things are still there and his STAGE REMAINS as before, but he ACHIEVES the ILLUMINATION and LIBERATION of the HOLY SPIRIT, and so the his STATUS becomes more urgent,the conditions INSIDE him become NORMAL, and he CHANGES FAST. 🌷
In people's real experiences, they mainly experience the work of the Holy Spirit or Satan, and if they cannot understand these conditions and do not know the difference, entering into real experiences is not possible, especially yet the changes todisposition. So, the KEY to EXPERIENCE the WORK of GOD is to BE ABLE to reflect on such things; this way, it will be easier for them to experience it.
The WORK of the HOLY SPIRIT is POSITIVE PROGRESS, while the WORK of SATAN is retreat, being NEGATIVE, being REBELLIOUS, RESISTING GOD, LOSS OF FAITH in GOD, and DISLIKE even SINGING hymns, and being TOO WEAK to PERFORM theDUTY. Everything that comes from the LIGHT of the HOLY SPIRIT is truly NATURAL; It is NOT FORCED on you. If you FOLLOW it, you WILL HAVE PEACE; otherwise, you will be criticized afterwards. When there is the LIGHT of the HOLY SPIRIT, NOTHING you DO will INTERFERE or PREVENT; you will be freed, will have a path in carrying out your actions, and you will not be subject to any prohibitions, but will be able to act according to the will ofGodSATAN'S WORK CAUSES you to INTERFERE with many things; It LEAVES you of the desire to PRAY, MAKES you too LAZY to EAT the WORDS of GOD, and UNWISHING to LIVE the LIFE of the church, and it separates you from the SPIRITUAL LIFE. 🛑
The work of the Holy Spirit does not interfere with your daily life and does not interfere with your entry into a normal spiritual life. You cannot perceive many things at the very moment they happen, however, after a few days, your heart becomes brighter and your mind becomes clearer. There is a little understanding of spiritual things, and gradually you are able to tell whether a thought is coming from God or from Satan. Some things clearly make you oppose God and rebel against God, or prevent you from practicing God's words; these things are all from Satan. Some things are not obvious, and you cannot tell what they are at that moment; then, you will see their signs and then take the hint. If you can clearly discern which things are from Satan and which are guided by the Holy Spirit, you will not immediately be led astray by your experiences. There are times, when you are not in a good mood, that you have certain thoughts that take you out of your normal state. This shows that even if your situation is not pleasant, some of your thoughts may still come from the Holy Spirit.
It is not the case that when you are convinced, all your thoughts are sent by Satan; If that is true, when will you be able to move into a positive state? Because you have been in the dark for some time, the Holy Spirit gives you the opportunity to be perfected; He touches you and removes you from your precarious state. ☀️
Because you KNOW WHAT THE HOLY SPIRIT WORKS and WHAT SATAN WORKS, you can compare them with your own SITUATION AT THE TIME of your EXPERIENCES, and with your own experiences, and in this way HAVE more that there are many moreFACT that is PRINCIPALLY RELATED to your EXPERIENCES. Since you have understood these truths about the principle, you will be able to manage your actual situation, you will be able to see the difference between people and circumstances, and you will not need to spend so much effort to achieve the work of the Divine. spirit ☀️
Of course, that is as long as your motivations are right, and as long as you are willing to search and execute. Language like this--language related to principles---must feature in your experiences. Without it, your experiences will be filled with Satanic interference and foolish knowledge. If you don't understand how the Holy Spirit works, you don't understand how you get in, and if you don't understand how Satan works, you don't understand how, you will be careful with your every step. PEOPLE must both UNDERSTAND how the HOLY SPIRIT WORKS and HOW SATAN WORKS; they are BOTH NECESSARY parts of HUMAN EXPERIENCES. 🙏
From "The Word Appears in the Flesh"
Fulfillment of (John 1:1) and (Ezekiel 2:9-10), (Rev. 19:9,13)
📩 All who have "ears to listen" are led to what the Spirit of God is saying in His lowered and built kingdom/Church engraved with His new name, His totality, the ownership of this disposition, "THE CHURCH OF ALMIGHTY GOD "💐 fulfillment from what was said He to Peter 2,000 years ago recorded in (Matthew 16:18-19). His Coming is the fulfillment of all that was prophesied in the great book of Revelation, so the last "Salvation" He brought the whole truth, the way for eternal life. So the "victorious" ones who will receive them are the wise "virgins" because as recorded in the prophecy of His return no one knows it except the one who will receive it! So "come" and come to His kingdom/church standing in the holy place in the air/UA-cam! This is also a fulfillment from the book of (Isaiah 2:2/9:6) which He first fulfilled in His first incarnation. 📥
"They say with a loud voice, "Salvation comes from the Lamb, and from our God who sits on the Throne!" (Rev. 7:10). ... and (Isaiah 2: 2 / 9:6) "On the Last Day, the mountain on which Jehovah's temple stands will stand out above all the mountains. All nations will flock there. " . "For a baby boy is born to us. The rule will be given to him; and he shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Almighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace." 💌
This is one of the best interviews I have seen that makes me wanna do better. She is so impressive to listen to and learn from. Great interview!!
