We are so humbled and encouraged by the number of people coming forward and sharing their own experiences in response to this series. In season 2 of Seeking Secrets, we hope to bring in the people behind the secrets and have them share their powerful stories themselves. If you want an opportunity to share your story, we are currently in search of individuals for season 2. Your identity will be protected and you will remain anonymous in the film. If you live in the Los Angeles area and feel compelled to share your story, fill out our casting form in the link below: tinyurl.com/SecretsSeason2
Jubilee, i was thinking it would be a good topic for seeking secrets, if you were willing to get unusual thinkers or children to write down their perspectives of things that are happening in the world..., is there a way for me to write things so that people can read?, because i think its very beautiful to share others thoughts and feelings...
It would have been oddly therapeutic to see someone read out something of mine, but I live in Sydney, Australia :(. Anyway you guys can go international haha?
moana I was always told I'm gonna be a lonely cat lady and die with nothing but my cats. I was also told by a crush that I was not skinny or pretty enough for him and I would never be asked to a school dance
My mother once told me that I would be a terrible wife and a horrible mother because I couldn't overcome my depression and clean my room. My grandmother keeps telling people that she doesn't have a grandchild, even though I'm her only one, and once said that I was "too weird" to be her granddaughter.
A Dont listen to them. Dont let other people define you. Also let them know it hurts you. If they know, then dont let them know that their words hurt you. A bully wants to know that they control your emotions. I am sure you are a beautiful person that any guy would love!
My father died in 2011 and in 2012 someone told me "I wish your dad was still alive so you can see how much of a disappointment you are to him" I know nobody will read this but please, if you argue with someone, never go low enough to bring up a dead parent or children.
I'm so sorry and many times I have felt that. Even though I don't fully know you, I believe you are not a disappointment but rather a very kind hearted mature person and you deserve praise 👏
Heather H Good freakin lord. There is probably a special place in hell for people like that. That is so bad. And I’m sorry for you’re loss may he Rest In Peace. I bet you’re not a disappointment but an amazing person. You deserve a hug.
Just so you remember that you arent someone who is hard too seek or love. you are precious and special and unique. its the others who do not have the ability to understand beautiful things since they are occupied on seeking easy things, no matter how low it is. you are beautiful just the way you are and you must keep going♥ you aint a gullible person.
Estelle Lopez I can relate to this because I had a suicide attempt it didn't work out. But I was sick of everything everyone has been saying to me and about me, so that day I cut everyone off I turned off notifications for my apps and people and I texted then to never talk to me again. The next day I went to school I walked down the hallway and got Atleast 10 or more different "hello neah"s from a lot of people at my school I felt for once I was noticed in a way that doesn't make me want to go home and stay under my blanket and a mask forever
youre in this planet for a reason. i know it hurts but still, we gotta move on. if they cannot love you, its alright. as long as you have love for your ownself, everything is fine, love yourself for who you are. focus on things which make you happy even if it is very smol to be noticed. carry on with your life goals and put those words which drag you down aside. you will reach greater heights in life♥
this is the exact thing my mom said to me, I told her I had depression during the beginning of the pandemic and she said everyone is like that and her, my younger brother, and my dad said I am overreacting, the thing I had suicidal thoughts and felt this way since 3 years ago, but I still love them all.
@@sanianambiar6524 I know it too, but never tell about because I don't want anyone to know how I suffer, by the way, it's their fault too so... But I still love them even if I suffer by their fault
It's true. I find it far easier to brush things off if they are said by strangers. The most hurtful thing someone has ever said to me came from my own little brother, who (in my father's absence due to illness) I looked after and helped raise from a young age. One day I was helping him with some schoolwork when he suddenly got angry. I asked him what was wrong and he said "You are. You're so-called "help" is a failure. *_You are the reason I want to kill myself_*." I never brought this up after the event. I continued to help care and look after him even after my father recovered, all the way up until moving out. But I still find it immensely difficult even to look him in the eye, and every time we have even a minor argument, every time he is even slightly annoyed, I remember what he said to me. I'll never forget the look on his face when he said that.
It’s not that they hurt you more, it’s that you care about there opinion and you love them. There are many nasty people out there, family and not blood related.
True, me and my mom argue. She told me she was tired of me and want to give me to my father. They are already separate...but I still live with my mom. It still haunts me today
Rock Rosenthal it won't last long. Crazy things happen all the time but I tell you it won't last long. Soon enough it'll pass. I wish for you to be brave.
i can relate. i am one of the good student in my class and have a good score. and one time i had a bad anxiety and had so much pain and i cried. this is the exact thing my teacher said to me.
After I broke up with my boyfriend, moved out of our flat and broke off university I had to move back to my parents for a few months and my mum said"... This is OUR home! " as if I hadn't grown up in that house, as if I were an intruder... It's not as bad as these things, but it hurt me deeply
When I was 12 I got a bad grade, my mom found out and told me 'at least don't disappoint yourself because you already disappoint me'. To think I've blocked that memory for 10 years to today...it's kinda weird.
The majority of my boyfriends have cheated on me. One of them actually said to me when he broke up with me that I just simply wasn’t enough and that I wouldn’t be enough for anybody and that’s why everyone cheated on me, because I’m just not worthy of anyone loyalty or love, that is something in me. That absolutely broke me
I have no context or experience in a family death, so this might just sound like sympathy. Don’t blame yourself for something that you couldn’t control, it isn’t your fault. It’s going to hurt and will probably still hurt but trust me you aren’t a shame to anyone especially your family. If you are a shame to them then eventually you’ll just stop caring and focus on people who actually care. It will get better, keep your head up and eventually your family will stop blaming you for something you didn’t do.
I was in the mental hospital. My mother was very abusive. I saw her come in alone and she just looked at me sadly. "I wish you actually killed yourself so I didn't have to do this." I'm better now. Stay strong.
WOWWW OMG! I'M SO SORRY TO HEAR THAT. YOU DESERVE AND SHOULD CELEBRATE EVERY BIRTHDAY THAT YOU GET! HUGS TO YOU I HOPE YOU'RE NOT STILL FRIENDS WITH THAT PERSON
The most hurtful thing said about me was, "He isn't my friend. Just a tool I use. Why would I ever befriend a person who makes noise whenever they sit and move." This happened on his birthday, and I left him my present and a letter stating, "I hope you enjoy your gift. I worked on to afford it. Sorry for being so fat and sorry for being your "friendly tool"." I received a text msg at midnight, stating that he was sorry for what he said, it was only so they would like him. I replied, "If your popularity is more important than a bond, then you're not sorry." Still to this day I have never given him a third chance.
and I'm glad you didn't give him a third chance. People like him don't deserve it. I've given bullies at school I shit you not hundreds of chances, they never change, they just hurt you more. Be glad you had the wisdom to not give him another chance. Know your worth, the fact that you worked hard to get money for his gift when you could spend that on yourself alone shows how much of a good person you are.
No one should ever have to go through that. Im so sorry. You are an amazing and strong person i'm so glad you were able to stand up. :) * virtual hug *
My abusive ex told me that wanting someone who always loves and supports me a is a fairytale and I should be grateful for having him because otherwise I'd always be alone. And when I was going through depression he called me a monster and psychotic. I'm glad I worked up the courage to break up with him. I'm proud I did it because otherwise I'd still be getting hurt every day.
Aw thanks! It was really hard because he made sure I became dependent on him for comfort and cutting him off meant I was on my own again which I'm still trying to get over. But I know in time I'll recover my independence and self sufficiency. :) And I know there is definitely better people out there who want to see me happy instead of a mess to play with.
ohhhhh heelllll Nooo! What is wrong with you? I'll tell you... you were so different from the person who said that, they could even handle it. Please be yourself, I feel like I don't even know who I am sometimes but I one thing I want to tell you is that you should never be afraid to be yourself "What's wrong with you?" "Haha, I know right... I'm a gem." let's get that attitude on! ❤️
I know a person who has had a pretty disturbing childhood. Their parents passed away when they were 11, they had to take care of their younger sister who passed away 2 weeks later due to the excessive abuse and torture brought upon them by their only living relative and legal guardian. They ran away and found a better home with some very kind people, made a new life. When they were 20 though, a person they were arguing with told them *"This is why everyone leaves you. Even your own family. You don't deserve love"* They didn't even get attend to attend their parents' funeral.
Why are you telling their story? It just seems wrong for you to tell such a personal story that's not even yours on on *youtube* where millions of people can read it. :/
My 5. Grade teacher spent so much time trying to take a picture of the class. I was standing in the middle and she told me to stand on the side. The pic came out with me being the only one with my head not in it. I was the only black person in the class. That hurt me.
Nacho Cheesecake hehhe noo i never told anyone. I didnt think much of it afterwards. Its sort of the things u notice how messed up it really is when its long over uknow. But tysm❤️
She probably got you out of the photo because she was jealous of how lovely you are and didn't want such a cutie to be included. Ignore this teacher. Such a bad person >:((. You're beautiful and perfect.
Salma Laks that is not a good teacher. a good teacher will make sure everyone feel included and appreacited..It is not your fault.. the tcher is very mean
When I was in 6th grade my best friend of 6 years sent me an out of the blue text that she didn't want to be friends with me. She said I was the worst person She had met, that I didn't have any real friends, and that I was baggage to her. She said that people stopped hanging out with her because she was friends with me, and that they were so much more important to her than our fake friendship was. It hurt the most because she had just spent a week at my house and I was thinking about telling her how much I loved her, and that she was like a sister to me. I didn't have the courage to say it, and I'm so glad I didn't
I have a chronic illness and when I was still trying to get a diagnosis I had someone from my class tell me "you're not hurt, you're just faking it to stay home and get attention" just because it's not visible on the outside doesn't mean it's not real
bela garcia Goddamn I hate those kind of people. Such ignorant assholes. One of my cousins doesn't support my career of being a psychologist because she thinks mental illnesses that aren't about being insane are fake. Like depression, anxiety, schizophrenia, etc. Her younger sister has all three of those illnesses I mentioned. Imagine how she'd feel.
I know a girl who hurt her knee and had to use crutches. One day at school she wasn’t using the crutches anymore and someone said that she was faking it even though she had a limp and she was struggling going down the stairs and she was crying because of that. I believed her when she was hurt. How can anyone say that about another person?
I feel u on so many levels. I have a chronic condition that is invisible and it's a struggle because I get called fake many times. In fact I lost 2 friends due to it. I'm currently going through depression cuz of it. If u want we can talk anytime u want cuz I'm here for anybody that needs it. :)
I have a few conditions, none of which is life threathening, but they all build up and I sometimes go on about what I have. Because it is normal and ok to talk about your illnesses. On a scout event a girl, who is older than me - me 17 at that time and her 20 - who I had considered a friend told me she sometimes didn't believe me because I had had so many things going on that she thought I must have made some of them up. She is going to be a kindergarden teacher and a NURSE.
so First of all Faith Parker, you pretty af and beautiful people get hateful comments... don't let that crap stain you, no one loves you but one day someone will love you and life isn't about being loved, it's about loving yourself ❤️Don't let that crap statement stain you ❤
I am not sure if you are my best friend or not especially her name does start with the alphabet "J" but regardless, this is the exact same thing someone said to my best friend and let me tell you, I felt incredibly enraged but I never got to see her, the one who commented on her.
People have told me that too. Have you heard the song 'Scars To Your, Beautiful?' There's a line which says that you don't have to change what you are and the world can change its heart. You should listen to it.
My father has verbally and emotionally abused me my whole life. Just two days ago my grandma told me I sound more and more like him everyday. I’ve tried my best to be kinder and better and that really stung
Maddie McCabe i’m so sorry, i know what it’s like to have a father like that, and my mom always told me jokingly “you and your father are absolutely the same” and i always silently say in my head “i’ll never be like him” if you need anything i’m right here
myvibesareimmaculate _ my father refuses to work and my mom is really struggling with paying the bills. My dad has been freeloading for a long time. My mom wants to divorce him but she won’t. She takes it out on all of us when she should be talking to her husband not her kids.
agitatedmarie _ i exactly know that feeling, i have a younger brother and he gets abused by my dad, note he is 7, i’m almost an adult and i’ve already made a lot of money to go rent an apartment, i’m planning to take my brother with me too, but seriously if any of you guys are in trouble or something contact me, my instagram is @jdopeswater
The meanest thing I was ever told was from my Father. He told me he wished I wasn't his daughter and that he didn't love me because he hated my mother.
@courtney but you will be a good mother.....why she said such a horrible things to her own daughter....i hope you're having a good life now.... please love yourself.... don't mind them....such a cruel world we live in
and you are rare! we cant easily find clingy people nowadays. i wont call you or anyone else as 'clingy'. its is 'caring' after all. i hope you dont get broken by those words. just so you remember that youre special and beautiful just the way you are. its their fault to call you as such, not yours. you are really special♥
@@Weird_dude265 I don’t think we should be rating life by pain ratings. What’s hurtful to one may not seem bad to the guy down the street. It probably really hurt their feelings to hear someone important to them say that.
I was 13 and sitting on the couch and i decided to tell my mom ( black mom ) about my complexions, anxiety, people at school,.....etc. I was litteraly crying everynight in my bed because of those problems and when i told her she said "Why would you be complexed? You have nothing to be complexed for. I thought you were smart enough to not get complexed, but i guess you’re not." and that just broke me. So now i cry in silence and don’t talk about my problems. (Please correct me if i made some mistakes, english is not my first language)
Felicitee Bimina I feel you... my mother used to be the exact same way. she would never understand any of my spiels on why I felt the way I did. she would insult me and hurt me, and call me things that left me crying in the bathroom quite literally cursing her and wishing she was dead. of course she comes from a culture where depression is looked down on weakness, yet i never knew that. i always saw it as her never being able to comprehend who i was and what i needed. until she got invested in social work i lived like that, with all my rage bottled up for 12 years. it's ok, man. parents like that just need some understanding. mine always tell me the kids of my generation are nothing but trouble, but if you choose your friends wisely, you can find some of your greatest assets with those very people. parents are wise... but there are just some things that they can never understand, and that's why you need self-confidence.
