If You're Feeling Lost...It's Actually GOOD!

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  • @depressiontoexpression
    @depressiontoexpression  Рік тому +254

    Lonely? Lost? Anxious? To begin to know yourself and who you are is a great place to start. Here's a free 6-part video series I put together for you: www.scottstemarie.com/freefromanxiety

    • @hadithelegend3358
      @hadithelegend3358 Рік тому +10

      always lost :/

    • @cartergomez5390
      @cartergomez5390 10 місяців тому +4

      I don't feel lost but I have so many obstacles that want to get in my way. I'm so scared 😮

    • @teixgo
      @teixgo 10 місяців тому +1

      Thanks this video help me a lot

    • @joseescobar2076
      @joseescobar2076 10 місяців тому

      V

    • @educationforblind6362
      @educationforblind6362 7 місяців тому

      The map you put behind of the "roman" empire is so wrong and false in many aspects. Its fake and wrong informations.

  • @angelkaye00
    @angelkaye00 9 місяців тому +2190

    "if you are feeling lost,
    it's okay
    it means you are moving
    it means you have been moving
    it means you are looking for more
    it means you are a seeker!
    You have goals,
    ambitions,
    and aspirations!"
    This comforted me to another level. Thank you!

    • @gigihadid-gx8ol
      @gigihadid-gx8ol 8 місяців тому +2

    • @pharaohosam
      @pharaohosam 8 місяців тому +3

      Complete and utter cope.

    • @asdfdg11
      @asdfdg11 7 місяців тому +9

      Im stuck… i dont think I can look at it this way.

    • @user-rx4jg8lq7h
      @user-rx4jg8lq7h 6 місяців тому +4

      @@pharaohosam Coping is a good thing, surely. Only strong people cope.

    • @wichywitch5938
      @wichywitch5938 5 місяців тому +3

      Ah so calm to hear this, sometimes I think lost is bad for me but not at all. When I lost I understand about myself more.

  • @FabioPioFersini
    @FabioPioFersini 16 годин тому +120

    Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

    • @HAMZAPINE
      @HAMZAPINE 16 годин тому

      Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

    • @BestOffer-ii9ny
      @BestOffer-ii9ny 16 годин тому

      Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @fakiriayoub8087
      @fakiriayoub8087 16 годин тому

      I wish they were readily available in my place.
      Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
      He's constantly talking about killing someone.
      He's violent. Anyone reading this
      Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

    • @HAMZAPINE
      @HAMZAPINE 16 годин тому

      Is he on instagram?

    • @BestOffer-ii9ny
      @BestOffer-ii9ny 16 годин тому

      Yes he is dr.porassss.

  • @davo86
    @davo86 11 місяців тому +2762

    I’m 36, still living with my parents. Lost my job due to vaccine mandates last year. I’m now going to Uni to finish my Bachelor of Accounting at Swinburne University in Melbourne, Australia which I’ve meaning to do for years. 14 units to go! Correction 12 units to complete, wish me luck!

    • @kaninlabsama784
      @kaninlabsama784 9 місяців тому +64

      WOW! That's amazing! Hope you enjoy your journey!

    • @TheOlaide
      @TheOlaide 9 місяців тому +24

      All the best!!!!

    • @samirqr2021
      @samirqr2021 9 місяців тому +19

      u can do it

    • @MIDDLEGROUNDPODCASTCZ
      @MIDDLEGROUNDPODCASTCZ 9 місяців тому +12

      All the best! There are great things waiting ahead of you! ❤

    • @tracydao763
      @tracydao763 9 місяців тому +6

      Good luck mate 🙌🙌🙌

  • @dohaasali8050
    @dohaasali8050 Місяць тому +59

    Feeling lost is always a sign of a new beginning✨️

  • @Bronnybronny
    @Bronnybronny 29 днів тому +28

    I have a good job, a good apartment, in a “good” city…. And I am miserable. All I want is to quit, sell everything and move to Hawaii for a year. I want adventures, I want excitement, I want joy. I am drowning in my monotony. I never thought this is how my life would turn out. I thought I would be so happy.

  • @itsgabbieagain
    @itsgabbieagain 10 місяців тому +302

    Society makes it seem like we have to go so fast and know what we are doing all the time. Anything less, we're told we're failures.

    • @jaysouthmusic8230
      @jaysouthmusic8230 4 місяці тому +11

      Especially social media

    • @lamontjunior1907
      @lamontjunior1907 2 місяці тому +2

      Speak!!!

