I love the way they say that bringing multiple people into you private relationship on a sexual level is going to help your relationship. Only an idiot could believe this
Well as the saying goes, there's a sucker born every min , sadly when it comes to open relationships, the women fill that sucker position (pun intented)
As if *pair* bonding has no role or place in committed relationships. Anyway, the open relationship issue is a red herring, an attempt to distract from and take the sting out of her running around.
He flat out told her it was disgusting and people that did that were people he wanted nothing to do with. Yet she was so set on sleeping with Taylor she still said she'd open the relationship if he would. I believe people refer to that as "affair fog" where you're so caught up in the feels you force your brain to not make logical connections so you can keep that high. In reality it's the same thing as the "honeymoon phase" of any other relationship where you willingly ignore massive red flags because it feels good.
She didn't just cheat on him. She was selfish, belittled him, disrespected him, and was needlessly passive aggressive to him long before any talks of open relationships. I would've been out of there the first sign she didn't appreciate my efforts 🤷
She acts like a 10 year old! Not a grr try own martiedvlady I can’t believe this is a true story “ if it is it’s so dam sad as ndvtotsl disrespectfulvto all very bcerned’ omg throw it all away for a few minutes with a married man ?? Call nebula nnww we here is her brand b???!🎉🎉🎉😂👌👀😊🍹🍹😭😛😭😛
Thank you for saying that. The disrespect was way before the open relationship conversation. My woman has boundaries that she never discuss me or our relationship to anyone without my permission. I told her never wash your laundry in the street.
No arguing, fighting, negotiating…if my wife/other half cheated on me, our marriage is OVER. I would silently go and the last thing she hear from me is, “we are getting a divorce so find yourself a lawyer.”
@@robertnoble7554 the proper response for that scenario is to work to prevent it happening in the first place. But if she were to betray the bond instead of working on it together with u, 2 options. 1. A threat of divorce....n prepare ur exit strategy....cos emotional cheating do lead to physical. Shes the one who has to regain ur trust. If she refused to repair the damage, then skedaddle. Oh, gray rock is essential... 2. Just skedaddle.
29:22 Female Response 3-"I'm happily married now, but deep down, my heart is still with that guy" Wow, what a keeper. I'm sure her husband would be thrilled to know he was settled for and is a lifelong runner-up in a contest he didn't even know he was competing in. How can any woman honestly call herself happily married if you've been alpha-widowed? Also, this is a perfect example of how polyamory wrecks relationships. In some cases it only needs one adherent to this lifestyle to even suggest it to someone else, who then gets it in their head it's a great idea, then stupidly goes to their SO to put the feelers out and hey presto, you don't even have to have a single hookup to nuke your marriage/relationship. The mere suggestion that you are into the idea is enough to make anyone with a hint of morals and self-respect to nope! the hell out of there.
💯🎯. Generally, Men are better at long-range planning, while womyn get caught up in the moment- and those all-so-important 'feeeelz'. Shortly before he passed, KS (RIP, Godfather) mentioned a trip he made to Miami. He said, "I saw '9s' and '10s' everywhere- not a single one of them thought past next Tuesday." Womyn. They'll absolutely destroy their future for something that "didn't mean anything!".
If your wife/gf ever bring up an open relationship, they are already cheating or have a partner on the hook. As soon as she asks "what do you think abkut an open relationship?" The relationship is over. Act accordingly.
26:31 Violet: He kissed me, Tom! Tom: K, you know what? That is a cop out. That is not fair. Yes, he may have been the one who kissed you. But there is a reason that he felt like that was an option. You know that's the truth.
What I like about this channel compared to other channels No bs. Gets straight to the story No constant interruptions every sentence or so to go on a paragraph or two lesson. Very concise. Lesson mentioned at the end rather than repeatedly at the beginning, end, and middle or not at all Edit: should probably say this makes it very easy to binge these videos, and increases rewatchability too
What I like about this channel too. About the other guy, lets not forget.... He has to CONSTANTLY REPEAT EVERY "LESSON". If I can never hear his voice say "Stay on your grind" one more time (other than the 13,000 times previously) I can die a happy man. Just tell the story and keep the comentary to a minimum. But then I remember how New Englanders are.
This man has self respect for himself. Again it's not find your alpha, find your dignity, find tour self-respect, find your integrity. This man did the right thing. I work retail and my wife is a nurse at a center. We love one another and we respect each other.
Trust me I know that. My wife and I already had that discussion and we discussed our boundaries. Our marriage is great. She respects me and I respect her. We love each other. Trust me everytime a man approaches her, she immediately says, "I'm married and I love my husband," and they leave her alone. Im one of few people that can say I'm blessed that I found a faithful, loving woman.
"I was engaged to be married to a guy, so of course I decided to two-time him by making out and more with another guy, because reasons, so Reddit, can you help me gaslight my fiance into accepting that all this is actually HIS fault and that I'm the victim here? Because, although I have zero love or respect or even mild fondness for him, the idea of him paying all of my many, many frivolous bills while I sneak around behind his back is still quite attractive to me."
What a coincidence... you can see it happening. Both going out; him with a regional manager and her with her new co-worker 'friend' Taylor. She'd told him where she'd be and when the evening with the RM fell through he thought it would be great to surprise her... THAT possibility had never entered her mind. And don't forget fella's, this is HER version of events. We only have her word for it that she wasn't already having $ex with Taylor.
There's no point in reading and listening to these stories if you are going to put in things that were never said. I could add that she secretly worked covert ops for the CIA and the bank call center job was a cover. It's just as plausible. Take the stories at face value, embellished or not.
@@dlewis9760 Because women lie about their $ex lives Lewis; they'll only admit to what they think you already know. If she says they only met once it was probably 5 times. If she says they only held hands then she gave him a BJ the time before. When she told him her body count was 5 it was really 15... I mean, you're an adult Lewis, don't you know this already?
@@thematrix2661 Her friend saw her blatantly flirting with the band guy. Usually that would mean the wife's not 100% content in her marriage, don't you think?
I wonder if the story about the meeting with the regional manager was a ruse to catch her in the act. The text from him asking where she was. A trick to see if she'd lie. Was he already there at the bar. Watching. She replies with love hearts and then continues having handsy dirty talk with Tyler. Seamus didn't owe her any more truth than she was serving up to him. Which was Zero.
I’ve been married for just over 21 years now, and my wife and I have raised two kids (19 girl, 18 boy). My wife became a stay at home mom after the birth of our daughter for the next 13 years. I picked up the loss of income by working OT anytime it was available. Doing so, I missed a lot of things. But my wife was nothing but thankful and appreciative of the extra work I put in so she could stay home. She never once complained, or gave me shit about having to work. And she never sought outside male attention either.
Mate....trust but verify. N no friggin girls night out. Why? Cos other dudes would be hitting on her. Married women are the extra prize cos that means the guys would cukk the husband.
@@eleethtahgra7182 nothing wrong with girls night out if they keep it to the girls. My gf has 2 single friends in her group. They know that if they want to accept drinks from a guy they need to leave the table. Not all committed women are taking drinks from other men.
So he was busting his butt, to get a new job to become even more financially stable for his family (remember that they was looking to have a kid soon), but instead of seeing the bigger picture she decided to be Selfish, by only thinking about herself... 🙄 Yeah, she was/is definitely not mature enough to be in a relationship
I could make this even a longer story, but I'll try to keep it short. Back in the 1980's I got married for the first time. I was 32 and my future ex-wife was 28. I dated her for three years before we married and it was like dating Marlo Thomas from the television show called, “That Girl”. She just looked so cute, dressed smartly, was bubbly and fun to be around, and when you saw her you just wanted to hug her and hold her close to you. I met her at church, and she professed to be a Christian. She was also a second-grade schoolteacher at the Christian school that was connected with our church. After her asking me numerous times to marry her, I finally said yes. During all of this I had been working for law enforcement for about seven years. I told her that was not my career of choice and that my goal was to work for the airlines in any capacity to just get my foot in the door. In addition, I also had my pilots license and an Associates Science degree in Aviation Technology in case things went that direction. I told her I was willing to move anywhere in the United States to take any legitimate job offered to make it happen and that I felt very strongly about this. Meaning no house mortgage and no children so that we could be ready to move when and if I was offered an airline position. Then at that point we could start looking at houses and deciding how many kids we wanted to have. Soon after our marriage she started making noises that she didn’t want to move and leave her friends and family behind. I told her in no uncertain terms that if I was offered a legitimate job with a reputable airline I would take it and if she wanted to stay behind she was free to do so. She on the other hand wanted to saddle me with children and a mortgage right away and condemn me to working in a factory or the likes of for the rest of my life. We both agreed to a three-year limit on my efforts to achieve this goal. Before you read on, I want to say that I am not one to necessarily hold a person’s past against them. Six months into the marriage I discovered this Christian girl I had married was sneaking around behind my back seeing an old boyfriend and having him over our apartment after I had left at ten-o-clock in the evening to work the night shift. But wait, there’s more. In addition, I also discovered she had no less than two abortions when she was in college studying to be a teacher. But wait, there’s more. While in college she attended all night sex charged parties that included drugs, alcohol, and debauchery of all sorts with numerous people of both sexes in attendance. Once the clothes came off, they stayed off for the entire night and into the next morning. They just walked around the apartment naked. Hey, who wants breakfast? Don’t bother putting any clothes on, it’s a come as you are breakfast. They just walked around the place naked, watched television, took showers together, until they had to leave for school or some other reason. The good news, if there is any, she was very good in bed when I married her and was up for whatever I wanted to do. Other good news is that because of her sneaking around behind my back with her ex-boyfriend, she had lost all trust I had in her and all privacy. I felt free to use all my skills and resources to dig into her past and personal life. In addition, I put a recorder on my own phone line among other tactics. No cell phones back then. Well anyways, when all this came to light, I was less inclined to want to tie myself to her with children and a mortgage and didn’t want a future with her as far as marriage was concerned. I couldn’t trust her anymore. I was surprised but not upset with her college years and willing to leave it the past. I was not so willing to put her current indiscretion so quickly in the past. It didn’t help that she took no responsibility for her actions, kept defending what she had done, and continued blaming me for her inability to be a faithful wife. We did go for counselling and according to her it was all my fault she was sneaking around with her ex-boyfriend. I made her do it. Enough said there. What she didn’t seem to realize is that besides what she had already done, as damaging as it was. She more importantly didn’t consider the trust had been broken. I could no longer trust her anymore and questioned everything now and in the past. Was I being lied too then also? How could I trust her going forward? I did go to her ex’s place of employment and flatten his car tires. She got angry with me for doing so. I could have argued it wasn’t my fault and it was all her fault. I could have accused her of making a big deal out of nothing, and she “made” me do it, but I didn’t. In addition to defending her actions, telling me it was my fault, and telling me I was making a big deal out of nothing. She never admitted wrong doing, never said she realizes how wrong it was of her and sorry she had hurt me, never apologized, never said I am sorry, never promised to never do it again, did nothing to even try to make me feel more secure in our relationship or build the trust back and….. and…. Get this…. Told me how lucky I was that her ex-boyfriend didn’t come over here and beat my a~~ for flattening his tires! Yea, that sounds like something I want to be married to…. If I was a moron. Really? My wife telling me her husband how lucky I am that her ex-boyfriend doesn’t come over to this apartment I am paying for and beat my a~~ for flattening his tires? Really! Did she tell him how lucky he is I don’t go over to his house and beat his A$$ for conspiring with my wife for after hour “visitation” in my apartment after I had left to go to work? Well bring it on. Anytime he’s ready, I can forget all about how lucky I am. I am sure he knows how to get here. We divorced after three years, I stayed single for the most part after that, got a vasectomy, never had any children by choice, and soon after our divorce I was offered a position with a major airline in a different state and had a wonderful twenty-year career traveling all over the world and “knowing” many attractive women. She on the other hand did get what she wanted, in a sense. She did get remarried to a divorced man with children and had one daughter with him from that union. I met the daughter when she was a teenager and she seemed like a nice girl. A little off but she probably inherited that from her father. In addition my ex was also “blessed” with custody of one of her new simps mentally challenged sons his ex-wife didn’t want. He had more children but his ex-wanted to keep those for herself. Her husband was somewhat mentally challenged himself and much older than her. Maybe that’s why his one son turned out a little odd. I felt bad for the poor slob coming out of a bad marriage and then marrying her. He had a shrew of an ex-wife, and the child that was mentally challenged must have inherited whatever it was that was making his father a little odd “schizophrenic”. His ex-wife did not want this child living with her, so my ex and her new pack mule had to take him in. Running around the house at all hours of the night locking and unlocking doors, running up and down the stairs…. And she HAD to work outside the home which was not the case when she was married to me. In addition, the reason she had to work is because her new simp was not making enough money to pay his child support. So her pay cheque went directly to her new simps ex-wife. I am sure she was just thrilled to hand over her paycheck to his ex-wife. So that’s the life she traded to get, for the one I was offering her. Moving to a better climate, traveling all over the world first class, Hawaii, Paris, Iceland, New Zealand, Kenya safari, Rome, the Pyramids, Alaska…, a nice home, children that we could have had together, and a life we could easily afford so she can be a stay-at-home mom. I am just shaking my head. Women’s logic? All whilst I was traveling first class around the world eating in exotic restaurants in Europe, lying on beaches in the Caribbean, snowmobiling mountains in Iceland, hiking into the craters of inactive volcanoes in Hawaii, exploring Alaska, romantic evenings sleeping on the beaches of New Zealand, Kenya safaris…. And all with attractive and fun-loving women I either took with me or met there. My ex is now divorced again, the daughter they had together did not want to stay with her mother and wanted to stay with her father and did. My ex is now and has been for quite some time, alone, has a few friends but none close, does not own a home, lives in an apartment and at the mercy of paying rent that can change at any time, struggling financially, and estranged from her daughter. I on the other hand own a nice home that is paid for in a nice neighborhood, a late model car that is paid for, no credit card or any other kind of debt, money in the bank, retired with an airline pension and can still travel for free, good circle of friends, popular with the ladies, and a good social life I can easily afford. I will just never understand the logic or lack thereof of women. It’s like they are relationship suicidal or hell bent on destroying their lives, their future, and the lives of those unfortunate enough to get caught up in their unnecessary drama. In today’s world, apparently the worst thing a woman can experience is being married to a man who loves her, has a good career, and a bright future. Life is hard. It’s even harder when you’re stupid. In this world you either lead, follow, or get out of the way.