When I graduated high school, instead of my parents telling me they were proud of me for graduating, they told me they were disappointed in me for not getting high honor roll... That I didn't try hard enough and that I didn't meet their expectations, even though I did my best to do what I can, even though getting all A's and B's and one C was something I thought they could acknowledged my efforts for.
Rhia Legaspi i graduated high school with a 2.56 GPA I had a mix of A's, B's, and C's and i had honor roll once in my life. I believe it was when I was in 8th grade maybe but my point is... You don't have to have honor roll to be good or be successful. Because there's so many people who never had honor roll and yet they graduated with a 3.0 or higher. You can still achieve high without an honor roll. Honor roll isn't the biggest thing in the world. Honor roll doesn't represent how smart or whether or not you tried your best, it just demonstrates that you did really good in those subjects. Your parents should at least be optimistic for you, whether you got honor roll or not. By the way I graduated in June of this year.
Kinda same, I just received my exam results (it's like one of the most important exams in my country) and I personally think I did great (I did honestly and I worked for it), the first thing my father said was "couldn't you have done better than that?"
"You just cut yourself for attention, such an attention seeker" I was 13 when I heard these words from someone who I thought was my friend....i was only 13 .....
My dad was transgender, he was also in the military. He died serving our country and a young man walked up to me at his funeral (I was 11) and said "I hope he isn't buried with real men"
My goodness that is absolutely horrible. I'm so sorry you had to go through that on such a terrible day. Your father was a hero and a thousand times the man that that piece of human waste who said that was.
My mother once told me "You are not worth it. You shouldn't have been born." My mother was kinda exhausted, tired and frustrated when she said that so I kinda understand but it still lingers on my mind.
Every person that was born or close to being born is a miracle Average mothers usually hold their tongues and not accidentally say bad things to their children. But I'll give you the benefit of the doubt.
I go to an all-black public school (as am I) and those are things I have to hear every day. I hate colorism. I recently spoke to a boy after class to assure him that the things people were saying to him we're not true. Other children with lighter complexions with bully him because he was dark.
Sahki, Your complexion is beautiful. It's sexy it's chic and it's yours. My advice to you is to own that. People are gonna hate and be rude and nasty and say terrible things to you about you, I don't mean because of your skin color exactly but what i'm saying is that someone is always going to have something negative to say about someone else. But I want you to know that you don't have to let whoever that someone is to put you down. I hope that you know your worth and how beautiful you are. I hope that society changes how they see people with darker skin, for the better. This unnecessary hate towards the darker complexioned people and gross and needs to stop. Everyone is beautiful. ( I hope you found this message helpful and I hope that nothing I have previously stated made you feel uncomfortable or hurt because that was not my intention. I just wanted to remind you how of how great you are.)
The first one reminded me of a story my mom told me about her earlier work years. Her boss told her he was considering her for a promotion because she was a woman. My mom is rarely someone who talks back to superiors, but she told he that he better dare not promote her solely because of her gender and that he better only be considering her for promotion because her work shows she is ready for and deserving of it. This story has long had an impact on how I view the world around me.
kinda was hoping for the comments to have some people owning up to and apologizing for having said hurtful things to others. But I'm proud of you all who shared your stories ❤️
Hafsa Hussein why? This isn’t what the video is about. It’s bad things that people have told you. Not bad things you’ve told people. If you wanna see people saying stuff like that then go to other videos like the my biggest secret one.
Reading the comments and almost everyone had the most hurtful thing said to them by a family member specifically a parent. I'm so sorry you have to go through that. It is going to be okay. Lots of love and warm hugs.
One time, I was at my "best friend's" house, and we decided to play a game of hide and seek. She had a twin brother who had another friend over. He was "it" and started to count to 60. We all ran our different directions, and scrambled about the house,They had just moved to a new house at the time, so there were a few empty boxes still lying around. I crawled into the biggest one I could find, and hid there pleased with myself for finding a good spot. After a few seconds, I heard her brother's friend run down the stairs, and walk around the house. I waited for about 30 minutes, when I started to get bored, and was about to get out of the box so we could start a new round. That was when my friends mom did it for me. She was in the same room as me, and walked over near the basement. "-my friends name- Are you still looking for -my name-?" She yelled down to the basement. "No. We just started playing twister without her." My friend replied. I wanted to cry. "Come look for her right now!" Mr friend's mom yelled. "After this game! This is more important that -my name-!" My friend said. "NO IT IS NOT!" Her mom yelled. I got out of the box and started to go upstairs while my friend said "FINE!" I went upstairs and played on my iPad. It took about 10 minutes for my friend to come upstairs, and tell me that they couldn't find me. They said that they were looking for hours, so they all walked around the house and yelled my name, to get me to come out. She lied to my face. I wanted to go home, and almost texted my parents, but then stopped because I didn't want to be embarrassed. This girl was my only friend, and I didn't want to be lonely even if it meant I would be sad. Thanks for reading.
Hey. That's terrible, I'm sorry that happened to you. I've been in this toxic friendship for almost 6 years now and I can't get out of it we've just gotta stay strong aye
Okay now I'm on a Weird/Bad/Not So Good/Toxic friendship right now.. here's my story.... Her name is, well... let's just call her *Oof* , Oof and I have been friends for a year (She's "New" here but not that much new) I always come to her when she had problems to deal with, I listen to her problems... this year (2018) after she has changed... after she found out that *GayBoi* was her cousin, she stopped noticing me... like srsly... this is why I have trust issues... I... I loved her (not "that" kind of love, I'm asexual) why would she do this to me...
During my teens ( 11-14) I was a horrible person and a bully. I did terrible things to my classmate I regret every bit of it and feel horrible I am really sorry to have done that I know just this apology won't suffice but I am really really sorry
Oh, I had a really similar situation in my life I apologized to all of them (my bully victims) Except one. I told him a simple "hi" He ran away I'm still crying Everyone has their reasons They don't justify what we did, but in some point, we didn't know that we were wrong. Or we didn't want to accept it. Fighting! If you can help someone with their problems, trust me, you'll feel better and a really useful person. That's the best way to take away the guilty you feel. Bad stuff < good stuff 💜
My ex best friend told me on text that : I don't wanna be your friend anymore Bc your social anxiety is a baggage. She said that i have no real friends and no one cares about me. She said that I should just give up on life. I decided to forget about what she said and told myself that I am good just the way I am.
Butterfly Queen my ex bestfriend we where cool and all too,but our friendship started distancing we were becoming different people,so I told her that I think it best to end it because it was the end of friendship.She just started calling me all these names saying "no one really liked me","her mom said I was to 'loud'"(when I never spoke rarely with her parents around)"she just started listing things why people didn't like me and how she was apparently telling me flaws about myself and that's why people didn't like me" I was really suprised but it showed me the true her because whenever I was going through hard times she was never there when I got bullied and never stuck up for me.Note whenever I told her I didnt want to be friends since she was changing and it was pretty much over,I was being so nice and kind with it she just took it into a huge mess where all she did was make fun of me.I could have said rude stuff back but it wouldn't make me a better person o would be doing the same thing like she did.My mom told me she kinda knew she was the type of friend to watch you get hurt and do nothing about it,and I dismissed it but I am happy I saw the truth before it was to late
@Tionna Harris I think in situations like these it's better to be mature about it and think in a more positive way. I'm glad you didn't backlash at her comments, which shows what kind of individual you are. I also don't respond back to my friend's comment Bc I realized that there are many important things in life to focus on.
same here except it was my whole family but what hurts me is my younger brother said it to me first and I love him so much and I thought he was the only one I loved as much as they loved me but I was wrong and he is only nice to me so he can sneak food from his room without me telling and if I do tel he hurts me very badly.
You're not alone.The bond that I have with my sister is even above my parents,and when she said so I really didn't know what to feel anymore.Anyways I really hope you're okay,because panic attacks aren't something someone would ask for,we have to go through it and nobody knows how we feel unless and until they themselves experience it.
I was called ugly for years in school. People that didn't even know me and people on the streets would make me feel I was worth nothing. They ruined my self esteem completely and to this day, I don't like the way I look. And when my husband goes on about how beautiful he thinks I am, it disgusts me, because I just can't believe him. He once made me look in the mirror and tell myself I was beautiful. I just started crying and begged him to not let me do it. I don't think I will ever consider myself beautiful. These people ruined my life really...
My boyfriend is in the same kind of situation... he will never know how handsome he is, because people (primary+middle school, and strangers on the street) told him things like "you look like shrek" or "was his face eaten by rats or something?" (Acne issues)... why are they so mean to someone they never met ? Why can't they just appreciate beauty in every way ?...
@@xssfxce that's terrible! It's sad really, how people treat other people. The worst part is that they just went on with their lives, never thinking about it again, and never realise how much they ruined someone's life... :( I hope your boyfriend will one day believe you. As much as I hope I will one day believe my husband.
I was having a bit of a cry, looking at all the comments and thinking about old memories that I had forgotten about. This made me laugh, though. Thanks.
I have this one teacher who was a terrible singer. One time me and my two other friends were walking down the hallway singing the song, he looked at us and said “and you guys think my singing is bad”. 😂
A boy I liked in middle school once’s told me that when I smile I look like a dog because a lot of my gums show. And it was the most hurtful thing I’ve ever heard. And I liked this boy. But I think the thing that tops that is that when I was in my second year in college taking honors classes working 32 hours a week and living away from home in my aunts house... she told me I wasn’t an example she wanted her kids to follow. She made me feel like I was nothing. And my hard efforts weren’t enough.
Honestly to me and my mother you are a perfect example for woman to dominate however u want on this earth, have determination and achieve what you want or need❤️
I was bullied all throughout middle school and dealt with OCD/anxiety. I lost all my childhood friends because of the illness. One time when I was 13 I went to a small group at church to try and find friends. The youth pastor gathered everybody up to play a game. Not long after we started, I started chasing and being playful with a kid. We were laughing and becoming friends (so I thought). Another kid that knew the guy I was playing with saw us and walked up to me. He looked at me and said "Nobody likes you" and then they both laughed. Three simple words but that stuck with me for a long time. 15 years later and it still does.
ThisIsACrappyUsername Oh. Oh my. I'm so sorry. When I was a kid I used to live with my aunt (yea she sucked) and she would tell her youngest daughter to not call her "mother" anymore. I watched her cry. Oh yeah, and she'd once blamed me for my mom's death. I was 1 when she died.
When I was 12 my mom told me that my autism made me act too young, and that she was ashamed of me, and that nobody would ever like me unless I acted "normal".
this hits close to home, my stepfather said that shit. well at least he wasn't important to me, unlike my mother. she use to be cool (not these days, sadly. we can't get along anymore)
The two most painful things I've been told in my life: "You're not good enough to be here," and "You're not as good as you think you are." These were the exact words spoken by my teacher back in 4th grade. I was 8.
I'd a teacher who told me:"Even in this you are not good?!" The work was about making a flyer, and I was in my first 10 minutes of doin it... I was 10 years old by the way. 2 years have passed and I went from a so-so student to a good student, reaching the excelent in the subject she teached. I met her again because she went to our classroom to substitute a sick teacher. Then she said the following thing to me: "well, I've seen that you take a 5 to Portuguese, congratulations. But remember, you are not a student of 5s." (5 is the maximum you can get on a subject) I will never forget that, not because of her rudeness, but because I accepted that as a reality. For years I felt like I wasn't enough.
The most hurtful things anyone has ever said to me was that I wasn't even pretty enough to be raped. I still don't know what that means... Edit: thank you to all for the kind words I really appreciate it ❤️
It's not......god what is wrong with these people .......you don't listen to their words you don't have to be pretty to live Pretty is not a rent you pay to live in this world
The most hurtful words i ever heard was from my ex. I really wanted to go on a date with him so i told him and he said to me with the coldest look in his eyes * i dont want my friends to see me with you*. Im glad we ended but i still live with the pain he left behind.
My ex boyfriend used to show me pictures of his ex and comparing me to her and wishing that i looked like her and he was trying to keep our relationship a secret from everyone , i relate to what you have gone through it truly sucks especially that they were not perfect to begin with! who are they to judge us? exactly. ;)
Michelle Abreu hey I feel your pain I was kept a secret from my exes family and friends everytime I tried to ask him about it he kept saying soon soon then two years later he randomly stopped answering my calls and texts and I was deeply in love with him at the time. Before that everytime we did meet it was always in a place where he wasn’t seen with me like it would be at my house when family weren’t home and I could sense really strongly he didn’t want people to know that I was with him it really affectd me badly and still does. People compliment me saying they wish they were pretty like me etc but I can’t stop thinking that if I actually was that pretty why was he acting so ashamed of me? I feel like I’m a embarrassment to be around now. Sometimes I’m walking down the street I see someone looking at me and I get so embarrassed thinking something is so wrong with me and I feel like I’m always bumping into people and can’t control myself and like my legs feel like they have no energy I try walking straight but instead I’ve noticed I be all over the place and that’s actually how I feel mentally. It really sucks. I don’t know what is wrong with me. If only he was honest and told me why I’m an embarrassment😫
Lou Robichaud He doesn't own you, you are your own person. Know this...he seems to be a cruel man who must be stopped. Seek help from a teacher, a counselor, or another guardian, because that kind of behavior is absolutely unacceptable. That is illegal and being placed in such a toxic situation could get you hurt, especially when he has that kind of mindset. I hope you'll be okay, dear. Lots of love!
