Unreleased Full Episode: What Does She Bring To The Table and Is Chivalry Dead
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Unreleased Full Episode: What Does She Bring To The Table and Is Chivalry Dead
This is the full one-hour episode of our most viral episode. This conversation was seen by over 50 million people on all social media platforms including Instagram, Tik Tok Facebook, and Twitter. The debate continues about what should a woman bring to the table and is chivalry dead.
Are Most Relationships Based On Finance? What If She Earns More Than Her Man?
Nearly 30% of American wives in heterosexual dual-income marriages earn more than their husbands, according to 2018 data from the Bureau of Labor Statistics. That's been increasing over time: In 1987, only 18% of wives claimed breadwinner status in marriages where both partners worked. This trend upsets established gender norms, and research shows it can increase strife in relationships and even lead couples to misrepresent their incomes.
This video talks about what should a woman bring to the table if she earns more...
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“But youre not”
“But i can”
“But youre not”
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“But youre not and not willing to”
The best depiction on this topic.
Facts bro. Man listen you can have all the money in the world. If your not spending it on us it’s useless.
She will short term tho until she finds someone she finds acceptable. That's the point. Having her own money allows her to move on to the next and yall hate it lmao
She a simp dater. She’s irrelevant
That killed her argument
@@joannamonique707 The problem she won’t be happy. She’ll continue the cycle until she’s no longer viable or she changes her behavior.
I pray to God my daughter never falls victim to a Rico. Which is why as a woman it is so important to me to be mindful of the example I set forth to my daughter. She will mirror me...my behaviors, my habits, what I tolerate, etc. Although I am a little sad about turning 30 this year, I am thankful for the growth and knowledge I gained in my 20's & I will pass that onto my child.
With all due respect please don't turn your daughter into another you for your past trauma and inability to keep a man.. If anything make her better than you were and that starts by not trauma dumping.
@@1jiggaa umm excuse me, Im married? To my daughters father at that... so idk who you are referring to when you speak of somebody's inability to keep a man. Which is why it's important to mind your business & speak only of what you know & not of what you assume..."with all due respect" 🤣
@@christinarose6957 Let his ass know....
@@tashajones3661: 😂😂😂😂
@@1jiggaa: I guess she told YOU, huh? 😂😂😂
If Erins husband hears this and they don’t have a conversation about her comments. Rico is right. She’s not married to a man.
Facts. The dude is a simp checked the ig already
Like real talk bro
@@zpfourreact3930 ohhh ok cool. I see. 😂😂
Correct she married too a simp so called man
Lol he can’t say nothing u can tell she’s the man of the house and I bet her man ain’t saying nothing cause he’s probably cheating on her and she probably doesn’t know
Greeting someone at the door should never come with conditions. Its called manners.
The fact Erin has a list of viscous jugular hit insults always stewing in her mind, for the man she's in a relationship for. That's a major red flag, I hope she understands that.
She constantly wants to argue. She's showing big red flags and signs of unresolved issues....
It's a sign of deep, serious anger issues. She's extremely angry about something, likely stemming from her youth.
She’s a simp dater with stats that don’t mean shit because they are not from real men
@@tl3233 no cap..she wants to be in control to feel like she the shit..and have her way by making her man feel like shit, he aint shit. When women request equality it always looks like that when you assess it.
@@liquid_gxld never understood why it’s okay to openly expect and talk about a mans household role, in public across the board too 🤦🏿♂️ . Ladies say stuff like “why ima pay bills when you the man”. Stuff like “Yeah I can take the trash out but why I’ma do it when he right there. Now let you say let you say sumn like she gone be appointed to all cleaning and cooking just cuz she’s the woman. All hell breaks loose. Then five mins later ask them what they bring to the table. First thing on the list be cooking and cleaning lol I’m like cmon mane. I clean and do my thang in the kitchen so that line always kills me . Most women want you to be fully invested but trust and believe they will never be always one foot out one foot close enough to your wallet for survival. Just how it goes
The fact is everyone in this video is hung up on money and material possession and no one is talking about real value, for example, moral compass, character, personality, spiritual health, mental health. These are the only things that truly matter. Money comes and goes away and if all you can focus on is material possession then you have a lot of growth to do as a person.
