@@SPL1NGYDUDE So what you're saying is... if it's true that Harvard is better than Yale, it must at the same time be true that Yale is better than Harvard. If it's true that black is not the same as white, then it must also be true that black is exactly the same as white. Wicked argument there, my friend... or should I say, it's not wicked at all, it's great? Or it's evil? Or it's wonderful?.... Heck I'm confused now!
@daniel280456 No you misunderstand, what i meant is that it is NOT natural selection that makes women in the modern world attracted to height, it is a socialized thing. Women do not innately have a height preference.
She wants to feel inferior in every way. Lets rephrase that. She wants a man that is better than her in every way. Well this is just hypergamy, again. Women only date up.
Hypergamie isn't even a scientific term! Once there where just a dude, that thought he was super smart and came up with that stupid idea. Of course there is no scintific proof for that concept.
I've been trying to tell guys this for maybe a decade now. I used to cover up because I had a shitty body so my girlfriend was used to never really seeing me topless. During that time, for like a year I worked out like a maniac. From the time I met her until then she repeatedly said to me, and her friends and sisters would back her up "I hate muscles, they look weird". Then one night after having worked out for a long time I took off my top and the sound she made was hilarious, she went "OOOOH!" and started feeling me up, rubbing my arms, chest, stomach etc. Then she immediately wanted sex. Her friends and sisters had the EXACT same reaction. In fact my girlfriend would lift up my top in front of them and tell them to feel. Yet women claim WE objectify them? I enjoyed it but still, hypocrisy. Anyway, my life changed. Women saying they don't like muscles (if you want proof that this is bullshit check out ladyboners on reddit, see how many out of shape guys are there) is like you saying to your skinny girlfriend that you don't like big hips, ass and tits. You're trying to make her feel better about herself but if she had a nice shapely ass and tits you'd be fucking them and telling her how amazing her body is. It's the exact same thing. In fact, girls have all said to me, after we break up that they weren't able to go back to "normal guys" and last time I saw my "OOOOH!" ex she was with a muscly guy. They all talk about "feeling safe" and "feeling small" too. It's just like with guys, we like feeling strong, we like feeling like we're protecting her when she cuddles up to you. Of course women are into looks. It's just that they have two different standards, short term fucks standards which is based on looks and long term which is based on other things. And if she thinks she won't be able to get a long term relationship with a hot guy she'll sacrifice looks for money and stability when she wants to settle down. The fact that women deny all of this is hilarious and it causes a tonne of confusion. They'll all claim that their turn ons are "kindness" and "intelligence/humor" yet, again, go to anywhere where women check out men. How many ugly smart guys are there? If there's a hot guy who happens to be smart they'll all go on about his intelligence. If there's an ugly guy who's smart they won't notice. Anyone who's lived in the real world knows this. By the way I once got into a huge flame war on Reddit after someone started the topic of male and female attraction. I shared my experience and they ALL freaked out calling me a sexist/misogynist saying "I hope no woman goes near you, you obviously hate them!" and what was hilarious was that two of these women started sending me private messages and after I sent them a pic of me they started sending me nudes. And one of them HAD A BOYFRIEND who she was basically calling "beta" because she was pushing him around. These women who acted outraged at the idea of women liking good looking men suddenly started wanting to sext when they saw my body in a picture. No wonder younger guys are so lost and angry. They get bullshitted while growing up. It doesn't matter what kind of lies women are led to believe while growing up because men find them attractive no matter what. As long as they're not an actively bad person most guys will happily date them. It's young men who get misled by the idea that women are solely attracted to nothing but being nice, being stable and being intelligent.
@@weirdtoknow1226 He has 2 shirt on top of each other, its like that tease vid where a girl wears like 30 pants and takes them off one by one but you never see whats inside lol
Same here bro...on top of that my dad was pretty much non existent...no role model...but it can be overcome, I'm there now but it took F'ing decades...my take...forget the women for now, lift weights, make lots of money, make yourself important, get Stirling Coopers materials and watch him on youtube...
My mom screwed me up really bad (in the relationship department) and I was basically undateable for 25 years :D I grew up with female values and never had a father figure etc. They really don't know what they want or are to ashamed to admit to what exactly they are attracted to.
I also don't have a dad, but i made it somehow, but i feel bad knowing others are having a hard time. Just remember, disciple is the key, you work on improving your own life and you'll see women will be attracted to you automatically.
Weird is for Americans, in Europe the stupidity isn't as grown, so somethings are still visible here, like I can relate this video to the stuff I have seen so far, so more than weird its actually on point, not like other channels that want you to remember a feeling rather than understand it like this youtuber does. So its up to you.
And yet men are always the ones called out for being children. As well as that shit that women mature faster psychologically than men according to them. Bullshit, it's VERY apparent they're the fucking children who don't seem to grow up.
They say girls mature quicker than boys. Now that may be true, during the teen years/early twenties. But then they stop maturing and stay frozen in that state for evermore. Or worse, they actually go backwards. Less stable, less secure as they go into their 30s/40s.
Asura: Pretty much all heterosexual women are partially "children". They're biologically designed to be. J. Devitt: Women use that "psychologically mature"-argument in the wrong way. The reality is that women are biologically programmed to be less psychologically mature than men are, throughout their entire life. However, women become SEXUALLY MATURE (both physically and psychologically) earlier than men do, because they're biologically intended to mate with men who are older than themselves, because that's what's most beneficial for an offspring's survival.
This is bullshit. Most of these fucking chics have been spoiled as fuck by TV shows like friends and the hollywood culture permeating US culture. There are lots of smart women who are unfortunately, taken. Guys like me who have found success later rather than sooner are left with the fucking scraps (psychos, hoes, and cunts) because I blew it like this fucking chad when I was younger and failed to develop something serious. Now trying to find a real relationship has become so much harder because of the brainwashing and conditioning girls have been subject to through our fucked up society. The greatest generation and baby boomers have fucked us all over hard. For what we have in technology we've lost in humanity and have these fucking chad douchebags telling us 'how it is' because he's a hard dick with a small brain...its fucking sickening to think this guy has it right. Our society has been completely porno-ized.
As a guy who knows all this stuff, you should be hitting the gym. You can never be as wise as an older men that's already financially stable and been through a lot of life experiences. Instead why not maximize your youth and be physically fit first.
Feminism is about societal changes and professional life. Not the dating world. A huge amount of feminists are sexually submissive and if they are self-aware enough to know the difference that is no issue.
That's so funny to me I mean if I am supposed to be superior in any area of competence why would I even need/want her for? If it's just sexual intercourse one night stands are best I can get so why relationship? All their worth comes from caring for children
Listening to you talk is more enlightening that a professor in a university. It's like you are untangling the psychological nature of women without any pompf or added substance. It's a pure dissertation, a pure lecture about the relations between man and woman. You have a talent Grace, you need to keep at it.
girl whos literally 5 foot tall still thinks she deserves a man whos over 6 foot tall and well built thats like a decent skinny short guy with abs thinking he deserves megan fox but still women who weigh as much as cows think they can get the that guy.... women are dillusional
@Merca coffee gardens Why do you disrespect him in the first place? You should appreciate that he puts up with your crap because you are not his enemy. We should be smarter and go over this animalistic instincts.
This is one thing I had to accept. Even though I might be the most capable guy in the room, I’m not attracting her because I can’t make her feel small otherwise, “safe”. Unfortunately, I’m not tall enough. Once I realized and accepted this fact, I was able to adjust my frame of mind and concentrate on improving myself in areas where I’m not limited by my genetics. I started reading more, eating better, exercising, and starting learning a new language. I even traveled to another country for a few months. All this has helped me improve myself and I feel more capable than ever. What I’m getting at is that we all should should strive to become the best person we possibly can. Never let your limits to be what defines you. Never give up.
The points made in this video are spot on correct. I once dated a feminist girl and found that when I experimented with some (what I thought at the time) extreme sexual acts that were very dominant, instead of becoming upset she was really turned on. I didn't ask her I just did it. I think this is also an important point. By talking about it with the girl you engage the rational, social part of her mind, the part that worries about what others would think if they knew. By just doing what you want to her without asking, things stay at that animal level where there are no inhibitions.
Freind of mine did the same thing, until they broke up and she filed rape charges with a full very accurate description of exactly what he did, they didn't stick because she told him on tape that she would recant the entire thing if he agreed to marry her. Crazy is always the hottest until the bill comes due.
It is fortunate of him that he recorded the conversation, however that in and of itself is very risky. There have been men that decided to show the evidence to clear a false rape charge, only to be incriminate and convict themselves on Federal Wiretapping laws or recording without consent. Jump out of one frying pan, into another. As an alternative, there has been movement by Planned Parenthood for Planned Consent. It's basically the opposite of the above, and is pretty repulsive to anyone that hasn't done it before, which is pretty much everyone. It's the rules we play by now to protect ourselves, and women will complain that men don't want to interact or romance them the way men did back in the day. Women ruined it for themselves.
@@robertgrays8790 He didn't! She went to the police and called him from their phone. He got a called from a blocked number and said it was obvious what was happening so he played it cool and this crazy-B said to him ON TAPE, AT THE POLICE STATION, "If you marry me I'll drop the charges." Which apparentl is illegal because his lawyer supoenad the tape and the police told him it was 'accidentally destroyed.'
@@captainpinky8307 yes ! I've come across marketing videos , and I loved them. Just like you said . Isn't it brilliant & interesting understanding human motives behind every action ?! it's truely mesmerising. it puts you in a position of power over your own emotions and desires . it brings the uncouscious to the conscious . and also overpowering most people without even them knowing . precisely predicting people behaviour and relationships outcome becomes a piece of cake .
Possibly the best explanation of masculine/feminine energy I've seen. Explained well without misogyny or misandry. Everyone can benefit from hearing this regardless of their dating horizon (short term all the way to married couples)
Big problem is that a) Women are big and getting bigger i.e. fatter b) Men don't want fat women So women can't find a man that makes them feel small and men don't want someone who is unattractive, a poor breeder with looming health issues. .......and this is before we take into account womens appalling attitudes. Its not looking good.
@@bos9824 I've been married you useless twat. And now I'm single and putting it about like never before. Very happy. 😎 You, however, have issues. Its obvious from your childish comment.
Brooo this is gold, all the puzzle pieces are coming together!!! For me, the red pill has been this complicated rabbit hole of information that I could never fully devour. But now I feel like I've become enlightened on the WHY the red pill WORKS!! Amazing work Alexander I want to be a supporter one of these days
Same. It just makes sense to me now that a girl will not date a guy who is inferior in categories X, Y and Z. Why would she? Especially when she has options. Become the best man you can be in every part of your life, then they will notice. Be competitive.
this depresses me. and not in the "im short and small and will never find a girl" way, but in the "i really want equality in my relationships and i dont wanna be a dad to my girl" way
You are projecting. Men want a "helper" and equal because they want to help and "fix" the world. Men enjoy giving to his family: money, security, comfort. Women don't want and don't enjoy being the provider. Please understand that men are different creatures than women.
Avichay Avivi understading the case that they THAT different is what depresses me. As i said, I want a woman who doesn't have the need to be rude or do shittests so they can be controled. It really turns me off when a woman is immature in that way
@@finomhiphopandskate The only way you will find that, is when they are old and hitting the wall. The best thing to do when you have a woman like that is to just not play, the bullshit.
