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I remember telling my boss that everyone around me is getting married and she replied 'Don't worry when you get to my age everyone is getting divorced." LOOOOOOOL That straighten me out. Thank you for your honesty. I'm so excited for when you get your house, it will be a big win!
lollllllllllll. I've heard that also lolllllll. I do think some couples marry too early, though- but who are we to voice our opinions and spoil their fun?! :-) Aw, thanks Chika!! I'd love to hear your house buying journey as well, if you ever decide to share your story on your channel- you've done extremely well for yourself!
Wow… thank you so much for this video… I can relate, I’m 33 and still living with my folks. Was feeling down and discouraged cause life has become a standstill, I see friends graduating from college, or getting engaged and married. Of course you are happy for them, however you do have that voice in the back of your mind saying… when will it be my turn? It just seems my life is in a revolving door… and when you have folks that need help with things, is even tougher on you cause you have to put your own life on hold…
You're welcome, Seth. There's no rule that we all have to live the same lives, 'achieve' the same things, at the same timeframes etc. It's just our annoying society and world-wide culture. Because of it, that feeling / thought at the back of our minds will probably always be there. Regardless of what we have, I guess we have to remember that those things don't define our self worth and at the end of the day, we leave this world with nothing. Gratefulness and content in every circumstance is what we all really should be aspiring to. 🙏🏽
I'm 31 and still living with my mom. I've been financially stable enough to move out but honestly I don't have any close friends at this point in my life; my mom is the only person I talk to. I feel like I would be much more sad/lonely. Also she seems to get upset when I've talked about possibly moving out, maybe cause my parents split and my only sibling died she feels like I'm all she has left.
Your heart is telling you you'd be happier staying at home- so stay. Don't move out just because that's what society expects of us. We make the rules in our lives- not society or peer pressure. I understand your feeling of duty. When you eventually move you may decide to stay close by or even for you and your future partner to live with your mum - I know people who do that in their adult lives.
I have lived with my mom since forever I am 40 now and since my mom is older I have become her caretaker as well. There is nothing wrong with living with your parents as long as you help them financially or at least in other ways. People always think that getting married and having kids is just something everyone has to do. It actually isn't I'm single and I'm happy just saying everyone is different and if you believe that being married is something that will make you happy then more power to you.
I totally agree. When we have parents or family to help, it's only right that we stay at home if we can or arrange for adequate care for them. Agreed!!
I see nothing wrong with this if your parents aren’t toxic. I’m 26 now and I’ve observed that my parents generation (some of them) just aren’t aware of the ways in which they have unknowingly hurt us growing up and because of that lack of self awareness, they fail to understand why their child cannot wait to move out. Everyone I know moved out for piece of mind. I am trying to do the same. Not every family provides that.
Thank you so much for making this video and talking so openly about this topic 💜 I totally relate with everything you said, I'm 30 yo and still living with my parents, single and no kids. Even when I did my best for having a career (took a master degree abroad) I'm still not able to get a job in my country... So discouraging 💔
Hugs. You're welcome, Susan. I think this is why we need to find out self worth and joy in things outside of relationships, our careers etc. In stuff that aren't subject to change, in other people seeing our value and deciding to hire us etc. I totally get how discouraging it all can be xxx
I'm not exactly ashamed for living with my parents at the age of 24, I'm ashmed and tired because I don't know wtf I am supposed to do with my life. I feel like I am not worth of living in this world. I feel like a burden to others and to myself. I don't know how to grow up resilliance: I am too sensitive and fragile. I don't have any friend, never dated, never nothing. I want to quit.
I feel you, Danilo. We probably won't find out what our purpose is unless we try multiple things to see what fits. Maybe that should be our life mission- trying a breadth of things just for the experience and not for the pressure-inducing reason of Finding our purpose. Don't quit- maybe life is about the journey and not about the destination. It's a mindset perspective change xx
I hope.you are okay Brother, I am 35 living with my Dad and suffer from Alcoholism, Substance Abuse Dependency, etc...and I'm still here so get back at me just to let me know you are okay 🌻
Thank you for such an honest, honest video. I can definitely relate! I do think platforms like Instagram can be unhealthy for your mental state. I think there's a lot more honesty and vulnerability on UA-cam. Keep up the good work x
You're so right. I think video in general allows us to be more vulnerable than photos. I only use Instagram for business and networking for this very reason. Facebook I don't even bother with lol. But yes, so many of us are feeling 'behind' so it's powerful when we open up and share what's on our minds.
