Exactly. She valued and respected herself to not put herself in such a crazy situation. She probably had no respect for him and thought he could possibly do the same to her if they got together. What really is upsetting is how his girlfriend, who was good to him, probably had no idea about him wanting this lady, and he could remain with his gf while also pursuing this lady, and his gf did not know anything about it. His gf was being treated like an option and had no clue. That’s dirty.
when my anxiety kicks in,its you that makes me calm.I always sleep listening to your advice..You are a friend I can always run to whenever I feel lost.Thank you.
@@laminsanneh6276 hello there, I just read your comment today. I am in a good place now.My job does a big role in distracting me whenever axiety says hi🤣 But I grow a lot mentally and emotionally 3 years later.Thank you for your kind words.
They always come back when you ignore them and start developing on yourself. They see the new you and want the new you except you may not want the old "them". This builds your new ego.
@@topgunner1962 I can assure you she didn't forget you. I don't know your details but she probably thinks of you often, you can't forget 3 yrs just like that. Keep working on yourself, if she does reach out you want her to see how much you improved. Even if you don't want her back by that time, it will feel good, success is the best revenge. But don't give yourself false hope, try to move on, figure out the things you didn't like about her and don't beat yourself up, not everything is your fault. If she cared enough, she would try to work things up. Even if she comes back, after a while you probably won't want her back because of what she did to you (by leaving you and not contacting you. At least I think it will be like that in my case) My relationship was 4.5 yrs, I started fresh NC 2 days ago (previous 3 weeks NC she reached out once + christmas + new yrs). She just deleted my last photo on her insta. She doesn't hate me, I think she wants to be friends but knows it's not possible. I'm again at a bad place atm, can't focus on anything, but I hope it gets better. Her contacting you will only regress your progress. It kinda did in my case. Working on yourself, meeting new people, being more communicative and improving self confidence should be our main focus. And friends and gym. We don't want someone who doesn't want us in their lives.
@@topgunner1962 im very sorry to hear that. I can understand that you basically lost hope. How are you tho? Could you move on more, are you better? I hope she will reach out to you. And im sure she thinks about you too. Stay strong.
That woman wasnt being "disrespectful" she knows what he is... A man trying get with her while he is already with another woman already, she was protecting herself, she has every right to be "rude and disrespectful" as he called her
I'm still confused. Why would a 40 yr old man not realize that this woman has her own agenda that just doesn't include him? I find that most men have "mommy issues", but being mature in age, perhaps he should have a loving & respectful conversation with his mother to resolve those issues. He's definitely old enough to conclude that 'mom' also has trauma from her childhood that spilled over into her parenting style. It sounds as if he understands he's views aren't healthy. Perhaps a little intense therapy addressing his wounded inner child is in order...? I pray this man is able to find resolution, that he may better enjoy his 'Golden Years'. And to my 2 favorite coaches, keep 'em coming...I love hearing your advice!
That's right! Let them see how awesome and valuable you are. Every human being on this planet has a price. So sad most people don't see your worth at first glance until they realize it's too late to get you back.
Meisha Kalashnikova Ppl that really loved you for you will take the lessons they learned bc of you and never waver from them. And they will apply them to the relationships in their life and for the next person they fall in love with. Namaste.
Broke up with me 3 months ago.... Still in no contact and was in a ldr for three years. He's struggling and I can't hear or talk to him. I'm giving him space n working on myself. I want to hope for us getting back together much stronger....
I don’t even understand why the guy thinks he was treated bad in this...because the girl heard you had a girlfriend (good for him for saying that) but if I was the female and the man was flirting or coming onto me knowing he had a girlfriend I wouldn’t be the most friendly one either!
he is the rude and disrespectful person in this story! the woman treated him badly because he had a girlfriend and still came after her. i am generally disgusted at guys that chase me while having a girlfriend. if they treat the women who love them that disrespectfully, they will treat me as badly...no sympathy for such behavior.
I am a guy and I was thinking the same thing as I watched this. He seems very self-centered. This video was from awhile ago, though. Hopefully, Craig's advice got through to him.
Sadly, there are many women out there who just don't care and will start seeing a guy who has a girlfriend or is still talking to another girl. Karma will eventually bite them in the ass. You know the old saying "you lose them the same way you got them" ?
For me, unfortunately, sometimes that’s just not going to happen because that person doesn’t have any morals or he/she never really had feelings. It’s more liberating to just let go and have comfort in the idea that you are going to be fine while they are going to be miserable as long as they continue to behave this way.
Julia M, I agree. There's a chance they will never regret although I sincerely believe that regretting wrong actions and bad behaviours is the first step for self-criticism and self-development. It's not only a payback for whoever once was left behind but also a gift for the person itself who mistreated them.
Georgia Papadopoulou you are right however I think that some people are not capable to such a growth. Maybe it’ll take years for them to realize that, but in such a case waiting for that moment is punishing yourself. I truly believe that it is ok to break up with someone you don’t truly love but some people do it all wrong and hurt you so much in the process.
Highlight of my day is when there's a new video from you!! I always fall asleep listening to you..not that you're boring, lol!! Just relaxing and part of my routine now :) Thank you as always for the work you put into these!!
Hi Coach. Been watching your videos for about 3 weeks and finally subscribed. What a godsend your videos have been. My ex broke up with me 6 months ago and like so many others watching your videos it hurts to the depths of my soul. However, each month she had reached out with small morsels of indirect/direct contact. The last two contacts have increase in duration and today I discovered she had unblocked me on Facebook. I have been a student of the personal growth described in your videos and done everything you said even when it felt as if my heart would break into a million pieces. Thank you Coach for being there when the tears overwhelm me and I could not catch my breath.
