People Read Strangers' Biggest Insecurities
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can i share mine
My insecurities are my acne, face, body, and social anxiety, I just want to put myself out there and be able to look in the mirror and love myself, but I just can't seem to do that, and I do repetitive routines to get rid of my acne but it doesn't work, even so, I refuse to stop trying to love myself and I refuse to stop trying to make friends. As should everyone else, actions speak louder then words!
0:46 is me.
@@PSYCHE8888 Never quit trying or one day it will cost you your life. Acne is just on the surface and easy to get rid of once you find a solution. Anxiety is deeper and harder to get rid of. It's take many years (more than 8) for me to finally reach a stable point with my social anxiety.
My teeth I’ve been called beaver and a rabbit by my own family and the dark circles around my eyes I’ve been called a raccoon so now I make fun of myself to pretend I’m cool with it and it’s funny so nobody can yell at me for “not taking a joke” I wish I also didn’t cry a lot.
Strange how I can find the beauty in everyone else, but struggle to find my own.
Megaman Z You just hit deep man...for a freaking Megaman
Gay
Megaman Z Same. I like to say how everyone is beautiful, and how you should always love yourself but I don't take my own advice.
Megaman Z swear
Same
the sad thing is so many of these things are relatable
Riya S These people are extremely harsh on themselves. It's all about replacing the negative thoughts
It's not *that* easy tho.
Not for me, I'm perfect babe ;)
So true
Riya S it's sad and yet reassuring because it's proof that we are never alone
My biggest insecurity is people finding out my insecurities.
Same
I felt that
Me too
Thats true I don’t want people to pity myself??
same
My shyness. I wish I could tell people outside of the internet how I feel.
You can.
I wish that too..
U just gotta find someone who understands
Same
Same here
Same I’m so shy and I have extremely bad social anxiety and I’m even scared to eat in public because people have called me a pig before that’s why I always eat in the bathroom at school
xoxolilpeepxoxo Don’t listen to them man. Keep your head up. 👍🏾
That guy at 3:00 actually touched my heart. I loved that reasoning of a real smile and the light behind your eyes
Same :)
He made me smile:)
He made me smile 💜💜
yeaaa! when he reads all the secrets he's always so positive :((
Yeah same
Imagine they are actually reading their own secrets but this whole time everyone thinks it’s about someone else.
Rose Love dang
lol
Oh my I was thinking the same exact thing!
Rose Love Could be..
I was thinking that it would make sense considering everyone just like I can relate on that and then for like the one that said They wish that sometimes they could change their ethnicity to White to make things easier it was obviously a Woman Who Wasn't White so it would kind of make more sense
My biggest insecurity is
Caring too much
I sometimes care too much that it hurts.
It hurts to see that people dont care about me, when i do.
I broke him mental ~ This is me😞 (hey Aghase)
I broke him mental I can relate
I broke him mental - trust me that care is what makes you who you are and a blessing to others!! You should be proud of yourself that you have such a rare genuine trait 💕
I broke him mental the worst feeling is to be so deeply in love with someone, when hearing their name or seeing a picture of them can make you feel butterflies in your stomach, and to mean absolutely nothing to them. Being an empath really sucks because your feelings are so strong and overpowering and people use you and throw you away so easily. I feel you homie
I have the same issue. people just think ur a cry baby and a pussy but u just wanna make everyone happy, I don't like seeing people angry and sad it hurts, and u focus on everyone else but yourself to get rid of all the pain because seeing one smile, one real, true smile makes u feel like that is all u need to keep going until u get a frown. That ruins u no matter how many more smiles u get, and u just keep falling apart, people don't care that u want to not see others in pain so they make u feel weak until u can't take it anymore and don't know how to make yourself smile anymore
The biggest insecurity I have is caring too much about how and/or what other people think of me ;~;
Whiyu same
don't worry, it's pretty common. I struggle with it too. at a certain point it got so emotionally intense/stressful i almost stopped caring completely. Just try to find a group of friends that accepts you
"so what"
Whiyu you just said what an insecurity is
Whiyu sameeee
My whole self.
My acne,
My teeth,
My smile,
My body,
My personality,
My anxiety,
My depression,
My speaking,
JUST ME IN GENERAL.
hey , you're perfect exactly as you are ❤🌙 :)))
The world is unfair but its being unfair to everyone thats why its fair. Love yourself man.
Everything you've said is just an illusion my friend...
Most of these things are physical things... it's what's inside that matters
i hate myself. I hate myself for not being able to love myself, my acne, my body, my social anxiety, depression, eczema and ocd. I wish i could change those. I wish i was better at my studies. Fuck I’m crying pretty hard
My biggest insecurity are :
1. The way I still let "the voices of other people" inside my head control me.
2. My fear of everything. It holds me back of taking first step to be independent.
I can strongly relate to that ^_^
I totally understand you specially 2nd point :'(
Aw I know this is old but. I used to have SO much fear and anxiety. Like I slept with a night light until I was 16. But I'm 19 now and I can go into forests alone at night, I've hiked and camped for over a week by myself. I plan on biking across America alone in a few months. What helped me was a quote by Sri Ramana Maharshi " the greatest distress lies in the body. We have fear because we worry about our physical selves. How could we have fear if we do not have a body?" That means that, you are more than your body, and dont have to let it hold you back.
...but you're sharing it. It's out if your head. This is brave. Move on. 🤗
"What are your insecurities?"
Me: do we have enough time for that?
Ikr
I can relate 😂🙄
I have to much time for that.
Same
Right like I’ll make it shorter by saying what’s not😂
hey jubilee, you should let your fans send in there secrets, i think a lot of us would love to open up to someone anonymously
July B. That's actually how they got these. They had a post awhile back. But I'd love if they did it again.
thanks for telling me, where did they post this?
