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I benefit from every episode that Fisher presents!

I think if responding with a Rodney Dangerfield line. WHILE WERE YOUNG!! And see if humor erases the spew🎉

Have always been a bad communicator, learning a lot. Brian. South Africa.

Don't be so sensitive! No, I'm being sensible.

I love the skills that you share with us. Have a happy gobble gobble Thanksgiving Day 🦃

Very clear and helpful advice.....

Very good advice

I am trying to fade out someone atm - it’s been about 3 years of not contacting them and they still don’t get it - I should do this method in this video but I fear the ‘why’s’ and anger and confusion. I just want it to fizzle out and go away but they are periodically persistent and don’t seem to care that they are the only one that keeps in any contact - I can’t deal with the agro of saying I don’t want to be friends as they will ask why - I just want them to give up but years are passing even tho I literally do nothing - nothing … I have no idea why someone wouldn’t give up on a one sided relationship… I really dislike arguments or why’s when I just want it for myself … I just want different people around me - not them

I am trying to fade out someone atm - it’s been about 3 years of not contacting them and they still don’t get it - I should do this method in this video but I fear the ‘why’s’ and anger and confusion. I just want it to fizzle out and go away but they are periodically persistent and don’t seem to care that they are the only one that keeps in any contact - I can’t deal with the agro of saying I don’t want to be friends as they will ask why - I just want them to give up but years are passing even tho I literally do nothing - nothing … I have no idea why someone wouldn’t give up on a one sided relationship… I really dislike arguments or why’s when I just want it for myself … I just want different people around me - nothing then…..

Hey.would you please make a video for teaming up at workplace and why managers get influenced by them?

Legit had a church “leader” who use to disparage the entire congregation and call it a “joke”. Having this ammo would’ve changed everything.

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A question I have. When being harshly criticized I do get very defensive because I dogeza very offended. So I jump right in the argument. When I can't deal with it anymore I quit talking to that person for a day or two. How can I stop being so defensive so quickly?

When someone tries to make a joke and I'm the brunt. Being told don't take it seriously. I tell them, the joke wasn't funny. ❤

My husband will gaslight then play the victim. He'll say...."You're never happy, I don't know what happened to you to make you like this, Fine.....I can never do anything right. You always bring up the negative". We've been struggling with this for a long time. I told him I need him to paraphrase some of my feelings regarding the talked about subject. I'm not asking him to make this huge apology and "kiss me feet"....I want to be acknowledged and heard. He'll beat himself down which I don't like, of course, but it would be nice if he took some responsibility.

Thank you brother! 🤍🙏🏽🪬

I love the " did you mean to say that out loud"??!!!

Can’t WAiT to try this!!!

You're so on point. I lived with a person who would always gaslight me and say, " I can't speak to you right now cuz you are coming at me too hot." When all I was doing was trying to have a conversation. Don't live with this person any longer. Thank goodness. I feel free now. Thank you for giving out this information and being helpful.

I'm the baby sis, I got this.

Maybe try “Are you willing to…?” As in: Are you willing to consider (this particular change or idea or suggestion)? Or: Are you willing to do (this particular request or fulfill a need)?

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I love your podcasts and has helped me alot. On this topic? What would you suggest when ive tried ALL of what you recommended and the person just won't stop? They want a responce, they keep on or bugging me and more?. I am a person to look at all sides, enjoy educating myself and opening my perspective. Reguardless of my views or opinions?, I do belive we can ( agree to disagree). And that we all have a right to our own opinions. This person is my hubs of 23yrs now and does ABSOLUTELY all to annoy me to get a response that ends up with him telling me!? How im( insert word). It's exaustiexhausting!. Especially when I ask his basis on the topic? It's always ( OPO) plagorising what others have said but NOT truly understanding or allowing( I look at things differently) as he knows, an uses when suits him. I am not like the rest that either agree with him? For whatever reasons. If I don't? I'll say( I look at it differently, I have a different opinion, an so on.) Then get the( CAN YOU PROVE IT) Comment. So I do an still doesn't stop him. I can't just up an leave because he usually starts when I'm doing something that NEEDS to be done. And he will just bring up again or someway else to annoy me,till I respond. I can't just listen an say 👍. He wants MY input, to then insult me. Besides becoming deaf? How do you deal with someone who JUST won't stop?. Thank you for your time. BLESS🙏🌻

This is great information. Thank you for these wonderful suggestions.

Yes the 2nd 💯

THANK YOU for your channel and invaluable information and this wonderful community

Sorry . I used the word ( know ) ( that I have seen .. don’t want anyone thinking we know one another . Just wanted to clarify that.

Great video. I have two arrogant siblings like this. I am youngest.

Jefferson fisher your the most handsome man I know . Your wife and kids is very blessed to have you . your soul is beautiful and lovely to look upon and behold. Thank you for doing what you love to do and sharing it with the whole world .. Jesus Christ loves you .

Hi Jefferson, thank you for all your awesome advice. Do you have a suggestion for me on how to deal with a very strong, overwhelming personality. She gets adamant and loud when she doesn’t get her way. Also, she is always talking, rarely listening, because only HER stories seem to be important, impressive or funny. Unfortunately she is part of a big circle of friends and it would be sad for me to remove myself. I realize I can’t control her, buy what can I say to make her realize that she needs to be less selfish. Thank you.

I like the adage: “you teach people how to treat you “😊

Hey Jefferson Your insights on communication ideas and techniques are just what i have been thinking about lately.Great recommendations,i apprecaite your talk.Doug

Thank you! Enjoy your content. ☺️

Thanks, Jefferson. This is the first time I've heard having a strong personality doesn't need to be a bad thing. Having a strong personality allowed me to survive the environment at home. YOU truly are a blessing.

Love this reading. I resonate with everything, thank you!

Don’t say much of anything. Let them live with their comment. If you have to say something, say - it’s ok. you’re so dry, it’s hard to tell if you’re trying to be funny or just being rude. Do you get that a lot?

Thank You!

Love the practical wisdom and responses. I know there are some people who may be timid to try these responses, (I was at one time), but it will build your confidence and resilience. (If physical safety is a concern, maybe silence is best).

It's OK to be sensitive. "You're too sensitive." "Yup, and you should be more careful."

I appreciate your take but you are showing too much grace to narcissistic passive aggressive people. The second you match them with a smile on your face they will back off. Match them, attack what they love which is usually their image or their seed which they can't separate themselves from. They will stop...

"I get to decide that" = applies to everything within your purview. Such a good line.

Please, think about investing in a real set. It's hard to take anybody serious that's sitting in a car with a car seat behind them. First impressions are everything, a video that looks like it's an oh, by the way, here's kind of a few thoughts before I head into a store... that doesn't really build confidence that you're about to give professional counseling advice and I need to subscribe to your channel. I appreciate you, I'm honestly just trying to drive more traffic to your channel.

Excellent 😂

What what do you say to a person? Who calls you a “Dingus?” he says it’s just a term of endearment. It’s insulting to me and I don’t want to be defensive anymore about it every time he says it. I’ve even told him to start saying that and he continues to do that. When he said that to me in a doctors office in front of a nurse, I walked out of the room and went directly to my car.

I heard this comment last night!!!

I listen to you every day. You've been a huge blessing to me. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!

You’re brilliant. Thanks.

I like this one. It is like passive aggressive remarks my brother makes. Ie….In front of other people ; smacks me on my belly , and says ..” haaaa ..getting a little pouch there bro. Haaa “ etc