Trust me, it's better that way! Since im up to live single, i learned to love myself so I don't need any woman in my life. I build muscles, i have so much money to open my own store, im so much happier than before and no woman in earth will take this away from me !
Or..have the attitude there is no higher value male. I'm not rich or anything, but I've never had trouble scoring hot looking women. I will say that it is always in real life situations..Bar..nightclub...grocery store ETC. Never ever on social media.
Rob O that’s the problem. You can “score” a hot women in a bar or night club but those aren’t even close to being decent women. A lot of us are looking for genuine people, long lasting relationships, not just a score at the club, cause that’s easy, but making it last with someone you truly have a connection with is the hard part cause everyone is either so closed off and superficial and just a shell of a human looking of validation.
Female here, Months ago I have completely deleted my Instagram and social media presence, and I agree with everything you are saying Alex. It is all just poison to our society and relationships. I now focus on the people around me and make sure to be my best self and make them happy. I refuse to be a part of this nonsense and trash
Me either it's always made me feel embarrassed and ashamed to be associated with anyone that does it. And by not doing it I don't think I'm better than anyone else, it just feels wrong. Girls will say it's just a bit of fun, but deep down it's cos they're suffering inside trying to be someone no real person cares about.
@@mrscott01 You right. BTW I never like anything on facebook. I'm not a social media fan. I only created facebook to have messenger. That's all I have and need for university groups
A fear that has been brewing inside me is that "this type of woman" will become the norm and that the oncoming generation will depreciate what is seen as "high quality traits" in men.
I've never been in a relationship with a girl being very socially active on IG/FB and I'd make sure to keep it that way. When you try to seek attention online you are a low value female. I actually had to turn down a girl I was very attraced to just because after a few dates I saw how active she was on IG posting selfies all day getting lots a beta male attention. It simply turns me off in every way possible.
i cant really stand social media interaction either, other than youtube. heck i dont even like discord, or texting, or phone calls, or even talking at the drive through. i cant properly communicate with someone if im not in front of them and it makes me uncomfortable
If you don't mind saying, is your reasoning for being turned off by that due to religious beliefs in sexual purity, or are your motivations purely secular?
@@technoloverish I think that having the constant need for validation is a red flag for when I think in long-term dating someone. I just don't want to deal with a partner having this insecurity.
Used to hangout with a girl who had 4 thousand followers on insta. I asked her how many photos she took of herself a day. She said at least 50 photos a day. I was genuinely Shocked and disturbed
Having ''choices'' or ''freedom'' doesn't mean it's good. WIthout guidance and unlimited freedom, people often make bad decisions that are hard to change later in life.
@@enriquezacur7252 exactly, that's why capitalism is worse then socialism or capitalism, in the later two regimes, less possibilities and opportunities lead to less bad decisions being made thus overall, from long term perspective it's better People in modern countries often have too much freedom and power but don't know how to utilize it properly
As hard as it is gentleman, you just gotta ignore women nowadays. Don't give them respect unless they earned it. I don't mean to be rude or spiteful, just treat them like a stranger and that's it.
I think it is part of both sides to give attention to each other, not ignore each other.. What is the point in treating each other like strangers? Then it's for sure that the person will search for someone else who is also giving interest in return
'....women are so much better at hiding their competitiveness...' Or is it that the gynocentric social circle that revolves around them enables them to be as hypocritical and dishonest as they choose.
Almost all traits about humans are socially relevant consequences so it goes both ways; quality is determined by self control and the will to educate oneself in order to make good choices.
Yeah they don’t hide their competitiveness at all, but social norms dictate what we predict people will do, and society doesn’t see women as competitive simply because they’re competitive in different ways
I’ll never forget this interaction I once saw. A girl I was talking to who was quite popular on IG was stopped in the street by a guy who said he’s been following her for ages. Nothing to crazy he said he likes her pics n said have a nice day. When he left I looked to her ready to see if she’d bask in the “fame” or be embarrassed but infact she was actually shaken up. She said she never thought of the likes as real people and was quite scared. Deleted her IG same day. This was over 5 years ago so I don’t think women today would be so freaked out, but was 100% an eye-opener for me, and since then I've never saw likes, as anything else other than a measure of popularity online.
@@Blox117 Remember this was 5 years ago, This was before cancel culture, before the Kardashians, before influencers were a thing, No 1 knew how to handle internet fame so no need to be rude.
Because of this I deleted all my social media accounts 8 months ago (Facebook, Instagram, even WhatsApp) and it was the best decision I've ever made in my life. Pure happiness, self respect, no more bosting girl's ego and free time to do productive things. Life is so much better and real since now.
Brandon, I was born 51 years ago when there was no social media. Some things were better and some things were worse. The world just keeps changing but I don't think it's either better or worse now than 50 years ago.
@FoxIslanderSteve I graduated from university in 2010 and owned my first smartphone in 2012. I think I was more or less in the last year group to have come out of the old world.
"The competition is over, she has won." That mindset, Alex, is one of the most dangerous and most common mindsets people have when looking at family life. Especially us guys, we think of that as "the finish line". It's not. It's just the start of a new game. If not for you, then for your children. They have to do everything all over again that you just did to "finally arrive" at the finish line. Except that they never asked to play that game.
Every situation is depends on two person you don’t have to play that game you can abandon social media and meet women personally through your social circles Well I have a bed feeling if there’s a lockdown in your country women are so desperate for attention and they are invading dating apps now so you might have a chance there but after the lockdown is over stop using them And start to approach personally
When my daughter is old enough I’m going to have her watch your videos. And the social dilemma. She’s going to be really upset when she’s 12 and I won’t let her have a cell phone.
Kudos, your daughter may just grow up to be one of the only quality women of the next generation. If only more of the world would take this with the seriousness it requires...
@James because they know a lot about my personal life! Dahh. Looks like you really dont know how women work's, they can be great Detectives with their contacts and gossip power. And yes i do get texts frequently from those stalkers (i dont reply at all), I've changed my number multiple times still they get to know my new number.
@@bullseye6969 this is also a common source of entertainment but you might not be enough of an e-communities dweller to understand the social dynamics of LolCow milking. This style of overbearing confidence is seen as a massive weakness lmao. "Let's see if the easy man #55,496 on my list of options is feeling chatty today!" ...it's called networking; you missed the point of this vid
This channel makes very good arguments and I do agree with a vast majority of what Alex says and yet I am very conflicted about this channel, cause the created image is very one sided and it's very easy to develop a hateful attitude towards all women. With the topic of this video for example, there could be so many arguments how social media enhances the worst qualities in men as well, which then impacts the behaviour of women, but it's not taken into account.
"What is the meaning of life?" Fictional answer: 42 Evolutionary answer: Procreation of genes for the sake of it. Circular logic. Moral answer: Reaching escape velocity.
Alexander Grace Haha, thanks for replying! 😁 You meant my username, "Cosmic Prison"? 😉 Well, that can be a description for both Earth as a planet and life itself. I never said reaching escape velocity was easy...
evolution has no answer, its fundamentally a random process. there is no end goal. people always seem to misunderstand this. this is like saying: "what is the meaning of fire?" "to burn things"
That’s unfair, people like Alexander Grace are actively fighting against it... Although I might have to take a little of the blame for myself though... 👀
I agree so much with this. It’s easy to lose yourself on social media and you don’t really notice you’re doing it until it’s too late. It really takes some conscious awareness to change your behavior and reevaluate your core values. Social media has made us clones with a false sense of individuality.
