Why Your Ex Must Come To You
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- Опубліковано 21 лип 2024
- After a breakup, it is common to think that reaching out to your ex will cause them to not forget you but this isn't the case. In this video, we discuss the importance of giving your ex the space they asked for and letting them reach out to you.
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I had a Skype coaching session with Margaret last week and let me tell you, she is amazing! Her insight and intuition into my situation has been so helpful and I felt so much better after just talking with her.
She is amazing! Glad u feel better!
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Am recovered fro break up after talking to her three months ago...believe her!
@@pollylalaluvmusic9243 what is the guarantee? I will give the amount if my life improves and my Husband returns back Home. Thanks
@TooManyQuestions How to improve my life because there is uncertainty, unhappiness All the time.
All breakups are lesson to not to lose yourself in any future relationships.
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My ex came back to me after 85 days! Thanks!
Thank god
Just my pop in every few months to let you all know everything can change. Been back with my ex for nearly 2 years now, we are living together, have a kid and are looking to get married.
GET WORKING ON YOURSELF AND MAKE IT HAPPEN 💪
Did you make a lot of initial mistakes after the breakup? I keep beating myself up for doing the handwritten letter/clean slate message and good reminder text during no contact. I’m very hard on myself, which I know, but that doesn’t keep me from continuing to beat myself up for it.
The relationship went downhill during Covid because I got confused at what I wanted and tried an open relationship. This (obviously) didn’t end up going well, but at the time I thought it was what I wanted to do. We go to the same small university and run into each other every so often, but I have been purposely giving space and continuing to work on myself for the past several months.
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Congratulations!
Update?
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Nothing new. Still as it was before. Still a happy healthy relationship that still has the tense moments every so often but we manage to talk through things and be kind to each other.
Relationships can be really strong after a break up, just need to work on it together. :)
No contact works trust in it my friends,thank you coach Craig
I think if a person has the power of leaving you , he or she should have the power to stay away .
Thank you for all your advice I have done no contact and worked on myself and now my ex is taking me out to dinner this Friday and wants to get back together 😍 I couldn’t of done it without all your videos and amazing support and advice 🙏🏾❤️
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How long did it take?
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Team: excellent topic and video. As a 'dumpee,' often we have no sympathy towards the 'dumper.' In fact, this may come a little bit late, but my advice to a 'dumper.' Don't Ghost and be transparent. Try being honest and up front. If and when you're convinced that the grass is greener elsewhere, tell your partner. Why? Simple, as I speak from experience. My former ghosted me after 5+ years. We had a good thing going. I was crazy about her, etc., Fast forward, she's tried coming back at least 5 times. I can forgive most things, but betrayal in a committed relationship has consequences. My point to dumpers is simple. Be honest to have a second chance. In my case, I might have done so if she had been honest. Dating doesn't mean married! Break ups happen. If only, right? Well, all situations are different, but have intestinal fortitude/guts to be honest. It just may pay in the end. Thanks again for the words of wisdom. I have indeed learned so much from you three. God Bless and thank you for allowing me to share my story!🙌
I'm still trying to get my heart aligned with my head. 💔🤗
I am grateful for this video. In all this emotional chaos listening to what makes sense is what i need. Thank you so much.
Even though it’s been three weeks since the breakup, it seems like months has gone by and it’s scary to think that my ex will ever come back, knowing that the words that killed me deep down were, “we’re done!” I never thought I would hear that from my girlfriend.
Hope you're doing ok bro .. I'm day 6 NC and it's hard
@@dennisray8904 Thanks man, I’m doing ok. It is hard, especially when you think that she doesn’t know about No Contact. I used to dream about her in the beginning of the breakup, of us making love, but I don’t anymore or not that much. I want to dream again! 😭
Yeah it sucks! She's starting to open up very little though text only but getting more depth from her... Her birthday is Saturday so of course sending flowers and Jared's 😂 I'm going to push to hook up romantic getaway for the 30th keep you posted 🙏
@@dennisray8904 That’s awesome bro, best luck to you! My birthday is September 8 and I hope my ex reaches out with happy birthday, but I’m not sure she will, being that I didn’t wish her happy birthday back in July. However, she was the one who broke up. I’ll just wait and see. It’s been 87 days (or something like that) since the breakup and I’m still devastated!
