Why Being A Real Man Is A Thankless Job In Todays Society To The Woman You Love

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  • @unlockedbag32
    @unlockedbag32 2 роки тому +144

    The Hispanic girl who wants a traditional man but hasn't lived a traditional life and that's a contradiction

    • @quinjenson
      @quinjenson 2 роки тому +7

      This the one I was looking for 😂

    • @Stanley_Fields
      @Stanley_Fields 2 роки тому +21

      She is a 🐦! She was pregnant and 16 abc again at 20 and didn’t have really anything positive to say about either of her children’s fathers but laid down and had babies with!

    • @gperez8911
      @gperez8911 2 роки тому +8

      She seems like a bitter woman.

    • @switzjon8405
      @switzjon8405 2 роки тому +3

      Traditional man but want to stay a modern woman.

    • @dyzhons.2459
      @dyzhons.2459 2 роки тому +1

      She did speak from her perspective tho. They both did She just had the worse experience with the fathers of her kids

  • @jasonmiles946
    @jasonmiles946 2 роки тому +182

    This is why it’s so important for men to properly vet their women and protect your seed at all costs.

  • @Navyblue0785
    @Navyblue0785 2 роки тому +101

    When Nikki said you will know what type of woman youre dealing with when it comes to money, she hit the nail on the head. If she values money over you, stay away. Same goes with men

    • @hypergummy1266
      @hypergummy1266 2 роки тому +10

      I agreed until the last sentence. If you put her above being a provider you'll end up "broke" and she'll leave you for a man like the provider you used to be... learned this the hard way and I wasn't even broke, I just made less than I used to because I spent that time with her

    • @jimmythemuscle9612
      @jimmythemuscle9612 2 роки тому +10

      A man should never value a woman over himself or his resources.

    • @djmusbus
      @djmusbus 2 роки тому

      She definitely hit the nail on the head, have a lot of morals and have a logical mindset’s.

    • @yomanyomandx5609
      @yomanyomandx5609 2 роки тому +1

      @@jimmythemuscle9612 💯💯💯

    • @kamoraone7906
      @kamoraone7906 2 роки тому

      she dropped a subbbb on a bitch

  • @JC-vx8zo
    @JC-vx8zo 2 роки тому +45

    My god that chick in the pink is the definition of selfish, dude specifically said if the father is doing everything right and she still wouldn’t want to give but I guarantee she expects to receive everything for doing literally nothing.

  • @JP-lw3bt
    @JP-lw3bt 2 роки тому +87

    My father (who is a black man) is most definitely the first type of guy, but he also taught me to stay away from women who want slaves or selfish females ( pay my Bill's, hair, nails, car, make up, trips every month ) because they are gonna get in the way of your purpose. Remember......same guy

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 2 роки тому +4

      True Those are the types.

    • @sharenahartley649
      @sharenahartley649 2 роки тому +2

      I’m not like that I’m an independent woman but I do want my man to take care of me as well as I take care of him

    • @alvinbiggsjr8351
      @alvinbiggsjr8351 2 роки тому +2

      My dad is a responsible black man as well, I'm blessedly to have him. 💪🏾

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 2 роки тому +1

      @@sharenahartley649 Glad to hear you exist.

    • @ddavis8988
      @ddavis8988 2 роки тому +4

      @Sharena Hartley if you are in a relationship, then you are dependent. There is no such thing as an independent dependent relationship.

  • @jfraser820
    @jfraser820 2 роки тому +73

    Guapo kept it a stack. Society doesn't care about Men only what we can do for others.

    • @bb3ll07
      @bb3ll07 2 роки тому +3

      Sad but true! I run from females that think this way and it gives me negative vibes! I cannot be friends with women like that!

    • @jfraser820
      @jfraser820 2 роки тому +3

      @@bb3ll07 That's because you're a real one ☝🏾☝🏾

    • @justhomas83
      @justhomas83 2 роки тому +5

      Stop doing for others they don't appreciate it at all. Keep you're bag and resources then shit test these broads. They do us men dirty all the time. Medicine for the sick right let's fix em up good son.

  • @gabrielidenyi8644
    @gabrielidenyi8644 2 роки тому +75

    The lady in pink is just all over the place and her feelings. 😴
    Kudos to the other lady, she was spot on, especially when she said "a man would figure out the lady he is dating when it comes to money".

    • @southpawmcgraw22481
      @southpawmcgraw22481 2 роки тому +4

      Facts....she a bitter baby mama.

    • @qstreet1987
      @qstreet1987 2 роки тому +2

      She bitter as hell because she gave up her womb before he gave her a ring. What ever happened to women having standards and making sure that womb stays shut until a ring is on that finger? I see why she single or at least without both of her baby fathers. Treats them based upon her feelings not logical reasoning.