Because these social networks are all fake. I decided to do 2 accounts on each, and each accounts gets different recommendation. These venues are made to put users in circles.
I do agree that there are many many women that post skin. But I'd like to disagree with this percentage 😄 There are many girls who aren't like this, but their accounts are usually private or you definitely don't follow the lot of them 😅 they usually have less than 500 followers
@@MoodyBabbles Nah I don't usually follow people with a lot of following, I'm not even talking about those I follow. Just on my feed it's there even tho I don't follow them.
The women are just as lonely though, they never get the relationship either. Because the competition is never over the number 5 guy never pairs with the number 5 woman. You get strong independent women who need to be self sufficient so they can keep competing. These older women who didn't land a guy, or walked away and missed their chance for kids are absolutely miserable. In fact they are the number one users of antidepressants.
Some girl shown me her instagram and asked me what i think about her photos. I said its weird when women show those pictures to all those weirdos in basements and she deleted an account. I feel like the way to stop women from using instagram is making them realize that people liking their pictures are weirdos that they dont want.
My list of blame before I watch the vid: 1) Men: they need to stop giving women too much attention. Some attention is okay, but no too much. 2) Other women: they need to stop being so overly concerned with how they look and stop being such simps for pretty girls. If you look at any female instagram post you'll find that most of the likes are actually from other women. Women borderline worship beautiful women. 3) The "self-esteem movement": In most societies of times past, like the Mayan one for example, humility and gratefulness was something that was taught. But now, esp in America, the self-esteem movement has gone way too far and created people who haven't practiced humility in any form and therefore don't know what it looks like or how it's better. 4) Parents: This goes along with point 3. Also, parents, for whatever reason, simply allow their children to do just about anything they want and have just about any attitude they want without consequence. 5) Society in general: Society in general tolerates bad behavior from women. It also gives women (esp attractive ones) free "stuff", like attention, admiration, and material things, without getting anything in return. 5) The individual woman: In the end, each person is responsible for themselves. While they should be given a measure of consideration, a person doesn't really need to be told that showing off their body everyday on the internet is at least a little conceited. The fact is that the world is really messed up these days. Not in America or in regards to women, but in every way. Societies in the past, while messed up in their own right, generally had better average, day-to-day, person-to-person interactions. The neighborhood had trust in each other. Even back in the 50's it wasn't anything for a little girl to go visit the old man next door. They were taught respect for everyone. Also, they were taught, and forced, to honor their word. Humility was considered a good thing and taught by parents to their children. I understand that many believe that things have always been this way. While that's true to an extent, I assure you that in most societies of the last 6000 years had more of a measure of morals than societies all over the world do today. It's simply that people have gotten used to how things are and things have changed so gradually that people don't see it unless they study, in-depth, how societies of the past acted and believed.
Great conversation piece Alexander. It frustrates me that society doesn’t create the ability to have such discussions without it leading to absolute male crucifixion. The status quo with such topics is that female competition is purely a product of the patriarchy, and if that’s not the first reason that is drawn, it will usually be the concluding one. There’s no deeper thought or analysis placed beyond the standard societal narrative with these things, and to do so, even with intelligence and maturity, means to be met with immediate criticism and, if applicable, de-platforming. The ability to reason and question things is so human, natural, and most importantly - necessary to human intellect and maturity, yet, we are highly discouraged from doing such things and indirectly taught to just accept what we are taught as truth... What dangerous times we live in.
The problem isn't on the competition.... Men compete aswell with the difference that men can immediately draw a line and say this is how far im going to get and adjust their life based on their looks career and status.... They won't try to compete with models and rich dudes... But whamen on the other hand get so much validation based on their ability to have one night stands and look good that they don't actually have to improve to a point saying im worthy.... In their mind they are worthy and they will always be because they were validated for that and for this i blame men.... Hold whamen accountable... Reject them and don't validate them and see how fast they become dependent on your opinion or they go crazy at you.... Men's job isn't only sticking a pole inside a vagina.... It's keeping women's head down to earth
Girls love to feel desired. It's not that they are interested in being a great girlfriend or sharing herself with a guy, it's the high she gets of knowing a man finds her an object of desire.
It's something contributed from both sides. Men's fault for being weak and giving attention in the wrong areas where it's undeserved. Women's fault for seeking attention in the wrong area and for taking advantage of the week lemmings that desire a smidge of affection. It's the fault of the silicon valley moguls that created this toxic system and it's the fault of society that has agreed to this deceiving standard of human interaction.
I'm gonna paste a comment I made to another comment here about a girl being creeped out finding out that the "likes" are actually real people, that I think applies. Something girls should think about before posting a bunch of sexy shots. Also, even shots where you just look pretty and not even necessarily provacative. ~ I would also wager the fellow was bellow what she considered attractive. That automatically gives them the creep vibe. If the guy was her version of highly attractive, he could have straight up hit on her and she would probably have gotten the giggles. I'm sure plenty of girls don't consider what's actually going on with all their posted pics/vids. If you have enough followers, guaranteed you have dudes all the way down the ugly scale, legitimate creepers and pervs of all types, pulling their pud to your pics and vids. They wil be screen-shotting and saving your vids to folders full of wank material. You are putting those images out there into the ether, for all time. Even if you delete; people will trade their folders or repost the stuff they like to random corners of the web.
You cant stress that recommendation for that netflix documentary "The social dilemma" enough. That docu changed my life and my perspective on so many things in such a impressive way.
"Attention from low-value men was a survival liability." Only if those men are orang utans. As long as she can get simps to do all kinds of services for her by leading them on, that definitely makes life easier for her. 😉
I remember in one episode of The Simpsons, where Homer and Marge were watching tv at night in an Alternate future, Marge remarks that she didn't realize how gradually FOX turned into a Porn channel. This reminds of that.
When I was younger, I thought "these social media made women acting like acting divas", but now I'm older and wisher, and I found that social media is in our favor, because by examining a particular girl's profile and her posts you can learn a lot about her character
Great video Alex ! Probably one of the most interesting videos on your channel. I totally agree with what you've said. Basically we live in a fake world where the majority of people suffers from an imposter syndrome. Everyone is trying to live a life of some celebrity or a successful person instead of discovering themselves and reaching their own greatness. People are fake and are wasting their potential. They pretend to have an amazing life on social media while they suffer from depression and insecurity. This does not apply only on women, but of course you are right, social media platforms have changed women into selfish, unforgiving & greedy ones.
Big fallacy - Tribal Society WAS NOT Free Competition (Laissez Faire) The idea that a person was free to choose whatever mate they wanted is actually very very "new" in human history. In tribal societies, there were other influences besides only "what an individual wanted". Often the parents, extended family, and even in some cases the whole tribe was involved in forming couples. Very often selection of mates was related to the preservation of a familial line, ensuring peace, and other social issues were much more important than "free choice" of the people involved. Instincts might explain the Instagram phenomenon, but the social situation of the current (Western) society is truly something unique in human history.
