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5 Behaviors Your Ex Needs To See From You
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- Опубліковано 14 жов 2021
- In order for someone to reconsider returning to a relationship, they must be convinced that trying again will be worth it. In this video, we talk about 5 behaviors that are essential to repairing a relationship and maintaining a healthy connection for the long term.
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Dear Craig and Victoria!Thank you so much for your videos.
I got my ex back and it's true it's so tempting to stop working on yourself but I promised myself that I would continue watching your videos no matter what. I stopped working with the KNOWLEDGE book but I promise myself I'm going to renew it cause you are sooo right about all the work that needs to be done after your ex is back!
Guys LISTEN to Craig,it's golden !!!
Do the work even if you get your ex back or you’ll be sorry…
Congrats!How long were you broken up and when dod they come back?
Love You guys, You are the absolutely best!!!
Update?
I have never been busier in my life than I have now. A lot of times I’ll stay home but since this breakup I say yes to anything I’m invited to. I take myself out to eat, I go dancing, I have dinner with friends, I am reading, and watching these videos in between. Got a whole new wardrobe, lost weight, & feel better about myself as a person. Does it still hurt? Yes at times worse than others, some days I feel healed but that grief will sneak up on me but I’ve definitely learned it’ll pass & I can cope. Watching the videos certainly brings me back to the realization that no matter what I WILL BE OK! We will all be ok.
True, keeping busy helps . I have never kept myself busier than before but still at times the if only and similar feelings do come in and I feel pretty down . Then after watching these videos it brings some peace and acceptance. Sometimes some people come in and leave and a huge void is there , connections are tough to make and they hurt bad . Life has to go on .
Massive congrats on your progress. How's things now
@@Troy12-fitnessmodelSuper happy. A mutual friend introduced me to an amazing guy, I started a new career, never looked back! Thank you for asking. ❤
5 things I want to see from my ex:
1 - See a therapist to work on deep issues / blocks we discussed many times and you acknowledged
2 - Reflect on my needs and why I wasn't happy
3 - Own the fact that you promised you would work on your issues with a professional and haven't yet
3 - Give me space
4 - Understand that a relationship is between 2 people with needs
5 - Work on your maturity and learn empathy.
I only wish you love and the courage to do the above at least for the next person in your life rather than being stuck in your patterns and persisting blocks. Own this and see a therapist.
In the midst of doing all these and so damn proud of my growth and change. The old me was a great but the new me is the best. I'm happy to know me.. had contact with my ex finally after nc for 2months. Keep on growing
When my ex broke up with me, I reacted very anxious and tried to get her back. I was going thru a very complex phase of my life. But, after "fighting" back for a week I apologized for some mistakes I did, I wished her good luck, and since then I havent contacted her anymore. This was end of November 2023.
Lol december for me. You hear anything yet?
Nope... I dont think she will contact me soon.
@@dusenstrahlverfahrenany update?
@@RFuadi never heard from her again
Just saw my ex at a bar after not seeing him for a month. We caught up and it was nice then I saw him talking to other girls and getting their numbers. I stayed calm and thought of Craig and stayed with friends. Thank you Craig and Victoria for videos like these.
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+2349056214156⏯⏯⏯ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up
Jaylynn Cardona same thing here. Seen my ex gf after 4 months. I was calm even after seeing her all over some guy. I may have lost someone who didnt care for me but she lost someone who loved her.
@@jeremysanner4702 ugh I’m so sorry I know it’s hard because I was in pain too. But we got this in the end we win!
@@eatingwithjaylynn update how are you feeling?
“You’ve been watching 500 videos…” so true that it made me laugh at myself. ❤️ I love your videos. Lol Thank you.