You have such a kind, calm to yourself. I really appreciate this video so many people need it. I'll be 30 in July and I was feeling down because im still at home. But I literally woke up one day and I'm like wait. ....you actually have a really great life. I thought about my goals and instead looked at everything I've done so far not just what I'm wanting to do. I hope everyone here understands how valuable they are and how much we ALL have to offer. God bless everyone 🙏
It all because societal pressure and everything is so outrageously high . Alot of people can't afford homes. Everything is not cheap like the our parents Era.
nothing wrong with living with your parents! I have moved out and really miss my mum sometimes haha even though I try to hide it because you know...adulting 😂 People hit different life stages at different times, if you have to live with your parents until you are 40, so be it! everyone will reach their goals eventually 💗 its all about staying optimistic 🤞🏼💗
Lolll. I miss the days when I was renting and feeling like more of an adult, but as you say, life has different stages and we all have to do what we have to do to save up for our 'proper' places in future. Totally agree x
I want to feel hopeful and believe these things but I struggle to. I'm 36 and feel very discontent. I don't want to talk too much about things but I think I would rather just end my life than carry on like this. I understand what you mean about being grateful but honestly that is just not enough to keep me alive any more.
Sorry to hear that, Isa. Please seek help if you are feeling like ending your life- feeling that way over extended periods of time isn't great. Seek help if you are feeling suicidal: support.google.com/websearch/answer/11181469 Suicide prevention app: www.suicidepreventionapp.com/?gclid=Cj0KCQjw08aYBhDlARIsAA_gb0f6Y6ED34BBDI5CxcQoOqBBt3V5bZ3wARGKhKTxqZvjD46RIcY5fWoaAvM_EALw_wcB
You have a purpose which is why you're still here. I'm not sure if your faith but just close your eyes and ask the Lord to guide you and he will. The world needs you whether you know it or not. God bless🙏🌸
You are loved Isa. Don’t give up. This life isn’t forever so please give it a good go whilst you have the chance. Also you really don’t know what’s around the corner in your life. It could be the change you have always dreamt of. Hang on in there
Very heartfelt video and all really great advice. You are very right and as the saying goes, comparison is the thief of joy. I always feel most behind when I take my eye off my own journey and start to focus on how far ahead others are or where I wish I had got to by now. Great video.
That saying cannot be any more true! One of the keys to contentment is definitely keeping our eyes on our own journeys as you say. Thanks for watching!
Very helpfull. I feel blessed everyday and every now and then I feel sad or not contributing enough to life. Consistency in living life and taking (baby)steps to whatever it is you think you are set up to do in this life is key. Especially in this time! Thank you for sharing this honest and transparent video. Take care and be safe.
I think a lot of us deep down inside feel like we haven't achieved the things we'd have liked to, feel behind etc. so try to remember that 🤗 as long as you're doing your best and pushing yourself, that's all that matters.
@@TheWellnessAbbey thank you. I've been really down and judging nyself that my mental health has been let down. But thank you for making videos like these. Gives me more faith 🙏
Sorry to hear that. Yes, I wish people actually shared their journeys and feelings BEFORE they achieve the grand things they achieve, so we can relate to their journeys more and not feel like we're the only ones who have to work darn hard for what we have. Just seeing people's end result is really demotivating after a while. That's why I try to share my journey as I work toward things- so it's more relatable. Yes, keep for faith strong!! 🙏🏽
I’m in the same position but a few years older then you.30s is still young. I’m only here at home because of financial reasons high rent and unstable job market couple with bad bouts of depression and anxiety related to financial issues
Hi Mayy, thanks for your encouraging comment as I'm sure others who watch the video scroll through the comments and so will be encouraged by your words (this video wasn't about my personal experience but I do hope anyone who feels this way is encouraged that all hope is not lost and it's never too late for our lives to change).