July B. Yes that would be cool
July B. No problem! And I believe they either posted on their UA-cam community tab, or their Facebook group.
thank you, i'll keep an eye on both in the future
i wish nothing but self love to each and everyone with an insecurity 💛
*hugs* Love yourself! And the world will do their best too
Captain Jellyfish
made me smile, thank you for that.
emily 💛💛
simmi k 😊💜
Plot twist: They are actually reading their own insecurity
That’s deep....
Umm who knows?
Damn.....
oof
wait-
"No one is ugly , we are just born in a judgmental society".....
- Kim namjoon
Hi army...💜
@@mary8012 heyy !! 💜💜
He never said that!
@@coversbyanushka I think I should say so. It was a comment made by an army on a selca. Go an read somewhere. It is so widely spread now that people refuse to believe go and check...
@@coversbyanushka I think you found. You should have not deleted your comment girl. Nothing was wrong with it. I was just mentioning so that the misinformation clears. Be happy:D
The social anxiety one hit me like a bus.
Kelly Mercado-Alzate same
Yeah
Social anxiety is so relatable. My friend told me I would have much more friends if I actually spoke up more. I'm scared to talk to new people because I don't know what to say, and when I do speak, I say something dumb, then I get so awkward. From that point I just want a crawl in a hole and die from embarrassment. I hate when my parents ask me to ask someone for help in a store or something or to call to make an appointment. I just get so scared. I'm entering high school next month and I keep telling myself that I will talk to people more, but I know once the opportunity comes I will freeze up and start panicking. I just want to be able to talk to people without feeling like crying when I speak.
noname when I was in the same age as you, I had the feeling like you. It was horrible. I was very stressful and I was gonna lose my best friend just bcz I didn't talk to her. But the things went better. I started to open my mind, didn't compare myself to others bcz I'm unique. So I can understand the feeling you're going through, that's normal. Do the things you feel comfortable. Don't worry. I believe in u. (sorry for my English)
huong le huong le Thank you so much. I hope I can overcome this feeling like you have. Also, your English is great, I wouldn't have realized that English isn't your first language.
I feel you... I have the same problem. Last year was my first year at a new high school and I was so stressed out because of my social anxiety. During the school year I went through different experiences... I learned many things and improved my skills a little bit, but still when I speak I'm awkward as hell and it ruins my day. I can't be that person who gets things fast and flows a convo easily, unless the person who I'm talking to is helpful and outgoing, And when around guys, I get petrified. And a lot of times people notice my low confidence. I'm the awkward person. Whatever, I know that it gets much better with experience, so I try to get outside of my comfort zone when possible, for example when around strangers who I wouldn't see in my life again. Sorry for the loooong reply xP
Same here! I can't hold a conversation for a very long time and feel guilty when I think back on all the things I could have said to make that person like me.
FluffyRawan I hope that in high school I will be more open to talking to people. The thing is my high school is kind of "ghetto" (I know this because my sister is in the high school). I'm scared that when I get there and try talking to someone, they will judge me. I just over think things so much but I can't help it. I want to join the Badminton team, but I have to go to the doctors to get a physical for that, so I just said forget it. I'm scared to ask my dad to take me, and I'm scared to talk to the doctor because it will be awkward. So I'm not joining the Badminton team. I just want to cry.
My biggest insecurity is my mind. That’s where your insecurities all start, so if we could/can change our mindset, we would be a lot happier with ourselves and everyone else.
I care about other people too much. Usally people don’t really care about me, it hurts. It ruins my life, and i want the best for everyone. I have someone who helps me; my best friend. She has a lot of depression and has anxiety, she’s the light for me and i have mentally overwhelmed myself helping her get through it.
my biggest insecurity is how i can’t socialize and im so afraid to put myself out there :(
I find it hard to talk to someone I haven’t met before...It just feels strange 🙄
Girl same. I have social anxiety, and like this sh*t gets old man
@@mariunfabregas7533 yh it gets annoying btw do u Stan little mix ??
same
In my opinion, I can't open up to my family but I can open up to strangers.
I relate to the social anxiety one so much.
Me too
Me three
me too... when ever I'm with family, I just...can't talk. I don't know why. I feel like I'm too much or if I say something, they take it wrong...or idk. It's hard to make words come out XD
Mee too
Same here
If you're reading this please do this for someone, tell them they matter, thank them for who they are or what they do. We spend so much time breaking ourselves or others down that we forget that we can build up one another just as much. Change someone's world today, help uplift someone, thanks for reading and thanks for just being who you are.
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ThisIsInfamousJBlack I would, but the first one hits too close to home...
ThisIsInfamousJBlack 🙌🙌🙌
ThisIsInfamousJBlack l
I'm going to do it to two of my friends, maybe more. I want to do this alone but I forget sometimes, ty for reminding me. 🙂
The one about anxiety is so relatable...I really have no friends and this makes me feel like I’m damaged one
p.s sorry for mistakes,I’m really not good at English
nyura I’m sure it’s been tough for you before , but just keep it at and you’ll find people who love you for you 👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾
you're not alone. If you want someone to talk to, I'm always on Twitter
is that weird if i ask u if we could talk ?
yee right here twitter.com/TVBnine
nyura hi. IG?
1:09 broke my heart 😢
My teen daughter came to my Christian husband & I and told us she was bi. She knows our Christian values and she said she will personally take that up with God (she is also religious). But we told her that WE will LOVE her no matter who she loves and always will!!! I don't understand how parents can just turn away from their kids. My kids are like an extension of me!!! 😢😢
Melissa Lamm aka *M* you are an amazing parent, and as a young teen girl that hasn’t come out to her parents yet, I want to say thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for being so accepting of your child.
