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Love the concept of the video, but the sighs and dramatic pauses are too over the top. I appreciate the insight of people who legitimately provide support or a relatable story, but watching some of these dramatic readings is meh.
This thread is getting really toxic, but anyway, I'll add my opinion. I am a christian, and I am straight, but it sure wasn't a choice. And think about it for a second. JUST THINK WHY WOULD ANYONE WANT TO MAKE THINGS HARDER FOR THEMSELVES BY "CHOOSING" TO BE GAY???? Not everyone is as free as you @NoobPlayzNow to just go around commenting some total bullsh*t and create some drama (that you probably regret by now but idgaf), so if you have nothing intelligent to say, just don't say anything
I have not come out to my parents and I don't plan on doing so because I am afraid of what my family will do to me if they find out (e.g., conversion therapy, threats, financial constraint, etc). Because of that emotional disconnect, I have never felt genuine love for my family. I feel especially alone, bitter, and depressed on family holidays because everyone shares how much they appreciate and love their moms and dads but I have no idea what that is like. I have so many wonderful friends, but I just wish i had that family love that is seemingly so common everywhere else.
Ethan C That sounds horrible but if it makes you feel better family love isn't as common as you think. Most people I know have problems with their families as well. Having that love sounds amazing but isn't vital to living. That's just kinda what I tell myself when I get lonely. But I think you're smart for keeping it to yourself until you no longer depend on your family. Are you ok?
Welcome to Muslim Theocracies. I know a friend who immigrated from Egypt who explained how if they find out that you're a homosexual, you would receive capital punishment, execution. Police would disguise themselves as gay people on dating sites and stuff to try to trick homosexuals to meeting with them so they may arrest them. The concept of transgender and other aspects of the LGBTQ+ chain doesn't exist, the concept doesn't exist in those countries
Desiree H it’s sad that had to be s thought in or head but it’s the sad truth. I was very thankful my mom took it the way she did and I love her so much.
"I feel more judgement from LGBT community than straight people" This is very true. We all fight for the world to accept us and not discriminate but within the community itself, there is so much discrimination and racism. It's sickening.
Varun Singh very true. I am bisexual and sometimes I feel more judgment from the community than from straight people. It’s a little tough because we’re not straight but not considered “gay” or “queer” enough.
It’s really true because there are people who pretend to be in the community when really they aren’t (furries, “fae” people, etc) there are people who invalidate other people, there are people who don’t understand that we should support each other, not tear each other down.
Andy An example is some bisexuals don’t like ‘coming out’ because they feel pressured by everyone to make up their minds. And if you tell anyone who is part of the lgbt community that you like the same gender or don’t identify as heterosexual, they sometimes pressure you to come out or they just tell everyone without your consent.
@@REloadedX4 There is quite a problem in the gay community of people being mean, judgemental, deceitful, and spread rumors. Go hang out in a drag bar and you'll see.
@@desalex4683 I saw that on Grownish. On Grownish, a bisexual girl had a Lesbian girlfriend who doesn't believe in bisexuality, so the Lesbian dumped her bisexual girlfriend for an actual Lesbian. Then, the bisexual girl founds out that she met a bisexual guy, then became really insecure about it, thinking he might cheat on her with straight or other bisexual guys.
Would be so cool if "coming out" was no longer a thing, just a casual "I'm into men and/or women actually" during a conversation if anyone accidentally assumed incorrectly without any big deal, awkwardness or offence
I want that world. I want a world where we don’t have to call ourselves by labels like bi gay or trans, but it just be a normal part of life that doesn’t have to be addressed.
Yes. Sexuality and gender shouldn’t just be assumed... this is why I also hate gendered clothes and the idea that being heterosexual is the definition of normal. Being of a different sexuality/identification doesn’t make one “out of the ordinary”.
being bisexual it's almost as if you're either not gay enough or not straight enough. It's hard to navigate the community when some people don't even believe it's a real thing and not some phase or stop on your way to being fully gay.
Yeah, I've seen so much biphobia from straight and gay people. That's crazy. I'm lesbian and I think it's fucked up that even in the LGBT community we put each other down.
Sometime I just want it both ways. But I feel like I have to pick a side. My parents aren’t homophobic or anything but I feel like I can never come out.
I really consider it inappropriate for us to bring each other down in this community. we all share same interest and passion for we to be free from hiding, lets try to support and guide each other in everything.
"I'm the weird gay girl" this hit me hard... Edit: a year later I am an open trans guy and I am a gay male. Heh turns out it wasn't about sexuality it was about gender ha
Hating someone for their sexuality is as disgusting as judging someone for their skin color . Loving, appreciating and accepting each other how we are is what makes us a human
I can honestly say, Jubilee is the best channel i have ever had the chance to find. You guys deserve way more recognition. You put so much effort and soul into your videos and i am glad that such an inspirational and emotive channel exists. Keep up what you are doing. It brings not only awareness about important issues, it also inspires and gives hope💛
Agree. This channel suddenly pop out in my feed and I'm glad that I decided to click and watch. I always watch at midnight so that I can think more abt the videos' contents
I'm a straight man but I have no problem with anybody especially over anything as vague as their sexuality if that's you then thats you no nobody should judge you for what or who you are some people are so closed minded I'm all about acceptance
@@guacabolee were all human and it makes me sick to see that so many people are careless or heartless because they don't accept someone for who or what they like they fail to realise that words cut deeper then actual wounds I'd hate to be the reason some innocent soul takes their life
@Spellcaster86The fact that something is a stimulation of the brain has nothing to do with its importance to us as humans. All human emotions and experiences boils down to brain stimulation, but that certainly doesn't make them less valuable.
@Spellcaster86 Yes, i realize what dopamine is, i too took bio lessons in 7th grade, but luckily that didn't make me a pessimistic ass. You are such a sad a bleak person. Seriously. All you do is spam people with irrelevant points about how they and their emotions don't matter, because it's all just chemicals in your brain. You are the kind of person that gives athiests, sceptics and scientists a bad name. Just because you have a genuine inability to comprehend, or even feel, love or any other normal human emotion, does not mean that you should try to take that away from others too.
@Spellcaster86 and also, love is not a delusion. Yes, science has explained the concept of love, yay science whatever. But that doesn't make the emotion any less important
I can 100% relate to the one about pretending to be straight just to try and get people to ignore your sexuality. It's so heartbreaking that so many people (teens especially) feel they have to hide who they are from their friends and family.
Thank you. I'm aroace and my friends are super confused in how I don't feel attraction, along with other people telling me that I'm "broken" and that "I just haven't found the right person". Once again thank you ❤️
Imagine being judged for being who you truly are. My sexual orientation or my gender identification doesn't make me less of a human.I'm Human Just Like Everyone else and I should be treated like one.
@@bigounceoffcial4247 actually. No. There are two sexes and many genders. Sex is classified as biological. Male or female. And gender is classified as biological or non-biologocal. Non-binary, Transgender, Gender fluid, Etc. So no. By science and common sense you are wrong. Have a nice day
To all the lgbt people hurting right now, I know how you feel. I came out as lesbian to my mom a few months ago, and her reaction honestly hurt me so much. She told me that I was disgusting and a disappointment, and that I must be confused or I was going through a phase. She even said that being gay was a "choice" and that I was choosing to embarrass HER and ruin HER life. I was crying so much and she didn't even care. I still love my mom, but our relationship has definitely gotten worse after that. But I am trying to stay strong and love myself even if my mom doesn't support me ❤🏳️🌈 Stay strong everyone. It will get better. You can get through this.
@@dustymaxwell8305 I'm sorry he told you that. That sucks :( My mom isn't religious, but unfortunately she still thinks it's unnatural and gross and wrong.