@@TheWellnessAbbey ooo okay it’s all good. Everything has a pro and con and no living situation is better or worse then others it’s just different. Living at home actually might be a great option for someone depending on their situation. I think it’s a great topic and it’s not all bad.
Mindset is everything. This time having to be at 'home' will pass regardless- it'll be much better and more bearable with a positive mindset, so do everything you can to feel positive, enjoy time OUTSIDE with friends, to create new hobbies, grow as a person etc. and make the time hopefully pass by quicker. You've got this.
Loving your content at the moment. I like to plan ahead which can be both good and bad for me. I would love a video on what you would say to your 21 year old self or people in their 20’s. I’m 21 and I feel so behind and In my mind I’ve already decided that it’s too late for me to find anyone and I have to do things in my own now. It’s like I’m stressing myself out about the pressures about marriage and kids before I’m asked about it which I know is going to be soon (worst i think it’ll be other relatives than even my own parents first). Although I’ve been planning to save and buy a house Probably 5-6years time to hopefully distract from all the questions. It’s just hard when society makes u feel ur not where ur supposed to be all the time.
Thank you, goddess. Planning ahead is good :-) I'll add that to my filming list! Hun- you are NOT behind (none of us are as long as we keep our eyes focused on our own journeys). It's possible for you to literally find someone, settle down / get married in a year, and feel 'settled down'- it doesn't always have to take years. I think it's wise to plan financially like you won't have anyone else to rely on but keep the hope simultaneously that you'll meet your life partner in divine timing- when both of you are ready to come together. If you can, limit contact with those relatives as much as you can- not much good can come out of those conversations sadly.
Great video, everything you are saying is spot on. Instagram can be one of the most draining social media apps, as it makes you feel like you're miles off your goals. When it gets to that stage, I usually put it down and start reading, or reflecting on where I was compared to today. Keep doing what you are doing :)
I literally only follow accounts that teach me something now (whether about investing, budgeting, etc.) and no longer follow friends, influencers etc. I also try my best to not look at the search page as I don't need to be concerning myself with what everyone else is doing. Great moves- I'm trying to fill the extra time by reading more too. Thanks bro!
This video has helped me a lot. I feel women are pressured to do so much. I know for me making money before I get married is really important. I’m not sure if I’ll ever get married, but I’m just looking for ways to get more support. It’s so lonely sometimes.
Wow there is more pressure on men. Making Good money is the hardest thing nothing is harder than that.women can be married to the next stable guy and just move on with life Us guys won't get a wife if we have no stable life
It's funny I have the great marriage and the house and the things most millennials don't have, but that leaves me without a job and money and I feel just as bad. It's just funny because most of the millennial videos are about people being sad because they only have material success. I have all the good things in life but in a consumerist society I feel I need a career to be taken seriously by anyone out of my circle.
You know what- no matter how 'much' we have in life, we never feel satisfied and content for long periods of time. Yes, I feel like a lot of us have our identities and value wrapped up on our careers. Your comment is a great reminder to not do that. Congrats on the marriage and the house!! These are things we should always try to be not take for granted.
