The ONLY Way Narcissists Will Respect You is If You Do THIS!
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In this transformative UA-cam video titled "The ONLY Way Narcissists Will Respect You is If You Do THIS!", I, as your trusted guide and advocate, delve into a crucial strategy that empowers individuals facing narcissistic relationships. Discover the key to gaining the respect and reclaiming your power from narcissists through this insightful discussion. Join our supportive community on a journey towards personal growth, resilience, and renewed confidence. Together, we'll explore evidence-based conflict resolution, assertive communication, and boundary-setting, paving the way for positive change and transformation. #Narcissism #Respect #Empowerment #Assertiveness #SelfCare #Confidence #PersonalGrowth #Empathy #SupportiveCommunity #TransformationalStrategies #EmpowerYourself
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Hey Rebecca is it possible my wife is for 15 years I just realized that she was involved in doing some things with her kids she knows I know she knows that I had cameras in the house at that time when that was happening and she knows I have video what now I haven't told her I had it but she knows I have
This is an excellent compilation. I have two narcissistic brothers and a narcissistic step father who casts a shadow everything having to do with my family of origin. I want to maintain a relationship with mother and nephews and nieces which means no contact won’t work to those ends. These strategies and tactics hit the spot.
Demestic advocates deal with all women not with men there is no support when the man is married to a narcissist woman and she is using the demestic advocate and all the resources using them to make the man look bad that woman using the system ( Rebecca you said that yes there are resources for the women yes ) but none for the man being the victim of the woman narc that goes and uses the system to use as her flying monkeys and courts and lawyers
Where is that support for that man ?
@@ericbelcher2452 The Professor in Psychology Sam Vaknin, who's diagnosed Malignant Narcissist, told that serial killers and child molesters are Narcissists. JazzyT.
A narcissist doesn’t respect themselves so they will never respect others period.
Respect me. I am a mother of a narcissist.
@@lori7828 That's a narcissistic comment.
She means fear you
@@lori7828 me too? He is 56 and I finally called him out. He blocked me. Oh well. God is in control
Thank you 💯
The only way to make a narcissist feel respect you, is to get them out of your life and find someone else who is healthy and will respect you.
yes!
That still doesn't work...
At least not for everyone
@@adib.72 some people are stuck with family members that are narcissistic, I hope they can someday get out of their situation though. I guess I meant relationships or friendships with a narcissist can be avoided.
The best revenge on a Narcissist,is to live your best life without them. JazzyT.
Walking away is the only way any toxic individual will respect you 💯
Thank you! DONE!!!
Right, but this woman here stressed so much to encourage people to try hard to earn narcissists respect, is it worth it from such people? Definitely not, best way is to walk away from them.
@@BinZiegler Yes walk away and earn their respect from a distance 💯
When you take your power back that also forces them to respect you.
When you take your power back they run like the cowards that they are and start the trash campaign against you. At this point who cares they can say whatever they want you are FREE.
I stopped putting up with his nonsense, that was when he respected me.
I'm dealing with this. I have taken control.
I did that. I took partial control on my financials, stopped being manipulated by sex and he affection. She lost all control over me. Affection money and sex. She filed for divorce a month later after 18 years of marriage. That was her last weapon and I feel free.
I don't require a narcissists respect. They need to get over themselves!
Yep
They won't get over themselves.
@@FullCircleTravis even if they trip over. It's always some eles fault ..
@@stevensgirl85
This isn't often explained well, but the reason people are narcs is because their reality is their identity.
Typically, people create their identity by relating their ego to their perception of reality, or vise versa. Without this relation by separation, ego and reality merge to form identity.
This is why they seek to control their reality, including other people, because they need reality to align with their idealized image. When everything goes well, they attribute it to their power over reality. When it goes wrong, it's an external force. This is why mistakes and failures are always someone else's fault.
@@FullCircleTravis nope
I was with my narcissist wife and always wanted to please her but now I understand that she can’t be satisfied so I run go no contact and never look back. Happy 5 months now
1 year 6 months no contact! keep going 💪🏼
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me. 6 months and no contact. I know that pisses him off if i simply ignore him. God know what's next... I will see his true colour soon, he may even hire a lawyer
Just had my eyes wide opened from childhood to now narcissist trauma is cruel and as if unstoppable when you are blinded by them😢
@@olyabrenner3590 blinded no more ❤️
NARCISSIST DON'T RESPECT!! They admire but that admiration turns into jealousy, competitiveness and hate. They may back down from all she is sharing but they dont respect.