    • @VENUS-gm5lu
      @VENUS-gm5lu 2 місяці тому +2

      this is exactly how i’m thinking right now. i hope you are where you want to be at this moment and if not, i just KNOW you will get there. what you said is something someone so strong and used to doing it alone would say. YOU got this. WE got this❤❤❤❤❤

  • @cristin97
    @cristin97 9 місяців тому +600

    I swear once you start to get used to the feeling of being lost and not having any ground beneath u, you start to understand you are your own home

    • @lilianab4756
      @lilianab4756 8 місяців тому +11

      So profound😮 I have recently discovered this too!❤

    • @laramarjanac5834
      @laramarjanac5834 7 місяців тому +6

      I like that

    • @asdfdg11
      @asdfdg11 7 місяців тому +7

      It gets lonely sometimes.. any advice what you do?

    • @cristin97
      @cristin97 7 місяців тому

      ​@@asdfdg11 yes, that is so true :/ I honestly have been feeling really lonely for the past years due to a lot of circumstances + Covid, and just adulthood I thought as humans we had the capacity to adapt to anything and still be happy, but this thought made me force myself into situations that I didn't connect with at all, which made me feel super lonely. I thought FOR A LOOONG time that the problem was ME. But after some time and some changes around me (started studying again, started doing things I naturally was always attracted to, like drawing or singing even though initially I didn't want to do anything cause I was really sad), eventually I started feeling better. I now still have bad and lonely days and thoughts. But I know nothing lasts, not even the pain or the anxiety. Even the lonelinessI moved back home and I started letting go of what didn't make me feel anything. I started pursuing the spark of joy, as little as it was then. And now what makes me feel happy is that I fully BELIEVE, with all my heart, that I am not the problem, and that there is so many people in the world that would like me and feel things just as intensely as I do. Also, I believe us who feel the loneliest are also the ones who have seen the truth: the superficiality of the world we live in. It means we think, we reflect, and if we can do that, we can also change things around us. At least, for ourselves and the small circle of people who surround us. And that is a fucking miracle

    • @jeanjacqueslundi3502
      @jeanjacqueslundi3502 7 місяців тому +7

      Not far from the truth. The world was never designed to be able to match all our preferences, values, sense of integrity. We can only find what truly matters to us.........within ourselves. Other people are just doing themselves........running around, using their free will.............while what we value and our sense of being lost are symptoms of not finding in the world........what matters to US.......whilst being TOLD by the world what WE should be doing.

  • @theivy1352
    @theivy1352 8 місяців тому +136

    Quit my job, broke up a relationship. Nothing left but me on my own, no idea what's next BUT I really really really enjoy this emptiness. I have a strong sense that something greater is coming to me and this breaktime is a chance for me to rest well and recharge before exploding with the coming changes. Feel so faithful and excited. Life is interesting guys. No matter it is up and down, go with the ride. U got ur destint set !

    • @julietayebale6362
      @julietayebale6362 3 місяці тому +2

      Me now

    • @ProEray
      @ProEray 2 місяці тому

      how did it go

    • @shahnuramanxunaed2011
      @shahnuramanxunaed2011 2 місяці тому

      How are you now

    • @theivy1352
      @theivy1352 2 місяці тому +19

      @@ProEray everything is recovering now. a new self new life new way new opportunities after all of that suffering. it's like a rebirth

    • @theivy1352
      @theivy1352 2 місяці тому

      @@shahnuramanxunaed2011 everything is like a rebirth now

  • @loomonda18
    @loomonda18 Рік тому +1119

    You have described it perfectly....that feeling like there's nothing to hold onto or ground you, you literally feel like you're floating and trying to reach out for something to stabilize you, but there's nothing substantial.

    • @BrianBloop
      @BrianBloop 8 місяців тому +24

      Wow this!! This describes me so perfectly. I feel like I want to do so much and I don't know whwre to begin or how to keep going in one set direction

  • @rhettgiepert4022
    @rhettgiepert4022 Рік тому +485

    Lately Ive been waking up and feeling like nothing is right in my life, it doesn't feel the same anymore.

    • @luthfiadeasavira3073
      @luthfiadeasavira3073 11 місяців тому +17

      same with me

    • @katrinamenzies9398
      @katrinamenzies9398 11 місяців тому +9

      Me too

    • @Thesilentvoice...
      @Thesilentvoice... 11 місяців тому +34

      When I feel like that I question why? I look at the reason and when I understand that, I try to pray to God and focus on whatever gut feeling I have regarding my future that doesn’t leave me. Also know sometimes outer factors contribute to feeling like this, it’s not your fault. You will get through the storm.

    • @marikamarshmiru
      @marikamarshmiru 9 місяців тому +7

      same here

    • @lenalee5516
      @lenalee5516 9 місяців тому +3

      It's been a week and I'm really feeling that way as well

  • @user-fq6yt1mv1l
    @user-fq6yt1mv1l 2 місяці тому +49

    i am crying while watching your podcast because i feel like there's someone out there who also understands what i am feeling.