Amen ❤
The only thing Rico and Oliver proved by not being willing to ring the doorbell is that the minimum level of respect people show each other has dropped to almost 0.
When men love u they want to meet her parents
I would like to know, how many of people on this panel were raised by an involved father and mother.
At least the man knows that you have an involved father in her life...
I have watched enough of this nonsense...
@@wlee5726: Same.
I am not a father but I have dated daughters. In the world today as a safety factor I want the dad of the family to know who I am to convey that I have her safety in mine. Just in case something happens. This goes to character.
You Sir are gentleman, and a paragon of integrity.
My dad has saved me from a lot of heart-breaks and drama by meeting the guys I've dealt with. If their intentions weren't to do right by me, they were more likely to tell me they couldn't meet the standard because there is a man (My Dad) they would have to give an account to if they're playing games. 🤷🏽♀️🥰
If you get a women that is successful and rely on her, she will treat you like a clown
Period
Only if u let her.
Rashaan is 💯% correct in damn near every point he made from a REAL man's/Father's perspective
YES!!
Chivalry when practiced consistently is the revelation of a man's character. When pursuing a women she deserves to be treated with excellence; the best version of yourself should never be pretentious and or compromised. If you condone the behavior a man displays, you are nurturing the flaws that will rob the happiness you seek.
Real man talking!!
Okay….so a woman needs a man to provide financial advice for her own money she earned make it make sense why would need someone to manage money that I earned y’all must think woman are dumb
It seems like the women don’t know what they want overall. You want the man to want to take care of you “because he’s supposed to”, yet he still has no leverage in the relationship
This the one!
This is EXACTLY y women r meant 2b lead
@@biggmixxo 100%
Cause y'all abuse it big time.
Erin won't be married long with that attitude
The better question is what do you bring to the table outside of what can be bought?
You shouldn’t be asking that your a man
A father meeting a man for you as a woman is smarter than most women will ever know. A dad would be able to tell you some things about that young man that the woman will not see
Same as a big brother telling his sis about a dude
100% agreed
🎯 having a father meet a prospective partner is like bringing a mechanic to a car purchase. Only makes sense
Chilvary is not dead. It is a love language. Called “acts of service”
That’s what the nice guys do which y’all never go for.
@Q.D.B Blood no that’s clearly what YOU did for a woman that rejected you and now your butt hurt. I see a lot of cornball men on here who are upset that they’ve been rejected whining x it’s easy for men with bruised egos to come on a forum
Like this and start bashing women.
@@q.d.bblood6307 Like you all don't go for the no sex before marriage ladies!
If a man said: if a woman not sexing how I want her to I would talk reckless to her. These women would lose their marbles.
Wow.. I just read this while Erin spoke on it.
Your comment should be top 🔝
@@kestonjones9568 thanks bro. The lack of respect level of women is out of control. In the 70s and 80s this never went down.
Omfg! I wish more people understood this to be true and I am a female saying this. Like it was so out of line to me for her to think talking reckless period is okay u can tell what type of wife she is and she seems like she brings a lot of toxic energy into a marriage
@@taneshabland8686 facts.
Rico be cookin' 🔥🔥🔥 sheesh!
Because he can. There will be plenty of broads that will do anything for him and be glad to do it. Erin has millions of dudes willing to give her anything and do everything for her. They aren't talking to each other. They are talking to the willing simps. They aren't for each other. They overvalue themselves and are great sales people. There are suckers born everyday. It's a boomin market. In my city when I was comin up in the 90s people were getting killed over Starter Jackets and clothes, Troop Shoes and Animal Bally's. Try wearing that now, you'll get laughed out of the city.
Facts. Bro always speak heavy and they don’t really be hearing bro
I fucks wit da nigga Rico!
@@17thNO this is the smartest comment… you get it. I don’t make more than my partner, but what can I do to increase our finances. How can I be of service to you?
I got through about 15 mins of this chick erin is literally the foulest jezebel I have ever had the horror to witness.
Only one person on this panel that understands the importance of a father's approval of his daughters relationship. Hence why our community is where it is.
So what Erin is saying is what I bring to the table is I spend money.
