Are Americans Obsessed with Race and Gender? | Middle Ground

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 16 тис.

  • @jubilee
    @jubilee  3 роки тому +385

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    • @RobertZemeckis2025
      @RobertZemeckis2025 3 роки тому +7

      aoc is pos

    • @brendonsinger9859
      @brendonsinger9859 3 роки тому +2

      I agree mostly with Damani, the others made some good points also. He is the most logical and realistic in his evaluations.

    • @thornspitfire3977
      @thornspitfire3977 3 роки тому

      Yo what's up with calling it "middle ground", yet one can only be pro or contra identity politics? That's messed up.

    • @ragnarok7976
      @ragnarok7976 3 роки тому

      @@Spirit123 Try stronger bait, you'll get a bite.

    • @sabbirahmed2974
      @sabbirahmed2974 3 роки тому +2

      WE don't have blacks in my country so why would we need that playlist for?

  • @alanysshareef7434
    @alanysshareef7434 4 роки тому +8268

    “just because you have a common trait, doesn’t mean you have the same experience.”
    dang that really hit me...

    • @AL-mm4vq
      @AL-mm4vq 4 роки тому +38

      Ben Carson popped into my mind

    • @petermaniaci7090
      @petermaniaci7090 4 роки тому +232

      It’s called intersectionality. Different identities interact with one another to create an entirely unique experience. For example, the experiences of a black women isn’t comparable to the experience of a black man, because one is a women and one is a man. Their experience of being a person of color is entirely unique.

    • @thesmartone8149
      @thesmartone8149 4 роки тому +8

      Wow right when I decided to look at this comment, he said that. This seems to always happen to people doesnt it?

    • @jjw3046
      @jjw3046 4 роки тому +283

      @@petermaniaci7090 To me that quote reads more like a critique of intersectional politics. Even two able-bodied cis hetero black women of the same socioeconomic class, for instance, might have radically different life experiences. Therefore the idea of intersectionality doesn't take you very far, because the only meaningful categorization that you can construct that is adequately multifactorial is on the level of the individual person; otherwise you run the risk of making unfounded generalizations about even a very specific group of people. In my opinion that sort of logic makes intersectionality itself a kind of stereotyping. Born of good intentions, I'm sure, but detrimental nonetheless.

    • @TheMFStudios
      @TheMFStudios 4 роки тому +30

      Exactly. A poor African American can't relate to me because I grew up well off. And I experience that separation EVERYDAY

  • @SirKnasher
    @SirKnasher 4 роки тому +11371

    "are Americans obsessed with identity politics?"
    Yes. Saved you 21 minutes.

    • @elenabob4953
      @elenabob4953 4 роки тому +63

      Exactly

    • @redexpizza1657
      @redexpizza1657 4 роки тому +183

      only democrats and liberals and communists

    • @K.aylarenae
      @K.aylarenae 4 роки тому +3

      SirKnasher
      Right

    • @funny.gon-12
      @funny.gon-12 4 роки тому +90

      I dont like the idea of identity politics I would want people voting for me because of me being ( redacted) I want people to support me because they believe I will create a better nation for blithe next generation of Americans.

    • @GarethWareth
      @GarethWareth 4 роки тому +103

      Yep. Whether they're obsessed with forcing identity politics on others or obsessed with shutting identity politics down, Americans are obsessed with it

  • @roseknowsall7629
    @roseknowsall7629 3 роки тому +5184

    A wise woman once told me, “Society is too focused on who to blame rather than how to find a solution”.

    • @sorcerykid
      @sorcerykid 3 роки тому +179

      Exactly, and this is one of my big issues as an LGBTQ person (or perhaps not LGBTQ because I've so often been alienated by gatekeepers for not being queer enough). There's this hyper obsession with dividing people into two polar extremes, while blaming the "opposing" group for everyone's grievances. And it's neither healthy nor productive.

    • @superkamiguru6856
      @superkamiguru6856 3 роки тому +100

      @@sorcerykid
      I Am Bisexual and I don't identify with LGBTQ, partly because of this and partly because of cishet hate. It feels like the identity of LGBTQ is more geared toward hating the common enemy rather than finding similarities and supporting each other.

    • @smorgasbordbipples8106
      @smorgasbordbipples8106 3 роки тому +43

      Hard to find a solution when many refuse to see the problem

    • @aaronlandry3934
      @aaronlandry3934 3 роки тому +64

      @@smorgasbordbipples8106 It’s also difficult to fix a real problem when you’re constantly being distracted by non-problems that idiots refuse to acknowledge as non-problems. This happens a lot in the LGBTQ+ community, because everything is “homophobic” if one gay guy doesn’t like it.
      I’m Bi myself, but Jesus, get a grip!

    • @getschwifty7413
      @getschwifty7413 3 роки тому +13

      I recently was having a discussion about this and came to the realization that our idea of justice mirrors superheroes. Sadly, We don’t appreciate the hero for saving people and doing good as much as we appreciate the hero’s for epically beating the bad guy.... very sad.

  • @dragonsgorawr302
    @dragonsgorawr302 3 роки тому +1421

    “What’s wrong if we’re different?” “It’s okay”
    “What’s wrong if we’re the same?”
    “It’s Okay”
    *That hit me in the most comforting way*

  • @miniminerva
    @miniminerva 4 роки тому +11757

    Asian dude straight up has main character hair.

    • @octopusmime
      @octopusmime 4 роки тому +324

      hes so handsome!

    • @Zeeno
      @Zeeno 4 роки тому +485

      He got that YuGiOh Action going

    • @ee8546
      @ee8546 4 роки тому +247

      He looks like a cliche protagonist

    • @shacourbrissett9625
      @shacourbrissett9625 4 роки тому +102

      @Black Ally to Protect White Men's Rights Seriously, how *insecure* are you that you felt the need to insult a stranger just because they received a compliment?

    • @annmariebusu9924
      @annmariebusu9924 4 роки тому +18

      NotYourAvgGamer Goku 😅

  • @davis3909
    @davis3909 4 роки тому +3689

    Scientists that are Christian vs scientists that are atheists

    • @raychill2005
      @raychill2005 4 роки тому +101

      would be so cool

    • @user-hu6ry9oq1e
      @user-hu6ry9oq1e 4 роки тому +139

      Indeed, both my friend and I are biology researchers, but she is a fundamentalist and I am an atheist. One day I asked her how does she deal with the scientific teachings that challenge her beliefs and she told me that for certain scientific beliefs like evolution and the big bang, that go against the adam and eve origins of the bible, she just laughs at them and ignores it and moves on.

    • @rudigerrudiger6436
      @rudigerrudiger6436 4 роки тому +7

      senseless

    • @Roman-oe4rg
      @Roman-oe4rg 4 роки тому +12

      퀴수스케세수스 That’s what i do too 😂

    • @yerma6149
      @yerma6149 4 роки тому +3

      Yes, that is interesting!

  • @RWtubb
    @RWtubb Рік тому +393

    The idea of identity politics has got to be the most privileged and 1st-world idea I’ve ever known

  • @holygraehl4009
    @holygraehl4009 3 роки тому +114

    "Identity Politics is playing team sports based on traits about yourself that you cannot change." I love that quote so much.

  • @josephtang227
    @josephtang227 4 роки тому +5619

    Why do I feel like the line between "pro" and "anti" identity politics are so blurred between these people...

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 4 роки тому +172

      two of them , the lady gal reared her head on feminism then switched sides on racism. so did the dark skinned arab dude.

    • @miaharvey9609
      @miaharvey9609 4 роки тому +313

      I believe that people rationalize their beliefs however they want to. I think that the question should be asked who here thinks that their identity is important and if they would trade with a more marginalized person, or less marginalized identity, and if they would be okay with how they are then treated.

