She Slept With Too Many Men For Me To Wife Her? Why Women Lie About Past Partners? "Flashback" S3
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- Опубліковано 15 січ 2022
- We wanted to make a full episode of these three conversations to enjoy on this Sunday. Does That Mean She Is Foolish Or She Is Just Playing The Game? Has Society made it so that the double standards work against women?
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The best indicator of future behavior? PAST BEHAVIOR. That's what credit agencies and prospective employers and prospective schools believe, and it's true for marriage too.
You have a very valid point.
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Fire Analogy
I disagree. Its a good indicator. But I know far too many people that just wanted to have fun for a year or two.
Men and women I know have HUGE body counts and most were just one night stands and I see nothing wrong with that. What’s wrong with wanting to discover your sexuality or experience new people?
A lot of men act like a woman’s pussy is gonna be loose or some shit if they get fucked by 30 men. But if they get fucked 30 times by ONE guy, it wont be loose.
Wheres the logic?
@@theorist It's not about "loose pussy". It's about having someone in your life that wont flake because they got bored, and want to try someone else.
I think what the women are missing is the idea of HONESTY and being upfront. Many men DON'T want to procreate with or marry a woman that's deceitful and dishonest. If you were sleeping around and you tell a guy the truth, he'll respect you SOOOO MUCH more. It gives him the option of accepting you or not. Same for women. It's just the idea of, "oh I'm investing in a ring, trying to protect and provide for a person that is lying to me...how can I trust her with my family, my seed, my finances...this isn't a good person". That's how the relationship dies.
They arent missing the idea of honesty at all they are ignoring it because it makes them look bad if it would apply to them.
If its not gonna get them married why should they tell the truth. is what they think imagine if a guy said if telling you i got stds is not gonna get me laid why should i tell the truth. they would be bugging and since almost no body is gonna defend that they dont see it as the same. They dont what to be judged for what they did in the past but everyone judges peoples actions if there was no judgement no talkshows would exist there would only be fact based shows.
So if he got bodies and she got bodies and they talk about it that should be the end of the discussion correct? It never goes that way
These conversations get exhausting with these women🤦🏾♂️
No one should lie about there past. If that person has an issue with your past, they ain’t for you. If you were woman enough to do it then be women enough to tell the man you want/ wanted to commit to you.
But women care about the outcome more than telling the truth. Whose gonna hear "I was passed around/train ran on me or had 50 plus single encounters and now I want to be a wife. Choose me". Like what dude is gonna say "with all that information put before me of course I'll marry you". In theory what you say makes sense bro but when you try it naw you'll see the rejection and then it's time to lie. "I only had 6 partners. Im not that type of girl".
Past behaviour does matter
The issue is not always the number. Honesty is the issue. Men do not like to learn about their woman from someone else. It is even worse to find out from the man/men/woman that she had been intimate with in the past.
It matters. You can’t turn a 304 into a housewife. It won’t work. Leave em for the streets
The one woman summed up the whole problem when she spoke about doubling back to a guy or person that she really dont want at that particular time . Yes it's foolish young ladies . As said " the game don't change " !
The one lady is defensive. Everyone wants to be smart. In making the choice for the man they decide. One lady I know said she was smart. She had an abusive relationship. She begged to get out of. She got out of it. A month later, she went back. Two weeks later she was back black and blue. Pure genius
Esso and the red skin man is, too
If you're worried about the label why not teach your daughters to be better?
No such thing as 'MY TRUTH'... It's either 'THE TRUTH' OR 'A LIE'.
This term was created to bypass accountability.
Exactly another way to excuse behavior
Exactly. Shit so annoying
Divorce rate of more than 10 partners is 85%. Enough said.
The lock and key analogy is perfect for this discussion..
You are not a master if you have sex with many women. It makes you dirty af
@@blackbutterfly233ify both could be true..
@@blackbutterfly233ify However, men getting sex is much harder than it is for women.
