People Read Strangers' Cheating Secrets

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  • @jubilee
    @jubilee  6 років тому +693

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    • @iirxserblx7530
      @iirxserblx7530 6 років тому

      hoii

    • @vexiantillson375
      @vexiantillson375 6 років тому +3

      I really enjoy this series. You guys are doing great stuff!

    • @sabrinam.2178
      @sabrinam.2178 6 років тому +3

      How do people submit their secrets ?

    • @Emily-iu1ct
      @Emily-iu1ct 6 років тому +1

      Jubilee I love this Chanel

    • @bobatearat2113
      @bobatearat2113 6 років тому +2

      i want to know how i can submit stuff for them to read.

  • @roniv4269
    @roniv4269 6 років тому +12742

    „I‘ve been cheated on by every girl I‘ve ever dated.“ damn. you deserve better.

    • @faisalblaihed
      @faisalblaihed 6 років тому +91

      Roni V yeah that hurtss

    • @affanmohidden5474
      @affanmohidden5474 6 років тому +40

      Pain 💔💔

    • @trxxblx-wxs-hxrx
      @trxxblx-wxs-hxrx 6 років тому +38

      I felt that smh 😪😴

    • @achilles1500BC
      @achilles1500BC 6 років тому +48

      I went thru that

    • @xoxoMotel
      @xoxoMotel 6 років тому +36

      What are the chances...i read ur comment exactly at the moment the guy was reading it

  • @sharanyak12
    @sharanyak12 6 років тому +3934

    i love the fact that this video includes both perspectives: the cheater & the one who got cheated on

    • @freelikeyve
      @freelikeyve 6 років тому +7

      simmi k for real, I sooo loved that.

    • @kathleenosphere
      @kathleenosphere 5 років тому +3

      Seriously

    • @carissasimmers7714
      @carissasimmers7714 5 років тому +9

      simmi k
      I love it to
      You can see the one who did the wrong and see how they feel and you can see the one that got cheated on and see how they feel after
      It show how much one person’s mistakes can hurt another person

  • @paolaaguilar2233
    @paolaaguilar2233 6 років тому +4851

    “ I keep wondering what she had that I didn’t....and why I’ll never be good enough” - That hit me,

    • @yourlordandsaviouryeesusbe2998
      @yourlordandsaviouryeesusbe2998 6 років тому +16

      Plot twist: What she had is definitely not a flat chest.

    • @iHeartZebraPrintt
      @iHeartZebraPrintt 6 років тому +3

      felt it

    • @littlefox2837
      @littlefox2837 6 років тому +8

      Paola Aguilar same, my heart just broke in two

    • @shayboo_91
      @shayboo_91 5 років тому +7

      My Lord, I completely agree with you, not. even those of us with big chest have felt how she feels

    • @shayboo_91
      @shayboo_91 5 років тому +1

      I’ve felt the same for a long time

  • @vloggetts
    @vloggetts 6 років тому +3993

    Lol that girl saying she was dating 2 guys without their knowledge because she was scared of losing them both. Girl, if you're not going to be honest with both of them, you don't deserve to be with either of them

    • @selenap5353
      @selenap5353 6 років тому +71

      Vloggetts What’s the real meaning behind someone doing that? Does it mean she actually doesn’t love either of them? I’ve been in the situation of being “one of those 2 guys” and I’m still looking for answers why someone couldn’t choose a person...

    • @vloggetts
      @vloggetts 6 років тому +115

      @@selenap5353 Honestly I couldn't tell you. Maybe they're actually polyamorous, maybe they saw one relationship as more stable and the other as more exciting but couldn't decide, maybe they just get a weird thrill out of deceiving people. But I can tell you that it's really unfair that someone did that to you and that you deserve much better. There are plenty of fish in the sea, friend

    • @caminari1522
      @caminari1522 6 років тому +68

      @@selenap5353 Sometimes one can be great in bed and another great support so the girl decides to keep them both to fullfill her needs. But in the end she will loose both of them. There are people who want to have just in case option if they would have been dumped. It's disgusting... Nobody can fill 2 chairs at the same time and people need to learn that.

    • @caminari1522
      @caminari1522 6 років тому +27

      @@pizzapizzapizza4747 If you have a crush on a guy while being in relationship it shows your immaturity towards relationship and that you aren't ready for serious one. If you are in relationship with someone who you see as close friend- talk with him and if he won't understand you he doesn't deserve to be your friend. In any case from what i can tell you need time to understand what you want.

    • @caminari1522
      @caminari1522 6 років тому +4

      @@pizzapizzapizza4747 I can't judge you. I am trying to understand what you wrote. I am looking from psychological side. If i am wrong don't take my words too seriously.

  • @januarydecember1013
    @januarydecember1013 6 років тому +4607

    "I've been cheated on by every girl I've ever dated" that made me sad

    • @imsadalotngl
      @imsadalotngl 5 років тому +3

      January December Its such a shame :/

    • @mreit28
      @mreit28 5 років тому +1

      ...but not really surprising

    • @korvick9377
      @korvick9377 4 роки тому

      Same buddy same I felt all that 😔

    • @sagal_Ziggy11
      @sagal_Ziggy11 4 роки тому

      That is peeeeeeeeak omg 😞😞

  • @fragileasglass3192
    @fragileasglass3192 6 років тому +10705

    Idk why people cheat tbh. Like, if you're going to do that, just stay single, but don't build a relationship with another person just to cheat on them later, that's just disgusting and ridiculous.

    • @mahmoodaMohammad1990
      @mahmoodaMohammad1990 6 років тому +60

      Yes

    • @robotsibyl
      @robotsibyl 6 років тому +315

      People do it for so many different reasons.. from cheap, mindless ego-trippers to people who don't think sex is the same thing as love - and also those who mistake sex for love? Then there's the whole subconscious self-destruct thing? They're not really happy in the relationship so they handle it in a bad or weak way? It raises other questions about polyamory.. you get people who like the idea because they are actually just mindless ego-trippers who want to fk everything they can, and then you have people who feel like life is short, and really getting to know others who "click" with you in different ways (definitely not just physically) would just be a thoroughly explored life.. rambling! Sorry.. interesting subject..
      btw I'm not defending it! :)

    • @andreagang5263
      @andreagang5263 6 років тому +11

      AGREEEED

    • @filmguy8505
      @filmguy8505 6 років тому +78

      Although I don’t condone cheating, there are reasons that may justify it. Being cheated on, abused, or not being loved.

