Eleanor, and Janet. The two heroes of this story indeed. Women with those types of morals and standards are definitely getting harder to find nowadays. Good for them. OP and her colors got exactly what they deserve.
Nah, I just think it was self-preservation....thinking that if they didn't tell their husbands what went down, their husbands might find out and accuse them of taking part in the cheating. Not only that, but they likely didn't like the other girls and saw this as an opportunity to burn them! Women are NOT moral, they are amoral! They are opportunists, not heroes!
As a man, this strkes true. Females, all females out there, telling your man you betrayed him over something that meant nothing is the ultimate insult. Never say this. To a man this says " I threw away everything we had for nothing."
@@robertnoble7554 I understand your sinisim. But, have you ever seen a porno? If those girls really wanted to. They could have enjoyed those guys as well. I like to believe they had better morals than the other girls.
My current GF and I had a slow built relationship. Due to past relationships we wanted to move things slow but we also had a commitment we knew was there and neither even had to ask for it.
As a woman, Eleanor and Janet are the friends you need. No nonsense, will try to stop you from doing something stupid and will call you out and make you feel consequences when you mess up. These are the types of friends that help you be a better person, the type to build you up rather so you don’t end up a degenerate. The unsung heroes here.
@robertnoble7554 Maybe they should have, but who wants to be the babysitter for a full blown adult? If you don’t let people feel consequences by doing it for them, they’ll never learn or grow.
Eleanor & Janet wanted no part in that degeneracy... leaving to go home in order to protect their marriages made sure to expose the 403s that were trying to destroy them.
This woman is used to passing herself around to other guys. This situation explains why she struggled with her ex boyfriend, Troy taking things slowly. She was still screwing guys while she was in the beginning stage of dating her ex. She simply reverted back to her original self.
When I was single, I only dated one woman at a time. I would not tolerate any woman that was or wanted to date other men while dating me whether we had the exclusive talk or not. If after a fourth date and we were going to continue to date, I would expect them not to be going out with other guys as I would not be making dates with other women. We were in that stage of getting to know someone better and in order to do that you need to be able to concentrate on each other. I never actually had that issue but if I had, she would have been considered non-dating material by me. It's ok if she wants to do that, she just won't be doing it while going out with me. The same thing after we do have "the talk" and commit ourselves to being girlfriend/boyfriend. Also at that point, I tell them since we are now a "couple", we do things (going out to bars, clubs, parties) as a couple. I won't be doing "Boys Nights" or "Boy vacations" and I expect her not to do the same. If she can't abide by that, fine, no problem, we just are at different points in our lives and at this time are not compatible.
That part was hilarious and told me everything I need to know about where this story would end up. She was definitely shagging other guys while she was getting to know her BF.
When you come to the realization that your friends have morals and values much, much less than your own, then it is time to distance yourself from these 'friends'. I've been there and I regret not coming to this wisdom much earlier in life.
Hearing how Eleanor and Janet reacted to the guys coming into the cabin, makes me believe that there are good women out there. They were heroes in this story and they are obviously high-valued, with high morals. kudos to them. As far as the cheaters, face the consequences, the guys aren't taking any of them back. Great story.
Completely agree. But it shouldn't take a high value woman to figure out what those guys were there for. I wouldn't be surprised in the slightest if this wasn't their first time cheating on their men.
>OP's boyfriend is a gigachad. He took things slow and didn't simp during the relationship, and after the cheating, he casually broke up with her over the phone >Megan's husband catches them in the act and is rightfully enraged instead of a sobbing mess. Ends up locking her out of the house and demanding a divorce. >OP's other female friends are gigastacies who immediately told the husbands and boyfriends after they saw the others cheat >Kelly's boyfriend breaks up with her over the phone instead of giving her a chance to twist things around in person Not even 15min in and this story is already in my top 10. This is gold 😁
@@MrSecretweapon174 He had all the explanation he needed from her actions: cheating was more important to her than being in a relationship with him There is zero reason to "confront" your partner when they cheat, besides giving them a chance to manipulate you into forgiving them
i think its made up, no way woman would ever snitch on another woman, and also, how can 2 good girls be in company of bad girls. birds of a feather ALWAYS flock together
@@PreeSpunky For some people (my friends and I, for example), there is no forgiveness. Once they cheat, it's the easiest route to 'indifferent'. I don't love them but I certainly don't hate them either. If I hear she got hit by a train, I become the Loki meme ("Yes very sad.....ANYWAY").
If I was married to either Eleanor or Janet I'd be thrilled with the way they handled this. They were protecting their own integrity and relationships.
@@richardcharles4126wahmen love sabotaging each other so it wouldn’t surprise me that set them up or they want to break them up to move in on their men.
Dont be so naive..There just wasnt enough strange D to go around, old Janet and Elenore got kicked to the curb and went home salty. Their hubs should divorce them too for even going on a slu t s only trip
@@franklinfx Did you not understand that there were enough guys for ALL the women but Eleanor and Janet said "no", then left as soon as possible? Don't you be so stupid.
@franstoryklinfx story doeent read like that at all. The 304 telling it wouoda been sure to mention they were salty at being left out. They didnt want the men allowed in at all remember.
My fiancée was in her Junior year at college (I was in the Marines) when she informed me that she was pregnant. We had been intimate about 4 months before then, so I got ready to suck it up and inform my parents of our indiscretion and prepare to get married. I asked her for her obstetrician's name and phone number, as I wanted to be in the loop. She never sent it, but eventually told me the baby wasn't mine. That crushed my soul. I eventually found out she had been going out drinking with a bunch of her girlfriends and "some boys" from school. She got "tipsy" and ended up doing the deed with some creep. I was stunned, but that was the end of "us", needless to say. She eventually married the guy (a campus cop, no less), then divorced him a few years later, and lived as a single mom from then, on.
The 2 friends that left the cabin and went home and told their husbands what was going on. Did so to protect their own relationships. If their husbands had found out later, they would have assumed that their wives had also cheated. Op put these women in a position where they had to choose between their own marriages and covering for a friend. In my opinion, these women chose correctly, After all, any friend that would put you in that position is not a friend.
Absolutely right. Guilt by association. Friends don't put friends in that kind of situation. At the same time, 2 married women could have predicted girls weekend at the cabin had danger written all over it. Still it wasn't their fault and they did what they should have done.
Very good point indeed. But it means the probability drops that they did it out of the goodness of their hearts for the cheated upon, they might not have done the same if they were single or if they would have for example slept elsewhere and learned about the affairs the next day.
This woman is a total garden tool. She admitted it when she said I stopped seeing all the other guys I was dating after she started dating this guy. I am sure she has been ran though may times in the past. I just love the alcohol excuse. This woman will never be able to stay faithful to one person ever. She might as well stay dating CHAD's and continue to be the community bicycle. This woman is going to die alone.
Hahaha this Troy guy was a boss… the way he laughed at her and treated her like she was disposable was exactly what she deserved… she obviously thinks that she’s disposable, so why shouldn’t he as well?
I would have laughed the same way he did. And no, he won't be crawling back because the way she fell in love with him and cut out everyone else indicates that he's high value and probably has women lined up. He behaved as if he borderline expected this behavior from her. Also I doubt she's gonna find anyone soon. She's gonna cry for a while and then revert to the town bicycle. And any man she meets she will compare to that guy, making every new one a 2nd pick.
Whilst Troy was laughing he was inwardly disgusted and very disappointed with himself for spending 4 months with a cheap slut who betrayed him with a random dude she called an ugly beast. He was very careful about getting close to her in the first place so he was feeling horrible about the situation.
My wife was going on a "girls trip" to Florida with three of her married friends. From hearing these types of stories, I was hesitant to give my blessing. But, I did when I found out the husband of the woman who's condo they would be staying at also stated he would be going down to look at buying a boat. The wives were PISSED!!! LOL!
This sounds like the women are upset that they cannot sample strange sausages and cover for one another because the husband going will tell the soon to be betrayed husbands (Including you). This is a MAJOR RED FLAG on your wife. She is on the path to cheat or has already cheated. Hire a Private Investigator ASAP!
Yes sir hire a private investigator best money you will spend also look for a burner phone ,in fact let her go on another trip and hire a private investigator and get a lawyer
Troy is not insecure. He is a high value individual who knows what he wants and has standards and boundaries. He's a truly masculine man looking for wife material ,not a whore who'll cheat on him. She needs to accept accountability and move on.
These girls probably even today have any number of guys that would be happy to "wife them up", but it's the person living inside of them they don't want. I would imagine that in there past they had many opportunities to settle down with a "nice guy", but either screwed him over, laughed at him, used him, or kept him around until the "bad boy" they really wanted came along and then dropped the nice guy faster than a prom dress on prom night. I would dare to say that even in there current state, if a nice guy came along to "rescue" any of them, even the ugly ones, they wouldn't recognize it and still find a way to "F" it up. If she has three kids, you'll be sixth in line of what is important to her. First, she cares about herself. Then her three children. Next the family dog. And then MAYBE you. So you are behind the family dog and unless you are the lead dog, your view never changes. All you are to any of these girls is an A.T.M. and a babysitter so she can leave her kids with you while she goes out on "girls night out weekends" with all her single girlfriends. Comes home after midnight drunk with her clothes all twisted around, makeup all smeared up, smelling of other men, and her hair has this "just laid look" to it. Shouts at you to "F" off as she stumbles past you on her way to the bedroom to pass out for the day. Complain to her and she'll just accuse you of being insecure and controlling. They’re pretty much useless to any man of value. There is nothing they could bring to the table that any man of high value would want What man is looking for an aggressive woman with a masculine demeanor? They might be able to land an unemployed ex-con strung out on drugs with tatts up and down his arms and a cigarette hanging out of his mouth and has children with five different women chasing him down for delinquent child support money. I am guessing these women probably are. In debt. No savings. Unable to manage money. Can't be trusted with a credit card. Can't be trusted not to cheat behind their man's back. Would not appreciate a good man. Would lie and be deceitful to any man in their life. No marketable skills other than common laborer. No desire to be wives of value or to learn how. Not able to help their children with basic schoolwork or homework. No cooking skills or any desire to learn any. Expects the man to do and pay for everything in their lives, and then complain he's not doing enough for them and uses that as their excuse to cheat on him. They’re takers, not givers. They are a drain and an added expense, not a valuable asset. Women like this bring headaches, problems, and no value into a man’s life. They bring drama into a man’s life, not peace and quiet. They bring confusion, not order. They want a traditional man, but they don’t want to be a traditional woman. No smart man of value would want anything to do with any of these women or anyone like them. Sadly, their story is not unique. No thanks, I’ll take a pass.