Spot On!
True
So true
I totally agree with this comment 🙏🏾😇💖
@@luvonewillis1622 Thank you xoxo
I’m taking back my power. I’m independent, no longer emotionally controlled, or financially. I’m claiming my freedom, going to start going to the gym, taking care of myself, I have my own bank account. Fearlessly moving forward.
Good for you!
That's amazing 👏 I've been married to one for 15yrs he didn't show the real him till 3 years later, after I married him! He is something That I've NEVER dealt with the domestic and mental abuse is insane!!😢 Then he wanted me to stay home take care of him and the house never ended up having children, he hasn't even tried to touch me in 13yrs 😢 so financially I'm stuck or lose everything and go to a shelter. I'm a only child/ sibling so have NO FAMILY how did you do it? How did you just move on I'm seriously asking please help me out and tell me? 😢Thank you and Bless you 🙏
@@shannonbrowe3870Because you didn't put God first here you are! We All must go through the Storms to get to the other side .you have to step out with Faith and Believe God you going to be Alright.. because you will with God.myou have to know and Believe..Leave immediately! Go to the Shelter..Go there are people that will help you with jobs..housing and such....Leave..go through the Storm..on the other side is Calm..and Peace..this is how many had to do .don't be dependent on material things..God will bless you 10xs more than you ever had with the Narcissist aka Demon..I hope you know that! Prayers to you🙏....Do!
They “respect” those they are afraid of, like bosses or their toxic parents who molded them to be who they are
My ex husband's mother was an ugly, bully narcissist. She ruined him and his older brother. Now they hate and humiliate women that they love and abandon. They have split personalities. Mother in law was so jealous, she sabotaged their wives and phony loved them at breakups so they forgot how the witch abused & manipulated their whole lives. She probably didn't go to Heaven.
@kathrynknopf140 my ex mother inlaw did same to me, ruined our relationship, then after see how my ex was covert narcissist too just like her mom, so I guess it worked out lol then shes going back to her ex husband of whom she said raped her and beat her, her whole marriage, and said he raped her for her last 3 out of 4 kids, which he is worst narcissist ever met,and stalks me, harasses me,calls and threatens from spoof numbers, etc.... they made for each other if she chooses that over me(hes 400 lb loser that brags about making over 100k, yet is in much debt and cant even pay bills)
Insecure, Envy, Hate blind them forever. They never satisfy, respect noone, & never feel true love. Don't waste time to hate. Be happy you found back self-love
I am not interested in the narcissist's respect! I don't need it!
Amen!!
Me either because I'll get respect other places...You cannot break me..
@@hopefaithandlove6236 exactly. Seeking respect from a narcissist is counterproductive. It heals what? Narcissist typically can't relate to respect including self-respect. Best to complete accept what was was and what is is. I rather count my blessings that I am no longer in that relationship...with or without their respect...and I stand on the pedestal of MY self-respect and dignity. WOW a true celebration
@@francesrodriguez4140 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Right, I don’t care whether they respect me or not. Their respect isn’t long lasting anyway.
A narcissist's respect? Don't waste a second of your life on that.
Fr
Exactly u can’t do anything to cause any pain they have no empathy’s it’s best to go no contact and act like they don’t exist
Exactly...they will never allow their victim to be in control. Just get the hec out of the insanity..playing their game is exhaustive.
Exactly. Narc ecomes aware of a boundary? They will run, drive, step right over it. And chance is, cops and court will have no issues. Never met a boundary they respected.
@@cathycoryell2351 they ghost you & pretend that’s their boundary💀super childish
Don't Ever give them the idea that you are intimidated by them. Stand Up to them! They will abuse you even more if you cave to their abuse. That would be the worst you should do. It will shock them to see someone confronting them. But watch out, they may start raging and losing their mind.
It LITERALLY does NOT matter that we get ANYONE'S "RESPECT." RESPECTING OURSELVES IS ALLLLLLLL THAT MATTERS. Narcissists & EVERYONE 'S "opinions" ON THE PLANET MEANS NOTHING. "GET YOUR POWER-BACK" & LEAVE the REST IN THE DUST. Think about ANYONE in your past...who were negative, hurtful...WHERE ARE THEIR "OPINIONS" NOWWWWWWWW???🤔🤔🤔NO WHERE. They literally are IN THE PAST. EXACTLY WHERE THEY BELONG. AMENNNN🙏❣
Why would you want to keep them?