Mallware I would do anything for my children and I have made it well known since they could talk. I had a very hard childhood & no one to talk to. I was abused, forced to choose between an abortion or being homeless at 16, married at 19 & ended up abused & raped for 10 years. I told my girls that they could come talk to me and now their stepdad about ANYTHING without getting in trouble. I don't want them to feel like they have to be scared to talk to us. They have been told they can come to us about anything including but not limited to drugs, sex, alcohol, literally anything....and they do!!! Not once have they ever been in trouble for it. Now we have a talk about the situation depending on what it is & guide them to better choices for the future. I wish you luck in the future.
Melissa Lamm aka *M* thank you. I wish the same to you as well. Your a tough woman who was been put through a ton of sh*t, and I applaud you for overcoming it all and making sure your children never have to go through the same. You sound like an amazing mother, and I wish you the best in your life.
Mallware Thank you sweetheart!!! That is what mothers are supposed to do. If you ever need to chat feel free to message me through UA-cam or IG under mimi_lamm and I am sure my daughter wouldn't mind either. She loves getting to know new people & and I'm sure you both may have some stuff in common. But that is up to you 😊 Be blessed sweetie
Melissa Lamm aka *M* Pray for your girl, trust me she needs it. I've been where she's now, luckily the overwhelming love of Jesus saved me and changed my heart so I would desire the things that He wants me to. Just keep praying for her, you never know what she's dealing with.
Much love and be blessed in Jesus' name 🙏🙌
My biggest insecurity is everything...
I hate *everything* about *me*
Savannah Ashley no no no you are so sweet and amazing ❤️❤️❤️
Love you stay strong
There must be something sparkling in you as every human has.. its all jumpled up in your head and it's a sheer lie.
You ought to surround yourself with positive ppl who'll bring you up
U are beautiful
@@coolgirlzinuwu1615 thank you so much
"I wish I could change my sexuality so my dad would accept me"
Why is almost every parent like : "If you're not straight, I don't want you in my life"
i disagree when you say almost “every” parent is like: “if you’re not straight i don’t want you in my life” i might sound selfish or a little unrealistic but try to think of everything from the parents pov yk. i feel like some parents might not come off as “excepting” or “encouraging” when it comes to sexuality changes yk. especially when the parents is strictly overly religious.
by far the best channel on youtube I cannot.
You cannot what?
One of the best...
Then don't
Yes you can!
Your sentence is unfinished.
*I wish these videos were longer* 😣
xuckerforxuxi that would be boring
Actually that would be interesting.. how many insecure secrets do people truly hold back cuz they’re afraid others won’t relate or they’re scared of being judged harshly
0:31
*Yes, I cried. I have social anxiety and it’s very hard for me to say what I want to say without the fear of being put down. I’ve been through bullying.*
hugs
**virtual hug**
Work on yourself honey.. we're here for ya
Same
@Mr. Dekim yeah bro.Same here.
The one about changing their sexuality is downright painful.
Imagine being hated for something that is built and born from the core of your soul. It's gut-wrenching to know that someone hates you simply because you exist.
The saddest part is laying in bed, crying your eyes out and knowing no one knows. Everyone thinks you are so damn happy while, you just want someone to understand and know that you aren't; but you can't just tell anyone yourself. You do your best to hint the people but they ignore it. Brave of them to say "then don't take things to your heart" while you too can't just control that when you really hate the way you look. From the head to the toe, from your voice to your smile which is beautiful but you can't just notice it. From crying till you feel like collapsing to hating when you look yourself in mirror. and then you returning back to your life of self destruction and inferiority and what hurts the most is the fact that still nothing has changed.
this is literally me rn. I'm in bed crying because that race one got to me, it hit a little too hard
i made my pillow wet with tears & used them to hide my sobs , if I cried infront of them they'll labeled me ,"deppressed , sensitive child " Some ppl..hurt U hard unintentionally but..it is always with U deep inside...I'm trying to heal..by ignoring the reality
I have days like that. Your not alone.
When the guy said buy the stuff online to get rid of your acne that hit me hard. I’ve been struggling with acne for over 6 years and I have tried everything to get rid of it. Dermatologist appointments, prescription medications, literally every over the counter treatment, changing my diet, etc. nothing has worked. People that don’t struggle with acne just don’t get it. 😔
Have you tried to change your diet? I stopped getting acne when I stopped eating diary and taking a muti vitamin. Apparently hormones in milk will make you break out and if you are deficient or low I'm vitamins you can as well. Not saying your situation is the same as mine but there is hope. Good luck
@@thaliamessmer6835 true
I feel ya
That hit home 💔
No one will get it but those whose been there
0:37 so relatable
Amen to that
Same. I always thought that with time it will just go away. I'm 31 and it's still kicking my ass. No amount of putting myself out there or even working in customer service for years did anything. At the end of the day I know the problem is how I perceive myself and how I think others perceive me, but I just can't shake it.
Same 🙁
I tried working out along side playing music and trying to achieve very small things. Helped me very much, but I cant say im a social fearless extrovert either...it just got better.. so if you havent tried sth like this id recommend you to do so for a little (feeling that you will prolly be 'more accepted' because of looks or social approved skills or sth)
Exactly..
Social anxiety will be the death of me one day. I can't stand this loneliness anymore
Sui_Jay_Sui you need to find people that are into things your are .things you can talk about straight of the bat ex: games, sports or even thinking you hate you'll be surprised.
same
i feel you so much
Try 4chan
william Rivers Well, how? Tell me. How. Just go out and ask a random person to hang up with you? I know, you only want to help, and that‘s so nice, but naive & not that easy.
