7 pieces of advice to my kids:: 1) Always stay physically and intellectually active; 2) Believe that each morning is the start of a GOOD day; 3) Be consistent with self-care routines and good health habits; 4) Be an honest and thoughtful person; 5) Try to keep positive thoughts about life, not negative thoughts; 6) Be kind to animals and the environment; and 7) Remember that practicing discipline only benefits you, not deprives you.
Beautiful philosophy to live a full , purposeful, and genuine life Simple and mind-blowing . expression from a person who knows what is talking about.Be kind and mindful in everyway that you possibly can.love you💓💓💓💓
I'm 57 mother of 3. My 7 tips: 1) Trust your gut - energy doesn't lie. 2) You are allowed to have your own beliefs on religion. 3) Say Thank you. Be grateful. 4) Go after your dreams 5) Don't be easily offended. 6) Stay the course. Don't quit. 7) Set boundaries with those who do not treat you right.
at the age of 20 I just found that there is absolutely nothing permanent in your life. all these people are here just to teach u something and then leave you , so I think the most important thing you own is yourself . love yourself and never forget that u are not alone you have God and he is always there for you
Advise from this video: 1.) Do what is right - not what is easy. 2.) Take action on your dreams. 3.) Treat others with respect. 4.) Don't quit - plant good seeds. 5.) Trust your instincts. 6.) Learn something new every day. 7.) Believe in yourself. 8.) Be memorable. Be proud. Be you.
Hey im u the only who doesn't have dreams. Idk if it's the effect of my metal health but I wake up and I don't know what to do And I can't imagine myslef in the future, working, married, having kids and getting old Do u guys relate ?
@@Emilysworldisbeautiful yeah I am 24 and I feel exactly the same especially after graduation from university.. I feel so lost and everything is meaningless 😔
@@Emilysworldisbeautiful @Limax hey, i don't know how much this will help but earlier i had a video by this channel called "pick up lines" recommended to me and it had some good advice about when you feel lost. i thought i would put it out there in case it helps 💛 you will both get through this
My advice to my future kids : Be obsessed with yourself. With your life. Don’t be dependent on other people and take a step towards your goal/dream every day
As a 27 year old I learned that: 1: Accept yourself for who you are and just be yourself 2: it doesn’t matter what others think of you or not, you are trying best already 3: Let go of the toxic people in your life because it is not worth your time and energy 4: understanding your own feelings and be honest with your feelings 5: Don’t people please because all you are going to get in the end is the feeling of emptiness 6: Be aware of your surroundings 7: your mental health comes first 8: You deserve to be happy and are precious
I agree with number 5 because the only people that is needed to be pleased is me. I won't spend an ounce of energy trying to please who won't hesitate to betray hurt anf abandon me. Never again.
Your grand daughter is lucky to have such a wonderful Grandma ❤️ The best three advices for me: 1. Be confident and believe in yourself 2. Don't worry what people think 3. Learn something new everyday and be curious about life
Some advice I wish I had known when I was younger: 1. Get it in writing 2. Learn from the mistakes of those who came before you 3. Do what you're supposed to do when you're supposed to do it 4. Let go of people who are toxic 5. Everyone has their own path so you can't save everyone 6. Heal generational trauma and old patterns that have been passed down, intentionally or unintentionally 7. Follow your passion and use the gifts you have for good
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I just found your channel and oh wow! I'm barely in my 20s and I never had a real grandma and now, after hearing your words I felt some type of closure, I felt at peace with the fact I chose to be me, even if that meant my family turned against me. it's hard growing up alone, trying to be a good person, an adult when there's no one you can ask for advice.. but now I know that every time I feel lost and need some warm words of advice or encouragement - I can just put your video on. Thank you for making this, you're such a lovely person
I’m a 40 year old woman living in Florida and I’m also reflecting quite a bit on life. It’s nice to come here and have a feeling of community. Take care and God bless 💕
@@DWN590 I was divorced at 52 after 29 yrs of marriage. I'd been with him since I was 14. I don't believe in giving up quickly, but I do believe you're the only one that knows the correct decision, so I'm not telling you to leave, but wanted to offer support if it's the right time for you. Yes, it was scary, but the past 12 years have been wonderful and I'm so glad I took my life back. I've stayed single and couldn't be happier.
I'm 28 and have a lot to learn in life, but so far some things that I'm noticing is that 1) I won't be everyone's cup of tea so I should just be myself, be kind and not harm others, and the rest is not in my control 2) there is no one right way to live life so don't compare your life with others 3) maintain and cherish your relationships with your close friends 4) enjoy the present day 5) have a goal, without a goal I feel like one fumbles through life. I think ppl can get overwhelmed with endless possibilities, so narrowing it down to a few goals helped me tremendously
Absolutely. Wisdom is timeless, without age and without prejudice. Acting upon those wise words is the key. I wish you well. I don't often read words that resonate, from those close to my years on this earth. Yours have.
Always listen to your gut feelings especially when comes the time to choose a partner. Don't stick to your mistake hoping situations may change for the better. Make decisions to address whatever inflict your liife. The sooner the better. Don't hold grudges against anyone because almost everyone will come to a córner of their life where they reflect back and repent of their wrongdoings. You only hurt yourself by not forgiving them. Don't try to please people, they don't even care, simple do what is right and kind. Be open, listen, observe, compare, pick what's right, and let go the rest. When the road ahead of you is not clear, ask God to lead you in the right direction. He will always guide you if you invite Him. Have faith and always be kind to others.
"Don't hold grudges against anyone because almost everyone will come to a córner of their life where they reflect back and repent of their wrongdoings. You only hurt yourself by not forgiving them." "When the road ahead of you is not clear, ask God to lead you in the right direction. He will always guide you if you invite Him." 👍🏽
Thank you❤️ My advices: 1.all problems have solutions. 2.Time is precious. 3.Nothing is permanent. 4.success comes from Hardwork->(Their's no substitute for hardwork, Their's no shortcut for success). 5.Health is the most valuable assets. 6.learning never stops. 7.If you be calm,half of ur work is over.
Thank you. I am a 50 year old woman living in Maine. Your advice came at the perfect time. Thank you. Seven words of advice for my daughters. 1. Try to run regularly 2. Stay away from Sugar because Sugar feeds cancer 3. Take care of your teeth 4. Research everything before making a decision. Especially when it comes to doctors advice and medications. 5. Dont be around or take any addictive substance or person that wants you to be dependant on their opinion of you. 6. Have alone time in nature 7. Know that suffering only comes when we dont accept "what is". Accept the things that you know dont change and move on to better.
My 7 pieces of advice; 1. Becareful of the relationships you have. 2. Plan ahead, life flys by one minute you are 18 the next 65. You need to be ready to take care of the older you. Not just financially, but with your health. It's never too early to start. 3. Know better, do better. You know the right thing to do. Don't give into lying to yourself. Or giving into a person who isn't being wise or has your best interest in their heart. That is including yourself. Think ahead, where will this lead me. 4. Think positive, be positive. Nothing is perfect, but try to find the positive. 5. You are important and you are valuable. Do not let anyone lead you around by the nose. Don't be selfish and nasty, but do not let anyone make you a lesser person. 6. Do not depend on someone to be your happiness. No one lives forever, or stays forever. 7. Educate yourself.
We don’t have control over the Future, but being so thankful for what is and excepting it all, is the best we can do! Learning that Life happens not the way I hope or think it should be 🙏💜🙏😍😍😘😘🌹
7 pieces of advice: 1) don’t do something to make someone else happy at the detriment of yourself 2) trust your gut feeling, that first, small, instinctual feeling 3) always do the right thing, even if no one else is 4) save for a rainy day. Don’t spend more than you make. 5) don’t be attached to ANY material thing 6) believe in yourself 7) love yourself
Go for what makes you feel happy. Have your boundaries. Prioritise self care. Step outside of your comfort zone regularly. Don't cut yourself off from others, we need people. Don't keep sticking at a job or something if you feel unhappy, try something else or you'll get resentful. Save a bit each month as soon as you start working but be generous too.
Lessons I learned from - my dad. - do not retaliate, what you do or don’t do says more about you than them. ❣️ - my divorce lawyer - always do the RIGHT thing ( not the best thing ) and in the end , the BEST thing will happen ❣️ - my Mom - remember you are just as good as the next person - but always be your best - not to be better than - but better you. - my kids - always say I LOVE YOU - my grandmother - It’s the simple things that matter most. - my deceased MIL- every child deserves love. - LET IT GO ! - HAPPINESS IS A JOURNEY - not a destination- - GO OUTSIDE EVERYDAY - wind , rain, snow or sunshine. - worry doesn’t stop something from happening , it just uses up energy you will need when it does. - look in a full size mirror everyday and if you don’t like what you see - change it, toss it , but don’t ignore it.
I‘m 26 and what I‘ve learned so far are these things: 1. Always be kind and hopeful, it’ll be worth it 2. be honest but respectful 3. have dreams and don’t forget that you’re worthy enough to reach them 4. it’s okay to slow down or even fail but never lose yourself 5. be grateful for everything because life itself is the reason to live
I grew up with a mother and grandmother who allowed themselves to be repressed by men and “social norms”. They also passed on to me the fearful/anxious lives they lived as women who did not believe in themselves as whole people who had a right to their own lives. My mother actually apologized to my father for having me, a girl, as a first child. I loved and resented them for all this. I couldn’t wait to leave my mother’s ultra-negative influence for college and freedom. I have broken away from some of this mindset, but still find it difficult to stand up for myself and am still slow to get rid of toxic people. I made the decision not to live the lives they had. That is, in general, what I learned: don’t stand out, don’t attract attention, don’t speak up. What a waste! I still struggle with this crap. I am 64.
I am 52, going through the same. A failed marriage. Have 2 wonderful children though. I met someone a year ago who shows with his actions that he is deeply in love with me. He has much more money than me but he is asking me to marry him without any pre nuptial agreement. He is never been mean or unfair to me and treats me with respect. But i have seen him getting frustrated and angry at people outside. He will use abusive language for the politicians if he thinks they are corrupt and bad for the poor. Sometimes I wonder if he has anger issues
My advices: 1. Never betray yourself for others and treat yourself like you are your own best friend 2. Listen to your guts feeling, no matter how stupid it sounds 3. Be aware of your thoughts and strengthen those thoughts which strengthen you 4. Be yourself, be proud of who you are, stop caring what others think about you. Shine your unique light proudly on this world. 5. It is okay to change your goals if they dont feel right anymore. Do what is in alignment with you. 6. Fight for yourself and assert your boundaries. You can only be truly kind if you are able to protect your own boundaries. 7. Trust that the universe will bring what you need when its the right time.