Why am I not surprised the women put Troy in the insecurity box, and called him controlling for setting her free to go do whatever, or whoever she wants to do.
Just for the record, I’m FAR from conservative, and I would’ve done the same thing Eleanor and Janet did. Cheating is wrong, no matter what side of the political spectrum you’re on.
If you would do what E and J did them maybe you aren't as far away as you think.... That or you just like the drama of stirring the pot and watching the carnage. Ether way Glad you'd do the right thing even if it possibly would be for the wrong reason.
@@DeathclawJedi- I’m not on the lunatic left. I’m about half way between middle and FAAAAAAR left. I believe in climate change. I believe a woman should have the right to her own body. I believe gay people should be able to marry and adopt. I believe that systemic racism and white privilege DOES exist, and I believe in sensible gun control . . . . but I also believe in the death penalty, that men don’t belong in women’s restrooms or sports, that sexuality should not be taught to children, and that cheating in ANY capacity, is wrong. 🤷🏽♀️ As for the drama? Well, I WILL say, I love me a good “You got what you deserved” story, and all the pointing and laughing that comes with it. 😂👍🏽
It's not a question of being conservative, it's a question of whether you have personal integrity/honor. You can be Liberal and also be honorable [not the Communism that passes for "Liberal" that the mainstream pushes today; Liberal like JFK back in the day is a good example.] Salut.
Update. After thinking about it really hard, I’ve decided to keep drinking. It is the best excuse I have for my bad behavior & should not be held accountable for anything shady. Why can’t Troy understand it’s the alcohol’s fault.
And the cabin. It was the cabin's fault as well. She mentioned it a couple of times. It must be haunted by the ghosts of past cheating hookup weekends.
Of course it's Kelly's fault. Of course it's alcohol's fault. Of course Troy's insecure and controlling. Of course it was one night thing. Of course you'll never do it again. Accountability? Where? I swear there must be someone selling scripts for cheaters because they always say the same BS.
Yes and for some reason they always have to throw a fit like a 2 year old, and cry and cry and cry, as if they are the victim! Then they try to turn the tables and expect everyone to be there for them, to be a shoulder for them to cry on when they are the ones that created the situation they are in in the first place! It is infuriating!
this is what happens when they do these girls weekends. they get away from their bf/husbands and think "I can sleep with this person and my SO will never find out". Eleanor and Janet are the smart ones in this situation. they saw where this was going and left before anything happened to avoid losing their partners. remember this guys: hot girl summer leads to pregnant girl winter which leads to single mom spring
Gentlemen (OPs'), each of you have executed the dismissal of each ex with "flawless" precision. I salute each of you fine Gentlemen... Best wishes to each of you gentlemen moving forward into the future!
Female response number 2 is amazing. That Troy is not ok with his (supposedly) mutually exclusive GF getting drunk and hooking up with randos is “controlling and insecure”. Hoo boy I hope Female Response Number 2’s guy is paying attention because it’s easy to see what she’s all about.
@@williamclayton9566 The only issue I have with him, he got into it with her at the beginning and that's who she is. She didn't change. His fault for going with it for so long. But, hey, within a few months, he knocked his new GF up and they have a kid.
Like Myron says, women give women terrible advice. Both women response 1 & 2 were terrible. I watch Myron quite a bit. He has women on to show men what they are like. He tells them that you can have your girls night/weekend, but that will result in you will be single. And they always push back. I am there for my girlfriend not for the men, or that's controlling, small dick energy, etc. But they think they can ignore men. They forget that alcohol lowers inhibitions. Guy sees them walk in with no males, they are going to shoot their shot, and a women that had been drinking may have lowered their inhibitions to accept. And guys don't want that to happen.
Those 2 women who let the husband know that his wife was a lying, cheating, 304...I hope they find actual good friends and not 304's like those they left.
I was about 20 when I first heard the phrase " your not in love your in lust" and it was from my mother..... and never a truer statement was ever told to me.
To Female Response 2.....The woman let the deal go down. how is it Troy is insecure? She broke the trust and when that is gone, there is no more relationship. Though, Feel free to date and marry a guy that has cheated on you a few times because obviously, You are not insecure.....Invest in a cat.
Eleanor and Janet knew it was wrong and couldn’t live with themselves knowing they would have to hide it and see good men be disrespected, that’s what happened here
@@nightmareTomekOnce again, more like they were loyal to their husbands and didn't want to hang around women that had different morals and values than they had, or should I say women that had no morals and values, when they did, so they left and did the honorable thing. They could have went home and lied and the other women's cheating would have never come out, so no, they weren't worried about being accused of cheating. They actually had dignity, class, and loyalty to their husbands, weren't liars and made sure that good men weren't screwed over. There are both good men, good women and bad men and bad women in the world, and the women that left were good women that did the right thing
@@Mischa21xo Yee, and once again I didn't read through your comment. I think that a certain gender is actually quite bad at judging characters, to the contrary of their claims. So that's why you can't understand the possibility I listed, but it is indeed a quite real possibility.
I am quite clear when I start dating someone. A "girls trip", girls night out" or any other variant, is an instant "goodbye" from me. That's 'single girl behavior' and if she wants to behave that way, that's fine, because she'll be instantly single.
It's really just a small step away from a woman asking for an open relationship... instead of it being a direct intent to hookup, a girl's night/trip is intent to have an option to have a hookup. In both cases, once they ask they are revealing that they disrespect and lack deep desire for you. It's not so clear to many men because that "option" may not be exercised if a suitable man is not available, so they can fool themselves into believing they have a woman who is totally trustable.... right up to when she is not. Once she asks, you should accept that you have basically lost her, even though she may come home and seem normal. Women know when they are doing something shady and they know these trips are for feeling single for a few hours or days.
Have fun being called an insecure manbaby ista'phobe'gynist by all the women who think it's ok to act like they are single when in a relationship, because the Matriarchy told them so.
@@bkeepr4246 The only kind of 'girls night out' I ever go on is with my three daughters. They're always during the day, and we either go thrifting or do our annual bakery crawl. And to be perfectly honest, I would have even more fun doing it if my husband was with us.
Same here. I would not date a guy who wants to go out to a bar with the guys either. Bars & clubs are for single people looking to hook up & lust after others. Bars/Clubs are absolutely not an environment for people in commited relationships. If the guy wants to go out drinking at bars with his guy friends, he can do so, and good luck to him finding a new partner while he is there, because he certainly wouldn't have me anymore.
I may be old school, but I cannot recall a time where a group of FAITHFUL women ever went on a girls trip. The desire to do one is a HUGE red flag. If you look for temptation it will find you.
My wife went to Vegas last year with about 5 other married women (I known them all; actually, one is divorced). They are all around 50+ yrs old. I totally trust my wife. She’s never given me any reason to be even the bit suspicious that she would misbehave. You gotta choose the right woman, guys. Now, if I did learn about something, there’d be hell to pay; I would not stick around. Trust, once broken, is very, very difficult to repair.
@@learningisfun2108 Your wife went with five other women to Sin City Las Vegas. My question is why would she want to instead of just going with you.... her husband?
@@Nick_Nightingale Hey Nick. It was a 50th birthday celebration for a few of them (delayed due to COVID) and that friendship group goes way back. I know them all. One introduced me to my wife (best matchmaker ever LOL). My wife and I I have been to Vegas at least three times together. She had my blessing to go with “the girls”. Like I said, I trust my wife; she’s given me no reason not to. And I wouldn’t want to control her. That’s a fool’s errand. I’d rather separate than feel like I need to control her (or anyone).
Elanor and janet did the right thing! “Kim” would NOT have told Troy and probably would’ve went home and got intimate with troy while still having a stranger’s dna on her. Brutal!
Kim says Troy is the "Love of her life" and then proceeds to cheat on him. Wow, just wow. God save us from women who consider us men the "love of their life".
She was only interested in the security Troy offered. Instinctively she was leaning towards thinking he was a beta and probably had been wild before given her strange passing comment of ‘stopping dating other guys’ when she met him. However, when it hit the fan she learnt he was actually a Sigma.
"It was my own fault. No excuses. I was selfish and didn't behave intelligently at all. I'll try to do better in the future." - No woman, EVER, in the history of humanity
I like how confident and chill Troy handled it, he even told her things would get better. 😂. He like “you do you, wish you the best.” Even laughed on the phone all chill, this is a guy that has options. A low value dude would have lost it, got mad, cried and all that mess, Troy laughed it off. 😂
Why do cheaters always blame their cheating on alcohol or anything other then themselves? IMO its just trying to blame shift their actions to avoid the consequences. OP and her other cheating GFs need to just own up and move on. Eleanor and Janet are true gems!
She is blaming alcohol and says she will never repeat that mistake again. Basically it means that she can only keep her promise only until next time when she gets drunk again.
"Finally after 7 days we were intimate." Wow....I'm speechless... My husband and I waited until we were married 🙄 and that took years because we were in a long distance relationship.
@@jamesdotson1080 we weren't in an open relationship. We both waited until we got married to do the deed, we were each other's first. It helps if your partner is religious and actually takes religion seriously. We've been going now on 11 years of marriage and known each other for even longer.
what an incredible story. I just can't get that these women can so easily betray their partners... Like they have absolute no commitment to their loved ones, just disgusting
i love when they call cheated spouse insecure. like any of above events prove they are right to be and a reason for insecurities but oh well... accountability something something
Interesting how the cheaters were so upset at the 2 loyal women who dropped a dime on the elicit activities that the 3 cheaters engaged in. Also they are trying to blame Kelly for what happened. However did she tell them to give themselves to rando's they just met? No. But of course it was tha alcohol. Lame AF. Glad they got busted.
If he had taken her back she’d have no respect for him, in fact she showed that she had no respect by doing that in the first place. She didn’t even have respect for herself.