“She is just a waste of time, sometimes i wonder what i did wrong” my mothers words after i accidentally dropped something while i was in the middle of a panic attack
These videos are so bittersweet. You see such an ugly side of people and the world but the producers and the people sitting in front of the camera and dismissing these comments restores some humanity. It's ironic, the name of the videos is the meanest things "strangers" have said, but it the videos it's strangers defending those victims and apologizing for comments they didn't say.
saying to focus on the people who put the positive in your life rather than the negative is a lot easier said than done especially when i dont have anyone like that
jimin sympathizer I know what you mean. Usually these phrases don't have much practical sense and actually bring you down because they are a reminder of how little support you have. However I just wanted to let you know that the best thing you can do is be kind to yourself and find peace in accepting where you are at this point in your life. Trust me, it will get better. You might have to work more than others, but if you work hard and try to stay real, you will surround yourself with likeminded people and be so proud you made it. Just kick your ass atm and realize you have a life ahead that's in your hands.
br333 .... it's so sad when the one person that many people think will always love you and be good to you isn't ... not a whole lot of people understand. My mother daily subjected me to such horrific ridicule and shame (from a very tender age of 4) that it has forever effected how I respond to anything someone says to me (no one else has ever said the horrible things she said and so everyone seemed to pale in comparison which caused me to not realize how bad some people were being to me ... for awhile) ... also, I have discovered how those regular negative messages became my own in some ways ... you may want to pay attention to your own self messages to see if you have made any bad ones your own ... we can never forget those hurtful messages but we can learn over time how to stop them from popping up (in the background) and sabotaging us. Love & Peace to All
For anyone who is feeling sad, doubtful, hurt, mad, angry, betrayed, defeated, trapped, hated, bullied, unloved, uncared for, anything, I'm sorry. Just know that you will be found. Those who cannot see who you really are don't deserve you. Those who don't love you don't deserve your love. Those who hurt you don't deserve to have the satisfaction of seeing you hurting. You are loved. You are beautiful. You are unique. You are you. For now, here's an internet hug and a cookie. Stay strong
I'm so sorry you have to deal with those disgusting people and call them your parents. But I truly wish you happiness and a way out of this. I'm happy that you're alive.
As long as I can remember, I've wanted to be a doctor of some sort. This stemmed from both of my parents having multiple physical and mental illnesses, especially my father. He still is in horrific pain every day and all I wanted is to make it better for him. I spent most of my life feeling useless, helpless and worthless for not being able to take his pain away. When I started year 6, I wasn't in a good place. It didn't help that my teacher was a bully, who later turned into a pedophile. One day during class, he asked me an extremely advanced maths question, something that not even the teaching assistant knew. When I failed to provide the correct answer, he lost it . He walked up to me and screamed in my ear that I was a "pathetic disappointment who would never accomplish anything ." He said that I "might as well sign up for McDonald's now as that's where I spent most of my time anyway. " This tore me to shreds and I had never felt lower in my life, I hopefully never will again. I can't begin to describe how it felt, to have the one thing that was keeping you afloat torn away, and being left to drown, but I wouldn't wish it on anyone. My anxiety and depression was at an all time high and I felt as if I'd never be able to feel again. A wile after, I experimented with self harm in a desperate attempt to feel something, literally anything. But I was so deep into depression that I couldn't even feel the physical pain of the blade cutting my skin. I was completely numb, inside and out. After a few months of really not doing good, I finally took off the mask I had been wearing in front of my family, and told them. This was because, after months of being totally numb, I felt something, hatred, and that's what fuelled me to tell. This came about because the same teacher had been watching the girls in my class get changed for pe class. The way he would just stand there, smiling, giggling, doing whatever he wanted , to helpless, innocent 10 year old girls, it tipped me over the edge. Hi wicked eyes would widen with delight as we reluctantly removed our clothes, scrambling quickly to cover up again. His little grunts and moans and whispers of "ooohh yeah" or "don't worry, I won't tell" was physically sickening. The thing that hurt most was the fact that no one else in the whole world knew, because we were all so terrified to say anything . When I told my family about the first issue and my depression, they hugged me and cried and told me I was going to be ok, but it was my dad, who also struggled with depression, who fully understood it, and it was my dad who asked, " what's the rest of the story ". I felt so relived. , as I know that my dad knew something was happening, and it made it so much easier for my to tell him. It's been 2 years since the start of my night mare, and me and my family are continuing the battle with my old school to get justice on what happened to me and my friends, and we won't stop until we do. If anyone is or was in a similar situation, please feel free to reply, I'm no expert, but I can offer support if you want it. That I you to every single person who makes it to the end of this comment, I rlly appreciate it.
Is that teacher charged for being an extreme pedophile? And what kind of locker rooms were they? Extremely odd ones. Either way I'm glad that you are strong to do this and your family is supportive. Stay strong love x
God bless you. I am so sorry that you had to go through all that pain and suffering. You are an amazing human being who can accomplish incredible things. You are so strong and can go through this. Have an amazing day and stay strong because everything is going to be okay. I promise!!!! 💝💖🥰
I'm so glad that you have shared this story with us, us 109 people are supportive of you, they're will be more people after this comment, and to be honest your comment made me think for a bit,because I used to go through something similar. I was bullied for over 7 years and I hate to admit it, alot of pedophilian things has happened to me, and it had torn me apart, if you ever want advise or need someone to talk to, I'll always be by your side, right here.
Even though I’ve gotten over my depression, I still have my own little voice in my head that tells me that I’m worthless. Some days I believe it and for a moment I go back and think about all the things I’ve done wrong and how I regret so many things in life and I slip into that dark place again. To anyone going through this type of situation I hope you know that you are loved and you are worth something no matter how much your little voice tells you that you aren’t.
During sophomore year of high school I went through my parents divorce and felt sad and depressed, to the point that I never really wanted to talk anybody in class. Which made me a loner and an outcast to the cliques in my school. But what really made me hurt was that my teacher (who was known to pick on kids in class and knew I was a loner) said, " You just take up space don't you?"
SecondHandLions tht tcher must be very insecure to pick up on students and even decide to pick on weak students. pls ignore what the tcher said, I, too, used to be a loner at school
SecondHandLions they dont understand whta you had gone true.. what the tcher said are meaningless as She/he is saying it without any hints of what u r going through
The worst thing ever said to me “ Mom told me right before she dies she really didn’t love you”. My sister told me out of anger I think but to this day I want to see her so I can ask her. She died 3 years ago. ( We are grown adults )
The meanest thing ever said to me wasn't from strangers...but from my mother. Even now 25 yrs later it still plays in my mind. She said she hated me so much she could kill me. Little did she know that I actually prayed for death on many occasions. She passed away when I was 12 but her words will never die.
It's sometimes hard to not listen to the negatives when you hear it on a constant basis but you can always find a way out. Someone loves you. Many people love you and whether or not you want to believe it, I love you. For anyone out there hurting, I love you and if you need some help, I'm here for you.
景太郎サスケ thank you so much for this comment. It made me cry as I read it because I've had a pretty hard day today and my friends got together to take the time to help me feel better. Thank you thank you and thank you so much for you're wonderful comment. It made me feel happy 😭❤️
So true. When it feels as if your only surrounded by negatives, it can be so hard to see through to the positives and those who do love you, or those that would love you. And if you can't find a way out of the negatives, try and reach out with positivity and love to someone else who seems to be hurting. Because, maybe what you couldn't overcome alone, you can overcome together.
The most hurtful word someone ever told me was my mum telling me "I wished more you are underweight than being a fatty" This really hurted me because i knew i was not in perfect shape but to hear it from my mum hurted me more
tell her that being underweight is also damn bad because you can barely do anything and you're always tired. i had to be on meds and had to be force fed just so i can be healthy again for an entire month
When I was like 8 I was at Disneyland and watching my sister (in a stroller) while my parents weren't too far away taking a picture. This little girl who couldn't have been 5 or 6 years old walked past me with her family. She looked right at me with this disgusted glint in her eye and loudly told who I guess was her brother walking next to her to not 'be so close to those black people' I don't know why, but even now like 7 years later it's the meanest thing I've ever heard🤷🏾♀️
the most hurtful thing someone said to me was about 13 years ago. I was a new mom my daughter was crying because she wanted to get out of her stroller and run around the store and my greatest fear then and now is her being kidnapped so I didn't let her out of my sight. I was standing in line waiting to try on some things and she just kept crying I knew nothing was wrong so I kept a straight face I didn't get frustrated or react I had learned in her short 18 months on this planet she had a great understanding of how humans worked lbvs. I was the only black woman in the line I was surrounded by white women some tried to calm her by giving her a phone ( that my daughter tossed away) others tried to just talk to her. I stood silent my daughter had lunch, her diaper was clean, she had just awaken from her nap to find herself in a stroller and she knew she couldn't get out. There was this new mom her baby was an infant she chimed in and said " if you hugged her and loved her more she wouldn't behave like that." you could hear hair whip as all these women had turned to look at me to see what my reaction was. I am a black woman so naturally the ignorance of many in this space was that I would begin to yell at this woman. but.... I didn't yell. I just looked at her as she bend over to kiss her baby and I thought.... how every morning I would wake my only child gently by rubbing her cheeks like the lactation nurse taught me how I would prepare all her meals with fresh produce checking labels for harmful chemicals how every morning I would stand in the mirror and say " Good morning Baby" how I would smile and talk to her how I would say her name and spell each letter on the bottoms of her feet how I would cry when she would cry as I left her a daycare how sad I was when she was born jaundice and I thought my vegetarian diet was the cause of this I watched my only child cry for 7 days straight as the doctors poked her heels drawing blood to check to see if she was getting better my heart broke every second because my baby was in pain and I couldn't do anything how I though about the moment when I seen her before she seen me her nose... was like my nose , the bones in her tiny little fist balled up telling me she was a fighter on my only ultrasound at 1:30 am in a emergency room how I didn't know she was a 'she' till she was born and my aunt said " its a girl" she is my everything I wished horrible things on that woman I hoped that her sweet baby would stand on a table in the very same mall and scream to the top of his lungs 'I HATE YOU MOMMY' I wished that her child would be horrible to her because she didn't know just how much this black woman loved her only child she just assumed with the one brain cell she had that I didn't hug my baby or love her when in fact she( my child) was the reason I loved it took me years to forgive her....years I vowed to NEVER let anyone tell me how to parent my only love. *btw as soon as I got in the dressing room my daughter stopped crying I looked at her and said " of course you would stop crying now" lol * mommy loves you and ONLY you -Chick-e-poo
@Kirin A. This is absolutely the best comment i have ever read ... I think that you are a lovely mother just like mine and if anyone would tell something like this to my mother i would've snapped back so hard So glad u didn't wasted ur time on telling her back and ur daughter would be so proud of u.. People like her are always and only have one job that is of being a chatterbox from which nothing but just thoughtless and senseless talks come out..best reaction to them is to just ignore them Lots of love and best of luck to u and ur daughter for your upcoming years💕💕
Why the fuck is everyone being rude. Like I've never been cropped out of a photo, but I can imagine it was really hurtful. Saying something like "you're not important enough" is screwed up 😒
I once had one friend. So we were friends for a year and i just hung out with her. We wanted to be with more people, so we went to her friends house, so she could call her. I stood outside the fence, waiting for my friend when its started to rain. I texted her and she said she will come out soon. I waited for a bit and then i heard my friends voice saying „im not going to go with her, she is boring, im staying with you, hope she went home“. I just texted her one more time to come out because its raining. I got a reply „go fuck yourself“. I just walked back home. So whenever i see her, shes trying to talk to me, but i always say „go fuck yourself“.
Something similar happened to me. But we didn’t text each other, I was just left by myself for hours while she went somewhere with her other friends. When she came back, she acted like nothing happened.
This school year has probably been one of the worst. I was diagnosed with Tourette’s. I’ve never felt so alone. Someone was trying to get a stab at me and asked someone “look at her, she looks like a man. Isn’t she built like a man” and then started calling me sir and would mockingly ask if he hurt my feelings or if I’m ok then he would laugh at me. The same guy and a few others in my class would always attack me when I talked, making fun of my very minor lisp, telling me I stink and need to brush my teeth, and would give me disgusted looks. I was teased all through kindergarten to 9th grade. I’m going into 10th grade and my one wish is that my parents will just let me dropout since in Georgia parents have to sign off or at least change schools. These past two-three years has been some of my worst, mentally and it’s very difficult just getting through the day even remotely happy and calm.
Julia Vaniscak Stay strong! Dont care those stupid heartless bullies. What they said is not a fact, just worthless opinion. You are the one who knows who really you are so dont even listen them!
Maybe suggest that homeschooling would be better for you and if possible, see a doctor and have them to help talk to your parents about potential options for the sake of your mental and emotional health! Your health is top priority. If they the doc suggests therapy, don't shy away from it. Therapy is not a negative thing admit yourself. It will show that you care about yourself and help give you the courage needed to take each step towards being happier. *I know* it's easier said then done but you know what those bullies say to you aren't true. You aren't what they say you look like or whatever. You are your own person and you will be a great human being and inspiration to others! Just hang in there! I know you can do it!
As someone who has tourettes myself i can say that yes it certainly sucks, and people making fun of it even more. If you feel your diagnosis is bad you should try to play music or listen to some, it helps alot. Stay strong and ignore them even if its hard, they dont deserve the attention or effort. Cheers from me :)
Wow watching this I realize that I have never really had someone tell me something that truly crushed me I mean sure I've had some stupid kids tell me hurtful things but the words that have truly hurt me actually come from me... it's like a small voice from the nape of my neck telling me I will never amount to anything and that I am worthless and don't deserve to live or love but I know it is all me telling myself that
i was reading stories in the comment section and i realized how many hurtful and hateful things i've said... i'm so sorry to everyone in my life i don't deserve you
kkay chief, this isn’t the right place to apologise. i believe you’re a good person and that you can redeem yourself to the people you may have hurt. please go and do what you feel you must and reconcile with them, i know you can do it.
