Thank you everyone for watching and to the people who trust us with their secrets. Thank you so much to our sponsor Simple Habit (mental wellness app) for making this season possible. Take just a few minutes out of your day to improve your life by using Simple Habit. They've given all of you one week FREE of their premium version ( simplehabit.com/jubilee ). Thanks for watching! ❤️
Student loan debt is the worst. I'm so close to paying it all off but it really left a dent on my life for these past ten years. I would have been better off not going but young teenage naive me thought it wouldnt be a big deal
@@domagario6910 It's money a university or a college gives you to study, and then you have to repay it. just like any loan, it depends on where you live, in some countries it's free and in some it can get to thousands of dollars. the "reward" is a degree which can be practical and can help repay the debt, or useless and make your life hard.
Students are out here in college struggling to afford decent food and it’s dismissed as part of the “college experience” rather than a huge issue surrounding the way academic institutions exploit their students
I am a 12 year old girl that watches the best UA-cam channel only because it helps me reflect on how ordinary people around me go through so so so much under their skin. I am really appreciative to have access to such an honest way of putting your problems and opinions out there!❤️
God bless. Money is just a good and a bad thing. I wish we could live in a world where money didn’t define us and where money didn’t limit us or give us opportunities.
Yep..its such an unfair world..where people judge by the presence or absence of pieces of paper that someone has..i wish we could just reverse the clocks and get back to old days where everyone had everything and were content by trivial necessities
Money brings happiness IDC what anyone says. The fact I'm 21 and can go on trips, go out every weekend, and enjoy my hobbies really helps me when I'm depressed with school, family, relationships etc
Jeremy P Money can bring comfort but not happiness. The people around you ,the bonds you form, & experiences coupled with your own idea of self worth will be your happiness.
I think you wont be happy if money is all you have and you don't need money to be happy but of course it can improve your life and just give you more opportunities to do things that make you happy and fulfill your dreams :)
i can related with this episode, after graduated from college i got my dream job in fashion industry but i am failed in this position, unemployed for more than a year and still looking for the job.i felt like i am useless and i don't have direction for my next career. i am lost with my life, envy with my friend because they already settle with their job and i am nothing. i still got financial support from my parent and it's embarrassing for me, i hope 2019 will be the better year's and thank you for all people who keep supporting on me until this time.
I agree with the lady at 1:46, who was talking about the person who stole $2,000. Sometimes you get pushed into a corner, and there is nothing else to do.
I love how you only care about the person and not the people they stole from... The people who gave him the ability to improve his situation and he stole from them.
I'm currently unemployed, my family and friends are all so nice. But, I'm always hard on myself. I can't explain the amount of disappointment and Shane I feel everyday, I stay home. It's not even the money aspect. It's just waking up in the mornings without anywhere to get ready and do! It really helped hearing these secrets.
I dated someone who was a starving artist. It’s sad to see how hampered his dreams have been, all because of money. J know that if you’re reading this, know that you’re loved and that you’ll make it.
2:46 Is my current situation. I graduated several months ago and I can't get a job in my field.. I feel horrible that my mom has to financially support me with no help from my end. I want to just settle for something menial so I can at least help with rent and food, but she he tells me that's it's ok and to not give up. The guilt is weighing on me though. I know she didn't expect me to be unemployed this long and I feel like I'm failing everyday.
Don't give up. There are other ways to make money honestly. Try to make youtube channel to talk about your life or college advice, or journal your life on instagram, you do not have to feel alone in this.With social media there's always a way to reach other people and connect with them. Keep trying and remember you weren't put on this earth to get a job and work til you die. Enjoy what you have and take every opportunity that comes your way. I wish you the best.
@@CassieGrey21 Thank you so much, you're very right. Someone else made a comment on this video, something along the lines of "You're only a failure once you've given up", and it really resonated with me. I've gotten a major dose of reality the past few months, and I'll admit it's gotten me down. Especially since several of my friends are well on their way to starting their careers. Things are hard right now but I'm going to promise myself that I'll remain persistent. Thanks again for the kind encouragement. Wishing you the best as well.
This is hands down one of my top five channels on UA-cam! You guys do *such* amazing work. Please don't stop. The world needs all this positive energy you keep feeding it. You're doing great!
Money liberated me. Gaining an income grants you independence and an identity. Lack of money can take those away. Just a pure fact of living in this world.
