Why Women Run Game, Play Games, Chase The Men Who Don't Want Them? With Esso & Guest Armani

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  • Опубліковано 13 бер 2022
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  • @trudy-anndurrant265
    @trudy-anndurrant265 2 роки тому +14

    She not so bad... knows a thing or two and will learn more as she goes along life journey....Esso asking some real tough but realistic questions

  • @danielazih686
    @danielazih686 2 роки тому +23

    Esso and Rico keeping the show lit, nice intelligent questioning Esso

  • @Slim545
    @Slim545 2 роки тому +24

    If it wasn’t for esso and Rico these woman will continue to come on here capping bullshit

  • @Babanla420
    @Babanla420 2 роки тому +8

    😂😂 the way she answered that friend zone question tells me she has a lot of guys doing dumb $hit for her.

  • @chicky4444
    @chicky4444 2 роки тому +4

    Everything he's saying is 💯🎯

  • @fellowamerican7923
    @fellowamerican7923 2 роки тому +3

    She still wanna have fun & stay in the mix - she wants a fan, her exact words! She’s for the S T R E E T S

  • @houseofmatrix6174
    @houseofmatrix6174 2 роки тому +3

    Esso was giving her game hope she took in

  • @AyeYoQ
    @AyeYoQ 2 роки тому +9

    I gotta agree with Esso… she is bugging

  • @baldwinstephone
    @baldwinstephone 2 роки тому +13

    Esso knows what time it is! She clearly is saying with out saying it …. She wants what SHE WANTS and wants to do what SHE WANTS with no one telling her otherwise!!! Relationships don’t work like that and I bet her exs cousins told him to stay away from her because of x reasons and look at the result!!! She needs to grow up but, I hope it’s before it’s too late

    • @armanirich3422
      @armanirich3422 2 роки тому +1

      Didn’t say that but ok

    • @baldwinstephone
      @baldwinstephone 2 роки тому +3

      @@armanirich3422 You DIDN’T say ALOT that made sense to be honest!

  • @drummerboi74136
    @drummerboi74136 2 роки тому +1

    YES IM GONNA DIP AND YOU WON'T HEAR FROM ME EVER LOL

  • @King-ru9ve
    @King-ru9ve Рік тому

    Esso did his thing word up

  • @briamonyae1396
    @briamonyae1396 2 роки тому +1

    She right👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @mgalantw
    @mgalantw 2 роки тому

    Thata was a good convo

  • @MellyMel715
    @MellyMel715 2 роки тому +13

    Women say they WANT something but Actions be different

  • @chicky4444
    @chicky4444 2 роки тому

    Break DAH BABY MOMMA Situation DOWNNNN my man 🎯

  • @TAHJ1987
    @TAHJ1987 2 роки тому +4

    Great interview...shout Esso...you a real one bro..that holds it down from all perspectives...I'll say I enjoyed listening to Arnani....I'm give her some credit...she is super young..so she kinda acts how I would expect a woman her age would...I like her better than Dani and Holidae for sure... obviously there is some lack of accountability on her apart that is going on..and she sees nothing that she did wrong...standard procedure...but my guess is that she being a young woman with no kids didn't need to be dating a man with a kid and all that comes with it...it's no different then us single men with no kids trying to dating single moms...99 percent of the time..it's just a bad fit.....maybe I'm wrong..but I think she wants to go on vacations. Turn up..enjoy herself as she should ..not go to PTA meetings.and play house..and I would rather she just said that than than he just up and left one day after 2 years

  • @shomarimonroe150
    @shomarimonroe150 2 роки тому

    Fantastic video

  • @21215sheek
    @21215sheek 2 роки тому

    You can tell she's young saying, " If noone else is checking for your girl, get another one".

  • @davidlouis1298
    @davidlouis1298 2 роки тому +3

    These women need to stop thinking that guys are mind readers. Then get mad and say why doesn’t he know what i want even though i never told him. He should just know this. 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @briamonyae1396
    @briamonyae1396 2 роки тому

    I’m over here getting flashbacks 😂 getting tight

  • @u.f.a.6576
    @u.f.a.6576 2 роки тому +3

    I love watching this content it keeps me motivated to keep buying 😺 you don't have to go through none of this Bs she rapping about just peal back money 🤑 and drop em 👖

  • @sfreeman417
    @sfreeman417 2 роки тому +1

    Great topic...Wow, men want women to chase them down and do the most...🤔 It doesn't sit right in my soul. I just can't be that woman unless I'm receiving that same type of energy.

