In this video, we're talking about overthinking! Or as I like to call it, 'the art of creating problems that were never there' 🤣. But perhaps more important than why you overthink is how to fix it! I'll share 5 personal methods that really work. Hope this video helps YOU! Ready to change your life? It all starts with asking yourself the right questions. Get the 11 questions to change your life now (free gift for yt subs): www.clarkkegley.com/free-questions
Thank you!I I listened to many different podcasts today , popular and famous people and more . I couldn’t even get thru their talks. YOU Hit The Spots!
Well tim problems will always arise in life. If you are self aware enough to know what type of person you are someone who avoids or likes to solve problems it could work out better to you
"Done is better than perfect, because perfect never gets done." I LOVE that! And I'm extremely bad at remembering it. I need this tattooed on my hand, or at least on a t-shirt!
"Strive not to be a success, but rather, to be of value" - Einstein The quote that has helped me the most in my creative proces. Helping me create what i myself like.
With my overthinking I feel what helps is me telling myself to just live more in the moment. I agree with you on walking , meditating and breathing exercises.
Stay away from Alcohol. Stay away from people that influence you to go back to your own you, work out and visualize, if you had everything you want, what would you do? who would you be? What fulfill you. I’m am in this self rediscovering journey right now, this video gave me a lot of clarity. Fear of failure is for sure my biggest enemy
Great comment…I’m exactly the same..I have everything I want..retired 9 months ago and it’s left my with no destination and no journey…empty vessel with no rudder…horrible feeling…I need to carve out a new path
Stay away from people that constantly want to change you by telling you what to do and not what to do, especially people on the internet who know nothing about you...
@@mrdaggydoochikevscou473didn’t you have a list of things you said you’d have time for once you retire? Most retired people start a new hobby or go travelling
@@TayWoode Thanks for taking the time to comment….well I’ve always had free time as I was a landlord of various properties (HMO)…so I had plenty of free time in between looking after my Tennants..I’ve pretty much being doing my hobbies for the past 17 years from 30 years old…so when I sold up last year it’s left me not having my properties to keep me busy and to give me a sense of achievement…yes of course I keep busy as much as I can ..I run 25 miles a week cycle everywhere..gardening,cleaning,,I’m also a boxing coach but that doesn’t pay nothing…I need a greater destination and a journey that fills me with worth …not being prompted to do things can be tough because one constantly has to invent things to do rather than having to do it..this alone can drive you nuts…it’s probably hard to understand unless you’ve been there …again thank you for your comment👍👍
My mantra is "Let it go." I let go of my overbearing thoughts on something. It's hard to do, but the more I say it to myself, the easier it's become to move on. I find that consistency with any healing method is the key to success. This, of course, is just my opinion.
It takes a huge ego to think you know the outcome of everything you are going to do, the actions you are going to take and the universe is so much more creative than we will ever be - we just need to give the universe a chance to show us that and if we are trying to control every outcome well that makes magic a lot harder to appear...
I've had my days where I would think too long and hard on the "what if" aspects. I've learned that by not worrying about the "what if" and just let things happen, you'll have much more valuable experiences.
Instead of worrying about "What if I fail? What if I fall?" in the words of Mel Robbins... "Oh, my darling, but what if you *fly*?" That possibility works two ways, and you can choose what you focus on.
Clark, the value of your videos is not just the wisdom or practical information, it's also very much your personality! There are other creators out there with similar content, but I enjoy YOUR sense of humour and how YOU communicate ideas and your thoughts on things. No need to overthink the content, just trust that you're liked by so many viewers for who you are! 😊👍
Imperfections are where humanity is. Imperfect is real. The flaws of things give those things character. When I started painting, I learned to look at an object over and over. There is beauty in every flower, not just the flower that most closely approaches symmetrical perfection. I say approach because perfection, if possible, could only be momentary because all things are in perpetual motion. This is also not taking into consideration the subjective nature of perfection since beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. I really appreciate your statement, "Don't let perfect be the enemy of good." Thank you for this video. It is "perfect" for inaction breaking.
On over-preparing, takes the human-ness out of performance or product. "People do not care about how much time and thought youve put into something, they care about the results, and the product."
I watched a video of Cristiano Ronaldo talking about his workout routine and he was saying how he just does what's on the paper and that's how I do my workouts, I just get up and do it, I dont let myself think about anything else, I don't give myself enough time to talk myself out of it.
I live by the motto " Do What You Want Be What You Are" It's a 70's song from Hall & Oates but it really says alot. Just do what you want....just be what you are. It simplifies things for me when my head is running away wondering all the things that slow us down. The do what you want part is easier. Being what you are is more difficult especially if you have not been living as your authentic self, you will lose people when you start.
Overthinking can grow to become a problem but it can help you understand things about yourself and others around you that you wouldn't have caught unless you stop and think about them. Its about finding a balance.
