Professional Matchmaker Reveals Why Women Fail in the Dating Market |
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In this latest Dailyrapupcrew Podcast episode, we've got a pro matchmaker spillin' the beans on why so many women bounce out of the dating scene. Discover what women really desire in dating with Pro Matchmaker, where Dating Mishaps and more are explored on Episode 121 of the #dailyrapupcrew Podcast. Plus, we're diving into the whole arranged marriage vs. love marriage debate, Why Women fail in the dating market, what women desire in dating ,serving up a fair and square take on it.
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Chapters:
[00:00:00] Intro
[00:06:26] Lifestyle compatibility.
[00:07:29] Unrealistic expectations in dating.
[00:10:59] Unrealistic expectations in relationships.
[00:16:13] Unrealistic expectations in dating.
[00:19:14] Dating down and values.
[00:20:37] Dating and dealing with trauma.
[00:24:08] Healing past traumas.
[00:27:52] Marriage expiration dates.
[00:31:01] Real work in successful marriages.
[00:34:35] Conversations about growth in relationships.
[00:38:04] Women and nurturing in relationships.
[00:41:29] Earning potential and family contributions.
[00:45:02] Financial implications of 50-50.
[00:49:41] The age range for hiring services.
[00:51:23] Loyalty of black women.
[00:55:36] Black men love sisters.
[00:57:25] Black women's dating experiences.
[01:03:28] Black men in college initiative.
[01:03:47] Head of household statistics.
[01:08:46] Feminine energy and dating.
[01:12:42] Feminine energy and self-expression.
[01:13:14] Tapping into feminine energy.
[01:17:00] Masculine energy and dating.
[01:21:43] Therapy and relationship readiness.
[01:23:02] Men's discomfort with asking for help.
[01:29:00] Arranged marriages in today's society.
[01:29:23] Arranged marriages vs. compatibility.
[01:33:07] They lure you.
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I've never heard a black man say I need my woman to have weave or wig. What if its black men saying I like your hair natural but I also want it taken care of. Just as black women want their man's hair kept.
I also think we as people need to be aware of each other as we occupy space in society. We are stuck in a battle of trying to one up another and not uniting. Are fights may be slightly different but we still in the same space.
Fellas keep this conversation going. Eli hit her with the black demographics. That flew over their heads.
This conversation was enjoyable to listen to but it’s the same format that all of these conversations are based on.
All the women in the room are unmarried and/or divorced and some have children. With all due respect, none of them are qualified to speak on what makes a good relationship. Even the “MatchMaker” is unmarried.
You need to get women of the same age as these women who are married and have been married, in one marriage for 15 years or more and watch how drastically the conversation changes. These are the women that are successful in relationships and can therefore speak to said success.
Women are not the head of the household! That is dead wrong!
Single mothers, I assume they were talking about.
I heard that, and she has no idea what the hell she is talking about....
In the black community it's true. Myself and all my peers are head of household. Even some of the married associates.
@@morena1484what bs are you talking?
@@RoblEsquirenone of these birds do
It’s crazy how powerful social media is. She 100 percent believes women are top earners in households vs men, despite statistical data. Adding to it, she tried to deflect and say, maybe in your situation. Absolutely mind blowing.
She’s got access to internet. But doesn’t use it to understand different dynamics besides hers.
I peeped that too, they were off with a few of stats of what's average too.
See smart bitches are dumb too. Still lacking common sense and logic
Totally, they just said most women want a man that earns more than them lol. It's more than likely the highest earning women are single, waiting on that 0.001% man that earns more 7 figures. Also isn't there a "wage gap" that many women bring up all the time, guess it magically disappears depending on the narrative.
Yeah, they tried coming in as calm upstanding women… but all they did was come off as arrogant/selfish. And this is why a lot of them are single.
I had to date a drug dealer to figure out that dating drug dealer is not for me! WOW!!!!!!!!! She looks sensible but here we go.
The more i hear these sisters speak the more im fighting to stay married
Please stay married ain't nothing yesss I said ain't nothing out here! Wish I would've kept mines! Go to a couple's retreat stay, stay!!
GOOD IDEA! Keep your woman happy. Constantly GROW together!!!
There is great power in Marriage.