"Your boyfriend leaving you after you cheated on him makes him sound controlling." How many abortions and SSRI prescriptions do you need to get to start thinking like this?
Eleanor and Janet may have had reasons other that "morals" in leaving and telling their men. Their men MIGHT have told their girls that they were against "girls trips" and warned them if ANYTHING became suspicious they were to leave immediately. By leaving and telling their men both Eleanor and Janet could have been desperately wanting to make certain that their men were satisfied with their actions. Men NEED to tell their women exactly this sort of thing... "I am not happy about you going on this trip BUT should anything go wrong you better be the first one out the door and I am the first phone call you should be making"
You answered your own problem. You told Troy “it was a mistake”. Sorry but cheating is never a mistake. It’s a calculated decision to have sex with someone else. Purely selfish and you probably had 5 or 6 chances to call it off but you didn’t
Something similar happened way back in 1983 when I was a recent high school graduate working at a local supermarket. One of the college girls working part time was getting married to a very handsome guy. The night before their wedding she went out with a bunch of girlfriends and young family women. She got drunk and some guy picked her up and they left the club they were at. In a heart beat she spread her legs. One or more of the women in her party called her fiancé and told him what was going down. It was a local place so he came driving in. He found her on her back legs spread taking the dude deep. The wedding was over in a New York minute. She humiliated herself and her family. Everyone knew at work what she did and she quit because of embarrassment. If a woman can spread her legs for a man she just met it just goes to show you women have zero loyalty.
Eleanor and Janet are old school. By spreading the news amongst the community, they're not only distancing themselves from the 304s but are also using shame to keep other potentially wayward women in line. It's entirely possible that they saved quite a few relationships without even knowing it.
Four points I want to bring up: 1. Eleanor and Janet are the real heroines of the story. They are leaders while the rest of them are followers. Good on them to tell the husbands and SO's of these cheaters. 2. NO simpus maximus detected in Troy. He is a high value man. He played it cool until he dropped the hammer on her. Then he casually broke up with her and relegated/demoted her to acquaintance. 3. Richard is no simp, either. He told Megan to expect a divorce as he kicked her out. He is a high value man as well. 4. Kim is not relationship material, and neither are Kelly or Megan. She (Kim) needs to find new friends after she figures out who she is through intensive therapy and counseling. She has no business being in a committed relationship at this time. Maybe, down the road, she *might* make a good partner for someone. But that's going to be years down the road.
Might be gf material years down the road but I'm doubting it because she(they) cheated so easily and so fast. Within hours of meeting these guys. There will always be other guys. And Kim even said he was a beast. So a little bit of alcohol, because it was 2 bottles of champagne split between 6 people so she can't say she was drunk just tipsy. So give her a little alcohol and her panties hit the floor as she's hitting the bed with the first available guy. She said something about alcohol makes her someone she regrets so I'm thinking she has cheated many times in the past her and her friends considering how fast and easy they cheated. This time they had 2 ladies that had morels and exposed the cheating harlots for who they were. I was thinking the ladies might have become bitter because there was no men for them but listening to the story the ladies were constantly trying to convince the ladies to do the right thing.
@@carrollcorder5169I agree. It's not her first rodeo. It's the first time she has had to face the consequences of her actions. If she truly wants to better herself, she must quit drinking altogether. Otherwise, she'll continue to ride the carousel into middle and old age.
Even by cheater standards this was absurd and low. They’d just met these guys and let them in the cabin. Putting aside the immorality, that was wildly dangerous. They had no idea what kind of guys they were, and everyone was drunk. But to then pair off and nail random strangers was the icing on that crappy cake. I’m actually astounded, and I’ve heard tons of these stories.
Wo how disgusting no standards no morels no respect definitely no understanding of love or loyalty. All us ladies? And no understanding of the word ladies drink only brings out who you are and what you really want to do 😂😂😂 the old mistake. NO it was a choice done exactly what you want to do.
18:46 Female response #3: When you make a mistake, you learn the lesson and move on. When you break trust, it's not just a question of learning the lesson and moving on. The cheater has _demonstrated_ to the betrayed that they are willing and able to break their trust. Trust, once broken, never fully recovers - and don't give me any nonsense about "stronger than ever" after breaking trust; that's what fools tell themselves when they're too weak to walk away from such a situation. The difference in consequences between making a mistake vs. breaking trust is about as wide as a case of mistaken identity and knocking out a guy with a punch, or taking some other woman's purse because it looked like yours, vs. dropping a nuke on the wrong city. In both former examples, there is full recovery possible. In the latter, that city and the people that was in it isn't coming back.
I said to my GF very early on that I am not her jailer, I'm not her keeper. If she insists on doing something, I can't, by law, stop her. She is free to act the way her heart wants. But she is not free from consequences of those actions. She F's up and I'm gone, no questions asked. If I F up, she is free to leave me. After 5 years, no F ups from either of us.
Gentlemen.... The husband handled this perfect. Do not take that from your wife. Set those realistic boundaries and enforce them. Do not accept excuses. Eleanor and Janet did the right thing. God bless the ladies with common sense, conservative values and integrity.
The hook up behavior doesn’t just happen because alcohol, it’s something that has progressed. My guess is she likely hooked up with random men when she drank so being she was used to it, having a bf didn’t matter to the habit. Men and women, if you accept partners that had “casual s*x” when drinking, just know there is a high chance you will get cheated on during a boys/girls night out.
Just love the way the female commenters are try to make out she hasn’t behaved that badly , plus how dare they say the justifiably ex-boyfriend is ‘controlling’ because he wanted to be exclusive ! She’s a ho and he dumped her as any honorable man would !
Kims story is a long list of red flags. - "fell in love at first sight" - "cut off all other guys i was dating" - continues to talk about all the amazing sex they had, but not a single word about the emotional connection - obviously expected to f*ck on the first date - lets in three guys they barely knew in a cabin full of women. What was she thinking the guys came for? The bday party was a good excuse to not just say "so we came over to have an orgy, would you mind?" - throws shade at the only 2 women who behaved 100% correctly in this situation - tries to lie to "Troy" when he calls her, hoping that he hadn't found out yet, and only confesses when he confronts her it goes on and on... Avoid women like Kim at all cost.
It is an insult of the highest order that she attempts to get anyone to believe that she hasn't done it before and that she won't do it again. This is who she is. This is what she is. She's not unhappy about that. She's a little unhappy about getting caught. But I don't even think she's that unhappy about that. She never wanted this relationship. She never wanted our relationship. Right now all she's interested in is raw sexuality. And she gets it when and where she can. Perhaps someday she'll be interested in something more but it seems unlikely that anyone will want her by the time she figures that out.
Poor you. You cheated on him and he found out. Decided to end it with you because he should and now he's so distant and you're sad. Can't be the love of your life if you're gonna cheat.
Had a similar thing happen with a girl I was dating. Hadn't had intercourse w/ her and gone all the way. She was a class valedictorian , a church goer and seemed pretty straight laced. She went on a girls trip to the beach for graduation and called me from the beach telling me she missed me and asking me if I loved her , etc. Then she said she had spent the night w/ somebody at the beach and asked if I forgave her. We didn't have a commitment so I said sure and told her I'd talk to her later. I told her later I didn't trust her . I wasn't sure what had happened . I thought she was maybe playing w/ me and trying to make me jealous. We became intimate and she stopped seeing anyone else. It was great sex. Later on after we saw each other several months, I found a diary and what she said was true. She had spent the night with a lifeguard from a water park . Even worse , she had hooked up w 5 men in one week and she was only 18 . 2 nights after she told she had spent the night with the lifeguard and asked if I forgave her, I found out she spent the night with a college soccer player who worked in a T shirt shop and called me again the day after that and saw him again that night as well. Relationship was never the same after I found the diary obviously. She could have gotten killed by someone , gotten pregnant or an STD I told her. Later on I found out she had contracted herpes and was having sex w/ me when as she said " her sores were not active." You can't make this up. This girl would get on her knees and beg me not to leave in front of people but that was obviously it. I am tall, was young and in shape at the time and have been described as good looking . She would buy me things, whatever I wanted. But it was just too much. Couldn't trust her. She became very successful and was an editor for a newspaper after graduating form one of the top Journalism schools in America. She came to see me at my sisters apartment and got into bed w/ me and admitted she had herpes . Honestly, after trying to cool off, I went to the bedroom, spat in her face and told her to leave. Relationship over. Took me 2 years to fully get over her, but i know I was better off. No matter how smart, how decent you think women are, don't let them fool you. Almost all are slimy , despicable creatures. Never trust them. And if they go on " girls trips" end it.. break up with them.
Because of stories like these and real life experience , I adopted a zero BS policy. Sure baby, go out with anyone, and take your stuff with you before I lock the door. Don't bother coming back
The absolute Triangle of Trouble = 1) ladies on vacation 2) as a group 3) with alcohol. This story plays out daily. While there are no excuses for the women, that herd of guys from the pool were basically predatory as well.
Ok, not to be hurtful, but I’m amused by “he’s the love of my life” and you couldn’t keep your legs closed for 4 MONTHS! You’re, by your own words, in the exciting new phase, and you cheated. What the heck is he suppose to expect from you when it’s the comfortable/boring phase. Household chores, flower bed weeding, lawn mowing laundry, dishes, kids up all night, pta, soccer games dance recital, etc. You are never getting him back. Best you can do is work on why “the love of your life” isn’t enough to keep you from straying. Some humorous female comments, like Troy insecurities… because Kim can’t be trust to say faithful for even 4 months. At this point he’s not invested much time in the relationship to try and salvage anything and obviously Kim isn’t invested either. As the second hoped they could save their relationships. Trust is gone, takes years to get back and during that time, every phone call will be suspect, every trip to shop, every night out with girls or family, every late night working, every 15 minute gap at the neighborhood barbecue will all be a cheater’s rendezvous. Who wants to go through that kind of anxiety for years? And in the end, you’re never going to forget the disrespect. You’re never going stop second guessing what you didn’t give her, why you weren’t good enough. Was the guy better looking, more charm, more lovable, bigger d!ck, better in bed… he’s forever going to have doubts about him really satisfying you. That why you read very few stories of the guy taking her back after… and the few that do always get burned a second time.