I'm the daughter of a raging, abusive alcoholic. And the younger sister of his perfect Golden Child.
For those of us who grew up with people who are highly narcissistic, we struggle every single day. We aren't allowed to say, "No." We have endured a lifetime of rages and abuse. Our lives are an emotional roller-coaster.
We have HAD to endure them.
But, if they just come in to your life...
Get away from them.
If you marry one, you will destroy your life and your children's lives.
You will cease to exist.
Your children will most likely grow up to be narcissistic or codependent.
Get out.
They can be super fun. They are very dramatic. They will fool you in to thinking that they are great people.
But, get close and they will eat you up and spit you out, then eat you up again and spit you out...over and over and over.
Two words “no contact”
Exactly
Grey rock 🪨
Jay Reid has good videos about the Scapegoat child! JazzyT, Scapegoat of two Narc's.
💯‼️
Left them far behind, brushed their dust from my feet. I stayed 32 years. Now 76, never feel more free. They are deceased, left me with a forged home equity loan in my name. A real Christian piece of cake!
Everything dealing with narcissistic people is like casting out demons
That’s accurate.
It sure is…😆💕
Rebecca: You are a fierce warrior against narcissist bullies. I would hate to be a narcissist who crosses your path. No grey rock here, it's full on, full scale physiological warfare. (I'm beginning to believe that's the only thing that works with some narcissists...some times it feels like I'm dealing with the devil.)
Exactly. And they are devils
They are demons 👿👿👿👿 I had so many in my life. Just recently blocked ( walked away) the last of them.
Listening to videos like these had definitely helped me understand them. Thank you for everyone's comments.😘😘😘
Thank you for this channel 🙏🙏❤
Here it is respect me
Jesus Christ told me that Lucifer was the first narcissist, I ask Jesus how's that? He said Because he wants Father's throne. Jesus said that the key is don't feel sorry for them because that's how they devour your Sacred Heart. Jesus is the Way the Truth and the Life Amen 💝
I don't understand number 2: do you have to continue to adulate them?
My son is my narcissist, and he is vile. He's stolen thousands from me. I seriously hate him. The gaslighting is the worst. I don't see him anymore, thank the Lord.
Be careful.
I am a superempath . I remain an unsolved mistery to the narcissists. I just wait in patience for them to self-destruct. They are fragile inside but still they can course a lot of chaos and damages if you let them under your skin. Don't you ever let them under your skin. You and only you, belong under your own skin. This place is already taken by you. Keep up your spirit. Be the unsolved mistery to the narcissists 🙏❤
Wow! That was a powerful and almost hypnotically true comment! 💪🏼”🫡”
👌🏼👍🏼💪🏼🫡
A true empath doesn’t want to see anyone self destruct. Please stop throwing that word around. People like you make it meaningless.
Carmen, I know Empaths. And a super Empath. And you sound like the real thing to me.
And the power of girls like you feels like a gentle stream in a rainforest.
But from experience I know that it is more powerful than the storm like power of the girl that says she’s a super Empath.
The only way to deal with a narcissist is to discard them before they betray or belittle or discard you
The fact is that they will never respect anyone. Respect is that word they don't like and carefully avoid feeling respect toward anyone
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I'm still gonna do my thing without there respect
The best way is not to have any relationship with a narcissist person. But once in, make sure you don’t kill your self trying to please them, set a boundary; your No must be No, yes must be yes, no compromise. Never be shy, afraid of them.
But what if they are super abusive I'm waiting for a room at the shelter for abused women. I'm a only sibling have no family, came up to N.Y. From Florida to be with him 😢been together 15yrs he's so abusive but the mental is worst of all and the control over me 😢in every way! It's just been financially that I stayed I Was really hurt for the past 6yrs my Uber driver got me in a major car accident 😪 but now I'm better just looking for a job. But I'm terrified of him!
I have just learnt my mother is a narcissist! I have learned that the silent treatment works wonderfully.
How to do it
It does. My wife is extremely narcissistic and I have learned the silent treatment brings on love bombing that I NO LONGER FALL FOR. I don't return the "I love you" either. I just listen and in my head say " same shit, different day. These videos helped me navigate through the waters. Thank God I work 54 hrs and my commute is 35 minutes each way.
