I love how the audio changes to make it feel like I'm in an empty auditorium. This was Charlie's TED talk about cringe and the was a perfect way to end the video.
@@AnthonysMeat Two simultaneous waveforms will cancel each other out or create a chorus if offset. This is clearly a reverb or delay effect. Its good practice to put a little reverb on any voice recording.. but here the mix has been cranked.
@kittymilkyyy there is. 1) social media is toxic. 2) you should probably not use it anyway because its bad for your mental health. 3) adults especially shouldn't be posting stuff like that like don't they have jobs and kids like actual normal adults? Too much time in their hands. 4) act like a cringe idiot you might get called out on it. Same goes for people who dress like freaks and then get offended when old people or whoever else stare at them. Same as people with face tattoos and that, if you look like a fuckinf weirdo expect weird looks. It's not right but the TRUTH is people judge you instantly based on appearance and demeanor and behaviour. So if you go on like a fuckin idiot or a cringe loud and out there twat, normal people will judge you.
I play these videos as background noise to help me fall asleep, but Charlie saying that subjecting people to cringe could be considered an act of terrorism made me laugh myself awake
It's been theorised that we evolved to find embarrassment so unbearable because in the past, being ostracised by your tribe was literally a death sentence. Cringe is second-hand embarrassment, so we simultaneously feel both the pain of imagining being them, and also the desire to publicly reject them, so as to make it clear we are not in their group and do not condone their behaviour.
@@curious_O_oNo, his theory is way better than yours because it was actually cringe of you to use privilege in this context. Now you shall be exiled from the tribe. Take your cringe to mother nature.
Humans in general are Spiteful to "the weak" just look at american schools. If society had less boundaries, it would be just like school. Bullies picking on nerds, the freak of the class being sent to the corner, teachers being willingly ignorant to the runt of the class being the most picked on, the youth getting assaulted by the edlest ect.
6:00 I honestly feel really bad for her since she was self aware of the cringe and didn’t mind the light hearted jokes. None of these miserable people would say stuff like that in person
That's pretty much how I go about being online, if I wouldn't say it to someone's face I'm not typing it. Being mean online is more cringy than doing a love surge, and that's saying something
The funny thing is that Charlie really has a point. Like Colleen got a lot of hate for being a pedo but I really feel like no one would’ve paid attention to her if she didn’t make the cringey apology video.
"I am cringe but I am free" is such a true statement. If I stumble across a cringey video, I just skip it and move on w my day. It's the people that leave hate comments / death threats who are the problem. Of course if you post anything on the internet you are subjected to backlash but nobody deserves that much hate for a silly video imo.
Nah if you wanna post stuff like that for clout be prepared for the shitty reactions you are gonna get. It just is what it is. I'm hoping that eventually if the backlash is big enough people will stop acting like goofy fucks. I don't go outside because of people that do cringey shit.
Just assume the internet is a conglomerate of all your toxic exes, toxic mother in laws, toxic father in laws, and toxic bosses and any other toxic person you ran into. Don't ever show vulnerability to them. Keep your love surge in a safe zone.
That's actually a very accurate way of depicting the internet. The majority people are not "good" and have many toxic traits. Being online demonstrates that perfectly.
I feel like uncontrollable disgust is an involuntary and valid reaction to cringe. But you know what is super cringe ? Being the person who threatened the love surge lady.
the thin line between cringe and cool is sincerity. if a different video of someone genuinely becoming happy for pancakes may go viral because its so natural and sincere. when someone creates a fake scenario and acts excited it becomes so cringe. (for the record i thought both were weird and a little cringe because they seems disingenuous) take for example that skating guy with the cranberry juice. it went viral cuz it was just so sincere and relatable and not trying too hard, if at all. hell its why charlies content is so good.
Its the creating a weird and unnecessary scene in public that people hate. Same thing goes for these kids doing dancing videos in retail stores and acting like its their god given right
i think anime kinda proves this point, the scared character saying they aren't gonna lose is cringe, but the fully focused, intense stare character saying the same thing is really cool
I hate how normalised it is that wishing someone to kill themselves or even to be raped is. It’s absolutely disgusting and I wish all anonymous accounts would show the user’s name and face after they make such vile comments.
@@matthewjones39 except whenever someone says they’ve been getting threats online people say that they’re being too sensitive and that threats are just something that they need to get used to receiving online because “welcome to the internet”. You’re kidding yourself if you really don’t think it’s been normalized.
I know bro I thought it was wholesome because they seemed genuinely happy to just shoot a video and be silly. However, if it’s cringe and fake then I’m like “alright whatever dude” then scroll past it.What kinda normal person looks at that and is like “alright time for me to make someone cry”?!
This is sad but unsurprising. In the old days we committed cringe but it was forgotten in five seconds. Nowadays one gaff will have you branded a pariah forever. Stay safe out there people
It's not just the cringe itself that riles people up, but a twisted kind of herd mentality. People love to hate on the same thing, because it gives them a sense of community, while also giving them an outlet for their negative emotions without having to fear any individual consequences.
Idk sometimes when I see (in person) people doing "cringey" dances for internet clout, it makes me upset not out of herd mentality but out of the exact opposite, I don't want to associate myself with things I don't understand lol
kinda wild how anytime a woman even mildly annoys people online with something like giving a spouse a cringe hug the response is literally always people wanting to "SA" her.
I feel so bad for the "love surge" lady. The absolutely insane things that people will say to actual people over the internet is truly unbelievable. She definitely wasn't ready for all that, she's too wholesome.
I think she needs to do a lot of work on herself if comments from stangers on the internet can bring her to tears. Like I get it, the comments can be annoying and shocking, but those are people who have no idea who she is, she will never meet them; 99% of them are lonely, depressed, and probably one negative life experience away from taking themselves out. She expects everyone to love/accept everything she does, but thats just not how the world (especially the internet) works.
The "love surge" couple gave me a flashback to when I was like 15 and wrote my bf at the time a happy 1 year anniversary comment on fb and it was pretty cringe and super like "IDC WHAT THEY SAY OUR LOVE WILL LAST FOREVER" kinda deal. And I got home from school and a bunch of family was visiting and I could hear them all laughing in the living room as my older, cooler cousin was reading my comment out loud to the entire family and making jokes and laughing at me. I don't think I ever posted on fb again after that and was really really upset, but I can't even imagine what it would feel like if it was the entire internet making fun of me instead of just my entire extended family.
F*CK em. I wish folks had tougher skin, it's not a disparagement I hope you understand that, but if folks were tougher they could ignore the absolute idiocy of other people. Be harder inside and ready to do things that need done.
@@slimely9758 It's just really sad that this happens so often that I'm not as shocked as I should be that this happened. It's appalling but definitely not surprising unfortunately.
I think cringe can be pretty much described as “doing things in public (or online) that the average person wouldn’t, or if they did, would feel embarrassed by”
I don't think you're wrong, but now think about how neurospicy, especially autistic peeps, have to function. When emotions are legit too strong to handle, so you have a physical reaction, like flapping your hands or dancing before getting your fav food. And we, as a society, shame people for it, cause it's cringe.
Yes, the people wishing death on them are even sadder and worse than grown adults posting lame ass videos on social media. Which is already super fuckin lame and pathetic. Don't they have jobs, kids, a fuckin house to try and keep clean?
People need to be taught to realize when all content they happen by is not for them. Message boards worked a lot better than the unending feed of content that is supposedly "tailored for you."
To be honest, I was thinking myself "Oh my gosh, SO DAMN CRINGE" while feeling literal disgust at the start of the video, but the moment I saw her crying my damn heart broke. If she is not bothering anyone, we should learn to just accept that we are all cringey at some moment and no one deserves an emotional beating like this for literally nothing.
She made Millions of people uncomfortable for a couple of seconds and those millions of people made her uncomfortable for a couple of seconds as well, It was a fair trade.
I was forced to watch it and trust me bucko it was much longer than a few seconds. Time slows down in tragic moments like that but you have to have a very high intellect to understand.
Dude why she crying over sum hateful internet comments, then making a video about it and then even uploading it ☠☠☠ Its pathetic and idiotic as hell. If it really bothered that woman so much she couldve just deleted the video and moved on, or deleted the account to avoid the oh so harmful internet comments And besides, its her fault anyway. Too dumb to think of the possible consequences of uploading something like this and uses tiktok. That aside the people posting hateful comments that exceed simple clowning goes too far and doesnt make em any better than the person posting the cringe. Thank god i dont use social media appart from youtube. Im largely spared of such bs.
@@deadlyrobot5179 They didn't make her uncomfortable though they made her cry they obviously took the video too seriously based on the kind of comments she got so its not the same at all and you are insane if you think so.
I think we react to cringe so strongly because it's so relatable. when someone does something actually awful, there is more often a layer of disconnect (being that you have never been the victim or the abuser in a situation so it doesn't hit you as hard) Cringe, is within us all and no one likes to have that mirror forced in front of them by someone else. so we repeal from it like it's mustard gas. That's my theory at least
well said. i also think it's an instinct to repel something that's different. it's survival almost. back in the day we would probably sacrifice cringelords for disrupting the order. when someone does something horrible/cruel they hide it usually. deny it. etc. cringe just comes out in public.
I'm tired of this whole cringe thing. And not for the reasons of "it made me feel gross" There's cringe, and then there's just *being* people. The love surge girl was just posting about her relationship, she's happy in her relationship. She made something with her partner and loved it so much she wanted to share it...there's nothing cringy about that, it makes me happy to see people confident enough to post happy stuff like that. People hating on her are honestly sad and pathetic and unhappy about their single lives.
Being annoyed or mad at something cringe isn’t a big deal as long as you keep it to yourself. However, expressing your hate by making fun of them or worse, sending death/r@p3 threats to somebody just being themselves is the real "unforgivable cringe".
Beiing cringy is also not a big deal as long as you keep it to yourself. I, too, do cringy shit with my girlfriend but guess what? It ain't in the internet for everyone to see. They brought this upon themselves.
@@strawberrycrepesss you are welcoming everyone's response by posting on the internet it doesnt matter what that response is you are welcoming it. everyone wants to be on the internet but not everyone can handle it
The "love surge" thing actually made me mad. It may have been a bit cringy, but at the end of the day, it was just a couple having a moment. Unlike the "hangryness" woman, who used the shot of the woman behind her to get even more views, and exposed her to lots of hate, as if she was some sort of tool.
Charlie's true voice shined through at the last 30 seconds of the video. His voice is so powerful and true that it echoes in even the most decorated rooms
Charlie is so right. Noticed that phenomenon too with many basically wholesome things being cringey and then people would go as hard as wishing death upon others. It's sad honestly.
As long as she's not somehow interrupting my meal by being too loud or like way to excited, then idgaf and no one should gaf if they are happy dancing when they get their food. Like bro, I'm going to do a happy dance if I want to, and you will not stop me from doing it. Lol
The people sending the death threats were probably single losers tbh. The video was cringy but also sweet if you've ever had moments like that with someone else.
@@bored_potatoThey’re not mad that she’s happy, they’re annoyed at how fake it is. There’s a difference. Obviously the ones sending threats are unhinged.