    • @heavenatsbeha9418
      @heavenatsbeha9418 6 років тому +14

      im thinking the SAME thing!!!!!! that is so true that if your going to cheat stay single!

  • @KingDayDayDay00
    @KingDayDayDay00 6 років тому +9129

    I hate cheaters. They psychologically ruin people

    • @SharkRockstar
      @SharkRockstar 6 років тому +161

      Psychologically*

    • @greatima526
      @greatima526 6 років тому +26

      Loro sono umano *Hate That people cheat

    • @Manic_Panic
      @Manic_Panic 6 років тому +163

      Cheating should be a criminal offense.

    • @deathwitheponine
      @deathwitheponine 6 років тому +13

      Great Ima i think they said what they meant.

    • @arr165
      @arr165 6 років тому +11

      Including themselves.

  • @FrankM
    @FrankM 6 років тому +7082

    You can't be cheated on if you stay single.

  • @terri3401
    @terri3401 6 років тому +9666

    only cheating i do is on my diet

    • @rohinimishra9437
      @rohinimishra9437 6 років тому +122

      Exams????

    • @loveforeignaccents
      @loveforeignaccents 6 років тому +14

      Good one... and good for you :-)

    • @williameblen3474
      @williameblen3474 6 років тому +175

      Break up with your diet if it's not working out. You owe it to your self to give other diets a chance. Find the one that gives you what your looking for without costing more than you are willing to pay.

    • @MariaRios-ee5tt
      @MariaRios-ee5tt 6 років тому +7

      😂😂

    • @vickiravell5654
      @vickiravell5654 6 років тому +2

      😂😂

  • @cryptocure925
    @cryptocure925 6 років тому +1007

    Im loving this "strangers reading strangers secret"

  • @chocomastertulip2939
    @chocomastertulip2939 6 років тому +1670

    Cheating will never be a good thing. Better leave the person at peace!

    • @TheMedicatedArtist
      @TheMedicatedArtist 6 років тому +16

      chocomaster tulip
      Some people are afraid of being alone, even if the relationship is toxic.
      They’re not gonna burn that bridge until they have another one built somewhere else.

    • @bingumythob9036
      @bingumythob9036 6 років тому +30

      @@TheMedicatedArtist still a shitty thing to do

    • @cecedoll88
      @cecedoll88 6 років тому +23

      Radioactive Panda Ok this makes no sense there is literally opportunity everywhere if you don't want to be alone. I've been single for 5 yrs but don't feel lonely because you can still make connections with people and I just haven't found someone I want to commit to. It's ok to be selfish but not at the expense of others.

    • @anditsreyna020
      @anditsreyna020 6 років тому +1

      Radioactive Panda sounds like my cousin. She’s got psychological issues. She’s wasting her time being with a loser & all they do is cheat on each other. & she just leads all the good guys on. She’s basically cut everyone out of her life who attempts to tell her the truth. I can’t tell her this or else it would hurt because she knows it herself but likes to carry on with the delusion that that person will change. I think she has poor sense of self worth.

    • @mhazg6621
      @mhazg6621 4 роки тому +1

      No no no, chocomaster. If you say that, youre just wrong. You dont know dude. I only trust someone that saying this by someone that have ever did this too. So if you never cheat, dont tell anyone to not cheat, cuz you will obviously don't know the complex reason to cheat

  • @imtherealpatrickstar9048
    @imtherealpatrickstar9048 6 років тому +3174

    I think people who cheat have a fear of commitment, honestly.

    • @aysunr.6045
      @aysunr.6045 6 років тому +122

      Hmn you should watch the Ted talk on it if youre interested in that topic. I feel like she did a good job breaking it down, cheating is often a product of having issues with yourself, which doesnt excuse it though

    • @HOAfan11
      @HOAfan11 6 років тому +49

      Omgggg stop giving them an excuse.

    • @rosiesanches1870
      @rosiesanches1870 6 років тому +132

      It’s way more than that. You can fear commitment but be a decent person by not getting into relationships or being dishonest with someone. Cheating is selfishness & manipulation

    • @GuiDduck
      @GuiDduck 6 років тому +4

      not a rule, but usually yeah

    • @chrollo4836
      @chrollo4836 6 років тому +13

      Or they just want a security blanket

  • @k.o.h8446
    @k.o.h8446 6 років тому +9347

    There's no excuse for cheating.

  • @lostinthelookingglas
    @lostinthelookingglas 6 років тому +579

    I feel like cheating on someone is more about control than anything else. If you’re having problems in your relationship, talk to your partner. And if you can’t talk to your partner about what bothers you, it’s probably time to just end the relationship.

    • @bri7433
      @bri7433 6 років тому +5

      Facts

    • @killphaser25
      @killphaser25 6 років тому

      What if you are married...

    • @KevinSmith-xt8xr
      @KevinSmith-xt8xr 2 роки тому +1

      problem is with talking, they do it via text, They're scare of reflection of themselves on how people on the other end will expose them.

  • @rosabellle
    @rosabellle 6 років тому +3983

    i want to see one of these about fetishes or weird sexuality secrets. that would be fascinating.

  • @Juliette_Emelie
    @Juliette_Emelie 4 роки тому +70

    I’ve been cheated on a few times, but i can finally say that i feel like i AM worthy and my self esteem is pretty great. Cheating says nothing about the person who gets cheated on, and everything about the person who cheats.