I don’t like the idea of making anyone do anything. That can lead to trying to control. There is more freedom in acceptance. But I know what you mean. ❤️
I get where this guy is coming from. I feel the same way about wanting to tell my ex off real bad, but that's just coming from emotion. Your video hits the nail on the head of what reality really would be. You're right, just keep doing awesome things, and either she'll come back, or a better one will find you.
You are like music to my ears on my morning commute to work! 😍 Thanks for all your feedback & knowledge. I hope one day I can have a coaching with you. You’d have me in fits you’re so funny! X
My ex of 4 months has already moved in with another man. We have two children under 8 together. Its devastating. After two months no contact accept for business with kids, she is adding little extra things to the messages like stickers and telling me how she's waiting on her man to get home....he's late....and such.... She even caressed my back when i was holding our baby girl when i picked them up the other day. I know she is beginning to see how i am the wayyyy better option. She's alredy moved in though and has feel she has to try to make this one work so she doesnt look bad now. I can see it falling apart. Im staying no contact and continuing working on myself. I already quit drinking and smoking. Im back with the Lord also. Things for me are growing exponentially. She's watching me grow too and wont be long now till she realizes i am gone and moving on.
I don't know if it work with fathers but watching this video is making me realize that my ex is just like my dad. me and my dad dont get along he's hard to deal with and rude sometimes but I still constantly subconsciously try to seek his approval and talk to him. my ex is just like him and its been almost 10 months and I'm still extremely attracted to her and I can't seem to get her out of my mind now matter who I date
My boyfriend broke up with me a month ago on a silly argument. He blamed it all on my short temper. I apologised for a week. But all he has yet been doing is making me feel as if I've hurt him. We are away due to the lockdown. We were even great during a long distance . We used to be super excited to meet up, and video call. Things have changed. He didn't even have the courage to speak on the call. He hasn't taken my calls till date. He has ended it all on whatsapp. He hasnt tried contacting me, he hasn't blocked me either, just replies to my messages on the sms and blames it all on me. What do I do ? I feel hurt, he would make me feel like a princess, and doesn't even bother anymore. I wish he had at least spoken to me
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Could you do a video on the topic of a man in his 30s who lives with his mother, rather leave a good relationship of 6 years, than move out of mothers place and start to live his life?
8:00 - Hold up, _hold up_ , *_Hold up!!_* Radio silence and no-contact applies to an ex / former *_established_* relationship, not for an unrequited crush/ limerance outside an already existing, committed relationship! ⏯ Was there a loss misnterpretation & misapplication as it pertains to "radio silence" or "no-contact" policies??? ... 10:34 , 10:50 , 10:57 , 11:21 - *_Exactky!_* _[open palm wipe to face]_
How I wished my ex-girlfriend could have spoken with Craig when she was attracted to the other man. This other man is very manipulative and I don't think he'll be good for her. We had a loving, supportive and wonderful relationship but I couldn't get my life together so I think she felt insecure. The guy she left me for has a career, a house and money, he's also 17 years older than her.
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I wish you all healthy loving relationships.We are all special .Continue to work on yourself. I am working on myself and believe me his absent each day makes me work harder and harder.It is his loss if he does not come back into my orbit... and some days I feel I do not want him back. I am getting a lot of attention from other men who can not believe that any man can break up with me[ so Ha Ha to him. ] So smile guys and gals.. and continue the work! For yourself not for anyone else!
I have watched a number of your videos and completely understand the no contact rule but never in any of your videos have you told us what to do if you happen to run into them in-person? Can you please do a video on that. Thanks for all of your help!
Wish i could afford you but Your videos are quite helpful so thanks. I’m mentally preparing to just move on. I’m gonna miss my ex but we have no future together anyways. I made a cons list it’s way longer then the pros list. I feel like if you knew my situation you would probably tell me to move on. Basically i broke it off bc i refuse to be his 2nd option! I don’t think he’s seeing anyone else yet. But he’s very much actively looking. I wish him the best of luck bc he’s never gonna find anyone to treat him better and put up with his crap. Tbh this situation was just convenient for me
“But I was honest with her about having a gf”, wow, now that is distorted rationale. He sounds a bit looney. I’ve encountered some people with the same flawed logic and it always sends up huge red flags. Run...fast and far! He shouldn’t focus on showing her how well he’s doing. He needs to concentrate on his current relationship . But I knew you were speaking in terms of him being a single man. As usual, love your videos!
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if coach craig would give me a one time big time free talk to him everything about my ex.. i will follow everything on his plan and made my ex feel that he's fucked.
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I want to see and talk to her, but all the lies and having cheated to me built a hulkish wall that exist before the 0 contact. I cant get to her, and i dont want to. Moving on!
After 2 months I went to his dor and crying I beg him for forgiveness he says I don't feel the same for you you have to leave me alone to find someone to be happy with him but is not me he said I'll never forget you you are a good friend but I hurt you hanging out with you because I don't feel the same as you feel for me Also he said that when a asked him will you gonna forgive me one day he said maybe but not this year not 2020 he was mad and cold with me and am depressed and hurt cuz I like him a lot
What's difficult for me is that we are both not on social media and I have been blocked on his phone I'm gutted because I also think that there's not very many people me included who would ever not want their exes back I'm heart broken and doubt I will ever be able to get over him it sucks please help....