@Nezxmi I mean just cause they scripted it doesnt mean its fake. It could just mean they rehearsed that for a video but truly practice what they preach. People just dont like seeing other people happy when they themselves arent imo
I hate that we as a society let abusers and terrible people of all sorts flourish without a second thought then tell people who got a little silly to kts💀
It really should be the other way around. Though I don’t condone harassment and individuals who have done horrible things should be processed properly, promptly, and professionally to be punished under the law, I wouldn’t shed a tear or lose a single wink of sleep if a large amount of people bullied murderer or pedophile until they lost their mind.
Fr I also don’t condone harassment but out of all the cringe tik toks why did they go after the kinda wholesome ones instead of some extreme anime cringe(should prob add nothing wrong with anime but it is very well known for its cringe)
The most tiktok thing about all this is that when she was crying because people made her feel bad for something completely harmelss, they just doubled down on it and kept insulting her.
What's interesting is that I bet if the lady doing the happy dance at the pancakes wasn't filming herself, but someone caught her doing it without the expectation of being recorded, the internet would have probably responded differently.
Yeah, that's because part of the cringe is the performative and (percived) insincere nature of it; she's acting like that to get attention. If she was doing it herself that would just be her expressing herself in a weird but harmless way.
@@Abhorrence353 i really wouldnt put it past some people (not saying she is doing it necessarily pls dont hate) to even upload the second video knowing people will hate watch and comment to get traction and more views.
Honestly when Charlie said that when someone makes us cringe we hold it against them forever, that makes sense to me. Think about it, what happens more randomly to you: remembering something that made you sad/upset, or something that made you cringe? I think with most emotions they often come and go, but cringe somehow sticks to us like a thorn in our brain
I rarely stay angry for more than an instant, a flash of indignation. Honestly I kinda wish I could hold onto to that feeling a bit longer if only to use it productively. On the other hand, I still cringe at my memories going back to fluffing kindergarten 😂
I think it's about the second hand embarrassment how you can never seem to forget embarrassing things that you did or happened to you even when its someone else the embarrassment still sticks.
Imagine being so unbelievably touch-starved and pathetic that you'll send _death threats_ to random strangers online because they're expressing their love for their partner....
Agree I think a lot of it especially with that video. Is that while it is cringy, it makes people who are bitter about love angry. Because they themselves are very lonely. So it’s not so much the cringe but jealousy.
Exactly! I thought it was sweet. Let people do wtf they want to do. Being cringy, embarrassing, and doing stupid shit is a part of being human. For every cringy thing you do, billions of other people have done the exact thing so LET IT GO. live your life. Embrace the cringe.
I agree 🩵 Regardless of whether it's cringe or not, it's wholesome. I'd rather see more videos of that nature than hear about someone committing a crime for clicks, or a crypto scam...
The “love surge” is a really sweet, adorable thing for them to share between the two of them. I would never share so much of the intimate little inside jokes I’ve formed while flirting.
I would not be caught sharing something like that on social media. I'm sorry, but it just looks like creepy new age shit. Like just feels wrong looking at it.
Yeah, I think people tend to forget that something can be a little cringy but also really harmless too. Sweet, even. It does come off a little as tiktok culture, but it made them happy. And when something "weird" makes people happy in private, then they shouldn't be judged for it.
@@Mellyburr yeah it's terrible. she defo is like some small time creator and thought her tiny viewer base would agree with her and share the same sentiment. definitely never expected the video to blow up this much and then the threats... seeing her cry made me tear up. she's just sharing her love even if it's cringey, no one deserves to be bullied into tears like that 😢
It’s so shameful how the internet makes people completely lose their humanity. That couple didn’t deserve any of those disgusting comments but it’s such an issue for the world to just let people be happy even if they look goofy doing it
there is a serious problem with social media where we seem to forget we're interacting with real people. love surge lady is not just some embarrassing video, she is a real actual human being with thoughts and feelings. but social media has conditioned us to view other people as concepts, ideas, pure amusement. it's disgusting. so many people feel good about themselves after sending literal death threats to people because they've stopped actually viewing them as _people._ seeing her cry meant nothing to them because they're so desensitized to the emotions of others they just don't care.
I agree! Especially since nowadays people think that since their online they won’t be called out on in real life. This fuels them to keep bullying other people since the internet hides their identity (like what Penguinz0 said, it makes them feel their superior since they are anonymous.)
I'm actually glad that from 16-25 I actually had basically zero internet access. By the time I joined the online world I didn't get sucked into these nasty black holes of toxicity. 4chan for example - I completely missed that. MySpace, Twitter until the end stages, I just wasn't there haha
Much appreciation to charlie. Even though he got sent back to heaven for a bit, he still manage to record the last few minutes of this video up there for us.
@@vikodens Nah, you're just upset that the stupid joke you like is being called out for what it is. Some overused copy/paste people have been using for the last 4 or 5 years.
no snollyghoster he means that he was in heaven for only the last few minutes of the video, aS you can hear everything he says echo, in the last few minutes, sounding like he is in heaven or something. @@Poshriel
I believe the girl dancing in public about food is cringe. But sending sa threats and death threats for two people in love isn’t okay. It’s disgusting.
@@KEKW-lc4xi The death threats themselves are not hilarious. Imagining your miserable lonely life of failure that LED you to make death threats to a happy couple? Now THAT is hilarious.
Bro, you got so analytical on cringe I HAD TO look this up lol! "The feeling of cringe is a personal, empathetic embodiment of embarrassment that someone else is experiencing - but it's rooted in bodily survival instinct. “Cringing is essentially a mechanism to deter us from behaving in ways that risk us losing status or gaining the negative judgement of others,”
"Why is cringe the worst thing you can do online as a content creator?" Because lots of content consumers are teenagers who, by cosmic law, will spend this phase of their lives obsessing over how others see them. They hunger for attention yet live in constant fear of ~being embarrassed~ Only the humiliation of their peers can truly sustain them. Some teens never grow up, instead taking the form of insecure internet goblins who feed on the tears of cyberbullied children.
@@Luis-sz7tn she was literally just having fun. i’m sure her target audience were not cringe thirsty teenagers and was probably for the middle aged moms who watched it thought it was funny. it’s crazy to me how you cannot understand the concept of humor in different generations. please grow up.
@@savannah6508 .-. How bout he acts her age? Since you want to talk about growing up leave that shit to the kids and eat your fucking pancakes too many people doing same shit online
Regarding the second woman, I'll say that social media just hates happy relationships in general. A couple can post something as innocuous as watching a movie together and they'll still receive a wave of extreme hate Some people are just so lonely and terminally online that the slightest sign of enjoying life is the greatest sin possible in their eyes
That's what I thought as well; a lot of people on the Internet simply cannot stand anything that is the opposite of pure hate, so they get disgusted and offended by technically wholesome videos.
Pretty much this, disgust with happiness. And if it’s a little too embarrassing or vulnerable, they get their chance to jump on it and tear it down for dopamine.
No, it's that normal well adjusted people don't understand the incessant need to share your life with the rest of the world. It's pretentious and it seems so disingenuous. Why are you desperately seeking validation from strangers on the internet
For the ‘love surge’ woman. Even if it was cringe, those disgusting genetic anomalies on the internet shouldn’t be that heartless and cruel to someone who clearly was just trying to express how much they love their partner to the world. And she shouldn’t have been sent those messages for it.
Theres nothing wrong with being cringe or feeling cringe. There is somethinf wrong with harassing and bullying someone for being cringe. That couple, while cringey, didnt deserve all those disgusting threats being made about them.
Agreed, it's like feeling cringe/second hand embarrassment about furries/weeb cosplay role playing irl. Yes it's cringe but wishing death upon them is a show of the persons mental insecurity. imo
As someone who is single and not all that happy about - Those single-people couple-haters are some of the most miserable, bitter, and pathetic people I’ve ever seen in my life. Like, I like mocking cringey love posts, ‘the fall photoshoot’, and those clearly over-acted couple posts as much as the next person, but the fact that some people go out of their ways to insult/belittle the couple themselves, or make the posts all about themselves and their problems, is just sad. Literally found one guy who said that ‘all couple-posts are just flexing on single people. They’re all terrible’ as if they were doing it PERSONALLY to go out of their way to make him feel bad by being happy together online. Just go offline, get a life, and deal with your own issues
As someone who is very happy with being single, I find that people who hate love need to solve a personal issue. Yes, it’s valid being ace or aro, but it’s not valid to bash on couples.
I feel that Cringe is the same as any other emotion. The reaction you give is what you feel about it, but like any other emotion, there is a spectrum of feelings. Some react extremely over cringe causing hatred. Others embrace cringe, thus cringe videos are made. People are weird, even though we are unique, we all feel alone. This is why we tend to join groups, and communities, but end up joining groups inside of groups. Some try to be like others, others try to figure out who they are. Some realize what they are, and what part of the group they accept or associate with. At the end of it all, we are all lost and seeking someone to be part of.
I was bullied growing up, and I always wondered if the bullies knew they were being the “bad guy” in the scenario. Like if you asked the people who write those awful comments to that poor girl if they are bullies, they’d probably say “no”. It’s odd how cruelty can just be considered ok in many people’s minds. They think they are being funny or that they aren’t really that bad, but they are completely wrong. Making fun of people who are doing no harm is cruel and can have life long impacts on the person you target. People need to grow up and be kind.
For the most part, bullies have villain logic. They either don't care about right and wrong, or they convince themselves that you committed a transgression by annoying them, possibly just by existing, so their bullying is retaliation. Some even think they're doing you a favor by helping toughen you up.
@@Haha_im_losing_my_mindsorry please explain if I misunderstood that but is it not bullying if they do that to everyone how I understood it the way you said was they are a prick to everyone I don’t get it
Genuinely, I believe that couple has a lot of love for each other. That's great for them, I absolutely love that. Never show the internet that. The internet can be hateful as all get out. Sometimes, it's warranted, but most times it's this
Oh definitely!! That’s why somethings in relationships have to be kept in private. And although the love surge thing was maybe a little cute or whatever, it just feels way too awkward and cringey with an audience of any kind even if just one friend was witnessing it. Some things are just meant to be done and kept in private
I agree. A lot of healthy couples who post things on the internet often expose themselves to very hurt or misguided people that love to wander the internet and project their very unhealthy views onto their posts. For instance, many people on the internet cannot comprehend the idea of trusting your partner and the fact that cheating does not happen in every relationship. Or that some girls genuinely dislike the idea of cheating in general, they've been too hurt to acknowledge that not everyone is the same. It's very bizarre when you've been exposed to many good and healthy relationships and see people genuinely believing they don't exist.
@@jaydenramirez4422 The sad thing is.. if this isn't just some kinda preformative skit and really something they do together . . .by sharing it and having it associated with so much hateful reactions. . .they may have ruined it FOR EACH other. also, all those people telling that woman all those horrible things are gross and empty. imagine being so lonely, sad, angry and void of humanity that your only way to "feel anything" is to be so horrible to a random stranger. that's pretty messed up. 🫤
Dean losing his entire political career over that scream is still one of the most insane things ever. How has there not been a 2 hour Netflix doc on it yet?!?
@@justinlast2lastharder749this was basically Trump's entire 2015 GOP primary strategy. He made everyone else on stage look like cringe lords until he was the last one standing.
