The full video makes her look even worse. He had actually made dinner reservations for them at a different restaurant but she made him wait an hour in the car before coming out of her apartment so they missed their reservation. Him taking her to the cheesecake factory was actually an attempt to salvage the night. I hope the dude finds someone who appreciates him. Seems like a top tier gentleman.
She wanted sympathy because they went to Cheesecake Factory but she forgot to mention that he had reservations for a nice restaurant and they lost the reservation because she was an hour late. She is way over her head and if she continues with that behavior she is going to find herself alone or dating guys as childish as her. The guy was way too nice for her.
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus .
That explains why she was dressed up. Yeah, even more her L then. She caused them to miss out on their fancy meal. Cheesecake factory is a pretty good late minute alternative. Better than like a Boston Pizza, or some pub-restaurant like that.
3:47 im currently crying and belly laughing on the toilet. I think that’s the first time in human history those words have been uttered in a single sentence. thank you charlie
So let me get this straight: - He made a reservation at a fancy restaurant - Came to pick her up at her house - Waited an HOUR for her to get out of the house - Lost the reservation since she made him wait so much - Salvaged it by coming to a cheesecake factory - Dealt with all that bs - And still chose to be polite and drive her home holy...
My now wife and I’s first date was at Olive Garden. I was experiencing health issues and was without a job, and she paid for that date and the next few until I was able to work again. She treated me like a human being, not like how this jerk is treating this poor guy.
I love that! My now wife and I first date was a bbq at the barracks. I think on our date after that I took her to Taco Bell and went and hung out in my barracks room watching movies. 21 years later and we're still together
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus. ..
Why did Charlie skip the most like vital point of the video? So basically he had made a reservation on an EXPENSIVE restaurant, but when he came to pick her up, she made him wait outside of her home for OVER ONE HOUR. So the reservation went out - thus he drove her to the cheesecake factory. So she is more entitled than what Charlie showed us, because for some reason, Charlie skipped that part of the conversation.
I saw this vid already on Aba and Preach but it still amazes me how egotistical a person with a goofy chroma-key lookin ahh dress can be. Maybe if she looked like Zendaya then i would take her to a an overpriced french restaurant but i would never go all out on a first date, ever.
I am sure he has found someone already, getting the opportunity to go on a date with someone like this is equivalent to getting that ultra rare legendary in a gacha game or finding a super rare shiny pokemon. Hope the next person he encounters/encountered isnt as shallow and narcissistic as this woman.
The worst part of all this is I found out that they were meaning to go to a different place WITH a reservation, but because SHE was late, he opted to take her to the Cheesecake Factory. instead to try and save the date.
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus .
In the end her goal of trying to shame him and make him seem like less of a gentleman backfired and really showed how incredibly patient and gentlemanly this guy actually is
I would have had more respect for him if he had taken a no nonsense approach and put his foot down instead of being so politically correct on camera. If I was that guy and she actually had the nerve to pull a stunt like that by recording this interaction from her angle of being treated so atrociously by a first date after all the bullshit that went on beforehand forget your little "pep talk" in the car or your lift home. I would have washed my hands of her there and then and left the cow high and dry to find her own way home. His fault is that he should have communicated to her more directly and with a firmer stance from the beginning. He should have put his foot down earlier and not just been simping up to this point by being overly compliant and servile to her nonsense. Prime example of weak men being taken advantage of and trampled all over. A product of the Snowflake Generation.
@@oisin5684because this dude knows that if he said anything mildly confident or against a women/person of color (despite his own ethnicity) he'd get ruined by this genuine low class pork.
@@twisted5576 How so? There's no way in this world that I'd stay waiting in my car for over an hour from the time that was arranged to pick any girl up without telling her that a reservation was booked in a plush restaurant at a certain time and then waste fuel driving to a casual fast food outlet only to come up against a brat with an attitude like that trying to have you over by giving her the satisfaction of engaging in her stupid little game by conversing with her on camera and then saving her the dilemma of getting back home after wasting my time/money. That's completely the opposite of insecurity. I'd have far more self respect than that and I'd draw the line at someone clearly not having enough respect or appreciation towards me for the effort that I'd have gone to by picking them up, booking a table at a fancy restaurant etc. and keeping me waiting like that without any consideration. No chance would I have let it go any further than that. Any fellas out there who would just go along with it for the sake of appeasing a piece of work like this would seriously want to have a look at themselves. Respect works both ways.
You can briefly see her brain malfunctioning the moment he tells her the date is over and he'll drop her off home. She literally cannot fathom that her behaviour could possibly have been a turnoff.
@@CasualCat64 That's ... very good to hear, although I'm curious about the evidence for that, and about what exactly the goal of the skit was (it's neither comedic nor does it have some sort of message, it's just one character being cringe and the other being nice)
@@connectathis being a video designed with the obvious intent to cause outrage is the reason why. These actors go on a podcast sometime shortly after this video goes viral, which shows how fake the original video was. A normal, reasonably-mentally-well person would have blocked the lady after dropping her off.
This was a skit she made. You can look this up she is a therapist and has a pod cast called down to the white meat. Her name is Nickia Lowery. She made this skit to make a point about how stupid it is for someone at say I don't do "insert restaurant" while on a date
@@tythegreatttgthen where’s the evidence? You wrote a thesis statement, but where’s the evidence? Three supporting details that supports your thesis the video was staged.
The crazy part is how kind he was? He's so sweet. Such a green flag. He went to open the door for her and when she expressed dissatisfaction he asked to talk about it. He didnt get annoyed, he calmly decided to work something out for both of them. And when she was going over how she expects a relationship to be he was open to listening and being there for her. How can you be this toxic with this green of a flag???
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus. ..
This is a win. This awesome dude ended up not wasting his evening and money on trash. The world now sees who she really is, and we see him for the gentleman we strive to be.
I saw them doing an interview on some show(can’t remember the name) a couple days ago and he agreed to another date with her. I think the show was going to pay for it but still… what’s the point?
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus. ..
I literally have no idea how he let that go on for so long, I would have got out. opened her door and told her to leave.. striving to have the patience this dude has lmfao
Yeah 😶 i would have tricked her to a fancier restaurant just to abandon her on the parking lot tbh, i hate that kind of mindset. This guy is really kind
Which is the biggest indicator that its fake. Average guy would just start screeching or get violent. This was made by Kevin Wesley, who makes all these fake "can you believe this??" type videos.
My sister is one of those. Yet when I called her a degenerate to my mother I was yet again still the problem child despite never doing anything wrong in my life unlike my sister who leeches on every person she comes into contact with and drops them when they stop enabling her lol
@@SetsunaMeiou-SailorPluto Man, spoken like a true scapegoat...that shit sounds incredibly toxic. I hope one day it'll be possible to distance yourself from that seemingly unhealthy environment.
I think if anything shes acting for the views . And hes being completly set up. But who knows maybe hes that good of a actor of conveying dissapointent, confusesion, and agrivation if so he needs to be in movies. She just needs to be alone the rest of her life if thats how she portrays herself even if its a act.
I'm so glad he stood up for himself in a respectful way and just ended the date. It's pretty clear to me that she's a horrible person and I'd have zero interest in spending any more time with her.
Nahhhhhh 🥱 It seems staged. It's derivative of those original, kinda clever ♀ farming 📲 /♂outrage by getting "rejected" after being extra to *insert male tiktok trope here*, there was a huge copycat spike after the "I cant believe he's 👀coming to talk to me at the gym" drama.