Better to forget about them , don't talk about them, forget, forget....😊
The only respect I need is for them to just leave me alone. 💯
I have to share that after 10 years being completely kidnapped by a sadistic, evil power and control junkie, you have helped me immensely. I have listened for the past year of NC and used your techniques. You are one of the best. Thank you
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The Narcissist cannot respect the family member or colleague for a reason. Narcissists do not have empathy, they need attention, be served the way they want it, have people around to follow their commands, follow their own rules and they need people around having some status ( work, power, money) or be somehow useful for them. These are criterias you need to fulfil to be accepted by the narcissist. It applies to any sexual supply or any worker.Once you are used, abused and no more needed to gain something from you, you will be discarded.
Hi. Thank you for this. It was one of the few vids that I found helpful. My husband recently abandoned me after caring for him for the past year (4 back surgeries). It's been the most peaceful time I have had in 10 years. I am focusing on myself and my walk with the Lord. I am scared but I am facing it head on. Yes, he has left a trail of destruction in his life.
I single got my RV back on the road and preparing to travel in it. I am looking forward to my Self again.
Not interested in their respect and power plays , my power is simply being myself, and if that's not good enough ...kick rocks!
Everything you said absolutely works!!
I stumbled across all of these "laws" by accident and started to notice a dynamic shift. It took me 10 months and there were some very difficult times during my journey but now that I'm on the other side I feel so empowered. Not in a narcissistic way but just a feeling of unstoppable confidence and peace of mind.
I never knew anything about this Narc tendencies or Narc personality. I left my ex for 15 years and in 2022 he hoovered me back. This time i put firm boundaries and closed my legs tight and decided to date him (collect data about him). Like a light bulb moment it clicked that the reason it never worked 15 years ago is because the devil is actually a Narc. Only when i closed my legs and observed him did they show who they were and this time the rose colored glasses were off and i was objectively observing them. After dating platonically for a year i had collected enough data and i WALKED AWAY. Two magical words that are like crytonite to a Narc.
I hate to admit it but my brain is still spinning from having just discovered I was allowing her to treat me like crap , tear me down, doubt my sanity, I don't understand why I'm in pain when I should be glad,,,?
Just walk away!!
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For 28 years married with this guy I’m sure he’s narcissistic. But I’m ready to be in control for my self.my 3 boys they are grown up right now I’m ready to start thinking about my own future.
Omg I went to the doctor yesterday my blood pressure was up to 210/100 they wanted me to go to the emergency room said I was at stroke stage when I told him he brushed it off like he did not Care
you must practice intense self care and at same time stay at disengaged level with that narky
I had that happen on Wednesday. I had to go to the hospital as well, told him and he said nothing, then proceeded to start a huge fight.. im learning more and everyday. I hope you are doing better now. Stay 💪
How you dealing with it?
I fully understand
Sadly, they really don't care. Demons doesn't have the ability to empathize.
After many,many years of training myself to be involved but emotionally detached I am finally HAPPILY,confidently in control.
Thank you life🙏
A narcissist will never respect you. Thats an integral part of narcissism. Study up.
Life is hard enough, without the added suffering caused by narcs.
"Respect me" "I'm in control" "Just walk away" "Yes"
Are those things in quotations? What us non narcissist should be saying to ourselves. Or is that what the narcissist says? And you're saying run away l o l that came off is confusing
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Did 11 yrs hard time!! I left, he rephrased that one. I found that funny. What a plastic ppl.
Pray for them they sick 🙏🙌
I don't hate her. I pray that she lives a normal life.. never satisfied.. I had to face problem but that's fine.. I can take care of myself.. she has no good friends to sit with and talk to feel better. I find her family members dumb, they can never figure out the issue..
I am now in control of myself after 6year relationship, and taking control of our relationship. I am more than worthy of respect
Just love your content rebecca. I love the fact that we have the power to take back Our independence. My boyfriend is a narcissist. The closer I get to him. The more he runs away. However, He chases back when I ignore him. Sometimes it's like dealing with a fifteen year old
I give them a smile that shows my inner peace and happiness yet fix my unwavering gaze on their pupils with narrowed eyes gradually widening my glare with an expression in my eyes that says, "I know who you are because I am just like you only TEN TIMES WORSE. Makes her look down and away every time.
