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quitting youtube
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Read my newsletter: charlierewilding.substack.com/ #digitalminimalism #quityoutube #digitaldetox
‘what have you been up to lately?’
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My newsletter I mentioned: open.substack.com/pub/charlierewilding/p/on-doing-nothing?r=17j0q5&
A SLOW WEEK: diary-keeping, library books, art fair & nature walks
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Thank you for watching!! My newsletter: charlierewilding.substack.com
A FEW DAYS IN FLORENCE: bike tour, art galleries, carbs, coffee dates & Spring sun 🌞
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Post of travel tips: open.substack.com/pub/charlierewilding/p/autistic-and-adhd-travel-tips?r=17j0q5& #italyvlog #travelvlogs
LIFE OFFLINE: packing for an exciting trip, collaging, vintage markets & Spring walks 🌷
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This week's newsletter: charlierewilding.substack.com/p/autistic-and-adhd-travel-tips Autistic & ADHD travel tips: charlierewilding.substack.com/p/autistic-and-adhd-travel-tips #homebodyvlog #introvertdiaries
WEEKLY VLOG: Spring gardens, creating a confidence board, books, vinyls & coffee dates
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Sign up to receive my newsletter: www.charlierewilding.substack.com Newsletter "Things I don't know (that stress me out)": charlierewilding.substack.com/p/things-i-dont-know #introvertdiaries #digitalminimalism
the trap of self-development content
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NEWSLETTER: charlierewilding.substack.com/
life without social media: fears, benefits & drawbacks
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In this video I share my fears about taking a six month break from social media, whether those fears have come to fruition, what I've done instead of social media during this time away, and whether I think I'll be going back. More videos, essays & Q&As via my newsletter: charlierewilding.substack.com/ 00:00 fears about quitting 00:47 addressing fears 03:04 unforeseen benefits 06:05 drawbacks 07...
breaking up with self-development content
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In this video I share current thoughts on the self-help industry that have come about from my foray into digital minimalism, and share a few inspiring things I've enjoyed away from social media this week (from books to podcasts to notebooks to 'things'). 00:00 self-development is a trap 01:34 it's an industry 04:22 good enough 05:48 weekly notes 12:13 just being #selfhelp #digitalminimalism
how I reclaim my attention from mindless distractions (including social media)
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In this video I share how I am going about trying to reclaim more of my attention from the mindless distractions of social media, the internet, and screens so I can do more of the things I actually care about in life. In this video I mention: My newsletter: charlierewilding.substack.com/ Cal Newport: calnewport.com/ 00:00 intro 00:21 audit of life 01:57 what I'm reducing/removing 05:20 tools fo...
how I tackle procrastination
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In this video I share the three steps that are, in my experience, necessary to stop procrastinating on your dreams. Part of me hesitates to share this because, procrastinating being a stress-relieving habit, I know it can be difficult to accept that the only way out is through the discomfort. Sure, it's not comfy, but ultimately the millions of 'how tos' and research I spent my time on meant no...
day in the life breaking my computer addiction
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In this video I share my challenges with reducing time spent on my laptop after ditching my smartphone a few months ago and how I'm planning to overcome these challenges. This stuff is so addictive!!! Links mentioned: 1440 - join1440.com/ News Minimalist - www.newsminimalist.com/ #digitalminimalism #digitaldetox #smartphoneaddiction #internetaddiction #phoneaddiction
I kept failing at digital detoxes, this is why
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In this video I share some reflections on why I have previously found it so difficult to engage with digital detoxes in a meaningful way and how I have managed to stick to it this time around. 00:00 intro 00:53 i failed lots 02:52 replace not reduce 04:50 why it works 05:49 what else is important to you? 07:13 do this now 09:00 self-compassion 11:49 outro #digitaldetox #digitalminimalism #socia...
tools to manage energy for burnout recovery & prevention | autism & ADHD
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In this video I share a list of tools that might be useful to consider adding to your own toolbox that I have collated over the last 18 months or so whilst recovering from burnout to help me manage my energy levels. I am autistic and have ADHD but I think many of these ideas can be applied regardless of neurotype. You can find the list in my latest newsletter too: substack.com/home/post/p-14155...
The problem with social media no-one is talking about
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The problem with social media no-one is talking about
the life-changing magic of a pocket notebook
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the life-changing magic of a pocket notebook
my journal (including a log book) for daily life
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my journal (including a log book) for daily life
you're not lazy, you're distracted
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you're not lazy, you're distracted
Stop copying everyone else (they're not you)
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Stop copying everyone else (they're not you)
my paper planner system for daily life
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my paper planner system for daily life
The surprising power of solitude
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The surprising power of solitude
1 month using a flip phone - is it realistic in 2024?
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1 month using a flip phone - is it realistic in 2024?
why I'm downgrading to a flip phone in 2024
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why I'm downgrading to a flip phone in 2024
2024 planner lineup: planning, journaling & note-taking as a digital minimalist
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2024 planner lineup: planning, journaling & note-taking as a digital minimalist
Starting a 6-month social media detox (77k followers)... how, why & what I'm scared about!
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Starting a 6-month social media detox (77k followers)... how, why & what I'm scared about!
why I'm becoming a digital minimalist in 2024
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why I'm becoming a digital minimalist in 2024
navigating a sensory hangover as an autistic human (overthinking, questioning everything & anxious)
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navigating a sensory hangover as an autistic human (overthinking, questioning everything & anxious)
how I worked out I am autistic at 30 years old
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how I worked out I am autistic at 30 years old
how people-pleasing made me sick & how I am recovering
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how people-pleasing made me sick & how I am recovering

