Why are some AFRICAN WOMEN selfish in the DIASPORA?

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  • @Phrankleen13
    @Phrankleen13  Рік тому +8

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    • @globalismoblackman
      @globalismoblackman Рік тому

      It's because some of them suffer from a poverty mindset probably due their socio economic background and trauma. Some African women are just born with jezebel energy and bring this dysfunctional trait into her relationship or marriage.

    • @chriso.nwaorah810
      @chriso.nwaorah810 9 місяців тому

      @Phrankleen, where are you? It's over 3 months of your online videos. What's happening?

    • @EmilolaOduja-zz2mo
      @EmilolaOduja-zz2mo 8 місяців тому

      my brother keep it up you are doing good

  • @akinloluolalekan7547
    @akinloluolalekan7547 Рік тому +107

    When you deeply understand how life actually works, you will want to leave and exist for urself not to please anyone.

    • @mikelowo7493
      @mikelowo7493 Рік тому +16

      Yes, don't wait for validation of your doings from anyone ...

    • @anonymousanonymous870
      @anonymousanonymous870 Рік тому

      Yes exactly, especially African women are programme to worship their men, they put others need above their own.

    • @josephinebrevig8748
      @josephinebrevig8748 4 місяці тому +1

      Correction live not leave …and btw I totally agree with your comment.

  • @markrobby7136
    @markrobby7136 Рік тому +34

    Prankleen, the most common culprit, is African men, especially Nigerian men, engaging in uncontrolled infidelity. I have seen thousands of cases like this where Nigerian men wanted to be disrespectful to their wives as they usually do in Nigeria by undermining their marriage vows and just sleeping around with those women without husbands who chose to be public toilet for all men. So, as women who has been putting up with such in Nigeria/Africa where there isn't no women rights, consequently, on arriving in abroad and their husbands continues the same cheating, then they decided to act in order to exercise their women rights.

    • @Iwantallmymoney2024
      @Iwantallmymoney2024 Рік тому +13

      They don’t want to talk about this!! They want to play victim instead addressing the real issue

    • @KassyDean
      @KassyDean 8 місяців тому

      It’s because in africa men are used to disrespecting women and women being submissive to them because they don’t have jobs and need them to provide 😂😂
      Now in the diaspora women have realised that they can also provide for themselves so what use is that man if he is disrespecting her 😂😂…
      Women in Africa allow disrespect because they rely on the men for everything, in the diaspora which woman is relying on you and begging you for money or to provide 😂😂😳😳

    • @Ondolite
      @Ondolite 4 місяці тому +1

      Thousands??

    • @Ondolite
      @Ondolite 4 місяці тому

      ​@@Iwantallmymoney2024This is how white men have convinced yoo.

  • @Kayze4
    @Kayze4 Рік тому +40

    True point brother. Absolutely on point. I went through the same shit with my ex wife. Met her with no education and papers. Stood by her, she got and education and papers, got a nice job and starting making some changev and then started messing up. Called in the police and weaponised my two kids. denying me access. I went to war. Too many black men dont fight back. I did. I went to court got an order to allow me access but supported by her friends and relatives (as always) she ignored the order, boasting the country belonged to women. Big mistake.
    I went back to court and this time i got nasty. This time i submitted to court a list of all her friends and relatives living in the UK who had no papers, saying she was exposing my kids to illegal immigrants. Then I added a list of her family members who were defrauding the Uk benefit system to my court documents. I fought fire with fire. I made it clear to her that the case continued without her obeying the orders to let me see my two kids, her entire entourage would be reduced to ashes.
    She got the message. Before i got nasty, she ignored all orders to produce my kids. After i got hard, if they tell her to drop my kids at 10am, by 9am, I was getting calls that my kids had been dropped for me to pick up. That was the last time she played and silly games.
    Now I am happily re-married to a wonderful woman, have a great relationship with my kids, the older is now a graduate. As for my ex, still being passed around like a rugby ball by men young enough to be her kid brothers. Ever since i left her my life has moven on , my career taken off, great bond with my kids, fantastic woman in life.
    Good work bro, my advise to all brothers out there. Fight back. Take the gloves off. Believe in yourself

    • @msarchibong7813
      @msarchibong7813 8 місяців тому +7

      Did you have your papers before you travelled abroad? What has her relatives and friends got to do with it and exposing your children to "illegal immigrants?" That's the pettiness of Nigerian men that's so appalling! Helping your wife get papers and an education is not a license to disrespect or abuse her! Good you moved on with your life, it's not your business who she dates or whether she's being passed around like a ball. Focus on your own life and grow up! African, especially Nigerian men need to crawl out of their primordial African mentality and treat their women with respect.