Communication is Key 🔑
I think this whole is boils down to people waiting to long to date people seriously. I met my wife when I was 20 and riding the bus. We both contributed to the household when we moved in together. When I was in grad school and had internships and practicums she chipped in more because I had to work less to focus on education and we had 2 kids at the time. I'm now 33 we are about to have our 3rd child, we have a big house and my wife hasn't paid a bill in 2 years and is about to be become a stay at home mom. People gotta be willing to invest in each for the benefit of both parties because in the end a marriage is about team work and complementing each other's weaknesses with the other persons strengths.
Speaking my language. I did the same for my husband and now he takes care of our family. I haven’t needed to work full time in years and feel very blessed to have that option.
Sounds like u guys had a plan
PREACH ON IT
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God has a plan for everyone and finding your spouse at the age of 20 is not God's plan for everyone. But please answer me this. Did you lose your virginity to your wife and did you both engage in premarital sex?
I can't say this enough. Everyone doesn't have trauma (serious) or need a therapist. Stop telling people they need therapy. Not everyone needs it. People need to stop projecting themselves onto others.
That part. Therapy has become black women’s new version of “I’ve got a degree”
@@AlexMinorwhat you said what do fucking stupid omg .. THE BLACK COMMUNITY needs to normalize therapy.. we don’t and it’s sad .. it’s nothing wrong with going to therapy
Therapy is NOT just for trauma. Everyone does need therapy. It teaches good coping mechanisms for when your life does turn upside down.
@@CyberMachine everyone doesn’t NEED it. Can it be good to have? Yes. But let’s be completely honest and practical. For most people It’s a luxury. Not a necessity.
@@AlexMinoragreed!!! Totally!!! Some ppl are more emotional intelligent, and equipped to cleanse/ regulate their mental/ psyche, than others.
As A women I can Respectfully Say Even If I Make “More” Money Than My Husband Or Become The “Breadwinner” Which shouldn’t Matter Who’s Making More As long as you’re Both Taking Care Of each Other, The MAN Is Always The Head Of Household Not Because Of Money But The Reason For Having A Family Name Is The Father’s Name. Even Different Cultures If the Dad Were To Pass Away, The Eldest Son Would Become ‘Head Of Household’ Even If The Mom Provide Financially & Does Everything Which We Know Women Are The Strong and Great Providers That Doesn’t Take That Away
Very well said, Madam! 👊👊✊✊👏👏👏
most black women who make more money than their man lack respect for the man. They become the man.
"the man is always the head of the household" is 100% true but mot bw do not agree. Thanks for understanding this.
As A "women"?🤔
It’s weird how BW recently became this person that’s looking for partners that will provide them a life to do nothing. But not just a life, but a life of leisure. In our history BM and BW have always worked together, now it’s BW grinding to achieve a professional career just to find a man that can allow them to give it all up. I don’t understand that.
Yeah sounds dumb to me too and I'm sure a bunch of other guys.
Count me in that bunch as well. They have accumulated student loans and other debt trying to conform to social media lifestyle narratives then want a guy to come along and shoulder all that baggage so she can not work or live a life of leisure.
They don't want to do any work in the relationship.
Good Luck to these ladies, Enjoy the Race to the bottom.
Yeah! Doesn't make any since.
As a Match maker and dating coach she should be knowledgeable of the statistics when it comes to relationships and income standards.
Self proclaimed my g
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I think I seen her on a show and she was looking for a man herself I think she even slept with the guy she started dating
@@GETBIG4WARD A dating coach needed help to find a date 🤷♂️
Thought I was the only one that pick that up.
Love how Eli respectfully still held these educated (ringless) women to their hypocritical double standards.
But who wants a ring from a loser? Marriage is not a badge of honor of you are married to a man who can’t provide, lies, cheats, is emotionally unavailable and sorry. Why get married to a grown boy or a king without a kingdom?
And yes. I’ve been married twice. A ring don’t mean sh@t!
@@tab_bMarried twice! Seems like the loser is you.
@@tab_bgo heal and 🤫
@@tab_b If you've been married twice, then the issue is you. Not marriage.
"I don't want to date someone fighting demons." Newsflash: WE ALL FIGHT DEMONS! You're not excluded.
The contrast between these young black men and the older black woman on this show is telling.
Whenever a woman says she wants a guy who's ambitious, all that means is a guy who's constantly making more money than before.
Thanks for sharing your perspective
@@DailyRapUpCrewsaying perspective is crazy, y’all be letting y’all guests over talk y’all and be condescending all the time🤣🤣🤣 tf gang, do yourself a favor.