I’m going to give you your own advice; stay strong. It will get better. You WILL get through this. You are a beautiful human being and you deserve to be loved and respected. Hopefully your mom will take the time to educate herself and change her thoughts on LGBTQ+, but if she doesn’t, I hope that she just learns to accept you for the way that you are, even if she still believes it to be a choice. I'm bisexual; I lost my best friend coming out but now I have better friends who accept me for who I am. Good luck, things will get better, just give her time 🏳️🌈
I'm straight and I have gay and bisexual friends, so this really breaks my heart that some people feel this way. I can't imagine any of my friends going through this.. if they did, they never told me. I hope one day we can all live peacefully and talk to each other about these things. I absolutely do not care about who you sleep with or who you love, that is your choice, as long as you're a decent person.
I hate myself sometimes for being bisexual and wish to be straight Edit: if anyone wants to talk my insta is ,, tirednezzz " if u need something im here Edit2: im happy that i wrote this message (dont get me wrong please) a lot of people texted me and im glad to help always if you need to talk im still here ♡
@@olivierdeshaye9455 because i just want to be ,,normal" like other people are in my country you might even get killed for being lgbtq+ Why cant i be like others Why must i make everything difficult Even in lgbtq+ they say that bi people arent real just its so much i havent came out in family and if i will do im 80% sure they will kick me out and i dont want to feel all that and i dont want to be in fear and thoughts like that i just want to live normally
@Spellcaster86 because people do care. People do attack physically for it. Threaten and take lives because of it. This has been proven. It's perfectly expected to fear and expect hate because it's always there. You may believe with your science mind it's natural but others don't and they are the ones who keep it being scary and dangerous
@Caweys better than nothing. Still proves my point there are people who don't support and who can be aggressive. I find it idiotic not to support who someone is but i won't treat you as less do to it
"Ive known that I'm bisexual I've never told anyone" and that really hits me. I will keep this secret forever. My parents will freakin furious if they will find out. And it scares me the most.
Hey, it’s not like your parents are the only people you can tell! If you’re a minor, you can still move to a new place and meet accepting people when you’re older! You can make friends online who you can be candid about your sexuality with! You shouldn’t have to keep a part of yourself secret.
I wanted to write a comment about my struggles as a bisexual, but then I got scared I'm not LGBTQ+ enough I think that's exactly what this community shouldn't make me feel
you are perfectly LGBTQ+, 100% As a bi person myself, I understand the struggle. But you must be proud of who you are, and you are more than worth it. Much love to you, my friend
I can relate to you so much.... I am sometimes so confused that I can't understand what I'm feeling. I remember how I realized that at a certain moment the emotion I felt was actually a sorrow... Being unable to talk with somebody about it makes it so hard.
So started crying 😭 Me and my brother are part of the lgbt community and im so proud I am 15 and i am bisexual And my brother is 17 and he is bisexual as well we have kept this secret for 2 years now and no one knows except from me and my brother We are planning to come out to our family this year 😭🙏🏻
Anyone should be proud of who they are, regardless of gender or sexual orientation, be proud as long as you're doing no harm to yourself or others. My daughter likes boys and girls, and I love her the same, she's my blood, so I support her regardless.
Hi, I wanted to say something about myself. I'm a 12 year old bisexual girl. I never used to get why people found it so hard to come out, but now I understand. I'm afraid to come out to mum because I'm scared she'll say I'm just doing it for attention or that I'm not bi because I'm too young to know that already. I hope everyone that wrote the messages in the video are alright and that they find somewhere safe. Peace✌
If you need someone to talk to you about this kind of stuff, you can contact me on Reddit (Insomniac_Gurl) or Instagram (doggo_.lover).I'll be happy to help you.
im 12 yr old bisexual girl too and Ik now too, because I am coming out to my parents on my birthday with a note because idk how to tell them in words, and im tired of trying to hide the fact that im bi
I'm bisexual. I would always post gay things on my Instagram. My Instagram was private btw. The only family I had that followed me was my two cousins and I trusted them completely. My dad's side of the family is religious. I don't know how, but my aunt would check her daughter's account to make sure she wasn't doing anything bad. She saw my account and told my uncle my mom and dad, btw I never came out to them. It was my decision to come out not her and I wasn't ready. I cried that night. I never visited my aunt ever since. I'm gonna see her this Thanksgiving, I'm not ready.
When the mom started crying I just AAAAAAAAAAA, I came out to my dad who's really supportive and I hope that he knows I'm really grateful for him and how much he helps me
“IAM the weird gay girl “ That was the voice in my head when I told my friend I liked without knowing her sexuality. I couldn’t stop recalling the memory of what I confessed. It was the end of the school when I confessed.
my mom saw me kiss a girl. my mom told me to never speak to her again or be seen with her again. my mom said she felt like having a heart attack, she cried so much. she said she wouldn’t support me. she would kick me out. no college, no future. it’s been 2 months but it still hurts. she’s still my girlfriend but we both know it’s hard. yet she still stays. why does my mom have to be like that? my dad just agreed with her. why are they so closed minded?
why are you so selfish your mom saw kiss you are girl and kicked you out do you think it’s easy for her that her daughter is a disappointment and yes you are a disappointment and its hurts me to say this but i don’t support you
Sorry your parents are like that. Also don't take the guy who replied seriously. He purposefully went on a jubilee video like this to find people being vulnerable
I’ve heard and watched coming out stories from friends, and some experienced(including myself) their parents having a hard time accepting that they are LGBTQ because of how “harsh the world may treat them.” BUT wow the mom. She felt how her son probably felt being scared coming out to, not only the world, but the people he cares about AND all she wants to do is to protect him. So much love.
Being aromantic and asexual even other lgbt people don't think I exist and that I don't belong in the community. They also think I'm faking just to be included. I also don't feel very human since I've never felt much of anything towards another person. Everyone pushes the idea of marriage and children and I'm gonna be forever alone. Edit: thank you so much for the overwhelming support it's much appreciated ❤
For what it's worth, I know that you exist and that you're a valid member of the community, and I think most LGBTQ+ people feel the same. Unfortunately those who try to erase or invalidate certain people in the community are often the most vocal. Also, keep in mind there are lots of people of all sexualities who aren't living with the ultimate goal of marriage and children (me included), so you're far from alone in that. If that path isn't for you, there's nothing wrong with that. Our society tends to assign huge value to relationships, but really, life is so much more, so please don't feel less human for being you.
For the longest time I thought everyone was faking that they were attracted to other people! Then some friends explained to me that it is real! To help with the explaining it, I say (to a straight girl for example). Do you feel sexual/romantic attraction towards girls? (The answer being no) then I explain that this lack of attraction is how I feel about everyone.
The mom made me 😭 I wish I had a supportive family who would make me feel safe and loved. I live a double life and I feel so lonely and rejected all the time
I support and love you. Take your time with everything and surround your self with safe people. Please never feel rejected, but I understand how hard it must be. You are so strong and I have so much respect for you.
You reading the comments! I want to let you know that you are loved, wanted, your life has meaning and there is a reason for you to be in this world. Do not ever lose hope! 💗
I practically grew up in Brazil, and the one about fearing for their life really got to me. I came out as trans last year and I can never go back there out of fear of not only my life, but my own family refused to welcome or house me. I’m just a teenager.
I once was in the same exact position as you, ill tell you it gets better and easier when you come out to someone you fully trust :) also don't forget the rest the of the bisexual community is always here for you ❤️
Same girl! Coming out is hard and is usually knid of awful, but it also feels like a huge weight has been lifted off you. It was simultaneously the best and worse expirence of my life. I hope you find the courage to come out (if you want to). Coming out to a friend first is usually easiest, but that's just me.
Ellie Bane thank you 💕 sometime I will be fully ready but I’m not sure when that will be... it’s hard cause I have a boyfriend right now but holding onto a secret like this just makes me feel horrible and guilty...
I have to say that whenever someone nervously laughs at something like this it makes me see their humanity even more because laughter is a coping mechanism and seeing that everyone does that shoes how all humans have some similarities and that makes people feel as of they are human no matter how much the world says they aren't.
