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Do we really need to watch a video to find the answer to this question??😂😂😂 hell no! They are attracted to men who don't "waste" a second of their lives doing anything that doesn't make money
I play video games and I know the answer is no. You can still play video games and get women. Video games should not be a topic that comes up when talking with women. They don't need to know about all your hobbies. I also don't play games everyday all day. It's a hobby not a lifestyle.
Women prefer to be the one playing the game. See "Games People Play" by Eric Berne. Specifically the game 'kiss off".
I went to a wedding in January a very well suited professional couple been together 2 years, she made a speech about how lucky she was to have such a wonderful man and how deeply in love she was .. there was not a dry eye in the house. Shortly after their 2 week honeymoon he had to fly out on business but missed the flight and rescheduled for the next day on the way home he bought flowers to surprise her only to find her in bed with one of the brides maids brother ( he was at the wedding ). Devastated he kicked her out and is is still trying to terms with it, she has played the " It was a mistake " card but he is not buying it, clearly it had been going on before
He had to buy the cow very expensive and now for the rest of his life has to wonder why he can't be the guy to get the milk for free.
That's not a mistake. That is downright sinful
They love being brides, but they hate being wives.
We should go back to the public humiliation of throwing stones while she runs a gauntlet down the street, and if she survives it then she gets exiled to Hag Island.
@@glitch605 I honestly believe that there should be a public record of female promiscuity. Why is there a record of who marries whom? Why the state would care about marriage? Because of the kids? Utter nonsense : if that was the case they would have placed mandatory paternity tests to know who is the father (depending on the type of society and local/tribal characteristics anything from 5% to 20% of kids have a different father than the one declared - in western societies it is about 7% on average, which still is a huge percentage given the severity of this crime that is not even punished by law)
Propps to the "boyfriend". His reaction was epic.
Remain calm and exit. King 👑
Are the scare quotes because this was potentially staged?
@@gm9460 no. Because he is now the EX boyfriend
@@gm9460 people don't lie on the internet, impossible.
Yo his reaction was on point. Dap the dude up because he know he dodged a bullet.
She will find a way to blame him . I promise you
You're not wrong here!
most of society blames men when women are unhappy
@@kjettern I agree. OF is only a thing cause men buy it. Feminism taking over cause men allowed it. Always weak men’s fault
Lol went through my wife's phone as she became increasingly weird. Obviously didn't like what I found and called her on it. It then became my fault why she did what she did and then it became how she doesn't feel "safe" with me in terms of trust... ironic and hypocritical. Never got an apology either. Hope she has fun as a single mother with our 27mo old son. At least we only have one kid together. I've let her know, plenty of guys to hook up, gets pretty difficult if she wants to do better than I. I make six figures... part time. 6ft tall etc. Her coworker she hooked up with makes a bit more than I but he's married with 3 kids and doesn't respond to her messages for days at a time. If you call that a good life then I suppose, have fun!
This was hilarious. Just demote her to FB and carry on. hahaha
Nah she ruined the relationship months ago. She just got caught in 34 seconds
Likely 34 months ago.
My football team thought it would be funny to see if their girls would cheat. I didn't have a girl so people were ragging on me in the beginning. Then the girls that were called kept being down to cheat. I was the only dude without a disloyal woman.
majority of women can and will cheat if they can get away with it. Doesn't matter if their boyfriend is an athlete. If a more famous person hits them up they will cheat even if they get nothing out of it. It's actually incredible and that right there should permanently end the institution of marriage along with equal rights for women. They simply don't deserve either
Damn, you mean whole team? Cheater squad
@@gantp5182 every girl, each one was down. As one put it, "hell ya I wanna get team worked done down and sweaty, turn me into a kluuuum dumpster"
Brutal lesson. 🤣
Feral females.
Being in a relationship is the best way to realize how good you had it when you were single
That is why I am so particular about the girls that I ask out and how I behave in regards to them. Being single is great. Trust is earned and not given. Strange behaviour is confronted and I am ready to leave if her being around brings me more stress than being single does. I do NOT get attached like I used to so if its not working, bye.