    • @ruparekhi8297
      @ruparekhi8297 Місяць тому

      I am with you , I am going through a lot too but this is temporary and the universe has our back , never give up , God bless

  • @tiarab9928
    @tiarab9928 6 місяців тому +114

    When i read the comments, I noticed that i am not alone 😢. Everyone has different story but same struggle. I am 24 years, can speak English,Japanese and Turkish yet I don’t know what to do with my life. I graduated one year ago and got into job right after graduation. Afterward i noticed that I don’t want to do that job and quit, now i am trying to change my direction and learning new thing such as trading, nft etc . But unfortunately sometimes i compare myself with my friends. They still work and look happy. On the other hand i started to learn new things, i feel like i waste my most productive time by doing things. But everyone we are not alone, we all feel same.

    • @shakhnozaachilova3350
      @shakhnozaachilova3350 3 місяці тому +6

      Three month ago i lost my job, and being very experienced and with three languages: russian, english, and turkish, applied to so many positions but got only rejection. As i dont know what else i can do i just left situation to Allah, and try to ask myself all the time what i really want, read books watch this kind of videos.

    • @diemcarl5546
      @diemcarl5546 2 місяці тому

      Your set of languages is impressive 😊 I learned to some extent or more English Czech Slovak Mandarin Turkish (unfortunately) German, the only decent level (not even C1) is English and Russian is my native. Basically, I can use only several of them, and I do suck in my life at my 35... What I want to say 😅 I wish I knew programming languages instead, a stack of them. F*ck my life, and I wish you all best my random friend ❤

    • @gigibenja1671
      @gigibenja1671 Місяць тому

      At least you have me now i’m 26

  • @Buritsu
    @Buritsu Рік тому +979

    Thank you, this is very comforting. I feel so lost in life right now.

  • @Rainynightstories
    @Rainynightstories 11 місяців тому +106

    People really make you feel guilty for stopping and taking break for yourself. ...neglect them and take your time.

    • @jaysouthmusic8230
      @jaysouthmusic8230 4 місяці тому +5

      I know right that’s messed up. Life is a marathon not a sprint

    • @DreamingwithD
      @DreamingwithD 2 місяці тому

      Yes i experienced that..they see those who stop as losers

  • @gigibenja1671
    @gigibenja1671 Місяць тому +18

    I lost my job and feel lost now and anxious… watching your video change my attitude. It mean that i’m moving something new and seeker! Thank you for this :)

  • @ann467
    @ann467 Місяць тому +239

    Who is listening to this April 2024? 👇

  • @karolinasundkvist5762
    @karolinasundkvist5762 Рік тому +627

    Found this by accident?? Such a comforting and wise message! I am between jobs and don't really know what to do, where to turn. What do I want? Who can I be? What now? Listening to you makes a big difference, being reminded that it is not a bad thing to be lost. It is also a time of opportunity! Thanks.

    • @raulseixasdasilvasauro4962
      @raulseixasdasilvasauro4962 10 місяців тому

      Yeah.. all is ephemeral and tech mediated and don't depend or belong to yerself... unstability and nothing to hold value or time or see a future... all skil and life before just devalued and taken... as of nothing... struggle became to live on an artificial grid where they can turn on off and interfere...

    • @jessicamartins4066
      @jessicamartins4066 8 місяців тому

      ❤ Same here.

    • @skywalker6648
      @skywalker6648 5 місяців тому +8

      Sometimes you have to shut the world out and imagine what would you do if money was no object and worse thing you can do is compare yourself to others or listen to their journey. That's because everyone's journey is unique to them.

    • @angelad.williams6298
      @angelad.williams6298 5 місяців тому +7

      Asking myself what I want creates a lot of anxiety for me and especially when people tell me "just follow your passion" really upsets me because most of the things I am passionate about do not translate monetarily. I am struggling with what to do as far as career and am getting so much unhelpful advice from every which way, it's so good to just realize I can sit where I am at and don't have to make any big decisions right now. All the best to you

    • @lovingit098
      @lovingit098 4 місяці тому

      Same here!!! I love this content I subscribed ❤❤❤

  • @cristin97
    @cristin97 9 місяців тому +154

    I once read 'if you're lost it means you're changing'. Changing to grow and be able to overcome the uncertainty of the situation we find ourselves in. But everything is temporary, even emotions. And in this case, time is our best friend, it's the eagle that will take us up to see everything we've done and what our next step is. ❤

