i knew a guy in university that tried pickup artist tactics. He became known as the can i get your number guy after a while. Lots of girls ended up avoiding him. its definitely not a good tactic
It's amazing how "i have a boyfriend" is still the strongest card you can play to stop creeps from harassing you. Like they respect the man they've never seen more than they respect the woman right in front of them 🤯
So by your logic he shouldn’t even have approached her? Regardless of how the woman rejected the man, he immediately turned around. Just because women use it so frequently because they are afraid to be honest and reject man normally it doesn’t mean what you are saying is true. Typical female, do what you know best (cook and clean) and let the men talk.
Doesn't stop the Evolved creep, which unfortunately does not take damage from the "I have a boyfriend" card. You may need to equip the "Pepper spray" item
I don’t go out anymore, but I used to literally wear a fake ring and it’s amazing how well it worked 😂 Guys would glance at it and stop without me having to say a word.
Honestly, about the girl who replied “yes” when he asked “is it because I’m ugly” I can guarantee you she only said that because she understood he was trying guilt trip her with the question. I’ve noticed a lot of times that it’s only the creeps who use that phrase to guilt trip after being rejected, so often so, that women will straight up say “yes” because they understand what they’re trying to do and are insulting them in retaliation for even trying it, and I don’t blame her, it’s a shitty move to begin with.
maybe he really is ugly. Is it really hard for people (like you, charlie and many others) to accept that women (and men) do reject people based on their looks? Charlie didn't say it outright, but him immediately trying to find some other reason behind why she called him ugly alluded to this belief. And you too are cooking up all kinds of other reasons instead of the simplest one.
Definitely true! Sadly some younger male viewers might not understand she ONLY said yes as an “escape strategy” to get out of the far too common aggressive arguments started by men who can’t accept no for an answer. His accusation of implying she was vain was designed to trap her by forcing her to stay and start defending herself. He basically turned her right to say no to him into a ‘moral flaw’ to guilt trip her over. So by not indulging him and just saying yes (ending both the conversation and any chance of him trying to make her walk back her rejection to disprove the accusation) she was able to get out of that uncomfortable situation quicker. It genuinely didn’t matter if he accused her rejection of being based on his looks, race, age, how he smelt, etc, a woman will just say yes in order to disengage and get the hell out of there.
@@Dipj01 Eh, If I'm not physically attracted to someone I just say that they aren't my type. Alternative theory, could also be that he got rejected because he walked up to a stranger and asked for their number, and then had the gall to ask if it's because he's ugly to garner sympathy? Who's to say, really 🤷
@@nic00001 op and charlie did (indirectly). Op's comment and even Charlie immediately trying to give reasons for why she called him ugly, gave that feeling. They didn't need to come up with explanations for such a simple thing. Sometimes, people are just ugly, and do get rejected for that without any deeper reason.
Yeah, I will say, probably the only thing I can compliment him on is that he's pretty good at handling rejection. He doesn't get mad or push the issue much, he just kind of accepts it and moves on. Which is good but he's also really dumb, so it leads to him asking five women in a group back-to-back if he can get their number while all the other women watch him get rejected first. So that part is awkward.
I totally agree about random passing-by compliments and their effect. This was almost ten years ago and I still remember because it was so sweet. I was just walking to the coffee shop from work and these two girls stopped me and said, “ excuse me, just want to tell you, you’re very beautiful.” And I said thank you, they said you’re welcome and that was it! We kept walking. And I still remember it! Lmao
He actually holds the rejection world record in the straight% category, almost broke the rules there and went for a bi% in this footage but still an impressive run nonetheless
No Albert Ellis holds that record. He would make him self talk to women and was rejected hundreds of times. This helped him create REBT therapy. Because the internet and posting didn't exist, it's almost like it never happened, I guess.
Charlie still remembering that compliment those two guys gave him in college was so sweet, and also goes to show that you never know what simple compliment might make someone’s day, or their life!!!
Exactly, i remember nice things people said to me from when i was really little, it still makes me smile to this day. It is nice to hear others who also remember, because that means that someone probably remembers the good things you said, too!, although we may not know it.
mmm it depends There's people who don't like compliments of any kind at all so you may come as rude or scary to them, in that case it's safer to not say anything imo. I say this mostly because Im one of those people, I don't like compliments or talking to strangers, much less receiving compliments from a stranger haha no but really it gives me anxiety and sometimes panic attacks...
I had to call in sick once when I was an intern; when I came back two of my coworkers chimed in asking where I'd been and they missed seeing me. Beet red. My boss walked by and made a comment about it before physically dragging me by the arm back to the kitchen - this made me even redder. Compliments can be overwhelming but holy f do you remember them if you don't get them often. (granted that wasnt a direct compliment but it conveyed someone had a positive view of me and missed my presence, so it caught me off-guard and made me feel nice)
They owe no explanation to this creep, and its probably for the best that he knows as little information about them as possible. He clearly refused to take no for an answer, there is no reason to be honest with him when a simple ‘no’ should have ended the conversation.
Oh my god that cashier saying we got this thanks is such a legend. I'm glad people like that exist to help people who are in uncomfortable situations, I'd want somebody to do that for me.
This is so true. I'm not a very good looking guy (below average actually), but I'm tall. I just give random people sincere compliments. There was a girl in the subway dressed like a badass and I told her "your boots are badass" then went forward and found a seat for myself. She gave me her number. I never called because of anxiety but it was a real boost of confidence. They were black suede thigh highs over olive drab tights and a black cropped biker jacket over a tank top. Honestly a great outfit.
"Artist" (as in pickup artist) is the perfect definition, cause when you're doing art you don't expect others to understand you. Even when that's the whole point lol. I once met a pretty famous dating coach and the way he talked about it was more like a science, cause it has to work and there are specific things to do like, *to not be a creep* (for example he talked about how comfort is very important, so you never approach during the night, in isolated or private places, you never put yourself in front of them so that they can keep walking if they want to, you dress decently so you don't look like a creep, you keep your distance and don't start off strong but with a simple compliment etc... which I thought to be very reasonable stuff)
Or you just want to be more likeable. People don’t naturally know how to effectively communicate. Good communication is learned. Unfortunately not everyone is as fortunate to get good opportunities to learn. Many people have social disorders that make it difficult to interact with others. There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to be better at talking to people.
@@1WEareBUFO1 100% agree with you, and then again, what can you do about it if not to try and learn from others? I was an introverted kid that grew up to be extremely shy, lived around aged people, rarely peers. Then quarantine hit when I was 16... Now, I know I didn't go out of my way to improve cause it was so scary, so now I'm left with the results, but should I just leave things as they are because I wasn't deal the best hand? Working on it is absolutely terrifying *by itself* , books, courses etc... are a huge help cause they give that baseline to work with. Sure it's artificial, but that's only until you make it yours and tweak it to your style and personality, and it's not like you don't use common sense to filter what you learn.
@@1WEareBUFO1100% agree with you, and that's exactly the point of it I believe. Taking myself as an example, I was an introverted kid that grew up to be extremely shy, spent most my time with old people (rarely with peers) and got into lockdown at 16. Even trying was just too difficult for me, so I never did. Social interaction *was* a sport to me, took me a good 3 years to get it straight, and informations (books, courses, videos etc...) helped a ton, because they gave me that baseline I lacked, and now I can get even more from them (since I understand them to a deeper extent). I don't think there's anything wrong in having deficits in life, the hand you're dealt is usually shitty anyway, might as well try to improve it.