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  • @kirbythings
    @kirbythings 3 хвилини тому

    I absolutely love this style of video I’ve always been trying to be online alot less but that comes with actually figuring out what I like to do I do have a camera so maybe I’ll try more photography and filming like you are, but I want to ask do you still use your smartphone and what do you use for editing?

  • @belle2154
    @belle2154 День тому

    I have used a flip phone since 2020. Love it

  • @tora3584
    @tora3584 День тому

    pls what digital camera is this?? i wanna get back into creating🥲

    • @charlierewilding
      @charlierewilding 17 годин тому

      it's an unbranded digital video camera I bought on Amazon

  • @tora3584
    @tora3584 День тому

    love this!! i'm excited for you and the new opportunity with the greyhounds! i myself am trying to volunteer at an animal reserve for big cats where i live cause they are my favourite animals :) and at my local library! i loveeee the library sm, i want to volunteer🥲

  • @thegreateromentum
    @thegreateromentum 2 дні тому

    I love these new style of videos, encouraging me to go slower in my daily life and enjoy the little things.

  • @nikolaystefanov7879
    @nikolaystefanov7879 3 дні тому

    I usually do not write comments, but you are an exception. I want to thank you for the motivation you are giving me to make a change. I remember first stumbling onto your nokia flip phone videos, so i got the idea just to buy one too, as i have been struggling with the internet, and my screen time has been huge. Then i remember i had a ditched out old samsung with android 5. I put Viber on it and i use it every day. Just for texting with family and calls. Some times hotspot to laptop. Thank you again...

  • @gentlygrace
    @gentlygrace 3 дні тому

    What a gentle week! I love it!🥰

  • @rachellorton4693
    @rachellorton4693 3 дні тому

    You described every single thing I am feeling right now. It has been difficult to put it into words though, so thank you for this ❤

  • @CocoKitty19
    @CocoKitty19 4 дні тому

    As I said last time : the digicam footage omg <3 I'm loving it !!!

  • @JamaicaHS1985
    @JamaicaHS1985 4 дні тому

    You sound brainwashed by the smart phone makers. First you're comparing a flip phone to something that's not a phone. A smart phone is really a tiny computer that happens to have calling capabilities. Try having a long conversation with a smart phone. It's very uncomfortable. Sounds quality on speaker is not great also. As I said it's a device to use the internet outside one's home, has a camera, flash light. It's really a little computer gadget. If you want to simply talk and make lots of calls, a flip phone is the way to go. This is why it's kind of designed like an actual telephone to some degree. Flip phones are actually adding features to make smart phones obsolete.