    • @rabbitlively
      @rabbitlively 8 місяців тому +5

      Thank you so much. I love this comment

    • @cristin97
      @cristin97 8 місяців тому +3

      @@rabbitlively I'm glad u like it! ♥️

  • @nthabisengkhepase601
    @nthabisengkhepase601 9 місяців тому +26

    I am only 21, I'm expected to go to college or getting a job, and everything is just overwhelming. Not to mention not having funds to do anything with my life😭

  • @Nighthydrangea
    @Nighthydrangea 9 місяців тому +50

    I feel so lost, I’ve been thinking for the past months “am i a failure?” because i don’t feel like doing anything or even socialising, i even prayed to God for answers and today I’ve experienced good things and Yt recommend me this video, thanks for the good words

  • @stellaancimer8505
    @stellaancimer8505 Рік тому +188

    We are never Lost..we are doing the Best we can 😊

  • @stephcampbell9277
    @stephcampbell9277 Рік тому +233

    Love the analogy of planting a seed and letting the laws of nature do the rest :)

  • @leaf4601
    @leaf4601 8 місяців тому +180

    Hey, I am 20 years old. I have failed three times consecutively to get into med school and honestly this podcast was all that I needed. The constant feeling of sadness and failure and depression was making me hard to breathe. I was sick of living a life without passion and purpose. I was feeling lost. I felt like a failure bc I spend 2 years fully dedicated to my studies but still failed. I was feeling very guilty, after my results were declared I completely broke. I had no energy to do anything. Small things used to give me so much anxiety and I wanted my life to end. I feel so much lighter and better after listening this podcast. You have no idea how many people you must have helped through this podcast bc I know there must be more people like me who are feeling lost and they need someone who can comfort them. Thankyou for creating this podcast. I hope you reach new levels of success. May god bless you and stay happy ❤️

    • @jaasrahh3479
      @jaasrahh3479 7 місяців тому +8

      You're so strong for being where you are.

    • @anna_bendl
      @anna_bendl 7 місяців тому +11

      Hi, I can totally feel you! I was looking for a comment similar to problems I am dealing with and not that your suffer would make me happy or anything. I just wanted to reach out to you that I have the same problem. Trying to get in Uni which seems impossible for me and I am just trying to figure it all out...thank you for sharing your story cause it made me realize i am not alone...

    • @Sarah-pc1di
      @Sarah-pc1di 7 місяців тому +18

      Hi, I am so proud of you for trying those 3 times, even if they didn’t turn out as you’d hoped. Medicine is so competitive it’s crazy! Take your time, the career is a long term gain, and when you become the amazing doctor you’re going to be, you’ll be glad you went through the process the way you did. I once read that the best doctors are the ones that didn’t have a linear pathway into medicine, and had to really push to get in. You may not see it clearly now, but your experience with ‘failure’ and rejection will help you massively in the future. And remember to look at the bigger picture; everyone goes at their own pace, and in the end everyone will end up in the same place no matter how long it took them to get there. Keep pushing you’ve got this ❤️

    • @angelad.williams6298
      @angelad.williams6298 5 місяців тому

      You have made it a lot further than many people have even tried! I'm sure that has got to feel extremely frustrating to have dedicated yourself to something and still not gotten the outcome you wanted. My situation is different but similar in that small things have been overwhelming me too, like I am feeling almost unable to function, I know I'm going through a hard time this year with a surgery and then a divorce in progress, but the fact that I couldn't even keep up with the basic household tasks and barely keeping up with my job, I am self employed and my business has completely stalled and now I don't even know if I want to continue with it. I was feeling really down on myself until I found this video, I don't have to make any decisions now and it's OK that I am not functioning at the level I once did.

    • @drakearries
      @drakearries 5 місяців тому +1

      This resonates with meee! altho not the med school part but the feeling lost part

  • @sekrad
    @sekrad 4 місяці тому +26

    Really needed to hear this. I’m 37, married, still living with my parents, work part time on weekends, and have severe depression. I don’t know what to do to move forward in life. Glad to know I’m not alone. Thank you.

  • @mariekabrocklebank179
    @mariekabrocklebank179 Рік тому +113

    It's as if a door has opened for me. My husband passed away 4 years ago. Been married for 35 years.....I lost so so much. So I will take these precious words from this and find some comfort.

    • @sophias1191
      @sophias1191 Рік тому +15

      I am sorry for your loss.😢❤️

    • @Oystermato
      @Oystermato 3 місяці тому +1

      Why do you feel lost? At least you were loved. Some of us were denied it completely and suddenly, and the person who hurt us is still Alive.

    • @user-lz2wf5dz2f
      @user-lz2wf5dz2f 20 днів тому

      @@Oystermato stfu gtfo this thread isn't about you.

  • @hifiunicorn
    @hifiunicorn Рік тому +192

    1 minute in and you’ve already perfectly described my every thought in daily existence.