I think the timeline here is the problem. 2 thousand years ago societies like the mother and father of Jesus had an arranged marriage (well, still today in some parts of India for exemple). So it's true that this is old and stuff worked like this for the most cultures. But I think when he says stuff like this free competition about men and women he is saying something like 10 thousand years ago or more, where people didn't have this notion about marriage and starting a new life somewhere else.
@@MegaFriend100 This situation could be true... Yet, if people had enough intelligence to organize a tribe, which would involve division of labor and resources, correct? Wouldn't they also use this intelligence to manage relationship?
@@Canishaliaeetus well, primates are highly inteligent and we see today that Chimps divide labor and resources and there's this whole hierarchy among them. Though in relationships they still fight each other to get the best females. Some are weak and don't even try, some plot against the current leader to take them down. I am no biologist but thinking they share 99% of our DNA and some of their habits and """culture""" are like ours when we were primitive, it makes me think. Maybe when our primitive humans thought about organizing society with hierarchies, arranged marriages (that possible weren't even called marriages) was this kind of using intelligence to manage relationships to eliminate violent conflicts.
@@MegaFriend100 Well, in any case, it goes back to my original point. In the video, within "tribes", male and females seemed to need - free choice (a free market) and also respected the choice that others made. (the stronger male, didn't simply take a girl that he desired from a weaker male). My point was I don't see such a society existing. Which would mean the situations described in the video never happened. (By the way, we do share a large percentage of our DNA with other Primates, but ironically we also share a lot albeit less with mice and... and pigs if my memory serves correctly. However, it seems that primates are closest to modeling our social behavior.)
@@Canishaliaeetus Well, I didn't quite undestand your point now. Tribals societies existed and in a way they still exists within chimps and monkeys. It's happening, and males compete to get good females. As I said, the actual form of this evolution in this case is to the parents get the best candidate to their daughters and sons. Only then your first comment comes in and makes sense, as we start to rely more on a primitive form of civilization rather then being mere animals. Then it is correct indeed
I'm from '75 and I grew up in a world that didn't have Instagram, TikTok and this kind of stuff (my 1st 33.6kBps modem was when I was 16...) and I well remember that when I was around 20 I started to think that the best girls around there were those that, being pretty, were NOT aware of this. Because if you're not aware that whatever you can do your beauty will make you have an easier life (until you're young...) then you'll put effort into becoming a better person. Instagram, among the rest, is destroying all this :(
I have been with a lot of girls who had the potential to be high quality women. The only real girlfriend I have ever had rarely uses Instagram and doesn't any photos to show off her skin and she is better physically, mentally, intellectually and emotionally! She doesn't wear make up to go to work in, she rarely wears it and only does if we are doing something (going out for meals or a few drinks with friends). It is hard to find these types of women!
Explaining the conflict you have between posting quality for a small group or pandering for the masses was very insightful and I appreciate that. Sub'd.
As a father of a girl I’m also worried about how social media will reprogramm her. We’ve seen suicide rates among young women more than double since the advent of the likes of IG so I’m really concerned.
You make a great point about how social media effects our perception of quality and desired goals. As a photography hobbyist, I post images online pretty regularly. Some of them are more popular than others, but there has always been this sense that sometimes the most popular images aren't even necessarily the best, and that I shouldn't put too much weight on the like total, but rather consider where those likes came from, and whether or not they translated to anything meaningful (selling a photographic print, for example). I might post an image of a sunset and get far more likes than something I spent crafting from deeper in my soul, if that makes any sense. I never really thought much about this in terms of how social media operates as a whole but it's definitely the most fitting comparison, since social media is so visually/image driven these days.
Im 57 years old and I think what you're doing here is very important. I hope younger men and women will be exposed to your videos and model their lives accordingly. This video is among your very best. Thank you.
Very valuable points. Shame would be a natural feeling to avoid this behavior. But sadly, shame is often forgotten when women see so many other women exposing themselves and think it is normal. Every man who does not validate this behavior is helpful!
im a young woman i have huge respect and admiration for women and i really wish there was the women cohesion you talked about, that used to be here for a long long time, thank you for mentioning that
A logical and well thought out argument. I personally can attest to females being rude, mean, angry, laughing in my face, etc. when rejecting me, no matter how polite or respectful I was. Even in times I wasn’t expressing interest in them. But I will say as they grow older, that diminishes somewhat.
From my wifes, rather small, circle of girlfriends the "pretty" ones are all single and jumping from bad relationship to the next, generally only happy for a short few weeks and then miserable for the next 4 or 5 months until breakup (I know because, she, being happily married and with a wonderful kid has to "listen" to their complaints, the "why cant I have your luck" and "help" them along while they keep doing the same mistakes over and over), meanwhile "less pretty" ones are all (except one) in stable - and to my limited knowledge: happy - relationships. I wonder if this "less pretty" factor actually helps boost their overall attractiveness to "not jerk" type men, focus their aim towards attributes that better fulfil their goals and therefore contribute to their general happiness.
Point to stand out: what about these girls that decide to start a relationship and keep the same dynamics they had on their social media back to when they were single?
This is one of the most important and informative videos you have come up with yet on UA-cam. I think that as many women should see this as the men that watch your channel.
@@daivonclark5151 That's a much larger discussion for sure. Some are better socially, some at problem-solving, some at athletic endeavors, it depends. There's such a vast array of different things people can excel in, all of which can combine to a more successful person overall, or career, relationship, etc.
My power was out for quite some time yesterday and I was sitting in my living room with my parents listening to a football game on the radio under candle light. My mom mentioned how it was like we were living back in the 1900s. I started thinking about what it would have been like to live back then. No internet, limited electricity, and wether society as whole was healthier. It’s hard to say without actually experiencing it but sometimes I wonder if society before the internet was a better place.
You are not legally allowed to look at a woman for more than 5 seconds for it is a crime now so why are women allowed to continue to show off their bodies at all? Isn't that illegal too? Remember, the rule of law enforces "reciprocity" therefore the women need to be charged with crimes! You can't blame gasoline for being flamable but you can blame/charge someone who uses gasoline to commit a crime! Actions are the crimes not the existence of the object!
I feel like you're saying the same thing with more steps. Social media does reveal true natures of women. I agree with your view too. Both things can be true. As far as social media corrupting potentially high quality women, that seems like a method of taking away accountability for individual women. Showing skin is easy, and you make a distinctive choice when you do.
This is also a reason why now the most attractive women are NOT the highest quality anymore. Odds are if shes at least an 8 shes getting a ton of online attention, has thousands of followers, etc. If you've ever talk to a 9 or a 10 anymore odds are they are completely bland with no personality, no sense of humor, completely self absorbed, etc. And it might not be ideal but honestly 6's and 7's are where its at. They have usually had to develop a personality and other traits in order to be more successful and it has made them the most ideal girls, for me at least. They dont get the online attention that would inhibit their other intangible qualities. A lot of them like to have fun and be actual normal people.
but no one ever talks about how a supposedly 10 could be a 1 in bed. happens quite alot actually. and yes they take that self entitled attitude all the way to the bedroom too... there really is no brakes for them.