I wouldn't exactly call that standing up for yourself. I would have had more respect for him if he had taken a no nonsense approach and put his foot down instead of being so politically correct on camera. If I was that guy and she actually had the nerve to pull a stunt like that by recording this interaction from her angle of being treated so atrociously by a first date after all the bullshit that went on beforehand forget your little "pep talk" in the car or your lift home. I would have washed my hands of her there and then and left the cow high and dry to find her own way home. His fault is that he should have communicated to her more directly and with a firmer stance from the beginning. He should have put his foot down earlier and not just been simping up to this point by being overly compliant and servile to her nonsense. Prime example of weak men being taken advantage of and trampled all over. A product of the Snowflake Generation.
@@spectre9340She gives off that vibe alright. I'd always insist on paying out of courtesy and common decency but any self respecting person going out to a restaurant/bar etc. should come prepared and expecting to pay there way.
I can already tell, if they had ended up going in to any restaurant she would’ve gotten thousands of dollars worth of food and expected him to fully pay for the whole bill
"That's what a real man does for his woman! I expect to be treated like the entitled princess I am, and showered with the world. I am a greedy, indifferent piece of shit who only cares about myself!"
She inspired me to take every first date to the Cheesecake Factory. It's a perfect litmus test of whether you're a narcissistic POS or whether any man can give you a second of his time.
My bf and I didn't even go to a restaurant on our first date, yet it was the best date I've ever had. We just walked out the city, bought sushi and had a picnic in the park. Knowing her she would of had a heart attack
A lot of women are going to be confused why they keep being taken to the Cheesecake Factory as a first date for the next couple of months until this is forgotten 😂
She actually had the audacity to reply to this whole situation and claim “I dIDn’T eXpEcT aLl Of ThE hAtE.” Edit: didn’t expect this to blow up, but nah it’s real. The guy blocked her rightfully so and she posted a follow up video it’s on UA-cam somewhere.
I hope she gets identified as that girl on tiktok and gets refused entry to any chain restaurant. Hell, maybe even the fancy restaurants would decline her atrocious toddler behavior.
Fr as soon as I woulda saw tht camera I would’ve instantly looked like the bad guy I think thts wat she wanted tho for the guy to get mad so she can capture tht moment and make herself look like a victim to go viral but dude was way to chill about it shit probably threw her off lowkey😂
Absolutely, this guy was WAY nicer then I would've been. Here's what I would've done: pretend to apologize to her and ask what restaurant she would REALLY like to go to. Take her there. Open the door for her, still playing the gentleman. Pretend I forgot my wallet in the car, and tell her to wait a second while I grab it. Peel off in the car while giving her the finger 😂
in my family, going to Cheesecake Factory is actually something special, and you even could say fancy- it was only for special occasions, like birthdays or celebrations, and going to it on a first date seems very fancy to me 😭 i honestly can't believe how delusional and disrespectful this woman was
This is most women today between the ages of 18-40. Entitled, nasty, impatient, delusional, demanding, with NOTHING to offer. Be very careful who you give your time to
Shits expensive, bro. I worked there for 4 years, busser for 2 & baker for 2. People came in for special occasions all the time. Graduations, birthdays, I've even seen people get proposed to. The management was ass but they always made it a point to keep shit clean. A fun fact: they don't have a freezer for meat because all the meat is fresh, never frozen (the cakes are frozen tho...sorry, "deep chilled" lol) All their stuff is made in house with fresh ingredients. No soup from a bag, no mashed potatoes made from powders. Just actual food made in house with good ingredients. It's funny to meme them but it's significantly better than most places.
8:50 He isnt saying he thinks they should start off slower at a cheaper restaurant. He's saying he made a reservation at the nice restaurant, but she made him wait outside her place for an hour, and because of that, they missed their reservation and can't go now. The Cheesecake Factort was plan B.
The amount of narcissism present in this woman is simply disgusting. She is so in love with herself. How can anyone not just bend to her will? Man did a great job of taking her down while being a gentlemen.
To be honest I actually like this. It's better finding out someone's a horrible human being on the first date so you can dump them quickly rather than it slowly sneaking up on you over months or years of being with them.
Best test to do is split the bill on the first date. If they refuse they are just like this woman in the video more often than not. Protect yourself kings
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus .
advice for meeting someone: first question to ask online upon meeting her. "are you a content creator or a tik toker?" if she says yes. run very far away.
on the bright side, he now has thousands of women who know how good of a person he really is and hopefully this video helps him out in this situation. also cheesecake factory is AMAZING, she’s weirdly self obsessed and needs to get humbled soon bc she is not “all that” at all.
She's totally a narcissist, for the first time that label fits one of these people 😂 but yeah cheesecake factory is hella good shes too conceited, i bet she can't even afford cheesecake factory for herself lmao
We should give the girl some credit here, at least she's considerate enough to show her red flag on the first date so he don't have to waste more of his time.
I also wanna applaud her for exposing her ego to everyone online to show people why you should not date her. Then, everyone in the comments agreeing with her are also on the list
Holy crap. She doesn’t take her eyes off of herself the entire time. Just posing for her own ego. It’s so creepy. I feel like I’m administering a Voight-Kampff test, and I’m 100% sure she’s a replicant.
I really hope this man finds a beautiful woman who won't care where they go for a date. He's obviously very respectful, so I wish the absolute best for him.
I mean of course there is a limit to first dates spots like someone's house, the gym or the movies ( you won't bond there that's why) but CHEESE CAKE FACTORY?!? Like tf is wrong with that , it's pretty dang fancy actually, how entitled, hope he finds better indeed
This lady is wild. I almost fell in love with the dude myself just by watching his kindness. He dodged a bullet and is going to make some other girl feel like the most important person on the planet for sure. Wish him the best.
as a waiter at a nice place, I can say I see this crazy, undeserved confidence out of women on first dates, probably every friday and saturday night. I always just assume they are hookers.
If I was in this kinda situation and someone was disrespecting me like this, I'd tell her to cut the recording and speak to me like a person or get out the vehicle and find your own way home. I would have already been in a foul mood if I had made reservations and she ruined it by taking her sweet time and being an hour late, her attitude would have been the nail in the coffin for any kind of date.
I don't think I'm the only one who felt uncomfortable at the fact she wasn't even even facing him most of the time during their conversation. Imagine trying to have a genuine discussion with somebody while they're just looking at a camera (and knowing you are being filmed), like where do you even look? Her side profile? The camera? Edit: it was staged (thank god)
@@billyrae4621 I'm saying, there's no way this is actually real. This dude can't possibly be so desperate, that he wouldn't just kick her the fuck out of the car and drive away when she pulled that shit.
Dude's a saint, having the patience to deal with that sort of attitude and disrespect. Hope he finds someone who he deserves and will respect him as a person and not just think of him as a free meal.
In a follow up interview he also says how the Cheesecake Factory was special to him because of the memories and celebrations he had there. I always thought the Cheesecake Factory was luxurious, in fact as a kid my family could never go because of how expensive it was. I only heard about the experiences of going there from other family members who were more well off. Hope he finds someone who is appreciative.
Right!! We would NEVER afford to go, and at least at the one by my house everyone is always dressed super nice so I assumed it was on the "higher" end of chain restaurants. She's acting like he pulled up to a whataburger like
The fact this grown woman is using gen z talk and she does that side eye shit while focusing 100% on the TikTok and not the conversation is actually hurting my brain. I’m no “Reddit good TikTok bad” since both are equally bad on the brain radiation levels
I actually like this honestly. It's better finding out someone's a horrible human being on the first date so you can dump them quickly rather than it slowly sneaking up on you over months/years of being with them.
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus .
the amount of confidence you need to disrespect someone like that ON A FIRST DATE and then still think it was justified. props to the guys for being patient with her
Nah its also the fact she told him to call the fancy restaurant or equivalent which was fucking wild. Like after all you did YOU THINK YOU CAN SALVAGE THIS?!?! Hell no 🤣
The Cheesecake Factory is honestly a great first date option, all the food is at least decent, it’s usually a pretty nice establishment, and it’s menu is so big that you can be sure anyone’s diet can be included. It’s thoughtful and a nice place to go, not amazing, but nice (which I feel like a first date is supposed to be)
Obviously she wasn't there for a relationship so there was no starting. She was only there for the free food and expected to be fed as fancy as possible.