    • @borihenna2014
      @borihenna2014 4 роки тому +212

      Yeah but I think that’s realistic to real life

    • @wuziq
      @wuziq 4 роки тому +188

      cuz that's probably how most people are in real life

    • @jalepenopvp2300
      @jalepenopvp2300 4 роки тому +105

      I think it’s because they are trying to have respectful conversation. It’s hard to have one that doesn’t get heated if you are extremely opposed to their views

  • @ilikemusic2726
    @ilikemusic2726 4 роки тому +3817

    A middle ground where one person wasn’t awful and every single one of them were extremely intelligent and respectful? Never thought I’d see it

    • @aisha5156
      @aisha5156 4 роки тому +7

      I like Music
      Honestly

    • @thomasklecker2721
      @thomasklecker2721 4 роки тому +16

      @@mooseontheloose-2531 📠 no 🖨️

    • @morihol8951
      @morihol8951 4 роки тому +3

      I like Music lol the vegan odd man out

    • @treybrown9296
      @treybrown9296 4 роки тому +30

      That guy with blue hat came off incredibly dishonest and misinformed.

    • @rustincohle2135
      @rustincohle2135 4 роки тому +40

      Damani doesn't believe that privilege exists in the world. Either that men have more advantages in certain career fields than woman nor with race. Damani is exceedingly unintelligent.

  • @afkgreg
    @afkgreg 3 роки тому +76

    this is a perfect group for middle ground, I find like every single person here learned and added to a civil discussion. Other episodes are much more of a point scoring debate. THIS WAS BEATIFUL

  • @alanalan2732
    @alanalan2732 3 роки тому +527

    hello an italian here. I would really like to understand, without being offensive, some things. For example, one thing here in Europe we sometimes fail to grasp about the American problem with racism is how this can still go on in the media. Racist people have always existed and will always exist because someone will always be afraid of what is different from him / her. But for example one thing I don't understand is why do you still use the word RACE? Why, for example, when you hear some political programs you hear about the people of the United States always divided into groups? For example, politicians talk about the votes of Latinos, Asians and Africans. What does it mean? you are all American citizens, aren't you? It sounds so offensive to me.
    I have many friends around Europe (so different countries and different cultures) and we are very concerned about some habits that are coming from the United States. One example above all is the politically correct. it is something that is taking away the dialectic and the confrontation as soon as one feels offended defines the other person with very heavy accusations: racist, homophobic, transphobic, xenophobic, misogynist and many others. All this is the end of the evolution of society because it does not create freedom but friction.
    I read sometimes people that speak of forgiveness or not forgiveness. They have to act in certain way because their ancestors were destroy.
    It's a very interesting thing because sometimes I think it's family related.
    Sometimes in the eyes of Europeans it is strange to see news that still speak of frictions linked to the american civil war of the south against the north. In our eyes it is as if the strength to leave the past behind us is really lacking. This does not mean forgetting because it would be the biggest mistake but building a better future on that. Because if I were to see Europe from a perspective of this type, I as an Italian would have problems with the Germans, the French, the Spaniards, and so many other European countries among them. I should have problems with my other Italian compatriots because half of Italy was fascist and later with other Italians because between the 60s and 80s we had "the years of lead" where the communist extremists carried out attacks.
    Sometimes families transmit hatred or fear towards the other, but also the feeling of being less and with fewer privileges. I think the most accurate comment, seen from the outside, is precisely the privilege of money. Who has the money can have everything the others trudge behind. I hope you can change the discourse of health and education in USA (make them pay less) so as to be able to start smoothing out differences and contrasts.
    I am really interested in your comments to try to understand better because we are far away and we do not understand all the nuances we have little informations. Thanks and sorry for my english.

    • @fabianmarcetic3232
      @fabianmarcetic3232 3 роки тому +112

      Very true. “Race” is not a thing. Simply adapted different colors for the climate we used to live in.

    • @masterchiefiii
      @masterchiefiii 3 роки тому +8

      bella pezzo amico

    • @blakeleeberggren5335
      @blakeleeberggren5335 3 роки тому +50

      Your so completely right when it comes money. It's the great equalizer and most issues that someone experiences due to their races can be negated with enough wealth. As an American I can say with much confidence that this country is going to crumble and burn before anything gets better. Our " representatives" dont represent us and they dont care about real issues as long as they get votes. I wish I could be more optimistic, but people focus so heavily on race that they ignore the real enemy. The real big bad in the untied states isnt rasicm it's the federal reserve and their scummy corporate cronies. If the majority of Americans knew just how much we were being fucked over by centralized banking we could have a the revolution over and done with by the end of the week.

    • @lavinder11
      @lavinder11 2 роки тому +26

      Because we treat each other differently based on skin color and class.

    • @AJ-lm5dl
      @AJ-lm5dl 2 роки тому +14

      We have these things called "democrats" here in America. And in order for democrats to stay in power and stay relevant, they need to put on a false face of being "anti-racist". However, racism is practically dead in America, which would mean that democrats wouldn't get elected. Because of that, democrats need to create racism out of thin air to keep themselves relevant and continue to emotionally manipulate people into voting for them. Democrats of today are more detrimental to the health of America than covid-19 can ever be. Democrats are Anti-Americans, which is why they hate the American flag and burn it at their rallies.

  • @bishbosh4815
    @bishbosh4815 3 роки тому +6793

    "Just because you have a common trait, doesn't mean you have a shared experience." 👌

    • @cassandrawright5202
      @cassandrawright5202 3 роки тому +76

      I’ve said this for a long time .

    • @basundharachaudhuri700
      @basundharachaudhuri700 3 роки тому +43

      OMG FACTS

    • @baconoverlord7982
      @baconoverlord7982 3 роки тому +108

      People don't have anything to do with the people they LIVE WITH and share DNA with, much less people across the world that have the same skin color. It's amazing how racists think things like "white privilege" is somehow a real thing. But, of course racists aren't too smart.

    • @Jason-kd8ee
      @Jason-kd8ee 3 роки тому +1

      It’s a shame that wasn’t the point....

    • @mysweetp1ano
      @mysweetp1ano 3 роки тому +166

      @@baconoverlord7982 White privilege is objectively real. It's statistically provable, and college sociology professors could teach you all about it. Also acknowledging privilege isn't racist.

  • @peepmam
    @peepmam 3 роки тому +4497

    "What is the most important part of your identity?"
    - being an american
    *this is the most american thing i've ever heard*

    • @madlad5555
      @madlad5555 3 роки тому +105

      @Brian T he's saying it in a positive connotation

    • @anaa9245
      @anaa9245 3 роки тому +8

      Lmao

    • @7svn.
      @7svn. 3 роки тому +200

      @Brian T can be, american tourist think other countries owe them due to them being american.
      There is no issue with being proud of who you are and your country, but it becomes a problem when you think you are better than everyone else

    • @Tarubro
      @Tarubro 3 роки тому +24

      Makes me jealous as a non American because India aint nothing to be proud of 😭

    • @fuckoffgoogle9747
      @fuckoffgoogle9747 3 роки тому +82

      @@Tarubro why not? Huge problems but come a long way since independence and one of the oldest civilisations in the world. Home to 3 of the worlds most practiced and oldest religions. Chess, yoga, mathematics, one of the most effective space agencies in the world despite how low its budget is. Liberated Bangladesh from genocide and has made huge strides in cutting poverty since independence. Brilliant food and people.
      Again, tonnes of problems, but tonnes to love too

  • @mandyruth6313
    @mandyruth6313 2 роки тому +46

    This is by far the best Middle Ground debate by far. Everyone was articulate, respectful and all raised valid points

  • @marcuswpIV
    @marcuswpIV 3 роки тому +142

    This group of people are insanely intelligent and intellectual. Best video I’ve seen from this series yet.

    • @benireges
      @benireges Рік тому

      Lol intelligent....

    • @spinekingjrgensen5779
      @spinekingjrgensen5779 Рік тому

      @@benireges Hard to fathom for one such as yourself.

    • @benireges
      @benireges Рік тому

      @@spinekingjrgensen5779 boy if this is america's standard for "intelligent" ur screwed big time

    • @timm8998
      @timm8998 Рік тому +1

      I honestly have a hard time seeing any pro identity polics person as being intelligent.