Yes, fake being kind and naiv but my eyes and actions tell the opposite. It works to confuse them. No narcissist ever reads me and my genuine thoughts again. That makes them feel very uncomfortable and cowards as they are they step back and look for others who are easier to read.
ALLLLLLL of those people out there who ARE currently struggling over what OTHERS think & say...I hope you learn YOUR strength as well on YOUR path FOR YOU IN YOUR journey of self-discovery❣Each & EVERY ONE of us WILL find our strength...just KEEP ON YOUR PATH & YOU WILL DEFINITELY FIND THE BEST OF WHO YOU ARE!!!❣❣❣I'm in my 50's. It literally has taken me over 10 years of VERY SLOW, TEADOUS & TREACHEROUS "WORK" of LEARNING "WHY I DO, WHAT I DO." I NEVER thought there was hope for me. I had NO "guidance"... & my "journey", like yours, has JUST BEGUN❣❣AMEN TO ALLLLL OF OF HIGHER-POWERS🙏❣
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I'm feeling more in control (we've separated months ago) but he knows I need money to take care of our disabled son... he refuses to pay me. He says "I've paid for everything for 20 years) So he makes really good money and pays very little out living in a long term stay hotel. He left me wth a 3/2 new condo and a hefty monthly payment. But.... I've stopped asking him for anything! He tries to bring us food & meals all the time but I politely tell him "that looks wonderful, but we're fine thank you" I depend on him for nothing and I take care of all OUR bills and child care and I do not work yet but I refuse to beg him. I'll figure it out but I'm the meantime I feel SO GREAT!!!
My ex narc friend has an interesting personality in that she likes to try make me squirm when she gets annoyed at me over something and then acts like she's the mature adult.
I don't remember the argument anymore but I remember that instead of letting me have a say in it, she would end the conversation for a few days and then shows up acting like an adult parent with, "did you calm down now?" And I'm just thinking there like, shes the one who had a tantrum and wouldn't even let me have a say! I wasn't really interested in arguing so I just moved on from that argument.
Or, I told her how uncomfortable I was about my previous close friend just inviting another person to her place on the days I was going to visit her because then they would constantly interact with each other while I'm sitting there quietly questioning myself why did I took the time and spend all that money to even go there to visit her? And then she would do the same after the tickets were already bought! Was this situation any better? Maybe, if you are okay being the only person unable talking in other foreign language like they kept doing for example... I didn't even have any connection with her friend.
I did eventually forced myself to cut all contact with her because she tried to triangulate me with her new friend that she was spending all her time with for a year while hardly having any normal conversation with me. I just felt more miserable after having a one sided chat with this bread crumbling very aware leach and when I decided that I would distance myself away from her to detox, because her behavior was making a mental mess out of me, she went around telling people that I am jealous of her having a better life now than me and that shes popular with her new fans...... she did not even think of that I was helping her to get noticed and successful and that I was always supporting her in having more friends though.
I would often feel like I'm dealing with a child that has silently constant tantrums and wants to act like an adult parent while smirking when she thinks she has the upper hand or god forbid, control over situations.
And when she thinks she got me squirming, knows shes doing something wrong, she then even double downs on that behavior to try get a reaction out of me.
But unlike her, I gave her a chance to do better, I saw how it only was going worse and that she wasn't willing to do better, so I simply respected that this is what she is and that I don't want that in my life...
Cutting all contact with her was the best decision I have made
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Respect me, I am in control. I am not afraid of narcissists.
That’s the best thing
Live your own life, don’t speak to them unless it’s really important
Have your. Own life, if you get a divorce your life will be really hard and they will meet someone else in a minute, most women who get divorced are in a worst situation
Yes, this is right. 👍
" JUST BE TRUE TO YOU & STAND UP FOR YOURSELF WHEN NEED BE " , IT'S JUST THAT SIMPLE IN MY BOOK😐😐😃😃
Just walked away. Glad I did.
I am bullied now because I say no and mean it 😢 I used to be a doormat but now i don't let people use me for their own gain now I'm bullied .. ❤from Australia 🇦🇺
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Surely there will be scenarios wherein if we are in a good place, as an individual, we won't need to concern ourselves with winning or maintaining respect from a narcissist !!