One thing to take away - I will be commenting on every single long form video I watched w/ a key learning. My word from your video: Simplicity!!!!! (TAKE IT EASY, GET DONE THAT SHIT)
Finish the one thought. Complete the whole journey of that thought. Instead of jumping from one to the next. Sometimes when Im done with just the one... all else has faded. - i am doing a project in school on sustainable higher frequency and found your channel - absolutely love you and your grounded take on concepts. I've watched maybe 6 videos till now... and have so much to reply, and so much gratitude... yesterday i started my channel, and it is as you say - cringe jaja... BUT - I took action 🎬 and all will be revealed in time. Thank you 😊
This video is the best I’ve watched in this category. I’m so tired of being paralyzed, just frozen. I need to break things down and just do it! Thanks ☺️
“We relax, we let go, we do not struggle, we often find that the right answers come when we have tried this for awhile”. I’m pretty sure it’s from AA… but mannn it rocks my world when I can surrender like that
"Done is better than perfect, because perfect never gets done". Such a mind blowing quote, I love it! And you cannot be more right when saying that overthinking IS attachment! For real, this video was so eye opening and liberating for me. I've been struggling with perfectionism for almost all my life, not because I don't believe in my self worth that much, but because I have been constantly judged so much from my family environment that I always struggle to keep up with all the expectations that others are having from me and, most of the times, I end up doing almost nothing or the bare minimum and I end up being even more judged about me being inactive. I will consider using this quote as my arguing point and I will keep trying my best to detach myself from this whole thing, because it's a horrid life to live. Thank you from the bottom of my heart, may God be constantly laying His blessings before your feet ❤
When I'm overthinking.... I lean on my value system. Tapping those specific resources....spirituality (prayer) health and well-being (workout, bike ride, walk, sweat), call a friend or family member, pick up my guitar, create, or gratitude journal. The hardest part is "trusting" your value system will be the fix as you push to take action towards it. Great content!
Great advice. I’m notorious for overthinking. What helps me I’ve noticed is when I start to get that overwhelming/doubting I can do it feeling I have to just take a step back and chill out.
Ive been creating my own content on TikTok daily (some of it gets uploaded to UA-cam but I'm still honing my craft). One thing that helped me a lot to get out of my head about my content and jumping into action that so much more authentic is a simple phrase I put next to my computer so I can see it every day. "Don't compare yourself to other people."
My goodness…attractive and informative! Fun fact…the same part of the brain that controls anxiety ALSO controls gratitude. It is impossible to be anxious while gracious. So next time you are anxious try and allow yourself to think of all the things you are grateful for and it will quiet your anxiety!
Momentum = “just get started”, or “a thousand mile journey starts with the first step… just do one step”. Also, “don’t be afraid to fail” is another one, because if you don’t try things or to get better, you’ll never go anywhere.
I find ‘dont be afraid’ to be a nonstarter, personally. Its very hard to reason yourself out of fear and easy to blame yourself for failing to not be afraid. ‘Feel the fear and do it anyway’ may be a better angle, for some.
i feel like just trying to live in the moment helps and understanding that when ur overthinking something ur not living in the present and u just assume it will go bad when u haven’t even tried. i do lash extentions and for the longest time i would cancel or reschedule ppl because of my anxiety of thinking about the day coming and feeling like everything will go wrong when i truly won’t know unless i do it. there was one client i had that i was having super bad anxiety about but i pushed myself anyways to do it cuz i know it’s the only way i’ll get over my anxiety and overthinking and it ended up being the most gorgeous lash set ever and it gave me such a good feeling once i was done and motivated me more. i feel like u just have to do things without letting ur overthinking / anxiety control u as much as it’s easy to let it control u ❤
basically action is the best way to overcome these things. don’t listen to ur anxiety and bad thoughts because they can keep u out of good situations that can help u grow. i truly believe action is the way to go even if it’s taking small steps each day
One thing I find helps my nervous system when I'm worked up about what other people will think of my work is to remember that the reason we care about what other people think is that we're a social species and that for our ancient ancestors being rejected from the tribe could literally mean death. So it's understandable that we are programmed to worry about rejection BUT we don't live in that world and rejection DOESN'T (generally) mean death anymore. We can reassure ourselves that rejection is a lot safer than it used to be, even if our nervous systems haven't fully caught up to that fact, and we can do that without getting mad at our nervous system for trying to protect us from what it sees as a genuine threat to our existence. Sometimes we just have to - lovingly - parent our own nervous system.
I like the 'be where your feet are' tip, whereby, if you start to overthink/get overwhelmed, take a moment and focus on where your feet are, I get myself to say what I see right in front of me like 'my feet are on the pavement, there are green trees around me, I'm walking the dog, the birds are singing' and it helps bring me back to the present moment.
Hello, Clark. I just wanted to thank you for this video. I'm in Málaga, Spain at the moment and will start a teaching job in Sevilla in September. I'm worrying about silly things: the fact I'm not working at the moment, even though I have enough money to last me for a few months. But the biggest thing has been my creative front: I haven't written a song in YEARS barely written a story or worked on my writing projects in almost a year and feel creatively drained. I realized it's my mind. I'm 39 and going through a huge life change and your video made me realize that I need to be more present, work on myself and take action. Your videos really do impact and help people. Thank you! ❤
It may not be a great reason why I am here to watch your video, but besides helping me out on my overthinking righr now, your tips just had me realising, what held me back at doing all the cool stuff I used to do. The quote "Done is better than perfect, because perfect will never be done" ist very important and it might be my mantra for the future, because it was always my excuse to say "I'm a perfectionist and that's why I don't even try" Thank's for the helpful advices and as much as you value my time, I value your work, you put into the video, because I absolutely got something out of it, that made my day and I was glad, that I spend the time to listen to you. By the way, your voice is very beautiful and soothing!