  • @queensuga1006
    @queensuga1006 2 роки тому +43

    This girl in the pink, the same reason why you ask a man for money, smh 🤦🏾‍♀️ it’s okay for a man to ask his woman for money, I’m not like that, I don’t mind giving my solid dude some money especially for being a good dude and he need help🤴🏾

    • @estreametv5338
      @estreametv5338 2 роки тому +1

      *That's cool however it is still "conditional generosity" which is a different energy from "organic/unconditional generosity".*

  • @TheLifepure12
    @TheLifepure12 2 роки тому +37

    no sympathy for single moms like the one in the pink.
    if he is not your husband, do not have kids with him...simple concept.
    if he is not you husband, chances are he does not rock with you like that...so marry before you carry

  • @Stanley_Fields
    @Stanley_Fields 2 роки тому +47

    The two women have different perspectives based off the men they chose to have children with! The one who has a healthy co parenting relationship with her child’s father has a more proactive and logical approach and the one who got pregnant at 16 does a lot more finger pointing and comes across a little bitter!

    • @Raaaay66
      @Raaaay66 2 роки тому +6

      She got “pretty privilege “ everything is mine. My money My Kids she acts as if Men can’t be trusted when she is the one who can’t be trusted. She got 2 baby Daddies but it’s the man’s fault you can hear it in her responses. No accountability She’ll be another “Men ain’t shit “ chick when She hits the wall and them DM’s dry up.

    • @Stanley_Fields
      @Stanley_Fields 2 роки тому +5

      @@Raaaay66 yep that’s the fate for most of them!

  • @averagemanunplugged
    @averagemanunplugged 2 роки тому +61

    It only took the ladies less than 3minutes to start blaming men on a topic about MEN 😂modern women fella's 🤦‍♂️and homeboy need quit pandering women don't have it harder than us

    • @coffgunn1005
      @coffgunn1005 2 роки тому +8

      I peep him pandering too

    • @wysemanacc84
      @wysemanacc84 2 роки тому +4

      Facts and he made some valid points but also some goofy points. The last thing you want to do as a men is worry about a women's pocket lol because they are use to sharing your money not theirs.

    • @wasted151
      @wasted151 2 роки тому +7

      He’s the same boy that said in another video that he will bring another man into the bedroom for his woman if that’s what she wanted, so i def expected him to pander

    • @averagemanunplugged
      @averagemanunplugged 2 роки тому

      brown wtf what video is that send me the link 😂

    • @wasted151
      @wasted151 2 роки тому

      @@averagemanunplugged i got you rn lmao

  • @kclark26384
    @kclark26384 2 роки тому +53

    Wow this is a low mentality convo, black people are legitimately discussing how to best split up government assistance, instead of how to not need it in the first place.

    • @hotepkennels
      @hotepkennels 2 роки тому +1

      💯

    • @alvinbiggsjr8351
      @alvinbiggsjr8351 2 роки тому +4

      It's deeper than just gov't assistance. It's about consideration and the lack thereof.

    • @kclark26384
      @kclark26384 2 роки тому +9

      @@alvinbiggsjr8351 these people are discussing how to considerately split up airplane peanuts, on a hijacked airplane headed at the ground.

    • @switzjon8405
      @switzjon8405 2 роки тому +3

      When you don't know what marriage and family really is, can you expect anything else?

    • @twissol2494
      @twissol2494 2 роки тому +3

      Glad somebody said it. The conversation should have been about how to get the family together. The government has ruined the family structure and they know what they were doing.

  • @anthonyscales8691
    @anthonyscales8691 2 роки тому +32

    Pink was triggered cuz she knew she fit the immoral example given. Just own your treachery instead of saying it's the system.

    • @kindware6323
      @kindware6323 2 роки тому +13

      Right! That hit dawg started howling.😂

  • @khadirmuhammad5560
    @khadirmuhammad5560 2 роки тому +18

    Maybe we should stop having children out of wedlock

    • @kindware6323
      @kindware6323 2 роки тому +1

      How about that! Didn’t hear that one time🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @passerau
      @passerau 2 роки тому

      Yes!!! 100%

    • @yomanyomandx5609
      @yomanyomandx5609 2 роки тому

      Y'all still gonna pay more and more

  • @thedeepend3375
    @thedeepend3375 2 роки тому +33

    "I get it, Being a woman is harder than being a man" and thats when he lost all credibility.

    • @joannamonique707
      @joannamonique707 2 роки тому +2

      I wouldnt say that either has it harder. Men do have it very hard with the things society expects of them. But men will NEVER have to deal with the threat of expecting to be submissive to a creature that is 40 times stronger than her. Women live in fear of men every single day. We often submit to what yall want out of fear of physical violence. Men will never understand that. A woman can workout and lift weights all she wants but she will NEVER match the inherent strength of men. Men will never ever have to deal with that. Until you know what that feels like I don't it's even fair to say men have it harder when you have zero idea what it's like to actually be a woman.