  • @herrodo1726
    @herrodo1726 Рік тому +31

    You have said the truth in all your analyses. Most African women had been ill treated or watched their mother or auntie got ill treated by their partner. These women promised to not forgive or tolerate any form of ill treatment. Many men have been raised to think they can do anything and get away with it. The ladies of today are not to be played with. African men need to control their temper!!! Kilode, opoju. We all need to do better if we want togetherness, and the responsibility is not only on the women.!!!! Good work, keep it up.

    • @a.m.icadete7578
      @a.m.icadete7578 Рік тому

      Why to certain Africans believe they can speak for all the continent? What African women are you talking about? Nigerians and Ghanian online have these bad habit of thinking they matter to the majority of Africans. Speak about your bloody group, that's what you're mostly around

    • @petermakolo2417
      @petermakolo2417 Рік тому +1

      What of women controlling their mouths and temper?

    • @herrodo1726
      @herrodo1726 Рік тому +16

      @@petermakolo2417 that does not give you the right to beat or kill her if you value yourself!!!!!.

    • @joebruce2180
      @joebruce2180 Рік тому

      ​. Women are naturally selfish. And most men don't beat women.

    • @tabbypanda82
      @tabbypanda82 Рік тому

      Women need to focus more on themselves and their children, these men want to RULE/LORD OVER their wives……THIS IS WHY I ENCOURAGE WOMEN TO MAKE THEIR OWN MONEY AND TO NEVER MOVE IN WITH A MALE….🚶🏾‍♀️ it’s disgusting 🤢

  • @NnekaLocs
    @NnekaLocs Рік тому +7

    He ain’t lying. Single parenthood is for the birds. Keep your family intact if you can.

  • @byoutifulmusic
    @byoutifulmusic 7 місяців тому +6

    If he gave her a “dirty slap” EVER, good on her for escaping in whatever way she has..
    I notice Nigerian men.. African men in general (?), encourage you to be long suffering with his maltreatment of you. Don’t talk to anyone but “family” and that same family is compelling you to long suffer as well. Where is the correction for men to be TRUE “men of God”? NOT adulterous, NOT abusive, to be providing, etc.
    It’s all abusive and shameful conditioning.

  • @afrikanheritage99
    @afrikanheritage99 Рік тому +47

    Great to see you, my handsome brother. I am an African woman in diaspora and I have trouble with their neo colonial slave mentality and our total unawareness of the Western countries' history and their voluntary slavery agenda.

    • @afrikanheritage99
      @afrikanheritage99 Рік тому +1

      They're glad to strip their children of their roots and African identity. They're glad to flex about those children being born in the West and will do everything to discourage them from even thinking about Africa.
      My observation from the US.

    • @Phrankleen13
      @Phrankleen13  Рік тому +7

      @@afrikanheritage99absolutely well said

    • @tashaw3636
      @tashaw3636 Рік тому +5

      Please enlightened me on the voluntary slavery agenda.

    • @yvettewilliams5967
      @yvettewilliams5967 Рік тому

      Voluntary slavery mentality? We are All free to return to the land of birth. Aren’t we or they?

    • @virtualoathstudios5484
      @virtualoathstudios5484 Рік тому +1

      Yes it makes dating a lot harder I agree

  • @queenkize
    @queenkize Рік тому +9

    The worst part is most of these wicked women are found in churches. They quote scriptures and pray heaven and earth but very evil once church service is over. I have them in my famliy and outside the family as well.

  • @user-mn8lm8uz8u
    @user-mn8lm8uz8u Рік тому +16

    Great video Phrankleen. There's this lady who came from the same country as i am. I have know her through a mutual friend 3 times. I have been working at this place for over 6 years and she just got hired. I was surprised to see her and welcomed her. But, she started acting weird and didn't seem to want to talk to me. So i ignored her ugly ass, she texted me few days after and i didn't respond. She cussed me out. So i blocked her and told my supervisor. I didn't want to involve management because i felt ashamed since we are from the same country. But, i had to do so to protect myself. She is still acting weird and looking at me like im nothing. The self hate in this community is too much. I used to hear about the workplace issues with fellow countrymen, but for the first time im experiencing it. Sad and shameful

    • @tombimashri8149
      @tombimashri8149 Рік тому +3

      Thsts reason we should hear every story every story has a reason we can all learn from. The jealousy nd double faced in workplaces is real. If one receives credit or praise from superior they will be disliked by colleagues to extent they will do whatever to get rid of you.

    • @user-mn8lm8uz8u
      @user-mn8lm8uz8u Рік тому

      @@tombimashri8149 karma will serve her well. And I'll make sure I stay on top of my notes regarding her behavior towards me.