It happens because ya know in ya soul ya ain't supposed to be out here fucking everything 🤣
I will not date or sleep with my friends' exes. It keeps life simple. If you are interested in a friend's former significant other, I suggest you make your intentions known prior to moving forward. Showing respect is important.
It’s hilarious how the ladies ask the men what men think, and when the men tell them, the ladies don’t wanna hear it or rather wanna tell the men how they (as ladies) think the men think or should think 🤷🏽♂️🙆🏽♂️
Because they're lying. "I don't care. I don't care." Realistically, "I don't care" can't br your truthful response to everything 🤷🏿♀️
Women listen for bullet points to try and answer but don't answer the real question . Or answer to their own level that's why it sounds crazy. Getting mad at someone for dating someone they don't want to be with anyway .
19:35 Look at the two women's body language when they say they're not capping.
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Respect to the opportunities to expose the truths no judgment
Women like sex as much as men. Dude these women not getting fooled. Guys who are inexperienced concerned about women getting it in because they aren't getting it. As we get older It's not worth asking.
Girl in blue is definitely wife material. Yes check how you dress around your friends men , that's absolutely what you should do.
If you care about being judged for doing something that shows you shouldn’t be doing it.
That part
How about it’s none of their business! Ppl worried about the past 10yrs of your relationships when we need to be concerned with the present and future. You can’t change your past right!
@@tk4l210 the past is a close predictor for future behavior. If a women tell me none of my business to a question. I have a right to not talk to her anymore. And this has happened to me. Then when I cut dating off and she asked why and I tell her why, they all came back and gave me the information I wanted. If she told the truth or not. Women will comply for Men they really want.
@@tk4l210 if your ashamed for a high body count. That means YOU think it’s something wrong with it. This is why be righteous in the shit you do. Then you don’t have to worry about it.
@@tk4l210 yea you definitely messed up in the head just off that statement
I as a man I will never wife a woman with the past like that. The same as some women won’t date a broke man. My question is why do women want to be like men so bad?
There is a lot of talking about body counts how come there are no conversations about STD's I mean your having random sex with many people and oral sex nobody seems to be afraid of STD's that are not curable there are many std's you can catch with condoms on not sure why a person can be comfortable with knowing that can happen and still just have sex so random all the time.
You have a valid point just like me these kind of pple are responsible for why STDs dont end
Will never understand why women defend loose behavior. You should value your body regardless if you enjoy sex or not. Men are telling women what they want and these women will try and debate what MEN want.
Still amazes me how men can watch these vids and be surprised by women's incompetence
The one thing this group seems to be oblivious to is for every person you sleep with, you cannot count as one individual. You also have to factor in the amount of people they have as sexual partners. If you are a virgin and you sleep with someone who's had 20 partners, then you've essentially slept with 20 partners. Illicit sex has a tremendous price tag. Some times the consequences are immediate, and sometimes it's later down the line. But the consequences are inevitably deleterious to whomever decides to indulge in this type of harmful behavior. I'll never understand how someone could want to be with someone else that gives away the most intimate part of their lives so easily. If I'm blessed to be in another relationship my WIFE would have to be spirit filled and a woman of almighty Jehovah. Until then, I'm good with being single and alone. 1st Corinthians 6:18
A persons past is very important because rarely do people change.
I feel and i feel smmh
I really don't know any grown people having this conversation because we know it brings out people's insecurities. Ignorance is bliss. I know for myself, if i'm with a girl that I want to pursue a relationship with and she tells me she has had 30 sexual partners, I won't be able to look at her the same.
30 ain't even a high number bro. Now I might bat an eye at 100.
@@kj3887 30 is high but that depends on your age. At my age of 24 a body count that high is a huge red flag.
@@kj3887 30 is a very high number. Only prostitutes and porn stars are having sex with 100 people. I don't want to date a girl that has had sex with that many people or that has the mindset that 30 partners is not a lot.