@@donaldwobamajr6550 This. Maybe people had to have been there at the time, but it should be remembered that Dean, who had been polling 1st in Iowa (and in the whole race) for months, lost momentum at the end and came in 3rd place in the final tally; then he gave the "scream" speech to his Iowa crowd, after a disappointing finish, which is why people felt it was bizarre-after all, why would you give "victory speech" energy when you came in lower than expected? (Though, looking into the situation, the reason he seemed "too energetic" was actually because the media microphones weren't picking up the crowd's volume that he was shouting over, thus making him seem like he was shouting over near-silence.) Anyway, he didn't lose the nomination over that scream, because he arguably already lost his chance with that third place finish; while there's an argument that the media's over-replaying of that scream cost him New Hampshire the next week, the writing was already on the wall that Dean was done and Kerry/Edwards were the new front-runners.
The second video made me feel so disgusted that I wanted to vomit. It triggered a memory that I didn’t even know I had and that I wish I could suppress again. I went through 15 minutes of reliving that memory and I’m crying while writing this. Even still, I think all the hate they got was uncalled for.
This is something that genuinely makes me angry. Its also says something about the internet itself, and how much of a complete mess it really is. We have people like Dale Wilson getting away with so many stuff. Straight up doxxed people, and it was revealed that he dated a 17 year old girl when he was 29. Yet, he seems to be more popular than ever because of his memes. While completely ignoring how narcissistic he really is. Yet, people who are "cringe" at best are the ones that are practically canceled from existence. This kind of behavior is pretty disgusting to me.
It also reminds me of the sorbet incident. A lot of jerks form both Twitter and TikTok have harassed and doxxed the Japanese idol group into quitting social media entirely just because they thought they were cringe and attracting creeps. Hasanabi had also claimed that they were cringe, and even made fun of their idol group dances, accents, and stereotyping them as Korean. Meanwhile, the same TikTok community that harassed some idol group of girls who just wanted to have fun would be the same community who would fall in love/idolize with Devon Erickson, the 2018 Colorado school shooter. They made tons of edits and videos begging for his freedom, despite being a convicted felon. The fact that a homicidal maniac is cherished and loved, while 3 kindhearted idol girls get bullied into obscurity just shows how doomed we are as a society.
I think…you might be following the wrong people? I don’t follow anyone who idolizes ab*sers lolol that is a personal choice sir 😂 the circles you run in will support whatever narrative, you need to find the folks questioning that. Also Hasan might laugh at cringe but he’s critical of ab*sers, so you were confused when you used that comparison.
People are not responsible to internet. Whether it's cringe for likes or the horrible comments, social media was no doubt the worst thing to ever be invented. The only thing it did to bring us together was to collectively hate each other. That and it seems like all the worst people that are internet famous can say or do horrible things and nothing happens. They keep their platforms, they continue to be successful and no responsibility was taken. Social media is so toxic and I do not blame people for taking breaks and staying off of it completely
I hope that last woman is okay. Its shitty how all that stemmed from pretty much harmless cringe, yet also not really surprising bc the Internet can be the shittiest place to people who dont deserve it
Well the Internet can both be anonymous and faster spreading then if something happened in real life, which affects the victim as well as allowing the person to say whatever they like with not that many reproductions
The thing about cringe, is that if you embrace it and not let it get to you, people will back off because they will realize it doesn’t bother you. The minute you are cringe and then get embarrassed by it, it will be the death of you.
In a world of sad people, happiness is uncomfortable, whether fake or genuine. I’ll never forget that video of those girls excited about the foam they bought, and how somehow that made every human being uncomfortable. They were being completely genuine. Enjoying life. And that makes the majority of people upset. Because they could never imagine themselves being so outwardly happy like that. The public element only amplifies it all.
Exactly, I feel like some people are just doomed to hate watching instead of actually thinking to themselves and acting critical. This is not unforgivable cringe, people are just banally hateful
its more like the fact she filmed it. theres nothing inherintly cringe about someone doing this in public, its the fact that she filmed it like a twat that makes people not like it. i hate people filming ever little bit of their lives, thats what is truly sad my dude.
It's not anger because "oooh, how dare they be happy IN MY SOCIETY!" It's aggravating because it's grown people acting like children with no sense of awareness or irony. "ZOMG FOAM" is middle-school humor that is annoying to be around in real life, and shaking so you get a huggy is five year old behavior and you shouldn't be proud of acting like a 5-year old as an adult. Don't try and make something so simple into a "society hates happiness" thing.
Inside high school “gym” class, it’s “embarrassing” to run the track. Only 5% do it, it’s really sad. Kind of off topic but still in the same category.
Some people are just so miserable that they can't understand how to be happy/confident and let other people be that as well. They need to take it out on others because they have no way to improve their own life. It's sad really.
Ive said it once, ill say it again. There is a THIN line between cringe and charisma. And if your cringe, there's no shortage of miserable people that will share their misery. Well said.
What’s cringe is posting weird shit and expecting to NOT be made fun of. This isn’t about “cringe”. It’s just stupid content being made fun of, if you don’t want other people’s opinions, maybe try NOT POSTING YOUR LIFE ON THE INTERNET 😂 why do we live in an age where it’s the viewers responsibility to cater to the fragile emotions of stupid content creators. I’ve said this so many times in the past, you could have the most perfect relatable opinion on the planet and still gather hate if you post about it on the internet. Everything on the internet gets ripped apart, so in the case of these people getting roasted for acting like toddlers, Im completely unsurprised. This is the way the internet has been since before UA-cam, don’t want people to see your life and comment on it? Don’t post it to where everyone can see it and comment on it. “The reaction is the real cringe” no buddy, you just don’t understand how the internet works. No one is entitled to have their dumb actions praised
There’a two types of cringe. There’s the “you should be embarrassed no matter what” type, then the “happy/playful/wholesome” type. The first one is inexcusable and is I feel like usually done on purpose, but I’ve seen it done unironically. It’s stuff like that alpha trend that happened a bit ago, or having Reddit/Discord mod energy. It’s usually stuff that makes you feel gross just watching it. Then there’s the second type, which is usually done on accident. You could just be having a good time, and acting in a cringe-type way. Stuff like role playing, singing, early UA-cam videos, and anything that if you look back on, you’ll be in pain thinking about. This is more of the better type of cringe, it might be painful to watch or think about, but it’s not really ‘gross’. It’s people just having fun and being happy, which might end up being cringe, but it’s okay to do. You shouldn’t really be ashamed for it. That first group completely deserve the shame in their cringe, no doubts about it. The second, not really. They shouldn’t be attacked for it, cause everyone’s done it somewhere in their lives. Remember that presentation in grade 7? Yeah, reflect back on that and tell me it wasn’t cringe. Do you want to be attacked for it? The pain of the cringe is already enough damage lol. But seriously, don’t attack people who might seem cringe, but are just being happy. That second clip I honestly feel bad for, they just seemed really happy when they made it, and were completely attacked for it. Yeah, it’s definitely cringy, but it’s not like they’re hurting anyone with it. To threaten those things is absolutely disgusting, especially for a clip like that.
It’s a such high school behaviour, to think being mean- basically being a bully- is okay or funny but when it comes to embarrassment, that’s where the line is drawn. I guess because with being a bully comes power, embarrassment is literally the feeling of no power or control.
The only lack of control in embarrassment is possibly the lack of control of your image. Other than that its a biiiig stretch to define embarrassment as "no power or control". Its literally just being perceived as outside the social norm by failing to meet societal expectations in performance or behavior. And then the shame of being evaluated negatively by others. THAT'S what embarrassment is.
@@Scyborg832 yeah you’re right, in hindsight embarrassment doesn’t literally equate to no power. It just kind of feels like that in the moment. Yeah, loss of control over your image/ reputation is a good way to put it.
I think people hate cringe so much because it's so relatable. I imagine pretty much everyone can recall a time in their life where they had a cringe moment, and would like nothing more than to forget that it ever happened, whereas most of us probably don't have instances where we've committed actual heinous crimes against another person. Doesn't justify the reaction by any means, especially these people who are wishing harm, but maybe it clarifies why cringe kills a following, and being a disgusting human being doesn't.
Sometimes i get that hater feeling inside me where I get mad at people doing innocent but cringe things, but instead of letting those feelings win I acknowledge that the feelings are unreasonable and move past them instead of simmering in my own pointless bitterness. The internet really exposed how many miserabIe people exist in the worId and Im just gIad Im not one of them and dont know them
@@Br0130 damn, i just realised. then wouldn't that mean those loser haters are just projecting because they know they cant be as happy as the cringy people?
I vaguely remembered the Howard Dean scream, but I wanted a refresher, so I played it, and my cat literally got up and walked down his little cat stairs and left my bed. So it still works as a repellent to this day. I was laughing at it tho, I still think it’s funny. It’s goofy af, but I can’t believe it was enough to legit ruin him
Cringe is literally the ultimate weapon on the internet that isn't a crime. It's a weapon to use against someone, that if used properly, could kill someone's fanbase. The fact that cringe kills a fanbase quicker than literally admitting to unforgivable acts really does show off how the internet takes advantage of the fact that they're all anonymous. They'd rather be a fan of someone who has been accused of criminal offenses than someone who's just cringey.
A perfect example from both sides of The Moist Theory Of Cringe is a small man called Keemstar... He did many awful things, and it hardly affected him. The only thing that stopped him was a well-known pure cringe demonstration on that Adin Ross stream, and escalating the cringe level in every public appearance that followed. He truly is both sides of the coin of The Moist Theory Of Cringe (hereafter shall be referred to as “TMTOC”) TMTOC is a
Yeah, the internet is a world where people worry more about false accusations than the actual 95% who do disgusting shit. And yes this is directed at men lowkey, because who else is wishing someone gets r4p3d or cheated on?😂
Man, sometimes it's nice to have those little couple moments and you do not need to share it with everyone. Humanity sucks, that lady seems like a genuinely sweet person and it's obvious she doesn't know a lot about posting content online from her reaction to it. I am happy she at least appears has a good relationship with whomever that dude was and hope they remain happy.
@@lawdpleasehelpmenowhat? She's making a small, short, video. a little cringey sure, but it literally hurts no one. People are just so judgemental for no reason, including you. She is not a bad person for broadcasting a funny video she figured other people would like. That's why everyone shares everything, is Charlie a bad person? Are you a bad person for sharing an opinion that should remain private and personal?
Imagine how happy the love surge guy is gonna be when he realizes how much better the yogurt slinger feels than shaking like you're having a mormon anxiety attack =o
I really felt for that woman who started crying. It seemed like she had good intentions, but maybe didn't realize that not everyone on the internet would see it that way. Sure, it was a bit cringe-worthy, but there's no need to be so mean to her, especially after watching the second follow-up video. It's pretty messed up that some people get their kicks from making someone really upset. Shame on them.
@@theberserker_of_falconia@theberserker_of_falconia so what you're saying is just because something worse is happening, anything that is bad, but not as bad compared it isn't worth acknowledging? Just because real people die in wars, it makes it okay to harass & send death threats? If someone robs, doxxes, assaults you, and you complain or speak out against it but someone says "people die in war torn countries everyday get a perspective pal this shit means nothing" that makes it okay? You're the one who needs to get a perspective.
She even said in the video that it was cringe, I honestly don’t see why people went that crazy. The first vid was way more cringe to me tbh. This video was just a wholesome display of unashamed love
@E3T7 Lonely, angry people with little to no empathy and lash out other people showing happiness. People will get angry or wish ill on people for the dumbest shit.