  • @TheOluwagbemisola
    @TheOluwagbemisola Рік тому +7

    Well most of your points are actually true. But I think they are men out there who use woman to their own advantages in the UK. I have seen a woman who is on benefit and not happy she wants to go in pursuit of her career and develop herself but her husband refuses for his own selfish reasons just because he sees her as a competition. Each time she makes an attempt and job opportunities comes her way he belittles her saying the salary is not ok. Meanwhile he grabs any opportunities that comes his own way. ITS SO SAD THAT THE WORLD WE ARE TODAY MANY ARE SELF-CENTRED.

  • @OliverYavet
    @OliverYavet Рік тому +17

    One of the few brothers who spits facts, keep the realness my brother more life to you

  • @johnfamous6316
    @johnfamous6316 Рік тому +14

    So many men here in the USA already demised their women or end up in jail and even murder mother inlaw during the same type of topic you're treating right now. I'm aware of 2 different kinds in Maryland to be specific. Abroad has destroyed many men, many children and many families.o

  • @gabrielolutosin583
    @gabrielolutosin583 Рік тому +14

    Thank you so much brother, for this expository and blunt truth to all these fake low self-esteem black folks. Thank you

  • @synoviaridley3229
    @synoviaridley3229 Рік тому +5

    I salute you my wise, intelligent brother. I thank our Ancestors for you✨

  • @kinga284
    @kinga284 Рік тому +9

    Hello Mr Phrankleen, that’s my topic but unfortunately I was very busy today. I’m on it now watching playback. God bless you brother.

  • @ChukwumaEgbuonu
    @ChukwumaEgbuonu Рік тому +7

    Your videos have been so inspirational and insightful

  • @peterbalighwa9534
    @peterbalighwa9534 Рік тому +2

    Thanks for this education and priceless free flowing knowledge Phankleen , I’m back on board learning and enjoying all your content. I feel re-educated and refreshed in many ways with every video of yours. I would rather watch you all day,any day than anything else that doesn’t build me up wholly as a person.

  • @mavisuzoma9698
    @mavisuzoma9698 4 місяці тому +1

    WOW!! This was more than a seminar talk. I enjoyed every second of this.

  • @richardagboola7765
    @richardagboola7765 Рік тому +11

    Another awesome video from the brain behind this channel 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @emmanuelajayi4103
    @emmanuelajayi4103 Рік тому +9

    Big Bro. You're Fantastic. You're Getting Better And Better Everytime. You're One Of A Kind. Africans ALL Over The World Especially Nigerians Are Proud Of You. Nigerians In Diaspora Are Blessed To Have You On The Social Media Space. You're Definitely A Blessing In Disguise To All Of Us. Keep Up With The Good Job. I Wish You More Success In All Aspects Of Your Life. You're FANTASTIC. Remember That. Okay. 👍.

  • @yomiademuyiwa5291
    @yomiademuyiwa5291 Рік тому +3

    Mr Phrankleen, you are so full of wisdom honestly and I love the way you dissect issues, I am grateful that I found your channel.❤❤❤ Keep up the good job and well done.

  • @Jbeggar
    @Jbeggar Рік тому +5

    Thanks Phrankleen I always say it’s as if you know what I’m going through.

  • @thegoodgirl6935
    @thegoodgirl6935 Рік тому +5

    Phrankleen, you're right on the money!👏👏👏

  • @Kayze4
    @Kayze4 Рік тому +5

    Our black brothers need to be more strategic and less emotional when faced with such women. Women are smart, they read the terrain then deliberately provoke you so you csn react like an 'African man' i.e. with anger and emotion. Problem is in this part of the world such a reaction is the same as going to London zoo, get angry with the lions then jump into their enclosure to give the lioness a slap because you are angry. Either you or the lioness will not leave the enclosure in one piece. But if lions were invincible they would not end up in cages. They got their because while Lions are stronger tham men, men are smarter than Lions. We lose because women play smarter. If we are smarter we can win
    But you cant be smart when you are consumed with anger as it clouds your judgement
    Dont get mad. Get even. Go to court, look for her weak points and reveal them in court in a manner that shows you are trying to protect your kids from them. We all have weaknesses. You were married to her so you will know what she doesnt want the world to know. Use that in court. But when you are consumed in your 'African' anger how can you think straight. Thats what they want. She is using the law against you. Return the favour, use it against her. If she has left your life how is that a curse. Surely a toxic person removing herself from your life can only be a blessing. Go to court to get access to your kids. Thats all you need from her. The kids grow fast. Soon they will be adults and history 101 will say SHE walked out. You did NOT abandon them. That is what your grandkids will hear about grandma. Thats why they dont want you to have access to the kids. So they can write you our of their history.
    Our brothers need to be less emotional and more strategic. Dont be provoked, its a bait to destroy you. Dont abuse the police they are not on your side. Dont feel sorry for yourself, you can handle it, stay within the law, in the western world understanding the law is more powerful than money or guns. The law is an arse. Anyone can ride it. She knows your weaknesses, calm down and think of hers. You were married to her. You not only know where her skeletons are, you probably help hide some of them in the cupboard. Go to court and exploit that knowledge.