In middle school, I struggled a lot with self-image. At the time I weighed more than most of the girls in my grade, and I'm a Puerto Rican in a predominantly white county, so I was often called "Mexican" and was the butt of everyone's jokes. Boys didn't want to date me or even be friends with me. Nobody wanted to socialize with me so I sort of just kept to myself. I only talked to a few close friends, and suddenly I became that shy girl that everyone liked to pick on. When I got into high school I started to focus more on my education and sports. I played soccer and did track in the winter and spring, and would spend each summer either running or playing even more soccer. I also maintained a 3.8 GPA, which put me at the top of my class. But even though I've become thinner and more toned and had so many academic successes, I still struggle with self-image and I suffer from very severe depression. Even though I have many friends and am more sociable, I think back to the days when I was just a joke to everyone. I think back to the summer that I restricted my caloric intake to just 300 per day because some 13-year old boy told me I was a "fat ass". I've contemplated suicide so many times that I've lost count--all because people thought it was okay to mess with the mind of a developing teen. Nobody insults me anymore, but even when I get compliments I don't believe them. I find it hard to believe that anyone could find me attractive all because of the words 12-year olds and 13-year olds 4 years ago. *Just, don't say things that you know you don't want to hear in return. You don't know what people are dealing with, or what could possibly ruin how they view themselves for the rest of their lives.*
you're not alone. I suffer from social anxiety and depression because some 13 year old assholes found me ugly. It's so hard but I try to keep reminding myself that a lion doesn't concern himself with the opinion of a sheep. We're beautiful and stronger than ever.
Em One time this kid said that on the first day of school I looked like a boy. It hurt very badly but pretended like it didn't hurt I remember the exact outfit I had on. A teal shirt with flower prints on it, super skinny blue jeans, and green and grey tennis shoes. I'll admit I dropped my self esteem down a lot, but now I look at myself in the mirror everyday and tell myself "Your beautiful and your perfect" I repeat it over and over again until a smile appears on my face. Now I just laugh about it and just keep on going with my life. Don't let anyone tell you your not beautiful because you are perfect just the way you are.😂
“If I ever cheated on you I would tell you the next day” - my ex Proceeded to cheat on me, which I knew about at the time and he continued to deny. One week later we broke up and it took 2.5 months for him to admit it, but only after I kept asking and said I didn’t care because it’s not like I could break up with him again. He ruined the relationship we had with a 10 month old, and now he’s blaming me for everything that happened because he can’t see his daughter every day 😔
When I was 6th my best guy friend pushed me and shouted at me " you are not important she is the most important for us. you are not worth our friendship" for my bestfriend . He moved to other school even if he hurted me I really love him ( as a friend) In 7th my friend didn't talk to me and once I asked her what's wrong ? She said " I don't want to be friends with you anymore " I asked why? She said " just don't wanna be friends " then I writed a letter to her she just tear it in front of my face . She talked about me behind my back and made the whole class against me . They all ignored me and that made me depressed that my own best friend did this to me . But then EXO came in my life and made me feel alive again But sometimes I hate myself and want to die So this is my story ( Sorry for my grammer )
EXO - L Oh, the GazettE is a japanese visual kei rock band founded in 2002. I have to admit they use a varity of music genres in their songs(more in their older ones, their lates songs are all quite heavy), such as metalcore, funk rock alternative rock, nu metal and whatever you call these subgenres, I am not a expert haha And visual kei is a style with using a lot of make up and androgyn costumes, I'm bad at explaining it but if you look up at google pictures, you will get a good impress of this style. You can check them out if you want, but if it's not your cup of tea that's totally fine, everybody has a different music taste 😊 I'm myself not that into K-Pop or Pop music in general, but I think EXO is quite okay, when I visit friends they often play songs by them, I'm myself fine with that but I prefer rock and metal over pop/hip-hop or whatever their musical sound is called 😄
that line about exo, I hear stuff like this a lot from kpop fans. Some days I'm in that situation, especially after seeing my best friend (also my 2 years long crush) for the last time 4 months ago, I've been much more emotionally dead and much less myself, I really miss him. Crazy to think how some talented strangers in another country can give us so much hope and confidence. I've had friends stab me in the back too, I know what that's like, I'm here for you if you wanna talk.
The most hurtful thing I've ever heard came out of the mouth of a man I loved. I was madly in love with him, but he only wanted my body. One day he found himself a girl who was strikingly similar to me. When I confronted him about it, he told me that he found a better version of me. I never felt worse than in that moment. I understood that I'm just his toy and nothing else. Now I'm trying to get over him and I'm afraid that I'll never find a guy who appreciates me.
The most hurtful thing is when my mom was very angry at me and she said : i dont love you, i only do this for god not you , that really broke my heart , but i still love you mom ❤️ik you wont ever mean it ❤️
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Jubilee where can u write things that ppl in your videos can read it?
Jubilee, i was thinking it would be a good topic for seeking secrets, if you were willing to get unusual thinkers or children to write down their perspectives of things that are happening in the world..., is there a way for me to write things so that people can read?, because i think its very beautiful to share others thoughts and feelings...
Luvally1 1 lllllllll pv
I would have loved to tell my story, but i live in holland so i guess not
It would have been oddly therapeutic to see someone read out something of mine, but I live in Sydney, Australia :(. Anyway you guys can go international haha?
"The most hurtful things are the things you tell yourself"
That hit home...
Same
Agree 100%
Sasaki Umiquema I read that as soon as they said it in the video 😂😂
K
1:00 this is actually what I tell myself everyday. Not a joke.
sometimes it's not about what's said, it's about who says it
moana . i know what you mean. my brothers always said to me that i'm gonna die alone, nobody gonna love you and i believed it
moana I was always told I'm gonna be a lonely cat lady and die with nothing but my cats. I was also told by a crush that I was not skinny or pretty enough for him and I would never be asked to a school dance
My mother once told me that I would be a terrible wife and a horrible mother because I couldn't overcome my depression and clean my room.
My grandmother keeps telling people that she doesn't have a grandchild, even though I'm her only one, and once said that I was "too weird" to be her granddaughter.
moana What also hurts is when its said in front of the people who you thought were your friends and they dont say anything.
A Dont listen to them. Dont let other people define you. Also let them know it hurts you. If they know, then dont let them know that their words hurt you. A bully wants to know that they control your emotions. I am sure you are a beautiful person that any guy would love!
My father died in 2011 and in 2012 someone told me "I wish your dad was still alive so you can see how much of a disappointment you are to him"
I know nobody will read this but please, if you argue with someone, never go low enough to bring up a dead parent or children.
Heather H okay so first, i’m sorry about your father. second, sadly people like that are the most heartless people there will ever be.
I'm so sorry and many times I have felt that. Even though I don't fully know you, I believe you are not a disappointment but rather a very kind hearted mature person and you deserve praise 👏
Heather H R.I.P for your Dad. I best your not a disappointment
Heather H
Good freakin lord. There is probably a special place in hell for people like that. That is so bad. And I’m sorry for you’re loss may he Rest In Peace.
I bet you’re not a disappointment but an amazing person. You deserve a hug.
Im so sorry about your dad. may he rest in peace. people are so heartless sometimes. your not a dissapointment, your a good person ♡ * virtual hug *
Someone asked me once, "why am I so hard to love?" That genuinely pained me.
I get this comment a lot and because of that I've become quite...loner
I'm confused, was that someone you were in a romantic relationship with?
I ask this to my self every single day
Just so you remember that you arent someone who is hard too seek or love. you are precious and special and unique. its the others who do not have the ability to understand beautiful things since they are occupied on seeking easy things, no matter how low it is.
you are beautiful just the way you are and you must keep going♥ you aint a gullible person.
Travis Valkrum Do you believe you’re hard to love?
"Even if you're feeling like you're at your lowest, the next day could be your very highest."
this.
Estelle Lopez jimujmujkm
Awesome quote!
Estelle Lopez I can relate to this because I had a suicide attempt it didn't work out. But I was sick of everything everyone has been saying to me and about me, so that day I cut everyone off I turned off notifications for my apps and people and I texted then to never talk to me again. The next day I went to school I walked down the hallway and got Atleast 10 or more different "hello neah"s from a lot of people at my school I felt for once I was noticed in a way that doesn't make me want to go home and stay under my blanket and a mask forever
Estelle Lopez not when you have clinical depression *jazz hands*
Estelle Lopez Or even lower.
“I waited and prayed my whole life for a daughter and all I got was you”
awww... i send hugs:(
You're beautiful! Your life is beautiful! Love you!
youre in this planet for a reason. i know it hurts but still, we gotta move on. if they cannot love you, its alright. as long as you have love for your ownself, everything is fine, love yourself for who you are. focus on things which make you happy even if it is very smol to be noticed. carry on with your life goals and put those words which drag you down aside. you will reach greater heights in life♥
This was something my mom just told me 😂😂
That's so horrible
the most hurtful things said to me mostly came from my family
kai kai yea just today my mom called me fake.. like i don’t get it enough from people at my school
kai kai mine too..
fuck your family leave them
kai kai honestly same
Me too.
"That my depression is just me being moody and that I'm to young to know what sadness is"
It's never too young to feel hurt fuck anyone who tells you other wise I hope you're okay and I'm glad that you're alive.
this is the exact thing my mom said to me, I told her I had depression during the beginning of the pandemic and she said everyone is like that and her, my younger brother, and my dad said I am overreacting, the thing I had suicidal thoughts and felt this way since 3 years ago, but I still love them all.
@@sanianambiar6524 I know it too, but never tell about because I don't want anyone to know how I suffer, by the way, it's their fault too so... But I still love them even if I suffer by their fault
my therapist told me that
@Diya Kadam Yah, they will pass one day, after 8 years of it I still hope that will pass, never loose hope 😉😊
I feel that your loved ones can hurt you more than strangers
It's true. I find it far easier to brush things off if they are said by strangers. The most hurtful thing someone has ever said to me came from my own little brother, who (in my father's absence due to illness) I looked after and helped raise from a young age. One day I was helping him with some schoolwork when he suddenly got angry. I asked him what was wrong and he said
"You are. You're so-called "help" is a failure. *_You are the reason I want to kill myself_*."
I never brought this up after the event. I continued to help care and look after him even after my father recovered, all the way up until moving out. But I still find it immensely difficult even to look him in the eye, and every time we have even a minor argument, every time he is even slightly annoyed, I remember what he said to me.
I'll never forget the look on his face when he said that.
It’s not that they hurt you more, it’s that you care about there opinion and you love them. There are many nasty people out there, family and not blood related.
Because you have a real connection to them and they make you have a false sense thet they care about you
Sometimes strangers can also comfort you better
True, me and my mom argue. She told me she was tired of me and want to give me to my father. They are already separate...but I still live with my mom. It still haunts me today
I honestly hope it gets better for everyone else out there.
Chloe Grey thanks for u too 😚😘
Thank you
I hope too but for me it only gets worse
Rock Rosenthal it won't last long. Crazy things happen all the time but I tell you it won't last long. Soon enough it'll pass. I wish for you to be brave.
Chloe Grey Thank you...
This was unnervingly touching.
*oof*
Yesss
Honestly i would take the first one as a complement saying I'm pretty don't get me wrong i know it could feel bad but I personally would like it
The worst thing I ever heard was from my teacher, she said "The smart one got dumb", it was in the middle of the class.... after that I cried.
my teachers humiliate us everyday like litteraly in front of class
i can relate. i am one of the good student in my class and have a good score. and one time i had a bad anxiety and had so much pain and i cried.
this is the exact thing my teacher said to me.
My teachers used me to bully me along without my classmates
Same
My science teacher said it because i was one of the top 3 students in my class and i scored less in one grade i hate it 😣
After I broke up with my boyfriend, moved out of our flat and broke off university I had to move back to my parents for a few months and my mum said"... This is OUR home! " as if I hadn't grown up in that house, as if I were an intruder... It's not as bad as these things, but it hurt me deeply
I know exactly how u feel. My dad told me that as well. he didn't realise how much that hurt me and I don't think he ever will...
When I was 12 I got a bad grade, my mom found out and told me 'at least don't disappoint yourself because you already disappoint me'. To think I've blocked that memory for 10 years to today...it's kinda weird.
Yasmin arabs parents i bet ! what a disgusting society
Lol my parents say that daily
The majority of my boyfriends have cheated on me. One of them actually said to me when he broke up with me that I just simply wasn’t enough and that I wouldn’t be enough for anybody and that’s why everyone cheated on me, because I’m just not worthy of anyone loyalty or love, that is something in me. That absolutely broke me
“you’re the reason your father passed away, because you’re a shame to this family and especially to your father.”
-my grandfather to me.
I have no context or experience in a family death, so this might just sound like sympathy. Don’t blame yourself for something that you couldn’t control, it isn’t your fault. It’s going to hurt and will probably still hurt but trust me you aren’t a shame to anyone especially your family. If you are a shame to them then eventually you’ll just stop caring and focus on people who actually care. It will get better, keep your head up and eventually your family will stop blaming you for something you didn’t do.
grand parents are really cruel never listen to them. mine was the same way.
Let’s not assume that this person was perfect. Maybe this person really is so shameful to her family that her father died, you never know
@@solitaryconfinement1975 and how can you assume that?
"your father died because you born . because you are so unlucky "
_my mother to me .
