How To Get Your Ex Back Using Strength

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  • Опубліковано 21 лип 2024
  • Losing someone that you have grown close to and have known on such an intimate level is devastating. You may be wondering how to repair that relationship or if you have any chance of getting them back. In this video, we talk about strategies to get your ex back using strength, even when you are feeling at your lowest.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 237

  • @ChrisLT
    @ChrisLT 3 роки тому +37

    About to hit 4 months NC, and 6 months after the break up. Gotta be honest, Craig, losing hope here. I've grown emotionally, physically, mentally, and I'm knocking out huge goals left and right. But another guy swooped right in shortly after. Looks like I'll just need to use this newfound growth with someone new after the 9 month probation! Side question, if I get the course with the workbooks, which should be done first?

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  3 роки тому +8

      Honestly, it’s just a personal preference! It’s all great. The course has a lot of creative stuff to it (cartoons, white board videos, art therapy activities etc). Either way, the student who sits down and does the work (even just 30 minutes a day) will be far further than the ones that don’t 💪

    • @ChrisLT
      @ChrisLT 3 роки тому +10

      @@CoachCraigKenneth I did the first two sections of the Creative course since posting that comment and I absolutely love it. It's super well done and I'm impressed, considering I've only really interacted with your videos here. I didn't expect something so... comprehensive. Even after seeing some videos again, the questions are bringing up some deep stuff. The activities are great, the voice acting for George's movie trailer was superb, and I can't get enough.
      I'll check out the Knowledge stuff when I'm done since I skimmed through and it seems to be some serious stuff. To be honest, if it didn't have stuff focused on getting an ex back, I'd recommend it to everyone. Maybe for the next giant project, you guys could make it more of a general life improvement course to expand the audience a bit.
      This thing rules. Well done!

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  3 роки тому +7

      Yes! This is what I’m talking about! I’m glad you love it. And btw that was me doing the voiceover for the movie trailer. I do almost all the male voices in the cartoons (and as you’ll see I can do many types of voices!)
      Keep sharing your experiences! 💪🙌

    • @ChrisLT
      @ChrisLT 3 роки тому

      @@CoachCraigKenneth Yeah, Jennifer and Marty NotFly were Oscar-worthy performances. "It's important. I don't know why you just don't SEE that!" Ah, my heart!

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  3 роки тому +3

      You have no idea how much fun we had doing the cartoons! 😂

  • @sofi4148
    @sofi4148 3 роки тому +68

    He reached out!! Thank you baby Jesus!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼 after six super long months...I held back from contacting him and he reached out. Nothing happening but at least we're back in touch.

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  3 роки тому +21

      Hope you’ve been working hard! Double your efforts! You will be tested far more than you realize!

    • @sofi4148
      @sofi4148 3 роки тому +22

      I have been working on myself for about 4 yrs now while healing from Narc abuse. This one is dismissive avoidant and I'm glad to see that no contact works on them too!! My heart is happy because HE reached out even though I wanted to break nc so bad many many times. Your videos have been tremendous help! Thank you to you three. My heart is happy and I hope we can make something happen as far as a relationship is concerned. Thank you!!

    • @silverroku
      @silverroku 3 роки тому +3

      Congrats!

    • @rickcope3226
      @rickcope3226 3 роки тому +1

      @@sofi4148 congratulations

    • @freedomfinancial
      @freedomfinancial Рік тому

      how is it going?

  • @ewoski
    @ewoski 3 роки тому +53

    After 10 months of NC, we’re dating again and better than ever.. I didn’t use NC as a strategy to get her back... I genuinely moved on and we eventually reconnected
    Good luck everyone dealing with a break up

    • @prettyhurry114
      @prettyhurry114 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a man who can help bring your ex within two-day ♥️♥️♥️

    • @prettyhurry114
      @prettyhurry114 3 роки тому

      He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯💯

    • @prettyhurry114
      @prettyhurry114 3 роки тому

      Whattapps him

    • @prettyhurry114
      @prettyhurry114 3 роки тому

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    • @couchmatric2319
      @couchmatric2319 3 роки тому

      @@prettyhurry114 Hello how can I contact him

  • @juliefrecker3811
    @juliefrecker3811 3 роки тому +6

    Excellent video! I like what coach Victoria said about consequences and coach Craig saying don’t settle for less.