  • @mojitaiwo9614
    @mojitaiwo9614 Рік тому +7

    Hi guy,
    You're so on point on many fronts and wiser beyond your 40 yrs on earth. Thoroughly enjoyed your show.
    This, from a well rounded, accomplished, 44 yrs in marriage, African woman in the Diaspora ❤

    • @Phrankleen13
      @Phrankleen13  Рік тому +1

      Wow, thank you!

    • @mojitaiwo9614
      @mojitaiwo9614 Рік тому +1

      @@Phrankleen13 you're most welcome!!!
      Keep up the good job!!!

  • @tina04ism
    @tina04ism Рік тому +4

    Very true to get someone who really care well said

  • @gerardonochie3408
    @gerardonochie3408 Рік тому +6

    Wonderful content. The Nigerian women on powerbikes in Nigeria being stopped by Police and being asked damn right stupid and primitive questions was quite hilarious. Good balanced vblog.

  • @OneonelegOga
    @OneonelegOga Рік тому +2

    Phrankonero! I get what you are saying through and through.

  • @obn1459
    @obn1459 Рік тому +3

    Frank u funny sha... 'Gonna wanna.."😆😆

  • @ativiejonathan3705
    @ativiejonathan3705 Рік тому +12

    I know some spouses that has been together for a very long time, back in Africa but as soon as they get to the west this happens The marriage of 12 years got broken.

    • @Jbeggar
      @Jbeggar Рік тому

      Yes.

    • @anonymousanonymous870
      @anonymousanonymous870 Рік тому +1

      You know well African women don't have voice in Africa , maybe she's couldn't leave the marriage because the men are in charge .She might have put up with cheating, abuse, polygamy, no woman in her right mind will ruin her home if she was treated well. Its don't matter which country she is in.

    • @bukolalawrence
      @bukolalawrence Рік тому +12

      Yep. Happened to one of my church members. The wife and kids first settled in Canada for 1 yr. The woman was the one paying all bills in Canada. Then the husband joined. Wife continued paying all bills, including rent, until about 4 months after the husband started working. She then told him to take over paying the rent fully while she continued with the feeding and any other bills. The husband refused and said they must share the rent 50/50. Unfortunately, our pastor did not mitigate their counseling well, and the woman angrily asked for divorce after matters were judged to the man's favor. The woman said for over 16 years in Nigeria, she was the one paying the rent and most of the bills at home. Now they are abroad, and the husband refused to even pay just rent while she continues with other bills. She said at this point that it was better to be alone.

    • @bibaolaitan5189
      @bibaolaitan5189 Рік тому

      Because in the western countries their is less judgement given in leaving an abusive serial cheating husband.

    • @bibaolaitan5189
      @bibaolaitan5189 Рік тому +8

      @@bukolalawrence good for her... she will probably still be the one that will be doing all the housework.

  • @olajideajibola1397
    @olajideajibola1397 Рік тому +6

    Lack of identity is key to our lack of development in Nigeria , our leaders can’t concentrate and apply our organic solutions to problems synonymous to us in Africa , i dat problem is so deep ore

  • @fajusbah1508
    @fajusbah1508 Рік тому

    Well said brother you are saying the truth and that’s fact. I have my own experience regarding this topic.

  • @judithdouglasbey5444
    @judithdouglasbey5444 Рік тому +8

    This is the truth. Indigenous Americans see the Yoruba Ifa knowledge...It is so PRIDEFUL. We spend our money to travel to our Cousins land to learn the system.....we invest and proudly wear the our initiation beads....can't tell us Jack. Love the subject. I'm shocked because we pur the African on a pedestal. If the woman comes and do this we are ALL lost. WE HAVE NO FRIENDS!

  • @johnnwabuforudemezue1108
    @johnnwabuforudemezue1108 Рік тому +3

    Thanks for this baba

  • @matma01
    @matma01 Рік тому

    Wow, I haven't come across your videos for about 2 years!

  • @ibukunoluwaolugunwa
    @ibukunoluwaolugunwa 8 місяців тому

    I really appreciate that you have embrace your true custom's I do too and I'm not ashamed of my heritage

  • @reddingtonblue4931
    @reddingtonblue4931 Рік тому

    Amazing content

  • @allajioakland7160
    @allajioakland7160 Рік тому +15

    Phrankleen Brosmi. Thanks for the highlights. I wish all MEN the wisdom and resources to lead, protect and provide for their families. Black people are hurting around the World including in diaspora. There surely is an agenda to weekend Black families. African American women have had everything relative to black men since after WWII and the black community hasn't got any better or so. The Chicken has come home to roast in Diaspora families also.

