Full Episode: She's A Boss, She Is Beautiful, And Still Can't Keep A Man

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    They love kisses. ...
    Nagging. ...
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    Don't be weak.
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  • @doziee.1093
    @doziee.1093 2 роки тому +24

    Esso has to be the most entertaining cast member, period! He brings maturity, wisdom, and humor every time.

  • @ryanraines28
    @ryanraines28 2 роки тому +15

    Me and my wife both work and we both split the home duties so that’s the middle ground that the couple has to come to

  • @christinak2443
    @christinak2443 2 роки тому +58

    I’m married, work full time and cook. Under one condition!!! It’s not expected of me! I do it out the kindness of my heart. And if I’m tired he cooks.
    Real men cook and step in when needed.

    • @JOSHUAHEROO
      @JOSHUAHEROO 2 роки тому +27

      You don't decide what real men are. You do however are entitled to the type of man you want.

    • @_Iamdmoney
      @_Iamdmoney 2 роки тому +5

      @@JOSHUAHEROO Facts

    • @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149
      @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 2 роки тому +24

      Women have got to stop saying what a real man is. That's like a man defining what a real woman is. By all means say what you find valuable or attractive in a man. But don't try to define manhood.

    • @aberry10
      @aberry10 2 роки тому +4

      EXACTLY! 💯

    • @cutedude13
      @cutedude13 2 роки тому

      @@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 whoooo!!! yall preaching today

  • @SD-rc6dp
    @SD-rc6dp 2 роки тому +10

    These dudes are lost. Af. Black men, get your education. Develop when you’re supposed to. Being this grown and not knowing how two working adults function in a household is sad af.

    • @marioshort6574
      @marioshort6574 Рік тому

      Bw love you argue against us stay over there get you a white man don’t need y’all in our community there men you as a women can’t tell us how to be that goofy

  • @CorneliusSmalleliterealtor
    @CorneliusSmalleliterealtor Рік тому +5

    My marriage is a mixture of traditional and modern. It works for us most of the time it’s only when we don’t communicate effectively is when we get out of alignment.

  • @thewolfofgod369
    @thewolfofgod369 2 роки тому +45

    Every tyme I see Esso I have to tune in and he always delivers #Salute 💪🏾

    • @jadakizz78tulie33
      @jadakizz78tulie33 2 роки тому +7

      Facts. Esso is the reason I still watch

    • @FlightDreamZExtoicz
      @FlightDreamZExtoicz 2 роки тому +2

      @@jadakizz78tulie33 facts 💯🗣

    • @ITSCHANELSWAY
      @ITSCHANELSWAY 2 роки тому +3

      Esso definitely gives me masculine energy and as she should be treated like a king , because he is. Salute ❤️🤴🏽

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 2 роки тому +2

      For real man!!!

  • @not4you305
    @not4you305 2 роки тому +90

    A boss employs others so that they can have time off... if you don’t pay anyone, you’re no boss. The correct title would be a great worker. Maybe an aspiring boss, but that’s all🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @All20Well
      @All20Well 2 роки тому +8

      Facts! Bosses are only bosses if they have EMPLOYEES 💯

    • @Agbahizzal
      @Agbahizzal 2 роки тому +8

      Not to have time off, to maximize time spent.

    • @dantan1249
      @dantan1249 2 роки тому +3

      Exactly. I get what he’s saying but he tends to redefine words to make up for vocabulary he’s lacking.nothing magical about a boss. If that’s literally your title, you’re it. Women don’t have to never rest or take a break to inhabit that title.

    • @not4you305
      @not4you305 2 роки тому +2

      @@dantan1249 true enough.... it only make sense if you apply the same pressure to both genders when it comes to titles

    • @thejacka2936
      @thejacka2936 2 роки тому +9

      @@Agbahizzal and I think, it's not to have time off, a boss employs people because they cant do it alone, period.....if they could, they wouldn't hire anyone.....

  • @myafrosheen
    @myafrosheen 2 роки тому +17

    It's not hard, stop dating guys who are dishonest people who have never shown any good fatherly/husbandly attributes and you'll eliminate a lot of problems. Constantly trying to change men instead of dealing with the men who actually wanna do right by them

  • @adriennethompson3382
    @adriennethompson3382 2 роки тому +10

    Boss men take care of his family; boss bitches take care of themselves.

  • @donb9748
    @donb9748 2 роки тому +17

    Glad y’all got a married dude on the show. Step 2, is keeping the relationship. Let’s go!

  • @jasminewilliams2833
    @jasminewilliams2833 Рік тому

    I’m glad y’all still here having the conversation no one want to discuss in a humbly way thank y’all for being y’all 💕

  • @kenyaparmes1544
    @kenyaparmes1544 Рік тому +2

    Appreciating this conversation very much! Thank y’all! Esso spitting so much honesty and I gotta respect that.