Very insightful and spot on to look at this. It always comes back to the fact our nature hasn't changed back from 10 000 years ago, yet modern life is really different of course and adds tons of new elements. And since FB creators played on human nature with dopamine hits to get and keep attention, many others have since followed, quite successfully too. As these FB creators said, attention is the new currency. So these apps and games and all take our primal elements and exacerbate them for gains. These teen girls grow up in this.
Women have changed so much in the last 25 years it is incredible. I doubt you could find one that can cook a steak in the kitchen or make biscuits from scratch. All they want to do is eat out and take photos and look at their phone.
"Mirror Mirror on the Wall. Who is the Fairest of them all!". Our elders understood this. Just see the folk tales, of Snow White, Sleeping Beauty and Cinderella.
Parents who have no business being parents. They are lazy and it serves as a way to shut the child up. It should be illegal to have a cell phone until 18.
Social media has given women more access to both high value men and tons of simps worldwide, making it hard for them to be with one guy because of how much attention they can get. They can easily DM that high value man they desire and possibly get a reply, and they have all their simps to fall back on if that doesn't work.
@@chevlogs369 women in Islam from what I've seen with my Muslim friends are seen in such a high place. Men and women are generally told to"lower their gaze" not to look in a lustful manner. I have to say that I am not knowledgeable enough about this topic however there are many videos on youtube by mufti menk which are fairly fun to listen to. Cheers
I’ve been thinking the same, despite its inhumanity and superstitions. Quite simply, it’s highly authoritarian, which means dominance. Women are even allowed to be beaten, says the scripture. Basically, the women can’t grow entitled, greedy and selfish because the ideology demands too much of their energy in obedience, especially at a mental level. Don’t get me started on the fear of punishment. However, even though it gets toxic feminity under control through domineering means, its highly illiberal political design (and I mean classical liberalism, not the modern iteration) utterly dwarfs the dating and relationship problems in west. We can solve these dating problems in theory, and with enough coordination and effort, also in practice.
I do agree with your views; however, I've witnessed women posting photos on social media only for that top guy to notice. In the end, it was funny how they would get pissed off when only the low value men would like these photos instead.
You definitely couldn’t say this to a woman in this day in age because girls are on these platforms posting ass cracks and skin etc etc and in the caption it’s “self love” “My body my rules” And there always seems to be some hippie caption that doesn’t really mean anything.
"I'm not flaunting myself for attention, I'm just celebrating my individuality" blah blah. This facade adds to the problem .
Exactly
Celebrating every day! Give us a break.
@@NoorAdin99 lol 😂 so true
Damn, I hadn't heard that bullshit justification before. It's amusing how creative people are to construct false explanations for their actions.
Best quote is "I'm posting these pictures for myself" 😂
This most likely has contributed to the fact that more and more young people are single right now ...
Yeah feminism is the tool used to destroy the family unit. Whether you think it or not, sadly its true
Oh yeah
Trust me, it's better that way! Since im up to live single, i learned to love myself so I don't need any woman in my life. I build muscles, i have so much money to open my own store, im so much happier than before and no woman in earth will take this away from me !
@@susan_wojcicki_is_a_ho3909 I hope the government lockdowns don’t destroy your small business. Best wishes to all entrepreneurs out there.
@Gordon Ramsay well that's cause you're gordon ramsay
The problem is, there’s ALWAYS a higher value male. It never ends, just like how there’s always a hotter girl.
Not if you're Vladimir Putin
Or..have the attitude there is no higher value male. I'm not rich or anything, but I've never had trouble scoring hot looking women. I will say that it is always in real life situations..Bar..nightclub...grocery store ETC. Never ever on social media.
Rob O that’s the problem. You can “score” a hot women in a bar or night club but those aren’t even close to being decent women. A lot of us are looking for genuine people, long lasting relationships, not just a score at the club, cause that’s easy, but making it last with someone you truly have a connection with is the hard part cause everyone is either so closed off and superficial and just a shell of a human looking of validation.
@@peterc3619 Gotcha. There are only 2 girls? (Definitely 1 comes to mind) in my life...looking back, I let get away as far as being marriage material.
@Jordan Decker I'd say they're both - Girls can be both good AND bad depending on the situation lol. That's being human.
Female here, Months ago I have completely deleted my Instagram and social media presence, and I agree with everything you are saying Alex. It is all just poison to our society and relationships. I now focus on the people around me and make sure to be my best self and make them happy. I refuse to be a part of this nonsense and trash
same here haven’t had instagram for 2 years, didn’t miss out on much hahaha
Men for giving likes. And parents for allowing it. Even older women are doing it. I used to laugh at these types of people. Now it's the norm. Wasters
I don't give likes for anything sexual. Why reward this behavior? Not too many think like that but hey 99% of the people are sheep
Me either it's always made me feel embarrassed and ashamed to be associated with anyone that does it. And by not doing it I don't think I'm better than anyone else, it just feels wrong. Girls will say it's just a bit of fun, but deep down it's cos they're suffering inside trying to be someone no real person cares about.
Facts and it’s sad
@@mrscott01 You right. BTW I never like anything on facebook. I'm not a social media fan. I only created facebook to have messenger. That's all I have and need for university groups
@@NikosM112 same bro same.
A fear that has been brewing inside me is that "this type of woman" will become the norm and that the oncoming generation will depreciate what is seen as "high quality traits" in men.
It won't because Jesus still a King.
@@chevychelios4672 Let's hope so man.
It is already here, sadly.
clearly just bang and left.. well with cov19... anything is not possible..
You just described the last generations of the Calhoun mouse utopia experiment from the 1970s. Check it out. Its happening now.
I've never been in a relationship with a girl being very socially active on IG/FB and I'd make sure to keep it that way. When you try to seek attention online you are a low value female. I actually had to turn down a girl I was very attraced to just because after a few dates I saw how active she was on IG posting selfies all day getting lots a beta male attention. It simply turns me off in every way possible.
i cant really stand social media interaction either, other than youtube. heck i dont even like discord, or texting, or phone calls, or even talking at the drive through. i cant properly communicate with someone if im not in front of them and it makes me uncomfortable
If you don't mind saying, is your reasoning for being turned off by that due to religious beliefs in sexual purity, or are your motivations purely secular?
@@technoloverish I think that having the constant need for validation is a red flag for when I think in long-term dating someone. I just don't want to deal with a partner having this insecurity.
@@kevinvandenoetelaar5880 Not to mention she'll always use the beta orbiters as a backup plan.
@@GeneralChangFromDanang ^This
Used to hangout with a girl who had 4 thousand followers on insta. I asked her how many photos she took of herself a day. She said at least 50 photos a day. I was genuinely Shocked and disturbed
Sounds like she has a lot of free time.
GeneralChangOfDanang and a lot of mental issues.
Sounds unemployed
Quit taking responsibility for other people's choices.
It's all context. Maybe other people took those choices as consequences to your choices. Phrased as ambiguous as that leads to childish behavior
Having ''choices'' or ''freedom'' doesn't mean it's good. WIthout guidance and unlimited freedom, people often make bad decisions that are hard to change later in life.