    • @benireges
      @benireges Рік тому +1

      @@timm8998 👏👏👏 identity politics should not exist!

  • @pietergalesloot
    @pietergalesloot 4 роки тому +14263

    This has to be the most well-educated group ever in this series.

    • @WW-iz1oo
      @WW-iz1oo 4 роки тому +728

      Yes, I felt like I gained intelligence hearing them talk

    • @samnielsen7114
      @samnielsen7114 4 роки тому +10

      VoidX what?

    • @jinjunliu2401
      @jinjunliu2401 4 роки тому +293

      my small brain couldn't comprehend the conversation

    • @aus-li
      @aus-li 4 роки тому +3

      Sam Nielsen I’m asking why the individual feels so uninformed?

    • @samnielsen7114
      @samnielsen7114 4 роки тому +133

      VoidX I think he was saying that compared to other topics these people had a better grasp of what they were talking about unlike other videos where people just yell at each other

  • @teamrainbow7674
    @teamrainbow7674 3 роки тому +3305

    “Green privilege is real”
    Alien stuck in Area 51: Allow me to disagree..

    • @GC-yw1mn
      @GC-yw1mn 3 роки тому +99

      There a serious cultural conflict between green aliens and grey aliens. Green privilege is real.

    • @lancomepotatoes5753
      @lancomepotatoes5753 3 роки тому +15

      @@GC-yw1mn you mean green and pink aliens?

    • @barnismyname915
      @barnismyname915 3 роки тому +31

      @@lancomepotatoes5753 no it's green and grey the pink aliens are like 40 billion light years away

    • @openthinker6562
      @openthinker6562 3 роки тому +18

      @@GC-yw1mn Nah, Green and Purple. Have you seen GTA 5? The Green Alien Vs Purple Alien war has waged for some time.

    • @scott8833
      @scott8833 3 роки тому +2

      what if they're purple

  • @Swaymus
    @Swaymus 2 роки тому +66

    Would be interesting to have Americans and Non-Americans discuss this. Very nice though :) I love using your episodes to spark conversation in my classroom. Thanks for that!

  • @adrii6147
    @adrii6147 Рік тому +21

    This honestly felt like a group of friends were just having a discussion. Very well done

  • @alexaf.3158
    @alexaf.3158 4 роки тому +10537

    Jubilee is killing the game. They're challenging the viewer's thinking, but in an entertaining way.

    • @blueshells5275
      @blueshells5275 4 роки тому +33

      so well put :)

    • @Amanda-ms1si
      @Amanda-ms1si 4 роки тому +44

      edutainment

    • @30061999pg
      @30061999pg 4 роки тому +142

      I feel they're stopping the conversations too early, or leaving out the spicy parts. They discussed protecting their participants in one of the vids, while to an extent, an Erin type should be excluded, anything below that goes. These people are willingly joinning this conversation and sharing their views, protecting them from their own discussion is ridiculous. They should still guide the conversations, but right now, they're always only scratching the surface.

    • @MarshyDitch
      @MarshyDitch 4 роки тому +48

      Painmaker even better put. I always leave these videos unsatisfied because I don’t get to hear, what I would consider the reasonable and educated person, go in depth about there thoughts and beliefs and try to explain it to other people. Like you said, scratching the surface.

    • @wisemafalda
      @wisemafalda 4 роки тому +1

      I couldn't agree more. I am not an American nor do I live in America and still I find many of the issues discussed extremely educating in a global perspective!

  • @atsuyak768
    @atsuyak768 4 роки тому +2855

    As a non-american everything about America is so racialized it's crazy.

    • @aus-li
      @aus-li 4 роки тому +236

      It’s due to propaganda and the media; but even before that, there were many radical organizations in the 60s and 70s.

    • @beyonceschild
      @beyonceschild 4 роки тому +393

      Yeah cause unfortunately that's the way the country started out. Laws of racial segregation only ended in the late 60s ... and it still takes a while for it to ware off.
      A good segment of the population was born during and before that time so it's still fresh and ingrained in their heads.

    • @h3llboyyy407
      @h3llboyyy407 4 роки тому +79

      ^ yeah but I'd say that it isn't as crazy as the media makes it out to be lol

    • @P0k3D0nd3M4cG
      @P0k3D0nd3M4cG 4 роки тому +2

      @@beyonceschild dejure, not defacto

    • @TheFuschiaDragonfly
      @TheFuschiaDragonfly 4 роки тому +5

      atsuya k I totally agree with you

  • @TheWizardGamez
    @TheWizardGamez 3 роки тому +282

    Identity politics is bad for everyone. There’s no problem with having an identity and making that a part of being yourself. But when you add that to the divisive nature of politics it leads to bad things.

    • @Rizen-mu6nx
      @Rizen-mu6nx 3 роки тому +5

      I hate identity politics because my experience with it is when women say that I can’t have an opinion on killing human life because I’m male.

    • @adamdriverssoulmate
      @adamdriverssoulmate 3 роки тому +54

      @@Rizen-mu6nx why would you have an opinion on women's reproductive rights when you arent a woman or you dont have a uterus yourself? Does that make sense to you?

    • @crimsonblob
      @crimsonblob 3 роки тому +7

      @@adamdriverssoulmate well, if a woman gets pregnant the guy is also responsible for it, right? So why then when it comes to decide what's the future of that baby that guy suddenly can't be a part of that decision?

    • @adamdriverssoulmate
      @adamdriverssoulmate 3 роки тому +41

      @@crimsonblob is the guy the one risking his life giving birth? it’s so simple to stay out of women’s bodies but you men just can’t let it tf go for some reason

    • @JustinQREYES
      @JustinQREYES 2 роки тому

      I dont like dabbling with these types of things but well just this once I just want to show my take on this type of thing

  • @petersaysthings
    @petersaysthings 2 роки тому +9

    This is without a doubt one of my favorite and most important Middle Ground episodes. So much of what was said is important and illuminating in ways the mainstream media wouldn't dare ever share. Thank you, Jubilee.

  • @joshrelf2790
    @joshrelf2790 4 роки тому +887

    "more pre occupied with being angry than finding a solution" that quote speaks volumes

    • @polatzaa
      @polatzaa 4 роки тому +3

      9:03

    • @noobslayer6915
      @noobslayer6915 4 роки тому +4

      Sadly it's a somewhat true.

    • @noobslayer6915
      @noobslayer6915 4 роки тому

      @Under Doggg If only we could, how wonderful things would be.

    • @noreoz1024
      @noreoz1024 4 роки тому +3

      my favorite was: "for a group that claims to champion tolerance and true diversity, what I have seen overwhelmingly, is a lack of willingness to accept what other people think"

  • @seancoakley9640
    @seancoakley9640 4 роки тому +1376

    I loved how they disagree a lot, but never get mad or make a face and they just talked.

    • @dannygelbart6827
      @dannygelbart6827 4 роки тому +64

      And never interrupted either. Agree, this group was amazing.

    • @dannygelbart6827
      @dannygelbart6827 4 роки тому +13

      @@rao3704 Sadly not something that many people prescribe to these days.

    • @ginihall1234
      @ginihall1234 4 роки тому +9

      Making a face is natural. It’s a response doesn’t mean they aren’t listening. It’s just breaking some barriers for them.

    • @ivandusakdiks3658
      @ivandusakdiks3658 4 роки тому

      @@dannygelbart6827 like A LOT.

    • @korpakukac
      @korpakukac 4 роки тому +4

      Yeah, thats pretty rare nowadays when it comes to this topic

  • @sarahpitman2966
    @sarahpitman2966 Рік тому +16

    I love the fact that despite having different thoughts and opinions, they could all hug at the end. Respect and appreciate each other’s thoughts and opinions, as it should be ❤️

  • @fabianmartinez5294
    @fabianmartinez5294 2 роки тому +15

    You should've bring non americans, cause trust me... long story short, you guys are OBSSSSSESSED with those subjects.