    • @nightwishisthegreatestband6355
      @nightwishisthegreatestband6355 11 місяців тому

      The agenda succeeded because of the mens' incompetence. You cannot go around impregnating multiple women and expect the kids to grow up in stable homes, when you are not providing for them because you are either unemployed or your job doesn't pay enough to provide for the children and their mothers. You blame welfare for kicking men out of the home, but why would a group of men give another group of mostly able bodied men money to feed the families the former group hand no gand in creating? Why give a woman money to feed her kids meanwhile there is a man in the home who is supposed to be working

    • @amehka5416
      @amehka5416 5 місяців тому

      That's a lie and it's Black Americans.

  • @Bjcrypto545
    @Bjcrypto545 Рік тому +6

    Phrankonero is highly efficient in using the "block technology". Thats why i like him. No time for SHIT😊

  • @VG61
    @VG61 Рік тому +16

    I LOVE you firmness and a no nonsense attitude towards, those who are disrespectful.

  • @FreeTraderFREEMAN
    @FreeTraderFREEMAN Рік тому +7

    Thanks bro. Vet your partners before getting involved in relationships... I have learned it the hard way.

    • @obaaAkos02
      @obaaAkos02 Рік тому

      I totally agree but some people can fake it. They will pretend for us all long they think they need too, then the mask comes off as soon as they "reach their goal." Only God truy knows the heart men / women.

  • @ojongnkiri9318
    @ojongnkiri9318 3 місяці тому +1

    So true! It happens when we throw away our culture and embrace someone else's. African women please let's stand by our men.

  • @tochukwucasmir6066
    @tochukwucasmir6066 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for truth

  • @ronalddowdell9231
    @ronalddowdell9231 4 місяці тому +1

    Good day brother. You've touched on the Willie Lynch letter. In this letter, it outlined how the white slave master can divide the black man and woman. They did it by putting one against the other; by skin color (light vs dark) and by pitting young vs old against each other. We see all of the above today. We also see native Africans being pitted against African Americans.

  • @aminumohammed2957
    @aminumohammed2957 Рік тому +13

    Franco, this video is one of, if not the most insightful you have made in my opinion, especially on your comment about black kids going into crime due to lack of father figures. This is a rack and evidence based.

    • @tashaw3636
      @tashaw3636 Рік тому

      What statistics are you basing this on?. Black Father's are very prevalent and they actually make the best most involved dad's based on statistical analysis. I live in rural America and I can tell you by far the amount of white dad's that are absent is astounding bc they are hooked on drugs badly. Africans always hating on Black Americans even though you come here and ride on everything we fought for during civil rights era.

    • @a.m.icadete7578
      @a.m.icadete7578 Рік тому

      When other races of children go into crime, what's the reason you use? Because, I would invite you to visit the North of England then let me know why those white fathers are unable to stop their children from going into crime

    • @97VIRTUESHEART
      @97VIRTUESHEART 8 місяців тому

      Even the ones with father figure till end up in committing crime. Blackmen love committing crime and Nigeria is an example

  • @claude6480
    @claude6480 Рік тому +1

    👍👍👍Great Discussion big up yourself 👍👍👍

  • @brokert2193
    @brokert2193 Рік тому +6

    Well done! Enjoyed, agree but sad! I remember meeting a Nigeria here in USA. I asked him what part of Africa he was from. He reluctantly said Nigeria as he hurried off after I told him I was part Nigerian. I didn’t understand why until now after watching this video. Yeah, we have much work to do…

  • @adebiyicharles4931
    @adebiyicharles4931 Рік тому +1

    True talk blooda .........wetin my eyez dey see my mouth no fit talk......the entitlement blackmail despite huge financial disparity between her and me while still conditioned to pick a larger chunk of the fam bills......eventhough the hustle was secured by the man in his own same work space ......

  • @benjaminonyema3039
    @benjaminonyema3039 Рік тому +1

    The day I see any pastor in my house he or she will explain better I told my wife already bro you have said it all

  • @jacquedelsol3347
    @jacquedelsol3347 Рік тому +2

    Also read "the iceman inheritance: prehistoric sources of western man's racism" by michael bradley

  • @haddynyass743
    @haddynyass743 Рік тому +1

    Hej all this things you saying this them.i iive europe since when am 20 by marriage, live in London. After move to sweden by marriage again. I believing in marriage, but always some to marriage and distroy it. After i devorce again the worst time if my life. The one that make speekless is when one woman told me not to let my daughter to meet her father I said whaaat, do you kmow how lthese two are soo close daughter and father. This my daughter was spending all christmas and sommer holiday today. They always teasing, calling me madame i dont understand their spupidlity. All women oooooh. Thankyou for your content thankyou Franklin
    I speek wollof to my and is soo good at it ❤❤

  • @peppa257
    @peppa257 7 місяців тому +1

    A “Culture”, does not justify abuse-

  • @peterbalighwa9534
    @peterbalighwa9534 Рік тому +2

    Phankleen, you’re not only a VERY INTELLIGENT & HUMOROUS African brother but you’ve indeed done a lot of social experimentations on humans as a whole I can tell. Please don’t stop giving us this content. I hold back on watching Netflix a whole weekend just to watch your content instead.