Only if you’re always in bad relationships. Good relationships are 100% worth it.
@@maidende8280 your best bet is not to cohabitate that way you can leave when she starts acting up. That makes it about 50% worth it. At best
@jim No, for a lifetime. I think the honeymoon period only exists in suboptimal relationships. If you’re with the right person, & you’re both high quality, most aspects will only improve with time.
@@music-jj2pl I think it’s essential to cohabitate to see if you’re compatible long term, but either promptly get married or break up. Be decisive. Any hesitation always means no.
Receptionist (Julie Benz ) : *_How do you write women so well?_*
Melvin Udall ( Jack Nicholson ) : *_I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability._*
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Savage😂
I have to rewatch this movie, I feel it is better today than when it came out.
Source :
**As Good As It Gets** (1997)
Thank you for quoting it correctly,.
my younger brother told me a girl liked him because she smiles and she is polite when she comes to pick up her order. i told him he's delusional and he told me i know nothing about women
I could see this. Many women are grumpy, so when one is actual nice & approachable I could see how a guy could believe there is more there!
Women are simply more agreeable!
@@maidende8280 or maybe she knows she can't be rude with people who handle her food
show him this video
I mean she could. A woman looking at your and smiling is a tell that she wants you to talk to them.
Love that the Boyfriend gave props to the guy doing the interview and thanks him for helping him see the truth.
Remember that there are women who delete their messages right away. So if that woman in the video was one of these, she wouldn't have been caught!
those are the girls who were already caught once
Yup she'll delete from now on. Oinker
I'm surprised this girl was caught on Snapchat because you can set it up for the texts to be automatically deleted once you read them. Sounds like she didn't do this since it seems like entire conversations were still saved when she got busted.
@@Gnomesmusher it was ment to be the guy was kind hearted therefore she was caught. Karma is real.
simple if she deletes her messages then it is equal red flag
No accountability....ever...
The friendzone is a woman's way of spinning plates.
Not really, bc we don’t really want those men.
@@maidende8280 Nope, but you do want their attention. And attention is to women what s*x is to men. Because attention from more guys means a larger pool to choose from. And genetically, picking the best from as large a pool as possible is the only option a woman has. Mating with them all wouldn’t improve the genetic quality of her offspring - on the contrary.
@@maidende8280 you just want attention and validation tbh
Talha Creates…and free meals…
@@talhacreates4944 Yes, that’s correct.
As an older male that was never really single since early teens, going from one relationship to another, and now after being single for a couple of years, my eyes have really been opened as to how females really are when not around their partners. I was totally naïve to how easily they will flirt and lap up attention.
Guys remember this always, when a girl likes you there's very little you have to do to maintain her attention.
Also remember, when u are maintaining her attention it’s likely bc she’s being given yours reciprocally.
The investment bias you mention is called the "Sunk-cost fallacy".
Sunk-cost fallacy is the phenomenon whereby a person is reluctant to abandon a strategy or course of action because they have invested heavily in it, even when it is clear that abandonment would be more beneficial.
Great content, thanks for sharing. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, Really love him so much, i can’t stop thinking about him. I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life but to no avail, I’m frustrated because i literally can't envision my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him.
Your feelings are understandable, It's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation when my wife of 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go. I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.
@@haynesatteh4463 Wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach him/her?
@@nikascupcakebar her name is MONICA ERLENE MORA, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as a caster and healer
@@haynesatteh4463 Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked her up online. impressive.
1. You don't need a spiritual advisor (and the people telling you this need to get their heads on straight because thats not gonna do anything but line someone elses pockets and waste your time)
2. The person left you, it sucks, been there, done that, bought the shirt. It's gonna take time for things to get better, you will think about them often, you'll remember the good times, alot more than you'll remember the bad, and more than likely the bad outweighs the good if you're being honest with yourself but you won't want to look at things for what they really are (so do yourself a favor, turn off the emotions and think rationally)
3. If you caused this because you committed infidelity, that's 100% your fault and he did the right thing leaving you. If he committed infidelity, then you need to move on from this person, they're not the one because a person that truly loves you couldn't do that to you.