    • @klaviergavin5401
      @klaviergavin5401 4 роки тому +6

      THIS. Cheaters are apathetic and have low self esteem. It has nothing to do with the person they cheated on

  • @theperson8859
    @theperson8859 6 років тому +2354

    Long story short, if a person cheats, they don't deserve another chance.

    • @rox8
      @rox8 6 років тому +41

      I'm sorry but time ago I cheated on my boyfriend with my first love, my first boyfriend, I Was still in love with him and with our first and beautiful story. My ex gave me a Second chance and since That day I never made other mistakes, I Was perfect and wanted a better relationship. It Was the first time That I cheated on someone and I think it Will never happen again. Is bad for all, for you and for others. Cheating ruins all.

    • @bundlemakerl540
      @bundlemakerl540 6 років тому +105

      Roxana Gri he shouldn’t have given you a second chance
      Cuz cheaters like u don’t deserve it

    • @justinav7258
      @justinav7258 6 років тому +89

      ​@@rox8 He fucked up taking you back. You were the one person that he could count on to protect and keep him from harms way, but it was you that cut him the deepest.

    • @BloodHavik
      @BloodHavik 6 років тому +80

      @@rox8 Stating that you cheated with your first love and was still in love with the memories you both had doesn't make it any better nor right to do. Yes people do make mistakes but that doesn't mean they deserve forgiveness, nor another chance because they chose to do it knowing it was wrong to do in the first place. That's like saying that a drunk driver that had just killed someone deserved another chance because they made a mistake choosing to drive. In both situations people knew what they did was wrong but still chose to do it and ended up hurting someone. People just need to grow up and stop making excuses for their shitty actions.

    • @niyahrodger1492
      @niyahrodger1492 6 років тому +47

      @@rox8 Why would you let yourself get so close to him to be able to cheat. I have guy friends and ex's I speak to. But I would never let myself get close like that to even think about cheating. And if I did start thinking there could be something there... I would cut them off instantly.

  • @hanaomer4940
    @hanaomer4940 6 років тому +274

    "I've been cheated on by every girl I've ever dated" and now I'm crying

  • @ATrueLoveOfficial
    @ATrueLoveOfficial 6 років тому +146

    The worst feeling in the world is to be cheated on by someone you love. It hurts when you are not good enough for someone. Cheating is a selfish act. If you are not happy in a relationship, you always have the choice to leave, rather than cheat.

    • @jetblack-0
      @jetblack-0 4 роки тому +2

      Yes. It hurts when someone you truly love cheats on you. It’s hard to describe the feeling of it, but it’s very painful. That’s why I have trusting issues, even with loved ones.

  • @casuallyburning8456
    @casuallyburning8456 6 років тому +2127

    My father has been having an affair for God knows how long. We knew it all along, and I feel like he knows that we know. I love him so much. Being the youngest in the family, I was really confused about the concept of cheating. As soon as I found out, I didn't know what to do. I have been depressed and contemplated suicide many times. The one thing that hurts me the most is:
    I still talk to him through email just to ask how he's doing or if I need money for school or because I simply miss him. He hasn't come home for 6 years and I doubt that he will.

    • @izabelap5289
      @izabelap5289 6 років тому +35

      Stay strong :)

    • @agmorn
      @agmorn 6 років тому +36

      Relatable somehow. My advice: indeed, everything you wrote down here, write it down in a letter to your dad. My dad cheated too, he is the most important man in my life, I could never truly hate him, I bet you cannot either. Deep down after all these years, I still had a fire of angriness, disappointment and despair in me, somehow I wanted to out it, to my dad, but I never wanted to hurt him. That painful feeling just had to get out somehow, so I wrote him a honest letter to put an end to it, and end to the pain in me. Of course you will never forget his affair, but the important thing for you is to manage how you can live with it so you can continue having a bond with your dad. Writing that letter wasn’t easy, I cried the whole time, but I don’t regret it, I advice you to do the same.

    • @ItWillRainXO
      @ItWillRainXO 6 років тому +7

      I’m so sorry to hear what you’re going through! If you have access to a therapist, hopefully that may be helpful? I’m hoping everything works out for you :)

    • @erinmwalumba8238
      @erinmwalumba8238 6 років тому +1

      You are beautiful.......

    • @gerardocarrillo2868
      @gerardocarrillo2868 6 років тому +4

      Hey, kid. Sorry about your situation. I had a strained relationship with my dad too. Still to this day. He doesn’t admit it but he’s a workaholic. He had no idea how much it affected me and in some ways still does but I forgave him, said sorry for any of my mistakes, and let it go. It was a terrible grief. I hope one day things get better for you as well.

  • @AeosIsland
    @AeosIsland 6 років тому +1239

    Never take cheaters back. If they really cared about you they would never jeopardize your love.

    • @Stormcloakvictory
      @Stormcloakvictory 4 роки тому +4

      Definitly

    • @MimMdance
      @MimMdance 4 роки тому +10

      It depends. One accident with true remorse is different than if it is something being done regularly behind the other person's back.

    • @jeffreyrubio7769
      @jeffreyrubio7769 4 роки тому +18

      MimM if u did love them you would not have done it on the first place

    • @tanamo4632
      @tanamo4632 4 роки тому +11

      Mim. If you already had a million dollars, would you risk losing it for a dollar.

    • @jacrispy3275
      @jacrispy3275 4 роки тому +7

      People can change, and we all have fuck-ups. Cheating is absolutely wrong, but if the person who cheated truly, really regrets what they did, and they work to improve themselves, a second chance can work.

  • @princesscarter45
    @princesscarter45 5 років тому +86

    “I still find myself wondering what she had that I didn’t and why I wasn’t good enough”
    That hit me so hard. Thoughts like this are still fresh on my mind

    • @blasianluvschocolate397
      @blasianluvschocolate397 5 років тому +1

      I can relate...my baby daddy cheated on me with family and friends...to this day I haven't gotten over it.. btw our daughter is 24 and have two babies. He is incapable of being faithful ..I cheated as payback.

    • @Stormcloakvictory
      @Stormcloakvictory 4 роки тому +1

      Same, but in my case I wonder what 'he' had.