No it’s to direct your cringe-receptors in the proper direction. Instead of feeling cringe at innocent awkwardness, you should feel cringe at things like shameful or red-flag behavior
I'm not a psychologist/sociologist, so folks with that background, please chime in. I remember seeing somewhere that it's a universal human trait (and possibly of all primates) to take social rejection very hard because, back when our ancient ancestors lived as small, wandering groups, being socially shunned was akin to a death sentence. Those social groups were vital to survive, and so being alone was almost a guarantee that you wouldn't last long. So over millenia, a high sensitivity to social norms and social expectations evolved to connect a reaction of disgust with behavior we viewed as "outside social acceptability". So "Cringe" could just the modern incarnation of this "social survivalist" evolved behavior.
@@icecreamaddictroxasisn't that like an instinct that if someone does something weird or acts weird even for views in social media are a sign of an unwell individual in the eyes of strangers. You don't wanna add ill individuals into your group if you don't want and the others to get sick. Just as how the rejected male lions form their own group after being thrown out of a pride.
This sounds about right. I should also add that we humans are social creatures, and interaction is very important to us. When we have that many negative interactions with other humans, it can cause serious emotional and psychological damage, causing problems with self confidence, social anxiety, and possibly isolating oneself to shut them off from the negative experiences (which unfortunately also shuts them off from positive interactions as well)
honestly I think more people should share cringe. Everyone act as if they are on a high horse, but they are just as cringe or socially awkward as others
Every single happy relationship has tiny personal quirks which, if exposed to the public, would be unimaginably embarrassing. If you disagree with this I doubt you've been in any serious loving relationships. To post it online however IS cringe and deserved ridicule at most - not death threats from lonely bitter assholes online.
@@TehAnimationSparxx i'd say seeing other people's relationships is entirely cringe, although many think it's cute these guys probably thought they were still in the "most people are gonna think it's cute" territory
that relationship cringe is not "cringe" it's faking being in love and wanting to show off because you're not happy amongst yourselves, while at the same time being like "oh you know why we love each other more than any couple in the world and why we're better than you?" it's that le xd quirky attitude mixed with "im so much better thaan all yall" that's so infuriating you know how i know its not real? me and my girl are even more cringe than this but we dont post it online.. cause we're not degenerate attention seeking little bitches
First one was a bit weird, but ultimatly harmless. I can't be mad. But the second, while a bit silly, is super wholesome. They seem to love each other very deeply, and it's sort of sad how people will just get mad at other people being happy. It's just pathetic.
For the first one, hate started coming in cause the creator herself made a racist comment against a black person. What did the black person do to get such response? They simply said "The girl in the back is me, I am the girl in the back". I was hoping Charlie would comment on this but he prob did not notice.
Yeah, I don't feel cringe on that 2nd clip. It's silly and wholesome. But then again, this is the internet, where lonely and disgusting rock dwellers feed and spit horrible stuff like they're projecting their insecurities. Twitter being the obvious example
I believe in the notion that you should keep shit you wouldn't show a group of random people you just met on the street away from the internet all the same. While it was wholesome, posting on twitter makes it a free for all for EVERYONE to see. Just send that shit to your friends, or family, even in a gc or a facebook group. While I don't condone online bullying, people who still naively think they can publicly post anything online and not expect at least one person to be a complete asshole about it is a recipe for disaster. Even your comments and mine are welcome to some asshole just strolling into this thread, not adding anything to the conversation and saying some vile shit like wishing harm upon us. It sucks, but it's what happens and you really can't fully control what everyone else does without infringing upon their own rights to express themselves. It's up to you to set up your expectations properly, and if you think what you're about to post is a bit more enticing for such douche-y people, then I don't think you should continue and just keep that shit in your own personal circle.
The love surge one was a bit goofy, but it's so cute that they are so comfortable with each other that they can share their relationship online. I hope the couple continue to have a healthy and goofy relationship! It's so wholesome and cute :3 Also that silly screech is freaking iconic
You know, with the first clip it's quite fascinating. She's not doing anything to harm or bother anyone and yet simultaneously being insufferable. Edit: "Schrodinger's Annoyance" was evidently used incorrectly so I removed it. Yes I am an idiot, you may now laugh at me.
It's cringey and weird and hurting no one I agree. What I don't agree with is how vitriolic people get because there is a computer screen between them.
I think part of the reason why cringe is so unforgivable on the internet is the fact that people see it happen whereas in the case of people doing heinous shit, they generally do it off camera and people have this compartmentalization where if they didn't see it it didn't happen.
There is a lot of heinous shit that gets done on camera as well but I think the big difference is actually that with heinous shit, you don’t want to publicly share that. I mean some people do but if it is genuine awful stuff and you’re now making other people see it, you’re just kind of seen as an asshole. Not so much so for spreading “cringe” content. I mean some people can call you mean spirited and judgemental but that’s a much smaller thing and a lot less people are going to say about it
The fact that out of nowhere he gained reverb because of how majestic his voice is stuns me
Imagine if by some miracle he would sing the Halo theme right then and there
@thijmen5295 who wouldn't pay to hear something as majestic as the halo theme being done all by Charlie's voice?
i thought i was tweaking
He reached enlightenment and became ethereal
facts
Charlie’s beatboxing actually acted as a safeguard from the cringe. Thank you, Charlie.
the first video was really just pure cringe. the second video was a somewhat wholesome cringe that you see gen x do all the time.
@@mymop4422 Gen X would never, you take that back! Surely you mean Gen Z.
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He really is MC Sledge
Reminds me of the infomercial for the Dr. Pung
I love how the audio changes to make it feel like I'm in an empty auditorium. This was Charlie's TED talk about cringe and the was a perfect way to end the video.
Had to come in the comments to check...😅
Brooo
i was going to say that
Its actually from having two audio tracks play simultaneously. Was an accident 😂
@@AnthonysMeat Two simultaneous waveforms will cancel each other out or create a chorus if offset. This is clearly a reverb or delay effect. Its good practice to put a little reverb on any voice recording.. but here the mix has been cranked.
Its worse that her crying and showing that 'hey, im a real person who your needless cruelty hurt' was just...blood in the water.
Underrated comment....😂blood in the water!
the worst part is that she didnt learn her lesson. instead of quitting social media she just posted another video of her recording herself.
Being self aware is important 😂
@@TheSuperappelflapi mean, its just cring, it doesnt deserve hate so theres no “lesson” to be learned…
@kittymilkyyy there is. 1) social media is toxic.
2) you should probably not use it anyway because its bad for your mental health.
3) adults especially shouldn't be posting stuff like that like don't they have jobs and kids like actual normal adults? Too much time in their hands.
4) act like a cringe idiot you might get called out on it. Same goes for people who dress like freaks and then get offended when old people or whoever else stare at them. Same as people with face tattoos and that, if you look like a fuckinf weirdo expect weird looks. It's not right but the TRUTH is people judge you instantly based on appearance and demeanor and behaviour. So if you go on like a fuckin idiot or a cringe loud and out there twat, normal people will judge you.
hats off to charlie for overcoming his stage fright by having an amazing speech at the ending part of the video. truly an astonishing moment.
I gave a standing ovation after his deep tone projected “see ya.” And it echoed into the silent crowd
I jumped a little.
Every journey begins with one step.
How the hell does this stuff end up at the top lol
@@GEROKII bc it's freaking hilarious
I play these videos as background noise to help me fall asleep, but Charlie saying that subjecting people to cringe could be considered an act of terrorism made me laugh myself awake
better than a podcast
Oh my so I am not the only one
Got me 2
same here lol. i've been doing this for months and my mom is tired of hearing his voice in her sleep lmaooo
i can't sleep without his videos fr
It's been theorised that we evolved to find embarrassment so unbearable because in the past, being ostracised by your tribe was literally a death sentence. Cringe is second-hand embarrassment, so we simultaneously feel both the pain of imagining being them, and also the desire to publicly reject them, so as to make it clear we are not in their group and do not condone their behaviour.
That's actually a good theory about why people hate cringe
No, there's an easier explanation. A mux of boredom, privilege and dumbness in a lot of people
I've never thought about that before, that's a pretty interesting theory.
Oy vey
@@curious_O_oNo, his theory is way better than yours because it was actually cringe of you to use privilege in this context. Now you shall be exiled from the tribe. Take your cringe to mother nature.
"If there's one thing the internet hates more than cringe, it's weakness." Well said.
Humans in general are Spiteful to "the weak" just look at american schools.
If society had less boundaries, it would be just like school. Bullies picking on nerds, the freak of the class being sent to the corner, teachers being willingly ignorant to the runt of the class being the most picked on, the youth getting assaulted by the edlest ect.
6:00 I honestly feel really bad for her since she was self aware of the cringe and didn’t mind the light hearted jokes. None of these miserable people would say stuff like that in person
Yeah same bro it was cringe but i feel for her considering how much hate she recieved
They're so sad and lonely that when they see someone in a happy loving relationship they start foaming at the mouth
U should give her a love surge
That's pretty much how I go about being online, if I wouldn't say it to someone's face I'm not typing it. Being mean online is more cringy than doing a love surge, and that's saying something
I got a fortnite ad after clicking on your time stamp, the ad was more cringe than the actual clip
The funny thing is that Charlie really has a point. Like Colleen got a lot of hate for being a pedo but I really feel like no one would’ve paid attention to her if she didn’t make the cringey apology video.
She isn't a pedo
Have you not seen anything online @@wonowreed5924
@@wonowreed5924 She groomed minors. What about that isn't pedophilic?
u said WHAT now?!?!?! do u even know anything about what happened @@wonowreed5924
@@wonowreed5924 Erm..! 😀
"I am cringe but I am free" is such a true statement. If I stumble across a cringey video, I just skip it and move on w my day. It's the people that leave hate comments / death threats who are the problem. Of course if you post anything on the internet you are subjected to backlash but nobody deserves that much hate for a silly video imo.
“I am cringe but I am free” saved me so much secondhand and firsthand embarrassment at totally normal or harmless things
Nah if you wanna post stuff like that for clout be prepared for the shitty reactions you are gonna get. It just is what it is. I'm hoping that eventually if the backlash is big enough people will stop acting like goofy fucks. I don't go outside because of people that do cringey shit.
@@adamdoran1398yet you choose to post cringe on the internet instead
true
@@adamdoran1398 your videos are literally bad, my boy 💀
Just assume the internet is a conglomerate of all your toxic exes, toxic mother in laws, toxic father in laws, and toxic bosses and any other toxic person you ran into. Don't ever show vulnerability to them. Keep your love surge in a safe zone.
That's actually a very accurate way of depicting the internet. The majority people are not "good" and have many toxic traits. Being online demonstrates that perfectly.
This is the 11th commandment now
@@shatteredscrythou shalt keep your love surge in thy safe zone
charlie makes me happier than a stack of eating pancakes, and I love eating pancakes
I didn't ask, but I made a Hilarious video of a woman crying about her dog being put to sleep because I make superior content 😂 ✨️..
I didn't ask, but I made a Hilarious video of a woman crying about her dog being put to sleep because I make superior content 😂 ✨️. .. .
I didn't ask, but I made a Hilarious video of a woman crying about her dog being put to sleep because I make superior content 😂 ✨️. . .
@CrazyCrewM8no you are not loser
pancakes
I feel like uncontrollable disgust is an involuntary and valid reaction to cringe. But you know what is super cringe ? Being the person who threatened the love surge lady.
Yeah, agreed. 😢poor love surge lady.
That broke my heart seeing her cry.