4. Remember that none of this matters, you will both pass on one day leaving this physical realm, life is too short and precious to waste on people that really don't care about you or want you around, take your time and energy and put it into something you love doing because you'll regret waiting for someone that left you, 9 times out of 10 they don't come back until you've moved on and if they don't come back, well you're already at that place now, can't really get any worse, only better, now you have room to bring someone new that values your time once you've healed, just don't go bringing past baggage with you when that new person comes into your life one day.
5. Stop trying to get the person that left you back, it's a waste of time and energy, if they wanted to be with you they would be there, clearly this person doesn't want that these days so let them go, close the book, stop writing that Bible of a text to this person saying how you want them, speaking of Bible, I've found reading the Bible helped me ground myself with understanding when I was going through a nightmare breakup, maybe you're not into that, that's fine, not trying to tell you what to do or read, just giving options.
Anyways, you'll be ok don't stress, your roof is over your head, you have food, water, a place to sleep, life is good.
I appreciate your honesty. "Oneitis" is dangerous for a man's self-esteem.
Lack of an abundance mindset is the root to several mens issues.
Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi.
That's something we should all get past with our first love in our teens, mid 20's at latest, when that relationship fails.
I had a bad case of it for my first, got over it pretty fast.
There is no way to kindly approach these guys.
I was one of them till couple of years ago, and one of the cause of this is the deep psychological trauma inflicted by parents, and usually the absence of a male figure and the presence of a toxic female figure. Since childhood i had to mask the bad behaviour of my mother and grandma as "she's doing it for my own good" over and over...that is not naivness...that is psychological survirvival auto-programming...that can be broken by a big awakening trauma.
Thanks for the work.
Big hug
Exactly! Most of us men have been conditioned since we were young to tolerate this stuff!
I always needed to believe that the majority of them had to be good or could be changed through "*love*" in better person, not only women but people in general....and hollywood and company are perpetrating this ill believe constantly to keep us enchanted.
As i said that is a childhood trauma survival strategy.
The best strategy to approach and help to heal is through respect, compassion, kindness and patience, and not with mocking, cause the risk is to inflict another trauma that can flip the mind into a "malignant narcissistic" pattern, if Core values are weak.
Also learning that romantic love is a "modern construct" and not a real thing helps a lot.
Self respect, stong concept of personal boundaries, knowing when to let go, moral values are the only thing that can make a relationship lifelong lasting.
Paul Elam was the best teacher for me.
@@ganste8310sounds a bit like you've been around someone with bpd or npd or both
@@tomemery7890 yeah, who hasn't in the last century?! 😂
Hypergamy was always there in the fairer sex. When invaders attacked indigenous tribe they killed the men and children and married their women. Women voluntarily chose the invaders for their survival and never fought back. They're survivalist by nature. So this is nothing new. It's not that shocking. We are watching the hypergamy in action in full view.
I've thought of this before and surprised you are the only one that nentioned it after many comment secrions i have looked at.
That explanation only makes sense as a response to physical threat from an outsider likely to win in a fight. And likely only worked 50% of the time, since the defenders would likely be able to repel an invasion half the time. Meaning, loyalty and disloyalty would be selected for roughly evenly, and not consistently in any genetic line.
Its also situational. Spontaneous disloyalty like this was likely just as dangerous for women as loyalty during a successful invasion. The women would likely have been non-consensually impregnated by the invaders and kept alive even IF they were loyal to the defenders.
I don't know that I find your argument compelling.
I suppose there are many bad behaviors from evolution that men can practice too but they can go to jail for that and many do
Totally agree that's what makes women fickle...but your example isn't hypergamy.
You can call it survival, I call it being lazy pacifist that's incapable of anything.