Thinking the person who stole $2000 is a good person is so naive You only know one side of the story, you only know their side, who knows how it could have effected the people had that money stolen from them, you have no idea if those people could have been struggling too I'm not saying this person is a bad person, but you can't say they're a good person either, especially since you don't know anything else about their personality / character
Just an Idea: I don’t want the opinions of the readers. Read the card and let the secret be what it is. I don’t want their empathy, words of support, anything.
my secret even tho i’m rlly late i love my friends dearly. but, during christmas i spent most of my thought into giving my friend a good present that i knew she would like, but when she gave me her present for me, i pretended i liked it. i have never felt so hurt. it was hand sanitizer, gum, candy, and a small plush. it wasnt the fact that it was bad, but the fact that she wasn’t thoughtful of what she got me. i feel so ashamed that i didn’t like it.
Anyway, like I was sayin', shrimp is the fruit of the sea. You can barbecue it, boil it, broil it, bake it, saute it. Dey's uh, shrimp-kabobs, shrimp creole, shrimp gumbo. Pan fried, deep fried, stir-fried. There's pineapple shrimp, lemon shrimp, coconut shrimp, pepper shrimp, shrimp soup, shrimp stew, shrimp salad, shrimp and potatoes, shrimp burger, shrimp sandwich. That- that's about it.
I changed schools 2 years ago and i like the new school but everyone is so rich and it's just normality for them.. I sometimes feel left out and especially now that Christmas comes around it's even more present ): one of my best friends invited me to their family christmas last year and although theyre all really nice im just not used to hear them talk about money like its nothing.. i got 200€ for Christmas last year (which im really grateful for!!!) and she got things worth over 1k € + a boat and a boat's drivers license 😭 another friend got an iphone X when it just came out and jewelry and more but like i said this is normality for them and it makes me feel strange .. (no one's probably gonna read this but i thought this is still the right video for commenting such things)
I sacrificed everything to be successful, to make my parents proud and pay them back for everything, I can’t help but think what my life would be like if I chose to have a life and a family.
I can totally relate! My money secret: I'm a college student and my allowance doesn't cover my necessities. Because I pretend having enough money every time my dad asks me if i need some. Just because he has been paying back a debt since 1994 and that is the only way i can help him....
white 148 I’m a college student too! As a pre med student an easy job for me to get was a Pharmacy Technician and the pay is great. Before that I made money by doing STEM internships, and that type of work is available for nearly every major. Go to your guidance counselors and get involved, you can even qualify for work study through your school. Save that money while you can!!
I pretty much save money only in anticipation that something bad will happen in the future. Whether a family member or myself gets sick, or we lose our home or job.... it just sits there. I’m too scared to spend it. I have dreams of traveling. Or moving out of my parents home, since I have enough money to get a house. But I’m too scared to spend it because I’m convinced one of us is going to get cancer or die or the house will burn down, and we’ll need that money. I feel trapped and I feel as though I can’t move on with my life. I look out the window and see how beautiful this world is, yet I can’t go out there and enjoy it.
I’ve based my existence around money, since an early age my family has struggled financially, money has dictated our lives, as it does. Growing up things that others would take for granted, ie. hot water, food, doctors visits, were regarded with scarcity. I once forced myself to endure incomprehensible amounts of pain for hours, in an effort to conserve money, as my mom could not afford a hospital visit, though I ended up requiring emergency surgery. I didn’t care about the surgery in the slightest, all that I would say to my mom was “I’m sorry” repeatedly, because I knew we couldn’t afford the copayment. I cannot stand materialistic people as result of this upbringing.
I got a degree in graphic design last year. I wasn't sure what to do with it so I went for a prestigious internship programme thinking it would buy me time to figure things out - basically whether or not I wanted to be a graphic designer because it was always hit or miss in college. The first 6 months of the internship I got gradually more and more anxious - there are whole weeks I can't remember because I was so uncomfortable. Everyone I met was super nice to me but it was clear that I didn't want to be there. But I knew I had to finish it because it would stand to me. On the 7th month I had a creative director sit me down and ask me was I happy there. I broke down and said I was sorry for wasting his time. I spent 6 months after it so so worried about what people would think. Started applying to graphic design jobs left and right and got nowhere. I finally told my parents how I was feeling and despite the scare of being a freelancer, I'm starting 2020 as something I actually want to be - an illustrator. Its scary what money can do in terms of how it makes you paranoid of what others will think of you. I was lucky to be in such a supportive situation but there's so many people who just have to keep going with jobs that make them miserable.
1:47 They are definitely a bad person. That $2000 could have gone on wages or bonuses for people who deserved it. You don’t get what you need, you get what you earn.
I was so broke for the longest time that, even after finally receiving a lot of money from selling property and a car, I still find myself penny-pinching like picking the cheapest item on the menu or budgeting over groceries.
The secret about the father leaving I understand. I’ve been living through the same situation for 2 years with going on food stamps and assistance and I feel ashamed about money every day. I’m in my last year of high school and I can’t help but worry about my future and just trying to have a fulfilling last year of high school.