I was in the mental hospital. My mother was very abusive. I saw her come in alone and she just looked at me sadly.
"I wish you actually killed yourself so I didn't have to do this."
I'm better now. Stay strong.
Rhys Stuller she's not a good Mom I'm sorry. Make your own family when it's time to. Be happy. Live your life.
This made me cry. Actually cry
She is not a mother
"You're too broken to ever be loved"
My dad to me, just before he committed suicide.
I’m so sorry about that, maybe your dad said that as a reflection of what he thought about himself
That was him projecting and I’m sorry he said it
At my birthday I remember my bestfriend saying "Your living isn't worth being celebrated"I didnt celebrate my birthday that day....
WOWWW OMG! I'M SO SORRY TO HEAR THAT. YOU DESERVE AND SHOULD CELEBRATE EVERY BIRTHDAY THAT YOU GET! HUGS TO YOU
I HOPE YOU'RE NOT STILL FRIENDS WITH THAT PERSON
that is cruel
She doesn’t deserve you as a friend tbh
May be it was just a joke.
Then thats not a bestfriend
The most hurtful thing said about me was, "He isn't my friend. Just a tool I use. Why would I ever befriend a person who makes noise whenever they sit and move." This happened on his birthday, and I left him my present and a letter stating, "I hope you enjoy your gift. I worked on to afford it. Sorry for being so fat and sorry for being your "friendly tool"." I received a text msg at midnight, stating that he was sorry for what he said, it was only so they would like him. I replied, "If your popularity is more important than a bond, then you're not sorry." Still to this day I have never given him a third chance.
Fifi Mint good choice, and I'm sorry for that.
You're so strong.
and I'm glad you didn't give him a third chance. People like him don't deserve it. I've given bullies at school I shit you not hundreds of chances, they never change, they just hurt you more. Be glad you had the wisdom to not give him another chance. Know your worth, the fact that you worked hard to get money for his gift when you could spend that on yourself alone shows how much of a good person you are.
No one should ever have to go through that. Im so sorry. You are an amazing and strong person i'm so glad you were able to stand up. :) * virtual hug *
What was the gift?
My abusive ex told me that wanting someone who always loves and supports me a is a fairytale and I should be grateful for having him because otherwise I'd always be alone. And when I was going through depression he called me a monster and psychotic. I'm glad I worked up the courage to break up with him. I'm proud I did it because otherwise I'd still be getting hurt every day.
NewEnglandRepublic I glad so too! You deserved better 😄
Aw thanks! It was really hard because he made sure I became dependent on him for comfort and cutting him off meant I was on my own again which I'm still trying to get over. But I know in time I'll recover my independence and self sufficiency. :) And I know there is definitely better people out there who want to see me happy instead of a mess to play with.
NewEnglandRepublic well done, budy 👏🏽💪🏼
i'm proud of you
Good for you NewEnglandRepublic. You should be proud.
"What is wrong with you" it made me be afraid to be myself.
ohhhhh heelllll Nooo!
What is wrong with you?
I'll tell you... you were so different from the person who said that, they could even handle it. Please be yourself, I feel like I don't even know who I am sometimes but I one thing I want to tell you is that you should never be afraid to be yourself
"What's wrong with you?"
"Haha, I know right... I'm a gem."
let's get that attitude on!
❤️
I stopped being myself a long time ago because of bullying.
I know a person who has had a pretty disturbing childhood. Their parents passed away when they were 11, they had to take care of their younger sister who passed away 2 weeks later due to the excessive abuse and torture brought upon them by their only living relative and legal guardian. They ran away and found a better home with some very kind people, made a new life.
When they were 20 though, a person they were arguing with told them *"This is why everyone leaves you. Even your own family. You don't deserve love"*
They didn't even get attend to attend their parents' funeral.
Bangtan's Bae wtf that's so messed up. That poor person. Some people are so cruel.
Bangtan's Bae Thats bad
Bangtan's Bae that’s really sad but at the same time it’s not your story to tell
That’s honestly really messed up.
Why are you telling their story? It just seems wrong for you to tell such a personal story that's not even yours on on *youtube* where millions of people can read it. :/
My 5. Grade teacher spent so much time trying to take a picture of the class. I was standing in the middle and she told me to stand on the side. The pic came out with me being the only one with my head not in it. I was the only black person in the class. That hurt me.
Salma Laks I hope your 5th grade teacher got fired or even worse
Nacho Cheesecake hehhe noo i never told anyone. I didnt think much of it afterwards. Its sort of the things u notice how messed up it really is when its long over uknow. But tysm❤️
She probably got you out of the photo because she was jealous of how lovely you are and didn't want such a cutie to be included. Ignore this teacher. Such a bad person >:((. You're beautiful and perfect.
Taaae Ahmed hahah aaaaw ur too cute! Btw we share the same surname! Ahmed!!😂❤️
Salma Laks that is not a good teacher. a good teacher will make sure everyone feel included and appreacited..It is not your fault.. the tcher is very mean
When I was in 6th grade my best friend of 6 years sent me an out of the blue text that she didn't want to be friends with me. She said I was the worst person She had met, that I didn't have any real friends, and that I was baggage to her. She said that people stopped hanging out with her because she was friends with me, and that they were so much more important to her than our fake friendship was.
It hurt the most because she had just spent a week at my house and I was thinking about telling her how much I loved her, and that she was like a sister to me. I didn't have the courage to say it, and I'm so glad I didn't
ZTao's Baby Panda You don't deserve that, I'll be your friend!
Bruh same I can be friends with you
You r pretty so you win 😂💞
Honestly you deserve so much better, keep going❤❤
You''ll get a friends who will love you and appreciate you and always have your back.
"You were just a passtime."
- My ex-girlfriend who I dated for 3 months.
That only shows what a hopeless person she is...
A passtime she gave up bc she couldn't see how awesome it was ❤️ sending loves
I bet that wasn’t genuine. She was probably mad that you guys broke up honestly. She belongs to the streets.
Wtf
you amazing bud:)
I wish this was an hour long
martha de anda same
I have a chronic illness and when I was still trying to get a diagnosis I had someone from my class tell me "you're not hurt, you're just faking it to stay home and get attention" just because it's not visible on the outside doesn't mean it's not real
bela garcia Goddamn I hate those kind of people. Such ignorant assholes. One of my cousins doesn't support my career of being a psychologist because she thinks mental illnesses that aren't about being insane are fake. Like depression, anxiety, schizophrenia, etc. Her younger sister has all three of those illnesses I mentioned. Imagine how she'd feel.
I know a girl who hurt her knee and had to use crutches. One day at school she wasn’t using the crutches anymore and someone said that she was faking it even though she had a limp and she was struggling going down the stairs and she was crying because of that. I believed her when she was hurt. How can anyone say that about another person?
I feel u on so many levels. I have a chronic condition that is invisible and it's a struggle because I get called fake many times. In fact I lost 2 friends due to it. I'm currently going through depression cuz of it. If u want we can talk anytime u want cuz I'm here for anybody that needs it. :)
Relatable
I have a few conditions, none of which is life threathening, but they all build up and I sometimes go on about what I have. Because it is normal and ok to talk about your illnesses. On a scout event a girl, who is older than me - me 17 at that time and her 20 - who I had considered a friend told me she sometimes didn't believe me because I had had so many things going on that she thought I must have made some of them up. She is going to be a kindergarden teacher and a NURSE.
The most hurtful thing anyone has ever said to me:
When will you realize no one loves you?
I feel like no one loves me
Like I know that my family loves me but I’ve never been in a relationship because no boy has loved me and I just feel lonely sometimes
so First of all Faith Parker, you pretty af and beautiful people get hateful comments... don't let that crap stain you, no one loves you but one day someone will love you and life isn't about being loved, it's about loving yourself ❤️Don't let that crap statement stain you ❤
@@bxtchesmia_3842 I get how you feel... the only way we can get out of this is with self love
Sakhi D agree 💓
"He choose me over you."
its kills me inside when i heard those words
Learn English and try again
Meliv don't say that
@@DonkMel fuck off and leave them alone how bout that
@@DonkMel Learn "respect" and try again
Respect is for the weak.
"Your not capable of love, because nobody loves you." The most hurtful words ever received by me.
"I'm moving back to Japan. I never loved you." - My mother
Emma Wight I'm so sorry honey
Wooow wtf is WRONG with her?
Emma Wight
Im sure she was just so angry and said that dear don't worry my mom says waaay more mean stuff to me when angry so please don't care much💕
Are you okay?? Don't let that get you down. Stay strong ❤️
I'm so sorry you had to hear that, but let me tell you..
You are a person that deserves to be loved.. and I love you.
"you are a pretty girl but, you would be prettier if you lost weight"
J I'm my mom says this all the time
I am not sure if you are my best friend or not especially her name does start with the alphabet "J" but regardless, this is the exact same thing someone said to my best friend and let me tell you, I felt incredibly enraged but I never got to see her, the one who commented on her.
omg so true. i wish they just shut the fxxk up. like, seriously.
People have told me that too. Have you heard the song 'Scars To Your, Beautiful?' There's a line which says that you don't have to change what you are and the world can change its heart. You should listen to it.
@@amiya05 tysm. i looked it up. i love it.
My father has verbally and emotionally abused me my whole life. Just two days ago my grandma told me I sound more and more like him everyday. I’ve tried my best to be kinder and better and that really stung
Maddie McCabe i’m so sorry, i know what it’s like to have a father like that, and my mom always told me jokingly “you and your father are absolutely the same” and i always silently say in my head “i’ll never be like him” if you need anything i’m right here
nicholas colompar i’m sorry but my father isn’t like a father figure, he wasn’t built to be a father, and i would be so glad if i got away from him
myvibesareimmaculate _ my father refuses to work and my mom is really struggling with paying the bills. My dad has been freeloading for a long time. My mom wants to divorce him but she won’t. She takes it out on all of us when she should be talking to her husband not her kids.
agitatedmarie _ i exactly know that feeling, i have a younger brother and he gets abused by my dad, note he is 7, i’m almost an adult and i’ve already made a lot of money to go rent an apartment, i’m planning to take my brother with me too, but seriously if any of you guys are in trouble or something contact me, my instagram is @jdopeswater
myvibesareimmaculate _ aw thank you so much♥️
The meanest thing I was ever told was from my Father. He told me he wished I wasn't his daughter and that he didn't love me because he hated my mother.
Sarah Jordan you shouldn't see him as your father, but just as another person. Keep strong
Sarah Jordan I'm sorry
Amanda Gomes Thank you.
Mohammad Mohd thank you
Thank you
I once heard my mother say to my father: 'She'll never be a good mother'
It still makes me cry
At least it rhymes tho...
@courtney father mother it rhymes ;)
@@Asma-cr2jy you make me laugh with your comment
@courtney but you will be a good mother.....why she said such a horrible things to her own daughter....i hope you're having a good life now.... please love yourself.... don't mind them....such a cruel world we live in
You sure will be a funny mother :'>✨
"Be more like her"
I understand that
“You’re just so clingy and annoying sometimes”
Let me guess that was a "friend"
and you are rare! we cant easily find clingy people nowadays. i wont call you or anyone else as 'clingy'. its is 'caring' after all. i hope you dont get broken by those words. just so you remember that youre special and beautiful just the way you are. its their fault to call you as such, not yours. you are really special♥
.....I feel ya.....U know what?..Fck em.You're awesome & beautiful in your own way bud..!❤
If those are the most hurtful words anyone has ever said to you, you must lead an extremely easy life.
@@Weird_dude265 I don’t think we should be rating life by pain ratings. What’s hurtful to one may not seem bad to the guy down the street. It probably really hurt their feelings to hear someone important to them say that.
Sometimes it's not even the words...
But the person that said it to you.
You stole that from the person right below you!
Ps that person is “Moana”
Facts! Some words hurt when they come from certain people.
Most definitely hearing it from someone who just downright copied someone else’s line won’t move me.
El Dangster ya......
@@eldangster1616 Nope, Its Sakhi D
I was 13 and sitting on the couch and i decided to tell my mom ( black mom ) about my complexions, anxiety, people at school,.....etc. I was litteraly crying everynight in my bed because of those problems and when i told her she said "Why would you be complexed? You have nothing to be complexed for. I thought you were smart enough to not get complexed, but i guess you’re not." and that just broke me. So now i cry in silence and don’t talk about my problems.
(Please correct me if i made some mistakes, english is not my first language)
Felicitee Bimina ok duh black is beautiful and I am sure u know that .and for people who hurt u .I wish I could knock some sense into them
I am white, I'm asian, but I think black is cool (dunno why) but I don't hate them at all😂
Felicitee Bimina I feel you... my mother used to be the exact same way. she would never understand any of my spiels on why I felt the way I did. she would insult me and hurt me, and call me things that left me crying in the bathroom quite literally cursing her and wishing she was dead.
of course she comes from a culture where depression is looked down on weakness, yet i never knew that. i always saw it as her never being able to comprehend who i was and what i needed. until she got invested in social work i lived like that, with all my rage bottled up for 12 years.
it's ok, man. parents like that just need some understanding. mine always tell me the kids of my generation are nothing but trouble, but if you choose your friends wisely, you can find some of your greatest assets with those very people. parents are wise... but there are just some things that they can never understand, and that's why you need self-confidence.
I never go to my parents to talk about how I'm feeling or my friends. I keep it to myself which I know it's bad.
That happened to me too but it was my own sister I used to look up to.
When I graduated high school, instead of my parents telling me they were proud of me for graduating, they told me they were disappointed in me for not getting high honor roll... That I didn't try hard enough and that I didn't meet their expectations, even though I did my best to do what I can, even though getting all A's and B's and one C was something I thought they could acknowledged my efforts for.