Alexander looked like he was holding this in for the longest time, lol. Sometimes, good people, even the ones offering advice, become exhausted. Love the content, Alexander :)
lol, I'm in my mid 50's of age. Have 2 kids I raised to be adults...was married for 10 yrs but I divorced my X wife back in 2009...enough is enough is enough. The juice is not worth the squeeze....never again and just not worth it
She didn't even try. She doesn't care.
That's the normal reaction when the entire system tells you that everything you do is:
1-Stunning and brave.
2-Not your fault
(Yeah, stunning and brave, and not her fault are perfectly compatible in a woman's mind, somehow... 🤷🏻♂️).
"Investment Bias" can also explain why a lot of men don't vet women probably while dating.
Alexander, you forgot to add one more possibility. The possibility that the man saw the signs, confronted her and she gaslit him into believing that her actions were for a different reason other than infidelity. It ties into the investment bias because the man should not believe it so easily, but I see it happen a lot more than the man just believing that she's an angel and can do no wrong.
The sunk cost fallacy occurs because we are not purely rational decision-makers and are often influenced by our emotions. When we have previously invested in a choice, we are likely to feel guilty or regretful if we do not follow through on that decision. (the term you were not sure at beginning, at least I think was it you referring)
He used the term 'investment bias'. It makes a good corollary to the sunk cost fallacy.
There is probably a bit of FOMO overlap too, wouldnt you think?
@@inconnu4961 - All of these concepts are related by virtue of being under the umbrella of a 'scarcity mindset'.
Thank you very much for speaking on the "investment bias" Alex. The amount of guys I've spoken to who thinks this is higher than anticipated (including myself once upon a time). It's very obvious when a girl likes you, but for many guys this is distorted. I hope this gets through to at least some guys. Thanks as always AG!
haha that girls face changes real quick haha and I love the hosts smile when he knows whats about to happen haha
shoutout to the king for dapping the guy up cuz he knew he escaped before it got too serious. Legend!
It’s not some women. It’s virtually all of them nowadays. That should be your starting point. This is why relationships are a waste of a man’s time and resources and marriage is an absolute no no. Too many men think that women are like their mothers or the Disney fairytale. Women claim they are better at lying and hiding it. That’s not the case. It’s because a lot of men don’t look for or see the signs because they still, stupidly, think women are not like this. Women have a herd mentality guided by social media and this behaviour is encouraged and even praised.
Women have a main man, a backup, orbiters and a whole load of random men in their DMs. It’s hard to believe there are still men blind to this? Women have exposed themselves all over social media. They are insufferable, liars, promiscuous, entitled, greedy, manipulative, masculine, useless, disloyal and the list goes on. What they actually are is three holes for recreational use only. They don’t bring anything more than that to the table. Why are men putting this incredibly limited gender on a pedestal? Wake up!
Sadly everything you said is correct.
I'm not like other women and who hurt you?
These two are the default defence mechanism women have to protect themselves from accountability.
I’m a woman and this isn’t true for me I am one man woman. However, is this true for men?
Haha this is such a defeatist loser mentality I keep seeing. Saying all women are like this just gives you an excuse to be weak and lazy and not even try. There are good quality women out there. But it's easier for dudes like you to say they're all bad as a coping mechanism for your own failings in finding them.
Stop being weak and lazy and pretending all women are like this. Just like how not all men are equal not all women are the same. I see too many weak men making stupid excuses like you do.
@@WonZZY2003 yup. When a girl plays a guy, she is given access to whoever she wants in society and allowed to seek better options. When a guy plays a girl, the reaction is “who hurt you?”
As if the girl isn’t the one who hurt herself by allowing herself to get played like she did to all the loser guys begging for chances with her. Girls will only stop attempting to have their cake and eat it too if men stop allowing them to play both sides of the field. It’s the only way to gain respect and standing over them
One of your best, straightforward, no-nonsense clips. Bravo.
I've not seen many of those types of videos in the mall, but every time I have, it's been the woman who was cheating...
The women we grew up with wether young or old have lied, gaslighted, manipulated us into believing that women will always be the good person who will never hurt you.