Ty Jay Melissa is a very wise lady it's nice to know she raised her children with values.
Yes Melissa did … you are correct. .!!
MELINDA
@@BubbleheadOMW MELISSA did but Melinda is as bad as her ex.
Dear Jay Shetty. Loved your insight, ‘we repeat what we reward’ re a top 100 rich (in service) list ❤. I am a mother of a severly learning disabled autistic young man and i have personally experienced a huge cohort of people who ‘figuratively’ - climb mountains and live out daily the truest meaning of ‘Grace’ in the nitty gritty shitty ‘on the ground’ type way. These ppl have inspired me, helped me and carried on in unbelievable circumstances at times!
In fact, there are so many seemingly ‘ordinary’ people in daily life, who have served us, quietly carrying out daily miracles and heroic acts (like the coach you mention) who have huge profound influences on our lives. Just like the ‘helping another to breathe easy’ quote Melinda mentions’.
How about we start honouring them? How about we hold up acts of love & kindness & daily strength in massive adversity as our role models in society?
There is a sea-change with a cohort of influencers like yourself (DOAC for eg.. both of you singing from the same hymn sheet.. but many others to!) .. the upticks in following & guests you are all getting on will give a platform to create a different ‘rich list’ such that you dream of. Together you CAN make this happen!
It’s about time we honoured & appreciated those who oftentimes don’t even realise what a magnificent service they are giving to another. The more light we shine on our beautiful acts the more light is reflected ❤.
He's in it for the fame and money. He couldn't care any less about ordinary people.
@@TeamAwesomeDadNope, it doesn't come to people like that. There is integrity and then there are those who support the most despicable people, yet SAY they representing the best for the world. Sadly, I agree that there are far too many who are only out for their meager little desires.
Every time I listen to Melinda, I have faith in humanity again.
I am really happy that Melinda Gates brought up the lack of federally mandated family leave in the US. It’s absolutely imperative to creating more equal opportunities for women and empowering them to stay in the workplace. Another big one is the lack of affordable, quality childcare that allows families the flexibility to both work outside the home. It’s an uphill battle for families with young kids and two working parents without family to rely on.
@@antoanetamanko7457 so true!
🤟) THE GOSPEL OF THE WORD OF ALMIGHTY GOD "the Salvation of the last day that Christ brought in the second and last incarnation of His new and holy name"
"The Work of the Holy Spirit and the Work of Satan" ... (When the Holy Spirit works within a person, the physical things of the person are still there and his stature remains as before, but he achieves the clarification and enlightenment of the Holy Spirit, and so his condition becomes normal, andhe changes quickly. The work of the Holy Spirit is positive advancement, while the work of Satan is retreat, being negative, being rebellious, resisting God, losing faith in God, and not even singing hymns, and being too weak to perform thedutyWhen there is the enlightenment of the Holy Spirit, nothing in what you do will interfere or hinder; you will be freed, will have a path in carrying out your actions, and you will not be subject to any prohibitions, but will be able to act according to the will ofGodThe work of Satan causes you to interfere in many things; it deprives you of the desire to pray, makes you too lazy to eat the words of God, and has no desire to live the life of the church, and it separates you from the spiritual life. If you can clearly discern which things are from Satan and which are guided by the Holy Spirit, you will not be misled in your experiences right away. Because you know what is the work of the Holy Spirit and what is Satan's, you can compare them to your own condition during your experiences, and to your own condition during your experiences, and to your own experiences, and in thisway there will be many more truths related to the principle in your experiences. Of course, that is as long as your motivations are right, and as long as you are willing to search and execute. People must understand both how the Holy Spirit works and how Satan works; they are both indispensable parts of human experiences.)
