Surviving A Breakup: Your Ultimate Guide (No B.S.)

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 73

  • @_TheIlluminator_
    @_TheIlluminator_ 19 днів тому +95

    The fact that I’m still alive after all my failed relationships is good enough.

  • @mrstone645
    @mrstone645 19 днів тому +31

    This video couldnt more on point with timing, just broke up yesterday. Thank you.

    • @babyyoda4942
      @babyyoda4942 7 днів тому

      how u doing bro

    • @mrstone645
      @mrstone645 7 днів тому

      @@babyyoda4942 Taking one day at a time, depression is still there but getting better. using this breakup to become the 2.0 version on myself like Clark says. Quit smoking weed for good because of it so i guess its a blessing in disguise, im not understanding totally what went wrong. you just cant actually and thats ok we should not ruminate on what could be and what we did wrong. a breakup doesnt mean youre less than. Smile because it happened. Its better to have loved and experience loss than to not have loved at all.

    • @aidanmohrman9493
      @aidanmohrman9493 3 дні тому

      Good luck dude, we’re right there with you.

  • @jennyhaytch
    @jennyhaytch 18 днів тому +12

    I’ve got an ex I call “Asteroid Boy” because our collision sent me off on a trajectory I could never have imagined. Led to a complete change and total fucking growth.

    • @jennyhaytch
      @jennyhaytch 18 днів тому +2

      “Write out what you would be willing to commit to in a partner in the future”.
      I did this a couple a years back : ) Awesome thing to do. It made me realise how little the “dream” ex was actually giving. And what I was capable of instead.

  • @11duckedoff1
    @11duckedoff1 19 днів тому +11

    Your personal anecdotes are as insightful as your advice, Thanks Good Buddy

  • @TreblePvP
    @TreblePvP 14 днів тому +5

    3:44 "Did you sit there and judge yourself for getting sick."
    Me: yes actually, every time. *laughs in c-ptsd*

  • @SerpentStar_
    @SerpentStar_ 19 днів тому +3

    Needed this in my teens and early 20s. Lost a coworker and friend in 2011 because her husband shot her, then himself because she wanted a divorce. We got to LEARN about our emotions or be controlled by them.

  • @masonsmyth147
    @masonsmyth147 15 днів тому +2

    the universe always provides. Currently heart broken, hadn't been on your channel In a little.. and what do you know. A video just for me. Thanks man, I appreciate you

  • @LeaChea
    @LeaChea 17 днів тому +1

    Thank you for this. Betrayal blindside of is hurtful. Thank you for this video.

  • @teresacarapeto7490
    @teresacarapeto7490 16 днів тому +1

    Thank you Clark for sharing this video. You have put a lot of time, energy and effort in this. This will help a lot of people. You are amazing! Thank you for being You!! 😺

  • @alezmbgt
    @alezmbgt 19 днів тому +1

    Love your videos, as always you're incredibly wise and you know how to speak in an amazing engaging manner. And it is cute how when you will share a personal story you ask if it's ok with us. Thanks for sharing all your knowledge, stay safe

  • @bigpapa2195
    @bigpapa2195 19 днів тому +12

    Did i miss the how to get a girlfriend guide?

  • @bitman32x
    @bitman32x 19 днів тому

    I didnt see this coming. But as always your content have valuable information everytime.

  • @imronlevi
    @imronlevi 13 годин тому

    The example with the trash is awesome

  • @jrjraid9713
    @jrjraid9713 19 днів тому

    great video thanks for the information , very useful

  • @nathantrudgill5057
    @nathantrudgill5057 17 днів тому +1

    Use this to realise that this is the nature of life for things in life. They come and they go. Impermanence

  • @deliamaria4220
    @deliamaria4220 17 днів тому +1

    This video îs the best from the best! I am so lucky that i found you❤

  • @angelvides9158
    @angelvides9158 19 днів тому +3

    Bro I’m goin through it rn, I wanna go back and try to fix things and break no contact but I’m just trying to fix myself first. Shits tuff fr

  • @SiTao_Huang
    @SiTao_Huang 18 днів тому +2

    Thank u Clark,, very helpful ❤

  • @seagoddesshealingarts
    @seagoddesshealingarts 18 днів тому +1

    Good Timing. We always appreciate you 🙏🩷✨

  • @SaarLeestMee
    @SaarLeestMee 6 днів тому

    Very good advice thank you ❤

  • @michaeljeacock
    @michaeljeacock 19 днів тому +11

    to a much lesser degree you also have to deal with electronic ghosts when people are not metaphorically but actually dead to you. I had to deal with stuff like that after my mother died a few years ago. removing her number from my contacts archiving message threads removing buy gifts reminders from my google calendar etc. obviously this is not someone I am trying to forget but cutting down on the little electric jabs that she isn't here anymore helps a little with the grieving.

    • @yzma6142
      @yzma6142 4 дні тому

      Wow. I have never thought about this. I’m sorry for your loss 🙏

  • @themotive7502
    @themotive7502 8 днів тому +1

    Well said thank you 😊

  • @anthonyredden9373
    @anthonyredden9373 19 днів тому +4

    I was good then had a dream, and now I relapsed.😢

    • @matthewjohnson375
      @matthewjohnson375 19 днів тому +1

      Keep going, I'm in pain, so much, I just want a particular person to make it better. They won't do it

    • @JeremyHausser
      @JeremyHausser 17 днів тому

      those dreams really set you back right.. I know them really well too.