  • @HonestTraveller
    @HonestTraveller 3 роки тому +20

    Don’t want my ex back but I do love these videos to hear a different side on things. She constantly reaches out With the most random texts and I just ignore them. I’m happy focusing on becoming a millionaire this year. Thanks Craig

  • @rebounddiaries7373
    @rebounddiaries7373 3 роки тому +4

    With the help of your coachings and working on myself I have become stronger. My ex however is constantly reaching out while being on the rebound. Sometimes I have the impression that his ego suffers as I am not initiating contact. From time to time he succeeds in drawing me back into his life and it seems he wants to come back. However after some time he pulls away, tries to put me in the friendzone and goes back to the rebound. She is a coworker, twenty years younger than me and my ex. It is tough but with the personal grows I recover much quicker from his half-hearted movements towards me. All the best for Craig, Margret and Victoria and everyone listening to this channel. Take care and work on yourself!

  • @psalms1163
    @psalms1163 Рік тому +1

    Great video bro & sis..

  • @Nova-tc6jv
    @Nova-tc6jv 3 роки тому +12

    Almost 9 months post breakup and 5 months NC. I still think about him all the time and wish I didn’t anymore. I also catch myself crying when I feel overwhelmed, but only for a moment. I try to shift my focus to something positive. Looking forward to the day when it doesn’t hurt at all anymore. Don’t know if he will ever reach out but somewhere deep down there’s still a glimmer of hope. Wish I could just move on already!

    • @gavinjames6025
      @gavinjames6025 3 роки тому

      Dr Okosun help me get my ex back after many months of separation

    • @gavinjames6025
      @gavinjames6025 3 роки тому +1

      + 2 3 4 9 1 5 2 6 6 8 9 2 3

    • @chonkybenetgods
      @chonkybenetgods 3 роки тому +1

      Hey! I feel you about this. I'm trying to move on from him. I thought I'm fine but there are times that I cry alone and think about him. But I know he is happy with someone right now, all we got to do is to be strong.

    • @Nova-tc6jv
      @Nova-tc6jv 3 роки тому +2

      @@chonkybenetgods I try to remind myself that things happen for a reason and that what’s meant for me will be no matter what. I’ve also reflected on the relationship and believe that this breakup needed to happen for me to see things more clearly and make necessary changes in my life for the better. Hang in there. We will get through this!

    • @dwightschrute8141
      @dwightschrute8141 3 роки тому

      @@Nova-tc6jv update?

  • @emmanuela.mendoza2988
    @emmanuela.mendoza2988 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for posting!!! 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼

  • @lauraa2778
    @lauraa2778 3 роки тому +8

    He pops in and out of my life, I've done NC a few times, stuck solidly to it, finally told him I could no longer be put through the pattern, especially after this last magic (disappearing and reappearing) act.

  • @theempire339
    @theempire339 3 роки тому +2

    Great video

  • @ednalynelayda8587
    @ednalynelayda8587 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you coach craig and victoria💙❤️😇 You guys are the best!!😊😊🥰

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  3 роки тому +2

      Work hard. Change your life. And you show the world that our teachings are true! 💪💪💪💪

    • @ednalynelayda8587
      @ednalynelayda8587 3 роки тому

      @@CoachCraigKenneth I will do that! 😇😇💙💙 Thank you so much! Fighting!!! 💪💪💪

    • @ednalynelayda8587
      @ednalynelayda8587 3 роки тому

      @@CoachCraigKenneth Hi coach, it's 12am my ex just reached out he texted me that he miss me and how am i doing.. 💙💙😊