Almighty God said
When the HOLY SPIRIT WORKS WITHIN MAN, man's innate things are still there and his STAGE REMAINS as before, but he ACHIEVES the ILLUMINATION and LIBERATION of the HOLY SPIRIT, and so the his STATUS becomes more urgent,the conditions INSIDE him become NORMAL, and he CHANGES FAST. 🌷
In people's real experiences, they mainly experience the work of the Holy Spirit or Satan, and if they cannot understand these conditions and do not know the difference, entering into real experiences is not possible, especially yet the changes todisposition. So, the KEY to EXPERIENCE the WORK of GOD is to BE ABLE to reflect on such things; this way, it will be easier for them to experience it.
The WORK of the HOLY SPIRIT is POSITIVE PROGRESS, while the WORK of SATAN is retreat, being NEGATIVE, being REBELLIOUS, RESISTING GOD, LOSS OF FAITH in GOD, and DISLIKE even SINGING hymns, and being TOO WEAK to PERFORM theDUTY. Everything that comes from the LIGHT of the HOLY SPIRIT is truly NATURAL; It is NOT FORCED on you. If you FOLLOW it, you WILL HAVE PEACE; otherwise, you will be criticized afterwards. When there is the LIGHT of the HOLY SPIRIT, NOTHING you DO will INTERFERE or PREVENT; you will be freed, will have a path in carrying out your actions, and you will not be subject to any prohibitions, but will be able to act according to the will ofGodSATAN'S WORK CAUSES you to INTERFERE with many things; It LEAVES you of the desire to PRAY, MAKES you too LAZY to EAT the WORDS of GOD, and UNWISHING to LIVE the LIFE of the church, and it separates you from the SPIRITUAL LIFE. 🛑
The work of the Holy Spirit does not interfere with your daily life and does not interfere with your entry into a normal spiritual life. You cannot perceive many things at the very moment they happen, however, after a few days, your heart becomes brighter and your mind becomes clearer. There is a little understanding of spiritual things, and gradually you are able to tell whether a thought is coming from God or from Satan. Some things clearly make you oppose God and rebel against God, or prevent you from practicing God's words; these things are all from Satan. Some things are not obvious, and you cannot tell what they are at that moment; then, you will see their signs and then take the hint. If you can clearly discern which things are from Satan and which are guided by the Holy Spirit, you will not immediately be led astray by your experiences. There are times, when you are not in a good mood, that you have certain thoughts that take you out of your normal state. This shows that even if your situation is not pleasant, some of your thoughts may still come from the Holy Spirit.