@@Indicudi So let's do some math shall we. The average woman gets approached by 3-5 men a day. So between the ages of 18-24 thats 7000-10000 guys in 6 years. So you mean to tell me out of those guys that approached she slept with less than 10. Come on bruh these women out here fucking.
this is all for clicks. people really worried about this are probably alone... they also know their "d" ain't hitting on anything and they want a woman with no experience so they can be the best by default.
It’s a double standard for a reason
The women can't help but say, but what about men
Why wouldn't they. Who wants a man that has a high body count. It works both ways.
That’s how I feel. I dnt wanna give myself to a dude that slept or swapped swords wit. Imagine his slept with thousand of ladies whilst I’ve been a gud girl.
I think Amanda was cappin on them two bodies 😂😂😂😂
Pffft you get the same demons in a different body until you learn your lesson. Guess some people don't learn.
Jada: I ain't got only five bodies I got a couple 😂🤣😂🤣
The darkskined girl is showing respect to her friend by not dressing provocative in front of her man.
Never put a woman in a position where she has to be honest or accountable…and you’ll be fine. No long term relationships
I got married at age 23,and before I started dating my husband I had a high school sweetheart so I can't relate to a " high body count." However, I have known plenty of women who were out there back in the day who are now wives and mothers and are ashamed of how they conducted themselves in their youth. Unless a woman was the neighborhood piece a man can't really know a woman's body count,and I doubt that a woman who had a " 304 phase" would admit that,not if she's interested in a relationship.
So those suckers that married them settled and got played.
@@carlmiller369I wouldn't say that,thanks to Facebook I was able to keep up with a lot of my school mates and of course they're a lot different than they were back in the day! I was even surprised at how many of the wild girls and guys are now saved! I know the human brain isn't fully developed until age 25,thank God people live and learn!
You can tell a 304 through their behavior, and their views about sexual liberation, amongst other things
Facts. The hoes in my circle in college are ALLL wifed up. The good gurls are still single. At the end of the body count dont care. Its a double standard. Women should have sex with whoever they want, as long as they are protecting themselves
@@trinathompson8587 any man that marries a ran through woman and procreate with her is a sucker and he settled. Women don't like this preference but the majority of men cares about a woman's past.
Guaranteed all those young women on that couch will and have been broken spiritually so sad no moral compass they will grow old and alone
The main component in all of this is that we are not same. The women are looking at this as if they are men. We are different.
Jada is a very sensible woman i like her
Esso and Rico are speaking facts
That man Esso was cooking 👨🏾🍳
Am I the only one that saw that roach crawling down the wall at 31:24 to the left of that guys head. Lmao
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Welcome to nyc my g. They be everywhere
Lol I Think Amanda And Rico Fukn On The Low. Definitely In The Past
MEN WANT WOMEN TO HAVE SELF RESPECT SELF VALUE AND VIRTUES THAT'S IT AND THAT'S THAT!
We're asking too much. They're not men that's why we have the term "acting like a bitch." They're different. You tell a nigga he's acting like a bitch and he'll pause and check his behavior.
Plan and simple just ask the woman what her body count is and if she's truthful ok but if she's not and you as the man or woman who chooses to continue to deal with that's on you and your the only to blame in the for your own actions. If both of y'all are WILLING TO BE HONEST STAY WITH EACH OTHER 🤷🏾♀️
Body count is measure of self respect.
Rico is a hypocrite, he doesn't know his body count and would feel confident telling his partner "IDK" and avoid the conversation all together but will judge a woman for exploring her sexuality before him.
It's called a double standard for a reason.
The standard for women shouldn't be and isn't the same as the standard for men.