Look up the stats on the topics, have them available and challenge peoples perspective with the visible truth. Most of The women will still lie in y’all face every single time
@@34maybachkdat79bubble in all 😂
Facts
What’s wrong with wanting someone ambitious? Who’s wants a lazy man or woman?
To the men out there before you pay $10,000 for a dating coach why don't you just pay $150 for a passport
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Because if we’re being honest, the dating coaches are only matching you with their other clientele not the perfect match for you, but other people that are in her pocket
Trip to Africa! 54 countries!
I'm going to get mine!
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Wouldn't be smart for a man to get with a woman that's stuck on a dollar amount. An iron clad prenuptial needs to be inplace for that one
How do black women keep getting credit for being loyal? I’m honestly confused at that statement.
I'm confused too. the most baby mamas of women.
Why are BW allowed to use their past/victimhood to excuse their failures but BM are told to "get over it" when it comes to our past/things we cant control?
It's simple because we're men op race has nothing to do with it. They ALL act like this.
We're Men, Men are always expected to tough it out
@@viewergrazemen calling say a woman for the streets is not accountability. 😂😂😂😂
@viewergraze sound like more excuses and being young is no excuse for doing things you shouldn’t be doing. Yet want men to be forgiven to women who just do whatever they want and think we should tolerate the bs. It’s funny women want the ability to talk all the shit in the world about men but don’t want men to speak up about shit they go through when dealing with women. SMH.
And BW usually bring their mistakes with them that they expect BM to happily help clothe, feed, and shelter with no authority to discipline, guide, and mold to strive for their greatest potential.
😂 it’s crazy how they just made up “women make more than men when in relationships” and just tried to run with it like it’s not false 😭😭😭
I love the selection of Women this show. Yall picked grown and mature WOMEN.
Glad you liked it!
and they are just as immature as the others. are they married? nope. bosses. all skrong. independent. don't need no man. none of those women are going to get married to the man they FEEL they deserve. That doctor isn't married to another doctor. a male doctor will not waste his time with her. he will get a woman who feels being a wife and mom is the greatest in the world. not a woman who thinks being a boss is the best.
Wow. One of the best and most important informative discussion that I've ever watched in youtube and other social streams. The content that you guys/gals discussed would be applicable to all ethnicity. Kudos to the organizer and all the participants. Very dignified & objective oriented conversation, respecting each others perspectives, No attitude/diva showing personalities and more importantly cool headed and pragmatic conversation. Thank you all
Was this an add for her match making services or a genuine conversation for the podcast? I couldn’t tell. Anyone paying this lady 10-20k to find their match may God be with you.
Yeah that's crazy!!!
Same thing I was thinking. Just a promotion for her services. Ain’t no way you need a damn “dating coach” to tell you this information.
She said it took a man flying her to Mexico to put her in her feminine energy. Women like her are money hungry
I enjoyed hearing women who can admit their faults, think rather than feel, and not talk over each other. Great conversation.
Still; do any of them currently have a man?
Most of them talk a good game, but fold even before pressure is applied.
Be careful.
The men were quick to talk over them the moment they disagreed though. Don’t get me wrong, it’s common enough to do that, but I think it’s worth noting that the men did that and it seems to be considered a feminine trait.
Thank you sir
@@RoLee705well its their show n they are the host n its their job n responsibility to direct the conversation
@@sunsoza8320 yeah but they’re doing it improperly, in my opinion, at certain points.
Been watching these guys but this by far has been one of the best articulated conversations. Refreshing to get adult women POV's on the same topics. Enjoyed!
Very productive conversation. Love it. Thank you guys 🎉❤
This whole episode was 🧢 You have a bunch of older women in a late '30s and '40s that still haven't figured it out but out here giving advice and insight to relationships. The fact that a matter is if they would have spent just as much time on a relationship as they did on their career they would have had a better outcome.
Yong lady's don't listen to this old woman, pleace check for Kevin Samuels ?? R.I.P
Whole episode stupid n worthless with no common sense at all
They are very set in their ways and can't turn off Auto response. How can you understand what is being said if you are only waiting to respond.🤔
I’m a Relationship Coach and I try to tell women this.
Yes, because marrying someone the intellectual caliber of these commenters would guarantee a happy fulfilling existence😂😂😂
Great show fellas. Those women were completely wrong on the statistics. I know them well. It is part of my profession to delve into numbers
send us the numbers via ig or our email
Great podcast family. Keep up the amazing work
Therapy is subjective, every therapist don’t give good advice and some ppl just pick therapist that already align with their thoughts and beliefs
A perfect example of how our communication should be. This was a pleasure to listen to.