@@McAnik-uo1ol4 months is only what she admits to we all know she was cheating the whole time because she says "alcohol makes her into someone she doesn't like" or something to that effect so how many times has she been out with the other 2 cheating women and drank alcohol and didn't like who she was
I wish these women that use these words "insecure and controlling" would explicitly define those words. I believe women who talk like this, thinks she can do what ever she wants and everyone HAS TO accept it regardless of their own feelings..
I am from an older generation, yes we had bad girls and boys during my teen and young adulthood. But, we did not have such a crisis as we have in 2023. These stories are becoming the rule instead of the exception! I have been married for close to 40 years, and my wife never attended a girl's night out including gatherings of such events with my sisters. Going to clubs and bars was a no-no when we were that age. I never went to a club or bar as well. We were too busy being parents, raising our kids to be successful citizens. The morals and values of the majority of people are at an old-time low!
I remember even as a kid that when couples became serious there were no longer weekends away or any clubbing unless of the spouse or gf/bf was with them. I remember even how married friends would even subtly push away their friends that were not yet married until the latter did get married. Only then were they allowed to join the married couple socials. Even the married guys got uphill from their wives if they went out as a group to sports games or events. They had to be back home by 10pm at latest or similar. Now? Free for all and if you have boundaries “you’re insecure”. If you want the conservative values you’re “backward” or, oh gosh, all sorts of trendy derogatory terms.
She was dating multiple guys while seeing him. Then she cut off all the other guys. She was getting banged by the other guys, but saw potential in her BF. She liked the attention she was getting from the other guys. This is not the first time OP and her trashy friends have done this.
Female Response 3 @18:56: "I sincerely believe you've learned your lesson and will never do that again." Wishful thinking! Such behaviors are a character trait and only become more acceptable behavior to the offending party.
The women felt betrayed because their friends told on them. this shows they don't value betraying their SOs as much. It's a women vs men mentality that will keep them all single forever
Lets take this point by point. 1. "I love you" only weeks in? Love of my life? Really? Words. Just words. 2. Boozing the night before and boozing all the following day by the pool followed by boozing at the restaurant and lastly boozing when those low lives popped by at midnight? Those guys had you pegged. Girls away on a wild weekend? They knew they could not miss. Somebody was bound to stumble and land on their D. 3. At least nobody blamed the booze. You get originality points for blaming the cabin. Never heard that one before. 4. Upset that the 2 women with character hightailed it out of there and worse still ratted out their friends. Terrible of them. Such a betrayal. Not as big a betrayal as what you and your two partners in slime... 5. I become a different person when I drink. Spoke too soon. The booze does get the blame. 6. How could Troy be so cold? He's hurt. Worse than you. It hurts to talk to you. It hurts to see you. It hurts to remember you. His guard is up because everything about you is painful to him. He's a man though. He is being stoic. 7. Female commenter trotting out the tired old cliches about your ex BF. Controlling. Insecure. Really? I guess it is pretty controlling and insecure to think that the girl who loves you won't fall into bed with a stranger after only one day away. Here's a few cliches about you Megan and Kelly. Cheap. Faithless. Selfish. Insincere. Those "pool guys" only knew you for a few hours but they figured out what you are and what you'd do for a couple of drinks.
Any woman that behaves like this is incapable of love. If she had any feelings resembling love or even respect for her boyfriend, she would never have done this… regardless of how much she drank.
I lost my 1st wife to a girls night out thing. Now,I tell any woman I'm with that if we're to be together,that girls night out/girls trip shit comes to a stop now
Yes here's some very good advise, 2:31 don't cheat on someone you claim to love and don't put yourself in a position where cheating can occur. Otherwise you dont love anyone but yourself and thats ok but then don't expect any man to take you seriosly.
She doesn’t need a therapist to t find out why she becomes a different person when she drinks. When she’s sober, she’s suppressing it but when she drinks she becomes who she really is. It’s very simple. She’s a suppressed 304.
My girlfriend proposed a Girl’s Trip to a resort in Mexico. I said “Sure!” She was elated. Then I told her “All your gear will be in boxes on the front porch when you get back. We won’t even need to speak.” She didn’t go. A month or so later, she asked “Would you really have done that?” I looked at her in the eyes and told her, dead serious, “The surest thing in the world is that I would have boxed up your gear, broken up with you, and kicked you out.” I’m not insecure. I’m not judgmental. But I DO have standards.
Those two woman that spilled the beans have dignity morels and class those other three fall into the 98% of divorced woman since 98% of divorces are initiated by the woman
What I don't understand is why people find it mandatory to have multiple servings of alcoholic drinks at times like this. Now, I will say that since I got out of the Army in January, 1970 I have not had any alcoholic drinks at all, but I can see a glass of wine or a drink with a very light amount of alcohol in it. But 5 girls running around loose at a lodge with known groups of men also running around loose, then letting them into their cabin, is a gross misjudgment by them. Then partying it up with them. They got what they deserved.
OP was extremely salty over her and Kelly decision. She said Elanor and Janet made sure the neighborhood knows her business. The whole neighborhood, huh?
The two women that left were not betraying the other 3. The OP and her friends were actually puting the other 2 marraiges in danger. There husbands would have been wandering if there wives joined in also.
Eleanor and Janet are high value woman they tried to keep the guys out but realized it was a no go then removed themselves do not know them personally but actions speak louder than words
“We couldn’t believe friends could betray another friend like that,” said the woman who had just betrayed a man she purports to love.
Eleanor, and Janet. The two heroes of this story indeed. Women with those types of morals and standards are definitely getting harder to find nowadays. Good for them. OP and her colors got exactly what they deserve.
If we had more women like them holding each other accountable, more women would think twice about screwing around.
Nah, I just think it was self-preservation....thinking that if they didn't tell their husbands what went down, their husbands might find out and accuse them of taking part in the cheating. Not only that, but they likely didn't like the other girls and saw this as an opportunity to burn them! Women are NOT moral, they are amoral! They are opportunists, not heroes!
As a man, this strkes true. Females, all females out there, telling your man you betrayed him over something that meant nothing is the ultimate insult. Never say this. To a man this says " I threw away everything we had for nothing."
@@robertnoble7554 I understand your sinisim. But, have you ever seen a porno? If those girls really wanted to. They could have enjoyed those guys as well. I like to believe they had better morals than the other girls.
If I ran the place. Eleanor and Janet would get the Medal of Freedom.
_“We couldn’t believe friends could betray another friend like that.”_
But wives and girlfriends betraying husbands and boyfriends is no biggie. 🤦🏻♂️
I was going to say this exact same thing
I was thinking that also.
💯
"but, but it's totally different when I do it."
This is why...
"Well, it's my husband's fault for being so insecure."
The woman calling Troy controlling because he didn’t accept cheating, wow, just wow.
My current GF and I had a slow built relationship. Due to past relationships we wanted to move things slow but we also had a commitment we knew was there and neither even had to ask for it.
Troy has standards.
Troy was a good guy with strong morals and boundaries.
She’s also living alone I bet..
That is what you hear now a days. Its what they have as values & principles. If they can't do whatever they want, you are controling.
As a woman, Eleanor and Janet are the friends you need. No nonsense, will try to stop you from doing something stupid and will call you out and make you feel consequences when you mess up. These are the types of friends that help you be a better person, the type to build you up rather so you don’t end up a degenerate. The unsung heroes here.
YES!
@robertnoble7554 Maybe they should have, but who wants to be the babysitter for a full blown adult? If you don’t let people feel consequences by doing it for them, they’ll never learn or grow.
And the nerve of OP to try and blame them with the whole what kind of friends tells on you? BS.
Eleanor & Janet wanted no part in that degeneracy... leaving to go home in order to protect their marriages made sure to expose the 403s that were trying to destroy them.
@@robertnoble7554you dont have to stop shitty people that are showing their true colors, you just expose them
"I quickly cut off the other GUYS I was dating at the time and past 10 weeks"
What a brave thing to do when you're the Town Bicycle 🙄
Well that's why she went to a different town. She was sure no one there could get back to Troy. Oops
This woman is used to passing herself around to other guys. This situation explains why she struggled with her ex boyfriend, Troy taking things slowly. She was still screwing guys while she was in the beginning stage of dating her ex. She simply reverted back to her original self.
When I was single, I only dated one woman at a time. I would not tolerate any woman that was or wanted to date other men while dating me whether we had the exclusive talk or not. If after a fourth date and we were going to continue to date, I would expect them not to be going out with other guys as I would not be making dates with other women. We were in that stage of getting to know someone better and in order to do that you need to be able to concentrate on each other.
I never actually had that issue but if I had, she would have been considered non-dating material by me. It's ok if she wants to do that, she just won't be doing it while going out with me. The same thing after we do have "the talk" and commit ourselves to being girlfriend/boyfriend. Also at that point, I tell them since we are now a "couple", we do things (going out to bars, clubs, parties) as a couple. I won't be doing "Boys Nights" or "Boy vacations" and I expect her not to do the same. If she can't abide by that, fine, no problem, we just are at different points in our lives and at this time are not compatible.
That part was hilarious and told me everything I need to know about where this story would end up. She was definitely shagging other guys while she was getting to know her BF.
All these modern women have a number of men they spread for.
"I can't believe friends can betray friends like that!" while literally betraying her boyfriend. No introspection or accountability.
When you come to the realization that your friends have morals and values much, much less than your own, then it is time to distance yourself from these 'friends'. I've been there and I regret not coming to this wisdom much earlier in life.
I guess she thought "girl code" would protect the cheating sluts.
I hope they all get genital warts. Or the hi 5!
She told on herself right there. Probably a serial cheater
Yup. Really stuck out.
"He is the love of my life!"
*proceeds to being 304 and doing 304's things*
Hearing how Eleanor and Janet reacted to the guys coming into the cabin, makes me believe that there are good women out there. They were heroes in this story and they are obviously high-valued, with high morals. kudos to them. As far as the cheaters, face the consequences, the guys aren't taking any of them back. Great story.
Completely agree. But it shouldn't take a high value woman to figure out what those guys were there for. I wouldn't be surprised in the slightest if this wasn't their first time cheating on their men.