I been feeling down about life atp at 28 living home with my parents even tho they care about me staying and dad wants me to stay forever plus I am single this girl who I wanted finally said something to me but it was in a bad way she said I made her feel uncomfortable I used to come into the store where she works and we always hit the lane by accidentally even tho I found her attractive and stuff. I wasn’t trying to make her uncomfortable she knew I liked her so I don’t understand, Then before this I tried to talk to her but she had someone and I told her I respect that relationship then her boyfriend died then I wanted to reach out to her and talk to her but I could’ve mustard up the courage again so I kept admiring from a far hoping some amazing miracle shit happen , I never had a real relationship, now she think I am weird and she said why I didn’t say nothing that I liked her because I wanted her love Frfr but I didn’t want to be rebound at the time ,but she always caught my eyes but she said stay df away from her and My heart was broken for a 5 days and it kinda heart broken but I am healing tho , people don’t understand that men don’t have many options, all it takes is a women to show love and compassion conversations , then the man will be real real,
Sorry to hear that, Jay. Praying for Jesus to enter your life and transform it in a way you've never even imagined. Pray you'll find your God-given partner x
When it comes to finding our God-given spouses, we literally just need one Person to give us a chance. We don't even need multiple girls' acceptance. It's just one person we need. Stay focused and stay prayed up x
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I remember telling my boss that everyone around me is getting married and she replied 'Don't worry when you get to my age everyone is getting divorced." LOOOOOOOL That straighten me out. Thank you for your honesty. I'm so excited for when you get your house, it will be a big win!
lollllllllllll. I've heard that also lolllllll. I do think some couples marry too early, though- but who are we to voice our opinions and spoil their fun?! :-) Aw, thanks Chika!! I'd love to hear your house buying journey as well, if you ever decide to share your story on your channel- you've done extremely well for yourself!
@@TheWellnessAbbey I will do, eventually :-)
take it from me your life ends when you get married thats what its called settling down
I don’t think getting divorced is frowned upon anymore vs living with parents as an adult
Wow… thank you so much for this video… I can relate, I’m 33 and still living with my folks. Was feeling down and discouraged cause life has become a standstill, I see friends graduating from college, or getting engaged and married. Of course you are happy for them, however you do have that voice in the back of your mind saying… when will it be my turn? It just seems my life is in a revolving door… and when you have folks that need help with things, is even tougher on you cause you have to put your own life on hold…
You're welcome, Seth. There's no rule that we all have to live the same lives, 'achieve' the same things, at the same timeframes etc. It's just our annoying society and world-wide culture. Because of it, that feeling / thought at the back of our minds will probably always be there. Regardless of what we have, I guess we have to remember that those things don't define our self worth and at the end of the day, we leave this world with nothing. Gratefulness and content in every circumstance is what we all really should be aspiring to. 🙏🏽
I'll be 31 living with mine bc I have 2 kids working is hard with no help.
I'm 31 and still living with my mom. I've been financially stable enough to move out but honestly I don't have any close friends at this point in my life; my mom is the only person I talk to. I feel like I would be much more sad/lonely. Also she seems to get upset when I've talked about possibly moving out, maybe cause my parents split and my only sibling died she feels like I'm all she has left.
Your heart is telling you you'd be happier staying at home- so stay. Don't move out just because that's what society expects of us. We make the rules in our lives- not society or peer pressure. I understand your feeling of duty. When you eventually move you may decide to stay close by or even for you and your future partner to live with your mum - I know people who do that in their adult lives.
I have lived with my mom since forever I am 40 now and since my mom is older I have become her caretaker as well. There is nothing wrong with living with your parents as long as you help them financially or at least in other ways. People always think that getting married and having kids is just something everyone has to do. It actually isn't I'm single and I'm happy just saying everyone is different and if you believe that being married is something that will make you happy then more power to you.
I totally agree. When we have parents or family to help, it's only right that we stay at home if we can or arrange for adequate care for them. Agreed!!
I see nothing wrong with this if your parents aren’t toxic. I’m 26 now and I’ve observed that my parents generation (some of them) just aren’t aware of the ways in which they have unknowingly hurt us growing up and because of that lack of self awareness, they fail to understand why their child cannot wait to move out. Everyone I know moved out for piece of mind. I am trying to do the same. Not every family provides that.