Lol hey listen ...I can't stand Erin...her mouth just won't stop running
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦♂️🎯
Spot on lmao 🤣
😂 ☠️
@@CajunReaper95 you got it whoever you are
I never understand how men date women like Erin for more than sex a few times, it's just a certain level of respect is required.
most men will tolerate bad behavior from women
She's very spiteful. I won't deal with ANY woman like that. Why would you even want to purposely verbally hurt your significant other anyway? 🤔
Maybe they like feeling like shit💩🤷♂
That's why she's a serial single person cause dudes ain't putting up with that
@@artblife1041 she is the only one married on there lol 🤣
4 years ago I stopped caring about being in a relationship and I’m the happiest I ever been. My peace and freedom is too precious and valuable for me to have these type women in my life. 100%. Wish all the daters happiness tho 🤝
Very true. We're humans and we desire a relationship, but when you listen to the kind of shut that come out of these women's mouth, the only conclusion to draw is that they'll be just useless and burdens on your life.
Salute
I feel you on this!!! I’ve been single for a while and I’m very much happy about being single!!!
As i 2nd that Solo Single in peace. I have even stop dateing close to 5years now,, such a waste of my precious time and protecting my peace , joy.. which is priceless to me..
Flatout, the older I got the more I knew my worth and what I didn't want.
This is a teachable moment. I see a lot of issues that shows me we need work on both sides
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The respect is real when a man provides. If he doesn’t it causes a lot of disrespect. He also has to have other good qualities to go along with it.
im with rashaan on girls needing to respect their fathers and appreciate them more. the girls with fathers who sneak around and dont let boys meet their parents at all and try to move like the girls with no fathers, ungrateful. a man could read a boy or another man like a book. he might save you the trouble. he might save you from harm. to disregard the elders perspective is not only counter productive, in some cases its dangerous. those girls without fathers (we all know from growing up) they be in those dangerous situations, sometimes they end up dating niggas way too old for them, sometimes they dont know how to read men and bad shit happens to them. a father is what stands between that.
not having your father meet your date sometimes its like having a personal trainer and refusing to do the drills. you hurting yourself in the long run
Most of us don’t have a father
@@kass10238 it wasnt about you
🎯
This whole conversation show how men who’s use to getting a lot of quality women vs men who’s just happy to get a women’s attention. Men who been getting women their whole life treat women as humans. Men who’s not use to getting women treat women like their porcelain.
Erin saying she has done them before (paying for a house), yes FOR YOURSELF, youre not bringing it to the table with the man youre with.
She’s not required too
@@icshaoden4722 Thanks for the useless comment no one said she’s required to she offered it up as somethings she brings to the table BUT she doesn't
Am I the only person who sees that selfishness undergirds everything these people day. There’s no talk at all about sacrificing for their partner’s gain. The focus is entirely on themselves. My Dad once said, if you are all you focus on, don’t be mad when you are all you get.
Facts
Erin needs therapy, because what decent man will put up with this? Be his peace, and I agree with Rico that respect is demanded. He said his response as I was typing, she needed a better father in her life. To teach her how to respect a man.
The gentlemen in the blue shirt is the PRIME example of how important it is to truly get to know a man before sleeping with him. I would be disgusted with myself if I had given him my body only to hear his viewpoints within conversations like this. He has the mindset of a child. If you are a yound woman watching this podcast & you happen to see this comment PLEASE WAIT...explore a man's mind before giving him your body.
U are so right . Talk to a guy for 2 days str8 and this will come out
@Christina from my experience this is the type of guy women chase behind also he seems a bit narcissistic but he spitting da FACTS!
Do you even know why you Exist?@@KinaJohnson
Why do you even exist? Arent you happily married? Act like if you are. Because you complaing like you single
It kills me that women say He tryna get to know ME, Taking MY time, etc like she ain’t tryna get to know me, using My time taking her time out etc… It Ain’t Just YOU!!! 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤷🏾🤷🏾🤷🏾🤷🏾
It is because he approached her which means you have to prove your self to me.
Rashaan is a GROWN MAN!!
🎯
That’s a major problem, to think of someone else, while being intimate with him/her🤦🏾♀️
What I'm hearing from all these, is that women don't love men, they love the value men bring to help their life easy.
Rico is literally repeating what Arron is saying already then trying to make it a rebuttal lol
Exactly. Glad someone else caught that.