Sometimes I forget that although I’m not out, there’s a very small chance I’ll get more then verbal abuse when I do come out. I can’t imagine how tough it is to have your life threatened and to never be able to be the real you with a person you truly love.
I watched this video 3 years ago after I had just came out and been disowned by my mum, after a few years we're now close again. It was heart breaking, but I am so much stronger and happier now. To anyone who is going through something similar and might be reading this years after the video was posted, I see you. There are people out there that will love you unconditionally. With time things heal, you are not the problem. I love you.
I think i ghostwrote the 15 year old’s secret. But I recently came out to my bestfriends and internet friends and glad they accepted me. Now it’s time I accept myself🙂
i feel so guilty for being myself. i wish i never found out about the lgbtq community sometimes and just stayed oblivious to my attraction to girls and how im not even a girl. i even regret coming out to my friends sometimes and tried to take it back because of this guilt. i am now pretending to be someone im not to please my parents and society. when im online im myself, the person i hopefully will accept and be someday.
"I feel more judgement from the LGBT community than I do from straight people and it makes me heartbroken." *Sigh*... bisexuals know that feeling, especially us bi guys.
Please talk about us asexuals. Sometimes, I get judged by LGBTQ members (especially my friends) for being "very straight", and that " I chose to be like that". I did not chose this because, I am like this. Knowing that all my friends have lost their virginity at 25, and I am the weird one since I never lost mine is very weird. I want to grow up and have a child, I don't want to grow old without anyone to love and support me, and most importantly, I don't want to die alone. Sometimes, I question myself When will I lose my virginity? I am 25 years old, asexual, and never lost my virginity, And yeah, pls make a video about us, and I support the LGBT community
@@song-pg9kj don't worry about having sex and losing your virginity. If you don't want to loose it, that's fine. Nobody is going to force you to have sex with them and you have the right to choose when you feel comfortable when to have sex.
@@song-pg9kj there is nothing wrong with you. I am 20 and still a virgin as well. I have never dated or even kissed anyone. I don't want to end up alone or lonely forever as well.
When I came out to my mom and told her that I feel in love with a girl, her immediate reaction was to tell we I was wrong and I “got lost in the way”, she says that’s the only thing that she will never accept. I made her a promise that I will be “straight” and I never talked to the girl again. She made me feel like the most disgusting human being ever and I still cry to this day. My family is full of homophones and even if my mom doesn’t make any more comments about it, my sister and my dad still make me feel indirectly bad by saying homophobic comments. I’m just hoping to finish university and get out of my house.
The third one is one I relate to. I raised in a very religious community. I was the pastor's grandson, even share his name. They literally could never know. There is no way it'd be okay with them. I'm getting more distant from them as it is due to me being an atheist but, I hate the fact all these expectations are on me to be someone that isn't me at all.
My story is the same, except I'm the sheikh/imam's granddaughter. My family can never know that I'm a lesbian and an atheist or they'll all cutt all ties with me. But living in hiding is starting to become unbearable.
@@Whimswirl I know, I came to my closest high school friends, (I've known them for almost 8 years) but they're the only people who know I'm trans. I just couldn't have this bottled forever. I'm pretty close to just, trying to transition on my own when I finish college in a year.
Yeah i can relate my mom think that " Homosexuality is the work of the devil and shouldn't be accepted in anyways" and that " Gay ppl shouldn't have the nerve to show it in public and should at least be hidden"
Beni Please don’t just ignored your family, no mat what. You never know when they might not be there anymore, and even if you have different beliefs you shouldn’t push away family because of that.
@Spellcaster86 You have an awfully bleak outlook. Emotional and physical love are what cause empathy between people. I for one don't want to live in the dystopia you describe.
@Spellcaster86 1) because the latin root word fits with the consept. One word that has multiple usages, strangely enough that isn't unheard of 2) 2 irrelevant points. 3) That's not how evolution works
@Spellcaster86 Yes, you make it abundantly clear that you have your own delusions of grandeur. I'm well aware of what love is. Being a chemical reaction does not devalue anything. Perhaps you find the idea of living in a Charlie Chaplin movie where everyone is part of a machine appealing, but I would much rather enjoy being human.
I almost shed a tear, I am lucky that I can be open about being bisexual and having mental illness, my parents are the only ones that don't know, and I don't feel like I need to tell them. They love me, and they might be awkward at first, if I tell them. But they would still love me! I hope, that these bonds between friends and family remain the same, doesn't matter what sexuality someone has!
it’s been a year and a couple of months since i came out as non-binary and bisexual to my parents. they didn’t accept me and everything went downhill since that day. my mental health got worse and worse day by day...i started crying while i was watching this video because i realised i resonate with everything written by these people, struggling like me and many others. that’s sad. i hope there’s a way out of the pain.
I have a girlfriend. We are in a long distance relationship, and when I’m at my dads house, I have to call my girlfriend my friend, and I’m afraid to tell her that I love her in front of my dad and his girlfriend, so I go into another room just to FaceTime her, and spend time talking to her. My mom has been extremely accepting, and so has my sister, Brittany, but it still feels like I can’t be myself at times. Some of my family members don’t believe my sexuality, and argue with me about it. I lost one of my best friends, because I came out to her. It’s something that I still deal with.
Here I am in my bathroom closet, crying because I'm listening to all of this secrets and I'm going through the same as this people, I'm afraid my parents will NEVER accept for who I was and I will never be able to come out.
im bisexual. i was fearing to tell one of my closest friends but i knew i had to do it sooner or later. so one day i built up the courage and told her. we're not friends anymore.
Looking at these videos we can clearly see that homosexuality or the LGBT community in general is always a problem in society and it breaks my heart. It should not be a secret or even a weight to wear! I am devastated by humanity!
I have a closeted gay friend and he came out to me. We live in Malaysia, homosexuality is a crime here, and he is absolutely terrified of it. He told me " I wish I could change, I can't choose who I want to like and that's not fair". I cried after hearing his words. A few months after that, he killed himself...
The mom at 2:43 especially touched me I broke into tears. I legit said "Thanks mom!" as if she were my own. I wish my parents would think of me that way.
Ive been out for just over a year now. Ive always been an advocate in identity expression. My biggest regret tho. Is coming out. Im fortune to have a supportive family and friends and i didnt think much of it when i came out. But now ive seen the world. And im ashamed people know who i actually am. I wish i had waited. No matter how confident i am i will never truly know myself. So i will help you and countless other find themselves but deep down ik i cannot find the joy i help others seek
@I AM FRUITY its like no one sees me the same anymore. People refrain from talking about their stright relationships around me bc they thinknit will weird me out. Closested or not its still me and they should just act the same way
im glad I found this channel and I’m so privileged to live in a place where it’s legal and accepted to be myself. I’m gonna be more aware of how I treat my fellow members of the community.
I tried to come out to my mom as bi when I was 12. She didn't take it well... I'm 16 now and I have told everyone in my family except her that I have a girlfriend and I don't think I'll come out to her again until I move out
There is nothing wrong with you, if you don’t want to have sex or have a partner, that’s totally up to you. Nobody should make you feel forced to do things out of your comfort zone. There is nothing wrong with you, trust me :)
thank you, once again, jubilee & simple habit for making a positive difference in our lives 💛 sending lots of love for everyone that can relate to this video because _love is love._
Even within the community , there are differences.. some people don't believe other spectrums exist ... It's sad ...Hope we all work it out together... Because end of the day , we all are in same boat fighting the same battle
when i was 13 i came to terms with my sexuality. i found out i was bi. my parents who are strictly catholic and don’t support the community went through my ipad at the time and found out. ever since being forced out, i’ve felt more alone in my own home than ever. i’m 16
I am so lucky too have a supporting family and supporting friends, just thinking about losing anyone I love because I like all is giving me cills. everybody who doesn't have a circle of support, I hope and dream for you, that you'll find your own family soon
The note resonated with me the most where it says about feeling more judgement by the LGBT+ community than from the straight people. That is how I have always felt after coming out.