  • @pinkclogs
    @pinkclogs 4 роки тому +2426

    xavier: i want to be a holistic nutritionist
    erin: that’s not vegan
    shelley: that’s fallacy

    • @j.j.7666
      @j.j.7666 4 роки тому +102

      cece i feel like erin and shelley are gonna be in every videos comment now🥦🥬🏖🌎

    • @kaylenejantjes8113
      @kaylenejantjes8113 4 роки тому +9

      I knew this would happen! 😂

    • @yourmum9591
      @yourmum9591 4 роки тому +2

      😂😂😂

    • @kimbo7044
      @kimbo7044 4 роки тому +10

      OH WHOS SHELLY??? Ik about erin tho 😂

    • @clementinejr5884
      @clementinejr5884 4 роки тому +17

      @@kimbo7044 watch flat earth vs globe earth

  • @nightingale4786
    @nightingale4786 4 роки тому +3468

    I just wanna tip my hat to whoever was in charge of casting this episode: you guys did a great job finding intelligent, well-articulated people on both sides of the issue!

    • @madipitkin
      @madipitkin 4 роки тому +83

      Why are people like this^

    • @wsmokr
      @wsmokr 4 роки тому +19

      @@madipitkin Attention seekers,ignore and they disappear.

    • @terrylovesyogurt5983
      @terrylovesyogurt5983 4 роки тому +38

      I think there could have been more than one woman’s opinion represented, but other than that I agree, they had people who I didn’t expect to say what they did.

    • @zain4019
      @zain4019 4 роки тому

      megatron Universe
      Same

    • @99jewelz
      @99jewelz 4 роки тому

      @treeko 10k thanks for sharing that in such an articulate and interesting way - i bet everybody wanted to know about your stance on that specific topic - maybe it helps you to know that youre not alone...

  • @TheJtyork420
    @TheJtyork420 3 роки тому +21

    IDK how America went such the opposite way of how I thought race relations would go. In high school racism was not a big deal and the racist kids were the ones getting beat up. We even had shows like the Boondocks who used racism for comedy. Everyone I knew at least thought it was the stupidest thing in the world to judge people by the amount of melanin in their skin, and people who did should be mocked, ridiculed, and maybe a ass kicking.

  • @janesigabaro7593
    @janesigabaro7593 2 роки тому +9

    I’m very impressed with this video. They hands down have been the most intelligent group I’ve seen. They didn’t become frustrated or angry. They listened and acknowledged differences. They truly understand being human in my opinion They didn’t try to tear each other down but instead built on top of each other. If they made up most of America we would get things done..

  • @Book_Dragon2562
    @Book_Dragon2562 4 роки тому +6991

    This was a great episode. This felt like a genuine “middle ground,” no pandering or bias. No shying away from controversy. Everyone was respectful and thoughtful in their answers. This is the content that made me love you guys.

    • @jadenbroadway173
      @jadenbroadway173 4 роки тому +51

      TheCjma88 I agree. Love seeing all these different people coming together and creating this dialog, creations like this will start breaking down the WALLS of xenophobia

    • @NibbleNips88
      @NibbleNips88 4 роки тому +35

      Me tree. As a kid, it feels nice to see at least some people in this country can have a conversation and not a debate or having to hear ‘grown ups’ scream at each other about politics all the time. I’m just watching them thinking “How am I able to have a civilized conversation with a another human being, but you guys can’t talk to each other without pointing fingers at each other?” This world is wack

    • @RS-pr6ic
      @RS-pr6ic 4 роки тому +38

      Indeed! This was the best episode so far! I believe these kind of civil and rational conversations are exactly what Middle Ground is created for. Both sides were calm, kind, open, well educated on the topic, but also emotional and passionate. This episode gives me a bit of hope for the human race.

    • @NibbleNips88
      @NibbleNips88 4 роки тому

      Laugh it Off Me infinite ♾

    • @darklordsauron3415
      @darklordsauron3415 4 роки тому +2

      Ikr I quickly clicked on this video excited to see some people verbally abusing one another but it was along great

  • @420shrek
    @420shrek 4 роки тому +3966

    Jubilee- “Are Americans obsessed with race and gender”
    Me as a Non-American- YES YES YES YES

    • @mynutshanglow2352
      @mynutshanglow2352 4 роки тому +6

      Michelle Abreu smd

    • @pablo76sf87
      @pablo76sf87 4 роки тому +93

      jojo reference ?

    • @douglaselsworthhenry
      @douglaselsworthhenry 4 роки тому +46

      Me, as an American: No No No

    • @420shrek
      @420shrek 4 роки тому

      Pablo 76SF I’m sorry, who?

    • @arianalover5656
      @arianalover5656 4 роки тому +431

      @Michelle Abreu
      The US as a country was built upon slavery of the minority races, and genocide of the indigenous peoples. That historical trauma is passed over in succeeding generations. As a result, race relations is at the forefront of modern American political discussion.
      So if you're non-American, don't be surprised that race plays such an important part in political discussions that involve the US. It's easier to understand if you examine the historical context that underpins US society. Please educate yourself before you judge.

  • @whasianguy655
    @whasianguy655 2 роки тому +12

    This was a very articulate and thought provoking group. If people were to listen and speak their perspective like this more often, there wouldn’t be such a huge divide among groups of people.

  • @wassupbud1232
    @wassupbud1232 2 роки тому +64

    If everyone just treated each other as human beings with decency and respect the world would be a much better place.

  • @jamesongaertner9416
    @jamesongaertner9416 4 роки тому +1372

    “Seems like you’re more preoccupied with being angry than finding a solution.”
    That so perfectly sums up our culture.

    • @lucasbrunoz
      @lucasbrunoz 4 роки тому +70

      But can you blame people for being angry?

    • @snowrewhite
      @snowrewhite 4 роки тому +62

      Yes but then again what if being angry is a part of the process of getting a solution

    • @GM-ev5gh
      @GM-ev5gh 4 роки тому +80

      No one can blame people for being angry, but focusing on how angry you are instead of thinking of a solution. Everyone can be blinded by rage and cry all they want, but who's gonna take the bull by the horn and help solve the problem?

    • @HouseMDaddict
      @HouseMDaddict 4 роки тому +35

      @@lucasbrunoz no you can't blame people for being angry but just being angry doesn't solve anything and depending on how people use their anger, it can almost destroy their argument. I go to faculty meetings where people just complain and are angry about situations occurring in schools for the entire hour and nothing is resolved. It's great that people vent but you need to vent and then start working toward a solution. Just angry and venting with no ways to make the situations better doesn't help anybody.

    • @gianniclaud
      @gianniclaud 4 роки тому +17

      Yeah, but guess what? That anger is valid.

  • @casteelsimp3539
    @casteelsimp3539 4 роки тому +1936

    The Asian man's hair is another level. He be an anime boy irl

    • @louispride7695
      @louispride7695 4 роки тому +2

      Donkoi Hoseok ramneek or the other guy

    • @Mango_41
      @Mango_41 4 роки тому +6

      @@louispride7695 Dan (other guy)

    • @royyaghi5572
      @royyaghi5572 4 роки тому +53

      Louis come on I’m sure you have the ability to use common sense..

    • @0MGitsRayRay
      @0MGitsRayRay 4 роки тому

      hmm.

    • @grete6533
      @grete6533 4 роки тому +1

      Hmm

  • @lalibelardo1706
    @lalibelardo1706 3 роки тому +12

    I love these discussions so much it’s not heated, very understanding and mature

  • @OrganicFreedom
    @OrganicFreedom 2 роки тому +34

    “Algorithms help us get into our trenches even deeper encouraging identity politics” So true. The Middle Ground series should be everyone’s home feed.

  • @saxyman1365
    @saxyman1365 3 роки тому +5675

    "You're more occupied about being angry, than finding a solution"
    *Truer words have never been said*

    • @Cybernaut551
      @Cybernaut551 3 роки тому +5

      Unite for the UNSC, hoorah!