That first one made me immediatly start tearing up- my mum was that person. She had a safe thingy I’d find her hiding lots of money in. I thought them hurting eachother was ok and normal. Ig I thought the hiding money away was aswell
1:30 He may not be a bad person but what he did was wrong. It may have solved his problems but you’re stealing other peoples hard earned money without guilt and that isn’t okay.
I just wanna tell all students (or non-students too) reading this that student loan debts are part and parcel of being a student, and everybody's tryna pay off those loans, so as long as you are not extravagant in your purchases (prolly a part-time job will help), you will be able to settle it soon enough!
I think what needs to be taught more to people, especially kids, are the failures, mistakes, and struggles made instead of just showing the final result of it all like at 2:22. We focus so much on the end result we don't realize how far it is and how much we may have to fall to get there or if we can get there.
I used to steal money from people at school. It got out of hand and after a while the principal found out he gathered all the students and told the one who did it to step forward and that everyone will stay here until the one who did it said it... someone took the blame.. I’m ashamed that I never stood up and took the consequences of my actions.
“I don’t think that makes you a bad person”-i dont believe in “good person/bad person” but even if it was to “help your family” the means in which you do it matter. Stealing versus finding some other ethical alternative. Your problems don’t justify the unethical treatment of others. What that tells me is basically you think you’re more important than the person that you stole from
This is why to a certain point you only care what people think and only to a certain degree money counts. Focus on building yourself and the rest will follow.
Damn I didn't know many people had these thoughts in their head I can relate to almost all of these and it was affecting my mental health I landed on depression and from that it led to drugs I been thru so much this past year (2018) I'm no longer doing drugs but still waiting for those better days I been working on my self just wanted to add this comment for those who are going thru situations like this cause I used to think I was alone with my inner struggles
I am Christian it's my job to help these people no matter the situation and not be judgemental only loving caring as seeing them as another friend in need ♥️🙏
This hit really close to home I just turned 18 a few months age and I've been looking for a job non stop for almost 5 months. I really hope I get this job on Monday if not I'm homeless again.
The student debt one hits me the hardest. It’s what is constantly on my mind which negatively impacts my mental health and my grades as I go continue going through University. I feel so guilty that my parents, who are helping me with this money, are also being impacted. I feel like such a disappointment to them and myself, like I’m wasting their and my life thinking about how long it’s gonna take to pay this all back.
the one about people thinking you're a success but you think you're struggling... my goodness... Every. Single. Day. in college. When I got my first degree my family was so proud. I was the first kid to finish through with their first degree but they do not know how terrified I am. Why if my degrees are worth nothing? What if I do not even find a job in my field and have to live with this insane debt for nothing? sometimes I think I will just go to school forever just to avoid having to face that reality.
When you hear the word "money" try to replace it with "ability to acquire resources" and you'll have a different perspective in life. The key word is perspective though, not mindset.
People always ask me why I want to work at the legal age (14 and 9 months) and I always say "to buy clothes and stuff" but my real goal is to help my grandma and parents who are struggling financially and I feel like it's my fault that we are in this situation because they have to pay so much for school. But it doesn't get better because my mum and dad have never had a good relationship and I'm afraid they'll have a divorce.
The lady at 1:52 must be intervened NOW!!! We can't have those kind of values floating around in our society!!! Pure Machiavelism. It's concerning how some people even defend her in the comment section.
My money secret: I despise when people say that money can't buy happiness. I feel like money would solve every single one of my problems thus resulting in a stress free, happier life.
So much of this hit home for me. I guess I should be appreciative about my job (I wasn’t for a while), and I’m choosing trade school, those 35-100k debts scared me so bad XXXDDD
But did you *ben shapiro'ed* them ?aka destroy those snowflake libtard friends of yours with facts and logic if not then that wasn't very cash money of you.
Two years ago my family lived on $600 a month and we never had enough left to get new clothes. During that time I had only two pairs of pants and four shirts that properly fit. The kids in my neighborhood teased me because I could only afford clothes from Wal-Mart. I felt super embarrassed but it was all we could afford. Today we have stable income but even now times are tough. Oh and yes I have more clothes now!
I like the ending (the reaction of the person) cuz that's how we have to think. We are alive and safe now. So if we actually have the need of help, we have to search it also
We all want to achieve financial freedom. I'm definitely aiming for that. I'm still far from it though 😂but I'm aiming for it. I just try my best to practice gratitude and appreciate what I have, no matter how little. And that helps me feel better about my life. I know this will sound cheesy and lame, but I do wish for positive life changing events for those who are really struggling with their financial life at the moment. I hope you will continue to find strength to get your life some place better 😊
Can i share a secret? I was a shaken baby and its very hard to be a normal person as people see me and i dont even mean to. Its hard to do things that a 20 year old should be out doing when you cant even handle saving money, or moving out, having friends that arnt 40 years older then me, or to even drive because you cant trust your judgement on some things. It hurts when my parents watch the news and complain about how people my age wont go and do things when im one of thoes people but they dont blame me because of something that happened to me when i was 3 months old. I could keep going buy this post is already so long.