Saying you would disrespect your partner and bringing up them making less in an argument is TOXIC. What does that have to do with whatever you're arguing about? That's not healthy communication. Also why are y'all so high strung about these traditional gender roles??? We ain't going to be ever be free.
Rashaan dropping knowledge for young ladies out here. Much respect for him
I agree with Rico.. you gotta stand on your manhood at all times. No matter your situation. Because if a woman makes more money than you they feel they can challenge you. And they will.
BRO sometimes alot of loser betas needs push to change..How can u stand on ur manhood if alot of dudes dont know how to be real men? Gotta check urself as a man and improve...
@@davidw8249 depends. A lot of people have different definitions of what a man is.
@@doms5755 NOPE just one definition.. Say what you mean and have integrity in what you do... Thats it simple...
Some stupid people think is how many guns, barking orders or yelling at others to show they real men.. All fake..
As we should. You're a man, outdo her.
@@q.t.gamingfamily why should you.. if your man is doing what he supposed to do.. the world is challenging enough.. why does he have to have a challenge from his woman when he gets home?
Damn Erin straight up lied to us at the 2:46 she said her preference is a man that makes more then her NOT because she is looking for a man to take care of her, then in the very NEXT SENTENCE says “I don’t care if he makes 40k or 80k he has to take care of me” 🤣🤣🤣
See this is why Kevin Samuels is winning! Nothing wrong with the option but which one is it
Lmao 🤣 lying b****
I caught that too. So did Rico 🙃
@hiphopastrologytv. Kevin is not a God and he was outside the box. Smart women and definitely older women who know who they are will submit to her man and not allow the oppressor to dictate what goes on in their household. The oppressor has really done a good job on breaking up a relationship between a black man and a black woman. we need to get back towards that mutual respect and understanding and in this economy it doesn’t matter who makes the most money. if you are a team and you’re in love with one another, you win a fight. We won’t come together thing this stupidity. I’m only speaking of black men and women. We need one another.
Speaking just for myself, if he is smart can hold a conversation, will not let anybody walk all over him, have some backbone, not afraid to work the land and not a whore … we can work together. Lol with what is coming that’s exactly what it’s gonna take. y’all better get ready
@Rico chivalry is becoming a lost art, yet you don't have to wait until date ten to show that characteristic. If you're kind be kind, if you're a gentleman be a gentleman because that's "WHO YOU ARE." Periodtttt!
The fact that Erin would have alll those "for the jugular" insults on the ready means she dont respect that man lol
You know what none of these women are willing to admit? Women don't date down. They want a man to take care of them and be the provider. If they make more than their man, they will, slowly but surely, begin to find his replacement. And I'm not talking about the man makes 60k and the woman makes 80k, I'm talking about a vast difference. A woman will not date someone she looks down upon in ANY aspect.
It's so unfortunate that there's a desire to justify being disrespectful and emasculating a man while the desire to exchange versions of v1olense (verbal vs physical) is non-existent. Fascinating
Aka Erin Campbell
I feel bad for her husband. Boy just didn’t care about his future
Your modern day woman wow
She was essentially saying if you disrespect me I am gonna disrespect you 10X harder. 😅So if you don't disrespect her she's going off like a top.
Thats why there are single and lonely and bitter .
There’s no problem with a man making less, but if they are making less they have to provide in different ways that will benefit for the both of us and/or our family. There isn’t anything to emasculate if the man is doing his part. Finances don’t determine masculinity, but know if I went from doing everything by myself to having a “man” around and still doing everything by myself… I don’t want it and he will eventually be emasculated under those circumstances. I think the issue is that a lot of men/women in this generation don’t even have true skills to even provide in different ways anymore. Therefore, if they are lacking financially then what are they really providing?
I agree, somethings got to give. Same thing as women who are getting to the bag, they typically lack some of the traditional feminine/domestic traits.
“There isn’t anything to emasculate if a man is doing his part”
Empty talking BS. Men doing their part and much more get emasculated all of the time. Look at the chic with the sisqo cut in this vid. She was the only one married up there and she admitted to emasculating her man. She says he takes care of her but has to watch his mouth to avoid being disrespected.