Every time I think I've seen the peak of secondhand embarrassment, charlie finds a new summit. This video is like a masterclass in what NOT to do. The gym pickup line had me facepalming so hard I almost hit a new PR.
what people don't understand is that he knows he's bad at picking up girls, he just does it to get more 'famous', more views etc. And clearly it worked. In order to get easy clout online is to make people upset so that they talk more about him/her. It's so stupid it has gotten this far but people will never realise or learn to not make stupid people famous.
@@pancake1751 On the contrary. Stupid people have always been famous. Ever since the dawn of mankind. However, these people obviously only got mockery and disrespect, deservedly so, by their audience. Having clout for being a clown isn't an achievement, and some people somehow think it is. People will laugh at them and go on with their lives, while the clown's fame will die out in a week.
@@Deathmare235 I think it would be like having two friends that you act differently around or that have different personalities getting into one group together
Charlie youre the only creator i subscribe to i click all your videos. The fact youre witty snd intelligent without an editing team and gimmicks and without writing scripts reminds me of vintage UA-cam. Youre the man,yo.
I think the girl in the gym did understand him because she went "O_O" when he said that wild shit. Sometimes going "sorry i don't understand" can be the best way to shut down unexpected flirting if youre uncomfortable (from my own experience at least)
@jazzabighits4473 No by itself should be a good enough answer. Women only lie about boyfriends because its the only reason that other weirdo men think is good enough.
What Charlie said about complements is so spot on. As a woman I I feel like I need to be on guard if a man says something nice to me because it’s almost always followed by asking for a number or something. Not to mention the “complements” that borderline belong in porn. I try to complement people (especially women) as often as possible, it’s a little hard because I’m autistic and don’t want people to feel uncomfortable which is hard for me to “read”. It’s something I started to try better my social interaction skills. A simple “oh that’s a nice nail polish color” or “you have a lovely smile” and move on with your day. Normalize complements to other without wanting or expecting anything in return!
Our society has truly reached the pinnacle of cringe (Edit is a restructuring of the grammar of the original comment bc people say the structure is messy)
Something about how charlie remembered not only what he was doing but what he was wearing as well but just a single compliment he got years ago is very wholesome those passing compliments do go a long way
@thatrandomcrit5823 ive heard so many guys have this experience. that they dont neccessarily get often comments so the few or the one they got they cherished it and it just stuck in their memory. generally girls get more compliments often and it gets harder to remember them separately or specificly
@@helixxia9320Yeah, I know, that´s why I´m saying, it´s not wholesome that we can remember it, it´s sad that it´s so rare that we can count on one hand the ammount of compliments in years
On the other hand, Charlie took that cringe to your doorstep. Without his involvement you'd be spared the cringe you just endured. Charlie is the ominious man who both, gives and takes.
@@Cyphonit’s a common pick up tactic. If he had paid for the shoes then suddenly he’s “owed” her number and that could get hostile very quick. And the fact that she had already paid for the shoes but he decided to stay there meant he needed to be pushed away from the situation.
Not only did the girls see that he's asking every female in sight for their numbers, he's doing it so thoughtlessly that he almost accidentally asked a group of guys, *and* he's pointing a camera in their faces as he does so. I may not be very experienced with this sort of thing but I can't imagine that sort of behavior would instill them with faith in the quality of your character.
Exactly this. Asking someone for a number after a small talk while acting as a decent human being at the same time is totally fine. But this here is just cringe.
@@sotch2271 uh oh, someone's cranky that women aren't caving to social pressure and are instead telling losers to get lost! Maybe you'll feel better after a lil nap, champ ☺️
I gotta say, in regards to complimenting strangers - I try to do that whenever I see someone in the street who I think looks cool. Just a quick "hey, you're rocking that look." People really light up. Spread kindness, folks. :)
I also do this a lot! But it is funny catching people off guard with a genuine compliment sometimes, because you can really tell who isn’t used to it, and at first the person will almost look offended like “what’s wrong with my shoes man?!” And then realize I actually just told him “hey bro those shoes are dope!” Etc. And watching them go from WTF to 😊 is always cool
It's awesome to compliment people, I love seeing their faces light up. Old folks have really cute reactions usually lol. I have a harder time complimenting men my age because they always think I'm trying to flirt with them 😅
i love how when that one girl was struggling to come up with an excuse, the girl who said she was a lesbian was like "actually shes my girlfriend". thats a real homie right there, you know shes got your back when you need it.
Honestly, regardless of my relationship status, if someone had a phone in my face while asking for my number, I'd probably give whatever excuse I thought that would make them go away the fastest. _"My husband will be here shortly- he's bringing our 8 rabid bulldogs, they're so cute"_ or _"Oh yeah, I'm actually a monk- I can't have impure thoughts or I'll be dragged straight into hell"_ or _"My girlfriend is 7-foot tall giantess, and I like getting stepped on too much to consider leaving, sorry"_ or how about _"Mother says I can't have relationships after the last one or it's back to the attic again"_ Like, piss off with your cameras in people's faces. People aren't your content gremlins. It's weirder to treat them that way than using those stupid pickup lines.
Idk why but Charlie saying the creepy dude could’ve befriended the group of guys and formed a basketball team was adorable. Guys just going around making friends to form little sports teams would be fun to watch
I believe that even without his phone on their faces he would have never get a phone number, why would anyone give their phone number to random strangers on the streets?! It makes no sense to believe that this is how you meet people.
@@Devi_Seona It does happen, if he goes out to the nightclub and truly tries without a camera, I bet he could get a couple girls numbers (drunk girls don't count, I mean ones in lines for clubs like in video)
Remember fellas, the best way to compliment anyone, is to do so without expectation and with something to genuinely compliment them for. You can even compliment looks without being sexual about about it.
Held a door for a lady at the gas station and she said thanks, you're really handsome. I looked around like who was she saying that to? Then I realized, oh hey she was talking to me. I responded: WHAT? oh... yeah you too. Lol am I smooth or what? I STILL GOT IT BABY
A lot of the problem is that if you sneak up on someone, you're going to get a negative response because you startled them. The only reason a stranger taps you in public is because you're in trouble, you lost something, or they're trying to grab your purse.
If there's one thing that makes someone as socially awkward and socially anxious as me to be happy in a social situation, it's definitely giving random & honest compliments to strangers I'll never see again. Especially if they're by themselves in a public place and just seem kinda down in the dumps. And especially retail workers, cause BEEN THERE!
@@Zenith_Star69 Talk all the shit you want, I bet he gets laid more than everyone here in the comments. At least he's out there trying. Making fun of him is like making fun of fat people in the gym, even if they're hopeless and just at the start of their journey there's no need to make fun of them or their efforts.
Honestly, shout out to that cashier, who looks at the friend you see him mouth 'do you know him', the camera slightly pans to her friend and you see the confused look and the cashier says hey man we're all good, you good? Very happy to see men stepping in and getting bad men away from people, it makes us all look better and reminds me people can still be good!