    • @bleedingmike2474
      @bleedingmike2474 3 роки тому

      @@ednalynelayda8587 .Contact him for help

    • @bleedingmike2474
      @bleedingmike2474 3 роки тому

      @@ednalynelayda8587 .I got my ex back

  • @pjiratip
    @pjiratip 3 роки тому +2

    Hi coaches, could you guys do a video on ways to deal with the doubts you might have about yourself, your character and sanity in the aftermath of a toxic/emotionally abusive relationship? Others outside of the relationship (including other so-called coaches) just basically mark the abuser as narcissist and heartless and say just move on.. but that is just unhelpful. You guys are insightful, I wonder if you have a any suggestions to deal with it in a dignified and understanding way.. I was doing group therapy and know many people who are struggling with this. I’m diligently working on the workbooks and creative healing course and seeing an online therapist in my area due to crazy third wave of covid. Thank you coaches! Keep up the amazing work!

  • @CoachCraigKenneth
    @CoachCraigKenneth  3 роки тому +19

    Remember to do the Knowledge Workbooks 30 minutes a day regardless of what is going on with your ex. They will change your life!

    • @nestorcelis4399
      @nestorcelis4399 3 роки тому +2

      I'm buying them. I see they will be a good strategy to work on myself. Thank you Coaches

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  3 роки тому +2

      You’ll love them Nestor. The key is to be consistent!

    • @nestorcelis4399
      @nestorcelis4399 3 роки тому +2

      @@CoachCraigKenneth yes, Coach. I'll do my very best to stay on it until I reach a permanent change.. once again, thank you for what you do, and I look forward to see many more episodes and hopefully soon a success story. Regardless of the outcome.

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  3 роки тому +2

      💪🙌

    • @juliataylor2578
      @juliataylor2578 3 роки тому +2

      Craig, I’m interested in buying the course. Does it come with the workbooks?
      Also, I am in a situation where my ex broke up with me years ago now. He is engaged. I made a lot of mistakes post breakup. I feel a bit silly now to buy the course because my situation is pretty much a lost cause.
      Do you think someone in my position will still get value out of your products?
      I’ve watched SO many of your videos. Your content is so valuable. Thank you and Margaret and Vicky for all you do. 💕

  • @Zemohc
    @Zemohc Рік тому

    Breaking up with my 1st ex was made more hurtful be me. So no contact was something i held onto after the breakup with my 2nd ex. I had a rough past and i had an extremely weak moment from it that i considered breaking NC. But i didnt.
    It doesnt feel like NC is working all that much. Ive been getting more and more closer to being OK with not having her in my life anymore. Whether she comes back or not.

  • @danielbrown8602
    @danielbrown8602 2 роки тому +2

    She called me Sunday. Then texted Monday saying she never should have called to give false hope. THEN she called me Tuesday to tell me I got mail there. Pls help me!

  • @RenskeLogie
    @RenskeLogie 3 роки тому +7

    day 20 of no contact. I do feel much more powerful, however today I woke up feeling very anxious

  • @mariotibbrine1
    @mariotibbrine1 3 роки тому +6

    Dont show your hurt feelings towards the person who hurt you just keep them to yourself that makes perfect sense bottle them up inside so there is no closure yeah 👍

  • @catblackwater5533
    @catblackwater5533 3 роки тому +6

    My ex and I were actually talking about repairing things when he abruptly ghosted me. It's been hard, but I've been practicing no contact ever since. I for my part would appreciate an update on the video on ghosting after a long-term(-ish) relationship and how to cope with it. Best wishes and stay strong everyone❤

  • @savagequeen9949
    @savagequeen9949 11 місяців тому

    Hi coach I am in no contact for quiet sometime but when my ex reaches out to me I fail to recognize his intention and often be too friendly and he takes it on and starts to explain me again that why he ended up the relationship and why his decision was correct 😢 what should I do