“Progress not perfection” This is a great video, I found the way you described the problems of perfectionism really helpful. I need to remind myself of some of those hard truths when I feel myself sliding into old bad habits! I think the way you embody what you’re teaching comes across and it adds much more power to your content. I definitely noticed the ❤❤ energy - thanks Clarke!
Thank you for helping me out today, as I am a single mom I always thought I wanted to do a lot of things in one day. Start right now by not being perfect in everything just slow down step by step. understood what I stand for.
Exactly have a drink and then you don’t think about it anymore. But alcohol is only a short term fix. Yes go for a walk being in the moment and breath work is awesome. Thanks ❤
When I catch myself overthinking I make a decision. If it's something I can resolve, I move forward and resolve it. If it's something I cannot resolve I consider what I learned and force myself to move on by focusing on my current environment. Staying aware of my current situation is ideal. Dwelling on something you cannot change or "fix" takes away from your current life.
Thank you for addressing the often-overlooked issue of overthinking with humor and insight. Your practical methods offer a lifeline to those caught in the cycle of unnecessary worry.
It helped when I made me believe that I am good enough even if im not doing "perfect". I find myself taking more action, less afraid of disapointment. Life got aaaaa lot lighter 😊
I have never really prepared much for any type of interview (even jobs) and when it works, it works. It just flows and works out. If it doesn’t, it just isn’t a great fit. 😊
Me and my grandpa started going to the driving range every week to shoot golf balls. The first time, I used a right handed club and then I practiced with a left handed club the next week. A key takeaway from this is I would do a lot of practice swings. And every time I would try to make sure I made a good shot, I would do these practice swings and funny enough they got worse every time before I made the actual shot, then I would either miss or it would be a weak swing. Then I sort of let my body go and I would just take the shot. And every time I did this, my ball would fly further and further. And this ties into a lot of aspects of my life such as school. I would start crushing tests and doing extremely well when I learned how to live in the present moment and letting go of all connections to the past, future, and what I would do by overcomplicating it.
best tip is to add water (action) to fire (thinking) wrong to slow down ⚠ it will make you "think" why I can't stop.. thus back into the thought loop.. just do anything and more doing will train you to do more and think less, it's practice that changes us
Great advice, Clark. I burn sage, and incense. Listen to spa music, and guided mediations. All these help. But, if I don’t stay consciously aware of my thoughts I catch myself overthinking again.
Gonna be honest, I don't watch you often, and you don't come up on my main page often either. This was my first video today. I take that as a sign. Overthinking has been my major block lately. Thank you for this video I needed it.
You are right, Clark,I have been following these UA-camr's for too long trying to forehand a solution and the result has been just" anticipating anxiety when we just must start from the beginning of things and thus get to progress, which must be the aim. Thank you. Well done.
I think just reconnecting to your own energy is helpful. You have to constantly realign yourself to your best version. Also recognizing you’re always safe is a good way to bring you back to calm.
I'm still starting to Put a hold to my Overthunking, but a good quote ist: "If you think you can do Something or If you think you can't. In both cases you are right."
That was really helpful. I'm guilty of all those things. Knowing that more information is not the answer to overthinking something is a revelation thank you 🙏🏻
This is really great advice. I will definitely put these in action. Thanks for posting these videos. I’m not really religious, but when I’m feeling anxious I have to stop and tell myself to “Give it to God”. This really helps me slow down and gives me a feeling of I’m not alone. I also look at the root word of Worry, which means to strangle. I worry a lot, translates to, I’m strangling my thoughts.
Great video mate, very true. For me, sometimes, just telling my brain to Shush out loud works. Sometimes your thoughts are not your own, they are just thoughts passing. Shush.
When I’m overthinking, I write letters in my head. No action… just thinking how “perfect “ it would sound when he reads it. Lol but I made a commitment recently to write and publish a short essay. Thanks Clark, I love your content.
I'm the same. I either need to try lots of different things to see what I enjoy, or I need to meditate on it, but likely both! What's the longest you've sat on your own with no distractions at all? Where does your brain go? (Not talking minutes or hours, but days or weeks.)
Any job that makes money, go to the gym, have a hobby(mines mma), use the money to look good, get things you want and improve your relationships with friends and family
i dont think that you need anymore tips to stop overthinking, these 6 is all you need imo. Just start doing, no matter the results in the end, no matter the shame you may get, just do at all costs. Doers > thinkers these are the people that made the world we are in right now. And also i managed to not overthink this comment and just wrote whatever the hell came to my mind lol the tips worked thank you
Just stumbled on this video and was pleasantly surprised! Thank you for being “real” and putting out content that’s from the heart. It really helped me today!! ☺️
Try to find a bigger picture of yourself. Like, why is it happening this way? Why are you so worrying about it? Why are you scared? Then, i think we can focus on that bigger picture and try to take just one step at a time. I've lived my life overthinking about the impossibilities for years but somehow I've made on my own today. I don't exactly have much right now but I still find my life hopeful while trying to make a meaningful life. At the end of the day, it is what it is. Peace !