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I just walked away! No weapons formed against me from a narcissist we never prosper ❤
1:10:40 My mother, the narcissist. Im done!!... this is finally over, Im taking back my control....thank you for this video 🙏🏽
I'm in control!! 6 months ago the relationship ended with my kids mom. How nasty she's been. Thank you for all the information you put out there it's been helpful
The women narcissist I was dating wanted me to sell my house and move to Santa Rosa, CA. That is what gave me control until she realized it wasn't going to happen. In the beginning, I didn't know she was that way.
Wow! This video was DIAMOND Level! This is why I come here to your videos Rebecca! You've got it and you know how to deliver! Your information is easy to understand and digest and see the path forward.
I WANT TO BE RESPECTED AND VALUED!
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Thxs 4 your AUTHENTIC INFO ... JUST WALKED AWAY AFTER 9 MONTHS OF SITUATIONSHIP, TOXICITY & DEMONIC SPIRITS ... I KNOW THAT I WON 👍🏽
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They will be forced to respect you by saying NO.
Kate nailed it. My core has been ripped right from my chest through my broken heart.I need my core back.
I'm in control..you ROCK GIRL🎉
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I got this information on file, and will replay when I need be encoraged I'm doing the "okay" things or decisions I need to do on my own! ..growing in confidence !
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You have to add, only if you want to keep them around. That involves changing yourself to keep them around. Just knòw your value and keep it moving. A narc can Respect the dust that kicks up when you walk away.
God created us to be an individual. Not a narc pleaser.
I have been listening to your podcast here on UA-cam for quite sometime. Your advice and experience regarding narcisstic personality types has empowered me in dealing with my boyfriends ex wife. They are still in the pangs of a high conflict High profile DIVORCE. He doesn't not listen to these wonderful casts. He has decided to let me deal with her and in order to keep leverage I MUST listen to your channel. He has a terrible seperation agreement because the mediator was heavily manipulated ( I'm guessing) and I don't have a lot of moving around area. Thank you for your wonderful channel. I appreciate you and I absolutely would recommend all divorce attorney's or litigators take the time to listen to you. Keep up your positivity and exhortations!! I am one person who finds it priceless
A covert narcissist who was trying to reconnect with me after his wife left him tried to test me recently & got cut off & blocked in 60 days while he was still trying to figure me out & plan a strategy to trap me. His plan didn't work! 😢 Got his walking papers!
I noticed after i told a few of them at work you must be real insecure to be worried about another man plus im not intimidated by any of you. I noticed that caused a shift of them to back off a little bit more at work. They still bully but i smile and laugh at them when they do. I also started bumping into them when they would crowd me at work and they stopped crowding me after doing that a few times.v
Excellent and uplifting! Thank you and God bless you!!!
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YOU GUYS ARE BEAUTIFUL!!! THANK YOU!!! AWESOME!! I LOVE THIS!! I HAVE TAKEN BACK MY POWER AND I DO NOT WANT ANY WEEDS IN MY GARDEN ANY MORE, I LOVE THIS !!!!!!!!
I'm in control now and working on 100% thank you for your help
They want you totally dependent. Total control.
As I awake this morning exhausted from dealing with an in law I work with 1.5 hours away but who messes with my job...and psyche....I'm thonking of you. Rebbecca the Narcissist Wrestler.
Thank you Rebecca!
All you said has been very helpful for me!
Above all I appreciate your advise about preserving the freedom!
I was very lucky to be financially independent and able to say NO to my narcissist. When I discovered that he took my Mooney based on a power of attorney I just trace him out of my house!
All what you are saying is very acceptable under the condition to be financially independent.
I am now IN CONTROL!!!
I helped myself with your support!
Thank you very much!!
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Surprisingly, now when I am having tough time at work, my confidence has increased tremendously! I love my boundaries! Oh boy that I love them - and I created them finally in this place because otherwise, I’d be beaten down to the bottom.
Narcissist never really respect you.
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I’m stuck in a narcissistic relationship right now. It is like being stuck in tar. 3 months in and it’s like being sucked into a sinkhole or pulled into a water funnel to drown in their toxic arguments with fictional narratives. Looking for an exit plan. No matter how many videos I watch the path forward has so many options in words, actions and plans that it is almost immobilizing. Yes, true… Independence and authenticity is key! God help me! 🙏. God help anyone enduring the psychological terrorism that is Narcissism 🙏. Just walk away!
So these personalities are also in the work environment. A supervisor, employer, co worker. Took me years and cutting ties to realize this.