  • @joemcdugle5465
    @joemcdugle5465 3 роки тому +2

    My ex broke up with me three weeks ago. During that time, she has contacted me four times, 3 times to see how I was and once for business reasons. I haven’t reached out to her, but I’ve responded with short replies when she contacts me. About a week before we broke up I ordered some parts to fix something in her house. Well those parts have come in and today she came over my house to pick them up. I gave her the parts and tried to explain how to install them. Other than that, we didn’t talk about anything else. I did notice she was wearing a ring that I gave her two months ago for her birthday. She was wearing workout clothes which she wouldn't even wear to the supermarket. However, she is wearing this ring which is very elegant would only wear when at least a little dressed up. I’m not sure what to make of this. When she was leaving we had a long embrace and she said she was sorry. I didn’t ask her what she was sorry for and I didn’t say anything else. When we separated from the hug she could see the tears streaming down my cheeks. I definitely wasn’t showing strength and I feel this is a setback. I’m just confused by this encounter.

    • @sunusirabiu8242
      @sunusirabiu8242 3 роки тому

      I hae you seek help from the man wh OK helped me bring back my ex...with love,commitment and reconciliation sp

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      @sunusirabiu8242 3 роки тому

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  • @tiffanimilburn8885
    @tiffanimilburn8885 3 роки тому +3

    Nice video coach. I like the channel. Do you have any advice for what to do if you’re in a situation where you broke up with your ex and you want them back? I separated from mine a few years ago and nobody seems to have much advice on what to do if you were the dumper rather than the dumpy.

    • @nicoleblake1954
      @nicoleblake1954 3 роки тому

      if you seen my number jotitdonw it Dan because I'm going to delete the number okay

    • @RenskeLogie
      @RenskeLogie 3 роки тому +2

      as a dumper you need to reach out first

  • @evie9707
    @evie9707 3 роки тому +8

    My husband of 22 years died of cancer on 2019. I was dating him since I was 13. My only boyfriend. I started dating 7 months ago and did so many mistakes(anxious attachment) and I feel my inexperience in dating did not help. Can you do a video about dating after loss?

    • @gavinjames6025
      @gavinjames6025 3 роки тому

      Dr Okosun help me get my many months of separation

    • @gavinjames6025
      @gavinjames6025 3 роки тому

      Dr Okosun helped helped me get my ex back after seven months of separation

    • @alicevic3816
      @alicevic3816 3 роки тому

      Wow Dr okosun helped me get my ex back also

    • @alicevic3816
      @alicevic3816 3 роки тому

      After many months of seperation

    • @alicevic3816
      @alicevic3816 3 роки тому

      Dr OK os un can help you too

  • @sgatnifedi4063
    @sgatnifedi4063 3 роки тому +1

    thank you really

    • @nicoleblake1954
      @nicoleblake1954 3 роки тому +1

      if you seen my number jotitdonw it Dan because I'm going to delete the number okay

  • @LiLgPnoy15
    @LiLgPnoy15 3 роки тому +3

    That bowl of jelly was absolutely accurate

  • @jonnyjibjob6519
    @jonnyjibjob6519 3 роки тому +4

    Hi craig..What happens if I agreed to being friends with her? I haven't reached out after that but should I reach out and say I don't think it's healthy for me to remain friends for now or continue to stay NC? Please help I feel like I'm unraveling

    • @myaansamson6492
      @myaansamson6492 3 роки тому

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      😘😘😘

    • @myaansamson6492
      @myaansamson6492 3 роки тому

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    • @myaansamson6492
      @myaansamson6492 3 роки тому

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    • @janettina5832
      @janettina5832 3 роки тому +1

      He'll help you 💕

    • @jonnyjibjob6519
      @jonnyjibjob6519 3 роки тому

      @@janettina5832 his videos are a godsend

  • @zairadosal9714
    @zairadosal9714 3 роки тому +1

    Coach Craig my x and I broke up about a month ago I cried and pleaded but about 8 days ago she said give me a month. She deleted all our pics yesterday from social media… we are supposed to re group on July 1st honestly we didn’t even know about no contact. It was just sort of an instinct. Do we have any hope or did she just say that to get me off her back

    • @nicoleblake1954
      @nicoleblake1954 3 роки тому

      +1=2=0=.4=8=0=.8=2=2=3=4.