@@enriquezacur7252 exactly, that's why capitalism is worse then socialism or capitalism, in the later two regimes, less possibilities and opportunities lead to less bad decisions being made thus overall, from long term perspective it's better
People in modern countries often have too much freedom and power but don't know how to utilize it properly
@@spellweavergeneziso yeah dude that's just wrong...
"meh I'm a right-winter I believe pure free will exists in a vaccuum meh"
As hard as it is gentleman, you just gotta ignore women nowadays. Don't give them respect unless they earned it. I don't mean to be rude or spiteful, just treat them like a stranger and that's it.
That incredibly true
I think it is part of both sides to give attention to each other, not ignore each other..
What is the point in treating each other like strangers? Then it's for sure that the person will search for someone else who is also giving interest in return
This does nothing, these chicks are on a path to the wall. Only then will they start trying to "settle" "Downnnnward" in their own minds.
Us men is just as responsible. If it wasn’t as much or no simps at all, the women would be acting wayyyy different.
True !
We are not responsible. This is a reaction to female actions. Guys arent responsible to everything.
@@garryjones62 nah Garry. We are as well. Worshiping them on Instagram. Liking all their pictures really brought out the narcissism in them
@Gustav Gamer 🤣😂 honestly
@Gustav Gamer great until you spiral down and down craving for it to the point where it’s not so great.
'....women are so much better at hiding their competitiveness...' Or is it that the gynocentric social circle that revolves around them enables them to be as hypocritical and dishonest as they choose.
@Ricardo Herrera I still can't get over the fact that she took a huge dump on Johnny's bed. Why would anyone do that? Disgusting.
Nah. Genuinely better. Relational aggression vs actual aggression.
Almost all traits about humans are socially relevant consequences so it goes both ways; quality is determined by self control and the will to educate oneself in order to make good choices.
@@lawka2699 ...that's the point on which we disagree. It does not go both ways.
Yeah they don’t hide their competitiveness at all, but social norms dictate what we predict people will do, and society doesn’t see women as competitive simply because they’re competitive in different ways
Social Media has exposed the dark underbelly of the human condition: Ego and Apathy
Perfectly worded 👌🏾
Soft white underbelly*
and pride...
I’ll never forget this interaction I once saw.
A girl I was talking to who was quite popular on IG was stopped in the street by a guy who said he’s been following her for ages. Nothing to crazy he said he likes her pics n said have a nice day. When he left I looked to her ready to see if she’d bask in the “fame” or be embarrassed but infact she was actually shaken up. She said she never thought of the likes as real people and was quite scared. Deleted her IG same day.
This was over 5 years ago so I don’t think women today would be so freaked out, but was 100% an eye-opener for me, and since then I've never saw likes, as anything else other than a measure of popularity online.
that just sounds like she is dumb
@@Blox117 agreed.
@@Blox117 yeah
this is why i dont post onto instagram, i get scared of the type of people who will see it
its so scary
@@Blox117 Remember this was 5 years ago, This was before cancel culture, before the Kardashians, before influencers were a thing, No 1 knew how to handle internet fame so no need to be rude.
Because of this I deleted all my social media accounts 8 months ago (Facebook, Instagram, even WhatsApp) and it was the best decision I've ever made in my life. Pure happiness, self respect, no more bosting girl's ego and free time to do productive things. Life is so much better and real since now.
Well done buddy you made the right choice.
@@mikeyfreckles17 thanks mate, wish you the best!
@@alonsoquirosgranados7568 Top man you too.
Problem is chicks view me with suspicion for not have an Instagram account
@@unicron2109 it"s not a problem bro, it's just the opposite, trust me
Sometimes, I wish I was born 50 years ago when there was no social media
My dad always said he wondered what the world would be like 50 years from now. He passed away 8 years ago. I think he is in a better place
@@intellifly747 he is definitely in a better place, no hell can be worse than our current limbo universe
@FoxIslanderSteve Even the 90's was fun. Going to the Bars in the 80"s and 90"s was like shooting fish in a barrel, when picking up hot girls.
Brandon, I was born 51 years ago when there was no social media. Some things were better and some things were worse. The world just keeps changing but I don't think it's either better or worse now than 50 years ago.
@FoxIslanderSteve I graduated from university in 2010 and owned my first smartphone in 2012. I think I was more or less in the last year group to have come out of the old world.
Instagram gives women endless access to high quality men, the only way to attract them is to show skin. Cuz what else they have to offer?
You could equally say the same for men.
@@AJBusta97 not entirely the same bro... You could also show you have a lot of money.. 🙄
Ive noticed how girls on Instagram swoon over average looking guys that they otherwise would completely ignore in real life. Bit weird
@@danialshah2957 easy to control as they know they can't do better looks wise.
High quality man doesn't have Instagram at all . 🤣🤣That is not the correct place to find high quality wife .
"The competition is over, she has won."
That mindset, Alex, is one of the most dangerous and most common mindsets people have when looking at family life. Especially us guys, we think of that as "the finish line". It's not. It's just the start of a new game. If not for you, then for your children. They have to do everything all over again that you just did to "finally arrive" at the finish line. Except that they never asked to play that game.
That’s not what he meant.
Every situation is depends on two person you don’t have to play that game you can abandon social media and meet women personally through your social circles
Well I have a bed feeling if there’s a lockdown in your country women are so desperate for attention and they are invading dating apps now so you might have a chance there but after the lockdown is over stop using them
And start to approach personally
akrinah If life is indeed a video game, Meat Loaf has already said he wants his money back... 😁
@@fordmartyn3219 lockdown will never be over...unfortunately...It's called agenda 21.
When my daughter is old enough I’m going to have her watch your videos. And the social dilemma. She’s going to be really upset when she’s 12 and I won’t let her have a cell phone.
Kudos, your daughter may just grow up to be one of the only quality women of the next generation. If only more of the world would take this with the seriousness it requires...
If my parents would me more strict, I wouldn't make the most stupid decision in my life.
@@TheMysteriousgirl9 Can we know what was the decision?
Do that, my parents never allowed me use smartphone until I finished my highschool.
Nurture and Nature, in my family all women are NAWAL, how can this be posible?
I rejected low quality women.
After years they still stalk me and still single.
This is a huge problem now. Can never really get away from those you reject or break up with.
@James because they know a lot about my personal life! Dahh.
Looks like you really dont know how women work's, they can be great Detectives with their contacts and gossip power.
And yes i do get texts frequently from those stalkers (i dont reply at all), I've changed my number multiple times still they get to know my new number.
@@bullseye6969 this is also a common source of entertainment but you might not be enough of an e-communities dweller to understand the social dynamics of LolCow milking. This style of overbearing confidence is seen as a massive weakness lmao. "Let's see if the easy man #55,496 on my list of options is feeling chatty today!"
...it's called networking; you missed the point of this vid
i really like this channel. its not one of those stupid "alpha male" channels. it actually makes decent arguments.
Yes I agree, I love the way he breaks down human behaviors and relates it to survival and human instincts.
This channel makes very good arguments and I do agree with a vast majority of what Alex says and yet I am very conflicted about this channel, cause the created image is very one sided and it's very easy to develop a hateful attitude towards all women. With the topic of this video for example, there could be so many arguments how social media enhances the worst qualities in men as well, which then impacts the behaviour of women, but it's not taken into account.