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus. .
if my boyfriend took me to the cheesecake factory i would cry because how fucking thoughtful can he be holy shit the cheseecake factory is my dream place to go
This is the most narcissistic individual I have ever seen in my life. She talks to her own reflection rather than look him in the eyes when talking to him. She was completely deranged. How can anyone even end up like that?
As an african american woman, i can say that this is exactly why most of us are not looked at as respectful and well dignified ladies. The entitled attitude she has makes us look like we are some entitled and spoiled women. She is bringing more shame to us and is ruining the chances of real respectful women to finding dates.
Damn! I'm not even American and I love African people in general but not those African-American ladies I always come across such vdos in yt where these girls are being mean towards everyone .I've seen many jublee vdos on yt where they get humbled by other guys real quick 😂
She doesn't even look that good tbh. Totally average face with tons of make up and pretty average dress with her pepperonis in a push up bra? And she says: "Someone who looks like this..." Man, she is the final boss of delusional women.
"Look. at. me. I cannot go in a Cheesecake Factory" I absolutely agree. You should go home and have a sad cup ramen because that's the only thing you deserve. That man is the biggest green flag and treated her with more respect and courtesy than she should have got.
What a terrible person. She's a narcissist and she wanted to embarrass him. Even if she was actually attractive, which she isn't, this would still be messed up
she is the one who brought up looks by talking about "a girl who looks like me" "a beautiful woman" not only is she saying that ugly girls deserve less than her, she is completely out of her mind because she is mid at best. don't defend her @@jenm1
@@kiiyllThat comment comes precisely from her shit attitude and trashy vibes, which permeates somewhat into her looks, if you know what I mean. But it's more about the vibe than talking about her physique per se.
So apparently a lot of comments are saying this video is fake.. I didn't watch the full video, I'm gonna come back to it to see but it's just sad to me that people sometimes do make this stuff up for attention. People can't always tell real situations from staged, especially kids. So to them, it can promote that kind of behavior, creating real situations and problems. People can't just make genuine content anymore. Everything has to be full of lies and scams to be successful rn. Can't genuinely just be good. Prime example would be tik tok. Actual brain rot. Of course that's where this video came from I imagine. That's exactly why I don't have it downloaded on my phone.
@@wavewithus4081 idk i haven't had a chance to watch it all the way yet, I was going thru the comments on this vid and a lot of ppl are saying it's fake. Haven't actually made my decision on what I think yet, just putting out there what I saw. The whole existence of this garbage is beyond despicable tho
It never pays off to be chill in the dating scene. Apparently, maintaining your composure in a toxic situation/argument is just a clever narcissistic manipulation tactic (if youre a man) 😂😂😂 because then, youre just making THEM look crazy! What a devious brainwashing tactic!
I would have had more respect for him if he had taken a no nonsense approach and put his foot down instead of being so politically correct on camera. If I was that guy and she actually had the nerve to pull a stunt like that by recording this interaction from her angle of being treated so atrociously by a first date after all the bullshit that went on beforehand forget your little "pep talk" in the car or your lift home. I would have washed my hands of her there and then and left the cow high and dry to find her own way home. His fault is that he should have communicated to her more directly and with a firmer stance from the beginning. He should have put his foot down earlier and not just been simping up to this point by being overly compliant and servile to her nonsense. Prime example of weak men being taken advantage of and trampled all over. A product of the Snowflake Generation.
6:49 Her issue isn’t that she hates the Cheesecake Factory - she’s just offended the first date didn’t take place at a fancy place. The kicker is that the end of the video seems to imply they WERE going but she was late getting ready and missed the reservation. What a miasma of narcissism and irresponsibility. Edit: Watched Charlie’s new video which revealed this was all acting. Thank god lol
Yeah, as I understand from the comments in full video there was revealed that at first he reserved a date in a fancy place but then he was forced to wait for her for an hour so they missed it and then he decided to atleast somehow save the day by going to CF. Its just wild - YOU missed your date and then wine... Wild.
This makes me so sad he seemed so sweet and genuinely interested in her. I cant imagine how he felt:((
HAH he's a b for even waiting an hour for a woman lol
@@Roscoe-111wouldn’t consider him a bitch, just makes him a gentleman and an overall better person than this woman ever will be
@Roscoe-111 you're not a sigma male lil bro get off tiktok 🙏💀
@@mari00m__ true mam, i dont know why people are creating this overworked toxic feminism and toxic masculinity lol. just be a better person.
Luckily he dodged a bullet with this one though
The full video makes her look even worse. He had actually made dinner reservations for them at a different restaurant but she made him wait an hour in the car before coming out of her apartment so they missed their reservation. Him taking her to the cheesecake factory was actually an attempt to salvage the night. I hope the dude finds someone who appreciates him. Seems like a top tier gentleman.
yeah. it was much worse than shown here.
i will date him
That's what happens when you date black women
"Isn't there some kind of compromise to this situation?"
Meanwhile the Cheesecake factory WAS the compromise.
Wild stuff.
where's the original video .. ?
he didn't link it .. T:
She wanted sympathy because they went to Cheesecake Factory but she forgot to mention that he had reservations for a nice restaurant and they lost the reservation because she was an hour late. She is way over her head and if she continues with that behavior she is going to find herself alone or dating guys as childish as her. The guy was way too nice for her.
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus
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shame on that girl, I feel bad for the dude who is just trying to go out to dinner
Penguinz0 inspires me... My parents said if i get 50k followers they'd buy me a professional camera for recording begging u guys.❤
That explains why she was dressed up.
Yeah, even more her L then. She caused them to miss out on their fancy meal. Cheesecake factory is a pretty good late minute alternative. Better than like a Boston Pizza, or some pub-restaurant like that.
@@InstagramUser420LOL nice reference
3:47 im currently crying and belly laughing on the toilet. I think that’s the first time in human history those words have been uttered in a single sentence. thank you charlie
The fact she refused to look at him and just kept smiling into the camera tells me everything I need to know about her
Yeah. It erked me when she kept posing and playing with her hair.
One of the most obvious narcissists I've ever seen honestly
5:22 and how she’s making side eyes and faces at the camera for herself here, ew
@@diplodorkus970 and it all could have been avoided if she was on time.
These are the type of people you'd expect to only see in cartoons.
So let me get this straight:
- He made a reservation at a fancy restaurant
- Came to pick her up at her house
- Waited an HOUR for her to get out of the house
- Lost the reservation since she made him wait so much
- Salvaged it by coming to a cheesecake factory
- Dealt with all that bs
- And still chose to be polite and drive her home
holy...
What a simp.
she aint even worth allat hassle lmao the guy looks better than the girl and i aint even gay
Man is a saint
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@@Meezyy608 fr
Props to her for exposing herself and giving future men a warning sign
Seriously bro. lol She's caught herself in 4k..
Yet she'll find some loser who wants a woman like that. Pot meets kettle kind of thing
It was staged.
@@IrlLove It's just too much to be real I also think this must be scripted to cause internet controversy
@@IrlLove Source?
My now wife and I’s first date was at Olive Garden. I was experiencing health issues and was without a job, and she paid for that date and the next few until I was able to work again. She treated me like a human being, not like how this jerk is treating this poor guy.
This is so sweet. I wish you two the best of luck!
What a wonderful woman 😊❤.
