AM I GOOD IN BED|How Do You Know You'RE GOOD In Bed?

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  • Опубліковано 19 лют 2022
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  • @jblevi100
    @jblevi100 2 роки тому +33

    If sex is 70% of your happiness in a relationship you will probably end up staying single n probably even unwed because sex with the same person does get old if there’s no love & affection involved. That’s why he can be with his lady for 8yrs n continue to cherish her because he sees more value in her than just her juice box

    • @nikkidiamante809
      @nikkidiamante809 2 роки тому +3

      I mean, if the sex is HORRIBLE in the beginning… it kind of kills the vibe for everything else.

    • @jowill3508
      @jowill3508 2 роки тому +1

      @@nikkidiamante809 At that point, they should just part ways… Because it won’t work out, however, the unsatisfied person should teach the other person what they like IF they care about them that much

    • @bigfredo2987
      @bigfredo2987 2 роки тому +2

      I don’t think she is gonna be satisfied. She is talking about expectations of a man and talking about inferior men. With NO Sexism on her wall. So hypocritical is acceptable.

  • @xxaquaryussxx88
    @xxaquaryussxx88 2 роки тому +51

    7:27 he moved her hand so damn quick 😂😂 my man better have that energy 😂😂

  • @paulettemaye167
    @paulettemaye167 2 роки тому +14

    I love this show
    It keeps me in tune to how ppl think

  • @keefox-smith1505
    @keefox-smith1505 2 роки тому +1

    Great topic…I love how they touched on so many areas. Shows how communication is so vital. I love the vibes with 8 ❤️
    Keep it coming🙌🏽

  • @BlackStarr100
    @BlackStarr100 2 роки тому +15

    Yo Hands down these two held the most lit conversation. No cap. It kept me interseted from start to finish.

  • @alainlamour5868
    @alainlamour5868 2 роки тому +15

    Performance Anxiety is what can cause a dude to soften at the moment. I know for example I’ve been in a place where I know I been bagging all week and my shit is right and my performance is great but you get with a new chick and you overthink shit being in your head can kill it completely

  • @pg5419
    @pg5419 2 роки тому +3

    They speaking factssss!!! Love their energy too!!

  • @tisheikarickard-whyte3548
    @tisheikarickard-whyte3548 2 роки тому +4

    I really like Nikki diamante!
    She keeps it real and I have a lot of her views!
    Great job!

  • @deecool6327
    @deecool6327 Рік тому

    Yesss...the presence a man brings is soooo important!

  • @Shayvideos1
    @Shayvideos1 2 роки тому

    I recognized his face..wasn't sure from what..now I see he's a singer and that's why. Good for him.

  • @akobiballantyne
    @akobiballantyne 2 роки тому +7

    Definitely a beautiful woman. Interesting convo. The part that struck me is when she said she went a whole year without sober sex. That’s a deeper than rap convo. Some women be over thinking intimacy.

    • @zayathomas9351
      @zayathomas9351 2 роки тому

      That’s a deeper conversation for sure

  • @xxxmovementxxx4430
    @xxxmovementxxx4430 2 роки тому +3

    “ picnic, going to the arcade, long talks in the car “ 🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢

  • @cynobatala8498
    @cynobatala8498 2 роки тому +7

    I'm so grateful for nicki cause I feel the exact same way, just because you want them both don't mean you want them with each other

  • @pg5419
    @pg5419 2 роки тому +2

    THISSSS 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I LOVE HERRRR!!! DROPPING BARSSSS!!! This is it!! This on!!!

  • @skyybutter1
    @skyybutter1 2 роки тому +22

    Im all for a man keeping it trimmed and fresh down there... but i want him to look like a man not a boy.. men have hair... my 2 cents. Good conversation tho

  • @aaliyahmccoy6070
    @aaliyahmccoy6070 2 роки тому +7

    Great discussion! I love you all!
    Let's not confuse sexual preference with emotional desire please.

  • @nadz3592
    @nadz3592 2 роки тому +1

    Interesting conversation

  • @macctosh
    @macctosh 2 роки тому

    Thanks!

  • @keithdee44
    @keithdee44 2 роки тому +3

    *She nailed me on the spot.Everything about me says,he not the dude to play with.Silent OG and he's moves smooth*

  • @djsteadywill2620
    @djsteadywill2620 2 роки тому

    Years ago, in a moment of weakness, I cheated on my wife. Though I never softened, guilt during the sex prevented me from climaxing. No that we have an open relationship hopefully this will not be a future issue.🤞🏽

  • @justinmoore8934
    @justinmoore8934 2 роки тому

    Dude actually called off he ain’t switch shifts which means he did spend money however much he usually gets paid for the day 😂😂😂 just to go to an appointment that’s not his

  • @hardworkingcriminal4873
    @hardworkingcriminal4873 2 роки тому

    This was a fascinating conversation but I'm also equally confused by some of this ladies POV. But again this was a great watch nonetheless.