It is not the case that when you are convinced, all your thoughts are sent by Satan; If that is true, when will you be able to move into a positive state? Because you have been in the dark for some time, the Holy Spirit gives you the opportunity to be perfected; He touches you and removes you from your precarious state. ☀️
Because you KNOW WHAT THE HOLY SPIRIT WORKS and WHAT SATAN WORKS, you can compare them with your own SITUATION AT THE TIME of your EXPERIENCES, and with your own experiences, and in this way HAVE more that there are many moreFACT that is PRINCIPALLY RELATED to your EXPERIENCES. Since you have understood these truths about the principle, you will be able to manage your actual situation, you will be able to see the difference between people and circumstances, and you will not need to spend so much effort to achieve the work of the Divine. spirit ☀️
Of course, that is as long as your motivations are right, and as long as you are willing to search and execute. Language like this--language related to principles---must feature in your experiences. Without it, your experiences will be filled with Satanic interference and foolish knowledge. If you don't understand how the Holy Spirit works, you don't understand how you get in, and if you don't understand how Satan works, you don't understand how, you will be careful with your every step. PEOPLE must both UNDERSTAND how the HOLY SPIRIT WORKS and HOW SATAN WORKS; they are BOTH NECESSARY parts of HUMAN EXPERIENCES. 🙏
From "The Word Appears in the Flesh"
Fulfillment of (John 1:1) and (Ezekiel 2:9-10), (Rev. 19:9,13)
📩 All who have "ears to listen" are led to what the Spirit of God is saying in His lowered and built kingdom/Church engraved with His new name, His totality, the ownership of this disposition, "THE CHURCH OF ALMIGHTY GOD "💐 fulfillment from what was said He to Peter 2,000 years ago recorded in (Matthew 16:18-19). His Coming is the fulfillment of all that was prophesied in the great book of Revelation, so the last "Salvation" He brought the whole truth, the way for eternal life. So the "victorious" ones who will receive them are the wise "virgins" because as recorded in the prophecy of His return no one knows it except the one who will receive it! So "come" and come to His kingdom/church standing in the holy place in the air/UA-cam! This is also a fulfillment from the book of (Isaiah 2:2/9:6) which He first fulfilled in His first incarnation. 📥
"They say with a loud voice, "Salvation comes from the Lamb, and from our God who sits on the Throne!" (Rev. 7:10). ... and (Isaiah 2: 2 / 9:6) "On the Last Day, the mountain on which Jehovah's temple stands will stand out above all the mountains. All nations will flock there. " . "For a baby boy is born to us. The rule will be given to him; and he shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Almighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace." 💌
You've just described feminism but people instead attacked feminism and vote against legislation that give that kind of power to not only women but people in general.
I love your list idea for people who give of themselves in service. We can all make it happen with awareness. You were both great, thanks. Melinda you are terrific, you make a difference.
Melinda have you heard of Alana Moor. She was on the Physicians Committee Podcast. She is canadian and got in prison for almost 7 years in Panama and is now starting ways to help women in prison. As I listened to her story I thought you and her could do wonderful work together. I really think this girl is absolutely amazing. Sending a little seed in the universe 🤗. Jay this conversation was a delight. Thank you.
Melinda Gates is so wise...it isn't easy to begin again but she is an excellent example for us- by choosing herself in the face of great deception she chose LIFE on her terms. This conversation of grief & joy coexisting moment to moment in our lives is so true and incredibly poignant. Love this conversation 💜💜
You’re an admirable woman of substance Ms Melinda French Gates. I admire you for your honesty courage and generosity for giving back to others less fortunate people. You’re an inspiration to women ❤
Melinda Gates friends are so lucky as she sounds like a friend everyone would want
I loved and admired Ms. Melinda’s interview so much! She is down to earth, raised her children with integrity and kept her soul true to her life’s mission. The courage and peace she radiates are very uplifting. I feel hope as a woman of color who faces barriers despite high standards in my societal contributions. I also love that she is Catholic 🥰😍❤️🙏. Thank you for all the work you do through your foundations for African women: may the Lord bless you and keep you in perfect peace. Amen.
She has so much power! She can initiate so many more improvements in especially women's issues she mentions... let's see more action Melinda!
Wish Melinda ruled the world!!! Intelligent , kind,understanding,unselfish,realistic,and trying to bring good into this world keep doing what your doing may you live a long prosperus life! Love you Melinda!!!
She can speak the truth because nothing about her life/ lifestyle can be adversely impacted or affected by her doing so. I appreciate her opinions.
Staying in silence is so important. I stay in silence when I walk my dog. No phone just enjoying nature and the sauna at the gym after a workout for 15 mins. It's so good. Clears the brain.
Agreed
Loved this interview! Listening to Melinda, I found so many parallels in what she has gone through and learned! Really enjoyed this!! Thanks!
😇I so enjoy seeing this woman strive we hit a few mile markers together we were both pregnant with our first child at the same time, got married at the same time, divorced at the same time I didn't realize we're both 60 either one of my best lines is when she said of her divorce not what she planned but what happened. I love seeing her smile and move on after the end of her marriage in a cheerful way
Thank you Mr Jay Shetty for this great in depth interview with Ms Melinda Gates 🤩
This was a great conversation. Very informative and the fact she has started to research on women history was wonderful.
Thank you for watching!
Service list is a phenomenal idea!