So I have an overthinking strategy that I think really helps a lot. If you're an over thinker, especially about the future. Recognize that. You know how to think ahead, you know how to think about the details and the little things that could happen. You could think about anything. Instead of mulling it over and listing things out, think " wow yeah I think I have way more scenarios covered than I could ever need ". And then just TRUST yourself that you will handle whatever happens. You're smart, you can react and adapt. If you can come up with 20 plans just in case, you can absolutely come up with one good plan on the fly when & if it's needed.
anyone else who replayed this, anyone got a that Owen Wilson vibe from the intro? hehe I dont know, maybe I was overthinking it. nonetheless, this was a great video and insight to overcome overthinking while sharing more of your art, expressing yourself. you got me red handed with the perfectionists being judgemental, as i felt paralysed to upload to share content during a period of time, the only thing you could do was project the frustration on other peoples work. instead, we need to get lost in the fire of sharing our art consistently. Believe in the power of volume. its the portfolio. its the workout. its the albums. not the clips, not the perfect sets, no the perfect 10s on this soundtrack. This approach of taking off the weight to share your art, is relieving. Work to Publish, Play the infinite game.
Thanks for the video Clark! Amazing content :) One of the things I've learned from overthinking is that you need to focus on the things you can realistically do. We stress ourselves out on things we don't even have control of. Focus on what you have in hands, take a realistic approach, and, as Clark said, keep it slow and go one step at a time.
Something thats helped me with overthinking is to admit to myself i dont know everything. Even if i cant see a path forward to achieving my goals, doesnt mean the path doesn't exist. Sometimes you gotta just take a few steps in the direction you wanna head towards before you can see things more clearly
In this video, we're talking about overthinking! Or as I like to call it, 'the art of creating problems that were never there' 🤣. But perhaps more important than why you overthink is how to fix it! I'll share 5 personal methods that really work. Hope this video helps YOU! Ready to change your life? It all starts with asking yourself the right questions. Get the 11 questions to change your life now (free gift for yt subs): www.clarkkegley.com/free-questions
You look like superman
Thank you!I
I listened to many different podcasts today , popular and famous people and more . I couldn’t even get thru their talks.
YOU Hit The Spots!
Don’t think, just do
Overthinking is the art of creating problems that weren't even there.
Well tim problems will always arise in life. If you are self aware enough to know what type of person you are someone who avoids or likes to solve problems it could work out better to you
Thinking of problems that not even there yet
That's just not true. It's thinking about something that has happened in your life continuously. It's not about some imaginary problem.
I too watched the first 15 seconds of this video. Great contribution
Shouldn’t say art. You’re putting a good emotion on overthinking doing this.
Action is the antidote for despair.
🏆💯🌟
so true
Exactly
100
Great saying.
"No amount of guilt can change the past and no amount of worrying can change the future" - Umar Ibn Al Khattab
Wonderful quote 🙏🏻
Do you know the Arabic version of this quote? Can you provide it?
@@none377 "Halala halala, yalla yalla habibi."
You're welcome.
wet-back you’re welcome
But the amount of guilt can change the future..
"Done is better than perfect, because perfect never gets done." I LOVE that! And I'm extremely bad at remembering it. I need this tattooed on my hand, or at least on a t-shirt!
I mean that also depends on what’s considered perfect. lol
Write it down in your head, you don't need to write it on your body😂
Suggestion:
Listen to this video many many times..
I’ve heard that to listen countless times will really help you remember it 🙏🏼
It’s not overthinking. It’s underdoing.
True, overthinking leads to underdoing
Greatest thing I’ve read today
Danggg
Not for me. I keep myself extremely occupied with work, tasks, reading, working out, cleaning etcetera but my mind keeps going on and on and on.
It’s not underdoing it’s categorizing 😏
“ I’m allowed to suck, I don’t have to be perfect “
Clark Kegley
Do more talks like this!
Rejection is experience. Thanks man. This is something I need to hear.
"Remember to smile once a day, because a day without sunshine is like night." Steve Martin
"Strive not to be a success, but rather, to be of value" - Einstein
The quote that has helped me the most in my creative proces. Helping me create what i myself like.
Wow, I love this!
And if you feel like you have no value? Or at least no value to most folks...
The irony that he said go for a walk and don’t listen to a podcast, but I heard this on a 3km run while I was listening to this video
Listening to podcast while jogging is overthinking. Play Prodigy instead.
They are on my playlist lol
Same here buddy
With my overthinking I feel what helps is me telling myself to just live more in the moment. I agree with you on walking , meditating and breathing exercises.