    • @momoney3906
      @momoney3906 2 роки тому

      Woman must compete for certain types of men. They just don't want to accept this fact.

    • @DirXRoloMusicVids
      @DirXRoloMusicVids 2 роки тому

      Lol

    • @chloestewart1902
      @chloestewart1902 2 роки тому

      Yeaaaa, what type of feminine ish is that? I guess thats why im single

  • @deenlife6151
    @deenlife6151 2 роки тому

    Where's the rest of the cast tho

  • @biggmixxo
    @biggmixxo 2 роки тому

    Dope show 🙌. But games will get u games or left alone young lady.

  • @96Views
    @96Views 2 роки тому +7

    Be by urself then, men don’t care if u don’t trust them looool

  • @annadavis3641
    @annadavis3641 2 роки тому

    💕💕💕

  • @leewilson2694
    @leewilson2694 2 роки тому +1

    There is something she's not saying something does she's hiding she's not being all the way truthful beautiful you can tell You can't expect to get help if you're not truthful you can't expect to get the right information if you're not truthful But that's what society does not rate we lie I'm being sneaky That's what the world does

  • @davidbell9095
    @davidbell9095 2 роки тому +1

    These young girls are crazy 🤪

  • @chrisprescott8625
    @chrisprescott8625 2 роки тому +3

    Shawty for da streets! She don't know if she want to be an option or the top pick! That's because she want the dude who got the bag

  • @2020TYBO
    @2020TYBO 2 роки тому +3

    I DON'T AGREE WITH THAT HOOD MENTALITY OF 'IF NOBODY WANTS YOU, GET SOMEBODY EVERYBODY WANTS'..
    THAT'S TYPE CHILDISH..GET WITH WHAT WORKS FOR YOU, FUKK WHAT ANYBODY ELSE WANTS..

  • @blackchairman2271
    @blackchairman2271 2 роки тому +1

    She has the leverage right now because she is at her peak in the sexual market place. She said it her self this generation a few times. She using the playbook like every other modern women is using. She reminds me of lori harvey and got that same features as well. Only different is that lori harvey is a celebrity and armani is not. If she every became a celebrity or in that tax bracket. she will act the same. esso always spits the facts for the most part. he has the experience since he is older and been around the block.

  • @briamonyae1396
    @briamonyae1396 2 роки тому

    Yooooooo 😂

  • @indigobeauty1
    @indigobeauty1 2 роки тому

    This was nice but I think Oliver would have been a better match for this conversation.

  • @drummerboi74136
    @drummerboi74136 2 роки тому

    MOVE ON NEXT GUEST WHERES BAMBI LOL

  • @nicknak8375
    @nicknak8375 2 роки тому +1

    ESSO thats was fire loved it… she and the other dude wasnt fit she just made him look lika a weak agreeable man that cant even hold his own. Good job with her bro see this is what alpha looks like.

  • @riekflair22
    @riekflair22 2 роки тому

    28:05

  • @igorngatchou7637
    @igorngatchou7637 2 роки тому +1

    Some of these comments are sad. Esso is trynna help this young lady out and y’all are encouraging the ignorance. This is why your father is important, cuz he could have thought her all this early

  • @Hi-jx5oe
    @Hi-jx5oe 2 роки тому +2

    Yes I agree move smart but find a solution early on because women be jealous

  • @authentic76
    @authentic76 2 роки тому +1

    Shorty's clearly young and inexperienced in the game. Esso was dropping jewels and she wasn't getting it.

  • @antionelane1727
    @antionelane1727 2 роки тому

    Esso for the win again. She said she wanted honesty but she don’t want to know?????????? Huh???????

  • @donneopepe
    @donneopepe 2 роки тому +1

    These young women are lost and it's so sad, the next generation of men are in big trouble!

  • @shadowlee02
    @shadowlee02 2 роки тому +1

    Women don't know wtf they want. Gotta thank Esso for confirming it for us lol. Women too damn complicated.