@@im1who84uwhat seems to happen is that they actually want to be disrespected.Ex in this story,she didnt appreciate his kisses and attention when he was still with her happy,but when he left and that affection was pulled back,she felt it missing and it ate her up. Idk what it is with them and not realising what they have before its too late but it seems to be getting more and more chronic gen after gen. Men arent saints either tho and fuck up a lot themselves,but it seems main reason for that is being too stressed from work,house,nagging wife and other people
Did she slap the guy when he kissed her? Did she throw her drink at him? Push him away and scream at him? That's how a woman reacts when someone tries to kiss her and she's unwilling. If she had done that, the boyfriend would have seen it and reacted differently. That's proof the kiss was not unwelcome.
this is why open relationships lead to the couple breaking up or divorcing. all it takes is 1 person talking about it to a frustrated woman and it leads to endless trouble
I find this whole phenomenon to be truly disturbing. It’s not people “choosing to live a more open lifestyle”, these people are PREDATORS! It is like a virus, and the fact that so many women are signing up to get passed around by men who view them as objects is astonishing. A truly scathing indictment of modern western women
It's not easy, but a big part of an open relationship's success is that you don't do it with a woman you want to marry. You're just fucking, trying to set up a rotation and keeping the favorite girl as your constant. Then when you're ready to settle down serious with someone you cut everyone else loose, maybe fully off if they can't relax and you enjoy your real relationship. I would never understand how a couple who are in love and married or whatever can then sensibly say yes let's open this up and go off on our own ventures to fuck other people but grow old together. It just opens the floor to so much jealousy and resentment especially if it becomes a tit for tat situation.
She is just like so many other women that I've read about ; they want to have a nice life and security, but they get angry when their partner tries to be on his grind to accomplish that for them
But wouldn’t nice life be defined differently? Some people don’t care about the having lots of money, they care more on quality time rather than materials. (Not supporting the cheating part in case you try to twist it lol) just arguing what it means to have a “nice life”
The expectation is the material side AND the quality time. I have never seen any wife or partner truly willing to understand it’s a trade off. AND realistically until one hears the quality time is a problem what is heard are a lot of financial demands and high standards for material goods.
OP had the open relationship mentality , which is completely the opposite of Seamus--- all actions are transactional , no action has value in itself. No boundaries aside from desires, No discipline. She is to immature for a monogamous relationship, She couldn't even be honest with herself as she creeped to having sex with that predator Taylor. The pretense of love in an "open relationship" is laughable and absurd.
HE?? There is nothing about being immature in this story. The whole open relationship thing ´has nothing to do with being immature. The whole open relationship is a question of character. Is a question of morals and values. It is a question of respect. It is a question about living just for your self and just this moment or have the future in mind. BUt thre is nothing about being immature. It is all about having personality problems.
So many of these "open relationship" types are expert groomers. They look for people who are experiencing vulnerabilities at home and they know exactly how to ease their way in. It's really diabolical because they don't seem to care how many relationships they destroy. Having said that, this woman was terrible and selfish long before she was approached and deserved exactly what she got.
Yea soon as you started talking to Taylor you wanted desperately to try open marriage but mostly wanted to bang Taylor As soon as you hooked up with Taylor for drinks thats was a sign You wanted to bang him forget about husband kidz and marriage all about what I want 😮
Something tells me that Seamus wasn't that surprised to find her with a guy at the tavern. I'm betting the moment she said "open relationship", his hamster wheel was going. He did "what if" follow-ups to judge what she was actually thinking about this, he knew she had 'friends' at work into open relationships, etc. His change in hours was likely to catch her in a lie. I'd bet he took a keen interest in where she was and with whom. The fact he never confronted her at the bar, had his father there, was packed so quickly, and was waiting for her at home, suggests he'd already planned the break up -- certainly emotionally.
30:05 "Buy a couple cats and a Subaru!" That had me laughing like a crazy person. Walking down the hallway at work with my air pods on and just blew up laughing! If anyone saw me, I probably looked insane!
I'll agree with the 2nd read comment that Taylor was a complete d-bag. He did push things way beyond any acceptable level for a coworker. But it was entirely within Sharon's right and ability to shut him down. She really should have taken him to the HR department at work but chose not to. She made several conscious decisions to let the situation go as far as it did. Zero sympathy for her.
Yeah Taylor is a creep. Sharon kept the situation going though so why ruin his life out of some petty revenge? She had ample opportunities to shut all this down.
She didn't leave him any options unfortunately. She misses the safety and security, not him and not his love. Seamus dodged a big old bullet, because she was going to pull this crap sooner or later. She thankfully did it sooner.
Right.... her SO just happened to see the first unwanted kiss that she wasn't expecting. So believable. I'm sure that's how it happens every time. Could see the lack of accountability from the 2nd screen when the whole thing was blamed on Seamus being a workaholic. She got what she wanted, the freedom to sleep around, but wait she wanted him to pay her bills while she does it. Agree with the commenter that said Taylor's wife probably doesn't know she's in an open marriage. Should have asked Taylor to bring his wife to the pub so you could ask her about how the "open marriage" was benefiting her, then watch Taylor flounder for excuses as to why his wife is too busy to talk with you.
I'd agree. She was probably sucking him off in the copy room for months and wanted to stop sneaking around. I really doubt the workplace was openly talking about and participating in "open marriages" like she described.
The Taylor's of the world can smell a woman like her a mile away. He saw an opening, and went for the jugular, telling her everything she wanted to hear.
Yeah...smooth talkers could talk their way into woman's pants. Thats why scammers exist... The scammers who target women have pre written texts of what to email/chat with what type of woman.
It never ceases to SLAY me how some are INCAPABLE of recognizing the error of their ways BEFORE destroying their relationships. Why cannot they weigh the devastating costs of selfishness/unfaithfulness - & choose to be wise & honorable? But, NOPE, it's always "Oh, how I wish I could go back in time." WELL...YA CAN'T.
Affair Fog is very real. Women in particular are very susceptible to it, being the more emotional of the two sexes. Once that limbic system kicks in and those hormones start coursing, reason and rationality literally go out the window. History is littered with the wreckage of many a marriage/relationship where, once the dust has settled, the woman has genuinely been perplexed and completely unable to understand how it's come to this and why exactly she went temporarily insane.
When have you ever heard a woman talk about honor? or duty? These concepts are foreign to them, men understand them because we evolved to, since it requires honor and self-sacrifice to protect your family, your village, your people from attack and give up your life doing it. Women understand only survival and running away at the slightest provocation because that's how they keep themselves and their children alive when barbarians are at the gates. Same reason they follow only their emotions and fall for any new guy that demonstrates more value: in war men killed other men and took the women for themselves, those women that couldn't fall in love with the new guy that has just killed her husband where disposed of and their genes snuffed out of the gene pool.
Of course its good. Kinda like krokodil is good for the body. OR is good for bringing the relationship to the grave. Krokodil is good for hastening the body to the grave.
When a woman questions why a man doesn't want her to go out to bars or clubs, or "girl's night out", etc., THIS is what they are protecting her from. Female commenter #2 is putting the accountability on Taylor, but it belongs to OP. If OP never agreed/went to meet Taylor, _especially given she knows his intentions towards her,_ this would never have happened. And given how passive women tend to be, her talking dirty with him and allowing him to put hands on her without decisive action to remove them is when the line was crossed. Before that tavern visit, she was toeing the line, as this really never was an emotional affair. Again, if she didn't agree to meet him at the tavern in the first place, she wouldn't have been in the position to have to defend herself - and when she failed to do that, that was the end of it all. Some people just have to learn the hard way. Revised post as my original one missed the dirty talk part in the tavern...
Nah. Both are at fault. Her for being stupid, him for being predator. Kinda like...a thief entering unlocked house. Her for being stupid not locking the house. Him being the thief.
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Don't forget she "went home to clean-up" before meeting Taylor at the bar. She knew what she was getting into and would have slept with him the next meeting and probably had a long term affair. This dude got incredibly lucky. He probably dodged a case of paternity fraud too.
There is another story of a wife wanting the OR because her female coworkers all hyped it, and her new male manager was, of course, in one. The wife convinced her husband to go along with it and began hooking up right away with her manager. The husband took a while longer, but found an Asian gal who he really connected with. Once her husband was hooking-up, the wife, of course, wanted to close the OR. Her "friends" at work told her, "If you can't stand the heat, stay out of the oven". She continued tolerating the husband with his lover until she found out her manager was, in fact, cheating on his fiance, and overheard him tell another male employee that SHE (the wife) was so easy to get in bed and nothing more than a pleasant distraction. She, at that point, demanded that she and her husband close the OR. Well, hubby said, "No, thanks!" and he ended up filing for divorce. He moved out, but went back one time to collect a few things, thinking she wasn't home. She was home, just staring at some photos of the two of them that she set on the coffee table. She tried to hug him and offered him lunch before trying to initiate s-word activities. He declined, and she started yelling, "What does she do for you that I don't?". Her soon-to-be-ex said, "Everything." End of story... Good for Seamus for ditching Sharon. The fact that their s-word life has fallen off is a sign of developing-problems already. A man doesn't turn down his wife's s-word advances unless there are other marital issues going on and/or she's nothing to write home about- in terms of looks or s-word performance. He saw the signs of her overvaluing herself and wanting to use him for resources, did his investigating, and said, "See ya." He can move on now, and find a better-quality gal. Sharon is too immature and gullible. I'm gonna bet none of her coworkers are actually involved in open relationships... including Taylor.
Right, because if Seamus wasn't busting his @$$ to advance his career, she would have cheated on him because he wasn't ambitious enough and she needed him to make more money.
always the same with modern women first blame and critizise the betrayed spouse to justify her cheating. Ofc she cheated after her bf did 1 small mistake she wanted to cheat with the old man but is only sry she got caught good for the bf doged a huge bullet if he would stay he would raise the old coworkers child without knowing. She can now be a sidechick of her grandpa coworker haha
The time machine was invented but destroyed after they went back in time to not correct what they wish could be taken back but only change that they were never caught...
If men who were cheated on were given a time machine, most would go back further in time and prevent themselves from meeting the woman. You may be able to stop a cheater once, but can't stop her all the time.
The more I listen to these stories and the net is full of them, the more I am beginning to believe that most women are not marriage material. I suspect that I am not alone.
Recently, theres a story in true story channel. About a wife that make out with band member. Her female friend outed her, even preventing the WW banging him. So, yes, theres honorable women out there...the best one could do, in the West, is to notice the red flags before courting a woman for marriage.
Many of us have the same experience, personally I've met a few women who seemed loyal and traditional only to find out they are the complete opposite behind closed doors. Not women I dated but ones that pretty much offered to cheat on their men with me. Just don't marry, it's not worth it under any circumstances, if you must have a woman by your side, do it, but don't marry, so that you can have a clean break like Seamus in this story did when the time came for it.
Just going out with a guy who is showing sexual interest in her is a betrayal and grounds for break up, not to mention the lying she was doing good ridance the dude will be better off.
I have heard a lot of these stories and have seen several where the woman OP was called out by those who knew what happened about their "narrative" being mostly false. They always try to paint themselves as the victim or mostly innocent. What this woman posted is NOT the true story. The inner monologue about how she pulled her hands away and her body language after the kiss are probably gaslighting. She was a willing participant in the meetups that she kept from her SO and knew this guy wanted to have relations with her. This would be a good one for the instant karma group.
Seamus more than likely caught her in a deep passionate kiss with Taylor. While the story doesn't say there was a picture taken, Seamus probably took a pic of them kissing passionately and then texted her when he got home. Chances are she was going to hook up with Taylor that night but Seamus caught her before she had the chance. Good on Seamus for ridding himself of her. She's selfish and immature; she's not relationship material.
No point. You cannot trust women outside of the paradigm of patriarchy and sexual purity. It is what it is. Any other system requires men to accept that nearly all women are on a carousel and it’s just your turn-even if she’s your wife.
I'm sorry, I think she's lying. She was most likely sleeping with the co-worker long before Shamus caught them in the bar. She's spinning this yarn hoping Shamus will encounter the story "by accident", believe her lies and take her back thinking "she must be telling the truth because how would she know I would see it". Think about it: Why else would she use his real name?
This woman was an extremely selfish, narcissistic bint. It was all "me, me, me". Her feelings were all that mattered, and the fact that he was working so hard to save up for the FUTURE FAMILY THEY WERE PLANNING, was entirely lost in her selfish mind.