  • @Invertmini1212
    @Invertmini1212 Місяць тому +6

    Dont mistake movement for progress and the key to life is moderation..
    Also dont ever be scared of change... Its good for you and whenever change happens its when the most growth comes from within.

  • @karims9379
    @karims9379 8 місяців тому +33

    When you feel lost that means that you going somewhere ❤

  • @edwinflores7519
    @edwinflores7519 11 місяців тому +181

    I love how his advice and insights come from a place of geniune care for others and not forcing others to act with urgency.

  • @emilythesongbird2306
    @emilythesongbird2306 2 місяці тому +7

    "Let the lostness warm you. You are an adventurer and you are making your way, and you deserve this rest." Beautiful reminder! Thank you Scott.

  • @damagrimes2243
    @damagrimes2243 8 місяців тому +18

    Ground yourself.
    Take your time.
    Make a decision.
    Life is about moving and tweaking.
    We all get lost and it’s okay.
    Life is unpredictable.
    Curveballs are good.
    Take rest when you need.
    Set up camp ⛺️
    Be your own friend.
    Put your feet where the ground is.
    Be present.
    Check out the map”
    Let it really sink in.
    Let go of what if”
    Sit, there’s no rush.
    Take rest again.
    Embrace your adventurer side.
    Chill on your launchpad, you’ll know when to make the next move”
    Thank you so much for this video 🙏🏼 really needed to hear this tonight.

  • @damarisalberto2974
    @damarisalberto2974 11 місяців тому +17

    This is actually how I’m feeling right now LOST

  • @get2no50
    @get2no50 10 місяців тому +19

    Funny how life works, this found me exactly when I needed it

  • @sergendemir9653
    @sergendemir9653 10 місяців тому +126

    This resonated with me Scott! As someone who went to school to become a psychologist, as someone who loves asking questions and diving deep, I feel very lost at this moment in my life. A new country (US), new culture, changing careers, marriage, missing home, never ending job search while in not so good financial situation all in the last year and a half... I feel burnt out but I can't catch a break because of the reality of life. We all have bills to pay. All that definitely make me question my decisions but I also do know that when we get through this, it's all going to be worth it.
    I wake up everyday, go to my day job that I hate, come back home tired feeling guilty for another unproductive day because I didn't do any thing to make my life get any better resulting in feeling down and not wanting to engage. I'm not here just to survive, I'm here to grow and succeed. I've always set high expectations for myself and I guess seeing myself in this situation has been one of the hardest things that I have had to go through. What doesn't kill me, will make me stronger.

    • @leahr9038
      @leahr9038 9 місяців тому +5

      Hows everything going 2 weeks later?

    • @carolinendunge1561
      @carolinendunge1561 9 місяців тому +5

      I can totally relate to what you going through.. I have days where I feel so lost and un motivated but lately I just take it one day a time and maybe with time everything will make sense..

    • @lmiller1413
      @lmiller1413 8 місяців тому +1

      I'm in the helping field. We have days like that, where it feels like we are making progress. If you made it through psychology school, you will make it to the next step. Looking at everything you have changed onyour life, it makes sense that you are feeling on shaky ground. Lots of changes in a period of time leaves ys feeling off balance. Go kiss your wife and tell her she is beautiful. Go meet with a career counselor. You have a lot going for you.

    • @MSDjMichaelSlash
      @MSDjMichaelSlash 8 місяців тому

      Wondering the same

    • @brianst8
      @brianst8 7 місяців тому +1

      Im not far off this whole situation myself in all honesy. Keep the head up and power on.

  • @e__b956
    @e__b956 3 місяці тому +16

    Turn 30 this year and have had multiple career changes. I feel lost at times, thanks for the uplifting message.
    I hope everyone here in the comments reach their goals and excel 🙏

    • @paultkc
      @paultkc 3 місяці тому +1

      All the best to you

    • @Claudia-yc8xk
      @Claudia-yc8xk 2 місяці тому +1

      I completely relate, same position.

    • @lassnxtdoor8649
      @lassnxtdoor8649 2 місяці тому +1

      Same. Totally frustrated. 😌

  • @aliciashaw1209
    @aliciashaw1209 11 місяців тому +72

    You are so gifted! Not only are you saying the right words, but how you’re saying them in a calm manner 🙏🏾

  • @middleofnowhere1313
    @middleofnowhere1313 Рік тому +38

    It's an odd situation. I am happily married, I have a home even if it requires a lot of maintenance, I have 2 cats and my parents are still alive. I have steady work even if the pay is mediocre at best. But for some reason I always feel isolated, and I never feel safe. Like a disaster awaits any moment. Social circle has shrunk to like 5 ppl since covid and work from home. I love working from home but I do not love the new antisocial ways out here. I don't know, man, I don't know what I'm doing.