Ok pedo
@@Crazywaffle5150lmao yall weird
@@MasterAlpha1000what the actual fuck is wrong with you lmao
the thin line between cringe and cool is sincerity. if a different video of someone genuinely becoming happy for pancakes may go viral because its so natural and sincere. when someone creates a fake scenario and acts excited it becomes so cringe. (for the record i thought both were weird and a little cringe because they seems disingenuous) take for example that skating guy with the cranberry juice. it went viral cuz it was just so sincere and relatable and not trying too hard, if at all. hell its why charlies content is so good.
It's the huge fake smile that makes it creepy-cringe to me. Psychopath behavior, idk.
Its the creating a weird and unnecessary scene in public that people hate. Same thing goes for these kids doing dancing videos in retail stores and acting like its their god given right
Sorry, but there is nothing about that that is natural or sincere.
i think anime kinda proves this point, the scared character saying they aren't gonna lose is cringe, but the fully focused, intense stare character saying the same thing is really cool
fake smiling is "psychopath behaviour"!? bro look at yourself, that's the most deranged shit commenting on this!
I hate how normalised it is that wishing someone to kill themselves or even to be raped is.
It’s absolutely disgusting and I wish all anonymous accounts would show the user’s name and face after they make such vile comments.
Its not normal, its just very prevalent on the internet
That’s not normalized… hang around better people…
It hasn’t been normalized.
@@matthewjones39It most definitely has been normalized. Don’t defend this behavior. 🙄
@@matthewjones39 except whenever someone says they’ve been getting threats online people say that they’re being too sensitive and that threats are just something that they need to get used to receiving online because “welcome to the internet”. You’re kidding yourself if you really don’t think it’s been normalized.
I love how he went up on stage towards the end and gave out the final speech in the microphone, what a true man
LOL I thought something happened to my comp - this comment is hilarious
It’s like the ending to every episode of Seinfeld
i was thinking the same
Bro I thought my speakers were messed up. Thanks for confirming I am not crazy.
@@CantTellYou Me too
we may have had to sit through torturous amounts of cringe, but at least we got to hear charlie’s amazing beatboxing skills to help us through
I didn't ask, but I made a Hilarious video of a woman crying about her dog being put to sleep because I make superior content 😂 ✨️.. .
sorry about the bots
better than eminem
God the bots in here.😢😢
Cringe.
I can’t believe how powerful Charlie’s voice was in the last 30 seconds. It echoed throughout not only his room, but my entire house.
I thought I was the only one who went trough that since i barely saw any comment on it :')
@@kizanko I was looking for a comment about it just to make sure I haven't lost all of my sanity
I know right... how cringe of him to go full god mode like that 😂
@@RattyScorpionholy shit im so glad I’m not the only one im high asf and im chilling and I swear I was like I’m not that high wtf is going on 💀💀💀
i started looking around my room like wtf LOL
Man that woman crying really made me sad
same
Me too man, it's so fucking tragic
Stop lying
I know bro I thought it was wholesome because they seemed genuinely happy to just shoot a video and be silly. However, if it’s cringe and fake then I’m like “alright whatever dude” then scroll past it.What kinda normal person looks at that and is like “alright time for me to make someone cry”?!
This is sad but unsurprising. In the old days we committed cringe but it was forgotten in five seconds. Nowadays one gaff will have you branded a pariah forever. Stay safe out there people
Very true! Best wishes to you and your family in these trying times
@@alexrobertson191My family is doing alright but thank you for your concern
@CrazyCrewM8dont care bc ur worse lol
@@alexrobertson191 Although if UA-cam don't take care of these goddamn BOTS soon I may not be alright
@@waterbottles393 greg
It's not just the cringe itself that riles people up, but a twisted kind of herd mentality. People love to hate on the same thing, because it gives them a sense of community, while also giving them an outlet for their negative emotions without having to fear any individual consequences.
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Idk sometimes when I see (in person) people doing "cringey" dances for internet clout, it makes me upset not out of herd mentality but out of the exact opposite, I don't want to associate myself with things I don't understand lol
@@skylerbaby99yea op speaking for himself lol I've seen plenty of cringe shit that nobody else saw and I didn't feel the need to tell anyone else
well said
my weesnaw standin up & spittin yogurt rn
kinda wild how anytime a woman even mildly annoys people online with something like giving a spouse a cringe hug the response is literally always people wanting to "SA" her.
Ok, can someone please explain to me what SA is?
@@ForTheLoveofTVOfficial se*ual assault
@@ForTheLoveofTVOfficialsexual assault
@@ForTheLoveofTVOfficialSexual Assault
@@ForTheLoveofTVOfficialsexually assault
Dropping a Halloween costume and not selling a plain white t shirt with it is literally disgusting.
not sure why your misusing the word literally but ok.
@johnnycash578
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@@johnnycash578and misusing disgusting
I feel so bad for the "love surge" lady. The absolutely insane things that people will say to actual people over the internet is truly unbelievable. She definitely wasn't ready for all that, she's too wholesome.
That aint wholesome its cringe
But the hate speech is bad
@@rookapooka4873 I didn’t say what she did was wholesome, I said SHE was too wholesome. There’s a difference there.
I think she needs to do a lot of work on herself if comments from stangers on the internet can bring her to tears. Like I get it, the comments can be annoying and shocking, but those are people who have no idea who she is, she will never meet them; 99% of them are lonely, depressed, and probably one negative life experience away from taking themselves out.
She expects everyone to love/accept everything she does, but thats just not how the world (especially the internet) works.
I don't lmao it's the Internet which is no suprize😂
I assume she also had a lot of positive comments as well but she was too upset to see those.
The "love surge" couple gave me a flashback to when I was like 15 and wrote my bf at the time a happy 1 year anniversary comment on fb and it was pretty cringe and super like "IDC WHAT THEY SAY OUR LOVE WILL LAST FOREVER" kinda deal. And I got home from school and a bunch of family was visiting and I could hear them all laughing in the living room as my older, cooler cousin was reading my comment out loud to the entire family and making jokes and laughing at me. I don't think I ever posted on fb again after that and was really really upset, but I can't even imagine what it would feel like if it was the entire internet making fun of me instead of just my entire extended family.
F*CK em. I wish folks had tougher skin, it's not a disparagement I hope you understand that, but if folks were tougher they could ignore the absolute idiocy of other people. Be harder inside and ready to do things that need done.
exactly...I feel terrible for her. they didn't hurt anyone yet she's getting comments like she killed 15 children
@@slimely9758 It's just really sad that this happens so often that I'm not as shocked as I should be that this happened. It's appalling but definitely not surprising unfortunately.
I feel like love makes you blind from cringe which is why the typical couple can commit a lot of cringe publically
I'm sorry :(
I think cringe can be pretty much described as “doing things in public (or online) that the average person wouldn’t, or if they did, would feel embarrassed by”
Well said, I agree
I don't think you're wrong, but now think about how neurospicy, especially autistic peeps, have to function. When emotions are legit too strong to handle, so you have a physical reaction, like flapping your hands or dancing before getting your fav food.
And we, as a society, shame people for it, cause it's cringe.
To feel cringe is to project one's own insecurities. The world would be such a better place if people weren't so stuck up all of the time.
@@auxome8280 You're so right.
@@auxome8280 cringe
How braindead and discontent with your own loneliness do you have to be to wish death upon someone just for being a lunchroom couple?
Yes, the people wishing death on them are even sadder and worse than grown adults posting lame ass videos on social media. Which is already super fuckin lame and pathetic. Don't they have jobs, kids, a fuckin house to try and keep clean?
The same as who posted that
@@HenriTomaz they are dorks. Who really cares that they posted some dorky shit? Don't watch it.
People need to be taught to realize when all content they happen by is not for them. Message boards worked a lot better than the unending feed of content that is supposedly "tailored for you."
@@newfiejesus Yeah, now it's just a competition to scroll till you find something that makes you happy/angry and say something about it
To be honest, I was thinking myself "Oh my gosh, SO DAMN CRINGE" while feeling literal disgust at the start of the video, but the moment I saw her crying my damn heart broke. If she is not bothering anyone, we should learn to just accept that we are all cringey at some moment and no one deserves an emotional beating like this for literally nothing.
Ive seen way worse than a love surge that’s such a weak reason to send a death threat not condoning it just phrasing a statement weird
She made Millions of people uncomfortable for a couple of seconds and those millions of people made her uncomfortable for a couple of seconds as well, It was a fair trade.
I was forced to watch it and trust me bucko it was much longer than a few seconds. Time slows down in tragic moments like that but you have to have a very high intellect to understand.
Dude why she crying over sum hateful internet comments, then making a video about it and then even uploading it ☠☠☠
Its pathetic and idiotic as hell.
If it really bothered that woman so much she couldve just deleted the video and moved on, or deleted the account to avoid the oh so harmful internet comments
And besides, its her fault anyway. Too dumb to think of the possible consequences of uploading something like this and uses tiktok.
That aside the people posting hateful comments that exceed simple clowning goes too far and doesnt make em any better than the person posting the cringe.
Thank god i dont use social media appart from youtube. Im largely spared of such bs.
@@deadlyrobot5179 They didn't make her uncomfortable though they made her cry they obviously took the video too seriously based on the kind of comments she got so its not the same at all and you are insane if you think so.
I love how this went from someone who’s cringe who we can laugh at and then something that makes me feel horrible for the person.
I didn't ask, but I made a Hilarious video of a woman crying about her dog being put to sleep because I make superior content 😂 ✨️...
dude how many bots are in charlies comment section
@@p-__ npc ass dude
@@theebagmansfirst warning
@@theebagmans a lot
I think we react to cringe so strongly because it's so relatable. when someone does something actually awful, there is more often a layer of disconnect (being that you have never been the victim or the abuser in a situation so it doesn't hit you as hard)
Cringe, is within us all and no one likes to have that mirror forced in front of them by someone else. so we repeal from it like it's mustard gas. That's my theory at least
Agreed, it's like second-hand embarassment. You feel for them, and being embarrassed is not an enjoyable feeling.
well said.
i also think it's an instinct to repel something that's different. it's survival almost. back in the day we would probably sacrifice cringelords for disrupting the order. when someone does something horrible/cruel they hide it usually. deny it. etc. cringe just comes out in public.
Glad those from r/iamverysmart made it here.
Thanks for the meta cringe.
your cringe detector must be broken my friend. might want to get that checked.@@austintyler7901
@@austintyler7901 being a redditor or mentioning reddit is cringier than pretty much anything.
I'm tired of this whole cringe thing. And not for the reasons of "it made me feel gross"
There's cringe, and then there's just *being* people. The love surge girl was just posting about her relationship, she's happy in her relationship. She made something with her partner and loved it so much she wanted to share it...there's nothing cringy about that, it makes me happy to see people confident enough to post happy stuff like that. People hating on her are honestly sad and pathetic and unhappy about their single lives.
Audio going crazy 11:35
Speaking from the heaven
I was thinking the same thing
Man, I am in the can right now and I am blowing out the toilet. Oh my God it's crazy in here
Being annoyed or mad at something cringe isn’t a big deal as long as you keep it to yourself. However, expressing your hate by making fun of them or worse, sending death/r@p3 threats to somebody just being themselves is the real "unforgivable cringe".
Beiing cringy is also not a big deal as long as you keep it to yourself. I, too, do cringy shit with my girlfriend but guess what? It ain't in the internet for everyone to see. They brought this upon themselves.
@@SteveDice21 I think we can all agree we saw it coming and sure it ain’t right but we saw it coming.