Yeeessss at #5... It's ok to change goals! As we age, grow, gather experience and exposure and mature, our perspectives in life change, hence it's ok to publicly change our views and goals. That's called growth!
I'm 27 and this is what I've learnt so far: 1. Don't chase anyone because if they wanted to, they will. 2. know who you are and stand firm in your identity. 3. set goals for your life; big ones, they help guide you in your decision making. 4. figure out what you love and do them often. 5. never try to impress anyone besides yourself. 6. surround yourself with positive people; people who encourage you to be and do better. 7. always try to listen and pay proper attention to the vibe people give off, they almost always never lie
I'm 26. I think I learned that. 1. True friends stays overtime, don't bother to chasing after anyone but in any relationship there must be sacrifices of time and energy.
Yes! This is true! I would add something here: ”treat others how you would like to be treated” and ”love everyone as much as yourself” and this starts to sound a really good life goals for me 😌❤️ Not everything is always perfect but we are here learning ☺️
1 You are your best friend, trust yourself 2 Go your own path 3 Be with people who you feel confortable by, not people for the image 4 Laugh everyday 5 Everything is one moment, enjoy 6 Choose your own life 7 Treath people the way you wanne be treath
Turning 25 soon and here’s what I’ve learnt: 1. Journal 2. Be kind! 3. Pray about everything. 4. Make memories with your loved ones and foster healthy relationships. 5. Consistency is everything. 6. Put yourself out there career wise. 7. Smile 8. Don’t take things too personal, learn emotional intelligence. 9. Make everyday count. 10. Love yourself 11. Your mindset is everything!
I would share the following: 1) first thing in the morning give thanks and say a prayer. 2) everyday have at least 10 mins of me time. 3) remember "life is full of lessons." 4) remember "deep breathe" 5) "trust the process" 6) "this too will pass" 7) "be the writer of your story"
1. Age is just a number. 2. Keep moving- exercise- push yourself 3. Read - learn always 4. It is perfectly alright to do nothing- in fact it is critical 5. Recognize your abilities 6. Take it slowly 7. Order is important- both inside and out. Love this Sandra. Thanks as always.
7 pieces os advice my kids : 1- put your mental and physical health first 2- always be confident by your self 3- don’t take fast decision 4- spend more time with something you love it 5- calm down and patient 6 - be happy with small things 7- listen more than talk .
I don't have children, but this is what I would I would tell any young woman: 1. Learn to be independent. You may be alone at times and you need to be able to navigate the world by yourself. 2. Respect yourself and establish healthy boundaries. Respect the boundaries of others. 3. Education beyond High School is important. Find out what your talents, skills and abilities are and cultivate them. 4. Learn about financial matters and don't rely on others to do it for you. It takes one major event to become destitute. 5. Work hard, always ask questions and do the jobs others think are beneath them. 6. Speak up for yourself and toot your own horn. 7. Cultivate some sort of spiritual beliefs that speak to you in those quiet times of need and contemplation. 8. Do not tolerate abuse (in any form) from anyone. If you allow it once, the perpetrator will do it again. That may mean severing ties and walking away. 9. Open your mind and travel the world to understand people, history and cultures. 10. Your way isn't the only way. Don't shove your beliefs down anyone's throat and don't allow them to do it to you. 11. Get a hobby. 12. Take care of your body. Use Sunscreen and don't smoke. Good shoes matter along with a well fitted bra. 13. What others think doesn’t matter. Go about your business. 14. Develop the ability of hindsight to learn from your mistakes. 15. Take responsibility for your actions and be brave to make amends. 16. Date alot before you settle down. Get to know yourself and what you want in a mate. 17. Be kind to humans and animals. 18. Drugs and alcohol don't help anyone.
1. Take risks , don't scare 2. Live the life that you choose not others 3. Don't expect the closest people such as you mom , is your supporter 4. Don't give up on learning new things 5. Don't expect some guy makes you happy , first you have to learn to be happy 6. Do meditation 7. Money is important.
Live the life you choose......I don't know is it true always...take advices from experienced....then only take your likes... I have seen many taking their choices and falling....always take opinion and value it before taking decisions
I won’t write 7 things but I do tell my grandchildren that you teach people how to treat you. And, when they have decisions to make I tell them to write down on a piece of paper the pros and cons. Thank you for sharing yours with us!
Yes! I've told my nieces this before but I had forgotten about that one. That's a very important piece of advice. This is why I love the comment section. I'm so glad I read yours!
Pro’s and con’s! What a great idea Jeanne , our almost 12 year old granddaughter is so sweet and lets other go beyond the boundaries , but then she is torn on letting the friend go .. we are having lunch tomorrow I will bring this idea up ( Professional day for the teacher in Vancouver Canada:)
1. Dream your dream. 2. Keep learning new things. 3. Be you! 4.Don't worry anything and let it go. 5.The simple the better. 6.Never too late to do anything and the time you start is the right time. 7.Angry is the worst action and cost illness. If it's out our control then let it be let it happen.Thanks 🙏
I’m only 41 and learning everyday. My daughter asked me to write a letter addressed to her to read at her high school graduation. It’s an assignment from her teacher. She asked me to write any advice I could give her. This video is extremely helpful so thank you. The one thing that I think I will add is this: what you do doesn’t make you who you are. It’s just what you do. So never be afraid to fail or change your mind about your career. It’s not the most important thing about you. It’s your soul that’s the most important thing and it lives on always.
I am 21 and my advices to all people are here: 1. Give back to society in any good way. 2. Don't be over confident 3. Be kind always. 4. If you have nothing to speak just be quiet. Don't speak trash or a single negative word. 5. Mind only your own business. 6. Respect every one's opinion. 7. Enjoy every moment with your Loved ones. You never know when they will disappear. 8. Love yourself and be confident and never forget God.
Beautiful advice from a beautiful woman! I’m 22 years old and this is the advice that I would give my younger self: 1. Stay true to yourself always. Nothing in this life is worth denying your truth. 2. What and who you need will come to you. 3. It is okay to not be liked by all, you will find people that understand and love you beyond what you thought possible. 4. Never ignore what your heart and mind is drawn to, there is a reason why these things always come back. 5. As cheesy as it sounds, you are beautiful as is everyone. The nature of your humanity alone is beautiful and unlikely. Recognise this in yourself and others.
As 29 years old turning 30 in 4month 1. Put God first in everything you do. 2. Trust God plan when it doesn’t make sense at the time. 3. Express how you feel even though the world says otherwise 4. Be kind, humble and wish with your words actions 5. Make sure you not busy doing nothing 6. Make time to enjoy with people you love 7. Don’t be hard on yourself let it go and let God take care of it 8. Life is like house put one brick a day.
a person turns to "God" when he is not independent, when he cannot take responsibility for himself and shifts it onto the shoulders of a fictional supernatural being. and it also speaks about his stupidity and limited horizons. after reading history and finding some obvious cause-and-effect relationships, it is easy to abandon "God", but no, it is easier to choose the "easy way".
@@rj-cl4de it is absolutely normal that people always looking for support when they need a help. For some people, god is spiritual sense that helps bear bad things. Don't underestimate that people need
I also have spent a large portion of my life comparing and worrying about what other's think of me. It was my current husband who brought it to my attention, but I also knew deep inside it was the biggest thing holding me down. At 62 I'm thankful to be hearing myself say, "I don't care."
Hello dear Sandra🌹you just gave us great advice. I'm a woman in my 60's, I think that the first advice I'd give is to have faith in God 🙏, Second every thing you do, try to doi it the best you can and do it with love. Third, never lose hope . Fourth , exercise and eat healthy. Fifth, live life to the fullest without hurting anyone. Sixth, respect your elders. Seven, love yourself so you can love others. Thank you Sandra!
Wow, wow, wow,Maria ! I love your list ! I love it so because this is exactly what I'm living, basically! I'm in my sixties also and just love this new chapter in my life.
Yea. The times in my life when I let God be my center actually went so much better. Remember the cross. What Jesus did for us even though we were such dummies.
I just turned 75, and boy do I have advice for my 17 year old granddaughter. I have always told her to be herself and not allow others dictate what that should be. After listening to you today I would have to add, listen to your intuition. It will lead you to where you need to go. You may make mistakes, but you will learn from them. Even mistakes are important in our lives. As I look back at my life, the times I allowed someone else to influence my choices or make them for me, I regret that decision. I knew it wasn't for ME but for what was best for them. I don't do that anymore, but it does add stress when I follow my instincts. You don't want to live a life of regret. 🙂
I am not that old, I'm really young actually, but if i were to give life advice ever i would say that, live in the moment , life seems fast paced but it all goes away so quickly. Get off your phone, talk to people, notice , learn and smile. don't worry about living up to the expectations of others, do what feels right for you and trust yourself
Thank you so much. 1) you are your biggest project, invest in yourself 2) don’t sacrifice your life for others 3) follow your intuition, do what feels right for you 4) respect others and their decisions concerning their life 5) be kind to your inner self 6) save your dignity in every situation, you always matter, in daily life, in friendship and in love 7) errors are just an experience, don’t be afraid of making them
1- never stop dancing 2- never let go of your body 3- be kinder to your family every day 4- don’t try to save people you barely know 5- never let a dentist take one tooth out 6- never listen to new medical advice before you do your own research 7- be your best version every day
I never had a grandmother and often felt that void. Luckily I was blessed to have the most wonderful mother but sadly she passed when my daughter was so young. I love listening to you daily. I sent this particular video to her, she is graduating from college this week. Thank you for another wonderful lesson.
I'm a grandmother in India. You were saying the very same things that I would tell my granddaughters. I'm sharing this video with them because I think they will benefit more if they hear another Nana. Praying for continued peace and contentment in your life 🙏
@Dipa - my favorite english teacher from school. I’d be pleasantly surprised if you remember me at all. Are you still in Jsr ? Was a die hard fan of your elegance and teaching style ❤😮
Dear Sandra, thanks for your advice. I am 27 year old this year. And I lost my relationship with boyfriend and families. Also I lost my job last week. I was really down but always like you said to keep myself alive. Thanks again for your content and comments above. I will make actions to change myself and save myself from now on.
One thing I remember Dr. Phil saying is, “What other people think of you is none of your business”! It still helps me with toxic people in my life. Thank you Sandra! 👍👏🙋♀️🥰💕
1: everything happens for a reason 2: be open for new things 3:don’t take life too serious 4: it’s all of ours first time living this life 5: care for those in your life, you never know when or if things could change 6: don’t be afraid of failing 7: choose good and fewer friends instead of a lot of bad ones THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR VIDEO!!! I literally cried at the end you are amazing I hope your granddaughter will live the most amazing life❤❤
I am a very visual person and at 77 I still follow my own advice on making lists such as pros and cons, especially on big decisions. And, on a lighter note, I pass on some advice my mother-in-law told me….”Don’t learn how to do something you don’t want to do for the rest of your life.” 😊 Bless her heart, she married at 15 and had 3 babies by the time she was 19. This was in the 30’s. I don’t think she had much choice with my father-in-law’s job on the railroad keeping him away from home a lot but I took her advice to heart and have passed it on to my granddaughters, as well. It has been a pleasure reading everyone’s ideas!