    • @SirN8speare
      @SirN8speare 2 роки тому +4

      @@joannamonique707 your same argument can be directed back to you seeing that you’re a woman and not a man. So you wouldn’t know what it’s like to be a man and seeing that a lot of women wouldn’t switch roles with a man simply because “pussy is power”, whatever that means, my assumption would be that men don’t have it easier than women do. See how i made that rebuttal without attacking your gender by calling them creatures also? The moment you attack character instead of points is the moment you lost YOUR credibility and validity in certain talking points

    • @LyricalIAm
      @LyricalIAm 2 роки тому +3

      @@joannamonique707 it’s most definitely harder to be a man the numbers back that up

    • @yahowshuabenyahudah7734
      @yahowshuabenyahudah7734 2 роки тому +1

      💯🎯

    • @tremainehansley8263
      @tremainehansley8263 2 роки тому

      Facts

  • @thewolfofgod369
    @thewolfofgod369 2 роки тому +28

    I feel bad for pink shirt child's father🤦🏾

  • @JayDaReactor
    @JayDaReactor 2 роки тому +21

    The courts have made being a good father almost non existent this was by design

  • @Mayo2014
    @Mayo2014 2 роки тому +13

    She can’t be with a man that ask for money but yet she can be a panhandler and have her hand stuck out … nah she a dub

  • @allenoverall7361
    @allenoverall7361 2 роки тому +22

    The woman in pink is entitled asf.. So men can never be down nor ask for anything....

    • @tyi6630
      @tyi6630 2 роки тому +4

      The women in pink is so red flags

  • @bb3ll07
    @bb3ll07 2 роки тому +14

    "I feel like...." is getting so old to me! I am always hearing excuses lol omg they would hate me on this show because all these women need is therapy to work on themselves HONESTLY

  • @Ghragle-
    @Ghragle- 2 роки тому +26

    I had full custody of my kid, and his mom still tried to put me on child support. Of course it didn’t work. But most of even the “dead beets” are doing the best they can. Imagine me calling my kids mom a dead beat. That doesn’t do anything for my kid or myself. If you love your kids you wouldn’t even call the other half of their genetic makeup a derogatory name. You are talking about your kids. He’s correct. Good men aren’t rewarded. Because I did right my family was destroyed. Modern women hate the solid men. I was wild until I had a family and my kids mom said she was bored. Broke up our family over boredom. Now my kids are traumatized.

    • @twissol2494
      @twissol2494 2 роки тому +3

      My child's mother told me she was bored and losing interest in me before the end of the relationship. She also started getting verbally abusive, so I told her it was over. The minute I told her it was over, she started playing victim. Begging me back, saying how could I do this to her, we have a child together and etc.
      Me being a dumb ass took her back, and she started acting the same way again. I broke up with her 7 times in total and ever time we got back together she did the same thing. Until she ended it. And after she left, she would call my phone 50 - 60 times a day for a two weeks. Saying nothing when I answer.

    • @danielcook11
      @danielcook11 2 роки тому +1

      Not of course, cuz there are times when the man has full custody and he still has to pay HER child support. There a guys paying child support for kids that aren't theirs.
      I hate that bored B.S. ....... well give it a few years. She didn't like being bored, so lets see how she handles depressed But hey at least she's not bored.

    • @twissol2494
      @twissol2494 2 роки тому +2

      @@danielcook11 This happen years ago. She has 5 kids by five different men now. And she was trying to get me back for 8 years everytime her relationships failed. I just use to stare at her, when she would try flirting or asking me back. She even said "You were the best man I ever had and everybody keeps leaving me. My family kept telling me to go back with you."

  • @AK33M
    @AK33M 2 роки тому +10

    Shorty in the Pink isn't loyal. Just an expense or liability. A fun girl.
    That's why these dudes need to be careful with who they sleep with. Pretty on the surface.

  • @sagewilliams2449
    @sagewilliams2449 2 роки тому +6

    Shorty in pink cant see she is being talked about without being named dropped

    • @SirN8speare
      @SirN8speare 2 роки тому

      When you’re not good at having conversations/debates, that’ll happen a lot. I can easily make a lot of points that tend to go over peoples heads🤣

  • @aj3kingz
    @aj3kingz 2 роки тому +11

    The fact that one in the pink is triggered and really debating over government assistance is crazy

  • @heruapocalypse2021
    @heruapocalypse2021 2 роки тому +31

    If This keeps up more and more Men will pull back from Everything in this Grid of Society.And seek Solitude in the Countryside.

    • @houseofmatrix6174
      @houseofmatrix6174 2 роки тому +3

      I Can defintely see this

    • @thadonjuan2339
      @thadonjuan2339 2 роки тому

      Or go to another country and find love. That's what a lot of men should do.

    • @justhomas83
      @justhomas83 2 роки тому +3

      Correct separate from the non sense.
      Less mess equals less stressful.

    • @mayanking339
      @mayanking339 2 роки тому +2

      Men should go on strike Once a year

    • @justhomas83
      @justhomas83 2 роки тому

      @@mayanking339 indeed sir
      Working for anyone but yourself is slavery, slash servitude. Never give energy and attention for free. We all need a break from the non sense bro.

  • @houseofmatrix6174
    @houseofmatrix6174 2 роки тому +8

    All I heard was them making excuses for women being selfish. GWAPO speaking truth .

  • @GGM77263
    @GGM77263 2 роки тому +57

    He’s so right good men don’t get enough credit and it’s sad that in my experience when I show men appreciation they get really uncomfortable. The media doesn’t show many positive images of good black fathers Fr. But as a woman we’ve been going through those struggles our whole life. The expectation is high for us & the government has put things in place to hurt us but also help us ( child support, Medicaid, etc.) I love their different perspectives but it does really show how as women we do include our emotions in our views and men are more logical but don’t make the best decisions 🤣 At the end of the day I agree that you should bless others who have been good to you and especially your child. If my bd is a standup person and father I’m going to keep him in mind when I’m blessed and know he can use it wisely

    • @encouraginglyauthentic43
      @encouraginglyauthentic43 2 роки тому +2

      Real men don't need credit because we are the source of our own validation.