Stay away from Alcohol. Stay away from people that influence you to go back to your own you, work out and visualize, if you had everything you want, what would you do? who would you be? What fulfill you. I’m am in this self rediscovering journey right now, this video gave me a lot of clarity. Fear of failure is for sure my biggest enemy
Great comment…I’m exactly the same..I have everything I want..retired 9 months ago and it’s left my with no destination and no journey…empty vessel with no rudder…horrible feeling…I need to carve out a new path
Stay away from people that constantly want to change you by telling you what to do and not what to do, especially people on the internet who know nothing about you...
@@mrdaggydoochikevscou473didn’t you have a list of things you said you’d have time for once you retire?
Most retired people start a new hobby or go travelling
@@TayWoode Thanks for taking the time to comment….well I’ve always had free time as I was a landlord of various properties (HMO)…so I had plenty of free time in between looking after my Tennants..I’ve pretty much being doing my hobbies for the past 17 years from 30 years old…so when I sold up last year it’s left me not having my properties to keep me busy and to give me a sense of achievement…yes of course I keep busy as much as I can ..I run 25 miles a week cycle everywhere..gardening,cleaning,,I’m also a boxing coach but that doesn’t pay nothing…I need a greater destination and a journey that fills me with worth …not being prompted to do things can be tough because one constantly has to invent things to do rather than having to do it..this alone can drive you nuts…it’s probably hard to understand unless you’ve been there …again thank you for your comment👍👍
My mantra is "Let it go." I let go of my overbearing thoughts on something. It's hard to do, but the more I say it to myself, the easier it's become to move on. I find that consistency with any healing method is the key to success. This, of course, is just my opinion.
I agree
I know a disney movie you might like
@@jumpkutPayton Parrish covered it if you prefer rock/metal
It takes a huge ego to think you know the outcome of everything you are going to do, the actions you are going to take and the universe is so much more creative than we will ever be - we just need to give the universe a chance to show us that and if we are trying to control every outcome well that makes magic a lot harder to appear...
" Staying focus on one thing at a time, and being in the flow state." ✨️
I've had my days where I would think too long and hard on the "what if" aspects. I've learned that by not worrying about the "what if" and just let things happen, you'll have much more valuable experiences.
Instead of worrying about "What if I fail? What if I fall?" in the words of Mel Robbins... "Oh, my darling, but what if you *fly*?" That possibility works two ways, and you can choose what you focus on.
Box breathing is the most effective method of regulating overthinking for me 💗🙏🏽👊🏽
How you do it ?
@@KingStackingRackshe sits in a box and breaths. The refrigerator sized box.
@@KingStackingRacks google vagus nerve exercises :)
Took me 7-8 years. Now I'm successful, happy and free. Just do my friend. Stay Uncommon!
What does it mean to be successful?
@@BOGEGO_success would be obtaining freedom and freedom equals happiness.
@@BOGEGO_achieving the goals that you’ve set for yourself
@@ForestWW so its money?
@@Yeet321 so its discipline?
I trust myself. Whenever that situation comes, I will know how to address it.
Clark, the value of your videos is not just the wisdom or practical information, it's also very much your personality! There are other creators out there with similar content, but I enjoy YOUR sense of humour and how YOU communicate ideas and your thoughts on things. No need to overthink the content, just trust that you're liked by so many viewers for who you are! 😊👍
This man truly knows how to send the good vibes out. When you get a sense of that you know it’s genuine and truly is for good intentions 🙏🏻
Hyper vigilance over thinking is the brain on high alert protecting oneself. Ruminating is self destructive.
I call it “stinking thinking” Thank you for this. 💙🙏🏻 Blessings & gratitude 🙌🏻🌟
Stopping caring about what others think have made me progress in public speaking, sales, fitness and socializing. Definitely a life changer 😊
Here's the quote that was very meaningful to me: "Life is what passes you by while you are making other plans." Thanks for the great video.
Imperfections are where humanity is. Imperfect is real. The flaws of things give those things character. When I started painting, I learned to look at an object over and over. There is beauty in every flower, not just the flower that most closely approaches symmetrical perfection. I say approach because perfection, if possible, could only be momentary because all things are in perpetual motion. This is also not taking into consideration the subjective nature of perfection since beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.
I really appreciate your statement, "Don't let perfect be the enemy of good."
Thank you for this video.
It is "perfect" for inaction breaking.
On over-preparing, takes the human-ness out of performance or product. "People do not care about how much time and thought youve put into something, they care about the results, and the product."
Been overthinking all morning thanks for posting
I watched a video of Cristiano Ronaldo talking about his workout routine and he was saying how he just does what's on the paper and that's how I do my workouts, I just get up and do it, I dont let myself think about anything else, I don't give myself enough time to talk myself out of it.
“ your biggest fear shouldn’t be rejection. You biggest fear should be inaction “. Absolutely brilliant. Thank you.
What helped for me is learning that what we think becomes our reality, all the self doubt etc. comes to be true
I live by the motto " Do What You Want Be What You Are"
It's a 70's song from Hall & Oates but it really says alot. Just do what you want....just be what you are. It simplifies things for me when my head is running away wondering all the things that slow us down. The do what you want part is easier. Being what you are is more difficult especially if you have not been living as your authentic self, you will lose people when you start.