People be around me because I have money after lost mom and my dad no one stop with me from this people I help !! Just some true friends show and support
Thank you everyone for watching and to the people who trust us with their secrets. Thank you so much to our sponsor Simple Habit (mental wellness app) for making this season possible. Take just a few minutes out of your day to improve your life by using Simple Habit. They've given all of you one week FREE of their premium version ( simplehabit.com/jubilee ). Thanks for watching! ❤️
I seriously love this series. Often social media is all about me me me me, this is all about OTHERS. please make a new season.
For the first secret, I assumed it was a woman who wrote it. Kudos to the reader who right away recognized it could be a man or woman who wrote it.
TBH it is a very high probability that it is a man
brian092393 I thought it was a man. Many civil court cases had something similar in which the man held a secret bank account
aeri' icecream they are
A FILIPINOOOO... i love Filipinos
I AGREEEEEE, but in my opinion I feel as it’s easier that a guy can get out of an abusive relationship than it is a girl to get out
Student loan debt is the worst. I'm so close to paying it all off but it really left a dent on my life for these past ten years. I would have been better off not going but young teenage naive me thought it wouldnt be a big deal
Loro sono umano should’ve been in the military
Loro sono umano what is student loan and how much is it and how does it affect your life if you have it and what is the reward
@@domagario6910 It's money a university or a college gives you to study, and then you have to repay it. just like any loan, it depends on where you live, in some countries it's free and in some it can get to thousands of dollars. the "reward" is a degree which can be practical and can help repay the debt, or useless and make your life hard.
kl1p thank for explaining but why ten years how much money is student loan
@@domagario6910 screw a college degree, it's all about certifications and work experience my friend.
Students are out here in college struggling to afford decent food and it’s dismissed as part of the “college experience” rather than a huge issue surrounding the way academic institutions exploit their students
Student loan is awful..... like damn
you said the truth out. that 'college experience 'is romanticised i feel
True
Oh god. I know this is gonna be sad.
I would like but ur likes are at 420 hope u understand
Amanicha n 3 peeps ruined it
That’s every video man
Sock pupper yeah im scared to watch it tbh... My heart is beating so fast 😩
I mean all of them are
I am a 12 year old girl that watches the best UA-cam channel only because it helps me reflect on how ordinary people around me go through so so so much under their skin. I am really appreciative to have access to such an honest way of putting your problems and opinions out there!❤️
youre 13 now
@@weou good for her (?)
Can we see a seeking secrets on those who are single, lonely, and have no relationships?
How? It needs more lieks
oh then just bring me in lolz
Haha that's actually a good idea 'cause i'm single/lonely af.
But i know i'm not alone in this.
Oh certainly not I'm 20 and never had a woman in my life like that
that would be so nice i would rlly want to participate if i have the chance hdjd
God bless. Money is just a good and a bad thing. I wish we could live in a world where money didn’t define us and where money didn’t limit us or give us opportunities.
That would really be nice
Yep..its such an unfair world..where people judge by the presence or absence of pieces of paper that someone has..i wish we could just reverse the clocks and get back to old days where everyone had everything and were content by trivial necessities
Really. If u look at it, it's just paper. What if it lost all its power tomorrow and all u can count on is actually your talent and abilities?
Yes I agree also hi fellow EXOL
K L So communism? That turned out good
the first one broke my heart but am proud of u
Yes ma’am. Took the courage to leave and get some $ together. God bless
Plot twist : what if they are reading their own secret or what if the owner of the secret is also there in this video?
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@@hyunjinhasallmyuwu3448 👻👻👻 and yeah hyunjin has all my uwu too 💜😘
Isn’t it how it’s supposed to be????
Ala no
kat ohh,,,,
Side note: there are only bts stans under this comment 🤠
Money brings happiness IDC what anyone says. The fact I'm 21 and can go on trips, go out every weekend, and enjoy my hobbies really helps me when I'm depressed with school, family, relationships etc
Weird flex but ok
Overused old joke but ok
Jeremy P Money can bring comfort but not happiness. The people around you ,the bonds you form, & experiences coupled with your own idea of self worth will be your happiness.