    • @kurokaizen1889
      @kurokaizen1889 2 роки тому +5

      Your bd? That's where it needs to stop. Your husband* or father of you child is what you should've said smh. You made some great points then reduced yourself to essentially anticipating being a "babymama"🤦🏽‍♂️
      Y'all really need to go back to being married before you decide to carry.

    • @nux2k
      @nux2k 2 роки тому +2

      @@encouraginglyauthentic43 I agree with you mentality but not needing it and whether or not they should give it is two different things appreciation should be shown and then it's a pleasant surprise

    • @encouraginglyauthentic43
      @encouraginglyauthentic43 2 роки тому

      @@nux2k Then that means you are insecure. If you don't need validation how can flattery ever affect you.

    • @nux2k
      @nux2k 2 роки тому +2

      @@encouraginglyauthentic43 you basically didn't understand what I'm saying You're kind of continuing your own thought without reading my words

  • @MotivationFromM.I.N.D.S
    @MotivationFromM.I.N.D.S 2 роки тому +44

    Naisha comes off as vindictive - the way she talks about her first baby daddy is wrong. Gwapo is on POINT on most of the points except when he says life is more difficult for the females - nop, life is waaaaaaaaaayy easier for females, they have the full weight of the government and the justice system on their side. Nikki is level headed, and a bit more balanced, i rock with her!!!

    • @joannamonique707
      @joannamonique707 2 роки тому +1

      If women are weaker than men by nature then why shouldnt they receive assistance? How can you subscribe to that belief system and then be mad when the government helps out the "weaker sex?" Make it make sense. Do you also have a problem with poor or disabled people receiving government assistance? It's the same concept.

    • @darylchatfield3528
      @darylchatfield3528 2 роки тому +3

      Naisha is bitter because her first baby daddy saw she wasn't about SHIT and he had sense enough to leave her TRIFLING ASS ALONE 💯

    • @alvinbiggsjr8351
      @alvinbiggsjr8351 2 роки тому +3

      @@joannamonique707 🤔 hmm... I feel you. To a degree. But sometimes it's about WHERE you choose to get your assistance. And the Gov't or Judicial System doesn't have the best interest of the Family Structure.

    • @stevewells9840
      @stevewells9840 2 роки тому +2

      Its 2022 no sex is weaker then the other...Women fought for equality in now have it...You can't pick in choose when u want to be equal.

    • @quinnpettit7865
      @quinnpettit7865 2 роки тому +1

      I agree that’s the only part Guapo didn’t make sense on The world doesn’t give a fuck about a man but the world gives everything to a woman

  • @estreametv5338
    @estreametv5338 2 роки тому +13

    *Women value money over men. Simple.*

  • @alyu9337
    @alyu9337 2 роки тому +5

    A lot of men will definitely take full custody of their children.. most women mothers are the ones to actually watch the kids 65% 70% of the time when they’re with the mother

  • @leonblack7637
    @leonblack7637 2 роки тому +5

    Everyday that passes I become more grateful for my parents sticking it out together and providing the blueprint for me to give my family.

  • @TheLifepure12
    @TheLifepure12 2 роки тому +51

    Ladies, equality means no more child support or alimony or VIP access. Everything split down the middle. You sure you want equality?

    • @LoveyourzAF
      @LoveyourzAF 2 роки тому +3

      Including you having your children 50 % of the time?

    • @TheLifepure12
      @TheLifepure12 2 роки тому +8

      @@LoveyourzAF No mam, No single parent situation over this way. However, nice try deflecting from the truth.
      But if you wrecked your home...please be humble enough to go make every effort to fix it.

    • @SuperMurray2009
      @SuperMurray2009 2 роки тому +10

      @@LoveyourzAF In pretty sure most guys wouldn't have a problem with that.

    • @UzitheSaint
      @UzitheSaint 2 роки тому +5

      They don’t they really don’t, and I’m gonna be honest when he said it’s harder being a woman than a man I was like “stop comparing it’s gonna lead to nowhere” but then I thought then why is the suicide rate for men so high in comparison??

    • @96jwatson
      @96jwatson 2 роки тому +2

      lol and they need to register for the draft if I'm dying in a war they ass dying too.

  • @StraightGuyStraightTalk
    @StraightGuyStraightTalk 2 роки тому +4

    Men are asking to claim the kid on the taxes. And women are asking and expecting the whole refund.

  • @RS-fn6sl
    @RS-fn6sl 2 роки тому +6

    I don't know why men carry this traditional mindset still and let women manipulate them. Fellas make your woman pay their way.. meaning spend their money ON YOU (household) it's NOT your job to financially cover everything. It's past time to leave the birds alone

  • @leonblack7637
    @leonblack7637 2 роки тому +4

    Naisha sounds like the type of woman that most men should avoid.

