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“Don’t save her, she don’t wanna be saved”
One time for a nigga who know
Nailed it
or don't save her, she will use you as a step ladder to monkey branch to a higher quality man as soon as she can!
The reason why men are suffering so much today because it's their own fault
@@JahannamHellfire it's society's fault.
"It's impossible, as a man, *who was raised right,* to be a feminist."
- Bill Burr
It is impossible for a man to be a feminist. Those who are feminists are not men.
I am. I believe there should equality of gender in most part of our society. Why not?
@@GuilhermeSantos-hd6kl well yeah if we’re talking pre 2000 feminism I would agree with you, but after that it’s just laughable what the ideology was turned into. equal rights and pay, as long as the work required for that pay is equal to a mans obviously I can get behind.
Even the earlier feminist waves didn't fight for actual equality.
@@GuilhermeSantos-hd6kl Because genders aren't equal and are deeply and fundamentally different.
Exactly what I lived. Especially with one of my ex girlfriends. She kept repeating that she was so lucky to have finally met a guy like me, sweet and very intelligent, and that I was so different and so much better than other men. She had met mostly abusive men. But I started to realise that it's what she liked. And that she was very abusive too. She liked to be at war with her boyfriends. First she seemed to like that I was a nice guy. But actually that meant that she could abuse me, always asking me to do things for her, for example. I owed her that. Because she was a victim. I was meant to help her, to make her happy. All the time. To save her. But worst than that, she started to despise me, saying "you're just a nice guy" and humiliating me. According to her, bad guys deserved to be loved because they suffered not to be loved, that's why they were violent, rapist, etc. Not their fault. They just needed love. But me? I didn't need love, I didn't need help, I didn't deserve her to make efforts for me like I made for her, because I was so nice, so strong, so intelligent, so brave.
Ayn Rand wrote extensively about this, highly recommended
I learned: listen to your guts man. If you do all these things, listen. If something there tells you no, don‘t do it. Stick to yourself and your value🤙🏼
that's the problem you need to be love...need...you need to love yourself first and have a good relanshiosip with yourself first and you will fix many things and you will be that godly man...you do not need love from others you need love from yourself...
@@king489 It sounds nice to say you do not need love from others, but in reality, it's a basic human need, just like water.
@@king489 That's obvious, I know it very well... (And in reality it's a little bit more complicated than you were told, like tmBabylove said.)
Always remember, she doesn’t love you the way you want her to. Remain vigilant
Iron rule number 6
Funny I tell myself the same when it comes to guys
she doesnt love u at all, she is just manipulating you to get what she wants out of you -> attention, sexual attention/validation, favours. Simply everything that she can get from u feeling overly positive towards her or being in love with her.
@@justraika I'm a guy and ive heard women say those exact same words.
Its kind of interesting to watch society reverse the power dynamic slightly. I do hope that in the end men and women both learn to sympathize and appreciate each others struggles and successes sincerely without envy or malice.
@@Yagshemesch what would it take to convince you otherwise?
Girl: "You're not like other guys"
Translation : you're not my type
There I just save you time that could be better spent on your craft/hobby.
Honestly thanks 😅
A true bro
Thanks
Amen
Thank u sir
Woman: “you’re different from other men”
Man: “I know”
Woman: “I love you”
Man: “I love me, too”.
great.
I've said I love me too a great deal of times. And it keeps getting funnier every time I've said it.
😁
That's the proper response.
🤣🤣
Her: "You're different than other men."
Him: "How?"
Her: "You keep sitting down to pee."
a true Sayian always sprinkles when he tinkles!
@@user-tw5si4tr3q 👍👍👍👍
haha
😂
Him: "saves my shoes 🤷♂️" xD
You just described the majority of women in their 20s....full of bad choices and judgment only for good men to deal with these issues and suffer
Best not to deal with them at all
Women in their 20's? Disagree, women in general, even when they become older they really DO NOT change..