    • @Naisy77
      @Naisy77 Рік тому

      There is nothing confusing by enjoy having sex with a woman with a strap on men be lacking the spiritual sensual aspects that woman naturally have.

  • @costogeorge5815
    @costogeorge5815 2 роки тому

    Dat nigga speaking str8 facts

  • @alrangele9915
    @alrangele9915 2 роки тому

    Simpel! When manny ex girl frends looking for ya to wanna come back after i trow them out years ago.

  • @mr.dccomics9018
    @mr.dccomics9018 2 роки тому +28

    What a woman says and actually responds to is always different. Ask yourself what kind of men are most black women having kids with and that will tell you what most of them want.

    • @Da_Black_Man
      @Da_Black_Man 2 роки тому +4

      🎯

    • @cedarave3168
      @cedarave3168 2 роки тому +1

      Bars!!

    • @Jayisinvisible
      @Jayisinvisible 2 роки тому

      I think that some BW can sometimes have a ‘save em’ mentality. They see a BM as a ‘project,’ wanna help, and end up pregnant and hurt because she saw potential and not results.

  • @swirvfly
    @swirvfly 2 роки тому +2

    20:31 he did all of that and still didn’t smash. and women wonder why dudes don’t do that most for them because this is what happens when we go above and beyond.

  • @shaquayshahill3307
    @shaquayshahill3307 2 роки тому +1

    Stay single boo boo

  • @anthonytorrance4940
    @anthonytorrance4940 2 роки тому +17

    I can see why she's single only worrying about her needs crazy smh !

    • @nikkidiamante809
      @nikkidiamante809 2 роки тому +5

      I spent too much of my 20’s worrying about being the perfect woman to a man and actually forgetting about my needs. Now that I’m older, I know what I want and not settling for anything less.

    • @anthonytorrance4940
      @anthonytorrance4940 2 роки тому +2

      @@nikkidiamante809 and how is that working out for you? ?

    • @nikkidiamante809
      @nikkidiamante809 2 роки тому +4

      @@anthonytorrance4940 better since I’m not wasting months or years of my life trying to figure out if this person is for me or not 🤣🤣🤣 I can figure it out in a few days or week

    • @anthonytorrance4940
      @anthonytorrance4940 2 роки тому +6

      @Nikki Diamante but are you getting your end which you said is marriage what I'm trying to say both of you have to cater to each other can't be one-sided both of you are just as important in the vetting process !

    • @nikkidiamante809
      @nikkidiamante809 2 роки тому +2

      @@anthonytorrance4940 of courseeee. This is entertainment. Sometimes y’all like to take little clips that are edited on top of everything and assume y’all know our whole life in 30 minutes. It doesn’t work like that 🤣🤣🤣🤣 enjoy the show, I’m an entertainer

  • @chrisisslick
    @chrisisslick 2 роки тому +3

    Whose dad watches them smash and how were you able to finish without that shit getting ended? 🤔 😆

    • @theeonlynejcion4785
      @theeonlynejcion4785 2 роки тому +1

      He was at the top of the step not sure what he saw but I was gone get mine

    • @ldkea05
      @ldkea05 2 роки тому

      @@theeonlynejcion4785 hahaha I couldn't believe it but I believe it LOL 😂

  • @queenleo5894
    @queenleo5894 2 роки тому +1

    Facts about chivalry sis, but it is dead though so I don’t even expect ANYTHING from men anymore. Probably the reason I’m single🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @nikkidiamante809
      @nikkidiamante809 2 роки тому +1

      Thanks for watching

    • @jowill3508
      @jowill3508 2 роки тому +3

      It ain’t dead, it’s just that people aren’t as courteous or polite as they used to be

  • @Wuzhaniin
    @Wuzhaniin 2 роки тому +1

    🥇 …😮‍💨

  • @jnocapmac4783
    @jnocapmac4783 2 роки тому

    *Damn,* you lost me up until 6 minutes in talking about the shaving and stuff. I ain't never had an issue, or been told that the hair on my balls was a problem. Maybe it's because I'm super hygienic, but ery'body got their own preference I guess.. 🥥🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @debramills740
    @debramills740 2 роки тому +2

    If a man cares about you you don't have to ask for things.