    • @dereklong7757
      @dereklong7757 3 роки тому +125

      the thing is why is it that us black people have to be bad because we are angry... if yuh go to a restaurant and they spit on your food aren’t yuh going to be angry.... hell yes... we have gave the entire world solutions like lets be equal.... and how about looking at us as human and not animals.... it gets old that people tell us there’s no privilege and all kinds of excuses to move away from the fact that we are treated wrong.... We will continue to peacefully to find a solution ... but why is it that its so hard to just say yuh are just as important as the next.... instead our govern on both sides have created so many legislative road block for black people.... if yuh deny it then yuh are sitting among the privilege of not having to look from our level where we look from the dirt and mud and everyone else from their recliner watching tv....

    • @captainred3781
      @captainred3781 3 роки тому +33

      @derek long if people are spitting in your food you can sue them

    • @dereklong7757
      @dereklong7757 3 роки тому +46

      @@captainred3781 yuh took the wrong thing out of wat i said ....it was an example.... and the fact that it stood out the most over everything else....

    • @john-doemcalias4759
      @john-doemcalias4759 3 роки тому +98

      @@dereklong7757 so you are angry? You feel resentment? So you go out and "be bad" right? Whats next? Cuz so far you've managed to equate a cultural revolution to a dennis the menace comic. If you dont know what the next step is, you probably shouldnt be involved. We get it: BLM activists are mad. Now stop breaking things and PLEASE go do something productive for our communities. And for yourselves.

  • @jacksonhenry7049
    @jacksonhenry7049 4 роки тому +1514

    This was one of the more respectful “Middle Ground” videos.
    Wow that’s a good amount of likes.

  • @wassupbud1232
    @wassupbud1232 2 роки тому +51

    A wise man once said "Identity politics is playing team sports based on traits you cannot change".

    • @RestrictedHades
      @RestrictedHades 2 роки тому +1

      You can change your gender

    • @GuillaumeT96
      @GuillaumeT96 2 роки тому

      @@RestrictedHades only if you're mentally ill, otherwise he's true

  • @eduardoprieto5267
    @eduardoprieto5267 3 роки тому +9

    Beautiful people having a conversation listening to each with a positive attitude. Please more amazing Americans like them needed. God bless them all.

  • @jcucuta7
    @jcucuta7 4 роки тому +1109

    "What is the most important part of your identity?"
    *"Human Being."*

    • @fritzjackson4336
      @fritzjackson4336 4 роки тому +82

      Ironic coming from the one who was for identity politics too

    • @victoriaque601
      @victoriaque601 4 роки тому +46

      Fritz Jackson actually when you think about it, no it isn’t.

    • @chicagoliightsx
      @chicagoliightsx 4 роки тому +4

      @@victoriaque601 lol right

    • @jamesbedichek6106
      @jamesbedichek6106 4 роки тому +1

      Big facts

    • @trorisk
      @trorisk 4 роки тому +7

      Notice that none of them said the identity of beeing an english speaker. Whereas language is the first social construct that allows you to understand the world.

  • @EA-mc6xb
    @EA-mc6xb 4 роки тому +2437

    Are Americans obsessed with race and gender?
    *Yes, most definitely yes*

    • @ivyrainbitch
      @ivyrainbitch 4 роки тому +3

      Elmin Alić have you been to america?

    • @starman275
      @starman275 4 роки тому +77

      @@ivyrainbitch I have been in amercia, and he's right

    • @aceofspades2808
      @aceofspades2808 4 роки тому +78

      @@ivyrainbitch I've live in America and yes, yes we are. Reason why the country is more divided than it should be.
      Edit: Met to say "live in" instead of "been to" sorry

    • @SiobhanS1868
      @SiobhanS1868 4 роки тому +5

      Agreed.

    • @alaaaziz3565
      @alaaaziz3565 4 роки тому +14

      Yes I remember one time someone made my friend cry and people were yelling at the dude for making a girl cry like if she was a guy it would have made it right

  • @carrot_lovly
    @carrot_lovly Рік тому +5

    I would absolutely love to be a part of one of these things. I just love how these people are able to have a great conversation and find a middle ground (no pun intended) and be able to communicate in such a peaceful manner.

  • @zzz2223
    @zzz2223 3 роки тому +22

    1:54 bro wtf no way that dude's 30, straight up looks like a college student

    • @oumardiop1
      @oumardiop1 3 роки тому +1

      bro looks like hes 20 talking about 30 lol

  • @codycao7868
    @codycao7868 4 роки тому +3412

    everyone : "man all these people seem like intelligent human beings"
    me : how does this guy dan do his hair like that?

  • @oyemate8647
    @oyemate8647 4 роки тому +2150

    The title: are americans obsessed with race and gender?
    Every european person ever: YES

    • @trekadouble757
      @trekadouble757 4 роки тому +104

      French people are obsessed with race too.

    • @IyamSoRaya
      @IyamSoRaya 4 роки тому +520

      The irony is that Europeans are the reason race is an issue in America in the first place.

    • @Paul-km7bu
      @Paul-km7bu 4 роки тому +185

      @@IyamSoRaya that's not true. Don't forget the Africans that sold their own people to WESTERN Europeans. Don't put all Europeans and whites in one basket.

    • @toduno927
      @toduno927 4 роки тому +389

      I love how Europeans think they're above race but they're still racist af

    • @ninajuoel5585
      @ninajuoel5585 4 роки тому +153

      @@toduno927 there are racists everywhere. also there is a difference between obsessing over race and being a racist..

  • @brittany.harden
    @brittany.harden Рік тому +2

    I absolutely love that I stumbled across this page. I really enjoy listening to the different videos while I'm driving or cleaning

  • @UsAsiansEatRice
    @UsAsiansEatRice 3 роки тому +8

    "For a group that claims to champion tolerance and true diversity, what I have seen overwhelmingly is a lack of willingness to accept what other people think"

  • @melbookeriii20
    @melbookeriii20 4 роки тому +980

    This is one of the few middle grounds where I’d love to see the entire group come back in another episode

    • @ramneekmathur
      @ramneekmathur 4 роки тому +6

      Yes!!

    • @diegonelli9872
      @diegonelli9872 4 роки тому +3

      the girl Natali i think she was in the video 6 trump supporters vs 1 hater

    • @Laura-Yu
      @Laura-Yu 4 роки тому +2

      Mel Booker III Except for the Asian one, he has cool hair but not really into him

    • @melbookeriii20
      @melbookeriii20 4 роки тому +10

      로라 [Laura] personally i thought he contributed a lot to the conversation. I need to watch again but i liked him

    • @angeliparraguirre7329
      @angeliparraguirre7329 4 роки тому

      Part two... the retcon

  • @dicks.and.clicks.6509
    @dicks.and.clicks.6509 4 роки тому +1755

    “Human being, I think”
    Alien confirmed

    • @N2Deep00
      @N2Deep00 4 роки тому +28

      Don't sell that alien out. He left Mars to live here on Earth

    • @todo870
      @todo870 4 роки тому +3

      Dawei Zhao But we would always have conflicts.

    • @todo870
      @todo870 4 роки тому +3

      Dawei Zhao I guess, but I don’t want to accept a racist or homophobic person or someone who doesn’t believe ALL law abiding citizens deserve true equality in society, there’s a line that needs to be drawn between right and wrong, and if it comes to war then so be it. It’s a sad part of life.

    • @dicks.and.clicks.6509
      @dicks.and.clicks.6509 4 роки тому +1

      ?ガッツ yes I have taste

    • @alvallac2171
      @alvallac2171 4 роки тому +1

      Hello, friends. I am a perfectly normal human worm baby. You have nothing, absolutely nothing, to fear from me. Just pay no attention to me and we'll get along just fine.
      And on an unrelated note: in the event of, say, a full-scale alien invasion, how prepared do you think this planet's defenses would be? _Tell me!_

  • @cpisarek4284
    @cpisarek4284 2 роки тому +1

    Another winning conversation, Jubilee. Way to go. Class acts in this group, every one of them. I also find it so interesting (though, this is one of the points of these conversations) is that...perspective is absolutely everything. We may agree on a common end point but disagree on how we get there or how things are in their current state. We also may be interpreting these issues completely differently, and I don't just mean from experiential perspective. I've noticed in so many of these Middle Ground episodes that people say, "Well, I took the prompt to mean *this*." So we're not just coming from different experiential backgrounds but also just a general interpretation of the issue itself.