@@ponokunishima1 Ik they say don’t send gifts but send her one that’ll make her cry and don’t ever text her. She’ll respond and you’ll get her thinking. It worked for me idk 🤷♂️
Never miss a video ❤️ happy when I see all 3 coaches together
I reached out to my ex once, recently. I mentioned I had read a book that had reminded me of him. He responded that he had read the book and liked it, and that it had “obviously” made him think of me. Before that, he has reached out three times: once just to talk (which was baffling to me), another time after a relative of mine died, and another one in order to return my things before he went away for a semester. On that last visit he said he was nostalgic. But he’s quite the avoidant, that stubborn man.
Sounds promising to me
3rd day on NC. Not too bad no gentle reminder or letter. i work in the gym so that forces me to workout with better intention since i lost 6lb from no eating.😅 Everytime I feel “missing” him I watch this channel again.Thank u!
Love hearing the start up music to the videos. Always reassures me knowing im going to gain insightful information in relation to my breakup.
I'm going through not sure what number breakup and so much more in between at this moment. So yes if you leave them alone they will come back but every single time I grow mature and try to find myself again he finds me, sees my worth as I'm growing and hooks me again. Then puts me through a crazy cycle And I'm in love with him so it's hard to let him go. And now we have our son 💙 and that makes it so much harder to let him go and I don't know where to start. I'm so scared he will try to do this again and I need to find my strength back to say no even when I don't want to.
Thanks for sharing this. This time I will only reach out when it's only for our son and start all over again, hope for positive energy and have hope for the future. Hope the best for him. If he wants me again he has to earn me and that will take a lot of time and growth on his end. If not then I know mine.
Yes, it's amazing to see the three of you together. Thank you. You give really strength in moments of loneliness. Perhaps, you may talk a bit more on the indirect direct approaches (e.g. she sends photos of her kid at first day of school knowing that it touch my heart, etc.). Ciao
@@biancadelarosa7986 contact father?
Very sound advice and insight. And very true..thank you for your uplifting message. 🙂
100% true. All of it. I did write letters and went to see her. At first she still responded nicely. But after a while, she got annoyed and angry. Which I can totally understand, now 2 years later. I don't know if there's still a chance for us. But fact is that she has to make the move.
This is a good topic video for people whos dealing with their anxiety, learn to analyze tour thoughts, control your emotion and tell your brain what will be good for you.
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I did everything wrong. I didn’t know any of this stuff. It was to late by the time I found all this truth out. She’s got a new bf now. I finally stopped contacting her 4 weeks ago. Honestly? After 8 years together, 4 weeks of no contact i am already changing. I’m already starting to get over this. I didn’t think that could happen. I’m starting to have feeling like “I don’t think I want to be with her anymore actually” or “I think maybe I’d be happier with someone else”. Man I wish I cut communication a long time ago. Just happy I finally had the courage to do so.
any update on this 2 years later?
I met another girl who took my mind off her 10,000% and it made me realize how much better I could do. It actually changed my taste and preferences a lot and I don’t ever think about my ex from 8 years ago except random dreams from time to time but I shake that off in 5 minutes of waking up. At the end of the day me and her could never work out or function. I’m a completely different person now. I’ve lost 75 lbs of fat and feel amazing. My mind is sharper etc…
@@christophermccarthy9497 gotcha. it sounds like she never reached out to you herself in these last 2 years though? - either way, amazing to hear man, good for you - I hope the same for myself one day if it turns out that me and my ex aren't meant to come back together in the future
I have been so torn up since my breakup. I haven’t eaten in a month just drinking protein shakes and going to the gym again. Down 30lbs in a month. Ran into my ex at the store this week. She just stared at me and said “you look great.” We hugged the whole world stopped we were both love struck. We hugged again she buried her face in my chest. She said I should call her sometime and she said she missed me. I screwed up and called her the next night. It was the first time she ever verbalized considering getting back together. She said she was sad and confused. I told her she should take a step back and consider her options. She has been in a rebound relationship since we broke up. She went and spent the weekend with her new man, who I am sure has no idea she has been talking and texting me on and off. I screwed up and texted her again last night. I listened to videos all night. I will not contact her again unless she reaches out to me again. I think she was close but I relieved her anxiety. Won’t happen again.