I think you wont be happy if money is all you have and you don't need money to be happy but of course it can improve your life and just give you more opportunities to do things that make you happy and fulfill your dreams :)
@@espritix7171 Well, that's your definition of happiness. Money can buy happiness, to a certain degree.
i can related with this episode, after graduated from college i got my dream job in fashion industry but i am failed in this position, unemployed for more than a year and still looking for the job.i felt like i am useless and i don't have direction for my next career. i am lost with my life, envy with my friend because they already settle with their job and i am nothing. i still got financial support from my parent and it's embarrassing for me, i hope 2019 will be the better year's and thank you for all people who keep supporting on me until this time.
Life is not a race, everyone has their time, good luck on your career, be patient and keep on working, good days will come :)
@@harrysebastian5215 thank you
@Sa Ku yes, i will find my own way.
Good luck! Things will get better!!
Be patient, you'll do great.
I agree with the lady at 1:46, who was talking about the person who stole $2,000. Sometimes you get pushed into a corner, and there is nothing else to do.
Pressure, rationalization and opportunity is all a person needs to commit fraud
What that person done could’ve ruined other people’s lives I obviously understand why the person done it but I still think it was wrong.
I love how you only care about the person and not the people they stole from... The people who gave him the ability to improve his situation and he stole from them.
Katelynn Pearce exactlyyy!
I said that I agree with the lady about how that person isn't "bad." I never said that I don't care about the people they stole from.
I'm currently unemployed, my family and friends are all so nice. But, I'm always hard on myself. I can't explain the amount of disappointment and Shane I feel everyday, I stay home. It's not even the money aspect. It's just waking up in the mornings without anywhere to get ready and do! It really helped hearing these secrets.
I dated someone who was a starving artist. It’s sad to see how hampered his dreams have been, all because of money. J know that if you’re reading this, know that you’re loved and that you’ll make it.
"money can't buy happiness" yeah but money is needed for literally everything you need to survive.
I stole my mom's debit card to buy a club penguin membership
Understandable.
😭😭😭😭
Hahahaha
Classic
Boi wot 😂😂
2:46 Is my current situation. I graduated several months ago and I can't get a job in my field.. I feel horrible that my mom has to financially support me with no help from my end. I want to just settle for something menial so I can at least help with rent and food, but she he tells me that's it's ok and to not give up. The guilt is weighing on me though. I know she didn't expect me to be unemployed this long and I feel like I'm failing everyday.
Don't give up. There are other ways to make money honestly. Try to make youtube channel to talk about your life or college advice, or journal your life on instagram, you do not have to feel alone in this.With social media there's always a way to reach other people and connect with them. Keep trying and remember you weren't put on this earth to get a job and work til you die. Enjoy what you have and take every opportunity that comes your way. I wish you the best.
@@CassieGrey21 Thank you so much, you're very right. Someone else made a comment on this video, something along the lines of "You're only a failure once you've given up", and it really resonated with me. I've gotten a major dose of reality the past few months, and I'll admit it's gotten me down. Especially since several of my friends are well on their way to starting their careers. Things are hard right now but I'm going to promise myself that I'll remain persistent. Thanks again for the kind encouragement. Wishing you the best as well.
hey, just hope it's going well for you!
@@reverently Hey, thank you! I'm actually starting a paid internship next week. Things are starting to look up.
thats great! remember to always keep working towards your goal, and strive for more, because you're worth it!
Would of been rollin if one of them read a card that said “ I’m broke af” 😂
lmaoo that'd be the most relatable one
You are not a failure until you stop trying.
i agree, i need to take this advice
I hope everyone's problem ends in 2019 and it can be a good year
HAHAHHA this took a turn 🚮
Edited - 10 June 2020
Karen • thanks you too!
Thanks
I hope i die in 2019
Not how that works
thanks but mine got worst
I feel relieved to hear all these people's stories because it's so relatable and it makes you feel less lonely
Yall should do anti vaccine moms vs moms who vaccine their kids!!!!
George Moreno please no, let's not give people like that any platform
Antivaccine vs. Doctors would be better.
mars inhabitant I just wanna know how they think and why they think that
No one would show up for the anti vaccine side cause they’re dead lmao
George Moreno this would be my sister and myself (my kids are vaccinated, her son is not) still love him to bits. Her? Not so much
This is hands down one of my top five channels on UA-cam! You guys do *such* amazing work. Please don't stop. The world needs all this positive energy you keep feeding it. You're doing great!
I have no money,thats my deepest secret
I can relate 😂😣😣
Money liberated me. Gaining an income grants you independence and an identity. Lack of money can take those away. Just a pure fact of living in this world.
“Money can’t buy happiness”
Isn’t actually 100% true
0:08 THANK YOU FOR INCLUDING BOTH MEN AND WOMEN!!