So we learn empathy from our mothers? makes sense do daughters learn it from their fathers? That would also make sense, my ex had a cold detached father and stepfather so this would explain her lack of empathy. I don't know why I even miss her, because I guess it is the way she is over thoughtful to her newest guy she goes out of her way to show me how happy she is with him, I can only interpret that as she is telling me she still has feelings for me otherwise why would she do that? It seems contrived she texts me 5 times a day I don't even know why I still t5hink I feel for her.
I was going to see my ex today and work things out but my mom told me that it wouldn't be a good idea going not invited to his house, ???? What do you think Craig ???? He dumped me a week ago
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Now from that day that I went at his dor I didn't text him anymore cuz he told me that he blocked me but before I texted him from other numbers but now I'm not doing absolutely nothing towards him nothing
Hey Craig, I screwed up ignoring her multiple times during no contact advised by other so-called "experts". Now she's angry and blocked me anywhere and ignores me. How can I fix this?
first helix never ignore an ex take like 4 hours to answer the message you are meant to be busy getting on with you’re life, hopefully she may just test the waters again in this time you reply immediately and then take the time to reply so she knows you are up for replying, good luck pal
@@rwentfordable Hey, that was 5 years ago 🤣 No, we didn‘t get back together, which obviously is always „the plan“. Lesson learnt is, it‘s probably not the best idea ignoring somebody in a long-distance relationship. Careful of those so-called experts on YT, the‘re in the business of selling hope, which always works when you‘re desperate.
My ex has deleted me off everything for no reason. Maybe because he's really trying to get over me and can't stand seeing me. Anyone experienced this and NC still worked? We were together for 4 years ldr. We had a great relationship and it feels like I keep getting kicked while down.
Can you do a video on Lomg distance relationships and NO contact. He left me to go stay with his mom, in another state. We are separated. Married for 8 years almost. It is SO hard for no contact bc I never see him he isnt on social media? I'm dying.
No you are not dying. You are stronger than you think. I am 73 yrs old now. My first husband left me.for another woman after 12 yrs married and 3 liitle boys. Thought I would die. I didn't. Met another man a wonderful guy was in a relationship with him for 8 yrs. He dropped.dead suddenly.when we were on vacation. I thought I would die. I didn't . I later met a wonderful man, we married and had 25 yrs together he died suddenly of a heart attack. I thought I would die. I didn't. I eventually had an relationship with a man who I grew to love and stil do but it didn't work out. Now I am alone with memories of the joys and sorrows of loving and I didn't die and neither will you. You learn to live through the pain because we woman are stronger than we imagine. Now I love my Chihuahuas and to heck with men. They either walk out on you or die.
I'm a lil shaken but glad he's doing well. His niece told me he's distancing himself from others but seem alot better. Not as depressed. Just bored. This was a ldr 3 years relationship n broke off with me six months ago. No contact since. What do I do....... That he is still silent. Is there no hope.
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I neglected my ex. did almost 3 weeks of radio silence. she jumped to rebound right away. she's happy with him. I wrote her a light-spirited, cheerful letter. she liked it. and admitted that I've changed a lot but we should move forward, separated. She told that to our common friend. she just refuses to speak to me. after 7 years of love. first problem - she ran away. ahe'a never going back, is she?
I can kinda empathize with ol boy because of his attachment issues with his mother and this woman reminds him of her....however, he needs therapy to get help because he's looking like a stalker and a bit dangerous
He left me with no reason , we dated for a year , he doesn't text or call me anymore but when I asked him are u breaking up with me he said no 😭😭😭😭💔 what should I do I'm hopelss
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because he is interested in you and you occupy a place in his mind and heart. People break up for all sort of reasons, sometimes even if they are in love.Or because he is checking if he really missed something.., in case he had some doubts
We were together for 2 1/2 years with the last year being on and off. We got on really well, never argued at all. Very chilled out together. Can't understand why he broke up said we had an amazing connection, intense chemistry, I was wonderful etc.Said I was out of his league. He had another girl on the go when he sent me a breakup email (GIGS). Didn't last. I told him he was scared and had low self esteem. Thats 5 times he has viewed my profile in the last 2 months. Last time was 5 days ago. Every 2 1/2-3 weeks. Gone no contact - 79 days now. Sent me a text on new years eve. And it was a single '.' that was it. And viewed my profile 1 hour beforehand. Miss him so much.
I’m going through a tough break up and just found out my ex is dating a new guy after 3 weeks, I’m really struggling to sleep at night and I’ve gone of my food I’m scared of what’s going to happen I need help.
flaigus don't worry give it sometime I was in the same situation ex gf dumped me new guy in 3 days if you hit the gym focus on you go on dates it will get better its been 4 months since BU n I'm doing fairly well
@@notmars77 hey man thanks for the reply. You’re right it really does get easier, this was a long time ago I’m in a new relationship now and we’ve just had a baby. I hadn’t realised how toxic my last relationship was until I got over it reflected and moved on. I seen my ex a few weeks ago in my local store said hello but I felt nothing for her. Funny how things turn out. Hope you’re good
Why when you get dumped by a woman, do they always say I love you and I will always love you? Bitch you tore my heart out after 18yrs. Then kicked me in the nuts with a new boy the next day!!!!
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Hey, simple question. Do you accept insurance? I have BCBS that covers behavioral health, I really want to work with you but I'm tight on money. I really really need your help. Things are not good and all I seem to do is keep messing up.