A pleasure ? Bro are you okay?
@@tabootabletalkpodcastDon’t worry about the old heads from black people meet. They’ve been indoctrinated for decades now. Can’t teach an old dog..
@@tabootabletalkpodcastBoth parties were respectful, no loud talking, no over talking, each taking in each others' perspective. What's the issue?
1:15:30 so she didn't know men have similar feelings an yet they complain about an alleged lack of "emotional intelligence" in men? 😂
Thanks for sharing your perspective
It’s just more proof women don’t care about men’s emotions.
To most of them, emotional intelligence means “you prioritize and are intelligent about MY emotions”.
@@AlexMinorDo men care about their own emotions? Do men prioritize their mental health & express how they feel? Do men go talk to professionals when they feel they have no one else to talk to?
@@R0yALtySlol you are not staying on topic and moving the goal post 😂😂
@@R0yALtyS
Let me try to answer that.
Sure ,we care about our emotions. They are just not as volatile as women's.
Imagine emotions as a number. 1 is despondent. 10 is exhilarated. 5 is neutral.
Men usually go through their week 4,5,6. Sometimes we hit 3s and 7s.
Women usually go 3,4,5,6,7 and sometimes hit 8s and 2s.
So, when men hit 8, 9 (like being in love), we are surprised.
Likewise, when we are overwhelmed when we hit a 3,2 (like death of a parent, or divorce). Therapy does work wonders.
However, men have been conditioned from a young age to "toughen up" or "man up". Which is actually a good thing because women, as much as they claim that they desire a sensitive man, are repulsed by a crying (ergo weak) man....he can't be a good protector!
Do men express how we feel? Not as a rule.
But we do, if the problem is serious enough.
If a man confides a problem to another man, it is serious business.
Men are fixers. We are asking help from a friend to help us fix a problem. Do it is somewhat of an honor too.
Btw, that's why men offer solutions when you want to talk about a problem. YOU NEED to tell him beforehand that you just want him to listen, not to try to fix it. So he can mentally put another hat on.
Men are also better discussing problems when their mind is focused on something else. Like the sex he just had with you. Yes, men open up better after sex.
When talking with his friend, they might be focused on drinking, fishing, or tiling the floor.
I've gone to therapy after my divorce (married 30 years), which was very beneficial. But I was also at that 1,2 mark on the emotion scale.
Hope that helps.
You guys have stepped up the quality of your content and your guests. Great job. 👏👏👏👏
Definitely enjoyed this watch . The level of maturity displayed by these ladies are the reason I watched the entire episode. I will however point out the fact that the same women who had such great points when defining success without actually answering the question, was also the first woman to admit how important it is for her man to make money and match her grit due to the sacrifices she has had to make to get where she is. I do however feel where she is coming from. I’m just pointing out how that was the question asked in the beginning and she didn’t actually answer it rather list other types of success.
Majority of women absolutely choose the drug dealer, the scammer & the criminal don’t kill the messenger
Well u didn’t 😂
Black women are the only ones who do that Asian and Hispanic women don’t choose drug dealers
Lol,when that subject came up,they glossed over it with the exception of the one woman stating she didn't want a drug dealer.She only didn't want one after a bad experience with at least one .The rest of the women said nothing.They love the men with those occupations. Especially when they're young, durable and ready to make bad decisions.Then after the negative consequences and babies, they want the safe, boring 9 to 5 guy.
It's nice to see KS talking points coming full circle I appreciate the honesty of these woman
these women are just as trash as the rest and that includes the dating coach.
Good substantive conversations with healthy debates . Keep it up gents .
This was a good episode. These women were a breath of fresh air! A different quality of women not yelling, screaming and had class.
54:15 so earlier they dismissed black mens feelings by gaslighting saying "those things happened in their past" but then say its "their experience" when it comes to hair LOL
😂 bruh
That is a trait I believe all women share. Society has made rules for both genders, which has us socializing based on those rules.
Women do need to allow men to share their emotions because it’s healthy for the relationship.
Because this was in my present not past.😂
Women are terrible debaters because them emotions trump logic
It’s about time you guys found a whole panel of educated females!!! 😀👍🏿
Same ole bullshit
True…I had to tune out from the ratchet, “Why Eli?!?!”, broads…
@@jermaineburgess3767same old haterade from bitters like you
Boring
Help them out. You got anything to contribute to make them a better channel or panel?