I don't wanna assume anyone's sexuality but he seemed kinda fruity and if he is, he not only has had to deal with creepy men just by being around them but also from dating them. Love the support regardless!
Because men are monsters. We are seen as a danger and exclusively so. Instead of kindness, retaliation is a frequent experience. I’ve understood it though. Truly. I’d have it no other way.
Oh, we get it, Charlie. We always get it, even the weirdest pick up lines. But making them repeat it, or even explain it, thus sounding dumber, makes it so much better.
not gonna lie, I think those first two women were probably just non-native English speakers judging by their accents. So while it's true women just pretend to not get it, I like the think it was just a language barrier issue haha
No offense but this is just a**hole behaviour distinguished as playful then. Also not every girl is as dirty minded as you so I doubt you speak for all here.
Story time: When I was like 17 for prom. I stopped by a gas station before meeting up with friends at Red Lobster. I got out and went inside to pay for gas and an older black gentleman sitting inside "ooooooo weeeeeee, you lookin sharper than a tack my friend'. I thank him and carried on but that shit made my night lol. I'm 22 now and I don't think I'll ever forget that.
Assuming for a moment that there is an idiotic validity in the approach that if you ask out enough random people, someone might say yes: What then? You haven't made any connection to that person, got nothing to talk about and given his track record, his social skills surely aren't the best. Chances are you also aren't compatible at all since, again, there was no meaningful interaction in the first place. So it would be a very short stay in the contacts.
I do think that the key to a genuine compliment is the walk-away. You drop it, smile, and make your exit, that's it. You expected nothing in return and you made someone's day!
True. If you stay and wait for a response, it makes the whole thing awkward and makes it seem like the whole purpose of giving the compliment was because you were expecting something in return for it.
Oh yeah, giving random strangers genuine compliments without expecting something in return is very wholesome. It also makes the other person's day, and it makes me happy that I made them smile. I think everyone should do it once in awhile.
I have had a lot of success through cold approach. The problem with a lot I see in social media is that they are doing these approaches that are outrageous for clout, not actually wanting to have a meaningful interaction. They intentionally do the most socially inept approach that guarantees a rejection. Rule of thumb. The girl should be comfortable talking to you as if you were her friend.
Another thing i want to talk about is that most of the women said "I have a boyfriend" as a response and i believe that not all of them didn't have a boyfriend. Not because they're ugly or something but we as women are programmed to say that to a guy who automatically gives us the creeps bc of "no." We can't just say no because no is something some men can't simply accept. Ive heard plenty of news from women rejecting men and they get assaulted or killed because of it. So instead of flat out rejecting, we are programmed to use a fake boyfriend bc some men respect men more than the simple consent of a woman.
I don't think it's respecting men so much as most guys don't want the hassle of dealing with the potential "her boyfriend may want to kick my ass just for asking her out" granted there are guys out there that are stupid enough to want to fight a girls boyfriend, I guess to "prove" they're better than the guy the girl is with. It's still pretty stupid all the same.
@metalteuffel2484 I think it's more of a "oh she's already taken" mentality. So yeah its more like, we think it's harder for men to accept we are not interested in them for whatever reason because that might hurt their feelings. And well, men are not very well known for dealing adequately with their emotions. So the best reason to give is "it's not you, I'm just already taken"
@@1Peasantit depends, not everyone will protect you if you get attacked. I've seen lots of car accidents where the people around didn't even bother calling an ambulance and just continued to walk away.
that was the most cringe moment of the entire video Imagine wanting to be an independent woman and strong but also wanting some random stranger to butt in because you're too scared to say no to somebody in a public place
@@RenixGames That's what makes it even worse. Somebody else being nosey thinking they're helping by White Knighting for somebody they don't even know and who might not even want that.
7:39 it's nice to know even guys like Charlie feel this way about random compliments. Guys get complimented so infrequently that it can completely throw you off guard, and be something you remember for YEARS just cause someone said something nice about you. I can count on one hand the amount of times I've been complimented by a stranger... And I remember each and every one, specifically.
@@0TheJigsawKiller0 haha hell no I certainly won't be like that! And while I have a bad memory and can't say specifically when, I know it's within the last week or so! I try to make a habit of doling out at least one compliment every time I leave the house - but I never force it. I simply tell myself to say what I'm thinking when it's something nice! And so the last compliment I remember giving to a guy was a dude with some nice, straight long hair at a gas station after I got off work. I remember, because he said thanks and, as he was passing me, he said "Oh hey, and you, too!" Since I have a ponytail just like him (but his hair was far nicer than mine) XD
@@0TheJigsawKiller0 Personally, I am very much an introvert. Like extremely so. If I even speak to a stranger, they should go buy themselves a lottery ticket. You would have to be the very embodiment of beauty itself to ever wrench a compliment out of me as a stranger. Even then, I'd likely be too nervous to say it out loud so I'd stick to thinking it.
@@BSPancake I consider myself an introvert, too! I wouldn't say it's as strong for me as it is in your description, but the way that helped me with my "make a compliment a day" thing was that I really like making people happy/smile/laugh so I just think of it how it'd affect me. If someone said the kinds of things I try to compliment, it'd make my day and I'd be thinking of it till I went to bed and probably into the next day! So I just wanna do that for other people :] Dunno if that'll help you or not, but maybe you'll resonate with it!
there's something every woman in my life does, even the most shy of the shy and it's giving compliments when you see another pretty woman. don't hold back, just say it. "hey, you're gorgeous! where'd you get your pants? do you work out?" literally just say it. i know guys and woman who give honest compliments and their friends blush EVERY TIME no matter how they're feeling. it's the best.
You'll likely never read this Charlie, but seeing you talk about your basketball group and friends overall at every opportunity has gotten me to start reaching out to people I lost contact with after isolating myself. (Edit: everyone here has been awesome, thanks folks!)
It's hard, but I'm proud of you too. I go through periods where I isolate myself for one reason or another as well; eating relatively healthy, getting sunlight, going out and about can help immensely to get your head out of that mindspace. (bonus points if you get some gym time in, helps keep your mood up, but its not a requirement)
She hit him with the level 12 "I'm a lesbian" critical damage
I was disappointed that the next girl didn't finish it with the "I'm her girlfriend" combo.
@@asheronwindspear552 I heard the other girl say "she's my girlfriend".
KLMAOOOOOO@@asheronwindspear552
I'd still want it.
@@asheronwindspear552that would have actually killed me lmmfao
There’s nothing more attractive than watching a man ask a bunch of girls for their number, get rejected, before he gets to you.
It’s over for non chads
And they all have boyfriends, including the lesbian 🥰
I don’t understand why the guy thinks he’s gonna get a number before even having a 5 minute conversation with the girl. It baffles me
He’s been taking his lessons from Boomhauer.
@@user-we3lq6tc9nhe treats women like they aren't people. People like this are so confused why they fail while they act like this
Nothing turns a girl on more than asking someone for their number then instantly hopping to the next one like they’re cattle 😂😂😂this guys a menace
facts! LOOOL
Can you imagine the chaos if just one gave her number then decides to walk off with him? ☄🔥
@@chrystalelizabeth hahahaha xD
i knew a guy in university that tried pickup artist tactics. He became known as the can i get your number guy after a while. Lots of girls ended up avoiding him. its definitely not a good tactic
These dudes need an entire course to tell them what just being friends with girls / making yourself as attractive as possible will get you naturally
"You're perfect."