Y'know, i am straight and i never thought about being in a relationship with a woman, Yet i hope that anyone can love the person they want. I want them to come out and have they pride they should have. Anyone should love the person they want. I respect everyone for their love or beliefs. We are all humans
My mom looked through my phone and found out I'm pansexual (she didn't find out about being trans though, luckily). We talked about it and she said she'd rather me not determine this until after I graduate. I told her I still want to go to prom and all, and she asked if I'd consider going to prom with a girl. When I said yes, she started crying. I honestly hope she forgets about it. She told me to at least not come out to my grandad because he wouldn't understand. She then told me that she didn't want me to date a girl "out of spite" for her and dad. Apparently, she'd dated a hispanic guy for 10 years because her parents were racist. So in the same day, my mom found out I'm pan, I figured out she's homophobic, and I figured out my grandparents who I thought the world of were both homophobic and racist.
Reminder, you do not have to come out. You do not owe anyone anything. Especially your sexuality. Just all please try to be safe and unapologetically be yourself. You are perfect the way you are. And I think we should try to normalize not coming out and just being, if that makes sense? Like don't hide it but you don't have to tell people
My favorite hobby is watching coming out stories and crying because I feel the same or crying to stories that are happy because ill never be able to feel the happiness they feel
The mother made me cry. I'm a 20 year old gay man living in the U.S. I'm very lucky that I have a supportive family who loves me, I just wish all LGBT+ people could have the same love and support that I have from my family.
The one about the dad and mom touching his arm got me!! I always say that’s my question before I commit or marry, “Will you treat our child any different if they came out as as anything other than straight (Gay/Lesbian/Transgender). I’ll be damn if anyone makes my kids feel worthless or less than ESPECIALLY their own father!!!
I'm lesbian. My mom is religious. I never decided to come out but she once looked at my instagram and found out about it (she also found out that I have a transgender girlfriend). Altough my family is quiet loving, I have never felt this scared of my parents. They don't trust me anymore and keep looking at my stuff now, they even threatened me to kick me out. I still love them but it's really hard... I wish they would just accept me.
I am saddened that so many LGBTQ kids and teenagers struggle to come out to family, suffer from suicidal thoughts and depression, are fearful of what people may think and are impacted by the judgement of others in our community. I was very lucky to have 2 wonderful parents who didn’t judge me or my husband at all. I have always been supported and loved by my family and friends who accept me as I am. To Anyone in our community who is struggling through these feelings or thoughts, know that there are people like me out in this world who accept you just the way you are, who want only the best future ahead for you and send you all big hugs of hope for a better tomorrow. Whenever you feel lonely just know there are people like me out here in UA-cam land who are always here to listen. ❤️
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Love the concept of the video, but the sighs and dramatic pauses are too over the top. I appreciate the insight of people who legitimately provide support or a relatable story, but watching some of these dramatic readings is meh.
alright who's cutting onions
do a video where moms read these
This thread is getting really toxic, but anyway, I'll add my opinion.
I am a christian, and I am straight, but it sure wasn't a choice.
And think about it for a second. JUST THINK
WHY WOULD ANYONE WANT TO MAKE THINGS HARDER FOR THEMSELVES BY "CHOOSING" TO BE GAY????
Not everyone is as free as you @NoobPlayzNow to just go around commenting some total bullsh*t and create some drama (that you probably regret by now but idgaf), so if you have nothing intelligent to say, just don't say anything
Kaylene Lee the deleted the other comments?
Having to deal with the fear of death for something like your sexuality sounds terrifying.
I have not come out to my parents and I don't plan on doing so because I am afraid of what my family will do to me if they find out (e.g., conversion therapy, threats, financial constraint, etc). Because of that emotional disconnect, I have never felt genuine love for my family. I feel especially alone, bitter, and depressed on family holidays because everyone shares how much they appreciate and love their moms and dads but I have no idea what that is like. I have so many wonderful friends, but I just wish i had that family love that is seemingly so common everywhere else.
Ethan C That sounds horrible but if it makes you feel better family love isn't as common as you think. Most people I know have problems with their families as well. Having that love sounds amazing but isn't vital to living. That's just kinda what I tell myself when I get lonely. But I think you're smart for keeping it to yourself until you no longer depend on your family. Are you ok?
Spellcaster86 I don't know what you're talking about? Please explain?
It's just the bias of humanity. It will never go away is the sad reality
Welcome to Muslim Theocracies. I know a friend who immigrated from Egypt who explained how if they find out that you're a homosexual, you would receive capital punishment, execution. Police would disguise themselves as gay people on dating sites and stuff to try to trick homosexuals to meeting with them so they may arrest them. The concept of transgender and other aspects of the LGBTQ+ chain doesn't exist, the concept doesn't exist in those countries
When the mom started crying, I absolutely lost it.
Me too
Same 😢😭❤
Stranger Than You HAHAHA me too. Bloody hilarious
@@MrInkblots wow, you're so funny. Got em, am I right?
@@roses6146 yeah you people carry on way too much
The mom really hit me 😰
Desiree H it’s sad that had to be s thought in or head but it’s the sad truth. I was very thankful my mom took it the way she did and I love her so much.
princeton pennington yeaa.. me too 😭
princeton pennington sameee
Same😭😭
She's so lovely
"I feel more judgement from LGBT community than straight people"
This is very true. We all fight for the world to accept us and not discriminate but within the community itself, there is so much discrimination and racism. It's sickening.
Varun Singh very true. I am bisexual and sometimes I feel more judgment from the community than from straight people. It’s a little tough because we’re not straight but not considered “gay” or “queer” enough.
Brenda Villanueva just ignore the rude & toxic ones bc there are actually people in the lgbtq+ community who do accept you the way you are.
@@Brandedbyfire amen, seriously
jasmine stones thank you Jasmine. I do know a couple that are and I am blessed to have them in my life.
It’s really true because there are people who pretend to be in the community when really they aren’t (furries, “fae” people, etc) there are people who invalidate other people, there are people who don’t understand that we should support each other, not tear each other down.
To the person who wrote the first note:
There is a b s o l u t e l y nothing (not even a tiny little bit) wrong with you.
"Weird Gay Girl" like WTF does that even mean? Why you would be weird?
Andrew Ryan are you serious, are you being serious, is this a serious thought that you have created in your head and have decided to comment?
@@ilovepups127 there was a person who commented something highly homophobic under this LGBTQ supportive video, I guess they deleted their comment
@@ilovepups127 it's fine😂
@@ex0ticfruit228 fax as a guy I love me some lesbian action, gays not so much😂😂
I find it sad how lgbtq members can’t support one another.
What is an example of this?
Andy An example is some bisexuals don’t like ‘coming out’ because they feel pressured by everyone to make up their minds. And if you tell anyone who is part of the lgbt community that you like the same gender or don’t identify as heterosexual, they sometimes pressure you to come out or they just tell everyone without your consent.
@@REloadedX4 There is quite a problem in the gay community of people being mean, judgemental, deceitful, and spread rumors. Go hang out in a drag bar and you'll see.
Andy alot of lesbians are disgusted by bisexual women
@@desalex4683 I saw that on Grownish. On Grownish, a bisexual girl had a Lesbian girlfriend who doesn't believe in bisexuality, so the Lesbian dumped her bisexual girlfriend for an actual Lesbian. Then, the bisexual girl founds out that she met a bisexual guy, then became really insecure about it, thinking he might cheat on her with straight or other bisexual guys.
Once the lady at 3:00 started crying, I started crying
[TheBlueLizzard ] yoooooo fellow steven crewniverse?
rhagar mills yesss!!