  • @rekgotsofetsemosikidi4371
    @rekgotsofetsemosikidi4371 3 роки тому +3

    We need more discussions like this because, I feel like there are certain issues that are not being talked about. Also we need to hear more opinions about such topics to open peoples eyes more

  • @vue945
    @vue945 4 роки тому +2728

    Can we just congratulate all of these people for having such a civil discussion? It was really refreshing.

    • @trailerhero
      @trailerhero 3 роки тому +18

      @Odysseas G yeah it is pretty sad. Admittedly hits its peak with election years.

    • @ramneekmathur
      @ramneekmathur 3 роки тому +5

      Thank you 🙏

    • @neostar63
      @neostar63 3 роки тому +4

      Really good!

    • @korona1102
      @korona1102 3 роки тому +5

      I don't think there a feminist there so that is why.

    • @sunshinemama2325
      @sunshinemama2325 3 роки тому +16

      @@DTB1995 truly from what I've seen, people face to face usually can hold an incredible conversation, but over the phone or internet, it's just different because we are all dehumanized and dehumanize others.

  • @jonnny_
    @jonnny_ 4 роки тому +1712

    This video was so much more refreshing than the,' "Flat Earth vs Round Earth" conversation. My blood pressure was much much lower in comparison... "that's a FaLLacY"

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 4 роки тому +7

      you are too young to be having this.

    • @giovanniherrera6037
      @giovanniherrera6037 4 роки тому +69

      He looks like a grown ass man to me fym

    • @angelcake2278
      @angelcake2278 4 роки тому +12

      Lechiffresix six what age are you supposed to be to talk about the problems in your society??

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 4 роки тому +28

      @@angelcake2278 i was talking about his escalating blood pressure

    • @angelcake2278
      @angelcake2278 4 роки тому +5

      Lechiffresix six oh okay carry on

  • @crypticgirl507
    @crypticgirl507 2 роки тому +5

    This is what truly adult discussion looks like! Kudos to everyone involved! You're all awesome!

  • @sophiar3247
    @sophiar3247 2 роки тому +1

    everyone in this video was so well spoken, even coming back to this middle ground 2 years later I feel refreshed to hear their points. Everyone communicated so well, there was no animosity, and it was such a healthy debate that I think we should praise more often.

  • @ascnd
    @ascnd 4 роки тому +3626

    Everyone: *actual constructive comments*
    Me: YO DAN GOT THAT PHYSICS DEFYING ANIME HAIR WTF IS GOING ON

    • @mohamedbahaa5084
      @mohamedbahaa5084 4 роки тому +93

      why is no one talking abt that ?

    • @Sombre_gd
      @Sombre_gd 4 роки тому +89

      I was waiting the entire if he throw KAMEHAMEHA towards somebody.

    • @NobodySingsAlong
      @NobodySingsAlong 4 роки тому +49

      My hair used to do that. I would condition it in the shower before bed with mane n tail horse conditioner and let it dry while I slept. In the morning it would stick up just like that and return to the same position no matter how much I jerked my head around. It was glorious. Throw some decent hairspray on it, and it'd last all day.

    • @MegaShinobi2011
      @MegaShinobi2011 4 роки тому +17

      Excuse me, the main character of series is never pointed out as being the main character by side characters.

    • @serenityq26
      @serenityq26 4 роки тому +5

      yep. so goku lol thats all i saw

  • @clara-qg5ve
    @clara-qg5ve 4 роки тому +1286

    "identity" is such a broad topic - I feel like this was like 5 different discussions in one

    • @RockslideTreeClan
      @RockslideTreeClan 4 роки тому +48

      yeah i feel like any number of the topics touched on could use a video on their own

    • @isaiahsilverstein4412
      @isaiahsilverstein4412 4 роки тому

      You want to feel that way because as an Asian, you are intensely privileged. It is gross and you should pay reparations to PoC.

    • @allyson4483
      @allyson4483 4 роки тому +6

      Isaiah Silverstein ....

    • @alliedeleon2209
      @alliedeleon2209 4 роки тому +6

      Isaiah Silverstein hUH LOL

    • @s.a.8548
      @s.a.8548 4 роки тому +7

      @@isaiahsilverstein4412 aS A JEW YOU'RE EXTREMELY PRIVILEGED AND SHOULD PAY REPARATION TO EVERYONE lol

  • @nachoursdez5874
    @nachoursdez5874 2 роки тому +5

    I love when everyone feels confident enough to express their views, especially in a way that's respectful and mindful of other opinions. Don't see enough of this on Middle Ground.

  • @JCridford
    @JCridford 2 роки тому +1

    Fantastic concept and excellent conversation with strong points all round. Great to see the panellists embrace at the end of the video. This channel is so important in showing that no one is 100% wrong or right all the time, and that instead it's the way you interact with and act upon views that oppose your own - that's how we build a better, more understanding world.

  • @juanpablorobayo9891
    @juanpablorobayo9891 4 роки тому +1808

    First line of the episode
    Me: "OoOoOoOoOoOo spicy video today"

  • @pixmma9627
    @pixmma9627 3 роки тому +3194

    This has got to be the most nuanced and diverse group of opinions I have seen on a middle ground episode. I quickly lost track of who was supporting which side of the debate because they all constantly surprised me with how they answered the questions. It was honestly quite refreshing to watch.

    • @nathangaspacio6128
      @nathangaspacio6128 3 роки тому +57

      I feel like its ironic considering the topic of identity politics and their opinions ae so diverse between the two groups

    • @jasoncg2956
      @jasoncg2956 3 роки тому +74

      By far one of the most productive videos to come out of this series. Props to Jubilee for actually picking out some reasonable, nuanced individuals this time.

    • @MrEvldreamr
      @MrEvldreamr 2 роки тому +18

      @@nathangaspacio6128 well i believe its more like a pro- or anti- identity broken down into "strongly agree, moderately agree and somewhat agree" which is why there was so much nuance

    • @avivavogelgabriel5482
      @avivavogelgabriel5482 2 роки тому +1

      pixmma ~ I wholeheartedly agree … found sufficient complexity accompanied by smart, articulate expression, elevated this discussion quite a few notches above many of the others.

    • @dylanburns8759
      @dylanburns8759 2 роки тому +3

      seriously a great group of people

  • @180DegreeMason
    @180DegreeMason Рік тому +1

    I just like how everyone hugged and found unity at the end which is the most telling part we should notice. We are more alike than different.

  • @lancelacouture4286
    @lancelacouture4286 2 роки тому +2

    Best group of people I’ve seen on this show by far, all well spoken and actually having an open discussion.

  • @ChialukaGold
    @ChialukaGold 4 роки тому +3551

    “Imagine Obama talking like the current president does....”. I say this everytime!

    • @bird42069
      @bird42069 4 роки тому +309

      @YG0Dz thats not the point

    • @4everelman
      @4everelman 4 роки тому +189

      I would suspect EVEN MORE black americans would vote for him. This just doubles down on the fact that identity politics is such a terrible aspect of our society

    • @legolas76524
      @legolas76524 4 роки тому +95

      idc.idc.idc. Imagine trump acting like Obama though, not putting Americans first but still doing all the things he’s hated for (deporting on a mass scale and what not), he literally has to talk like this in today’s society to avoid unnecessary scrutiny. There’s a reason his base is so big

    • @victoriam438
      @victoriam438 4 роки тому +165

      @@4everelman as a black American I disagree with that. The reason I voted for Obama wasn't because he was black but because of his policies and overall campaign. Trump is terrible,acts terrible and can be very rude and ignorant at times. If a black candidate acted like that I wouldn't vote for them. So dont "believe that they would vote for him even more"

    • @awseko4732
      @awseko4732 4 роки тому +42

      Doesnt trump get much hate for how he speaks? His actions have had social consequences in my opinion

  • @ogechikaesedebe4086
    @ogechikaesedebe4086 4 роки тому +345

    I love how they’re able to articulate themselves .