  • @dashleysaint-fleur8409
    @dashleysaint-fleur8409 2 роки тому

    Armani was right as fuck when she said you can tell what a guy do for a living just by the way he texts. Esso you probably letting yourself get played 😓 but shoutout to Armani for handling this interview with such high demeanor. I was just so uncomfortable with the way he gave you hypocthetical situations ( look at the way the man acted about “ whipping his 6 inch out but she wanted it to be 11 “ something like that ) . I understand he was being assertive about the scenarios bc this is his job but as his WIFE *bc yes he said he was married…never would’ve guessed * I would’ve been so mad at him. On some real shit that would make me feel so insecure about myself, especially if I don’t look like her. Why are you calling her a beautiful women or saying “ men don’t leave pretty women who look like this “ , licking his lips 👄 every chance he gets , BARELY looking at the camera ( Armani kept that up very well ) . Because at the end of the day Esso gave “ I’m asking for a friend “ but really asking for yourself and that’s disrespectful and disgusting. BUT HEY very good episode.🤘🏾❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥Taking into consideration everything Armani said … bc I get it *even if Esso made it seem like you was talking nonsense at times*

  • @MrD-tu3hp
    @MrD-tu3hp 2 роки тому

    This young lady is very dilution

  • @Shayshayboston1
    @Shayshayboston1 2 роки тому +1

    That's worse then cheating...just up and leave

  • @emekaobi488
    @emekaobi488 2 роки тому

    Esso, pls, what's your guest Instagram Acc.

  • @desmondlewis4860
    @desmondlewis4860 2 роки тому +1

    The girl is pretty immature. She contradicted herself several times in this interview. It took her 20-25 minutes to say why they broke up then she said what it really was. She a party girl and he wasn't supportive of it.

  • @moneyman8777
    @moneyman8777 2 роки тому

    He should’ve asked her would she accept a man at his worst

  • @KingSando2200
    @KingSando2200 Місяць тому

    This chick a straight up bird brain🤦🏾‍♂️😂

  • @chloestewart1902
    @chloestewart1902 2 роки тому

    Do worry ladies, men have a shelf life too, that muscle mass dont last!!! Deflated balloons

  • @motorbreath22
    @motorbreath22 2 роки тому

    Do these people even hear themselves about how much they need just to keep them? Juice ain't worth the squeeze, Esso is making them sweat.

  • @1227weaverb
    @1227weaverb 2 роки тому +1

    Different women require different things. To say you should know how to treat a woman just because she’s a woman is ridiculous. Of course there’s basic chivalrous things but there’s other things.

  • @gusangel4927
    @gusangel4927 Рік тому

    😆🤣🤣😅😅😅 wtf ..

  • @thesacrificialsimp7165
    @thesacrificialsimp7165 2 роки тому

    She just said she want her cake and want to eat it too. She want a bad body boy and a good guy at the same time. Lmao. Guys, stay you. Keep your dignity or lose it and the woman eventually. Trust that.

  • @dannmoney
    @dannmoney Рік тому

    She wants be act single in a relationship 😂 want to do whatever and her man just deal with whatever that comes with what she’s doing. Take it to the chest King, you can handle her😭😭😭😭

  • @joannamonique707
    @joannamonique707 2 роки тому +2

    Yo men need to really understand cheating is a big deal for a woman. We understand it's not a big deal to yall but it's a HUGE deal to us. We're set up to pursue highly intimate connections and once you cheated you've broken a sacred bond with a woman. Yall keep telling us to submit to our nature and shit well our nature is to want a man to maintain the sacredness of the bond but nah yall dont want that nature you just want the cooking and cleaning part as if that is somehow nature and not a socially taught role 🤦🏾‍♀️ you can say it's not a big deal all day. The second you cheat the bond is broken and the woman is not gonna be half as loyal to you anymore. Hypergamy all the way on and you better not go broke. You don't have to like it. That's just the way we are and it's never gonna change. You break the bond it's pretty much a WRAP!! Cheating will never be no big deal to a woman. God just didn't wire us like that. You gotta problem with that then go see the Big Guy 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @blackchairman2271
      @blackchairman2271 2 роки тому

      Yea that only works with a guy with no options. men understand hypergamy esso and armani does to. a high value men does not have to worry about that. yea if a women is at her peak on the sexual market place she can commend that, with a guy with no options or broke. is cheating wrong possibly. women are born with value and men has to earn his value. why would settle down with a one women if he can have a buffet in the world. this is a globalize word lol lol. esp if he is a top tier white or black guy and esp if he is from a first world country. the world is our oyster. if you have problem with that, take it up with the Big Guy🙋‍♂

    • @joannamonique707
      @joannamonique707 2 роки тому

      @@blackchairman2271 which is why there's no point in taking a man seriously or committing to him at all unless you're incapable of taking care of yourself which is where girls like Holiday and Danny be coming from. A woman who wants faithfulness has no reason to entertain serious relationships with men. You aint said nothing new. We been knew. Which is why we demand the bag to even deal with yall. Our grannies and moms been telling us this shit since we was 5 sir.