As much as I myself would like it to be different, this biological need in a woman for a dominant, rude a$$hole, actually built this world. Thanks to this quality in the "whamens", we (the man) force ourselves to be dominant and enforce our will on the world, by force or by smarts or both. We HAVE to fight other man to get the best woman we can get. We BECOME the best we can when we FIGHT.
BRO!!! This is possibly the most eye-opening video I've ever seen about women. I've always wondered why certain girls liked me or found me impressive even when we had nothing in common. Every single one of those girls were either smaller than me, younger than me or not as accomplished as me. Mind absolutely blown. I remember meeting one girl who I had tons of common interests with and we got along really well, but she friend zoned me early on and I was so confused. I never understood why. She was my height and quite strong for a girl. 🤯
Looks is the most important factor. You don’t need to be the biggest and toughest looking guy in the room. Most girls don’t like super big bodybuilders or like bouncer looking dude. They like tall athletic looking dudes with good muscle mass and an attractive face. That’s what turns them on. Brad Pitt is taller than Mike and has a better looking face. His physique is probably more attractive to most women too.
I'm an extremely skinny guy with an extremely jacked brain. And a strong masculine core. I've dated many women. The feminine wants to feel owned, protected, safe. How this is felt varies from woman to woman. What's important is your masculine energy being a strong PRESENCE for the feminine to FEEL. When it is, you are the hulk and she is a little girl.
A knew about it, but I was too innocent to belive it extended to most if not all women. After this video I meditated on my past experiences with women and I must say I was brainwashed. I'm 19, so guess I'm ahead of the competition.
I remember, years ago, watching a 20/20 piece where they picked out an assortment of guys and put them in a police lineup, then had an assortment of women come in and look at them and rank them according to how much they would like to date them based solely on their looks. They generally ranked them according to their heights, although the top two or three might vary across the women's scorecards based on what they found handsome or a preferred ethnicity. Then they threw in some made-up stats about the men's education levels, their incomes, their jobs, and their arrest records. That might bump the second or third place guy up, but otherwise their choices stayed pretty much the same. I remember in one particular lineup, there was a guy who was short--only a bit over 5'--but he was very handsome and I (who was a teenager at the time) thought he was by far and away the best-looking guy and would have chosen him as my first choice. He was last on every woman's list. Then they gave the stats. He was a doctor, which made him more educated than any of the other men. He also made a lot more money. They made the tallest man the least attractive in terms of wages and intelligence. And still women would not rank the short guy any higher up on their lists and only a few bumped the tall guy down to second place (and replaced him with their second choice). Even as an adult, I have to admit that I still find a certain type of short guy attractive, which is clearly contrary to natural instinct. But it makes sense when you look at my stepfather; he was my father figure when I was growing up and he's quite short. He's only a couple of inches shorter than my mother, but I took after my dad's side of the family and I became taller than both of them when I was about 13 years old. So, for a long time, I've looked up to a man I literally look down upon. I think that it's true when they say that women marry their fathers, and I think that's why I have a soft spot in my heart for a short man. The man I married is not small, but I never actually had any opportunity to date a smaller guy, so who knows what would have happened if the choice had presented itself? But odd outliers aside, everything else in here is correct. Even if I were with a short guy, I'd want him to be a badass short guy. When I was growing up, there were a few occasions where panhandlers or the like would approach us on the street and my stepfather always stepped forward, putting himself between the man and us, and then he would talk to the guy to engage his attention and keep it away from us. My mother would take me and we would go around or into a store or go back the way we came and he would catch up once he got away. So I know from experience that even a short man can be a protector. But a protector a man absolutely must be.
Yep, I remember that 20/20 segment. The taller guys all had criminal records, little education, menial jobs, but by God they were tall! That seemed to be all the women cared about. The littlest guy was way better than any of the tall ones yet only 1 or 2 of the women said they'd MAYBE date him once they knew about his credentials and wealth.
@Mattia Baraldo I suppose that's one perspective...the opposite being they feel pathetic and need to rely on others because they are unable to accomplish things on their own
Alex, the kind of wisdom you guys possess today was not available when I was young. I started out as a bookish nerd and innate artist right up until puberty. Then I suddenly grew in height and muscle mass until I could pass for a full grown man at 14. Inside I was still a bit of an introverted people observer but to other people I was the BMOC. Coming into high school and instantly having the attention of all of the Stacys and Heathers was mind blowing. Almost every day I was asking myself "What the hell is going on here?" Girls seemed to crave my attention. Being hugged was like some kind of drug to them often making me late for my next class with my books carried in front of my pup tent pants. I thought all guys had the same level of attraction and therefore completely missed the potential power I commanded. I grew up and joined the Navy; I trained in Florida and served much of my career in California. The attractive power of being 6'1 230 did not escape the notice of beach bunnies and celebrities alike. Interestingly, my inner introvert caused me to be less emotional and less vulnerable to female charms and apparently translated into "indifference" in the eyes of most women. The result being I never had to compete for any woman's attention. Several times I experienced some actress or model dragging a crowd of admirers over to start a conversation with me. To be honest it wasn't until I was in my mid 40's, divorced and learning about MGTOW that I began to understand why women behave the way they do. My mistake from the beginning was thinking that they wanted love and respect the same way men do. Turns out "Indifference" would have been the best strategy all along.
I believe u understand what we (men) wants. And i believe u understood them (women) better than me (im 23 yo male, striving for life perfection). My question is, is it possible for men and women to live coeherently? (I know i might worded it wrong) i mean, what kind of personality and mindset i have to bring so i can masters the principality of women so i can make them do this and do that like they would perish if i dont? My current opinion is, all i have to do if i wants to live in harmony with women, all i need to do is overwhelms them with everything (yea im goodlooking, works at oil and gas industries, have integral thinking, etc) and act uninterested to them so they tries to pleases me more and rewards them with some validation (depending on their "love language", but i dont do "act of service") when they re desperate, so they re dont stop chasing. So far, its gone very well after i behave that way. What do u think?
And that’s the issue with this muscular thing, it’s temporary, and you don’t want to be married for something like this ultimately long term because you’ll get divorced inevitably. Unfortunately. If that is a leading reason, however it is highly beneficial when looking for short term mates
Is that why men represents over 90% of the total incarcerated population in the US? (and in most parts of the world)? I am not saying men are worse than women - there might be a plurality of reasons why we see more male criminals than female criminals - but this thing of "masculine equals order, feminine equals chaos"... hmmmmmmmmm... nope! * Disclaimer: this comment was not written with the intention of creating beef, it was simply intended to be thought provoking, and hopefully target some prejudices.
@@MoonLilly92 you ever thought that society cuts women breaks, especially when it comes to prison? Cmon dawg. Look at most court cases with women, they are let off for what a man would serve a licetime sentence.
Good video dude. I’ve been seeing red pill stuff around, but I always thought it was pathetic because most of the guys just seemed hella butt hurt about life and hateful towards women. You actually seem logical and grounded. Good stuff keep it up.
Many red pilled men started out as blue pills. The red pill is a HARD and PAINFUL pill to swallow. The basic life cycle usually goes 1). First found the philosophy 2). Denial 3). Internalization of the philosophy while still longing for blue pill ideals aka. red pill rage 4). Quiet embrace The most vocal in the red pill community are those in the 3rd phase. Alex on the other hand has reached the final phase and is now sharing the philosophy in a much more laid back, relaxed and calm manner.
@@genghiskhan6809 Great comment. I suppose I am in phase 3 still. But I can't seem to move past it because I from time to time keep ending up in long-term committed relationships and the romance blinds me like a child. Now, I've dated a female who was by far my worst experience (she was saying crap like "share me with other men and do not react when I go home with another guy in front of you"). Thus, I came out of blue pill land (more like purple pill) from my recent relationship and got smashed in the face by reality again. Any tips on how to move to phase 4 since phase 3 is really energy draining and thought-active. I always seem to get the hand of red pill and then boom I end up in a committed relationship where I go back to enjoying the illusion of forever happy together (because of the great feeling of affection, love and intimacy which I desire to last forever).
You are absolutely right. I am living in China and all of the Chinese girls that I date say the same thing. You are tall, big and I like it when you pick me up. They even say that like being next to me because they feel secure when I hug them. This is biology and I will take a small, feminine and attractive Asian girl from the east, over an entitled western woman. At least some of these eastern women still value masculinity and do not consider it toxic.
The western feminists also value masculinity, they are just indoctrinated to hate white men so if you're white they will hate you no matter what. Still if you're an uber chad the feminists will fuck you. But they're so ugly and despicable that you probably wouldn't want to fuck them.
I agree with this post. Im 27 yo. I always say that my Man HAS to be smarter than me. And Im Lucky, because he is. He has to be smarter and stronger because he will take care of me and my newborn Child. I need to feel safe to want have children. Simple. 😄 My Man is taller, stronger, smarter. Im smart too, but he is better for example in maths and he knows how to build a house, fix a car etc. We are 11 years together and we are happy 😇 He is my Hero 💗
@@Thesavagesouls 😁😁 No, he is not. You know why? First of all he loves me. Second thing is that I am pretty & fit so I am hard competition to other women. 😝 And last but not least... We are from Poland. 96% of men are masculine here. 😄 You know, hard cold Winters, bears, chopping Wood. 😂
@@mariidivine7413 Also, fit and sexy or not, it is known that men like to cheat hot wives with average women. Don't know why tho, maybe because its easy?
Marii Divine - I am cohabiting with a woman 19 years younger than me for the last 9 years. She cooks for me, laundry , cleaning , massage and all house old jobs and sexually addicted to me twice a day. It's not by chance. I have learnt the rules of game hardest way. I am a thin guy of 58 not able to lift her. However, I am always willing to leave her for old age home, the first time she shown disobedience to me.
14:00 - 16:20 Works well until she's ready to change up. Plenty of alpha types have found themselves freshly single or recently arrested when these unstable women suddenly want a new experience for whatever reason. Seems to confirm that on balance, most relationships have a limited shelf life due to these dynamics (which I routinely encounter) and the laws of our land. Call her out and call her bluff, just be prepared to follow through and dump her when - NOT IF - she escalates.
The thing is most alphas do not get persecuted. Alphas can read body language well and know what they are able to do. Actually, they are so natural that the women senses it and she feels no regret afterwards. A true alpha doesn't really laugh at a ton of things that a normal guy would find as discriminating towards a women. It is because it is normal/natural to him. For example... I told a guy if he sees a woman he is attracted to he should wave her over to him. He should "Call her over". He laughed because it is not natural to him. However, a Russian born man with a different mindset and an abundance with women wouldn't even show the slightest emotional response....... *Normal behavior to the Russian guy* *She senses his confidence/dominance* *She comes over happy he told her what to do*
@@SH3player Yeah seen Russians do it my friend. Two things in their favor: 1.) They are confident in themselves and their ability to follow through. 2.) They live in a place where the state doesn't leapfrog the objections of the female to prosecute alpha males. Taking your entire comment as correct, here in the U.S., we have colleges, law enforcement and to some extent workplaces that will STILL prosecute/fire/expel You even though the woman had no objections. The alphas accurate read of the the female's body language is NEGATED because the "state" or company comes at you ANYWAY. My original thought though was when said girl wants to dump an Alpha, he better be ready to follow through and dump her as that shit test has no other correct option BUT to dump her.