@@blindpony6855 maybe more so a dislike for such behaviors but expound some more on what mean exactly
Hahaha you're beta Male
@@lino277 Seriously?
"What is the meaning of life?"
Fictional answer: 42
Evolutionary answer: Procreation of genes for the sake of it. Circular logic.
Moral answer: Reaching escape velocity.
User name checks out
Alexander Grace Haha, thanks for replying! 😁 You meant my username, "Cosmic Prison"? 😉 Well, that can be a description for both Earth as a planet and life itself. I never said reaching escape velocity was easy...
evolution has no answer, its fundamentally a random process. there is no end goal. people always seem to misunderstand this.
this is like saying: "what is the meaning of fire?" "to burn things"
Blox117 That's a good one, I'm gonna keep using that! 😁
There’s no meaning of life independent of human experience and determination. Meaning is assigned by people.
We're all to blame. We've created an absolutely degraded, miserable society together.
That’s unfair, people like Alexander Grace are actively fighting against it... Although I might have to take a little of the blame for myself though... 👀
@scartissuefilms Speak for yourself, bud~ I don't dwell in misery; I seek to end it~
not really
@_jeff _ Yeah, I have no need for misery when I have potential to fulfill~
The best thing with a democracy is that most people get what they deserve, heaven or hell.
I agree so much with this. It’s easy to lose yourself on social media and you don’t really notice you’re doing it until it’s too late. It really takes some conscious awareness to change your behavior and reevaluate your core values. Social media has made us clones with a false sense of individuality.
It's crazy 95% of girls on Instagram have posted skin lmao.
Because these social networks are all fake. I decided to do 2 accounts on each, and each accounts gets different recommendation. These venues are made to put users in circles.
I do agree that there are many many women that post skin. But I'd like to disagree with this percentage 😄 There are many girls who aren't like this, but their accounts are usually private or you definitely don't follow the lot of them 😅 they usually have less than 500 followers
@@MoodyBabbles Nah I don't usually follow people with a lot of following, I'm not even talking about those I follow. Just on my feed it's there even tho I don't follow them.
Can you talk about Only Fans and how its being fueled by an epidemic of lonely men?
The women are just as lonely though, they never get the relationship either. Because the competition is never over the number 5 guy never pairs with the number 5 woman. You get strong independent women who need to be self sufficient so they can keep competing. These older women who didn't land a guy, or walked away and missed their chance for kids are absolutely miserable. In fact they are the number one users of antidepressants.
Some girl shown me her instagram and asked me what i think about her photos. I said its weird when women show those pictures to all those weirdos in basements and she deleted an account. I feel like the way to stop women from using instagram is making them realize that people liking their pictures are weirdos that they dont want.
My list of blame before I watch the vid:
1) Men: they need to stop giving women too much attention. Some attention is okay, but no too much.
2) Other women: they need to stop being so overly concerned with how they look and stop being such simps for pretty girls. If you look at any female instagram post you'll find that most of the likes are actually from other women. Women borderline worship beautiful women.
3) The "self-esteem movement": In most societies of times past, like the Mayan one for example, humility and gratefulness was something that was taught. But now, esp in America, the self-esteem movement has gone way too far and created people who haven't practiced humility in any form and therefore don't know what it looks like or how it's better.
4) Parents: This goes along with point 3. Also, parents, for whatever reason, simply allow their children to do just about anything they want and have just about any attitude they want without consequence.
5) Society in general: Society in general tolerates bad behavior from women. It also gives women (esp attractive ones) free "stuff", like attention, admiration, and material things, without getting anything in return.
5) The individual woman: In the end, each person is responsible for themselves. While they should be given a measure of consideration, a person doesn't really need to be told that showing off their body everyday on the internet is at least a little conceited.
The fact is that the world is really messed up these days. Not in America or in regards to women, but in every way. Societies in the past, while messed up in their own right, generally had better average, day-to-day, person-to-person interactions. The neighborhood had trust in each other. Even back in the 50's it wasn't anything for a little girl to go visit the old man next door. They were taught respect for everyone. Also, they were taught, and forced, to honor their word. Humility was considered a good thing and taught by parents to their children.
I understand that many believe that things have always been this way. While that's true to an extent, I assure you that in most societies of the last 6000 years had more of a measure of morals than societies all over the world do today. It's simply that people have gotten used to how things are and things have changed so gradually that people don't see it unless they study, in-depth, how societies of the past acted and believed.
Instead of living in the moment women take pictures of everything, every second, every minute on a date. Its annoying.
Yup, so dumb. Like an overgrown child....
Great conversation piece Alexander. It frustrates me that society doesn’t create the ability to have such discussions without it leading to absolute male crucifixion. The status quo with such topics is that female competition is purely a product of the patriarchy, and if that’s not the first reason that is drawn, it will usually be the concluding one. There’s no deeper thought or analysis placed beyond the standard societal narrative with these things, and to do so, even with intelligence and maturity, means to be met with immediate criticism and, if applicable, de-platforming. The ability to reason and question things is so human, natural, and most importantly - necessary to human intellect and maturity, yet, we are highly discouraged from doing such things and indirectly taught to just accept what we are taught as truth...
What dangerous times we live in.
Behavior like this STILL unappealing to high quality men. They just never see them.
The problem isn't on the competition.... Men compete aswell with the difference that men can immediately draw a line and say this is how far im going to get and adjust their life based on their looks career and status.... They won't try to compete with models and rich dudes... But whamen on the other hand get so much validation based on their ability to have one night stands and look good that they don't actually have to improve to a point saying im worthy.... In their mind they are worthy and they will always be because they were validated for that and for this i blame men.... Hold whamen accountable... Reject them and don't validate them and see how fast they become dependent on your opinion or they go crazy at you.... Men's job isn't only sticking a pole inside a vagina.... It's keeping women's head down to earth
I'm asexual.. My job is to make sure she reaches her goals, feel loved and protected.
Girls love to feel desired. It's not that they are interested in being a great girlfriend or sharing herself with a guy, it's the high she gets of knowing a man finds her an object of desire.
It's something contributed from both sides. Men's fault for being weak and giving attention in the wrong areas where it's undeserved. Women's fault for seeking attention in the wrong area and for taking advantage of the week lemmings that desire a smidge of affection. It's the fault of the silicon valley moguls that created this toxic system and it's the fault of society that has agreed to this deceiving standard of human interaction.
The problem is never the product. Kids didn't shoot up a school because of video games. Why always the excuses for their behavior?
it's not videogames, it's black metal!!
Video games do create unhygienic neets tho. That is bad behavior imo not as bad as school shooters but still.
I was already thinking it was time for me to delete FB, now I'm set on it.its a dumpster fire.
I swear I female friend of mine said that about guys that use to talk to her. She hated when guys she didn't like tried talking to her.
I'm gonna paste a comment I made to another comment here about a girl being creeped out finding out that the "likes" are actually real people, that I think applies. Something girls should think about before posting a bunch of sexy shots. Also, even shots where you just look pretty and not even necessarily provacative.