They do exist, it’s just that the trashy ones get the most attention. Just like how you almost never hear about acts of kindness on the news.
They knew what was coming when they saw how the others reacted to the pool guys earlier, basically inviting them over for fun.
@@kcirtapelyk6060debauchery sells in our sick society unfortunately.
That's y this channel is the best. Good story😂
>OP's boyfriend is a gigachad. He took things slow and didn't simp during the relationship, and after the cheating, he casually broke up with her over the phone
>Megan's husband catches them in the act and is rightfully enraged instead of a sobbing mess. Ends up locking her out of the house and demanding a divorce.
>OP's other female friends are gigastacies who immediately told the husbands and boyfriends after they saw the others cheat
>Kelly's boyfriend breaks up with her over the phone instead of giving her a chance to twist things around in person
Not even 15min in and this story is already in my top 10. This is gold 😁
@@MrSecretweapon174 He had all the explanation he needed from her actions: cheating was more important to her than being in a relationship with him
There is zero reason to "confront" your partner when they cheat, besides giving them a chance to manipulate you into forgiving them
i think its made up, no way woman would ever snitch on another woman, and also, how can 2 good girls be in company of bad girls. birds of a feather ALWAYS flock together
@@PreeSpunky For some people (my friends and I, for example), there is no forgiveness. Once they cheat, it's the easiest route to 'indifferent'. I don't love them but I certainly don't hate them either. If I hear she got hit by a train, I become the Loki meme ("Yes very sad.....ANYWAY").
Agreed. You can forgive for your own piece of mind but never take them back.
If I was married to either Eleanor or Janet I'd be thrilled with the way they handled this. They were protecting their own integrity and relationships.
@@richardcharles4126I was thinking the exact same thing!!
@@richardcharles4126wahmen love sabotaging each other so it wouldn’t surprise me that set them up or they want to break them up to move in on their men.
Dont be so naive..There just wasnt enough strange D to go around, old Janet and Elenore got kicked to the curb and went home salty. Their hubs should divorce them too for even going on a slu t s only trip
@@franklinfx Did you not understand that there were enough guys for ALL the women but Eleanor and Janet said "no", then left as soon as possible? Don't you be so stupid.
@franstoryklinfx story doeent read like that at all. The 304 telling it wouoda been sure to mention they were salty at being left out.
They didnt want the men allowed in at all remember.
My fiancée was in her Junior year at college (I was in the Marines) when she informed me that she was pregnant. We had been intimate about 4 months before then, so I got ready to suck it up and inform my parents of our indiscretion and prepare to get married. I asked her for her obstetrician's name and phone number, as I wanted to be in the loop. She never sent it, but eventually told me the baby wasn't mine. That crushed my soul. I eventually found out she had been going out drinking with a bunch of her girlfriends and "some boys" from school. She got "tipsy" and ended up doing the deed with some creep. I was stunned, but that was the end of "us", needless to say. She eventually married the guy (a campus cop, no less), then divorced him a few years later, and lived as a single mom from then, on.
--- A CAMPUS COP . . . was her NATURAL level in life.
@@marianotorrespico2975 304s, like water, always finds their natural level.
Even though she tore your guts out, she did you a favor brother - Go NAVY - Fair Winds and Following Seas
If she could have gotten away with it, he would have made you support that other man's child.
@@marianotorrespico2975 There are worse things a person can be than a campus cop.
The 2 friends that left the cabin and went home and told their husbands what was going on. Did so to protect their own relationships. If their husbands had found out later, they would have assumed that their wives had also cheated. Op put these women in a position where they had to choose between their own marriages and covering for a friend. In my opinion, these women chose correctly, After all, any friend that would put you in that position is not a friend.
A husband is a family.
If a so called friend action would put the family in jeopardy, the proper n moral way to do it is to cut off the friend.
100%. A married couple is a family. Nothing should ever be allowed to threaten that, friends, other family, strangers.
Indeed
Absolutely right. Guilt by association. Friends don't put friends in that kind of situation. At the same time, 2 married women could have predicted girls weekend at the cabin had danger written all over it. Still it wasn't their fault and they did what they should have done.
Very good point indeed. But it means the probability drops that they did it out of the goodness of their hearts for the cheated upon, they might not have done the same if they were single or if they would have for example slept elsewhere and learned about the affairs the next day.
This woman is a total garden tool. She admitted it when she said I stopped seeing all the other guys I was dating after she started dating this guy. I am sure she has been ran though may times in the past. I just love the alcohol excuse. This woman will never be able to stay faithful to one person ever. She might as well stay dating CHAD's and continue to be the community bicycle. This woman is going to die alone.
If she marries, the man will be nothing but a duel income and a pet to her.
No, she will have cats.
Hahaha this Troy guy was a boss… the way he laughed at her and treated her like she was disposable was exactly what she deserved… she obviously thinks that she’s disposable, so why shouldn’t he as well?
Yea, she got owned !!!!
He'll come crawling back as soon as he hears that she found a replacement for him. Happens all the time.
I would have laughed the same way he did.
And no, he won't be crawling back because the way she fell in love with him and cut out everyone else indicates that he's high value and probably has women lined up. He behaved as if he borderline expected this behavior from her.
Also I doubt she's gonna find anyone soon. She's gonna cry for a while and then revert to the town bicycle. And any man she meets she will compare to that guy, making every new one a 2nd pick.
@@jimdandy8996nah, that's what women do.
Whilst Troy was laughing he was inwardly disgusted and very disappointed with himself for spending 4 months with a cheap slut who betrayed him with a random dude she called an ugly beast. He was very careful about getting close to her in the first place so he was feeling horrible about the situation.
My wife was going on a "girls trip" to Florida with three of her married friends. From hearing these types of stories, I was hesitant to give my blessing. But, I did when I found out the husband of the woman who's condo they would be staying at also stated he would be going down to look at buying a boat. The wives were PISSED!!! LOL!
Oh Geez, I wonder why they were pissed? They got the trips that they wanted to go to 😶
Maybe he timed that trip just right. 😮
This sounds like the women are upset that they cannot sample strange sausages and cover for one another because the husband going will tell the soon to be betrayed husbands (Including you). This is a MAJOR RED FLAG on your wife. She is on the path to cheat or has already cheated. Hire a Private Investigator ASAP!
Yes sir hire a private investigator best money you will spend also look for a burner phone ,in fact let her go on another trip and hire a private investigator and get a lawyer
I bet that the husband knew what was up.
Troy is not insecure. He is a high value individual who knows what he wants and has standards and boundaries. He's a truly masculine man looking for wife material ,not a whore who'll cheat on him. She needs to accept accountability and move on.
These girls probably even today have any number of guys that would be happy to "wife them up", but it's the person living inside of them they don't want.
I would imagine that in there past they had many opportunities to settle down with a "nice guy", but either screwed him over, laughed at him, used him, or kept him around until the "bad boy" they really wanted came along and then dropped the nice guy faster than a prom dress on prom night.
I would dare to say that even in there current state, if a nice guy came along to "rescue" any of them, even the ugly ones, they wouldn't recognize it and still find a way to "F" it up.
If she has three kids, you'll be sixth in line of what is important to her.
First, she cares about herself.
Then her three children.
Next the family dog.
And then MAYBE you. So you are behind the family dog and unless you are the lead dog, your view never changes.
All you are to any of these girls is an A.T.M. and a babysitter so she can leave her kids with you while she goes out on "girls night out weekends" with all her single girlfriends. Comes home after midnight drunk with her clothes all twisted around, makeup all smeared up, smelling of other men, and her hair has this "just laid look" to it. Shouts at you to "F" off as she stumbles past you on her way to the bedroom to pass out for the day.
Complain to her and she'll just accuse you of being insecure and controlling.
They’re pretty much useless to any man of value.
There is nothing they could bring to the table that any man of high value would want
What man is looking for an aggressive woman with a masculine demeanor?
They might be able to land an unemployed ex-con strung out on drugs with tatts up and down his arms and a cigarette hanging out of his mouth and has children with five different women chasing him down for delinquent child support money.
I am guessing these women probably are.
In debt.
No savings.
Unable to manage money.
Can't be trusted with a credit card.
Can't be trusted not to cheat behind their man's back.
Would not appreciate a good man.
Would lie and be deceitful to any man in their life.
No marketable skills other than common laborer.
No desire to be wives of value or to learn how.
Not able to help their children with basic schoolwork or homework.
No cooking skills or any desire to learn any.
Expects the man to do and pay for everything in their lives, and then complain he's not doing enough for them and uses that as their excuse to cheat on him.
They’re takers, not givers.
They are a drain and an added expense, not a valuable asset.
Women like this bring headaches, problems, and no value into a man’s life.
They bring drama into a man’s life, not peace and quiet.
They bring confusion, not order.
They want a traditional man, but they don’t want to be a traditional woman.
No smart man of value would want anything to do with any of these women or anyone like them.
Sadly, their story is not unique.
No thanks, I’ll take a pass.
Accountability to a cheater! You must be kidding. They don't know the meaning of that word. (Along with politicians, civil servants nowdays. Lol).
Agreed. That female response 2 was vile. Slander the guy who was cheated on, attempt to sugar coat OP's actions as "careless".
Why am I not surprised the women put Troy in the insecurity box, and called him controlling for setting her free to go do whatever, or whoever she wants to do.
@@rrobz3948Trash always defend trash.
Just for the record, I’m FAR from conservative, and I would’ve done the same thing Eleanor and Janet did. Cheating is wrong, no matter what side of the political spectrum you’re on.
If you would do what E and J did them maybe you aren't as far away as you think.... That or you just like the drama of stirring the pot and watching the carnage. Ether way Glad you'd do the right thing even if it possibly would be for the wrong reason.
@@DeathclawJedi- I’m not on the lunatic left. I’m about half way between middle and FAAAAAAR left. I believe in climate change. I believe a woman should have the right to her own body. I believe gay people should be able to marry and adopt. I believe that systemic racism and white privilege DOES exist, and I believe in sensible gun control . . . . but I also believe in the death penalty, that men don’t belong in women’s restrooms or sports, that sexuality should not be taught to children, and that cheating in ANY capacity, is wrong. 🤷🏽♀️
As for the drama? Well, I WILL say, I love me a good “You got what you deserved” story, and all the pointing and laughing that comes with it. 😂👍🏽
It's not a question of being conservative, it's a question of whether you have personal integrity/honor. You can be Liberal and also be honorable [not the Communism that passes for "Liberal" that the mainstream pushes today; Liberal like JFK back in the day is a good example.] Salut.