Thank you, Craig and Victoria! Its been 10 months and still watching your videos diligently🙏🏼👌🏽I have defnitely made those mistakes🙊🙊Im in my 2nd NC period almost 3 months. Golden Rule: Love yourself first ❤️
2nd? Wht happened? Did they contact you
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same here ,ive had contact of sorts but im a month into my latest phase of NC and ive done my best to hide away from areas she may be as we live very close and im 2 months succesful. Joe dispenza does a good morning evening meditation on Apple Music which has helped me this week - I love her and her kids so much and miss them as we were together 4.5 years but my life has to be a vision of the future not a memory of the past
1. Respect her/his decion
2. Own my mistakes
3. Display Confidence
4. Make Changes
5. What was number 5???
5. Your ex doesnt have all the Power
I’m bored in the gym and need something to listen to. So I listen to these videos but they make me mad thinking about my ex.
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I’ve done that before, too! Stay strong and keep looking after yourself. Whenever you start to really think too much about it, try and tune it out of your mind.
@@coopermckillop8981 yes that’s exactly what I’m trying to do. Thanks Cooper hope you’re doing well!
listen to them at the gym, I do
It’s just true what they teach us… and truly, once you do the work on yourself, you will move on and want NEW love and to try again. speaking from 1 year of learning about attachment theory.
I have been consistently vulnerable, apologised for my mistakes and both acknowledged & validated her feelings but I am dealing with a narc so that has always been used as weapon by her to club me like a baby seal rather than drawing out any similar acknowledgment from her. But my conscience is now clear.
More recently she has been very devious, securing the loan of equipment I own by using a third party to finesse me. Silly bc I would have been very happy to lend it had I known the truth… and I told both her and her coconspirator exactly that…
I love your videos, Coach Craig. I wish I could get to talk to you, but I’m not able to afford the session. I’ve seen some of your videos, and you cheered me up a lot. Thank you.
"I act wild on Tuesdays, wacky on Wednesdays, good on Thursdays, and whoops slipped up again on Saturday!" Omgosh, I love the message in this vid, nice "work' Coach C and V (and of course Coach M too)!!
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Great video coach! Thank you for all your work. I watch your videos day and night to calm my anxiety.
What do you do if I've already done what you said not to do? I cannot believe how Craig and Victoria are talking about exactly what I'm dealing with. I might have ruined my situation already
Guys, i am so happy to have come across your video. The logic to which the information is explained, it really helps me process all of it. Thank you and thank you!❤
You’ve helped me a lot, Coach Craig. Thank you so much. Sending virtual hugs! I just love you! ♥️
Ex said he'll never come back. That hasnt stopped me from loving and caring for myself. Ive tried to be friends with him but he continues to lie and i hate liars.
Thanks Craig and Victoria for shedding some light on my ex relationship i am willing show my ex that I am not the anxious person I was before but I doubt she is going to reveal her mistakes I just think that she wants someone there but no questions or pressure on her I know nothing about her and if I try she get upset but she says she loved me make that make sense.
Coach Craig i been doing no contact for 5 yrs now with my ex husband. Then recently we accidentally saw each other in my daughters clinic. I saw him and I’m ok. With it. Swing him. But he didn’t even say hi or ignore me. My daughter saw him and. He looks mad when seing me happy. He walk out in the clinic without even saying goodbye to our 3 kids…. Why he still mad after 5 yrs of no contact and to mention he have a girlfriend already and she is the reason we broke up for 23 yrs of marriage. He seems like he still hate me. Anyway. I dont care if he hate me. It doesn’t matter to me at all. As long as I’m happy now and get rid of him for cheating and abusing me. I’m. All ok now. I hope he is happy. With his gf now. I always looking forward for every blog helps me a lot. Thankyou so much
Hello Mr ( George ) he is the best when it comes to recovery relationship. He was the one that helped me. I can't believe am with my lover again
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I’m seeing a pattern from my ex of periodically coming towards me then taking a couple more steps towards me and then ghosting… I believe that there’s an external influence intruding, partly bc of this stepping towards then running away. I think the emotional step is then over ruled by an intellectual thing
Coach Victoria, we love you! Just please take it easy on the "Mmm-hmm"s. Keep up the terrific work!!!
Dang, do people really just see a video and automatically downvote? That's messed up.
Anyway, it's been a month of NC. Got a text from her last night that she dreamt about me and hoped I had a good birthday, even though it was 2 weeks ago.