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Any update on this?
I really like this video because it made me see their side more and be easy and understanding about it
Sent a email last week to you about my terrible break up. Just spoke to my ex after 2 months. She agreed with me that we both do The Knowledge and come back to our relationship in a year. I just purchased two lots of the 10 volumes for us to separately work on. We both love each other but it’s been very toxic. Let’s hope your workbooks help. Thank you Coach Craig. PS. You need an option where you can choose a quantity of 2, I had to use 2 seperate emails for the purchase. Thank you for all you do.
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Coach I was watching all your videos for Almost 2 years since the break up. Thank you for always here to ease my anxiety with my ex. Thank you 💯♥️
@@chevy2583 were having a on and off relationships my friend. 1st break up is 8 months and get back together. 2nd break up is 2 months. 3rd break up is 1 month. Until the 4th break up she cheated on me and find another guy. That's why I don't want to take her back anymore. And it's been 2 years since the last break up.
@@chevy2583 that's why I don't believe in love
@Ahlam Ahmed and if it complete heals. I will never put a girl into pedestal, never ever again!
@@chevy2583 last 2 months she contacted me. Wants to see if what I am doing. And I simply tell her. I'm okay! I will be the first man to congratulate you if you reach your dreams and if you finish your study. And then I blocked her on any social flatform and change again my contact number, Coz Darius M said. Never let your ex back comeback to you. Coz they will do the same damage again to me. It really hurts to ignore and block a woman you wants to be your future someday, but I choose to move on, rather than been hurt again! 💔
@Ahlam Ahmed no! Coz im a fucking alpha male. Sorry that's my mindset and decision !
I originally took the breakup well, but after a couple weeks I suddenly broke down and made a few of the mistakes listed. Wish I had learned about all this before and it's all so counter intuitive! We both did a lot of "direct-indirect" reaching out to each other for ~8 months. Then I finally did no-contact, which resulted in them blocking me on social media. The "good times reminder" got zero response. I have since not reached out any more. They still choose to interact with me during some online gaming in a group though, which is some mixed messaging. It's been 2 months of that.
Hear a lot of different "answers" 👈 yes definitely... that was a very polite way of saying it...😉👍
Thank you for this video... I really appreciate it...🙏
My boyfriend and I broke up a few times in a period of three years this past three weeks ago he broke up with me the first week I was a shock I did reach out to him we both talked for a little bit but he was very clear that he didn’t want to get back together with me so I finally decided to be having some respect for myself and leave him alone I agree with all three of you it is like grieving like somebody died inside of me it is so difficult to overcome the situation especially because I was let go by him I was dumped by him thank you so much for this video
Update
Did your ex ever reach out to you??
I've been caving into my abandonment fears and past traumas. Staying in a one sided toxic relationship because I won't let go, she keeps throwing me bread crumbs but blows me off more than not. I don't feel the love from her anymore like I used to when the relationship was good. I feel powerless, she started working at a strip club so now I feel more insecure and haven't been able to express myself in a way that she seems to care. It's against my instinct to let go but in the mean time I watch your videos at least 3 hours a day and am trying to work on my fitness as well as quit my gambling addiction. I really appreciate Margret and celebrate the life she had and her service to all of us.
I would refer you to Geoffrey Setiawan's channel and his Relationship Revival Program. I have compiled Coach Craig's advice with Geoffrey Setiawan's program and I think it is the way to go. Give all your worries to God and trust his plan and his timing. Good luck
Thank you coaches for an insightful and helpful video.
I was literally just telling myself to wait ❤️💪
Crucial counsel. Thank you, once again.
If they end it. they get the gift of missing u 4 ever unless she does all textin pursuing etc. They pushed u out they can push back in if u want that.
I reached out to my ex 3 times since the breakup and each was about a week or just a couple days apart and she answered and got colder towards me and the last time she just plain ignored me trust me no contact would of been better
Answering Craig's personal experience request. I tried the grand gesture 2 days after the breakup: 2 dozen very expensive apology roses 🌹
I was ignored and currently still am being. I was lucky to discover No Contact soon after and stay in it. Wish me luck.