Men who get emasculated are those who don’t and/or can’t put women in their place and make them understand that the disrespect will never be tolerated.
@@thatnickuh
1. I’m not a disrespectful person.
2. A man would never have to put me in my place, because I would never again put myself in a position or allow him to put me in a position to possibly even think to disrespect him. I’ll be by myself before having to go through that.
I grew up in a dynamic where my father demanded and EARNED his respect. Although, both of my parents worked my dad is the head of the household, leader, provider, and protector. My mother respects him and trust his leadership. He respects her as a wife. Even though he leads they still work as a team. Men and women don’t embody those values anymore. I know first hand how those values work. My parents represented that growing up as well as today.
Today, in most situations… men in this generation are not revealing themselves as leaders and women don’t know how to submit or not willing to submit to egoistic men who think they are worthy of submission, but can’t even slightly embody the characteristics or have the attributes to lead himself yet alone lead a woman and/or a family.
@@natashiajordan1275 woah this is waaay too long winded. My issue was with your implication that if a man is “doing his part” then he won’t have to worry about a woman trying to emasculate him. That’s BS. These masculine acting birds will try men because they don’t know any better and they’ve gone through life without being checked or put in their place. A man can be will smith and get emasculated by a Jada if he allows it.
Nobody is above being checked or put in their place and the problem with the black community is black women can only accept the authority of white men. You can talk that talk but it’s palpable that you’re combative and argumentative when triggered
@@thatnickuh the issue is… we need each other. I will never say I don’t need a man, but in this day in age I’m better off without one when it comes to supply and demand.
Like I said, Im never going to be straight up disrespectful, but when it comes to anyone who isn’t doing what they are suppose to be doing I’m not going to consciously have faith that they can do the job. Emasculation isn’t always in a hostel form. It may come in the form of outsourcing or not depending on you. I just may lose confidence in you. Take a job or playing a sport for example, if you aren’t performing then the confidence in your ability may be lost over time. I can agree it’s a problem, but it isn’t just a one sided problem. It takes two. There are several sets of issues within this issue and in most cases both men and women are the problem, but when are men and women going to stop and take accountability in how to make black families work and respect each other. The wayyy winded response was to let you know that it can be done and there are women out here who understand the importance of it…. But hopefully this response wasn’t wayyyy to winded for you 😉
The two guys on the right way off you can’t demand respect if you don’t treat her like a lady, and the bid of not facing her father is shady as hell, on a respect factor you gotta give the same respect you expect to receive
She "respects" a man with more money because she doesn't want to see the next woman benefit!
Totally agree the father thing… our fathers are our protecters until the correct protector comes along. It’s for my benefit Periodt
Money runs Erin relationships… and that’s wild. Like bra said, respect is brought for her.
It's disrespectful of women to have a sense of entitled to anything from a man. It's not just a woman's time, it's also a man's time....and money. A man is already doing more to impress a woman - picking her up, paying for the date, etc.
First of all I am a 57 year old blackman raised by my southern grandmother and uncle. And I was raised by both to always be a gentleman ie when picking up a woman you park your car, you ring the bell, you walk down to the car and open the door before during and after the date. It is called being raised as a man of quality, which Ricco and Oliver clearly do not understand but Rashaan does.
And for any woman reading this post you never go out or allow your daughter to go any where near a man who does not understand the basics of dating or treating her the she should be treated as along as she shows said man she is a woman of quality and grace. Oh yes if said woman lives with her parents he better be prepared to sit for awhile and answer some questions from her parents.
On a side note It would be nice if the woman reached over and open the car door for me as the man taking her out but that is a different story. And for the woman with the short blonde hair speaking for a great many men if you decide to raise up to any man you chose to be involved with that will be the last time you will raise up towards him. As an adult neither one of you should be so childish as to let it get to such a point that you can not consider each others feeling to stop and think or apologize if it does to that far. And living together well my personal views are the woman is going to be paying some of the bill or we will split it all right down the middle.
And as far as what she said what she brings to the table I did not hear on single solitary thing she does that I can not do for myself. That is the end of my rant
i havent even watched (yet) and I agree w/ ur sentiments. I appreciate hearing the thoughts of older (southern) black men re: dating and chivalry cause (speaking as a blk wmn in my early 30's) i feel like its dead these days. Everyone is racing to show how little effort n affection they can show to their romantic partner. Which is sad.