  • @leethal6570
    @leethal6570 Рік тому +127

    Sometimes I think to my self “I feel different, I feel like I’m changing and then I question wether that’s right or not” well of course it is, you want to change right? If you feel different for the better and lost then it 100% means your going somewhere. I’m glad you clarified this!

  • @Upperleftcoasttreelover
    @Upperleftcoasttreelover 9 місяців тому +14

    I took some VERY wrong turns in life and now I’m lost without a compass, a phone, or even a map 😭 I can’t seem to get back to where I knew I was supposed to be or wanted to be.

    • @diemcarl5546
      @diemcarl5546 2 місяці тому +1

      This is what the modern world represents imho

  • @tomutosa1288
    @tomutosa1288 Місяць тому +2

    I feel a sense of comfort that I’m not alone in this “lostness”, have many negative emotions. Thank you for speaking about this.

  • @Bozakky
    @Bozakky Рік тому +38

    Your kindness and concern for other peoples well being is a beacon of light. Brilliant, shining like a lighthouse.

  • @lonewolfheart1697
    @lonewolfheart1697 10 місяців тому +32

    You're like a warm blanket on a cold, dark night. Thank you for all you do 😊

  • @kyo_beyond
    @kyo_beyond Місяць тому +2

    This video had me realize that I have been resisting the fact that I am lost. My consciousness unknowingly labelled it as bad, something that I should get out of as soon as possible and in the best way I could, and I was floundering in the fact that I am lost at the age of 35, 10 years in my career, not knowing where to go and not having anything to follow after. But now I know that I have come far enough to realize that I am lost, become clear enough to see where I truly am at, and that I have a picture that I can start from. The power of perspective, the power of reframing. Thank you for borrowing your lense, it both comforted me and let me see things more clearly and with power.

  • @dunky7157
    @dunky7157 2 місяці тому +5

    One of the hardest life lessons I’m still working on is progress isn’t linear and that’s ok. Life isn’t a race; the only finish line is death. Enjoy the ride ❤

  • @annickalewis4267
    @annickalewis4267 Рік тому +94

    Thank you so much for this. I just graduated college (undergrad) and feel like I have no plan and don’t know what I want to do. But you made me feel like it’s okay, I can rest here in this space for a while and take my time. I know and trust that the right things are coming for me :). Thank you 🙏

    • @lmiller1413
      @lmiller1413 8 місяців тому +4

      It is 100 percent ok. It took me some time to find the job I was searching for. I went back and got an additional degree. Best decision ever. My son took some time to find his way. He took a job way beneath his education. Two promotions later, he is doing very well. It's ok to take this time. I recommend that you reach out to your career counseling department to polish your job hunting skills. If you do go get a masters, try to get a graduate assistantship. Your tuition will be paid for and you'll get some mo ey. Live in the dorms, meet new people and have some fun!!!

  • @migz_8894
    @migz_8894 Рік тому +56

    This is great..i dont have anyone else telling me things like this so its easy for me to get caught up in my own thoughts and cycles..sometimes we all need to remember to take a breath and to recalibrate

  • @freespirit-111
    @freespirit-111 11 місяців тому +4

    We spend the majority of our time trying to fix ourselves or someone else….if not, then we find ourselves trying to find healthy ways to cope with reality without succumbing to self- destruct behaviors.

  • @yana5066
    @yana5066 10 місяців тому +18

    Thank you very much.
    I am currently in the army, the only constant in my life is the constant change every day. Nothing is safe, a lot of hostility around me, so many things that are out of my control, I don't know what to choose from the things that are in my control, the feeling of loneliness and misunderstanding is huge and there is no time to rest or just be with myself.
    I just want to sit on the beach and watch the sun go down, but your warm and comforting words also bring out that feeling in me. Thank you very much❤

  • @ninabambinabambina2304
    @ninabambinabambina2304 11 місяців тому +11

    Thank you. Being creative & lost sucks. Everything feels so tough! That sounds amazing right now. I need a compass.

  • @zamangibamaphalala6299
    @zamangibamaphalala6299 2 місяці тому +5

    Thank you for this.
    I am a ball of anxiety. I am exhausted. I needed to hear that the Darkness is okay.

  • @sarpeana3826
    @sarpeana3826 11 місяців тому +10

    I finally hear something positive about my negative feelings. I hope you are right and better days will come because I feel so so lost.