Sadly my mum is toxic and interferes with my friends and my relationships. I suffer with extreme depression and desperate to leave here
Sorry to hear that, hun. What option do you have for living elsewhere? Xx
Thank you so much for making this video and talking so openly about this topic 💜 I totally relate with everything you said, I'm 30 yo and still living with my parents, single and no kids. Even when I did my best for having a career (took a master degree abroad) I'm still not able to get a job in my country... So discouraging 💔
Hugs. You're welcome, Susan. I think this is why we need to find out self worth and joy in things outside of relationships, our careers etc. In stuff that aren't subject to change, in other people seeing our value and deciding to hire us etc. I totally get how discouraging it all can be xxx
It’s good to know I’m not alone ❤
I'm not exactly ashamed for living with my parents at the age of 24, I'm ashmed and tired because I don't know wtf I am supposed to do with my life. I feel like I am not worth of living in this world. I feel like a burden to others and to myself. I don't know how to grow up resilliance: I am too sensitive and fragile. I don't have any friend, never dated, never nothing. I want to quit.
I feel you, Danilo. We probably won't find out what our purpose is unless we try multiple things to see what fits. Maybe that should be our life mission- trying a breadth of things just for the experience and not for the pressure-inducing reason of Finding our purpose. Don't quit- maybe life is about the journey and not about the destination. It's a mindset perspective change xx
I hope.you are okay Brother, I am 35 living with my Dad and suffer from Alcoholism, Substance Abuse Dependency, etc...and I'm still here so get back at me just to let me know you are okay 🌻
Thank you for such an honest, honest video. I can definitely relate! I do think platforms like Instagram can be unhealthy for your mental state. I think there's a lot more honesty and vulnerability on UA-cam. Keep up the good work x
You're so right. I think video in general allows us to be more vulnerable than photos. I only use Instagram for business and networking for this very reason. Facebook I don't even bother with lol. But yes, so many of us are feeling 'behind' so it's powerful when we open up and share what's on our minds.
You have such a kind, calm to yourself. I really appreciate this video so many people need it. I'll be 30 in July and I was feeling down because im still at home. But I literally woke up one day and I'm like wait. ....you actually have a really great life. I thought about my goals and instead looked at everything I've done so far not just what I'm wanting to do.
I hope everyone here understands how valuable they are and how much we ALL have to offer. God bless everyone 🙏
Thank you, hun x. Try not to feel down, hun Yes, you absolutely do! Keep on having the right perspective xxxx
What day number is your birthday in July?
Loved this because I know many people including myself experience these things!
😁 thanks for watching!
Sometimes I want to drive off a bridge when I look at my life 😂..but I trust God
That's the best we can do, sis 🙂
Lmaooo me too but i have kids lol
It all because societal pressure and everything is so outrageously high . Alot of people can't afford homes. Everything is not cheap like the our parents Era.
Man I feel this
nothing wrong with living with your parents! I have moved out and really miss my mum sometimes haha even though I try to hide it because you know...adulting 😂
People hit different life stages at different times, if you have to live with your parents until you are 40, so be it! everyone will reach their goals eventually 💗 its all about staying optimistic 🤞🏼💗
Lolll. I miss the days when I was renting and feeling like more of an adult, but as you say, life has different stages and we all have to do what we have to do to save up for our 'proper' places in future. Totally agree x
@@TheWellnessAbbey Keep up the good work girl! 😁
Thank you…sometimes I felt that way but now I understand that my path was different.
@@richtheking7157That is a ton of cope
I want to feel hopeful and believe these things but I struggle to. I'm 36 and feel very discontent. I don't want to talk too much about things but I think I would rather just end my life than carry on like this. I understand what you mean about being grateful but honestly that is just not enough to keep me alive any more.
Sorry to hear that, Isa. Please seek help if you are feeling like ending your life- feeling that way over extended periods of time isn't great.
Seek help if you are feeling suicidal: support.google.com/websearch/answer/11181469
Suicide prevention app: www.suicidepreventionapp.com/?gclid=Cj0KCQjw08aYBhDlARIsAA_gb0f6Y6ED34BBDI5CxcQoOqBBt3V5bZ3wARGKhKTxqZvjD46RIcY5fWoaAvM_EALw_wcB
You have a purpose which is why you're still here. I'm not sure if your faith but just close your eyes and ask the Lord to guide you and he will. The world needs you whether you know it or not. God bless🙏🌸
@@KayciazWorld I don't believe in anything. The world doesn't need me. It was fine before I was born and will be fine without me.