This is spot on Sandra! One thing I used to tell my dance students is you have to decide for yourself what is enough because nothing is ever enough in this society we now live in! You can't seem to be Rich enough, smart enough, thin enough, talented enough, do enough etc.... I told them you will drive yourself crazy trying to live up to all this expectation! You have to decide for yourself what is enough!
Thank you for the impressive words of inspiration. I’m almost 70, so I should start coming up with some of my own words of wisdom. So here it goes… 1. You are enough. Perfect just the way you are. 2. Always do your best. 3. When you hit a rough spot, give yourself grace. Re-evaluate and move forward. 4. Find the joy in your life, appreciate the joy other people have and share it with others. Friends are gem you find along the path of life. 5. Take time for yourself. 6. Appreciate, help, teach, protect your family. 7. Listen and learn when others speak whether it’s something you want to hear or not. It was good to think about this topic. I’m sure I will come up with more along my journey of life.
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏 I'm originally from Forth Worth Texas currently. and you where are you from if i may ask?
Good morning Sandra. Thank you for your wise advice. I just turned 60 and I was hanging on every word. Your granddaughter is very lucky to have such a wonderful lady in her life 🥰
I am 20. If I had children, I would most definitely expain to them the importance of responsibility in life. You are not happy when you run from responsibilities. You are engaged and satisfied with life when you take it volutarily. And being engaged and satisfied, having a meaning in your life, is something that is a lot more precious than chasing happiness.
Hi Sandra 👋🏽🌈 this is the first video of yours I come across and I’m so happy I decided to click. I felt so calm watching this and it reminded me of a conversation a loved one would have with me. Thank you for your wisdom ✨
Hello Nathalie . Welcome. I’m so happy you decided to click and stop by and check out this wonderful community here on my channel. We have conversations about so many things that deal with all of us no matter where we live in the world. So happy to have you
… ☕️ Your Granddaughter, 18!!!!!! is very wise, she had the good sense to ask for advice from you ,“ who’s been there, done that, got the tee shirt” God bless that child!
I have two daughters, one 27 and one 31. I try very hard to be present for them and give them advice and support. Its a precious gift to pass on hard earned wisdom to the young women we love so much. Thank you for your wise words today Sandra! Nodded in agreement through the whole video!! : )
I am 62 and had a somewhat rough life but it has made me depend on God so much more! When my 23 year old son calls me with a problem, I have learned the best thing and the first thing to do is pray with him for Gods wisdom. Let me tell you, it works. It may not always make sense at the time, but things work out so much better. Yes , I have learned to take what others say “ with a grain of salt “. Love your videos and advice. ❤️💕♥️
I'm 21 yrs old but always wanna remind myself, - Everyone is different and unique so you too - don't compare yourself with others and tryna see your own beauty - be independent because no one can be around you forever - be kind and patient to parents - you are enough even if they choose the other one it's not your fault
Hello Dear Sandra.you are always such a breath of pure air. You have a very grateful heart. Your Love reaches many people. Thank you for that. If we always put God first, we will be blessed in every choice we make. Life is a gift, to open every day.See life looking through our spiritual glasses, to get the best view of our world.Do not judge yourself or others, just use your instincts as a pathfinder. Use the mirror to get to know yourself, and become your own best friend. Always be true to yourself. Put your best foot forward daily. Happy Mothers day to ALL . Hugs ,Louise
Some of the things I would tell my grandson would be to be yourself, because God only made one you. To work hard and to give your best always. Be kind and caring and he is that already. Never give in to peer pressure. To always walk to the beat of your on drum. To stand up for what you believe is right.
1. Do what is right, not what is easy 2. Take action on your dream Don’t just passively dream, but take an active action 3. Treat others with respect If you expose and spread positivity it will return to you 4. Don’t quit - never give up 5. Learn something new every day Be curious about the life, world 6. Believe in yourself Live out loud! 7. Don’t worry about what other people will think Be proud. Be courageous. Be memorable. Be confident. BE YOU.
I think I have taught them already and my grandchildren are a little too young now, but I think I would say: 1. Be honest and true to yourself and others. 2. Always be kind and treat others as you would have them treat you. 3. Stop and smell the roses. The smallest moments are most special. Be Present. 4. Love , pray, and live with all you’ve got to give. 5. Life is short so embrace every minute you have because it could be taken away at any time. 6. Put yourself out there, overcome your fears, take pride in your accomplishments , be proud of you! 7. Thank God everyday. Strive to be your best person. Seek comfort from those who love you ❤️
👋 i hope you're safe over there? hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏 I'm originally from Forth Worth Texas currently. and you where are you from if i may ask?
I would give this advice: why worry about what others think. Do you really care what others think? It’s your life, don’t live it for others. And also if you’re going to put effort into doing something that you think is worthwhile, give it your best shot, and do the very best you can. Finally take care of your health.
👋 i hope you're safe over there? hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏 I'm originally from Forth Worth Texas currently. and you where are you from if i may ask?
I just hit my mid 30s and felt so lost and alone. Watching this video put things in perspective and allowed me to reassess some things! Thank you for reminding us it is never too late to chase your dreams and not to ever give up! So simple yet so difficult to forget at times. Thanks a million ❤
Sandra i am 60 yrs old and I sure do love listening to you. You remind me so very much of my grandmother, aunt and mom. I my mom passed away a week before my 16th birthday, my grandmother at 18 and my wonderful aunt when I 58. These three women were my world. My older sister who is 76 is like a mom to me as well. My sister and I always talk about how much we miss our talks with our elders and just how much they taught us and we just didnt realize it at the time. Life today seems to be on such a fast pace and we all really need to slow down and enjoy life and really realize how truly blessed we are. I tell my grandchildren all the time that they need to always remember to be kind, understanding, loving towards all and also to themselves but most of all, always let the people they love know that they are loved and appreciated. I also tell them to talk to God and he will help guide them thru good times and bad. My grandmother lived with us throughout my childhood years and she would always tell me how blessed we were and that we needed to remember that being blessed doesnt mean material things or what money can buy. My mom use to tell me that we are all equal and to never think you are better then someone else. She believed in keeping our family close, whether it was having picnics with everyone during the summer or picking up the phone and calling just to say hi !! Today our society has the children playing on their phones etc., but they really need to go outside and enjoy the sunshine, splashing in puddles, soaking up the sun and fresh air, ride bikes or take walks. I am so happy my grandchildren do this. They love the outdoors and love going to church on sundays and definitely love being with family. Again Thank you for your videos they are truly enjoyed !!
I am 33 years old and I have a daughter and a son. My advices will be these: 1. Put action into your dreams. I am born and raised in the Philippines; when I was in college, I had dreamed of studying abroad but never had that opportunity. Now that I live in the US, I went back to school and currently studying for an associate degree. 2. Take risks. At 33, I decided I to learn how to drive. Going to a new place is always a risk, but what an accomplishment when I make it back home and when I learn something new. 3. Dress for the day. Being presentable is a form of self care and respect to others, plus it makes you more productive. 4. Have a sense of empathy. We live in such a diverse country. Putting ourselves in someone else’s life will give us a sense of understanding and avoid judgements. 5. Help when you can. Helping others helps me too; it makes me feel good and keep me humble. 6. Be physically and cognitively active. Visit a new place; seek a new adventure in life. 7. Don’t forget your family. Spend quality time with people important to you.
Great advice. I think I’d like to give more or less the same advice to my children. Go with what your heart desires… listen to your instincts… take the decisions you know you need to take and do not worry what others will think. Thanks for that.
i’m a 27 year old man who had a rough start to this thing we call life. Myself aswell as millions in sure, really appreciate every single one of you for sharing your tips. Please, continue to do so. You have no idea how much of a head start you’re giving to younger people. On behalf of all of us who are desperately trying our very best to be the best we can be for ourselves, THANK YOU. Peace! ✌️
Hey Grandma, Lessons I would love to teach my baby as she grows is 1. Choose God early 2. Be your best self 3. Be kind and humble but don't let others trumble on you just because you are kind or humble 4. Set healthy boundaries in life. They are for you, others. 5. Love God, love people 6. Don't give up on your dreams 7. Stay consistent and people will trust you in all stages of life
i've just gone through the dark night of the soul at the age 17, these are smth i realized, and i am so thankful to listen to your advice, gramma: - always prioritize yourself (especially your thoughts, your emotions) - have rules, invest time in the right thing ( as everything is just a mirror reflection) - live with purpose - stay in alignment with god - knows that everything has a reason and dealing instead of hiding from fears
I'm 18 . I'm from India .I like to talk to people who have come before me (mainly old people ).Tomorrow is my exam , I will do my best and I will not complain about my resources. I'm taking a lot of lessons from this video. Love you so much ❤️❤️❤️
I love these tips. I especially love the point of not caring what other people think. What I've told my young daughter is that people are so concerned with themselves and worried what people think of them they don't really even care about what's going on with you. I tell her to use her 20s to chase her dreams and I'll be here to catch her if she needs. I went head first into what I felt was responsible in my 20s that I didn't use that time of being house and child free to take risks. She's an artist and I want her to feel she can go for it during that decade. If it doesn't work out that's okay because I will be here if she needs me.
Not caring what others think was my special point too. You are right about people worrying more about themselves than you. Good advice gor your daughter also@
Recognize, reevaluate, and embrace the changes that come with every season of life! At 45 i am just now recognizing seasons and learning to embrace the changes. Give yourself permission to keep the things that serve the season you are in and let go of the things that no longer serve you. That can be actual items, or people, or beliefs. Embrace the changes that now bring you joy and peace. I no longer keep photos that make me sad. I only do hobbies and social functions that bring me joy.
👋 i hope you're safe over there? hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏 I'm originally from Forth Worth Texas currently. and you where are you from if i may ask?