Excellent podcast!!! I’m glad to get to know her. It is so tough for anyone to go through divorce. No one wants to, but many couples in their 40s and 50s start to grow apart. I’m glad she’s providing contraception to women. We all need to help make the world a better place in whatever way we can. ❤
You are such a real person.
I understood everything that you are talking about getting a divorce.
Thank you very much for sharing.😂😅
I loved this interview! I took notes the entire time. ❤
Love that!!!! ❤
Jay, I bumped into your podcast with Melinda and I am so glad to get glimpses of her wisdom.
What a pleasure to see and hear directly from Melinda Gates. I’ve always held her in such high regards but after this insightful interview I see her as an even more amazing woman. God bless her for being who she is and always wanting to make the world a better place for young girls and women.
Thank you Melinda for all you do.
Thank you, Melinda, for your courage, generosity, wisdom, empathy and allyship. 🥰
No doubt a very intelligent and nice woman.
Admirable person.
She went to Duke (my nephew did too) for the same Computer Science, and it’s a great school
In all respects. The students are bright and rounded.
Thanks for sharing , Melinda ! I went through the similar situation. You described it correctly - stubbing in the body. Happy you feel content now. Thanks for standing up for all women -all colours and all social status. We need changes!
You’re also a wonderful mother who is passing on the great values to your kids. Thanks for sharing again.
I would love a wonderful group of women to gather like her! I am now in my 60’s and wanting a divorce as I don’t trust him. “Is that person on a growth path?” I love that!
In our perilous times when our democracy is crumbling and narcissism is rampant it is reassuring that people like Melinda are being visible and vocal about the better angels of our nature and bringing it down to the personal. The personal is political and she’s an excellent spokesman for keeping it real, unifying and compassionate. I’m extremely happy that she and Bill exist and are who they are.
Very relatable. I learned through my hard there's no way around it. It will pass even sooner if you stop trying to avoid it. Now I just sit in it until it's over. Once the tears start to flow I then know I'm releasing it and change is coming.
Woooouuuu..So many spiritual lessons learned through her painful divorce journey..🥺🥺🥺🙏🌺💔💠
What an amazing and powerful podcast. Melinda is so empowering and it was such a gift to hear such an indepth, personal, conversation. I gained a deep appreciation for her, so real, down to earth, able to connect with others, incredible values, so giving. What an advocate for women worldwide. She is destined to have an even deeper impact, and it is refreshing to hear of her parenting style and values she instilled in her children, who can now also go forward in this world and have there own impact. It was so refreshing to hear her being so real and being herself. Jay thank you for such a great podcast.
Thank you Melinda French Gates! I love hearing your perspectives!
I’m glad you changed the title… POWERFUL content 💥 and beautiful human being 🧡
This encouraging podcast episode as done a great job on the day l turn a year older! Keep up the great work Jay
She is so beautiful and eloquent. Was happy to hear what she has to say. Bill Gates should be ashamed for losing someone like her.
Thanks, Jay, for this fabulous interview! I admire Melinda so much! What a class act, great philanthropist, parent, businesswoman, humanitarian, good friend, inspiration to all. Melinda for President!
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Time is EXPENSIVE! And Believe me, this was TIME WELL SPENT! #LoveSign
I am almost her age and could really relate to her on so many levels and issues. I teach and my goal is to find each student’s strengths and am committed to making sure that every student can achieve their potential. I don’t know which student sitting in my classroom has the cure for cancer or the solution to climate change, etc. All of my students are non-white and economically challenged and as a society we need to ensure that all people achieve their potential since that is the only way we will survive.
Honestly, this podcast is a blessing to me. I have listened it so so many times because I find it relatable, inspiring and reassuring.
Belinda , you have rekindled my almost lost hope, worthiness and self esteem particularly at times when your world comes crashing down on you.
Thank you
First time to hear Belinda speaking. What a gracious woman she is!
Such a great conversation. I will have to watch again and take notes - it was that good! Thank you.
What a beautiful soul. So incredibly inspiring. Watch her continue to soar to great heights. I can’t wait to see Forbes top 100 of those who serve.