    • @jaysouthmusic8230
      @jaysouthmusic8230 4 місяці тому

      Better days are ahead I be having to remind myself that all the time

  • @KrishnaRac
    @KrishnaRac 6 місяців тому +6

    I m 41 lost job, no marriage thought of changing career, tried but failing and failing, losing my savings seating dumb doesn't know what to do. Just praying 🙏

    • @marymellow5325
      @marymellow5325 2 місяці тому +1

      You are not alone, I’m going through the same stuff. I stopped doing a lot of things for some time but then I realize that I’m stuck but I’m not stuck I have a lot of things to try and see to find out what I really need and want. All stops give us new directions and where to go. And where you go it’s up to you. I’m giving you a hug and for everybody who feels lost and stuck. We all are going to find our ways again, new ones! 🙏🏻

  • @lalights6
    @lalights6 Рік тому +13

    That monologue in the beginning felt like he took it right from my brain

  • @daisymayz8496
    @daisymayz8496 11 місяців тому +11

    I’m glad I stumbled upon this video after graduating college feeling lost. I feel rushed and feel like my goals are out of reach.

    • @jaysouthmusic8230
      @jaysouthmusic8230 4 місяці тому

      Take it one day at a time, plan your steps little by little and just enjoy the journey

  • @tedwilson1477
    @tedwilson1477 5 місяців тому +4

    Im 47, after an unexpected divorce out of the blue i had to sell my house and move back with my emotionally challneging parents to single parent my child. Please pray for me! 🙏

  • @fujoshiotaku5832
    @fujoshiotaku5832 11 місяців тому +6

    I think I know my next step is working but I don't find any place I want to work at, my parents say to just pick anything but that's not for me. I need to work somewhere that I chose and deem special to me. Whatever that means, I want to choose my experience but I feel like I'm waiting to find it. That perfect place

  • @creasepi
    @creasepi 9 місяців тому +12

    I'm listening to this at a park working out a bit while I have a small break from a job I hate which gives me no free time. The imagery about camping and setting up in an Airbnb or hotel and staying a bit is beautiful and I brought tears to my eyes. I'm planning to move forward with my life but I don't want to be impulsive about it.

  • @user-bc3mt7vt5m
    @user-bc3mt7vt5m 9 місяців тому +1

    This is completely what I needed to hear at this moment. Thank you so much!

  • @_fffeline
    @_fffeline 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for being a safe space, Scott!

  • @GreeneChakra
    @GreeneChakra 11 місяців тому +10

    Coming off the Prescription Adderrall,
    I was Sad Lost and didn’t know where to go- Broke up with my Ex again after going back. Dumped a few Fake friends, and yeah. Im pretty Much Starting over again.
    Depression. Anxiety.
    Feeling Stuck.. is where I am.

  • @callmesoloa
    @callmesoloa Рік тому +4

    Thank you Scott. I deeply appreciate each one of your videos. This one was the 💥. Let’s keep it up!

  • @adrianaclementino333
    @adrianaclementino333 11 місяців тому +4

    You're incredible Scott! Thank you so much for this video!

  • @parvathys1056
    @parvathys1056 3 місяці тому +2

    i am 29 and its been an year since i am wandering in this feeling. its pure darkness and feeling of being lost.

  • @lisak7016
    @lisak7016 Рік тому +3

    Thank you Scott for this video. You are so inspiring.

  • @kimadkins6719
    @kimadkins6719 11 місяців тому +16

    This is so helpful for my life right now. It is so comforting to know that we share these lost times. Thank you.

  • @pamsjournal
    @pamsjournal 10 місяців тому +4

    I never felt so comforted and understood. Thank you so much

  • @faithmeliz1882
    @faithmeliz1882 9 місяців тому +4

    I can’t put into words how much your videos help me day to day.

  • @lauraroccaro5880
    @lauraroccaro5880 11 місяців тому +12

    Thank you. I came across this video at the perfect timing...exactly when I needed to hear it the most. Your words, your whole energy...I just felt it so deeply in my soul. We really are all ONE.

  • @giovannifurnari8668
    @giovannifurnari8668 Рік тому +13

    This makes a lot of sense Scott thank you 🙏 ❤️

  • @pauletteg2061
    @pauletteg2061 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much. Yours is truly one of the most authentic and helpful voices out there. I'm so glad I found you!❤

  • @sobermind685
    @sobermind685 4 місяці тому +12

    I’m 22, i feel lost since i was 20, It affected my art because it lost direction, my peers are doing great things, this podcast made me feel like myself again a bit❤️

  • @cezbabe
    @cezbabe Рік тому +6

    I'm glad you're back! I love your content and your guided mediations! You have such a soothing and affirming voice and you know exactly what to say! Thank you for being here!

  • @julesnestt
    @julesnestt Рік тому +5

    Thank you Scott. This helps.

  • @Agapeschant
    @Agapeschant 11 місяців тому +14

    I am so grateful for the perspective you’re offering us here ❤ Thank you ☺️

  • @feebleh
    @feebleh 11 місяців тому +1

    This was the exact term I was trying to find, I'm literally lost. Thank you, this was very comforting.