I responded but she hasn't yet, hoping it's not a breadcrumb, but if it is, it's time to continue NC!
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I’m seeing a therapist to make a better version of myself so my daughter has a good role model to look up to.
so well said guys! and the wacky weekdays part cracked me up lol .. don't forget the "sunday scaries!" hehehe
You need to be able to play Hardball.
it's not that you're going to be playing
Hardball throughout your life.
It's not I'm advocating it, but sometimes,
It's necessary to do so,
It's necessary to protect yourself;
to realize that this person that you're
facing is manipulative, and maybe,
to protect yourself, you have to manipulate
back to them! - A Quote by Robert Greene.
Craig can you do a video on what you can do if you see your ex. In public
I'd like that too. The best intentions and plans can crumble when she shows up (maybe with another guy) looking cute as can be and ignores you. 😗🤨😑
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Act casual. There u go
Craig, your crazy sense of humour is rubbing off on Victoria 😂
She’s always had it! Just warming up and getting more comfortable over time
Great video. Very insightful information!!!
well they broke up with me yet wont leave me alone. i went no contact and 4 days later they reached out.
How can you show them you are maturing if they are in no contact too ? It's very difficult, especially if they are stubborn ..
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Please help ! My ex started seeing someone after 1 month(rebound probably-hopefully) maybe less, I had became emotionally neglectful due to health issues and i let myself go.. should I still own up to my own behavior and show that empathy after reflecting on myself and apologize about treating her this way etc... ? Or let give her more space ?
And if i have to own up, I normally see her onxe a week at the gym class... should i say it to her face to face or by text? Or since shes seeing someone to maybe let it go?
My ex used to always block me after every small fight and then would unblock me . With time I started feeling anxious because of this and always used to go around the block and convince him to get back together . He always did usually after 2-3 days . He used to say mean things during fight and after resolving it , he said those things didn't mean anything so i believed him .
This time also he blocked me after telling me he is breaking up with me , as usual i tried to get around the block and tried to convince him for 9 days after breakup but nothing worked . Now I am in NC for 23 days and I really don't know if he will come back or not .
He also told me he is attracted to someone else , but I am not sure if that is true or not ..
It's a form of manipulation and abuse.
Can you talk to avoidants more in this situation? Sometimes it’s not the over emotion that the ex receives but they were robbed of feeling and emotion and that’s why they leavw
Thank you Craig and Victoria loved this one made sense kylie
My ex just reached out to me and i know she missed me because she cried to me but she didn’t tell me. She wanted me to come around to have Sex but i declined and then told her that we can’t continue having this small talk because she broke up with me so i can’t be available to her. I told her it’s just myself for now and her to herself. We broke up late september so it’s not been long and she’s proceeded to block me now but i know now she is going to start her stage of grief like i’ve been feeling. Lets see when she reaches out again.
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You did the right thing, you cant let her get you for her own “ Needs” then through you away when its done!!
@@yahabibi6891 I agree i see a future with her not just to be around for Sex and im on my self development journey so that’s what i’m doing. She will realise what she’s missing out on and time will show her that because i’m putting in the work with Craig’s course
@@brianm8036 yes your right, dumpers always comes back and they are always the lost person. While the dumped is much stronger and so much improved, and that makes the dumper regret breaking up!
@@yahabibi6891 Honestly like even now i feel so good regardless that she’s blocked me because i know
im self improving myself everyday and my main focus isn’t her right now but who knows one day things could change p
Hi Craig! I was wondering - did you think about creating a Facebook group for people trying to better themselves after their breakup? For me such a community could provide support on some of the low days and inspiration during the high days :)
I did all of this and it backfired. She decided not to get back together with me bc I looked too happy without her. Had the complete opposite effect.
Second no contact period of 6 months.
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@@dongy762 Haha, no, I no longer want her back. She’s as big as a house, now. That guy can have her. Haha
I’ve been in NC for a month now, should I reach out to at least tell them I take responsibility and apologized and recognize my mistakes?