Good thing I'm an asshole
Agreed. Young girls don't have time for good guys.
Some older women do seem to recognize what good guys bring to the table.
But who wants an older woman?
Meh.
@@breakingthemasks they do that when alot of emotional baggage has accumulated.... Do you wanna go through the therapist job for a dry vag?
A "nice guy" is just a guy without any self-respect.
There's nothing wrong with being nice. The problem is not having self-respect.
Also idealizing women, thinking that they're perfect or can do no wrong will get you in heaps of trouble.
Being willing to give up your own morals and compromise to please her, aka being a yesman or spineless, is also problematic.
@@timothyn4699 True, true.
That's why you set boundaries for yourself and for others.
Women don’t usually fall for ‘nice’ guys anyway, we can see through the act and it comes across as super in-genuine and creepy. That being said, complete dickheads and guys who try so hard to put on an ‘alpha’ front are also gross, just don’t give a f about anything and work on yourself with a good heart and good intentions (that you keep hidden under masculinity 👀👀). To guys it probably looks like a ‘jerk’ guy is just a jerk, but usually they have an underside that if you (the woman) can access after making a genuine human connection is extremely dignifying and rewarding. It’s way better to have a soft and nice side that you show girls you’re interested in occasionally (BUT ONLY ON OCCASSION TO MAKE IT SPECIAL AND SHOW THAT YOU ARE A GOOD HUMAN PERSON). We may complain about masculine qualities but they’re actually really attractive 😳🥴🥴
@@xnhuvv My BS detector is going off right now. I'm not even sure where to begin...
This is 100%. Ex used to complain about her abusive exes all the time. Said I was different! Well after we've broken up I'm now in that category of abusive men too
I'm experiencing this right now!
Lol that’s what they all do. They’re never the “problem” in their case.
No surprise there.
LOL, same. Abusive boyfriends, then at the end she said, you are like all other guys nothing special. Oh boo hoo.
ALWAYS note how woman talks about her exes because you will be lumped on the same category afterwards.
a woman told me this once but it was because i didn't take any sh!t from women. she told me she dated men who lacked masculinity until now. it's important to ask why she's telling you you're different
Norman, don't you DARE talk about women like that. What would mother say?!
Yes sir
Norman...NORMAN!!!
How they lacked masculinity though
@@juniorninjaman865 they are not assertive and are people pleasers
I'm presently getting a divorce. My wife was coming from an abusive relationship. I thought if i showed her love and kindness everything would be ok. Boy was i wrong. She crave abuse and arguments and when she don't get it she abused me. I took us to marriage therapy 3 times and she refuse to continue everytime. The worst part is she was the one who gave me notice. Now I'm so happy. I'm silently thanking her everyday. Since then I've been following your teaching and it's helping me to choose better the next time around.
There are, unfortunately, a lot of women like this. They crave drama and arguments. The sadder thing is, they're not self-reflective enough to realize it. They genuinely believe they want love and kindness, but time after time, they treat the loving, kind man like a doormat. They never seem to learn that they want to be treated poorly, in a dysfunctional relationship.
Save your sanity and study Codependency Recovery and Narcissism.
The best choice is GYOW (Go Your Own Way).
Sorry to hear that, I had a similar situation. I learned a lot from Dr. Shawn Smith's book, Tactical Guide to Women. He covers traits to look for and avoid in detail.
I was in a similar relationship. Broken women are broken women. The better you treat them, the worse they treat you. You will not fix a broken woman by treating her with love and kindness. They will either see that as weakness or get irritated that you don't give them the drama they crave.
Had a woman that I went out with in high school my senior year which was 19 years ago match me on a dating app. She said she remembered how much of gentleman I was and how kind , my response was dont insult me like that again and if she was expecting flowers and anything other than sex it wasn't going to happen. Her response "Sounds like you grew up"
@Zukka 88 puts things in perspective doesn't it?
