10 Things I Wish I Knew About Men In My 20s
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*The one who is meant for you encourages you to be your best, but still loves and accepts you at your worst.*
Exactly. Some women are clueless about their own behaviour
@@bojack3827👏👏
@@theformidabletruthno woman would do that.
Oh God! Not another quote by M. Monroe again? When will this moronic cliche finally wear out?
Why would anyone want to accept you at your worst? Do you cuddle a serial killer when he goes on a rampage? Do you give a hug to psychopath who just burned you house?
How about instead of bursting into emotional diarrhea that is likely to hurt people around you, you try to control your emotions and take the accountability for your actions like a mature, responsible, rational adult?
So basically it's your mom
I'm 27 and I've been through it. she is speaking straight facts, she literally hit the nail on the coffin. Only way you will find the right man who will respect you and cherish you is by loving yourself and putting yourself first.
no wonder y'all are single
Yo! Easy there mate must be tired regulating unasked opinions @@user-er8dl8cq2n
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Everyone should be putting themselves first, that’s how you maintain yourself lol
It’s not new information.. if you don’t put yourself first you will be depressed and disappointed
@@user-er8dl8cq2nI’m actually not, but you probably are
1. men don’t think you value them when you do things for them
2. men think you value yourself when you do things for you
3. men want to feel like the man they want to be through your eyes. have opinions of your own, but be soft towards them & appreciate them.
4. men want you to be unavailable because of your fun life (hard to get), and be playful, fun and youthful (easy to be with). say what you need to say so you don’t resent him in his presence.
5. men want to be with confident women. know your worth. also: if they want to they will, if they don’t they won’t. if he’s not sure, you shouldn’t be either. follow his lead.
6. when he needs space, closing the gap will make even a good guy run. healthy relationships need space. he wants to see you in your power too.
7. when someone shows you who they are, believe them. accept people for who they are. trying to change them means you do not love them as they are.
8. pick the man, don’t let the man pick you. a woman must invite a man so he can get close.
9. looks is not all there is. values are.
10. sleeping with him only makes you more attached. emotional attachment is what keeps a man, so only sleep with him when you’re genuinely ready.
Thank you for summarizing all 10 points! Was just looking for this ❤
1. Doing more for man does not equal them valuing you more!
2. Valuing yourself first and putting yourself first does makes man value you.
3. Man does not want a spicy fight, they want a woman who will make him see himself as incredible man, you make him feels like the wayy he want to be. Secure attachment, I am an interesting woman with opinion.
4. It's about I am hard to get but easy to be with. I maintain playfulness....I cannot be contacted often.
I have a builded life.
5. If I am confident I will be attracted to him.
1. Doing more for man does not equal them valuing you more!
2. Valuing yourself first and putting yourself first does makes man value you.
3. Man does not want a spicy fight, they want a woman who will make him see himself as incredible man, you make him feels like the wayy he want to be. Secure attachment, I am an interesting woman with opinion.
4. It's about I am hard to get but easy to be with. I maintain playfulness....I cannot be contacted often.
I have a builded life.
5. If I am confident I will be attracted to him.
6. If he is not ready and I am not his type I leave it!
7. If he is not sure about us I am not sure!
8. Young man are not ready for the relationship that I need.
9. When he needs space or run away, I am letting him go. I am closing the gap.
10. Let people be who they are and I won't try to change them.😊
femina-zi.
Thank you so much ❤
Your daughter is so lucky to have a wise and strong mum like you to teach her how to be an amazing woman ❤
I was thinking the same thing!
As a man she is correct. Getting a lot of attention/availability from a low value woman does not make her more valuable and it makes her look even cheaper. True, no spicy, salty women, be as feminine and easy going as possible - easy does not mean hook ups. Too many women are chasing chads that care nothing for them - and they still do the hookups and situationships and wonder why the marriage offer is not there.
Single mom?
I’m a 22 year old woman and I’m so grateful for my online big sisters teaching me how to not get scammed by men! ❤❤❤❤
"Online big sisters" love this! Wish I would have known these things myself at that age as well. Now they are just my "smarter sisters"! Haha
Hey, we big brothers are out here doing the same thing protecting our little bros from trifling 304s that are made for the streets. 😉
Youll full of shit
If you complain you only make my point stronger, all this is beyond schizophrenia and delusion, good luck
You are so lucky I wish UA-cam was a thing in the 1990’s! I was scammed at 20 with a narcissist McDonald eating freak! So young to go through all that bull! He knew exactly what he was doing ! I was a stranger in my own life.