@@SH3player Or she's just being polite. If someone calls me over (anyone..) I'll respond with "Alright" and get right over in case they need to tell me something important. I'm also always smiling. Also women aren't just governed by their biology the same way men aren't. (Example: Literally every femdom ever.) Plus plenty of women provide for their boyfriends.
@@JustMe-rm2pw We are all governed by our biology. Every single emotion can be broken down to the logical path in making strong offspring. Women *and men*. *Just being polite* is an emotional phrase that has different definitions based on our perspective. There is always a logical reasoning behind phrases like this. Please define this logically to me. With men it is usually easier because it is easier for them to explain, however I have had many men repeat themselves and pinpoint the logic behind the emotional phrases. She is being polite? Who? I talked about a guy who laughed about something he can do to get a woman he has attraction for to come over. So did you mean him? I'm not trying to attack, I want to know what you think. Your perspective is.
I think it’s much more about dominance than physical size. I am average height, 5’10”, and typically date tall girls my same height, 5’8”-5’10”. I am average build, though I do have wide shoulders. But I grew up in a Military family, and am perceived to be very aggressive both in the sack or when antagonized into anger. There are too many physically large guys who are the gentile giant type. I beleive it is more the perception of your strength of character, not your muscles, but that’s just my opinion.
Azor Ahai If you are red pill, you should know about LMS already... Looks, Status, Money. Just being 6’”4 doesnt even maximize the looks dimension. An educated profesional will beat out a tall man for a relationship.
Jeff Moss If you are a respectable person, others will respect and follow you without the need to beat up anybody. Leaders don’t take respect by force, it is given to them freely thru their actions.
Exactly- I've gotten shit from my own family just for raising my voice or when I get angry- people really freak out when they perceive you by your psychical attributes.
Not really, I am not tall, but good looking and also developed a muscular well proportioned body with wide shoulders, big arms, and overall insane strength, I dated many girls of all kinds including models, women stare at me from across the street and in the market they always casually bump on me and try to start conversation, but one one in particular was on the big curvy side and heavy, I lifted her like she was made of feathers and spinned her like a ball, I did her on the wall lifting her with my forearms for a while and then threw her flying on the bed, she could not stop begging that I made her from behind while spanking her hard, till she exploded in a flood of watery rain, she certainly saw the rainbow after that.
@@RoninCatholic "A Man needs to have a lot of simultaneous prospects spinning together. Think of each plate as a separate woman you are pursuing. Some fall off and break, others you may wish to stop spinning altogether and some may not spin as fast as you’d like, but the essence of plate theory is that a man is as confident and valuable as his options. This is the essence of the abundance mindset - confidence is derived from options." From www.google.co.uk/amp/s/therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/plate-theory-2/amp/
This was a impeccable and profoundly powerful dissertation on masculinity and women! instantly subbed I’m very impressed and interested in watching more of your videos damn I’m taken aback from such a solid explanation of things we as men and women inherently know but rarely verbalize due to social constructs that are not popular. Damn I’m so impressed
This is why I don't know whether to laugh or throw up when women actually have the nerve to whine and complain about men who judge them by their *waistlines.*
I’ve slowly grown apart from my sexual desires, not sure if it’s a biological change or mental state. I’m small, 5.6, and while I had my fair share of girls during my college years I never felt any deep connection. Every girl I had always had this look in their eyes that longed for more, they would stare at other guys taller than me (which is basically like 80% of all men) anytime we were out in public. Sex felt one-sided and they never showed lasting contentment. Lately I realized that all those times were just wasted on trying to please someone that didn’t appreciate my efforts. Soon after dating my last girl I realized that my time could be better use for self development. Been working hard to start a business and leave all my past behind. With money I can get all the homes, cars, and experiences I’ve ever wanted, even sex can be bought so what’s the point. My early life was wasted in chasing a plastic reward. TLDR: don’t waste your early life chasing sex, chase money and the rest can follow
I switched from martial arts to bodybuilding some years ago. Obviously, combat sports involve tons of cardio so even though I was in great shape I wasn't big at all. I noticed more or less per kilo of mass I gained girls got more intersted in me. Even girls I had known for years suddenly viewed me completely different. Escaped a lot of friendzones after the first ten kilos. Now, weighing 103 kilos at 1.87 it's ridiculous how easy it is to get both aquaintances and strangers to bed. Guys, you NEED to lift.
Wish I would’ve had access to this kind of content 20 years ago. People like this guy, better bachelor, kevin Samuels, fresh&fit and others are saving young men.
Truth. This is why me and hubby have been happily married for 13 years with a very active sex life that even having kids didnt interfere with. Even tho at work we both have high power roles, everywhere else we maintain that power differential, even play up on it, and have managed to remain very attracted to eachother after all these years. I secretly love it when he proves me wrong and pins me down, makes me think... my mans the best, so smart and strong.
Indeed. There's a whole universe out there waiting to be explored with virtually no limit to human potential. Eating, sleeping, and having sex are just the basics, we can do better than that as a species.
I've always had sucess, with proving(in a fun, good vibe way) to girls, that I am still way stronger and thus capable of handling them. Girls have more body fat, which makes them look more massive. On top of that, their muscles contain much more water, which makes them look bigger, than their performance acctually is. If a girl has the same Biceps size as you, you'll still easily win. In most cases, when they even seem to have a significantly bigger one. There's acctually a Steven Crowder video out there of his skinny gamer cohost defeating a bulky crossfit girl in armwrestling.
My problem is that I grew up working on trucks, hauling horses & hay, training horses, doing farrier work, racing 4 wheelers on the river sandbars, hunting & butchering the meat myself. Kayaking, camping, hiking, & the like. My husband grew up with a manipulative narcissist mother, no father, & hung out at the mall. He works out & is a big guy but certain times our relationship is strained. One being when I offered to change the brakes on his car because the quote he got was $700 just for brakes! NOT including rotors which he needed, because they couldn't be turned. His response is "my car needs a special part so I'll just take it in." I asked what parts it needed. "It needs a caliper." I didn't feel any less attracted to him, or superior, I just explained it to him nicely. Every vehicle has 4 calipers... plural, not singular. & they're what squeeze the brake pads onto the rotors when you press the brake to stop. He said "I'll just take it in" which is his choice I wont interfer with, but then took it a step farther by questioning that I knew how to change brakes... Here's where I'd give him slack: he didn't know what the heck he was talking about, he didnt grow up with a father figure- I get that. So I would've found it way attractive if he would've admitted that. Instead of questioning my ability to get the job done. I don't feel annoyed or question his abilities when he knows something I don't, because the way I see it is the more skills each of us have, the better! Personally speaking as a woman, I find it sexy as hell when a man welcomes my skills, rather than being small minded & seeing it as a threat to his lack there of. It's totally fine if he didn't know, but then acting butt hurt & trying to cut down my skills, on top of that? It's way unattractive. I don't see his skills as a threat to my own knowledge. I see both of us being good at different things, & he seems insecure about that, but it's silly. If he wants to become better at it so he can 'be superior' that's awesome, change my 7.3l diesels alternator! Change out both batteries, change the fuel filter or use a strap wrench for the oil filter, but dont act like me knowing these things outshines you. Because if that's the case, unfortunetly he's being small minded & I won't feel safe to just be me. Because his lack of knowledge doesn't make me see him as different or unattractive, his conduct thereafter does. It's ok to not know something, what becomes an issue is when you act like you do, for the sake of 'feeling' superior.
@swellingsuperman - My husband works out & is fit (Nice arms, really nice legs), but he's an inch shorter than I am if that answers your question. It used to bother me a little early on until I met my family for lunch & he came along. My sister in law whispered, "omg he's shorter than her?" & proceeded to giggle. We could hear her. At that very moment I wanted to punch her right in the face. It sounded so vain out loud! When she said that I thought wow, I don't want to be that person. I felt guilty for letting that bother me a little, early on. I was having a great time getting to know him, we took my horses out, I worked out with him at the gym, etc. We've been married 5 years & I don't think about his height at all anymore. He's my babe!
Even tho I don't think of myself like that kind of person, but I have to admit I can't lose to a girl at anything for some reason it fucks with me if a girl can do something better than me Lol I don't let it slide I have to win I mean if she's better at something I don't care about that's fine but if a girl challenges me in any way and wins I kinda feel weird about it. Even tho it means nothing to the girl but to me it doesn't sit well And that could be anything even a game on the phone Is that a bad thing?
Yeet, you speak pure poetry fam. Sometimes, putting all the yes and no's, all the traits aside. In relationships, being able to eat crow, and have team work, is far more important than feeling insecure. Vice versa, either gender must realize, that once you are in a serious relationship, where youre beyond physical attraction, and all other bigginer q's you look for in a mate. Its the action and how they proceed to acknowledge the fact, that there are two in the relationship. Thus, one with another complete each other as their other half orange or whatever.
Wow, this was very enlightening🤔 I am 5’11 which is not very tall, but have an athletic wide frame, and my girlfriend is 5’0 tall and very small frame. She always compliments me on my body shape/stature and how much bigger I am than her. I never understood why she liked this so much but it all makes sense now!
As a woman, I know that women who haven't figured out, and admitted to themselves, that they Need a man to be dominant are missing out on SO much pleasure.
im a 21 year Old women, I agree with the dominance thing but the outright insulting stuff no, actually that puts me soo off and makes me think the guy is not as smart as I thought. Usually guys who are funny, confident, genuine who have more personality under all that is what I gravitate towards, not sure if this counts but a guy who is a bit of an asshole tsundere? but is genuine under all that. I hope that helps, have a good day :)
@Nebula It depends on your personality, if your an introverted women like myself then you dont wear makeup/skin care or dress up to much on purpose to not get attention so you can blend in. Im sure everyone in the mirror can assess their looks and be aware if they are objectively good looking or not (symmetry). I hate compliments or attention from men but not women so imagine my surprise when my friend did makeup and clothes (first time at 19yrs old) for a wedding and thats all people/stangers could talk about...made me feel sick and not myself. I also tried it out when going to a shop, it was f in weird, i come from a place were people dont culturally stare or compliment at alll and that shop keeper was doing a bit much of both. Im not going to go on about other situations but makeup/ dressing up is to much for introverted women we prefer someone to prefer our intelligence or personality. Plus we women are more than just a face we have a brain if a guy is a rude confident idiot then were more likely to stay 10m away.
Went on a date with a guy who ticked all the physical boxes (though I can't help but remember thinking he had "feminine" looking hands) but mentally, I felt like I was more confident, more street smart and i felt able to "control" him. I always had a hard time figuring out why I instinctively rejected him when he tried to kiss me. There was nothing wrong with him. He was a really nice guy and we had lots in common. I told myself it was because I was too busy to date and didn't want to lose sight of my grades. In hindsight, it makes sense why I rejected him. I also remember censing false confidence when he tried to kiss me, he was nervous. He was also a little bit younger than me, though not by much. I guess in the end, I thought of him as a nice boy, not a man. The man I'm dating now is taller than me. Stronger than me. He has a stable job. A house, a car. He is older than me. He is very smart. And he is confident, VERY confident and SURE. I find myself inclined to let him take charge, when normally this is NOT part of my personality. In fact I ENJOY it when he takes charge. Somewhere towards the beginning, I was a little bit freaked out, I guess, by how much I liked him. (I had never been into a guy that much and he would ask these direct as hell questions which made me voice my feelings and made them impossible to ignore. No beating around the bush) . I don't know if I was trying to "play hard to get" or subconsciously trying to test him or maybe trying to sabotage the whole thing, but when I mentioned just being friends and not persuing a romantic relationship (even though there was a clear attraction between us) he called me out on it. Not only did he call me out but he did it in a cool manner and his phrasing was borderline condescending, like I was being *silly*... we can never just be friends, come on now (something along those lines). Puts it all into perspective why I LIKED that and pretty much crumbled inside like wet tissue paper. The evidence is right there 😩
Yeah this makes a lot of sense when I look at my past relationships. Women loved my self-assured attitude. I know when a woman wants me and I act on it.