    • @nicoleblake1954
      @nicoleblake1954 3 роки тому

      if you seen my number jotitdonw it Dan because I'm going to delete the number okay

    • @myaansamson6492
      @myaansamson6492 3 роки тому

      Dr osose helped me got my ex back within 24 hours consult him he'll help you😄😄

    • @dwightschrute8141
      @dwightschrute8141 3 роки тому

      Update????

  • @gagemountz9314
    @gagemountz9314 3 роки тому +3

    Can you possibly make a video about if your avoidant ex reaches out and the dumpee messes it up again by coming on to strongly

  • @harshjones1688
    @harshjones1688 3 роки тому +2

    I want to move on but i still love her just not in love now. What if she has a friend who’s a psychologist, no contact surely won’t work right? She is easily influenced by her friends which put me off

    • @myaansamson6492
      @myaansamson6492 3 роки тому

      Do you want her back?

    • @myaansamson6492
      @myaansamson6492 3 роки тому

      😍😍Talk to my helper dr osose who helped me got my ex back within 24 hours 😍

    • @myaansamson6492
      @myaansamson6492 3 роки тому

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      🔥🔥🔥

    • @myaansamson6492
      @myaansamson6492 3 роки тому

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    • @maryambashir3597
      @maryambashir3597 3 роки тому

      contact him Mr
      Wilson.

  • @wilfink3763
    @wilfink3763 3 роки тому +2

    What if the ex called and I dont remember if I swiped on it or just missed the call because I deleted her contact info?
    I was curious one day and she indeed contacted me a year ago after being a whole year apart after the final discard in 2019. Torn between staying no contact or returning contact because the last call I got before our big break was a suicide threat and its got me worried that if I call back itll just be a trap of some kind.

  • @Lanes8930
    @Lanes8930 Рік тому +1

    UGH, Why cant two people just fall in love and be together ...🤯

    • @pmdal
      @pmdal 11 місяців тому +1

      Traumas and the devil

  • @markostsiftelis7400
    @markostsiftelis7400 3 роки тому +3

    I don't think my ex girlfriend will talk to me she had panic crisis and generally not in good mental state and she thinks is because off me i didn't do nothing rong to her except that i was listening all the problems like a therapist she told me she has no filings for me end General

  • @wenalynprones6298
    @wenalynprones6298 3 роки тому +1

    Craig, will an ex be back even tho his mind is fixed not to get back together?

    • @myaansamson6492
      @myaansamson6492 3 роки тому

      Hello I can introduce you to someone who helped me got my ex back within 24 hours 🔥🔥🔥

    • @myaansamson6492
      @myaansamson6492 3 роки тому

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    • @myaansamson6492
      @myaansamson6492 3 роки тому

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    • @myaansamson6492
      @myaansamson6492 3 роки тому

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    • @dwightschrute8141
      @dwightschrute8141 3 роки тому

      Update????

  • @lukeburnstm7959
    @lukeburnstm7959 3 роки тому +1

    Me and My Ex Broke Up On February 27th
    . EX Girlfriend Is A D.A.
    . We Work At The Same Place
    . Shes 45 / Im 33
    . Im Her Longest Relationship Ever
    . Personality Changed In Dec 2019 When She Had An Hystercotomy
    . Done No Contact In April
    She Looks Away Whenever We Walk By Each Other,I Say Hello and Is Civil.
    Rarely You Get A Hello Back,Maybe Once A Week!
    She Has Her Head Down Most Of The Time.People At Work Have Noticed Since She Broke Up With Me,She Looks Sad(No Smile) 99% Of The Time.
    Is There Any Hope??