Hell naw this aint the old days. Did you even listen to the women on the panel? Theyd step clean over you without blinking twice
this is why you’ll di* before your wife
I am 26 and I always open my man’s door from the other side but I am different I guess respect isn’t connected to his wallet
I need Rico to explain what he needs a woman to bring to the table.
Good question 💯
To pay some bills. Simple
39:43 Yess Rashaan!!!! When a tradtional Alpha male is still in the room. Love this content!!!!
You can’t mix money with love, IDC what anyone says. Real love is something you don’t get a choice in, it takes over you because it’s from a higher power. You can have both but, it doesn’t make or break true love. True love won’t wanna be out here hurting no matter what.
Thank you! Everytime I see this debate I never hear anybody, man or woman mention love, it’s actually quiet disturbing the amount of importance people put on money in a relationship
Money is mixed with love and also marriage
@@rsppj9122 Maybe yours but it wasn't in my marriage. I loved my husband with lint in his pockets and no man could compare. He's dead and I still love him and no man will ever compare.
@@msshaffer5 It didn’t have to be directly link but he seen you as a increase in life and and the same for you most women today don’t understand the value they bring or the actions it’s takes to create that value
‘But you’re not and you’re not willing to’ exactly. Checkmate. And this attitude is exactly why men generally don’t care about a woman’s career or bag.
Rico is exactly right. Erin is straight tripping. And only in a first world country can she even have this audacity. Try disrespecting a man like that in Dubai. This is why Iyanla was saying black Women are out of order. Rico was on point. Women have no problem claiming what a mans duty is. But they are quiet when it comes to what their duty is. Erin wasn’t saying a damn thing. ‘I make a house a home’ these are buzzwords. No substance. This is what Rico was schooling her on. Rico shut her whole weak argument down.
How you talking about being taken care of and traditional roles and in the next breath talking about modern woman boss bae nonsense. It’s like hedging bets. I can be a modern woman. But I want a traditional man. Doesn’t work that way.
Yeah Rico smashed her a##. " I'll make that house U bought a home" haha yeah right trick
Well said fam
@@Michael-ll5px where u from bruh
@@pimphandstrong6620 philly philly
Facts! 🔥
Big difference between providing versus taking care of you. I take care of kids, pets etc. I'm not taking care of a grown up. Looking for a partner not a daughter (liability).
First off I noticed the "What does she bring to the table conversation" was cut short. I feel like it went down a road that was very revealing and it couldn't be aired. Rico's point of Erin doesn't respect a man that makes less money was 100% on point. She doesn't respect a man that makes less than her and respect is bought in her eyes. And Rico is also right in saying everything Erin said she brought to the table can be bought.
Bought by stealing housekeepers, 4 baby mama's. Bought, lol
Honestly what a woman brings to the table a man can do for himself, and what a man bring to the table, a woman can provide for herself … however with two it makes it easier not to have to worry about all of it because you have a partner helping. I now want to know since men get so heated and feel like a woman doesn’t bring anything to the table … then what do you want her to bring to the table ?
Now I'm curious. You asked a question that has been answered so many times. Tells me your not willing to bring to your relationship. But I'll spell it out. Peace, respect, femininity, Willingness, Support, and most important. The ability to fight the forces that will confront you daily to disrespect and lose respect for your man.
@@MrHeat1up how does me asking a question inform you of what I bring into a relationship ??? Since you want to spell it out , then answer why a man will receive that from a woman and still leave her if that’s all he wants ???
@@jadadavis586 because you asked a question you already know the answer to. Which means your looking for a different answer than the one you already know to be. To answer your 2nd question. Assuming he get all that I mentioned, one thing that most American women will not put up with is cheating. Society has painted a picture of one man for every woman and one woman for every man. But when you look around it clearly goes against our nature. Yes a man can suppress his desires, but it's not natural. And love has nothing to do with it. Just to add, if we all did just that and coupled with one woman the world would be half populated and alot of woman would be lonely. Due to the ratio of woman to men. And the fact that it takes almost a year to conceive a child you could almost predict how many kids would be born in one year.