I love that! My now wife and I first date was a bbq at the barracks. I think on our date after that I took her to Taco Bell and went and hung out in my barracks room watching movies. 21 years later and we're still together
I'd call this a successful date. He learned something valuable about his date without even having to pay for a meal.
still wasted his gas on her
@@fnvfanMSPR Probably still worth the price of this new wisdom gained
Im crying omg 😂😂😂😂
He dodged a bullet for sure. She’s delulu lol
Yea RUN.
I love how she never looked at him and just stared at herself through the camera the entire time
Vain vain vain
Homegirl thought she was on TV 💀
It's obvious she's in love, but if she went on dates with herself she'd have to pay for the meals.
You know she's a keeper when she's a raging narcissist
If she breathes…
She’s a NARCISSIST!!!!!!!
Big props to this guy, he handled it way better than I ever would have, especially with a camera in your face. What a respectful dude
They're actors. It was a skit.
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Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus.
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@@InstagramUser420wouldnt you say its quite rude to generalize an entire half of our species in such a way
@CrewmateComplexXP exactly bro 💀 💯
2:12 the only thing I can focus on is the shadow casted on Charlie’s forehead by his stray hair strand
Huge Props to the dude, he handled an incredibly awkward and cringe situation like an absolute champ. Bro is a walking W for being that respectful
Why did Charlie skip the most like vital point of the video?
So basically he had made a reservation on an EXPENSIVE restaurant, but when he came to pick her up, she made him wait outside of her home for OVER ONE HOUR.
So the reservation went out - thus he drove her to the cheesecake factory.
So she is more entitled than what Charlie showed us, because for some reason, Charlie skipped that part of the conversation.
@vipr1142 idk man, he probably just didn't know, but that's insane holy shit
@@CJT49 He didn't know this tik tok was fake that's for sure...
I saw this vid already on Aba and Preach but it still amazes me how egotistical a person with a goofy chroma-key lookin ahh dress can be. Maybe if she looked like Zendaya then i would take her to a an overpriced french restaurant but i would never go all out on a first date, ever.
no, he didn't. he was submissive. what he should have done is throw her out the moment she started acting out.
Congrats to her. She commandeered her position as a social media villain because she couldn’t put her phone down and act like a real human being.
Imagine being a 3/10 whose overweight and in a k-mart dress and trying to act this hot...
Same thoughts! She would've slandered that man and he would've had no defense compared to her.
Self-snitching at its finest!
@@GchildwarriorShe did everyone a favor by sending a fat ass beacon out to avoid her.
Oh my lord everyone she responded lmao check it out!
I hope this guy gets plenty of dates after this video, he seems like a genuinely sweet guy
He’s for sure getting snapped up. I’d bet he already has his dms flooded
This man genuinely knows how to treat a lady on a first date, but his efforts were wasted on this woman who does not appreciate him at all.
Shit, I'd date him
Nah I hope he finds the one
no i hope he gets only ONE date , the right one.
I feel so sorry for this guy he seems so nice, I hope he finds someone who is going to appreciate how rare a good man is.
I am sure he has found someone already, getting the opportunity to go on a date with someone like this is equivalent to getting that ultra rare legendary in a gacha game or finding a super rare shiny pokemon. Hope the next person he encounters/encountered isnt as shallow and narcissistic as this woman.
Good men are rare because of women like this.
@Slayqueen.x She was the creep
@Egirl_Jasmine06creep? imo hes looks like some shy tpye
So? @@kailowres
The worst part of all this is I found out that they were meaning to go to a different place WITH a reservation, but because SHE was late, he opted to take her to the Cheesecake Factory. instead to try and save the date.
How'd you know all this?
Yep, she ain't worth it
@HereGoesKevin he tells her in the full video. She even asks him to go somewhere else, but he's says nah. Then he drops her back off at her house
@HereGoesKevin op was also in the parking lot and they asked them. Hope this helps😊
Thats crazy
She’s wearing a bright lime green dress/top with purple lipstick. The Cheesecake factory might be too classy. She’s right, she can’t go in there.
She’s just a grass/poison type😊
Emphasis on poison
@@Chiwowza fr
Cosmo and wanda type beat
My thoughts exactly!
I give her props for warning people of her intensions by posting this video herself for the world to see
NO WAY, I JUST MET CHARLIE ON MY UA-cam! 100% REAL! (OMG HE JUST CAME TO MY HOUSE AT 3 AM!)😱💯
Penguinz0 inspires me... My parents said if i get 50k followers they'd buy me a professional camera for recording begging u guys.❤
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus
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these bots fucking suck
@CrewmateComplexXPnever
The audacity of this woman to never actually look him in the eye when talking to him
She’s right. She definitely shouldn’t be at the Cheesecake Factory. She’s more of a McDonalds type.
No no she’s a Taco Bell type
Nah just take her ass home and leave her there
That's an insult to McDonald's
@@tiaplays2735taco bell is great tho I’d say burger king
@@bout3fiddy you are absolutely right.
In the end her goal of trying to shame him and make him seem like less of a gentleman backfired and really showed how incredibly patient and gentlemanly this guy actually is
I would have had more respect for him if he had taken a no nonsense approach and put his foot down instead of being so politically correct on camera. If I was that guy and she actually had the nerve to pull a stunt like that by recording this interaction from her angle of being treated so atrociously by a first date after all the bullshit that went on beforehand forget your little "pep talk" in the car or your lift home. I would have washed my hands of her there and then and left the cow high and dry to find her own way home. His fault is that he should have communicated to her more directly and with a firmer stance from the beginning. He should have put his foot down earlier and not just been simping up to this point by being overly compliant and servile to her nonsense. Prime example of weak men being taken advantage of and trampled all over. A product of the Snowflake Generation.
@@oisin5684because this dude knows that if he said anything mildly confident or against a women/person of color (despite his own ethnicity) he'd get ruined by this genuine low class pork.
@@oisin5684Careful dude your insecurities are showing
It’s staged
@@twisted5576 How so? There's no way in this world that I'd stay waiting in my car for over an hour from the time that was arranged to pick any girl up without telling her that a reservation was booked in a plush restaurant at a certain time and then waste fuel driving to a casual fast food outlet only to come up against a brat with an attitude like that trying to have you over by giving her the satisfaction of engaging in her stupid little game by conversing with her on camera and then saving her the dilemma of getting back home after wasting my time/money. That's completely the opposite of insecurity. I'd have far more self respect than that and I'd draw the line at someone clearly not having enough respect or appreciation towards me for the effort that I'd have gone to by picking them up, booking a table at a fancy restaurant etc. and keeping me waiting like that without any consideration. No chance would I have let it go any further than that. Any fellas out there who would just go along with it for the sake of appeasing a piece of work like this would seriously want to have a look at themselves. Respect works both ways.
“Who takes someone that looks like this to a chain restaurant?”
She’s right, but shrek’s swamp must’ve been booked out
The ironic thing is she will now forever be known as “the Cheesecake Factory girl” 😂
So perfect
Oof
A narcissist never sees the future only themselves
@@BrendelMank indeed, I think that lady was gonna act like that no matter where they went. She wanted to be super rude to that guy.
You can briefly see her brain malfunctioning the moment he tells her the date is over and he'll drop her off home.
She literally cannot fathom that her behaviour could possibly have been a turnoff.
They’re actors it’s a skit fortunately
@@CasualCat64 whats ur proof besides "trust me bro"
@@CasualCat64 That's ... very good to hear, although I'm curious about the evidence for that, and about what exactly the goal of the skit was (it's neither comedic nor does it have some sort of message, it's just one character being cringe and the other being nice)
@@connectathis being a video designed with the obvious intent to cause outrage is the reason why. These actors go on a podcast sometime shortly after this video goes viral, which shows how fake the original video was. A normal, reasonably-mentally-well person would have blocked the lady after dropping her off.