  • @rachealkibaiya7593
    @rachealkibaiya7593 Рік тому

    Hi Phranklin

  • @Phrankleen13
    @Phrankleen13  Рік тому +2

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  • @donaldstanley4261
    @donaldstanley4261 Рік тому

    Thank you brother great points lack of identity is a big problem with us black people from Australia

    • @nwoke.ezu.ike_until_death
      @nwoke.ezu.ike_until_death Рік тому

      Everyone is accusing and referring to others, however, do you identify with your blackness in Australia?

  • @LIBGamer
    @LIBGamer Рік тому +5

    As soon as these African women starts making little bit of money, the respect goes out the door.

    • @wozanawewoz979
      @wozanawewoz979 Рік тому +5

      That's for all the races of women

    • @khadhrikhan1549
      @khadhrikhan1549 Рік тому +9

      Do not get it twisted. Respect was never there. It was fear and hate hidden under fake smile.

    • @khadhrikhan1549
      @khadhrikhan1549 Рік тому +8

      And to be honest, how many men learn beyong how to stick it in?
      How many men take the responsibility
      to improve their consciousness?
      to learn how to choose a wife?
      to learn how to lead a family?
      to learn how to create an atmosphere of love and peace in their home ?
      At the end of the day, a well brought up woman, a woman who has reach adulthood, a woman who wants to be a wife will submit to a wise and loving husband.

    • @RA-ms3je
      @RA-ms3je 11 місяців тому +3

      True. Because they feel voiceless and have noticed that men only respect women when you are financially independent.
      For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction .You treat us like we are your slaves who have no right to our humanity

  • @samolu5367
    @samolu5367 Рік тому +1

    52:37 I am always proud to tell everyone one when they ask me about my religion and I tell them I dont have any, even though I was born a Christian.

  • @majackslelo827
    @majackslelo827 Рік тому +2

    That’s real talk💯🫡

  • @kingamar8780
    @kingamar8780 Рік тому +9

    Absolutely .....Alot of our people have sold out to their oppressors. The best thing is to quickly identify their treacherous ways and keep them at Arms length!

  • @chinsokamusona542
    @chinsokamusona542 Рік тому +1

    Yes, l can hear you

  • @martinmensah693
    @martinmensah693 4 місяці тому +1

    Love this brother! I don’t care what anyone says but Subscribe!!!!!

  • @afolabiadedayo6558
    @afolabiadedayo6558 Рік тому +8

    Agreed iam in an interacial marraige but I still try to walk in my truth!!!
    If I go to my wifes family garthering,I am proud of my heritage and almost the loudest in the room.
    Some time ago,I was invited to be a Jury member in a case involving an African.
    I blatantly refuse because I wont be part of the machinery to JAIL my kind!!!!NEVER!!!

    • @thegoodgirl6935
      @thegoodgirl6935 Рік тому +19

      Next time go my brother. You might have been his only hope. Your voice counts. B1

  • @chritopherherrera2349
    @chritopherherrera2349 Рік тому +2

    Wow! This is deep.

  • @sheriffshobowale8742
    @sheriffshobowale8742 Рік тому +4

    black man tends to be at fault too, as he does not self educate himself only self pity, the financial markets is a digital representation of the economy.

  • @princeogbimi5650
    @princeogbimi5650 Рік тому +1

    All facts.

  • @UrbanWiseWifey
    @UrbanWiseWifey Рік тому +1

    True

  • @juanitaraiyemo7707
    @juanitaraiyemo7707 Рік тому +2

    I have not heard u in a while. U are so right about America. I am born & raised here, married to a urba man. Love him he is a wonderful man. I was 30:09 afraid to marry him bcz I am older then him & but I love him. My mother & father were married 40 yrs. Now both deceased. I am glad I took a chance. U are right America wants to destroy Black families.

    • @sarahnamazzi8855
      @sarahnamazzi8855 Рік тому

      True. Whites want to destroy white families, but nobody can destroy your family without you the couples consent.
      Many African cultures have alot of toxicity towards women, which they call culture. This plays a big roll when they come to the west.