Update: got unblocked after 4 weeks. Still in NC improving myself. 🥀
Good luck lonelyrider, stay strong, keeping working on yourself and this will work out for both of us!
@@patrickennis4612 TY you too bro. 💓
I did the begging, pleading, made a picture collage board, bargaining, etc. None of it worked and only made her avoid me more. No contact and breaking that codependency is the only thing that worked. She's purposely leaving stuff in my house now, coming to pick items up in small batches just to have some kind of contact with me.
When she does contact me I do not ignore her, just like yall said. Do not ignore, but I let her know I'm doing perfectly OK 😌
I feel like I need to block my ex though because he keeps reaching out to me even though he's in a "rebound" I don't want to ignore him but like they say, the grief RESTARTS after hearing from them. I'm so torn and don't know what to do, maybe I'll have to be rude just to heal myself and have self respect.
Lol my ex asked me to convince him to stay with him while he was dumping me and I said I didn’t want to have someone to convince to be with me. Unfortunately, it’s been a few months of no contact and nothing from him. I doubt he’ll reach out but I’m glad I have sent any messages I’m embarrassed by
The nerve in that guy wow lol don’t ever reach out he’ll soon realize what he’s missing trust me. And if he doesn’t his loss. You’re way to beautiful to sit around waiting for him )
I've been in no contact for three months it's hard when I think I'm going to give in. I think about your video it helps.
You all look so elegant.
Plenty of good advice there guys, cheers. 👍
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We’re currently doing the 2-2-3 visitation schedule with our 2 kids both under age 3. It’s extremely hard we talk everyday (kid related) and see each other multiple times a week. I’ve begged, flowers, you name it. it’s been almost 3 months since she moved out. She has been very firm the last month it’s never happening again. I was at fault for the split and she can only see my faults still. At what time frame should I move on. Very much hoping to repair for our family and getting another chance to do better.
Craig is absolutely right. I did all the classic mistakes during the breakup because it was mostly my fault, so I was desperate and then I tried to communicate after almost a year. I just asked how she was doing- no answer of course. I found out that she rushed into a new relationship less than a couple of months after our breakup.
Don't do the same mistakes guys.
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He told me let's be friends but he doesn't talk to me they just use those words to get the person off their back, my ex doesn't care 💔💔💔🙁😐 men don't have a heart they drop women like nothing
I reached out but it wasn’t bad after 3 weeks. Only because she has been back and fourth getting her things. She gave me a hug and said so love you and to stay in touch. This is the second time we broke up but I know we still need space. I’m going back to no contact because this is what she asked for until she makes it clear this is what she wants fasure
I really appreciate your videos. It's like having you in my living room to assure me I'll be OK. However, I'd like to ask you ( for a friend) why would my ex come back to me when she didn't go back to her ex? Why would this relationship be any different? Thank you.
I ask myself the same question. But I guess with me, the difference is that I was dumped and in her previous relationships she was dumped so there was a sense of pride in not going back in her previous relationships. Also, in my previous relationships where I was good to them (as in this one) but still dumped, they did reach out after a while. But by then I had already moved on. Just have to analyze those previous relationships and see how they differ from yours and have faith that you’re somebody worthy of being missed. Easier said than done but we really have no choice.
@@brotaku8619 you're right
What if your ex came back and things were starting to get repaired, but then she suddenly pulled away and has now put up a massive wall? I suspect it’s the depression (she has a lot going on), but I can’t know for sure.
What makes it worse is we managed to finally meet for the first time after 4yrs, and she hasn’t replied back to me or my mom since then. It went pretty well I think but it was obvious that her mind was elsewhere.. Which was about what I expected.. Help? :/
I really love this girl and care about her, but she won’t communicate anymore.. I was in no contact and she was doing all of the initiating, saying she wants me back, etc. But then now I’m left feeling utterly confused and hopeless..
Not hearing nor not knowing about my husband for 22 months, it’s taking a Toll on my health. Please help. Thanks
My ex just said he doesn't know why, but he felt like he didn't want to spend time with me, and he feels like he is causing me to waste my life. This and other things makes me believe he is a Fearful Avoidant. It's been only 10 days. Seems like a year. So weird how the time element gets so distorted to the person who has been "let go".