  • @kme321
    @kme321 5 років тому +39

    "I've been cheated on by every girl that I have ever dated." That is painful, that hurts my heart. I would wish him love and the best in his endeavor.

  • @deadinside1852
    @deadinside1852 6 років тому +1350

    Cheating is unforgivable. Period.

    • @soldierinsane2689
      @soldierinsane2689 6 років тому +70

      Wisest words ive ever seen from a person with an anime profile pic, good job

    • @ravenkent4198
      @ravenkent4198 6 років тому +24

      Maybe for you. Isn't the same for everyone else though.

    • @whenyoudownrng
      @whenyoudownrng 6 років тому +32

      @@ravenkent4198 If someone forgives a cheater, they have stockholm syndrome.

    • @SL-vw7ix
      @SL-vw7ix 6 років тому +7

      Forgiving somebody for cheating on you is the same as somebody saying I'm sorry after they got caught cheating

    • @whenyoudownrng
      @whenyoudownrng 6 років тому +14

      @@strangelyhefeelsathomeinth5963 Why should it be forgiven?

  • @daelyndriesen
    @daelyndriesen 6 років тому +42

    there’s a girl who graduated last year who cheated on her boyfriend of 3 years and *shattered* his heart, whenever I see pictures of her of Instagram and stuff all I think is “cheater.”

  • @cuhhheesecuff419
    @cuhhheesecuff419 6 років тому +41

    It hurts more when the partner is so unaware of what damage they actually caused to the loved one.

  • @tjaspire
    @tjaspire 4 роки тому +27

    I wish that the people who were cheated on realize that YOU had nothing to do with it. It’s THEIR brokenness, sneakiness, evil, cowardice, and greed that caused them to cheat. YOU ARE ENOUGH.

    • @RosasResources
      @RosasResources 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you, 25 yr marriage and all I received was disrespect in the end

    • @Douche3231
      @Douche3231 2 роки тому +1

      No they are not

  • @PauhovXiong
    @PauhovXiong 6 років тому +55

    I gave this girl everything I had. I gave our relationship my all. When I love, I love hard. I loved her hard and she still cheated on me. For some, no matter how good they have it they’ll still find a way to cheat.

    • @klaviergavin5401
      @klaviergavin5401 4 роки тому +9

      Frankly, cheaters are apathetic about their s.o's feelings, and it is not your responsibility to fix them. *sending virtual hugs*

  • @wowlizzy4039
    @wowlizzy4039 6 років тому +40

    The second you decide you want to cheat, what ever you had before is pretty much over...

  • @furrypawz3649
    @furrypawz3649 6 років тому +782

    It’s not that hard, just DONT DO IT.
    Cheating is like throwing away a diamond for a rock

    • @chrollo4836
      @chrollo4836 6 років тому +36

      There's some amazing rocks out there tho

    • @Amatersuful
      @Amatersuful 6 років тому +11

      more like throwing away a treasure for a dirt

    • @wowlizzy4039
      @wowlizzy4039 6 років тому +2

      when you down that sounds oddly specific..you good? Or was that just a really detailed example.

    • @a.359
      @a.359 6 років тому +1

      @@whenyoudownrng that is called manipulation and you need to call the cops/ mental health services and break up with them first, not cheat

    • @a.359
      @a.359 6 років тому +1

      and then he deleted both of his comments, lol

  • @roserain7034
    @roserain7034 6 років тому +198

    "I feel guilty." You wouldn't feel guilty if you just ended it when you had the opportunity instead of two timing people.

  • @crispie3390
    @crispie3390 6 років тому +4226

    This is slightly uncomfortable

  • @faiza7533
    @faiza7533 6 років тому +373

    These videos always leave me feeling some type of way.. can't put the emotion in words it's just.. a type of way

    • @20PoleVaulter07
      @20PoleVaulter07 6 років тому

      Agreed!

    • @Ashley-fd7cj
      @Ashley-fd7cj 6 років тому

      Faiza ikr I feel like committing suicide for some reason is that just me lmao

    • @e-czl
      @e-czl 6 років тому

      @@Ashley-fd7cj same!

    • @hydeperv
      @hydeperv 6 років тому

      melancholy and hopelessness

    • @zukooos
      @zukooos 6 років тому

      ABSOLUTELY AGREE.

  • @bubblegum570
    @bubblegum570 6 років тому +11

    Cheating is the reason why I will never truly believe someone’s I love you. So many people People used the word love as a place holder for “thanks for making me busy”

  • @hanaomer4940
    @hanaomer4940 6 років тому +65

    Half of these make me angry and half of these make me incredibly sad

  • @krupab8619
    @krupab8619 6 років тому +38

    If you feel like cheating on someone might as well end it with who you are with and then be with that person you wanted to hook up or see, don't do behind people's back. Everyone deserves some respect and dignity

    • @sharvimorajkar3254
      @sharvimorajkar3254 3 роки тому

      I mean atleast try with your relationship first and if things don't go well break up

  • @secretmina23
    @secretmina23 6 років тому +67

    Cheaters are the worst. To hurt someone's son/daughter just because you couldn't keep your pants on or your curiousity got the better of you. It's the worst.

  • @steve_dre_0605
    @steve_dre_0605 6 років тому +409

    My girlfriend cheated on me last week I’ve been for her for 5 years and don’t think o will never be able to recover from it tbh

    • @jungkooksscaronhischeek7787
      @jungkooksscaronhischeek7787 6 років тому +100

      I hope youre staying strong my dude, it hurts i know but you'll recover slowly. It takes time to heal, i believe in you. You got this

    • @steve_dre_0605
      @steve_dre_0605 6 років тому +36

      bts and stray kids are life thank you it just feels like now I can’t trust any girl and more and I’m just all alone no one to talk too at all because of her

    • @GUATEMAGIC
      @GUATEMAGIC 6 років тому +64

      I trust in you, LEAVE HER, there's no love inside of her. You are worthy of loyalty, love, etc.