@TechnoMageB5 Well....jfk was a cheater so...
@@TechnoMageB5 I have replied to your comments before. I enjoy your insights. You keep it real. I look forward to more. Thank you! ROCK ON!
I respect women like Eleanor and Janet for they helped Richard to live the truth and not a lie.
Troy is an A-Hole; he should take her back. She absolutely would not cheat again. His future Girlfriends 100% WILL!!!
WTF simp no. Never take a cheater back. Good for Troy.
Exactly 💯
@@stephenstruk1734you are the kind of person they settle for, after she is mad Chad and Tyrone are not gonna GF/Marry
@@stephenstruk1734spoken like a true cuk 😂
Update. After thinking about it really hard, I’ve decided to keep drinking. It is the best excuse I have for my bad behavior & should not be held accountable for anything shady. Why can’t Troy understand it’s the alcohol’s fault.
I LOVE SARCASM
That was SARCASM..RIGHT!!??
And the cabin. It was the cabin's fault as well. She mentioned it a couple of times. It must be haunted by the ghosts of past cheating hookup weekends.
@@georgeturner301 sarcasm & truth.
Yep. And Megan was blaming Kelley for the end of her marriage because SHE rented the cabin. Lol!
Of course it's Kelly's fault. Of course it's alcohol's fault. Of course Troy's insecure and controlling. Of course it was one night thing. Of course you'll never do it again.
Accountability? Where?
I swear there must be someone selling scripts for cheaters because they always say the same BS.
The Ho Bag hand book.
@@TheBerkeleyBeauty Fellow SSM fan I see
Yes and for some reason they always have to throw a fit like a 2 year old, and cry and cry and cry, as if they are the victim! Then they try to turn the tables and expect everyone to be there for them, to be a shoulder for them to cry on when they are the ones that created the situation they are in in the first place! It is infuriating!
this is what happens when they do these girls weekends. they get away from their bf/husbands and think "I can sleep with this person and my SO will never find out". Eleanor and Janet are the smart ones in this situation. they saw where this was going and left before anything happened to avoid losing their partners. remember this guys: hot girl summer leads to pregnant girl winter which leads to single mom spring
Alcohol played a role, for me drinking is worse than cheating.
Then you also have your morals and priorities screwed up.
@@kentjensen4939Alcohol brings out the real you. It’s like the old saying goes “drunk men tell no lies.”
But..why..tell me just why can't these girls just control themselves on these girl nights!!!!
Those guys who ran off were probably laughing and high-fiving each other down the road and on their drive home.
Gentlemen (OPs'), each of you have executed the dismissal of each ex with "flawless" precision. I salute each of you fine Gentlemen...
Best wishes to each of you gentlemen moving forward into the future!
--- CORRECT . . . perhaps they might consider a woman from eastern Europe; they usually have diplomas and skillets and self-respect.
Female response number 2 is amazing. That Troy is not ok with his (supposedly) mutually exclusive GF getting drunk and hooking up with randos is “controlling and insecure”. Hoo boy I hope Female Response Number 2’s guy is paying attention because it’s easy to see what she’s all about.
You seen the Jonah Hill debacle?
A man with boundaries is CONTROLLING! ! ! !
M I S O G Y N Y ! ! ! ! ! !! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !
What guy? With that attitude she has no guy unless he's a spineless simp. LMAO
@@williamclayton9566 The only issue I have with him, he got into it with her at the beginning and that's who she is. She didn't change. His fault for going with it for so long. But, hey, within a few months, he knocked his new GF up and they have a kid.
Do you think Female #2 might actually have a guy?
Him: "Hey, what's up?"
Her: "You're insecure and controlling."
I really don't see that going well.
Like Myron says, women give women terrible advice. Both women response 1 & 2 were terrible. I watch Myron quite a bit. He has women on to show men what they are like. He tells them that you can have your girls night/weekend, but that will result in you will be single. And they always push back. I am there for my girlfriend not for the men, or that's controlling, small dick energy, etc. But they think they can ignore men. They forget that alcohol lowers inhibitions. Guy sees them walk in with no males, they are going to shoot their shot, and a women that had been drinking may have lowered their inhibitions to accept. And guys don't want that to happen.
Those 2 women who let the husband know that his wife was a lying, cheating, 304...I hope they find actual good friends and not 304's like those they left.
Well, they told the entite neighborhood. Basically they removed the hoe from their street lol.
They'll probably do the same thing as the other women one day. Women are like that.
I was about 20 when I first heard the phrase " your not in love your in lust" and it was from my mother..... and never a truer statement was ever told to me.
we've been selling the message to women that lust *equals* love for about 50 years now, and they've swallowed it hook, line, and sinker
Thats all love is based on levels of lust men need to understand this women use the word love too much
@@daishan1234 IT'S STILL THE TRUTH!!!!
"I can't believe friends would betray us like that" while simultaneously betraying in the worst way!!
To Female Response 2.....The woman let the deal go down. how is it Troy is insecure? She broke the trust and when that is gone, there is no more relationship. Though, Feel free to date and marry a guy that has cheated on you a few times because obviously, You are not insecure.....Invest in a cat.
A mistake she will never repeat, until the next time!
The next time she drinks. Dunno why she thinks a therapist is needed to explain this.
@@DemiGod.. women use the dumbest excuses. If a man drank and committed a crime, nobody on the jury would be the least swayed by that BS.
Eleanor and Janet knew it was wrong and couldn’t live with themselves knowing they would have to hide it and see good men be disrespected, that’s what happened here
Or they were worried more about being accused of cheating as well.
@@nightmareTomekOnce again, more like they were loyal to their husbands and didn't want to hang around women that had different morals and values than they had, or should I say women that had no morals and values, when they did, so they left and did the honorable thing. They could have went home and lied and the other women's cheating would have never come out, so no, they weren't worried about being accused of cheating. They actually had dignity, class, and loyalty to their husbands, weren't liars and made sure that good men weren't screwed over. There are both good men, good women and bad men and bad women in the world, and the women that left were good women that did the right thing
@@Mischa21xo Yee, and once again I didn't read through your comment. I think that a certain gender is actually quite bad at judging characters, to the contrary of their claims. So that's why you can't understand the possibility I listed, but it is indeed a quite real possibility.
This was 100% hilarity. Cheers to "Troy." No gaslighting that champ. 😎😅
It is a good thing there are still a few honest loyal women out there.
I am quite clear when I start dating someone. A "girls trip", girls night out" or any other variant, is an instant "goodbye" from me.
That's 'single girl behavior' and if she wants to behave that way, that's fine, because she'll be instantly single.
Good luck with the discussions. Some women take it as a given right and will really fight you over it.
It's really just a small step away from a woman asking for an open relationship... instead of it being a direct intent to hookup, a girl's night/trip is intent to have an option to have a hookup.
In both cases, once they ask they are revealing that they disrespect and lack deep desire for you. It's not so clear to many men because that "option" may not be exercised if a suitable man is not available, so they can fool themselves into believing they have a woman who is totally trustable.... right up to when she is not.
Once she asks, you should accept that you have basically lost her, even though she may come home and seem normal. Women know when they are doing something shady and they know these trips are for feeling single for a few hours or days.
Have fun being called an insecure manbaby ista'phobe'gynist by all the women who think it's ok to act like they are single when in a relationship, because the Matriarchy told them so.
@@bkeepr4246
The only kind of 'girls night out' I ever go on is with my three daughters. They're always during the day, and we either go thrifting or do our annual bakery crawl. And to be perfectly honest, I would have even more fun doing it if my husband was with us.
Same here. I would not date a guy who wants to go out to a bar with the guys either. Bars & clubs are for single people looking to hook up & lust after others. Bars/Clubs are absolutely not an environment for people in commited relationships. If the guy wants to go out drinking at bars with his guy friends, he can do so, and good luck to him finding a new partner while he is there, because he certainly wouldn't have me anymore.
I may be old school, but I cannot recall a time where a group of FAITHFUL women ever went on a girls trip. The desire to do one is a HUGE red flag. If you look for temptation it will find you.
Right. Any woman that refers to herself as a “girl” is red flag.
My wife went to Vegas last year with about 5 other married women (I known them all; actually, one is divorced). They are all around 50+ yrs old. I totally trust my wife. She’s never given me any reason to be even the bit suspicious that she would misbehave. You gotta choose the right woman, guys. Now, if I did learn about something, there’d be hell to pay; I would not stick around. Trust, once broken, is very, very difficult to repair.
@@learningisfun2108 Your wife went with five other women to Sin City Las Vegas. My question is why would she want to instead of just going with you.... her husband?
@@Nick_Nightingale Hey Nick. It was a 50th birthday celebration for a few of them (delayed due to COVID) and that friendship group goes way back. I know them all. One introduced me to my wife (best matchmaker ever LOL). My wife and I I have been to Vegas at least three times together. She had my blessing to go with “the girls”. Like I said, I trust my wife; she’s given me no reason not to. And I wouldn’t want to control her. That’s a fool’s errand. I’d rather separate than feel like I need to control her (or anyone).
@@learningisfun2108 Well I wish you both the best. Perhaps I am a little jaded after hearing story after story about what happens on "Girls Trips".
Elanor and janet did the right thing! “Kim” would NOT have told Troy and probably would’ve went home and got intimate with troy while still having a stranger’s dna on her. Brutal!
IN HER!!!
Kim says Troy is the "Love of her life" and then proceeds to cheat on him. Wow, just wow.
God save us from women who consider us men the "love of their life".
Then cheat with a little alcohol and the first opportunity she gets even with a beast
She was only interested in the security Troy offered. Instinctively she was leaning towards thinking he was a beta and probably had been wild before given her strange passing comment of ‘stopping dating other guys’ when she met him.
However, when it hit the fan she learnt he was actually a Sigma.