I'm an Indian and I grew up wanting to be white. My white girlfriends always stood out more often and were deemed attractive by men. It's only that I started the journey of self love that I realised that my skin is beautiful and it really doesn't matter what others think as long as I accept myself.
Exactly! I'm also indian and I used to live in india before and now that I'm 14, I kinda understand how there is soo much colorism in India. I use to think it was normal that white skin is pretty because everyone thinks that and I hate when my mom or my grandma say how dark I get in summer and stuff and when I went to visit India for vacation before covid, there was this one relative that said "you came from America, but you don't look "gori" like when your grandparents come. I didn't even know what to say. Its so disgusting because there is so much colorism in India....
@@Gigikaurrr And it's revolting to see most Indian people normalize such behavior and show distinction based on color
It affects teenagers so much these days :(
Yes you are!!!! I’m Indo-Caribbean. I can relate to the struggle of what beauty standards are today.
@kylee aww thanks 🥺😍we really are!
My biggest insecurities are my acne, my face, my stomach, my feet, my whole body, how I feel about people, caring too much, not caring enough, if I eat unhealthy, if I’m too sad, my thighs. And everything that could be wrong with you
I currently dread my social anxiety. I turn away from people that I know are great, that I know won't hurt me or wouldn't plan to. But then I think to myself "Am I really good enough?" I try convincing myself. I try not to doubt myself. I try to look on the bright side. I know I blend in with the rest of the crowd, but I can't help but believe that there's something (I can't explain it) about me that they shouldn't have to waste their time with. Something where they hang out with me out of pity. That they'd have way more fun without me. That even if I don't say anything or do anything, just my presence alone is a burden.
ImmaFish I relate 😪
ImmaFish same.
I just read your comment and I imagined someone writing it. Someone really sitting down, watching the video and just letting their emotions fill the room. I imagined words like ‘social anxiety’ and ‘not good enough’ floating out into the room, filling the space, filling every little corner and edge that the words could find. I don’t know how to place the words together and put them in a sentence to reply to you, and tell you I know the exact feeling. I don’t know how to do this anymore, or how to clear the thoughts in my brain that fog my vision and stop the words form coming out. All I know is that I’m sitting here, I have a device, just like you. A device that puts my words together and attempts to form them in a way that I don’t quite understand. Your words have connected with me, I know this comment may not mean much but I’ve worked up the courage to reply, and reply in a way that may not make sense but I’m trying. Keep trying to break through those thoughts that hold you back, don’t let fear stop you. Push past that barrier and shatter the thoughts until they mean nothing to you, until you’re free.
I understand everything you're saying, the comment about social anxiety in the video was from me. I just wanted to say that I understand you.
ImmaFish h. Bcbchhchdchhcs
Just putting some face wash and cream on someone’s face is not going to heal everyone’s acne... It sucks :/ I wish it were that easy bc acne can really take a toll on an individual’s confidence. I would know...
My boyfriend has acne and he always tells me that he feels horrible and disgusting, but I've never seen anyone as handsome as him. Don't let it get you down, I'm sure you're a wonderful person :)
Yeah, the thing about people who have issues with their acne have usually tried many different methods. It's not as simple as using a product. Medicine, diets, topical creams, cleanliness, etc. It makes looking at a mirror feel miserable.
Brandon Anderson yesss. And I know I just finished 8th grade so obviously it’s a normal age for you to get acne but everyone around me didn’t have it as bad as mine and it really fucks with me. I have (had) a gf and I didn’t even like showing my face Bc I was self conscious about my face even though she thought I was the most attractive person in the world. I just don’t see myself that way and id actually used to get mad or upset when she called me attractive. It sucks:(
Kennedy Peterson so true. I had severe acne to the point where I almost had to have surgery, but instead went onto an extremely powerful medication with many side effects. I barely get any acne now and just have scarring from torn flesh on my face but it was a rough journey.
Edit: sorry idk why that posted twice
Nofap is the key to no acne
“I wish other people would open up more.” 😩 Me too.
I wish I were able to get pregnant. Most of you could never relate to a pain that deep.
sending you lots of love🥺
I can relate.
Are you married??
Some of us dont even wana be alive lol
@@Angel-sd5ncplease take care X
I hate almost everything about me. My hair, face, acne, dark spots, teeth, stretchmarks and nose. I am also concerned about my weight. They say I have an ideal body shape but I really want to get skinnier and gain abs. I don't know... it's really hard to accept myself. Everyone's flaunting their clear skin but here I am, editing it first before posting. I hate how hard I try to improve myself but nothing happens.
Keanne Marie omg! I just watch a video of yours and you are BEAUTIFUL! Slayyyy queeenn! Don’t care bout others just remember that you are perfect in your own way! Love yourself before you love someone else!
Hi love. Nothing is wrong with you. There never was. What people, the media & society tells you you are, is not who you should be. Nothing is wrong with you, be YOU. Because you're at your most valuable when you're YOU. Not anyone else. There is nothing wrong with you, and I hope you truly see it one day. All the best!❤
You should be the ideal weight for your height. Go to the gym for abs. Everything in the media and magazines are photoshoped to an extreme anyway. It doesn't exist. Work on your self esteem
Sometimes when you feel nothing changed, somethings changed you just haven't realised it.
You are so beautiful never forget that. And don’t let yourself go to that dark place stay positive about yourself and most importantly love yourself
I relate so much to having social anxiety. It really does consume my life. I get paranoid in public, fearing that everyone is looking at me. And because of that, I’m not able to enjoy myself. Not to mention, as an 18 year old college sophomore I’ve never had a group of friends, a best friend, or dated because I just don’t know how to be social. I even have a fear of eating in front of others…I’m a slow eater in general, but when surrounded by a group of people I feel insecure. I got my first job ever at a retail store, which I start next Wednesday and I’m already fearful of what’s to come. I chose to work in retail because I hope it will help me become better at socializing. I didn’t mean to rant, but it feels good to let this all out.