Rhia Legaspi i graduated high school with a 2.56 GPA I had a mix of A's, B's, and C's and i had honor roll once in my life. I believe it was when I was in 8th grade maybe but my point is... You don't have to have honor roll to be good or be successful. Because there's so many people who never had honor roll and yet they graduated with a 3.0 or higher. You can still achieve high without an honor roll. Honor roll isn't the biggest thing in the world. Honor roll doesn't represent how smart or whether or not you tried your best, it just demonstrates that you did really good in those subjects. Your parents should at least be optimistic for you, whether you got honor roll or not. By the way I graduated in June of this year.
Kinda same, I just received my exam results (it's like one of the most important exams in my country) and I personally think I did great (I did honestly and I worked for it), the first thing my father said was "couldn't you have done better than that?"
You shouldn't let a piece of paper value your worth
"You just cut yourself for attention,
such an attention seeker"
I was 13 when I heard these words from someone who I thought was my friend....i was only 13 .....
It was probably true
@@DonkMel stfu
Meliv wow many I can’t believe it- you know so much about this person from one comment. Dam
Same
@@DonkMel omg you're so bad person
My dad was transgender, he was also in the military. He died serving our country and a young man walked up to me at his funeral (I was 11) and said "I hope he isn't buried with real men"
Thats awful im sorry
yeah, it is. Thank you for caring, it means a lot.
youre welcome :)
This breaks my heart. Im so sorry. Your dad deserves so much respect. And you should be really proud. Hope u are doing okey.
My goodness that is absolutely horrible. I'm so sorry you had to go through that on such a terrible day. Your father was a hero and a thousand times the man that that piece of human waste who said that was.
the IDEA of the layered voices in the beginning is cool, but yo if you're gonna do it, make it bearable on the ears PLEASE
ThatLauraPerson THANK YOU I TOTALLY AGREE
ThatLauraPerson LMAO YEAH
It gives me sensory overload and ticks with my anxiety
ThatLauraPerson AMEN
I had so many hurtful things said about me that it doesnt even hurt anymore
yeahh ok well I’m glad it doesn’t hurt you at least
This is what I call #relatable
yeahh ok you're lovely😃
Same
And it’s worse when it’s from family
My mother once told me "You are not worth it. You shouldn't have been born." My mother was kinda exhausted, tired and frustrated when she said that so I kinda understand but it still lingers on my mind.
I'm happy that you're born.
I’m sorry that happened to you
Every person that was born or close to being born is a miracle
Average mothers usually hold their tongues and not accidentally say bad things to their children. But I'll give you the benefit of the doubt.
My mom said me these things and the fact that she wasn't tired or exhausted she was all happy at that time and I still hear these things from her
Doesn’t matter if she was tired or not, what she said to u was shitty and she should apologize if she hadn’t already.
I told a guy that I like that I liked him and he replied "I'm not dark like you."
(I'm dark in complexion)
I feel that... :(
I go to an all-black public school (as am I) and those are things I have to hear every day. I hate colorism. I recently spoke to a boy after class to assure him that the things people were saying to him we're not true. Other children with lighter complexions with bully him because he was dark.
You don't deserve him hun and poor guy he still sees world in black and white
@@tvisha8414 Thank you ❤
Sahki, Your complexion is beautiful. It's sexy it's chic and it's yours. My advice to you is to own that. People are gonna hate and be rude and nasty and say terrible things to you about you, I don't mean because of your skin color exactly but what i'm saying is that someone is always going to have something negative to say about someone else. But I want you to know that you don't have to let whoever that someone is to put you down. I hope that you know your worth and how beautiful you are. I hope that society changes how they see people with darker skin, for the better. This unnecessary hate towards the darker complexioned people and gross and needs to stop. Everyone is beautiful. ( I hope you found this message helpful and I hope that nothing I have previously stated made you feel uncomfortable or hurt because that was not my intention. I just wanted to remind you how of how great you are.)
The first one reminded me of a story my mom told me about her earlier work years. Her boss told her he was considering her for a promotion because she was a woman. My mom is rarely someone who talks back to superiors, but she told he that he better dare not promote her solely because of her gender and that he better only be considering her for promotion because her work shows she is ready for and deserving of it.
This story has long had an impact on how I view the world around me.
kinda was hoping for the comments to have some people owning up to and apologizing for having said hurtful things to others.
But I'm proud of you all who shared your stories ❤️
Hafsa Hussein why? This isn’t what the video is about. It’s bad things that people have told you. Not bad things you’ve told people. If you wanna see people saying stuff like that then go to other videos like the my biggest secret one.
I've never really said anything extremely hurtful but ive called a few people things that i shouldnt have
thekindredspirit its the comment section, not the video 🤫
Reading the comments and almost everyone had the most hurtful thing said to them by a family member specifically a parent. I'm so sorry you have to go through that. It is going to be okay. Lots of love and warm hugs.
One time, I was at my "best friend's" house, and we decided to play a game of hide and seek. She had a twin brother who had another friend over. He was "it" and started to count to 60. We all ran our different directions, and scrambled about the house,They had just moved to a new house at the time, so there were a few empty boxes still lying around. I crawled into the biggest one I could find, and hid there pleased with myself for finding a good spot. After a few seconds, I heard her brother's friend run down the stairs, and walk around the house. I waited for about 30 minutes, when I started to get bored, and was about to get out of the box so we could start a new round. That was when my friends mom did it for me. She was in the same room as me, and walked over near the basement. "-my friends name- Are you still looking for -my name-?" She yelled down to the basement. "No. We just started playing twister without her." My friend replied. I wanted to cry. "Come look for her right now!" Mr friend's mom yelled. "After this game! This is more important that -my name-!" My friend said. "NO IT IS NOT!" Her mom yelled. I got out of the box and started to go upstairs while my friend said "FINE!" I went upstairs and played on my iPad. It took about 10 minutes for my friend to come upstairs, and tell me that they couldn't find me. They said that they were looking for hours, so they all walked around the house and yelled my name, to get me to come out. She lied to my face. I wanted to go home, and almost texted my parents, but then stopped because I didn't want to be embarrassed. This girl was my only friend, and I didn't want to be lonely even if it meant I would be sad. Thanks for reading.
I'm so sorry about that :(
keisha alleiah catague Thank you...sadly I can't get out of this toxic relationship, but it still means a lot to know that someone cares🙃
Ella i like toast like a lot, yes it's true
Hey. That's terrible, I'm sorry that happened to you.
I've been in this toxic friendship for almost 6 years now and I can't get out of it
we've just gotta stay strong aye
Okay now I'm on a Weird/Bad/Not So Good/Toxic friendship right now.. here's my story....
Her name is, well... let's just call her *Oof* , Oof and I have been friends for a year (She's "New" here but not that much new) I always come to her when she had problems to deal with, I listen to her problems... this year (2018) after she has changed... after she found out that *GayBoi* was her cousin, she stopped noticing me... like srsly... this is why I have trust issues... I... I loved her (not "that" kind of love, I'm asexual) why would she do this to me...
During my teens ( 11-14) I was a horrible person and a bully. I did terrible things to my classmate
I regret every bit of it and feel horrible
I am really sorry to have done that I know just this apology won't suffice but I am really really sorry
TED -dy don't apologize to us apologies to them.
TED -dy If you can still contact him/her and you haven't apologized yet, do it now. It will make a big difference.
I appreciate that you have decided to own up to your mistakes, I hope that you are a better person now.
Oh, I had a really similar situation in my life
I apologized to all of them (my bully victims)
Except one.
I told him a simple "hi"
He ran away
I'm still crying
Everyone has their reasons
They don't justify what we did, but in some point, we didn't know that we were wrong.
Or we didn't want to accept it.
Fighting! If you can help someone with their problems, trust me, you'll feel better and a really useful person.
That's the best way to take away the guilty you feel.
Bad stuff < good stuff 💜
Oh you're an army! OMG
If you want to be my friend, or you just need psicological support, tell me 💜
My ex best friend told me on text that : I don't wanna be your friend anymore Bc your social anxiety is a baggage. She said that i have no real friends and no one cares about me. She said that I should just give up on life.
I decided to forget about what she said and told myself that I am good just the way I am.
Butterfly Queen my ex bestfriend we where cool and all too,but our friendship started distancing we were becoming different people,so I told her that I think it best to end it because it was the end of friendship.She just started calling me all these names saying "no one really liked me","her mom said I was to 'loud'"(when I never spoke rarely with her parents around)"she just started listing things why people didn't like me and how she was apparently telling me flaws about myself and that's why people didn't like me" I was really suprised but it showed me the true her because whenever I was going through hard times she was never there when I got bullied and never stuck up for me.Note whenever I told her I didnt want to be friends since she was changing and it was pretty much over,I was being so nice and kind with it she just took it into a huge mess where all she did was make fun of me.I could have said rude stuff back but it wouldn't make me a better person o would be doing the same thing like she did.My mom told me she kinda knew she was the type of friend to watch you get hurt and do nothing about it,and I dismissed it but I am happy I saw the truth before it was to late
@Tionna Harris
I think in situations like these it's better to be mature about it and think in a more positive way. I'm glad you didn't backlash at her comments, which shows what kind of individual you are. I also don't respond back to my friend's comment Bc I realized that there are many important things in life to focus on.
Butterfly Queen you should get help for you social anxiety. She was way too harsh because she as hurt. You're not fine the way you are.
Y 👏 E 👏S 👏 Q 👏 U 👏 E 👏 E 👏 N 👏
My so called ex best friend told me "don't text me ever again removed me from everywhere and blocked me
my mom told me to “stop being over dramatic.”
I was having a panic attack
Hey me too wow
But I hope you're alright buddy get the help you deserve. And fuck her for saying that you deserve better. Sending love and warm hugs
*WUTDAFFFF-*
same here except it was my whole family but what hurts me is my younger brother said it to me first and I love him so much and I thought he was the only one I loved as much as they loved me but I was wrong and he is only nice to me so he can sneak food from his room without me telling and if I do tel he hurts me very badly.
I also experience panic attacks often.This hit me hard.
You're not alone.The bond that I have with my sister is even above my parents,and when she said so I really didn't know what to feel anymore.Anyways I really hope you're okay,because panic attacks aren't something someone would ask for,we have to go through it and nobody knows how we feel unless and until they themselves experience it.
I was called ugly for years in school. People that didn't even know me and people on the streets would make me feel I was worth nothing. They ruined my self esteem completely and to this day, I don't like the way I look. And when my husband goes on about how beautiful he thinks I am, it disgusts me, because I just can't believe him. He once made me look in the mirror and tell myself I was beautiful. I just started crying and begged him to not let me do it. I don't think I will ever consider myself beautiful. These people ruined my life really...
Nikki Nickster Thank you so much. It means a lot to hear that!
My boyfriend is in the same kind of situation... he will never know how handsome he is, because people (primary+middle school, and strangers on the street) told him things like "you look like shrek" or "was his face eaten by rats or something?" (Acne issues)... why are they so mean to someone they never met ? Why can't they just appreciate beauty in every way ?...
@@xssfxce that's terrible! It's sad really, how people treat other people. The worst part is that they just went on with their lives, never thinking about it again, and never realise how much they ruined someone's life... :( I hope your boyfriend will one day believe you. As much as I hope I will one day believe my husband.
Charlene Hall you're 100% right... i truely wish you the best ❤✨
@@xssfxce thank you! You and your boyfriend too
Somebody once told me the world was gonna own me I ain’t the sharpest tool in the shed
she was lookin kinda dumb with a finger and a thumb in the shape of an L on her foreheadddd
I was having a bit of a cry, looking at all the comments and thinking about old memories that I had forgotten about. This made me laugh, though. Thanks.
I actually read this like it was another comment. Then I realized and sang the tune 😂😂😂 but thanks for the laugh after this depressing video marathon
I have this one teacher who was a terrible singer. One time me and my two other friends were walking down the hallway singing the song, he looked at us and said “and you guys think my singing is bad”. 😂
Ken The Doll i hate you 😩😂
A boy I liked in middle school once’s told me that when I smile I look like a dog because a lot of my gums show. And it was the most hurtful thing I’ve ever heard. And I liked this boy.
But I think the thing that tops that is that when I was in my second year in college taking honors classes working 32 hours a week and living away from home in my aunts house... she told me I wasn’t an example she wanted her kids to follow. She made me feel like I was nothing. And my hard efforts weren’t enough.
Gabi Maza Fuck her.
Gabi Maza I don't think so u pretty we all love you
Honestly to me and my mother you are a perfect example for woman to dominate however u want on this earth, have determination and achieve what you want or need❤️
Thank you guys for your kindness ❤️
I have the same smile but it's a unique smile so don't look at what other people have said
I was bullied all throughout middle school and dealt with OCD/anxiety. I lost all my childhood friends because of the illness. One time when I was 13 I went to a small group at church to try and find friends. The youth pastor gathered everybody up to play a game. Not long after we started, I started chasing and being playful with a kid. We were laughing and becoming friends (so I thought). Another kid that knew the guy I was playing with saw us and walked up to me. He looked at me and said "Nobody likes you" and then they both laughed. Three simple words but that stuck with me for a long time. 15 years later and it still does.
I’m sorry
I love you ! Stay strong .
My bully told me those exact same words as well. And to this day it’s still hurts me too. I’m so sorry you were bullied…
What people don't understand is the words have so much POWER! Like everyone need to just think before they speak
4sara12 or u could just not be a pussy but I see your point i guess
"Don't call me your mother anymore."
ThisIsACrappyUsername Oh. Oh my. I'm so sorry. When I was a kid I used to live with my aunt (yea she sucked) and she would tell her youngest daughter to not call her "mother" anymore. I watched her cry.
Oh yeah, and she'd once blamed me for my mom's death. I was 1 when she died.