    • @Tima-oz5te
      @Tima-oz5te 4 роки тому +16

      Fr if the flat earthers in that other episode had been able to communicate their ideas this well just to some degree I probably would've been able to take them more seriously

  • @Jim-Stick
    @Jim-Stick 2 роки тому +9

    This was an excellent discussion. Found myself agreeing but then disagreeing with the same people.
    The differiences between us is what makes us better. The idea that someone disagrees with us shouldn't be a complete shut down. We should create a converstion with them. Listen to what they say and take it into account. It can feel hard when they won't listen to us. Let's listen to them... We often retreat into our own 'echo chambers'. We hear the information we want to hear over and over again. Maybe open that door a bit....

  • @kjul.
    @kjul. Рік тому +4

    As a European, the fact that this episode even exists means YEEEEESSSS. Sorry but it's just true 😅

  • @Don2006
    @Don2006 4 роки тому +463

    The entire cast of this episode was so damn educated, well-spoken, and level-headed that it could get this video demonetized. Would've been nice to see your average UA-cam commenter in the discussion so that he could get ripped to shreds.

    • @user-nv9vn8fm1d
      @user-nv9vn8fm1d 4 роки тому +26

      Might want to rethink that. The desire to see people get ripped to shreds is why these conversations usually devolve.

    • @kennethreichelt
      @kennethreichelt 4 роки тому +20

      I thought it was by far the brightest members that have ever been on.

    • @ramneekmathur
      @ramneekmathur 4 роки тому +4

      I appreciate you Don! 🙌

  • @mrsoshadabaadman
    @mrsoshadabaadman 4 роки тому +1494

    I was so confused. I didn't know who was pro or anti. Maybe cause everyone was so civil.

    • @victoriaandrade9657
      @victoriaandrade9657 4 роки тому +137

      Mr Sosha Da baad Man I think they were so civil because they understand that opinions are nuanced and no one is truly 100% pro or anti anything. If you get that you’re not going to 100% agree with specific ideas within a movement it makes you more tolerant to the other side

    • @onemillionpercent
      @onemillionpercent 4 роки тому +36

      right, they all seemed to agree with parts of eachother's arguments

    • @JacquelynKay
      @JacquelynKay 3 роки тому +3

      💯

    • @Bradley_Lute
      @Bradley_Lute 3 роки тому +10

      When they talk, their affiliation pops up under their name. But that's the important thing, conversation should ideally be civil like this all the time. We shouldn't get mad when others hold an opinion we don't like. We should drill down to find out more nuance, assert that we think about it and our belief and then let them decide what they think. It's as simple as that. People, especially liberals, are becoming increasingly intolerant to others opinions. There is some good reason for this and a lot of bad. Intolerance to opinions seems mostly to be a discomfort with our own ideology. A lack of willingness to engage can be a sign of bad character. Like you don't have your facts straight.

    • @user-eh1gc7xo7q
      @user-eh1gc7xo7q 3 роки тому

      brad Lute if only everyone else thought like you

  • @PeterGriffin11
    @PeterGriffin11 2 роки тому +4

    I love videos where the people involved have varied opinions this was a great video. Personally I do think America focuses too much on race and gender some people think you can't listen or partake in certain types of music unless you look a certain way or else you're "stealing the culture" or "trying to be something you're not", you can't wear certain hair styles or clothing or else your appropriating culture not to mention the double standard like when it comes to certain things like abuse or sexual assault or being shirtless in public. It's gotten to the point where some people think using certain emojis or simply getting a suntan is racist or trying to boycott certain toys because their not gender neutral.

  • @lucariojet
    @lucariojet 3 роки тому +1

    Yknow - Despite how the conversation goes and how you feel about the whole thing... That moment at the end where everyone came together to hug and respect each other gave me chills. (Good chills)

  • @horneybadger86
    @horneybadger86 4 роки тому +206

    This episode just proved to me that there is an actual middle ground

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 4 роки тому +1

      how is Michelle doing these days

  • @yardenb8806
    @yardenb8806 4 роки тому +806

    I lost too many braincells from the last flat earther middle ground. Thank you for this.

    • @khhk6439
      @khhk6439 4 роки тому +5

      ha sameeeee finally got those back after i lost them ALL

    • @SamFeenz
      @SamFeenz 4 роки тому +2

      This comment !! 👌🏽👌🏽

    • @lydialadraa2333
      @lydialadraa2333 4 роки тому +1

      Omg same😂😂🤪

    • @TheBeatSmash
      @TheBeatSmash 4 роки тому

      Because they didn't have strong arguments on the flat side. Jubilee has their biast but I still enjoy the videos. Give me your best globe argument. I'll counter and give my best flat argument

    • @drewm.2790
      @drewm.2790 4 роки тому

      Dank Memes same lmao

  • @rosyletters1687
    @rosyletters1687 3 роки тому +13

    I would have liked to hear more of Natalie's perspective on things.

  • @friedlemon5172
    @friedlemon5172 3 роки тому

    This was a very good video. They were all very understanding and reasonable, not too mention eloquent. Keep up the good work ^^

  • @marciaosullivan3200
    @marciaosullivan3200 4 роки тому +552

    "pro identity politics on the left and anti identity politics on the right" I see what you did.

    • @SAMIE2011ify1
      @SAMIE2011ify1 4 роки тому +44

      They do this with every video. Pro-life on the right, pro-choice on the left. Police on the right , BLM on the left.

    • @gisar.6539
      @gisar.6539 4 роки тому +38

      I'm a left wing guy and my opposition to identity politics is at the core of my being.

    • @AyeshaRabab
      @AyeshaRabab 4 роки тому +12

      @@gisar.6539 Marxist here. Also not a fan of identity politics

    • @JoseRojas-ns1dp
      @JoseRojas-ns1dp 4 роки тому +18

      Left wing ideas are in fundamental contradiction with identity politics. Identity politics are based on individualism and are largely used as a tool to avoid talking about left wing economic ideas. Corporate centrists are not left wingers, even if many americans falsely believe so.

    • @yourfriendlyneighborhoodsm4708
      @yourfriendlyneighborhoodsm4708 4 роки тому +3

      Marcia Osullivan The thing was, not everyone who was anti identity politics was right leaning and not everyone on the pro identity politics side were left leaning

  • @XxPureKhaosxX
    @XxPureKhaosxX 4 роки тому +365

    For a country that's supposed to be one big melting pot, people sure do like grouping themselves, labeling things, and standing out.

    • @hinahinananoha7783
      @hinahinananoha7783 4 роки тому +14

      Pure_Khaos Well there is a term salad bowl as opposed to all melting, so to speak:)

    • @dc3011
      @dc3011 4 роки тому +9

      Pure_Khaos I completely agree! I live in the south and blacks people segregate themselves but cry when they don’t get awarded something or what have you

    • @XxPureKhaosxX
      @XxPureKhaosxX 4 роки тому +15

      D C Not sure what you’re talking about or trying to say but identity politics apply just as much to you as they do the people you like to criticize. Republicans are just as annoying as the “libtards” they hate so much. White people group themselves just as much as black people do. Women group themselves just as much as men do. And each side always has something to say about the opposing side instead of just minding their own business.

    • @XxPureKhaosxX
      @XxPureKhaosxX 4 роки тому +3

      Hinahina Nanoha Yes but all the individual components start fighting over who’s the bigger victim and who is the most entitled when the only thing that should matter is that we are Americans and our differences should help us come together instead of people getting offended by other people’s business. It’s true of everybody in America regardless of race, religion, sexuality, etc. everybody gives way too much of a crap over other people’s lives that don’t affect their own

    • @Asf-bj4rw
      @Asf-bj4rw 4 роки тому +9

      People around the world self segregate from people who don’t look like them. It’s normal human behavior

  • @buffbeenstuffed
    @buffbeenstuffed 2 роки тому +1

    This was an excellent video and everyone involved shared some insightful and thought provoking points in an intelligent and civilised manner. Well done to everybody

  • @characters.inc_1233
    @characters.inc_1233 Рік тому +2

    I want so many more like this. So educational and entertaining

  • @AB-sr4xd
    @AB-sr4xd 4 роки тому +461

    "Do All Stay-at-home Parents Think The Same?" Please include women and men if you do this.