@@DaveGrean to go viral
The funniest thing is everyone now calls her “the cheesecake factory lady” 😂
Why did she go anyways 🤷🏾♀️
Gold
How fitting, because "there's a lot wrong with the cheesecake factory".
Underrated comment
Deserved
i actually feel so bad for this guy he seems like a general good person
He unintentionally shredded her ass by keeping his composure. I applaud this man!
This was a skit she made. You can look this up she is a therapist and has a pod cast called down to the white meat. Her name is Nickia Lowery. She made this skit to make a point about how stupid it is for someone at say I don't do "insert restaurant" while on a date
@@tythegreatttgthen where’s the evidence? You wrote a thesis statement, but where’s the evidence? Three supporting details that supports your thesis the video was staged.
@@tythegreatttgcommenting this under every comment is some crazy commitment, for what though
@@TheSkidds dude, they were just providing context. calm down
Composure??? He probably never dated again
The crazy part is how kind he was? He's so sweet. Such a green flag. He went to open the door for her and when she expressed dissatisfaction he asked to talk about it. He didnt get annoyed, he calmly decided to work something out for both of them. And when she was going over how she expects a relationship to be he was open to listening and being there for her. How can you be this toxic with this green of a flag???
Welcome to dating as a man.
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus.
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Sure the man was kind and a "green flag" I agree. However that will barely help his dating chances, that is the cold harsh reality
Simple, some people are just assholes, just a big ol' stinkeroney
Women dont like men like this.
This is a win. This awesome dude ended up not wasting his evening and money on trash. The world now sees who she really is, and we see him for the gentleman we strive to be.
My thoughts exactly!! He dodged a bullet he should be happy his reservations didn't go through or she would've continued leeching
I saw them doing an interview on some show(can’t remember the name) a couple days ago and he agreed to another date with her. I think the show was going to pay for it but still… what’s the point?
100% I bet his inbox got flooded with date requests after all of this too
nuh uhh he didnt get cheese cake
i hope yall know this vid was fake
She still has the gall to ask him to compromise when she isn't even willing to compromise and go to the freaking Cheesecake Factory 🤦🏻♀
To be honest she really deserved to wait on the steps of the cheesecake factory for an Uber. The guy here is a true gentleman.
i nice, polite guy, and took her to a great place to eat, 10/10 dude imo
@@Willardwood-pfr fr
That woulda been the twist of 2023 had he done it
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus.
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@@InstagramUser420what
Hearing Charlie say "my bussy" in a sentence was life-changing.
Best thing I’ve heard this week tbh
💀
His WHAT? 😭
Permanent stat debuff for me. Ngl
When does he say that??
as a woman this guy's defense for himself and his calm demeanor was very attractive. glad she let someone better have him
Respect for not being delusional and backing her nonsense up
I literally have no idea how he let that go on for so long, I would have got out. opened her door and told her to leave.. striving to have the patience this dude has lmfao
Go date him
Yeah 😶 i would have tricked her to a fancier restaurant just to abandon her on the parking lot tbh, i hate that kind of mindset. This guy is really kind
As a man, I also found it incredibly attractive.
"Beautiful " thats a big word she trying to live up to
He seems like a great guy, kept his cool, communicated well and was still respectful. Hope he finds someone who'll treat him right
Which is the biggest indicator that its fake. Average guy would just start screeching or get violent. This was made by Kevin Wesley, who makes all these fake "can you believe this??" type videos.
@@enough2715that’s just deadass a sexist statement but alright
I mean this is a pretty good audition tape, dude handles conflict incredibly well.
@@enough2715what makes you feel that way? Why do you think every single guy would act violent?
@@enough2715 Not gonna lie, it just sounds like you're self-projecting mate 💀💀
She's probably the type of person who goes on dates with multiple guys so she can get free food and gifts.
Like that one chick that expected her BF to pay $5000 for her and her friends B-day dinner.
mostly she wants the food lmao
My sister is one of those. Yet when I called her a degenerate to my mother I was yet again still the problem child despite never doing anything wrong in my life unlike my sister who leeches on every person she comes into contact with and drops them when they stop enabling her lol
@@SetsunaMeiou-SailorPluto Man, spoken like a true scapegoat...that shit sounds incredibly toxic. I hope one day it'll be possible to distance yourself from that seemingly unhealthy environment.
@@lkaryyshe look like she need it 😭😭
I can't believe how dignified and politely this man behaved. Unbelievable class. As for that "lady"... lowest of the low.
He's acting because it's a skit. It's fake
@@billyrae4621I don't think the awkwardness of that guy could be acted. Candid horror
Well spoken
I think if anything shes acting for the views . And hes being completly set up.
But who knows maybe hes that good of a actor of conveying dissapointent, confusesion, and agrivation if so he needs to be in movies.
She just needs to be alone the rest of her life if thats how she portrays herself even if its a act.
WAAAAAYYYYY bigger of a person than I would have been even close to
Hes one of the sweetest guys ive seen, his patience is literally unrealistic, I wish bro all the best
I'm so glad he stood up for himself in a respectful way and just ended the date. It's pretty clear to me that she's a horrible person and I'd have zero interest in spending any more time with her.
And now hopefully thousands upon thousands of other people will feel the same way.
She was exactly the type of woman to only agree to a date if it meant a free expensive meal
Nahhhhhh 🥱 It seems staged. It's derivative of those original, kinda clever ♀ farming 📲 /♂outrage by getting "rejected" after being extra to *insert male tiktok trope here*, there was a huge copycat spike after the "I cant believe he's 👀coming to talk to me at the gym" drama.
I wouldn't exactly call that standing up for yourself. I would have had more respect for him if he had taken a no nonsense approach and put his foot down instead of being so politically correct on camera. If I was that guy and she actually had the nerve to pull a stunt like that by recording this interaction from her angle of being treated so atrociously by a first date after all the bullshit that went on beforehand forget your little "pep talk" in the car or your lift home. I would have washed my hands of her there and then and left the cow high and dry to find her own way home. His fault is that he should have communicated to her more directly and with a firmer stance from the beginning. He should have put his foot down earlier and not just been simping up to this point by being overly compliant and servile to her nonsense. Prime example of weak men being taken advantage of and trampled all over. A product of the Snowflake Generation.
@@spectre9340She gives off that vibe alright. I'd always insist on paying out of courtesy and common decency but any self respecting person going out to a restaurant/bar etc. should come prepared and expecting to pay there way.
I can already tell, if they had ended up going in to any restaurant she would’ve gotten thousands of dollars worth of food and expected him to fully pay for the whole bill
Gorilla would have eaten the whole restourant
"That's what a real man does for his woman! I expect to be treated like the entitled princess I am, and showered with the world. I am a greedy, indifferent piece of shit who only cares about myself!"
Then if he didn’t pay the bill she would begin recording him
Just by looking at the thumbnail i knew it was the black that was gonna be the worst date”black queen” LOL
@@JamesGreen57447bro maybe choose a different word??
Props to this guy for handing all this like an absolute gentleman knowing that she was trying to clown him
Agreed props on him!
Wtf 😂swoozie???? And yea that girls scum
Watchu doing here man🤣🤣🤣
Swooozie
Funny you comment this when he made a update video literally an hour after you commented.
She inspired me to take every first date to the Cheesecake Factory. It's a perfect litmus test of whether you're a narcissistic POS or whether any man can give you a second of his time.
Cheesecake Factory stonks about to go up.
Nah fr imma do that thx for the tip
Noted good looks g
My bf and I didn't even go to a restaurant on our first date, yet it was the best date I've ever had. We just walked out the city, bought sushi and had a picnic in the park. Knowing her she would of had a heart attack
A lot of women are going to be confused why they keep being taken to the Cheesecake Factory as a first date for the next couple of months until this is forgotten 😂
3:45 charlie may i take you to the cheese cake factory 🙏
Hell nah😂
She actually had the audacity to reply to this whole situation and claim “I dIDn’T eXpEcT aLl Of ThE hAtE.”