"For what?"
She should have told him she didn't want to join the army 😂😂
Lol😂
This guy's the human version of zubat. He flies around confusing everyone who runs into him, and you have to drink an antidote once you run away.
Or Juan’s kindra who just raised his evasiveness to evade his own self awareness
@@ACastillo0702*The entirety of Emerald’s Battle Frontier
True, and since he's everywhere you have to keep running away.
I thought the repel was a spray on rather than something you drink
@@lunamiku4166 Its not talking about a repel, he literally says antidote. You know, for poison, which Zubat can inflict.
It's amazing how "i have a boyfriend" is still the strongest card you can play to stop creeps from harassing you. Like they respect the man they've never seen more than they respect the woman right in front of them 🤯
Right?!
So by your logic he shouldn’t even have approached her? Regardless of how the woman rejected the man, he immediately turned around. Just because women use it so frequently because they are afraid to be honest and reject man normally it doesn’t mean what you are saying is true. Typical female, do what you know best (cook and clean) and let the men talk.
Doesn't stop the Evolved creep, which unfortunately does not take damage from the "I have a boyfriend" card. You may need to equip the "Pepper spray" item
I don’t go out anymore, but I used to literally wear a fake ring and it’s amazing how well it worked 😂 Guys would glance at it and stop without me having to say a word.
It's just nature. Men are stronger and faster than women so women need men to protect them from other men.
dude the cashier was so real for that
A real g
I heard a lady share a pretty good comeback to catcalling: "sorry, I don't have any spare change!"
I still like the classic response to 'What's your number?':
"911"
It could come off the wrong way if the guy is non-white, though. Being accidentally racist still makes you racist, even if just a little bit.
@@JediMasterBaiter That's almost as cringe as this dudes pick up lines...
@@BlackMetal0189His pickup line is just what’s your number
Nothing cringe about a line of intent, in this case a serious threat of calling the police on you@@BlackMetal0189
Honestly, about the girl who replied “yes” when he asked “is it because I’m ugly” I can guarantee you she only said that because she understood he was trying guilt trip her with the question. I’ve noticed a lot of times that it’s only the creeps who use that phrase to guilt trip after being rejected, so often so, that women will straight up say “yes” because they understand what they’re trying to do and are insulting them in retaliation for even trying it, and I don’t blame her, it’s a shitty move to begin with.
maybe he really is ugly. Is it really hard for people (like you, charlie and many others) to accept that women (and men) do reject people based on their looks? Charlie didn't say it outright, but him immediately trying to find some other reason behind why she called him ugly alluded to this belief. And you too are cooking up all kinds of other reasons instead of the simplest one.
Definitely true! Sadly some younger male viewers might not understand she ONLY said yes as an “escape strategy” to get out of the far too common aggressive arguments started by men who can’t accept no for an answer.
His accusation of implying she was vain was designed to trap her by forcing her to stay and start defending herself. He basically turned her right to say no to him into a ‘moral flaw’ to guilt trip her over. So by not indulging him and just saying yes (ending both the conversation and any chance of him trying to make her walk back her rejection to disprove the accusation) she was able to get out of that uncomfortable situation quicker.
It genuinely didn’t matter if he accused her rejection of being based on his looks, race, age, how he smelt, etc, a woman will just say yes in order to disengage and get the hell out of there.
@@Dipj01who the hell even said that
@@Dipj01 Eh, If I'm not physically attracted to someone I just say that they aren't my type.
Alternative theory, could also be that he got rejected because he walked up to a stranger and asked for their number, and then had the gall to ask if it's because he's ugly to garner sympathy? Who's to say, really 🤷
@@nic00001 op and charlie did (indirectly). Op's comment and even Charlie immediately trying to give reasons for why she called him ugly, gave that feeling. They didn't need to come up with explanations for such a simple thing. Sometimes, people are just ugly, and do get rejected for that without any deeper reason.
This guy would make a great cold caller. Straight to the point, handles rejection well, and does not care about social norms at all
Yeah, I will say, probably the only thing I can compliment him on is that he's pretty good at handling rejection. He doesn't get mad or push the issue much, he just kind of accepts it and moves on. Which is good but he's also really dumb, so it leads to him asking five women in a group back-to-back if he can get their number while all the other women watch him get rejected first. So that part is awkward.
It borders on sociopathic. Like he's checking boxes instead of talking to women.
@kamikazesopp I mean, what else what he do to talk to women?
@@billywashere6965 dating app not approaching totally strangers like a creep LOL
Thats where the whole pickup thing comes from, its from sales guys who applied that philosophy to dating
I totally agree about random passing-by compliments and their effect. This was almost ten years ago and I still remember because it was so sweet. I was just walking to the coffee shop from work and these two girls stopped me and said, “ excuse me, just want to tell you, you’re very beautiful.” And I said thank you, they said you’re welcome and that was it! We kept walking. And I still remember it! Lmao
Lmao so funny hahahaha!
9:00 guy: “Ik the gym isn’t really the right place to meet somebody”. Girl: 👁️👁️
no shit we watched the video
@@fromjxeldick
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@@fromjxel ok? Didn’t have to be a d1ck about it lol
He forgot to be handsome before approaching her. What an idiot
He actually holds the rejection world record in the straight% category, almost broke the rules there and went for a bi% in this footage but still an impressive run nonetheless
This made me lightly chuckle
Curious to see if there any other NA players that up on the leaderboard since most of them got disqualified and are now in prison.
😂
No Albert Ellis holds that record. He would make him self talk to women and was rejected hundreds of times. This helped him create REBT therapy. Because the internet and posting didn't exist, it's almost like it never happened, I guess.
I read this like it was shoutcasted
His pickup lines are about as natural as Zuckerberg’s social interactions
Zuck is in hospital
"I'm the meat chef."
"What?"
"I'm the meat chef." 🙂
...?
"Would you like to smoke some meats?" 🙂
@@mh2120 I'll bring some sweet baby ray's
nooo not mr zucky :( @@pastuh
@@pastuh Not for the right reasons.
The perfect pick-up line sure to work every time... "You wanna go wash our cars together?"
I’m convinced that man is in fact a mythological creature that feed on the cringe he generates through space and time
Charlie still remembering that compliment those two guys gave him in college was so sweet, and also goes to show that you never know what simple compliment might make someone’s day, or their life!!!
Exactly, i remember nice things people said to me from when i was really little, it still makes me smile to this day.
It is nice to hear others who also remember, because that means that someone probably remembers the good things you said, too!, although we may not know it.
wow someone's happy as fuck, yeeesg
mmm it depends
There's people who don't like compliments of any kind at all so you may come as rude or scary to them, in that case it's safer to not say anything imo.
I say this mostly because Im one of those people, I don't like compliments or talking to strangers, much less receiving compliments from a stranger haha no but really it gives me anxiety and sometimes panic attacks...
@@gagrimauxiliatrix841 maybe work on that -_-
I had to call in sick once when I was an intern; when I came back two of my coworkers chimed in asking where I'd been and they missed seeing me.
Beet red.
My boss walked by and made a comment about it before physically dragging me by the arm back to the kitchen - this made me even redder.