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It's been almost a month since she left me. We were together for almost 3 years and only lived together for 6 months. We had a rough month or 2, it was just a very stressful time. We had so many good times I can't even keep count but i could count the bad times. I reached out a little over a week ago but before that was about 3 weeks ago and it was sincere but no grand jesture. I won't be reaching out but it's hard not to think about her.
In the same boat my dude, it's extremely hard. The best thing for both of us to do is work on ourselves and really understand who we are.
I'm seeing a psychologist and it's unbelievable how much it helps.
If you ever need someone to bounce off dude, I'd be glad to have conversations with you
We have been on/off since July when she messed up bad. Our last day seeing g each other was 9/30/21 - I called her on my birthday 10/18/21 without her reaching out first. We agreed to get together, We saw each other for a week (4 different times) & then then decided she wanted to revert back to not seeing each other again. Now it's no contact.
They broke up with me on 3/30 and I went to no contact. They texted me 4/9 but it was a message that seemed like they were still blaming me for their misfortune. I ignored that message. I’m staying strong with no contact so i can be better to myself and I won’t reach out until I’m good and ready and over it.
Thanks again, great video!
Reached out too many times I was ignored everytime
Ok, now I didn’t really reach out on this year on Halloween, I “accidentally” FaceTimed her and hung up. A few seconds later, she did the same. It all happened when, on the same night, I had an image pop in my head of her kissing someone (more of a peck on the lips) and I started to hyperventilate. I couldn’t get that image out of my head and I started crying uncontrollably the next two days, as I did on day one of the breakup. Perhaps our souls are connected and are one. After that happened, I noticed that she unblocked me on Facebook. Now, she blocked me on Facebook but not Instagram and I wondered why only on one platform. 🤷🏻
Last time I talked with my ex was 24.10 and I told her I won't contact her again but she can contact me and she's always be in my heart.
After that I saw her in a bar and I was there talking with other girls.
She left the bar, she was there with some random dude, maybe a friend. Who knows?
So no contact going strong and I doubt she's missing me or thinking about me. I did give her in May a handwritten letter saying I'll take her to Paris for shopping. I doubt she's contacting me again.
I know she's Instagram addicted and wants to show a posh image, meanwhile I'm aiming for financial independence in 11 years and don't have Instagram.
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Are you referring to this advice for all relationships? Is there a difference between someone who is married vs just boyfriend and girlfriend? I don't see any distinction in your videos. And what about the duration of time together? Shouldn't there be a difference between 6 months and a 20-year relationship? Would love to hear your thoughts.
We miss you so much, dearest sweet Maggie Mea. 💗🌺
I reached out to my ex twice. not sure if this attempts really count as reaching out. 1st , I added her to facebook and as a result she blocked me right away. the 2nd is I sent him a drunk email message saying "Hi Crush", and she didn't reply. I'm in no contact now, and still working on myself. Thank you Coach for the helpful videos.
This is great!!! Thanks...🙋🏻♀️
Is one year no contact enough time to grieve and grow for both sides?
Thanks very much .. been in no contact for 2months now ...... En im working on myself and focusing on me ur video s have been so much of help and have strengthened me 😘 thanks very much
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I did all the wrong things that they have talked about and I always got the same answer i can't. So don't reach out
Did all the moves that you say I should not. Reached out to get her back the pleading the constant txt back and forth I got nothing, I gave her no space and like you said it did not work, so I’m starting to do the no contact. And will see how it goes. It’s hard but have to specially that she is long distance now and hard to just meet her in common places.
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I reached out many many times and it didn’t do me any good. It left him ignoring me. It’s a difficult situation though. I made him leave my home and then he tried to repair it. Things got so bad that he didn’t want me back and then I never gave him Space. It’s only been 2 weeks tomorrow that I stopped speaking to him and I’m sure he’s in disbelief because this is the longest I’ve went without contacting him. It was very toxic so it’s for the best but I still wonder how Long it’ll be before I hear from him now (even though I will not get back with him, it’ll be nice to know he may want to)
Hey, i hope you are doing well. Are there any updates?