This was an awesome episode Jay! Great job interviewing and going deep with someone like Melinda. It has inspired me in so many ways and you both enriched my life a lot. God bless you and Melinda in her vision of getting more women and POC in place of power and your wish of the Service List. That was beautiful and creative. LOVED it!
After my last break up I cried everyday for half a year.. I could not believe this was my story
Thank you, Melinda you are a wonderful woman. Best wishes. There are so many things that we never thought would be part of our script.... let life flow, have faith, all things are for good.
The title leaves much to be desired. She is an inspirational positive force - much bigger than the divorce you chose to
trigger clicks.
Wow - so informative - a joy to listen to and well worth the time! Thank you Melinda!
one of the importent points in her conversation was when she said its good for us to have a time in each day in silence and quite to hear ourselvs, then we have gratitude and we all know to have greater acheivements we should first be gratefull of what we have and what we are
hope all of us make time for ourselves
dont understimate you self your more than even mores
For anyone watching the beginning, just want to point out that yes, something like divorce is also change... and change can't always inherently be fun... This seems just to have been forgotten at the beginning of the conversation... so don't rush yourself if people who seem to have it together make it look easy - now, or ever...
Very inspiring episode. Currently going through life with spouse diagnosed with dementia. This has had profound impact on my life and of course his. Times having been so challenging and depressing lately. Thanks for the insights provided here.
I really liked this interview. Melinda is an inspiring, smart and kind human being. Well conducted interview though I agree with the comment about using her divorce as a hook on the title seems cheap sensationalism but it was comforting to hear it mentioned just briefly and used to deliver hope instead of venting. Well done.
1:09:51 service to others
Here in Taiwan we have the love-heart mamas and papas. In the dark of the night they are on their scooters feeding the stray dogs and cats. They don’t have non-profit organizations. They are often very poor. When there is an emergency, they are often willing to help. They have inspired me and I humbly followed their light, their example. There is nothing more important in this world than to be of service. Even animals are of service to each other.
Having children is the greatest wealth. Family is the first stabilizer of human health and growth. You can have children and still thrive.
Melinda has already changed the World& will continue to. What a Women to admire.
Melinda, you are wonderful! Thank you Jay for the interview🎉
This was a beautiful interview! Loved how honest and real she is, specially about how Brene Brown has helped her overcome perfection through her book
What a wonderful podcast. So much to learn and a truly inspiring and amazing lady. Thank you Jay.
“I am imperfect; but, I’m still enough to be this messenger.” 🎉
It is inspiring to listen to Melinda French Gates talking about her past and her work to make the world a better place for everyone to live in. I went to an Ursuline Sisters' college and also learned the valuable lessons of life which helped me to be an independent woman of my own.
Thank you Melinda French Gates. Thank you so much for reconfirming Grace and the place it has in life and the immeasurable impact of Grace in life. I’ve lived my life up until now believing in this and hearing from you was my moment here in this podcast 💜🥹
I am walking the path of working with grassroots women here in India and to work with them to help them realise their full potential, unlock their potential as you said because every life deserves their place under the Sun. All I know and all I understand is step by step if we are able to impact and transform one life and then one more and then one more, there will be large scale impact. There will be what we so wish to see - a world where one gets to live the life of our full potential. Thank you so much for reaffirming we’re ok and we’re going to get there even if the issue at hand feels complex and complicated but we will break it down to simpler ways one by one 🙏🏼
Just got this recommended to me by UA-cam. Very interesting and enlightening interview. I wish I had money to travel. My dream is to see France. Maybe one day.
I really enjoyed listening to this conversation. Thank you.
“Grace does what guilt can’t” Yes! 🔥🔥
And then VP Kamala Harris is the Democratic nominee for President. Ms.Gates is prophetic in this episode. 😊💙💙💙
Greatest take away… everyone can serve others in their community and make a difference in the world
I love this interview!! I really enjoy when people answer “what is the law question”, hers for sure could be pretty powerful 💪🏼. Praying for grace 🙏🏼
Excellent interview with Melinda. Very inspiring!
Would love to support you in your dream of creating the yearly most charitable list! Love this idea!
I LOVE the idea of “The Service List,” and I especially love that it’s not called “Unsung Hero” or something like that. Life is about service, there’s humility in that!