  • @justinrobinson404
    @justinrobinson404 2 роки тому +6

    what men are he talking about , they want a maid. society doesn't deem a man buying groceries as less then

  • @Exclusive12144
    @Exclusive12144 2 роки тому +1

    One of the best shows FINALLY thank you

  • @edwardgilbert3232
    @edwardgilbert3232 2 роки тому +14

    Esso stay dropping 💣, nothing but facts 💯 💪

  • @jblaquestar2399
    @jblaquestar2399 2 роки тому +2

    FLAWLESS VICTORY ✊🏽 Esso..Rico Y'all MJ'd this discussion 💯

  • @taky30
    @taky30 2 роки тому +3

    Why do people always calling out the year like it's something profound that's going to happen ? It's 2022 ! Yes it is because last year was 2021. 🙄🤷‍♀️

    • @ddavis8988
      @ddavis8988 2 роки тому

      Today is what it is, only because yesterday was what it was.

  • @tonydavid492
    @tonydavid492 2 роки тому +16

    Wow, i thought that statement about how some Women don't know how to be a Wife is huge. Just like how some Men are about not knowing how to be a Husband yet. A Wife shouldn't be afraid or intimidated by what other Women think when she is satisfied with her Husband.
    For example, I have personally heard another Women tell my Fiancée how I should treat her i.e. "make sure he get your hair and nails done." I laughed, because my Fiancée can think and speak for herself. But if this is how some Women respond to advice, it's going to be hard for a Women who is looking to become a Wife and have a solid Marriage.
    I believe that good relationships are built between the two people in it, and occasionally with the help of good relationship investors. But definitely not outside people meddling, and the inside people allowing it.

  • @VROC68
    @VROC68 2 роки тому +2

    A lot of women think a wife is what they see on TV, Real housewives of Atlanta etc. Women been lief too from their mothers, and aunts. Most modern women want the wedding and not the marriage

  • @securityteam4871
    @securityteam4871 Рік тому

    Amazing convo and Facts

  • @kwesihicks519
    @kwesihicks519 2 роки тому +13

    This a great show has great content seems like a lot more mature conversation than other podcast

  • @amysteinworth3539
    @amysteinworth3539 2 роки тому +1

    Y’all have some interesting topics and some good points

  • @PurplePillNow
    @PurplePillNow 2 роки тому +4

    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and Everyman can’t get a beautiful woman and visa versa

    • @genovasquez8361
      @genovasquez8361 Рік тому

      There are 2 million more blk wmn then there are blk men, So we can all get beautiful, pretty and gorgeous women. Its a choice.
      We settle for less. I always had beautiful and gorgeous women chasing me since i was teen, i was the one who chased low hanging fruit because i felt rejected because lesser women werent checking for me just the pretty girls.

  • @kenyaparmes1544
    @kenyaparmes1544 Рік тому +1

    Rico, you are something else!! Your views on you and your significant other cracks me up!! Keep living my guy. Leave room for evolution.

  • @jodoug8365
    @jodoug8365 2 роки тому

    Well spoken!!!

  • @mayankingrevisited8815
    @mayankingrevisited8815 2 роки тому +3

    Don't try to save them They don't want to be saved

  • @janeyslime7935
    @janeyslime7935 Рік тому +2

    Both men and women need to listen to their partners, it goes both ways , the fair guy is quite sentimental

  • @annadavis3641
    @annadavis3641 Рік тому

    Rico and Esso are super smart and educated bout something! They have super patience with us... Sometimes and have really good reasoning!!! 💕💕💕

  • @joannamonique707
    @joannamonique707 2 роки тому +2

    You teach people to accept themselves by accepting them. My parents didn't accept a lot of things about me and I internalized that ad these parts of me are not valuable and learned to hide them. Now I have people in my life who accept me just the way I am flaws and all and it's teaching me that those parts of myself were never invaluable and that certain traits simply aren't valued by certain people and I now feel much more free to be myself wether others like it or not.

  • @AJ_roadway
    @AJ_roadway 2 роки тому +5

    Rico talking facts

  • @MissTTurtle
    @MissTTurtle 2 роки тому +58

    This is one of the best shows cause it actually gave the men the floor to say their perception of the new age women and men. It showed how women have perceived men who have money over the years and how men feel about the women who are able to reach the financial level of men who weren't real bosses but goofy ass ppl w money. #bossup😊

  • @chrisjones1000
    @chrisjones1000 2 роки тому +31

    Love it when yal reveal the things that yal aren’t so confident about. Turns the convo from Instagram to real life. For me personally. Keep it up!!! And much love!!!