Dick move. Not being nice does not mean flaunting being an ass.
Women are sick in the head
Yeah, being single is looking real good right now. I just don't want to deal.
Same dude
Wait till you start friendzoning them
Kunjani
"Here are all the men I like to sleep with. You are different."
Enough said.
Wish I had seen this earlier. My last girlfriend said early on "I've really only ever dated assholes" and continually said "I've never dated anyone like you". It ended as badly as the red flags indicated it would. Unfortunately I ignored them.
Yep. She also got her back blown out by those "assholes" at every chance she had. She loved it. Enter YOU, the nice guy. Usually she gets "bored" with guys like you and you eventually get "red pilled". You become indifferent, you read into women things that may or may not be true, but you can't help it.
You will find a "good woman", but usually she's "good" out of the necessity of age. You get an aged "grown up" woman who is out of options.
It's called idealisation. It's part of the idealisation / devaluation cycle.
Another one is "Why are you so good to me?"
That's a symptom of narcissism. Run, Forrest, run!
@@corporaterobotslave400 Damn straight my friend. Don't ask me how I know...
Whoh, id love to hear about this
@@hectornonayurbusiness2631 Google search "covert narcissist"
Her: "You are different than others."
Me: "I know. But you are not"
Wow!
Based
This man spitting nothing but pure facts
Exactly this happened to me. I thought it was a good thing...then she left.
She wanted to continue riding the carousel. Girls have too many options nowadays and their Egos are grotesque
Whats also dangerous?
A woman saying : "You're the love of my life"
I wonder if she would say those same words when your wallet is empty
Man if you could compile all your discoveries of gender dynamics in one book... il buy that book in heartbeat
@SirStukov better to know the truth than living a lie
@@LurchiDerLurch17 if you don't know the truth you will suffer for sure.
Female: "you're different from other men"
Me: What gave it away? My unique fingerprints? iris prints? voice patterns? genetic profile?
We have iris prints? I didn’t know that
@@marlom7882 that what they look for in those spy movies scanning an eye to allow access
J KM that’s blood vessel patterns
Her extensive collection of DNA imprints
I've never been caring for women. I'm caring because I think that's how I want to be treated. I'm caring because that should be this world works. Care and respect. But apparently, we're still stuck in our biological trap. I thought humans were intelligent. When you talk to women, you're talking to the DNA itself.
I've learned over the years through my experiences that if you really want to get to know someone, take a look at who they hang out with. There is truth to "You are judged by the company you keep."
“Love is a gross exaggeration of the difference between one person and everybody else" -- George Bernard Shaw
As Alexander says, when women make comparisons between other guys and one is a super red flag. She has made bad choices. A woemn has to recognize that she has made bad choices, and belive me lots of them do not recognize it.
So essentially the same bs as when they say "im not like other girls" 😂
Add “with you” at the end of that phrase tho.
It could also be woman speak for "I don't respect you but I'll let you be an orbiter"
Even worse, "my kids really love you".
I would’ve stopped seeing her the moment she mentioned kids.
@@misterpantherman7678 same bro
A woman with kids? NO THANKYOU!!!
@Darius Mcneill thing is I liked her kids more than her.
Even worse, "my other boyfriend really loves you". Your 'feminine' side.
I've been told this even though I wasn't trying to get in her pants or be liked by her.
I too thought it was positive and that it meant that i'm wise and disciplined. She even said it with a tone of admiration.
Good to know that it says more about her than me.