  • @elijahgavin6706
    @elijahgavin6706 4 роки тому +1981

    “Do all Schizophrenic individuals think alike?” Would be an enriching episode.

    • @bookfan22
      @bookfan22 4 роки тому +78

      Or "do all those with a mental health diagnosis think the same?"

    • @elijahgavin6706
      @elijahgavin6706 4 роки тому +111

      Nina Cass except that would be a little less interesting, because mental health diagnoses range from mild anxiety to severe multiple concurrent diagnoses of things like DID or bipolar disorder. I think it’s more interesting to here from people with one particular condition. Although some of them would inevitably have additional diagnoses, because schizophrenia tends to coexist with depression, anxiety, and many times personality disorders.

    • @bookfan22
      @bookfan22 4 роки тому +21

      @@elijahgavin6706 I actually didn't think if it that way. I guess they could do two segments - One on schizophrenia and another on mental health/diagnoses. Thank you for your insight. You have a great night.

    • @elijahgavin6706
      @elijahgavin6706 4 роки тому +11

      Nina Cass absolutely! Thanks for commenting.

    • @loganlin6109
      @loganlin6109 4 роки тому +2

      LOL Sign me up i'd be in that video

  • @tesshagensieker1700
    @tesshagensieker1700 3 роки тому +8

    This discussion is one of my favorites, everyone was more on the central side rather than pro and anti. I love that because that's where most Americans are at

  • @milesfann33
    @milesfann33 2 роки тому +3

    Who else is binging on middle ground episodes? I love these conversations, I wish there were live versions of this type of thing that allowed everyone in the world to participate and give their thoughts. Imagine what someone from outside the US thinks about today's world.

  • @clara-qg5ve
    @clara-qg5ve 4 роки тому +697

    Dan's hair is straight up out of an anime

    • @zxra6xx821
      @zxra6xx821 4 роки тому +9

      창연 Clara Park he’s gorgeous

    • @currently7886
      @currently7886 4 роки тому

      That's racist

    • @shawnhall3849
      @shawnhall3849 4 роки тому +2

      창연 Clara Park
      Looks like he was in a wind tunnel

    • @eliask5217
      @eliask5217 4 роки тому +4

      Currently no

    • @currently7886
      @currently7886 4 роки тому

      @@eliask5217
      Anime=Asian
      So it is either cultural appropriation or racism. Because you can't wear something like that, and since he is Asian, it cannot be cultural appropriation, so it must be racist.

  • @jacobadams8757
    @jacobadams8757 4 роки тому +506

    _"What's the most important part of your identity?"_
    2 words: *club penguin*

  • @chirimoyatriste6395
    @chirimoyatriste6395 3 роки тому +1

    I wish everyone had the opportunity to have this kind of conversations, because at the end, is the exposure to other points of view and civil discussion which creates a better society for everyone. For example, I'm an openly bisexual woman and in highschool I became friends with an evangelical girl that moved to the city from a rural area. She told me that she was very much against homosexuality but then changed her mind since she befriended me and saw that I was a person just like her. Meeting people with different experiences and ideology (even if it's opposite to yours) and having a conversation is what helps us understand the world better and actually generate change in society, instead of demonizing people on the opposite side of your ideology spectrum and refusing to see their point of view or how they got to think that way.

  • @derrickowen8162
    @derrickowen8162 3 роки тому +23

    Damani--"For a group that claims to champion tolerance and true diversity: what I have seen, overwhelmingly, is a lack of willingness to accept what other people think."
    An exact truth.
    from Merriam-Webster's dictionary
    liberal noun
    a: one who is open-minded or not strict in the observance of orthodox, traditional, or established forms or ways
    The key word here is "open-minded". Unfortunately most, not all, modern liberals are actually close-minded to any ideas which are not their own. Actually, most modern conservatives have become more open-minded; as long as they can live the way they want to, they don't care how another chooses to live. And then there are those of us who are Libertarian, who like ideas from both sides: we believe that as long as no one is victimized, people can do whatever they want. You are free as long as you don't infringe on somebody else's freedoms.

    • @mrteiijr
      @mrteiijr 3 роки тому +3

      You are absolutely right here

  • @dyslexicdarling898
    @dyslexicdarling898 4 роки тому +1713

    *Chill parents vs strict parents*
    I really want to know where this discussion would go ^_^

  • @Ryanator
    @Ryanator 4 роки тому +873

    This is how discussions are suppose to go. These people are really mature and intelligent

    • @toresagen7346
      @toresagen7346 4 роки тому

      I'm trying to help you critically think here. Just ask yourself why didn't they include a straight white male when talking about identity politics? It's almost as if all non whites want to abolish only one identity, white identity. They hate us. There is a war on white men.

    • @Drizzylaflair
      @Drizzylaflair 4 роки тому

      Tore Sagen you are right about that, but ever time I bring that up as a problem to people they look at me sideways because I’m supposed to hate white people. I feel like it’s a war on everything because it’s just a big disconnect grime white, black, rich, poor, men and women

    • @DJ-hi6oc
      @DJ-hi6oc 4 роки тому +6

      @@toresagen7346 Not sure if that's the reason - the video overall was pretty geared towards anti identity politics, so the editing and supposed 'hate for white men' don't align in my eyes.
      Plus I felt the conservative Damani was perfectly placed there. Every line he spoke was to to the point, and he really got the point across. As someone who doesn't believe in identity politics, I don't give a damn that he isn't white.
      Objectively speaking though, it's much easier to convince people who ARE into identity politics using people who are 'immune' to such built-in hate (aka black people, LGBT etc).

    • @ke2075
      @ke2075 4 роки тому +2

      @@toresagen7346 Jesse was a straight white guy?

    • @Groganee
      @Groganee 4 роки тому +3

      @@toresagen7346 Hum did you even watch the video, Jesse is a white man, he even says so himself...

  • @katik2558
    @katik2558 2 роки тому +2

    What a beautiful conversation. They're all so intelligent, respectful and open minded

  • @marcuscurry8600
    @marcuscurry8600 2 роки тому +2

    This is the real “View” . Keep it coming Jubilee. Been binge watching all day. 👍🏾

  • @andrewquesada4883
    @andrewquesada4883 4 роки тому +707

    This was ACTUALLY a good conversation. Everyone seemed fairly open and willing to discuss the topic and hear the other side.

    • @zero2105
      @zero2105 4 роки тому

      Mono_o I’m asking myself why you had to give him attention, lmao

  • @teenwolf989
    @teenwolf989 4 роки тому +1550

    Everyone: "normal haircut"
    Our boi Dan: how about I go as a shounen character?

    • @StruggleToThrive
      @StruggleToThrive 4 роки тому +61

      my man only blow dried 1 side of his head

    • @jcosta356
      @jcosta356 4 роки тому +13

      Under Doggg and you’ll never set a trend with hair that looks like you’ve just been through a tornado.

    • @jcosta356
      @jcosta356 4 роки тому +1

      Under Doggg No I completely agree with you but his hair is just bad. 5 years ago no one would have predicted whats in fashion now but my point was that i doubt that trend will catch 🤣

    • @Cheese-Crust
      @Cheese-Crust 4 роки тому +2

      He’s an uchia

    • @Cheese-Crust
      @Cheese-Crust 4 роки тому +1

      Under Doggg do you mean japan in anime

  • @anthonymbui7860
    @anthonymbui7860 2 роки тому

    To the creators or sound tech crew, could you please make the questions/prompts more audible? I struggle to hear them each time I watch your stuff. Great content! Very informative !!