Edit: didn’t expect this to blow up, but nah it’s real. The guy blocked her rightfully so and she posted a follow up video it’s on UA-cam somewhere.
I hope she expects no one to date her, due to her true colors being exposed for the whole world to see.
Im convinced this is the result of calling people 'queen' nonstop 24/7
"yaaaas queen slay"
No she expected all the hate, that's why she posted it. But she expected it would be directed at the guy instead of her.
I hope she gets identified as that girl on tiktok and gets refused entry to any chain restaurant. Hell, maybe even the fancy restaurants would decline her atrocious toddler behavior.
Imagine wearing purple lip stick with that green outfit and thinking you're too good for the Cheesecake Factory.
Looking like a discount Joker with those colors, so it fits 😆
Lmfaooo so true
She’s on another level we don’t know about yet
And not even pretty
@@HorrorHermitofHell😂😂😂 spilled my cola reading that 👍
2:49 The fact that he offered to communicate with her instead of matching her disrespectful energy really just shows his good character
Fr as soon as I woulda saw tht camera I would’ve instantly looked like the bad guy I think thts wat she wanted tho for the guy to get mad so she can capture tht moment and make herself look like a victim to go viral but dude was way to chill about it shit probably threw her off lowkey😂
You know this is a staged video? Charlie is just highly autistic and doesn’t get it
Absolutely, this guy was WAY nicer then I would've been. Here's what I would've done: pretend to apologize to her and ask what restaurant she would REALLY like to go to. Take her there. Open the door for her, still playing the gentleman. Pretend I forgot my wallet in the car, and tell her to wait a second while I grab it. Peel off in the car while giving her the finger 😂
Remember fellas. this is what a black queen really is. Her behavior is by no means the exception, nay it is the rule.
@@rollfizzlebeef6619 oh, you can do both. >:)
1:39 "chivalry is dead and women killed it" - Dave Chappelle
in my family, going to Cheesecake Factory is actually something special, and you even could say fancy- it was only for special occasions, like birthdays or celebrations, and going to it on a first date seems very fancy to me 😭 i honestly can't believe how delusional and disrespectful this woman was
Same here. Insane....
LITERALLY
This is most women today between the ages of 18-40. Entitled, nasty, impatient, delusional, demanding, with NOTHING to offer. Be very careful who you give your time to
Shits expensive, bro. I worked there for 4 years, busser for 2 & baker for 2. People came in for special occasions all the time. Graduations, birthdays, I've even seen people get proposed to.
The management was ass but they always made it a point to keep shit clean.
A fun fact: they don't have a freezer for meat because all the meat is fresh, never frozen (the cakes are frozen tho...sorry, "deep chilled" lol)
All their stuff is made in house with fresh ingredients. No soup from a bag, no mashed potatoes made from powders. Just actual food made in house with good ingredients.
It's funny to meme them but it's significantly better than most places.
my boyfriend took us there for a date night and I loved it. I don’t see how it’s bad at all
He seemed so respectful, even while she's being so rude to him. She is genuinely one of the most embarrassing people I've ever seen
That’s probably why she’s single. There’s a difference between high standards and being narcissistic fool
guys will do anything for pu$$y
It's probably staged.......hopefully
People are saying this is 100% staged, and if it is I feel bad for the both of them lmao
That's because it's a skit
Just so y’all understand. She acted this way, filmed it, watched it back, then uploaded, and saw absolutely nothing wrong with what she did. WILD
🤡🤡🤡
Did she take the video down or is she so delusional she cant see herself ad the punching bag?
@@higaiwokeruthe video is staged Charlie even made an update video lol
@@CodeNameCheese_ whats the update video called? link? cant see why she would try her best to make herself seem like an awful person.
She’s also a women….
8:50
He isnt saying he thinks they should start off slower at a cheaper restaurant. He's saying he made a reservation at the nice restaurant, but she made him wait outside her place for an hour, and because of that, they missed their reservation and can't go now. The Cheesecake Factort was plan B.
The amount of narcissism present in this woman is simply disgusting. She is so in love with herself. How can anyone not just bend to her will? Man did a great job of taking her down while being a gentlemen.
That's what happens when you date black women
as a woman, he should’ve told her to get out of the car at cheesecake factory and uber home. insanely delusional of her
Fr. & she’s not even cute lol
@allurementbeats243 okay? Subjective, and slightly irrelevant . . . -_-
@@joelbrich2538Entirely relevant... She's literally saying "I mean look at me" and she called herself beautiful hell nahh
To be honest I actually like this. It's better finding out someone's a horrible human being on the first date so you can dump them quickly rather than it slowly sneaking up on you over months or years of being with them.
and he didn't even have to pay for a nice meal and drinks 🔥
Exactly. It sucks he had to put up with this, but I'm kind of happy she showed her red flags on the first date lol
very much agree. as frustrating as this probably was, he got very lucky in terms of dating. she could’ve been decent at manipulation
@@Sammy-Sactually went through the same thing this Monday… and the whole week…
Best test to do is split the bill on the first date. If they refuse they are just like this woman in the video more often than not. Protect yourself kings
the fact he’s so nice and respectful still even with her insanity makes it even more messed up 😭
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus
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@InstagramUser420 holy shit I was not expecting that throw back. Whatever happened to that dude?
This was a skit🤦🏽♂️
nah man he's just a better dude than us
whats insane is how charlie motivates me to make content, and its dogshit
advice for meeting someone: first question to ask online upon meeting her. "are you a content creator or a tik toker?" if she says yes. run very far away.
on the bright side, he now has thousands of women who know how good of a person he really is and hopefully this video helps him out in this situation. also cheesecake factory is AMAZING, she’s weirdly self obsessed and needs to get humbled soon bc she is not “all that” at all.
She's totally a narcissist, for the first time that label fits one of these people 😂 but yeah cheesecake factory is hella good shes too conceited, i bet she can't even afford cheesecake factory for herself lmao
let's be honest, the kind of women who follow her probably aren't gonna be any better lol
This didnt age well haha
@@aatlsantos5334 i just saw his new video 😭 oopsie
@@psykaydelicc what happened
She sets a good example for the dating scene: everything you should not look for in a potential partner
She is THE red flag lol
nice name!
so many women have this attitude though
@@herj2075but so many also dont
"Who takes a girl who look like this to cheesecake factory"
For real, completely 100% agreed
He should've taken her to Arby's
Even popular soup is too fancy for her
Fuck that, Arby's is a banger. Should've taken her to McDonald's.
should have gone to that guy sellin hotdogs on the street he knows her by name shes like his norm.
Looks like he should have taken her to Sweetgreen. Girl needs a salad.
Arby's is still to high up, at this point she can have gas station sushi.
2:52 "..who looks like this"
she literally looks like a burnt big mac 😭
She built like sheeva from mortal Kombat
With shrek sauce 😭😭😭
@@jeefbeezos8253 bro don't disrespect sheeva like that lmao 😂😅
We should give the girl some credit here, at least she's considerate enough to show her red flag on the first date so he don't have to waste more of his time.
Or money
That's a very good point, he could've actually paid for two dinners that night
I also wanna applaud her for exposing her ego to everyone online to show people why you should not date her. Then, everyone in the comments agreeing with her are also on the list
That's a really good point.
@@n_tasmore like 3 look at her
Holy crap. She doesn’t take her eyes off of herself the entire time. Just posing for her own ego. It’s so creepy.
I feel like I’m administering a Voight-Kampff test, and I’m 100% sure she’s a replicant.