Me too
[TheBlueLizzard ] sameeeeeee
same...
Would be so cool if "coming out" was no longer a thing, just a casual "I'm into men and/or women actually" during a conversation if anyone accidentally assumed incorrectly without any big deal, awkwardness or offence
That's the way it should be!!
for one of my friends it was so maybe it's not that uncommon but for all my other friends idk if they came out to their family yet
exactly it's so frustrating i just wish it could be easier
I want that world. I want a world where we don’t have to call ourselves by labels like bi gay or trans, but it just be a normal part of life that doesn’t have to be addressed.
Yes. Sexuality and gender shouldn’t just be assumed... this is why I also hate gendered clothes and the idea that being heterosexual is the definition of normal. Being of a different sexuality/identification doesn’t make one “out of the ordinary”.
being bisexual it's almost as if you're either not gay enough or not straight enough. It's hard to navigate the community when some people don't even believe it's a real thing and not some phase or stop on your way to being fully gay.
Yeah, I've seen so much biphobia from straight and gay people. That's crazy. I'm lesbian and I think it's fucked up that even in the LGBT community we put each other down.
Sometime I just want it both ways. But I feel like I have to pick a side. My parents aren’t homophobic or anything but I feel like I can never come out.
I really consider it inappropriate for us to bring each other down in this community. we all share same interest and passion for we to be free from hiding, lets try to support and guide each other in everything.
Right i always see people support gay . Lesbians and bi are often looked upon
it's the same with asexuals and aromantics too :'/
"I'm the weird gay girl" this hit me hard...
Edit: a year later I am an open trans guy and I am a gay male. Heh turns out it wasn't about sexuality it was about gender ha
Andy Lujan timestamp?
Esmee H its the second (?) ond
0:40
That hit way too close to home, dude
Where did you make your avatar?
“come out to safe people first” best piece of advice that’s come from this :/💞💕💝
Yeah and kind of shows the world we live in. Like how they can get hurt by their own family for their sexuality.
@@kkzepp146 all the best to you. Maybe one day when you're well settled then try to talk to them. Hope they understand.
Yass
Hating someone for their sexuality is as disgusting as judging someone for their skin color .
Loving, appreciating and accepting each other how we are is what makes us a human
💜💜🙏
(Army)
@Jewan Moore nobody's trying to force anything on you
@Jewan Moore tell me one time the lgbtq tried forcing their sexuality onto you. That's right, never.
Jewan Moore if you don’t accept gay people that’s literally what homophobia is.
@Jewan Moore and i hate when people shove their heterosexuality on my throat
I can honestly say, Jubilee is the best channel i have ever had the chance to find. You guys deserve way more recognition. You put so much effort and soul into your videos and i am glad that such an inspirational and emotive channel exists. Keep up what you are doing. It brings not only awareness about important issues, it also inspires and gives hope💛
Thank you so much. You are incredibly kind 🙏
This♥️
Agree. This channel suddenly pop out in my feed and I'm glad that I decided to click and watch. I always watch at midnight so that I can think more abt the videos' contents
i looked up “sad gay” because i want a good homosexual cry
Derek hi wow never have I ever related to a comment this hard before
omg same
i literally searched the same thing lmao
I literally search that as well.
Big mood lol
The mom with a gay son made me cry.
She’s an amazing human, and I wish everyone could have parents as accepting as her
I'm a straight man but I have no problem with anybody especially over anything as vague as their sexuality if that's you then thats you no nobody should judge you for what or who you are some people are so closed minded I'm all about acceptance
@@guacabolee were all human and it makes me sick to see that so many people are careless or heartless because they don't accept someone for who or what they like they fail to realise that words cut deeper then actual wounds I'd hate to be the reason some innocent soul takes their life
Thank you for being a great human being^
@@gugutenberg were all human is what I'm saying so sexuality should be no reason to discriminate anyone
More people should be like you. 😊😊
Bless you! I feel the same too! Love and acceptance are some of the few hopes that help us hold on and get by in this cruel world ...
We need to share more about sexuality in society!
@Spellcaster86The fact that something is a stimulation of the brain has nothing to do with its importance to us as humans. All human emotions and experiences boils down to brain stimulation, but that certainly doesn't make them less valuable.
@Spellcaster86 Yes, i realize what dopamine is, i too took bio lessons in 7th grade, but luckily that didn't make me a pessimistic ass. You are such a sad a bleak person. Seriously. All you do is spam people with irrelevant points about how they and their emotions don't matter, because it's all just chemicals in your brain. You are the kind of person that gives athiests, sceptics and scientists a bad name. Just because you have a genuine inability to comprehend, or even feel, love or any other normal human emotion, does not mean that you should try to take that away from others too.
No.
@Spellcaster86 why would you put love in quotes?
@Spellcaster86 and also, love is not a delusion. Yes, science has explained the concept of love, yay science whatever. But that doesn't make the emotion any less important
The mother who spoke about her and her son’s experience... ugh. 😭❤️
I can 100% relate to the one about pretending to be straight just to try and get people to ignore your sexuality. It's so heartbreaking that so many people (teens especially) feel they have to hide who they are from their friends and family.
Hi idk if ur there or gonna read this but can u tell me it's gonna be ok
@@anantsingh7442 it gets easier :)
@@lloydowens144 really
@@anantsingh7442 You get stronger and learn to love and accept yourself more, that makes it easier
@@lloydowens144 i did im just afraid of that my parents will disown me
To all my LGBTQ+ peeps, just know you're valid and loved. You're not broken or unnatural, you're beautiful and unique. I love you
tysm, I’m aro and ace and so many people say I’m broken or that I haven’t found the one yet. It’s so annoying
thank you i really needed this :)
Thank you. I'm aroace and my friends are super confused in how I don't feel attraction, along with other people telling me that I'm "broken" and that "I just haven't found the right person". Once again thank you ❤️
@@meowdazaimeow I just made the same comment. Hi aroace friend 😄
Hi idk if ur there or gonna read this but can u tell me it's gonna be ok
Imagine being judged for being who you truly are.
My sexual orientation or my gender identification doesn't make me less of a human.I'm Human Just Like Everyone else and I should be treated like one.
@@bigounceoffcial4247 literally no one asked
Ollo Is A Emo Walnut so.
yes you are but it is a straight up choice.
@@noobplayznow3982+ No, it is not a choice. People are born that way.
@@bigounceoffcial4247 actually. No. There are two sexes and many genders. Sex is classified as biological. Male or female. And gender is classified as biological or non-biologocal. Non-binary, Transgender, Gender fluid, Etc. So no. By science and common sense you are wrong. Have a nice day
I hope we all get the love we deserve while being who we truly are
Zainab bangtan most people never will
@@jamess.t.2816 nothing is wrong with having hope
Best comment ever.
I'm so hopeless
I really hope so
I'm pan, I like everybody, but sometimes I wish I just liked boys.
People can be cruel.
Honestly I think being Pan would be cool af, I’m bi
me too lol, stay strong
I am pan too sometimes it is hard to hide my feelings. I am there for you friend
I am proud gay :>
I’m aro and ace! stay strong and don’t give up
To all the lgbt people hurting right now, I know how you feel. I came out as lesbian to my mom a few months ago, and her reaction honestly hurt me so much. She told me that I was disgusting and a disappointment, and that I must be confused or I was going through a phase. She even said that being gay was a "choice" and that I was choosing to embarrass HER and ruin HER life. I was crying so much and she didn't even care. I still love my mom, but our relationship has definitely gotten worse after that. But I am trying to stay strong and love myself even if my mom doesn't support me ❤🏳️🌈 Stay strong everyone. It will get better. You can get through this.
MjOtaku you are loved
I just hope you’re mom isn’t religious like my mom and step dad. My step dad has even went as far as saying if I wanna burn in Hell.