Great advice 💜 you always make me feel like your a friend. My top 7 are: 1. Talk to God before people 2. Find humor each day 3. Be grateful each day 4 learn positive things 5. Have goals 6. Write your plans 7. Have good support friends can't go life alone. Thanks for making me think 💜🤗
thank you so much, im 17 and now i felt so lost in my life. i dont know what i want to do and what i need to do, my relationships are falling apart even tho i’ve tried so hard, i feel so disappointed in myself. but thank you grandma, you’ve helped me a lot. this video is one of my fav videos of yours, every time i feel overwhelmed, i watch your video and learn from your advices. you’re definitely helped me a lot, not just in fixing my way to see life but also helped me in being more mature everyday. wish you all the best and never stop spreading your positive mindset to people. thank you ❤
Sandra, I'm almost 69 years old and love listening to your videos and always learn from your wisdom. My Mom died 28 years ago, so I eagerly listen to your pearls as though my Mom was talking to me. Thank you for being there for us. I hope you had a Happy Mother's Day! All my best!
What I have learned just now with Sandra these lessons; 1. Don't think about what other people might think about you This is easy to say than done, but if you practice not minding what other people's thought about you is priceless. This allows you to focus on what you want to achieve in life and if its practiced consistently, you will never waste energy again on this part of your life. 2. Be respectful; I believe in what she said about RESPECT(because I did it myself), "treat other people the way you want to be treated" because what you did to other people will definitely comes back to you double or triple times even if it's good or bad. 3. Trust your GUTS instinct; I have proven to myself that trusting your GUTS instinct will lead you to the way that is favorable to you. I did not follow my GUTS instinct so many times before and 95% of the result was a regret. So whenever I don't feel like doing something. I will not going to do it. But, if its involved with other people that could compromise your relationship with them, inform them ahead of time for them to not be included on what is your GUTS instinct telling. 4. Be YOU; For many years(in my teenage years) I always compare myself and trying to be a person that I don't really like just to impress the people around me, fortunately, I was able to break that cycle and found out how to be comfortable of being me. Take care of yourself rigorously and you will see the result in no time. Thanks so much Sandra for that valuable content you have shared with us and your family. New subscriber here. :)
I can’t express enough my gratitude for living in times like these, where we get to benefit from invaluable life lessons such as these ones. Thank you for sharing and for caring. I am grateful for technology that allows for this.
Thanks ❤ I'm 48 from Sultanate of Oman 1. Take care (love) your family and friends 2. Be honest in everything you do 3. Enjoy your work and do the work you love 4. Save and Invest little from your income 5. Respect others differences and opinions 6. Reward yourself 7. Eat well and exercise 8. be simple and spend time with the normal/poor people 9. Leave bad relationship but keep way for return (people getting better by time) 10. Keep learning.
I’m 28 but what life has taught me is 1. Be yourself. Not who people want you to be. 2. You don’t owe anyone anything. 3. Watch your thoughts because they become your life 4. Self preservation is sexy 5. Don’t stop being kind because someone doesn’t see it 6. Get to know God as early as possible 7. Be quick to hear and slow to speak. You can’t unsay something.
She is so blessed to have you as her grandma. I just became a grandma recently. My grandson is 3 months . I feel like this is one of the highlights of my life. I take the advice you gave to your granddaughter because even at my age I need it. And those are also points I'd give you my grandchildren. What id add is to have immense self love and worth from day one. Because I believe then alot of the other things will fall in place when we genuinely have love for who we are and understand that our self worth is not measured by other people's expectations 🧡🤗🇰🇪
Some advice I will give to my younger self/grandchildren: 1. Do not follow shiny objects. 2. not everybody is meant to be in your life forever 3. bad times are temporary, good times are forever! 4. stick to a system that gets you closer to your goal, and not focus on the big picture 5. accept the people who have left you/God has taken from you... because better people are coming to fill those empty spaces 6. do what makes YOU happy and not what makes other people happy 7. This is the most critical NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES YOU'VE FALLEN DOWN, ALWAYS COME BACK STRONG AND LEARN FROM YOUR SETBACKS!
What I would tell my children or younger self. 1. Stop comparing yourself 2. treat others how you would want to be treated 3. Be best friends with yourself 4. treat yourself as if ur the person u care about the most in the world. 5. Doing something everyday that helps others, yourself. An accomplishment 6. Stop caring what other people think and just let yourself be you (that’s the happiest version of u) 7. Be thankful
1. surround yourself with people, that like to laugh 2. move your body for 1-2h every day 3. spend at least 1h/day surrounded by nature 4. follow your interests and make sure you have the time and space to do so 5. slow down and be aware and enjoy whatever comes along 6. learn to accept your feelings and listen to and satisfy your needs 7. show empathy to yourself and others. Truly be with and listen to yourself and others.
Thank you very much. This resonated so much with me. It made me so emotional. The last 2,5 years I suffered 3 miscarriages. If I ever will be blessed with a child, my 7 pieces of advice would be: 1) Family and a few true friends are very valuable. 2) Get to know yourself on a deep personal level, love yourself and your uniqueness. 3) You never know how your life will evolve. Learn from your experiences (good and bad), grow from it, become stronger and wiser. 4) Be open-minded towards other people, other opinions, other ways of life,... It will enrich your life. 5) Make your dreams into goals and try to fulfill them, regardless of what other people say. 6) Find a way to express yourself (music, art, writing, dancing...) 7) Live goes on, good times, bad times: be mild on yourself and always be your own best friend.
When I was a child my Grandfather said the same, treat others how you wish to be treated. Also, he said What goes around, comes around, you do a bad deed you will be paid back tenfold, those who do you wrong, remember they will get paid back tenfold also, maybe not today, tomorrow or next week, maybe next year but they'll always be paid back. If you do good on every level, you'll lead a good life. I think of his words often, I refer to it as Karma. Also, age is inevitable, don't fight it, embrace it, there may be few more lines & grey hair etc. You'll never be younger than you are today. You learn to let go in time, once it's been successful once, how much better you feel, lighter of heart, then you'll have found the lightness, you'll let go of all those worries, they just fall away. At that point, I felt grown up, I was finally an adult, aged 57!! It's a far more peaceful life if you can forgive & put behind you all those negative memories & be able to just be yourself. I don't care about the wrinkles any more, I'm happy I got this far! Better in mind than I had for over 20yrs ago. I'm now 61 & Nothing can get to me now. Sending love, peace & 🙏 prayers to you all & big hugs to Sandra, the most beautiful woman over 60 on the planet! You exude Beauty & Goodness 🤗🌺💗
thank you so much for sharing your wisdom 1. ALWAYS BE GRATEFUL 2. LOVE THE MOST 3. DONT BE AFRAID OF WHO YOU ARE 4. BE MINDFUL ALWAYS 5. TALK TO YOURSELF AS IF YOURE TALKING TO A FRIEND THAT YOU LDEEPLY LOVE AND CARE FOR 6. BE AUTHENTIC AND SPEAK YOUR TRUTH, DONT HASITATE SET YOUR BAUNDARIES 7. BE IN NATURE AS MUCH AS YOU CAN
At the age of 83, she still looks so beautiful and full of energy.
I know right? She aged beautifully.
7 pieces of advice to my kids:: 1) Always stay physically and intellectually active; 2) Believe that each morning is the start of a GOOD day; 3) Be consistent with self-care routines and good health habits; 4) Be an honest and thoughtful person; 5) Try to keep positive thoughts about life, not negative thoughts; 6) Be kind to animals and the environment; and 7) Remember that practicing discipline only benefits you, not deprives you.
This is lovely. I really like and agree with your advice.
Beautiful philosophy to live a full , purposeful, and genuine life Simple and mind-blowing . expression from a person who knows what is talking about.Be kind and mindful in everyway that you possibly can.love you💓💓💓💓
These are so good ❤️ thank you for sharing 😊
Love every thing created by JEHOVAH
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I'm 57 mother of 3. My 7 tips:
1) Trust your gut - energy doesn't lie.
2) You are allowed to have your own beliefs on religion.
3) Say Thank you. Be grateful.
4) Go after your dreams
5) Don't be easily offended.
6) Stay the course. Don't quit.
7) Set boundaries with those who do not treat you right.
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at the age of 20 I just found that there is absolutely nothing permanent in your life. all these people are here just to teach u something and then leave you , so I think the most important thing you own is yourself . love yourself and never forget that u are not alone you have God and he is always there for you
Advise from this video:
1.) Do what is right - not what is easy.
2.) Take action on your dreams.
3.) Treat others with respect.
4.) Don't quit - plant good seeds.
5.) Trust your instincts.
6.) Learn something new every day.
7.) Believe in yourself.
8.) Be memorable. Be proud. Be you.
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Hey im u the only who doesn't have dreams. Idk if it's the effect of my metal health but I wake up and I don't know what to do
And I can't imagine myslef in the future, working, married, having kids and getting old
Do u guys relate ?
@@Emilysworldisbeautiful yeah I am 24 and I feel exactly the same especially after graduation from university.. I feel so lost and everything is meaningless 😔
@@Emilysworldisbeautiful @Limax
hey, i don't know how much this will help but earlier i had a video by this channel called "pick up lines" recommended to me and it had some good advice about when you feel lost. i thought i would put it out there in case it helps 💛
you will both get through this
@@luminousgold1039 thanks ;)
Pray for us
My advice to my future kids : Be obsessed with yourself. With your life. Don’t be dependent on other people and take a step towards your goal/dream every day
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❤❤❤❤I agree with you about this things
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As a 27 year old I learned that:
1: Accept yourself for who you are and just be yourself
2: it doesn’t matter what others think of you or not, you are trying best already
3: Let go of the toxic people in your life because it is not worth your time and energy
4: understanding your own feelings and be honest with your feelings
5: Don’t people please because all you are going to get in the end is the feeling of emptiness
6: Be aware of your surroundings
7: your mental health comes first
8: You deserve to be happy and are precious
What great advice. You have learned so much wisdom from your personal life walk already in your twenties. May peace fill your soul every day.❤
Your are very pretty. Thanks to you I remembered these again.
I agree with number 5 because the only people that is needed to be pleased is me. I won't spend an ounce of energy trying to please who won't hesitate to betray hurt anf abandon me. Never again.
Your grand daughter is lucky to have such a wonderful Grandma ❤️
The best three advices for me:
1. Be confident and believe in yourself
2. Don't worry what people think
3. Learn something new everyday and be curious about life
Some advice I wish I had known when I was younger:
1. Get it in writing
2. Learn from the mistakes of those who came before you
3. Do what you're supposed to do when you're supposed to do it
4. Let go of people who are toxic
5. Everyone has their own path so you can't save everyone
6. Heal generational trauma and old patterns that have been passed down, intentionally or unintentionally
7. Follow your passion and use the gifts you have for good
thank you
Love the first one especially!
@@lifewithsandrahart exactly 💯 👌
Jane, Those are some great life-advice tips! Thank you!
jane i wrote those seven and read it everytime i had free time thank you,im in the number one,love to write 🙏🤗💐❣️
Sandra your Granddaughter is so lucky to have such a wise and beautiful Nana!
Thanks Judy.