This podcast is dope that y’all bring on soft women that can communicate with wisdom and not emotions. Great work black kings. Proud of this 💪🏾🎶🤞🏾
Great conversation, with discourse like this we can figure it out. Hats off to the Crew and the Panel.
1:05:26 ready to START a family at 40 as a woman? LOL our community is doomed
nutts
Some men are okay with starting a family at 40, do what’s best for your relationship and not based off society.
Y’all do shit based of what society thinks and that’s yall problem and that’s why things do go the right way in your life
@@brielax4441 men are built different than women are so trying to put us in the same playing field is never going to work
I keep telling these brothers in the comments that these women are no different than Sexyy Red and Sukihana and Summer Walker. these ratchets just have degrees behind their names.
Definitely one of the best episodes. It's good to hear from rational intelligent women.
Awesome episode with intelligent and articulate women. Thank you!
I just subscribed. First time watching this show. I really enjoyed it. Thank you. Love these brothas. ❤😊
This was such a better show with a group of grown and mature women compared to what y'all normally have.
I would like to see more of this.
Thank you 🙏🏿
Just because they are older does not mean they are more mature, if you truly listen to what they are saying, it’s the same rhetoric just with a little bit of education sprinkled on top
@@tabootabletalkpodcast I'll agree to disagree with you, because in my opinion, they seemed more agreeable and reasonable compared to the girls they normally have on their show, so that's where me and you stand apart from each other.
@@trevonh4139 just because they’re more civilized does not make them more agreeable bro
@@tabootabletalkpodcast Like I said, "Agree to disagree."
Finally some mature women on the show
That's cool but the show was kind of boring
My only question is were any of the women on the panel Married 🤔 because if not their opinions don't really matter because most men want to marry younger women.
@@jermaineharrison5255 Thank you, not even the match maker was married……
With basically the same mindsets as any other
Young people are so stupid
Thank you for having these women on here. I do have to say 1 thing... The match maker continued to enter her personal experience to make decisions for others rather than the statics over all. I feel like SHE isn't qualified when I see she hasn't healed from her personal experiences.
This is one of the best informational honest conversations on a podcast that I've ever seen.
When talking to women 99% of the time they will fall in line with the "girl code". It's hard for them to express any divergent ideas.
The only time you’ll get full transparency out of most women, is if you speak to them 1 on 1. Even then, you gotta drag it out of them most times. Lying, sugar coating and saying whatever will save face is the default
Yes..with the whole disclaimer. And the "me personally" always tryna soften the blow.
They hardly brought up anything theyd do for the man that meets their standards or what those type of men are looking for
ummm maybe because they weren’t asked … tf?!!
@@flatbush9117EXACTLY! I’m thinking some of the “men” in the comments are illiterate
Thanks guys! It was a refreshing thing to see adults have a mature conversation. My 38 yr old son told me about you guys. I’m an older woman but it’s interesting to see how the younger community is living. And I have to say many times than not I don’t like the young ladies that you have on the show. Lately,I must say you guys have improved on the female guests. Keep up the good work. Happy Holidays!
Those are the women we have to choose from.
I love the internet when they discover a new word they run it into the ground " emotional intelligence " by women who literally have none smh
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49:12 A mid 30's woman who's willing to spend 25k for the possibility of finding a man isn't the pick of the liter. When you pursue money over family then try to hit a buzzer beater by hiring "match making wall service" before you lose your last egg, you know you're in for bad times.
I keep telling these brothers in the comments that these women are no different than Sukihana and Sexyy Red. The only difference is that they have degrees. The current state of black women in this country is abysmal.
@@tabootabletalkpodcast verified facts
Then they still want you to have at least one hundred k to fund their lifestyles.I can't wait to sign up for that.
Us black men are the most emotionally intelligent & emotionally mature people on this planet because we've been through the most. We care about others most of the time but we don't get the same treatment in return and that is a FACT. Now I'm not saying black women are not emotionally intelligent but they're definitney not as emotionally intelligent as us.
Maannn literally always catering to the needs of others while constantly being silenced and ignored emotionally, the only emotion they acknowledge from us is always the anger and rarely the love
The best conversation I have watched yet!!