The good news is if that if she is a replicant she doesn't have a long lifespan haha
100% chance she'll push my goat off the top of a building
I’m getting high school flashbacks from this comment
She’s so arrogant, it’s gross.
Imagine calling yourself too beautiful for the cheesecake factory and you show up to a date 1 hour late wearing a green tank top and purple lipstick.
That's exactly what I was thinking 😂
Who does she think she looks like? Ziwe?
She likely spent that extra hour prettying herself up with make-up and such. All for nothing.
He seems like the type to have preferred her without makeup too, such a nice guy
🤣
The way she complained about it being a chain restaurant, and acted like she was too high class for it. Golden Corral is too high class for HER.
I really hope this man finds a beautiful woman who won't care where they go for a date.
He's obviously very respectful, so I wish the absolute best for him.
nice sentiment. too bad they are actors and the whole video is a skit produced by a some company hired by a redpill activist.
I mean of course there is a limit to first dates spots like someone's house, the gym or the movies ( you won't bond there that's why) but CHEESE CAKE FACTORY?!? Like tf is wrong with that , it's pretty dang fancy actually, how entitled, hope he finds better indeed
@@lumityviktuuristanartist4100won't "bound" there? Freudian slip?
@@draxxthemsclounts2478 shit I just realized-
He was extremely respectful even when she showed him no respect, The patience of that guy is very respectable.
This lady is wild. I almost fell in love with the dude myself just by watching his kindness. He dodged a bullet and is going to make some other girl feel like the most important person on the planet for sure. Wish him the best.
as a waiter at a nice place, I can say I see this crazy, undeserved confidence out of women on first dates, probably every friday and saturday night. I always just assume they are hookers.
Fell in love with an actor? This is fake.
youre fake@@kptv3706
@@kptv3706 im glad someone else is doing damage control right now. I don't know what channel you came from but if its the same as me power to you
@@kptv3706dawg not every internet spectacle is a hoax
3:50, as usual, Charles is a man of great words and wisdom.
i was looking for this one
Yo I heard that and did a triple take
@@i_282samee
If I was in this kinda situation and someone was disrespecting me like this, I'd tell her to cut the recording and speak to me like a person or get out the vehicle and find your own way home. I would have already been in a foul mood if I had made reservations and she ruined it by taking her sweet time and being an hour late, her attitude would have been the nail in the coffin for any kind of date.
I don't think I'm the only one who felt uncomfortable at the fact she wasn't even even facing him most of the time during their conversation. Imagine trying to have a genuine discussion with somebody while they're just looking at a camera (and knowing you are being filmed), like where do you even look? Her side profile? The camera?
Edit: it was staged (thank god)
That's because it's a skit
The camera
@@billyrae4621 I'm saying, there's no way this is actually real. This dude can't possibly be so desperate, that he wouldn't just kick her the fuck out of the car and drive away when she pulled that shit.
she doesn't even say you when talking to him she says he to her phone 💀
@@SRosenberg203Bros never heard of a nice guy
Dude's a saint, having the patience to deal with that sort of attitude and disrespect. Hope he finds someone who he deserves and will respect him as a person and not just think of him as a free meal.
Yeah fr like he didn't even have to take her home. He's honestly to good for her. If it was me I would have kicked her out the car and drove off.
Exactly my thoughts, he’s more than generous and kind to her, even after she starts to disrespect him. Man, what a good guy.
I’m considering it’s fake lmao yeah he does
I guess when it’s a skit you will sit through disrespect. He even adjusted himself so he can be seen in the camera clearly.
I'm just happy he found out she was a no go immediately and he can move on to someone better
In a follow up interview he also says how the Cheesecake Factory was special to him because of the memories and celebrations he had there. I always thought the Cheesecake Factory was luxurious, in fact as a kid my family could never go because of how expensive it was. I only heard about the experiences of going there from other family members who were more well off. Hope he finds someone who is appreciative.
Right!! We would NEVER afford to go, and at least at the one by my house everyone is always dressed super nice so I assumed it was on the "higher" end of chain restaurants. She's acting like he pulled up to a whataburger like
FR bro literally I've always thought the cheesecake factory was like luxury ☠️☠️☠️
Cheesecake factory is expensive as hell. Almost 20 dollars for a simple plate of pasta, even before inflation.
This woman is delusional.
Why the hell was there a follow up interview?
Ikno that shit expensive anything more then 40 bucks for a plate is alot idc wat nobody says
The right play is to drive her somewhere fancier and then leave when she gets out of the car
This is insane actually
I heard through the grapevine that it's a skit
oh hey its you. what do you do for a living?
@@calvint6434all of this crao is.
@@calvint6434source?
@@calvint6434doubt it
The fact she can’t look away from herself on her phone rather than look him in the eye says everything.
The fact this grown woman is using gen z talk and she does that side eye shit while focusing 100% on the TikTok and not the conversation is actually hurting my brain. I’m no “Reddit good TikTok bad” since both are equally bad on the brain radiation levels
2:48 You’re a 5 at best girl. 😂
A 5? Bro she’s like a 3
I actually like this honestly. It's better finding out someone's a horrible human being on the first date so you can dump them quickly rather than it slowly sneaking up on you over months/years of being with them.
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus
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@@InstagramUser420blud is speaking actual incel shit what are you on about 😂
NO WAY, I JUST MET CHARLIE ON MY UA-cam! 100% REAL! (OMG HE JUST CAME TO MY HOUSE AT 3 AM!)😱💯
@@InstagramUser420 really good example of generalization
It just sucks that he is recorded and will likely have mindless drones attack him online for handling the situation perfectly.
the amount of confidence you need to disrespect someone like that ON A FIRST DATE and then still think it was justified. props to the guys for being patient with her
Not confidence, it's narcissism
Nah its also the fact she told him to call the fancy restaurant or equivalent which was fucking wild. Like after all you did YOU THINK YOU CAN SALVAGE THIS?!?! Hell no 🤣
Especially when they’re hideous, makes you laugh
not even confidence at that point just pure egotistical bs
Black behavior
3:52 holy shit Charlie… what time should I pick you up?
I know right like 😖😖
😭😭😭😭
I truly hope this guy finds a partner who values and respects him.
The Cheesecake Factory is honestly a great first date option, all the food is at least decent, it’s usually a pretty nice establishment, and it’s menu is so big that you can be sure anyone’s diet can be included. It’s thoughtful and a nice place to go, not amazing, but nice (which I feel like a first date is supposed to be)
What did she want anyway? A 3 Michelin star restaurant? It’s the first date what do you expect?
He apparently had reservations for another restaurant’s but she was late so they went to cheesecake factory
Bruh if actual celebrities eat at the cheesecake factory then it’s safe to say it’s a great place for a first date this girl is just delusional asf
Obviously she wasn't there for a relationship so there was no starting. She was only there for the free food and expected to be fed as fancy as possible.
I can't believe Cheesecake Factory is considered "mediocre"
She deserves a very fancy cheap McDonald’s kids meal
Penguinz0 inspires me... My parents said if i get 50k followers they'd buy me a professional camera for recording begging u guys.❤
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus.
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NO WAY, I JUST MET CHARLIE ON MY UA-cam! 100% REAL! (OMG HE JUST CAME TO MY HOUSE AT 3 AM!)😱💯
Not even a full happy meal. She deserves the bagged apple slices and some tap water after all that
she deserves a drop off at the nearest planet fitness
She filmed him trying to make him look bad, yet only made herself look horrible.
if my boyfriend took me to the cheesecake factory i would cry because how fucking thoughtful can he be holy shit the cheseecake factory is my dream place to go
Literally. I ADORE cheesecake lol
Her attitude aside, Charlie saying that he'd fork someone if they took him to the Cheesecake Factory made me wheeze 3:39
forkin fudge, brother
Charlie adds so much to these videos with his humor
oh the bussy
if charlie was female i doubt she'd act or dress differently
LoL 😆😆😆😆 right!!!!