My mother said that a few times, she was just stressed out probably.
@@seorwhite3333 Well nice to see you there in my notifications twice. :D
Going on a Jubilee marathon eh?
This hits hard.
When I was 12 my mom told me that my autism made me act too young, and that she was ashamed of me, and that nobody would ever like me unless I acted "normal".
sarah maxwell You're freaking awesome Sarah don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
sarah maxwell you are normal and amazing!! Your mom on the other hand...
this is fucked up
this hits close to home, my stepfather said that shit. well at least he wasn't important to me, unlike my mother. she use to be cool (not these days, sadly. we can't get along anymore)
I am so sorry
The two most painful things I've been told in my life:
"You're not good enough to be here," and "You're not as good as you think you are." These were the exact words spoken by my teacher back in 4th grade. I was 8.
I'd a teacher who told me:"Even in this you are not good?!" The work was about making a flyer, and I was in my first 10 minutes of doin it... I was 10 years old by the way. 2 years have passed and I went from a so-so student to a good student, reaching the excelent in the subject she teached. I met her again because she went to our classroom to substitute a sick teacher. Then she said the following thing to me: "well, I've seen that you take a 5 to Portuguese, congratulations. But remember, you are not a student of 5s." (5 is the maximum you can get on a subject) I will never forget that, not because of her rudeness, but because I accepted that as a reality. For years I felt like I wasn't enough.
The most hurtful things anyone has ever said to me was that I wasn't even pretty enough to be raped. I still don't know what that means...
Edit: thank you to all for the kind words I really appreciate it ❤️
Sarah O. Your appearances are not judged upon male decisions. You are beautiful 🌹
It's not......god what is wrong with these people .......you don't listen to their words you don't have to be pretty to live
Pretty is not a rent you pay to live in this world
Angela how do you know it wasn’t a woman or this person is a man?
Angela you can’t just say it’s only males
Sarah O. Good so no one will touch you💜. You’re beautiful
The most hurtful words i ever heard was from my ex. I really wanted to go on a date with him so i told him and he said to me with the coldest look in his eyes * i dont want my friends to see me with you*. Im glad we ended but i still live with the pain he left behind.
He doesnt deserve you.
nah nah nah bruh, he should be the one to feel bad not you fuck im'
Pratt don't deserve you hunny xx
My ex boyfriend used to show me pictures of his ex and comparing me to her and wishing that i looked like her and he was trying to keep our relationship a secret from everyone , i relate to what you have gone through it truly sucks especially that they were not perfect to begin with! who are they to judge us? exactly. ;)
Michelle Abreu hey I feel your pain I was kept a secret from my exes family and friends everytime I tried to ask him about it he kept saying soon soon then two years later he randomly stopped answering my calls and texts and I was deeply in love with him at the time. Before that everytime we did meet it was always in a place where he wasn’t seen with me like it would be at my house when family weren’t home and I could sense really strongly he didn’t want people to know that I was with him it really affectd me badly and still does. People compliment me saying they wish they were pretty like me etc but I can’t stop thinking that if I actually was that pretty why was he acting so ashamed of me? I feel like I’m a embarrassment to be around now. Sometimes I’m walking down the street I see someone looking at me and I get so embarrassed thinking something is so wrong with me and I feel like I’m always bumping into people and can’t control myself and like my legs feel like they have no energy I try walking straight but instead I’ve noticed I be all over the place and that’s actually how I feel mentally. It really sucks. I don’t know what is wrong with me. If only he was honest and told me why I’m an embarrassment😫
My father told me I was technicaly *his property* and that *he could do whatever he wanted with me* just because I have half of his DNA.
Lou Robichaud Out of the other comments I have seen, this is by far the most disturbing one I have read.
Lou The Healer well... Ok
WHAT THE HELL!
Lou Robichaud He doesn't own you, you are your own person. Know this...he seems to be a cruel man who must be stopped. Seek help from a teacher, a counselor, or another guardian, because that kind of behavior is absolutely unacceptable. That is illegal and being placed in such a toxic situation could get you hurt, especially when he has that kind of mindset. I hope you'll be okay, dear. Lots of love!
by law, your father is correct
“She is just a waste of time, sometimes i wonder what i did wrong” my mothers words after i accidentally dropped something while i was in the middle of a panic attack
These videos are so bittersweet. You see such an ugly side of people and the world but the producers and the people sitting in front of the camera and dismissing these comments restores some humanity. It's ironic, the name of the videos is the meanest things "strangers" have said, but it the videos it's strangers defending those victims and apologizing for comments they didn't say.
saying to focus on the people who put the positive in your life rather than the negative is a lot easier said than done especially when i dont have anyone like that
jimin sympathizer I know what you mean. Usually these phrases don't have much practical sense and actually bring you down because they are a reminder of how little support you have. However I just wanted to let you know that the best thing you can do is be kind to yourself and find peace in accepting where you are at this point in your life. Trust me, it will get better. You might have to work more than others, but if you work hard and try to stay real, you will surround yourself with likeminded people and be so proud you made it. Just kick your ass atm and realize you have a life ahead that's in your hands.
the most hurtful things ever said to me were said by my mother.
you know what, I don't want this cookie same
br333 three ditto
br333 .... it's so sad when the one person that many people think will always love you and be good to you isn't ... not a whole lot of people understand. My mother daily subjected me to such horrific ridicule and shame (from a very tender age of 4) that it has forever effected how I respond to anything someone says to me (no one else has ever said the horrible things she said and so everyone seemed to pale in comparison which caused me to not realize how bad some people were being to me ... for awhile) ... also, I have discovered how those regular negative messages became my own in some ways ... you may want to pay attention to your own self messages to see if you have made any bad ones your own ... we can never forget those hurtful messages but we can learn over time how to stop them from popping up (in the background) and sabotaging us. Love & Peace to All
Ditto
I think the most hurtful things to tell someone is "it's not enough"
When they felt like they did their best.
I can relate..
Btw i'm not English.
I need more that’s not enough
For anyone who is feeling sad, doubtful, hurt, mad, angry, betrayed, defeated, trapped, hated, bullied, unloved, uncared for, anything, I'm sorry. Just know that you will be found. Those who cannot see who you really are don't deserve you. Those who don't love you don't deserve your love. Those who hurt you don't deserve to have the satisfaction of seeing you hurting. You are loved. You are beautiful. You are unique. You are you.
For now, here's an internet hug and a cookie. Stay strong
Diana Archer that made me smile
Thanks
you are such an amazing person....hope this world has more kind people like you
That’s a like, subscription, and another hug back! 🍪
The most hurtful thing anyone has ever said to me was "I don't talk to you anymore because you're depressed"
i've been told the same
That should open your eyes.
Your Ego I don’t think you understand how it works
I've never related to anything more in my life
Lol duh, why the fuck you wanna hang out with people who got them bad vibes, ya feel me? Like boohoo your sad get the fuck over it and smile.
Who else comes here for the comments cause the content is more real here than in the actual video?
"You have been making my life miserable since the day you were born"
-Dad
"You're a punishment to me"
-Mom
I feel truly sorry you had to live that.
I send you a hug, and thank you, for still being here.
We love you.
People like these don't deserve fertility...
I wish for your happiness😊💖
I'm so sorry you have to deal with those disgusting people and call them your parents. But I truly wish you happiness and a way out of this. I'm happy that you're alive.
You should not depend on others for love we should start from being our own first lover so love yourself .
As long as I can remember, I've wanted to be a doctor of some sort. This stemmed from both of my parents having multiple physical and mental illnesses, especially my father. He still is in horrific pain every day and all I wanted is to make it better for him. I spent most of my life feeling useless, helpless and worthless for not being able to take his pain away.
When I started year 6, I wasn't in a good place. It didn't help that my teacher was a bully, who later turned into a pedophile. One day during class, he asked me an extremely advanced maths question, something that not even the teaching assistant knew. When I failed to provide the correct answer, he lost it . He walked up to me and screamed in my ear that I was a "pathetic disappointment who would never accomplish anything ." He said that I "might as well sign up for McDonald's now as that's where I spent most of my time anyway. "
This tore me to shreds and I had never felt lower in my life, I hopefully never will again.
I can't begin to describe how it felt, to have the one thing that was keeping you afloat torn away, and being left to drown, but I wouldn't wish it on anyone. My anxiety and depression was at an all time high and I felt as if I'd never be able to feel again. A wile after, I experimented with self harm in a desperate attempt to feel something, literally anything. But I was so deep into depression that I couldn't even feel the physical pain of the blade cutting my skin. I was completely numb, inside and out.
After a few months of really not doing good, I finally took off the mask I had been wearing in front of my family, and told them. This was because, after months of being totally numb, I felt something, hatred, and that's what fuelled me to tell.
This came about because the same teacher had been watching the girls in my class get changed for pe class. The way he would just stand there, smiling, giggling, doing whatever he wanted , to helpless, innocent 10 year old girls, it tipped me over the edge. Hi wicked eyes would widen with delight as we reluctantly removed our clothes, scrambling quickly to cover up again. His little grunts and moans and whispers of "ooohh yeah" or "don't worry, I won't tell" was physically sickening. The thing that hurt most was the fact that no one else in the whole world knew, because we were all so terrified to say anything . When I told my family about the first issue and my depression, they hugged me and cried and told me I was going to be ok, but it was my dad, who also struggled with depression, who fully understood it, and it was my dad who asked, " what's the rest of the story ". I felt so relived. , as I know that my dad knew something was happening, and it made it so much easier for my to tell him.
It's been 2 years since the start of my night mare, and me and my family are continuing the battle with my old school to get justice on what happened to me and my friends, and we won't stop until we do.
If anyone is or was in a similar situation, please feel free to reply, I'm no expert, but I can offer support if you want it.
That I you to every single person who makes it to the end of this comment, I rlly appreciate it.
Molly - C - 123 You got this💖
You and your family are strong, don't worry you'll get justice 💪👍🙏
Is that teacher charged for being an extreme pedophile? And what kind of locker rooms were they? Extremely odd ones. Either way I'm glad that you are strong to do this and your family is supportive. Stay strong love x
God bless you. I am so sorry that you had to go through all that pain and suffering. You are an amazing human being who can accomplish incredible things. You are so strong and can go through this. Have an amazing day and stay strong because everything is going to be okay. I promise!!!! 💝💖🥰
I'm so glad that you have shared this story with us, us 109 people are supportive of you, they're will be more people after this comment, and to be honest your comment made me think for a bit,because I used to go through something similar. I was bullied for over 7 years and I hate to admit it, alot of pedophilian things has happened to me, and it had torn me apart, if you ever want advise or need someone to talk to, I'll always be by your side, right here.
Even though I’ve gotten over my depression, I still have my own little voice in my head that tells me that I’m worthless. Some days I believe it and for a moment I go back and think about all the things I’ve done wrong and how I regret so many things in life and I slip into that dark place again.
To anyone going through this type of situation I hope you know that you are loved and you are worth something no matter how much your little voice tells you that you aren’t.
can i be that voice in your head that says "you are not worthless." I mean you are a potato(username) for crying out loud! 😂
come on Babe ❤️Be strong
During sophomore year of high school I went through my parents divorce and felt sad and depressed, to the point that I never really wanted to talk anybody in class. Which made me a loner and an outcast to the cliques in my school. But what really made me hurt was that my teacher (who was known to pick on kids in class and knew I was a loner) said, " You just take up space don't you?"
Wow that's really hurtful.. Sorry
SecondHandLions tht tcher must be very insecure to pick up on students and even decide to pick on weak students. pls ignore what the tcher said, I, too, used to be a loner at school
SecondHandLions they dont understand whta you had gone true.. what the tcher said are meaningless as She/he is saying it without any hints of what u r going through
SecondHandLions That's terrible! How was that teacher not fired?
SecondHandLions That teacher needs to be fired
The worst thing ever said to me “ Mom told me right before she dies she really didn’t love you”. My sister told me out of anger I think but to this day I want to see her so I can ask her. She died 3 years ago. ( We are grown adults )
Damn...that's deeppp🤍
The meanest thing ever said to me wasn't from strangers...but from my mother. Even now 25 yrs later it still plays in my mind. She said she hated me so much she could kill me. Little did she know that I actually prayed for death on many occasions. She passed away when I was 12 but her words will never die.
Oh man, that was horrible. Hope you are doing fine
It's sometimes hard to not listen to the negatives when you hear it on a constant basis but you can always find a way out. Someone loves you. Many people love you and whether or not you want to believe it, I love you. For anyone out there hurting, I love you and if you need some help, I'm here for you.
景太郎サスケ thank you so much for this comment. It made me cry as I read it because I've had a pretty hard day today and my friends got together to take the time to help me feel better. Thank you thank you and thank you so much for you're wonderful comment. It made me feel happy 😭❤️
JagerXilos No problem! I'm glad things turned around for you! I really hope you continue to feel the joy you have now!😀😁
So true. When it feels as if your only surrounded by negatives, it can be so hard to see through to the positives and those who do love you, or those that would love you. And if you can't find a way out of the negatives, try and reach out with positivity and love to someone else who seems to be hurting. Because, maybe what you couldn't overcome alone, you can overcome together.
Beautiful.
Beautiful.
The most hurtful word someone ever told me was my mum telling me "I wished more you are underweight than being a fatty" This really hurted me because i knew i was not in perfect shape but to hear it from my mum hurted me more
tell her that being underweight is also damn bad because you can barely do anything and you're always tired. i had to be on meds and had to be force fed just so i can be healthy again for an entire month
Miki Takano Kishita just lose weight then
There is no perfect shape honey there's only who you really are. I hope you're doing well.
@@Isodkd I bet you she's trying. It's not easy to lose weight.