Same.. good I was never interested in this girl lmao
This is spot on and happened to me. And I quote: "I've never met anyone like you in my entire life.! Then a bunch of affirming traits confirming my unicorn status. Didn't stop her from treating me like every other guy when it came time for "new excitement" though. ;)
I’ve been in many relationships with women who said that. A lot of those did end up being cheaters, but not all of them. I think what happens is exactly what you said, they seek out jerks because it tricks their brains into thinking those guys must be high value and it sets up a validation reward for them to chase. So when they finally develop an attraction for a guy who isn’t like that, it seems different and confusing. Like it’s new territory they don’t know what to do with. And they’ll say the same as what a lot of people are reporting in the comments here.. “I’m so lucky, I’ve never had a guy who treats me like this” etc. They aren’t lying. They’re genuinely happy even if they eventually cave into their nature and seek out jerks.
Having said all that.. I don’t know if other guys are the same but I’ve noticed a tendency in myself to value women who don’t want me over women who do. It’s something I have to actively resist and push through to start a new relationship. So I think both sexes have the exact same tendencies.. it’s just women seem to think their failures are men’s fault, where as most guys I think are eventually able to correctly identify their choosing preferences as being the problem.
the first time a girl made a similar statement to me was in middle school, ill never forget it, she was cute but i wasnt into her, she said to me that im "husband material", it sounded positive but i knew something was off about it, i just didnt know what, i didnt forget it and only knew when i was in my early 20s. women know what they want and they do most of the choosing
Thanks for this comment!
As a man, you'll be happier in the long run with a woman who wants you. She'll be more loyal than a woman who is always on the lookout for a better man.
So what are we supposed to do if she tells you this?
@@maelperron_guerra4946 Nothing, just keep doing what you’re doing as long as things are escalating physically between you. If things aren’t escalating and you see another guy around “just a friend” then you should detach from her and move on. Which could actually make her fall in love with you. But in my experience if you try to cash in on that she’ll just go right back to where she was so it’s better to just enjoy the attention she gives you but keep her at arms length.
You are right dude the reasons ARE DEPRESSING
This channel is pure gold. Every man *and* every woman should watch your videos. Great insights.
Greetings from Europe.
Had a woman tell me this who went on to ghost me. What I decided she meant after is that I wasn't like her exes and therefore type. I remember telling a mate she sort of said it in a negative tone and I said to him that it has to be good as they were exes. We are done now... guess she wasn't ready 🤷♂️.
This could have helped me 3 years ago. I know this now, needed this then. Hope someone understand this earlier.
Bhai, what happened 3 years ago?
@@rationalsamrat3247 gf cheated on me with 4 guys.
@@CringeDealer69 brooo........
@Mayur Tupe, bhai... It's her choice. You have a choice too....to not repeat the same mistake
@@saurabhvaishnav2038 I hope you are trolling.
My current girlfriend of 2.5 months said this to me. Can being "special" be said from a different place? Or from a nuance of different reasons? I believe it can, but I would like to know what others and Alexander think of this. And yes, while it feels nice to hear it, I sought no such validation, nor do I let it get to me. I did not double down on my compassionate side nor did I change how I am to her.
She told me "You're not your typical bad boy. You're caring and compassionate to me. You're... different." But I do believe that I fill the bad boy criteria, hence why she said I am atypical. And because of my character overall, as opposed to her dating pool prior to me. I'm strict and dominant when I feel like being or when I feel like I need to be (she loves this, and its low key the dynamics we bought sought, as we are very compatible sexually) but I also give her patience, compassion, understanding and empathy. However she knows that my love for her is conditional and that I have expectations and criterias I am not willng to bend or be flexible on. That I believe in eye for an eye and will repay hurt with hurt, and love with love. Nothing is without consequence, be it good or bad. As it should go for the both of us.
I think reciprocity is key. You should give back what you are given and not more than that. The balance of power and desire should never favor one partner greatly, or ideally, at all. And if i should, let that be you.
Currently the 2.5 months that I have with her are very special. But I no longer enter honeymoon phases. We vibe well as friends, and are both thinking of children one day. Unlike my past experiences, this girl has never resorted to manipulation to get what she wants, and I scrutinize and continue to scrutinize her at every step of the way. So far, she checks out wonderfully.