You are loved Isa. Don’t give up. This life isn’t forever so please give it a good go whilst you have the chance. Also you really don’t know what’s around the corner in your life. It could be the change you have always dreamt of. Hang on in there
Hold on Isa,I'm 38 and my life is slowly coming together...
Very heartfelt video and all really great advice. You are very right and as the saying goes, comparison is the thief of joy. I always feel most behind when I take my eye off my own journey and start to focus on how far ahead others are or where I wish I had got to by now. Great video.
That saying cannot be any more true! One of the keys to contentment is definitely keeping our eyes on our own journeys as you say. Thanks for watching!
This was such a great video. You have a lovely presence! ✨
Thank you so much, and thanks for watching!
I feel so much better about my situation. Thank you for sharing! 💖
You're welcome!!!
You spoke exactly how i feel...so thank you❤
Very helpfull. I feel blessed everyday and every now and then I feel sad or not contributing enough to life. Consistency in living life and taking (baby)steps to whatever it is you think you are set up to do in this life is key. Especially in this time! Thank you for sharing this honest and transparent video. Take care and be safe.
You're so right- baby steps when they add up, are massive glides. Thanks for sharing your input, also!x
Nice video and chin up! Nothing wrong with living at home or being single!
Agreed!
i shouldve found you much sooner. It feels so good to not be alone in this, especially that I just turned 30.
I think a lot of us deep down inside feel like we haven't achieved the things we'd have liked to, feel behind etc. so try to remember that 🤗 as long as you're doing your best and pushing yourself, that's all that matters.
@@TheWellnessAbbey thank you. I've been really down and judging nyself that my mental health has been let down. But thank you for making videos like these. Gives me more faith 🙏
Sorry to hear that. Yes, I wish people actually shared their journeys and feelings BEFORE they achieve the grand things they achieve, so we can relate to their journeys more and not feel like we're the only ones who have to work darn hard for what we have. Just seeing people's end result is really demotivating after a while. That's why I try to share my journey as I work toward things- so it's more relatable. Yes, keep for faith strong!! 🙏🏽
I’m in the same position but a few years older then you.30s is still young. I’m only here at home because of financial reasons high rent and unstable job market couple with bad bouts of depression and anxiety related to financial issues
Hi Mayy, thanks for your encouraging comment as I'm sure others who watch the video scroll through the comments and so will be encouraged by your words (this video wasn't about my personal experience but I do hope anyone who feels this way is encouraged that all hope is not lost and it's never too late for our lives to change).
@@TheWellnessAbbey oh okay guess I should have listened to the video. I just read it the title
No worries at all! I really tried to empathise with people in this position, so it may have created a little confusion!
@@TheWellnessAbbey ooo okay it’s all good. Everything has a pro and con and no living situation is better or worse then others it’s just different. Living at home actually might be a great option for someone depending on their situation. I think it’s a great topic and it’s not all bad.
You’ve really summed up how I’ve been feeling in this video 🥺
Mindset is everything. This time having to be at 'home' will pass regardless- it'll be much better and more bearable with a positive mindset, so do everything you can to feel positive, enjoy time OUTSIDE with friends, to create new hobbies, grow as a person etc. and make the time hopefully pass by quicker. You've got this.
@@TheWellnessAbbey thank you! Such good advice ❤️
Loving your content at the moment. I like to plan ahead which can be both good and bad for me. I would love a video on what you would say to your 21 year old self or people in their 20’s. I’m 21 and I feel so behind and In my mind I’ve already decided that it’s too late for me to find anyone and I have to do things in my own now. It’s like I’m stressing myself out about the pressures about marriage and kids before I’m asked about it which I know is going to be soon (worst i think it’ll be other relatives than even my own parents first). Although I’ve been planning to save and buy a house Probably 5-6years time to hopefully distract from all the questions. It’s just hard when society makes u feel ur not where ur supposed to be all the time.