This woman entered into a physical relationship with a man that she knew was interested in sleeping with her and she encouraged his actions by her conduct. She never expressed her disgust when Taylor rubbed her hand, hugging and kissing her. If her boyfriend hadn't seen her, she would have eventually slept this guy. Shamus made the right decision.
Man dodged a bullet. His timing was great , hers not. While it may sting the big time,I look back on things that burned me and thought I was cursed only to discover it was a blessing in disguise.
"Went back to having small talk" This is the FAIL, if she really didnt want to get down with him, she should have ended the conversation and distanced herself from the guy, but she didnt. She's trash. Why have "extensive" conversations with that guy about open relationships when your guy at home made it clear that was a NOPE. If she had smacked the face off this guy when he crossed the line and kissed her like she should have, she may have saved the relationship.
Stories like this really grind my gears. If a woman is upset that her man is working too much while they’re always free and lonely… GET A JOB. If she already has a job… work more. The woman can work more so her boyfriend/husband doesn’t have to work so much. I can’t tell you how many stories I’ve heard where the wife cheats because she’s bored and lonely. If she has so much free time, then she can work more and actually contribute.
Just that Jessica and the other '' open '' co -workers are trying to bring you down to their level or destroy your relationship with Seamus . call it peer pressure ! or consensual adultery and you're trying to find excuses to justify what you plan to do . It's never a time to take your fiance for granted or even after marriage . Maybe having consensual sex is just as wrong as cheating after marriage only that you don't see the consequences until it's too late . we don't mess around with our lives or messed it all up !
I believe part of the problem is that he had a job he liked and she had one she hated. Part of being in a relationship is backing up your partner. The hours he had to put in was part of his job. He was trying to save for a home and for the children they were planning to have. In any relationship sometimes the bedroom activities might slow down a little but not completely go dead. It's not he was working the way he was because he didn't want to spend time with her that would have been wrong on his part if he was. She is just a selfish woman who was only thinking of her own needs and not the needs of him or the relationship.
I could make this even a longer story, but I'll try to keep it short. Back in the 1980's I got married for the first time. I was 32 and my future ex-wife was 28. I dated her for three years before we married and it was like dating Marlo Thomas from the television show called, “That Girl”. She just looked so cute, dressed smartly, was bubbly and fun to be around, and when you saw her you just wanted to hug her and hold her close to you. I met her at church, and she professed to be a Christian. She was also a second-grade schoolteacher at the Christian school that was connected with our church. After her asking me numerous times to marry her, I finally said yes. During all of this I had been working for law enforcement for about seven years. I told her that was not my career of choice and that my goal was to work for the airlines in any capacity to just get my foot in the door. In addition, I also had my pilots license and an Associates Science degree in Aviation Technology in case things went that direction. I told her I was willing to move anywhere in the United States to take any legitimate job offered to make it happen and that I felt very strongly about this. Meaning no house mortgage and no children so that we could be ready to move when and if I was offered an airline position. Then at that point we could start looking at houses and deciding how many kids we wanted to have. Soon after our marriage she started making noises that she didn’t want to move and leave her friends and family behind. I told her in no uncertain terms that if I was offered a legitimate job with a reputable airline I would take it and if she wanted to stay behind she was free to do so. She on the other hand wanted to saddle me with children and a mortgage right away and condemn me to working in a factory or the likes of for the rest of my life. We both agreed to a three-year limit on my efforts to achieve this goal. Before you read on, I want to say that I am not one to necessarily hold a person’s past against them. Six months into the marriage I discovered this Christian girl I had married was sneaking around behind my back seeing an old boyfriend and having him over our apartment after I had left at ten-o-clock in the evening to work the night shift. But wait, there’s more. In addition, I also discovered she had no less than two abortions when she was in college studying to be a teacher. But wait, there’s more. While in college she attended all night sex charged parties that included drugs, alcohol, and debauchery of all sorts with numerous people of both sexes in attendance. Once the clothes came off, they stayed off for the entire night and into the next morning. They just walked around the apartment naked. Hey, who wants breakfast? Don’t bother putting any clothes on, it’s a come as you are breakfast. They just walked around the place naked, watched television, took showers together, until they had to leave for school or some other reason. The good news, if there is any, she was very good in bed when I married her and was up for whatever I wanted to do. Other good news is that because of her sneaking around behind my back with her ex-boyfriend, she had lost all trust I had in her and all privacy. I felt free to use all my skills and resources to dig into her past and personal life. In addition, I put a recorder on my own phone line among other tactics. No cell phones back then. Well anyways, when all this came to light, I was less inclined to want to tie myself to her with children and a mortgage and didn’t want a future with her as far as marriage was concerned. I couldn’t trust her anymore. I was surprised but not upset with her college years and willing to leave it the past. I was not so willing to put her current indiscretion so quickly in the past. It didn’t help that she took no responsibility for her actions, kept defending what she had done, and continued blaming me for her inability to be a faithful wife. We did go for counselling and according to her it was all my fault she was sneaking around with her ex-boyfriend. I made her do it. Enough said there. What she didn’t seem to realize is that besides what she had already done, as damaging as it was. She more importantly didn’t consider the trust had been broken. I could no longer trust her anymore and questioned everything now and in the past. Was I being lied too then also? How could I trust her going forward? I did go to her ex’s place of employment and flatten his car tires. She got angry with me for doing so. I could have argued it wasn’t my fault and it was all her fault. I could have accused her of making a big deal out of nothing, and she “made” me do it, but I didn’t. In addition to defending her actions, telling me it was my fault, and telling me I was making a big deal out of nothing. She never admitted wrong doing, never said she realizes how wrong it was of her and sorry she had hurt me, never apologized, never said I am sorry, never promised to never do it again, did nothing to even try to make me feel more secure in our relationship or build the trust back and….. and…. Get this…. Told me how lucky I was that her ex-boyfriend didn’t come over here and beat my a~~ for flattening his tires! Yea, that sounds like something I want to be married to…. If I was a moron. Really? My wife telling me her husband how lucky I am that her ex-boyfriend doesn’t come over to this apartment I am paying for and beat my a~~ for flattening his tires? Really! Did she tell him how lucky he is I don’t go over to his house and beat his A$$ for conspiring with my wife for after hour “visitation” in my apartment after I had left to go to work? Well bring it on. Anytime he’s ready, I can forget all about how lucky I am. I am sure he knows how to get here. We divorced after three years, I stayed single for the most part after that, got a vasectomy, never had any children by choice, and soon after our divorce I was offered a position with a major airline in a different state and had a wonderful twenty-year career traveling all over the world and “knowing” many attractive women. She on the other hand did get what she wanted, in a sense. She did get remarried to a divorced man with children and had one daughter with him from that union. I met the daughter when she was a teenager and she seemed like a nice girl. A little off but she probably inherited that from her father. In addition my ex was also “blessed” with custody of one of her new simps mentally challenged sons his ex-wife didn’t want. He had more children but his ex-wanted to keep those for herself. Her husband was somewhat mentally challenged himself and much older than her. Maybe that’s why his one son turned out a little odd. I felt bad for the poor slob coming out of a bad marriage and then marrying her. He had a shrew of an ex-wife, and the child that was mentally challenged must have inherited whatever it was that was making his father a little odd “schizophrenic”. His ex-wife did not want this child living with her, so my ex and her new pack mule had to take him in. Running around the house at all hours of the night locking and unlocking doors, running up and down the stairs…. And she HAD to work outside the home which was not the case when she was married to me. In addition, the reason she had to work is because her new simp was not making enough money to pay his child support. So her pay cheque went directly to her new simps ex-wife. I am sure she was just thrilled to hand over her paycheck to his ex-wife. So that’s the life she traded to get, for the one I was offering her. Moving to a better climate, traveling all over the world first class, Hawaii, Paris, Iceland, New Zealand, Kenya safari, Rome, the Pyramids, Alaska…, a nice home, children that we could have had together, and a life we could easily afford so she can be a stay-at-home mom. I am just shaking my head. Women’s logic? All whilst I was traveling first class around the world eating in exotic restaurants in Europe, lying on beaches in the Caribbean, snowmobiling mountains in Iceland, hiking into the craters of inactive volcanoes in Hawaii, exploring Alaska, romantic evenings sleeping on the beaches of New Zealand, Kenya safaris…. And all with attractive and fun-loving women I either took with me or met there. My ex is now divorced again, the daughter they had together did not want to stay with her mother and wanted to stay with her father and did. My ex is now and has been for quite some time, alone, has a few friends but none close, does not own a home, lives in an apartment and at the mercy of paying rent that can change at any time, struggling financially, and estranged from her daughter. I on the other hand own a nice home that is paid for in a nice neighborhood, a late model car that is paid for, no credit card or any other kind of debt, money in the bank, retired with an airline pension and can still travel for free, good circle of friends, popular with the ladies, and a good social life I can easily afford. I will just never understand the logic or lack thereof of women. It’s like they are relationship suicidal or hell bent on destroying their lives, their future, and the lives of those unfortunate enough to get caught up in their unnecessary drama. In today’s world, apparently the worst thing a woman can experience is being married to a man who loves her, has a good career, and a bright future. Life is hard. It’s even harder when you’re stupid. In this world you either lead, follow, or get out of the way.
I could make this even a longer story, but I'll try to keep it short. Back in the 1980's I got married for the first time. I was 32 and my future ex-wife was 28. I dated her for three years before we married and it was like dating Marlo Thomas from the television show called, “That Girl”. She just looked so cute, dressed smartly, was bubbly and fun to be around, and when you saw her you just wanted to hug her and hold her close to you. I met her at church, and she professed to be a Christian. She was also a second-grade schoolteacher at the Christian school that was connected with our church. After her asking me numerous times to marry her, I finally said yes. During all of this I had been working for law enforcement for about seven years. I told her that was not my career of choice and that my goal was to work for the airlines in any capacity to just get my foot in the door. In addition, I also had my pilots license and an Associates Science degree in Aviation Technology in case things went that direction. I told her I was willing to move anywhere in the United States to take any legitimate job offered to make it happen and that I felt very strongly about this. Meaning no house mortgage and no children so that we could be ready to move when and if I was offered an airline position. Then at that point we could start looking at houses and deciding how many kids we wanted to have. Soon after our marriage she started making noises that she didn’t want to move and leave her friends and family behind. I told her in no uncertain terms that if I was offered a legitimate job with a reputable airline I would take it and if she wanted to stay behind she was free to do so. She on the other hand wanted to saddle me with children and a mortgage right away and condemn me to working in a factory or the likes of for the rest of my life. We both agreed to a three-year limit on my efforts to achieve this goal. Before you read on, I want to say that I am not one to necessarily hold a person’s past against them. Six months into the marriage I discovered this Christian girl I had married was sneaking around behind my back seeing an old boyfriend and having him over our apartment after I had left at ten-o-clock in the evening to work the night shift. But wait, there’s more. In addition, I also discovered she had no less than two abortions when she was in college studying to be a teacher. But wait, there’s more. While in college she attended all night sex charged parties that included drugs, alcohol, and debauchery of all sorts with numerous people of both sexes in attendance. Once the clothes came off, they stayed off for the entire night and into the next morning. They just walked around the apartment naked. Hey, who wants breakfast? Don’t bother putting any clothes on, it’s a come as you are breakfast. They just walked around the place naked, watched television, took showers together, until they had to leave for school or some other reason. The good news, if there is any, she was very good in bed when I married her and was up for whatever I wanted to do. Other good news is that because of her sneaking around behind my back with her ex-boyfriend, she had lost all trust I had in her and all privacy. I felt free to use all my skills and resources to dig into her past and personal life. In addition, I put a recorder on my own phone line among other tactics. No cell phones back then. Well anyways, when all this came to light, I was less inclined to want to tie myself to her with children and a mortgage and didn’t want a future with her as far as marriage was concerned. I couldn’t trust her anymore. I was surprised but not upset with her college years and willing to leave it the past. I was not so willing to put her current indiscretion so quickly in the past. It didn’t help that she took no responsibility for her actions, kept defending what she had done, and continued blaming me for her inability to be a faithful wife. We did go for counselling and according to her it was all my fault she was sneaking around with her ex-boyfriend. I made her do it. Enough said there. What she didn’t seem to realize is that besides what she had already done, as damaging as it was. She more importantly didn’t consider the trust had been broken. I could no longer trust her anymore and questioned everything now and in the past. Was I being lied too then also? How could I trust her going forward? I did go to her ex’s place of employment and flatten his car tires. She got angry with me for doing so. I could have argued it wasn’t my fault and it was all her fault. I could have accused her of making a big deal out of nothing, and she “made” me do it, but I didn’t. In addition to defending her actions, telling me it was my fault, and telling me I was making a big deal out of nothing. She never admitted wrong doing, never said she realizes how wrong it was of her and sorry she had hurt me, never apologized, never said I am sorry, never promised to never do it again, did nothing to even try to make me feel more secure in our relationship or build the trust back and….. and…. Get this…. Told me how lucky I was that her ex-boyfriend didn’t come over here and beat my a~~ for flattening his tires! Yea, that sounds like something I want to be married to…. If I was a moron. Really? My wife telling me her husband how lucky I am that her ex-boyfriend doesn’t come over to this apartment I am paying for and beat my a~~ for flattening his tires? Really! Did she tell him how lucky he is I don’t go over to his house and beat his A$$ for conspiring with my wife for after hour “visitation” in my apartment after I had left to go to work? Well bring it on. Anytime he’s ready, I can forget all about how lucky I am. I am sure he knows how to get here. We divorced after three years, I stayed single for the most part after that, got a vasectomy, never had any children by choice, and soon after our divorce I was offered a position with a major airline in a different state and had a wonderful twenty-year career traveling all over the world and “knowing” many attractive women. She on the other hand did get what she wanted, in a sense. She did get remarried to a divorced man with children and had one daughter with him from that union. I met the daughter when she was a teenager and she seemed like a nice girl. A little off but she probably inherited that from her father. In addition my ex was also “blessed” with custody of one of her new simps mentally challenged sons his ex-wife didn’t want. He had more children but his ex-wanted to keep those for herself. Her husband was somewhat mentally challenged himself and much older than her. Maybe that’s why his one son turned out a little odd. I felt bad for the poor slob coming out of a bad marriage and then marrying her. He had a shrew of an ex-wife, and the child that was mentally challenged must have inherited whatever it was that was making his father a little odd “schizophrenic”. His ex-wife did not want this child living with her, so my ex and her new pack mule had to take him in. Running around the house at all hours of the night locking and unlocking doors, running up and down the stairs…. And she HAD to work outside the home which was not the case when she was married to me. In addition, the reason she had to work is because her new simp was not making enough money to pay his child support. So her pay cheque went directly to her new simps ex-wife. I am sure she was just thrilled to hand over her paycheck to his ex-wife. So that’s the life she traded to get, for the one I was offering her. Moving to a better climate, traveling all over the world first class, Hawaii, Paris, Iceland, New Zealand, Kenya safari, Rome, the Pyramids, Alaska…, a nice home, children that we could have had together, and a life we could easily afford so she can be a stay-at-home mom. I am just shaking my head. Women’s logic? All whilst I was traveling first class around the world eating in exotic restaurants in Europe, lying on beaches in the Caribbean, snowmobiling mountains in Iceland, hiking into the craters of inactive volcanoes in Hawaii, exploring Alaska, romantic evenings sleeping on the beaches of New Zealand, Kenya safaris…. And all with attractive and fun-loving women I either took with me or met there. My ex is now divorced again, the daughter they had together did not want to stay with her mother and wanted to stay with her father and did. My ex is now and has been for quite some time, alone, has a few friends but none close, does not own a home, lives in an apartment and at the mercy of paying rent that can change at any time, struggling financially, and estranged from her daughter. I on the other hand own a nice home that is paid for in a nice neighborhood, a late model car that is paid for, no credit card or any other kind of debt, money in the bank, retired with an airline pension and can still travel for free, good circle of friends, popular with the ladies, and a good social life I can easily afford. I will just never understand the logic or lack thereof of women. It’s like they are relationship suicidal or hell bent on destroying their lives, their future, and the lives of those unfortunate enough to get caught up in their unnecessary drama. In today’s world, apparently the worst thing a woman can experience is being married to a man who loves her, has a good career, and a bright future. Life is hard. It’s even harder when you’re stupid. In this world you either lead, follow, or get out of the way.