@@SteveDice21not really, just because someone is cringe doesn't mean they literally brought death threats and worse to themselves
making fun of is quite funny. But all that extreme stuff send by thousands of people is insane.
@@strawberrycrepesss you are welcoming everyone's response by posting on the internet it doesnt matter what that response is you are welcoming it. everyone wants to be on the internet but not everyone can handle it
I love how near the end of the video, Charlie's true form begins to awaken as his voice echos in power.
It was gods message from the divine vessel himself.
Yes it was very echo at the end.
fuck me i thought my headset was going nuts
I jumped, thinking my audio was playing outside of my headphones lol
It’s Jesus himself preaching the dangers of cringe at church.
The "love surge" thing actually made me mad.
It may have been a bit cringy, but at the end of the day, it was just a couple having a moment.
Unlike the "hangryness" woman, who used the shot of the woman behind her to get even more views, and exposed her to lots of hate, as if she was some sort of tool.
They’re all narcissists.
Charlie's true voice shined through at the last 30 seconds of the video. His voice is so powerful and true that it echoes in even the most decorated rooms
lmao I was trying to figure out if I accidentally enabled a setting on my keyboard
It was like receiving a message from Jebus himself.
Idk who does his audio but it’s consistently bad lol
@@user-do5iq7hk7g same dude my cat walked across mine and i was like what just happened?😂
same
Charlie is so right. Noticed that phenomenon too with many basically wholesome things being cringey and then people would go as hard as wishing death upon others. It's sad honestly.
That quote is very right about anonymity bringing out the real face is so right.
As long as she's not somehow interrupting my meal by being too loud or like way to excited, then idgaf and no one should gaf if they are happy dancing when they get their food. Like bro, I'm going to do a happy dance if I want to, and you will not stop me from doing it. Lol
The people sending the death threats were probably single losers tbh. The video was cringy but also sweet if you've ever had moments like that with someone else.
@@bored_potatoThey’re not mad that she’s happy, they’re annoyed at how fake it is. There’s a difference. Obviously the ones sending threats are unhinged.
@Nezxmi I mean just cause they scripted it doesnt mean its fake. It could just mean they rehearsed that for a video but truly practice what they preach. People just dont like seeing other people happy when they themselves arent imo
I hate that we as a society let abusers and terrible people of all sorts flourish without a second thought then tell people who got a little silly to kts💀
It really should be the other way around. Though I don’t condone harassment and individuals who have done horrible things should be processed properly, promptly, and professionally to be punished under the law, I wouldn’t shed a tear or lose a single wink of sleep if a large amount of people bullied murderer or pedophile until they lost their mind.
No, you're not putting that on me just because you let avusers and terrible people flourish.
Fr I also don’t condone harassment but out of all the cringe tik toks why did they go after the kinda wholesome ones instead of some extreme anime cringe(should prob add nothing wrong with anime but it is very well known for its cringe)
Its weakness. A happy person is easy to tear down. An unhappy person is difficult to lift up. They're lazy and apathetic to empathy.
@@hazyhalfmoonlol, you do certainly have a point. Half of the problem is the Internet is international, and people are nothing if not tribal.
The most tiktok thing about all this is that when she was crying because people made her feel bad for something completely harmelss, they just doubled down on it and kept insulting her.
What's interesting is that I bet if the lady doing the happy dance at the pancakes wasn't filming herself, but someone caught her doing it without the expectation of being recorded, the internet would have probably responded differently.
Yeah, that's because part of the cringe is the performative and (percived) insincere nature of it; she's acting like that to get attention. If she was doing it herself that would just be her expressing herself in a weird but harmless way.
@@Abhorrence353 i really wouldnt put it past some people (not saying she is doing it necessarily pls dont hate) to even upload the second video knowing people will hate watch and comment to get traction and more views.
@@LPLimbosyeah that might be true
@AbhorrenceSA this the most important Twitter debate fr
How so? I think it'd still be the same with ppl on both ends defending or attacking her very passionately
Honestly when Charlie said that when someone makes us cringe we hold it against them forever, that makes sense to me. Think about it, what happens more randomly to you: remembering something that made you sad/upset, or something that made you cringe? I think with most emotions they often come and go, but cringe somehow sticks to us like a thorn in our brain
Im of the opposite mind. Anger sticks to me far more readily than cringe.
I rarely stay angry for more than an instant, a flash of indignation. Honestly I kinda wish I could hold onto to that feeling a bit longer if only to use it productively.
On the other hand, I still cringe at my memories going back to fluffing kindergarten 😂
I think it's about the second hand embarrassment how you can never seem to forget embarrassing things that you did or happened to you even when its someone else the embarrassment still sticks.
@@stillcantbesilencedevennowtherapy can help you with this my friend.
@@warlordofbritanniait’s healthier to just process what you feel & turn it into a solution anyway. being stuck in emotions is childlike
Imagine being so unbelievably touch-starved and pathetic that you'll send _death threats_ to random strangers online because they're expressing their love for their partner....
Agree I think a lot of it especially with that video. Is that while it is cringy, it makes people who are bitter about love angry. Because they themselves are very lonely. So it’s not so much the cringe but jealousy.
They’re slimy basement dwellers
Exactly! I thought it was sweet. Let people do wtf they want to do. Being cringy, embarrassing, and doing stupid shit is a part of being human. For every cringy thing you do, billions of other people have done the exact thing so LET IT GO. live your life. Embrace the cringe.
@@treesoul00yeah thats what I thought, shes going to be looking at him with disgust in a year or so. Hes even stood there like a toddler
I am incredibly touch starved and it didnt really cause much of a reaction from me so I think they have something else wrong
the love surge is adorable, just look at how happy they were while doing it
I agree 🩵 Regardless of whether it's cringe or not, it's wholesome. I'd rather see more videos of that nature than hear about someone committing a crime for clicks, or a crypto scam...
No. It's awful. But I do pity her.
The “love surge” is a really sweet, adorable thing for them to share between the two of them. I would never share so much of the intimate little inside jokes I’ve formed while flirting.
Yes. It is sad that they have now lost this special thing between them since it’s been tarnished by malicious people.
It's completely fine for them to enjoy that between them in privacy, it's not something you're supposed to share with others outside the relationship
I can already see the couple having a messy and public breakup through social media
I would not be caught sharing something like that on social media. I'm sorry, but it just looks like creepy new age shit. Like just feels wrong looking at it.
Yeah, I think people tend to forget that something can be a little cringy but also really harmless too. Sweet, even. It does come off a little as tiktok culture, but it made them happy. And when something "weird" makes people happy in private, then they shouldn't be judged for it.
We did it reddit, we made a woman cry cus she loves her husband and wanted to share some of her goofy things she does
There’s a reason I left that bloody sight
Edit: I mean site, not sight
she thought it was gonna come out different i really feel bad
Very Reddit thing to do ngl.
Hey dont be stupid she was stupid
@@Mellyburr yeah it's terrible. she defo is like some small time creator and thought her tiny viewer base would agree with her and share the same sentiment. definitely never expected the video to blow up this much and then the threats... seeing her cry made me tear up. she's just sharing her love even if it's cringey, no one deserves to be bullied into tears like that 😢
i like how you're saying the staff is "EXPOSED" to her like she is some radioactive sludge that if you get too close you'll get horribly disfigured
Actually that is the case
@@brodiewolf3835lol no
I mean it’s just unnecessary clout chasing, in a public space
@@benthelenderyeah she really could have been cringey at home but that wouldn't bring in views would it.
Well duh. Tiktok users are the pure cancer to society
The love surge one?
My lights flickered when they "exploded"
it was definitely cringe
It was satire
It was contagious
I almost died watching that
The fact he reverbed the last few seconds shows he’s truly unpredictable now
He's speaking from heaven. He's starting the rapture soon. Moistcr1tikal is starting a rapture!
I just got a new bed, I'm not ready for heaven! 🌮😭😭
It was god giving his words holy meaning
@@KevinBelmontLuna RUMBLING!
ermm… actually that’s echo and not reverb 🤓☝️
It’s so shameful how the internet makes people completely lose their humanity. That couple didn’t deserve any of those disgusting comments but it’s such an issue for the world to just let people be happy even if they look goofy doing it
It's because those don't hide thoughts when they are anonymous online I bet.
This is the definition of the sketch situation people hate him for just doing something weird privately
there is a serious problem with social media where we seem to forget we're interacting with real people. love surge lady is not just some embarrassing video, she is a real actual human being with thoughts and feelings. but social media has conditioned us to view other people as concepts, ideas, pure amusement. it's disgusting. so many people feel good about themselves after sending literal death threats to people because they've stopped actually viewing them as _people._ seeing her cry meant nothing to them because they're so desensitized to the emotions of others they just don't care.
Goes too far too easily indeed
I agree! Especially since nowadays people think that since their online they won’t be called out on in real life. This fuels them to keep bullying other people since the internet hides their identity (like what Penguinz0 said, it makes them feel their superior since they are anonymous.)
bruh how we know it wasnt all deep faked
im jk
I'm actually glad that from 16-25 I actually had basically zero internet access. By the time I joined the online world I didn't get sucked into these nasty black holes of toxicity. 4chan for example - I completely missed that. MySpace, Twitter until the end stages, I just wasn't there haha
If you can't take the heat; stay out of the kitchen. No one made her post that video
Much appreciation to charlie. Even though he got sent back to heaven for a bit, he still manage to record the last few minutes of this video up there for us.
This joke hasn't been funny for any of the 70 fandoms that did it.
@@PoshrielUsing the term "fandom" automatically makes you an L
@@vikodens Nah, you're just upset that the stupid joke you like is being called out for what it is. Some overused copy/paste people have been using for the last 4 or 5 years.
@@Poshrielcalm down vincen no need to be so mad
no snollyghoster he means that he was in heaven for only the last few minutes of the video, aS you can hear everything he says echo, in the last few minutes, sounding like he is in heaven or something. @@Poshriel
I believe the girl dancing in public about food is cringe. But sending sa threats and death threats for two people in love isn’t okay. It’s disgusting.
They were still cringe and it wouldnt have been bad to get clowned on for it, but they took it way too far.
I mean death threats and sa threats are just bad no matter the level of cringe
Yeah the death threats are not funny. It's hilarious.
@@KEKW-lc4xi The death threats themselves are not hilarious. Imagining your miserable lonely life of failure that LED you to make death threats to a happy couple? Now THAT is hilarious.
They’re not death threats, these people aren’t threatening to kill them, they’re wishing death upon them. Very different.
Bro, you got so analytical on cringe I HAD TO look this up lol!
"The feeling of cringe is a personal, empathetic embodiment of embarrassment that someone else is experiencing - but it's rooted in bodily survival instinct. “Cringing is essentially a mechanism to deter us from behaving in ways that risk us losing status or gaining the negative judgement of others,”
Hmm makes sense why I don't cringe. Status and judgement amongst idiots does not impress me nor does it feel like a valid goal.
@@lucky6666 calm down sigma cringe.
@@seancarter6492 you disgust me.
@@lucky6666 oh I'm the furthest thing away from giving a shit 😆. It's adorable that you think I'd care, however.