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
I just found your channel and oh wow! I'm barely in my 20s and I never had a real grandma and now, after hearing your words I felt some type of closure, I felt at peace with the fact I chose to be me, even if that meant my family turned against me.
it's hard growing up alone, trying to be a good person, an adult when there's no one you can ask for advice.. but now I know that every time I feel lost and need some warm words of advice or encouragement - I can just put your video on.
Thank you for making this, you're such a lovely person
I feel the same 😢
🫂 ❤ ☮️ you are precious !
You will be better! ❤❤
I am a 43 year old woman from London, questioning life at the moment. You have woken me. Thank you 🙏🏼
Ditto. I just turned 50!..good luck🍀🤗
I’m a 40 year old woman living in Florida and I’m also reflecting quite a bit on life. It’s nice to come here and have a feeling of community. Take care and God bless 💕
Right there with you, I’m 48 and fully understand. I’m so happy I found this channel!❤️
@@DWN590 I was divorced at 52 after 29 yrs of marriage. I'd been with him since I was 14. I don't believe in giving up quickly, but I do believe you're the only one that knows the correct decision, so I'm not telling you to leave, but wanted to offer support if it's the right time for you. Yes, it was scary, but the past 12 years have been wonderful and I'm so glad I took my life back. I've stayed single and couldn't be happier.
Thanks so much for watching and sharing your thoughts with us today
I'm 28 and have a lot to learn in life, but so far some things that I'm noticing is that 1) I won't be everyone's cup of tea so I should just be myself, be kind and not harm others, and the rest is not in my control 2) there is no one right way to live life so don't compare your life with others 3) maintain and cherish your relationships with your close friends 4) enjoy the present day 5) have a goal, without a goal I feel like one fumbles through life. I think ppl can get overwhelmed with endless possibilities, so narrowing it down to a few goals helped me tremendously
Absolutely. Wisdom is timeless, without age and without prejudice. Acting upon those wise words is the key. I wish you well. I don't often read words that resonate, from those close to my years on this earth. Yours have.
Always listen to your gut feelings especially when comes the time to choose a partner.
Don't stick to your mistake hoping situations may change for the better. Make decisions to address whatever inflict your liife. The sooner the better.
Don't hold grudges against anyone because almost everyone will come to a córner of their life where they reflect back and repent of their wrongdoings. You only hurt yourself by not forgiving them.
Don't try to please people, they don't even care, simple do what is right and kind.
Be open, listen, observe, compare, pick what's right, and let go the rest.
When the road ahead of you is not clear, ask God to lead you in the right direction. He will always guide you if you invite Him.
Have faith and always be kind to others.
Good advice.
You are doing right 🙏
Thank you 👍🏻👍🏻🙏
"Don't hold grudges against anyone because almost everyone will come to a córner of their life where they reflect back and repent of their wrongdoings. You only hurt yourself by not forgiving them."
"When the road ahead of you is not clear, ask God to lead you in the right direction. He will always guide you if you invite Him."
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Correct
Thank you❤️
My advices:
1.all problems have solutions.
2.Time is precious.
3.Nothing is permanent.
4.success comes from Hardwork->(Their's no substitute for hardwork, Their's no shortcut for success).
5.Health is the most valuable assets.
6.learning never stops.
7.If you be calm,half of ur work is over.
Thank you. I am a 50 year old woman living in Maine. Your advice came at the perfect time. Thank you.
Seven words of advice for my daughters.
1. Try to run regularly
2. Stay away from Sugar because Sugar feeds cancer
3. Take care of your teeth
4. Research everything before making a decision. Especially when it comes to doctors advice and medications.
5. Dont be around or take any addictive substance or person that wants you to be dependant on their opinion of you.
6. Have alone time in nature
7. Know that suffering only comes when we dont accept "what is". Accept the things that you know dont change and move on to better.
Damn good advice!!! I would add faith too as that is so important ❤
Thank you!
love this list
To accept 👏👏👌
So are we to accept our failure?
My 7 pieces of advice; 1. Becareful of the relationships you have. 2. Plan ahead, life flys by one minute you are 18 the next 65. You need to be ready to take care of the older you. Not just financially, but with your health. It's never too early to start. 3. Know better, do better. You know the right thing to do. Don't give into lying to yourself. Or giving into a person who isn't being wise or has your best interest in their heart. That is including yourself. Think ahead, where will this lead me. 4. Think positive, be positive. Nothing is perfect, but try to find the positive. 5. You are important and you are valuable. Do not let anyone lead you around by the nose. Don't be selfish and nasty, but do not let anyone make you a lesser person. 6. Do not depend on someone to be your happiness. No one lives forever, or stays forever. 7. Educate yourself.
Great list. Thanks
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Great. Lists
We don’t have control over the Future, but being so thankful for what is and excepting it all, is the best we can do! Learning that Life happens not the way I hope or think it should be 🙏💜🙏😍😍😘😘🌹
@@rosisunny9302 Isn't that the truth! 😉
7 pieces of advice:
1) don’t do something to make someone else happy at the detriment of yourself
2) trust your gut feeling, that first, small, instinctual feeling
3) always do the right thing, even if no one else is
4) save for a rainy day. Don’t spend more than you make.
5) don’t be attached to ANY material thing
6) believe in yourself
7) love yourself
Little explanation about 3d- meaning: do what you think is tedious, despite the condemnation from the outside?
Already doing these ❤️
Amazing
terrible advice...
Excellent advice
1. Stay calm.
2. Always pray.
3. Take care of other people.
4. Be mindful.
5. Be kind.
6. Meditate.
7. Keep a journal.
Go for what makes you feel happy.
Have your boundaries.
Prioritise self care.
Step outside of your comfort zone regularly.
Don't cut yourself off from others, we need people.
Don't keep sticking at a job or something if you feel unhappy, try something else or you'll get resentful.
Save a bit each month as soon as you start working but be generous too.
Well I need to cut narcissistic people, even a family. Because its toxic and not healthy for me, I wont live longer more if I keep toxic energies
Don't badmouth your partner to your mother or father it will backfire, listen well to loved ones and their advice
Hi Claire, how are you doing
Lessons I learned from
- my dad. - do not retaliate, what you do or don’t do says more about you than them. ❣️
- my divorce lawyer - always do the RIGHT thing ( not the best thing ) and in the end , the BEST thing will happen ❣️
- my Mom - remember you are just as good as the next person - but always be your best - not to be better than - but better you.
- my kids - always say I LOVE YOU
- my grandmother - It’s the simple things that matter most.
- my deceased MIL- every child deserves love.
- LET IT GO !
- HAPPINESS IS A JOURNEY -
not a destination-
- GO OUTSIDE EVERYDAY - wind , rain, snow or sunshine.
- worry doesn’t stop something from happening , it just uses up energy you will need when it does.
- look in a full size mirror everyday and if you don’t like what you see - change it, toss it , but don’t ignore it.
I like what your Grandmother said.
All great advice!
Excellent list:)
Wonderfully said..
This was so beautiful ❤️
I‘m 26 and what I‘ve learned so far are these things:
1. Always be kind and hopeful, it’ll be worth it
2. be honest but respectful
3. have dreams and don’t forget that you’re worthy enough to reach them
4. it’s okay to slow down or even fail but never lose yourself
5. be grateful for everything because life itself is the reason to live
i absolutely LOVE your number 5! i always wonder what life is all about, but this is a great way to start 🥂
I grew up with a mother and grandmother who allowed themselves to be repressed by men and “social norms”. They also passed on to me the fearful/anxious lives they lived as women who did not believe in themselves as whole people who had a right to their own lives. My mother actually apologized to my father for having me, a girl, as a first child. I loved and resented them for all this. I couldn’t wait to leave my mother’s ultra-negative influence for college and freedom. I have broken away from some of this mindset, but still find it difficult to stand up for myself and am still slow to get rid of toxic people. I made the decision not to live the lives they had. That is, in general, what I learned: don’t stand out, don’t attract attention, don’t speak up. What a waste! I still struggle with this crap. I am 64.
Same here, I think it was our generation thing and people didn’t know better.
I am 52, going through the same.
A failed marriage. Have 2 wonderful children though.
I met someone a year ago who shows with his actions that he is deeply in love with me. He has much more money than me but he is asking me to marry him without any pre nuptial agreement. He is never been mean or unfair to me and treats me with respect. But i have seen him getting frustrated and angry at people outside. He will use abusive language for the politicians if he thinks they are corrupt and bad for the poor.
Sometimes I wonder if he has anger issues
My advices:
1. Never betray yourself for others and treat yourself like you are your own best friend
2. Listen to your guts feeling, no matter how stupid it sounds
3. Be aware of your thoughts and strengthen those thoughts which strengthen you
4. Be yourself, be proud of who you are, stop caring what others think about you. Shine your unique light proudly on this world.
5. It is okay to change your goals if they dont feel right anymore. Do what is in alignment with you.
6. Fight for yourself and assert your boundaries. You can only be truly kind if you are able to protect your own boundaries.
7. Trust that the universe will bring what you need when its the right time.
Yeeessss at #5... It's ok to change goals! As we age, grow, gather experience and exposure and mature, our perspectives in life change, hence it's ok to publicly change our views and goals. That's called growth!
The gut feeling thing. Yes. So true.
#7 is true ...all happened when it is right time ...
Excellent
Advices like diamonds . Thanks , God bless you
I'm 27 and this is what I've learnt so far:
1. Don't chase anyone because if they wanted to, they will. 2. know who you are and stand firm in your identity. 3. set goals for your life; big ones, they help guide you in your decision making. 4. figure out what you love and do them often. 5. never try to impress anyone besides yourself. 6. surround yourself with positive people; people who encourage you to be and do better. 7. always try to listen and pay proper attention to the vibe people give off, they almost always never lie
I'm 26. I think I learned that. 1. True friends stays overtime, don't bother to chasing after anyone but in any relationship there must be sacrifices of time and energy.
Exactly. I learned this the hardway.
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You’re only 27?! You’re filled with wisdom girl!!!
Yes! This is true! I would add something here: ”treat others how you would like to be treated” and ”love everyone as much as yourself” and this starts to sound a really good life goals for me 😌❤️ Not everything is always perfect but we are here learning ☺️
1 You are your best friend, trust yourself
2 Go your own path
3 Be with people who you feel confortable by, not people for the image
4 Laugh everyday
5 Everything is one moment, enjoy
6 Choose your own life
7 Treath people the way you wanne be treath
Turning 25 soon and here’s what I’ve learnt:
1. Journal
2. Be kind!
3. Pray about everything.
4. Make memories with your loved ones and foster healthy relationships.
5. Consistency is everything.
6. Put yourself out there career wise.
7. Smile
8. Don’t take things too personal, learn emotional intelligence.
9. Make everyday count.
10. Love yourself
11. Your mindset is everything!
@@LoveMotunrayo YOUR A very wise for 25 years you will live a long life ♥️
I would share the following: 1) first thing in the morning give thanks and say a prayer. 2) everyday have at least 10 mins of me time. 3) remember "life is full of lessons." 4) remember "deep breathe" 5) "trust the process" 6) "this too will pass" 7) "be the writer of your story"
I love this! 😊
1. Age is just a number.
2. Keep moving- exercise- push yourself
3. Read - learn always
4. It is perfectly alright to do nothing- in fact it is critical
5. Recognize your abilities
6. Take it slowly
7. Order is important- both inside and out.
Love this Sandra. Thanks as always.