Who says he liked it? He was busting his butt because he wanted to support his family and she was being an ingrate. Jobs are called jobs because people don't like doing them. I wish more women understood this. It is a rare thing for someone to enjoy doing their job.
The guy is a workaholic. Alot of guys with work addictions, end up being thrown away, years later, by the same bosses they sacrificed for. I'm sorry, it's harder finding a Good Relationship, than a Good Job. Jobs are more plentiful, than quality partners.
Before I retired, I too had a job where sometimes I was told I had to work late. You don't have a choice! You have to do what your boss wants. In times like that you need to have a women in your life who is mature enough to understand and not get mad at you.
Him: _sees marriage and children on the horizon, decides to work harder to be a better man, providing for his family and getting a promotion._ Her: "My decision to cheat was _your_ fault."
She deserves all she got! She was a few dates away from banging that Taylor guy and having a full blown affair. She should be single. Her actions are that of a teenager. At her age she should know better than to be doing drinks with men after work while married.
So he works hard and only wants to sleep with one woman? This man is a monster! (Gasps, clutches pearls, swoons onto fainting couch and calls for smelling salts...)
She writes as if she is oh so innocent. She wanted to cheat with a guy who is having a lot of $@%...She even picked a fight with her fiance to create an excuse to do so.
I used to be in retail management, my work hours were 50-70 hours a week. As for the story, if her BF never caught her, she would eventually sleep with the guy. And had they moved out together, that seed of open relationship is in her mind now and sooner or later, she will begin to resent him again because like I said, Retail requires 50-70 hours a week. Good luck keeping her happy. You are either a cheater or you aren't. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
She lost Seamus when telling him she would be willing to open their relationship if he agreed to it. Catching her with Taylor was just the push he needed to act on it.
IT"s really sad when a wife or fiance starts talking about opening up a relationship because what is really happening is she is wispering in your ear "Honey, it"s over". And it can come up any time so guys when it happens be ready to eat a shit sandwich. And remember to get all your finances in order so she cant walk away with any of your property, then just give her the old kiss off, permanently.
That's why guys need to have separate finances from their SO's, both before and after marriage. Guys, if you have a house in your name only before the marriage, DO NOT add her to the deed if you can. And INSIST on getting a pre-nup through a good family law attorney. Get the attorney involved BEFORE marriage and have him or her on retainer. And if you suspect something shady, hire a private investigator; they're DAMN GOOD at finding out the truth about shady characters.
It was only a matter of time before she would have slept with this man. What she should have done was told him that her friend was mistaken that she was already in a relationship and she was not interested in an open relationship. But she did the opposite she entertained the fantasy of being in an open relationship or sleeping with someone. And her boyfriend did the right thing by cutting it off and completely moving away. I would have done the same thing left her just the way he did but I probably would have just ghosted her with no conversation.
I have two thoughts on this story. The first one is about the comment from the 2nd woman. Like most modern women she put ALL of the guilt on Taylor and her advice would have been spot on if Sharon had shut down Taylor hard at the first mention of getting into an open relationship with him. If he persisted even after the shut down, she should have gone to HR and not just on Taylor but on Jessica as well. She did not shut down Taylor and entertained the conversations on open relationships and even more intimate sexual topics. She partook consensually in those conversations and escalated them to outside work. My second thought was so Sharon was the sex with Taylor as good as you thought it would be?
He was working his arse off (I am Australian that is how we spell ‘ass’ in Australia, NZ and the UK). I bet she was willing to receive all of the benefits of his hard work in his career but was sooking about being ‘left alone’.
Female response 3 : - she's a train that's going to wreck any second if her ex comes back and we will get another story on reddit.... " I cheated on my husband with my ex, I was happy with my marriage "..... My question is why get married if you still haven't lost feelings for your ex...
It was definitely leading up to being extremely physical. It was just a matter of time. She was escalating it. She's a female. Attention is her life blood. I get that you can't neglect your partner. But she is clingy. She wasn't supportive, appreciative and grateful for all of his hard work to provide. He was doing it for her and his future family. A woman who is wife material understands that. Did it take for the lease to expire, not being able to pay rent and moving back home for her to come to that realization? It didn't have to be this way. There were so many different decisions she could've made to protect their relationship. Starting with cutting those perverted co-workers off. She chose all the ones to destroy it instead. I wish it could've worked out between these two but i don't see how seamus could ever trust her.
I love your channel brother you're probably one of the best you and better bachelor or the best men's channels out there I think.... So whenever you get successful women get bored with you and then they just destroy everything that's unbelievable I cannot comprehend that way of thinking
She has proven herself to be deceitful and untrustworthy in addition to her physical enter actions with her AP concerning her mention of an open relationship. With any reasonable man, she’s toast.
Her main problem is she views him working as a slight against her. "How dare he work over even IF someone called in and it's his responsibility. He should leave at 5 and leave the business with no supervisors because I am more important"... She really thinks that way.
I find cheating truly disgusting 🤮 and unsanitary. Like how can you kiss and sleep with someone else other than your partner then come back to your partner spreading the germs 🦠 and potential stds/STIs to them? WTH 🤦♀️ I love my husband so much and the only way we will split up is when one of us dies
OP is clearly lying. So she hugged and kissed this Taylor guy before she jumped in her car to head home? And Seamus saw all this, headed home, packed all his stuff, left the house and then came back in??? What is he superman? She clearly slept with the guy in between that time because the timeline doesn’t add up.
In contrast to this video, Chisha Zed did one on women who divorced their husbands because they weren't "ambitious enough". The unwinnable time-versus- money argument that wives throw at husbands is the leading cause of strife in marriages that causes cheating and divorces, and is one of the main causes for rapidly increasing numbers of men refusing to marry or remarry. Don't marry or cohabitate with women. Make women have to provide for themselves without male-assistance, so they can actually walk their feminist-talk about being "strong and independent" and not needing a man. Case in point, notice that Shamus was paying 2/3 of the expenses in this video with her complaining about how hard he had to work to do it. Now that OP lost access to leeching off his work and finances, she's unable to afford the standard of living that his work and money made possible. The vast majority of modern-women are just like her: disloyal, dishonorable, and ungrateful for what a man does for them.
I’ve been watching all of your content sense I found your channel and you’re content and the way you explain certain topics I honestly could’ve said it better myself
If Taylor kissing Sharon was a criminal act, then it would have been reflected in her response immediately. Sexual tension and communication between men and women is often times NON-verbal. The idea of asking a girl if you can kiss her is a mood killer, it destroys the spontaneity, and kills the vibe. This means that guys will go for it without asking and so the only way to genuinely know if a kiss is unwelcome is her reaction at the time of the kiss. The fact that she accepted it is evidence that she welcomed it, and filing a police report about an "ASSAULT" is a fabricated LIE, and this suggestion from Female #2 is worthy of Amber Heard. Sharon broke his trust, and disrespected his career advancement. And if Female #2 gets upset with her own boyfriend she can try dumping piles of poo into his bed and see how that goes. Good luck to both of them.
Cheating is not in the zex per say... it's in the lies, the dissimulations or the manipulations, because trust stands on honesty, transparency and sincerity.
She was a burden to this man even without the cheating. She was holding him back from his potential by stressing him out over her selfishness. He was working to secure their future but she wanted instant gratification.
I love the way they say that bringing multiple people into you private relationship on a sexual level is going to help your relationship. Only an idiot could believe this
Cos misery loves company.
It makes as much sense as a turkey voting for Thanksgiving.
Well as the saying goes, there's a sucker born every min , sadly when it comes to open relationships, the women fill that sucker position (pun intented)
And you will notice that these idiots are almost always, but not exclusively, women.
As if *pair* bonding has no role or place in committed relationships.
Anyway, the open relationship issue is a red herring, an attempt to distract from and take the sting out of her running around.
After being told by Seamus open relationships were disgusting, she kept hanging out with the guy chasing her at work. Self-inflicted wound.
He flat out told her it was disgusting and people that did that were people he wanted nothing to do with. Yet she was so set on sleeping with Taylor she still said she'd open the relationship if he would.
I believe people refer to that as "affair fog" where you're so caught up in the feels you force your brain to not make logical connections so you can keep that high. In reality it's the same thing as the "honeymoon phase" of any other relationship where you willingly ignore massive red flags because it feels good.
She didn't just cheat on him. She was selfish, belittled him, disrespected him, and was needlessly passive aggressive to him long before any talks of open relationships. I would've been out of there the first sign she didn't appreciate my efforts 🤷
So right. Passive aggression is an under-recognized red flag.
She acts like a 10 year old! Not a grr try own martiedvlady I can’t believe this is a true story “ if it is it’s so dam sad as ndvtotsl disrespectfulvto all very bcerned’ omg throw it all away for a few minutes with a married man ?? Call nebula nnww we here is her brand b???!🎉🎉🎉😂👌👀😊🍹🍹😭😛😭😛
Thank you for saying that. The disrespect was way before the open relationship conversation. My woman has boundaries that she never discuss me or our relationship to anyone without my permission. I told her never wash your laundry in the street.
No arguing, fighting, negotiating…if my wife/other half cheated on me, our marriage is OVER. I would silently go and the last thing she hear from me is, “we are getting a divorce so find yourself a lawyer.”
Thats the key phrase "other half".
@@robertnoble7554 the proper response for that scenario is to work to prevent it happening in the first place.
But if she were to betray the bond instead of working on it together with u, 2 options.
1. A threat of divorce....n prepare ur exit strategy....cos emotional cheating do lead to physical. Shes the one who has to regain ur trust. If she refused to repair the damage, then skedaddle. Oh, gray rock is essential...
2. Just skedaddle.
@@robertnoble7554 Yea if woman want romantic/sexual attention from another man its over for me.
@@robertnoble7554 Yes. No exceptions.
@@petrpucik Well said.
29:22 Female Response 3-"I'm happily married now, but deep down, my heart is still with that guy" Wow, what a keeper. I'm sure her husband would be thrilled to know he was settled for and is a lifelong runner-up in a contest he didn't even know he was competing in. How can any woman honestly call herself happily married if you've been alpha-widowed? Also, this is a perfect example of how polyamory wrecks relationships. In some cases it only needs one adherent to this lifestyle to even suggest it to someone else, who then gets it in their head it's a great idea, then stupidly goes to their SO to put the feelers out and hey presto, you don't even have to have a single hookup to nuke your marriage/relationship. The mere suggestion that you are into the idea is enough to make anyone with a hint of morals and self-respect to nope! the hell out of there.
‘Alpha widowed’……now that’s just downright a hilarious expression.
'Short term benefits for a long term loss'. OP deserved this realization
Couldn't have said it any better.