  • @iMPACTMediaTV1
    @iMPACTMediaTV1 2 роки тому +1

    Love the video ❤❤

  • @shaquayshahill3307
    @shaquayshahill3307 2 роки тому +4

    Someone has to hold the household down either way. The kids today are raising themselves no big momas or grandparents to help.

  • @nubian_queen4471
    @nubian_queen4471 2 роки тому +7

    It is nobody else's job to fix u except you. You can't put that onus on anyone else. Learn to love yourself. Feel whole on your own. And then in turn, you'll attract those like you.

  • @MrJayvigor
    @MrJayvigor 2 роки тому +3

    "Water" Rico
    “Energy is not lost or destroyed, it is merely transferred from one party to the next.” - Sir Isaac Newton

  • @mljonly1me
    @mljonly1me 2 роки тому +1

    Quality of Life 💯

  • @macdessertstudio8349
    @macdessertstudio8349 2 роки тому +4

    This is a constructive conversation.

  • @VeeDeChantilly
    @VeeDeChantilly 2 роки тому +11

    I have always dealt with children as unique image bearers of God, one of a kind, but I've found that they're so many kids that are shocked because they're not used to it. The experience for a child that I'm not try to force them to be what "I" want them to be is refreshing. I primarily practice this with my 4-year-old daughter (extreme extrovert "I'll do it my way") and my 8 year old daughter (the introvert, quick to want to please) and so I have to deal with each personality differently to accomplish sometimes the same goal. But I've found it work for me with all the children as far as I can remember. The beginning of suppressing the individual and by default self-conidence starts with a child's primary interaction with their parents whether they are trying to or not to force them into a mole of their expectations instead of being a guide to their child natural development of self and who they are, many parents are bullies.....🤨😓 Whether it's with what their children eats, dresses or areas of interest and passion individual must be allowed to explore who they are without manipulation, which is not the same as guidance. 🧐

  • @Rachel_K
    @Rachel_K 2 роки тому +25

    The ego’s on this stage are 🤮. Watching the kids??? Are they y’all kids? Are you a babysitter? You were home from 9-2 and you couldn’t cook because you needed to prove a point that she wants to be a boss? What happen to teamwork? If you want a woman who wants to stay home, why not just be with that type of woman?
    Y’all started off with asking her about women worrying about what their friends say. Which I agree. However, y’all are worried about what society will think about a man not showing up as society’s standards of a man🤔. A woman or man who is one with their true self, is not concerned with society on anyone else’s standards or views on how they should be.
    You need someone to babysit you cause if you’re alone for too long, you’ll not be able to control and discipline yourself? (Ego)
    A woman isn’t a boss if she isn’t doing all the jobs? But a man is a boss if he works so much that he sacrifices showing up fully in his children’s lives? Men sacrifice that job all the time in order to get to the money, so is he not a boss? That is your ego speaking.
    How about we all let go of societies standards, figure out who we are and what inspires us individually and go towards that.
    Y’all really are having a power struggle. Die to your ego. Men don’t have to make 6/7 figures. Women don’t have to stay home. We all have to live and die, and in between that time how about we strengthen our ego’s so we aren’t falling victim to social constructs that are built and can be broken down.
    What’s the point of being in relationships with ppl who don’t meet your needs just to battle them on it? What’s the point of debating back and forth about how ppl outside of you want to live their lives. That’s your ego trying to get other people to adjust to what you want. Power struggle. Control. Instead control yourself and go where your ppl are.
    Women and men need to retire this “boss” word. We have really ran it in the whole thanks to our ego’s needing validation. Everybody is a boss but doesn’t understand how to lead. Leading with your ego is deadly,

    • @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149
      @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 2 роки тому +5

      This comment needs to be Pinned.

    • @cemeciam.4019
      @cemeciam.4019 2 роки тому +2

      Speak on it, Sis!! Thank you, I want a partnership. If I work and you work, where there’s a will there’s a way. I couldn’t date or marry a man who doesn’t understand teamwork and partnership. These men be requiring the most and giving the least. Not all men but the ones on this panel… Lord have mercy! 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @cutedude13
      @cutedude13 2 роки тому +1

      how can you get on dudes for being pressured by SOCIETY but you can't even take your own advice for your 3 lil ol dusty girlfriends

    • @fkhowyoufeelaboutit
      @fkhowyoufeelaboutit 2 роки тому +1

      What he was saying is. For example. lets say a man buys u your dream car but the deal is that u pay the insurance. Fair enough right? So let's say the man is home all day that day and ask you later why is the car so dirty? You would be a u greatful woman to say to that man. Well you was home all day, why didnt u wash the car.
      Meaning we already do most of the work and y'all make y'all little task bigger than what they are