  • @rhadrickburdine5670
    @rhadrickburdine5670 2 роки тому +10

    Never thought i say this but i dont want a Spanish woman no more🤷🤷🤷🤔

  • @joeblack1490
    @joeblack1490 2 роки тому +12

    Good men will always get the short end of the stick. As a man its important not to get caught up in your feelings and think you can love or rescue a woman into wanting to be with you. A man has to be logical at all times. I've been alive for a long time and I've never seen a "good guy" win when it comes to women. Good guys always pay the premium price but never get any premium benefits from the women they go all out for.

    • @twissol2494
      @twissol2494 2 роки тому +2

      True that! Most women can be selfish. They will destroy a relationship by trying to take the lead and running the relationship into the ground based on their feels. As a man you have to think about what's best for the group(Men, Wife, and Children)

    • @acking1502
      @acking1502 2 роки тому

      Yep, definitely. Learned that the hard way.

  • @Neo.Jordon
    @Neo.Jordon 2 роки тому +54

    No influencer or government could ever influence men to pick money and stuff over women.
    This is a sad wake up call that women value money and stuff over love and companionship.
    Human beings are so broken

    • @justhomas83
      @justhomas83 2 роки тому +3

      Stop caring first step, 2nd step get you're money up too build a strong presence and skill set. 3 leave her ass in the dust. You have a House, car, health insurance and resources. Stay single less drama.

    • @Neo.Jordon
      @Neo.Jordon 2 роки тому

      @@justhomas83 what about kids though?

    • @justhomas83
      @justhomas83 2 роки тому

      @@Neo.Jordon man unless she has you're son or daughter. GTFO

    • @Navyblue0785
      @Navyblue0785 2 роки тому +1

      Don't ever make a generalization of what you hear on the internet

    • @yahowshuabenyahudah7734
      @yahowshuabenyahudah7734 2 роки тому

      💯🎯

  • @Enlightenmentcircle
    @Enlightenmentcircle 2 роки тому +9

    I understand both sides but it’s harder being a man.

  • @nux2k
    @nux2k 2 роки тому +20

    The older I get the more I don't believe it's harder to be a woman than a man. Especially a pretty woman that's a genetic lotto ticket. It might be easier to be a top 10 to 1% man but most men ain't that most men got it rough and have to work hard to validate their existence where is a woman is moderately attractive that's all she has to be.
    " Women just are men must become"

    • @alvinbiggsjr8351
      @alvinbiggsjr8351 2 роки тому +2

      I felt that. .. growing up hearing all the sob stories, I really felt sympathy for ALL women (granted I was a child). Now that I'm 30 I have a completely different perspective. I still sympathize but not blindly. Many of them are ignorant to the fact they are their own enemy. 😐

    • @nux2k
      @nux2k 2 роки тому +2

      @@alvinbiggsjr8351 I feel the same way now

    • @motorbreath22
      @motorbreath22 2 роки тому

      I might be messing up the quote but I think I heard Rich Cooper say, "women are born, men are forged"

  • @alvinbiggsjr8351
    @alvinbiggsjr8351 2 роки тому +6

    The behavior of this panel was excellent. FINALLY, a conversation without everyone yelling over each other!! 😌

  • @bubbytyler1906
    @bubbytyler1906 2 роки тому +4

    To ALL THE AWESOME MEN AND DAD'S OUT THERE WE SEE YOU. YOU HAVE NO BONES HERE. KEEP ROCKING ON WITH YOUR FLY SELVES.

  • @odabuu
    @odabuu 2 роки тому +8

    Watching this just validated keeping everything on the books. There's a sense entitlement that was never discussed in this video.

  • @JL-et2nh
    @JL-et2nh 2 роки тому +16

    Focus on yourself and keep your trust low Fellas aint no love out here build a life YOU WANT not to provide for a women because they obviously don’t care either way

  • @MrReal333
    @MrReal333 2 роки тому +6

    the way men and women view money differently is very interesting. it feels like thats the only thing that matters to women sometimes (emphasis on sometimes) and its crazy how anyone can put money over people, morals or love. Money is not meant to dictate relationships like this

  • @freedmansjournal
    @freedmansjournal 2 роки тому +10

    Gwapo is right a provider male is like winning the lottery. Naisha's focus on who has the child has an end date. The resources that are diverted towards women aren't actually diverted towards women, the resources are for the benefit of the children. What happens when the kids are gone? Resources gone, youth gone, beauty gone, then what?
    Women want a man that makes them wet, then become jaded when they become a baby momma and that man moves on. If the Western female prioritizes family instead sex they will get better outcomes.

  • @nikulpatel4643
    @nikulpatel4643 2 роки тому +4

    Welfare is the root of the problem and they talk about spending welfare all the time. The Government giving away free money means you can survive as a single mother and the father has less responsibility financially. In the 60's most black men were working and at home with the children, in the 70's welfare came along and single parent households sky rocketed

  • @tewanimupompa1066
    @tewanimupompa1066 2 роки тому +18

    He’s wrong for saying that women have it harder than men. Women are born with values and men have to create their value. A woman beauty can go a long way because she might no need to worry about paying rent because of her beauty so I don’t what what he was talking about by saying that women have hard time than men

    • @joannamonique707
      @joannamonique707 2 роки тому +1

      So you dont believe that having testosterone is inherent value? Do you think you would get half the superiority or "respect" if you didnt have enough physical strength to over power damn near every woman on the planet? Do you think women would've allowed other women to outlaw them from working or owning property? Do you think women would've tolerated any of that if it werent for the presence of male testosterone?