    • @rodneyevans5353
      @rodneyevans5353 2 роки тому

      Amazing how many women openly and often create disloyalty in men, then demand fidelity. Women Playing games, giving bs answers to questions, nagging, trying to get him to level up,trying to control him and other actions scream disloyalty then women act like the man’s infidelity broke the bond.

    • @chosenchld8013
      @chosenchld8013 Рік тому +1

      Women cheats more than men

  • @AR-ye2rt
    @AR-ye2rt 2 роки тому +1

    She's young need to mature.✌🏾

  • @tgpwrh8645
    @tgpwrh8645 Рік тому

    31:47 Baby girl, didn’t you JUST say u shouldn’t have to tell a man how to treat you lol?
    But we gotta tell you…. 🤦🏾‍♂️😑

  • @501Caution
    @501Caution 2 роки тому

    She's delusional ass hell! Friend (Zone) me! You probably want to keep it pushing! Because you not going to get the (Upper hand)!

  • @leewilson2694
    @leewilson2694 2 роки тому

    That's his complete madness and being very difficult difficult how are you going to test somebody to act and when to act so a man can be vulnerable in the beginning but I guess 6 months later 2 years later he can be vulnerable that's stupid you're telling somebody how to act and you're telling someone how to feel

  • @doonkdidit6047
    @doonkdidit6047 2 роки тому

    She can’t keep it real. She playing games. Bro is going to always be just bro. If my side dude or main messing up and you talking good what’s up. SMH this is why we are confused.

  • @kay652
    @kay652 2 роки тому

    She’s got a lot to learn. Too bad she thinks she knows it all.

  • @thesacrificialsimp7165
    @thesacrificialsimp7165 2 роки тому

    She needs schooling. What they say,, "Young and Dumb. She really believes what she is saying. WOW.

    • @thesacrificialsimp7165
      @thesacrificialsimp7165 2 роки тому

      Guys, this young lady is giving you insight into the true mindset of the female. Like a child, she's showing us the truest nature of who they are. As she matures, she'll start to hide these traits and appear to be the perfect woman, when in actuality, her real nature is covered up. Learn guys.

  • @mocitykiddk7102
    @mocitykiddk7102 2 роки тому

    She can’t even answer the question straight forward we understand u don’t wanna put yo personal out there but stop lieing u cute but a dub I’m sorry answers don’t even match with reality she still in dream land

  • @chrisprescott8625
    @chrisprescott8625 2 роки тому

    She a walking contradiction

  • @izzy9646
    @izzy9646 2 роки тому +1

    “Women have a shelf life” Esso?? We’re not clementines or canned peaches. What a ridiculous notion. Shows how superficial your values are.

    • @nicknak8375
      @nicknak8375 2 роки тому +2

      Lol typical women talk without understanding listen but don’t learn hearing but still deaf.. you’re the reason why men don’t tell you the truth because you can’t handle the truth and the truth is women have a shelf life to the kinda man they want.

    • @oz70nyc50
      @oz70nyc50 2 роки тому +4

      As your prospects in men dry up over the next 5-10 years I hope you come to realization of just how dumb your comment here was. But let's be real, you'll just blame men as a whole rather than blaming your poor choices in the men you deal with.

    • @izzy9646
      @izzy9646 2 роки тому

      @@nicknak8375 “the kind of men they want” meaning what? I guarantee you don’t know the kind of person I want as a life partner.

    • @izzy9646
      @izzy9646 2 роки тому +1

      @Oz70NYC wow. Big, bold assumption. Also, again, you’re adding to the notion that men are only looking for a partner with a pretty exterior and that is…. Say it with me: ✨ SHALLOW✨ Finally, you’re making assumptions about my relationship status and the quality of partner based on one comment on the Internet. Your opinion holds no water.

    • @nicknak8375
      @nicknak8375 2 роки тому +1

      @@izzy9646 well as long as you understand females nature it becomes easy to figure out..