Compliments can be overwhelming but holy f do you remember them if you don't get them often.
(granted that wasnt a direct compliment but it conveyed someone had a positive view of me and missed my presence, so it caught me off-guard and made me feel nice)
I love how the one girl said “I’m lesbian” and the other girl said “we all have boyfriends actually” 😂
@@Andrew0506 its not that deep lol. he is just pointing out how they will say anything to make this guy go away
I was thinking even the lesbian huh?😂
No fucks given lmao
They owe no explanation to this creep, and its probably for the best that he knows as little information about them as possible. He clearly refused to take no for an answer, there is no reason to be honest with him when a simple ‘no’ should have ended the conversation.
why didnt they just say no 💀
Bro there's so much joy in tossing out a banger ass compliment to a stranger
Ass compliment
It’s the way his voice slightly cracks at the ‘ber’ part of the word ‘number’ that really does it for me.
Oh my god that cashier saying we got this thanks is such a legend. I'm glad people like that exist to help people who are in uncomfortable situations, I'd want somebody to do that for me.
Working with the public is undoubtedly a heroic deed.
@@h9ry he actually is next time you’re in trouble you’ll see
@@h9rybet you never helped anyone in your life
@@h9ryif he’s not, all the bad guys are monsters then
Are you a human being? Don’t harass other human beings, it’s easy
Hell yeah was thinking the same thing. He handled himself like a champ
I gotta hand it to that guy, he's given all those who are insecure about being single a huge confidence spike.
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts 💨
His first video is clearly satire. It was a bit draining watching Charlie fall for it.
@@ChrrolloDIwhat is he satirizing?
Penguinz0 inspires me... My parents said if i get 50k followers they'd buy me a professional camera for recording begging u guys.
@@ChrrolloDIsatire usually involves some sort of parody or self-awareness.
First one shook her head like "that's not even worth word energy"
This is so true. I'm not a very good looking guy (below average actually), but I'm tall. I just give random people sincere compliments. There was a girl in the subway dressed like a badass and I told her "your boots are badass" then went forward and found a seat for myself. She gave me her number. I never called because of anxiety but it was a real boost of confidence.
They were black suede thigh highs over olive drab tights and a black cropped biker jacket over a tank top. Honestly a great outfit.
Call her.
Some girls give fake numbers lol
Dress like her from now on. Then you'll get compliments
He’s into public humiliation and derives pleasure from pain but he has not yet totally figured that out. 😂
Maybe after another 1000 no's he'll figure out that it's his kink
I will not be surprised if that is legit the case
Pick-up artists deserve an entire documentary at this point.
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts 💨
they need to be in prison first
Millennial Incel jea los Charlie and Codyko are just obsessed with our gen TikTokers.
@@MrUssy101what language are u speaking
They are species that are becoming extremely widespread
he genuinely did almost ask that group of dudes... either dude's Bi and doesn't want to show it or he's straight up autopilot
Haha autopilot for sure.
"Artist" (as in pickup artist) is the perfect definition, cause when you're doing art you don't expect others to understand you. Even when that's the whole point lol.
I once met a pretty famous dating coach and the way he talked about it was more like a science, cause it has to work and there are specific things to do like, *to not be a creep* (for example he talked about how comfort is very important, so you never approach during the night, in isolated or private places, you never put yourself in front of them so that they can keep walking if they want to, you dress decently so you don't look like a creep, you keep your distance and don't start off strong but with a simple compliment etc... which I thought to be very reasonable stuff)
Having a dating coach just implies that social interaction is a sport to you. It's a bad baseline, regardless.
Or you just want to be more likeable. People don’t naturally know how to effectively communicate. Good communication is learned. Unfortunately not everyone is as fortunate to get good opportunities to learn. Many people have social disorders that make it difficult to interact with others. There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to be better at talking to people.
@@1WEareBUFO1 100% agree with you, and then again, what can you do about it if not to try and learn from others? I was an introverted kid that grew up to be extremely shy, lived around aged people, rarely peers. Then quarantine hit when I was 16... Now, I know I didn't go out of my way to improve cause it was so scary, so now I'm left with the results, but should I just leave things as they are because I wasn't deal the best hand?
Working on it is absolutely terrifying *by itself* , books, courses etc... are a huge help cause they give that baseline to work with. Sure it's artificial, but that's only until you make it yours and tweak it to your style and personality, and it's not like you don't use common sense to filter what you learn.
@@Toxin_E-07 Agreed
@@1WEareBUFO1100% agree with you, and that's exactly the point of it I believe. Taking myself as an example, I was an introverted kid that grew up to be extremely shy, spent most my time with old people (rarely with peers) and got into lockdown at 16. Even trying was just too difficult for me, so I never did.
Social interaction *was* a sport to me, took me a good 3 years to get it straight, and informations (books, courses, videos etc...) helped a ton, because they gave me that baseline I lacked, and now I can get even more from them (since I understand them to a deeper extent). I don't think there's anything wrong in having deficits in life, the hand you're dealt is usually shitty anyway, might as well try to improve it.
He isn’t fumbling, he never had the ball
HARD
@@Takokujin07no I am
@@duckyy5855proof?
Every time I think I've seen the peak of secondhand embarrassment, charlie finds a new summit. This video is like a masterclass in what NOT to do. The gym pickup line had me facepalming so hard I almost hit a new PR.
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts 💨
@@p-__ That's impressive, maybe you should go professional.
Millennial Incel jea los Charlie and Codyko are just obsessed with our gen TikTokers.
Penguinz0 inspires me... My parents said if i get 50k followers they'd buy me a professional camera for recording begging u guys.
what did he even say then? i couldn't hear him
Desperation Rizz
It always makes me chuckle when he almost asks the men but skips over them at the last second
This man is honestly amazing. I've never seen someone consistently roll 1's on speech checks like this
"the worst thing she can say is no"
It's cause he is using it bad. He is only asking for the question, thus being locked to a d4 dice when the minimum is 18
@@blulikefriendlyhit1213naturally nerfing himself 💀
what people don't understand is that he knows he's bad at picking up girls, he just does it to get more 'famous', more views etc. And clearly it worked.
In order to get easy clout online is to make people upset so that they talk more about him/her. It's so stupid it has gotten this far but people will never realise or learn to not make stupid people famous.
@@pancake1751 On the contrary. Stupid people have always been famous. Ever since the dawn of mankind. However, these people obviously only got mockery and disrespect, deservedly so, by their audience.
Having clout for being a clown isn't an achievement, and some people somehow think it is. People will laugh at them and go on with their lives, while the clown's fame will die out in a week.
Charlie shouting out Cody is like having 2 different friends in a group project
Ikr
Wouldn’t it be 2 friends in 2 different group projects
@@Deathmare235 I think it would be like having two friends that you act differently around or that have different personalities getting into one group together
Am I the only one that doesn’t get this joke? 😅
and Schlatt
How this man is immune to cringe is beyond me. All of us should strive for Charlie's godliness and resilience.
Charlie youre the only creator i subscribe to i click all your videos. The fact youre witty snd intelligent without an editing team and gimmicks and without writing scripts reminds me of vintage UA-cam. Youre the man,yo.