@@MrHeat1up I said nothing about stepping out I said LEAVE. Not cheat and many woman still get cheated on and are with their partner, what you are describing are the average day woman who think they all going to be with a millionaire and live this lavish lifestyle but ok
@@MrHeat1up also if the question that I asked is truly that simple, one I would not have asked that question and two there is obviously more then one answer. That statement you said is a generalized answer due to the fact that a man can receive that from a woman and still leave her for another … not cheat but leave, end everything …..
For example a brother as myself who provide a full operating mortgage free residence for his woman. Paid all utilities and personal expenses while she made $100,000 a year. Still cant get nurtured!
I support you Rico.
Plus i support a lavished wardrobe for both. . Preach Rico!!
I am also a well rounded man who knows. how to cook ,clean, laundry etc has been living comfortable without the queen because women gets insecure around me.
What’s is Rico finding somebody to clean his house for $100 a week? I need their contact information
It depends on how big his apartment or house is, that’s not enough to clean up someone else crib, 🤦🏾♀️
Lol 😂
Wondering how many of us watching and listening to these cats Wondering how many of them still gonna be single in 10-15yrs and if Erin gonna be divorced by then..? Lol
Truth!
Erin is not a wife or a girlfriend SHES A FK!!
I couldn't even be her home girl . I be done ended the friendship by slapping her
@@taylormiller8937 agree her perspective made me sad like how do you say u love a person but only respect him based on how much he makes. Like nobody’s value should be associated with the amount of money they make let alone the person u r having sex with spending ur life with. That is not peace
@@taylormiller8937 facts
Men - "I bring food to the table, whet are you bringing?"
women - "I'm bringing food too"
Men - "The table already has food, what about cutlery or even water".
Women - "well I'm bringing more food and if you can't handle that you're sexist".
Men - "Just bring a dam napkin, anything but more food".
Women - "Your toxic".
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an electrician is cheaper then a maid is expensive women cook clean do laundry take care of the kids because let’s be honest most men don’t even know how to fix a door knob
@@kass10238 If your home was wired by an electrician that's cheaper than a maid I pray for your safety because you clearly live in a fire hazard. What women "do for men" (cooking and cleaning as you said) they also do when they're alone, so it's not for us, that's just called being an adult. Lastly, if the men you know can't change a door knob, stop surrounding your self with feminine useless men ( that would mean however that you would have to qualify for a useful masculine one) that part is up to you.
The convo was 🔥
🗣🗣Oliver I’m with that open my car door..
Dress us? The short hair German Shepherd trippin.
Fax
This episode was fun especially the last part 😅😅😅
33:00 - 35:00 & 44:00 - 45:00 💯
Rico is crazy 4 saying this...that's a great test to figure out if he's a chump or a real man. If walking to the door is too much work for a man then that dude can't hand a relationship.
He so angry about kept women. It burns his ass up . And he absolutely will never give woman a her respect. I promise I pray he stays single or find a partner that is mirror image. It's a lot of passive aggression there.
Wow🙄
Whats your problem?
This is the craziest, funniest episode so far😂
I like Raasan whole thought process about how he looks at a man ringing the doorbell to pick up a girl and his expectations for his daughter’s
It will always be amazing how women pick and choose traditional points of the relationship, why waste the time on semantics vs being real? How does any amount of money a woman can make change anything on this topic? Women fake themselves as the prize and controlling power of a relationship. Doesn't change one problem with unachievable standards and unrealistic expectations. If women had it to bring to the table, why aren't they?
Omg this was too good. This is the video men been waiting years to see. Lightskin dude with the headband went off. Lol.
How dude holding that cup while talking is killing me lol 😆
No-cohabitation, no marriage it’s that simple!
Rico always got the word..Shout out to Amanda, at. the end, for letting women know how simple it should be, but they always choose the hard way or give up. Accountability.
Man yall were trippin for waiting to drop this one lol. Love the conversation
This shit is a yr old or more
This was definitely interesting 🤔. One thing I would have like y'all to have discussed was what he can't get hard and stay hard and she doesn't get wet enough how would you handle situations like that. I think that medications and stress can cause some situations 🤔 I'd like to hear conversations about that one day.
Me too.
