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Not for Everyone Podcast
Приєднався 18 бер 2023
An existential commentary podcast hosted by one hater (Caroline Winkler) and one lover (Jess DeBakey).
🧡💜 𝘕𝘦𝘸 𝘌𝘱𝘪𝘴𝘰𝘥𝘦𝘴 𝘌𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 𝘛𝘩𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘥𝘢𝘺
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@not4everyonepod
@thegoodsitter
@jzdebakey
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𝗟𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻 𝗼𝗻:
Spotify - rb.gy/ts1faa
Apple Podcasts - rb.gy/ithcuh
𝗙𝗿𝗼𝗹𝗶𝗰 𝗼𝗻 𝗜𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗿𝗮𝗺:
@not4everyonepod
@thegoodsitter
@jzdebakey
We're just tired of everything being serious and want to giggle.
EP 99 - Not for Pity Invites + Mini Adventures as Self Care
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This podcast is like a box of chocolates…you never know what you’re gonna get. Caroline and Jess discuss how adventure can be simply leaving the house, some of their instinctive feelings about their futures, how “you’re welcome to join” feels like a slight, and how “do not disturb” has gone too far.
Plus, get ready for a grab bag of topics: nefarious owls, C and J’s little jingles, tissue box covers, desk chairs with wheels, a new show on Hulu, feeling horny on hills, and the return of Google search history, which leads to an extremely disturbing beer story. Get ready for stomach flips of all kinds.
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Not for Everyone is a podcast hosted by one hater (Caroline Winkler) and one lover (Jess DeBakey), with new episodes every Thursday.
Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/5f9AtKseF3MELhxvcYLUwD
Apple Podcasts: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/not-for-everyone/id1658791276
And everywhere else: podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/not4everyonepod
Plus our merch store: not4everyonepod.myshopify.com/
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And FOLLOW US on Instagram for more:
@not4everyonepod
@thegoodsitter
@jzdebakey
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This episode was produced by none other than our prince, @abinewhouse.
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Contents of this Video
00:00 - Intro
1:30 - how many owls make a situation nefarious
8:30 - a nice connection
10:20 - does C consume UA-cam as a UA-camr?
12:30 - feelings about our futures
15:00 - the way you learn when you leave the house
25:40 - thoughts on last week’s “Saying No” episode
29:00 - a complaint: do not disturb
40:00 - our little songs
47:35 - a complaint: desk chairs with wheels
48:30 - a question: tissue box covers?
49:35 - a complaint: “you’re welcome to join”
55:45 - the return of Google search history
1:01:15 - a new show on Hulu
1:04:30 - horny all the time
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𝐃𝐈𝐒𝐂𝐋𝐀𝐈𝐌𝐄𝐑
All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or mental health professionals, or really professional of any kind. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!
Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA
#podcast #selfhelp #comedypodcast #bestfriends
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Get 10 FREE meals at hellofresh.com/freenotforeveryone.
Visit skims.com and let them know we sent you! Select Not For Everyone after checkout.
Get up to 40% off at cozyearth.com/NOTFOREVERYONE. Use code NOTFOREVERYONE.
***
This podcast is like a box of chocolates…you never know what you’re gonna get. Caroline and Jess discuss how adventure can be simply leaving the house, some of their instinctive feelings about their futures, how “you’re welcome to join” feels like a slight, and how “do not disturb” has gone too far.
Plus, get ready for a grab bag of topics: nefarious owls, C and J’s little jingles, tissue box covers, desk chairs with wheels, a new show on Hulu, feeling horny on hills, and the return of Google search history, which leads to an extremely disturbing beer story. Get ready for stomach flips of all kinds.
***
Not for Everyone is a podcast hosted by one hater (Caroline Winkler) and one lover (Jess DeBakey), with new episodes every Thursday.
Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/5f9AtKseF3MELhxvcYLUwD
Apple Podcasts: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/not-for-everyone/id1658791276
And everywhere else: podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/not4everyonepod
Plus our merch store: not4everyonepod.myshopify.com/
***
And FOLLOW US on Instagram for more:
@not4everyonepod
@thegoodsitter
@jzdebakey
***
This episode was produced by none other than our prince, @abinewhouse.
***
Share with a friend! Subscribe and rate us on your favorite podcasting app! Review us on Apple Podcasts!
***
Contents of this Video
00:00 - Intro
1:30 - how many owls make a situation nefarious
8:30 - a nice connection
10:20 - does C consume UA-cam as a UA-camr?