Finally finished the vido and Salute the DRC and the women on the panel for the entertainment
The black female doctor is intellectually astute and explained ev'ry thing in laymen's terms... Please have her back on the show....
All she was missing was actual facts regarding average earnings. That was a sad and unnecessary lie.
@@usmanvcxyou feel some way lol 😂
@AliciaBee89 in her case she is probably going to make more but on avg blk men still make more
@@josephcharles3460agreed, but dude was under other comments it was just funny! Like lets stop being against one another
@@Cole57576 what are you babbling about, what comment??? It’s nothing wrong with women earning more than men if it’s a fact, but I’m guessing you don’t like correcting lies especially when it’s in your benefit.
I get what she was saying about the age difference. My husband has a daughter my age, and another about 8-10 years older than me. People automatically assumed I was going to use or take advantage of him. For all I knew, he was living on Social Security and food stamps 🤷🏽 However, he was there for me in a time of grief, taking care of me and showing me love. If not for him, I might have sent myself out of here. He may be nearly 30 years my senior, but this love is real❤✊🏽
I appreciate you sharing that with us … maybe you would like to join us one day and share that on the platform
Na that’s suspect on his part.
30 years that’s crazy. Guess it depends if you’re 30 okay. But dam that’s too big of a gap. That’s some weak sperm.
Great testimony! There is nothing wrong with older men dating a younger woman. Im 43 and I dont date anything over 35. I probably never will.
Best panel by far. Perspective is everything, know the characteristics of the ppl in your village is your first step to happiness.
Yes, beautiful certified dark skin flowers; great show fellas
Thank you!
I think one of the biggest opportunities of having a real conversation was missed in this. It was touched briefly, but going deeper into sacrifice. understanding that you can limit your ability to qualify for most by chasing a career so then the question becomes what is more important to you having a successful career or having a successful family. Because very few can truly do both.
These women remind me of my aunts and the women in my life. I appreciate this episode for sure ! 🙏🏾
glad you liked it!
I’m a new subscriber… there’s a lot to unfold HOWEVER! Shout out gentlemen ✊🏿💙
Thanks for subbing
The best podcast episode ever fellas! Great quality discussions with quality people
Great conversation yo, I like the way Dr.Harris articulated herself professionally and also to support your partner through whatever trauma they going through and everyone was respectful and I agree that we should stop using our past as an excuse on how we act or treat people in relationships both men and women
I swear it is so soothing to hear emotionally and intellectually in tune sistas ❤. More power to y’all!☮️✊🏾
Another good conversation 👌🏾 I'm on board now I'm new subscriber
Glad to see you're making space for more mature conversations. I don't mind the ratchet stuff, but it's good to have balance.
Glad you liked it!
Absolutely loved this episode!!! Having the match maker on gave some great prospective that I even learned a few things to change up about myself and my dating preferences & options
One of the best discussions.
Congratulations! You guys have just become the best show about men and women ,, 🎉💯😎🎥
glad you liked it!
Lil Brothers. Your show is “Maturing” before our eyes. Growth is a part of “Manhood”, and you all are certainly growing. ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
Appreciate that means a lot
They dont want a Black man, Get 20 Black women in a room and tell them to hold up a card with a picture of the man they want and all 20 will have a picture of the same black man. They dont want black men they want that 1 black man that everybody else want. and what happens is they simply wait their turn.
lol. Respectfully, 20 BM are going to hold up a picture of the same type of women that everybody else wants as well. The sister wasn't lying when she spoke to nonBM preferring natural BW over BM. ❤
None of our men look alike 😂
This was ecstatically knowledgeable. Great segments for the podcast.
Great convo!
It was a breath of fresh air to have educated and beautiful women not trying to put the blame on the opposite gender while still speaking their truths.
I loved listening to the Professionals!!! That took the discussion to the NEXT LEVEL ❤❤
A 45 yr old man with game can absolutely have a 25yr old beautiful woman love him for him. If a man understands women he can get them at any age.
Now this was fire
If women want to be wives, they need to learn how to be a wife. “Show up for the job you want as if you already have it.” They talked about the luxury that white women or any other woman are able to “have it all” but of course they can. They know how to be wives far before they get married. And stop talking about men needing to bring out feminine energy. Y’all are women. You should already be feminine. A man should already be masculine as a woman should already be feminine. Why does a man have to teach his woman how to be a woman? I should be teaching my daughter that, not my wife.
Facts!!!!