I have friends who are a younger couple. She cute, a nurse, and smaller. He is a muscular, braggadocio type guy. An oil field worker with a good income. A common friend of ours ask her why she married him. She said that he was strong enough to protect her from the world and he earned a sufficient income. She admitted he was “rather crude at times”. 20 years of marriage, they are still together.
If your brain isn't jacked then all those are lost hopes lol.... Many big men have been slain by wisdom... Empires and nations fall to the feet of the wise.. While the wise fall to the feet of God!
tl;dr girls with daddy issues are easy, and the guy in the post is going for easy girls. Hence, most of his sexual experiences were with emotionally deficient women. Please do not believe that this is the case with all women. I will grant though, that women generally do want a man who is physically larger than her, but this is not necessarily connected to daddy issues and wanting to be dominated.
@Classic Some of it has to do with rejection, that's why some women think being treated badly (or even abused) is normative behaviour. Both women and men subconsciously seek partners that are genetically similar to them and "looking for daddy" correlates strongly with this.
Value of vagina is diminishing. The holes have gotten so expensive that men are seeing the entire operation for what it truly is. Work your ass off to be a utility and tool to a leech that can only take and destroy. It's not worth it. if you want to do anything in this life, do it for yourself rather than for the validation of some hole that could care less about you.
I'll never find a woman who is larger and more dominant than me, which is what I crave. I'm unlikely to even find a small, 4/10, overly-submissive dead fish lay who is willing to "settle" for me and my many qualities. And yet even after almost twelve years of looking, I still don't give up hope.
Really bad deal, if i'm totally superior i don't have any interest in that chick, she actually bores me pretty quick, i need to respect her in order to be attracted.
you're only superior to her in masculine energy ( Stronger) , she may (and should be in order to be valuable) superior in feminine energy (more caring and nurturing) .
Never neg a woman who lacks self esteem. Instead of attracting her, you'll just crush her, confirming her worst fears about herself. It's supposed to be light-hearted teasing, not a brutal psychological assault.
American women are 168lbs average. If she wants to feel small she needs to go on a diet.
Serby Drobnjakovic a real man should be 180-190 + if you’re under that you’re a boy
brentprodz no women is gonna look at a male under 180 pounds and think that’s a real man,
brentprodz so by following your theory you’d say all competitors in mr Olympia are more manly then strongman competitors like Thor Bjornsson
Ohhimsapper - Thor is massive and tall while bodybuilders are lean while trying to maintain size
Lol
Men like feminine girls and girls like masculine men?? 🤔 Who could have guessed????? 🤔🤔🤔
Ask femenists
garip dimi :d
What about gay dudes?
Underrated comment 👌
@@Hm-mn3ip usually they have a type, either masculine guys or feminine guys, depending on how they see themselves
It’s no coincidence one of the best selling books for women is esssentialy a dominance/submissive sexual fantasy.
50 shades of grey ive not even read yet
Consensual rape
@@nicktubara It's a waste of time. Don't read you'll be disappointed.
not the same.
the plot is so bad they could have made an effort I didn't even finish the movie
So much for feminism. It was a psy op from the beginning!
"They're not lying... they're just not aware." EXACTLY.
For something to be true the opposite must be true as well.
@@SPL1NGYDUDE How would you compose the opposite in this case?
@@SPL1NGYDUDE So what you're saying is... if it's true that Harvard is better than Yale, it must at the same time be true that Yale is better than Harvard. If it's true that black is not the same as white, then it must also be true that black is exactly the same as white. Wicked argument there, my friend... or should I say, it's not wicked at all, it's great? Or it's evil? Or it's wonderful?.... Heck I'm confused now!
@@cpharris41 opposite situation not opposite meaning. I guess the reverse is more accurate.
@@cpharris41 So what you're saying is that you're not confused now.
“I’m a strong independent woman I don’t need no man”
Bend over
My uncle Paul used to say: Men solve problems
Women create them.
Didn't understand until I got older
The pervert from Opie and Anthony said that?
ah idk about that. quite a generalization
We create them too. It’s just that we also solve those.
@@ndnrb_ exactly
My dad used to say "anything with tits or wheels will cost money".
30 000 years of human evolution vs. 120 years of social evolution
Literally the opposite
@@regalrender1934 I should've written "30 000 years of natural selection"
@daniel280456 No you misunderstand, what i meant is that it is NOT natural selection that makes women in the modern world attracted to height, it is a socialized thing.
Women do not innately have a height preference.
@@regalrender1934 oh, OK.
You meant, 120 years of social devolution...
She wants to feel inferior in every way. Lets rephrase that. She wants a man that is better than her in every way. Well this is just hypergamy, again. Women only date up.
It is not the problem. The real problem when they keeps climbing after marriage. They step on the family in the process.
I really dont agree with that women always date up. I've seen some women with some trashy ass men.
@@llsrrll6930 date up isn’t only in money, status or character. It’s just critical that SHE perceives him as better than her
Hypergamie isn't even a scientific term! Once there where just a dude, that thought he was super smart and came up with that stupid idea. Of course there is no scintific proof for that concept.
That guy was 100% correct ! I don't know how westerners don't know this things anymore ! I guess because of feminism ?
Feminism fucked everything up for these young kids. I’m 6’2, 240 so there aren’t many girls bigger than me.
And because western women are massive coal burners
Single moms + feminist societies.
@@sebastiendetours2934 j'aime ton nom
So to learn something. If...
Moral: Get bigger
I'm genetically gifted so I'm all good.
frame mog bitches and bitches
Waylon Jones lol woman pleaser
Tell that to the rapper too short .
Waylon Jones Get Swol
Plotwist... the poem was written by Tyrion Lannister
william chen 😂😂😭
This made my night
Hahaha lamaou
I liked my fiance when we first met because he was so much more intelligent, strong and stable than me. He makes me want to be better. Your spot on.
@TheReal FakeCaptain that's down to me I'm afraid, not my man. I am getting better at minding my grammar. One correction at a time 😊.
@@toni5543 Such a classy response...
@@entervalhalla8484 thank you! It was a fair comment the gent above made. I am greatful for the correction.
@@TheSanityMachine33 😂 every day is a school day.
@@toni5543 english is not your first language is it? ;p
I've been trying to tell guys this for maybe a decade now. I used to cover up because I had a shitty body so my girlfriend was used to never really seeing me topless. During that time, for like a year I worked out like a maniac. From the time I met her until then she repeatedly said to me, and her friends and sisters would back her up "I hate muscles, they look weird". Then one night after having worked out for a long time I took off my top and the sound she made was hilarious, she went "OOOOH!" and started feeling me up, rubbing my arms, chest, stomach etc. Then she immediately wanted sex. Her friends and sisters had the EXACT same reaction. In fact my girlfriend would lift up my top in front of them and tell them to feel. Yet women claim WE objectify them? I enjoyed it but still, hypocrisy.
Anyway, my life changed. Women saying they don't like muscles (if you want proof that this is bullshit check out ladyboners on reddit, see how many out of shape guys are there) is like you saying to your skinny girlfriend that you don't like big hips, ass and tits. You're trying to make her feel better about herself but if she had a nice shapely ass and tits you'd be fucking them and telling her how amazing her body is. It's the exact same thing. In fact, girls have all said to me, after we break up that they weren't able to go back to "normal guys" and last time I saw my "OOOOH!" ex she was with a muscly guy. They all talk about "feeling safe" and "feeling small" too. It's just like with guys, we like feeling strong, we like feeling like we're protecting her when she cuddles up to you.
Of course women are into looks. It's just that they have two different standards, short term fucks standards which is based on looks and long term which is based on other things. And if she thinks she won't be able to get a long term relationship with a hot guy she'll sacrifice looks for money and stability when she wants to settle down.
The fact that women deny all of this is hilarious and it causes a tonne of confusion. They'll all claim that their turn ons are "kindness" and "intelligence/humor" yet, again, go to anywhere where women check out men. How many ugly smart guys are there? If there's a hot guy who happens to be smart they'll all go on about his intelligence. If there's an ugly guy who's smart they won't notice. Anyone who's lived in the real world knows this.
By the way I once got into a huge flame war on Reddit after someone started the topic of male and female attraction. I shared my experience and they ALL freaked out calling me a sexist/misogynist saying "I hope no woman goes near you, you obviously hate them!" and what was hilarious was that two of these women started sending me private messages and after I sent them a pic of me they started sending me nudes. And one of them HAD A BOYFRIEND who she was basically calling "beta" because she was pushing him around. These women who acted outraged at the idea of women liking good looking men suddenly started wanting to sext when they saw my body in a picture.
No wonder younger guys are so lost and angry. They get bullshitted while growing up. It doesn't matter what kind of lies women are led to believe while growing up because men find them attractive no matter what. As long as they're not an actively bad person most guys will happily date them. It's young men who get misled by the idea that women are solely attracted to nothing but being nice, being stable and being intelligent.
All of this is too true
how did you manage a year without taking a top off teach me almighty one
@@weirdtoknow1226 He has 2 shirt on top of each other, its like that tease vid where a girl wears like 30 pants and takes them off one by one but you never see whats inside lol
Brutal.
@@mourgos1234 or he just wears hoodies lmaooo
This, man, is in the top 100 videos of all time.
I noticed if you kiss this guy's ass, he gives you a "like" just like a woman
@@ESL-O.G. of course, just like a human being.
This is so important to me. Being raised by my mom I never had someone tell me this kind of stuff
Bro this shet made me so aware. I'm quite immature and I wanted a girl that had the same energy but after I watch this video I know it won't last
Same here
Same here bro...on top of that my dad was pretty much non existent...no role model...but it can be overcome, I'm there now but it took F'ing decades...my take...forget the women for now, lift weights, make lots of money, make yourself important, get Stirling Coopers materials and watch him on youtube...
My mom screwed me up really bad (in the relationship department) and I was basically undateable for 25 years :D
I grew up with female values and never had a father figure etc.
They really don't know what they want or are to ashamed to admit to what exactly they are attracted to.
I also don't have a dad, but i made it somehow, but i feel bad knowing others are having a hard time.
Just remember, disciple is the key, you work on improving your own life and you'll see women will be attracted to you automatically.
Plot twist: women don’t really know what the hell they want
Plot twist? I thought that was a given
She knows exactly what she wants, but she's only gonna tell her friends, not you or anybody else
It takes wisdom to know what you want in life period and us young people don't even attempt to get there.
Dont drag The women Who know what they want into this mess
Sad noises
Honestly, all this complex stuff about relationships is all. weird. I think im just gonna go do something cool
Nathan Rolls stay away from all of this for as long as you can kid trust me
Nathan Rolls same dude idk what to do anymore
Biology isn't Rocket science , DUH , Money Ruined Everything
Weird is for Americans, in Europe the stupidity isn't as grown, so somethings are still visible here, like I can relate this video to the stuff I have seen so far, so more than weird its actually on point, not like other channels that want you to remember a feeling rather than understand it like this youtuber does. So its up to you.