💯🎯. Generally, Men are better at long-range planning, while womyn get caught up in the moment- and those all-so-important 'feeeelz'.
Shortly before he passed, KS (RIP, Godfather) mentioned a trip he made to Miami. He said, "I saw '9s' and '10s' everywhere- not a single one of them thought past next Tuesday."
Womyn. They'll absolutely destroy their future for something that "didn't mean anything!".
Guy: *sneezes*
Girl: wow that looks uncomfortable babe. Do you think opening our marriage would help?
It really DO be like this tho is the worst part
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Fuckin golden sarcasm... But it's so true🤣🤣
Never trust a 304
If your wife/gf ever bring up an open relationship, they are already cheating or have a partner on the hook. As soon as she asks "what do you think abkut an open relationship?" The relationship is over. Act accordingly.
26:31
Violet:
He kissed me, Tom!
Tom:
K, you know what? That is a cop out. That is not fair. Yes, he may have been the one who kissed you. But there is a reason that he felt like that was an option. You know that's the truth.
Nah...more like; why didnt u claw his eyes out? Why didnt u defend the sanctity of ur body?
What I like about this channel compared to other channels
No bs. Gets straight to the story
No constant interruptions every sentence or so to go on a paragraph or two lesson. Very concise.
Lesson mentioned at the end rather than repeatedly at the beginning, end, and middle or not at all
Edit: should probably say this makes it very easy to binge these videos, and increases rewatchability too
Hearing these stories is about learning. Hearing the criticism from the youtuber is necessary.
I think you’re talking about the guy who always stops to tell you that there are sirens or rain when you already know there are sirens or rain.
What I like about this channel too.
About the other guy, lets not forget.... He has to CONSTANTLY REPEAT EVERY "LESSON". If I can never hear his voice say "Stay on your grind" one more time (other than the 13,000 times previously) I can die a happy man. Just tell the story and keep the comentary to a minimum. But then I remember how New Englanders are.
Yeah i was thinking the same, so much better
@@johnbradbury8610Lol, is it the smack channel?
This man has self respect for himself. Again it's not find your alpha, find your dignity, find tour self-respect, find your integrity. This man did the right thing. I work retail and my wife is a nurse at a center. We love one another and we respect each other.
I hope you have found your unicorn, but I would point that next to Education, Nursing is the No.1 profession for female infidelity. Good luck
Trust me I know that. My wife and I already had that discussion and we discussed our boundaries. Our marriage is great. She respects me and I respect her. We love each other. Trust me everytime a man approaches her, she immediately says, "I'm married and I love my husband," and they leave her alone. Im one of few people that can say I'm blessed that I found a faithful, loving woman.
She went on DATES with another man. That is cheating
The whole open relationship conversation opened his eyes
"I was engaged to be married to a guy, so of course I decided to two-time him by making out and more with another guy, because reasons, so Reddit, can you help me gaslight my fiance into accepting that all this is actually HIS fault and that I'm the victim here? Because, although I have zero love or respect or even mild fondness for him, the idea of him paying all of my many, many frivolous bills while I sneak around behind his back is still quite attractive to me."
💯
And yet guys keep falling for it lol some fools just deserve being used
@@mshake7056 problem is they are many and a baseline expectation
Sarcasm well said.
What a coincidence... you can see it happening. Both going out; him with a regional manager and her with her new co-worker 'friend' Taylor. She'd told him where she'd be and when the evening with the RM fell through he thought it would be great to surprise her... THAT possibility had never entered her mind.
And don't forget fella's, this is HER version of events. We only have her word for it that she wasn't already having $ex with Taylor.
There's no point in reading and listening to these stories if you are going to put in things that were never said. I could add that she secretly worked covert ops for the CIA and the bank call center job was a cover. It's just as plausible. Take the stories at face value, embellished or not.
How does her friend know she was having problems in her relationship and is seeking other dudes.
@@dlewis9760 Because women lie about their $ex lives Lewis; they'll only admit to what they think you already know. If she says they only met once it was probably 5 times. If she says they only held hands then she gave him a BJ the time before. When she told him her body count was 5 it was really 15... I mean, you're an adult Lewis, don't you know this already?
@@thematrix2661 Her friend saw her blatantly flirting with the band guy. Usually that would mean the wife's not 100% content in her marriage, don't you think?
I wonder if the story about the meeting with the regional manager was a ruse to catch her in the act. The text from him asking where she was. A trick to see if she'd lie. Was he already there at the bar. Watching. She replies with love hearts and then continues having handsy dirty talk with Tyler. Seamus didn't owe her any more truth than she was serving up to him. Which was Zero.
I’ve been married for just over 21 years now, and my wife and I have raised two kids (19 girl, 18 boy). My wife became a stay at home mom after the birth of our daughter for the next 13 years. I picked up the loss of income by working OT anytime it was available. Doing so, I missed a lot of things. But my wife was nothing but thankful and appreciative of the extra work I put in so she could stay home. She never once complained, or gave me shit about having to work. And she never sought outside male attention either.
That you know about.
Not doubting your wife, but that is what you think and know, but i hope it is true fr.
Mate....trust but verify.
N no friggin girls night out.
Why? Cos other dudes would be hitting on her. Married women are the extra prize cos that means the guys would cukk the husband.
You have a powerful woman who appreciates her man.
@@eleethtahgra7182 nothing wrong with girls night out if they keep it to the girls. My gf has 2 single friends in her group. They know that if they want to accept drinks from a guy they need to leave the table. Not all committed women are taking drinks from other men.
So he was busting his butt, to get a new job to become even more financially stable for his family (remember that they was looking to have a kid soon), but instead of seeing the bigger picture she decided to be Selfish, by only thinking about herself... 🙄
Yeah, she was/is definitely not mature enough to be in a relationship
I could make this even a longer story, but I'll try to keep it short.
Back in the 1980's I got married for the first time.
I was 32 and my future ex-wife was 28.
I dated her for three years before we married and it was like dating Marlo Thomas from the television show called, “That Girl”.
She just looked so cute, dressed smartly, was bubbly and fun to be around, and when you saw her you just wanted to hug her and hold her close to you.
I met her at church, and she professed to be a Christian. She was also a second-grade schoolteacher at the Christian school that was connected with our church.
After her asking me numerous times to marry her, I finally said yes.
During all of this I had been working for law enforcement for about seven years.
I told her that was not my career of choice and that my goal was to work for the airlines in any capacity to just get my foot in the door. In addition, I also had my pilots license and an Associates Science degree in Aviation Technology in case things went that direction. I told her I was willing to move anywhere in the United States to take any legitimate job offered to make it happen and that I felt very strongly about this. Meaning no house mortgage and no children so that we could be ready to move when and if I was offered an airline position. Then at that point we could start looking at houses and deciding how many kids we wanted to have.
Soon after our marriage she started making noises that she didn’t want to move and leave her friends and family behind. I told her in no uncertain terms that if I was offered a legitimate job with a reputable airline I would take it and if she wanted to stay behind she was free to do so.
She on the other hand wanted to saddle me with children and a mortgage right away and condemn me to working in a factory or the likes of for the rest of my life.
We both agreed to a three-year limit on my efforts to achieve this goal.
Before you read on, I want to say that I am not one to necessarily hold a person’s past against them.
Six months into the marriage I discovered this Christian girl I had married was sneaking around behind my back seeing an old boyfriend and having him over our apartment after I had left at ten-o-clock in the evening to work the night shift.
But wait, there’s more.
In addition, I also discovered she had no less than two abortions when she was in college studying to be a teacher.
But wait, there’s more.
While in college she attended all night sex charged parties that included drugs, alcohol, and debauchery of all sorts with numerous people of both sexes in attendance. Once the clothes came off, they stayed off for the entire night and into the next morning. They just walked around the apartment naked. Hey, who wants breakfast? Don’t bother putting any clothes on, it’s a come as you are breakfast. They just walked around the place naked, watched television, took showers together, until they had to leave for school or some other reason.
The good news, if there is any, she was very good in bed when I married her and was up for whatever I wanted to do. Other good news is that because of her sneaking around behind my back with her ex-boyfriend, she had lost all trust I had in her and all privacy. I felt free to use all my skills and resources to dig into her past and personal life. In addition, I put a recorder on my own phone line among other tactics. No cell phones back then.
Well anyways, when all this came to light, I was less inclined to want to tie myself to her with children and a mortgage and didn’t want a future with her as far as marriage was concerned. I couldn’t trust her anymore. I was surprised but not upset with her college years and willing to leave it the past. I was not so willing to put her current indiscretion so quickly in the past. It didn’t help that she took no responsibility for her actions, kept defending what she had done, and continued blaming me for her inability to be a faithful wife.
We did go for counselling and according to her it was all my fault she was sneaking around with her ex-boyfriend. I made her do it. Enough said there.
What she didn’t seem to realize is that besides what she had already done, as damaging as it was. She more importantly didn’t consider the trust had been broken. I could no longer trust her anymore and questioned everything now and in the past. Was I being lied too then also? How could I trust her going forward?
I did go to her ex’s place of employment and flatten his car tires. She got angry with me for doing so. I could have argued it wasn’t my fault and it was all her fault. I could have accused her of making a big deal out of nothing, and she “made” me do it, but I didn’t.
In addition to defending her actions, telling me it was my fault, and telling me I was making a big deal out of nothing. She never admitted wrong doing, never said she realizes how wrong it was of her and sorry she had hurt me, never apologized, never said I am sorry, never promised to never do it again, did nothing to even try to make me feel more secure in our relationship or build the trust back and….. and…. Get this…. Told me how lucky I was that her ex-boyfriend didn’t come over here and beat my a~~ for flattening his tires! Yea, that sounds like something I want to be married to…. If I was a moron.
Really? My wife telling me her husband how lucky I am that her ex-boyfriend doesn’t come over to this apartment I am paying for and beat my a~~ for flattening his tires? Really!
Did she tell him how lucky he is I don’t go over to his house and beat his A$$ for conspiring with my wife for after hour “visitation” in my apartment after I had left to go to work?
Well bring it on. Anytime he’s ready, I can forget all about how lucky I am. I am sure he knows how to get here.
We divorced after three years, I stayed single for the most part after that, got a vasectomy, never had any children by choice, and soon after our divorce I was offered a position with a major airline in a different state and had a wonderful twenty-year career traveling all over the world and “knowing” many attractive women.
She on the other hand did get what she wanted, in a sense.
She did get remarried to a divorced man with children and had one daughter with him from that union. I met the daughter when she was a teenager and she seemed like a nice girl. A little off but she probably inherited that from her father.
In addition my ex was also “blessed” with custody of one of her new simps mentally challenged sons his ex-wife didn’t want. He had more children but his ex-wanted to keep those for herself.
Her husband was somewhat mentally challenged himself and much older than her. Maybe that’s why his one son turned out a little odd. I felt bad for the poor slob coming out of a bad marriage and then marrying her.
He had a shrew of an ex-wife, and the child that was mentally challenged must have inherited whatever it was that was making his father a little odd “schizophrenic”. His ex-wife did not want this child living with her, so my ex and her new pack mule had to take him in.
Running around the house at all hours of the night locking and unlocking doors, running up and down the stairs…. And she HAD to work outside the home which was not the case when she was married to me. In addition, the reason she had to work is because her new simp was not making enough money to pay his child support. So her pay cheque went directly to her new simps ex-wife. I am sure she was just thrilled to hand over her paycheck to his ex-wife.
So that’s the life she traded to get, for the one I was offering her. Moving to a better climate, traveling all over the world first class, Hawaii, Paris, Iceland, New Zealand, Kenya safari, Rome, the Pyramids, Alaska…, a nice home, children that we could have had together, and a life we could easily afford so she can be a stay-at-home mom. I am just shaking my head. Women’s logic?
All whilst I was traveling first class around the world eating in exotic restaurants in Europe, lying on beaches in the Caribbean, snowmobiling mountains in Iceland, hiking into the craters of inactive volcanoes in Hawaii, exploring Alaska, romantic evenings sleeping on the beaches of New Zealand, Kenya safaris…. And all with attractive and fun-loving women I either took with me or met there.
My ex is now divorced again, the daughter they had together did not want to stay with her mother and wanted to stay with her father and did. My ex is now and has been for quite some time, alone, has a few friends but none close, does not own a home, lives in an apartment and at the mercy of paying rent that can change at any time, struggling financially, and estranged from her daughter.
I on the other hand own a nice home that is paid for in a nice neighborhood, a late model car that is paid for, no credit card or any other kind of debt, money in the bank, retired with an airline pension and can still travel for free, good circle of friends, popular with the ladies, and a good social life I can easily afford.
I will just never understand the logic or lack thereof of women. It’s like they are relationship suicidal or hell bent on destroying their lives, their future, and the lives of those unfortunate enough to get caught up in their unnecessary drama.
In today’s world, apparently the worst thing a woman can experience is being married to a man who loves her, has a good career, and a bright future.
Life is hard.
It’s even harder when you’re stupid.
In this world you either lead, follow, or get out of the way.
@@im1who84uwhat seems to happen is that they actually want to be disrespected.Ex in this story,she didnt appreciate his kisses and attention when he was still with her happy,but when he left and that affection was pulled back,she felt it missing and it ate her up.
Idk what it is with them and not realising what they have before its too late but it seems to be getting more and more chronic gen after gen.