    • @steve_dre_0605
      @steve_dre_0605 6 років тому +18

      Orlando Garcia I did but everything is just soo hard and falling apart I put my whole life in one person too get let down 🤦‍♂️💔

    • @Kevin-rf4vb
      @Kevin-rf4vb 6 років тому +44

      Steve_ Dre_060 bro I feel you! I fell into depression from a heartbreak. I couldn’t eat, I lost like 20 pounds in a week, I couldn’t sleep, I had 24/7 migraine and fevers, chest pains ... everything hurt from my head to my toes. I know it sounds cliche but it really does get better, just give it time. Because of the experience I had, I was able to become a better person. I used to look at depressed people as weak, they just needed attention or have some type of mental illness. Now I’m there for people, I hear them out, I love them unconditionally. I’m grateful for the experience. The Bible says that god uses bad experiences to his advantage, he’s always victorious at the end.

  • @redskiez
    @redskiez 6 років тому +21

    I don't - and I hope I never - understand why people cheat. I could never bring myself to hurt someone who finds me worthy enough to date.

  • @yc2557
    @yc2557 6 років тому +42

    I really hate it when cheaters say "It was nothing!" Yea i get it you broke someone's heart for nothing

    • @Douche3231
      @Douche3231 2 роки тому

      Because it was nothing

  • @aprilchow-chee5281
    @aprilchow-chee5281 5 років тому +6

    "Years Later I find myself wondering what she had that I didn't and why I was never good enough " hit me so damn hard honestly and his advice surrounding yourself with good people yeah it really helps. The mental place I was in after walking in on my boyfriend in bed with one of his friends cousins who he was apparently cheating on my with for 2 weeks, I really understood what standing shocked, going pale and feeling empty was that day. My mind went blank. Hurts to this day honestly

  • @vaisriv
    @vaisriv 6 років тому +96

    I got cheated on by my bf too. He has been dating this other girl SECRETLY for 3 years while he first started dating me. Basically I was the other girl. Every time I asked him if he was hiding something, he could cry and tell me he wasn't and he loved me.
    The other girl found out about me and contacted me. I was so angry, I walked to his house at midnight with my two other friends and beat him with my umbrella and broke his car. A totally immature move I know but I was just so hurt.
    When I asked him why he did what he did and he said she was in love with him and he didn't want to hurt her so he continued dating her and then he met me and liked me and started dating me too and he hid it from both of us because he didn't want to hurt us both.
    I don't know if I did right or wrong. It's been a few months now and some days it's hard not to miss him but I know I deserve better. I only want the best for him and I hope he finds the love of his life and stays loyal to her because it truly breaks a person so badly.
    (Excuse my English it's not my first language)

    • @yourlordandsaviouryeesusbe2998
      @yourlordandsaviouryeesusbe2998 6 років тому +9

      I didn't know Indians date. I thought they skip straight to the marriage😂😂

    • @irenebolasa6651
      @irenebolasa6651 6 років тому +2

      this is my life story.. it's a relief to know I'm not the only one going through this and that it will get better. ❤️

    • @imfunny2851
      @imfunny2851 6 років тому +5

      He munipulated you honey.

    • @hermionegranger4080
      @hermionegranger4080 5 років тому +9

      Lol I love the part where you beat him with an umbrella 🤭😂

    • @jetblack-0
      @jetblack-0 4 роки тому +4

      @@hermionegranger4080 He deserved it😌

  • @mynameismila
    @mynameismila 6 років тому +64

    To the guy that’s been cheated on by all his girlfriends, on behalf of females I am so sorry. You do not deserve this and it is not your fault. Please hold on, we are not all like this.

    • @Imtiaz994
      @Imtiaz994 9 місяців тому

      In current times most girls cheat. It's almost impossible to find a girl who doesn't. Also most girls won't reveal their past if they were former cheaters.

  • @lovekookie4ever661
    @lovekookie4ever661 4 роки тому +15

    My mother is cheating on my father with my father's best friend. She blamed me when I got to know and talked openly about it with her. My father still doesn't know. It breaks my heart whenever my father brings gifts to her to show his love.

  • @bookmilla8616
    @bookmilla8616 6 років тому +279

    I’ll mever be able to understand cheating. If you aren’t happy, break up! Its as simple as that! Cheating hurts your partner more than breaking up with them does. By breaking up you’re showing them that you have respect for them, by cheating you’re showing that you don’t give a single fk about your partners feelings.

    • @Kirbystare1992
      @Kirbystare1992 6 років тому +18

      BookMilla it’s cause they think they could get away with it.

    • @anokanalorraine7618
      @anokanalorraine7618 6 років тому +4

      I was just wondering what should be done if you wanted to break it up but your partner doesn't..

    • @vanitymarks8798
      @vanitymarks8798 6 років тому +24

      @@anokanalorraine7618 You don't need your partner's permission to break up. If you want to break up, you say you're done and walk away.

    • @mickeywutz7186
      @mickeywutz7186 6 років тому

      It’s easy to say, just walk away.. it isn’t always easy to just walk away.
      I’ve cheated, and I have paid a very steep price.. But, if i haven’t cheated I would have never found out that I had cervical cancer.. no, it’s not an excuse to cheat. The guy with whom I’ve cheated, I owe my life to this man. Going on 7 years in remission..

    • @johnuchia6327
      @johnuchia6327 6 років тому +19

      @ Mickey
      What a load of crap how did this guy help you find out that you have cancer?

  • @shraddha8890
    @shraddha8890 6 років тому +83

    "I cheated but I was scared to tell coz I love him/her"
    *Then y did u cheat?*

    • @jetblack-0
      @jetblack-0 4 роки тому +4

      Exactly my point .

    • @dexodon3304
      @dexodon3304 3 роки тому

      @@jetblack-0 I think it was because she did t want to ruin his relationship with his friend. Although she should definitely tell him losing your gf and best friend at once is too much to bear .