@@e-mosheAGREED.
Troy didnt dodge a bullet, more like dodged a nuclear missile that would destroy his life
"It was my own fault. No excuses. I was selfish and didn't behave intelligently at all. I'll try to do better in the future."
- No woman, EVER, in the history of humanity
I like how confident and chill Troy handled it, he even told her things would get better. 😂. He like “you do you, wish you the best.” Even laughed on the phone all chill, this is a guy that has options. A low value dude would have lost it, got mad, cried and all that mess, Troy laughed it off. 😂
...and then he cried in his soup when she hung up.
Why do cheaters always blame their cheating on alcohol or anything other then themselves? IMO its just trying to blame shift their actions to avoid the consequences. OP and her other cheating GFs need to just own up and move on. Eleanor and Janet are true gems!
Only women can do that.. and then they turn on the crocodile tears ..us men are so stupid
Nice blokes don't root anything that drunk. The one's that do would also do your dog and your brother. 😮
She is blaming alcohol and says she will never repeat that mistake again. Basically it means that she can only keep her promise only until next time when she gets drunk again.
"Finally after 7 days we were intimate." Wow....I'm speechless... My husband and I waited until we were married 🙄 and that took years because we were in a long distance relationship.
How did you all handle being in a open relationship during the LTR phase?
@@jamesdotson1080 we weren't in an open relationship. We both waited until we got married to do the deed, we were each other's first. It helps if your partner is religious and actually takes religion seriously. We've been going now on 11 years of marriage and known each other for even longer.
daTes, not daYs, time: 6 weeks, which is conservative given the modern era of lack of standards. Still, your point stands. Salut.
@@01wonderfulanswer this question: was waiting worth it?
It was 7 DATES!!!
what an incredible story. I just can't get that these women can so easily betray their partners... Like they have absolute no commitment to their loved ones, just disgusting
i love when they call cheated spouse insecure. like any of above events prove they are right to be and a reason for insecurities but oh well... accountability something something
It's an impulse women can't help whenever a man has an issue with something stupid theyve said or done
Interesting how the cheaters were so upset at the 2 loyal women who dropped a dime on the elicit activities that the 3 cheaters engaged in. Also they are trying to blame Kelly for what happened. However did she tell them to give themselves to rando's they just met? No. But of course it was tha alcohol. Lame AF. Glad they got busted.
If he had taken her back she’d have no respect for him, in fact she showed that she had no respect by doing that in the first place. She didn’t even have respect for herself.
403's doing what 403's do best...nothing to see here
@@RogerWalters-es1tvoooh that would've been amazing lol...kudos to the guys for not simp'n out
"Your boyfriend leaving you after you cheated on him makes him sound controlling."
How many abortions and SSRI prescriptions do you need to get to start thinking like this?
Anti-depression meds dont make you more likely to cheat.
Imagine trying to start a life with a woman who thinks this way
I would love to hear this story told by the husband and the boyfriends. LOL
An update for the ages!
Eleanor and Janet may have had reasons other that "morals" in leaving and telling their men. Their men MIGHT have told their girls that they were against "girls trips" and warned them if ANYTHING became suspicious they were to leave immediately. By leaving and telling their men both Eleanor and Janet could have been desperately wanting to make certain that their men were satisfied with their actions. Men NEED to tell their women exactly this sort of thing... "I am not happy about you going on this trip BUT should anything go wrong you better be the first one out the door and I am the first phone call you should be making"
Either way, they were loyal and ended up doing the right thing at the end of the day. Gotta respect them for that.
You answered your own problem. You told Troy “it was a mistake”. Sorry but cheating is never a mistake. It’s a calculated decision to have sex with someone else. Purely selfish and you probably had 5 or 6 chances to call it off but you didn’t
Something similar happened way back in 1983 when I was a recent high school graduate working at a local supermarket. One of the college girls working part time was getting married to a very handsome guy. The night before their wedding she went out with a bunch of girlfriends and young family women. She got drunk and some guy picked her up and they left the club they were at. In a heart beat she spread her legs. One or more of the women in her party called her fiancé and told him what was going down. It was a local place so he came driving in. He found her on her back legs spread taking the dude deep. The wedding was over in a New York minute. She humiliated herself and her family. Everyone knew at work what she did and she quit because of embarrassment. If a woman can spread her legs for a man she just met it just goes to show you women have zero loyalty.
Eleanor and Janet are old school. By spreading the news amongst the community, they're not only distancing themselves from the 304s but are also using shame to keep other potentially wayward women in line. It's entirely possible that they saved quite a few relationships without even knowing it.
thank you for putting that reality of "i fell in lust with him" out there.
Four points I want to bring up:
1. Eleanor and Janet are the real heroines of the story. They are leaders while the rest of them are followers. Good on them to tell the husbands and SO's of these cheaters.
2. NO simpus maximus detected in Troy. He is a high value man. He played it cool until he dropped the hammer on her. Then he casually broke up with her and relegated/demoted her to acquaintance.
3. Richard is no simp, either. He told Megan to expect a divorce as he kicked her out. He is a high value man as well.
4. Kim is not relationship material, and neither are Kelly or Megan. She (Kim) needs to find new friends after she figures out who she is through intensive therapy and counseling. She has no business being in a committed relationship at this time. Maybe, down the road, she *might* make a good partner for someone. But that's going to be years down the road.
Might be gf material years down the road but I'm doubting it because she(they) cheated so easily and so fast. Within hours of meeting these guys. There will always be other guys. And Kim even said he was a beast. So a little bit of alcohol, because it was 2 bottles of champagne split between 6 people so she can't say she was drunk just tipsy. So give her a little alcohol and her panties hit the floor as she's hitting the bed with the first available guy. She said something about alcohol makes her someone she regrets so I'm thinking she has cheated many times in the past her and her friends considering how fast and easy they cheated. This time they had 2 ladies that had morels and exposed the cheating harlots for who they were. I was thinking the ladies might have become bitter because there was no men for them but listening to the story the ladies were constantly trying to convince the ladies to do the right thing.
@@carrollcorder5169I agree. It's not her first rodeo. It's the first time she has had to face the consequences of her actions. If she truly wants to better herself, she must quit drinking altogether. Otherwise, she'll continue to ride the carousel into middle and old age.
Even by cheater standards this was absurd and low. They’d just met these guys and let them in the cabin. Putting aside the immorality, that was wildly dangerous. They had no idea what kind of guys they were, and everyone was drunk. But to then pair off and nail random strangers was the icing on that crappy cake. I’m actually astounded, and I’ve heard tons of these stories.
I wonder if the guys they let in had wives or girlfriends.
Remember folks, any guy with standards is "insecure".
Wo how disgusting no standards no morels no respect definitely no understanding of love or loyalty. All us ladies? And no understanding of the word ladies drink only brings out who you are and what you really want to do 😂😂😂 the old mistake. NO it was a choice done exactly what you want to do.
18:46 Female response #3: When you make a mistake, you learn the lesson and move on. When you break trust, it's not just a question of learning the lesson and moving on. The cheater has _demonstrated_ to the betrayed that they are willing and able to break their trust. Trust, once broken, never fully recovers - and don't give me any nonsense about "stronger than ever" after breaking trust; that's what fools tell themselves when they're too weak to walk away from such a situation.
The difference in consequences between making a mistake vs. breaking trust is about as wide as a case of mistaken identity and knocking out a guy with a punch, or taking some other woman's purse because it looked like yours, vs. dropping a nuke on the wrong city. In both former examples, there is full recovery possible. In the latter, that city and the people that was in it isn't coming back.
I said to my GF very early on that I am not her jailer, I'm not her keeper.
If she insists on doing something, I can't, by law, stop her.
She is free to act the way her heart wants.
But she is not free from consequences of those actions.
She F's up and I'm gone, no questions asked.
If I F up, she is free to leave me.
After 5 years, no F ups from either of us.
Gentlemen.... The husband handled this perfect. Do not take that from your wife. Set those realistic boundaries and enforce them. Do not accept excuses. Eleanor and Janet did the right thing. God bless the ladies with common sense, conservative values and integrity.
Wait a sec. She instantly fell in love with him...Yet she was still dating other guys? Enough said....
The hook up behavior doesn’t just happen because alcohol, it’s something that has progressed. My guess is she likely hooked up with random men when she drank so being she was used to it, having a bf didn’t matter to the habit. Men and women, if you accept partners that had “casual s*x” when drinking, just know there is a high chance you will get cheated on during a boys/girls night out.
Just love the way the female commenters are try to make out she hasn’t behaved that badly , plus how dare they say the justifiably ex-boyfriend is ‘controlling’ because he wanted to be exclusive ! She’s a ho and he dumped her as any honorable man would !
Kims story is a long list of red flags.
- "fell in love at first sight"
- "cut off all other guys i was dating"
- continues to talk about all the amazing sex they had, but not a single word about the emotional connection
- obviously expected to f*ck on the first date
- lets in three guys they barely knew in a cabin full of women. What was she thinking the guys came for? The bday party was a good excuse to not just say "so we came over to have an orgy, would you mind?"
- throws shade at the only 2 women who behaved 100% correctly in this situation
- tries to lie to "Troy" when he calls her, hoping that he hadn't found out yet, and only confesses when he confronts her
it goes on and on...
Avoid women like Kim at all cost.
Only 2/5ths of the women in this story displayed sound judgment and loyalty.
That should tell you all everything you need to know.
so she dated multiple guys aka slept with them at the same time... modern women arent built for relationships
It is an insult of the highest order that she attempts to get anyone to believe that she hasn't done it before and that she won't do it again. This is who she is. This is what she is. She's not unhappy about that. She's a little unhappy about getting caught. But I don't even think she's that unhappy about that. She never wanted this relationship. She never wanted our relationship. Right now all she's interested in is raw sexuality. And she gets it when and where she can. Perhaps someday she'll be interested in something more but it seems unlikely that anyone will want her by the time she figures that out.
Gee, no normal guy will have village bycicle as GF...she is already used and damaged, can you imagine what emotional wreck she will be in few years?
If Elenor and Janet are married, then they have showed their husbands THEY are KEEPERS.
"He laughed, he did not have to be so cruel", she focuses on her feelings when she actually did something horrible to Troy.