Any update?
patience is salvation
He sent me a text after the breakup and I didn’t respond. So I probably look like I’m upset … but I’m doing no contact. Not sure how I can achieve this feeling.. I’ve not deleted him of sm
Why did my ex block me after I blocked him because I didn't want to see anything about him I wasn't bothering him it's really confusing why he did it please tell me why I can't afford coaching
Thanks for this video. Great advice!
Good things to know.
Lmaoooo "you know I act wild on Tuesdays"
This is all very well, but if there is no contact between you, how will your ex ever know about any changes or self-improvements that you have made?
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They’ll know bc you’re not contacting them to let them know you’re working on yourself. You disconnecting is one of the best ways to show “Hey, I hear you, I hear what you’re saying and that’s ok. I’m gonna just do me instead.” They will start to become curious (it sounds crazy, Ik, I was thinking the same shit when I heard all of this but it’s actually true). And when they become curious, that’s when they’ll move from not only unblocking you on different stuff, to looking at all of your posts again, to acting weird in public around you (my ex and I go to the same college). Her friends might ask how you’re doing or something random like that. Move forward and if you had a solid basis for the relationship, results will come.
Great video
Hey , i just wanted to ask, its been nearly 1.5 months of my breakup and i haven't contacted her. Neither has she. Now the thing is, she has been spreading things about me to some friends, and even when we were together, she wasn't really supportive of me and wast ok with my finances and life goals.
Now the question is, should i wait for her ?
My DA is in prison. I was doing no contact but had to write to tell him his foster mom passed away. I hope it didn’t set us back.
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I did all those through text messages and a couple of voicemails. I acknowledged my mistakes aked for forgiveness but i didn't ask her to take me back because i thought it's a little too soon. She stopped taking my calls and i completely disappeared from her life just like you mentioned in one of your no contact videos. Its been three months. Its drawing me nuts but i am trying to be strong and dont contact her at all. I really love my wife and my kids and i miss her like crazy and I don't know what to do, can you help me in your next video?
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I need an opinion. So my bf broke up with me 1.2 years ago. No drama or majour betrail. We havent talked in almost a year because he wantent to. He moved to a new city. We werent togeether for that long, like 11 montns. All of a suddent I get a message that he would like to meet up if I'm willing to. I don't undertand this situation... keep in mind that we didnt know eachother before the relationship so we only know eachother as romatic partners
and how did you react to this invitation?
i think no one can give you a clear answer how to react or to say what is right or wrong in this or your situation.
just go with your feeling.
when you feel irritated by this behavior - how you said it in your comment - then you can also just be straight open with that person.
just say you are a bit confused and dont know what to say.
or and just say that you will think about it.
but its also important that you will give him an answer then.
(none at all is also ok, when you feel that’s best for you, would be also an appropriate answer).
you can also agree to meet, and then tell him that yo felt confused.
Its a reach out. Just meet up casually and listen to what they have to say.
My wife split from me after 14years. I moved out to do no contact. She contacts me about our son exchange although all timing was set up. She feels pitty for me. She has a boyfriend from months befoe the split who i discovered (how split started) and i have to move back soon to our house we both own. how should i behave in the house on every day basis knowing she has someone and almost officially now goes out to him for dates? Thanks
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Question: if she reaches out to say good morning do I respond? When I did it she would say hello but that was it. I poured my heart out for the first two weeks. Do I do the same?
i have a very specific question in terms of i am doing NC with my ex but we work in the same place so i see her at work she broke up with me after 3 years an said she just wanted to be single an that there is a lot of love still i get it i do. She also blames it on her mental health an that is sad because i just wanted to help her. But the NC I'm not contacting her etc but at work I'm obviously civil an just say morning or hello should i be doing that or straight up just like avoiding her at all costs.
Everyone fixes things without talking
Wow after watching your videos 30 days no contact didnt work it took him 2 years to reach out. I dont want him now lol
I have NEVER said 30 days no contact. Unless I was making fun of it
Hahahaha
Very funny
High pressure situations are easy for me but low pressure situations are bad. I am a frog that slowly was boiled but would jump out of boiling water. What to do?