But, women have played games using their social skills, emotional intelligence, and interactions with every single person that approached them. While the men, if they do not have a social circle or are high in the hierarchy will suffer. The weird guy!
When a guy starts to believe a woman likes him, i say most of the time he’s not wrong. You said it Alex, the women keep male orbiters and she makes them believe she likes them, but she doesn’t and loves the attention. She’ll play mind games to keep orbiters, for instance, glances at the guy so many times, sweet talks him like he’s special, communicates with him almost everyday, teases him with tight leggings and ask him if she’s beautiful. The list can go on forever, I only listed the things I’ve experienced.
Lets say a woman in her 20s has interacted with 10,000 people in her lifetime vs. a man in his 20s has interacted with 100 people in his lifetime. Plus, the woman has support from her friends (men & women), family, the society, books and the internet teaching how to manipulate men, the government, social media.
A woman is socially more adequate and all her failures has been refined and more sophisticated to the point where she can easily manipulate men and get what she wants. Society has conditioned women to be winners and men to be losers.
Girls do already practice these "skills" as soon as they start in school. The problem is that they are also raised by parents who does embrace these traits.
men need to understand most woman are children, just play with them but don't even trust them or give them authority.
Possibly your best video yet! So many guys are stuck in the friendzone because that's exactly where they want to be.
Saving this vid to my relationships list in case it's needed.
Reminds me of that clip where the asian guy reaches for a drink and the girl snatches her phone away.
He knew.
when you mentioned the heart emoji, i had to laugh. I had a girl do that when I would send her messages. I was wondering if they were flirting. Then just realized I was being delusional again.
This is very important advice. I have known so many men who become delusional about a woman.
Hi Alexander, i think what you call investment bias is a combination of two logic traps. Confirmation bias and the sunk cost fallacy. I actually just realized this was happening to me a few weeks but luckily I didn’t lose time as I was looking elsewhere. I did waste energy. I realized she enjoyed being chased but never looked back and smiled to encourage me. She just looked away and smiled to herself. I dropped the attention and I can tell she keeps looking for it. I’m polite but thats it.
Investment bias is a great term to use in place of "the sunk cost fallacy." You explained it perfectly.
Great video. A lot of males need to hear this. I was one of them not long ago, no courage. Stop waiting for the almighty definitive signal from the girl and take your shot directly. Have the abundance mindset that she is just one of many you can ask which helps to not pedestalize her, boosts our confidence, ability to talk because you don't care what she thinks since there are other girls. Scarcity mindset is opposite of above, puts her on pedestal, way to respectful what she thinks (not saying to treat her disrespectfully but need to put yourself over herself, she does, you should too), you become an overly nice mouse.
If human beings having the capability of betraying scares you, you need to callous your mind a lot more. We've been on all three sides of that coin and we are bulletproof. If a girl we're with wants to hook up with some other dude, we wish her luck and move on... no regrets, no hard feelings, no anger, nothing, in fact... we wish her the best because that's not a reflection of who we are it's a reflection of who she is. Same goes for women who date men and pretty much anyone along the sexuality spectrum.
Very well spoken. ;)
Damn you're fired up in this one, love it.
I thought i was simply attracted to the wrong type of woman. You make a powerful case for the idea that so many of these problematic behaviors apply to a significant majority of women.
Towards the end of my relationship with my ex, we were thinking of reconciling and she told me no one had slept in her bed since we were broken up, went thru ig and found she def had a guy staying over. She lied over something she had a right to do because she was single. If that doesn’t tell you something about women idk what will.
"Sunk Cost Fallacy?"
i have never seen grace this much anger...i agree with you all you said on this video...
*"Investment bias" is also known as the "Sunk Cost Fallacy"*
*When the guy has sunk enough money (and time and effort) into the relationship (or potential relationship), they think that they have to keep paying, in order to get some "profit" in return*
I used to laugh at that moment in Meet the Parents when Robert DeNiro asks Ben Stiller if he thinks it’s possible to fully trust another person. When Stiller responds affirmatively, DeNiro says, “The answer is ‘No’.”