Craig thanks for the videos, wanted to ask a interesting question if you don’t mind. If an ex lives so close like lives down the same street and you have to go by her house to go work etc… what is the best way to deal with this as I had to block her on all social media and messaging as i thought it was the best for me As it was too hard for me. But nearly 2 years on I’m fine now and cool with things but does that mean you unblock someone or live the way it is till the make contact.
after you heal and feel your confidence you can unblock them, and maybe they won't even notice, but at least you're going to be ok just the same/either way
I've initiated contact once after the break up since the dust has settled a bit, sent a song I thought he'd like and the response was pretty friendly and he said it was pretty groovy, before that after we met up and talked for closure a week after breaking up and I came to terms with why we ended and knowing what I needed to do to be better for me, he had always been the one reaching out by sending funny videos or a part of a song he thought I'd enjoy but I really don't think I'm ready to initiate contact being that ill always have some feelings for him, my first real love and compatible person I've been with, just not sure if he initiates contact should I respond.. any advice would be helpful (also its been a month since things ended)
My ex ended the relationship by ghosting me. I spent a week reaching out. I stopped for some time. Then reach out by phone and text still nothing. I got desperate and sent a good well or clean slate email. Every effort was ignored and only made me feel worse. When someone walks away you have to walk in the opposite direction. Chasing after them will only hurt you.
What if you had a 7yr relationship n then broke up for 2 months n tried periodically n they came back for another 3 yrs n only wanted a first child from you which is now 2yrs old going on 3yrs old. In a total of 10yrs of a relationship. N they decide to talk about the child ONLY but as silence happens the dumper starts up something else n so on n so on. What DOES that mean. But she also says I DONT WANT A RELATIONSHIP "RIGHT" n you look confused about that n then she says I DONT want a relationship with you but with a smile or a smerk on there face. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN???????
The guy I dated for a month and a half came back after almost 2 months of NC. Everything was going great at first then I realise that he wouldn’t try to meet my needs so I stood up for myself. I confronted him and he said he’s sorry he couldn’t compromise. I initiated the “breakup” and we ended on good terms (no yelling, no blocking, etc)
I don’t know his intentions but I was shocked to hear from him cause he mentioned that he never goes back/reach out to an ex.
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What if both of you and your ex are watching Coach Craig Kenneth's videos. And both of you are just waiting for the other person to reach out?
Margaret is just so adorable though.
Going through this now with NC. Except my situation looks hopeless because she transferred back to her home town 1900 miles away and blocked me on everything
I lost count how many times i reached out to my ex. No reply. Now i have to start from day 1 of no contact again.
If someone is coming back don’t you think they will come back as hot and better or really falling in love like ever before? That’s the only hope to reconsider if they’re never sure of having real feeling for you
I didn't reach out to my ex, she has contacted me 4-5 times since September 2 calls in October, even last night a weirdly indirect direct message but I got a wishy-washy answer this morning so I don't really think much will come of anything. Still likes every single one of my tweets though.... (that doesn't count either!) so it is what it is - breadcrumbs.
Same here
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Is there ever a distinguishable point where once they start reaching out that it's okay to start reaching out back? I feel my ex becomes stubborn sometimes where they stop reaching out because they don't want to be the only one reaching out all the time. I'm afraid they'll think I don't care or I've moved on completely and I'm afraid of halting the progress I have with her.
Should I stay in no contact until more advancements are made (we meet in person)? Or should it be just let her reach out a certain percentage of the time (80 or 90%) so she can still feel some of the loss, but I still show interest by reaching out?
I’ve wondered this myself, because I don’t want to damage the growth I’ve already made for myself
It's ok to reply if they reach out first.
I'd suggest discussing with them/thinking about what went wrong, think about your expectations, and see where you can both improve. Respect them but also respect yourself
Craig also talks about breadcrumming in some of his videos, the indirect direct actions. If they aren't explicitly wanting to get back with you, don't give them an inch when it comes to reassuring them. They might be fishing for reassurance without giving you ground to work with reassuring yourself.
My ex did reach out after 11 months. They want to work it out. I asked if the other affair was over and they said yes; but with no details. Do I question the lack of details or leav it alone. They just said it over.