Thinking the person who stole $2000 is a good person is so naive
You only know one side of the story, you only know their side, who knows how it could have effected the people had that money stolen from them, you have no idea if those people could have been struggling too
I'm not saying this person is a bad person, but you can't say they're a good person either, especially since you don't know anything else about their personality / character
Just an Idea: I don’t want the opinions of the readers. Read the card and let the secret be what it is. I don’t want their empathy, words of support, anything.
my secret even tho i’m rlly late
i love my friends dearly. but, during christmas i spent most of my thought into giving my friend a good present that i knew she would like, but when she gave me her present for me, i pretended i liked it. i have never felt so hurt. it was hand sanitizer, gum, candy, and a small plush. it wasnt the fact that it was bad, but the fact that she wasn’t thoughtful of what she got me. i feel so ashamed that i didn’t like it.
she didn't care about you to make you happy
Anyway, like I was sayin', shrimp is the fruit of the sea. You can barbecue it, boil it, broil it, bake it, saute it. Dey's uh, shrimp-kabobs, shrimp creole, shrimp gumbo. Pan fried, deep fried, stir-fried. There's pineapple shrimp, lemon shrimp, coconut shrimp, pepper shrimp, shrimp soup, shrimp stew, shrimp salad, shrimp and potatoes, shrimp burger, shrimp sandwich. That- that's about it.
Is this a quote from forest gump
@@oceanrosethatsailsacrossth3466 yes, yes it is.
Once I ate only shrimps for a whole week.
@@ye8488 sounds like the life
"you're not a failure" - thank you, that's what I needed to hear today.
Some people still do not understand that doing the wrong thing for the right reason is still the wrong thing.
When it comes to money, I also feel like a failure when I ask for help, I know that feeling
I love this series so much, please don't ever stop.
It gets me through my sad days and makes me remember that it's not just me struggling 🙏🏼
“Maybe I should just give up” made my heart sink to the floor..
Student loan Is something I am scared of... But I have to take it
Zainab bangtan dont. get grants, scholarships im in debt for the next 15 years of my life
Go to community college and then transfer later. Same credits, same degree, less money.
So am i!! I have to get into about $40k in debt for what I want to major in😭💔
Europe will welcome all of you!
Start applying for scholarships. The better your grades are, the more likely you will get them.
I changed schools 2 years ago and i like the new school but everyone is so rich and it's just normality for them.. I sometimes feel left out and especially now that Christmas comes around it's even more present ): one of my best friends invited me to their family christmas last year and although theyre all really nice im just not used to hear them talk about money like its nothing.. i got 200€ for Christmas last year (which im really grateful for!!!) and she got things worth over 1k € + a boat and a boat's drivers license 😭 another friend got an iphone X when it just came out and jewelry and more but like i said this is normality for them and it makes me feel strange .. (no one's probably gonna read this but i thought this is still the right video for commenting such things)
I'd love to say happiness doesnt rely on money but unfortunately it does
sure kid
Not entirely
@@isabellahu4606 yes i agree not entirely
Sara B Happiness does but joy doesn't
I sacrificed everything to be successful, to make my parents proud and pay them back for everything, I can’t help but think what my life would be like if I chose to have a life and a family.
I can totally relate!
My money secret:
I'm a college student and my allowance doesn't cover my necessities. Because I pretend having enough money every time my dad asks me if i need some. Just because he has been paying back a debt since 1994 and that is the only way i can help him....
white 148 I’m a college student too! As a pre med student an easy job for me to get was a Pharmacy Technician and the pay is great. Before that I made money by doing STEM internships, and that type of work is available for nearly every major. Go to your guidance counselors and get involved, you can even qualify for work study through your school. Save that money while you can!!
Best series ever
Cash rules everything around me
C.R.E.A.M, get the money
Ice cream
Dolla dolla bill yall
I'm so young but I can relate to this. This one hurt alot
I pretty much save money only in anticipation that something bad will happen in the future. Whether a family member or myself gets sick, or we lose our home or job.... it just sits there. I’m too scared to spend it. I have dreams of traveling. Or moving out of my parents home, since I have enough money to get a house. But I’m too scared to spend it because I’m convinced one of us is going to get cancer or die or the house will burn down, and we’ll need that money. I feel trapped and I feel as though I can’t move on with my life. I look out the window and see how beautiful this world is, yet I can’t go out there and enjoy it.
Someone steals, admits that they have no guilt for doing so and they are easily seen as "not being a bad person". How does that work?
iLubembz you are stage 4 in the kohlberg stages of moral development
@@patrickpartypants2804 is that good or bad?
iLubembz neither, just a fun little observation
It doesn't . They are shitty. That's a sociopath right there
@@patrickpartypants2804 he's far beyond you.