This isn’t complex, it’s just that women love men who are stronger/taller than them. Old news.
When you think you can go into a relationship with a responsible adult but have to take care of an immaturely behaving girl in a womans body.
Hehe..Well Said.
And yet men are always the ones called out for being children. As well as that shit that women mature faster psychologically than men according to them.
Bullshit, it's VERY apparent they're the fucking children who don't seem to grow up.
They say girls mature quicker than boys. Now that may be true, during the teen years/early twenties. But then they stop maturing and stay frozen in that state for evermore. Or worse, they actually go backwards. Less stable, less secure as they go into their 30s/40s.
Asura: Pretty much all heterosexual women are partially "children". They're biologically designed to be.
J. Devitt: Women use that "psychologically mature"-argument in the wrong way.
The reality is that women are biologically programmed to be less psychologically mature than men are, throughout their entire life. However, women become SEXUALLY MATURE (both physically and psychologically) earlier than men do, because they're biologically intended to mate with men who are older than themselves, because that's what's most beneficial for an offspring's survival.
This is bullshit. Most of these fucking chics have been spoiled as fuck by TV shows like friends and the hollywood culture permeating US culture. There are lots of smart women who are unfortunately, taken. Guys like me who have found success later rather than sooner are left with the fucking scraps (psychos, hoes, and cunts) because I blew it like this fucking chad when I was younger and failed to develop something serious.
Now trying to find a real relationship has become so much harder because of the brainwashing and conditioning girls have been subject to through our fucked up society. The greatest generation and baby boomers have fucked us all over hard. For what we have in technology we've lost in humanity and have these fucking chad douchebags telling us 'how it is' because he's a hard dick with a small brain...its fucking sickening to think this guy has it right. Our society has been completely porno-ized.
This is actually a better work out motivation than most work out motivation videos on yt
Facts!
Truth, this video is really really eye-opening, especially to the younger males
As a guy who knows all this stuff, you should be hitting the gym. You can never be as wise as an older men that's already financially stable and been through a lot of life experiences. Instead why not maximize your youth and be physically fit first.
I think this can be good advice, and on the other side once your older youll be more financially stable and wiser.
This. Some muscles work. I got it from first hand experience. With the emphasis on SOME. Don't overdo it though.
Alex could be a dwarf and I would still date him. Most older men cognitively slow and hanging on the outdated ideas.
Very good!
Good thing is once you build this fitness habit it will last you a long while, hell my dad is still athletic even though his prime is long gone.
This might be the best video you’ve ever put out, Alexander. Extremely enlightening.
I've never donated before...but I did for this one.
Exactly the opposite of what feminism tells us, so it is spot on of course. You feel it in your guts. Thanks for this video!
Feminism is about societal changes and professional life. Not the dating world.
A huge amount of feminists are sexually submissive and if they are self-aware enough to know the difference that is no issue.
Citation: "I feel it in my guts"
That all feminist is a lie do you say??
That's a Truth from the beginning of life on Earth hahaha 🤣
If I can't lift you, I can't love you.
💀💀💀
@VeganCarnivore Nice one.
@VeganCarnivore if you can't lift 150, your ass needs to hit the gym
@@BBBerti I feel like he was making a self-deprecating joke about how he can't lift more than 150
@@JimmyBoosterCrate Exactly why he needs to get in the gym.
She wants you to be superior to her physically and mentally so that she can lean back and let you do all the hard work and make the hard decisions.
True. That's the hard truth. As a man you step up to the level and play your role. She offers the more feminine stuff, I guarantee you.
Women are more in touch with their instincts and they don't even notice.
That's so funny to me
I mean if I am supposed to be superior in any area of competence why would I even need/want her for?
If it's just sexual intercourse one night stands are best I can get so why relationship?
All their worth comes from caring for children
Hard work a dn hard decisions a real man must make yes.
But to the right women not the wrong ones
@@nathantyrell4898 EPIC.
Listening to you talk is more enlightening that a professor in a university. It's like you are untangling the psychological nature of women without any pompf or added substance. It's a pure dissertation, a pure lecture about the relations between man and woman.
You have a talent Grace, you need to keep at it.
He is by my fave youtube guy. Well him n yongyea 😁Subbd him after coming across his vids today.
girl whos literally 5 foot tall still thinks she deserves a man whos over 6 foot tall and well built thats like a decent skinny short guy with abs thinking he deserves megan fox but still women who weigh as much as cows think they can get the that guy.... women are dillusional
I dunno about the blonde part cuz chicks usually like dark haired guys for some reason.
If you have to kneel down to kiss her it's not worth it xD
Unless you get two of them at the same time
@nigling how do black girls fit in there?? Black girls don't even like white guys 🤣
Y U No English??
Girls like bigger people men like smaller people
If she wants to feel small, lose weight.
So what is your ideal weight then lol.
Keith Breaux if a skinny girl is dating a skinny guy she still doesn’t feel like the guy is masculine and powerful
Whales don't want men with arms, but men with a pair of cranes.
@@marmitechickenlegs8331 under 50 --> 60 kgs short --> tall
@Merca coffee gardens Why do you disrespect him in the first place? You should appreciate that he puts up with your crap because you are not his enemy. We should be smarter and go over this animalistic instincts.
Patrice O'Neal was always right.
RIP
Black Phillip.
died way too early 😔
Yes, Black Philip forever!
Idk him but help out a dude here. What piece of wisdom did a fellow man who went by Patrice once shared?
Does this man blink?
No, he's too alpha for that. Blinking is a sign of weakness 😂
A sign of psychopathy, some say.
@@talk2thoran or autism. It's very common on light forms of autism, like Asperger Syndrom.
Or ur just blinking when he blinks
Haha
I'm pretty sure you just changed my life dude.
Rot_Bear how u doing?
I'm pretty sure he just destroyed my life and hopes
At my age there are no more small girls. They've all eaten too much and weigh more than me.
Most of the younger ones are taller than me.
This wasn't always the case, is today
This is one thing I had to accept.
Even though I might be the most capable guy in the room, I’m not attracting her because I can’t make her feel small otherwise, “safe”.
Unfortunately, I’m not tall enough.
Once I realized and accepted this fact, I was able to adjust my frame of mind and concentrate on improving myself in areas where I’m not limited by my genetics.
I started reading more, eating better, exercising, and starting learning a new language. I even traveled to another country for a few months.
All this has helped me improve myself and I feel more capable than ever.
What I’m getting at is that we all should should strive to become the best person we possibly can. Never let your limits to be what defines you. Never give up.
That's good man. How tall are u?
You sound like me
Good take, David.
Damn bro. I wanna be your friend haha
The points made in this video are spot on correct. I once dated a feminist girl and found that when I experimented with some (what I thought at the time) extreme sexual acts that were very dominant, instead of becoming upset she was really turned on. I didn't ask her I just did it. I think this is also an important point. By talking about it with the girl you engage the rational, social part of her mind, the part that worries about what others would think if they knew. By just doing what you want to her without asking, things stay at that animal level where there are no inhibitions.
Freind of mine did the same thing, until they broke up and she filed rape charges with a full very accurate description of exactly what he did, they didn't stick because she told him on tape that she would recant the entire thing if he agreed to marry her.
Crazy is always the hottest until the bill comes due.
Yikes!
It is fortunate of him that he recorded the conversation, however that in and of itself is very risky. There have been men that decided to show the evidence to clear a false rape charge, only to be incriminate and convict themselves on Federal Wiretapping laws or recording without consent. Jump out of one frying pan, into another.
As an alternative, there has been movement by Planned Parenthood for Planned Consent. It's basically the opposite of the above, and is pretty repulsive to anyone that hasn't done it before, which is pretty much everyone. It's the rules we play by now to protect ourselves, and women will complain that men don't want to interact or romance them the way men did back in the day. Women ruined it for themselves.
I didn't mean to imply anyone should get rapey or anything. She could have gurgled no at any time and I would have stopped.
@@robertgrays8790 He didn't! She went to the police and called him from their phone. He got a called from a blocked number and said it was obvious what was happening so he played it cool and this crazy-B said to him ON TAPE, AT THE POLICE STATION, "If you marry me I'll drop the charges." Which apparentl is illegal because his lawyer supoenad the tape and the police told him it was 'accidentally destroyed.'
I'm a woman who has a deep interest in psychology.
I loved every second of this video. It's so just and on point , it's overwhelmingly satisfying.
Yeah, the feminist are a real contradiction out there.
learn business. read about sales, persusstion and marketing and you'll learn tons on psychology
@@captainpinky8307 yes ! I've come across marketing videos , and I loved them. Just like you said . Isn't it brilliant & interesting understanding human motives behind every action ?! it's truely mesmerising. it puts you in a position of power over your own emotions and desires . it brings the uncouscious to the conscious . and also overpowering most people without even them knowing . precisely predicting people behaviour and relationships outcome becomes a piece of cake .
@@oo0sofia0ooI see what you are hinting at. Notice any men that are better than you in every respect yet?
Bullshiiiit
*through sheer will power this video convinced me to grow 12 inches taller so I just asked god to be taller and it worked. thanks.*
😁😁😁
Who is this god. I need to talk to him
1 like = 1 inch
Pls u wish I could change being short it sucks no I will change being short I’ll be 6’5 or 6’4 ideally
@@falconia6881 Gimme 4 of your inches, then we'll both be 6 1.
Possibly the best explanation of masculine/feminine energy I've seen. Explained well without misogyny or misandry. Everyone can benefit from hearing this regardless of their dating horizon (short term all the way to married couples)
Short guys don't benefit from being told this haha.
Big problem is that
a) Women are big and getting bigger i.e. fatter
b) Men don't want fat women
So women can't find a man that makes them feel small and men don't want someone who is unattractive, a poor breeder with looming health issues.
.......and this is before we take into account womens appalling attitudes.
Its not looking good.
spoken like a true incel
@bishap global86 We love fat asses
You should start a youtube channel about how you dont like fat bitches.
@@bos9824
I've been married you useless twat.
And now I'm single and putting it about like never before. Very happy. 😎
You, however, have issues. Its obvious from your childish comment.
Ahahah that made me laugh but there are probably just as many fat men, I think fat people are equally divided between men and women ahah
In some pre-Roman Celtic bands a woman would not marry a man she could beat at wrestling.
That's why they got beaten in wars by the civilizations who valued intelligence over physical strength
@@ACMCUK even though the roman empire fell apart and the barbarian tribes settled and created kingdoms centuries later
@Nacho Libre just like now
@Badger0fDeath This is how myths are created and then spread by idiots.
Why is he having sex with plates?
I guess it has something to do with Rollo Tomassi’s Plate Theory
I thought I was a psyco for liking these quality in a man, thanks for explaining why haha
Sorry but your normal
cant fight nature
Alva Karlsson You’re completely normal. Society is twisting nature. Embrace who you are sweetie. The Truth will set you free. ❤️🦁🙏👍
We all revert to are primitive nature it's not all you're fault.
You are still a Psycho, now that you know you will keep doing it.
Brooo this is gold, all the puzzle pieces are coming together!!! For me, the red pill has been this complicated rabbit hole of information that I could never fully devour. But now I feel like I've become enlightened on the WHY the red pill WORKS!! Amazing work Alexander I want to be a supporter one of these days
Same. It just makes sense to me now that a girl will not date a guy who is inferior in categories X, Y and Z. Why would she? Especially when she has options. Become the best man you can be in every part of your life, then they will notice. Be competitive.