I had the same situation, except I hurt him too because he didn’t value/respect me. Do you still advise me to find him and show him how awesome I am? I thought I should just leave it. There is too much to repair and he is avoidant. I’m deeply hurt.
I’m going on 4 weeks on Monday NC and nothing from my ex, we were dating for 1yrd and 3 months...this is an LDR we did have good times of course, he is only 2 rs drive away so not bad ...we will see ...he has an avoidant attachment style while I’m the anxious one ....I hope he has not forgotten me... I am dating other ppl and I’m sure he is too. But waiting it’s a bitch
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Do you have other videos where you talk about the "recognizing your parent effect"? I am crazy about a guy too, difference is though that we are both single. I just cannot forget him even though he treats me poorly. Unfortunately, that doesn't make my love fade... quite the opposite. Thanks if you have any reference, would be very helpful
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Hawaiianrose kaliia just do you! I'm in the same boat. Try hard to let go. It sucks. If they don't want you...you don't want that really. Make yourself a badass. Do it for you#
They don't have regrets they just go see a Chad or Tyrone get railed and wonder why they can't meet a good guy, that they had until that itch to ride the carousel ..... .overnight day independent women become cat women after they hit the wall.... karma is a bitch
Hi everyone..I need some help.. my ex and I have been broken up for a month now but we still keep in contact and we have hooked up a few times since the break up but she still doesn't want to be with me.also it seems like she doesn't have any feelings nor any emotions towards me.. my heart and feelings are with her and only her but it really seems like she doesn't feel the same way. I don't know what to think or do..please help someone
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Hi Craig you are very good coach my story is very complicated and diferent I liked a man a lot and I told him that and he told me I like you but just like friend cuz I'm not ready also for realiationship cuz he was devorced and hurt and depressed cuz he loved his wife soo much was been 17 years together and she left him soo we use to hang out together like friends but I feld in love with him deeply he told me many times that I love you like a friend but that's it but I loved him more and more we continue to hang out for 6 months and I couldn't handle this situation and I left in another country I use to text him often and he responds sometimes not every time and I messed up expressing my feelings and he get mad and he told me good bue forever
I dont like that guy that wrote that letter. I feel without a doubt hes trying to have his CAKE and EAT it too.. Hes being manipulative and using his girlfriend. Lying cheater who just wants the excitement of a new bossy women but not man enough to let go of his poor girlfriend so she can find a good man.. just my opinion. Hope the girlfriend finds a better man then him
90k views means 90k hearts are broken? Very sad. I wish you all a speedy recovery.
Nii Narku thank you hopefully she makes the right decision
Nii Narku Thank You!!!!!!
It's 178k now. Lmao
180 thousand now
Good luck to you too
@@Tony-dh 🤣🤣🤣some will recover, some will die of it just like the COVID.
She was rude & disrespectful because he had a girlfriend. She was smart and didn’t allow herself to fall for him.
Exactly. She valued and respected herself to not put herself in such a crazy situation. She probably had no respect for him and thought he could possibly do the same to her if they got together.
What really is upsetting is how his girlfriend, who was good to him, probably had no idea about him wanting this lady, and he could remain with his gf while also pursuing this lady, and his gf did not know anything about it. His gf was being treated like an option and had no clue. That’s dirty.
when my anxiety kicks in,its you that makes me calm.I always sleep listening to your advice..You are a friend I can always run to whenever I feel lost.Thank you.
Oh am very sorry for that you are so beautiful and you'll be always loved
@@laminsanneh6276 wish someone can tell that to me too 😥
Same here. Thanks Craig and all your team for these vídeos
@@laminsanneh6276 hello there, I just read your comment today. I am in a good place now.My job does a big role in distracting me whenever axiety says hi🤣 But I grow a lot mentally and emotionally 3 years later.Thank you for your kind words.
@@MedievalFantasy7393 You are an AMAZING person.
They always come back when you ignore them and start developing on yourself. They see the new you and want the new you except you may not want the old "them". This builds your new ego.
@@topgunner1962 still nothing?
@@topgunner1962 I can assure you she didn't forget you. I don't know your details but she probably thinks of you often, you can't forget 3 yrs just like that. Keep working on yourself, if she does reach out you want her to see how much you improved. Even if you don't want her back by that time, it will feel good, success is the best revenge. But don't give yourself false hope, try to move on, figure out the things you didn't like about her and don't beat yourself up, not everything is your fault. If she cared enough, she would try to work things up. Even if she comes back, after a while you probably won't want her back because of what she did to you (by leaving you and not contacting you. At least I think it will be like that in my case)
My relationship was 4.5 yrs, I started fresh NC 2 days ago (previous 3 weeks NC she reached out once + christmas + new yrs). She just deleted my last photo on her insta. She doesn't hate me, I think she wants to be friends but knows it's not possible. I'm again at a bad place atm, can't focus on anything, but I hope it gets better. Her contacting you will only regress your progress. It kinda did in my case. Working on yourself, meeting new people, being more communicative and improving self confidence should be our main focus. And friends and gym. We don't want someone who doesn't want us in their lives.
@@topgunner1962 Hey! Any updates on your situation? :) Im NC Day 38 :( after 2yrs she borke up.
@@topgunner1962 im very sorry to hear that. I can understand that you basically lost hope. How are you tho? Could you move on more, are you better? I hope she will reach out to you. And im sure she thinks about you too. Stay strong.
@@topgunner1962 oh fuck. :( Yes, maybe i could join the discord. I resonate with your feelings alot. I feel the same towards my forbidden love.