    • @gavinjames6025
      @gavinjames6025 3 роки тому

      Dr Okosun helped me get my ex back after seven months of separation

    • @gavinjames6025
      @gavinjames6025 3 роки тому

      + 2 3 4 9 1 5 2 6 6 8 9 2 3

    • @myaansamson6492
      @myaansamson6492 3 роки тому

      This is his new whtzapp number 😇😇

    • @myaansamson6492
      @myaansamson6492 3 роки тому

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  • @gabbymontoya2085
    @gabbymontoya2085 3 роки тому +1

    Indeed I’m not doormat either .. life isn’t about one partner it is TWO. So no thanks bubye

    • @nicoleblake1954
      @nicoleblake1954 3 роки тому

      +1=2=0=.4=8=0=.8=2=2=3=4.

    • @nicoleblake1954
      @nicoleblake1954 3 роки тому

      if you seen my number jotitdonw it Dan because I'm going to delete the number okay

  • @rickcope3226
    @rickcope3226 3 роки тому

    I believe most of human problems can be solved with a high charge explosive. Lol. - Uncommon Valor.

    • @couchmatric2319
      @couchmatric2319 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️ ♥️ ♥️

    • @couchmatric2319
      @couchmatric2319 3 роки тому

      __+2::3::4::70::42::86::41::97::

  • @CochoAntonio
    @CochoAntonio 3 роки тому +4

    Im in love with coach Victoria ❤️

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  3 роки тому +15

      Look at you go. Blowing it in one sentence... it’s as if you aren’t learning anything from our channel. 😂

    • @alicevic3816
      @alicevic3816 3 роки тому

      Dr okosun

    • @alicevic3816
      @alicevic3816 3 роки тому

      He helped me get my ex back too

    • @alicevic3816
      @alicevic3816 3 роки тому

      Dr OK os un manifestation is the best

    • @gavinjames6025
      @gavinjames6025 3 роки тому

      @@alicevic3816 yes

  • @ElevatedCultivator
    @ElevatedCultivator Рік тому +1

    Better do the work !... stop being selfish !
    you owe it to yourself anyway ... and to the person you love.
    Good luck hopefully they're fixing themselves...lol 🌮😁🤙

  • @XxXDjForeplayxXx
    @XxXDjForeplayxXx 2 роки тому +1

    My spouse decided to use no contact against me when I was in love with her, well during no contact I lost all the live I felt for her and moved on and hooked up with another girl. When my wife decided to come back to fix the marriage after asking a judge for a 3 year restraining order, I was happy with the new girl. Now my wife decided to hide my son from me and not allow me to see him. Its been months that I haven't seen my son, my spouse now uses myv3 year old son as a weapon against me. These are the results of stupid ass people using no contact.

    • @rwentfordable
      @rwentfordable 6 місяців тому

      What was the alternative? Beg her to take you back?

  • @idropagearbabye6822
    @idropagearbabye6822 3 роки тому +1

    Don't worry about an ex I mean they are your ex for a reason, carry on and move fwd

  • @lilethm.alvarez7330
    @lilethm.alvarez7330 3 роки тому +1

    • @lilethm.alvarez7330
      @lilethm.alvarez7330 3 роки тому

      @@Redouku Finally our time to shine. Coincidentally, I always used that phrase with me ex, “lets take over the world.” ✔️✔️

    • @lilethm.alvarez7330
      @lilethm.alvarez7330 3 роки тому

      @@Redouku Where is that?

    • @lilethm.alvarez7330
      @lilethm.alvarez7330 3 роки тому

      @@Redouku if you’d like I can take you For a VIP tour after we take over the world