Topics I'd like to see:
1. Protect energy from low vibrational men
2. How to communicate your value/boundaries silently.
3. Decenter men. Center yourself
I would love to hear about the first one.
2.
yesss center your yourselfff
Decentering. Absolutely!!!
Decenter men, center yourself...ohh how I felt proud asserting this❤❤❤
Dropping truth bombs left and right and I’m here for it. As a gal in her 30s and finally in a great relationship after kissing a lot of frogs I couldn’t agree more esp the last one. If the guy shows you who he is, that’s who he is! No more interpretation needed! The wrong man will never be ready for you and we got no time to waste!
A lot of frogs for me tho😅😅😂
Exactly
Finally you lowered your standards and settled for less.
I really want a suggestion rn
So me (23) and my partner (26) are in relationship from 9 months we almost live together ... he told me during our frndship and dating time that he completed his graduation and quit the chartered accountant course in the final stage ( there are 3 stages, final is the last stage ) bc he thought it is not worth it ( two years ago) , he isn't working rn and doesn't like doing job or anything , he wants to learning trading ( which he is good at ) and not interested in studies...
And he promised 2 of his friends that he would write their exam on behalf of them and took some money to help one of his friends mom hospital bill... and I did support and help him in all these things .... ( iam pursing chartered accountant final exam ) .. we both failed in those exams which we wrote unfortunately ( my exam and his friends exam ) ..
So last week he left for a marriage to attend ..so I snooped into his laptop .. turns out he didn't even complete the second stage of chartered accountant course , .. he is been lying to me since 9 months... ( he once told me that he have to tell me something important but he needs good timing to tell ) there were a lot of circumstances which he could have possibly told me that secret ( nobody knows that he didn't finish it , he lied to everyone ) , iam feeling betrayed , used , manipulated, deceived, ,... I unable to trust him anymore .. I confronted him ... he told me that he was used to that lie .. and didn't have courage to tell me .he feels sorry .. and guilty .. but wants one last chance ... I feel like I don't know this person at all .. what should I do? .. ( besides this I know he loves me and I love him too, but I donot trust him )
When you are with a man who does not have the capacity to match you and meet your needs, and he feels your normal effort as “too much” and starts to see you with less value; don’t be like me instead just move on. Had a man who was too immature to realize the “effort” I was showing was what grown people do like the ability to time manage and show up on time. The man for you will see your value even if you make dating blunders. The man not for you will make you feel insecure with their immaturity and inconsistency because they aren’t that into you but want the benefits. A man who is not at your level and doesn’t see you worthy of stepping up, he will try to acclimate you to bare minimum. Don’t lower yourself. A man who is not ready or emotionally unavailable will kill your soul so walk away. No matter what age you are take the advice from this video and make smarter choices. Good luck out there ladies.
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I agree!! I walked away from a relationship with a man that viewed my consistent/giving nature as “weak” and desperate. When in reality I was communicating and putting effort like a normal adult I didn’t even go overboard. He was just emotionally unavailable (which is hell btw - RUN!!) so he viewed availability as desperation. I left because I need a man who matches and appreciates my energy.
@user-rx7uh9mg4f Nah, I don't think it's emotional unavailability. I think he just wasn't into you.
And that's ok. Most bf/gf relationships end anyway and are to watch if you two are compatible or not. You're looking for a communicative man who is giving & he prefers a more independent assertive woman.
That's fine. It doesn't make someone mentally ill to not like you anymore.
THIS THIS THIS.
The fact we get this advice for free. You’re doing gods work 💞
Valentina is very lucky to have a mother like you. So wise and maternal.
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Thank you Margarita! Exceptional content as always. Here are some topics I would like to see;
1. How to set boundaries with men. Everyone talks about having them, but I struggle with articulating them since I am a former people pleaser.
2. Topics to talk about on dates.
3. Repelling dusty men.
4. Radiating energy that you are a high value woman without having to say it. Or vibrating positive energy in general.
I second these!