It takes everything in me not to contact them. These videos keep me sane and not do anything crazy. Lol.
Saaame haha!! I am watching these videos every day 😂👌🏼
Sad but true
@@estherh.1106 ex came back?
Ankita Joshi i wouldn't say 'come back' yet, but he did reach out and is messaging me quite a lot!
@@estherh.1106 thts good news.
I know my value yet its hard to see it when you're heartbroken😔
I'm in the same boat.stay strong sweetheart . One day we will feel better
The greatest revenge is indeed making them regret losing you, not berating or getting even.
That woman wasnt being "disrespectful" she knows what he is... A man trying get with her while he is already with another woman already, she was protecting herself, she has every right to be "rude and disrespectful" as he called her
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Exactly!
I'm still confused. Why would a 40 yr old man not realize that this woman has her own agenda that just doesn't include him? I find that most men have "mommy issues", but being mature in age, perhaps he should have a loving & respectful conversation with his mother to resolve those issues. He's definitely old enough to conclude that 'mom' also has trauma from her childhood that spilled over into her parenting style. It sounds as if he understands he's views aren't healthy. Perhaps a little intense therapy addressing his wounded inner child is in order...? I pray this man is able to find resolution, that he may better enjoy his 'Golden Years'.
And to my 2 favorite coaches, keep 'em coming...I love hearing your advice!
That's right! Let them see how awesome and valuable you are. Every human being on this planet has a price. So sad most people don't see your worth at first glance until they realize it's too late to get you back.
Meisha Kalashnikova Ppl that really loved you for you will take the lessons they learned bc of you and never waver from them. And they will apply them to the relationships in their life and for the next person they fall in love with. Namaste.
If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with.
Broke up with me 3 months ago....
Still in no contact and was in a ldr for three years. He's struggling and I can't hear or talk to him. I'm giving him space n working on myself. I want to hope for us getting back together much stronger....
I don’t even understand why the guy thinks he was treated bad in this...because the girl heard you had a girlfriend (good for him for saying that) but if I was the female and the man was flirting or coming onto me knowing he had a girlfriend I wouldn’t be the most friendly one either!
he is the rude and disrespectful person in this story! the woman treated him badly because he had a girlfriend and still came after her. i am generally disgusted at guys that chase me while having a girlfriend. if they treat the women who love them that disrespectfully, they will treat me as badly...no sympathy for such behavior.
I am a guy and I was thinking the same thing as I watched this. He seems very self-centered. This video was from awhile ago, though. Hopefully, Craig's advice got through to him.
Thank God I'm loyal to my wife she is the only one in my eyes over 3 weeks ago she left me
@automaniac85 I'm sorry to hear that , I hope you are doing good . I bet I wife slept with another guy also it's her loss she left a true love .
@automaniac85 you could that's what I did thanks to God focus on yourself and make a lot of money
Sadly, there are many women out there who just don't care and will start seeing a guy who has a girlfriend or is still talking to another girl. Karma will eventually bite them in the ass. You know the old saying "you lose them the same way you got them" ?
Karma police. We all do regret our huge mistakes sooner or later... I honestly live for that day.
Yes me too
For me, unfortunately, sometimes that’s just not going to happen because that person doesn’t have any morals or he/she never really had feelings. It’s more liberating to just let go and have comfort in the idea that you are going to be fine while they are going to be miserable as long as they continue to behave this way.
Julia M, I agree. There's a chance they will never regret although I sincerely believe that regretting wrong actions and bad behaviours is the first step for self-criticism and self-development. It's not only a payback for whoever once was left behind but also a gift for the person itself who mistreated them.
Georgia Papadopoulou you are right however I think that some people are not capable to such a growth. Maybe it’ll take years for them to realize that, but in such a case waiting for that moment is punishing yourself. I truly believe that it is ok to break up with someone you don’t truly love but some people do it all wrong and hurt you so much in the process.
Julia M you're so right! Thank you very much indeed 😊❤
No respect..there is NO relationship..soooooo true! Your encouragement is great!!
suddenly i realize im a good guy lol
Highlight of my day is when there's a new video from you!! I always fall asleep listening to you..not that you're boring, lol!! Just relaxing and part of my routine now :) Thank you as always for the work you put into these!!
Tiffany Munsey Awwwe that's such a sweet comment!
So it's not only me who sleeps on his voise talking to me❤️
i thought i was the only one who thought he could relax me to the point i can now sleep peacefully at night
Tiffany Munsey did your no contact work? were you able to reunite or move on
Hi Coach. Been watching your videos for about 3 weeks and finally subscribed. What a godsend your videos have been. My ex broke up with me 6 months ago and like so many others watching your videos it hurts to the depths of my soul. However, each month she had reached out with small morsels of indirect/direct contact. The last two contacts have increase in duration and today I discovered she had unblocked me on Facebook. I have been a student of the personal growth described in your videos and done everything you said even when it felt as if my heart would break into a million pieces. Thank you Coach for being there when the tears overwhelm me and I could not catch my breath.
MAke them regret their decision by telling them you just won the lottery...
What makes my day? Well the you tube notification ."coach craig kenneth uploaded ...."..😇
I don’t like the idea of making anyone do anything. That can lead to trying to control. There is more freedom in acceptance. But I know what you mean. ❤️
Thanks Dr. Craig I'm doing no contact and I'm not going to let her bring me down. Her loss is my gain
I get where this guy is coming from. I feel the same way about wanting to tell my ex off real bad, but that's just coming from emotion. Your video hits the nail on the head of what reality really would be. You're right, just keep doing awesome things, and either she'll come back, or a better one will find you.