I think the girl in the gym did understand him because she went "O_O" when he said that wild shit. Sometimes going "sorry i don't understand" can be the best way to shut down unexpected flirting if youre uncomfortable (from my own experience at least)
yeah i always act confused lmfao
"Me no understand human language"
It doesn't work when they're annoyingly persistent, arrogant or can't read the room though.
Sometimes I wish I was a visible minority so I could just pretend to not know English to avoid speaking to strangers in public. 😂😂😂
@@johnsampson6387 lots of white people dont speak English.
2:14 "Actually we all have boyfriends"
Oof,I felt that. Especially after one said she was lesbian they really wanted him gone.
confirmed liars
@@jazzabighits4473confirmed fire(blaze8491)
@@jazzabighits4473you're not supposed to be honest with weirdos who ask complete strangers for their number
@jazzabighits4473 No by itself should be a good enough answer. Women only lie about boyfriends because its the only reason that other weirdo men think is good enough.
@@jazzabighits4473 or a polite way to say, get the fuck away from us
What Charlie said about complements is so spot on. As a woman I I feel like I need to be on guard if a man says something nice to me because it’s almost always followed by asking for a number or something. Not to mention the “complements” that borderline belong in porn. I try to complement people (especially women) as often as possible, it’s a little hard because I’m autistic and don’t want people to feel uncomfortable which is hard for me to “read”. It’s something I started to try better my social interaction skills. A simple “oh that’s a nice nail polish color” or “you have a lovely smile” and move on with your day. Normalize complements to other without wanting or expecting anything in return!
the first guy took "confidence is key" to a whole different level
The key to what exactly lmao
Our society has truly reached the pinnacle of cringe
(Edit is a restructuring of the grammar of the original comment bc people say the structure is messy)
@@CrewmateComplexXPyou’re literally what this man is talking about
Millennial Incel jea los Charlie just obsessed with us TikTokers.
Millennial Incel jea los Charlie and Codyko are just obsessed with our gen TikTokers.
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts 💨
I mean this started in like the 90s. The Game is the most embarrassing book that I have ever read cover to cover
Not only is he doing what he is, he also has a camera with him.
yeah fr. No one would want to give their number out to some creep shoving a camera in their face
@@spectre9340You know the guy would immediately dox her for "being a slut" or something. Fuckin a. I hate humans.
I think it's glasses with a hidden camera for POV's, but who knows, maybe he does have his phone out recording.
he is doing it for views
That’s how u know it’s for entertainment
Imagine being the one girl he didn’t ask. I hope she’s doing okay.
Your response to” we could just wash our cars” had me dying man. You said the wheels came off and the wagon blew up.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Something about how charlie remembered not only what he was doing but what he was wearing as well but just a single compliment he got years ago is very wholesome those passing compliments do go a long way
the avg perspective of a male
That's not wholesome, that's just sad
A few years back some random girl called me cutie and it made my day. I still remember it like it happened yesterday.
@thatrandomcrit5823 ive heard so many guys have this experience. that they dont neccessarily get often comments so the few or the one they got they cherished it and it just stuck in their memory. generally girls get more compliments often and it gets harder to remember them separately or specificly
@@helixxia9320Yeah, I know, that´s why I´m saying, it´s not wholesome that we can remember it, it´s sad that it´s so rare that we can count on one hand the ammount of compliments in years
that gym one was PAINFUL 💀
I forced myself to watch it. I hate cringey moments.
He even has to repeat his cringy shitty line cause she didn't hear him the first time. Holy hell!
wanna wash our cars together
LOLLLLLLLLL@@pufferfancyfish
"What did you say?"
"get's a solar flare from piccolo" amazing knowledge charlie.
Bro got destroyed by the lesbian comeback like a feral ghoul vs power armor with the pain train perk ☠️😂
Thank you for always holding our hand through the most unbearable cringe. I don't think I could take it.
On the other hand, Charlie took that cringe to your doorstep. Without his involvement you'd be spared the cringe you just endured.
Charlie is the ominious man who both, gives and takes.
The cashier was acting quick and i hope there are more people out there who look out for people
The cashier is a king
Yup! That’s what we do at customer service. Dismiss the clowns as quick as possible. It’s imperative they not be entertained.
cashier saved him
@@Xamry so if somebody wants to do a nice gesture by paying for someone else's shit, that makes them a clown?
@@Cyphonit’s a common pick up tactic. If he had paid for the shoes then suddenly he’s “owed” her number and that could get hostile very quick. And the fact that she had already paid for the shoes but he decided to stay there meant he needed to be pushed away from the situation.
Loving your wordsmithery!
I think a huge part of all the rejections is having a phone pointed at you the whole time
I can see the ocean in Charlies piercing blue eyes, Truly magnificent
@CrewmateComplexXPdid you really waste the time to spamn this in all the replies no ones going to watch your among us channle
Millennial Incel jea los Charlie just obsessed with us TikTokers.
bots go crazy
The damn bots 😭
@@aname2340It's a bot
"Maybe we can wash our cars or something?" dude has -2 charisma
Finding the right woman isn't about the mass quanity of numbers you get. It's about finding the right woman and working on that one person.
These videos induce physical pain in me
Not only did the girls see that he's asking every female in sight for their numbers, he's doing it so thoughtlessly that he almost accidentally asked a group of guys, *and* he's pointing a camera in their faces as he does so. I may not be very experienced with this sort of thing but I can't imagine that sort of behavior would instill them with faith in the quality of your character.
Exactly this. Asking someone for a number after a small talk while acting as a decent human being at the same time is totally fine. But this here is just cringe.
Didn’t need this long analysis to get that
@@PresidentFlipjust moist critical’s braindead commenters nothing new
This is insanely hard to watch. Credit to Charlie for being immune to cringe. That's a damn talent💀
Jajaja hes not inmmune, he is cringe! Thats why it doesn’t affect him!
Not hating, he seems like a swell dude
be quiet and go back to quiet reading@@toritopihuas
then what are u trying to say@@toritopihuas
"and you know what else is..." Right arrow right arrow right arrow right arrow right arrow.
Not to mention it isn’t a great feeling knowing that he doesn’t really want MY number (or whomever he is asking) . It feels like a prank or a dare.
lol love it when he tries to guilt trip her by asking "is it bc I'm ugly?" and she shuts it down with a "yes :)". Queen shit, Best part of the video
"queen"? 😂
@@russelsprout2155 yes, queen! :)
@EmoTheElephant that is some 12 year old vocabulary, but ok
@@sotch2271 uh oh, someone's cranky that women aren't caving to social pressure and are instead telling losers to get lost! Maybe you'll feel better after a lil nap, champ ☺️
@@EmoTheElephantsotch2271 is the guy in the video lmfao
I gotta say, in regards to complimenting strangers - I try to do that whenever I see someone in the street who I think looks cool. Just a quick "hey, you're rocking that look." People really light up. Spread kindness, folks. :)
I also do this a lot! But it is funny catching people off guard with a genuine compliment sometimes, because you can really tell who isn’t used to it, and at first the person will almost look offended like “what’s wrong with my shoes man?!” And then realize I actually just told him “hey bro those shoes are dope!” Etc. And watching them go from WTF to 😊 is always cool
It's awesome to compliment people, I love seeing their faces light up. Old folks have really cute reactions usually lol. I have a harder time complimenting men my age because they always think I'm trying to flirt with them 😅
@4everhumbl36 lol it would throw me off for sure.