  • @yvettevermeulen75
    @yvettevermeulen75 Рік тому +3

    So glad this video came up in my suggestions today. Gosh, I really needed to hear this ❤

  • @Parkitloveit
    @Parkitloveit Рік тому +8

    Thank your for making those videos 🙏 You’re actually the kind of person who could say anything, those eyes, this soothing voice… but your additionally saying something very valuable, inspiring and helpful. Have a great day 👋

  • @merrickmcgrath6824
    @merrickmcgrath6824 10 місяців тому +4

    I’m so thankful I stumbled upon this video. I never knew how much I actually need this in my life. Thank you Scott Ste Marie. You’re beautiful bro & stay awesome! ♥️

  • @lifeofjsb
    @lifeofjsb 10 місяців тому +9

    Going through a difficult time in my life dealing with this exact feeling. Thanks for re-affirming that these feelings don’t always have to be negative but are natural when we as humans are growing. Thanks for the reminder. + Sub!

  • @qhirawithaq
    @qhirawithaq 10 місяців тому +6

    This was such a comforting watch - thank you for sharing this message. You have a very gifted voice

  • @IndigoEarthGirl4444
    @IndigoEarthGirl4444 4 місяці тому +3

    I’m literally so lost, and so hard on myself, thank you for these words and the repetitiveness I needed it! 🙏🏻

  • @jimiya3924
    @jimiya3924 Місяць тому +1

    Thank u for being you and spreading this.

  • @sanaamoha5645
    @sanaamoha5645 10 місяців тому +22

    This podcast has a profound impact on my life as it serves as a motivational message that I wake up to every day I can’t thank you enough ❤

  • @PoloxPlox
    @PoloxPlox Рік тому +5

    Your videos are so soothing. Thank you for your time and work.

  • @karishort1891
    @karishort1891 Рік тому +8

    I don't think it's a coincidence this came up in my UA-cam 💯❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @sashasiregar1238
    @sashasiregar1238 10 місяців тому +4

    I honestly feel this video came to me and a sign that it's fate for me to hear this. this came in my youtube home when i have zero videos of the same topic and every single word resonates with my rough patch right now. thank you for your help

  • @youngmike8373
    @youngmike8373 11 місяців тому +19

    so soothing bro, will be comforting to someone in need in the incessant chaos going on in life.

  • @kar3711
    @kar3711 Рік тому +13

    Listening to you is so comforting and really makes me feel more deeply about my situation, so thank you :)

  • @PowerOfAIandMotivation
    @PowerOfAIandMotivation 11 місяців тому +4

    I have such conversations with myself, it's interesting to see aspects of similarities of you in other people from across the world, no matter what you're going through you're really not alone. The internet is a blessing.
    Thank you for sharing 👍🏻

  • @camilletocmo
    @camilletocmo 11 місяців тому +5

    Thank you, Scott. I found this video after having a mental breakdown. It really helps.

  • @AZYCHYR
    @AZYCHYR 5 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much for putting this on. I really feel lost in my life and career and I've hit a wall. This made me feel a lot better and just pause the hate on myself

  • @carriebell3566
    @carriebell3566 Рік тому +3

    Immense blessings to you for this!

  • @jeaniedqueen
    @jeaniedqueen Рік тому +5

    Thank you so much I really needed this right now. You're the first person to tell me it's okay to just rest for now. I love you like our souls know each other through life times. Thank you so much

  • @TRAVELLEROFWORLDS
    @TRAVELLEROFWORLDS 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for your kindness, sir.

  • @didyouknow8702
    @didyouknow8702 11 місяців тому +1

    Perfect video at the perfect time, feeling the worst I’ve ever felt in a very long time

  • @weirdlozer
    @weirdlozer Рік тому +6

    Grateful, for your sharing of the light of your heart, the words of your mind, and the strength of your spirit, my dear & honourable friend.
    🙏🏽
    God bless ~

  • @kithu1231
    @kithu1231 Рік тому +6

    I am glad that I am a part of community lead by our very own bro..Scott here...very difficult to find a person who truly understands and connects with you...I know I can vouch on you..thank you for your kind words.🙏🏼

  • @marthamoreno1539
    @marthamoreno1539 11 місяців тому +7

    This is wonderful, thank you! What a beautiful soul. I’m grateful God brought me to your message ❤🙏🏼

  • @savanna4127
    @savanna4127 11 місяців тому +8

    Hi Scott, I just came across this video today. It was super helpful. I am not feeling as lost because I have found comfort in knowing I am going to be okay no matter what. Your video really reminded me I am so supported today even when I feel alone and lost. Thank you!