We need to work on our self-esteem. ❤ and believe again in ourselves.
Another excellent, excellent video! Take the high ground..words to live by. Thank you Coach, your advice is fantastic. Rob
You are like music to my ears on my morning commute to work! 😍 Thanks for all your feedback & knowledge. I hope one day I can have a coaching with you. You’d have me in fits you’re so funny! X
Just work on yourself then they will regret they dump you!
My ex of 4 months has already moved in with another man. We have two children under 8 together. Its devastating. After two months no contact accept for business with kids, she is adding little extra things to the messages like stickers and telling me how she's waiting on her man to get home....he's late....and such....
She even caressed my back when i was holding our baby girl when i picked them up the other day. I know she is beginning to see how i am the wayyyy better option. She's alredy moved in though and has feel she has to try to make this one work so she doesnt look bad now. I can see it falling apart. Im staying no contact and continuing working on myself. I already quit drinking and smoking. Im back with the Lord also. Things for me are growing exponentially. She's watching me grow too and wont be long now till she realizes i am gone and moving on.
LDR....soooo difficult..OMG...such a mess I've been involved in..thanks for your "fresh wind"..:)
I hope this guy gets what he deserves this is sickening
Somebody hit the unlike button already ? Most likely a dumper..the one that dumped his ex..lol
I don't know if it work with fathers but watching this video is making me realize that my ex is just like my dad. me and my dad dont get along he's hard to deal with and rude sometimes but I still constantly subconsciously try to seek his approval and talk to him. my ex is just like him and its been almost 10 months and I'm still extremely attracted to her and I can't seem to get her out of my mind now matter who I date
Always that one hater! I would never do that to you!😉 You have helped me so much! I was a Trainwreck before I came to this channel!
Coach Craig u got some brains ...I found a friend when I listen to u and coach Margaret
My boyfriend broke up with me a month ago on a silly argument. He blamed it all on my short temper. I apologised for a week. But all he has yet been doing is making me feel as if I've hurt him. We are away due to the lockdown. We were even great during a long distance . We used to be super excited to meet up, and video call. Things have changed. He didn't even have the courage to speak on the call. He hasn't taken my calls till date. He has ended it all on whatsapp. He hasnt tried contacting me, he hasn't blocked me either, just replies to my messages on the sms and blames it all on me. What do I do ? I feel hurt, he would make me feel like a princess, and doesn't even bother anymore. I wish he had at least spoken to me
@Anisha Mishra what did you do then?
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Wow!!! Made me realize lots of things and certainly helps me to move on and understand my ex and myself. Thank you coach craig and margaret
My ex told me we need a break to work on stuff and that I’ll talk to you again soon but keeps watching my snaps but told me not to watch them
Could you do a video on the topic of a man in his 30s who lives with his mother, rather leave a good relationship of 6 years, than move out of mothers place and start to live his life?
8:00 - Hold up, _hold up_ , *_Hold up!!_*
Radio silence and no-contact applies to an ex / former *_established_* relationship, not for an unrequited crush/ limerance outside an already existing, committed relationship!
⏯ Was there a loss misnterpretation & misapplication as it pertains to "radio silence" or "no-contact" policies???
... 10:34 , 10:50 , 10:57 , 11:21 - *_Exactky!_* _[open palm wipe to face]_
Was just thinking of this topic lol and next thing I know you make a video of it! thanks Coach your always on point!
Crystal clear which place of the world this man is from.
Take a guess :)
Coach Craig Kenneth there's only one place on earth where the oedipus complex is fully implemented 😁😂
Not Greece
India
What do you get when they regret? Personal use of this?
How I wished my ex-girlfriend could have spoken with Craig when she was attracted to the other man. This other man is very manipulative and I don't think he'll be good for her. We had a loving, supportive and wonderful relationship but I couldn't get my life together so I think she felt insecure. The guy she left me for has a career, a house and money, he's also 17 years older than her.
She will regret losing u
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hey can you do more on long distance relationship and the NC please!!!!!!!
I wish you all healthy loving relationships.We are all special .Continue to work on yourself. I am working on myself and believe me his absent each day makes me work harder and harder.It is his loss if he does not come back into my orbit... and some days I feel I do not want him back. I am getting a lot of attention from other men who can not believe that any man can break up with me[ so Ha Ha to him. ] So smile guys and gals.. and continue the work! For yourself not for anyone else!
I have watched a number of your videos and completely understand the no contact rule but never in any of your videos have you told us what to do if you happen to run into them in-person? Can you please do a video on that.
Thanks for all of your help!
Wish i could afford you but Your videos are quite helpful so thanks. I’m mentally preparing to just move on. I’m gonna miss my ex but we have no future together anyways. I made a cons list it’s way longer then the pros list. I feel like if you knew my situation you would probably tell me to move on. Basically i broke it off bc i refuse to be his 2nd option! I don’t think he’s seeing anyone else yet. But he’s very much actively looking. I wish him the best of luck bc he’s never gonna find anyone to treat him better and put up with his crap. Tbh this situation was just convenient for me
Great video coach Craig
That guy sounds abusive as heck
This had me howling idk Coach’s response to this made me laugh full heartedly because this guy doesn’t sound like a good guy
“But I was honest with her about having a gf”, wow, now that is distorted rationale. He sounds a bit looney. I’ve encountered some people with the same flawed logic and it always sends up huge red flags. Run...fast and far! He shouldn’t focus on showing her how well he’s doing. He needs to concentrate on his current relationship . But I knew you were speaking in terms of him being a single man. As usual, love your videos!