Yeah once a guy on a street told me my shoes were dope I was flabbergasted like "huh me ???"
Yea i do that too, just because they just actually look cool
i love how when that one girl was struggling to come up with an excuse, the girl who said she was a lesbian was like "actually shes my girlfriend". thats a real homie right there, you know shes got your back when you need it.
the first guy has the confidence and thats it
I can't tell if I'm extremely tired, or if Charlie is gaslighting me into thinking he has blue eyes
He always had blue eyes.
Does his skin not look a little blue to yall?
Maybe I'm missing something
Nah he's always had blue eyes idk what you're talking about
Maybe it's the lighting?
Also, let's be honest. If you are asking a girl out, try not to be filming her while doing it...
Honestly, regardless of my relationship status, if someone had a phone in my face while asking for my number, I'd probably give whatever excuse I thought that would make them go away the fastest.
_"My husband will be here shortly- he's bringing our 8 rabid bulldogs, they're so cute"_ or _"Oh yeah, I'm actually a monk- I can't have impure thoughts or I'll be dragged straight into hell"_ or _"My girlfriend is 7-foot tall giantess, and I like getting stepped on too much to consider leaving, sorry"_ or how about _"Mother says I can't have relationships after the last one or it's back to the attic again"_
Like, piss off with your cameras in people's faces. People aren't your content gremlins. It's weirder to treat them that way than using those stupid pickup lines.
@@Nyanx4i absolutely love the different excuses you came up with 😂😂
But it puts pressure on them to say yes!!!!
It’S RoMaNtIc 💘 ThOuGh!
That’s a crazy comment considering here you are watching it
"solar flair from piccolo" that one got me XD
Idk why but Charlie saying the creepy dude could’ve befriended the group of guys and formed a basketball team was adorable. Guys just going around making friends to form little sports teams would be fun to watch
It works tho back in my 20s budy would say wana fuck and it worked 1 out of 20
Such an anime plot
@@zogwort1522 No 💕
Uncle drew
You know what's a big contributor to all these Nos? Recording every single interaction and having his phone pointed directly at their faces 😂
And pointing his bony fingers
its a camera inside of a pair of glasses, but still equally as bad even tho its hidden
I believe that even without his phone on their faces he would have never get a phone number, why would anyone give their phone number to random strangers on the streets?! It makes no sense to believe that this is how you meet people.
@@galaxytoaster9679 Fuck, I feel called out 😅
@@Devi_Seona It does happen, if he goes out to the nightclub and truly tries without a camera, I bet he could get a couple girls numbers (drunk girls don't count, I mean ones in lines for clubs like in video)
Giving someone a compliment really does go a long way.
you're perfect. i'd like to talk to you about the avengers initiative
Watching this guy's rejection speedrun, I'm not sure if I should be impressed or start a GoFundMe for his self-esteem.
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts 💨
Penguinz0 inspires me... My parents said if i get 50k followers they'd buy me a professional camera for recording begging u guys.
Not even joking. It takes a different level of confidence to open yourself up to that level of rejection.
Hes got enough self esteem to share with all of use. 3 rejections in a row is rough.
@@myhandlewastakenandIgaveup Or just pure levels of not giving two Fs. 😂
Remember fellas, the best way to compliment anyone, is to do so without expectation and with something to genuinely compliment them for. You can even compliment looks without being sexual about about it.
It’s so true though, a genuine compliment goes so much further than a generic pickup line. Compliment their choices not their looks.
Held a door for a lady at the gas station and she said thanks, you're really handsome. I looked around like who was she saying that to? Then I realized, oh hey she was talking to me. I responded: WHAT? oh... yeah you too. Lol am I smooth or what? I STILL GOT IT BABY
thank you.
A tip I learned is to compliment a woman on something she has control over. So her hairstyle, her outfit, the way she did her makeup.
@@artificialraspberifyyeah bc then you're complimenting her as a person and not just making a sexual remark
A lot of the problem is that if you sneak up on someone, you're going to get a negative response because you startled them. The only reason a stranger taps you in public is because you're in trouble, you lost something, or they're trying to grab your purse.
If there's one thing that makes someone as socially awkward and socially anxious as me to be happy in a social situation, it's definitely giving random & honest compliments to strangers I'll never see again. Especially if they're by themselves in a public place and just seem kinda down in the dumps. And especially retail workers, cause BEEN THERE!
I’m not even gonna lie, pick up line videos are a bittersweet guilty pleasure of mine. It both entertaining and emotionally draining simultaneously.
My farts are better than Charlie’s farts 💨
Millennial Incel jea los Charlie and Codyko are just obsessed with our gen TikTokers.
@@MrUssy101 The fact you think pick lines arent made for incels lmao
@@Zenith_Star69ignore him, he's spamming that broken english sentence on every comment. bro is just uneducated.
@@Zenith_Star69 Talk all the shit you want, I bet he gets laid more than everyone here in the comments. At least he's out there trying. Making fun of him is like making fun of fat people in the gym, even if they're hopeless and just at the start of their journey there's no need to make fun of them or their efforts.
"Is it because I'm ugly?" "Yeah." I love her. What an icon.
I thought that was a bit mean, especially after he just told her that she's beautiful.
@Olly241 he should've have tried guilt tripping her after the rejection
He said “Can I take you for a Big Mac or something?”
Lord have mercy 😂
When I see a beautiful or really kind person, I try to always tell them. Compliment them. It makes them smile and makes me happy insude
Honestly, shout out to that cashier, who looks at the friend you see him mouth 'do you know him', the camera slightly pans to her friend and you see the confused look and the cashier says hey man we're all good, you good?
Very happy to see men stepping in and getting bad men away from people, it makes us all look better and reminds me people can still be good!
I don't wanna assume anyone's sexuality but he seemed kinda fruity and if he is, he not only has had to deal with creepy men just by being around them but also from dating them. Love the support regardless!
@@spectre9340yeah he’s a come from behind kinda guy, but it’s good to see people not afraid to possibly step in
Because men are monsters. We are seen as a danger and exclusively so. Instead of kindness, retaliation is a frequent experience.
I’ve understood it though. Truly. I’d have it no other way.
@@grayv-horse3443what a weird take.
@@grayv-horse3443 it's also due to high crime statistics against women g.
He doesn't fear social anxiety, social anxiety fears him
Wanna get a Big Mac 😂🤣 that’s just golden ngl
Water is the best drink ever created
Oh, we get it, Charlie. We always get it, even the weirdest pick up lines. But making them repeat it, or even explain it, thus sounding dumber, makes it so much better.
EXACTLY😂😂
not gonna lie, I think those first two women were probably just non-native English speakers judging by their accents. So while it's true women just pretend to not get it, I like the think it was just a language barrier issue haha
lmao Basically if You aren't getting laid already, you ain't getting any right?
No offense but this is just a**hole behaviour distinguished as playful then. Also not every girl is as dirty minded as you so I doubt you speak for all here.
The girl at the gym legitimately had no idea what he was talking about and just found him really annoying like a fly buzzing around.