  • @Kittycat-69
    @Kittycat-69 6 років тому +7

    Watching this almost made me cry because I am just now learning how to love myself when I should've known how to 4 years ago. I just wish people would understand that they take it personally. I always feel like I'm unworthy because if I was worthy, why did he cheat? He ruined so much for me. I still can't be in a relationship without being insecure. Dont cheat, please. It doesnt just break their heart, it breaks their confidence.

  • @auburn9658
    @auburn9658 6 років тому +355

    Cheating is not a mistake .

    • @1Skorpia
      @1Skorpia 6 років тому +28

      Its premeditated

    • @yemia87
      @yemia87 5 років тому +38

      It's a selfish decision

    • @bloodybullets11
      @bloodybullets11 5 років тому +15

      Cheating is a mistake. Cheating is not an accident.

    • @wmsulivivie8177
      @wmsulivivie8177 5 років тому +11

      It's not a mistake, it's a sin.

    • @ft4281
      @ft4281 4 роки тому +19

      @@bloodybullets11 cheating is not a mistake,it is a choice...

  • @ksvhproductions1973
    @ksvhproductions1973 6 років тому +4

    “being cheated on completely changes your perceptions of yourself. years later I still find myself wondering what she had but I didn’t and why I’ll never be good enough.”

  • @Mk-rh9yh
    @Mk-rh9yh 6 років тому +18

    to all of u
    u should know u are worthy of all the love in the world
    u are good enough, u deserve it

    • @breez3h
      @breez3h 6 років тому +2

      thank you...

  • @ellie.M.mae.
    @ellie.M.mae. 4 роки тому +23

    I was talking to a guy for about 2 months, didn't know he had a gf. Soon as i found out, i walked away. His gf stalked me online and said some nasty things about me. Little does she know, her bf still stalks me and still tries to get with me. He DM'd me saying "When this lockdown is over, I'm coming to get you, make you mine and be with you forever" i puked when i saw it and blocked him🤢

  • @Narlnia
    @Narlnia 5 років тому +3

    One of the worst things about being cheated on is realizing that you don’t know when the lies started. That you have no idea for how long that person disrespected, undervalued and lied to you.

  • @meestameestaaaaaa
    @meestameestaaaaaa 4 роки тому +5

    Being cheated on sucks sooo bad , I'll never forget that feeling of the heart breaking and not being able to really breath while the stomach simultaneously drops with dread of knowing your greatest fear came true.

  • @success5083
    @success5083 5 років тому +52

    Thank you Jesus for not blessing me with a girlfriend in my 26 years of life so I never had to endure the misfortune of getting cheated on

    • @thegem597
      @thegem597 4 роки тому +5

      Same😂😂😂
      Just change 26 to 20 and girl friend to boyfriend 😄

    • @devikaspanicker5189
      @devikaspanicker5189 4 роки тому +2

      Same........🤣😂😂

  • @sadeeqbello5030
    @sadeeqbello5030 6 років тому +25

    That first one hurts on a whole different level

  • @JMacsAmateurKitchen
    @JMacsAmateurKitchen 6 років тому +193

    I just read that creating conflict drives views to your channel and I was like mehhh... but I’m totally seeing it here! Clicked on the video and was slightly uncomfortable but watched. I gotta say, nice job Jubilee

    • @GoMojo
      @GoMojo 6 років тому +2

      Thanks for Your support! Thanks for those sweet words.

  • @zainabzafar9975
    @zainabzafar9975 6 років тому +215

    My boyfriend cheated on me with an online girlfriend and said she never existed

  • @lexirose2943
    @lexirose2943 5 років тому +7

    “It’s not the cheating that hurts you, it’s the person who doesn’t know how to love does.”

  • @nuquenilex3188
    @nuquenilex3188 3 роки тому +3

    I was cheated on multiple times. Each time I forgave her. After 3 years now of so much heart break. I realize that everything bad that happens to you happens for a reason. Not as a punishment. But a way to grow and learn. And more importantly to Love and Forgive.

  • @ebonyadairia
    @ebonyadairia 5 років тому +3

    I hope that people who get cheated on by their partners grow to understand that their negative actions have nothing to do with you but everything to do with them and parts of them that need internal healing . NOTHING IS WRONG WITH YOU❤️.This is why it’s so important to love/value yourself and the relationship you have with yourself before you seek love from other people. When people don’t love themselves they tend to hurt others because they’re never satisfied with what they’re getting from one person. Because of that, they are constantly seeking for someone to fill that void. Just layering pain on top of pain. When you really understand that hurt people, hurt people, you will never blame yourself for someone else’s actions again. It doesn’t mean that their negative actions won’t still hurt, but the process to healing from it will be much different.
    I wish that everyone would take steps to focus on healing themselves.

  • @rachealdiyaolu6762
    @rachealdiyaolu6762 6 років тому +93

    Saying “I was unfaithful” as opposed to just saying “I cheated” is just a way to make the cheater feel better about themselves. Don’t sugarcoat it.
    Own up to what you did.

  • @ripkimjonghyunyoudidwell.9964
    @ripkimjonghyunyoudidwell.9964 6 років тому +46

    I'll never understand why people like to entertain the idea that cheating has an excuse.if you got issues try to work it out and if they don't choose to put in effort ,then simply just leave.

  • @mintbot4657
    @mintbot4657 6 років тому +65

    I don't date anymore, I've come to understand that if you don't have the emotional foundation to bring yourself back-up from being cheated on or dumped or feeling bad for cheating, you'll crumble. I'm in the process of loving myself, accepting everything of myself, and that I don't really need other people's love if I don't have my own. Everyone of us have probably dated and it ended badly, no one thought us how to cope alone when our hearts are broken, there was always someone there to help us. Crying can only do so much and that also applies to those that have cheated. No one thought you how to not break someone's heart, and if you did and feel sorry for it you have no idea how to cope with it, no one is there for you because you'll look bad by saying you cheated on so and so. No one thought you how to forgive. Forgiveness is for one's self, not them. I've become this sort of emotional support friend when they have no other to support them when they need some emotional guidance, I don't have all the answers but I can at least guide them to find one that isn't so depressing.