Boundary means that You leave when it's crossed. It's not a negotiation point, but leaving.
1 - put your cards on the table.
My first time dating I couldn’t understand that she didn’t like something’s because she would always say things like “I’m not sure…”, “I don’t know…”, but one time she simply said in a calm manner “I don’t like this and that please stop” and I was finally able to understand. I don’t walk on eggshells with my friends, when they are doing something wrong or that I don’t like, I say they are jerks and should stop.
3 - I don’t think you can avoid them, but you can avoid going to places they go.
4 - Don’t talk bad about others behind their back, don’t be passive aggressive, dress respectfully, be respectful, don’t talk too loud, read books and be intelligent ( but be modest about your intelligence if you don’t want to sound arrogant and cocky), don’t talk to much about yourself, don’t play always the victim, be responsible, take care of your posture (honestly, it’s so attractive when woman have good posture), and don’t trash talk men, men and woman do have problems and hold grudges towards each other, but we should just keep it to ourselves and act reconciliatory.
This is my personal opinion as a men, take it or leave it.
Confused man here... what exactly is a 'dusty man'
As a man, I gotta tell you already the first one is wrong for the one you truly want to marry. A man who doesn't value you when you do more is not the man you want to be with in the first place. The man you want to spend the rest of your life with is the man you want to do more for and he WILL value you greatly for doing those things.
Just because some men take these positive traits for granted does not mean you stop doing them, it means you need to find someone who will not take them for granted... The man you want to spend the rest of your life with is out there and by removing the positive feminine trait of doing things for your man, you disqualify yourself from him simply because he is a man who greatly values that trait in a woman.
After all you don't want to be with just 'some' man, you want to be with 'the' man
ma man
As Dr. Orion Taraban says: women oftentimes to the right things for the wrong men
What she says is true tho, I've seen it. Married women who take care if themselves are more respected by their man and others in their life
@@Of_infinite_Faith but why is that? I mean it's true but what is the psychology behind ? Why men do respect women (MORE) who take care of themselves?
"Doing more for them does not equal them valuing you more."
That's been my exact same experience with women. In fact, women are still doing that to me right now as I speak.
Women learn best from men. Didn't you know ?
As a man, I approve of this based and thought and experience soaked advice. Listen to this ladies! She's speaking facts.
Thank you for validating her points
Thank you!
only a simp with no value and full of hypocrisy can say this
Found the simp😂
As a man, none of what she says resonates with me.
It’s the same old new age woo woo self-love masturbatory bull that all these self-help woman gurus peddle to lonely and damaged women nowadays
@@snakegriffin4928 lol. Can't do anything about you being dead inside, bro. Didn't write this for approval or to get attention from a married woman (or you for that matter). I probably don't even approve of her value system. But what she was saying in that video made a lot of sense with respect to what degrees of freedom you have as a woman when looking for a man. Tell me one thing you don't agree with. E.g. as a woman trying to get a man enter a relationship with you is futile if the man doesn't freely choose to commit. That's his free will. Disney romanticism is not an automation. And women who think otherwise are narcissists. They may try to manipulate him (doing things, offering sex early / before marriage, ...), but it will backfire in one way or another.
I completely agree with the looks thing!! When he looks like a 10 (in your eyes), but you end up providing for him, working two jobs to cover your bills and his bills, paying for 99% of all baby items because he can’t, and then telling you he can’t put in more hours because he needs his rest and relaxation on the weekends, he looks like a 0 REAL quick.
Twice I’ve dated men because of their looks, twice I have learned that lesson. I think being physically attracted to him is an absolute must, but he def doesn’t need to look like a 10, he’ll be a 10 in your eyes soon enough base on how he treats you and provide for you.
Isnt the is what a lot of women expect men to do for them though? Work 2 jobs. Provide. Why is it bad when a woman does it? Personally I think it’s bad either way.
1- when we give too much too quick it’s never valued , give but with restriction with everyone eg friends , kids , lovers
2- if you wanna give , just give , without calculation
3- absolutely invest in yourself
4- look for a husband , a LT relationship
5- appreciate your husband , BF etc
Number 1 and 2 contradict each other 😅
“Be yourself!!”