  • @joaopaulogentilferreira5185
    @joaopaulogentilferreira5185 5 днів тому

    Your video was brilliant to me, I've found myself next to loneliness trying to get minimal in the technological aspect of my life. Your video is so charismatic that make me feel more confident to do this.

  • @daiichidoku
    @daiichidoku 5 днів тому

    i have only ever used dumbphones. in 2020, i got the nokia 2720. i liked it, but it had issues, albeit small. i saw the cat s-22 a couple years ago, and wanted one, but $200 cdn too much when i still had the 2720. i saw that the s-22 is now $91 cdn, so i ordered it and im looking forward to the more capable unit while retaining the form and function and 4g of a flip. plus its a water/dustproof tank.

  • @feliciaseybold1696
    @feliciaseybold1696 5 днів тому

    I feel the hyperfocus vs special interest thing! Especially bc I just bought an electric piano kind of suddenly to learn piano 😭. Time and time again though, even if my hyperfocus fades, the skills and joy from that time don’t (at least not 100% lol), and if I got quality supplies or equipment the first time around then I am all set right out of the gate if I want to start again. That’s what inspired me to spend a liiitle more and get an electric piano with the most essential features I needed, because the last time around I had a crappy Casio keyboard that sounded awful and didn’t have the full 88 keys. And guess what I dragged out of storage when the inspiration hit again: the Casio. So I took note of what I was lacking and used that to guide my purchase of an affordable but good quality (and full sized) electric piano. The hard part is deciding what is essential to the hobby and staying realistic purchase-wise 😂. Also there tends to be hobby overlap and those supplies can be used elsewhere. That’s always pretty satisfying. Btw your collages are really beautiful, and it is so fun to see your process!

  • @WhizPill
    @WhizPill 5 днів тому

    yo we bringing old school VHS filmmaking back let's go

  • @danielalamelas3176
    @danielalamelas3176 5 днів тому

    This was a very realistic review. Thank you so much!

  • @danielalamelas3176
    @danielalamelas3176 5 днів тому

    Wow listening to you talk felt like listening to my own brain. Absolutely everything you said is exactly what I have been feeling and thinking for the past few months. Glad to know there are others waking up and being fed up with not living life like a normal human and looking for ways to fix this part of our lives.

  • @wplants9793
    @wplants9793 6 днів тому

    I quit Instagram 3 years ago and I pretty much spend all that time and more on UA-cam. I DO feel crappy when I’m scrolling and watching and can’t pull away, but it always feels better than being on Insta. I feel bad for being sedentary, scrolling, staring, not doing other things with my life, but at least I don’t feel terribly lonely with crippling low self esteem like I did with Insta.

  • @damienjurado6581
    @damienjurado6581 8 днів тому

    Throwing your smartphone away (or donating it) will help you greatly. This addiction you feel is so incredibly severe. I know, because I struggle with it every single day of my life. For me, it has been far worse than quitting smoking, drinking, and drugs. A few days ago I said to myself, UA-cam is just as bad as other social media platforms. I strongly believe that. I wish you the best of luck. Find support in friends and family. Much love from the States.

  • @aidibachir6085
    @aidibachir6085 8 днів тому

    Hello, please learn about Islam and read the Holy Qur’an. It is the best book I advise you that you have read in your entire life. Thank you.

  • @piraterandall
    @piraterandall 8 днів тому

    Saaaaaaaame

  • @radioweebdx7680
    @radioweebdx7680 9 днів тому

    I never had a smartphone.