    • @cemeciam.4019
      @cemeciam.4019 2 роки тому

      @@fkhowyoufeelaboutit Huh? How would that make a woman ungrateful? No, why didn’t he wash the car and he’s been sitting his lazy ass at home all day!? Eating Bon Bons and playing Mortal Combat… Mind you, there’s food in the kitchen cooked for you to eat but you want to sit there and eat junk food. Making my life a living hell! I’ve been working all day and had to ride home in a dirty car. Yes, you bought it! But it’s a partnership, you could have went up there to QuickTrip and got my car washed and vacuumed out. Plus you be the MAIN one driving in my sh$& and leaving the gas tank on Empty. That pisses me off, especially when you know that my drive to work is 45 minutes to an HOUR in Atlanta traffic! That just goes to show you, that YOU are entitled and lazy. Expecting me to do everything just because you bought it. Don’t get it twisted, I could have purchased the car myself just like I purchased the one I have before you came sniffing along in my life. 🙄😒

  • @Exclusive12144
    @Exclusive12144 2 роки тому

    Rico you make sense!

  • @mutsaushewokunze6522
    @mutsaushewokunze6522 2 роки тому +1

    Disagree a wife can not be "partner". A wife is a "team player", she plays her role, not equal but different.

  • @bigdog3555
    @bigdog3555 2 роки тому +1

    For real both sides really don't know what they getting into until you get into it.

  • @ItssTDuhh
    @ItssTDuhh 2 роки тому +1

    inner healing before yall date ppl cause not everyone family dynamic the same to learn all the same lessons

  • @apeaceofhype
    @apeaceofhype Рік тому

    First 15 min was powerful!

  • @joequesada2239
    @joequesada2239 Рік тому

    very good video

  • @larrydickens5422
    @larrydickens5422 Рік тому +1

    To be married. You sure can't keep your hands off a woman that's not yours. Some men gets their jaw sideways for doing that. Actions speaks louder than words.

  • @PurplePillNow
    @PurplePillNow 2 роки тому

    He made a good point they don’t be knowing if they are making a good decision but like she said women do give us a lot of chances when they get all the signs they need to leave.

  • @latoinarobicheaux9566
    @latoinarobicheaux9566 2 роки тому

    Esso is the GOAT!!!!

  • @Baltimorejohn1
    @Baltimorejohn1 2 роки тому +2

    Preach Rico many do want the role of a child!!!!
    Children look to be taken care of adults take of themselves and others…
    As a man I prefer a woman that can stand with me not beneath me nor above me…
    I can’t take care of you like a child then see you as an equal….

  • @bigdog3555
    @bigdog3555 2 роки тому

    He made a good point when ur down you have to build urself back up. When men get hurt we put up this wall that's hard to break. We have to go through the motions get back to our original self

  • @marckristian81
    @marckristian81 Рік тому +2

    What you find a lot of the time is that they want to be boss because they think that means being in charge and not having to awnser to anyone when it really means that you're responsible for everything and have to be able/willing to do all tasks required for the common goal.

    • @theoneandonlynophoney1864
      @theoneandonlynophoney1864 Рік тому

      It’s also means boss nighas around and to deal with a boss chick you’re probably a simp or beta,

  • @Thespokenone
    @Thespokenone 2 роки тому +3

    A boss has paid employees, let's not water down definitions.

  • @gugucastro3796
    @gugucastro3796 2 роки тому +22

    I agreee with Esso and definitely agree with Rico when he said a boss gets ALL the job done ✅ 💯💯

    • @cutedude13
      @cutedude13 2 роки тому +2

      how bout being submissive to your man

    • @gugucastro3796
      @gugucastro3796 2 роки тому

      @@cutedude13 It’s a balance you gotta have ! I’ve been with my husband ten years and I’m submissive. I’m with a decent human being who matches my same moral compass, so being submissive to my partner isn’t a problem and vice versa

    • @cutedude13
      @cutedude13 2 роки тому +2

      @@gugucastro3796 what u mean vice versa, he’s submissive back? How?

    • @hypergummy1266
      @hypergummy1266 2 роки тому

      @@cutedude13 women want submissive alpha males. It makes literally no sense to men but makes perfect sense to women, so you're gonna waste your time trying to understand

    • @cutedude13
      @cutedude13 2 роки тому

      @@hypergummy1266 i understand, I’m just tryna figure out how you’re submissive back, what’s all the ways you’re submissive

  • @ItssTDuhh
    @ItssTDuhh 2 роки тому +1

    confidence is keyy frfr

  • @Southpaw42
    @Southpaw42 2 роки тому

    I’m Judging You Rico!! 😂😂😂😂😂 You Are Wicked!

  • @VeeDeChantilly
    @VeeDeChantilly 2 роки тому +9

    I'm tired BS is what I was hearing for a minute like years while I was being Mr dad and Mr Mom to our two little daughters, her excuse was I'm tired because I'm working but she didn't have to and when she was off it was her time. She wanted to work she loved Independence the power and the money , facts, that's why all these boss bees are by themselves with side dude.🤨

  • @hankrhule1556
    @hankrhule1556 Рік тому

    Can agree with the discussion from the show that's visible to today if women love Thiers men as to discuss matters that pertains to our differences and not to disagree to their comforts.