“Don’t give him too much because he will take it for granted!”
Really? 🙄
@@msalexxa2012women and logic doesnt work. At least in the case of those femcels. God bless their poor souls.
Im a man and I don’t necessarily agree with this, you’re speaking of the unaware man. A man that practices self awareness observes and recognizes. He doesn’t need validation or approval from his partner cause he knows his worth and loves himself enough. A real man sees his partner objectively.
Ofcourse men like you must exist but the thing is there are so many guys who are immature and reckless when in their 20s. Finding the men who knows their self worth are very rare
Which is why the title mentioned in the 20s. And she's speaking on how women tend to get hurt in the 20s too. But if you're saying you're in your 20s then I must say you're great at being mature so young.
Are you single?
She mentioned what she wished she knew in her 20s. That doesn't say what the age of the men she is speaking about. Being self aware and knowing your value does not know age and by that I mean a man or woman can be self aware at a young age just as you can have someone who is never achieved self awareness and is 70, 80 or 120. And yes men and women can live to 120 if they take care of themselves.
Girl calm down@@funtimes3962
The way you roast us sometimes. Love ya wise lady. Thankyouuuuuuu for your wisdom . I am gonna turn 20 soon . 👑💅
Dang I wish i started learning this kind of info at your age. Keep it up! Proud of you 👍
@@Couscous77 Right? There were so many great things about growing up without the internet, but the free life lessons would have been amazing...
Things I'd love to see:
- dealing with not fitting into societal beauty standards
- how to know someone would make a good partner
- how to balance motherhood and being a good partner (I am so scared of doing this wrong lol)
- your parenting tips! (things you will do differently to how you were raised)
- when do you think is a good age for marriage
- things to consider before you agree to marriage
thank you margarita, you're incred 🥰
6:20 "you make me feel safe" is one of the most heartwarming compliments I could get from a woman. I'd want her to feel like I truly love her and care about her wellbeing. Instant protector mode turns on.
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it
there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.
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Be hard to get (have a busy life) but easy to be with.
So simple and spot on 👌
Be single forever.
So spot on! I wish I could go back to my 20’s and follow these! But seriously I hope all women in their 20’s LISTEN and follow this. Although I follow my career I still wanted love so often put myself through so much more heart ache instead of really choosing myself.
You can choose to have a family or grind in the rat race. You can focus on your baby and your husband or in your degree/career... You can't have the cake and eat it too at the same time... If you try doing that the outcome will be a divorce.
You are the prize ladies so focus your energy on loving & working on yourself and the man will naturally follow :)
How are women the prize? Men must earn their value. The definition of value is different for men and women. Women are valued for their beauty and men for their ability to protect and provide. Women are born with value. There is plenty of beautiful women but a shortage of high value successful males. Just because you say you are the prize does not change the facts.
@@leonh2044 bs women are born with a uterus that's it highly desirable women have other good trails too how they speak how they move how intelligent they are without that no they wouldn't be high value beside men have to work and earn to get a women how one gonna work for something while being the prize you earn the prize
@leonh2044 well you just answered your own question; women are born with value..what i am trying to highlight is that women should work on themselves too. They want to be claimed and "conquered" thats what I mean by prize
@044 Who are they earning value for though? Lots of beautiful women for sure but it is not about just being beautiful. If you are unlucky enough just to be plain or below average you are working to gain that value in society lol. Yet the goal is to be a well rounded women(fit, good partner, intelligent, potential to be good mother etc). When you ask men if it easy to find that they say no especially now. You are missing one little piece of the puzzle. If women weren't prized in some way men would not feel the need to put themselves above all other competition to get the prized women in their eyes. Goes both ways.
@@leonh2044 because men compete for women. Women do not compete for men, unless he is of an extremely high caliber, which is rare. You said it yourself, women have inherent value, and men have to build themselves. Thus beautiful, kind women are the "prize" that is rewarded to hard working men
As a man, I pretty much agree with everything you said. The one exception is the reason you stated as to why men see themselves as more valuable when given favors or shown acts of kindness. I don’t think it’s malicious - I just think men don’t get as much affection or validation as women do when growing up or on a day to day basis. Being given a favor is a form of indirect validation. And it can be addictively gratifying to be on the receiving end of something for people who don’t experience validation often.