@@dustymaxwell8305 I'm sorry he told you that. That sucks :( My mom isn't religious, but unfortunately she still thinks it's unnatural and gross and wrong.
@@ThystAme76 Thanks for the support ❤
I’m going to give you your own advice; stay strong. It will get better. You WILL get through this. You are a beautiful human being and you deserve to be loved and respected. Hopefully your mom will take the time to educate herself and change her thoughts on LGBTQ+, but if she doesn’t, I hope that she just learns to accept you for the way that you are, even if she still believes it to be a choice. I'm bisexual; I lost my best friend coming out but now I have better friends who accept me for who I am. Good luck, things will get better, just give her time 🏳️🌈
I'm straight and I have gay and bisexual friends, so this really breaks my heart that some people feel this way. I can't imagine any of my friends going through this.. if they did, they never told me. I hope one day we can all live peacefully and talk to each other about these things. I absolutely do not care about who you sleep with or who you love, that is your choice, as long as you're a decent person.
I hate myself sometimes for being bisexual and wish to be straight
Edit: if anyone wants to talk my insta is ,, tirednezzz " if u need something im here
Edit2: im happy that i wrote this message (dont get me wrong please) a lot of people texted me and im glad to help always if you need to talk im still here ♡
Why? Love is love.
@@olivierdeshaye9455 because i just want to be ,,normal" like other people are in my country you might even get killed for being lgbtq+
Why cant i be like others
Why must i make everything difficult
Even in lgbtq+ they say that bi people arent real just its so much i havent came out in family and if i will do im 80% sure they will kick me out and i dont want to feel all that and i dont want to be in fear and thoughts like that i just want to live normally
never hate yourself for your sexuality, as another bi person i know how it feels
@@gakeon963 yes i know its dumb just cant stop thoughts
Im really supportive of others but man i cant stop my mind
@@Ghoostu I hope your situation will get better. Stay strong
Two of my friends are bisexual, one of them already has the whole class knowing and we all accept her for who she is
@Spellcaster86 because people do care. People do attack physically for it. Threaten and take lives because of it. This has been proven. It's perfectly expected to fear and expect hate because it's always there. You may believe with your science mind it's natural but others don't and they are the ones who keep it being scary and dangerous
@Caweys better than nothing. Still proves my point there are people who don't support and who can be aggressive. I find it idiotic not to support who someone is but i won't treat you as less do to it
thats sweet
a big like for these wonderful people, stay positive guys
Its very difficult ........ Feel like finish it or quit it!
"Ive known that I'm bisexual I've never told anyone" and that really hits me. I will keep this secret forever. My parents will freakin furious if they will find out. And it scares me the most.
Hey, it’s not like your parents are the only people you can tell! If you’re a minor, you can still move to a new place and meet accepting people when you’re older! You can make friends online who you can be candid about your sexuality with! You shouldn’t have to keep a part of yourself secret.
"Come out to safe people first"
I came out to my mom tought it's the safest...was a bad decision..i can't trust her anymore
“I feel more judgement from the LGBT community than I do from straight people and that makes me sad” I can relate man, it’s hard.
Well. It looks like my eyes are sweating.
lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂
My eyes are tear bending
@@hafleet_1238 even satan has a good heart lol
I wanted to write a comment about my struggles as a bisexual, but then I got scared I'm not LGBTQ+ enough
I think that's exactly what this community shouldn't make me feel
If you need someone to talk to you about this kind of stuff, you can contact me on Reddit (Insomniac_Gurl) or Instagram (doggo_.lover)
you are perfectly LGBTQ+, 100%
As a bi person myself, I understand the struggle. But you must be proud of who you are, and you are more than worth it.
Much love to you, my friend
I can relate to you so much.... I am sometimes so confused that I can't understand what I'm feeling. I remember how I realized that at a certain moment the emotion I felt was actually a sorrow... Being unable to talk with somebody about it makes it so hard.
So started crying 😭
Me and my brother are part of the lgbt community and im so proud
I am 15 and i am bisexual
And my brother is 17 and he is bisexual as well we have kept this secret for 2 years now and no one knows except from me and my brother
We are planning to come out to our family this year 😭🙏🏻
good luck
me too im coming out on my birthday because that day they have to celebrate me and my twin anyways
@@elizabethshoemaker3731 GL!
@@nisalgunasekera9357 ty
Update?
Anyone should be proud of who they are, regardless of gender or sexual orientation, be proud as long as you're doing no harm to yourself or others.
My daughter likes boys and girls, and I love her the same, she's my blood, so I support her regardless.
This channel is a gem, seriously 💕
you misspelled "germ"
@@braintumor4194 you misspelled gem
@@braintumor4194 your username checks out
Jubilee is seriously doing monumental things on UA-cam. This is such quality, authentic content.
Hi, I wanted to say something about myself. I'm a 12 year old bisexual girl. I never used to get why people found it so hard to come out, but now I understand. I'm afraid to come out to mum because I'm scared she'll say I'm just doing it for attention or that I'm not bi because I'm too young to know that already. I hope everyone that wrote the messages in the video are alright and that they find somewhere safe. Peace✌
I get how you feel... My parents are Cathalic and Hispanic so I find it hard to open up to them. Hopefully we both will have the courage to come out
If you need someone to talk to you about this kind of stuff, you can contact me on Reddit (Insomniac_Gurl) or Instagram (doggo_.lover).I'll be happy to help you.
im 12 yr old bisexual girl too and Ik now too, because I am coming out to my parents on my birthday with a note because idk how to tell them in words, and im tired of trying to hide the fact that im bi
I'm bisexual. I would always post gay things on my Instagram. My Instagram was private btw. The only family I had that followed me was my two cousins and I trusted them completely. My dad's side of the family is religious. I don't know how, but my aunt would check her daughter's account to make sure she wasn't doing anything bad. She saw my account and told my uncle my mom and dad, btw I never came out to them. It was my decision to come out not her and I wasn't ready. I cried that night. I never visited my aunt ever since. I'm gonna see her this Thanksgiving, I'm not ready.
Good luck and stay strong! I know it isn't easy but you can get through this and never look down on yourself because of anything they might tell you.
How did it go?
@@MegaNatasha2000 they pretended like nothing ever happened
When the mom started crying I just AAAAAAAAAAA, I came out to my dad who's really supportive and I hope that he knows I'm really grateful for him and how much he helps me
“IAM the weird gay girl “
That was the voice in my head when I told my friend I liked without knowing her sexuality.
I couldn’t stop recalling the memory of what I confessed. It was the end of the school when I confessed.
That mother is so sweet
my mom saw me kiss a girl. my mom told me to never speak to her again or be seen with her again. my mom said she felt like having a heart attack, she cried so much. she said she wouldn’t support me. she would kick me out. no college, no future. it’s been 2 months but it still hurts. she’s still my girlfriend but we both know it’s hard. yet she still stays. why does my mom have to be like that? my dad just agreed with her. why are they so closed minded?
why are you so selfish your mom saw kiss you are girl and kicked you out do you think it’s easy for her that her daughter is a disappointment and yes you are a disappointment and its hurts me to say this but i don’t support you
Sorry your parents are like that. Also don't take the guy who replied seriously.
He purposefully went on a jubilee video like this to find people being vulnerable
i love u, and honestly never let anyone put u down you will always find the people who will love u and im one of them
I’ve heard and watched coming out stories from friends, and some experienced(including myself) their parents having a hard time accepting that they are LGBTQ because of how “harsh the world may treat them.” BUT wow the mom. She felt how her son probably felt being scared coming out to, not only the world, but the people he cares about AND all she wants to do is to protect him. So much love.
“Come our to safe people first” I love that. The mom was so beautiful and I started tearing when she mentioned her son
Being aromantic and asexual even other lgbt people don't think I exist and that I don't belong in the community. They also think I'm faking just to be included. I also don't feel very human since I've never felt much of anything towards another person. Everyone pushes the idea of marriage and children and I'm gonna be forever alone.