@@seancarter6492 if u dont care why be so combative and insulting doesn't make sense to me
"Why is cringe the worst thing you can do online as a content creator?" Because lots of content consumers are teenagers who, by cosmic law, will spend this phase of their lives obsessing over how others see them. They hunger for attention yet live in constant fear of ~being embarrassed~ Only the humiliation of their peers can truly sustain them. Some teens never grow up, instead taking the form of insecure internet goblins who feed on the tears of cyberbullied children.
Well said. And those "lost boys" are the cringiest beings of all
That was a grown ass woman dancing over pancakes 😒 a 5 year old absolutely a 10 year old ok but anything older than that is just....no
@@Luis-sz7tn she was literally just having fun. i’m sure her target audience were not cringe thirsty teenagers and was probably for the middle aged moms who watched it thought it was funny. it’s crazy to me how you cannot understand the concept of humor in different generations. please grow up.
@@savannah6508 .-. How bout he acts her age? Since you want to talk about growing up leave that shit to the kids and eat your fucking pancakes too many people doing same shit online
@@savannah6508 talk about growing up look at your pfp .-.
Regarding the second woman, I'll say that social media just hates happy relationships in general. A couple can post something as innocuous as watching a movie together and they'll still receive a wave of extreme hate
Some people are just so lonely and terminally online that the slightest sign of enjoying life is the greatest sin possible in their eyes
That's what I thought as well;
a lot of people on the Internet simply cannot stand anything that is the opposite of pure hate, so they get disgusted and offended by technically wholesome videos.
Pretty much this, disgust with happiness. And if it’s a little too embarrassing or vulnerable, they get their chance to jump on it and tear it down for dopamine.
No, it's that normal well adjusted people don't understand the incessant need to share your life with the rest of the world. It's pretentious and it seems so disingenuous. Why are you desperately seeking validation from strangers on the internet
@yaboifrixx
Ur getting the whole slideshow lil bro 😭🙏
Very true
For the ‘love surge’ woman. Even if it was cringe, those disgusting genetic anomalies on the internet shouldn’t be that heartless and cruel to someone who clearly was just trying to express how much they love their partner to the world. And she shouldn’t have been sent those messages for it.
Theres nothing wrong with being cringe or feeling cringe. There is somethinf wrong with harassing and bullying someone for being cringe. That couple, while cringey, didnt deserve all those disgusting threats being made about them.
Yeah, like it's one thing commenting something like "haha so cringe" instead of literally sending death threats.
@@AmericanMuscle93Thanks for reinforcing that the internet sucks. Sorry but that’s no excuse for being toxic.
Agreed, it's like feeling cringe/second hand embarrassment about furries/weeb cosplay role playing irl. Yes it's cringe but wishing death upon them is a show of the persons mental insecurity. imo
@@AmericanMuscle93 Here comes edgelord93.
There is a problem with being cringe, it makes everybody uncomfortable. But it definitely isn’t an open invitation to tear into somebody.
Not only can Charlie make our days better, the man can beatbox his way to our hearts
Charlie beatboxes better than some shitty rappers today and that's sad
@taap.on.my.pic790 Quickly commenting early in the video to make top comment in time. Cringe.
As someone who is single and not all that happy about - Those single-people couple-haters are some of the most miserable, bitter, and pathetic people I’ve ever seen in my life. Like, I like mocking cringey love posts, ‘the fall photoshoot’, and those clearly over-acted couple posts as much as the next person, but the fact that some people go out of their ways to insult/belittle the couple themselves, or make the posts all about themselves and their problems, is just sad.
Literally found one guy who said that ‘all couple-posts are just flexing on single people. They’re all terrible’ as if they were doing it PERSONALLY to go out of their way to make him feel bad by being happy together online. Just go offline, get a life, and deal with your own issues
But I'm sure you rather be single if it could save you form making tictoks like that
first of all, 200/10 reply, I'm dying laughing.@@the.littlest.toaster
but to OP, @Cass6082 -- we have a name for those, its "terminally online"
@@the.littlest.toaster Obviously not all couples are like that dude
Yeah. Don't know why people feel the need to hate because they don't have love in their life
As someone who is very happy with being single, I find that people who hate love need to solve a personal issue. Yes, it’s valid being ace or aro, but it’s not valid to bash on couples.
I feel that Cringe is the same as any other emotion.
The reaction you give is what you feel about it, but like any other emotion, there is a spectrum of feelings. Some react extremely over cringe causing hatred. Others embrace cringe, thus cringe videos are made.
People are weird, even though we are unique, we all feel alone. This is why we tend to join groups, and communities, but end up joining groups inside of groups. Some try to be like others, others try to figure out who they are. Some realize what they are, and what part of the group they accept or associate with.
At the end of it all, we are all lost and seeking someone to be part of.
I was bullied growing up, and I always wondered if the bullies knew they were being the “bad guy” in the scenario. Like if you asked the people who write those awful comments to that poor girl if they are bullies, they’d probably say “no”. It’s odd how cruelty can just be considered ok in many people’s minds. They think they are being funny or that they aren’t really that bad, but they are completely wrong. Making fun of people who are doing no harm is cruel and can have life long impacts on the person you target. People need to grow up and be kind.
For the most part, bullies have villain logic. They either don't care about right and wrong, or they convince themselves that you committed a transgression by annoying them, possibly just by existing, so their bullying is retaliation. Some even think they're doing you a favor by helping toughen you up.
Sorry to hear you were bullied :/ hope life is better now for you 👍🫡
I hope you father gets cought cheating
Spoken like a true bully victim.
@@Haha_im_losing_my_mindsorry please explain if I misunderstood that but is it not bullying if they do that to everyone how I understood it the way you said was they are a prick to everyone I don’t get it
Genuinely, I believe that couple has a lot of love for each other. That's great for them, I absolutely love that. Never show the internet that. The internet can be hateful as all get out. Sometimes, it's warranted, but most times it's this
@@p-__you don't deserve that Quack pfp.
Oh definitely!! That’s why somethings in relationships have to be kept in private. And although the love surge thing was maybe a little cute or whatever, it just feels way too awkward and cringey with an audience of any kind even if just one friend was witnessing it. Some things are just meant to be done and kept in private
I agree.
A lot of healthy couples who post things on the internet often expose themselves to very hurt or misguided people that love to wander the internet and project their very unhealthy views onto their posts.
For instance, many people on the internet cannot comprehend the idea of trusting your partner and the fact that cheating does not happen in every relationship. Or that some girls genuinely dislike the idea of cheating in general, they've been too hurt to acknowledge that not everyone is the same.
It's very bizarre when you've been exposed to many good and healthy relationships and see people genuinely believing they don't exist.
Nah, why tf are they showing the world we are single and their not
@@jaydenramirez4422 The sad thing is.. if this isn't just some kinda preformative skit and really something they do together
. . .by sharing it and having it associated with so much hateful reactions. . .they may have ruined it FOR EACH other.
also, all those people telling that woman all those horrible things are gross and empty. imagine being so lonely, sad, angry and void of humanity that your only way to "feel anything" is to be so horrible to a random stranger. that's pretty messed up. 🫤
Dean losing his entire political career over that scream is still one of the most insane things ever. How has there not been a 2 hour Netflix doc on it yet?!?
"Please Clap"...it's not the first, it won't be the last. Beto's entire "Almost had a political career".
His campaign was already failing before the scream. That was just the final nail in the coffin.
@@justinlast2lastharder749this was basically Trump's entire 2015 GOP primary strategy. He made everyone else on stage look like cringe lords until he was the last one standing.
@@donaldwobamajr6550 This. Maybe people had to have been there at the time, but it should be remembered that Dean, who had been polling 1st in Iowa (and in the whole race) for months, lost momentum at the end and came in 3rd place in the final tally; then he gave the "scream" speech to his Iowa crowd, after a disappointing finish, which is why people felt it was bizarre-after all, why would you give "victory speech" energy when you came in lower than expected? (Though, looking into the situation, the reason he seemed "too energetic" was actually because the media microphones weren't picking up the crowd's volume that he was shouting over, thus making him seem like he was shouting over near-silence.) Anyway, he didn't lose the nomination over that scream, because he arguably already lost his chance with that third place finish; while there's an argument that the media's over-replaying of that scream cost him New Hampshire the next week, the writing was already on the wall that Dean was done and Kerry/Edwards were the new front-runners.
The Dean scream was covered in another vid by Penguinz0, I don't know the name of the original video, but you can find clips of it in searching.
The second video made me feel so disgusted that I wanted to vomit. It triggered a memory that I didn’t even know I had and that I wish I could suppress again. I went through 15 minutes of reliving that memory and I’m crying while writing this. Even still, I think all the hate they got was uncalled for.
@@GrugTalks I was going to say it’s fine but it’s honestly not. Trying to distract myself by watching more of Charlie’s videos 🙂
This is something that genuinely makes me angry. Its also says something about the internet itself, and how much of a complete mess it really is. We have people like Dale Wilson getting away with so many stuff. Straight up doxxed people, and it was revealed that he dated a 17 year old girl when he was 29.
Yet, he seems to be more popular than ever because of his memes. While completely ignoring how narcissistic he really is.
Yet, people who are "cringe" at best are the ones that are practically canceled from existence. This kind of behavior is pretty disgusting to me.
It also reminds me of the sorbet incident. A lot of jerks form both Twitter and TikTok have harassed and doxxed the Japanese idol group into quitting social media entirely just because they thought they were cringe and attracting creeps. Hasanabi had also claimed that they were cringe, and even made fun of their idol group dances, accents, and stereotyping them as Korean.
Meanwhile, the same TikTok community that harassed some idol group of girls who just wanted to have fun would be the same community who would fall in love/idolize with Devon Erickson, the 2018 Colorado school shooter. They made tons of edits and videos begging for his freedom, despite being a convicted felon.
The fact that a homicidal maniac is cherished and loved, while 3 kindhearted idol girls get bullied into obscurity just shows how doomed we are as a society.
deal with it
Cry about it
@@jonathanfuentes3790you're weak
I think…you might be following the wrong people? I don’t follow anyone who idolizes ab*sers lolol that is a personal choice sir 😂 the circles you run in will support whatever narrative, you need to find the folks questioning that. Also Hasan might laugh at cringe but he’s critical of ab*sers, so you were confused when you used that comparison.
Nothing makes me smile more than Charlie saying "Wipe that smile off your face, Buster."
Do my music got potential?
so u are failing to follow the orders of an officer of the law? get that damn smile off ur face, buster, before i call the fun police
You know things are just too cringe when Charlie activates his echo skill to counter it
People are not responsible to internet. Whether it's cringe for likes or the horrible comments, social media was no doubt the worst thing to ever be invented. The only thing it did to bring us together was to collectively hate each other. That and it seems like all the worst people that are internet famous can say or do horrible things and nothing happens. They keep their platforms, they continue to be successful and no responsibility was taken. Social media is so toxic and I do not blame people for taking breaks and staying off of it completely
I hope that last woman is okay. Its shitty how all that stemmed from pretty much harmless cringe, yet also not really surprising bc the Internet can be the shittiest place to people who dont deserve it
So, the internet is actually no different from real life.
@@NealCamerlengojust enabling people a bit more because they can hide behind the screen. That's what makes it a lil different. Other than that yeah
Well the Internet can both be anonymous and faster spreading then if something happened in real life, which affects the victim as well as allowing the person to say whatever they like with not that many reproductions
@@BigfootRAHHH true
The thing about cringe, is that if you embrace it and not let it get to you, people will back off because they will realize it doesn’t bother you. The minute you are cringe and then get embarrassed by it, it will be the death of you.