Edit: I also want to state that the outcome of a man viewing only himself better and not viewing the woman who does him a favor as more valuable only applies if he’s not attracted to her. Otherwise, if he is attracted to her, then he’ll value both her and himself more.
As you point out, women don’t understand how indifferent society is to men (no one cares whether a man succeeds or dies, but if he’s going to die just do it where no one has to listen to him suffer). So that makes your attention gold for him. This video confuses “doing nice things for him” and “smothering him”-the first is great, the second is terrible. But when you invest in him, see if he invests in you. If not, cut back.
I disagree somewhat. Men do get validation in society (a lot more than women). Their accomplishments are more valued than women, what they have to say is taken more seriously.
It’s a bit of a catch 22 because while men receive less affection, they’re also more coddled (not all). It seems both can be true at the same time (ie. Less affection from dad, coddled by mom) at varying degrees depending on a person’s specific circumstances.
I think men probably do experience less social warmth in certain settings where they’re unfamiliar to people; because men are more often perceived as a threat than women. (And conversely, women are more often perceived as possible prey ).
It’s not something I would describe as an indifference toward men, but more like an instinctive defensive measure that comes from living as a woman and being aware that you are seen as prey, or someone who can be easily overpowered and taken advantage of and the fear and survival instinct that comes with that.
It’s very interesting learning about and comparing the different experiences of the genders moving through life. Hopefully it helps us understand each other more.
@@OMGitsShrimp Disagree. How are men’s accomplishments validated more? That seems like a stretch. Nobody really cares unless you’re uber successful, and that’s because you’re successful, or attractive, or people want something from you. Nobody celebrates the average man, the hardworking men who keep our societies afloat. They’re criminally under appreciated. Women seem to employ the apex fallacy a lot when viewing and talking about men I’ve noticed.
i’d love to see another video about self, like how to know your charms and embrace who you are in all relationships
I love how real you are with your advice lol we all need to hear it straight sometimes.
Take it from experience-Not only will doing more for them not make them value you more, it will actually make them value you less. Scarcity principle.
The BEST VIDEO that you have done yet. So glad to have found your channel.
I was apprehensive to listen to this kinda rolled my eyes at the title. But boy was I surprised. Super, super solid advice. Done most all of this and had absolutely amazing relationships.
“but unlike the normal things.. men are not the same” so real
Would love to hear how to communicate with your partner when you’re upset with him in a high vibrational feminine energy way
This 🙌
Put your cards on the table, without walking on eggshells, but in a calm manner.
I don’t usually comment but I’m in a healthy relationship he’s younger than me he said he was planning to get married in his 30’s but when he met me he completely felt that he is ready and working hard so we can get married next year❤️
As a man I can confirm. But most of these things can be said for women as well, they are universal truths for humans. :)
its like i have a big sis who'd been through everything and came back nurturing her lil sis. Thank you🥰🥰✨️✨️
She has just answered all my doubts. Thankyou !!!
I totally agree with the first point ! I used to cook so much and try help my ex with a lot of things like helping them write their practical books etc but in the end they didn't respect me enough. Its so true you all .
I like this tone of voice of yours so much better - calm, paced, soothing... I follow you from TikTok. I listen to your message but you have a very different tone of voice on there (a bit more agressive, forward). I'm grateful that you put all this content out there.
You're one of my looked up to "big sister" content creators. 💜
haven't seen the tik tok may be it draws more attention.
I always go straight for your channel when I’m mid-crisis and it always gives the goods - thank you!
The thing about putting time into yourself is so real though. It goes the other way around too, ppl in general are so much more attractive when they are put together. Confidence is attractive.
Incredible, you understand us men with that level of precision!
Woah! Girl. You give me clarity.
I’m obsessed with this video. Thank you for the tips!
This was very refreshing. You are so dry and cracked me up. Thank you so much for this!
Hi, first time viewer as a man, and I have to say I agree completely with the perspective you are providing, and I think this video also be applied to the reverse. One has to value treat themselves with dignity and respect and everything will fall in its natural place accordingly.
I want to offer my opinion on only the first point, and say a practical advice on how you can mitigate this problem without pain. In my case I have always been very generous and have helped others, often times on my own peril. I didn't use to have that much luck on the front of being appreciated for the things I have done for them.