Poor you. You cheated on him and he found out. Decided to end it with you because he should and now he's so distant and you're sad.
Can't be the love of your life if you're gonna cheat.
Troy tested her waters, before comitting, and got out before things got messy. Good for him.
Kim doesn't deserve a good man like Troy. Nice of her to show him her true self before their former relationship got serious.
Had a similar thing happen with a girl I was dating. Hadn't had intercourse w/ her and gone all the way. She was a class valedictorian , a church goer and seemed pretty straight laced. She went on a girls trip to the beach for graduation and called me from the beach telling me she missed me and asking me if I loved her , etc. Then she said she had spent the night w/ somebody at the beach and asked if I forgave her. We didn't have a commitment so I said sure and told her I'd talk to her later. I told her later I didn't trust her . I wasn't sure what had happened . I thought she was maybe playing w/ me and trying to make me jealous. We became intimate and she stopped seeing anyone else. It was great sex. Later on after we saw each other several months, I found a diary and what she said was true. She had spent the night with a lifeguard from a water park . Even worse , she had hooked up w 5 men in one week and she was only 18 . 2 nights after she told she had spent the night with the lifeguard and asked if I forgave her, I found out she spent the night with a college soccer player who worked in a T shirt shop and called me again the day after that and saw him again that night as well. Relationship was never the same after I found the diary obviously. She could have gotten killed by someone , gotten pregnant or an STD I told her. Later on I found out she had contracted herpes and was having sex w/ me when as she said " her sores were not active." You can't make this up. This girl would get on her knees and beg me not to leave in front of people but that was obviously it. I am tall, was young and in shape at the time and have been described as good looking . She would buy me things, whatever I wanted. But it was just too much. Couldn't trust her. She became very successful and was an editor for a newspaper after graduating form one of the top Journalism schools in America. She came to see me at my sisters apartment and got into bed w/ me and admitted she had herpes . Honestly, after trying to cool off, I went to the bedroom, spat in her face and told her to leave. Relationship over. Took me 2 years to fully get over her, but i know I was better off. No matter how smart, how decent you think women are, don't let them fool you. Almost all are slimy , despicable creatures. Never trust them. And if they go on " girls trips" end it.. break up with them.
Because of stories like these and real life experience , I adopted a zero BS policy. Sure baby, go out with anyone, and take your stuff with you before I lock the door. Don't bother coming back
The absolute Triangle of Trouble = 1) ladies on vacation 2) as a group 3) with alcohol. This story plays out daily. While there are no excuses for the women, that herd of guys from the pool were basically predatory as well.
Ok, not to be hurtful, but I’m amused by “he’s the love of my life” and you couldn’t keep your legs closed for 4 MONTHS! You’re, by your own words, in the exciting new phase, and you cheated. What the heck is he suppose to expect from you when it’s the comfortable/boring phase. Household chores, flower bed weeding, lawn mowing laundry, dishes, kids up all night, pta, soccer games dance recital, etc. You are never getting him back. Best you can do is work on why “the love of your life” isn’t enough to keep you from straying. Some humorous female comments, like Troy insecurities… because Kim can’t be trust to say faithful for even 4 months. At this point he’s not invested much time in the relationship to try and salvage anything and obviously Kim isn’t invested either. As the second hoped they could save their relationships. Trust is gone, takes years to get back and during that time, every phone call will be suspect, every trip to shop, every night out with girls or family, every late night working, every 15 minute gap at the neighborhood barbecue will all be a cheater’s rendezvous. Who wants to go through that kind of anxiety for years? And in the end, you’re never going to forget the disrespect. You’re never going stop second guessing what you didn’t give her, why you weren’t good enough. Was the guy better looking, more charm, more lovable, bigger d!ck, better in bed… he’s forever going to have doubts about him really satisfying you. That why you read very few stories of the guy taking her back after… and the few that do always get burned a second time.
4 months? Don't flatter her. She was away a little over a day before jumping on somebody new.
@@McAnik-uo1ol4 months is only what she admits to we all know she was cheating the whole time because she says "alcohol makes her into someone she doesn't like" or something to that effect so how many times has she been out with the other 2 cheating women and drank alcohol and didn't like who she was
I wish these women that use these words "insecure and controlling" would explicitly define those words. I believe women who talk like this, thinks she can do what ever she wants and everyone HAS TO accept it regardless of their own feelings..
I am from an older generation, yes we had bad girls and boys during my teen and young adulthood. But, we did not have such a crisis as we have in 2023. These stories are becoming the rule instead of the exception! I have been married for close to 40 years, and my wife never attended a girl's night out including gatherings of such events with my sisters. Going to clubs and bars was a no-no when we were that age. I never went to a club or bar as well. We were too busy being parents, raising our kids to be successful citizens. The morals and values of the majority of people are at an old-time low!
I remember even as a kid that when couples became serious there were no longer weekends away or any clubbing unless of the spouse or gf/bf was with them.
I remember even how married friends would even subtly push away their friends that were not yet married until the latter did get married. Only then were they allowed to join the married couple socials.
Even the married guys got uphill from their wives if they went out as a group to sports games or events. They had to be back home by 10pm at latest or similar.
Now? Free for all and if you have boundaries “you’re insecure”. If you want the conservative values you’re “backward” or, oh gosh, all sorts of trendy derogatory terms.
She was dating multiple guys while seeing him. Then she cut off all the other guys. She was getting banged by the other guys, but saw potential in her BF. She liked the attention she was getting from the other guys. This is not the first time OP and her trashy friends have done this.
Female Response 3 @18:56: "I sincerely believe you've learned your lesson and will never do that again." Wishful thinking! Such behaviors are a character trait and only become more acceptable behavior to the offending party.
The women felt betrayed because their friends told on them. this shows they don't value betraying their SOs as much. It's a women vs men mentality that will keep them all single forever
Lets take this point by point.
1. "I love you" only weeks in? Love of my life? Really? Words. Just words.
2. Boozing the night before and boozing all the following day by the pool followed by boozing at the restaurant and lastly boozing when those low lives popped by at midnight? Those guys had you pegged. Girls away on a wild weekend? They knew they could not miss. Somebody was bound to stumble and land on their D.
3. At least nobody blamed the booze. You get originality points for blaming the cabin. Never heard that one before.
4. Upset that the 2 women with character hightailed it out of there and worse still ratted out their friends. Terrible of them. Such a betrayal. Not as big a betrayal as what you and your two partners in slime...
5. I become a different person when I drink. Spoke too soon. The booze does get the blame.
6. How could Troy be so cold? He's hurt. Worse than you. It hurts to talk to you. It hurts to see you. It hurts to remember you. His guard is up because everything about you is painful to him. He's a man though. He is being stoic.
7. Female commenter trotting out the tired old cliches about your ex BF. Controlling. Insecure. Really? I guess it is pretty controlling and insecure to think that the girl who loves you won't fall into bed with a stranger after only one day away.
Here's a few cliches about you Megan and Kelly. Cheap. Faithless. Selfish. Insincere.
Those "pool guys" only knew you for a few hours but they figured out what you are and what you'd do for a couple of drinks.
You're right it was only a couple of drinks it was only 2 bottles of champagne divided between 6 people
@@carrollcorder5169They had been drinking at the pool all afternoon and at the restaurant before the guys came to the door with the champagne.
My dude, really enjoy this channel. You need to start at least 2 videos a week my man 😂
1 vid a week just isn't cutting it 😅
Any woman that behaves like this is incapable of love. If she had any feelings resembling love or even respect for her boyfriend, she would never have done this… regardless of how much she drank.
The anatomy of every story like this:
Girls night out
+ Alcohol
+ men
= adultery
Same stories, just different angles, and then same result.
I lost my 1st wife to a girls night out thing. Now,I tell any woman I'm with that if we're to be together,that girls night out/girls trip shit comes to a stop now
ricky did she cheat on you?
@frank1fm634 Why,hell yeah, she did!!!
Yes here's some very good advise, 2:31 don't cheat on someone you claim to love and don't put yourself in a position where cheating can occur. Otherwise you dont love anyone but yourself and thats ok but then don't expect any man to take you seriosly.
It's sad that they blame Kelly. She is not responsible for their actions. She is married, so it was responsibility to say no.
She doesn’t need a therapist to t find out why she becomes a different person when she drinks. When she’s sober, she’s suppressing it but when she drinks she becomes who she really is. It’s very simple. She’s a suppressed 304.
Does anyone thinks that female response 2 is a cheater or friend
Definitely a cheater
Missed him so much that you CHEATED on this guy! You women KILL ME!! 🤣🤣🤣
My girlfriend proposed a Girl’s Trip to a resort in Mexico. I said “Sure!” She was elated.
Then I told her “All your gear will be in boxes on the front porch when you get back. We won’t even need to speak.”
She didn’t go.
A month or so later, she asked “Would you really have done that?” I looked at her in the eyes and told her, dead serious, “The surest thing in the world is that I would have boxed up your gear, broken up with you, and kicked you out.”
I’m not insecure. I’m not judgmental. But I DO have standards.
rickj interesting story.
I may send this to my daughter. She's 17, and really likes her BF.
Those two woman that spilled the beans have dignity morels and class those other three fall into the 98% of divorced woman since 98% of divorces are initiated by the woman
What I don't understand is why people find it mandatory to have multiple servings of alcoholic drinks at times like this. Now, I will say that since I got out of the Army in January, 1970 I have not had any alcoholic drinks at all, but I can see a glass of wine or a drink with a very light amount of alcohol in it. But 5 girls running around loose at a lodge with known groups of men also running around loose, then letting them into their cabin, is a gross misjudgment by them. Then partying it up with them. They got what they deserved.
OP was extremely salty over her and Kelly decision. She said Elanor and Janet made sure the neighborhood knows her business. The whole neighborhood, huh?
"not the love of your life, but may be the lust of your life at that moment"
Well said.
The two women that left were not betraying the other 3. The OP and her friends were actually puting the other 2 marraiges in danger. There husbands would have been wandering if there wives joined in also.
Elanor & Janet are good women
Eleanor and Janet are high value woman they tried to keep the guys out but realized it was a no go then removed themselves do not know them personally but actions speak louder than words