I’ve based my existence around money, since an early age my family has struggled financially, money has dictated our lives, as it does. Growing up things that others would take for granted, ie. hot water, food, doctors visits, were regarded with scarcity. I once forced myself to endure incomprehensible amounts of pain for hours, in an effort to conserve money, as my mom could not afford a hospital visit, though I ended up requiring emergency surgery. I didn’t care about the surgery in the slightest, all that I would say to my mom was “I’m sorry” repeatedly, because I knew we couldn’t afford the copayment. I cannot stand materialistic people as result of this upbringing.
“For me it’s just a struggle of staying afloat everyday.” YEP. 😭😭💔💔 felt that one. That’s me on a daily basis.
This was sooo refreshing.. my favourite thus far. The realisation that others are also “going through it”. Good job Jubilee ✌🏽
I got a degree in graphic design last year. I wasn't sure what to do with it so I went for a prestigious internship programme thinking it would buy me time to figure things out - basically whether or not I wanted to be a graphic designer because it was always hit or miss in college.
The first 6 months of the internship I got gradually more and more anxious - there are whole weeks I can't remember because I was so uncomfortable. Everyone I met was super nice to me but it was clear that I didn't want to be there. But I knew I had to finish it because it would stand to me.
On the 7th month I had a creative director sit me down and ask me was I happy there. I broke down and said I was sorry for wasting his time.
I spent 6 months after it so so worried about what people would think. Started applying to graphic design jobs left and right and got nowhere. I finally told my parents how I was feeling and despite the scare of being a freelancer, I'm starting 2020 as something I actually want to be - an illustrator.
Its scary what money can do in terms of how it makes you paranoid of what others will think of you. I was lucky to be in such a supportive situation but there's so many people who just have to keep going with jobs that make them miserable.
1:47
They are definitely a bad person. That $2000 could have gone on wages or bonuses for people who deserved it. You don’t get what you need, you get what you earn.
I was so broke for the longest time that, even after finally receiving a lot of money from selling property and a car, I still find myself penny-pinching like picking the cheapest item on the menu or budgeting over groceries.
i know a guy who sold his car and house and lived in the 3rd world.
he felt like a King.
Man this made me teared up. Especially the guy who stole money just to support their family. Oh god please help them 😢
The secret about the father leaving I understand. I’ve been living through the same situation for 2 years with going on food stamps and assistance and I feel ashamed about money every day. I’m in my last year of high school and I can’t help but worry about my future and just trying to have a fulfilling last year of high school.
That first one made me immediatly start tearing up- my mum was that person. She had a safe thingy I’d find her hiding lots of money in. I thought them hurting eachother was ok and normal. Ig I thought the hiding money away was aswell
Everyone sees a linear graph of success, and not the ups and downs people have to get the position they are at and will never know what it took.
1:30
He may not be a bad person but what he did was wrong. It may have solved his problems but you’re stealing other peoples hard earned money without guilt and that isn’t okay.
Yes, his intentions weren’t bad but his actions were wrong
Karma is going to get him eventually. That poor basterd.
Exactly, if everyone took a little off the top then there would be hell to pay
I just wanna tell all students (or non-students too) reading this that student loan debts are part and parcel of being a student, and everybody's tryna pay off those loans, so as long as you are not extravagant in your purchases (prolly a part-time job will help), you will be able to settle it soon enough!
I think what needs to be taught more to people, especially kids, are the failures, mistakes, and struggles made instead of just showing the final result of it all like at 2:22. We focus so much on the end result we don't realize how far it is and how much we may have to fall to get there or if we can get there.
I used to steal money from people at school. It got out of hand and after a while the principal found out he gathered all the students and told the one who did it to step forward and that everyone will stay here until the one who did it said it... someone took the blame.. I’m ashamed that I never stood up and took the consequences of my actions.
“I don’t think that makes you a bad person”-i dont believe in “good person/bad person” but even if it was to “help your family” the means in which you do it matter. Stealing versus finding some other ethical alternative. Your problems don’t justify the unethical treatment of others. What that tells me is basically you think you’re more important than the person that you stole from
This video is too short wtf. I didn’t even cry yet.
This is why to a certain point you only care what people think and only to a certain degree money counts. Focus on building yourself and the rest will follow.
Damn I didn't know many people had these thoughts in their head I can relate to almost all of these and it was affecting my mental health I landed on depression and from that it led to drugs
I been thru so much this past year (2018) I'm no longer doing drugs but still waiting for those better days I been working on my self just wanted to add this comment for those who are going thru situations like this cause I used to think I was alone with my inner struggles
These videos are so insightful
I love this series. So eye-opening.