You seem to be on a good path as yourself said you're aware of the risks and can stand for yourself, keep on the good work many men including myself would give everything for a relation as healthy as yours😉👍
Just ask why she is telling you're different.
@@joao_1986
Thank you João. I really hope I am as lucky as I seem to be. I'm rooting for you too.
@@cayden2744 I did, and the quoted part that I wrote was the reason why upon further inquiry. I will ask some more though. Certainly want to get a hold of all the possible angles.
@@ivansalamon7028 I never had a girlfriend so i would like to know your advice on that
Woman: "You are different from other men".
Option 1: "Well, i used to be a woman".
Option 2: "Of course i'm different. I'm gay".
Thanks
Option 3: I used to be a frog 🐸
@Ig Hanchks i taught you where a road 😂
Option 4: "I used to be an adventurer like you until I took an arrow to the knee"
@@Founder6087 That's why my knees look like big pumpkins these days ... Too many arrows :D
low quality people don't understand high quality action
@Kubo Koko ‼️‼️🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 *SPEAK!!!!*
True
An acquaintance told me "if a girl dates you she would be so lucky! I bet you'd be the perfect boyfriend". Never felt so insulted.
Thanks for the tips and all the work you put in to make these videos brother
Man, this channel is soo dark, Alexander its like a BATMAN of relationship advice...
You think this is dark?
this is dark for you? Kids nowadays... 😂
Lol you think this is dark? hahahhaha no offense but I listen to Alex to hear the light side perspective, the OTHER people I listen to are very much nihilistic compared to him.
I think alex is very positive compared to other redpill channels, but what he says is true though
@@ralx225b you listen to Dr. BoA?
If She tells you that...it's oveeer
Never started
But:
-Most men don't understand women
-You help us to understand women
-then she might realize we are also different to other men, then isn't that a red flag ? Sounds a bit like a paradox.
Most women won’t see masculine, confident men as “you’re different”. They will either view them as like a super-alpha or be repelled by them because they sense this man can’t be controlled. You won’t get the same reaction as he’s describing.
@@bmardiney Cannot agree more. I have experienced the reaction of being replled because I can't be controlled. Thank god I am able to detect this!
@@bmardiney no wonder I'm single. LOL
Bro, 7:45
Acknowledging that what she is saying isn't what she means. Men don't understand women, but if you live your life the way you want to, you don't have to..
Every Mig tow Pick Up Artist knows that there's magic phrases... Doesn't take much to understand that's a two-way street
Share
Then share them haha
Magic phrases hahaha dont make me laugh
True
@@conor3361 DUH..."MY OTHER LAMBORGHINI IS IN THE SHOP" lol
my bank acct got so big i opened my own bank...
should i continue?
Sadly when it comes to relationships use yours brain not your heart
You're different, you're unique, you're special. Omg you're perfect & "not like my ex"
Gets dumped & basically cheated on repeatedly two months later.
It's amazing how intricately these concepts & my personal experiences & so many I see on this channel - fit together.
The key is to find out why they think you're different. I'm an introvert (but I'm not shy). Women sometimes say I'm different because I am not always trying to sell them on how great I am, I tend to talk about important things rather than small talk, I actually listen to them and respond to what they say, I challenge them or ask for clarification on their ideas, etc. Some tend to think I am mysterious. Early on if I think I want to continue dating a woman I explain that I am an introvert and what they can expect. This does no good. They think because I am not shy that I am not an introvert- I'm just mysterious. One woman on the first date told me she was certain I was not an introvert because I commented that she was more attractive in person than her pictures (by the way I was being honest so I assume she could tell I was being honest). In case you're wondering it is pretty great being mysterious without even trying.
Being mysterious only leads to being alone anyways
If she is attracted to you, you are mysterious. If she is repulsed by you, you are a loner
"You're not like other men."
"I feel so safe around you."
Also her: I want nothing to do with you romantically.
Me: Aight, bet.