Has never been biologically
Still isn't socially
And will never be practically
@@Mj783980 exactly, only a valuable man has sex with many women. Either he has made himself valuable or he is physically valuable. Every single women can get a high body count. We are not the same, hence the “double standard”
The entire conversation is about ownership and control of a woman's body.
no its not. no one is saying you cant be a hoe. we are saying this is our standard as men. a women having a standard on how much a man makes is not her trying to control his wallet? or women standard on height is not a ownership and control on a mans body. theses are simply standards. either meet them or you don't. no one is forcing anything.
@@LilOBX hypergamy is the Result of misogyny. Cause and Effect. If she can Only choose one, she is Forced to hold out for the best. Men shaming women for natural and normal desires. Shame Is a form of Control.
@@tuushietime okay well let’s have the same energy for when women have their own preferences. Let’s call it masndry. (Women version of misogyny). Question ? Is “control” when women say men better make 6 figures 6 pack and be 6ft tall? Cuz last I heard we don’t shame women for their preferences but men are misogynistic because we don’t want to date a promiscuous women? 🤔
@@LilOBX You are missing the point. These "preferences " are a toxic Outcome to a toxic Cause. To solve this issue the cause must be addressed. Going around in circles pointing fingers solves nada. If a man is misogynistic the response to his behavior will be women acting a certain way, and vice-versa. The solution is Always to fix One's Self.
@@tuushietime thing is I don’t think any of this is toxic or misogynistic. It’s all NATURAL. Idk why ppl keep thinking things like this is social conditioning. Hypergamy exist bc of pregnancy. Men not liking promiscuous women is bc back in the day a man wouldn’t know if the kid was his or not. Theses things are nature and is something you can’t just iron out of ppl. World isn’t perfect and it won’t ever be.
Women: To avoid losing my man I lie about my body count.
Me: Wouldn't it be wiser to have made better judgments in your past?
Women: How dare you, misogynist!!
Esso is that deal!
Amanda got numbers she gets too offensive when she don’t have too
Do grown folks still ask questions like this?
Now to every game it always fun to play once your truly grown out of it you won't be play any games any more not because your a master but because you realise that life its not a game and belive its a life skill you have to be really foolish to let that one important piece that could be part of your life and think you have to let go because your bein optimistic when options are so lower when age is so importan to you vs. lifestyle we are all bound to depend in someone's who is willing to treasure you and not reminiscing on what you could have being leving for.
bug on the wall behind Rico at 31:27
Being your self and what you wear around people are 2 different things. As a person you are not what you wear.
The minute we get it in...I'll KNOW 🤓 or i can read it on you EITHER WAY 🖐🏽✌🏽
I feel like.. 🤦♂️
These brothers are missing it..They don’t tell because of the way society thinks. Women are embarrassed about body count because of the way society thinks. Society says that it’s ok for men to have an high body count but women can’t. It is not the woman’s fault that society thinks the way that it does.
It’s not men fault we’re expected to provide , it’s the order of things and we live accordingly
@@WayBackArchives Most men are embarrassed about providing.. That argument is irrelevant. But, here’s one, if a straight man has men bodies how many people do you think that he’ll tell???? I’ll wait.
@@DON8691 most of men are embarrassed of providing ? And straight man has male
Bodies ? This is pointless , good day my guy
The cold part about this these women they know a woman with a high body count is a dealbreaker.
The dark skinned one lookin nice!
A woman once said: *"If a woman is willing to reveal to you her body count, count the sum times three."*
That was J. Cole
A lot of women lie about this topic.
Women are the selectivve sex. Men are the competitive sex.
Men have to TRY to get partners.
Women have partners present themselves and they CHOOSE who they get with.
A man with a high body count has to be either extremely charming, very wealthy, or have something going for him.
A women with a high body count is just bad a selection has said yes to alot of people.
It's not a double standard and anyone who says this is stupid.
Also, from personal experience, women with high body counts are always way more mentally/emotionally unstable then more selective women. There has also been research done that proves women with 10+ partners are extremely likely to divorce if married. 79% likely.