Good advice.
@Caroline Chebato a very unique and sagacious list of wisdoms. Thx :))
Never forget the Lord!! Trust in Him..Believe in Him..and..You will always be a Winner!!!
Yes!
Amén 🙏
Not everyone is religious, and that's ok too.
Who created you don't take something bad 😢
7 pieces os advice my kids : 1- put your mental and physical health first 2- always be confident by your self 3- don’t take fast decision 4- spend more time with something you love it 5- calm down and patient 6 - be happy with small things 7- listen more than talk .
I don't have children, but this is what I would I would tell any young woman:
1. Learn to be independent. You may be alone at times and you need to be able to navigate the world by yourself.
2. Respect yourself and establish healthy boundaries. Respect the boundaries of others.
3. Education beyond High School is important. Find out what your talents, skills and abilities are and cultivate them.
4. Learn about financial matters and don't rely on others to do it for you. It takes one major event to become destitute.
5. Work hard, always ask questions and do the jobs others think are beneath them.
6. Speak up for yourself and toot your own horn.
7. Cultivate some sort of spiritual beliefs that speak to you in those quiet times of need and contemplation.
8. Do not tolerate abuse (in any form) from anyone. If you allow it once, the perpetrator will do it again. That may mean severing ties and walking away.
9. Open your mind and travel the world to understand people, history and cultures.
10. Your way isn't the only way. Don't shove your beliefs down anyone's throat and don't allow them to do it to you.
11. Get a hobby.
12. Take care of your body. Use Sunscreen and don't smoke. Good shoes matter along with a well fitted bra.
13. What others think doesn’t matter. Go about your business.
14. Develop the ability of hindsight to learn from your mistakes.
15. Take responsibility for your actions and be brave to make amends.
16. Date alot before you settle down. Get to know yourself and what you want in a mate.
17. Be kind to humans and animals.
18. Drugs and alcohol don't help anyone.
Excellent list! Thanks
Such a down to earth and true advices . Thank you .🍒
thnk uh
Another great list!
Gonna write it down to my notebook! Excellent and really resonating with my points of view! Thank you so much✨
1. Take risks , don't scare 2. Live the life that you choose not others 3. Don't expect the closest people such as you mom , is your supporter 4. Don't give up on learning new things 5. Don't expect some guy makes you happy , first you have to learn to be happy 6. Do meditation 7. Money is important.
Thank you for this..I really needed this.
@@olaabu thanks
#3 hits
Live the life you choose......I don't know is it true always...take advices from experienced....then only take your likes... I have seen many taking their choices and falling....always take opinion and value it before taking decisions
What? Don't expect the closest people to do what?
I won’t write 7 things but I do tell my grandchildren that you teach people how to treat you. And, when they have decisions to make I tell them to write down on a piece of paper the pros and cons. Thank you for sharing yours with us!
I'm a big list maker. 💜 Pro con the best. 😁
Yes! I've told my nieces this before but I had forgotten about that one. That's a very important piece of advice. This is why I love the comment section. I'm so glad I read yours!
Good advice!!
Pro’s and con’s! What a great idea Jeanne , our almost 12 year old granddaughter is so sweet and lets other go beyond the boundaries , but then she is torn on letting the friend go .. we are having lunch tomorrow I will bring this idea up ( Professional day for the teacher in Vancouver Canada:)
My favorite comment! Learned this the hard way! I am also passing knowledge to my children.
1. Dream your dream.
2. Keep learning new things.
3. Be you!
4.Don't worry anything and let it go.
5.The simple the better.
6.Never too late to do anything and the time you start is the right time.
7.Angry is the worst action and cost illness. If it's out our control then let it be let it happen.Thanks 🙏
Always God's Grace! Amen!
I’m only 41 and learning everyday. My daughter asked me to write a letter addressed to her to read at her high school graduation. It’s an assignment from her teacher. She asked me to write any advice I could give her. This video is extremely helpful so thank you. The one thing that I think I will add is this: what you do doesn’t make you who you are. It’s just what you do. So never be afraid to fail or change your mind about your career. It’s not the most important thing about you. It’s your soul that’s the most important thing and it lives on always.
Hello Crystal, how are you doing
I am 21 and my advices to all people are here:
1. Give back to society in any good way.
2. Don't be over confident
3. Be kind always.
4. If you have nothing to speak just be quiet. Don't speak trash or a single negative word.
5. Mind only your own business.
6. Respect every one's opinion.
7. Enjoy every moment with your Loved ones. You never know when they will disappear.
8. Love yourself and be confident and never forget God.
NOOR FATIMA....BEAUTIFULLY SAID, WISE, AND SPIRTUAL
Thank you so much!
Love this. You are wise beyond your years 👌👍
@@NFTTHI Alhamdolillah, Allah bless you always ❤
You are a wise young lady
Beautiful advice from a beautiful woman! I’m 22 years old and this is the advice that I would give my younger self:
1. Stay true to yourself always. Nothing in this life is worth denying your truth.
2. What and who you need will come to you.
3. It is okay to not be liked by all, you will find people that understand and love you beyond what you thought possible.
4. Never ignore what your heart and mind is drawn to, there is a reason why these things always come back.
5. As cheesy as it sounds, you are beautiful as is everyone. The nature of your humanity alone is beautiful and unlikely. Recognise this in yourself and others.
As 29 years old turning 30 in 4month
1. Put God first in everything you do.
2. Trust God plan when it doesn’t make sense at the time.
3. Express how you feel even though the world says otherwise
4. Be kind, humble and wish with your words actions
5. Make sure you not busy doing nothing
6. Make time to enjoy with people you love
7. Don’t be hard on yourself let it go and let God take care of it
8. Life is like house put one brick a day.
My favourite comment so far
😯 I’m 29 turning 30 in 4 months too!!
a person turns to "God" when he is not independent, when he cannot take responsibility for himself and shifts it onto the shoulders of a fictional supernatural being. and it also speaks about his stupidity and limited horizons. after reading history and finding some obvious cause-and-effect relationships, it is easy to abandon "God", but no, it is easier to choose the "easy way".
@@rj-cl4de it is absolutely normal that people always looking for support when they need a help. For some people, god is spiritual sense that helps bear bad things. Don't underestimate that people need
@@b5lovermore happy early birthday to us!!
I also have spent a large portion of my life comparing and worrying about what other's think of me. It was my current husband who brought it to my attention, but I also knew deep inside it was the biggest thing holding me down. At 62 I'm thankful to be hearing myself say, "I don't care."
It’s a great relief, isn’t it
I used to be just like you! Then I met a friend who always used the word ''I don't care'' somehow I started practicing
Me same Felt badly many times
Hello dear Sandra🌹you just gave us great advice. I'm a woman in my 60's, I think that the first advice I'd give is to have faith in God 🙏, Second every thing you do, try to doi it the best you can and do it with love. Third, never lose hope . Fourth , exercise and eat healthy. Fifth, live life to the fullest without hurting anyone. Sixth, respect your elders. Seven, love yourself so you can love others. Thank you Sandra!
Good things to think about.
Wow, wow, wow,Maria ! I love your list !
I love it so because this is exactly what I'm living, basically!
I'm in my sixties also and just love this new chapter in my life.
Yea. The times in my life when I let God be my center actually went so much better. Remember the cross. What Jesus did for us even though we were such dummies.
I just turned 75, and boy do I have advice for my 17 year old granddaughter. I have always told her to be herself and not allow others dictate what that should be. After listening to you today I would have to add, listen to your intuition. It will lead you to where you need to go. You may make mistakes, but you will learn from them. Even mistakes are important in our lives. As I look back at my life, the times I allowed someone else to influence my choices or make them for me, I regret that decision. I knew it wasn't for ME but for what was best for them. I don't do that anymore, but it does add stress when I follow my instincts. You don't want to live a life of regret. 🙂
Interesting addition
Happy Birthday, I just turned 75 last week. How did this ever happen?
I am not that old, I'm really young actually, but if i were to give life advice ever i would say that, live in the moment , life seems fast paced but it all goes away so quickly. Get off your phone, talk to people, notice , learn and smile. don't worry about living up to the expectations of others, do what feels right for you and trust yourself
Thank you so much.
1) you are your biggest project, invest in yourself
2) don’t sacrifice your life for others
3) follow your intuition, do what feels right for you
4) respect others and their decisions concerning their life
5) be kind to your inner self
6) save your dignity in every situation, you always matter, in daily life, in friendship and in love
7) errors are just an experience, don’t be afraid of making them
I love this list.
Great list!!!
Hi Tatiana, how are you
1- never stop dancing
2- never let go of your body
3- be kinder to your family every day
4- don’t try to save people you barely know
5- never let a dentist take one tooth out
6- never listen to new medical advice before you do your own research
7- be your best version every day
Plz can u explain more about 5?
3- even if they are toxic?
@@aishoabdirahman8256 In other words take care of your dental health 😇🙏
Girl, did you have an injury? ㅜㅜ as you mentioned not stop dancing and medical advice
Toxic advice affirmed
I never had a grandmother and often felt that void. Luckily I was blessed to have the most wonderful mother but sadly she passed when my daughter was so young. I love listening to you daily. I sent this particular video to her, she is graduating from college this week. Thank you for another wonderful lesson.
Sarah, best of luck to her.
Sarah, it seems that you are blessed with a good relationship with your daughter and that is such a gift!
Hello Sarah, how are you doing
You’re the best grandma
I'm a grandmother in India. You were saying the very same things that I would tell my granddaughters. I'm sharing this video with them because I think they will benefit more if they hear another Nana. Praying for continued peace and contentment in your life 🙏
@Rajveer kanojiya shorts 😭
@ Dipa Sengupta Great
@rajveerkanojiyashorts1268 wtf brooo..of course she knows..if a person wants to learn something noone can stop him/her.u r funny btw😂
@Dipa - my favorite english teacher from school. I’d be pleasantly surprised if you remember me at all.
Are you still in Jsr ?