This barely 5% of the red pill. You haven't understood anthing at all
You guys are late
So I need to be dad twice?!?
this depresses me. and not in the "im short and small and will never find a girl" way, but in the "i really want equality in my relationships and i dont wanna be a dad to my girl" way
You are projecting.
Men want a "helper" and equal because they want to help and "fix" the world.
Men enjoy giving to his family: money, security, comfort.
Women don't want and don't enjoy being the provider.
Please understand that men are different creatures than women.
Avichay Avivi understading the case that they THAT different is what depresses me. As i said, I want a woman who doesn't have the need to be rude or do shittests so they can be controled. It really turns me off when a woman is immature in that way
@@finomhiphopandskate
The only way you will find that, is when they are old and hitting the wall.
The best thing to do when you have a woman like that is to just not play, the bullshit.
Yeah I know what you mean. This is the rage that many men think about, that they've been lied to by society.
As much as I myself would like it to be different, this biological need in a woman for a dominant, rude a$$hole, actually built this world.
Thanks to this quality in the "whamens", we (the man) force ourselves to be dominant and enforce our will on the world, by force or by smarts or both.
We HAVE to fight other man to get the best woman we can get.
We BECOME the best we can when we FIGHT.
BRO!!! This is possibly the most eye-opening video I've ever seen about women. I've always wondered why certain girls liked me or found me impressive even when we had nothing in common. Every single one of those girls were either smaller than me, younger than me or not as accomplished as me. Mind absolutely blown. I remember meeting one girl who I had tons of common interests with and we got along really well, but she friend zoned me early on and I was so confused. I never understood why. She was my height and quite strong for a girl. 🤯
I've watched this 3 times whilst simultaneously banging my head against my desk. This single video will change my life. Thanks Alex.
Even Dominance has its limit, just remember that Robin Givens cheated on Mike Tyson with Brad Pitt.
A good looking face is unbeatable.
@@MrEnigma2099 Didn't stop Mike lol.
@@alhemmings8554
I see what you did there
Yes, but after Mike had piped her for a good 2 years (and after she raided Mike's bank account but that's another chapter).
Looks is the most important factor. You don’t need to be the biggest and toughest looking guy in the room. Most girls don’t like super big bodybuilders or like bouncer looking dude. They like tall athletic looking dudes with good muscle mass and an attractive face. That’s what turns them on. Brad Pitt is taller than Mike and has a better looking face. His physique is probably more attractive to most women too.
Im 186cm martial arts pro
90kg muscular
Virgin at 20
Bad luck?
Go to boxing. Getting hit in the head makes you more confident.
who the fuck cares
Check for weaknesses on your character traits
That's because you're a pussy
I'm an extremely skinny guy with an extremely jacked brain. And a strong masculine core.
I've dated many women.
The feminine wants to feel owned, protected, safe.
How this is felt varies from woman to woman.
What's important is your masculine energy being a strong PRESENCE for the feminine to FEEL.
When it is, you are the hulk and she is a little girl.
You just need to get some muscles and boom you’re perfect
But does your wallet have muscles...?
You have zero hoes
@steven mark Ryan that only happens if ur incredibly taller then that of a girl....or else there is absolutely no wayyy to make her feel that way...
tasers always win over kung fu
I’m a girl, and that reddit post was absolutely bang on the money. I thought most people knew that honestly.
I didnt. I just started to think about this.
phillillillo at least you know now!
A knew about it, but I was too innocent to belive it extended to most if not all women. After this video I meditated on my past experiences with women and I must say I was brainwashed. I'm 19, so guess I'm ahead of the competition.
@@eleganteimbecil1655 At least the benefits of the internet include getting info like this to younger people like us
But when all you see on the media is the opposite. Younger guys are lost. They are practically walking on eggshells nowadays.
I remember, years ago, watching a 20/20 piece where they picked out an assortment of guys and put them in a police lineup, then had an assortment of women come in and look at them and rank them according to how much they would like to date them based solely on their looks. They generally ranked them according to their heights, although the top two or three might vary across the women's scorecards based on what they found handsome or a preferred ethnicity.
Then they threw in some made-up stats about the men's education levels, their incomes, their jobs, and their arrest records. That might bump the second or third place guy up, but otherwise their choices stayed pretty much the same.
I remember in one particular lineup, there was a guy who was short--only a bit over 5'--but he was very handsome and I (who was a teenager at the time) thought he was by far and away the best-looking guy and would have chosen him as my first choice. He was last on every woman's list. Then they gave the stats. He was a doctor, which made him more educated than any of the other men. He also made a lot more money. They made the tallest man the least attractive in terms of wages and intelligence. And still women would not rank the short guy any higher up on their lists and only a few bumped the tall guy down to second place (and replaced him with their second choice).
Even as an adult, I have to admit that I still find a certain type of short guy attractive, which is clearly contrary to natural instinct. But it makes sense when you look at my stepfather; he was my father figure when I was growing up and he's quite short. He's only a couple of inches shorter than my mother, but I took after my dad's side of the family and I became taller than both of them when I was about 13 years old. So, for a long time, I've looked up to a man I literally look down upon. I think that it's true when they say that women marry their fathers, and I think that's why I have a soft spot in my heart for a short man. The man I married is not small, but I never actually had any opportunity to date a smaller guy, so who knows what would have happened if the choice had presented itself?
But odd outliers aside, everything else in here is correct. Even if I were with a short guy, I'd want him to be a badass short guy. When I was growing up, there were a few occasions where panhandlers or the like would approach us on the street and my stepfather always stepped forward, putting himself between the man and us, and then he would talk to the guy to engage his attention and keep it away from us. My mother would take me and we would go around or into a store or go back the way we came and he would catch up once he got away. So I know from experience that even a short man can be a protector. But a protector a man absolutely must be.
Yes!!! Agree and love your comment as well
Quality comment, thanks for sharing.
Yep, I remember that 20/20 segment. The taller guys all had criminal records, little education, menial jobs, but by God they were tall! That seemed to be all the women cared about. The littlest guy was way better than any of the tall ones yet only 1 or 2 of the women said they'd MAYBE date him once they knew about his credentials and wealth.
@Mattia Baraldo I suppose that's one perspective...the opposite being they feel pathetic and need to rely on others because they are unable to accomplish things on their own
@@SIenderplier Perhaps it's because the world is more dangerous for women
Alright, you've convinced me. Time to start working out again.
Alex, the kind of wisdom you guys possess today was not available when I was young. I started out as a bookish nerd and innate artist right up until puberty. Then I suddenly grew in height and muscle mass until I could pass for a full grown man at 14. Inside I was still a bit of an introverted people observer but to other people I was the BMOC. Coming into high school and instantly having the attention of all of the Stacys and Heathers was mind blowing. Almost every day I was asking myself "What the hell is going on here?" Girls seemed to crave my attention. Being hugged was like some kind of drug to them often making me late for my next class with my books carried in front of my pup tent pants. I thought all guys had the same level of attraction and therefore completely missed the potential power I commanded.
I grew up and joined the Navy; I trained in Florida and served much of my career in California. The attractive power of being 6'1 230 did not escape the notice of beach bunnies and celebrities alike. Interestingly, my inner introvert caused me to be less emotional and less vulnerable to female charms and apparently translated into "indifference" in the eyes of most women. The result being I never had to compete for any woman's attention. Several times I experienced some actress or model dragging a crowd of admirers over to start a conversation with me.
To be honest it wasn't until I was in my mid 40's, divorced and learning about MGTOW that I began to understand why women behave the way they do. My mistake from the beginning was thinking that they wanted love and respect the same way men do. Turns out "Indifference" would have been the best strategy all along.
I believe u understand what we (men) wants. And i believe u understood them (women) better than me (im 23 yo male, striving for life perfection). My question is, is it possible for men and women to live coeherently? (I know i might worded it wrong) i mean, what kind of personality and mindset i have to bring so i can masters the principality of women so i can make them do this and do that like they would perish if i dont? My current opinion is, all i have to do if i wants to live in harmony with women, all i need to do is overwhelms them with everything (yea im goodlooking, works at oil and gas industries, have integral thinking, etc) and act uninterested to them so they tries to pleases me more and rewards them with some validation (depending on their "love language", but i dont do "act of service") when they re desperate, so they re dont stop chasing.
So far, its gone very well after i behave that way. What do u think?
And that’s the issue with this muscular thing, it’s temporary, and you don’t want to be married for something like this ultimately long term because you’ll get divorced inevitably. Unfortunately. If that is a leading reason, however it is highly beneficial when looking for short term mates
Order = Masculine. Chaos = Feminine. It's a balance of the universe.
Is that why men represents over 90% of the total incarcerated population in the US? (and in most parts of the world)?
I am not saying men are worse than women - there might be a plurality of reasons why we see more male criminals than female criminals - but this thing of "masculine equals order, feminine equals chaos"... hmmmmmmmmm... nope!
* Disclaimer: this comment was not written with the intention of creating beef, it was simply intended to be thought provoking, and hopefully target some prejudices.
LMAO. What fucking bullshit. Everything is chaos.
@@MoonLilly92 you ever thought that society cuts women breaks, especially when it comes to prison? Cmon dawg. Look at most court cases with women, they are let off for what a man would serve a licetime sentence.
Please don’t think this. The universe is far too complicated to be summed up to this bullshit conclusion
Umbrax A lot of things are more simple than you think
Good video dude. I’ve been seeing red pill stuff around, but I always thought it was pathetic because most of the guys just seemed hella butt hurt about life and hateful towards women. You actually seem logical and grounded. Good stuff keep it up.
Many red pilled men started out as blue pills. The red pill is a HARD and PAINFUL pill to swallow. The basic life cycle usually goes
1). First found the philosophy
2). Denial
3). Internalization of the philosophy while still longing for blue pill ideals aka. red pill rage
4). Quiet embrace
The most vocal in the red pill community are those in the 3rd phase. Alex on the other hand has reached the final phase and is now sharing the philosophy in a much more laid back, relaxed and calm manner.
@@genghiskhan6809 why did you make it sound like a cult
?
@Menino Maria That’s up to you if it sounds like a cult. I just pointed out a common occurrence in the life cycles of those who find the Red Pill.
@@genghiskhan6809 Great comment. I suppose I am in phase 3 still. But I can't seem to move past it because I from time to time keep ending up in long-term committed relationships and the romance blinds me like a child. Now, I've dated a female who was by far my worst experience (she was saying crap like "share me with other men and do not react when I go home with another guy in front of you"). Thus, I came out of blue pill land (more like purple pill) from my recent relationship and got smashed in the face by reality again.
Any tips on how to move to phase 4 since phase 3 is really energy draining and thought-active. I always seem to get the hand of red pill and then boom I end up in a committed relationship where I go back to enjoying the illusion of forever happy together (because of the great feeling of affection, love and intimacy which I desire to last forever).
@salad salad unfortunately I’m also stuck in phase 3. The only way I’ve managed to avoid the pain and problems is going monk for the most part.
You are absolutely right. I am living in China and all of the Chinese girls that I date say the same thing. You are tall, big and I like it when you pick me up. They even say that like being next to me because they feel secure when I hug them. This is biology and I will take a small, feminine and attractive Asian girl from the east, over an entitled western woman. At least some of these eastern women still value masculinity and do not consider it toxic.