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I would also wager the fellow was bellow what she considered attractive. That automatically gives them the creep vibe. If the guy was her version of highly attractive, he could have straight up hit on her and she would probably have gotten the giggles.
I'm sure plenty of girls don't consider what's actually going on with all their posted pics/vids. If you have enough followers, guaranteed you have dudes all the way down the ugly scale, legitimate creepers and pervs of all types, pulling their pud to your pics and vids. They wil be screen-shotting and saving your vids to folders full of wank material. You are putting those images out there into the ether, for all time. Even if you delete; people will trade their folders or repost the stuff they like to random corners of the web.
You cant stress that recommendation for that netflix documentary "The social dilemma" enough. That docu changed my life and my perspective on so many things in such a impressive way.
"Attention from low-value men was a survival liability."
Only if those men are orang utans. As long as she can get simps to do all kinds of services for her by leading them on, that definitely makes life easier for her. 😉
I remember in one episode of The Simpsons, where Homer and Marge were watching tv at night in an Alternate future, Marge remarks that she didn't realize how gradually FOX turned into a Porn channel. This reminds of that.
When I was younger, I thought "these social media made women acting like acting divas", but now I'm older and wisher, and I found that social media is in our favor, because by examining a particular girl's profile and her posts you can learn a lot about her character
Good one!
Great video Alex ! Probably one of the most interesting videos on your channel.
I totally agree with what you've said. Basically we live in a fake world where the majority of people suffers from an imposter syndrome. Everyone is trying to live a life of some celebrity or a successful person instead of discovering themselves and reaching their own greatness. People are fake and are wasting their potential. They pretend to have an amazing life on social media while they suffer from depression and insecurity. This does not apply only on women, but of course you are right, social media platforms have changed women into selfish, unforgiving & greedy ones.
simps and weak men are to blame we give them too much attention and power , it is our fault let's not forget it.
What a great explanation of the bad effects of social media
Big fallacy - Tribal Society WAS NOT Free Competition (Laissez Faire)
The idea that a person was free to choose whatever mate they wanted is actually very very "new" in human history.
In tribal societies, there were other influences besides only "what an individual wanted". Often the parents, extended family, and even in some cases the whole tribe was involved in forming couples.
Very often selection of mates was related to the preservation of a familial line, ensuring peace, and other social issues were much more important than "free choice" of the people involved.
Instincts might explain the Instagram phenomenon, but the social situation of the current (Western) society is truly something unique in human history.
I think the timeline here is the problem. 2 thousand years ago societies like the mother and father of Jesus had an arranged marriage (well, still today in some parts of India for exemple). So it's true that this is old and stuff worked like this for the most cultures. But I think when he says stuff like this free competition about men and women he is saying something like 10 thousand years ago or more, where people didn't have this notion about marriage and starting a new life somewhere else.
@@MegaFriend100 This situation could be true...
Yet, if people had enough intelligence to organize a tribe, which would involve division of labor and resources, correct?
Wouldn't they also use this intelligence to manage relationship?
@@Canishaliaeetus well, primates are highly inteligent and we see today that Chimps divide labor and resources and there's this whole hierarchy among them. Though in relationships they still fight each other to get the best females. Some are weak and don't even try, some plot against the current leader to take them down. I am no biologist but thinking they share 99% of our DNA and some of their habits and """culture""" are like ours when we were primitive, it makes me think.
Maybe when our primitive humans thought about organizing society with hierarchies, arranged marriages (that possible weren't even called marriages) was this kind of using intelligence to manage relationships to eliminate violent conflicts.
@@MegaFriend100 Well, in any case, it goes back to my original point. In the video, within "tribes", male and females seemed to need - free choice (a free market) and also respected the choice that others made. (the stronger male, didn't simply take a girl that he desired from a weaker male).
My point was I don't see such a society existing. Which would mean the situations described in the video never happened.
(By the way, we do share a large percentage of our DNA with other Primates, but ironically we also share a lot albeit less with mice and... and pigs if my memory serves correctly. However, it seems that primates are closest to modeling our social behavior.)
@@Canishaliaeetus Well, I didn't quite undestand your point now. Tribals societies existed and in a way they still exists within chimps and monkeys. It's happening, and males compete to get good females.
As I said, the actual form of this evolution in this case is to the parents get the best candidate to their daughters and sons. Only then your first comment comes in and makes sense, as we start to rely more on a primitive form of civilization rather then being mere animals. Then it is correct indeed
I'm from '75 and I grew up in a world that didn't have Instagram, TikTok and this kind of stuff (my 1st 33.6kBps modem was when I was 16...) and I well remember that when I was around 20 I started to think that the best girls around there were those that, being pretty, were NOT aware of this. Because if you're not aware that whatever you can do your beauty will make you have an easier life (until you're young...) then you'll put effort into becoming a better person.
Instagram, among the rest, is destroying all this :(
I have been with a lot of girls who had the potential to be high quality women. The only real girlfriend I have ever had rarely uses Instagram and doesn't any photos to show off her skin and she is better physically, mentally, intellectually and emotionally! She doesn't wear make up to go to work in, she rarely wears it and only does if we are doing something (going out for meals or a few drinks with friends). It is hard to find these types of women!
Explaining the conflict you have between posting quality for a small group or pandering for the masses was very insightful and I appreciate that. Sub'd.
Very impressive how you break down those behaviors that apparently make no sense into a very clear reasoning
Men is to blame of these type of women. With no compliments, flirting and giving them money they wouldn't have done this.
The thumbnail is on spot🤣🤣🤣
As a father of a girl I’m also worried about how social media will reprogramm her. We’ve seen suicide rates among young women more than double since the advent of the likes of IG so I’m really concerned.
The narcissistic entitled behavior has created broken women, and modern feminism it's what sealed the deal
The narcissistic entitled behavior is purely a product of their nature
You make a great point about how social media effects our perception of quality and desired goals. As a photography hobbyist, I post images online pretty regularly. Some of them are more popular than others, but there has always been this sense that sometimes the most popular images aren't even necessarily the best, and that I shouldn't put too much weight on the like total, but rather consider where those likes came from, and whether or not they translated to anything meaningful (selling a photographic print, for example). I might post an image of a sunset and get far more likes than something I spent crafting from deeper in my soul, if that makes any sense. I never really thought much about this in terms of how social media operates as a whole but it's definitely the most fitting comparison, since social media is so visually/image driven these days.
Im 57 years old and I think what you're doing here is very important. I hope younger men and women will be exposed to your videos and model their lives accordingly. This video is among your very best. Thank you.
Very valuable points. Shame would be a natural feeling to avoid this behavior. But sadly, shame is often forgotten when women see so many other women exposing themselves and think it is normal. Every man who does not validate this behavior is helpful!
They have the agency to decide not to act like trash. It's their choice, no one else's fault.
Theory of Relativity.
(it's mother nature's fault for allowing us to advance this far)
im a young woman i have huge respect and admiration for women and i really wish there was the women cohesion you talked about, that used to be here for a long long time, thank you for mentioning that
As soon as a girl does that, it's a complete turn away for me...
A logical and well thought out argument. I personally can attest to females being rude, mean, angry, laughing in my face, etc. when rejecting me, no matter how polite or respectful I was. Even in times I wasn’t expressing interest in them. But I will say as they grow older, that diminishes somewhat.