Now I just nod my head.
I refuse to believe this wasn't staged. The interaction looked so robotic as if they are playing it out step by step.
Even if its staged though most men would be absolutely amazed by what's on their partners phone and texting.
For me, it looked the opposite. Most of these are staged. But her minimal but accusatory reactions seemed way too familiar. LMAO
Looked staged a f to me .
She looks genuinely trapped and nervous to ME.
Remember it's never worth it. Stay away they don't care and never will.
Investment Bias has a different name. It’s called the Sunken Cost Fallacy
My ex left evidence all over the house. There were sexy clothes, sexy underwear, panty hose that I never saw her wear. She had sparkly eye makeup, streaked with a brush, I never saw her wearing. I found multiple pieces of tin foil with tiny quantities of white powder that I later found out to be ecstasy. She gaslighted me endlessly. Years of this cause a deep dilutional depression. Guys, look around you, if you see this type of thing, demand her cell phone, if she will not let you see it then leave or throw her out.
E doesn’t usually come in tin foil especially tiny amounts. Sounds more like coke or heroin. An addict is the worst kind of partner.
@@maidende8280 It was MDMA, I used a police field lab test, you can order these online, I believe her AF is a dealer, and I showed her the test results and the foil and she said I was crazy and accused me of going through her stuff.
If every couple did this, id say 70% of couples would end up be single.
Of the breakups, id say 90% would be the women lining up other men on the down low.
Looks fake. Wouldnt be the first time something like this was faked.
Yes, its 100% fake lol
Oh boy, could I tell you stories. It's why I don't get in relationships.
go ahead
Yeah I'm listening
War is humanity bereft of law and accountability. Feminism is humanity bereft of law and accountability.
Thanks for your brutal Honesty. Honesty is always the best policy.😊😊
God bless you sir. Doing men a great service.
I haven’t been cheated on but I’ve been betrayed & lied to (to my face even), romantically. In my case it was a combo of not being able to understand that others can be so selfish & cruel, & subconsciously ignoring the signs of deception because I didn’t want to believe I was being suckered. Sunk cost fallacy was definitely part of the latter aspect. And I’m a woman FTR.
Ok. So then why did you choose a guy who is lying and manipulative and not one who is nice, kind, and puts you on a pedestal? i have zero sympathy for you and women in general becasue you choose your own problems
@@dragorn3212 I didn’t ask for sympathy. And no woman wants to be pedestalised. I did marry a good man, but he died suddenly. I was overwhelmed with chronic pain when I got together with the next guy, which was obviously a huge mistake. In my defense, he acted very differently before we became a couple. He actually did pedestalise me, & was overly nice. Don’t trust overly nice men. It’s a lie or they’re weak, or most likely both.
Everyone chooses their own problems, to some extent, both men & women. People make mistakes.
@@dragorn3212 Why would you even try to put someone on a pedestal? That kind of thinking is what creates the problem in the first place.
@@maidende8280 Trust me lady, as weak as you judge them to be you are 10 times weaker. Don't be a hypocrite. But that's right, in society it's 100% acceptable for women to be weak and pathetic
You're doing a public service here A.G.
Men aren't the only ones with Investment Bias.
Keep up the good works. 👍 💔 🇺🇸
Such an important video. This should be required viewing for every boy growing up.
Today's men need to read the book "Games People Play" by Eric Berne. Especially the game 'kiss off'.
Truly underrated book… a little bit dust on it but if you remove it it’s a treasure.
Sorry but who is more at fault here? A 304 or guy who's dating a 304 and has ignored potential red flags.
If women is trying to link up with another guy while she's in a relationship, it means she has already emotionally checked out. It usually starts with dwindling sex, she hardly ask how's is your day, she is always glued to her phone, keeps it upside down, never lets it out of sight, sudden change in her schedule or work hours, working late or working weekends, sudden change in her appearances, new hair colour, she's working out a lot more, she's buying new lingerie sets or clothes but her bf never sees it. There always going to cues for a guy to pick on. That's why it's so important guys must be extra vigilant who they're dating. Hypergamy is inbuilt. Women always wants a winner not a struggler or a loser. Its always been this way now we are watching in 4k.