    • @nightwishisthegreatestband6355
      @nightwishisthegreatestband6355 11 місяців тому

      Black families collapsed because of the incompetence of the men, which forced the women to be mostly independent from them or risk starving to death

  • @opheliad7452
    @opheliad7452 Рік тому +6

    Thank you for always speaking the truth. I appreciate you. I got a question how do i join Ifa spirituality. I am interested i want to practice it but dont know how to go about it. I love it. Ever since you did reading for me i think about it daily and it interests me.

  • @judithdouglasbey5444
    @judithdouglasbey5444 Рік тому +2

    There is something behind AFRO BEATS... I'm AMERICAN. we know!!!!

  • @mmmotives7452
    @mmmotives7452 6 місяців тому

    Yessir@🎉❤

  • @gerrywhyte
    @gerrywhyte Рік тому

    Thank you for your talk. I want to add something. the system is more cruel to men than women. I swear bros!

    • @khadhrikhan1549
      @khadhrikhan1549 Рік тому +1

      That's a fact. More reason why the men, the fathers, the husbands must improve their ability to lead, love and protect. There is a war going on and we cannot afford to have broken and weakened families.

  • @Ondolite
    @Ondolite 4 місяці тому

    My experience of modern African women in UK, as a black man is frightening.
    Not like they were.

  • @Lulu-po3kn
    @Lulu-po3kn 4 місяці тому

    Phrankleen, African men also need some teaching. Many African men marry good women but mistreat them so badly, I'm an African woman and I have seen this over and over again. Why do they think that as soon as a woman becomes a wife it's the time to start mistreating her. The women leave these toxic relationships, move on with their children, struggle through life and managed to stand on their feet. The men come later to apologize and claim "I don't know why I was doing it".

  • @richardoki8528
    @richardoki8528 3 місяці тому

    Good Lesson For Men

  • @gerardonochie3408
    @gerardonochie3408 Рік тому

    @Phrankleen U no go kill pesin. ( Those you mentioned coming from backyard to as if you can use IFA to help them ) then your reaction with your hand on your face made me laugh. I agree with a lot of what you have said. The level inferiority complex is astonishing.

  • @awalimohammed5300
    @awalimohammed5300 Рік тому

    That’s true that’s what is going on in the U.A.S

  • @LiliansGardens
    @LiliansGardens Рік тому +3

    Oh yes their target audience are our impressionable young girls. It's sad. I pray for a good daughter in law ...a black queen.

    • @brofrombrum8502
      @brofrombrum8502 Рік тому +1

      What if your son falls in love with a good non-black woman- Will you embrace her too?

    • @khadhrikhan1549
      @khadhrikhan1549 Рік тому

      Henry Joyeux, always said in his published work "be the partner you pray for"
      What I am saying intentionnally build the young girls around you, find time and volunteer in mentoring programmes. Be it daughters, nieces, cousins, the neighbours' girl, young girls in your community etc.
      Each one, must reach one.

  • @zainabcarter5894
    @zainabcarter5894 11 місяців тому +1

    Please I have emailed several times about divination but no response

  • @joycemwangi9452
    @joycemwangi9452 Рік тому +1

    Kenyan woman❤❤❤

  • @sarfinalove3947
    @sarfinalove3947 11 місяців тому

    I would say they want to know your business so they can compare their to yours to see if their life is better than yours. They couldn't give a darn about what you are going through.

  • @margyiphillips4931
    @margyiphillips4931 11 місяців тому

    What is the name of the biker group?

  • @tashaw3636
    @tashaw3636 Рік тому +4

    My cousin married an African woman, paid dowery to her family they had a lavish wedding and a child. 3 yrs into the marriage she made his life a living hell. Hes a black American and hes a Teacher. This African girl lied on him, got him fired from his job, put in jail then got him for child support. Refused to let him see his child. Now hes remarried to black American couldn't be happier.

    • @faridahkamya8225
      @faridahkamya8225 Рік тому +5

      One side of the story,lol

    • @tashaw3636
      @tashaw3636 Рік тому

      @@faridahkamya8225 yes that is true I'm sure he wasn't without fault.

  • @akinsolaagbebi5754
    @akinsolaagbebi5754 Рік тому

    can you do a video sharing your opinion on dangote refinery? am i right in thinking its a positive milestone

  • @japhya0378
    @japhya0378 Рік тому +2

    Hey Phrankleen....

    • @Phrankleen13
      @Phrankleen13  Рік тому

      What's up?

    • @japhya0378
      @japhya0378 Рік тому +1

      @@Phrankleen13 Just wanted you to know how much I enjoy your videos, your love for your people and your love for IFA

  • @ninasam7085
    @ninasam7085 Рік тому +5

    Go both ways some women and some men

    • @Phrankleen13
      @Phrankleen13  Рік тому +13

      In this livestream…. We addressed the women.