My Ex reached out after 34 days of no contact, and still sometimes she writes me
I've heard from others, that it is acceptable to make "smart" no contact if there is a significant Life event. I did everything wrong during the breakup (of course, we don't hear about Coach Craig until it's too late), but my ex-stepdaughter is about to graduate from university. It has been more than 2 months since blocked, will be more than three when she actually commences. My question is: should I send a congratulatory card with money?
Don't
I was married for 22 years. She just drove away. Said she needed space. My question, how long should I remain married to her?
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I reached out to my ex after 7 months and no answer. Better to stay in no contact.
You're ex isnt any different.
How about an ex that comes back after 3 years by realizing the mistakes after being in another relationship for about an year. She was indeed emotionally drained with all the fights between her parents and the miscommunication between us due to LD that ended up in fights.
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So I have been in no contact for 35 days I accidentally butt dialed my ex. I managed to hang up the phone after 2-3 rings. I didn’t text or anything saying it was an accident. I just left it.
Hi guys and chat, I just started recently watching these videos and they have helped alot, the mother of my children left me back on Feb.and has made no attempted to fix things with me even tho I have asked her.I wish I saw these videos when it happened bcs I made all the wrong choices, I'm tring to do the no contact phase buts it's kinda hard cause I have 4 kids with her and tend to see her everyday picking up and dropping off the kids, do you guys have advice for me on how to handle it?, so far I have controlled myself on not to tex her or contact her for unnecessary stuff. Just message her for the kids stuff etc.
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Is a break up with a ex the same as rejection with a Special Person? Using the same solutions.
Why Space,Time and Freedom from the ex? How you know if the ex will come back if changed?
@@biancadelarosa7986 I have not been in jail. I have no missed court hearings either. What are you talking about?
Sending a letter with lucide ideas, reflecting on my mistakes and detailing the changes and progress I've made, following nearly 3 months of no contact. Good idea or bad?
Bad
What should you do if you may have taken them for granted?
It's like Max Payne says, life has a nasty habit to go bad when you're not looking. I'd take action in not taking them for granted
What happens if you are the dumper and after working on yourself for a few months, you look for your ex, apologize and look for a mature conversation with her, but she is in a cold position, feeling that she is not interested in fixing things where we know that both of us fail at the moment of the relationship. Do you apply the same principles?
I reached out after a month with a "happy memory" text which was ignored, 9 days later I sent a text about meeting up and exchanging things which got a reply 3 days later but I was busy that day, they then ignored my reply for the next 3 days before sending a very blunt text, I didn't reach out for 3 weeks until I really wanted to get rid of their stuff (for my own wellbeing and recovery), they replied after 2 days and then we met up and it was short and uneventful. Haven't heard from them since and if I were to guess I won't hear from them ever again but I have become okay with this. I might extend the hand of friendship someday in a year or so maybe
any update on this one year later? did you find out why she was acting so cold during those initial times?
@@deezydzh lol, I forgot all about this channel haha. Thankfully I am long since over this relationship and have actually had two medium relationships (5 months and 7 months) since the breakup. I think I wrote this about 18 months ago. I am current;y in a very happy 7 month relationship with an amazing and beautiful girl and feel totally secure in it. I found out she was cheating and as far as I know she is still with the guy but tbh I haven't thought to check for a long time. Honestly, I have greatly outgrown her at this stage and I think this channel is of great help. Don't think about getting them back because that's not the point it's just the motivation. There are so so many people in the world. My best recommendation is to go solo travel and stay in social hostels where you will meet tons of people. Forget about dating apps and get out of your city if you can. Helps open the doors. If you're going through it right now just keep going and work on yourself where you can. If you fall down and start being sad again that's okay ( I did plenty) but life is long
I reached out to my ex the beginning of this year with a surprise visit with flowers and a letter. We ended up dating again until early September.
I want to reach out, but I know that I'm dishonoring her, myself and the relationship we had by doing that. She ended things and I need to hear her and give her her need of space from me. It's painful and even tho my reach out garnered amazing memories with the person I love it ultimately didn't result in the results I wanted.