Rico and Esso on they ass about their body counts 😂😂😂😂
Young men, please listen. You having 20 and 30 partners is just as bad as a woman having 20 and 30 partners. God never said, "Women, you must remain pure virgins while men can go out and have random sex." That would be a contradiction. If women are supposed to be virgins and men not, then who are men having sex with? Each other? Young men, your body is just as sacred as a woman. Keep your body count low and give your body to women who deserve it.
Jada: first of all I'm a gigga a girl nigga 😂😂😂😂
I don't ask for body counts, no number is satisfying 😂 😂
What’s a high body count? Like can someone actually drop a number or range.
Depending on age. 25 yrs old no more than 5. You should be in long term relationships. By age 31 max 7. Anything pass 10 is a no go. For marriage. Any guy that says “I don’t care about your body count” 9 times out of 10 not gonna marry you. Expect a short/long term relationship.
@@ulquiorra3104 I respect your response when it comes to women though I don’t agree. Do you mind answering what you would consider a high body count for a man?
@@ulquiorra3104 For the most part most women my age don’t want loose dick either 🤮🤮🤮 I can only think about STDs/ STI rates for men within my age group since a lot of men my age don’t get check by a pcp or use free health clinics for regular screenings. My doctor told me at least 4-12 checks a year when you’re sexually active and I was told this last week regardless if you’re in a committed relationship or not.
@@RVANae 200 for dudes. That’s way too much but if he’s attractive or has money or both women tend to overlook that.
How old are you?
Yes incurable stds are a legit fear to have. Most men will go only if their dick hurt and even when that happens they try to tough it out. That’s the only reason why I can’t bang hoes. With my luck I know imma catch herpes.
Do you believe a woman’s body count doesn’t matter? and do you consider a high body count for a woman and a man?
Ulquiorra, would that include mutual masterbation/dry humping as well?
Every woman I know with high body counts, haven't been able to pair bond.
As a man myself I don’t understand why y’all keep having these toxic trash men on the show they clearly don’t like women and everything they have to say comes from an ignorance place.
This is so sad
They have to remember,..plenty weak simps in the rap game!
I agree with the fellows. I don't wanna find out shawty was with the whole town.
If women really believed her body count doesn't matter she would be 100% honest but we all know women are not & know for fact they are going to be judge for it and like to justify their behavior with wateva reason is despicable. Either keep ur legs closed or just be honest and stop trying to take the decision making out of ur partners hands. Let dem decide for themselves & once again if u not proud of ur history...keep ur legs closed & mouth shut.
“It ain’t real” 😭 maybe she onto sumn but hey ion like that it’s my ego
If you get a girl with less than 20 bodies keep her. If she has 10 or less marry her on the spot.
Good luck with that😂😂🤣. Homie said 10 bodies. Yea ok. at what age 35? 28 yr old with less than 10 bodies. Talk about hope strategy.
@@ulquiorra3104 oh I know it's some wishing on a star type stuff. We live in a age in time where all the ladies getting hit on the regular.
@@williammuldrew6948 as long as you know. That's dangerous living.
Jay z: men lie women lie.
Don't be fooled by a 31 year old telling you she only got 4 bodies. All though high school...nothing, college....nothing, after college....nothing, spring break... nothing, girls trips.. nothing. Don't fall for it.
Body count? That term is so disrespectful. Y’all need to remember that words matter.
You guys should invite Kevin Samuels or Fresh and Fit, they keep it real...
No Fresh and Fraud, please.
I usually & typically almost always rock with Rico & Esso’s POVs but they’re straight bugging talking about they’ll encourage their homeboys to get with their exes. That’s some dumb beta shit. Any real Man knows that’s outta line & goes without saying. Anybody around me that’s considered a homeboy knows better than to ever even conceive the thought of trying to get with any of my exes. For one, my exes wouldn’t dare even years later but it’s about principle & my so-called homeboys know better. They’re definitely bugging on that topic. 💯
Actually bro, when we were younger it didn't matter if it wasn't serious. Sometimes it's just a jump off and we don't give a damn. We know when it's going to be serious and vice versa.