This was the situation I had with the only girl I've ever loved.
Met a girl later on who I didn't treat nearly as well, who despite the fact that I cared for her, I simply didn't love her. She still calls me years later trying to get me back together.
So whats te difference between you and the first girl? Its not a gender thing. Some people just dont go for easy ones.
@@shayshay-reb i see a patern in the manosphera and myself. I think that we are becoming bitchy
@@MrOcote-gp9fu Exactly, theres gonna be no difference between some men and "whiny" feminists as time goes. I'm not against it tho, Men are oppressed in many ways. This is a good thing to keep them woke and safe.
@@shayshay-reb i am trying to break the cycle and becoming the uberman like Nietzsche have said
@SirStukov What you wrote is so insane. That's their logic. It may seem to 90% of the population (who are blue pilled) that relationships are where you lay your guards dowm, take your shield off. Where you're safe to say/feel/do whatever you want cause your partner is there for you. But, it's actually the opposite if you wanna keep that attraction. You must be on your guard, stay vigilant. Be aware for sh*t tests. It's insane. You're on duty 24-7. What kind of life is that?
"if you dont love me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best"
NO! no one has to endure your worst traits, unconditional love is only reserved for children and pets, not adults
Even your second statement is questionable...
Love this! You're not like other dating coaches
Why are so so good to me? - Is also a huge red flag.
I've had women who said that, because I really am like no other man. None of them stayed. Sooner or later, they all tried to make me like other men, because they were still geared towards chasing male stereotypes. Making me like other men, or forcing me to fit a stereotype, of course never works, which of course is highly frustrating, which of course makes the woman hate me.
Am a female and I genuinely enjoy your content ❤️❤️ keep it up my G
Okay this is good but can I clarify one thing? There is a difference between a woman who says, "You aren't like other guys I've dated or spent time with in the past" versus, "You aren't like other guys that I've come across just living in society"
Meaning a woman can recognize that man is a good man and that doesn't mean that she's slept around or has a history of wanting bad boys. I knew my husband was different than other men just from being around guys and really from years of hearing friends complain about their boyfriends. My husband was my first boyfriend but I still knew he was different from other guys. So maybe a guy should have a woman clarify what she means when she says that. If she says something like, "Well I have 10 years of dating nothing but douchbags" then YES that is a big red flag.
Is it true that women like to complain and make drama?
@@zabiullahMONTAGES is the sky blue?
@@zabiullahMONTAGES Are you transgender?
What Alexander is basically saying is don't read too much into flattering words and pay more attention to the actions as buzzwords like this have been used implying certain things while complemented by disloyalty and disrespect. Lol
Girl : "You're not like other guys"
Translation : I'm accustomed to, attracted to and aroused by bad boys and the rollercoaster drama and chaos they bring into my life.
"If she says you're different from other men, then that means she spends most of her time being with horrible, low value, jerk guys."
This. Lesson learned.
The 'feeling' you have for nuanced phraseology interpretation, is only rivalled by your ability to explain the subtlety succinctly.
Such insight, brilliant vid. Thank you.
I was told that “other guys just want talk about themselves, so I just tune them out. You’re different.” I took it as a compliment like an idiot. The rest of the sentence was- “and when you want to talk about things important to you I will tune you out too.” Be sure to think through what a woman says, she will give you warnings if you can recognize them.
Alexander, you have no mercy to us, women. 😜 Brilliant insights as always. Keep up the good work you’re doing for men. I hope I’ll meet one day one of those high quality man. ☺️
"You have no mercy to us, women"
If you identify yourself with the kind of women he talks about on his videos, you're definitely not a high quality woman.
"You're different FROM other men" - "different TO other men" means one acts differently TOWARDS other men.
It's not that women don't like nice guys because they are nice it's that they don't like how weak they are. If you are a genuinely kind person who is also strong then that is what they really like.