12:30 - feelings about our futures
15:00 - the way you learn when you leave the house
25:40 - thoughts on last week’s “Saying No” episode
29:00 - a complaint: do not disturb
40:00 - our little songs
47:35 - a complaint: desk chairs with wheels
48:30 - a question: tissue box covers?
49:35 - a complaint: “you’re welcome to join”
55:45 - the return of Google search history
1:01:15 - a new show on Hulu
1:04:30 - horny all the time
***
𝐃𝐈𝐒𝐂𝐋𝐀𝐈𝐌𝐄𝐑
All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or mental health professionals, or really professional of any kind. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!
Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA
#podcast #selfhelp #comedypodcast #bestfriends
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Caroline you would not forget about the owl poll as obviously if daytine owls are about, some shit is about to go down imho you two crack me up
If you saw two owls together wouldn't you just assume they're a couple? 🤔 But if I saw a single owl twice the same day, I would just assume that it was the same owl moving around in my neighborhood. But yes, three owls together is an emergency.
Omg - I think Brian Jordan Alvarez and Stephanie Koenig prevented me from spiraling during the pandemic 😭🖤🙌🏼 please go devour their show. I wish there was a universe where I had a standing sleepover date with y’all and them once a month. But only once a month. 🖤😂
I woke up after having a fantasy dream - so surreal. Basically a caressed a dude I once loved as he cries weirdly in such a sexually suggestive way I thought my brain was doing some AI imaging lol (ok not abt the bad ones being used out there). I watched this podcast video just yesterday and the wonders woah
😂😂Jess and her airplane seat situation and the little man . Loving this podcast plus more balloons !
Whenever I have a long conversation on the phone, I’m usually horizontal too because it’s the most comfortable position for a lengthy conversation. It seems natural.
re: following the path that's calling you on a walk - i think this is a great practice in following your intuition.
i think it would take at least 3-5 owls before i start thinking it's an omen. but also, i feel like it'd be about the locality for me. like, if i'm seeing them all at once or within like a mile radius, i'd probably just think 'oh a family (flock?) of owls...cool' but if i'm seeing an owl everywhere i go all over town that day, then they're definitely following me, and either i'm about to encounter a wizard or become one myself. or maybe i'd start listening really intently to try and hear if they have a message of warning for me 😂🦉
This was very entertaining! 1st time listener and I’d lovers episodes with the both of you!
1 owl…..I have seen 1 owl in my lifetime. If I saw 1 owl during the day….id be concerned that it’s an omen. I would Google “what if I saw 1 owl during the day time” 😅
Potato ranking for me: -mashed potatoes -potatoes salad -hash brown -French fries
What I love about this podcast is that you talk about deep issues one moment then the next moment you will say something totally silly like the nipple ring or the soft pants song 😅.
Wow this is the first time I’ve heard the word lackadaisical!
I had a small intimate wedding with 20 of our immediate family members. No Bachelorette party etc. It was low stressed and nice. A few people I invited couldn’t make it and it was no big deal, didn’t change our relationship. I believe weddings should be low stress and pleasant for everyone’s wallet. It cost less and been married for over 20 years . Bachelorette parties are excessive and over rated.
What do you all think of these new celebrations (are they too much): -gender reveal -baby sprinkles (mini baby showers for your 2nd, 3rd and so on babies). Baby showers are for your first baby only right? -divorce celebration (some people are having parties to celebrate their split).
My opinion on the mom thing is that you can not control what she says. If you are bold enough to tell her that you don’t plan to teach your daughter the things she believes then that’s fine, but sounds like you don’t want to have that conversation with her, and that’s okay too. I would recommend literally just putting up with whatever she says, but teach your daughter what you believe and that you and your mom do not believe the same thing. Tell her that your mom believes it strongly, and feels compelled to talk about it, which makes sense, but you do not agree. Teach her that different ppl believe in different things and some day it will be up to her to decide what she believes. Tell her you love her whatever she decides.
I love the random erratic walks. This time of year i tend to let xmas lights in the distance guide my path. Following the pretty lights until I'm ready to go home
@Jess Tofu Good is also one of my favorite creators on UA-cam. Loved hearing/seeing this little synchronicity <3
I so needed this one! LOL
The convo about hiding medical news from family made me think of a movie called The Farewell. It's super interesting and shows a different culture's norms around stuff like that. Y'all need to watch it and then discuss on the pod!!!!! Would love to hear that
I just looked it up to confirm - owls are territorial! So if you are seeing more than 1 or two ever, I think it’s safe to say they are joining forces
THE O.C. precisely omg
So much laughter 😂 great episode
😂😊 I love cooking to this podcast. You’re saying out loud a lot of the random things that’s floating in my head . I’m always in a good mood after listening to you guys plus I gain a few useful insights. Subbed.
i think 3 owls in the house = i'm calling a professional 11 owls in the same like 5 km radius i'm calling a birder to see wtf is up. I'd say it's lucky to see 3 in a day, odd to see 6 and by 11 I'd be feeling uneasy
You are such a gift; thank you. Sending massive hugs!