It's good just know you will break out of the anxiety eventually just keep pushing
I could relate to you so much. I hope we could overcome this.
It´s funny how i have social anxiety and never had any friends at school and then some random guy, who i don´t even know, comes and says that he likes me and wants to date me. Like wtf? Why? Unfortunately i don´t have any feelings for him, so i had to say no to him... But i guess he helped me to feel better about myself. Some stranger calling me beautiful definitely raised my self-esteem.
I can’t do anything but saying that you are 100% not alone! I feel exactly the same way, never had a *real* friendship. It hurts.
Gurl I completely agree with you. The only thing about this is that I'm 14 and in my freshman year.. I pretty much went through all the pain at a very young age.😷 Also, "r/im14andthisisdeep" or something like that-😂 LOL i forgot how that meme goes-,.,.,.
Imagine hating your smile. Damn.
Kerone Harrison i do but its nothing that ruins my life or something. i dont have to see it right?
Kerone Harrison the only thing i love about my face is my smile i have a resting bitch face, so when I'm not smiling I'm unattractive.
That's literally me and I've started straightening my teeth
Kerone Harrison Do it everyday
Kerone Harrison that’s me on a daily basis
if i'm being honest, i came here to see if anyone else is insecure about *everything* about themselves
my smile, my facial structure, my nose, my eyes, my mouth, my eyebrows, my ears, my forehead, my hair, hair colour, neck, shoulders, chest, back, hands, fingers, arms, thighs, knees, personality, laugh, talents, like...literally everything oof
Tom J. Penis lol
👋🏽
But think about it, everyone is insecure about stuff, even the people who you think have no insecurities. So might as well forget all your insecurities and let the world see Tom J.
Nobody sees themselves when they're concentrating, when they laugh so hard they cry, when they talk about what they love, those little moments are absolutely stunning.
That's beautiful. Thank you
My biggest insecurity is my weight... it always hurts me so bad if someone says I'm 16 while I'm 13. I always attract older men in the age of 27 and 40 while I just want to be a teenager living my life and not being disgustingly looked on
Hey, it’s been a while but..how are you doing?
3 years later. How are you doing?
I wish i could change how interact with men, I've been scared of men for about 2 years (since I was 12) because I was sexually assulted by 3 different men and I've never been the same. I always think about any man I'm with if they could overpower me and use me. I try to never be alone with a man and I can never feel totally safe around men.
Don't be scared of men , make them scared of you . Society needs to change but as its changing slowly we need to change ourselves into a strong person . I have changed myself into very strong ( I mean mentally ) and also be alert every time and one should have defensive skills to protect themselves . I really feel so hurt for you .Stay strong that's all I have to say . Don't be afraid ever !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm so sorry you have to deal with that. Why is our society like this? Just so cruel. I'm just a little older than you but have to say that you're braver than I am. And where I can see it you're a survivor, and this world needs change.
Don't be scared. The more you cower , the more they will overpower you. Don't let that happen. Rise before thy stamp their feet on you.
Be strong and confident... Don't give up.. Giving up is a thing that losers do.. U have to fight with reality.. And it always hurts..😑
@@freepalestine8722 Thanks c: I've gotten a lot better since then
I wish I could change everything about myself. I hate everything about me...
same..
megson18 Is that you in your pfp?
Night Stalker before I saw this I thought this to, I wish I could change everything thing about me, I wish more people understood this, I wish I could chose how I would look
Blasting Kyogre Everyday is a new battle but still fighting on... for now
nope, wish it was haha
I wish i could change my nationality, I am from Egypt and it's really hard. I love to travel but most of the countries look at us as some sort of threat, I struggle to get visas to almost everywhere and even when I do they hold me in the airports for investigation for hours. I know that these countries want to protect their own people but it's like I am paying for other people's faults. It's really hard to live in my country and it's hard to go out as well. I really wish I was born anywhere else but here.
me too! its so sad
Yea I feel u..
First thing you need to do is start learning more about your country, learn to love it, own your identity ..forget its people or its "stereotype" .. Egypt has such an interesting history and how the leaders and its ancient pple did to improve it ! Learn to love your language;Arabic is being hated by Americans and foreigners that for being the language of the "terrorists" or islamophobia in general, but they don't know it like you , how can you hate on smth just bc u saw smth on the media.. look back to the poems written by great artists and even if you're not muslim read the Quran and see for yourself how wonderful it is . Arabic is such a beautiful and underappreciated language. You have to stop listening to the media or wanting to be something you're not and start to experience it for yourself if its that bad ? . Own who you are ! All those tourists/ historians wanting to understand and admire your culture and history and here you are hating yourself for being Egyptian.
Let me be honest with you, there's nothing more pathetic to ME than someone who disgraces his own culture and talks bad abt it or try to be more Americanized or wherever he wants to be because he thinks it's better and he will be respected that way. How ridiculous.
@@nawras5388 well i don't see anything in my comment referring that i want to be "americanized" or disgrace my own culture, but before giving me that long speech about my own identify and HISTORY did you think of our CURRENT situation and life circumstances, yes our past and history was wonderful but what about our present and future. There's nothing more ridiculous than empty speechs like yours.
@@danluvu first of all, I was generalizing (sorry for not clearing that out) not just you. Most teens/young adults hate their own culture/ identity bc of the media and what's trending and how cool the other world looks and I'm not making that up. I was trying to help, sorry that my long paragraph was a waste. Clearly from your response you sound like someone who doesn't want to change. You did make me judge you and I, now, do feel like I wasted my words on you. Have a nice evening :)
Ps. Wishing you weren't Egyptian has to do with not loving or accepting your identity
"look for the real smile..."