1:08:44 Every man on earth felt that🤣🤣
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I hate when “Grown Men” get online to bash woman . The sole purpose of this show is to bring different personalities and perspectives to the following questions on relationship based topics. If everyone on this show agreed with one another it would not be as popular. Instead of trying to throw up 🤮 all this energy into what others you don’t agree with talk about watch a different show. From my understanding Erin and Jada are the only married individuals on this show so even if you don’t agree with her standpoints I find it crazy how y’all even feel so bold to write such belittling comments about a woman you don’t know ? Like make it make sense? I love everyone on this show. Btw keep doing y’all things.
Bcuz of wat she saying
There’s nothing bold about it. We’re going based off HER words and HER beliefs. She is a self centered, classless, morales, hyper masculine female that lucked out and found a $imp that doesn’t know his own worth and settled for her. She’s not married to a real man.
@@jimjoe4309 Her business why does it bother you so? Just asking….
@@rwwdzzm5608 if she only wanted it to be her business she wouldn’t go on a podcast telling thousands of people about it. So kick rocks clown
I treat my relationship like a business. Period.
This show should be called "at the end of the day" because everyone says it 35 times lol
If you make 50 and she makes 50, you're still paying all the bills and she spends her money on herself.
If she has to pay half the rent, then she will have disdain for you.
"what you're bringing to this table is a service that can be paid for...You can't buy somebody to buy you a home"
Most women think like this in the USA or UK
ERIN is delusional and spoiled. She’s not worth a penny according to real standards. Lol 😂
Nae she just got standards That y'all can't touch
Definitely enjoyed this one..lol
What’s sad is these individuals will have kids with someone and not take RESPONSIBILITY!!🤦🏽♂️
Like listening to adult children. The human race is cooked.
Erin is selfish she talked about a date which is a joint venture and only talk about me and my.
Wait what? Women have to work for respect?
Ladies, if a man cares for you, and doesn’t want to be without YOU…..he will go above and beyond for you just like you do for him. If he doesn’t, move on or be happy with yourself.
Yooooooooo, when he hit the part of Chivalry is almost dead!?? That is the MAIN issue with this world and this society. Relationships in general have become a JOKE because of this.
I agree 💯
For this on another video before this one I said she wasn't shit and I'm speaking of Erin because she is holding all this back just to let it out at one specific time to make you hurt or make you feel less than whatever you want to call it and I'm saying she not shit because she only respects money she doesn't respect the man period. I knew she wasn't shit when she opened her mouth
They need me on this show
I am a woman and I went to school for a career I expect be able to not give up my career and still have a family. Being taken care of is different than being able to say we are building and finances are not the main aspect of my relationship. We are partners but know how to let him be the man in the relationship. Respecting and honoring each other removes the need for this argument
Jordy explained that so perfectly
My view on alllll of this is just don’t expect your woman to be submissive if you’re not a provider
Amanda has a lot of contradictory takes, but she forever hit a Grand Slam towards the end of this episode
When they have these conversations, it always sounds like they are dating partners who don’t even like them. It’s so important to align with you.
I don't care if a woman is making 200k and I don't have a job she's not going to disrespect me because I'm a man period end the story!
Timeout…Amanda lives with her parents?? But she’s a boss and got bread an all day good stuff right?
Erin is prime example of why a lot of black men stay away from y’all. Providing is different but if you basing what amount of respect to give to your partner or anyone based of what their account looks like your trash as a person and your character flawed. Y’all need to get women with better character and values on here. Every episode y’all make black women look terrible lmao
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Dude everytime i watch I hear both men and women talking about sleeping with everyone and getting the bag from sugar daddy.. This is so bad and keep on thinking is this ALL women or just certain cultures? And i want to hear from some other non black women to hear their point of views.
@@davidw8249 This is American society for you bro. Not all women here but a lot of them have this mindset it’s sad but it is what it is there’s no changing it. just have to go around the world and find the person who fits you
@@JL-et2nh Men and women thinking other side is scamming of tricking them... To avoid the lack of trust why dont we just pay for OUR OWN bills on dates and living together... Lets see which sex complains the most about having to pay their own way..
Just go the overseas.
You go to Therapy to workout your problems, not workout your Therapist Mike!" Lmao
Fammmm why Rico start spazzing @ 22:30 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