You are right, but he addressed it. Men have been taught to pedestalize women, that they are the caring ones, the safe ones, the Good ones (Women Are Good bias), and this gets reinforced over our life times until we see it up close & personal. Its not as easy to rationalize away deep-seeded emotional beliefs, the way so many men think!
it happens, women can fake whole relationships. I dont micromanage the woman I date so yeh if she said shes hanging out with her friends, I'm not gonna question it.
@@Boostlagg LOL. Okay.
You don't micro manage" women. Good for you. Enjoy being cheated on.
Keeping tabs on where your relationship is important.
The one that cheats is their fault
I dont think you understand responsibility at all, are you a woman? oops, I mean, you are a woman.
I can’t believe these women hand over their phones. All that hiding and sneaking and cunning but they hand it over for something like this?
A woman who ho is super eager to hand over her phone is either faithful, or she has a 2nd phone. Those are your options.
Props to both of the guys in the first clip 👑
I was thinking Im doing wrong by assuming the worst. But 90% of times I have judged accurately and it is thanks to the knowledge from your channel.
While also assuming the worst does also lowers my self esteem too. But I'd take that over wasting time over nothing.
I had to figure out the whole investment bias thing the hard way. And this 21 yr old model told me she loved me, every day. What gave it away was lack of moving forward.
I mean it's a major red flag when a woman gets defensive when you ask to see her phone
Also if you are a man in this modern day and age and think women are "special" it's safer you never leave your home lol
This is great advice, i could have used this about 50 years ago ! Way too late now though.
Women never like men. There’s your answer. Even if they have a burning desire. They expect connection and hate you more than they like you. Even if you have kids. They hate you. Married? Still hate you. You can buy them temporarily happiness until they want more and then they hate you. It’s all ironically jealousy. Because they just want to be you.
Agreed.
Actually, women hate us MORE when they marry us!
@@inconnu4961
True 👍
Yup they're narcissists
All relationships with women come with an expiration date. There's nothing you can do to avoid this. You can slightly prolong it but it's doomed from the start because women are impossible to satisfy. Be too nice and caring, they will grow bored and monkey branch to a more exciting narcissist guy. Be too apathetic and narcissistic, they will upgrade to a guy who buys them stuff and pedestalizes them. There is no winning this game because they want whatever they don't have. Men need to stop giving these women committment, families, and free attention ect until relationship laws are enforced in our favor
Women will waste your time though, and that's the annoying thing, I think at least half of the friend zone would leave if they find out he's an orbiters...
Also they don't give u an ending, that was my main issue tbh.
I'm much colder now
How I like to put it:
There are girls kinder than the kindest man, but there are also girls crueler than the cruelest man.
I remember I hooked up with a virgin that I met thru an app that my church put out. I was excited because I thought that this was my chance to finally get a girl to pair bond with me. I even had to wash the bloody towel btw. So 🍒 was indeed popped. Leading up to her driving 2hrs to be with me, we agreed to be exclusive.
Well after the deed (I was very giving and she was vocal on how gentle and safe I made her feel), I heard different apps going off to what I assumed was my phone (yes I was on Tinder as well). Turned out it was her phone!
So while I took me and her out to Applebees I told her that I overheard the different app notifications going off. She swears that she hasn’t responded to them. Well as the night goes on, she admits that she has been wanting to lose her virginity. It’s been on her mind that she didn’t want to be a 30yo virgin (she’s 28 and I’m 31). She swears she wants to still try.
We continue to text afterwards for a couple of more days. I end up hanging out with a friend who goes to church with me who’s also on the app. He blocks her for me because she was trying to hit him up.
Well I call her out on it. All the pushing for commitment was an obvious lie, and she tried to act like I forced her to lose her V Card. She stated she did nothing wrong because we weren’t official yet so she could date/hook up with whoever.