If someone your dating isn't your biggest fan run away!!! 😊
lol! I used to love that kind of attention but it surely is a red flag. Who the fuck am I to be adored for no reason?
@@johnpaulsawan1990 if someone truly loves you they will adore you...I love a guy that doesn't love me back....I adore him....he prob thinks like you do ..he is missing out on an amazing woman who adores him.....I love his feet, hair, eyes, body, hands, breathe, every part of him...because that is what true love Does...
Taking notes. Thank you so much! Super true.,..I AM IN CONTROL
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Rebecca 💕yes I have started to distance myself from there toxicity. I am never letting them taking my soul I am going in a different direction with myself🙏
Keeping my independence and tegrity. and faith with healthy people who have empathy 🙏❤️
I have an older narcissistic sister who was a VP for a large company at one time. I have a job that is not as prestigious, but I know my job inside and out and have to have a lot of knowledge of medical terminology and other strict guidelines for coding procedures. I always feel like my sister feels like I am beneath her.
So what. Who cares what SHE feels?
I see what you're talking about with your older sister it's sad when you have siblings I think they're better than you are because of their jobs or because of their positions most of all stand true to yourself
If you where the Scapegoat child,Dr Jay Reid has good videos about it. JazzyT, Scapegoat of two Narc's.
@@sylviaduncan6663I could & should write a book about older siblings, this subject is not covered enough, don't you think? Usually the narcissist topics covers a husband & wife, boss or friend situation. How much older is your sister, and at what age did she start? It's probably been a behavior from the start? I'm 70 and my siblings are 78 & 80, it truly never ends, just gets worse with age.
I am totally uncontrollable ❤❤❤❤❤
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Thanks for all the wonderful help. Married but taking steps to put my self first.
Sadly, didn't realize this is what I've been going through for many. It was hard. It took me the last 3 years to tell myself I've had enough. I totally agree with all of this. I have been standing on my ish!
YES!
Whenever co-workers try to bait me with juicy gossip I just say hmm 🤔
Or say, "oook..." in kind of a sarcastic tone. It just shows them that the gossip is meaningless, especially if it's about you and they are trying to get a rise out of you.
You know when they respect you because they will never approach you alone always with a flying monkey ! Abs the other sign is they spend a lot of time watching you and studying everyone your talking too while looking uncomfortable! I’ve tested it over and over and it definitely keeps this narc guessing about me and standing trying to work me out! Just don’t be predictable and definitely don’t react to anything not a thing no smiles or grinning etc ! Non reactive and you will see that narc twitching in the corner with ants in their pants 😂😂😂😂 it’s quite amusing !
Tricky Rebecca. I watched until
the end. Thank you. It was
illuminating
Thank you Rebecca for actually helping me to gain understanding .
We been fighting for days sleeping in different rooms and it's getting really bad kinda hope he doesn't do something to hurt me I want to move but I have no support and not going back to a shelter
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My marriage the same we fight off and on sleep in different places it’s bad . Have a grown adult son on autism spectrum. I feel like I want to move to just don’t feel like I have no where to go near me. Would have to move out of state to get the support and help I need. Can relate to you being in the situation and feeling alone. No that feeling well
It's hard for me to join your webinar live as the narc in my life keeps checking to see what I'm watching or doing. I'm making plans to leave but have a few more months before I can do that. I'm trying to stay calm and not let him get to me but each day is very hard.
❤❤❤ I’m in control, walked away ..and I feel so relieved. Thank you
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I have learned how to do this finally after8 years. I see clearly what he can and can’t give, and it has worked out very well. Nothing deep. Not sure how long I will stay, but life with him right now I’d doable because of all these things Rebecca has said,
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I thought leaving him it would be over but . But it takes years to heal
Finding out about why I am attracted yet I had so much self clearing from programming
I don't think this works is the narc is your highly abusive parent
Distance yourself from their madness.. period
If it’s not done their way, it’s the wrong way. Exhausting!!!
When I found out what she was all about, I would not let her get by with stuff. She caught me at a time when my daughter had been murdered. She is a liar. When I called her out on these lies, she blocked me and started her smear campaign.
How awful. I am so sorry. Yes, they know to strike when you are already down don't they. I'm so sorry for your loss.
@@jameystone2650 yes they do. Thank you
That is so true that's the time that they mostly do knock you down is when you are already down they love to see you even go down further to where it almost kills you
Thank you, Rebecca. Your expertise and advice is invaluable.
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