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if coach craig would give me a one time big time free talk to him everything about my ex.. i will follow everything on his plan and made my ex feel that he's fucked.
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I want to see and talk to her, but all the lies and having cheated to me built a hulkish wall that exist before the 0 contact. I cant get to her, and i dont want to. Moving on!
After 2 months I went to his dor and crying I beg him for forgiveness he says I don't feel the same for you you have to leave me alone to find someone to be happy with him but is not me he said I'll never forget you you are a good friend but I hurt you hanging out with you because I don't feel the same as you feel for me Also he said that when a asked him will you gonna forgive me one day he said maybe but not this year not 2020 he was mad and cold with me and am depressed and hurt cuz I like him a lot
What happened then .?
What a bizarre story
Sounds like he is head strong on the challenge of getting the gurl from his home town.
What's difficult for me is that we are both not on social media and I have been blocked on his phone I'm gutted because I also think that there's not very many people me included who would ever not want their exes back I'm heart broken and doubt I will ever be able to get over him it sucks please help....
So we learn empathy from our mothers? makes sense do daughters learn it from their fathers? That would also make sense, my ex had a cold detached father and stepfather so this would explain her lack of empathy. I don't know why I even miss her, because I guess it is the way she is over thoughtful to her newest guy she goes out of her way to show me how happy she is with him, I can only interpret that as she is telling me she still has feelings for me otherwise why would she do that? It seems contrived she texts me 5 times a day I don't even know why I still t5hink I feel for her.
I was going to see my ex today and work things out but my mom told me that it wouldn't be a good idea going not invited to his house, ???? What do you think Craig ???? He dumped me a week ago
She’s for the SKREETS!
Will no contact make an ex think and regret?
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Now from that day that I went at his dor I didn't text him anymore cuz he told me that he blocked me but before I texted him from other numbers but now I'm not doing absolutely nothing towards him nothing
1:15 which is why it feels good for them if they breakup and you try to chase?
Hey Craig, I screwed up ignoring her multiple times during no contact advised by other so-called "experts". Now she's angry and blocked me anywhere and ignores me. How can I fix this?
first helix never ignore an ex take like 4 hours to answer the message you are meant to be busy getting on with you’re life, hopefully she may just test the waters again in this time you reply immediately and then take the time to reply so she knows you are up for replying, good luck pal
So what was the plan after ignoring? It makes no sense. Did you both get back together?
@@rwentfordable Hey, that was 5 years ago 🤣 No, we didn‘t get back together, which obviously is always „the plan“. Lesson learnt is, it‘s probably not the best idea ignoring somebody in a long-distance relationship. Careful of those so-called experts on YT, the‘re in the business of selling hope, which always works when you‘re desperate.
@CraigKenneth what if she’s in a partying phase while I’m going through this?
Ok I see. Great advice..ty
You reep what you sew. Disrespect 1 get disrespect by another
My ex has deleted me off everything for no reason. Maybe because he's really trying to get over me and can't stand seeing me. Anyone experienced this and NC still worked? We were together for 4 years ldr. We had a great relationship and it feels like I keep getting kicked while down.
Ok??? So how do u make them regret It?
You make them regret leaving by becoming a strong and happier person.
Can you do a video on Lomg distance relationships and NO contact. He left me to go stay with his mom, in another state. We are separated. Married for 8 years almost. It is SO hard for no contact bc I never see him he isnt on social media? I'm dying.
No you are not dying. You are stronger than you think. I am 73 yrs old now. My first husband left me.for another woman after 12 yrs married and 3 liitle boys. Thought I would die. I didn't. Met another man a wonderful guy was in a relationship with him for 8 yrs. He dropped.dead suddenly.when we were on vacation. I thought I would die. I didn't . I later met a wonderful man, we married and had 25 yrs together he died suddenly of a heart attack. I thought I would die. I didn't. I eventually had an relationship with a man who I grew to love and stil do but it didn't work out. Now I am alone with memories of the joys and sorrows of loving and I didn't die and neither will you. You learn to live through the pain because we woman are stronger than we imagine. Now I love my Chihuahuas and to heck with men. They either walk out on you or die.
I'm a lil shaken but glad he's doing well.
His niece told me he's distancing himself from others but seem alot better. Not as depressed. Just bored. This was a ldr 3 years relationship n broke off with me six months ago.
No contact since. What do I do.......
That he is still silent. Is there no hope.
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I neglected my ex. did almost 3 weeks of radio silence. she jumped to rebound right away. she's happy with him. I wrote her a light-spirited, cheerful letter. she liked it. and admitted that I've changed a lot but we should move forward, separated. She told that to our common friend. she just refuses to speak to me. after 7 years of love. first problem - she ran away. ahe'a never going back, is she?
nie mam nazwy you fucked up by neglecting her. Her new man probably treats her like a queen. She’s gone. Get over her.