Can we get some different opinions. I’d like to see thoughts from women who don’t sleep around, or value themselves a bit more. Heck even someone who has maybe taking the purity route. There’s no discussion of everyone thinks the same.
So what number is a high body count?
It depends on what number you think is too high. It's subjective.
Look dude I know some babes that may have low bodies but they been with a guy long term she been hit 100s of time
So that's a problem too? So what exactly is the concern, a womans promiscuity level or how tight her vagina is? So now women who have been in long term relationships are also off the table?
Women have an emotional connection with a Men because they have a soul tie with them
I feel like if we’re going to speak about body count we should speak about mens body count too because I know I personally wouldn’t want a man with a heavy ass body count..
Kings have high body counts and woman still slept with them
The conversation should definitely go both ways. Fuck the double standard they're talking about!
Women don't want men other women don't want. When was the last time you heard a woman say she wanted a man that was a virgin?
@@JOmega2007 exactlyyyy!!
@@duanewoodson9804 …
Women hide it sometimes because they actually feel guilty but also sometimes because they know how other people will see it according to societal standards and actually because she feels any type of way about it.
It isn't society. Men don't like women with a past.
@@hotepkennels other women also look down upon it. And jm pretty sure men are part of society lol and yeah women lie about it because they know you care but they dont care enough to change.
@@joannamonique707 Being a PART of... and by & large being are 2 different things.
There are women who shame... but also condone & enable.
There are OTHER parts of society that do the same. It isn't unanimous or even close.
What matters is what the men women say they want feel about your past.
No need to include anyone else in whether or not you want to conduct your life properly or not. You don't spend the rest of your life being married to them.
If they know... and don't care enough to change... we know, too... and won't care enough about you, either.
@@hotepkennels nigga you are a stranger on the internet...idgaf and I don't date men anyway but nice try yryna hurt someone's feelings 🤦🏾♀️🤣🤣🤣
@@joannamonique707 Then why are you here?!🤣😂🤦🏾♂️
Being a 304 is in I guess.
This is why our forefathers that wrote the scriptures ,wrote what not to do. Because they witnessed what these thing do, based off the nature of the threat. Men are men and are women women. We have to understand each other biological.
Once a man stake claim in his mind ,what a women think don't matter because that man is going to act on what he think not what she think. Same goes for the female. But two men clashing usually end up in calamity or death. THIS IS WHAT WOMEN HAVE GOT GET WISDOM ABOUT. It's always funny to me when women say I'm single, or my baby daddy is not a factor and no problem. I tell young brews, you better assess that info for yourself. I graduated in 1987, I know of hundreds of brothers that got kill because of women creating a dangerous climate, whether they were ignorant to the fact of it or not.
Following the old testament ways to conduct ourselves as a people, works perfectly especially for our people because it was only written by us for us.
Like literally everything we go through today in the hood as so call black people; that's a byproduct of our captivity; is in there, in detail. Which is crazy in Itself.
This I why they push for us to not read the old testament. SO WE WAYCOUT OF ORDER. They only give us the new and say we under grace we don't need it. That may be true but we sure is still going through those curses. AND if you look at history during the inquisition leading up to our slave trade, you will see their play book , they keep doing the same thing. They wrote the best way to destroy a people is to make a unnatural situation with the men and women. Make the women hate the men. So they knew they couldn't control the men So they make is hard for the men to excel in their society and give the women everything.
Also to keep us in constant sin. Sin just means the laws our forefathers have the contract to do, or suffer the curses in the contract. They know this because they have control of our records. This is also in the LEARNED ELDERS OF ZION. YEH it's a lot.