    • @SuperMurray2009
      @SuperMurray2009 2 роки тому +9

      @@joannamonique707 You don't gain respect for overpowering women. From neither males or females.
      It would be like a heavyweight beating up a lightweight. No one respects that because the heavyweight is mostly oversized.
      People respect men who can overpower men their own size or bigger than their size.

    • @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149
      @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 2 роки тому +4

      @@joannamonique707 You don't understand men at all if you think a man is respected for being able to physically dominate a woman.

    • @stax5ave380
      @stax5ave380 2 роки тому +1

      @@joannamonique707 are you attracted too abusive men?? Because dominating woman don’t make you respectable atleast in a man’s eyes

    • @odabuu
      @odabuu 2 роки тому

      @@joannamonique707 🤣 🤣 you don't know anything about men or how the world treats us.

  • @bruceleroy6433
    @bruceleroy6433 2 роки тому +9

    shorty on the left is cringy af

  • @BrUcIeBrOn
    @BrUcIeBrOn 2 роки тому +3

    Remember my Gs: nobody gonna save you as a man. Be careful with who u love and fw

  • @certifiedchaos4643
    @certifiedchaos4643 2 роки тому +4

    Yea nowadays why would a man want to be a good man. He’s taken for granted often times he expected to look the other way and fix everyone else mistakes.

  • @jimiboiSD
    @jimiboiSD 2 роки тому +5

    That one Spanish chicc is Evil at heart and she doesn't even realize it ....thats crazy

    • @Wharbuckz7
      @Wharbuckz7 2 роки тому +3

      Facts that hitch is a succubus you have to guard your spirit against evil.

    • @jimiboiSD
      @jimiboiSD 2 роки тому

      @@Wharbuckz7 really tho it's crazy how hard they fight for the bullshit modern woman ways

  • @ojbgamin
    @ojbgamin 2 роки тому +3

    The light skinned lady treats her dude more like a child than her man

  • @sircharles820
    @sircharles820 2 роки тому +5

    This would be a good video for mediocre tutorials and reviews or poor man's podcast , or even the lead attorney to react to. Lol

  • @conduitofthegospeldarrellb9154
    @conduitofthegospeldarrellb9154 2 роки тому +6

    It’s not worth it.
    Just save your money and love how you please.

  • @Dee--Jay
    @Dee--Jay 2 роки тому +20

    This heffa stupid. She said a man gotta pay child support & give extra money to help with the kid....... Aint thats what the child support for???

    • @JL-et2nh
      @JL-et2nh 2 роки тому +14

      She means extra money for herself lol typical bird shit

    • @objectivelybiased8006
      @objectivelybiased8006 2 роки тому +4

      I thought i was the only one who heard that bullshit!. Shawty high as fuck for that

    • @Dee--Jay
      @Dee--Jay 2 роки тому +1

      @@objectivelybiased8006 You can tell by the stuff you say that she is lazy. Her money is her money but the man's money is her money too

    • @kindware6323
      @kindware6323 2 роки тому +2

      I said the same thing🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @hotepkennels
      @hotepkennels 2 роки тому

      Exactly.

  • @joeblack6886
    @joeblack6886 2 роки тому +2

    Pride wont let me asks a woman for money.

  • @sososanchez3512
    @sososanchez3512 2 роки тому +20

    Well I haven't expected anything since I'm not a lil girl...
    My sons father a Great Man.
    A father dose his job.. Ever since our son was small I would claim him 1 year the father the next year till the child was Grown & working..
    I would give my right arm if he came to me .WE have that much respect for one another.

  • @AyeYoQ
    @AyeYoQ 2 роки тому +3

    Gwapo so honest! Ask a woman to spend a few dollars she will flip shit like she struggling an she saving for stuff when she clearly lying

  • @joeydiaz5927
    @joeydiaz5927 2 роки тому +1

    Nikki was spitting facts in the very beginning. I never thought I’d say that

  • @taye_RA
    @taye_RA 2 роки тому +2

    This Hispanic joint need a hug. Her two baby daddy’s really hurt her. My goodness.

  • @SADDIQ-ALI
    @SADDIQ-ALI 2 роки тому +4

    I shut this off the moment he said “women have it harder than men” and stated the most invalid points on what makes their life harder

    • @nakitapalmer656
      @nakitapalmer656 2 роки тому

      I'm A woman and said, "HAS HE LOST HIS MIND?!!" Sitting in between 2 chicks playing stupid!! 🙄🙄

  • @percelbrown7563
    @percelbrown7563 2 роки тому +8

    Be celebrated not tolerated....

  • @sheltonward8751
    @sheltonward8751 2 роки тому +19

    I just think that if the woman is a single parent and is struggling, she shouldn't be granted full custody of any kid.