-thank you🙏
YOU DON'T HAVE TO CHANGE YOURSELF, THE WORLD COULD CHANGE IT'S HEART ~ ALESSIA CARA
Sometimes I have that feeling like maybe I could Love me. Then I see those "models" and I am not happy with myself.
Thanks for those nice comments.❤
I don't know if that's you on your profile picture, but I just wanted to tell you that you're beautiful ! 😊
Edit : And we are all in a certain way, I too struggle with my own insecurities, but just because you don't fit the "mold" society wants to put us in doesn't mean you're any less pretty.
I can relate to that A LOT.
We’re just brainwashed to think that all these model features are what makes us pretty, every person is pretty their own way. Self love feel amazing, i hope you learn that soon:))
Yeah well how much are you going to bet that those models are depressed, addicted to drugs, and have eating disorders
@@marc6995 yes and thank you.
I definitely have felt that person on how they wished they were white. Growing up, and even now that I’m 22, I don’t get as much attention as my white girlfriends. We’re all normal to attractive looking, but since they’re white they can always pull most guys. Or guys will have this preconceived notion of me that I’ll have an attitude or some other stereotype. Or when guys do like me, a lot of them only like black girls, so it feels like they only like me for my skin tone. My white friends never get called any racial pet names, ex: chocolate, caramel, etc. When guys talk to them they just see them as a regular person. But guys eventually always bring up my race. I know it seems so petty and minor, but it sucks. If I’m just as attractive and interesting and kind as my friends, why am I automatically the last choice just because I have more melanin?
Felicia I’m a half white, half Hispanic fourteen year old girl that looks white, so I’m going to throw the Hispanic part out the window. I’m also a pansexual girl, and I think that black females are so gorgeous, and they have amazing personalities, whether that includes an attitude or not. And this is not me trying to flirt, but I just wanted to say something nice. I’m sorry that guys don’t give you the attention that you obviously deserve because you sound like such a nice person, and it makes me even sadder when I here that guys who date you are only into females that are black as if they are fetishizing you because there is so much more to people than the color of their skin. Whether they be white or black. I hope that you find a man who’s black, white, or any other race that gives you the respect that you deserve and loves you for you. Stay strong through any tough times you ever go through. If you face any racism, punch them in the face and show them who’s boss. I may not be black, but I would stand by the black males and females of America who are suffering from racism. I got your back, and you will find someone that loves you for you.
Mallware thank you!! This makes me feel so much better. You’re so sweet :-)
Felicia no problem girl! I’m here. It sucks that society makes it seem like only white females are beautiful. They definitely are gorgeous, but I have also seen so many black females who are slaying and killing it. Don’t let society bring you down because you are amazing!
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It’s not about hating someone for a preference. Felicia was talking about how sometimes guys seem to see through her. Like either she could be the “black girl stereotype” or just fetishized. It makes people uncomfortable if their race is just always mentioned to someone when it really isn’t supposed to matter, especially when you’re trying to be in a relationship with someone. She doesn’t want people to just see her for her skin, but see her for who she is.
Felicia same im African American and it still hurts
My social anxiety.
Panic attack.
Fear of the future.
Fear of the past.
Being judged by people.
Losing my train of thought in public.
Hope that one day all this will go away and then I will enjoy this beautiful stimulation called life.
My biggest insecurity would be acne. It just affects the way you interact with people, your confidence, and it makes me feel very unattractive
This stuff is so deep and whenever I hear the words " Love myself " And " Love yourself ", I always remember BTS. Although it's not a BTS video but i want to say that they had taught me so much and I never thought I will learn this kind of thing from a boyband until of course I came across them. I must say, the day I discovered them I also discovered myself! Love y'all.. Always remember you are important and worthy.
Stay healthy and Stay gold. Fighting! 😊😊
The ethnicity one was so sad. I wish people would be happy and have more confidence in themselves. The only reason they feel that way is because everyone else makes them feel that way.
Just a motivation. For example, if you have insecure about your face which is full of acne. And then you also had a friend or a family member with acne face, would love them or not? If you accept them, then it can be done same on you. Look at you like a person and love yourself. When you like someone, you don't notice their imperfections. Same goes to you when you live yourself. Excuse my English if it's bad.
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That meant a lot, thanks. 🙂
My pleasure!
The ethnicity one hit me hard. Being black and sadly thinking that when I was younger. Fortunately, now I’m so happy to be black and embrace my curls instead of burning it everyday
Mine:
I wanna get ride off of my anorexia, depression, anxiety, and life
Please take care x You are beautiful and You are important X
plz watch the documentry of Claire wineland. also seek help
My biggest insecurity is my body, plain and simple. I find everyone else's but my own beautiful
Trust me" you are beautiful" every body is beautiful in this world ..just look at those wo dont have one hand or leg and who are blind with eyes the look at yourself...you are better than them ...so YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL
My biggest insecurity is also acne. Its never easy, those creams dont actually work. Ive tried so many things, spent so much money, im sick and tired of having to look at my face. I dont even want to look at myself in the mirror, i feel like when ppl see me they only see the spots on my face and i feel horrible.
How's the situation now
I ever felt the same,...
It was hard time to me. Everyday i saw my self in the mirror just make me frustrated
I have it on my back and face. It sucks.
Try retinol. It works for me
I wish I could change the way my body is, I'm not skinny, I'm not fat but it's that awkward size, my shoulder are really big and I hate it😭
In order to love yourself you have to face yourself. Your shoulders are "big", so? What's the big deal? I'm tall for my age but I can't change that. So I'm gonna walk like I rule and enjoy it. Just.. don't think about your insecurities too much. *I didn't want to bring religion into this* God made you the way you are. If he didn't want you to be like that he wouldn't have made you like that.
