social conditioning is stupid

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  • Опубліковано 18 лис 2024

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  • @zions_diary
    @zions_diary  6 місяців тому +4

    Pen pal me: zions.diary@icloud.com

  • @zukoscar
    @zukoscar 6 місяців тому +42

    I learned how to people please because early on I was conditioned to - I guess we all are. But really, it’s ridiculous. Everyone’s putting on a charade and I can only imagine how beautiful society could be with more raw honesty

  • @Maroon498
    @Maroon498 6 місяців тому +23

    I used to people please a lot at school but then it started to infuriate me that i was putting other people’s needs before my own and getting nothing back in return.
    It was building resentment. So i stopped being overly nice and set boundaries.
    I think we do teach people how to treat us, and that’s why it’s important to show them the real version of yourself.

  • @Bonita.Vampira_
    @Bonita.Vampira_ 6 місяців тому +7

    I was just having this conversation today with my therapist. It’s time we become our authentic self

  • @JoseCruz-ie5jk
    @JoseCruz-ie5jk 6 місяців тому +8

    You make sense when you say that we all do plenty of manipulation in life.
    People pleasing becomes toxic when we continually put our needs and wishes last to please others. This stems from children having needed to appease abusive and neglectful parents in a futile attempt to get the love and care that they needed and deserved.

  • @OsoMelanin
    @OsoMelanin 6 місяців тому +18

    I appreciate you…..thank you for doing more than exist..
    Those that mind don’t matter, and those that matter don’t mind..
    Those who control the media control the masses.
    People don’t need social approval if they would approve themselves 🌻⚖️📚🕯️

  • @CosmicGodessfeoh
    @CosmicGodessfeoh 6 місяців тому +4

    Thanks for teaching me how to value myself

  • @210-GirlFromNoWhere
    @210-GirlFromNoWhere 6 місяців тому +5

    Exactly man you touch subjects people wanna put this illusory superiority over 👏🏽

  • @dfuk66
    @dfuk66 6 місяців тому +6

    I am the same person with everyone and they respect my weird ass at work but love me

  • @ieshasenter6217
    @ieshasenter6217 6 місяців тому +8

    😂" exactly, thats wtf im saying; this guy" 😅

  • @bobochieng7402
    @bobochieng7402 6 місяців тому +2

    Love your Courage.Continue Being Authentic

  • @TayRich93
    @TayRich93 5 місяців тому +1

    Exactly we gotta please the very mfs on these jobs, when corporate or other management come through we get warnings about keeping it clean, make it to a point where they dont say anything about the store etc smh

  • @zackarybogle5329
    @zackarybogle5329 6 місяців тому +3

    Ngl the red is giving heavy

  • @BackpackingBarbara
    @BackpackingBarbara 6 місяців тому +3

    Facts ..glad I found your channel :Your so appreciated 🧡🧡following my passions pleasing self .

  • @EverythingCee
    @EverythingCee 6 місяців тому +4

    I lost it when the bird was giving his 2 cents agreeing with you 😹

  • @plixcer6179
    @plixcer6179 6 місяців тому +1

    Lying is the best and worse thing a human could do. Honestly you need to project yourself as perfect in today's society because everyone is looking for something flawless.

  • @tripleeight5608
    @tripleeight5608 6 місяців тому +3

    Gnarls Barkley - Transformer live from Abbey Road starts playing

  • @Desrayyy_
    @Desrayyy_ 6 місяців тому +2

    Can you make a video on how to create new patterns and allow one to be okay with not being stuck in life ❤

  • @TayRich93
    @TayRich93 5 місяців тому +1

    I definitely dont give af about people pleasing, i just mind my own bizz

  • @jaye5872
    @jaye5872 5 місяців тому +1

    Facts! Everything u said is spot on! U just earned a new sub!

  • @Datb2
    @Datb2 6 місяців тому +6

    Wat yu see wat Yu get!!

  • @louiiviable
    @louiiviable 6 місяців тому +1

    Truth is heavy 😂 👏🏽

  • @ifallinlovetooeasily5150
    @ifallinlovetooeasily5150 6 місяців тому +3

    1:48 I found your new title

  • @luvpurple95
    @luvpurple95 6 місяців тому +2

    You are amazing, you are the future. Like we need to be best friends. I need friends like you

  • @Klowcn
    @Klowcn 6 місяців тому +1

    unfortunately the only government that doesn't sacrifice the common good to function is a kingdom because we are god's creation and only governments that mimic his kingdom have a chance at overcoming all adversity

  • @londonsublett2251
    @londonsublett2251 6 місяців тому +2

    What dye did you use for your hair?

  • @dfuk66
    @dfuk66 6 місяців тому +5

    Are you an aries?

  • @Pastornarcos1
    @Pastornarcos1 6 місяців тому +1

    you should stop eating ur nails🤣🤣🤣