Overthinking can grow to become a problem but it can help you understand things about yourself and others around you that you wouldn't have caught unless you stop and think about them. Its about finding a balance.
You can do those things without overthinking.
One thing to take away - I will be commenting on every single long form video I watched w/ a key learning. My word from your video: Simplicity!!!!! (TAKE IT EASY, GET DONE THAT SHIT)
Finish the one thought. Complete the whole journey of that thought. Instead of jumping from one to the next.
Sometimes when Im done with just the one... all else has faded.
- i am doing a project in school on sustainable higher frequency and found your channel - absolutely love you and your grounded take on concepts. I've watched maybe 6 videos till now... and have so much to reply, and so much gratitude... yesterday i started my channel, and it is as you say - cringe jaja... BUT - I took action 🎬 and all will be revealed in time.
Thank you 😊
This video is the best I’ve watched in this category. I’m so tired of being paralyzed, just frozen. I need to break things down and just do it! Thanks ☺️
“We relax, we let go, we do not struggle, we often find that the right answers come when we have tried this for awhile”. I’m pretty sure it’s from AA… but mannn it rocks my world when I can surrender like that
Feel excited for what is to come instead of feeling scared of the endless unknown possibilities that is out of your control.
"Done is better than perfect, because perfect never gets done". Such a mind blowing quote, I love it! And you cannot be more right when saying that overthinking IS attachment!
For real, this video was so eye opening and liberating for me. I've been struggling with perfectionism for almost all my life, not because I don't believe in my self worth that much, but because I have been constantly judged so much from my family environment that I always struggle to keep up with all the expectations that others are having from me and, most of the times, I end up doing almost nothing or the bare minimum and I end up being even more judged about me being inactive.
I will consider using this quote as my arguing point and I will keep trying my best to detach myself from this whole thing, because it's a horrid life to live.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart, may God be constantly laying His blessings before your feet ❤
When I'm overthinking.... I lean on my value system. Tapping those specific resources....spirituality (prayer) health and well-being (workout, bike ride, walk, sweat), call a friend or family member, pick up my guitar, create, or gratitude journal.
The hardest part is "trusting" your value system will be the fix as you push to take action towards it.
Great content!
Great advice. I’m notorious for overthinking. What helps me I’ve noticed is when I start to get that overwhelming/doubting I can do it feeling I have to just take a step back and chill out.
Ive been creating my own content on TikTok daily (some of it gets uploaded to UA-cam but I'm still honing my craft). One thing that helped me a lot to get out of my head about my content and jumping into action that so much more authentic is a simple phrase I put next to my computer so I can see it every day.
"Don't compare yourself to other people."
Walk in the woods usually does it for me :). Connecting with nature helps.
The person who steps out the door for a morning walk is not the same person who comes back.
Actions are far more valuable than plans
My goodness…attractive and informative! Fun fact…the same part of the brain that controls anxiety ALSO controls gratitude. It is impossible to be anxious while gracious. So next time you are anxious try and allow yourself to think of all the things you are grateful for and it will quiet your anxiety!
Someone once gave me this advice... Don't think about it, just do it. This is best advice I was given for worrying and overthinking about things.
Momentum = “just get started”, or “a thousand mile journey starts with the first step… just do one step”. Also, “don’t be afraid to fail” is another one, because if you don’t try things or to get better, you’ll never go anywhere.
I find ‘dont be afraid’ to be a nonstarter, personally. Its very hard to reason yourself out of fear and easy to blame yourself for failing to not be afraid. ‘Feel the fear and do it anyway’ may be a better angle, for some.
i feel like just trying to live in the moment helps and understanding that when ur overthinking something ur not living in the present and u just assume it will go bad when u haven’t even tried. i do lash extentions and for the longest time i would cancel or reschedule ppl because of my anxiety of thinking about the day coming and feeling like everything will go wrong when i truly won’t know unless i do it. there was one client i had that i was having super bad anxiety about but i pushed myself anyways to do it cuz i know it’s the only way i’ll get over my anxiety and overthinking and it ended up being the most gorgeous lash set ever and it gave me such a good feeling once i was done and motivated me more. i feel like u just have to do things without letting ur overthinking / anxiety control u as much as it’s easy to let it control u ❤
basically action is the best way to overcome these things. don’t listen to ur anxiety and bad thoughts because they can keep u out of good situations that can help u grow. i truly believe action is the way to go even if it’s taking small steps each day
Dude ... All I can think about now is how much u need to be the next Superman! U look like Clark more than he does
He's more like Clark than Clark
One thing I find helps my nervous system when I'm worked up about what other people will think of my work is to remember that the reason we care about what other people think is that we're a social species and that for our ancient ancestors being rejected from the tribe could literally mean death. So it's understandable that we are programmed to worry about rejection BUT we don't live in that world and rejection DOESN'T (generally) mean death anymore. We can reassure ourselves that rejection is a lot safer than it used to be, even if our nervous systems haven't fully caught up to that fact, and we can do that without getting mad at our nervous system for trying to protect us from what it sees as a genuine threat to our existence.
Sometimes we just have to - lovingly - parent our own nervous system.