Thank you for creating this video! One of the best and most informative videos on this channel.
and i very much appreciate this video, im glad im not using my instagram for posting photos of myself or following any famous personal profiles
From my wifes, rather small, circle of girlfriends the "pretty" ones are all single and jumping from bad relationship to the next, generally only happy for a short few weeks and then miserable for the next 4 or 5 months until breakup (I know because, she, being happily married and with a wonderful kid has to "listen" to their complaints, the "why cant I have your luck" and "help" them along while they keep doing the same mistakes over and over), meanwhile "less pretty" ones are all (except one) in stable - and to my limited knowledge: happy - relationships.
I wonder if this "less pretty" factor actually helps boost their overall attractiveness to "not jerk" type men, focus their aim towards attributes that better fulfil their goals and therefore contribute to their general happiness.
The face picture in picture promotion at the end really comes back full circle. Really does! lol
Point to stand out: what about these girls that decide to start a relationship and keep the same dynamics they had on their social media back to when they were single?
If that girl loves you, she will delete her profile. If not, be aware.
6:22 "If that sounds outlandish to you..." Dude that was 3/4 of my interactions with women during high school.
Give the children what they need
Not what they want
This is one of the most important and informative videos you have come up with yet on UA-cam. I think that as many women should see this as the men that watch your channel.
“Some humans are better than others.” I believe many have trouble grappling with that.
Better at what is the real question.
@@daivonclark5151 That's a much larger discussion for sure. Some are better socially, some at problem-solving, some at athletic endeavors, it depends. There's such a vast array of different things people can excel in, all of which can combine to a more successful person overall, or career, relationship, etc.
My power was out for quite some time yesterday and I was sitting in my living room with my parents listening to a football game on the radio under candle light. My mom mentioned how it was like we were living back in the 1900s. I started thinking about what it would have been like to live back then. No internet, limited electricity, and wether society as whole was healthier. It’s hard to say without actually experiencing it but sometimes I wonder if society before the internet was a better place.
Media and feminism
Wow this is the best breakdown of Instagram's influence on the internet.
So I'm high quality human just for watching your videos ?! Aww thank you
You are not legally allowed to look at a woman for more than 5 seconds for it is a crime now so why are women allowed to continue to show off their bodies at all? Isn't that illegal too? Remember, the rule of law enforces "reciprocity" therefore the women need to be charged with crimes! You can't blame gasoline for being flamable but you can blame/charge someone who uses gasoline to commit a crime! Actions are the crimes not the existence of the object!
Yes I was just talking to my freinds about how much I don't like it
This is a take I hadn't put much thought into. Very insightful.
Blame?
It's mediocre behavior to blame. It is what it is. Don't be a victim.
I feel like you're saying the same thing with more steps. Social media does reveal true natures of women. I agree with your view too. Both things can be true. As far as social media corrupting potentially high quality women, that seems like a method of taking away accountability for individual women. Showing skin is easy, and you make a distinctive choice when you do.
This is also a reason why now the most attractive women are NOT the highest quality anymore. Odds are if shes at least an 8 shes getting a ton of online attention, has thousands of followers, etc. If you've ever talk to a 9 or a 10 anymore odds are they are completely bland with no personality, no sense of humor, completely self absorbed, etc.
And it might not be ideal but honestly 6's and 7's are where its at. They have usually had to develop a personality and other traits in order to be more successful and it has made them the most ideal girls, for me at least. They dont get the online attention that would inhibit their other intangible qualities. A lot of them like to have fun and be actual normal people.
but no one ever talks about how a supposedly 10 could be a 1 in bed.
happens quite alot actually. and yes they take that self entitled attitude all the way to the bedroom too... there really is no brakes for them.
Very insightful and spot on to look at this. It always comes back to the fact our nature hasn't changed back from 10 000 years ago, yet modern life is really different of course and adds tons of new elements. And since FB creators played on human nature with dopamine hits to get and keep attention, many others have since followed, quite successfully too. As these FB creators said, attention is the new currency. So these apps and games and all take our primal elements and exacerbate them for gains. These teen girls grow up in this.
Gotta be a sad way to live.
Women have changed so much in the last 25 years it is incredible. I doubt you could find one that can cook a steak in the kitchen or make biscuits from scratch. All they want to do is eat out and take photos and look at their phone.
There was also no welfare for women to leach off of rather than settling for an available mate.
"Mirror Mirror on the Wall. Who is the Fairest of them all!". Our elders understood this. Just see the folk tales, of Snow White, Sleeping Beauty and Cinderella.
Bro i seen girls 4 year old with smartphons why dahell dose a 4 year ood needs a smartphon
Parents who have no business being parents. They are lazy and it serves as a way to shut the child up. It should be illegal to have a cell phone until 18.
@@scott6430 I'll even say maybe 20
Social media has given women more access to both high value men and tons of simps worldwide, making it hard for them to be with one guy because of how much attention they can get. They can easily DM that high value man they desire and possibly get a reply, and they have all their simps to fall back on if that doesn't work.
Congratulations, Alex, on giving me yet one more reason not to want to have ANYTHING to do with women!
"some humans are better than others" correct
Their fathers
That's most problems
You're brilliant Alexander.
The problem is that tec is not for evrybody
I've said it before and I'll say it again. Social media has destroyed human beings.
Females are extremely competitive
Truth. I experienced the rejection he spoke about first hand.
Wait a moment, Alex.. when you said it makes low value men an anonymous asset, doesn’t this apply to onlyfans at all?
Lack of consequence is exactly what's wrong.
Every day I'm starting to think about how Islam actually tackles and solves these problems
how
id like to know. genuinely interested
@@chevlogs369 women in Islam from what I've seen with my Muslim friends are seen in such a high place. Men and women are generally told to"lower their gaze" not to look in a lustful manner. I have to say that I am not knowledgeable enough about this topic however there are many videos on youtube by mufti menk which are fairly fun to listen to. Cheers
I’ve been thinking the same, despite its inhumanity and superstitions. Quite simply, it’s highly authoritarian, which means dominance. Women are even allowed to be beaten, says the scripture. Basically, the women can’t grow entitled, greedy and selfish because the ideology demands too much of their energy in obedience, especially at a mental level. Don’t get me started on the fear of punishment. However, even though it gets toxic feminity under control through domineering means, its highly illiberal political design (and I mean classical liberalism, not the modern iteration) utterly dwarfs the dating and relationship problems in west. We can solve these dating problems in theory, and with enough coordination and effort, also in practice.
how about 72 huri in paradise ? how about having 4 or more woman.
are these good quality of your religion??
I do agree with your views; however, I've witnessed women posting photos on social media only for that top guy to notice. In the end, it was funny how they would get pissed off when only the low value men would like these photos instead.
You definitely couldn’t say this to a woman in this day in age because girls are on these platforms posting ass cracks and skin etc etc and in the caption it’s “self love”
“My body my rules”
And there always seems to be some hippie caption that doesn’t really mean anything.
"How DARE you talk to me, you low quality male!"
Oh! Really? Ok. No problem. A wild animal is about to attack you?! No protection from low quality me.