  • @eleanornewell7492
    @eleanornewell7492 9 днів тому

    I was diagnosed in January aged 52 after a 2.5 year wait, by which time I had quit my job with burnout. I thought I'd feel relieved and validated, but I didn't. This video has been so helpful and like Lisa I am perhaps on a slower path to acceptance. I feel like I don't know who I am any more and am still clinging to the familiarity of masking Who am I without the mask and if I start to drop it, will that undo 30 years of psychology, self improvement and spirtiual philosophy. There is a high cost to my 'well-functioning-adult' persona, but the reward is social acceptance. I am struggling to reconcile these and have only disclosed my diagnosis to my daughter and my best friend (who said, I'm surprised, you don't seem at all autistic). This video has been really good in helping me recognise the grief I am feeling and my fear of being 'openly autistic'. I look forward to being a proud advocate in the autistic community when I reach acceptance. Thank you.

    • @LauraSigns
      @LauraSigns 4 години тому

      I'm 55 and just got the neuropsych report today. So many mixed feelings.

  • @Rajeanreads
    @Rajeanreads 10 днів тому

    The style of this video was absolutely wonderful to consume. It felt nostalgic like home video but also OG UA-cam. I think talking about the overstimulation of UA-cam but then creating a calmer video, you’re not selling anything, not flashing things and keeping a more realistic vlog style, is such a good contrast to the reason other videos are so so addictive. I was not distracted one or felt the urge to click away, which I do so often on other videos. You’re really coming into your style and I appreciate your content so much! Thank you for sharing

  • @llisonp
    @llisonp 11 днів тому

    so appreciate all of this and am so glad I’m not alone in thinking these thoughts also SO impressed you managed to stand with all those books at 9:29! hahahaha

  • @Malekfahad420
    @Malekfahad420 11 днів тому

    Hey Charlie, really nice video ! I was wondering if I could help you with Best Quality Editing in your videos better than your Editor with good pricing and also make a highly engaging Thumbnail which will help your videos to reach to a wider audience ? Pls let me know what do you think ?

  • @ClaireJennings-hp3zt
    @ClaireJennings-hp3zt 11 днів тому

    I fully agree with you and have the same thoughts about all of this. It's really nice to see someone else talk about it

  • @sylviamaike6866
    @sylviamaike6866 11 днів тому

    There is much of a more serious nature that I appreciated in this, but I just have to say... the notebook stash. I 1000% relate. And often when I bring them together my reaction is, "Where in the world did they all come from?!"

  • @itiskelpy
    @itiskelpy 11 днів тому

    I so appreciate your presence on UA-cam, and this video. I’ve also switched from insta and tiktok, haven’t been on in months and scrubbed myself from the apps. But now I’ve switched to UA-cam🫠 i so wish you could disable short form content! It’s incredibly hard to stop scrolling but I feel terrible after it.

    • @SaraMuzi
      @SaraMuzi 9 днів тому

      omg yes, do install the Unhook extension. you can set it up to disable short form content, as well as suggested videos and the whole explore feed. I learned this from Charlie and it's the best

  • @tracik1277
    @tracik1277 12 днів тому

    I watch UA-cam everyday but nearly all of it is Autistic creators or related topics, other than that it’s personal interest related. I’m very particular and don’t get into any ‘popular’ stuff because I’m old lol. I don’t have a tv and have never been on Instagram or Twitter and only use my phone for what phones were meant for originally.

  • @MsLisa551
    @MsLisa551 12 днів тому

    Lately I've been saying... I'm going through a personal thing and I'm figuring it out. I use to say .... not much. Lol

  • @hoaluo
    @hoaluo 12 днів тому

    ALSO !!! lately i told myself get off youttube cos ive turned to youtube after deleting IG back in june of last year! so its been almost a year and im still off IG!! so now i feel like your video is God telling me GET OFF UA-cam LOLOL

  • @hoaluo
    @hoaluo 12 днів тому

    <3 always enjoy watching your videos! keep shining your light and wisdom. appreciate your authenticity and vulnerability. God bless you friend 💞

  • @MsLisa551
    @MsLisa551 12 днів тому

    This was beautifully expressed. Thank you.. This is my life. It's all unfolding now at 57. My heartaches for the lil girl with adhd and once was trying to meet social norms. I realized they missed some of that diagnosis. Now.. I'm trying to understand, have grace and love for myself. This is difficult.