  • @terrellpayton9512
    @terrellpayton9512 2 роки тому +15

    I love the fact that black men can have a conversation with black women like this. At 1:05:48 when she said “as a woman” shit shut down real fast out of respect for the woman in the room to get her side off. Little stuff like that makes me enjoy watching these types of conversations. Where black men and women can actually communicate both sides and not be shut down by the other party because they feel offended. Let’s talk yamean💯 I love it 🔥🔥

    • @MAN9027
      @MAN9027 2 роки тому +2

      it's only because there is only one woman and two guys. If there was another black woman there would be chaos.

    • @MultiDiceman
      @MultiDiceman 2 роки тому +1

      and yet we are the most disrespected males by our female counterparts on the planet

  • @yennettesmith2628
    @yennettesmith2628 2 роки тому

    I have let go of the reigns. Then I get questioned why something hasn’t been done when he said he would do it.

  • @msve3730
    @msve3730 2 роки тому +10

    I'm gonna need the generalization to ✋ 🚫⛔⛔ I have been working since I was 16. No man has NEVER taking care of me. Not even my father and he was present. I have been muling all my life. And im tired. So if there is any man out there that wants to take care of me then reveal yourself because I'm tired AF.

    • @EnthuZst
      @EnthuZst 2 роки тому +7

      Women just don't understand that we are literally built for that, ya'll aren't (no offense but men and women are different). Yes we get tired too but we have more resilience in that regard. Women are strong and resilient as well just not in the same way that men are... And that's ok cause we have different roles.
      Much love

    • @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149
      @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 2 роки тому +6

      @@EnthuZst Exactly. Kevin Samuels said it best. "Shoulders are for bearing pressure. Hips are for bearing children" Women can work like a man. But most can't endure it like a man.
      Men don't beat our chest about providing for ourselves. Men don't talk about being tired of it. This is what we're built to do. This is basic for us. Where as most women see it as noteworthy. Because this is unnatural for most of them.

    • @johnmunga
      @johnmunga 2 роки тому +5

      you and an exception but you are tired.we have no option none but to keep going .its even seen as weakness to say that we are tired

    • @williamcarrington1705
      @williamcarrington1705 2 роки тому

      Right here

    • @wi77iama773n
      @wi77iama773n 2 роки тому

      so you lived on your own at 16 as well or you had your on spot as will where you took care of all the bills and maintenance of your home?

  • @leelu05nj46
    @leelu05nj46 Рік тому

    20:35 he makes a good point. Society does say ‘why is your man at home and not doing anything’ if the woman is the one that works. But if the man is working and the woman stays home, the woman is not seen as ‘not doing anything’. I believe this all started back in the day when woman weren’t allowed to work and men were the only providers. And even thought we are in 2022 (when video was out) we still have that same mentality.

  • @SimonBoafo
    @SimonBoafo 2 роки тому +3

    That selfish part is called solipsism and it’s with every woman. The good woman’s attitude masks this feature unconsciously

  • @CalmVibes00
    @CalmVibes00 2 роки тому +1

    I always said most women listen to comment not to understand. When ever a guy is trying to say something she will cut him off to tell him how he should feel. Not waiting until he finish his thoughts so she can get the full understanding. So now he checks out.

  • @Jman109
    @Jman109 2 роки тому +5

    Webster definition of Boss. A person who is in charge of a worker, group, or organization.
    "I asked my boss for a promotion" Not a woman who’s making money and paying her own bills!!!

    • @coopergary2129
      @coopergary2129 2 роки тому +2

      Right, that's called being an adult

    • @Jman109
      @Jman109 2 роки тому

      Exactly!!!

    • @212stokes5
      @212stokes5 Рік тому

      @frank Johnson They are not going by the Webster dictionary definition of boss they’re going by the life definition. A boss is somebody who manages and is charge and excels in all aspects of their life. It doesn’t just mean a literal boss. It’s someone who can be in charge financially, can take the lead and can run their household effectively. According to this half of the men out there are not bosses. Some are not financially stable and for those who are they lack emotional intelligence or the responsibility of getting mental health hell/ therapy for their generational trauma. It’s weird to me when I see men so willing to discredit women. I’m picking up on mysogynistic undertones here.

    • @Jman109
      @Jman109 Рік тому

      Misogynistic? Why the insult??? Everything that you mentioned in your long drawn out soliloquy is exactly what I said it was, it’s called being an adult!!! And you’re just like the modern woman when a man has an opinion that doesn’t line up with yours you insult them. I’m sensing a bit of Misandry here!