I think it's best to sit with yourself and sit with the anxiety or just do something to get your mind off the matter. I still feel everything when I calmed down but it's not to such a degree that I feel overwhelmed and or like there's a death.
All in all I really appreciate the videos you guys put out. It's been 52 days since break up and NC. There's good days, bad days, good hours, bad hours, good minutes, bad minutes, good seconds and bad seconds,, but I've managed to stay away and give her the break up she wants and seemingly needs.
I feel you, but more importantly stay strong .💪
I'm going thru exactly the same situation and so far I have been able to hold all my feelings back and respect her decition. Couches Margaret and Craig are the best! Thank You so much. I'm sure that without your advice, I would have already reached out. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
I know how tough it is to stay in NC. I've been in no contact now for 161 days!!! I still think about her everyday, and trying to break that cycle. It is what it is. I'm sticking to no contact no matter what. I'm working on potentially meeting other women, even so she's still in the back of my mind. Stay Strong!!!
I am in day one NC. I used to text good morning she would responded good morning but that was it. Now I am in NC if if if she reaches out first with just a good morning do I respond cordially? Or just don’t?
Did you ex ever reach out to you???
oh boy. my relationship with my ex was tagged as toxic by her because of my jealousy. i’m starting to believe I’m doomed 😢
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With all due respect, I even find this video funny. My ex doesn’t want to see me, she deleted her insta account and created another one just to forget about me.
Mine did the same :/ I hate it but think about it - she must care if she had to go THAT far to “forget” about you. And just because she deleted her accounts doesn’t make her mind completely erase you.
Yeah dude, what the other guy said. Dude, you're in her head bigtime. Just work on you and let it eat at her. Not in a mean way, but yeah.
My ex lost his feelings and said he would not mind if I found someone new. He thinks I should try tinder😥 I really believe I will never het him back because he really seems to have NO romantic feelings at all... I had contact with him for 2 months after the brake up and I tried to be friends with him, it did not work because of my feelings for him and I saw that he got tinder...It feels like I lost both my best friend even though we only were together for about 7-8 months...
I first tried NC for 12 days, but I could not stand it so I blew it...
So now its 5 days in...
He is an avoidant and I am an anxious. I know now I was pushy and he was not willing to compromise for me...But he always made laugh, supportive, we could be our ourselves with eachother....I'm trying to work on myself and to feel good again, but its hard because I miss him...
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My ex cheated on me with the person she’s with now and she’s still trying to contact me for random reasons. I’m trying to work on myself and it’s hard to do because she’s not letting me grieve. I’m not sure if she will ever come back and a lot of these videos are helping me. She still watches my Instagram stories and is posting things about getting better but she called me last week to ask me if I was interested in someone and then went on to ask me if I still want her, after that she hasn’t messaged me in till yesterday and today asking me about random stuff and I want to know if there is still a chance that she will come back??
I'm kind of in this situation too. working on myself but not able to grieve as he is still reaching out. I may have to block him, especially since he's in a "relationship" with the cheater whom he now seems to be emotionally cheating on with me! smh
My Ex recently tried to care for me when i was drunk at a Party. I told him to leave me alone and was angry that he tried to care for me even though he dumped me 5 months ago. He said he understood i was angry. Now I don‘t know if i should apologise for my behaviour and try to clarify the Situation or if i should just leave it be. I don‘t remember exactly what i said that night and it stresses me out
That’s a tough call because he was looking after you. I think it’s understandable how under the influence you were mad at your ex. I think maybe not apologizing is the way to go though, because honestly he isn’t entitled to an apology from you. I think we create an ideal in our head about what reaching out to an ex will be like and it’s really painful when we think they will give us a response of “I care about you and miss you” and then you end up getting nothing but silence back.
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For a long time i have wanted to clarify how we should behave when we see each other because of our shared group of friends. We have been basically ignoring each other and it was rather awkward. I didn‘t mean to say those things but i was so angry. I didn‘t even thank him. But yes, i don‘t want to ruin my NC progress…
I reached out so many times but he gets angrier . I leave him alone now but deep down inside I know he will come back to beg me for another chance
Have you heard anything??
If I haven't been contacted him but sent him a request on Facebook and this is after he came back to me after no contact after over a month, should I still not have sent him a friend request?