  • @KritmayPachaury
    @KritmayPachaury 16 днів тому +2

    I had a break up last month
    We had a 4 year long Relationship she said she doesn't love me anymore

  • @sennaalaerts
    @sennaalaerts 15 днів тому +3

    Lol broke up some minutes ago real life saver

  • @Shuvangi2001
    @Shuvangi2001 2 години тому

    50 percent happen on MONDAY! YES YES YES.

  • @natalieschannel7675
    @natalieschannel7675 3 дні тому

    I just had a break up and I accepted he wanted to end our relationship. I just want to stop missing him.

  • @luissol3964
    @luissol3964 18 днів тому

    Now that I know Monday is Break up day I feel relieved...

  • @Xiviuz
    @Xiviuz 19 днів тому +1

    7:31 and I'm literally listening to "Dead to Me by Palaye Royale" on repeat atm lmao

  • @prico3358
    @prico3358 23 години тому

    Bro, 0:45 that was exactly what i was thinking.

  • @lexione14
    @lexione14 19 днів тому

    I need a min by min, day by day guide for my daughter's boyfriend!

  • @henrivacas36
    @henrivacas36 5 днів тому

    I agree with everything but…deal with an ex-wife after 23 years of marriage and two children in common. I ‘ll survive surely but it will be not easy to struggle. Cheers from Switzerland!

  • @11duckedoff1
    @11duckedoff1 9 днів тому +2

    Going back to your ex is like taking a shower and putting dirty underwear on after

  • @raquels4330
    @raquels4330 14 днів тому +4

    I'm confused because in the beginning of the video you say pretending they don't exist is bad. However, mid-way through this is the advice you give -pretend they don't exist. Maybe I'm not understanding.

    • @FernWillow555
      @FernWillow555 13 днів тому

      Okay I noticed that too like what’s happening 😂

    • @SaarLeestMee
      @SaarLeestMee 6 днів тому +2

      Emotionally they existed so don't pretend the feelings didn't exist actually later he means practically in your house and behaviour with Internet erase it so you can heal without reminders all de time

  • @rockiie09
    @rockiie09 11 днів тому +1

    Please do a video for folks with kids.

  • @starryskies1370
    @starryskies1370 12 днів тому +1

    Great, now do one for co-parenting 😊lol

  • @jamielle5168
    @jamielle5168 3 дні тому

    Im preparing for a break up 2:40 ;’) I just can’t anymore

  • @anthonyman8008
    @anthonyman8008 19 днів тому +1

    Is your name written in the lambs book of life?

  • @paddyfrx
    @paddyfrx 17 днів тому

    How did you know I am going through this right now lmao

  • @Meeeeeeeee377
    @Meeeeeeeee377 7 днів тому +1

    It’s been 14 months and he is now married…I still can’t move on….what should I do?

    • @aidanmohrman9493
      @aidanmohrman9493 3 дні тому

      Did you make mistakes and push him away or did he just not value you?

  • @BillykOTW
    @BillykOTW 5 днів тому

    Thanks… my dumb ass is going on vacation with my ex in October smh

  • @thechzwun
    @thechzwun 18 днів тому

    why you had to call me out sir 😭

  • @LindsaySatmary
    @LindsaySatmary 19 днів тому +1

    It's so hard to be sentimental in a superficial world. The memories are hard.

  • @robturner7024
    @robturner7024 4 дні тому

    But she is my next door neighbor. What do I do now?

  • @nerd26373
    @nerd26373 19 днів тому

    Surviving a breakup meant having to break up with your job as well. But for other reasons.

  • @luelmezmure8902
    @luelmezmure8902 19 днів тому

    I thought I would be the first to comment 😭😭😭😭

  • @user-ii2zr2ho3h
    @user-ii2zr2ho3h 19 днів тому +1

    This is wonderful for young and middle aged people. For older people a breakup is a farewell to romantic relationships 😢

    • @SerpentStar_
      @SerpentStar_ 19 днів тому +2

      What you think you become
      What you feel, you attract
      What imagine, you create
      The Buddha

  • @jpjp9111
    @jpjp9111 19 днів тому +1

    Meh. It's just a breakup. So what. The real hard part is getting a new girl.

  • @rb70383
    @rb70383 18 днів тому

    Not exactly a breakup. More of a separation, caused by my girl dying.

  • @bummyforeign
    @bummyforeign 12 годин тому

    Thai not Korean😂 ig ask Asian sounds the same

  • @nicholasbrajkovic1710
    @nicholasbrajkovic1710 18 днів тому

    Too much fluff. You need to simplify.

    • @andyxbox1
      @andyxbox1 15 днів тому +1

      He doesn't need to do anything, you're the one who needs to extract what's useful for you

    • @nicholasbrajkovic1710
      @nicholasbrajkovic1710 15 днів тому

      @@andyxbox1 true but I’d do my viewers the gold standard

    • @andyxbox1
      @andyxbox1 15 днів тому

      @@nicholasbrajkovic1710 this is relative. I'm going through a breakup rn and I could get valuable information for every point he made. So think about others as well

  • @chrispy7469
    @chrispy7469 19 днів тому +2

    good timing