Story time: When I was like 17 for prom. I stopped by a gas station before meeting up with friends at Red Lobster. I got out and went inside to pay for gas and an older black gentleman sitting inside "ooooooo weeeeeee, you lookin sharper than a tack my friend'. I thank him and carried on but that shit made my night lol. I'm 22 now and I don't think I'll ever forget that.
I got one comment on my style at Joe’s Crab Shack and I’ve been riding that high for three years
Assuming for a moment that there is an idiotic validity in the approach that if you ask out enough random people, someone might say yes:
What then? You haven't made any connection to that person, got nothing to talk about and given his track record, his social skills surely aren't the best.
Chances are you also aren't compatible at all since, again, there was no meaningful interaction in the first place. So it would be a very short stay in the contacts.
He asked them all for their number. What a legend
I do think that the key to a genuine compliment is the walk-away. You drop it, smile, and make your exit, that's it. You expected nothing in return and you made someone's day!
Those people don't want to "make someone's day" they just want views and to bang girls that fall for those retarded pickup lines
You forgot the part where you ask a entire group for their number.(you have a rotary phone)
True. If you stay and wait for a response, it makes the whole thing awkward and makes it seem like the whole purpose of giving the compliment was because you were expecting something in return for it.
I'm autistic, this isnt for friends or coworkers and just random girls on the street right?
yeah but what if you are trying to rizz up
Oh yeah, giving random strangers genuine compliments without expecting something in return is very wholesome. It also makes the other person's day, and it makes me happy that I made them smile. I think everyone should do it once in awhile.
I do that at every chance as I got nokone
Sometimes ya gotta make one persons day better
Ye i do that. If someones dressed well i always tell them. They put in the extra effort, they deserve to feel good too
I always do this ❤
I'm going to have to try the "can I take you out for a big mac" myself because I can't believe that line didn't work.
I have had a lot of success through cold approach. The problem with a lot I see in social media is that they are doing these approaches that are outrageous for clout, not actually wanting to have a meaningful interaction. They intentionally do the most socially inept approach that guarantees a rejection. Rule of thumb. The girl should be comfortable talking to you as if you were her friend.
Another thing i want to talk about is that most of the women said "I have a boyfriend" as a response and i believe that not all of them didn't have a boyfriend. Not because they're ugly or something but we as women are programmed to say that to a guy who automatically gives us the creeps bc of "no."
We can't just say no because no is something some men can't simply accept. Ive heard plenty of news from women rejecting men and they get assaulted or killed because of it. So instead of flat out rejecting, we are programmed to use a fake boyfriend bc some men respect men more than the simple consent of a woman.
That's sad.
I don't think it's respecting men so much as most guys don't want the hassle of dealing with the potential "her boyfriend may want to kick my ass just for asking her out" granted there are guys out there that are stupid enough to want to fight a girls boyfriend, I guess to "prove" they're better than the guy the girl is with. It's still pretty stupid all the same.
@metalteuffel2484 I think it's more of a "oh she's already taken" mentality. So yeah its more like, we think it's harder for men to accept we are not interested in them for whatever reason because that might hurt their feelings. And well, men are not very well known for dealing adequately with their emotions. So the best reason to give is "it's not you, I'm just already taken"
But you are safe in public, in a line like that
@@1Peasantit depends, not everyone will protect you if you get attacked. I've seen lots of car accidents where the people around didn't even bother calling an ambulance and just continued to walk away.
11:08 Shout out to that guy who tried to shoo away the creep! You can even see him whispering something to the other woman before speaking up.
that was the most cringe moment of the entire video
Imagine wanting to be an independent woman and strong but also wanting some random stranger to butt in because you're too scared to say no to somebody in a public place
@@jazzabighits4473Standing up for people getting harassed in public? Is that a bad thing?
@@jazzabighits4473the fuck? Neither of them asked for his help he just offered it
@@RenixGames That's what makes it even worse. Somebody else being nosey thinking they're helping by White Knighting for somebody they don't even know and who might not even want that.
2:03 Bro farming gym motivation
Even in my most down bad times i was nowhere near that desperate.
There's a lot of reasons why stuff like this fails miserably but tbh I think the biggest reason is they're putting cameras in these girls faces lol
fuckin facts. THAT'S THE BIGGEST WEIRD THING TO DO
Asking strangers for their phone numbers on the streets is the reason he got rejected.
Everything he does is enough reason to reject him. But he does all of them at once so it’s like quadruple rejection
well yeah, the point is to get rejected by being weird af lol. he's a content creator and this is his schtick.
@@Devi_SeonaIt works for a lot of people. As long as you aren’t ugly af and awkward, it is going to work somewhat well
7:39 it's nice to know even guys like Charlie feel this way about random compliments. Guys get complimented so infrequently that it can completely throw you off guard, and be something you remember for YEARS just cause someone said something nice about you. I can count on one hand the amount of times I've been complimented by a stranger... And I remember each and every one, specifically.
when is the last time you complimented a guy? i don't want to sound corny but the change starts with you. just don't be like this guy 😂
@@0TheJigsawKiller0 haha hell no I certainly won't be like that! And while I have a bad memory and can't say specifically when, I know it's within the last week or so! I try to make a habit of doling out at least one compliment every time I leave the house - but I never force it. I simply tell myself to say what I'm thinking when it's something nice!
And so the last compliment I remember giving to a guy was a dude with some nice, straight long hair at a gas station after I got off work. I remember, because he said thanks and, as he was passing me, he said "Oh hey, and you, too!" Since I have a ponytail just like him (but his hair was far nicer than mine) XD
@@0TheJigsawKiller0 Personally, I am very much an introvert. Like extremely so. If I even speak to a stranger, they should go buy themselves a lottery ticket. You would have to be the very embodiment of beauty itself to ever wrench a compliment out of me as a stranger. Even then, I'd likely be too nervous to say it out loud so I'd stick to thinking it.
@@BSPancake I consider myself an introvert, too! I wouldn't say it's as strong for me as it is in your description, but the way that helped me with my "make a compliment a day" thing was that I really like making people happy/smile/laugh so I just think of it how it'd affect me. If someone said the kinds of things I try to compliment, it'd make my day and I'd be thinking of it till I went to bed and probably into the next day! So I just wanna do that for other people :]
Dunno if that'll help you or not, but maybe you'll resonate with it!
there's something every woman in my life does, even the most shy of the shy and it's giving compliments when you see another pretty woman. don't hold back, just say it. "hey, you're gorgeous! where'd you get your pants? do you work out?" literally just say it. i know guys and woman who give honest compliments and their friends blush EVERY TIME no matter how they're feeling. it's the best.
My social skills ain't so great, so i appreciate these videos guiding my way
This is pure insanity
You'll likely never read this Charlie, but seeing you talk about your basketball group and friends overall at every opportunity has gotten me to start reaching out to people I lost contact with after isolating myself.
(Edit: everyone here has been awesome, thanks folks!)
he aint reading this but i did and this pretty cool
@@liamryan6177 I agree, pretty cool
That’s great!!! I love that. You deserve warmth & connection
i ain't charlie but i'm super happy to hear that man keep up the good work
It's hard, but I'm proud of you too.
I go through periods where I isolate myself for one reason or another as well; eating relatively healthy, getting sunlight, going out and about can help immensely to get your head out of that mindspace.
(bonus points if you get some gym time in, helps keep your mood up, but its not a requirement)