Looking forward to this one day when I move to S.E. Asia, maybe a few more years away.
The western feminists also value masculinity, they are just indoctrinated to hate white men so if you're white they will hate you no matter what. Still if you're an uber chad the feminists will fuck you. But they're so ugly and despicable that you probably wouldn't want to fuck them.
stay in your own country Charles your just screwing up SE Asia
Weird comment, but whatever captain pinky.
Yessss
I agree with this post. Im 27 yo. I always say that my Man HAS to be smarter than me. And Im Lucky, because he is. He has to be smarter and stronger because he will take care of me and my newborn Child. I need to feel safe to want have children. Simple. 😄 My Man is taller, stronger, smarter. Im smart too, but he is better for example in maths and he knows how to build a house, fix a car etc. We are 11 years together and we are happy 😇 He is my Hero 💗
Sounds like a happy relationship. Good for you guys!
He sounds like a true alpha ! He must be slaying pussies when you are not around.
@@Thesavagesouls 😁😁 No, he is not. You know why? First of all he loves me. Second thing is that I am pretty & fit so I am hard competition to other women. 😝 And last but not least... We are from Poland. 96% of men are masculine here. 😄 You know, hard cold Winters, bears, chopping Wood. 😂
@@mariidivine7413 Also, fit and sexy or not, it is known that men like to cheat hot wives with average women. Don't know why tho, maybe because its easy?
Marii Divine - I am cohabiting with a woman 19 years younger than me for the last 9 years. She cooks for me, laundry , cleaning , massage and all house old jobs and sexually addicted to me twice a day. It's not by chance. I have learnt the rules of game hardest way. I am a thin guy of 58 not able to lift her. However, I am always willing to leave her for old age home, the first time she shown disobedience to me.
"Physical dominance" key words to describe what most ladies want to feel when being with a gentleman...
14:00 - 16:20
Works well until she's ready to change up. Plenty of alpha types have found themselves freshly single or recently arrested when these unstable women suddenly want a new experience for whatever reason.
Seems to confirm that on balance, most relationships have a limited shelf life due to these dynamics (which I routinely encounter) and the laws of our land.
Call her out and call her bluff, just be prepared to follow through and dump her when - NOT IF - she escalates.
The thing is most alphas do not get persecuted. Alphas can read body language well and know what they are able to do. Actually, they are so natural that the women senses it and she feels no regret afterwards.
A true alpha doesn't really laugh at a ton of things that a normal guy would find as discriminating towards a women. It is because it is normal/natural to him.
For example...
I told a guy if he sees a woman he is attracted to he should wave her over to him. He should
"Call her over". He laughed because it is not natural to him. However, a Russian born man with a different mindset and an abundance with women wouldn't even show the
slightest emotional response.......
*Normal behavior to the Russian guy*
*She senses his confidence/dominance*
*She comes over happy he told her what to do*
@@SH3player
Yeah seen Russians do it my friend. Two things in their favor:
1.) They are confident in themselves and their ability to follow through.
2.) They live in a place where the state doesn't leapfrog the objections of the female to prosecute alpha males.
Taking your entire comment as correct, here in the U.S., we have colleges, law enforcement and to some extent workplaces that will STILL prosecute/fire/expel You even though the woman had no objections. The alphas accurate read of the the female's body language is NEGATED because the "state" or company comes at you ANYWAY.
My original thought though was when said girl wants to dump an Alpha, he better be ready to follow through and dump her as that shit test has no other correct option BUT to dump her.
+Bow Down
Brad Pitt, Channing Tatum, Chuck Norris.....
U see the news?
@@SH3player Or she's just being polite. If someone calls me over (anyone..) I'll respond with "Alright" and get right over in case they need to tell me something important. I'm also always smiling.
Also women aren't just governed by their biology the same way men aren't. (Example: Literally every femdom ever.)
Plus plenty of women provide for their boyfriends.
@@JustMe-rm2pw
We are all governed by our biology. Every single emotion can be broken down to the logical path in making strong offspring. Women *and men*.
*Just being polite* is an emotional phrase that has different definitions based on our perspective. There is always a logical reasoning behind phrases like this. Please define this logically to me. With men it is usually easier because it is easier for them to explain, however I have had many men repeat themselves and pinpoint the logic behind the emotional phrases.
She is being polite? Who? I talked about a guy who laughed about something he can do to get a woman he has attraction for to come over. So did you mean him?
I'm not trying to attack, I want to know what you think. Your perspective is.
When you get temporary dyslexia and you think the thumbnail says "She wants to smell feet" for a second.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I think it’s much more about dominance than physical size. I am average height, 5’10”, and typically date tall girls my same height, 5’8”-5’10”. I am average build, though I do have wide shoulders. But I grew up in a Military family, and am perceived to be very aggressive both in the sack or when antagonized into anger. There are too many physically large guys who are the gentile giant type. I beleive it is more the perception of your strength of character, not your muscles, but that’s just my opinion.
try to compete with 6´4 broad frameds guys who are also dominant
Azor Ahai If you are red pill, you should know about LMS already... Looks, Status, Money. Just being 6’”4 doesnt even maximize the looks dimension. An educated profesional will beat out a tall man for a relationship.
Just beat the shit out of a 6’5 dude in front of her and you’re all set
Jeff Moss If you are a respectable person, others will respect and follow you without the need to beat up anybody. Leaders don’t take respect by force, it is given to them freely thru their actions.
Exactly- I've gotten shit from my own family just for raising my voice or when I get angry- people really freak out when they perceive you by your psychical attributes.
Eat more, lift more, be more confident. It's not that deep. Nobody wants a physically inferior looking partner
Except for men?
@@hankaropers9797 yep
Except that every fat girl is with a skinny guy lol
Being intellectually dominant also really works. as long as they SEE you as better in some way or good at something you are fine.
As Rollo says "Hypergamy doesn't care"
This was incredibly insightful.
Every once in a while I come back to this video to remind me of my long term goals
I would like to take the time to say thank you for your content. It is thoughtful, deliberate and has a very high truth value. Bravo sir!
how to feel small: be small
Well short guys...there's always being rich to look forward to I guess...
Us dwarves shall take over
@@andmillions let's hope...
We also have honest women (prostitutes).
Not really, I am not tall, but good looking and also developed a muscular well proportioned body with wide shoulders, big arms, and overall insane strength, I dated many girls of all kinds including models, women stare at me from across the street and in the market they always casually bump on me and try to start conversation, but one one in particular was on the big curvy side and heavy, I lifted her like she was made of feathers and spinned her like a ball, I did her on the wall lifting her with my forearms for a while and then threw her flying on the bed, she could not stop begging that I made her from behind while spanking her hard, till she exploded in a flood of watery rain, she certainly saw the rainbow after that.
@@yopatricio1391 You're a measly 5ft 11 aren't you
Hey Alexander, every man on earth needs to hear this video! Tremendous job man, keep up the good work.
How the hell have you not been a guest on the red man group yet?
The red man group is a bunch of pussy beggers, washed up puas
Just imagine how high OP got to realize all of this.
Why is he calling them plates?
It's some sort of slang I'm unfamiliar with. Maybe equating one-night stands as meals = plates that meals are eaten on? If so, that's pretty gross.
It’s a reference to the “plate theory” from the book “The Rational Male” by Rollo Tomassi, read it
How about a quick summary of what the word means in that context, then, for people who haven't read an obscure book by an obscure author?
@@RoninCatholic
"A Man needs to have a lot of simultaneous prospects spinning together. Think of each plate as a separate woman you are pursuing. Some fall off and break, others you may wish to stop spinning altogether and some may not spin as fast as you’d like, but the essence of plate theory is that a man is as confident and valuable as his options. This is the essence of the abundance mindset - confidence is derived from options."
From www.google.co.uk/amp/s/therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/plate-theory-2/amp/
Huh, that kinda makes sense and sounds terrible.
So not having any options actually doesn't sound so bad.
As a female... I thought this stuff was considered common knowledge (?)
Get ready to be pinned down
This needs to get a lot more likes
unreal
How could be considered common knowledge if no women talk about it? We as a men have to look for it on the internet
This was a impeccable and profoundly powerful dissertation on masculinity and women! instantly subbed I’m very impressed and interested in watching more of your videos damn I’m taken aback from such a solid explanation of things we as men and women inherently know but rarely verbalize due to social constructs that are not popular. Damn I’m so impressed
VERY eloquently expressed. I’m putting this in my “all time favorites” list.
This is why I don't know whether to laugh or throw up when women actually have the nerve to whine and complain about men who judge them by their *waistlines.*
I’ve slowly grown apart from my sexual desires, not sure if it’s a biological change or mental state. I’m small, 5.6, and while I had my fair share of girls during my college years I never felt any deep connection. Every girl I had always had this look in their eyes that longed for more, they would stare at other guys taller than me (which is basically like 80% of all men) anytime we were out in public. Sex felt one-sided and they never showed lasting contentment. Lately I realized that all those times were just wasted on trying to please someone that didn’t appreciate my efforts. Soon after dating my last girl I realized that my time could be better use for self development. Been working hard to start a business and leave all my past behind. With money I can get all the homes, cars, and experiences I’ve ever wanted, even sex can be bought so what’s the point. My early life was wasted in chasing a plastic reward.
TLDR: don’t waste your early life chasing sex, chase money and the rest can follow
Ah 5'6" is brutal. My condolences. I'm 6'1" and sometimes feel short.
Guys don’t over think any of this... just work on yourself mentally, physically, and financially and you’ll be getting girls trust.
Good advice too.
Finally somebody with a more realistic approach to the whole situation who sees both sides and just doesn't hate on women great video👍
I switched from martial arts to bodybuilding some years ago. Obviously, combat sports involve tons of cardio so even though I was in great shape I wasn't big at all. I noticed more or less per kilo of mass I gained girls got more intersted in me. Even girls I had known for years suddenly viewed me completely different. Escaped a lot of friendzones after the first ten kilos. Now, weighing 103 kilos at 1.87 it's ridiculous how easy it is to get both aquaintances and strangers to bed. Guys, you NEED to lift.
Wish I would’ve had access to this kind of content 20 years ago. People like this guy, better bachelor, kevin Samuels, fresh&fit and others are saving young men.
Nope - they are not. Young and dumb are not listening
Don’t forget Dr. Orion Taraban.
"Do as I say, not as I do" - priceless ;)
Truth. This is why me and hubby have been happily married for 13 years with a very active sex life that even having kids didnt interfere with.
Even tho at work we both have high power roles, everywhere else we maintain that power differential, even play up on it, and have managed to remain very attracted to eachother after all these years. I secretly love it when he proves me wrong and pins me down, makes me think... my mans the best, so smart and strong.
Foolish
I love that you’re happy with your relationship, but what does the man get out of having a woman he’s smarter and better than I don’t understand
@@DevilFrog61 god created us in that way,its more of a biological need for procreation of species.
DevilFrog61 feeling manly
If everything's so perfect why are you watching relationship advice?
Honestly, after having sex so many times it gets old. It’s the same tight, wet hole. There’s so many amazing things in life
After she's popped out a few littluns it doesn't stay tight anymore, but I agree with the sentiment. Conquest is awesome but sex is overrated
John Colman There are workouts girls can do to retighten it.
Likelyhood they work out after being a mom tho....