3:46 Nah, this quote is wild 💀💀💀
This is the most narcissistic individual I have ever seen in my life. She talks to her own reflection rather than look him in the eyes when talking to him. She was completely deranged. How can anyone even end up like that?
At least she decided to record it and post it on the internet for us all to see. I’m sure she just saved many men from dating human trash
@@squirrel1226 Very true. We no whave a textbook example of what to avoid.
As an african american woman, i can say that this is exactly why most of us are not looked at as respectful and well dignified ladies. The entitled attitude she has makes us look like we are some entitled and spoiled women. She is bringing more shame to us and is ruining the chances of real respectful women to finding dates.
I can understand which is why I don’t stereotype everyone just because I looked at one person
This is a skit… and she doesnt make “us” look bad, she’s making herself look bad. We are individuals.
@@-ky9334 I'm talking about her embodiment of a stereotype. Also, I didn't know this was a skit. Is it??
Damn! I'm not even American and I love African people in general but not those African-American ladies I always come across such vdos in yt where these girls are being mean towards everyone .I've seen many jublee vdos on yt where they get humbled by other guys real quick 😂
WAP
Wow, she is the definition of vanity. She doesn't even look at him, just the camera.
That guy deserves better.
Yes! the lack of eye contact was so disrespectful and to record him on top of it?!
She doesn't even look that good tbh. Totally average face with tons of make up and pretty average dress with her pepperonis in a push up bra? And she says: "Someone who looks like this..."
Man, she is the final boss of delusional women.
Content brainrot. Absolutely braindead woman.
My ex gf was EXACTLY like that, unfortunately.
And IDIOT ME even bought her her iPhone.... 😔🙈
"Look. at. me. I cannot go in a Cheesecake Factory" I absolutely agree. You should go home and have a sad cup ramen because that's the only thing you deserve. That man is the biggest green flag and treated her with more respect and courtesy than she should have got.
Ramen kinda bangs tho
@@jj18365 yes but it doesnt compare to an actual restaurant or actual ramen from a restaurant
even cup ramen is too good for this woman lol
She should definitely not be going anywhere near a cheesecake factory, she should lose about 20 pounds before she even considers it.
@@Alvah707Just like the BAP doesn't compare to a real woman.
What a terrible person. She's a narcissist and she wanted to embarrass him. Even if she was actually attractive, which she isn't, this would still be messed up
Unnecessary
@@jenm1 exactly.
she is the one who brought up looks by talking about "a girl who looks like me" "a beautiful woman" not only is she saying that ugly girls deserve less than her, she is completely out of her mind because she is mid at best. don't defend her @@jenm1
The random attack on her looks was so uncalled for but ok....
She’s a natural 4 out of 10. Her followers probably tell her she’s a queen everyday.
3:49 with no context is amazing
I'm so happy he respectfully stood up for himself, even getting caught off guard with the video. He will 100% find someone who appreciates him
i would have panicked so hard with a camera on me. the demeanor of that guy is impeccable
Whole thing makes her look like an entitled petulant child
Give this man the Medal of Honour. The courage it took to deal with her despite her behaviour is awe-inspiring.
The plus side of this shitshow is that he's going to find himself in high demand. Dude is chivalry personified.
Patience, not courage. There’s nothing scary or intimidating about fat chicks.
Just by looking at the thumbnail i knew it was the black that was gonna be the worst date
Fr and then he drove her home??? She woulda been out front of cheesecake factory waiting for an uber if that was me lmao
He's an actor, and terrible one at that. He doesn't deserve anything
To be fair you don't take someone that looks like that to the cheesecake factory, you take them to McDonald's.
too much for her tbh. burger king is more like her...
More like Arby’s
It's completely unnecessary to bring looks into this. It's her personality that's the problem (if this weren't staged).
*Waffle House
@@kiiyllThat comment comes precisely from her shit attitude and trashy vibes, which permeates somewhat into her looks, if you know what I mean. But it's more about the vibe than talking about her physique per se.
This is why you don’t hype up the 2/10 in the friend group. She’s lucky he didn’t make her walk home.
I hope she sees this and gets a slap of reality in her face. People need to get out of their delusions
So apparently a lot of comments are saying this video is fake.. I didn't watch the full video, I'm gonna come back to it to see but it's just sad to me that people sometimes do make this stuff up for attention. People can't always tell real situations from staged, especially kids. So to them, it can promote that kind of behavior, creating real situations and problems. People can't just make genuine content anymore. Everything has to be full of lies and scams to be successful rn. Can't genuinely just be good. Prime example would be tik tok. Actual brain rot. Of course that's where this video came from I imagine. That's exactly why I don't have it downloaded on my phone.
@wavewithus4081 this shit ain't fake lol
@@mikethepokemaster2012 thats what im saying?
@@wavewithus4081 idk i haven't had a chance to watch it all the way yet, I was going thru the comments on this vid and a lot of ppl are saying it's fake. Haven't actually made my decision on what I think yet, just putting out there what I saw. The whole existence of this garbage is beyond despicable tho
she's a future single mom
Kudos to her for giving that guy a platform to show how chill he is in the dating scene. Hopefully a KIND lady goes on an actual date with him soon.
It never pays off to be chill in the dating scene. Apparently, maintaining your composure in a toxic situation/argument is just a clever narcissistic manipulation tactic (if youre a man) 😂😂😂 because then, youre just making THEM look crazy! What a devious brainwashing tactic!
@Ch0c0b0 you could've just said "women don't touch me"
@@Ch0c0b0
"Brainwashing tactic."
Weak bait.
@@Ch0c0b0 internet have broken people, just be normal and get to know normal people, touch grass, a psychologist can help you too
I would have had more respect for him if he had taken a no nonsense approach and put his foot down instead of being so politically correct on camera. If I was that guy and she actually had the nerve to pull a stunt like that by recording this interaction from her angle of being treated so atrociously by a first date after all the bullshit that went on beforehand forget your little "pep talk" in the car or your lift home. I would have washed my hands of her there and then and left the cow high and dry to find her own way home. His fault is that he should have communicated to her more directly and with a firmer stance from the beginning. He should have put his foot down earlier and not just been simping up to this point by being overly compliant and servile to her nonsense. Prime example of weak men being taken advantage of and trampled all over. A product of the Snowflake Generation.
6:49 Her issue isn’t that she hates the Cheesecake Factory - she’s just offended the first date didn’t take place at a fancy place. The kicker is that the end of the video seems to imply they WERE going but she was late getting ready and missed the reservation. What a miasma of narcissism and irresponsibility.
Edit: Watched Charlie’s new video which revealed this was all acting. Thank god lol
Yeah, as I understand from the comments in full video there was revealed that at first he reserved a date in a fancy place but then he was forced to wait for her for an hour so they missed it and then he decided to atleast somehow save the day by going to CF. Its just wild - YOU missed your date and then wine... Wild.
Massive ego + delusion + stupidity and you get this person
"Congratulations, you played yourself."
those people can never solve problems diplomatically. He deserves better.
she really thinks she don’t look like the type of lady to go to a cheesecake factory 😂
To be fair she's right, she looks like the type to go to taco bell just before closing to ask for any stuff they're going to throw out.
@@NateTheScot good ol' overweight women in k-mart dresses and fake hair extensions... The epitome of high class..
she is the cheesecake factory 🤣😂
Let's be honest.. she's hardly even Waffle House worthy. 😅
@@philiphenraat8026 Nope. The cheesecake factory is very pleasant, and worth a person's time and effort.