  • @savonlove5513
    @savonlove5513 Рік тому +1

    What I don't get is if you're a woman who makes more money than your man all of a sudden you're acting like the man but if you have little to no money you're probably a goal digger...
    I love the show because the men had a voice to speak their truth.

  • @deecool6327
    @deecool6327 Рік тому

    If you're left alone, you don't know what you can get into? That's very immature. Also, if both are working, both contribute to the running of the household. Times have changed.

  • @carmelcapricorn7701
    @carmelcapricorn7701 2 роки тому

    All the above 4 me. Looks, spirituality. Your character. 2 each their own. 👜💄👠📈

  • @shaquayshahill3307
    @shaquayshahill3307 2 роки тому +3

    Its called the honeymoon stage. Look people pretend to be what another person is looking for until their true self reveal who they truly are. The world is a stage most are acting out the lives they are not living. Truth be told If people get to the uncomfortable conversations in the beginning then they set them selves up to be a caregiver to past pains.

  • @kamleshscott8158
    @kamleshscott8158 2 роки тому +9

    WOMEN KEEP LISTENING TO YOUR MISERABLE PEERS IF YOU WANT TO, YALL GONNA BE SINGLE/A CAT LADY/ ALONE & EVEN IF YOU GET THE DUDE YOU’LL STILL FIND A WAY TO MESS IT UP B/C YOU NEED TO BE MASCULINE, DECIDE IF YOU WANT TO BE THE WONAN OR THE DUDE IN THE RELATIONSHIP, THE CHOICE IS YOURS

    • @EnthuZst
      @EnthuZst 2 роки тому +3

      Bomb.. Facts!

    • @cemeciam.4019
      @cemeciam.4019 2 роки тому +8

      At this time, us women do not care about being alone. It’s better to have a peace of mind than a piece of a man. We will not be gaslit or manipulated into being with men who do not cut the standard and meet our expectations. So I’ll take the 3 cats for $600, Alex!! 👏🏾👏🏾

    • @HumbleJames2177
      @HumbleJames2177 2 роки тому

      @@cemeciam.4019 lol yes y’all do care about being alone, then when y’all realize the men y’all want don’t want y’all or can’t find a simp to be with y’all that’s when reality hits then creates the delusional mindset that I don’t mind being alone speech, but really y’all mad that y’all messed up and too picky and don’t want to admit that.

    • @cutedude13
      @cutedude13 2 роки тому +1

      ​@@cemeciam.4019 smh another one, what a waste for the black community // yall so lazy at improving for a man when we have for yall that yall rather die alone (sound like we found the weakest link)

    • @arleneaugustahair8393
      @arleneaugustahair8393 2 роки тому +2

      Times have definitely changed. There are a lot of women who don’t mind being alone. Look at how people portray their relationships on social media as the perfect couple, then BAM one of them are dead and it’s mostly women pushing up dandelions.
      Men can’t just lead with their finances anymore. Men actually have to be likable and most men aren’t really likable.
      My dad literally had to sit my husband down and explain to him how I was raised because we have a huge culture clash. My husband wanted a traditional wife with a modern way of thinking. I was raised in a strict Latino household where my dad didn’t have my mom pay any bills. My dad was a provider and protector. My dad has ALWAYS been in my life. I speak to my dad often. When I go to visit him, I cook, clean and everything like I always did. When I visit my father-in-law, I do the same. My father-in-law was confused in the beginning but he got used to it. My husband didn’t understand until he saw how easier things flowed within the marriage. He’s not coming home to a messy house, no food and an angry tired and pissed off wife. My husband doesn’t make 6 figures but we definitely live comfortably. He’s only lucky because I was already a Disabled Veteran when he met me. I don’t ask him for money and if something needs to be done in the house, I have my own toolkit. When he deployed, he didn’t have to worry about me because I handle business.

  • @DeandraAdriana
    @DeandraAdriana Рік тому

    Esso gives king energy.

  • @Bluegill_Hunter
    @Bluegill_Hunter 2 роки тому +5

    Good points, but one thing I do disagree with is I don't care how much money I got my kids are going to work. They need to teach the generation coming behind me how to grind and hustle to get that money, if not the making money dies with me. Building generational wealth.

    • @cutedude13
      @cutedude13 2 роки тому +1

      that's FACTS, we still love em but they gotta build that purpose when we gone

    • @arleneaugustahair8393
      @arleneaugustahair8393 2 роки тому

      Making money is good but what about teaching them how to save and invest. My nephew lived with me and I managed his finances. He has more in a Roth IRA than the average man. It’s not about how much you make but how much you keep.