I’m flattered that I was her first, but the mental gymnastics that she tried doing to justify her entering a 304 phase was just astronomical. A definite first for me.. bullet dodged but still it makes you wonder who can you trust?
I immediately knew it's entirely your fault when you said "hooked up". What did you expect mate?
What you've said about men allowing this perception is partially true - we are drown from early days in this propaganda, so you need solid proof to change your mindset. Yes, this is also problem of weak father figures in today's family, but if someone, as a kid, listen to "smarter" adults and they give you all wrong answers then you can't really fully blame that person to believe in those answers until proven otherwise.
Damn! Good job Alexander. A lot of guys need to hear this. I tell people in my life this all the time. You never have to wonder whether or not you're important to somebody. People spend their time and energy on the things that they value. If a woman wants to be with you, you won't be able to get rid of her.
He got saved. Hallelujah!
Unfortunately boys, I was one of this fools. Had a 2 year and 5 year RS end by monkeybranching to someone else. They even told me, there was no need to find out. I still cant find a balance between trusting woman and expecting them to behsve like this
I had the volume right up to almost maximum, so when you started swearing, I had to reach for the remote to turn the volume down because I was not expecting it 🤣🤣🤣, but I got your message loud and clear. It's a damn hard pill to swallow when you finally reach that place, it makes me not want to even try anymore, sadly.
It's better to be alone than to be with a disrespectful and disloyal girl. The man in the video trusted her but wasn't naive about female nature.
simps are taught that womyn are the "fairest" sex.. play the game and pay the price...
if you are not the priority than you are an AFTER THOUGHT
Nope! ALL men are taught this! Actually, since ALL men are simps, even YOU, then you are correct after all!
A needed wake-up call
My mind just blew away
Thank you, Alexander for doing what you do. These are all cautionary tales that I learn what not to do
That's what happened to me. I couldn't believe my ex would have the capability to do what she did. You grow up assuming people see the world and have the same morals that you do.
I think it’s a fake couple and a fake loyalty test. But it doesn’t invalidate Alexander’s points.
Watching her relationship "Slip away! Slip Away! Slip AWAAAYY!!!"😂😂
Sometimes men does similar things. Human beings are flawed, and that goes for both genders.
From the video you can tell by her face she got real nervous as soon as he had her phone in his hand, he'd be able to look at her face and already dump her based off that lol.
Don’t settle gentlemen, own your agency…and attract rather than chase.
i agree.. it took getting cheated on a few times to realize that there are a lot of shitty women out there.
People are just people. Male or female. There is no disparity; men can be evil, women can be evil. Men can be truly good, women can be truly good. Gender is irrelevant, its just humans being humans
I agree. The Gospel of Jesus Christ is for all people. He has the power to save us from our sins and reconcile with our holy Creator God.
@@cheerfulturtlegirl ok sure but how does Jesus tie into literally anything I said
Honestly that whole thank you and dab up into shoulder bump was smooth.. bros be bros before h oh 3s
This boyfriend definitely suspected what was happening. He wasn't shocked, he just didn't have proof.
“She was holding hands with Trevor
Not the greatest feeling ever”
Oh, no! I'm so blinded by investment bias that I can't even see the helpful video links that Alexander keeps pointing to! I must be losing it. I'll be stuck in the friend zone forever!
Holy cow brother are you okay? You've been holding this too much time, i can tell 😂😂 Love your content and i really appreciate your honesty, you've been doing all of us a great service
Good handling it dude. I'm glad that our boy is out there destroying these sham relationships.
Of course, these things happen in real life, but the clip in this video seems staged to me.
From 01:14 both men' body language is somehow unnatural. I could be wrong of course, but I just don't buy the context where some guy interviews random couples in a mall hoping to catch someone's infidelity.
I think you're missing the point.
@@knusperkeks2748 I wouldn't know, I didn't watch the whole video.
that ish is heartbreaking, bro. she did him dirty.. at least he found out.