Was a die hard fan of your elegance and teaching style ❤😮
Dear Sandra, thanks for your advice. I am 27 year old this year. And I lost my relationship with boyfriend and families. Also I lost my job last week. I was really down but always like you said to keep myself alive. Thanks again for your content and comments above. I will make actions to change myself and save myself from now on.
You can do it. Take action and tomorrow can change your life. Good luck.
I feel down today too but i hope tomorrow would be better
All THIS is FOR UR BEST LIFE.... THINGS FALLS OFF IN NOW NEW TIMES OF HIGH ENERGIES
Your future is bright. Believe it.
You'll overcome sweetie....it's all in you
One thing I remember Dr. Phil saying is, “What other people think of you is none of your business”! It still helps me with toxic people in my life. Thank you Sandra! 👍👏🙋♀️🥰💕
Hi Janet, how are you doing today
@@nguyensolomon2762 Go away Troll‼️😡😡😡
1: everything happens for a reason
2: be open for new things
3:don’t take life too serious
4: it’s all of ours first time living this life
5: care for those in your life, you never know when or if things could change
6: don’t be afraid of failing
7: choose good and fewer friends instead of a lot of bad ones
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR VIDEO!!! I literally cried at the end you are amazing I hope your granddaughter will live the most amazing life❤❤
I am a very visual person and at 77 I still follow my own advice on making lists such as pros and cons, especially on big decisions. And, on a lighter note, I pass on some advice my mother-in-law told me….”Don’t learn how to do something you don’t want to do for the rest of your life.” 😊 Bless her heart, she married at 15 and had 3 babies by the time she was 19. This was in the 30’s. I don’t think she had much choice with my father-in-law’s job on the railroad keeping him away from home a lot but I took her advice to heart and have passed it on to my granddaughters, as well. It has been a
pleasure reading everyone’s ideas!
Hello Jeanne. How you doing today
This is spot on Sandra! One thing I used to tell my dance students is you have to decide for yourself what is enough because nothing is ever enough in this society we now live in!
You can't seem to be Rich enough, smart enough, thin enough, talented enough, do enough etc.... I told them you will drive yourself crazy trying to live up to all this expectation! You have to decide for yourself what is enough!
Hi Robin, how are you doing
Thank you for the impressive words of inspiration. I’m almost 70, so I should start coming up with some of my own words of wisdom. So here it goes…
1. You are enough. Perfect just the way you are.
2. Always do your best.
3. When you hit a rough spot, give yourself grace. Re-evaluate and move forward.
4. Find the joy in your life, appreciate the joy other people have and share it with others. Friends are gem you find along the path of life.
5. Take time for yourself.
6. Appreciate, help, teach, protect your family.
7. Listen and learn when others speak whether it’s something you want to hear or not.
It was good to think about this topic. I’m sure I will come up with more along my journey of life.
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏
I'm originally from Forth Worth Texas currently. and you where are you from if i may ask?
Hi Debbie, how are you doing
Thank you so much. I'm 20 and I feel so lucky and blessed to have 83 years worth of lessons to learn from myself. Thank you, take care ❤️❤️❤️
Good morning Sandra. Thank you for your wise advice. I just turned 60 and I was hanging on every word. Your granddaughter is very lucky to have such a wonderful lady in her life 🥰
Thanks so very much
I am 20. If I had children, I would most definitely expain to them the importance of responsibility in life. You are not happy when you run from responsibilities. You are engaged and satisfied with life when you take it volutarily. And being engaged and satisfied, having a meaning in your life, is something that is a lot more precious than chasing happiness.
Hi Sandra 👋🏽🌈 this is the first video of yours I come across and I’m so happy I decided to click. I felt so calm watching this and it reminded me of a conversation a loved one would have with me. Thank you for your wisdom ✨
Hello Nathalie . Welcome. I’m so happy you decided to click and stop by and check out this wonderful community here on my channel. We have conversations about so many things that deal with all of us no matter where we live in the world. So happy to have you
Hi
As a 16 year old teen, I am sooo grateful to find your channel☺️
… ☕️ Your Granddaughter, 18!!!!!! is very wise, she had the good sense to ask for advice from you ,“ who’s been there, done that, got the tee shirt” God bless that child!
I agree! She's already on the right track, asking her grandmother for advice in my opinion already makes her a smart young lady.
Thanks for watching and sharing
Agree. I love that. Somehow I think she will be back to visit you again before too long. Such sweetness.
I have two daughters, one 27 and one 31. I try very hard to be present for them and give them advice and support. Its a precious gift to pass on hard earned wisdom to the young women we love so much. Thank you for your wise words today Sandra! Nodded in agreement through the whole video!! : )
Thanks Carol
I am 62 and had a somewhat rough life but it has made me depend on God so much more! When my 23 year old son calls me with a problem, I have learned the best thing and the first thing to do is pray with him for Gods wisdom. Let me tell you, it works. It may not always make sense at the time, but things work out so much better. Yes , I have learned to take what others say “ with a grain of salt “. Love your videos and advice. ❤️💕♥️
Excellent!
Tami, that is wonderful that your son prays with you and is seeing how wonderful God is!!
@@ggbouvier9897 very thankful!
Rather than dependent on God. Believe in yourself!!
I'm 21 yrs old but always wanna remind myself,
- Everyone is different and unique so you too
- don't compare yourself with others and tryna see your own beauty
- be independent because no one can be around you forever
- be kind and patient to parents
- you are enough even if they choose the other one it's not your fault
Hello Dear Sandra.you are always such a breath of pure air. You have a very grateful heart. Your Love reaches many people. Thank you for that. If we always put God first, we will be blessed in every choice we make. Life is a gift, to open every day.See life looking through our spiritual glasses, to get the best view of our world.Do not judge yourself or others, just use your instincts as a pathfinder. Use the mirror to get to know yourself, and become your own best friend. Always be true to yourself. Put your best foot forward daily. Happy Mothers day to ALL . Hugs ,Louise
Thank you Lou
I’ve always believe “ Treat others the way you want to be treated!!! Happy to hear you go by the same principles ❤️
Good lesson isn’t it
Hello Nancy, how are you doing
Some of the things I would tell my grandson would be to be yourself, because God only made one you. To work hard and to give your best always. Be kind and caring and he is that already. Never give in to peer pressure. To always walk to the beat of your on drum. To stand up for what you believe is right.
1. Do what is right, not what is easy
2. Take action on your dream
Don’t just passively dream, but take an active action
3. Treat others with respect
If you expose and spread positivity it will return to you
4. Don’t quit - never give up
5. Learn something new every day
Be curious about the life, world
6. Believe in yourself
Live out loud!
7. Don’t worry about what other people will think
Be proud. Be courageous. Be memorable. Be confident. BE YOU.
Thank you !!
I think I have taught them already and my grandchildren are a little too young now, but I think I would say:
1. Be honest and true to yourself and others.
2. Always be kind and treat others as you would have them treat you.
3. Stop and smell the roses. The smallest moments are most special. Be Present.
4. Love , pray, and live with all you’ve got to give.
5. Life is short so embrace every minute you have because it could be taken away at any time.
6. Put yourself out there, overcome your fears, take pride in your accomplishments , be proud of you!
7. Thank God everyday. Strive to be your best person. Seek comfort from those who love you ❤️
👋 i hope you're safe over there? hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏
I'm originally from Forth Worth Texas currently. and you where are you from if i may ask?
I would give this advice: why worry about what others think. Do you really care what others think? It’s your life, don’t live it for others. And also if you’re going to put effort into doing something that you think is worthwhile, give it your best shot, and do the very best you can. Finally take care of your health.
👋 i hope you're safe over there? hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏
I'm originally from Forth Worth Texas currently. and you where are you from if i may ask?
I just hit my mid 30s and felt so lost and alone. Watching this video put things in perspective and allowed me to reassess some things! Thank you for reminding us it is never too late to chase your dreams and not to ever give up! So simple yet so difficult to forget at times. Thanks a million ❤
Hi 😊, how are you doing
Self-love is the foundation of all success. When you believe in yourself, the possibilities are endless.
Sandra i am 60 yrs old and I sure do love listening to you. You remind me so very much of my grandmother, aunt and mom. I my mom passed away a week before my 16th birthday, my grandmother at 18 and my wonderful aunt when I 58. These three women were my world. My older sister who is 76 is like a mom to me as well. My sister and I always talk about how much we miss our talks with our elders and just how much they taught us and we just didnt realize it at the time. Life today seems to be on such a fast pace and we all really need to slow down and enjoy life and really realize how truly blessed we are. I tell my grandchildren all the time that they need to always remember to be kind, understanding, loving towards all and also to themselves but most of all, always let the people they love know that they are loved and appreciated. I also tell them to talk to God and he will help guide them thru good times and bad. My grandmother lived with us throughout my childhood years and she would always tell me how blessed we were and that we needed to remember that being blessed doesnt mean material things or what money can buy. My mom use to tell me that we are all equal and to never think you are better then someone else. She believed in keeping our family close, whether it was having picnics with everyone during the summer or picking up the phone and calling just to say hi !! Today our society has the children playing on their phones etc., but they really need to go outside and enjoy the sunshine, splashing in puddles, soaking up the sun and fresh air, ride bikes or take walks. I am so happy my grandchildren do this. They love the outdoors and love going to church on sundays and definitely love being with family. Again Thank you for your videos they are truly enjoyed !!
I am so touched. Thank you
I am 33 years old and I have a daughter and a son. My advices will be these:
1. Put action into your dreams.
I am born and raised in the Philippines; when I was in college, I had dreamed of studying abroad but never had that opportunity. Now that I live in the US, I went back to school and currently studying for an associate degree.
2. Take risks.
At 33, I decided I to learn how to drive. Going to a new place is always a risk, but what an accomplishment when I make it back home and when I learn something new.
3. Dress for the day. Being presentable is a form of self care and respect to others, plus it makes you more productive.
4. Have a sense of empathy. We live in such a diverse country. Putting ourselves in someone else’s life will give us a sense of understanding and avoid judgements.
5. Help when you can. Helping others helps me too; it makes me feel good and keep me humble.
6. Be physically and cognitively active. Visit a new place; seek a new adventure in life.
7. Don’t forget your family. Spend quality time with people important to you.
Enjoy and Ingat ka dyan Kabayan!
I'm 41 and doing my associates. Let's go!
That is great! I think your advice is better!!!!!!!!!!!!
"Being presentable is a form of self care" - Very Well Said!
Calvary's Mount is of inestemable amount!
Great advice. I think I’d like to give more or less the same advice to my children. Go with what your heart desires… listen to your instincts… take the decisions you know you need to take and do not worry what others will think. Thanks for that.