I am Christian it's my job to help these people no matter the situation and not be judgemental only loving caring as seeing them as another friend in need ♥️🙏
I have an exam and I’m here don’t love that for me😂
same bro
This hit really close to home I just turned 18 a few months age and I've been looking for a job non stop for almost 5 months. I really hope I get this job on Monday if not I'm homeless again.
I've been going through the same situation, I'm sorry :( I hope you get the job ! ❤
This is one of my favorite series on Jubilee💕
People can say that money can’t Bring happiness but they are wrong. It can. And it does.
2:56 same😔
The student debt one hits me the hardest. It’s what is constantly on my mind which negatively impacts my mental health and my grades as I go continue going through University. I feel so guilty that my parents, who are helping me with this money, are also being impacted. I feel like such a disappointment to them and myself, like I’m wasting their and my life thinking about how long it’s gonna take to pay this all back.
the one about people thinking you're a success but you think you're struggling... my goodness... Every. Single. Day. in college. When I got my first degree my family was so proud. I was the first kid to finish through with their first degree but they do not know how terrified I am. Why if my degrees are worth nothing? What if I do not even find a job in my field and have to live with this insane debt for nothing? sometimes I think I will just go to school forever just to avoid having to face that reality.
When you hear the word "money" try to replace it with "ability to acquire resources" and you'll have a different perspective in life. The key word is perspective though, not mindset.
this series is awesome, I have so many secrets that I keep, thanks for sharing this idea with the world.
People always ask me why I want to work at the legal age (14 and 9 months) and I always say "to buy clothes and stuff" but my real goal is to help my grandma and parents who are struggling financially and I feel like it's my fault that we are in this situation because they have to pay so much for school. But it doesn't get better because my mum and dad have never had a good relationship and I'm afraid they'll have a divorce.
The lady at 1:52 must be intervened NOW!!! We can't have those kind of values floating around in our society!!! Pure Machiavelism. It's concerning how some people even defend her in the comment section.
You would not take 20,000 infront of you if it was your only chance to help your desperate family
My money secret: I despise when people say that money can't buy happiness. I feel like money would solve every single one of my problems thus resulting in a stress free, happier life.
I love this series thank you.
can you guys do a video of 30 pple defining what love is ...in their own words ....
Don't go after money, let money come to you. In other words, don't let money control you! You control the money!
Always remember that it’s okay to struggle in life everyone does it. It’s okay to ask for help financially. You are never alone
thank you jubilee for this video the video I didn't know I needed till know :)
I'm glad I didn't go to college, and I honestly don't feel like I missed anything.
So much of this hit home for me. I guess I should be appreciative about my job (I wasn’t for a while), and I’m choosing trade school, those 35-100k debts scared me so bad XXXDDD
I was just having a debate with my friends on money
But did you *ben shapiro'ed* them ?aka destroy those snowflake libtard friends of yours with facts and logic if not then that wasn't very cash money of you.
Money secret: I spent literally all my money on vintage furbies and I dont know why
2:08 ..damn, this really did hit home..
Amuletas I felt the same way and I repeat that part three times because I often feel like that
great video as always, and thank you for introducing SIMPLE HABIT.
Two years ago my family lived on $600 a month and we never had enough left to get new clothes.
During that time I had only two pairs of pants and four shirts that properly fit. The kids in my neighborhood teased me because I could only afford clothes from Wal-Mart. I felt super embarrassed but it was all we could afford.
Today we have stable income but even now times are tough.
Oh and yes I have more clothes now!
I like the ending (the reaction of the person) cuz that's how we have to think. We are alive and safe now. So if we actually have the need of help, we have to search it also
plot twist: they're actually reading their own secrets
We all want to achieve financial freedom. I'm definitely aiming for that. I'm still far from it though 😂but I'm aiming for it. I just try my best to practice gratitude and appreciate what I have, no matter how little. And that helps me feel better about my life. I know this will sound cheesy and lame, but I do wish for positive life changing events for those who are really struggling with their financial life at the moment. I hope you will continue to find strength to get your life some place better 😊
I am a selfish hoarder when it comes to money and I know it, even when my friends and family are struggling financially.
Can i share a secret?
I was a shaken baby and its very hard to be a normal person as people see me and i dont even mean to. Its hard to do things that a 20 year old should be out doing when you cant even handle saving money, or moving out, having friends that arnt 40 years older then me, or to even drive because you cant trust your judgement on some things. It hurts when my parents watch the news and complain about how people my age wont go and do things when im one of thoes people but they dont blame me because of something that happened to me when i was 3 months old. I could keep going buy this post is already so long.
People be around me because I have money after lost mom and my dad no one stop with me from this people I help !! Just some true friends show and support
Money.... a blessing and a curse!!
Love.these videos. My favorite videos on UA-cam