Indeed. There's a whole universe out there waiting to be explored with virtually no limit to human potential. Eating, sleeping, and having sex are just the basics, we can do better than that as a species.
Bob Stuffguy one of the most amazing things I've read 😂
True, so many activities!
So I guess it's anorexic girls for me, lol.
Same or significantly shorter girls smh
So this is why white westerners like scrawny girls.
Lmao that applies to me I guess since I have like 16.9 BMI
I've always had sucess, with proving(in a fun, good vibe way) to girls, that I am still way stronger and thus capable of handling them.
Girls have more body fat, which makes them look more massive.
On top of that, their muscles contain much more water, which makes them look bigger, than their performance acctually is.
If a girl has the same Biceps size as you, you'll still easily win.
In most cases, when they even seem to have a significantly bigger one.
There's acctually a Steven Crowder video out there of his skinny gamer cohost defeating a bulky crossfit girl in armwrestling.
My problem is that I grew up working on trucks, hauling horses & hay, training horses, doing farrier work, racing 4 wheelers on the river sandbars, hunting & butchering the meat myself. Kayaking, camping, hiking, & the like.
My husband grew up with a manipulative narcissist mother, no father, & hung out at the mall. He works out & is a big guy but certain times our relationship is strained. One being when I offered to change the brakes on his car because the quote he got was $700 just for brakes! NOT including rotors which he needed, because they couldn't be turned. His response is "my car needs a special part so I'll just take it in."
I asked what parts it needed.
"It needs a caliper."
I didn't feel any less attracted to him, or superior, I just explained it to him nicely.
Every vehicle has 4 calipers... plural, not singular. & they're what squeeze the brake pads onto the rotors when you press the brake to stop.
He said "I'll just take it in" which is his choice I wont interfer with, but then took it a step farther by questioning that I knew how to change brakes...
Here's where I'd give him slack: he didn't know what the heck he was talking about, he didnt grow up with a father figure- I get that. So I would've found it way attractive if he would've admitted that. Instead of questioning my ability to get the job done. I don't feel annoyed or question his abilities when he knows something I don't, because the way I see it is the more skills each of us have, the better!
Personally speaking as a woman, I find it sexy as hell when a man welcomes my skills, rather than being small minded & seeing it as a threat to his lack there of. It's totally fine if he didn't know, but then acting butt hurt & trying to cut down my skills, on top of that? It's way unattractive. I don't see his skills as a threat to my own knowledge. I see both of us being good at different things, & he seems insecure about that, but it's silly. If he wants to become better at it so he can 'be superior' that's awesome, change my 7.3l diesels alternator! Change out both batteries, change the fuel filter or use a strap wrench for the oil filter, but dont act like me knowing these things outshines you. Because if that's the case, unfortunetly he's being small minded & I won't feel safe to just be me. Because his lack of knowledge doesn't make me see him as different or unattractive, his conduct thereafter does. It's ok to not know something, what becomes an issue is when you act like you do, for the sake of 'feeling' superior.
@swellingsuperman - My husband works out & is fit (Nice arms, really nice legs), but he's an inch shorter than I am if that answers your question.
It used to bother me a little early on until I met my family for lunch & he came along. My sister in law whispered, "omg he's shorter than her?" & proceeded to giggle. We could hear her. At that very moment I wanted to punch her right in the face. It sounded so vain out loud!
When she said that I thought wow, I don't want to be that person. I felt guilty for letting that bother me a little, early on. I was having a great time getting to know him, we took my horses out, I worked out with him at the gym, etc. We've been married 5 years & I don't think about his height at all anymore. He's my babe!
Even tho I don't think of myself like that kind of person, but I have to admit I can't lose to a girl at anything for some reason it fucks with me if a girl can do something better than me Lol I don't let it slide I have to win
I mean if she's better at something I don't care about that's fine but if a girl challenges me in any way and wins I kinda feel weird about it.
Even tho it means nothing to the girl but to me it doesn't sit well
And that could be anything even a game on the phone
Is that a bad thing?
Yeet, you speak pure poetry fam. Sometimes, putting all the yes and no's, all the traits aside. In relationships, being able to eat crow, and have team work, is far more important than feeling insecure. Vice versa, either gender must realize, that once you are in a serious relationship, where youre beyond physical attraction, and all other bigginer q's you look for in a mate. Its the action and how they proceed to acknowledge the fact, that there are two in the relationship. Thus, one with another complete each other as their other half orange or whatever.
@@adamzoubi96 - I don't see that as a bad thing. There's nothing wrong with being competitive & trying to beat a woman.
@@jaggedice1423 - I think I understand what you meant.
Wow, this was very enlightening🤔 I am 5’11 which is not very tall, but have an athletic wide frame, and my girlfriend is 5’0 tall and very small frame. She always compliments me on my body shape/stature and how much bigger I am than her. I never understood why she liked this so much but it all makes sense now!
5'11 is well above average, don't downplay yourself lol
it's an inch above average. i'm only 5'9" myself.
@@jpbart1390 You are short bro.
@@PlayerOneDS only slightly & i'm comfortable with that.
@@jpbart1390 Get comfortable being a cuckhold whilst your girl gets wet and dominated.
As a woman, I know that women who haven't figured out, and admitted to themselves, that they Need a man to be dominant are missing out on SO much pleasure.
The last 4 minutes of video are SO IMPORTANT. LIKE GOLD.
this should be taught in schools around the world. a very simple, yet very very important video for every man out there.
"She wants to feel small" Then maybe... just maybe DO NOT EAT SO MUCH!
That's a start
im a 21 year Old women, I agree with the dominance thing but the outright insulting stuff no, actually that puts me soo off and makes me think the guy is not as smart as I thought. Usually guys who are funny, confident, genuine who have more personality under all that is what I gravitate towards, not sure if this counts but a guy who is a bit of an asshole tsundere? but is genuine under all that. I hope that helps, have a good day :)
I read tsundere then saw your profile name, it all made sense.
@Nebula It depends on your personality, if your an introverted women like myself then you dont wear makeup/skin care or dress up to much on purpose to not get attention so you can blend in. Im sure everyone in the mirror can assess their looks and be aware if they are objectively good looking or not (symmetry). I hate compliments or attention from men but not women so imagine my surprise when my friend did makeup and clothes (first time at 19yrs old) for a wedding and thats all people/stangers could talk about...made me feel sick and not myself. I also tried it out when going to a shop, it was f in weird, i come from a place were people dont culturally stare or compliment at alll and that shop keeper was doing a bit much of both. Im not going to go on about other situations but makeup/ dressing up is to much for introverted women we prefer someone to prefer our intelligence or personality. Plus we women are more than just a face we have a brain if a guy is a rude confident idiot then were more likely to stay 10m away.
I like kuudere mixed with tsundere guys too ,I'm glad I'm not the only one.
@@michiga5220 levi can dominate you
What in the world is a tsundere?
As a 50 year old lady I 100% support this message and this channel.
This was absolutely incredible.
Went on a date with a guy who ticked all the physical boxes (though I can't help but remember thinking he had "feminine" looking hands) but mentally, I felt like I was more confident, more street smart and i felt able to "control" him. I always had a hard time figuring out why I instinctively rejected him when he tried to kiss me. There was nothing wrong with him. He was a really nice guy and we had lots in common. I told myself it was because I was too busy to date and didn't want to lose sight of my grades. In hindsight, it makes sense why I rejected him. I also remember censing false confidence when he tried to kiss me, he was nervous. He was also a little bit younger than me, though not by much. I guess in the end, I thought of him as a nice boy, not a man.
The man I'm dating now is taller than me. Stronger than me. He has a stable job. A house, a car. He is older than me. He is very smart. And he is confident, VERY confident and SURE. I find myself inclined to let him take charge, when normally this is NOT part of my personality. In fact I ENJOY it when he takes charge. Somewhere towards the beginning, I was a little bit freaked out, I guess, by how much I liked him. (I had never been into a guy that much and he would ask these direct as hell questions which made me voice my feelings and made them impossible to ignore. No beating around the bush) . I don't know if I was trying to "play hard to get" or subconsciously trying to test him or maybe trying to sabotage the whole thing, but when I mentioned just being friends and not persuing a romantic relationship (even though there was a clear attraction between us) he called me out on it. Not only did he call me out but he did it in a cool manner and his phrasing was borderline condescending, like I was being *silly*... we can never just be friends, come on now (something along those lines). Puts it all into perspective why I LIKED that and pretty much crumbled inside like wet tissue paper. The evidence is right there 😩
The evidence is that women play games
Yeah this makes a lot of sense when I look at my past relationships. Women loved my self-assured attitude. I know when a woman wants me and I act on it.
Looks like the short guy dodged a bullet on this one. Do you know what he is up to now?
*Big Yikes.*
Underrated comment, so much knowledge.
I have friends who are a younger couple. She cute, a nurse, and smaller. He is a muscular, braggadocio type guy. An oil field worker with a good income. A common friend of ours ask her why she married him. She said that he was strong enough to protect her from the world and he earned a sufficient income. She admitted he was “rather crude at times”. 20 years of marriage, they are still together.
"If he can dominate me, he can protect me." and "If he can subjugate me, he can also subjugate the threats to me" are lies women love to believe.
If your brain isn't jacked then all those are lost hopes lol....
Many big men have been slain by wisdom...
Empires and nations fall to the feet of the wise.. While the wise fall to the feet of God!
really?
what a wrong ideology/belief
tl;dr girls with daddy issues are easy, and the guy in the post is going for easy girls. Hence, most of his sexual experiences were with emotionally deficient women. Please do not believe that this is the case with all women. I will grant though, that women generally do want a man who is physically larger than her, but this is not necessarily connected to daddy issues and wanting to be dominated.
@Classic Some of it has to do with rejection, that's why some women think being treated badly (or even abused) is normative behaviour. Both women and men subconsciously seek partners that are genetically similar to them and "looking for daddy" correlates strongly with this.
Classic I guess he is referring to Freud, te states that sons want to marry their moms and daughters their dads.
Classic I don’t think race was mentioned at any point
What a scam. Why do we even bother 😑
Lambo Calrissian because sex.
MUH DIK
Male libido is like being chained to a demon. It feels great to be free of it
Value of vagina is diminishing. The holes have gotten so expensive that men are seeing the entire operation for what it truly is. Work your ass off to be a utility and tool to a leech that can only take and destroy. It's not worth it. if you want to do anything in this life, do it for yourself rather than for the validation of some hole that could care less about you.
you dont wanna die alone dont cha?
I'll never find a woman who is larger and more dominant than me, which is what I crave. I'm unlikely to even find a small, 4/10, overly-submissive dead fish lay who is willing to "settle" for me and my many qualities. And yet even after almost twelve years of looking, I still don't give up hope.
Really bad deal, if i'm totally superior i don't have any interest in that chick, she actually bores me pretty quick, i need to respect her in order to be attracted.
Therein lies the conundrum.
Now you understand why Chad dumps girls on a week basis, he gets bored of be around inferior thots
Yeah, I agree
I really like women that are adversarial
Not much that she can actually do to me, but I find it endlessly amusing when she tries
Lmao
you're only superior to her in masculine energy ( Stronger) , she may (and should be in order to be valuable) superior in feminine energy (more caring and nurturing) .
Never neg a woman who lacks self esteem. Instead of attracting her, you'll just crush her, confirming her worst fears about herself. It's supposed to be light-hearted teasing, not a brutal psychological assault.
yea if someone called me ugly id cry