    • @Kai-Aaron
      @Kai-Aaron 6 років тому +1

      Good for you. I've been trying my best to love myself, but it's been difficult. Even though I don't know you, I'm glad you're able to.

    • @mintbot4657
      @mintbot4657 6 років тому +1

      @@Kai-Aaron I am incredibly certain that you will get there. It's not easy, nothing ever is, but I believe you'll reach the point where you'll love yourself fully without any doubt. We're all in this journey and its always different for everyone.

    • @Kai-Aaron
      @Kai-Aaron 6 років тому

      @@mintbot4657 thank you so much. Do you have any tips?

    • @mintbot4657
      @mintbot4657 6 років тому +2

      @@Kai-Aaron I don't know if this will work for you but what I did for me. I wrote down everything I hated about myself, ranked them, and everyday I went to a mirror and said that I loved myself, and that I can forgive myself for being ____, three times. Until I got over the first one I did not move on.

    • @Kai-Aaron
      @Kai-Aaron 6 років тому

      @@mintbot4657 Thanks for telling me that. I'll definitely try it out :)
      I wish you all the best.

  • @CarterNanase
    @CarterNanase 5 років тому +12

    People who do this to other people dont deserve happiness in their life

  • @Wigconic.
    @Wigconic. 6 років тому +126

    This just makes me sad..

  • @youshouldstreambts6346
    @youshouldstreambts6346 5 років тому +2

    Everything happens for a reason & if u are/were cheated on thats a sign u deserve better .

  • @Random_Cassie
    @Random_Cassie 5 років тому +6

    To all my exes (especially my recent one,) thanks for ruining my self-esteem and my overall phycological health and for making me feel like I'm unworthy of any type of affection :)

  • @NeOn-vw8xi
    @NeOn-vw8xi 6 років тому +4

    I don't care what anybody says playing with peoples emotions and cheating, in general, IS SICKING. PERIOD

  • @alexandramei1975
    @alexandramei1975 6 років тому +55

    I feel like so many people get cheated on these days :(

    • @JaMix007
      @JaMix007 4 роки тому +4

      You're not wrong tbh

    • @jetblack-0
      @jetblack-0 4 роки тому +2

      Yes..I asked my mom if she thought her boyfriend was cheating on her, and she said ‘most likely’...

  • @redaquarian8665
    @redaquarian8665 5 років тому +8

    I can relate to the guy who wrote that he's "been cheated on by every woman that he's ever dated". At 57 years of age I can say that I WILL NEVER love or trust a woman again.

  • @jeffsok1115
    @jeffsok1115 6 років тому +12

    Being cheated on sucks my ex gf fell out of love and I can say cheating is a choice you chose to hurt the person that did everything for you helped you provide for you and just to make you happy and now as I see it I’ve lost trust in ppl and idk if I’ll be able to be in another relationship again this really hurts.

  • @karendesmarto3378
    @karendesmarto3378 4 роки тому +21

    Mom cheated on dad.
    My best friend cheated on her bf with his cousin
    My aunt and uncle are still married but sleeps with several other people.
    See why m 21and have never been in a relationship.

    • @debasmitadawn89
      @debasmitadawn89 4 роки тому +4

      Everyone is not same.I hope you will get someone who will genuinely care for you.I know 99% people in this world are demons but just believe in that 1%,bro.Who knows u may end up being with someone who belong to that 1%!

    • @Douche3231
      @Douche3231 2 роки тому

      I'm proud of your Mom, best friend, and aunt and uncle.

  • @vanessa3141
    @vanessa3141 5 років тому +1

    ‘’People deserve 2cnd changes but not for the same mistakes ‘’

  • @anthonyroyce724
    @anthonyroyce724 6 років тому +5

    First time I cheated was in third grade grade. When my teacher found out I felt horrible. She believed in me so much and thought very highly of me. After that I never cheated on people, at work or school. All about maintaining repute.

  • @sheenashroder5315
    @sheenashroder5315 6 років тому

    I can’t imagine hurting someone in the way that cheating hurts an individual. It just hits too close to the soul.

  • @Missxtc
    @Missxtc 6 років тому +97

    Do not cheat; there’s shouldn’t be “because” theres no excuse to do it. If you have an issue; go couple therapy. Go read 5 love languages. Relationship/marriage isn’t easy.. but if two people are strong enough to work together, they will get thru whatever will come to them.

  • @phibbles4736
    @phibbles4736 5 років тому +2

    My first boyfriend cheated on me whilst I was in a coma. I only found out two weeks ago and it has changed my whole perception on guys and dating. Straight away I blamed myself and how if I had never been in that coma then he would've never cheated on me and we would still be together and in love. Now I just look at myself in the mirror and wonder what she has that I don't and I cry myself to sleep every night just thinking this over. I had always had self-esteem issues and had always been quiet and embarrassed to talk to guys in school as a lot of people found me quiet or boring to be around. And then this guy came out of nowhere and I fell for him, hard and I actually trusted him when I had mad trust issues prior to this. He was my first everything; my first kiss, love, the guy I lost my virginity to, my first heartbreak and the first guy to cheat on me. It has totally, undeniably changed my perception on guys and I have no idea how I'm going to be able to trust another guy and let him into my life when at the back of my mind, all I'm going to think about is whether this guy will cheat on me and lose the trust I had built with him. It hurts. I don't know what to do. I'm lost.

  • @nishav4124
    @nishav4124 6 років тому +47

    When the guy in the red told his story, it broke my heart 💔

  • @vannieho2517
    @vannieho2517 5 років тому +1

    2:13 --- I can totally relate to what the person had said about their feelings towards being dumped. I've had a few incidents regards to friendships and one incident regards to relationship...those questions are endless. And it sucks.

  • @pretentious3291
    @pretentious3291 6 років тому +8

    1:44 my ex was like this too. She would send nudes to other people and told me "you can't get mad since I told you".