In high school I went to US as an exchange student from Europe for a year. For a whole year I asked my family about my cat every time we chatted, they have been telling me he was alright. When I returned home I started calling for my cat right away, but he wouldn’t come to meet me like he always used to do. And only then did they told me that he had gone missing not long after I left. I was devastated and cried for a whole week. They said they just didn’t want to upset me.
You gotta watch Brian Jordan Alvarez's web series, "The Gay and Wondrous Life of Caleb Gallo". It's brilliant.
aww, i watch @tofugoob too!! 💜She makes cute art 🦆🦆and keeps it real on her channel. Side note desk chairs definitely neeeed wheels. I used a dining chair as my desk chair for a year and hated not having wheels. Scooting my chair back on a rug was a pain.
Can we get a hater/lover front/back shirt and I can change it depending on mood or if someone pees me off
Yesss i need a giggle today. Thank youuuu
Did my comment get deleted?
Maybe I never posted it… I am very curious
Iron is a primary component of blood - science baby! They would have taken their money, if they hadn't complained about the rusty bottles... like nothing happened.
I have to bring up the office chair debate. I be rollin’ around the office like it’s nobody’s business. I will roll myself to the kitchenette and back to my seat. I think it’s healing my inner child that didn’t have a roller chair at home 😂😂
hard agree. I'm waiting for the day I get told to cut it tf out
It will absolutely get copyright flagged if you recorded your own version of a song. Been there, done that! You will have to write your own from scratch! Most breast cancers are oestrogenic, it's advisable to check up on the risk factors. I work with owls, so I'm good.
Exactly, copyright also refers to performing, adapting, recording, etc. Sorry 😬
I live in Los Angeles, and last year I saw an owl stretching its wings on the 405 freeway onramp sign existing the Ikea shopping center in Carson. I told everyone about it for months. I thought either some big cosmic event was coming, or someone's pet owl escaped.
I’m getting suspicious of things around 4-5 owls.
this my girl right here. i need to let things really escalate
If you're in a "living with disabilities" UA-cam phase (not children/parenting-related), there's a married couple who do great content called Squirmy and Grubs (aka Hannah and Shane).
oh i watch them! i enjoy their channel a lot! great recc
I have been LOVING the English Teacher too!!! Such a good rec
Just clicked and am immediately intrigued by what invitation inspired Caroline's brutal response 😂
i hope no one was surprised to find that it was an outsized reaction to a slight inconvenience
@@Not4EveryonePod Nope! Lol
The week before I went to my first day at university, we had at least 3 big owls flying around. One of them was a white color like in Harry Potter so I could only assume I'd been accepted into Hogwarts 😂
sometime ago I encountered several parakeets in New York city. I was thinking I've gone nuts, but then it turned out a family of parakeets escaped from a house and nested in a electrical booth and apparently they multiplied and eventually there was a whole flock. It was written about in newspapers eventually
ok but second explanation could def have been the aliens are finally here
Are we talking about the Brooklyn college quaker parrots?
We have the same thing in certain cities in the Netherlands
Same in San Diego. Green Amazon parrots escaped from the zoo some decades ago. I know winter is over when I hear them returning to the palm trees across the street.
OMG TOFUGOOB
Such a weird coincidence, I discovered Tofugoob exactly yesterday 😮
I also have a feeling I’m going to see two owls very soon thank you
big feelings
I usually walk through a large cemetery and feel the feelings of going certain ways, but it’s usually a creepy feeling of something’s evil down there today we’re gonna go the less sinister way
🦉 in the house, 🦉🦉🦉 in the wild 🪄🧙🏻♀️✨
omg these numbers are crazy
Yup 2 🦉🦉 😂
I said two immediately!
Listen!!! As somehow who is from the Gulf Coast -- and the restaurant being in New Orleans-- I bet those beers were somehow flooded or in a really humid environment and became rusty. But also you're in in New Orleans so maybe it's voodoo
I was listening on Spotify but I had to come here to say this! I love y'all, I giggled so much in this episode
Many manipulative people also assume other people are manipulative. They can’t see your genuine emotions and communication as what it is. They think you are playing a game and resist connection. Holding firm and talking emotion out of your response can be much more effective in communicating how serious you are.