GoatsRUs thank you so much honestly
GoatsRUs no need to bring this "god" you dont nees to accept yourself for this "god" accept just for yourself
@@ELSLAYEADOR Not even gonna bother arguing lmao 😂😂.
‘that awkward size’ is called normal and healthy - i may not like my thighs but at least my body keeps me alive!
the ethnicity one 💯💯💯💯 i think so many poc (especially those who aren't lightskinned) can relate to that
I'm lightskin but I wanna be white
Im black and i wish i was light skin because no one loves me the way I am
@@JeonJungkook-vr5zn Those who don't love you because of the color of your skin don't deserve you! You're worthy of love and don't allow anyone to make you feel otherwise.
@@jasminex6421 trust me that's not the case..
I'm not black but I'm not white either; I'm Filipino so my skin is a coco-like tone [fair skin//light brown] but I still wish to be white bc everyone always ridicules each other for being dark [in my school]
You've been "you" your whole life and hence you don't seem to see how beautiful you truly are. Y'all are amazing. Work on yourselves, work with love. Sending hugs to whoever needs it
I know this is irrelevant, but that last woman saying "I'm so proud of being who I am" put a smile to my face, and made me happy. When she talked about how she learned to love herself and that she didn't when she was younger, I relate to that. Even though I am still really young, I remember the times where I wished I was from an more "interesting" country, because I thought good ol' Denmark was boring. But then one day I thought, "I like being from here." Since then, I've been proud to call myself a Dane, I've been proud of being a native Danish speaker, and I'm proud of who I am. :)
one of my insecurities is for leaving a comment to anything. i feel like my comment will be judged or offensed anyone. p/s; also my grammar weren't that good ehe
I see more people who kind of apologize for their grammer. I think, instead, you can try being proud of the fact that you were capable of writing this :)
*Whatever the coment above mine said.*
@@asthadiwan exactly
I felt it too
Don't feel bad for your grammar, if you are not good at English you must be 100% correct at your own native language.
I can totally relate x You are courageous to post xx😊
That was powerful, I can see myself in these messages
I’m not crying, you are
Damien DD yes i am, but you are too!
The shame I've carried for so long about how I look and the insecurity I have about my body has meant I've missed many chances to have someone by my side, to hold me at night and to tell me that I am great the way I am.
But it's time that I make a change, so I'm going to start therapy and I'm going to be more open about my struggles.
Sometimes the pain is too much to bear alone, and I am so tired of feeling like this and never feeling good enough so I understand these secrets and the darkness they hide.
Anyone out there who reads this and might have similar thoughts, please see someone or confess these feelings to someone because they never go away and the personal ruminations always just make it worse with age. ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
For anyone who reads this,
You are WORTHY ☺️
Sad Thor noises.
My biggest insecurities are: my smile, my acne, my face, my body shape (waist, butt, boobs) my feet and the fact that i care too much ab what ppl think , the fact that boys say im a hoe bc i was sexually active with someone i liked at 13 . school makes me insecure . mirrors make me insecure. the gym makes me insecure , the locker room makes me insecure, friends make me insecure, boys make me insecure , people make me insecure , i make myself insecure. society. makes. me. insecure.
Envy nobody. When you accomplish this your life will instantly become better no matter your circumstances.
I wish i could change my body, my face and my complexion basically my physical apperance.
No matter how much people say tht u should have a good heart than a good face but the world judges beauty. These days no one looks in smone's hearts all people see a their beauty and their body and judge them.
OJU ARMYblink yup
OJU ARMYblink same
I love you and you profile pic
꧁༺Ꭷʝᥙ ᗩᖇᙢƳცlᎥᥒк༻꧂ so true and relatable. Don’t worry tho someday somebody will love u for who you are 😉
I felt this
I know a friend that would hate how she’s so empathetic, and me on the other hand I don’t feel much emotion the older I get.
"I often see myself as an alien compared to other girls of my age" Someone feels the same way!😭💘
"Id like to be okay with who I am,even when I'm not doing anything."
These video's made me realize that I should not pity myself. There are other people who have worse problems than me... I should be happy that I've received so much love in my life and there are people who didn't... These video's make me cry.
Kaneki That's right, but somethimes I live in my own world, not caring about other people's problems. I wish I realized that earlier.
0:37 FINALLY SOMEONE UNDERSTANDS
My biggest insecurity is my skin. I have had severe eczema since I was three. I wish I just had weight issues or something like that - it’s something you can work on. But all the scars can’t be undone.
Trust me you do not want to have weight issues
All these time I always have great skin. People always praise me for my clear skin and suddenly this year when I am 19 years old, I started to have skin problems. My skin gets itchy, becomes flaming red and got blisters everywhere. I met a dermatologist and was diagnosed with eczema. The dr said it can heal.. But the scars stay though. And now my skin became my biggest insecurity.
Omg it's happening with me too but I got different allergy
My skin was so clear and now my body (except my face and neck ) literally every where I have brown dots spots lines what not on my whole body.
I have become so insecure I can't tell you it's just eat my head up all the time, I literally shop for full sleeves full length clothes and all. It's been a year and still not able to deal with it.
I think I can feel you pain somehow going through skin problem.
2:45 I want a friend like him in real life.
What that guy said about loving yourself, regardless, not the happiness you try to show in a selfie, but the happiness that comes from the joy and the light in your eyes that you can't capture in a selfie. Love that person.. I needed to hear that tonight. Thank you.