One trait, albeit a rare one from men, you should proactively look for, is a man that practices gratitude and holds near and dear the people in his life. If you surround yourself with people that are acknowledging and thankful of your presence, not only will you be seen as valuable, but full on amazing. But finding these kind of people, not only in relationships but in day to day life is not easy, especially because this trait is almost exclusive to intelligent people.
How you view yourself is how the others view you. Keep doing what you are doing
Lovve ittt! Let the next topic be the10 things we need to know while in marriage!
WOW… it costed me a breakup, but I finally got to this video, and everything you said makes sense and you said it with so much ease… that’s a lot of wisdom right there… THANK YOU
About the point "Leave it" you are SOOO Right!!!
Margarita, it's your best video, congratulations 🎉❤
You are really rocking it 👌🏻🤩
You are younger than me and way more aware than I was when I was in your age I totally agree with you now and are done doing too much and now focusing on me and my life first. Thank you for this lovely message. God bless to you and your lovely daughter❤
This is so timely, thank you!
“How to find, select and manage female friendships, that can last forever“
yes, adult friendship is hard. I love my girls but I'm so afraid to reach out and be a burden.
Thank you for the amazing tips and I absolutely love your delivery and humor!!
This advice is pure gold
Nothing but facts 💯 That first point was a huge one for me. I'm a people pleaser, and I had to understand that unless he understands how much effort I put in, he's not going to appreciate it. This is why I made it a point to only find a man who has to cook, clean, and do laundry for himself, and have a 9-5 job so he literally understands the value I give him. If I see he doesn't value the energy I put into something, I stop doing it for him since he doesn't notice. I only have so much energy to give before I start neglecting myself.
Omg the story that you're telling me is so direct, and sharp. Especially, there're some points that I learned from my first bf are similar to what you're saying.
This was actually amazing! She was spot on for everything. I am so glad that you made this ❤❤❤
I’m an older woman and still appreciate your insights! And I just wanted to say your baby is lovely!!
Such a great video, thank you for taking the time to make this!!
You look beautiful. Postpartum was hard for me to get myself back to looking and feeling good. Thanks for this info.
Yet to love the guest interviews as much as i love these videos. These are so much relevant to me and informative at the moment.
- topics i would like to hear from you-
- decentering men/ partner
- how to work on limerence reg the idea of a man. I walked out of a relation that dint serve me cus he is all that yu outline about men being focussed on themselves.. but there are more times in the day that i think of what we could have been and have mental conversations with him.. he is still in my thought and energy and i want to clear this for good.
- how to remember to focus on your self worth- i know you talk a lot about this but its tough to remember this when yu need it the most
- how to declutter your mind to focus on things that matter
- do more of the responses to questions that are sent to you.
You are brilliant Margarita! You keep saying following those whom you would like to be, and id like to be like you! The confident, sorted in the head, know when to let in and let
Go..
lastly- i love your metaphors and analogies.. keep them coming!
I wish I saw this video in my 20's!! :) THank you for your wisdom. I am in my thirties and now understand all this. LOVE you and do more for you FIRST.
we’re here living for metaphors and i love you
@3:40 as a man, I'm telling you & all women that want you said is true! That's how we see value indeed
Thank you 💗 im 39 and i still didnt know this about men!
Margarita, I have been a fan of your channel for a week (since pretty soon). But you explain and describe in a very clear and well way and I would like to thank you for this channel and for your self improvement which you share in a very meaningful way with us! ❤
Thanks. Great one!
Margerita we need a video about when we should leave a man 😢
If you already think you should leave him, then I think you already intuitively know your answer. Good luck sis❤️
@@ninjabrown8560 I guess you're right i have this feeling that he is with me coz he doesn't have other options altough he proposed
lol yes
I read "once you create a pros and cons list, youre already out the door." Its okay to leave, its okay to start over. You're incredible, you are amazing! You can be single and you are going to thrive!
@MsRickylynn guess so !
he is hesitating a lot although he proposed but i guess i am not his type or he run out of options
Your videos always seem to come when I need a proper wake-up call, really grateful for your insights ❤
100 % I tell men that I meet , when discussing boundaries , that I value myself and I decide whether the man is right for me. Anyway I got myself one of those logical, stoic real man been 6 years❤
This was so powerful for me, thank you!