    • @realearnerceo993
      @realearnerceo993 2 роки тому

      Yes you do and thats a issue in today’s dating, we don’t communicate what we want… as for us men, we’re very A & B… If u tell us what u want we do ACTUALLY that but women dont like that

  • @shaquayshahill3307
    @shaquayshahill3307 2 роки тому

    Selfish lovers are the worst. You get into it working it and its over. I be like why you stop? Him: i have to pee he nuts dont go pee and im left without sad. Quick poppers are a hell no

  • @TinoMaximus
    @TinoMaximus 2 роки тому +4

    Bro was speaking str8 fax. Ol girl is a whole hypocrite.

  • @keithharris9685
    @keithharris9685 2 роки тому +2

    This woman is obviously trifling and confused. A man can not please her, so he should not even try. Leave her alone until she figure it out.its not any man's fault because she has all these sexuall appetite and greedy I might say.

  • @shadowlee02
    @shadowlee02 2 роки тому

    3 easy was to tell you laid it down.
    1. She left a puddle
    2. She made you breakfast
    3. She spent money on you

  • @keithdee44
    @keithdee44 2 роки тому +1

    *You call him selfish bit it's actually you and that's why you don't and won't have a stable relationship and you'll always be just a pretty jumpoff* UNTIL YOU CHANGE SOME OF THOSE RULES..How the hell you wanna cheat but say you can't share him.Tell him or not, IT'S STILL CHEATING Even if yall agree..

  • @jimmieaxe2431
    @jimmieaxe2431 2 роки тому +3

    31: good luck maintaining a healthy relationship u toxic at the highest level not man of value we take u seriously past the bedroom

  • @AJ_roadway
    @AJ_roadway 2 роки тому +4

    Ain’t he married? They flirting way too much

  • @courtney1930
    @courtney1930 2 роки тому +6

    She said she is bisexual, me personally I am not trying to wife a woman that is bisexual, women like that to me are for the streets, me personally I don't want no bisexual women being the mother to my children in all honesty that's straight dysfunctional right there and the she said she will never leave a man for another woman so basically she wants a woman for fun and sexual desires on the side and then have a man to be in a serious with, straight contradictory right there, she needs therapy SMH

    • @adriennethompson3382
      @adriennethompson3382 2 роки тому +1

      I’m surprised she didn’t come under your comment to defend her “honor”. She’s been going under other people’s comments…

    • @Naisy77
      @Naisy77 Рік тому

      Yes judge someone you do not know.

  • @ZaniahSlayed
    @ZaniahSlayed 2 роки тому +7

    Nothing wrong with a woman wanting a stable man who is good with finances if that’s a gold digger then so be it

    • @realearnerceo993
      @realearnerceo993 2 роки тому

      But what is financially stable to a woman because its not 50,60,70,80k+ a year… which a person’s life style can be stable at those amounts but if u live a stable lifestyle with a man making 70k a year and u leave to get with a man making 200k a year then YES you are a gold digger

  • @Luvmybris
    @Luvmybris 2 роки тому +1

    👋🏾

  • @debramills740
    @debramills740 2 роки тому +1

    That's little girls stuff not real women. Real women are not always about the bag. Because we have our own money.

  • @jemarrebrown836
    @jemarrebrown836 2 роки тому +3

    Alot of contradictions on her part

  • @Da_Black_Man
    @Da_Black_Man 2 роки тому +7

    What I got from this is that she is a horrible lover and highly selfish

  • @bigfredo2987
    @bigfredo2987 2 роки тому

    No sexism is written on your wall but you are literally talking about gender roles. Judging a man for who they are. Some guys are just raised that way.

  • @gp9677
    @gp9677 2 роки тому

    Damn she gained weight

  • @810Batman
    @810Batman 2 роки тому +3

    18 minutes in, a woman that was raised right hasn't had over 8 guys!!! 5 for wifey, erybody else is a temp!!!

    • @jowill3508
      @jowill3508 2 роки тому

      Those numbers do sound possible to find, although it’s very rare these days 😔

    • @chrisisslick
      @chrisisslick 2 роки тому

      Highly unlikely, yet possible.

  • @jahmarlindo5065
    @jahmarlindo5065 2 роки тому +1

    Realistically being with someone for an extended time is ridiculous

    • @macctosh
      @macctosh 2 роки тому +1

      what? I guess you haven't loved somebody yet! lust and love are two completely different things.