    • @LoveyourzAF
      @LoveyourzAF 2 роки тому +1

      But many end up struggling because they are single parents... Not only is it not cheap. Your time is minimized and monopolized. So your ability to make the most amount possible is taken from you. Balancing being a round-the-clock parent (good, healthy, active, n it just you) while being the only breadwinner is tough. It's only 24hrs in a day, and 16 of them are active. We're not even going to add on the stress to your mental health dealing with a situation like this day in and day out. N, you can't force the other person to do their part. Ppl evade child support every day and for years!

    • @sheltonward8751
      @sheltonward8751 2 роки тому +5

      @@LoveyourzAF Again, just another reason to avoid getting pregnant out of wedlock so that this wouldn't be an issue. There are too many women who are getting pregnant to get benefits and housing. So back to my original point, if you need child support on top of the benefits that only women get in this situation, you probably shouldn't be granted full custody of the child. This is now a half of century of kids that were raised in this predicament and we see exactly what has transpired since that took place. This is not the solution that should keep being spoon fed.

    • @darwinLee81283
      @darwinLee81283 2 роки тому +2

      @@sheltonward8751 I don't understand how in 2021. Women are not able to understand this concept. We all know how children are made. We all know how Birth Control works.
      We have a device in our hands daily with all of the information of the world at our fingertips and women still out here becoming single moms. At this point we can't consider this a Mistake anymore. Suffer the consequences lol

    • @sheltonward8751
      @sheltonward8751 2 роки тому +3

      @@darwinLee81283 it's like a taught behavior that they just can't seem to shake, so the only result is to blame whatever man for whatever shortcomings that comes their way regardless if a guy was involved or not.

    • @navytanutrof1823
      @navytanutrof1823 2 роки тому +1

      Amen!!!!!! Women can abandon a child at the steps of a church with no repercussions. So yes any woman can decide to just leave the child with the father. A woman don't have to keep the child if her situation is bad.

  • @nathanielwalls2162
    @nathanielwalls2162 2 роки тому +11

    How can a man be in a womans and childs life when the woman does everything in her power to keep him away & then say u didn't fight hard enough. Feel bad for u father's out there who truly fight a losing battle with everything they have and more knowing they are losing, going to lose & already lost but still fight anyway. I commend all u guys. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿.

  • @robertrios1732
    @robertrios1732 2 роки тому +6

    Men have it worse.
    Women do not have to self improve.
    Lets stop this mean are the problem.
    We heard 1 side of these females situation. She shouldn't allow to say he is a bad dad if you opening your legs to anyone. Your fault. We have no choice

  • @FnIggnent
    @FnIggnent 2 роки тому +2

    Shiiiiiiiiiiiid, I'm a damn good father and I've never seen a cent of tax money lol.

  • @Wharbuckz7
    @Wharbuckz7 2 роки тому +4

    @5:00 child at 16 and 20. Hopefully those men are still around if they haven't been ran off. Major red flag 🚩 simps run 🏃🏾‍♂️ straight through caution signs for these freaky single moms. This aint the 50's or the 80's. Smh

  • @ludwigmangones2319
    @ludwigmangones2319 2 роки тому +2

    Man, don't listen to Gwapo. NEVER take cash/money from your woman. Gifts...yes, but NEVER cash. Woman show their love with femininity, sensuality and sexuality. Her "job" is to comfort and nurture, our "job" are as protector and providers. Naisha is correct, man should never take money/cash from her woman. That's the quickest way for your woman to lose respect for you!

  • @airfuture9464
    @airfuture9464 2 роки тому +2

    We are having babies as kids and not when we're grown adults with our priorities in order first.

  • @akalukango
    @akalukango 2 роки тому +1

    This is why these women will always go through the things they go through.

  • @Rbhawk3rd
    @Rbhawk3rd 2 роки тому +3

    The Latina chick isn't breaking bread with any of the three type of guys mentioned.

  • @gregoryturnier7924
    @gregoryturnier7924 2 роки тому +1

    If your being a good person for the recognition, your not a good person. Being a good person a selfless act.

  • @nkrumansantos1794
    @nkrumansantos1794 2 роки тому +8

    There is no such thing as a selfish man.
    This conversation showed us why.
    NO ONE thinks about a man's needs.
    NO ONE seeks to put a man's needs over theirs.
    NO ONE is sacrificing to make a man happy nor fullfiled.
    If you are a man reading this words... Do your thing and focus on your needs and goals.
    You deserve to invest your earnings on yourself first & forever if this applies to you.
    You are not selfish. You are the only one that can really be generous with you.
    Be generous with you.

    • @alvinbiggsjr8351
      @alvinbiggsjr8351 2 роки тому +1

      Technically... anybody can be selfish. But sometimes that's ok.

    • @nkrumansantos1794
      @nkrumansantos1794 2 роки тому

      @@alvinbiggsjr8351 as a man, if you aren't, you'll lose in life... sooner or later.

  • @dariansdoor7098
    @dariansdoor7098 2 роки тому

    Gina gon love this one!!!!!