  • @ivpartridge
    @ivpartridge 12 днів тому

    I relate to this so much! I gave up social media a month ago, and my UA-cam addiction had arrived in full force to fill the emotional void. And then you mentioned the fear of wasting your life and it struck me how much that same thing had been keeping me up at night. As always, you inspire me to want better for myself

  • @sandrapawula4109
    @sandrapawula4109 12 днів тому

    Does that mean you'll no longer make UA-cam content? Your videos on Autism and your recovery from burnout have been incredibly valuable to me. Just wanted to let you know.

  • @alajononon
    @alajononon 12 днів тому

    Thanks for the perspective! I will likely have to keep my smartphone and use it a lot since I do so much gig delivery work but knowing I can swap sim back and forth makes it a no-brainer. Only thing is I love Tidal.... But I am not opposed to having the SD card on the go!

  • @CocoKitty19
    @CocoKitty19 12 днів тому

    I love, love, love the digicam footage. It reminds me so much of my childhood <3 (born in '97) I get what you mean but I love youtube because of my insatiable curiosity that I quench by both reading books and watching "videos" - including documentaries (volcanoes <3), vlogs, book related stuff, etc all on the same platform. But screens have such an impact on our mental health, our eyes, etc so... it's both a blessing and a curse. Also : one never has "too many books" :p. And that green chair is beautiful !

  • @victorianwhovian
    @victorianwhovian 12 днів тому

    This is really random but since your hair has grown out you look a lot like the actor who played the younger version of princess Diana in the Crown! ❤

  • @theCailleach
    @theCailleach 12 днів тому

    Hi Charlie, I just wanted to thank you and send you every happiness as well. 💛 As a fellow late-diagnosed AuDHD in her early 30s, your self-discovery journey really speaks to me. In January last year my life collapsed - I lost my job, my apartment and the few friends I had, went into a severe burnout and got misdiagnosed with depression and anxiety. The algorithm started to suggest content about Autism and I stumbled upon your channel (I reckon you had only a couple of videos posted then). I can’t tell you how much your words and experiences resonated with mine, and how comforting it was watching your videos when I had no one to talk to about what I was going through. Finding out I’m Autistic (and more recently ADHD) has been both incredibly challenging and healing/liberating - and part of this self-discovery and journey to diagnosis I owe to you 🌸💚 Look after yourself (and Alfie!), warm hugs 😊

  • @howstrangehowsmall
    @howstrangehowsmall 12 днів тому

    For awhile, I was fine with youtube because I was only watching educational or inspiring content but in the past two months, I slipped into watch drama and tea content that adds nothing to me life. So last night I blocked a few of the channels I had been watching. That already feels better.

    • @howstrangehowsmall
      @howstrangehowsmall 12 днів тому

      Also, I love Kyle (I Found You), makes me feel big feels!

  • @waterballoonfighter
    @waterballoonfighter 12 днів тому

    This is so relatable to me! (also AuDHD) I tell myself “ooh I’m not using instagram all the time anymore” but instead I’m zoning out on UA-cam for hours… And maybe that’s what I need sometimes after a long stressful day, BUT mostly I am time blind. The way videos so easily block out thoughts and emotions makes it such an easy grab to hit the “off switch” in a busy brain. Thank you for sharing, your videos are so appreciated 🌸

    • @whathappenedtoearth6495
      @whathappenedtoearth6495 9 днів тому

      Agreed. I decided a little while ago, not to shame myself for using that switch, when I need to. To quote Charlie "I'm not wasting my life", I'm a moderately autistic person with pretty severe adhd (and also have cptsd acknowledged in my dual asd report). My point is, all of us AuDhd'ers have differing levels of functionality, some more than others. I don't use substance to self regulate my emotional dysregulation anymore, not since I got my adhd diagnosis and then asd diagnosis. It's amazing the amount of anguish that comes from projected sources eg parents which is actually their shame at being inadequate parents (as much as I still love my father, sadly, my mother is a charming narcissist). To OP, do or don't do, but the main thing, is not to shame yourself for your choices. life is a river that ebbs and flows, sometimes more towards greatness than others. The only plate that you need to step up to, is your own. Do life as you need to, and you'll continue to fly higher and get closer to what you're actually destined to do. For me, using social media (only UA-cam and Reddit), has helped me to cut out of my life, all of the people that weren't healthy for me to be around. Doing this, has brought me closer to pursuing the goals/dreams that I have.