I have heard things like "It's the patriarchy's fault why I'm this and that..." and I tried to believe her... Looking back I'm so glad I'm out!
It's easier for them to blame other's instead of taking responsibility for their own actions.
"you're different from other guys".... I've had both extremes.
1. I was much younger... way dumber... and craving attention from the opposite sex... ANY attention. That was the most abusive relationship I ever had. She definitely was the girl who kept bad company, and I was the exception that she wanted to use and control.
2. After I entered my 30's.... becoming much more confident in myself through advancing in my professional life... Now, I am married to a woman who is my lover, my partner, and my friend. To her, I was also still a "nice guy" and "different than others"... but she wasn't looking for a relationship as a method of "validation" for attention she had not received previously...
Gents-
Do you all think that legalizing prostitution will make a difference, considering the contemporary relationship dynamics?
Personally, I could go for a "pay to leave" scenario. The natural [physical] attraction is an ongoing drive, but it's the "back end" that [in my experience] costs me the most.
Thoughts, anyone?
Where i am from, this buisiness is legal.
I don't think it makes a difference. On top of that even in countries where its illegal, it does exist anyway...
I have some friends, which visit professionals from time to time, but i would not.
@@Laecid What country are you in [if you dont mind answering]?
I am in Germany.
The government here made it to an official job in 2002
@@Laecid Ah..thank you for replying.
Now I want to analyze the data from before it was legal/after it was legalized.
This is fascinating; I didn't know it had been legalized in Germany.
I'd like to see [personally] what the dating "market" is like there, but I wouldn't have any previous observations to base them on.
Still, it'd be interesting.
Again, thank you for replying.
In Brazil its illegal, but highly tolerated by authorities. Actually there are websites where you can get the service. There's one website famous in the city I'm in called "so cinquenta" That translates to "just fifty".
Great topic Alex! I fell for that many years ago and my ego loved hearing that - then over the course of a few years (even moreso after we had a child) I was told "you're just like all the rest" - turns out she had major sexual abuse and daddy issues - despite being a great dad after kicking her out of my life and doing 50/50 with our son she has alienated him against me. Let this be a lesson to all men who hear that phrase said to them. And by the way, being a sensitive caring nice guy was not my mating strategy (which was rarely successful) it was just who I was - I can assure you I am no longer a 'nice guy' to women (not that I'm mean to them) - after what I have been through I just don't care anymore. At age 46 my aging parents and my brainwashed alienated son deserve my time and energy more than some woman - even the nicest ones are so entitled and self deluded it's not funny. And men allowed them to get this way and continue to be so...
This type of mentality has been me by entire dating life truth be told.. Over recent years am finally starting to deprogram this mess out of my psyche.., Great video!
Sadly this has been me in a nutshell for most my life
He's a genius.
I'm gonna take my psychology degree, return to my university, and demand my money back.
Damn, watching this with the benefit of the clarity hindsight, it's funny seeing BetterHelp sponsoring such a high quality channel like this. I wonder if Alexander has ever shared his thoughts on BH post-exposure? Regardless, great video as always, man. Thank you for doing what you do. You're changing my life.
So wise. Thanks for sharing It.
Quality content like always, keep it going
Girl: "You're different from other men."
Me: "I need to poop."
What you need to find in conversations like these is a sense of self-awareness. Negative past is fine if somebody learned from it.
Brilliant observations👍
The cold hard truth is that women dont love you but love only what you are.
happy international men's day every ,wish you all the best.
Sadly, your comments ring very true in my life. It’s very depressing. Very true. Thanks for summing it all up. You have explained a lot of questions, I have had. God bless.
Alexander, I appreciate your work man... Your videos cause a great relief ..... Thanks to your content I felt the relief that only truth can give...thanks and keep up. (Greetings from Israel).
If a woman tells you men are terrible that is not based on all men but instead its about the men she chooses to spend time with. Its a red flag in the same way as someone complaining about their friends going prison.