  • @quinnpettit7865
    @quinnpettit7865 2 роки тому +4

    Women who have more baggage always want more in return then women that have no baggage remember that ……that Hispanic chick was mad getting on my nerves her way of thinking and countless other women and there way thinking are the reason why a lot of us good men are going the other way and it’s only going to get worse and I quote get a dog and die alone… I know a man is supposed to be strong and a good provider and as men we all understand that but no good man wants to be a provider to a selfish woman that’s just disgusting and besides Sharing is caring and what little A woman does do for her man we’re grateful for it because after all being a good man is a thankless job but never stop being you out there fellas

  • @Kim-427
    @Kim-427 2 роки тому +4

    I think though men have to own it like they want us to that many of them don’t chose properly. They don’t read the signs. I can meet a male friend or relatives female prospect and I can feel her out in the first few minutes.I be running things to them that they’re clueless about. A few months later I get “Damn you was right about that chick”!! Lol.

  • @rodneymorris2695
    @rodneymorris2695 2 роки тому

    This was a awesome conversation Believe who they show you they are man or woman

  • @urasssmine
    @urasssmine 2 роки тому +2

    She said the government made the rules but she going with it. So if the government tell you to give the money to the guy let’s see what she say then

  • @kengtachala1867
    @kengtachala1867 2 роки тому

    Your doing it for validation

  • @bootsbooy
    @bootsbooy 2 роки тому +1

    I see why the elders said get married first and choose wisely. A lot of these problems are self-inflicted and easily avoidable. The problem is, people are really dumb.

  • @brandonthegreat8939
    @brandonthegreat8939 2 роки тому +3

    Pink dress is getting to old for people to keep lieing to her. She seems like a greedy 36 yo child.

  • @curtallong3331
    @curtallong3331 2 роки тому +2

    Naisha probably talks bad about the father in front of the kids. She sounds angry and bitter when she speaks.

  • @joeanderson3953
    @joeanderson3953 2 роки тому +3

    It’s a messed up situation. This lady talking about he have to tell her what it’s for, that she wouldn’t bring it up to him if she had extra… this is crazy. Women are so freakin selfish now a days. This is why guys DO NOT COMMiT. Why-so he can deal with some (more than less) of these bitter ass females. It’s sad, but even more sisters being this way than any other cultures.

  • @lendoleewalton8583
    @lendoleewalton8583 2 роки тому +1

    The lady in the pink contradicted herself several times and I wouldn't never mess with her I don't care how pretty she is !!

  • @jaywright4671
    @jaywright4671 2 роки тому +3

    Only good men are placed on child support and reasons being is the mother still wants to be apart of that man life, she doesn't want him to happy without her so the kids becomes the pawns to mess up his money, it's a game for women, be careful fellas, you're held accountable, their not.

  • @oz70nyc50
    @oz70nyc50 2 роки тому +1

    Building off of what Naisha said regarding the government making the criteria...they do so cuz they profit off of it. Every cent paid in child support is taxed. It's literally free money for them. That's why they go hard at us.

  • @onice33
    @onice33 2 роки тому +2

    Government assistance aint no damn bag FYI 😒😒😒😒😒😒😒

  • @johnnyoldenjr.
    @johnnyoldenjr. 2 роки тому +3

    Naisha couldnt wait to blame men

  • @jimiboiSD
    @jimiboiSD 2 роки тому

    EVERYTHING HE JUST SAID WAS TRUE.......
    EVERYTHING

  • @truth3412
    @truth3412 2 роки тому

    Bruh. That chick really said why are u asking me for money. Basically she showed that the age old saying rings true. "Her money is her money. And your money is her money too"

  • @ikke2757
    @ikke2757 2 роки тому +1

    My ex used to say; "your money is our money and my money is my money!" No team player, just an ego-centrical gold digger . That's one of the reasons why she's my ex. Men should know their value and only interact with REAL women and not these money hungry creatures.

  • @robertmosley2976
    @robertmosley2976 2 роки тому +1

    sad too see how some women do not see how this game of life is playing out to keep the family apart so sad not to see this way of thinking money over famely

  • @TheGr8-1
    @TheGr8-1 2 роки тому +3

    Yo. Some of the women on this panel are just straight trifling 🗑

  • @BB-kp3tb
    @BB-kp3tb Рік тому

    My experience with women has been…what’s theirs is theirs and what’s yours is theirs.

  • @nels2619
    @nels2619 2 роки тому +1

    Woooow “I wipe my ass with his little $50 a week”..
    Men pay attention to who you choose to give your seed!
    Shoutout to the Communitah though!

  • @marcusjones1432
    @marcusjones1432 2 роки тому

    Imagine being put on child support so the mother of your child could dress fly, stay laced with hair and nails, car, etc while you have to work more overtime so you can support yourself, keep a roof over your head and live a minimalist lifestyle and be called a deadbeat because you're working so much you can barely spend real quality time with your child. Your child might get the material things he or she needs but your child also needs time with both parents. To my brothers (any race) who do right by their family and children keep doing the right thing in life. Hopefully one day we'll at least be appreciated.

  • @rygetit811
    @rygetit811 2 роки тому +1

    she got straight to it 😣

  • @vincentwilliams1146
    @vincentwilliams1146 2 роки тому +1

    That woman is the woman i cannot stand. There are double standards in this society and the man is at the losing end of the stick. Man is only valued by what we can provide.

  • @tyi6630
    @tyi6630 2 роки тому +4

    There so much missing from this conversation. The toxic in this conversation from these two women. Put Rico in here because he will breakdown both sides and keep real. There so much in this conversation they missed.