  • @jasminewilliams2833
    @jasminewilliams2833 Рік тому

    “Quality of life “

  • @jatonsmith5663
    @jatonsmith5663 2 роки тому +1

    Cause connection is a booger 🐺🤣

  • @jadakizz78tulie33
    @jadakizz78tulie33 2 роки тому +6

    I can't take nothing Rico say at face value. He's a self proclaimed dog now all of a sudden he's giving relationship advice?? Listen to the message ignore the messenger.

  • @dawnraquel6891
    @dawnraquel6891 Рік тому +1

    Woman dont tell their friends as much info as yall think

  • @hopesdaughter5947
    @hopesdaughter5947 2 роки тому +7

    Order fckn Chinese food, stop at the West Indian restaurant. Wtf. Marriage is a partnership and it tilts both ways. All hands on deck, all clean, cook, etc. The woman can do that stuff and work or run something. I was an adjunct professor, operating my brick and mortar and having a plate in the microwave for my ex-husband to warm when he got home. And when I was tired, he picked up something for all of us or we went to his parents for dinner, or picked up food from his parents because she cooked a lot, etc. Ebbs and flows, true partnership. There are men and women that can do that together seamlessly, holding down the house, family and businesses, as long as there is authenticity, honesty, no gaslighting and no emotional or physical harm.
    Edit: One thing a man can do right now to hold onto his relationship... Heal your childhood wounds, supressed abuses and environmental PTSD.

    • @KNETWORK100
      @KNETWORK100 Рік тому

      Eating out is a waste of money. It's Bad money management and this is why whores had pimps bc they're bad w money. Not only are you saying eat out, your saying "order fckn Chinese food" in a cantankerous tone, that's the problem, the arrogance and odiousness of "boss babes" . Men don't want that, your husband jus does it bc he has to fill that gap you left empty. He's getting food from his parents house bc they cook a lot? No! His MOTHER cooks a lot and rightfully so.

    • @hopesdaughter5947
      @hopesdaughter5947 Рік тому

      @@KNETWORK100 I'm not a "boss whatever" you called it. I'm a grown woman, a mother of healthy (physically, mentally and emotionally) children, and I was an employer and a college professor simultaneously. The food references like Chinese food were just that, nothing more. I was throwing out examples of meal types regardless of one's food preferences and health consciousness. Not to intentionally purchase that exact food.
      I cooked and continue to cook at home everyday or a large meal that can last over several days with the exception of (back then) eating out maybe 2 times a month, because WE enjoyed certain restaurants which were part of our date nights or after an outing with our children. And yes the occasional let's have something different or my Mom told me to stop by and pick up x, y, or z.
      Yes, THEY cook at his parents house because there were 3 women in his parents house to take turns cooking... his sister, mother and grandmother.
      I'm giving an attitude purposefully because normally I don't, but on this I want to give one so I did. The commentary, like on other channels is many times full of ignorance, narrow-mindedness, paternalism and narcissism. And most of the time from men who have never even been married. Thus, they speak on what they have not even experienced. Fake conscious people living in fraudulent identities online. You can go to my IG there is nothing fraudulent or half anything about me. I'm the truth on levels I have no time nor energy to even attempt for your comprehension.
      This reply, and this only reply, (unless the administrator of this UA-cam channel deletes it) is for any females, women and mothers 💖🫶🏽🙏🏽💪🏽🌟 who come across it to know that you can be all things and "that thing" he claims to want, desire and need and he, not you, but him, he is not the one. Many times because he has unhealed trauma or he's suppressing hidden childhood abuse. He is not in true relationship with you if he holds those pains, because if he doesn't have those internal demons then he can work through anything with you in full love and honor of each other. This reply is not for the hyperlinked name up at the top. 😂 Sisters, authentically whole men who have peace in their spirit lead from a position of high integrity, true love and true respect. They also know how to converse with women, and not to run game, but to elevate and be in harmony. Many BM need to go take The Nation's "Million Man March Pledge" and get their minds right before approaching any female. ☮️

  • @houseofmatrix6174
    @houseofmatrix6174 2 роки тому +4

    Since you a Boss where my sh*t at 😹😹😹😹😹. Esso & Rico was shooting 30 for 30 .

  • @ShortsEntertaimentTV
    @ShortsEntertaimentTV 4 місяці тому

    I've never met a boss without employees.

  • @LossLeadas
    @LossLeadas 2 роки тому +5

    most women have a MASCULINE SPIRIT which is wicked and a sin according to the most high.
    Ecclesiasticus 25:23-24
    [23]A wicked woman abateth the courage, maketh an heavy countenance and a wounded heart: a woman that will 👉🏿not comfort her husband in distress👈🏿 maketh weak hands and feeble knees.
    [24]👉🏿Of the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die.