I like the 'be where your feet are' tip, whereby, if you start to overthink/get overwhelmed, take a moment and focus on where your feet are, I get myself to say what I see right in front of me like 'my feet are on the pavement, there are green trees around me, I'm walking the dog, the birds are singing' and it helps bring me back to the present moment.
Hello, Clark.
I just wanted to thank you for this video.
I'm in Málaga, Spain at the moment and will start a teaching job in Sevilla in September.
I'm worrying about silly things: the fact I'm not working at the moment, even though I have enough money to last me for a few months.
But the biggest thing has been my creative front: I haven't written a song in YEARS barely written a story or worked on my writing projects in almost a year and feel creatively drained.
I realized it's my mind.
I'm 39 and going through a huge life change and your video made me realize that I need to be more present, work on myself and take action.
Your videos really do impact and help people.
Thank you! ❤
Best most helpful video. Never thought about momentum but i often say if i can just get to my desk. Then i realize I’ve worked 4 hours.
Call someone, ask them how they're doing, & (really) listen. Repeat until you (and many others) feel better! It works every time.
“Who cares if they don’t like you, do you like you?” That’s what helps me to stop overthinking how others view me
It's crazy that in all of your examples, you're describing my mind and EXACTLY why haven't been able to start.
I love this! Seriously never thought of my “chronic anxiety” as overthinking. Definitely taking your tips and taking some action. ❤
It may not be a great reason why I am here to watch your video, but besides helping me out on my overthinking righr now, your tips just had me realising, what held me back at doing all the cool stuff I used to do. The quote "Done is better than perfect, because perfect will never be done" ist very important and it might be my mantra for the future, because it was always my excuse to say "I'm a perfectionist and that's why I don't even try"
Thank's for the helpful advices and as much as you value my time, I value your work, you put into the video, because I absolutely got something out of it, that made my day and I was glad, that I spend the time to listen to you.
By the way, your voice is very beautiful and soothing!
Action speaks louder than words is a true statement
“Progress not perfection”
This is a great video, I found the way you described the problems of perfectionism really helpful. I need to remind myself of some of those hard truths when I feel myself sliding into old bad habits! I think the way you embody what you’re teaching comes across and it adds much more power to your content. I definitely noticed the ❤❤ energy - thanks Clarke!
Thinking will not overcome fear but action will.
W. Clement Stone
Thank you for helping me out today, as I am a single mom I always thought I wanted to do a lot of things in one day. Start right now by not being perfect in everything just slow down step by step. understood what I stand for.
Exactly have a drink and then you don’t think about it anymore. But alcohol is only a short term fix. Yes go for a walk being in the moment and breath work is awesome. Thanks ❤
When I catch myself overthinking I make a decision. If it's something I can resolve, I move forward and resolve it. If it's something I cannot resolve I consider what I learned and force myself to move on by focusing on my current environment. Staying aware of my current situation is ideal. Dwelling on something you cannot change or "fix" takes away from your current life.
I forgot who said this, and I am not sure if it applies but I’ll share it anyways.
“Comfort is the enemy of success”
Thank you for addressing the often-overlooked issue of overthinking with humor and insight. Your practical methods offer a lifeline to those caught in the cycle of unnecessary worry.
It helped when I made me believe that I am good enough even if im not doing "perfect".
I find myself taking more action, less afraid of disapointment.
Life got aaaaa lot lighter 😊
I have never really prepared much for any type of interview (even jobs) and when it works, it works. It just flows and works out. If it doesn’t, it just isn’t a great fit. 😊
Me and my grandpa started going to the driving range every week to shoot golf balls. The first time, I used a right handed club and then I practiced with a left handed club the next week. A key takeaway from this is I would do a lot of practice swings. And every time I would try to make sure I made a good shot, I would do these practice swings and funny enough they got worse every time before I made the actual shot, then I would either miss or it would be a weak swing. Then I sort of let my body go and I would just take the shot. And every time I did this, my ball would fly further and further. And this ties into a lot of aspects of my life such as school. I would start crushing tests and doing extremely well when I learned how to live in the present moment and letting go of all connections to the past, future, and what I would do by overcomplicating it.
Start before you’re ready!!
IT foes to your point of ACTION. You’ll figure it out and redirect along the way, but the trick is to START.
best tip is to add water (action) to fire (thinking)
wrong to slow down ⚠ it will make you "think" why I can't stop.. thus back into the thought loop..
just do anything and more doing will train you to do more and think less, it's practice that changes us
Pray to God .... three words .... a life lesson for me ❤
Amen! Sending 💛
That's the same thing as saying snort a line of cocaine or drink another beer. 😢
Great advice, Clark. I burn sage, and incense. Listen to spa music, and guided mediations. All these help. But, if I don’t stay consciously aware of my thoughts I catch myself overthinking again.
Gonna be honest, I don't watch you often, and you don't come up on my main page often either.
This was my first video today. I take that as a sign. Overthinking has been my major block lately.
Thank you for this video I needed it.
What has helped me as I have turned 30 is not mindset, but body-set. Or action. Ignore your kind and follow your body
You are right, Clark,I have been following these UA-camr's for too long trying to forehand a solution and the result has been just" anticipating anxiety when we just must start from the beginning of things and thus get to progress, which must be the aim. Thank you. Well done.