"I don't care on what you were feeling." he said that while I was hurting.
When I was like 8 I was at Disneyland and watching my sister (in a stroller) while my parents weren't too far away taking a picture. This little girl who couldn't have been 5 or 6 years old walked past me with her family. She looked right at me with this disgusted glint in her eye and loudly told who I guess was her brother walking next to her to not 'be so close to those black people'
I don't know why, but even now like 7 years later it's the meanest thing I've ever heard🤷🏾♀️
Mine were
"Go make some friends already"
"Pimple Face"
"You're so serious like chill out pls!"
"I hate you"
:(
Mine is probably: “You make it so hard to love you.”
I was also told my skin color was too dark to have beautiful children. I’m so happy I didn’t listen to them cuz I love myself
I am happy for you.
Claudicia Sanda thank you❤️❤️
the most hurtful thing someone said to me was about 13 years ago. I was a new mom my daughter was crying because she wanted to get out of her stroller and run around the store and my greatest fear then and now is her being kidnapped so I didn't let her out of my sight. I was standing in line waiting to try on some things and she just kept crying I knew nothing was wrong so I kept a straight face I didn't get frustrated or react I had learned in her short 18 months on this planet she had a great understanding of how humans worked lbvs. I was the only black woman in the line I was surrounded by white women some tried to calm her by giving her a phone ( that my daughter tossed away) others tried to just talk to her. I stood silent my daughter had lunch, her diaper was clean, she had just awaken from her nap to find herself in a stroller and she knew she couldn't get out. There was this new mom her baby was an infant she chimed in and said " if you hugged her and loved her more she wouldn't behave like that."
you could hear hair whip as all these women had turned to look at me to see what my reaction was.
I am a black woman so naturally the ignorance of many in this space was that I would begin to yell at this woman.
but....
I didn't yell.
I just looked at her as she bend over to kiss her baby and I thought....
how every morning I would wake my only child gently by rubbing her cheeks like the lactation nurse taught me
how I would prepare all her meals with fresh produce checking labels for harmful chemicals
how every morning I would stand in the mirror and say " Good morning Baby"
how I would smile and talk to her
how I would say her name and spell each letter on the bottoms of her feet
how I would cry when she would cry as I left her a daycare
how sad I was when she was born jaundice and I thought my vegetarian diet was the cause of this
I watched my only child cry for 7 days straight as the doctors poked her heels drawing blood to check to see if she was getting better my heart broke every second because my baby was in pain and I couldn't do anything
how I though about the moment when I seen her before she seen me her nose... was like my nose , the bones in her tiny little fist balled up telling me she was a fighter on my only ultrasound at 1:30 am in a emergency room
how I didn't know she was a 'she' till she was born and my aunt said " its a girl"
she is my everything
I wished horrible things on that woman I hoped that her sweet baby would stand on a table in the very same mall and scream to the top of his lungs 'I HATE YOU MOMMY'
I wished that her child would be horrible to her
because she didn't know just how much this black woman loved her only child
she just assumed with the one brain cell she had that I didn't hug my baby or love her
when in fact she( my child) was the reason I loved
it took me years to forgive her....years
I vowed to NEVER let anyone tell me how to parent my only love.
*btw as soon as I got in the dressing room my daughter stopped crying I looked at her and said
" of course you would stop crying now" lol *
mommy loves you and ONLY you -Chick-e-poo
Oh girl... Your child will be proud of you. Lots of love to yoh ❤️❤️
@Kirin A. This is absolutely the best comment i have ever read ...
I think that you are a lovely mother just like mine and if anyone would tell something like this to my mother i would've snapped back so hard
So glad u didn't wasted ur time on telling her back and ur daughter would be so proud of u..
People like her are always and only have one job that is of being a chatterbox from which nothing but just thoughtless and senseless talks come out..best reaction to them is to just ignore them
Lots of love and best of luck to u and ur daughter for your upcoming years💕💕
👍
You're The Strongest Woman in The World
My friend once cropped me out of our photo.
martha de anda what's so funny
He/she obviously didn't want the photo to be beautiful ;P
Yulia Dwi you and jimin are both beautiful. ARMY FOREVER♡
I don't know why people are being so mean to you in the comments, but I hope you find friends who appreciate and love you :)
Why the fuck is everyone being rude. Like I've never been cropped out of a photo, but I can imagine it was really hurtful. Saying something like "you're not important enough" is screwed up 😒
I once had one friend. So we were friends for a year and i just hung out with her. We wanted to be with more people, so we went to her friends house, so she could call her. I stood outside the fence, waiting for my friend when its started to rain. I texted her and she said she will come out soon. I waited for a bit and then i heard my friends voice saying „im not going to go with her, she is boring, im staying with you, hope she went home“. I just texted her one more time to come out because its raining. I got a reply „go fuck yourself“. I just walked back home.
So whenever i see her, shes trying to talk to me, but i always say „go fuck yourself“.
Dont hang onto the past, its unhealthy.
Best if you move on but I am happy that you have such high respect for yourself.
Yes girl!
Something similar happened to me. But we didn’t text each other, I was just left by myself for hours while she went somewhere with her other friends. When she came back, she acted like nothing happened.
This school year has probably been one of the worst. I was diagnosed with Tourette’s. I’ve never felt so alone. Someone was trying to get a stab at me and asked someone “look at her, she looks like a man. Isn’t she built like a man” and then started calling me sir and would mockingly ask if he hurt my feelings or if I’m ok then he would laugh at me. The same guy and a few others in my class would always attack me when I talked, making fun of my very minor lisp, telling me I stink and need to brush my teeth, and would give me disgusted looks. I was teased all through kindergarten to 9th grade. I’m going into 10th grade and my one wish is that my parents will just let me dropout since in Georgia parents have to sign off or at least change schools. These past two-three years has been some of my worst, mentally and it’s very difficult just getting through the day even remotely happy and calm.
Julia Vaniscak Stay strong! Dont care those stupid heartless bullies. What they said is not a fact, just worthless opinion. You are the one who knows who really you are so dont even listen them!
Maybe suggest that homeschooling would be better for you and if possible, see a doctor and have them to help talk to your parents about potential options for the sake of your mental and emotional health! Your health is top priority. If they the doc suggests therapy, don't shy away from it. Therapy is not a negative thing admit yourself. It will show that you care about yourself and help give you the courage needed to take each step towards being happier. *I know* it's easier said then done but you know what those bullies say to you aren't true. You aren't what they say you look like or whatever. You are your own person and you will be a great human being and inspiration to others! Just hang in there! I know you can do it!
All bullies are insecure trust me.
As someone who has tourettes myself i can say that yes it certainly sucks, and people making fun of it even more. If you feel your diagnosis is bad you should try to play music or listen to some, it helps alot. Stay strong and ignore them even if its hard, they dont deserve the attention or effort. Cheers from me :)
Hang in there sweetheart, you will find your people. If nothing else you will find yourself.
“I love you.”
-The girl who cheated on me
she dont deserve you
oof, that's tough man
wow
I know that pain well but with ex bfs it does hurt
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Wow watching this I realize that I have never really had someone tell me something that truly crushed me I mean sure I've had some stupid kids tell me hurtful things but the words that have truly hurt me actually come from me... it's like a small voice from the nape of my neck telling me I will never amount to anything and that I am worthless and don't deserve to live or love but I know it is all me telling myself that
mackenzie lowe I am my biggest enemy
i was reading stories in the comment section and i realized how many hurtful and hateful things i've said... i'm so sorry to everyone in my life i don't deserve you
Just because you've said hurtful things doesn't mean you can change.
kkay chief, this isn’t the right place to apologise. i believe you’re a good person and that you can redeem yourself to the people you may have hurt. please go and do what you feel you must and reconcile with them, i know you can do it.
In middle school, I struggled a lot with self-image. At the time I weighed more than most of the girls in my grade, and I'm a Puerto Rican in a predominantly white county, so I was often called "Mexican" and was the butt of everyone's jokes. Boys didn't want to date me or even be friends with me. Nobody wanted to socialize with me so I sort of just kept to myself. I only talked to a few close friends, and suddenly I became that shy girl that everyone liked to pick on.
When I got into high school I started to focus more on my education and sports. I played soccer and did track in the winter and spring, and would spend each summer either running or playing even more soccer. I also maintained a 3.8 GPA, which put me at the top of my class. But even though I've become thinner and more toned and had so many academic successes, I still struggle with self-image and I suffer from very severe depression.
Even though I have many friends and am more sociable, I think back to the days when I was just a joke to everyone. I think back to the summer that I restricted my caloric intake to just 300 per day because some 13-year old boy told me I was a "fat ass". I've contemplated suicide so many times that I've lost count--all because people thought it was okay to mess with the mind of a developing teen.
Nobody insults me anymore, but even when I get compliments I don't believe them. I find it hard to believe that anyone could find me attractive all because of the words 12-year olds and 13-year olds 4 years ago.
*Just, don't say things that you know you don't want to hear in return. You don't know what people are dealing with, or what could possibly ruin how they view themselves for the rest of their lives.*
you're not alone. I suffer from social anxiety and depression because some 13 year old assholes found me ugly. It's so hard but I try to keep reminding myself that a lion doesn't concern himself with the opinion of a sheep. We're beautiful and stronger than ever.
Em I relate to this so much because I to care about how much I weigh and what people say abou me when I shouldn't
Em One time this kid said that on the first day of school I looked like a boy. It hurt very badly but pretended like it didn't hurt I remember the exact outfit I had on. A teal shirt with flower prints on it, super skinny blue jeans, and green and grey tennis shoes. I'll admit I dropped my self esteem down a lot, but now I look at myself in the mirror everyday and tell myself "Your beautiful and your perfect" I repeat it over and over again until a smile appears on my face. Now I just laugh about it and just keep on going with my life. Don't let anyone tell you your not beautiful because you are perfect just the way you are.😂
Freedom Well if you were a lion, why didn't you eat the sheep?
Bella Thomas Well you're not perfect that's for sure
“If I ever cheated on you I would tell you the next day” - my ex
Proceeded to cheat on me, which I knew about at the time and he continued to deny. One week later we broke up and it took 2.5 months for him to admit it, but only after I kept asking and said I didn’t care because it’s not like I could break up with him again. He ruined the relationship we had with a 10 month old, and now he’s blaming me for everything that happened because he can’t see his daughter every day 😔
When I was 6th my best guy friend pushed me and shouted at me " you are not important she is the most important for us. you are not worth our friendship" for my bestfriend .
He moved to other school even if he hurted me I really love him ( as a friend)
In 7th my friend didn't talk to me and once I asked her what's wrong ? She said " I don't want to be friends with you anymore " I asked why? She said " just don't wanna be friends " then I writed a letter to her she just tear it in front of my face .
She talked about me behind my back and made the whole class against me . They all ignored me and that made me depressed that my own best friend did this to me .
But then EXO came in my life and made me feel alive again
But sometimes I hate myself and want to die
So this is my story
( Sorry for my grammer )
EXO - L Oh, the GazettE is a japanese visual kei rock band founded in 2002. I have to admit they use a varity of music genres in their songs(more in their older ones, their lates songs are all quite heavy), such as metalcore, funk rock alternative rock, nu metal and whatever you call these subgenres, I am not a expert haha
And visual kei is a style with using a lot of make up and androgyn costumes, I'm bad at explaining it but if you look up at google pictures, you will get a good impress of this style.
You can check them out if you want, but if it's not your cup of tea that's totally fine, everybody has a different music taste 😊
I'm myself not that into K-Pop or Pop music in general, but I think EXO is quite okay, when I visit friends they often play songs by them, I'm myself fine with that but I prefer rock and metal over pop/hip-hop or whatever their musical sound is called 😄
逸見 エリカ(๑≖ټ≖) oh okay thspankd
You are to good for them, I'm glad Exo makes you happy and everything will be okay
that line about exo, I hear stuff like this a lot from kpop fans. Some days I'm in that situation, especially after seeing my best friend (also my 2 years long crush) for the last time 4 months ago, I've been much more emotionally dead and much less myself, I really miss him. Crazy to think how some talented strangers in another country can give us so much hope and confidence. I've had friends stab me in the back too, I know what that's like, I'm here for you if you wanna talk.
EXO saved me from the shock that came after I stopped my cyber bullying, I probably wouldn't be here without them....
"You arent the daughter i dreamt having, this isnt the family i wanted"
R5211 damn right
I don't like the beginning. I already have too many voices in my head.
i always have to skip it
it drives me crazy
I don't know whether it is most hurtful but still it hurts when our parents says stop being dramatic , cry face when we are crying
The most hurtful thing I've ever heard came out of the mouth of a man I loved. I was madly in love with him, but he only wanted my body. One day he found himself a girl who was strikingly similar to me. When I confronted him about it, he told me that he found a better version of me. I never felt worse than in that moment. I understood that I'm just his toy and nothing else. Now I'm trying to get over him and I'm afraid that I'll never find a guy who appreciates me.
Why can't this video be 10 minutes long, when other shitty ones last like 20-30 minutes....
Natalia P. Ikr
Natalia P. Maybe it's more powerful if they're short.
Natalia P. You kind of answered your own question...
Bcs you wouldnt appreciate it as much
Marketing my friend.
The most hurtful thing is when my mom was very angry at me and she said : i dont love you, i only do this for god not you , that really broke my heart , but i still love you mom ❤️ik you wont ever mean it ❤️
09Splash Ball That is emotionally abusive and illegal. Seek resources from your school guidance counselor or a trusted adult, my dear.
Abby Robins it’s not illegal
osnapitzfeltbeats it's emotional abuse. It's illegal.
Elli Earwood not in my country
osnapitzfeltbeats if it’s a form of abuse, it’s illegal