  • @VROC68
    @VROC68 2 роки тому +3

    Men and women are not equal. Men in the top 20% have plenty of options because from the bottom to the top want those Men. Women are born with value but Men have to make their value and for men its no shelf life. But women has a time frame 🤔

  • @bigdog3555
    @bigdog3555 2 роки тому

    That's another problem they don't want to talk to us because they don't want to be judge, told they doing wrong, or what they doing isn't right because they feel like they do no wrong

  • @kareemsheppard2669
    @kareemsheppard2669 2 роки тому +3

    What about an episode where those in relationships their significant other comes on and says if they really are who they say they are in relauonships,enjoy the fire content, would loooove to see that episode especially the girl rico dealing with see if he is that tough guy

    • @aberry10
      @aberry10 2 роки тому +1

      YESSS, RITE I WOULD SURELY LUV DAT 💯!

  • @TheDes2437
    @TheDes2437 Рік тому

    A boss delegates. A boss doesn’t do everything.

  • @violettemarius2238
    @violettemarius2238 2 роки тому +1

    I can’t wait to be uncontrolled.As I am single I take care of things the way I can. I like a man be In control ,be a provider even I can still work part time. I like my freedom.

    • @cutedude13
      @cutedude13 2 роки тому +1

      yikes, run bro, she gon stay wanting her freedom til the day she die

  • @toneyfox6328
    @toneyfox6328 2 роки тому +2

    Def go both ways but I have noticed a lot of capping in women

  • @NeenahAmbrosia
    @NeenahAmbrosia Рік тому

    I know men who tell their business to every coworker in hearing distance

  • @openmindchannel1978
    @openmindchannel1978 2 роки тому +1

    There are different people for everybody put there , for you to meet these person who will reflect you and your life style , you will need to be your authentic self .. I ,et my Fiancee she runs businesses , she is intelligent , confident and ambitious , but me i am just an average dude with a great personality , but we still match it other and are very happy together ..

  • @212stokes5
    @212stokes5 Рік тому +1

    Rico suave doesn’t know what a boss is. What he’s forgetting to mention is that when his girlfriend came home at five and he supposedly was at home for the day, why didn’t he cook if he was home from 9 to 3 PM? Women who stay at home watch kids and cook all the time. So why didn’t you fulfill orders of those duties before getting the sitter going to work and going to the gym? I’m confused. And if you’re both tired it’s called Uber eats or DoorDash it’s not that complicated. It seems to me that both of these men are saying that to be a boss a woman has to bring in money and work cook and clean but the funny thing is they don’t seem to cook and clean and work. So how are the bosses if they’re not doing all of these things either?

  • @GraceDinma
    @GraceDinma 2 роки тому +7

    Y’all woulda hated me! Everything said in this video was like the most basic thoughts men have on this issue. Some points were valid but overall prepubescent 😂 and idk what sis was here for, not being rude just confused. Was she supposed to be the voice of women?? Lol this almost felt like I was watching two grown men bully a girl into submission

    • @livinmabestlife
      @livinmabestlife 2 роки тому +2

      Exactlyyyy. It was hard to watch

    • @212stokes5
      @212stokes5 Рік тому

      She is only the host. It’s not a discussion but more of a Q & A from the male perspective with her as the host. But there is a few times they spoke over her, she needed to command the room more.

  • @phylisrockete1
    @phylisrockete1 Рік тому

    Another one-sided conversation.

  • @CorneliusSmalleliterealtor
    @CorneliusSmalleliterealtor Рік тому

    You’re not a boss if you have no employees. You’re a serial entrepreneur or independent contractor

  • @Sacha4sure
    @Sacha4sure 2 роки тому +1

    She was super dry and that monotone voice is kiillliiinnngggg meeee lol

  • @tonyk8163
    @tonyk8163 2 роки тому

    Esso hey baki you’re not that guy…. You’re not that guy pal you’re not that guy….. 😂😂😂😂

  • @bigdog3555
    @bigdog3555 2 роки тому

    They don't know how to listen to us at all.

    • @bigdog3555
      @bigdog3555 2 роки тому

      But want us to listen to them

  • @1flash3571
    @1flash3571 2 роки тому +1

    IT IS BAD for Children to NOT WORK (after they grow up). That creates Spoiled, and ruined Child. They need a purpose in life. Work is a way for them to have purpose.

  • @unpopularopinionpodcast24
    @unpopularopinionpodcast24 Рік тому

    Why he keep quoting the income as half a million and a million? Shits annoying

  • @ShortsEntertaimentTV
    @ShortsEntertaimentTV 4 місяці тому

    When woman make money they call themselves independent or boss babes. When men make money we don't ever say we're independent. We look for someone we can take care of and build with.

  • @Skyte777
    @Skyte777 2 роки тому

    @8AtTheTable Kevin Samuels RIP said it best "Single Women Keep Women Single!"

  • @jalynhightower4268
    @jalynhightower4268 Рік тому

    Rico be speaking facts 🗣️