Women are naturally feminine but in harsh environments (not "environments" like the climate and trees lol) women will become masculine. Such is the story for a lot of BW. The femininity of a woman is nurtured and watered by the presence of masculinity. A presence that often isn't a part of black homes or black communities. Thus, BW must go it alone unless they expand their options. The reason why men are supposed to be masculine is because men weren't created in response to women. Your masculinity doesn't depend on your reliance on women. It relies on your obedience to God and your ability to fulfill the duties he's set before you. Femininity is measured by our response to the men who are to fulfill those duties (our receptiveness, kindness, peacefulness, ability to submit, prudence, etc..).
Now, I do believe that BW who struggle with returning to their feminine nature need to fix that. They should depend on God to lead them fully, go to therapy, surround themselves with safer people, date for character even if it's outside of the race, etc.. I understand why the masculinity issue is occurring but we must fix it if we want to have a life filled with love and oneness with someone.
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@@gabbygiovanna9011 I hear what you’re saying but there’s one major flaw in everything you’re relaying. I can understand situations and lifestyle of childhood to adulthood can be a factor in how you see and move within the world. That’s fair. However, when you’re talking about the black community, a large portion of us are predominantly raised with a mother, grandmother, auntie, and so forth. So you mean to tell me that all of the black women today have the greatest advantage to be fully surrounded by and raised by women from birth to adulthood (to include, aunts, sisters, cousins, teachers, mothers friends, her friends, her friends mother, etc.) and with all of these representations of womanhood still can’t figure out how to be feminine? From not one woman? While black men in most cases have to find a male role model while growing up and learning how to be a proper man in the world but we have to look for it in sports coaches, TV and media, jail, gangs, or maybe a stepdad and that’s if the growing boy even respects him as a man in general. No. That’s are excuses to be trash.
Also, if you are a women, no one should have to teach you how to be feminine. How to conduct yourself as a lady and wife, for sure. But if you are a woman you instinctively supposed to be feminine. As a man, no man taught me to be masculine. I already was born and instinctively have masculine traits and do masculine things. I was taught how to conduct myself and structure my life as a man. As a woman, elder women teach you how to conduct yourself as a woman, how to utilize your feminine nature in a certain manner. That’s all.
So c’mon, since the dawn of humanity men have been men and women have been women. Masculine and feminine. How we present and conduct ourselves in society has changed over the years but everything has always been the same because there are certain things you are just born with. No excuses about any level of trauma will negate a woman’s femininity. Hasn’t for thousands of years throughout the most treacherous and abysmal times in human history that no one alive today can fathom. On top of that, even with all the trauma and stuggles we may have faced in the last 30-50 years in America doesn’t even compare to what some other people face on a daily basis today.
So, in closing, just as an example. You mean to tell me there’s a woman who escaped the hellish and incredibly impoverished Nation of North Korea can come to America and sit on the Joe Rogan Podcast and have flashbacks about how crippling her life was in her home country and still sit there as feminine, soft, and lovely as ever while exhibiting crushing symptoms of PTSD but a black woman can’t be feminine because of daddy issues and growing up food stamps but still growing up with fresh Jordans or her feet because life was a little tough? And then walk around berating black men about how they need to boss up because even $100,000 a year ain’t enough to live off of? (And the list goes on)
Naw. Not buying it. Lol. A lot black women just stubborn and don’t want to be feminine and since no one will hold them accountable, they relish in the delusion. Every other woman on the planet “got it figured out” no matter their situation but black womens plight is so bad they can’t get it? Naw. Black women just stubborn or delusional. Maybe be both, who knows.
Now, all I’m doing is just calling a spade a spade. If we can’t do that then the community as a whole will always fail and that’s all that’s to it.
Just a little food for thought. The Palestinian people are getting bombed and killed everyday as we speak. Losing their homes, family, starving, and just trying to be alive for at least the next five minutes. You think the Palestinian women had to be forced to be feminine during their time of distress or are they just being women in peril?
I don’t know. I’m pretty sure it never took bombs and bullets for them to be a woman.
@@Surge1808 Because femininity relies so heavily on the presence of masculinity, yes, it's hard for some BW to return to their most natural selves when they have to be the ones protecting and providing. BW absolutely need to return to their feminine nature regardless of the presence of BM or not. But, that means that we must learn and appreciate the utility of men which may mean not always selecting BM.