  • @LoveCrumb
    @LoveCrumb 12 днів тому

    I wish you every happiness- it seems like you're a lot of the way there already!

  • @murtazaarif6507
    @murtazaarif6507 13 днів тому

    You make a good psychological analysis of your situation but remember you may be blocking these social media platforms but not deleting them which means you may bounce back again at a later stage in the same cycle but it seems you know what you are doing. I completely shut out current affairs media news and popular culture from my life about 15 years ago and I am in a better place in my life. Your UA-cam content has always sparked a sense of connection with me because of the autism connection. However I am a 1970's child. I miss those days. We didn't have social media back then but we connected with people and nature directly. I don't even know what these new social media platforms you mention are. However I watch UA-cam for educational and well being topics such as yours.

  • @jazzreadsbooks
    @jazzreadsbooks 13 днів тому

    Just found your video and I am currently on a social media break for the same reasons! It has been eye opening, hope it’s going well for you 🥰

  • @khatramasare9443
    @khatramasare9443 13 днів тому

    Love the Palestine shout-out!! Thanks for the support

  • @beanbon666
    @beanbon666 13 днів тому

    I am currently doing Analog lifestyle along with minimalism. Quite an Oxymoron if you ask me because analog requires you to buy stuff in order to do things without a smart phone. I got rid of my smartphone and picked up the Light Phone 2, but I will probably get rid of it and go phoneless and park my number at number barns. I'll still be able to text on the website which is a plus, but you will need a computer. I just got internet back after a year of hiatus, I have been at Starbucks and library for the wifi, but I'll still do it. 1. For music, I currently use spotify on the laptop or CDs wth a Player. I recommend the KLIM Discover Portable Cd player, it has Bluetooth, playback speed, USB 3 charging etc. I buy my music physically which I like to collect as a hobby or buy songs that are not physical and burn it onto a blank white CD. Get rid of the case and get a CD sleeve that allows the paper inside. there are videos of rec sleeves. Eventually I will print the CD to have it's perspective album style on it. 2. Navigation, I use a physical map. I have a state map then the city map. No GPS. 3. Alarm clock, I use a small basic digital clock, but I have an actual analog clock that turns. I am not using it because it needs a little fixing. 4. Time/date. I disabled the time and date off the laptop and phone. Only way to know the time is if I look at the digital alarm clock. There are clocks at work so that is not an issue. I like being clueless to what the date and time is. When I am out and about, I just don't worry about the time. Date I rec a calendar. 5. Media, Dvds I rec getting rid of the plastic and buy DVD sleeves. I have VHS, but this is too bulky which ill stop collecting. 6. Keep a pen and notepad.

  • @_indigorising
    @_indigorising 14 днів тому

    Thankyou, for having this conversation! Prior to finding out my neurotype, I used to have conversations with my partner about this... and would always say, rather than people asking me about what I have been up too, I wished they would ask me 'what have you been learning lately' or 'what podcasts have you been listening too' makes sooo much sense now 🥰 It's always strange because I feel when people ask that question, they don't actually want to know every single thing you have been up too? 🙈

  • @bealondie
    @bealondie 14 днів тому

    Hey Charlie, just discovered your channel a few days ago & I feel like I can really relate to you. What would you say were the first symptoms you had to make you think you had autism and ADHD?

  • @thereadingroom5239
    @thereadingroom5239 15 днів тому

    Same!

  • @meatwax
    @meatwax 15 днів тому

    Its designed to make you mad. So u "engage " and feed the algorithms to show you ads. Its not complicated have some self discipline and control.