I support that it's the woman's body and her choice to do what she will, but I hold myself to a high standard and would expect the woman I would call my counterpart to do the same. If you have a body count and are upfront about it after we have already established a relationship and investment in each other it wouldn't matter as much. That being said if you lie to me I wouldn't trust anything else you say and I'd feel disrespected. If you disrespect me I won't respect you, simple as that. What I find crazy is women try to compare their sexuality to men when the reality is women don't have to try as hard as men to get sex. I think that is where the expectation that the woman should be more reserved and selective comes from. Why would a selective man want to put a promiscuous woman on his pedestal?
Essos perspective tho 💪🏾💯 much respect
Women now are just playing the same game men been playing with women for the longest time !
And how’s that working for them?….
Which men there husband.
Why are women playing victims you are not living in past.
@@cognacjackson for some women it works out just fine . For others not so much . I’m not trying to make an excuse, facts are facts. A lot of women will tell you they do what they do because men do it too so why can’t they ? Not everybody is built the same. Some women try to play the game and get hurt because they really do want more than just sex . And others have been through so much in relationships that they’d rather just have sex with whoever they want without the emotions .
@@dy578 I’m a bit confused on what you’re trying to say . But me personally I’m not living in the past . All I’m saying is, why do men make a huge deal over a woman’s body count & label women based on the body count in a negative way but for men they are praised for how many women they’ve slept with ? Make it make sense !! Even if you do take it back in time, a woman used to get stones thrown for certain things or shamed and belittled . But men , never !! In this day and age , it’s very unlikely that you’re gonna find someone that has a body count within the 10 fingers we have lol
Like I said in my previous comment the more important question should be about STDs , what’s your intention , etc.
@@delaynamarzetta9978 I'm saying i don't have anything to do with men because I'm not going to marry another men.
The worst thing modern women do that piss men off is ‘preference’ a woman says she don’t date guys under 6ft or not wanting broke men or only wanting men with six packs or whatever. No man starts trying to shame her for her wants or trying to brow beat her into wanting fat guys or broke guys or short guys etc. We just accept it and move on. But a man says he don’t want a ho and alluh sudden he’s controlling xyz insecure ‘why should my past matter’ ‘if I’m gonna be considered…- not considered tu eres.
But look at the push back just from a man saying he don’t wanna wife no ho.
Women get shamed for all of that. Men just do it behind closed doors on manosphere channels and not to women's faces. We're selfish, shallow, hypergamous, incapable of unconditional love because we're "not wired that way." I've heard all these things from manosphere channels.
There's one problem we don't feel attach to none who isn't worth are time to spend in are sexual lifes is to the one who we treasure the most for what she sacrifice for me the same whey I sacrifice my self in given her, confer and protection in within the relationship out the relationship none wants a person with baggage it's like dating a pornstar does everyone feels happy marrying one of them I don't believe so. This is just my personal opinion.
At the end of the day, what is the story do you want to carry on, you want to have it all and then leave your life with nobody at all living all alone with all the experience that you had gain in your life, or you want to have a story of your life with one person being able to tell to your children's what a roller coaster of your life has been with their dear mother.
Love exist without sacrifices there is no love and without love you don't know what is leaving.
If anyone decides to leave alone then you're accepting defeat because Just as anyone who knows there's nothing your willing to save or give to, than is like a patient with cancer who knows is going to die without caring for anyting just what they can experience and it's limited and nothing to Treasure.
And the people who are patients of cancer they know if they could leave long enough they will show you how to Treasure what they have because they're never alone that's the difference between wanting to be alone versus having someone for their own to love
You will never appreciate someone unto you lose them you would give all to have them back if you could.
Title should be “She slept with too many”**
Weak mindlessness is the character of today's time ,
Late to this video.
A woman should respect herself from being all around. That's a wore life no excuse. Who wants a every man grl to settle with.
Some man just not smart about women. ???...
Yes, it’s a double standard.. Hello..
Men don't ask for body counts. I never had that asked....but I do know this. If it lasted less than 5 minutes it didn't count! I said what I said