Edit: thank you so much for the overwhelming support it's much appreciated ❤
For what it's worth, I know that you exist and that you're a valid member of the community, and I think most LGBTQ+ people feel the same. Unfortunately those who try to erase or invalidate certain people in the community are often the most vocal. Also, keep in mind there are lots of people of all sexualities who aren't living with the ultimate goal of marriage and children (me included), so you're far from alone in that. If that path isn't for you, there's nothing wrong with that. Our society tends to assign huge value to relationships, but really, life is so much more, so please don't feel less human for being you.
You will always be included for me ❤️
For the longest time I thought everyone was faking that they were attracted to other people! Then some friends explained to me that it is real! To help with the explaining it, I say (to a straight girl for example). Do you feel sexual/romantic attraction towards girls? (The answer being no) then I explain that this lack of attraction is how I feel about everyone.
I'm just like you *but* I don't mind really care whether the LGBTQ+ does or doesn't accept me.
You are included and are valuable in my book.
The mom made me 😭 I wish I had a supportive family who would make me feel safe and loved. I live a double life and I feel so lonely and rejected all the time
If you need someone to talk to you about this kind of stuff, you can contact me on Reddit (Insomniac_Gurl) or Instagram (doggo_.lover)
I support and love you. Take your time with everything and surround your self with safe people. Please never feel rejected, but I understand how hard it must be. You are so strong and I have so much respect for you.
You reading the comments! I want to let you know that you are loved, wanted, your life has meaning and there is a reason for you to be in this world. Do not ever lose hope! 💗
I practically grew up in Brazil, and the one about fearing for their life really got to me. I came out as trans last year and I can never go back there out of fear of not only my life, but my own family refused to welcome or house me. I’m just a teenager.
1:58 ...wow I felt like that was directly to me... I’m a 15 year old bisexual girl... and I’m still scared to fully come out to my family or friends
I once was in the same exact position as you, ill tell you it gets better and easier when you come out to someone you fully trust :) also don't forget the rest the of the bisexual community is always here for you ❤️
Same girl! Coming out is hard and is usually knid of awful, but it also feels like a huge weight has been lifted off you. It was simultaneously the best and worse expirence of my life. I hope you find the courage to come out (if you want to). Coming out to a friend first is usually easiest, but that's just me.
annabel thank you for caring it means a lot 💕
Ellie Bane thank you 💕 sometime I will be fully ready but I’m not sure when that will be... it’s hard cause I have a boyfriend right now but holding onto a secret like this just makes me feel horrible and guilty...
same:/
It is so sad and awful that someone feels shame about their sexuality,we all people and must be more kindhearted and understanding
I have to say that whenever someone nervously laughs at something like this it makes me see their humanity even more because laughter is a coping mechanism and seeing that everyone does that shoes how all humans have some similarities and that makes people feel as of they are human no matter how much the world says they aren't.
Sometimes I forget that although I’m not out, there’s a very small chance I’ll get more then verbal abuse when I do come out. I can’t imagine how tough it is to have your life threatened and to never be able to be the real you with a person you truly love.
I watched this video 3 years ago after I had just came out and been disowned by my mum, after a few years we're now close again. It was heart breaking, but I am so much stronger and happier now. To anyone who is going through something similar and might be reading this years after the video was posted, I see you. There are people out there that will love you unconditionally. With time things heal, you are not the problem. I love you.
I think i ghostwrote the 15 year old’s secret. But I recently came out to my bestfriends and internet friends and glad they accepted me. Now it’s time I accept myself🙂
i feel so guilty for being myself. i wish i never found out about the lgbtq community sometimes and just stayed oblivious to my attraction to girls and how im not even a girl. i even regret coming out to my friends sometimes and tried to take it back because of this guilt. i am now pretending to be someone im not to please my parents and society. when im online im myself, the person i hopefully will accept and be someday.
you’ll be the person you’re striving to become. keep going please. be strong!!!
"I feel more judgement from the LGBT community than I do from straight people and it makes me heartbroken."
*Sigh*... bisexuals know that feeling, especially us bi guys.
and pans, trans, aces, aros, polys, omnis, inters, demis, etc. basically all the not really talked about orientations and genders lol
@@mariafausti3128 😭😭😭😭
Btw you are seriously allergic to cats
@@mariafausti3128 Aro and ace here!
Please talk about us asexuals. Sometimes, I get judged by LGBTQ members (especially my friends) for being "very straight", and that " I chose to be like that". I did not chose this because, I am like this. Knowing that all my friends have lost their virginity at 25, and I am the weird one since I never lost mine is very weird. I want to grow up and have a child, I don't want to grow old without anyone to love and support me, and most importantly, I don't want to die alone. Sometimes, I question myself
When will I lose my virginity?
I am 25 years old, asexual, and never lost my virginity,
And yeah, pls make a video about us, and I support the LGBT community
@Caweys what do you mean?
@@song-pg9kj don't worry about having sex and losing your virginity. If you don't want to loose it, that's fine. Nobody is going to force you to have sex with them and you have the right to choose when you feel comfortable when to have sex.
Caweys They dONT experience sexual attraction there’s nothing wrong with them
バスティ I mean, it’s not jubilee’s fault. The papers are anonymously sent through and maybe none of them were about asexuality
@@song-pg9kj there is nothing wrong with you. I am 20 and still a virgin as well. I have never dated or even kissed anyone. I don't want to end up alone or lonely forever as well.
When I came out to my mom and told her that I feel in love with a girl, her immediate reaction was to tell we I was wrong and I “got lost in the way”, she says that’s the only thing that she will never accept. I made her a promise that I will be “straight” and I never talked to the girl again. She made me feel like the most disgusting human being ever and I still cry to this day. My family is full of homophones and even if my mom doesn’t make any more comments about it, my sister and my dad still make me feel indirectly bad by saying homophobic comments. I’m just hoping to finish university and get out of my house.
The third one is one I relate to.
I raised in a very religious community. I was the pastor's grandson, even share his name.
They literally could never know. There is no way it'd be okay with them.
I'm getting more distant from them as it is due to me being an atheist but, I hate the fact all these expectations are on me to be someone that isn't me at all.
My story is the same, except I'm the sheikh/imam's granddaughter. My family can never know that I'm a lesbian and an atheist or they'll all cutt all ties with me. But living in hiding is starting to become unbearable.
@@Whimswirl I know, I came to my closest high school friends, (I've known them for almost 8 years) but they're the only people who know I'm trans.
I just couldn't have this bottled forever.
I'm pretty close to just, trying to transition on my own when I finish college in a year.
Yeah i can relate my mom think that " Homosexuality is the work of the devil and shouldn't be accepted in anyways" and that " Gay ppl shouldn't have the nerve to show it in public and should at least be hidden"
I know how you feel. My father is a pastor, school substitute, and charismatic old man known by literally everybody in the town.
Beni Please don’t just ignored your family, no mat what. You never know when they might not be there anymore, and even if you have different beliefs you shouldn’t push away family because of that.
I think I’m asexual and that terrifies me
Why does it terrify you?
@Spellcaster86 You have an awfully bleak outlook. Emotional and physical love are what cause empathy between people. I for one don't want to live in the dystopia you describe.
@Spellcaster86 1) because the latin root word fits with the consept. One word that has multiple usages, strangely enough that isn't unheard of
2) 2 irrelevant points.
3) That's not how evolution works
@Spellcaster86 Yes, you make it abundantly clear that you have your own delusions of grandeur. I'm well aware of what love is. Being a chemical reaction does not devalue anything. Perhaps you find the idea of living in a Charlie Chaplin movie where everyone is part of a machine appealing, but I would much rather enjoy being human.