Craig I wish I could afford your coaching because I’m at a point where I am totally lost! I was going no contact n he realized and popped up on me at my house n I fell for him head over heals n now I feel stuck because he knows I knows he is living his wild life with Girls (something he was sure I wouldn’t settle for) n now I’m basically settling for all the bs he is going on with. Have no idea what to do now because it’s like he values me no more
I’m dealing with the same with my ex gf. I know it’s hard work on his work books they help
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@@tallyherkids8095 go to the check market. And click o. It you will see a link. His workbook series. It Helps I just started 6 of the 10
Martied for 30yrs he had affairs. It has takenme 5 yrs to get over this as he was dating me in separation and anothet. All i heard from him was lies. Ive binned him now. No room in my life for liars cheats and manipulaters. He's an ex for a reason
@@christopherbullens5494 how long into doing the workbooks did it take for you to notice a shift? I’m 3 mo no contact and still stuck ruminating and wondering what the hell happened.
What if they said they were happy most of the time except for conflicts and bc of conflicts they couldnt see a future with me?
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Conflict resolution skills are important. Try looking into these books for help on that:
Crucial Conversations
Non-violent Communication
I got feelings for my friend and she is ignoring because of it.. but when we were friends we both were Very close like we are in a relationship.. but then she said we must be in a relationship otherwise we shouldnt be this close and then we broke up, because we both were not ready for a relationship at that time. Im in no contact is there any chance I can get her back...
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Birthdays? Do I send him happy birthday regards or messages?
Love this channel,I dated a girl.for 4 months i thought everything was great , 2 weeks ago I texted her to arrange our next date,she never replied 2 days later I text her and said let me know if u want meet up again and nothing back,it's been 12 days now no contact but at this stage after that lenght of time I can't see how she will come back now, I was so good to her and I was never needy,I'm so sad ,but at this stage I think she is well gone
@david McDonald maybe you too good of a man and she’s not use to it. Hope she’s ok
Can you post it again the video?🧐🙏vulnerability
I got feelings for my friend and she is ignoring because of it.. but when we were friends we both were Very close like we are in a relationship.. but then she said we must be in a relationship otherwise we shouldnt be this close and then we broke up, because we both were not ready for a relationship at that time. Im in no contact is there any chance I can get her back...I got feelings for my friend and she is ignoring because of it.. but when we were friends we both were Very close like we are in a relationship.. but then she said we must be in a relationship otherwise we shouldnt be this close and then we broke up, because we both were not ready for a relationship at that time. Im in no contact is there any chance I can get her back...
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@@abdurllerabdurller2774 I have seen your messages in most of these type of vedios .you work hard trying to steal money from people .than you could have done to get a job that will give you money
Mhmm.
We broke up a month ago, literally she dumped me and her reason is " fall out of love" and she also said that she realized that im not the one she want on her Future! 😥 So many excuses. It sucks men.
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Craig does your program help married people too? As my wife wants out of our marriage!
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back
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Victoria looks great in that peach shirt
It’s a jumper
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Dear Craig, during no contact (3 months), does it make sense to send some happy birthday greetings? Or better to avoid even minimal contacts? Isn't it rude not to send even a short sms?
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Let them reach out.
DO NOT REACH OUT! Trust me, they will start coming around. I’m in month 6 of NC and ( as much as this must hurt to hear) they are finally starting to come around. My ex is avoidant but she has begun stalking my social media religiously and will stare at me in public places or act strangely in other ways around me whenever we cross paths. They begin to crack with time and eventually they reach out. That may or may not mean they want to get back together but you will progressively begin to chip away at their armor so to speak and they start crumbling under the pressure of losing you. Let it do it’s work!
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I’m first to watch and comment
Maybe next time. You were second
@@CoachCraigKenneth close but no cigar :-)
@@CoachCraigKenneth I always commented first was never first to watch.
I wouldn't take my ex back if you paid me 10 million dollars. M arr
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