Men arent saints either tho and fuck up a lot themselves,but it seems main reason for that is being too stressed from work,house,nagging wife and other people
Did she slap the guy when he kissed her? Did she throw her drink at him? Push him away and scream at him? That's how a woman reacts when someone tries to kiss her and she's unwilling. If she had done that, the boyfriend would have seen it and reacted differently. That's proof the kiss was not unwelcome.
this is why open relationships lead to the couple breaking up or divorcing. all it takes is 1 person talking about it to a frustrated woman and it leads to endless trouble
I find this whole phenomenon to be truly disturbing. It’s not people “choosing to live a more open lifestyle”, these people are PREDATORS! It is like a virus, and the fact that so many women are signing up to get passed around by men who view them as objects is astonishing. A truly scathing indictment of modern western women
It's not easy, but a big part of an open relationship's success is that you don't do it with a woman you want to marry.
You're just fucking, trying to set up a rotation and keeping the favorite girl as your constant. Then when you're ready to settle down serious with someone you cut everyone else loose, maybe fully off if they can't relax and you enjoy your real relationship.
I would never understand how a couple who are in love and married or whatever can then sensibly say yes let's open this up and go off on our own ventures to fuck other people but grow old together. It just opens the floor to so much jealousy and resentment especially if it becomes a tit for tat situation.
She is just like so many other women that I've read about ; they want to have a nice life and security, but they get angry when their partner tries to be on his grind to accomplish that for them
But wouldn’t nice life be defined differently? Some people don’t care about the having lots of money, they care more on quality time rather than materials. (Not supporting the cheating part in case you try to twist it lol) just arguing what it means to have a “nice life”
The expectation is the material side AND the quality time. I have never seen any wife or partner truly willing to understand it’s a trade off. AND realistically until one hears the quality time is a problem what is heard are a lot of financial demands and high standards for material goods.
@@MattAT95 just because you haven’t heard of any doesn’t amount to anything because that’s personal bias
OP had the open relationship mentality , which is completely the opposite of Seamus--- all actions are transactional , no action has value in itself. No boundaries aside from desires, No discipline. She is to immature for a monogamous relationship, She couldn't even be honest with herself as she creeped to having sex with that predator Taylor. The pretense of love in an "open relationship" is laughable and absurd.
HE?? There is nothing about being immature in this story. The whole open relationship thing ´has nothing to do with being immature. The whole open relationship is a question of character. Is a question of morals and values. It is a question of respect. It is a question about living just for your self and just this moment or have the future in mind.
BUt thre is nothing about being immature. It is all about having personality problems.
@@rapsack7058you just gave the definition of immaturity
So many of these "open relationship" types are expert groomers. They look for people who are experiencing vulnerabilities at home and they know exactly how to ease their way in. It's really diabolical because they don't seem to care how many relationships they destroy. Having said that, this woman was terrible and selfish long before she was approached and deserved exactly what she got.
Yea soon as you started talking to Taylor you wanted desperately to try open marriage
but mostly wanted to bang Taylor As soon as you hooked up with Taylor for drinks thats was a sign
You wanted to bang him forget about husband kidz and marriage all about what I want 😮
Human beings are not monogamous.
Something tells me that Seamus wasn't that surprised to find her with a guy at the tavern. I'm betting the moment she said "open relationship", his hamster wheel was going. He did "what if" follow-ups to judge what she was actually thinking about this, he knew she had 'friends' at work into open relationships, etc. His change in hours was likely to catch her in a lie. I'd bet he took a keen interest in where she was and with whom. The fact he never confronted her at the bar, had his father there, was packed so quickly, and was waiting for her at home, suggests he'd already planned the break up -- certainly emotionally.
30:05 "Buy a couple cats and a Subaru!"
That had me laughing like a crazy person. Walking down the hallway at work with my air pods on and just blew up laughing! If anyone saw me, I probably looked insane!
I'll agree with the 2nd read comment that Taylor was a complete d-bag. He did push things way beyond any acceptable level for a coworker. But it was entirely within Sharon's right and ability to shut him down. She really should have taken him to the HR department at work but chose not to. She made several conscious decisions to let the situation go as far as it did. Zero sympathy for her.
Yeah Taylor is a creep. Sharon kept the situation going though so why ruin his life out of some petty revenge? She had ample opportunities to shut all this down.
My man went to talk to his fiance, but ended up dodging a bullet instead.
She didn't leave him any options unfortunately. She misses the safety and security, not him and not his love. Seamus dodged a big old bullet, because she was going to pull this crap sooner or later. She thankfully did it sooner.
Right.... her SO just happened to see the first unwanted kiss that she wasn't expecting. So believable. I'm sure that's how it happens every time. Could see the lack of accountability from the 2nd screen when the whole thing was blamed on Seamus being a workaholic. She got what she wanted, the freedom to sleep around, but wait she wanted him to pay her bills while she does it. Agree with the commenter that said Taylor's wife probably doesn't know she's in an open marriage. Should have asked Taylor to bring his wife to the pub so you could ask her about how the "open marriage" was benefiting her, then watch Taylor flounder for excuses as to why his wife is too busy to talk with you.
I'd agree. She was probably sucking him off in the copy room for months and wanted to stop sneaking around. I really doubt the workplace was openly talking about and participating in "open marriages" like she described.
The Taylor's of the world can smell a woman like her a mile away. He saw an opening, and went for the jugular, telling her everything she wanted to hear.
Weird how he would be poised to strike as soon as Seamus was too busy for her.
@Blaiyan with all the gossip flying around, I'd be shocked if the whole office wasn't aware of her home life. Dude saw his chance
@@kittymilojustice6509 more than likely she was the source of those rumors...
Yeah...smooth talkers could talk their way into woman's pants.
Thats why scammers exist...
The scammers who target women have pre written texts of what to email/chat with what type of woman.
Taylor ‘saw an opening’ alright. Lol.
Great choice of words ha ha.
It never ceases to SLAY me how some are INCAPABLE of recognizing the error of their ways BEFORE destroying their relationships. Why cannot they weigh the devastating costs of selfishness/unfaithfulness - & choose to be wise & honorable? But, NOPE, it's always "Oh, how I wish I could go back in time." WELL...YA CAN'T.
Seems like most women are just relationship suicidal.
I guess because it's too unreasonable to expect most women to do a cost benefit analysis before they do something rash or life altering.
Affair Fog is very real. Women in particular are very susceptible to it, being the more emotional of the two sexes. Once that limbic system kicks in and those hormones start coursing, reason and rationality literally go out the window. History is littered with the wreckage of many a marriage/relationship where, once the dust has settled, the woman has genuinely been perplexed and completely unable to understand how it's come to this and why exactly she went temporarily insane.
@@patrickward8543 Excellent point(s) patrickward8543 & TheKproductionsful! This is very sad indeed.🤨
When have you ever heard a woman talk about honor? or duty? These concepts are foreign to them, men understand them because we evolved to, since it requires honor and self-sacrifice to protect your family, your village, your people from attack and give up your life doing it.
Women understand only survival and running away at the slightest provocation because that's how they keep themselves and their children alive when barbarians are at the gates. Same reason they follow only their emotions and fall for any new guy that demonstrates more value: in war men killed other men and took the women for themselves, those women that couldn't fall in love with the new guy that has just killed her husband where disposed of and their genes snuffed out of the gene pool.
Anyone tells you an open relationship is good is a lying.
Of course its good. Kinda like krokodil is good for the body.
OR is good for bringing the relationship to the grave.
Krokodil is good for hastening the body to the grave.
When a woman questions why a man doesn't want her to go out to bars or clubs, or "girl's night out", etc., THIS is what they are protecting her from.
Female commenter #2 is putting the accountability on Taylor, but it belongs to OP. If OP never agreed/went to meet Taylor, _especially given she knows his intentions towards her,_ this would never have happened. And given how passive women tend to be, her talking dirty with him and allowing him to put hands on her without decisive action to remove them is when the line was crossed. Before that tavern visit, she was toeing the line, as this really never was an emotional affair. Again, if she didn't agree to meet him at the tavern in the first place, she wouldn't have been in the position to have to defend herself - and when she failed to do that, that was the end of it all.
Some people just have to learn the hard way.
Revised post as my original one missed the dirty talk part in the tavern...
you can explain that to them 1000 times they will always say "im not like that" until they are.
Nah. Both are at fault. Her for being stupid, him for being predator.
Kinda like...a thief entering unlocked house.
Her for being stupid not locking the house.
Him being the thief.
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Don't forget she "went home to clean-up" before meeting Taylor at the bar. She knew what she was getting into and would have slept with him the next meeting and probably had a long term affair. This dude got incredibly lucky. He probably dodged a case of paternity fraud too.
She isn't stupid, she knows what she was doing. @@eleethtahgra7182
There is another story of a wife wanting the OR because her female coworkers all hyped it, and her new male manager was, of course, in one. The wife convinced her husband to go along with it and began hooking up right away with her manager. The husband took a while longer, but found an Asian gal who he really connected with.
Once her husband was hooking-up, the wife, of course, wanted to close the OR. Her "friends" at work told her, "If you can't stand the heat, stay out of the oven". She continued tolerating the husband with his lover until she found out her manager was, in fact, cheating on his fiance, and overheard him tell another male employee that SHE (the wife) was so easy to get in bed and nothing more than a pleasant distraction. She, at that point, demanded that she and her husband close the OR. Well, hubby said, "No, thanks!" and he ended up filing for divorce.
He moved out, but went back one time to collect a few things, thinking she wasn't home. She was home, just staring at some photos of the two of them that she set on the coffee table. She tried to hug him and offered him lunch before trying to initiate s-word activities. He declined, and she started yelling, "What does she do for you that I don't?". Her soon-to-be-ex said, "Everything." End of story...
Good for Seamus for ditching Sharon. The fact that their s-word life has fallen off is a sign of developing-problems already. A man doesn't turn down his wife's s-word advances unless there are other marital issues going on and/or she's nothing to write home about- in terms of looks or s-word performance. He saw the signs of her overvaluing herself and wanting to use him for resources, did his investigating, and said, "See ya." He can move on now, and find a better-quality gal. Sharon is too immature and gullible. I'm gonna bet none of her coworkers are actually involved in open relationships... including Taylor.
"Our problems stemmed from Seamus being a workaholic."
No sweetie. Your problems stemmed from you and your cheating. 🤷♀️
Right, because if Seamus wasn't busting his @$$ to advance his career, she would have cheated on him because he wasn't ambitious enough and she needed him to make more money.
always the same with modern women first blame and critizise the betrayed spouse to justify her cheating. Ofc she cheated after her bf did 1 small mistake she wanted to cheat with the old man but is only sry she got caught good for the bf doged a huge bullet if he would stay he would raise the old coworkers child without knowing. She can now be a sidechick of her grandpa coworker haha
The time machine was invented but destroyed after they went back in time to not correct what they wish could be taken back but only change that they were never caught...
If men who were cheated on were given a time machine, most would go back further in time and prevent themselves from meeting the woman. You may be able to stop a cheater once, but can't stop her all the time.
The more I listen to these stories and the net is full of them, the more I am beginning to believe that most women are not marriage material. I suspect that I am not alone.
Recently, theres a story in true story channel.
About a wife that make out with band member.
Her female friend outed her, even preventing the WW banging him.
So, yes, theres honorable women out there...the best one could do, in the West, is to notice the red flags before courting a woman for marriage.
Many of us have the same experience, personally I've met a few women who seemed loyal and traditional only to find out they are the complete opposite behind closed doors. Not women I dated but ones that pretty much offered to cheat on their men with me. Just don't marry, it's not worth it under any circumstances, if you must have a woman by your side, do it, but don't marry, so that you can have a clean break like Seamus in this story did when the time came for it.
If she wasn't caught this early it was just a matter of time before she would sleep with that guy
Just going out with a guy who is showing sexual interest in her is a betrayal and grounds for break up, not to mention the lying she was doing good ridance the dude will be better off.
I have heard a lot of these stories and have seen several where the woman OP was called out by those who knew what happened about their "narrative" being mostly false. They always try to paint themselves as the victim or mostly innocent. What this woman posted is NOT the true story. The inner monologue about how she pulled her hands away and her body language after the kiss are probably gaslighting. She was a willing participant in the meetups that she kept from her SO and knew this guy wanted to have relations with her. This would be a good one for the instant karma group.
Of course her story was a lot of BS. I mean, come on, they already had a playlist of sexual positions for when it did go down.
Seamus more than likely caught her in a deep passionate kiss with Taylor. While the story doesn't say there was a picture taken, Seamus probably took a pic of them kissing passionately and then texted her when he got home. Chances are she was going to hook up with Taylor that night but Seamus caught her before she had the chance. Good on Seamus for ridding himself of her. She's selfish and immature; she's not relationship material.
What’s even the point of trusting someone today?
Certainly no one with a vagina!
Apparently there is no point
No point. You cannot trust women outside of the paradigm of patriarchy and sexual purity. It is what it is. Any other system requires men to accept that nearly all women are on a carousel and it’s just your turn-even if she’s your wife.
Llegacy-Inc You're right.I dont even ask women out anymore.They''re all toxic.Their brains are twisted.Guys run for he hills.
You don't, harden your hearts lads. Life will be a hell of a lot less chaotic if you do.
Dude that entire workplace needs to be investigated by HR. It's a place of business not a swingers club.
I'm sorry, I think she's lying. She was most likely sleeping with the co-worker long before Shamus caught them in the bar. She's spinning this yarn hoping Shamus will encounter the story "by accident", believe her lies and take her back thinking "she must be telling the truth because how would she know I would see it". Think about it: Why else would she use his real name?