  • @jjs2259
    @jjs2259 6 років тому

    I cannot express how much I appreciate these videos..... it is comforting to know you aren’t the only out there especially when you are going through a hard time

  • @ShivamTyagiSpade
    @ShivamTyagiSpade 6 років тому +68

    These videos always makes me think ' I am better being single'.😊😊

    • @brandonvilla2420
      @brandonvilla2420 6 років тому +4

      True but being lonely hurts aswell

    • @SL-vw7ix
      @SL-vw7ix 6 років тому +2

      42 jade How about if you wanna be single forever?

  • @kth_lithe460
    @kth_lithe460 5 років тому +1

    this hit home. my ex cheated on me after i helped him with a lot whether it was to feed him, give him money, show him love and appreciation and let him stay at my house as he dealt with foster issues. it broke me to see the messages of the girls he was texting and hearing things from friends but I could never hate him and always wondered what i did wrong or why i wasn’t pretty enough for him. he wants me back but every time i look at him, i remember what he did and i get angry

  • @namjoons_leftnostril
    @namjoons_leftnostril 4 роки тому +5

    On 1:23, I have some advice for the person who has held that secret:
    If you’re in love with two people,
    try and remember who you fell for first. Pick the second person, because if you loved the first person so much, you would have never fallen in love with someone new.

    • @klaviergavin5401
      @klaviergavin5401 4 роки тому +2

      No. She should leave both of them.

    • @sharvimorajkar3254
      @sharvimorajkar3254 3 роки тому +3

      She doesn't even deserve one of them. She didn't love the first one, it's a mistake that she made, the guy could be just right and she could be selfish.

  • @mangoshima
    @mangoshima 4 роки тому +1

    People who cheat are either people who take things for granted or have had their hearts broken too many times

  • @inacathrien1123
    @inacathrien1123 6 років тому +4

    I was cheated on by my ex and he tried to blame me for finding out. It broke me and I constantly blamed me. It affected my mental health massively and I haven’t been able to give into liking someone since, I’m just too scared to get hurt again that I’d rather be alone and feel nothing

  • @earthtosally
    @earthtosally 6 років тому +3

    Not knowing you're the other woman, but finally finding out when you're totally in love with the person is extremely painful. And then suddenly finding out that he gets married after 3 weeks is horrible. Knowing that I was the other woman, makes me feel so bad for his girlfriend. I feel like the worst person on earth because I wouldn't want that to happen to me. Wherever she is, I hope she forgives me because I don't think I can ever forgive myself.

  • @JamieKateAdoc
    @JamieKateAdoc 6 років тому

    It’s so true how cheating ruins your self-esteem and it will leave you wondering why the other person did that to you. Ugh, my heart hurts just watching this 💔💔💔

  • @lilmizzije
    @lilmizzije 6 років тому +15

    I've never been in a relationship but this is deep.

  • @connor5469
    @connor5469 2 роки тому +1

    I found out years after breaking up with my abuser that he was cheating the entire time. It hit me hard and I didn’t know what to do with myself for a bit. However, I’ve made my peace with it now. I knew he had issues and this is just another to add to an already long list. I deserved better than him. Now that I’ve found my life partner six years later I’m grateful everyday that I don’t have to deal with being mistreated anymore. I can just live and love and let myself be happy.

  • @mlo4809
    @mlo4809 4 роки тому +10

    When there's a """best friend""" involved....BYEEEEEEEEE. SEE YOU NEVER.

  • @lilweedsea
    @lilweedsea 6 років тому +1

    I cheated once, and I hated what I did to him. Cause it really did hurt him, we’re broken up. I’m with someone else and I can’t even fathom ever doing that to someone ever again. Never again.

  • @soopamegan
    @soopamegan 6 років тому +6

    I swore I’d never cheat on someone and I feel like I never have. It’s very strange for me because I cheated on my ex boyfriend and I didn’t even know it. I’ve had problems with alcohol and blacking out for a long time, alcoholism is no joke. It’s like a battle with the devil every day especially when you binge. but it wasn’t until I had flashbacks after we broke up that I realized I had cheated on him

    • @kathleenosphere
      @kathleenosphere 5 років тому

      Meg Hannah thanks for sharing I hope you’ve healed and forgiven yourself

    • @TVjunky00
      @TVjunky00 5 років тому +2

      Being drunk and to the point of blacking out, you can't consent to sex. Your judgement and memory was impaired, and you were unfortunately taken advantage of. You're not to blame for trusting friends or the people around to not use you when you're at your most vulnerable.

  • @elaisafuentessumampong1170
    @elaisafuentessumampong1170 4 роки тому

    2:25 that's like the thing that haunted me too much in the video that I was never good of a girlfriend for that person. That distance really did matter and some people just need physical touch more than anything. I never lacked in giving the person my time, effort and attention but I guess I was never good enough to make that person stay. And now after 1 month of breaking up, that person was happy with someone else leaving me thinking that I will never be enough and I was underserving to be treated that way. I remained calm but I silently wished that I was her and that person never left me broken. 😢

  • @power5650
    @power5650 6 років тому +3

    one of my boyfriend's friends cheated multiple times on his girlfriend during the span of 4 years. she knew it too, and forgave him every time. not even sure how you can continue to hurt someone like that with no remorse, and also how you're able to forgive someone that continuously hurts you..

    • @sharvimorajkar3254
      @sharvimorajkar3254 3 роки тому

      I guess in hopes that they'll improve one day? It's just sad taking advantage of someone's hope

  • @letoyaf87
    @letoyaf87 6 років тому

    It really does change you. Your perception of yourself. I don't think people who have been cheated on ever are the same.

  • @irinaciocan2136
    @irinaciocan2136 6 років тому +37

    These hurt like hell

  • @L.m.1322
    @L.m.1322 6 років тому

    2:14 is the most relatable thing I’ve ever heard. I am such a damaged person due to this and genuinely believe I’ll never be good enough for anyone

  • @rigor.m9422
    @rigor.m9422 6 років тому +61

    "I told everyone i did no nut november when in fact i failed the first week"