Thanks so much
i’m a 27 year old man who had a rough start to this thing we call life. Myself aswell as millions in sure, really appreciate every single one of you for sharing your tips. Please, continue to do so. You have no idea how much of a head start you’re giving to younger people. On behalf of all of us who are desperately trying our very best to be the best we can be for ourselves, THANK YOU. Peace! ✌️
I really love everything you shared here. I'm now 27 and I promise to do everything I learned from you here. Love lots from the Philippines. ✨💚
Hey Grandma,
Lessons I would love to teach my baby as she grows is
1. Choose God early
2. Be your best self
3. Be kind and humble but don't let others trumble on you just because you are kind or humble
4. Set healthy boundaries in life. They are for you, others.
5. Love God, love people
6. Don't give up on your dreams
7. Stay consistent and people will trust you in all stages of life
From one brenda to another your spot on god bless x
Hi Brenda, how are you doing
i've just gone through the dark night of the soul at the age 17, these are smth i realized, and i am so thankful to listen to your advice, gramma:
- always prioritize yourself (especially your thoughts, your emotions)
- have rules, invest time in the right thing ( as everything is just a mirror reflection)
- live with purpose
- stay in alignment with god
- knows that everything has a reason and dealing instead of hiding from fears
I'm 18 . I'm from India .I like to talk to people who have come before me (mainly old people ).Tomorrow is my exam , I will do my best and I will not complain about my resources. I'm taking a lot of lessons from this video. Love you so much ❤️❤️❤️
I love these tips. I especially love the point of not caring what other people think. What I've told my young daughter is that people are so concerned with themselves and worried what people think of them they don't really even care about what's going on with you. I tell her to use her 20s to chase her dreams and I'll be here to catch her if she needs. I went head first into what I felt was responsible in my 20s that I didn't use that time of being house and child free to take risks. She's an artist and I want her to feel she can go for it during that decade. If it doesn't work out that's okay because I will be here if she needs me.
You are absolutely right. What a great mom you are.
Aww thank you!
Great advice!
What a wonderful loving mother you are.
Not caring what others think was my special point too. You are right about people worrying more about themselves than you. Good advice gor your daughter also@
Recognize, reevaluate, and embrace the changes that come with every season of life! At 45 i am just now recognizing seasons and learning to embrace the changes. Give yourself permission to keep the things that serve the season you are in and let go of the things that no longer serve you. That can be actual items, or people, or beliefs. Embrace the changes that now bring you joy and peace. I no longer keep photos that make me sad. I only do hobbies and social functions that bring me joy.
👋 i hope you're safe over there? hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏
I'm originally from Forth Worth Texas currently. and you where are you from if i may ask?
Great advice 💜 you always make me feel like your a friend.
My top 7 are:
1. Talk to God before people
2. Find humor each day
3. Be grateful each day
4 learn positive things
5. Have goals
6. Write your plans
7. Have good support friends can't go life alone.
Thanks for making me think 💜🤗
Great tips Cindy. I love the humor one
Great list.
Love 6 esp! Great list
Great goals. I’m writing these down.
Hello Cindy. How you doing today
thank you so much, im 17 and now i felt so lost in my life. i dont know what i want to do and what i need to do, my relationships are falling apart even tho i’ve tried so hard, i feel so disappointed in myself. but thank you grandma, you’ve helped me a lot. this video is one of my fav videos of yours, every time i feel overwhelmed, i watch your video and learn from your advices. you’re definitely helped me a lot, not just in fixing my way to see life but also helped me in being more mature everyday. wish you all the best and never stop spreading your positive mindset to people. thank you ❤
Sandra, I'm almost 69 years old and love listening to your videos and always learn from your wisdom. My Mom died 28 years ago, so I eagerly listen to your pearls as though my Mom was talking to me. Thank you for being there for us. I hope you had a Happy Mother's Day! All my best!
What I have learned just now with Sandra these lessons;
1. Don't think about what other people might think about you
This is easy to say than done, but if you practice not minding what other people's thought about you is priceless. This allows you to focus on what you want to achieve in life and if its practiced consistently, you will never waste energy again on this part of your life.
2. Be respectful;
I believe in what she said about RESPECT(because I did it myself), "treat other people the way you want to be treated" because what you did to other people will definitely comes back to you double or triple times even if it's good or bad.
3. Trust your GUTS instinct;
I have proven to myself that trusting your GUTS instinct will lead you to the way that is favorable to you. I did not follow my GUTS instinct so many times before and 95% of the result was a regret. So whenever I don't feel like doing something. I will not going to do it. But, if its involved with other people that could compromise your relationship with them, inform them ahead of time for them to not be included on what is your GUTS instinct telling.
4. Be YOU;
For many years(in my teenage years) I always compare myself and trying to be a person that I don't really like just to impress the people around me, fortunately, I was able to break that cycle and found out how to be comfortable of being me. Take care of yourself rigorously and you will see the result in no time.
Thanks so much Sandra for that valuable content you have shared with us and your family. New subscriber here. :)
I can’t express enough my gratitude for living in times like these, where we get to benefit from invaluable life lessons such as these ones. Thank you for sharing and for caring. I am grateful for technology that allows for this.
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Same thoughts ❤️
Same here
Thanks ❤
I'm 48 from Sultanate of Oman
1. Take care (love) your family and friends
2. Be honest in everything you do
3. Enjoy your work and do the work you love
4. Save and Invest little from your income
5. Respect others differences and opinions
6. Reward yourself
7. Eat well and exercise
8. be simple and spend time with the normal/poor people
9. Leave bad relationship but keep way for return (people getting better by time)
10. Keep learning.
1. Life is not an easy task. 2. All problems have a solution. Be patient 3. Learn from your errors. I appreciate how clearly you present your ideas.
Thanks so much
I’m 28 but what life has taught me is
1. Be yourself. Not who people want you to be.
2. You don’t owe anyone anything.
3. Watch your thoughts because they become your life
4. Self preservation is sexy
5. Don’t stop being kind because someone doesn’t see it
6. Get to know God as early as possible
7. Be quick to hear and slow to speak. You can’t unsay something.
Number 6!!! 💯
@@cutestuff59FR yesss
Number 6 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you. Same age and realisation of these points are so apt
So wise! 🙏🏾
You look amazing As someone who EXTREMELY scared of aging you make me feel better about it
She is so blessed to have you as her grandma. I just became a grandma recently. My grandson is 3 months . I feel like this is one of the highlights of my life. I take the advice you gave to your granddaughter because even at my age I need it. And those are also points I'd give you my grandchildren. What id add is to have immense self love and worth from day one. Because I believe then alot of the other things will fall in place when we genuinely have love for who we are and understand that our self worth is not measured by other people's expectations 🧡🤗🇰🇪
Good to see you a fellow Kenyan 🇰🇪.
I enjoy listening to our mum here.I'm a grandma of 4.
@@justinamusyoka4986 Aww 🥰🥰🥰 beautiful. Baraka Tele to you and your family 🙏🏽
With age comes wisdom is such a truthful statement. I wish I was so intuitive when I was younger. Could have saved myself a lot of grief.
We all could have!!
Some advice I will give to my younger self/grandchildren:
1. Do not follow shiny objects.
2. not everybody is meant to be in your life forever
3. bad times are temporary, good times are forever!
4. stick to a system that gets you closer to your goal, and not focus on the big picture
5. accept the people who have left you/God has taken from you... because better people are coming to fill those empty spaces
6. do what makes YOU happy and not what makes other people happy
7. This is the most critical NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES YOU'VE FALLEN DOWN, ALWAYS COME BACK STRONG AND LEARN FROM YOUR SETBACKS!
I agree!
What I would tell my children or younger self.
1. Stop comparing yourself
2. treat others how you would want to be treated
3. Be best friends with yourself
4. treat yourself as if ur the person u care about the most in the world.
5. Doing something everyday that helps others, yourself. An accomplishment
6. Stop caring what other people think and just let yourself be you (that’s the happiest version of u)
7. Be thankful
1. surround yourself with people, that like to laugh
2. move your body for 1-2h every day
3. spend at least 1h/day surrounded by nature
4. follow your interests and make sure you have the time and space to do so
5. slow down and be aware and enjoy whatever comes along
6. learn to accept your feelings and listen to and satisfy your needs
7. show empathy to yourself and others. Truly be with and listen to yourself and others.
Thank you very much. This resonated so much with me. It made me so emotional. The last 2,5 years I suffered 3 miscarriages. If I ever will be blessed with a child, my 7 pieces of advice would be:
1) Family and a few true friends are very valuable.
2) Get to know yourself on a deep personal level, love yourself and your uniqueness.
3) You never know how your life will evolve. Learn from your experiences (good and bad), grow from it, become stronger and wiser.
4) Be open-minded towards other people, other opinions, other ways of life,... It will enrich your life.
5) Make your dreams into goals and try to fulfill them, regardless of what other people say.
6) Find a way to express yourself (music, art, writing, dancing...)
7) Live goes on, good times, bad times: be mild on yourself and always be your own best friend.
When I was a child my Grandfather said the same, treat others how you wish to be treated. Also, he said What goes around, comes around, you do a bad deed you will be paid back tenfold, those who do you wrong, remember they will get paid back tenfold also, maybe not today, tomorrow or next week, maybe next year but they'll always be paid back. If you do good on every level, you'll lead a good life. I think of his words often, I refer to it as Karma. Also, age is inevitable, don't fight it, embrace it, there may be few more lines & grey hair etc. You'll never be younger than you are today. You learn to let go in time, once it's been successful once, how much better you feel, lighter of heart, then you'll have found the lightness, you'll let go of all those worries, they just fall away. At that point, I felt grown up, I was finally an adult, aged 57!! It's a far more peaceful life if you can forgive & put behind you all those negative memories & be able to just be yourself. I don't care about the wrinkles any more, I'm happy I got this far! Better in mind than I had for over 20yrs ago. I'm now 61 & Nothing can get to me now. Sending love, peace & 🙏 prayers to you all & big hugs to Sandra, the most beautiful woman over 60 on the planet! You exude Beauty & Goodness 🤗🌺💗
Hello Jacqueline. How you doing today
So are you married with kids?
Every time when I heard these words "who cares" my tears are wanna fall from my soul thank you miss soul
thank you so much for sharing your wisdom
1. ALWAYS BE GRATEFUL
2. LOVE THE MOST
3. DONT BE AFRAID OF WHO YOU ARE
4. BE MINDFUL ALWAYS
5. TALK TO YOURSELF AS IF YOURE TALKING TO A FRIEND THAT YOU LDEEPLY LOVE AND CARE FOR
6. BE AUTHENTIC AND SPEAK YOUR TRUTH, DONT HASITATE SET YOUR BAUNDARIES
7. BE IN NATURE AS MUCH AS YOU CAN