Bruhhh the girl i was talking to said the same thing. I'm moving outta cali Saying men in cali are so damn weird. But you're different!!
It has become the standard to just project intentions and beliefs on others when you see them do something that 'sets them apart'. Do you ever consider that there might be more reasons than what you can think of?
It's just as "toxic" to tell people what others mean with what they say. The main reason our society becoming more and more stupid and apathic is because we all think we understand everyone so well while few people are actually open to the idea that what they think may be incorrect. You should really try asking people who they are, why they do things, and what they mean with what they say, the answers might surprise you.
If you don't want others to speak on your behalf and express their ideas as if they were yours, then don't speak on behalf of others.
Fair point, this vid is mostly speculation. Ideally one should have healthy skepticism and ask questions and hear it from the source on why they think such things
That said, note people can be manipulative, and won't always say what they mean. Girls particularly are known for speaking more in subtleties than directly. So as long as you're aware and careful of that, should be fine. Actions speak louder than words
That’s he said you should ask her what she means. Remember that part?
@@mattbabb. What's the whole point of imposing all this negative intention, then? He's made a entire video titled "What women ACTUALLY mean". Why make a video if all you need to be reminded of is to talk to each other? That's like having comercials for weapons and drugs but with a message to not buy it.
We're really going to start a war between men en women this way. It's not a bad thing to explain what others should look out for but you need te be carefull not to become what you hate.
Damn Alexander you hit the nail on the head and then you kept hitting it until the nail disintegrated! I too fell for this lie I was told by female friends and partners and became that and once I found your videos and some similar channels I realised how wrong I was. I commend you for sharing this to all of us men out there!
Mr. Grace! You are a treasure to humanity. Keep up the good work!
When I was young, this totally baffled me. One time I asked a woman friend saying "I don't understand. I don't think women actually want good guys." She replied "Oh, yes, women really do like good guys, we just don't want to f*ck them." Now I understand.
I remember this girl that told me those exact words. So i decided ask her "so you're trying to telling me that i need to be like everyone else? Or is there something weird about me?"
That caught her offguard and she had to explain herself what she was meaning by that. She even thought i was offended and apologized. I was never offended, i just wanted to know why she thought that way. I hate to say this, but most women truly don't think before they speak. But if you make them think, you can start finding the interesting ones among the bunch.
"you are different" is an insult. She is not seeing any positive trait in you to which she can refer. "different" means that you are worse than other men.
And immediately walk away from women who call any men "abusive". Chances are high that these are false accusations and that she will falsely accuse you, too, later on, when she does not get what she wants.
im now called "asshole" regularly. i did it!
Women fall in love and get attached to narcissistic men, no matter how beautiful, how strong those women are...get prepared mentally to be alone, cause if men are not broken/narc/bad , they are not desired. If a man is strong, gentleman, on his purpose, but treat her good- she will just use him for something: kids, resources but no love, no desire nor passion.
the irony is: I have thought it was meant vica versa. Referring to those men who are not pedastalizing the women and therefore stand out from the mass.
“In what way specifically?” Is basically the gist of the response I have to these type of comments
What an outstanding observation and explanation. The subject is supremely relevant. Thank you for covering this.
“You’re not like other men” or “you are just like every other guy” both bad things to hear, say shut your trap and enjoy the date, think about what we’re going to do when we go back to my place. Old kings don’t worry about these things, specially if we are dealing with old used up queens.
"It's a Threat"
Alexander, this is a hidden - obvious reality. Thank you for having the insight and for sharing.
Keep the good stuff up Mr. Grace, wish you all the best from Germany.
Alexander : ... there are good men and there are bad men...
Me : I want to be the baddest (No disrespect to Sir Tyson)
"...I'm looking for a guy who always tolerates the worst in me..."
Eish, I lol every time he does impersonates the types of people he talks about.
Great to have someone put these thoughts together so coherently!