You think trauma doesn't affect a woman's femininity which isn't true. Trauma caused in direct relation to a man's actions can affect one's femininity especially if the issue is ongoing. The whole nature of femininity is trusting, giving, submitting, being soft, peaceful, etc.. Would you say that those traits are conducive to the harsh realities of the world? No. The world is a harsh place. So, who is supposed to make sure those traits can survive in the world? Men. If those men are hurting you, not protecting you, and abandoning you, then you have 2 options: pick another group of men or adapt to the world. I think my sisters made the wrong decision in adapting to the world. We should've appealed to other groups of men. BW didn't always have the nature BM describe today. We were warm, sweet, hospitable, soft spoken, witty, etc..Men of all races love those traits. But we instead opted to become hard, callous, independent, which wasn't the best choice.
BW are exhausted and begging for protection. Why do you think we don't want to be feminine? Maybe, we don't trust that BM are capable of providing that space for us which is a different story.
Women can withstand a lot with their men. What is happening in Palestine is tragic but Palestinian women aren't being bombed by Palestinian men. So I'm not sure why you brought that up as if Palestinian woman have a reason to mistrust or be masculine with their men.
Part of the generational trauma is men seeking out young girls. Worldwide who learned nothing. He was the father AND teacher. Even if he was living life as an invalid. That mentality is still prevalent today.
What it do what it do what it do! Congrats on your success, DailyRapUpCrew!!
So far so good dialog. First time listener..mature conversation.
I appreciated this video
These women are better at presenting which makes them much better guests than the norm. I wish the guys would elevate too. There are so many times when guests say things that are easily refuted and the fellas miss it. Maybe its just to push the dialog forward but they be getting away with murder. Little black girls are programmed to want to marry a black man? When?? What generation?! Like come on..
Wow thank you so much Steph
I agree, they don’t have the intellectual ability to rebuttal the guests
Yeah I like em but they ain’t Myron Tho
BW are absolutely programmed to stick beside BM. In recent times that has changed as we are becoming more open to dating other races. Their are political, historical, and obvious safety reasons as to why BW were discouraged from dating out. ❤
@@gabbygiovanna9011 example?
This was a phenomenal episode! Amazing, guys!
I loved this episode!
This was a great conversation. The doctor was an excellent addition.
This is the first batch of wonderful ladies I've listened to on this podcast very mature conversation and mindframe
there were others … but of course the ratchetness gets them the most views
This episode is like a breath of fresh air. S/o to the crew. Keep up the good work!!
Thank uou guys so much 🥰🥰🥰
Yeah, a breath of fresh air that suffocates you.
Yea fresh and boring
Profound discussion!
The brothas on this panel , thank you. Thank you.
This has been one of the best podcasts you all have done 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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This was a great panel. Seemed to be alot of good information shared from one gender to the other.
I hope other viewers took note of the choice of women on the pannel, That alone hit me soon as i got through the intoductions. Preciate you for the episode fellas. And keep up with the work yall are putting in.
@dailyrapupcrew this was the best panel ever
glad you like it!
I like at least 85% of your work but most of your female panels seem like they don’t have common sense.
Eli face when Shae said
"Black women are loyal to black men"
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I still wanna know if it’s a loyalty based on want or based on lack of desirability from other ethic groups of men but statistically she’s absolutely right
Good question bro 🤔 I can believe the stats too though to her point, I think most black women just grew up wanting a black a man ya know and holding him, tough to say though what it is.
@@DailyRapUpCrewI believe it’s race loyal 🤷🏽♀️ because I’ve been approached by all races of men. In particular Hispanic men seem to approach me more than any other man. I would like to marry a Black men.
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@@DailyRapUpCrew how black women treat black men is abysmal, so it doesn’t matter how loyal, they are to marrying us. Because if we stop marrying them as a whole, they would never get married. No one wants black women.
They are a good panel but also projecting a lot of female traits from women to men. They might be super toxic in a relationship
Plus the made up stats. These are feminist drones
This episode was so refreshing to hear conversations with intelligent context about the black nucleus of the older intelligent mature black man and black woman coexisting with each other in a positive loving manner.
Glad you liked it!
Big props to how these guys pose their questions, because it shine a huge light on the positions we should be prepared for when we decide to date these types of women. I noticed lots of double standards, I I I, and a lot of acting like going to school takes all of their 20s & 30s, when really other than the doctors, nursing school takes 2-6yrs. In addition, i also noticed lots of red flags leading to depleated dexterity and sticktuitiveness in relationships.