Shamus thinks the same...he saw them in hug and kissing, i can guarantee you he thinks they already slept together without bringing it up.
Damn straight.
This woman was an extremely selfish, narcissistic bint. It was all "me, me, me". Her feelings were all that mattered, and the fact that he was working so hard to save up for the FUTURE FAMILY THEY WERE PLANNING, was entirely lost in her selfish mind.
Ladies. If a relationship is not meeting your expectations, then leave. You have no excuse to do anything else and no one will understand. Period.
This woman cheated before Shaun Shane caught her. Like the last two meetings for drinks.
This woman entered into a physical relationship with a man that she knew was interested in sleeping with her and she encouraged his actions by her conduct. She never expressed her disgust when Taylor rubbed her hand, hugging and kissing her. If her boyfriend hadn't seen her, she would have eventually slept this guy. Shamus made the right decision.
This Seamus dodged a nuc.
The morals of this story are spot on.
Tbh I'm surprised Seamus didn't start to break things off the moment she told him that she'd do an open relationship if he agreed to it.
open relationships are like an open chest wound on the battle field without a medical unit near by... Fatal
Your Marriage
WILL DIE!
Man dodged a bullet. His timing was great , hers not. While it may sting the big time,I look back on things that burned me and thought I was cursed only to discover it was a blessing in disguise.
"Went back to having small talk" This is the FAIL, if she really didnt want to get down with him, she should have ended the conversation and distanced herself from the guy, but she didnt. She's trash. Why have "extensive" conversations with that guy about open relationships when your guy at home made it clear that was a NOPE. If she had smacked the face off this guy when he crossed the line and kissed her like she should have, she may have saved the relationship.
Stories like this really grind my gears. If a woman is upset that her man is working too much while they’re always free and lonely… GET A JOB. If she already has a job… work more. The woman can work more so her boyfriend/husband doesn’t have to work so much. I can’t tell you how many stories I’ve heard where the wife cheats because she’s bored and lonely. If she has so much free time, then she can work more and actually contribute.
Let's be real, her anger only popped up after her first talk with IT boy. She was looking for ANY excuse to cheat and blame the husband.
"im happily married now, but my heart belongs to that other guy".
Typical.
Just that Jessica and the other '' open '' co -workers are trying to bring you down to their level or destroy your relationship with Seamus . call it peer pressure ! or consensual adultery and you're trying to find excuses to justify what you plan to do . It's never a time to take your fiance for granted or even after marriage . Maybe having consensual sex is just as wrong as cheating after marriage only that you don't see the consequences until it's too late . we don't mess around with our lives or messed it all up !
Don't you just hate it when you screw up so bad it changes your whole life. There's nothing you can do about it now and just have to move on.
I believe part of the problem is that he had a job he liked and she had one she hated. Part of being in a relationship is backing up your partner. The hours he had to put in was part of his job. He was trying to save for a home and for the children they were planning to have. In any relationship sometimes the bedroom activities might slow down a little but not completely go dead. It's not he was working the way he was because he didn't want to spend time with her that would have been wrong on his part if he was. She is just a selfish woman who was only thinking of her own needs and not the needs of him or the relationship.
I could make this even a longer story, but I'll try to keep it short.
Back in the 1980's I got married for the first time.
I was 32 and my future ex-wife was 28.
I dated her for three years before we married and it was like dating Marlo Thomas from the television show called, “That Girl”.
She just looked so cute, dressed smartly, was bubbly and fun to be around, and when you saw her you just wanted to hug her and hold her close to you.
I met her at church, and she professed to be a Christian. She was also a second-grade schoolteacher at the Christian school that was connected with our church.
After her asking me numerous times to marry her, I finally said yes.
During all of this I had been working for law enforcement for about seven years.
I told her that was not my career of choice and that my goal was to work for the airlines in any capacity to just get my foot in the door. In addition, I also had my pilots license and an Associates Science degree in Aviation Technology in case things went that direction. I told her I was willing to move anywhere in the United States to take any legitimate job offered to make it happen and that I felt very strongly about this. Meaning no house mortgage and no children so that we could be ready to move when and if I was offered an airline position. Then at that point we could start looking at houses and deciding how many kids we wanted to have.
Soon after our marriage she started making noises that she didn’t want to move and leave her friends and family behind. I told her in no uncertain terms that if I was offered a legitimate job with a reputable airline I would take it and if she wanted to stay behind she was free to do so.
She on the other hand wanted to saddle me with children and a mortgage right away and condemn me to working in a factory or the likes of for the rest of my life.
We both agreed to a three-year limit on my efforts to achieve this goal.
Before you read on, I want to say that I am not one to necessarily hold a person’s past against them.
Six months into the marriage I discovered this Christian girl I had married was sneaking around behind my back seeing an old boyfriend and having him over our apartment after I had left at ten-o-clock in the evening to work the night shift.
But wait, there’s more.
In addition, I also discovered she had no less than two abortions when she was in college studying to be a teacher.
But wait, there’s more.
While in college she attended all night sex charged parties that included drugs, alcohol, and debauchery of all sorts with numerous people of both sexes in attendance. Once the clothes came off, they stayed off for the entire night and into the next morning. They just walked around the apartment naked. Hey, who wants breakfast? Don’t bother putting any clothes on, it’s a come as you are breakfast. They just walked around the place naked, watched television, took showers together, until they had to leave for school or some other reason.
The good news, if there is any, she was very good in bed when I married her and was up for whatever I wanted to do. Other good news is that because of her sneaking around behind my back with her ex-boyfriend, she had lost all trust I had in her and all privacy. I felt free to use all my skills and resources to dig into her past and personal life. In addition, I put a recorder on my own phone line among other tactics. No cell phones back then.
Well anyways, when all this came to light, I was less inclined to want to tie myself to her with children and a mortgage and didn’t want a future with her as far as marriage was concerned. I couldn’t trust her anymore. I was surprised but not upset with her college years and willing to leave it the past. I was not so willing to put her current indiscretion so quickly in the past. It didn’t help that she took no responsibility for her actions, kept defending what she had done, and continued blaming me for her inability to be a faithful wife.
We did go for counselling and according to her it was all my fault she was sneaking around with her ex-boyfriend. I made her do it. Enough said there.
What she didn’t seem to realize is that besides what she had already done, as damaging as it was. She more importantly didn’t consider the trust had been broken. I could no longer trust her anymore and questioned everything now and in the past. Was I being lied too then also? How could I trust her going forward?
I did go to her ex’s place of employment and flatten his car tires. She got angry with me for doing so. I could have argued it wasn’t my fault and it was all her fault. I could have accused her of making a big deal out of nothing, and she “made” me do it, but I didn’t.
In addition to defending her actions, telling me it was my fault, and telling me I was making a big deal out of nothing. She never admitted wrong doing, never said she realizes how wrong it was of her and sorry she had hurt me, never apologized, never said I am sorry, never promised to never do it again, did nothing to even try to make me feel more secure in our relationship or build the trust back and….. and…. Get this…. Told me how lucky I was that her ex-boyfriend didn’t come over here and beat my a~~ for flattening his tires! Yea, that sounds like something I want to be married to…. If I was a moron.
Really? My wife telling me her husband how lucky I am that her ex-boyfriend doesn’t come over to this apartment I am paying for and beat my a~~ for flattening his tires? Really!
Did she tell him how lucky he is I don’t go over to his house and beat his A$$ for conspiring with my wife for after hour “visitation” in my apartment after I had left to go to work?
Well bring it on. Anytime he’s ready, I can forget all about how lucky I am. I am sure he knows how to get here.
We divorced after three years, I stayed single for the most part after that, got a vasectomy, never had any children by choice, and soon after our divorce I was offered a position with a major airline in a different state and had a wonderful twenty-year career traveling all over the world and “knowing” many attractive women.
She on the other hand did get what she wanted, in a sense.
She did get remarried to a divorced man with children and had one daughter with him from that union. I met the daughter when she was a teenager and she seemed like a nice girl. A little off but she probably inherited that from her father.
In addition my ex was also “blessed” with custody of one of her new simps mentally challenged sons his ex-wife didn’t want. He had more children but his ex-wanted to keep those for herself.
Her husband was somewhat mentally challenged himself and much older than her. Maybe that’s why his one son turned out a little odd. I felt bad for the poor slob coming out of a bad marriage and then marrying her.
He had a shrew of an ex-wife, and the child that was mentally challenged must have inherited whatever it was that was making his father a little odd “schizophrenic”. His ex-wife did not want this child living with her, so my ex and her new pack mule had to take him in.
Running around the house at all hours of the night locking and unlocking doors, running up and down the stairs…. And she HAD to work outside the home which was not the case when she was married to me. In addition, the reason she had to work is because her new simp was not making enough money to pay his child support. So her pay cheque went directly to her new simps ex-wife. I am sure she was just thrilled to hand over her paycheck to his ex-wife.
So that’s the life she traded to get, for the one I was offering her. Moving to a better climate, traveling all over the world first class, Hawaii, Paris, Iceland, New Zealand, Kenya safari, Rome, the Pyramids, Alaska…, a nice home, children that we could have had together, and a life we could easily afford so she can be a stay-at-home mom. I am just shaking my head. Women’s logic?
All whilst I was traveling first class around the world eating in exotic restaurants in Europe, lying on beaches in the Caribbean, snowmobiling mountains in Iceland, hiking into the craters of inactive volcanoes in Hawaii, exploring Alaska, romantic evenings sleeping on the beaches of New Zealand, Kenya safaris…. And all with attractive and fun-loving women I either took with me or met there.
My ex is now divorced again, the daughter they had together did not want to stay with her mother and wanted to stay with her father and did. My ex is now and has been for quite some time, alone, has a few friends but none close, does not own a home, lives in an apartment and at the mercy of paying rent that can change at any time, struggling financially, and estranged from her daughter.
I on the other hand own a nice home that is paid for in a nice neighborhood, a late model car that is paid for, no credit card or any other kind of debt, money in the bank, retired with an airline pension and can still travel for free, good circle of friends, popular with the ladies, and a good social life I can easily afford.
I will just never understand the logic or lack thereof of women. It’s like they are relationship suicidal or hell bent on destroying their lives, their future, and the lives of those unfortunate enough to get caught up in their unnecessary drama.
In today’s world, apparently the worst thing a woman can experience is being married to a man who loves her, has a good career, and a bright future.
Life is hard.
It’s even harder when you’re stupid.
In this world you either lead, follow, or get out of the way.
I could make this even a longer story, but I'll try to keep it short.
Back in the 1980's I got married for the first time.
I was 32 and my future ex-wife was 28.
I dated her for three years before we married and it was like dating Marlo Thomas from the television show called, “That Girl”.
She just looked so cute, dressed smartly, was bubbly and fun to be around, and when you saw her you just wanted to hug her and hold her close to you.
I met her at church, and she professed to be a Christian. She was also a second-grade schoolteacher at the Christian school that was connected with our church.
After her asking me numerous times to marry her, I finally said yes.
During all of this I had been working for law enforcement for about seven years.
I told her that was not my career of choice and that my goal was to work for the airlines in any capacity to just get my foot in the door. In addition, I also had my pilots license and an Associates Science degree in Aviation Technology in case things went that direction. I told her I was willing to move anywhere in the United States to take any legitimate job offered to make it happen and that I felt very strongly about this. Meaning no house mortgage and no children so that we could be ready to move when and if I was offered an airline position. Then at that point we could start looking at houses and deciding how many kids we wanted to have.
Soon after our marriage she started making noises that she didn’t want to move and leave her friends and family behind. I told her in no uncertain terms that if I was offered a legitimate job with a reputable airline I would take it and if she wanted to stay behind she was free to do so.
She on the other hand wanted to saddle me with children and a mortgage right away and condemn me to working in a factory or the likes of for the rest of my life.
We both agreed to a three-year limit on my efforts to achieve this goal.
Before you read on, I want to say that I am not one to necessarily hold a person’s past against them.
Six months into the marriage I discovered this Christian girl I had married was sneaking around behind my back seeing an old boyfriend and having him over our apartment after I had left at ten-o-clock in the evening to work the night shift.
But wait, there’s more.
In addition, I also discovered she had no less than two abortions when she was in college studying to be a teacher.
But wait, there’s more.
While in college she attended all night sex charged parties that included drugs, alcohol, and debauchery of all sorts with numerous people of both sexes in attendance. Once the clothes came off, they stayed off for the entire night and into the next morning. They just walked around the apartment naked. Hey, who wants breakfast? Don’t bother putting any clothes on, it’s a come as you are breakfast. They just walked around the place naked, watched television, took showers together, until they had to leave for school or some other reason.
The good news, if there is any, she was very good in bed when I married her and was up for whatever I wanted to do. Other good news is that because of her sneaking around behind my back with her ex-boyfriend, she had lost all trust I had in her and all privacy. I felt free to use all my skills and resources to dig into her past and personal life. In addition, I put a recorder on my own phone line among other tactics. No cell phones back then.
Well anyways, when all this came to light, I was less inclined to want to tie myself to her with children and a mortgage and didn’t want a future with her as far as marriage was concerned. I couldn’t trust her anymore. I was surprised but not upset with her college years and willing to leave it the past. I was not so willing to put her current indiscretion so quickly in the past. It didn’t help that she took no responsibility for her actions, kept defending what she had done, and continued blaming me for her inability to be a faithful wife.