@Spellcaster86 Ahh yes, breed the emotion out of them. You sick excuse of a human being
I almost shed a tear, I am lucky that I can be open about being bisexual and having mental illness, my parents are the only ones that don't know, and I don't feel like I need to tell them. They love me, and they might be awkward at first, if I tell them. But they would still love me! I hope, that these bonds between friends and family remain the same, doesn't matter what sexuality someone has!
Secret:
I’m trans... and bi. I don’t want to tell my parents because I think they’ll dis-own me.
it’s been a year and a couple of months since i came out as non-binary and bisexual to my parents. they didn’t accept me and everything went downhill since that day. my mental health got worse and worse day by day...i started crying while i was watching this video because i realised i resonate with everything written by these people, struggling like me and many others. that’s sad. i hope there’s a way out of the pain.
I honestly have no idea what I am, and that scares me.
KermitIsGreat You’re a Frog, accept it.
@@williamclegane6188 OMG!! I KNEW IT! Ty! Ty!
Take your time and don't worry about it. You'll figure it all out eventually!
I don't understand the "coming out" thing. Why people just assume every other person they are living with is straight?
Jubilee once again bring forward the content and points that are delicate and I really Love Jubilee for that
I have a girlfriend. We are in a long distance relationship, and when I’m at my dads house, I have to call my girlfriend my friend, and I’m afraid to tell her that I love her in front of my dad and his girlfriend, so I go into another room just to FaceTime her, and spend time talking to her. My mom has been extremely accepting, and so has my sister, Brittany, but it still feels like I can’t be myself at times. Some of my family members don’t believe my sexuality, and argue with me about it. I lost one of my best friends, because I came out to her. It’s something that I still deal with.
Here I am in my bathroom closet, crying because I'm listening to all of this secrets and I'm going through the same as this people, I'm afraid my parents will NEVER accept for who I was and I will never be able to come out.
im bisexual. i was fearing to tell one of my closest friends but i knew i had to do it sooner or later. so one day i built up the courage and told her. we're not friends anymore.
Looking at these videos we can clearly see that homosexuality or the LGBT community in general is always a problem in society and it breaks my heart. It should not be a secret or even a weight to wear! I am devastated by humanity!
I have a closeted gay friend and he came out to me. We live in Malaysia, homosexuality is a crime here, and he is absolutely terrified of it. He told me " I wish I could change, I can't choose who I want to like and that's not fair". I cried after hearing his words. A few months after that, he killed himself...
Oh...
My heart goes out to him and all the others like him. Its truly inhumane
Publicly coming out has been on my mind for so long that I am less afraid of being killed and more afraid of me killing myself.
❤️
The mom at 2:43 especially touched me I broke into tears. I legit said "Thanks mom!" as if she were my own. I wish my parents would think of me that way.
Ive been out for just over a year now. Ive always been an advocate in identity expression. My biggest regret tho. Is coming out. Im fortune to have a supportive family and friends and i didnt think much of it when i came out. But now ive seen the world. And im ashamed people know who i actually am. I wish i had waited. No matter how confident i am i will never truly know myself. So i will help you and countless other find themselves but deep down ik i cannot find the joy i help others seek
@I AM FRUITY its like no one sees me the same anymore. People refrain from talking about their stright relationships around me bc they thinknit will weird me out. Closested or not its still me and they should just act the same way
im glad I found this channel and I’m so privileged to live in a place where it’s legal and accepted to be myself. I’m gonna be more aware of how I treat my fellow members of the community.
I tried to come out to my mom as bi when I was 12. She didn't take it well... I'm 16 now and I have told everyone in my family except her that I have a girlfriend and I don't think I'll come out to her again until I move out
The firts one hits me, because i am not interested in sex or love at all and it feels that i'm broken, or that there's something wrong with me.
There is nothing wrong with you, if you don’t want to have sex or have a partner, that’s totally up to you. Nobody should make you feel forced to do things out of your comfort zone. There is nothing wrong with you, trust me :)
0:56 this is the comment I wrote. It’s really hard dealing with the dysphoria thank you so much for putting this into the video
thank you, once again, jubilee & simple habit for making a positive difference in our lives 💛 sending lots of love for everyone that can relate to this video because _love is love._
Even within the community , there are differences.. some people don't believe other spectrums exist ... It's sad ...Hope we all work it out together... Because end of the day , we all are in same boat fighting the same battle
That mother ... she made me cry wish my mom was as accepting as she is
Yes me too 😭😭💔
when i was 13 i came to terms with my sexuality. i found out i was bi. my parents who are strictly catholic and don’t support the community went through my ipad at the time and found out. ever since being forced out, i’ve felt more alone in my own home than ever. i’m 16
I am so lucky too have a supporting family and supporting friends, just thinking about losing anyone I love because I like all is giving me cills. everybody who doesn't have a circle of support, I hope and dream for you, that you'll find your own family soon
That one that said they feel more judgement from the LGBT community got me...
“Fall in love with my best friend” I feel you girl, it’s painful isn’t it.
3:16 A wonderful mother, I have so much respect for her 😭
The note resonated with me the most where it says about feeling more judgement by the LGBT+ community than from the straight people. That is how I have always felt after coming out.
Y'know, i am straight and i never thought about being in a relationship with a woman,
Yet i hope that anyone can love the person they want. I want them to come out and have they pride they should have. Anyone should love the person they want.
I respect everyone for their love or beliefs. We are all humans
At that crying mother I was on the verge of tears....
I think I'm in love w/ the girl who has curly hair 😍
My mom looked through my phone and found out I'm pansexual (she didn't find out about being trans though, luckily). We talked about it and she said she'd rather me not determine this until after I graduate. I told her I still want to go to prom and all, and she asked if I'd consider going to prom with a girl. When I said yes, she started crying. I honestly hope she forgets about it. She told me to at least not come out to my grandad because he wouldn't understand. She then told me that she didn't want me to date a girl "out of spite" for her and dad. Apparently, she'd dated a hispanic guy for 10 years because her parents were racist. So in the same day, my mom found out I'm pan, I figured out she's homophobic, and I figured out my grandparents who I thought the world of were both homophobic and racist.
Reminder, you do not have to come out. You do not owe anyone anything. Especially your sexuality. Just all please try to be safe and unapologetically be yourself. You are perfect the way you are. And I think we should try to normalize not coming out and just being, if that makes sense? Like don't hide it but you don't have to tell people
My favorite hobby is watching coming out stories and crying because I feel the same or crying to stories that are happy because ill never be able to feel the happiness they feel
The mother who started crying just made me so sad...we all need to accept one another no matter what ❤🧡💛💙💚💜💖💖
The mother made me cry. I'm a 20 year old gay man living in the U.S. I'm very lucky that I have a supportive family who loves me, I just wish all LGBT+ people could have the same love and support that I have from my family.
The one about the dad and mom touching his arm got me!! I always say that’s my question before I commit or marry, “Will you treat our child any different if they came out as as anything other than straight (Gay/Lesbian/Transgender). I’ll be damn if anyone makes my kids feel worthless or less than ESPECIALLY their own father!!!
I'm lesbian. My mom is religious. I never decided to come out but she once looked at my instagram and found out about it (she also found out that I have a transgender girlfriend). Altough my family is quiet loving, I have never felt this scared of my parents. They don't trust me anymore and keep looking at my stuff now, they even threatened me to kick me out. I still love them but it's really hard... I wish they would just accept me.
I am saddened that so many LGBTQ kids and teenagers struggle to come out to family, suffer from suicidal thoughts and depression, are fearful of what people may think and are impacted by the judgement of others in our community. I was very lucky to have 2 wonderful parents who didn’t judge me or my husband at all. I have always been supported and loved by my family and friends who accept me as I am. To Anyone in our community who is struggling through these feelings or thoughts, know that there are people like me out in this world who accept you just the way you are, who want only the best future ahead for you and send you all big hugs of hope for a better tomorrow. Whenever you feel lonely just know there are people like me out here in UA-cam land who are always here to listen. ❤️