I can kinda empathize with ol boy because of his attachment issues with his mother and this woman reminds him of her....however, he needs therapy to get help because he's looking like a stalker and a bit dangerous
He left me with no reason , we dated for a year , he doesn't text or call me anymore but when I asked him are u breaking up with me he said no 😭😭😭😭💔 what should I do I'm hopelss
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I don't think my ex missed me at all
Why would an ex keep viewing my dating profile when he broke up with me? Any insight?
because he is interested in you and you occupy a place in his mind and heart. People break up for all sort of reasons, sometimes even if they are in love.Or because he is checking if he really missed something.., in case he had some doubts
We were together for 2 1/2 years with the last year being on and off. We got on really well, never argued at all. Very chilled out together. Can't understand why he broke up said we had an amazing connection, intense chemistry, I was wonderful etc.Said I was out of his league. He had another girl on the go when he sent me a breakup email (GIGS). Didn't last. I told him he was scared and had low self esteem. Thats 5 times he has viewed my profile in the last 2 months. Last time was 5 days ago. Every 2 1/2-3 weeks. Gone no contact - 79 days now. Sent me a text on new years eve. And it was a single '.' that was it. And viewed my profile 1 hour beforehand. Miss him so much.
Be happy and positive, he wants to be back. And you are here because you want him back.All is well.
Well certainly hope so. Just so hard. Thanks for the positive message.
Michelle Ross so did he come back?
I’m going through a tough break up and just found out my ex is dating a new guy after 3 weeks, I’m really struggling to sleep at night and I’ve gone of my food I’m scared of what’s going to happen I need help.
flaigus don't worry give it sometime I was in the same situation ex gf dumped me new guy in 3 days if you hit the gym focus on you go on dates it will get better its been 4 months since BU n I'm doing fairly well
@@notmars77 hey man thanks for the reply. You’re right it really does get easier, this was a long time ago I’m in a new relationship now and we’ve just had a baby. I hadn’t realised how toxic my last relationship was until I got over it reflected and moved on. I seen my ex a few weeks ago in my local store said hello but I felt nothing for her.
Funny how things turn out.
Hope you’re good
i work as maid thats the reason i still single
Why when you get dumped by a woman, do they always say I love you and I will always love you? Bitch you tore my heart out after 18yrs. Then kicked me in the nuts with a new boy the next day!!!!
Your no contact rule didn't work for me
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Hey, simple question. Do you accept insurance? I have BCBS that covers behavioral health, I really want to work with you but I'm tight on money. I really really need your help. Things are not good and all I seem to do is keep messing up.
and maby ar video on How friends and family can tell your ex to getting over You and maby Keep them from contacting you
I hate my mother
I had the same situation, except I hurt him too because he didn’t value/respect me. Do you still advise me to find him and show him how awesome I am? I thought I should just leave it. There is too much to repair and he is avoidant. I’m deeply hurt.
brooke light i feel u same situation
Hey Craig, do you personally think it's worth it to get back together with an Ex?
Depending on the situation of course. Every situation is completely different!
Would it be beneficial to allow my ex to see on social media that I'm seeing others to get her back?
No.
I’m going on 4 weeks on Monday NC and nothing from my ex, we were dating for 1yrd and 3 months...this is an LDR we did have good times of course, he is only 2 rs drive away so not bad ...we will see ...he has an avoidant attachment style while I’m the anxious one ....I hope he has not forgotten me... I am dating other ppl and I’m sure he is too. But waiting it’s a bitch
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Do you have other videos where you talk about the "recognizing your parent effect"? I am crazy about a guy too, difference is though that we are both single. I just cannot forget him even though he treats me poorly. Unfortunately, that doesn't make my love fade... quite the opposite. Thanks if you have any reference, would be very helpful
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Clearly from a country where its ok to have 9 wives..Henry the f****** viii 😂😂😂
I drove my ex away
As did I.
Me too
12:25 what happened there lol
Yeah hahah tf I thought it was my phone
What if he ran off with a girl and now in love with her is it the end for me & him? Since he says he lives her?what now???
I meant love her
Hawaiianrose kaliia just do you! I'm in the same boat. Try hard to let go. It sucks. If they don't want you...you don't want that really. Make yourself a badass. Do it for you#
rebounds usually never work. but move on! you deserve so much more!
They don't have regrets they just go see a Chad or Tyrone get railed and wonder why they can't meet a good guy, that they had until that itch to ride the carousel ..... .overnight day independent women become cat women after they hit the wall.... karma is a bitch
Absolutely!!!
STALKER!
Hi everyone..I need some help.. my ex and I have been broken up for a month now but we still keep in contact and we have hooked up a few times since the break up but she still doesn't want to be with me.also it seems like she doesn't have any feelings nor any emotions towards me.. my heart and feelings are with her and only her but it really seems like she doesn't feel the same way. I don't know what to think or do..please help someone
Update?
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Hi Craig you are very good coach my story is very complicated and diferent I liked a man a lot and I told him that and he told me I like you but just like friend cuz I'm not ready also for realiationship cuz he was devorced and hurt and depressed cuz he loved his wife soo much was been 17 years together and she left him soo we use to hang out together like friends but I feld in love with him deeply he told me many times that I love you like a friend but that's it but I loved him more and more we continue to hang out for 6 months and I couldn't handle this situation and I left in another country I use to text him often and he responds sometimes not every time and I messed up expressing my feelings and he get mad and he told me good bue forever
He is not clean his character is in trash
I need to talk to you, but I have ptoblem with paymeny. Is there aby possible to pay via paypal?that the only way for me
Yes I can do PayPal. But you’ll have to email me on my website.
I dont like that guy that wrote that letter. I feel without a doubt hes trying to have his CAKE and EAT it too.. Hes being manipulative and using his girlfriend. Lying cheater who just wants the excitement of a new bossy women but not man enough to let go of his poor girlfriend so she can find a good man.. just my opinion. Hope the girlfriend finds a better man then him