We did go for counselling and according to her it was all my fault she was sneaking around with her ex-boyfriend. I made her do it. Enough said there.
What she didn’t seem to realize is that besides what she had already done, as damaging as it was. She more importantly didn’t consider the trust had been broken. I could no longer trust her anymore and questioned everything now and in the past. Was I being lied too then also? How could I trust her going forward?
I did go to her ex’s place of employment and flatten his car tires. She got angry with me for doing so. I could have argued it wasn’t my fault and it was all her fault. I could have accused her of making a big deal out of nothing, and she “made” me do it, but I didn’t.
In addition to defending her actions, telling me it was my fault, and telling me I was making a big deal out of nothing. She never admitted wrong doing, never said she realizes how wrong it was of her and sorry she had hurt me, never apologized, never said I am sorry, never promised to never do it again, did nothing to even try to make me feel more secure in our relationship or build the trust back and….. and…. Get this…. Told me how lucky I was that her ex-boyfriend didn’t come over here and beat my a~~ for flattening his tires! Yea, that sounds like something I want to be married to…. If I was a moron.
Really? My wife telling me her husband how lucky I am that her ex-boyfriend doesn’t come over to this apartment I am paying for and beat my a~~ for flattening his tires? Really!
Did she tell him how lucky he is I don’t go over to his house and beat his A$$ for conspiring with my wife for after hour “visitation” in my apartment after I had left to go to work?
Well bring it on. Anytime he’s ready, I can forget all about how lucky I am. I am sure he knows how to get here.
We divorced after three years, I stayed single for the most part after that, got a vasectomy, never had any children by choice, and soon after our divorce I was offered a position with a major airline in a different state and had a wonderful twenty-year career traveling all over the world and “knowing” many attractive women.
She on the other hand did get what she wanted, in a sense.
She did get remarried to a divorced man with children and had one daughter with him from that union. I met the daughter when she was a teenager and she seemed like a nice girl. A little off but she probably inherited that from her father.
In addition my ex was also “blessed” with custody of one of her new simps mentally challenged sons his ex-wife didn’t want. He had more children but his ex-wanted to keep those for herself.
Her husband was somewhat mentally challenged himself and much older than her. Maybe that’s why his one son turned out a little odd. I felt bad for the poor slob coming out of a bad marriage and then marrying her.
He had a shrew of an ex-wife, and the child that was mentally challenged must have inherited whatever it was that was making his father a little odd “schizophrenic”. His ex-wife did not want this child living with her, so my ex and her new pack mule had to take him in.
Running around the house at all hours of the night locking and unlocking doors, running up and down the stairs…. And she HAD to work outside the home which was not the case when she was married to me. In addition, the reason she had to work is because her new simp was not making enough money to pay his child support. So her pay cheque went directly to her new simps ex-wife. I am sure she was just thrilled to hand over her paycheck to his ex-wife.
So that’s the life she traded to get, for the one I was offering her. Moving to a better climate, traveling all over the world first class, Hawaii, Paris, Iceland, New Zealand, Kenya safari, Rome, the Pyramids, Alaska…, a nice home, children that we could have had together, and a life we could easily afford so she can be a stay-at-home mom. I am just shaking my head. Women’s logic?
All whilst I was traveling first class around the world eating in exotic restaurants in Europe, lying on beaches in the Caribbean, snowmobiling mountains in Iceland, hiking into the craters of inactive volcanoes in Hawaii, exploring Alaska, romantic evenings sleeping on the beaches of New Zealand, Kenya safaris…. And all with attractive and fun-loving women I either took with me or met there.
My ex is now divorced again, the daughter they had together did not want to stay with her mother and wanted to stay with her father and did. My ex is now and has been for quite some time, alone, has a few friends but none close, does not own a home, lives in an apartment and at the mercy of paying rent that can change at any time, struggling financially, and estranged from her daughter.
I on the other hand own a nice home that is paid for in a nice neighborhood, a late model car that is paid for, no credit card or any other kind of debt, money in the bank, retired with an airline pension and can still travel for free, good circle of friends, popular with the ladies, and a good social life I can easily afford.
I will just never understand the logic or lack thereof of women. It’s like they are relationship suicidal or hell bent on destroying their lives, their future, and the lives of those unfortunate enough to get caught up in their unnecessary drama.
In today’s world, apparently the worst thing a woman can experience is being married to a man who loves her, has a good career, and a bright future.
Life is hard.
It’s even harder when you’re stupid.
In this world you either lead, follow, or get out of the way.
Who says he liked it? He was busting his butt because he wanted to support his family and she was being an ingrate. Jobs are called jobs because people don't like doing them. I wish more women understood this. It is a rare thing for someone to enjoy doing their job.
The guy is a workaholic. Alot of guys with work addictions, end up being thrown away, years later, by the same bosses they sacrificed for. I'm sorry, it's harder finding a Good Relationship, than a Good Job. Jobs are more plentiful, than quality partners.
Before I retired, I too had a job where sometimes I was told I had to work late. You don't have a choice! You have to do what your boss wants. In times like that you need to have a women in your life who is mature enough to understand and not get mad at you.
Open relationship: when the women in your life is in love with your wallet and some other guy's dick.
Always leave immediately. Move on, and don't look back. Make better choices and good luck
Him: _sees marriage and children on the horizon, decides to work harder to be a better man, providing for his family and getting a promotion._
Her: "My decision to cheat was _your_ fault."
She deserves all she got! She was a few dates away from banging that Taylor guy and having a full blown affair. She should be single. Her actions are that of a teenager. At her age she should know better than to be doing drinks with men after work while married.
Another woman who demands her man have a 6-figure salary, but a 0-figure timetable. 🤷♂️
So he works hard and only wants to sleep with one woman?
This man is a monster! (Gasps, clutches pearls, swoons onto fainting couch and calls for smelling salts...)
When you entertain debauchery, expect to get dirty. OP only has herself to blame, for the end of her relationship.
She writes as if she is oh so innocent. She wanted to cheat with a guy who is having a lot of $@%...She even picked a fight with her fiance to create an excuse to do so.
I used to be in retail management, my work hours were 50-70 hours a week. As for the story, if her BF never caught her, she would eventually sleep with the guy. And had they moved out together, that seed of open relationship is in her mind now and sooner or later, she will begin to resent him again because like I said, Retail requires 50-70 hours a week. Good luck keeping her happy. You are either a cheater or you aren't. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
I hate it when your girl is upset that you don’t want to “spend time” together by watching TV, while you’re in the middle of your grind.
“That was the end of our conversation” nope it was the end of her relationship
She lost Seamus when telling him she would be willing to open their relationship if he agreed to it. Catching her with Taylor was just the push he needed to act on it.
IT"s really sad when a wife or fiance starts talking about opening up a relationship because what is really happening is she is wispering in your ear "Honey, it"s over". And it can come up any time so guys when it happens be ready to eat a shit sandwich. And remember to get all your finances in order so she cant walk away with any of your property, then just give her the old kiss off, permanently.
That's why guys need to have separate finances from their SO's, both before and after marriage. Guys, if you have a house in your name only before the marriage, DO NOT add her to the deed if you can. And INSIST on getting a pre-nup through a good family law attorney. Get the attorney involved BEFORE marriage and have him or her on retainer. And if you suspect something shady, hire a private investigator; they're DAMN GOOD at finding out the truth about shady characters.
Never let them apologise TWICE
She kept praying that this was all a nightmare but SHE is the nightmare.
Does anyone believe that she wasn't holding his hand and didn't kiss him?
A man who won't put up with a woman being disrespectful.
I love this guy!!!
It was only a matter of time before she would have slept with this man. What she should have done was told him that her friend was mistaken that she was already in a relationship and she was not interested in an open relationship. But she did the opposite she entertained the fantasy of being in an open relationship or sleeping with someone. And her boyfriend did the right thing by cutting it off and completely moving away. I would have done the same thing left her just the way he did but I probably would have just ghosted her with no conversation.
I'm not sure that she didn't screw this guy.
@@JimPippin-wc7fq you probably right she probably did sleep with him. But she would not tell the truth if she did..
Women don't understand that trust!!! Is a key pillar in good men's life ... I won't put up with any bs ,you break the trust then you gone asap
If a married guy is overworking himself it's usually because he is being emasculated by his wife. He doesn’t want to go home.
I have two thoughts on this story. The first one is about the comment from the 2nd woman. Like most modern women she put ALL of the guilt on Taylor and her advice would have been spot on if Sharon had shut down Taylor hard at the first mention of getting into an open relationship with him. If he persisted even after the shut down, she should have gone to HR and not just on Taylor but on Jessica as well. She did not shut down Taylor and entertained the conversations on open relationships and even more intimate sexual topics. She partook consensually in those conversations and escalated them to outside work. My second thought was so Sharon was the sex with Taylor as good as you thought it would be?
He was working his arse off (I am Australian that is how we spell ‘ass’ in Australia, NZ and the UK).
I bet she was willing to receive all of the benefits of his hard work in his career but was sooking about being ‘left alone’.
Female response 3 : - she's a train that's going to wreck any second if her ex comes back and we will get another story on reddit.... " I cheated on my husband with my ex, I was happy with my marriage "..... My question is why get married if you still haven't lost feelings for your ex...
1: She FA, she FO.
2: Break a man’s trust and you’re done. See ya.
It was definitely leading up to being extremely physical. It was just a matter of time. She was escalating it. She's a female. Attention is her life blood. I get that you can't neglect your partner. But she is clingy. She wasn't supportive, appreciative and grateful for all of his hard work to provide. He was doing it for her and his future family. A woman who is wife material understands that. Did it take for the lease to expire, not being able to pay rent and moving back home for her to come to that realization? It didn't have to be this way. There were so many different decisions she could've made to protect their relationship. Starting with cutting those perverted co-workers off. She chose all the ones to destroy it instead. I wish it could've worked out between these two but i don't see how seamus could ever trust her.
imagine being angry at your husband for working hard LOL. The way she constantly harrassed him and shamed him because he was tired is disgusting.
I love how you break these down... knowledgeable
I love your channel brother you're probably one of the best you and better bachelor or the best men's channels out there I think.... So whenever you get successful women get bored with you and then they just destroy everything that's unbelievable I cannot comprehend that way of thinking
She has proven herself to be deceitful and untrustworthy in addition to her physical enter actions with her AP concerning her mention of an open relationship. With any reasonable man, she’s toast.
Her main problem is she views him working as a slight against her.
"How dare he work over even IF someone called in and it's his responsibility. He should leave at 5 and leave the business with no supervisors because I am more important"...
She really thinks that way.
I find cheating truly disgusting 🤮 and unsanitary. Like how can you kiss and sleep with someone else other than your partner then come back to your partner spreading the germs 🦠 and potential stds/STIs to them? WTH 🤦♀️ I love my husband so much and the only way we will split up is when one of us dies
Kudos.
Also, avoid the stupidity of various females in channels like this.
Getting tired of these women and their co workers they are working over in the bed room! None of my female co workers ever act that way! Why?
Awesome timing for Shamus. He dodged a bullet.
OP is clearly lying. So she hugged and kissed this Taylor guy before she jumped in her car to head home? And Seamus saw all this, headed home, packed all his stuff, left the house and then came back in??? What is he superman? She clearly slept with the guy in between that time because the timeline doesn’t add up.
He is spot-on about her! Good job!
Cheating on a very responsible guy. It's clearly her loss.
In contrast to this video, Chisha Zed did one on women who divorced their husbands because they weren't "ambitious enough". The unwinnable time-versus- money argument that wives throw at husbands is the leading cause of strife in marriages that causes cheating and divorces, and is one of the main causes for rapidly increasing numbers of men refusing to marry or remarry. Don't marry or cohabitate with women. Make women have to provide for themselves without male-assistance, so they can actually walk their feminist-talk about being "strong and independent" and not needing a man.
Case in point, notice that Shamus was paying 2/3 of the expenses in this video with her complaining about how hard he had to work to do it. Now that OP lost access to leeching off his work and finances, she's unable to afford the standard of living that his work and money made possible. The vast majority of modern-women are just like her: disloyal, dishonorable, and ungrateful for what a man does for them.
I’ve been watching all of your content sense I found your channel and you’re content and the way you explain certain topics I honestly could’ve said it better myself
If Taylor kissing Sharon was a criminal act, then it would have been reflected in her response immediately. Sexual tension and communication between men and women is often times NON-verbal. The idea of asking a girl if you can kiss her is a mood killer, it destroys the spontaneity, and kills the vibe. This means that guys will go for it without asking and so the only way to genuinely know if a kiss is unwelcome is her reaction at the time of the kiss. The fact that she accepted it is evidence that she welcomed it, and filing a police report about an "ASSAULT" is a fabricated LIE, and this suggestion from Female #2 is worthy of Amber Heard. Sharon broke his trust, and disrespected his career advancement. And if Female #2 gets upset with her own boyfriend she can try dumping piles of poo into his bed and see how that goes. Good luck to both of them.
Cheating is not in the zex per say... it's in the lies, the dissimulations or the manipulations, because trust stands on honesty, transparency and sincerity.
She was a burden to this man even without the cheating. She was holding him back from his potential by stressing him out over her selfishness. He was working to secure their future but she wanted instant gratification.
Crack up whenever people in open relationships describe it as "healthy". Because...you do you, but it's about as healthy as a shot of heroin.
Nope. Worse. Krokodil...
Wow, this guy terminated the lease for the apartment quite quickly. Good move, dude!!
One thing's for sure: I will NEVER pray for a cheater.