  • @hossana192g2
    @hossana192g2 Рік тому +1

    Why are some African women living in the Diaspora selfish?
    Simple reason is :
    Since Hunters have learnt to shoot without missing, Birds have learnt to fly without perching !
    Figure that out .

  • @edithyuba2159
    @edithyuba2159 Рік тому

    Phrankleen do u know how to speak pidgin English?

  • @ehgbyu
    @ehgbyu Рік тому +1

    Hi Phrankleen, it's Barbara. I'm sad but mo ma se suru 😅. I'll keep awaiting your reply to my email. Warm regards to your family.

  • @valentinenkem9193
    @valentinenkem9193 Рік тому +2

    Many foreigners are in love with fufu.

  • @tgirl4me1
    @tgirl4me1 Рік тому +4

    I hope you’re talking about men the way you are women. Although i came here based on the title which doesnt seem fair and balanced.
    You need to speak about what men do too. They're mostly not innocent.

  • @allajioakland7160
    @allajioakland7160 Рік тому +2

    "There is so much of undue pressure on man's shoulders". It is what it is. I pray for every MAN to have the Wisdom to lead his family the right way. Over time- Evil isnt gender specific. When your wife family knows she is the provider; its even the father-in-law the one to kick the husband out of the marriage for not being the provider of his family.

    • @anonymousanonymous870
      @anonymousanonymous870 Рік тому +5

      The patriarchal religions and systems put the that pressure on your shoulders, not the women's faults

    • @khadhrikhan1549
      @khadhrikhan1549 Рік тому

      But I would blame whoever brings the inside info to the father in law....the family income must be protected info.

    • @nightwishisthegreatestband6355
      @nightwishisthegreatestband6355 11 місяців тому

      ​@@khadhrikhan1549not if the man is not providing without sufficient reason like a disability.

    • @nightwishisthegreatestband6355
      @nightwishisthegreatestband6355 11 місяців тому

      If you can't provide for a family then don't bother having a family. This is simple logic.

  • @akaniofmzansi4205
    @akaniofmzansi4205 Рік тому +3

    Never take ur woman to the west brothers 😂😂😂

  • @arifmerghani7631
    @arifmerghani7631 Рік тому +1

    I like how you tell the truth this is very true what your saying phrankleen women change when they come to the west

    • @anonymousanonymous870
      @anonymousanonymous870 Рік тому +9

      Maybe they changed ,because the way they were treated back home lack of opportunities in Africa like a education, on top of that these women are to deal with polygamy, FGM, abuse, the men make sure to get their wives pregnant back to back. These men believe that they are exempted to help with the raising of the children and help with household chores. Remember the same west you people like to blame, fought hard to put themselves and their women on top of the food pyramid. I don't understand why African men be it in the motherland or other parts of the world don't want to do the same .

    • @bibaolaitan5189
      @bibaolaitan5189 Рік тому +2

      Change or have better opportunity to leave an abusive partner.

    • @bibaolaitan5189
      @bibaolaitan5189 Рік тому +2

      @@anonymousanonymous870 👏👏👏...

  • @akinsolaagbebi5754
    @akinsolaagbebi5754 Рік тому

    are you on tiktok

  • @jacklyneverage3881
    @jacklyneverage3881 4 місяці тому +1

    Typically, people don't rebel from what they think is a good deal. You're describing symptoms of a deeper problem. The deeper problem is Black men in the West have little to no power compared to the white patriarchy in the West, Patriarchy is a dying status that even White women are against to the point of white men complaining, and many Black men often bow down to White men and then top that with problematic views on how they treat their women thinking it's the traditional African way and not a colonized African mindset adopting unhealthy views of women from the Arabs and Europeans via their religions and cultural influences. Yes, there is internalized racism, but there is not a counter pro black movement of significance in the UK that promotes Black excellence , a unified Black singular identity and commitment to each other. Furthermore, if Black women are weaponized against BM in the UK by using the legal system, Black men are weaponized against Black women and children in the UK through criminality and helping to be destructive elements of the Black community via gangs, drug use, drug selling, sex trafficking, and so on. Both groups will be used against one another and the Black community. So, both sides need to get it together.

  • @cmichael2967
    @cmichael2967 Рік тому +1

    I don't see how this is a problem. African women in diaspora selfish? Then I ain't taking my wife to live in diaspora. Case closed. Simple problem. Simple solution.

  • @ebubeemmanuel6231
    @ebubeemmanuel6231 Рік тому +1

    Phrankleen all of this women came from poverty stricken dysfunctional family, that is why they re so smart in inflicting pains on there husband. Jealousy envious evil competitor towards the husband