Acknowledge that I am overthinking and massive action (just moving my body is enough at start). Thank you ❤
I think just reconnecting to your own energy is helpful. You have to constantly realign yourself to your best version. Also recognizing you’re always safe is a good way to bring you back to calm.
I'm still starting to Put a hold to my Overthunking, but a good quote ist: "If you think you can do Something or If you think you can't. In both cases you are right."
Pretty good.
That was really helpful. I'm guilty of all those things. Knowing that more information is not the answer to overthinking something is a revelation thank you 🙏🏻
This is really great advice. I will definitely put these in action. Thanks for posting these videos.
I’m not really religious, but when I’m feeling anxious I have to stop and tell myself to “Give it to God”. This really helps me slow down and gives me a feeling of I’m not alone. I also look at the root word of Worry, which means to strangle. I worry a lot, translates to, I’m strangling my thoughts.
This is one of THE BEST VIDEOS EVER ❤ LIFE CHANGING!!!!
Walking is the exact balance between spirit and humility. Gary Snyder
Doubt is the root of communication disruption.
Great video mate, very true.
For me, sometimes, just telling my brain to Shush out loud works. Sometimes your thoughts are not your own, they are just thoughts passing. Shush.
When I’m overthinking, I write letters in my head. No action… just thinking how “perfect “ it would sound when he reads it. Lol but I made a commitment recently to write and publish a short essay. Thanks Clark, I love your content.
I'm overthinking because I don't know what I want, or I don't know what my life's purpose is.
I'm the same. I either need to try lots of different things to see what I enjoy, or I need to meditate on it, but likely both! What's the longest you've sat on your own with no distractions at all? Where does your brain go? (Not talking minutes or hours, but days or weeks.)
Any job that makes money, go to the gym, have a hobby(mines mma), use the money to look good, get things you want and improve your relationships with friends and family
Spend 75 put 15 into investments and 10 into cushion fund every month then just enjoy ur life man
I wish there was a support group for this. I'm 30 and still feel this.
Did I write this comment?? 😅
One quote I've come up with about goals is that "1 in a million is always better than 0 and only 1 is just enough"
When I see you i feel confident
Take the path of least resistance, put in the effort and surrender
Draw the attention to anything I am doing and have a look if there is any underlying emotion causing the rush of thoughts (there is always one) 💡✨
i dont think that you need anymore tips to stop overthinking, these 6 is all you need imo. Just start doing, no matter the results in the end, no matter the shame you may get, just do at all costs. Doers > thinkers these are the people that made the world we are in right now. And also i managed to not overthink this comment and just wrote whatever the hell came to my mind lol the tips worked thank you
Just stumbled on this video and was pleasantly surprised! Thank you for being “real” and putting out content that’s from the heart. It really helped me today!! ☺️
MEDITATION and FASTING. The only things that keeps me centered, grounded and heavily focused.
Try to find a bigger picture of yourself. Like, why is it happening this way? Why are you so worrying about it? Why are you scared? Then, i think we can focus on that bigger picture and try to take just one step at a time.
I've lived my life overthinking about the impossibilities for years but somehow I've made on my own today. I don't exactly have much right now but I still find my life hopeful while trying to make a meaningful life. At the end of the day, it is what it is.
Peace !
So I have an overthinking strategy that I think really helps a lot. If you're an over thinker, especially about the future. Recognize that. You know how to think ahead, you know how to think about the details and the little things that could happen. You could think about anything. Instead of mulling it over and listing things out, think " wow yeah I think I have way more scenarios covered than I could ever need ". And then just TRUST yourself that you will handle whatever happens. You're smart, you can react and adapt. If you can come up with 20 plans just in case, you can absolutely come up with one good plan on the fly when & if it's needed.
anyone else who replayed this, anyone got a that Owen Wilson vibe from the intro? hehe I dont know, maybe I was overthinking it. nonetheless, this was a great video and insight to overcome overthinking while sharing more of your art, expressing yourself. you got me red handed with the perfectionists being judgemental, as i felt paralysed to upload to share content during a period of time, the only thing you could do was project the frustration on other peoples work. instead, we need to get lost in the fire of sharing our art consistently. Believe in the power of volume. its the portfolio. its the workout. its the albums. not the clips, not the perfect sets, no the perfect 10s on this soundtrack. This approach of taking off the weight to share your art, is relieving. Work to Publish, Play the infinite game.
Dude thank you so much for this video! I was literally sitting here over thinking and this video played at the right moment! THANK YOU
Thanks for the video Clark! Amazing content :)
One of the things I've learned from overthinking is that you need to focus on the things you can realistically do.
We stress ourselves out on things we don't even have control of.
Focus on what you have in hands, take a realistic approach, and, as Clark said, keep it slow and go one step at a time.
Something thats helped me with overthinking is to admit to myself i dont know everything. Even if i cant see a path forward to achieving my goals, doesnt mean the path doesn't exist. Sometimes you gotta just take a few steps in the direction you wanna head towards before you can see things more clearly