Hi margarita, I would like a video on How to balance doing for a man and not doing with practical examples. How do you know if you're giving too much? When you naturally want to make him feel good and appreciated and show your love?
genuine not out of desperation to keep.
As a young 23 year old woman exploring my femininity and dating for the first since getting out of a long term relationship, your videos have been absolute GOLD, Margarita!🌟 I wish I knew this a year ago, but I'm also accepting that some things you just have to experience for yourself and learn from. Thank you for being a "virtual" big sister to many woman out there because, even in my short time on this earth lol, everything you said rings so true, especially the part about giving more to a man and thinking he will value us more. I thought the more I give, then how could he not want to be with me, right? But no, I've learned it's about respecting your boundaries and not being so available to every beckoning call is what really makes people respect you and your time (not just in romantic relationships, but platonic ones) as well. Love hearing your wisdom 💖
This is one of the most insightful videos on this topic that I have ever come across. Some of the things you brought up were authentic and never been highlighted before, Margarita. Grateful
I so wish I knew and understood all this when I was in my 20's instead of my 40's. Learnt some hard and painful lessons.😢 Thanks for your content lovely lady xx❤
Margarita... I appreciate your knowledge and time commitment sharing your wise words and thoughts.
God bless you and your family.
Timing of this video is amazing! thank yoou!. need a video about how to actually get the man that you want, like in step by step or tricks how to play you cards right. I always feel like I do 95% right then a tiny mistake happens and you are out again. I always wonder how some women just effortlessly get the guy. Please share some more tricks or things you can do:) lovee
shes fantastic, thank u!!!!! you just saved me from my biggest regrets and the things that my friends say are totally wrong, youre right.
This advice seems actually valuable. You deserved a like.
good stuff. Long time married. I always put me first so avoided a lotta BS.
Anything you post, I know it's gonna be good. Love this woman
I have watched a few videos on this topic. This was very well done 👏 I always feel that if you are triggered during the content then it highlights areas you need to work on. I don’t give myself a hard time I just recognise this is something I must start/stop and feel a sense of gratitude for now knowing the information. Thanks for all you do ❤ x
all pointed ! thank you very much!
Choose the man who treats you well but in order for him to treat you well you must also treat yourself well. Keep yourself as the priority and the man for you will recognize that and treat you as the same!
Margarita, your videos and accent are amazing, honestly I came here to do so-called shadowing exercise, and I got glued to the screen, I didn't even realize that you are from Eastern Europe, good job, keep it up!
In addition: I always say “the best gift you can give a man is giving him a reason to get up in the morning.” Men thrive when they have responsibility and experience self-efficacy. Entrusting him to take care of things while being supportive will make him feel like a capable man and appreciate you as the woman by his side.
The woman Always taking care of everything won’t make him feel like the strong, capable man he wants to be and it won’t make him appreciate you more.
Yes, you are actually correct. Men need a purpose. And it's hard to find one without a family. That's why so many men have gone to war voluntarily. Because it gives you a purpose. That's the single most solid advice.
Sooooo true. The points are just spot on!!!❤
Thank you so much! Such fabulous contents. I’m really lucky to have the chance to watch it ❤ thank you
Amazing video! Full of GEMS! 💎
These are all GOLD 🌟. Thank you
it's the delivery and some tweaks different from the rest.
Thank you!
My excitement when I saw you had a new video 🤩❤️
This video is so underrated. My wish is by leaving a comment and a like to be able to contribute to the yt algorithm because this woman ia speaking facts and she is telling me ecactly what i need to hear as a woman in my early 20s. I think the problem anxious attachment style and codependence in women in their 20s is not talked abour enough.
You’re on a roll ! Love it.
Thank you!! Im in my thirties and I feel all of them was top good advice!! So true from my experiences.
Not only do you have the facts here, but you seriously make me laugh. It’s very VERY RARE for me to even leave comments but I’m stuck on your page, and here we are. 😂❤
THIS!!! I loved it, even sent it to my friend ❤
Really wise, thank you darling ❤
I really needed to hear this. Thank you so much babe
Thanks!