Thank you, goddess. Planning ahead is good :-) I'll add that to my filming list! Hun- you are NOT behind (none of us are as long as we keep our eyes focused on our own journeys). It's possible for you to literally find someone, settle down / get married in a year, and feel 'settled down'- it doesn't always have to take years. I think it's wise to plan financially like you won't have anyone else to rely on but keep the hope simultaneously that you'll meet your life partner in divine timing- when both of you are ready to come together. If you can, limit contact with those relatives as much as you can- not much good can come out of those conversations sadly.
Read Ecclesiastes, I find it helpful for this kind of feeling.
I LOVE ecclesiastes!!!!
I would say 50 to old to live with your parents. Am 28 live with my parents so I will find out in 22 years time if living with them by 50
🙂
Thank You so much for a super useful, well thought out video. Perfect! X
Great video, everything you are saying is spot on. Instagram can be one of the most draining social media apps, as it makes you feel like you're miles off your goals. When it gets to that stage, I usually put it down and start reading, or reflecting on where I was compared to today. Keep doing what you are doing :)
I literally only follow accounts that teach me something now (whether about investing, budgeting, etc.) and no longer follow friends, influencers etc. I also try my best to not look at the search page as I don't need to be concerning myself with what everyone else is doing. Great moves- I'm trying to fill the extra time by reading more too. Thanks bro!
❤❤thank u for this video...helped soo much
Thank you! God Bless You ❤️🥰🙏🏾
You're welcome! Amen. You too, sis.
You’re such a sweetheart 🥲
This video has helped me a lot. I feel women are pressured to do so much. I know for me making money before I get married is really important. I’m not sure if I’ll ever get married, but I’m just looking for ways to get more support. It’s so lonely sometimes.
Wow there is more pressure on men. Making Good money is the hardest thing nothing is harder than that.women can be married to the next stable guy and just move on with life Us guys won't get a wife if we have no stable life
Aww thank you love 🫶🏾
hugs xo
I’m passed depressed. I’m just numb and tired.
@@MiaCarter7 sorry to hear this, Mia. Get mental health support if you haven’t done so already. Life is a lot!
It's funny I have the great marriage and the house and the things most millennials don't have, but that leaves me without a job and money and I feel just as bad. It's just funny because most of the millennial videos are about people being sad because they only have material success. I have all the good things in life but in a consumerist society I feel I need a career to be taken seriously by anyone out of my circle.
You know what- no matter how 'much' we have in life, we never feel satisfied and content for long periods of time. Yes, I feel like a lot of us have our identities and value wrapped up on our careers. Your comment is a great reminder to not do that. Congrats on the marriage and the house!! These are things we should always try to be not take for granted.
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I been feeling down about life atp at 28 living home with my parents even tho they care about me staying and dad wants me to stay forever plus I am single this girl who I wanted finally said something to me but it was in a bad way she said I made her feel uncomfortable I used to come into the store where she works and we always hit the lane by accidentally even tho I found her attractive and stuff. I wasn’t trying to make her uncomfortable she knew I liked her so I don’t understand, Then before this I tried to talk to her but she had someone and I told her I respect that relationship then her boyfriend died then I wanted to reach out to her and talk to her but I could’ve mustard up the courage again so I kept admiring from a far hoping some amazing miracle shit happen , I never had a real relationship, now she think I am weird and she said why I didn’t say nothing that I liked her because I wanted her love Frfr but I didn’t want to be rebound at the time ,but she always caught my eyes but she said stay df away from her and My heart was broken for a 5 days and it kinda heart broken but I am healing tho , people don’t understand that men don’t have many options, all it takes is a women to show love and compassion conversations , then the man will be real real,
Sorry to hear that, Jay. Praying for Jesus to enter your life and transform it in a way you've never even imagined. Pray you'll find your God-given partner x
@@TheWellnessAbbey thank you so much. I am great person , some people just don’t wanna give me a chance like that!
When it comes to finding our God-given spouses, we literally just need one Person to give us a chance. We don't even need multiple girls' acceptance. It's just one person we need. Stay focused and stay prayed up x
@@TheWellnessAbbey okay I will thank you !!!
Leave that girl alone man. That’s the real her