I like the guy at 2:57 he has a real positive attitude😊
“I wish I could change how I see my body. I know I’m not overweight but since gaining back 40 lbs from anorexia I can’t help but feel disgusting”
I related to this one the most. When I started highschool, I started starving myself. I was and still am 5”8. I wasn’t overweight to begin with, in fact I was a little underweight to start with, at 13 before this whole mess I was about 100 lbs. After I met my ex everything went downhill and got very toxic very fast. At my lowest peak I weighed about 85 lbs. It was hell. I couldn’t stand up for more than a few minutes without needing to sit because I was so weak and everything hurt, not even to shower. I would just lay in the shower and cry. It was effecting my grades, my family, my friends, my (now) ex. Now I’m a junior and slowly recovering, still underweight at 110, but getting there :) I’ve relapsed a lot in the past year, back to old habits, people (my ex) who would encourage me to starve myself. But I’m trying my best
If someone asks me, "What are your biggest insecurities?" I will answer, "My weight, my face, my social anxiety & my personality." I always feel so insecure about fat belly and my facial expression because I'm an introvert that always insecure about herself. I have no confidence about myself. What's even worse is my social anxiety. And my introverted personality. There's one time I liked a guy in my school. I wanted to make the first move because I thought, "Maybe that will impress him." Turns out, I was so wrong. When we met each other, I finally found out that he liked another girl who was so extroverted but also very mean to my friends. Then he even told me to be more confident, or else none of the guys would like me. I wish I can be more confident and extroverted in life so that everyone would like me as a confident girl.....
I understand the one with social anxiety. Sadly a lot of people don't understand that.
I wish i would be able to enjoy myself instead of worrying about what people think of me and caring about how i look all the freaking time. Im tired of looking at that face in the mirror. Im tired of thinking im useless unless im doing something productive. I want to be able to spend time with myself in peace without worrying if im good enough or that im useless. I want to rest.
This channel needs more recognition
My only insecurity about my physical appearance is my short height. Whenever i see someone new/ a stranger or anyone else the first thing i notice about them is their height and how everyone is taller than me and i can never be as tall as that random person. My parents tried everything to try to make me tall cause most women in my maternal and paternal family are 5' or 5'2 and my both grandmas are below than 5feet. But nothing worked. Nothing ever works for me not just about height but about everything.
I'm so sorry for you!!! Sadly, for me it's the same but with the Point that I'm the tallest girl everywhere
I have the same issue i was okay until my family pointed out
I wish I was smarter so that I could reach my parents' expectation and make them proud.
I also wish I could learn to love and accept myself just the way I am.
"I wish other people opened up more" made me tear up
"what's something you wish you could change about yourself?"
me: everything. every single thing.
No .you dont need to change yourself for people ...if talking about your physical appearance then believe me you are beautiful ...and if talking about habits that you hate then just groom to urself into a better person .dont change yourself to impress someone ...improve yourself for "you" only
i can relate to the wishing to change your ethnicity part. being a Latina in America with family that only speaks Spanish can be exhausting. I remember I used to hate going out with family because that’ll mean I’d have to speak Spanish to them , so many people would stare. But now I love my culture and I honestly can care less if people stare , not my fault you don’t understand me pendejo
wow. im white and i hate being white. i always wanted to be my 2% asian or 5% polynesian or 3% hispanic. i hated being white because i felt so pale and all my tan/brown friends would tell me, "wow you're really white" or something like that. and compare their arm with my arm. i always thought that the latinas picked up most guys. it seems like you always want to be the opposite of what you are.
im sorry but now adays, if you're latina you're usually praised by almost everyone. im not saying that all of them are, but most of them. be happy to be latina. you're probably really pretty.
also, many people in america can speak spanish or almost fluently so dont feel left out lol.
pinkdimples msp well i actually look very white even though I’m Dominican. I have green eyes , light skin and curly brown hair. people don’t believe me when I say I’m Latina , most people think I’m mixed because of the hair. people from DR come in so many different tones it’s insane.
pinkdimples msp and im very very proud to be Hispanic now , i just felt like that when I was younger. I praise my culture and my Spanish speaking family.
Try being black in America people see me as a angry black girl for simple expressing my emotions and how I feel . Even if I express my emotions in the calmest classy way
...it would be nice to have long flowing hair ( yes I'm a guy), full pink lips, skin that's on the lighter side, naturally decent physique, green or blue eyes and a personality that makes others melt !!! Social media has really made so many of us feel worse ofd than we were !! It seems as if the pretty girls and sexxy guys who have a lot of money, are the ones who are happiest with their 100k followers and constant validation !! I stopped using IG, Twitter and FB a long time ago.
You know the thing is that ppl on social media only show the best of them. Their happiest moments. They choose what to and what not to show. Behind the scene even the ppl that look so perfect from the outside struggle in one way or another. Also if u want to have long hair let it grow out. I had this one guy in school that had this long black hair & seriously as a girl I asked myself how he could keep it so healthy and shiny bc I certainly am a disaster at taking care of my hair XD
What I want to say is do what you want to do with your appearance & don't care what other think. I know it’s hard but I’m certain that one day you’ll be able to have the mindset of “if it makes me happy that’s all that counts” :3
This is an amazing series and an amazing channel!
I hate how weird my personality is. One minute I’m bouncing off the walls, which people hate, and the other minute I’m not saying anything, people hate that too.
My biggest insecurity is my body. I have very skinny arms and legs. People always point it out, but whenever I try and tell them that I’m insecure about it. They tell me i shouldn’t be and that they have it worse. I feel like no one listens to me.
I love this channel so much
My biggest insecurities in my life is I don't have too much confident to showed up to everybody especially in school i'm lack of confidence when speaking in front of a lot of people directly looking at me.
I don't know why do people judge me when I love myself and don't care about my insecurity but they just try to remind me that I have insecurity and basically just wanna drag me down
Its hard to not appreciate yourself but appreciate others because you dont want them to feel unwanted