Yup, gotta lean into it
"Don't kill the part of you that's cringe, kill the part of you that cringes"
In a world of sad people, happiness is uncomfortable, whether fake or genuine. I’ll never forget that video of those girls excited about the foam they bought, and how somehow that made every human being uncomfortable. They were being completely genuine. Enjoying life. And that makes the majority of people upset. Because they could never imagine themselves being so outwardly happy like that. The public element only amplifies it all.
Exactly, I feel like some people are just doomed to hate watching instead of actually thinking to themselves and acting critical. This is not unforgivable cringe, people are just banally hateful
its more like the fact she filmed it. theres nothing inherintly cringe about someone doing this in public, its the fact that she filmed it like a twat that makes people not like it. i hate people filming ever little bit of their lives, thats what is truly sad my dude.
@@rhyswhittington8759 then just dont watch it. what is truly sad is other people living their lives and not bothering you and you hating it.
It's not anger because "oooh, how dare they be happy IN MY SOCIETY!" It's aggravating because it's grown people acting like children with no sense of awareness or irony. "ZOMG FOAM" is middle-school humor that is annoying to be around in real life, and shaking so you get a huggy is five year old behavior and you shouldn't be proud of acting like a 5-year old as an adult. Don't try and make something so simple into a "society hates happiness" thing.
Inside high school “gym” class, it’s “embarrassing” to run the track. Only 5% do it, it’s really sad. Kind of off topic but still in the same category.
Some people are just so miserable that they can't understand how to be happy/confident and let other people be that as well. They need to take it out on others because they have no way to improve their own life. It's sad really.
"Weaponized cringe is some of the most potent, Geneva Convention violating warfare we have at our disposal" -Moist 2023
I came upon your comment right as he was saying it lmao
@@sickasfriksame lmfao
@@sickasfriksame 😂
@@sickasfrikI also came on this comment
@@p-__ I'll be the judge of that
Ive said it once, ill say it again. There is a THIN line between cringe and charisma. And if your cringe, there's no shortage of miserable people that will share their misery. Well said.
The sad part is where your actually happy and get the same crap with people, unhappy people want others to be unhappy themselves.
@@Tonsils-micman 100%
Only thing worse is being cringe AND miserable. It's a tough hole to get out of.
I think that what separates cringe from charisma is self confidence
i dont disagree but did you really just say "well said" to yourself?
I like that both of these situations were entirely harmless and just a little goofy. The reaction to them is the real cringe
That’s what I’m saying, the people that cringe often end being more unfunny or even more cringe than whatever they found cringe
What’s cringe is posting weird shit and expecting to NOT be made fun of. This isn’t about “cringe”. It’s just stupid content being made fun of, if you don’t want other people’s opinions, maybe try NOT POSTING YOUR LIFE ON THE INTERNET 😂 why do we live in an age where it’s the viewers responsibility to cater to the fragile emotions of stupid content creators. I’ve said this so many times in the past, you could have the most perfect relatable opinion on the planet and still gather hate if you post about it on the internet. Everything on the internet gets ripped apart, so in the case of these people getting roasted for acting like toddlers, Im completely unsurprised. This is the way the internet has been since before UA-cam, don’t want people to see your life and comment on it? Don’t post it to where everyone can see it and comment on it. “The reaction is the real cringe” no buddy, you just don’t understand how the internet works. No one is entitled to have their dumb actions praised
@@MrManatee101 not reading all that
@@ferretappreciator good you wouldnt be able to anyways you illiterate
@@MrManatee101 absolutely god damn right you are
There’a two types of cringe. There’s the “you should be embarrassed no matter what” type, then the “happy/playful/wholesome” type. The first one is inexcusable and is I feel like usually done on purpose, but I’ve seen it done unironically. It’s stuff like that alpha trend that happened a bit ago, or having Reddit/Discord mod energy. It’s usually stuff that makes you feel gross just watching it.
Then there’s the second type, which is usually done on accident. You could just be having a good time, and acting in a cringe-type way. Stuff like role playing, singing, early UA-cam videos, and anything that if you look back on, you’ll be in pain thinking about. This is more of the better type of cringe, it might be painful to watch or think about, but it’s not really ‘gross’. It’s people just having fun and being happy, which might end up being cringe, but it’s okay to do. You shouldn’t really be ashamed for it.
That first group completely deserve the shame in their cringe, no doubts about it. The second, not really. They shouldn’t be attacked for it, cause everyone’s done it somewhere in their lives. Remember that presentation in grade 7? Yeah, reflect back on that and tell me it wasn’t cringe. Do you want to be attacked for it? The pain of the cringe is already enough damage lol.
But seriously, don’t attack people who might seem cringe, but are just being happy. That second clip I honestly feel bad for, they just seemed really happy when they made it, and were completely attacked for it. Yeah, it’s definitely cringy, but it’s not like they’re hurting anyone with it. To threaten those things is absolutely disgusting, especially for a clip like that.
It’s a such high school behaviour, to think being mean- basically being a bully- is okay or funny but when it comes to embarrassment, that’s where the line is drawn. I guess because with being a bully comes power, embarrassment is literally the feeling of no power or control.
I don't even think that kids in high school still do, put these people in kindergarten 💀
The only lack of control in embarrassment is possibly the lack of control of your image. Other than that its a biiiig stretch to define embarrassment as "no power or control".
Its literally just being perceived as outside the social norm by failing to meet societal expectations in performance or behavior. And then the shame of being evaluated negatively by others. THAT'S what embarrassment is.
High school is still too mature. Middle school.
@@Scyborg832 yeah you’re right, in hindsight embarrassment doesn’t literally equate to no power. It just kind of feels like that in the moment. Yeah, loss of control over your image/ reputation is a good way to put it.
@@Lil_Yuri true
I think people hate cringe so much because it's so relatable. I imagine pretty much everyone can recall a time in their life where they had a cringe moment, and would like nothing more than to forget that it ever happened, whereas most of us probably don't have instances where we've committed actual heinous crimes against another person. Doesn't justify the reaction by any means, especially these people who are wishing harm, but maybe it clarifies why cringe kills a following, and being a disgusting human being doesn't.
Agreed. but kind of nice to know its not just me that stays awake at night thinking of the cringiest things ive ever done
Sometimes i get that hater feeling inside me where I get mad at people doing innocent but cringe things, but instead of letting those feelings win I acknowledge that the feelings are unreasonable and move past them instead of simmering in my own pointless bitterness. The internet really exposed how many miserabIe people exist in the worId and Im just gIad Im not one of them and dont know them
don't really understand getting mad, just complete cringe inside and slight disgust, then move on
honestly soeaking Ive gradually realised the cringe mofos are the happiest. I know I was when I was cringe 😭
Id argue the backlash is more cringe. Just let people do what they want yk. Ignore it.
@@Br0130 damn, i just realised. then wouldn't that mean those loser haters are just projecting because they know they cant be as happy as the cringy people?
Cringe
I vaguely remembered the Howard Dean scream, but I wanted a refresher, so I played it, and my cat literally got up and walked down his little cat stairs and left my bed. So it still works as a repellent to this day. I was laughing at it tho, I still think it’s funny. It’s goofy af, but I can’t believe it was enough to legit ruin him
Cringe is literally the ultimate weapon on the internet that isn't a crime. It's a weapon to use against someone, that if used properly, could kill someone's fanbase. The fact that cringe kills a fanbase quicker than literally admitting to unforgivable acts really does show off how the internet takes advantage of the fact that they're all anonymous. They'd rather be a fan of someone who has been accused of criminal offenses than someone who's just cringey.
A perfect example from both sides of The Moist Theory Of Cringe is a small man called Keemstar... He did many awful things, and it hardly affected him. The only thing that stopped him was a well-known pure cringe demonstration on that Adin Ross stream, and escalating the cringe level in every public appearance that followed.
He truly is both sides of the coin of The Moist Theory Of Cringe (hereafter shall be referred to as “TMTOC”)
TMTOC is a
no hate but what are you talking about
Yeah, the internet is a world where people worry more about false accusations than the actual 95% who do disgusting shit. And yes this is directed at men lowkey, because who else is wishing someone gets r4p3d or cheated on?😂
I mean 98% of the online personalities you all follow are indeed....cringe.
Man, sometimes it's nice to have those little couple moments and you do not need to share it with everyone. Humanity sucks, that lady seems like a genuinely sweet person and it's obvious she doesn't know a lot about posting content online from her reaction to it. I am happy she at least appears has a good relationship with whomever that dude was and hope they remain happy.
She's a tik tok user broadcasting what is meant to be private and personal for internet clout, she's not a good person.
honestly this comment deserves more love!
@@p-__K
@@lawdpleasehelpmenoat least she is not a republican
@@lawdpleasehelpmenowhat? She's making a small, short, video. a little cringey sure, but it literally hurts no one. People are just so judgemental for no reason, including you. She is not a bad person for broadcasting a funny video she figured other people would like. That's why everyone shares everything, is Charlie a bad person? Are you a bad person for sharing an opinion that should remain private and personal?
It’s almost been 20 years and the “b’yaww!” Is still so crisp in my mind lol. Concentrated, vintage cringe… damn near wholesome lol
I first heard about it from Dave Chappelle. Shit is so wild how it ruined him lol
what is "b'yaww!" ?
@@philholm9017 UA-cam “Howard Dean”
@@philholm9017my little innocent child you must revisit and study the archive of ancient meme cringe to understand
@@philholm9017my little innocent child you must revisit and study the archive of ancient meme cringe to understand
Imagine how happy the love surge guy is gonna be when he realizes how much better the yogurt slinger feels than shaking like you're having a mormon anxiety attack =o
It's amazing that Charlie graced us with a hint of his divine power towards the end of the video. We are truly not worthy.
He unleashed a mere 2% of his power
yes and it was almost too much for me to handle.
I think it's proof that he's an alien
@@jiro110 that makes his alien skepticism make sense, he’s just saying “that’s not one of us”
I really felt for that woman who started crying. It seemed like she had good intentions, but maybe didn't realize that not everyone on the internet would see it that way. Sure, it was a bit cringe-worthy, but there's no need to be so mean to her, especially after watching the second follow-up video. It's pretty messed up that some people get their kicks from making someone really upset. Shame on them.
People die in war torn countries everyday get a perspective pal this shit means nothing
@@theberserker_of_falconia@theberserker_of_falconia so what you're saying is just because something worse is happening, anything that is bad, but not as bad compared it isn't worth acknowledging? Just because real people die in wars, it makes it okay to harass & send death threats? If someone robs, doxxes, assaults you, and you complain or speak out against it but someone says "people die in war torn countries everyday get a perspective pal this shit means nothing" that makes it okay? You're the one who needs to get a perspective.
@@theberserker_of_falconiaYou can be mad or hurt at two things at once. People do it all the time.
She even said in the video that it was cringe, I honestly don’t see why people went that crazy. The first vid was way more cringe to me tbh. This video was just a wholesome display of unashamed love
@E3T7 Lonely, angry people with little to no empathy and lash out other people showing happiness. People will get angry or wish ill on people for the dumbest shit.
charlie became the real jesus christ at the end
The key isn't to destroy cringe, it's to destroy the part of you that cringes.
no
Not for this case. Cringe is good for attention seeking people that don't have their own personality.
Bro thought this comment was gonna blow up 😂
@@davidpadilla2029cringe
No it’s to direct your cringe-receptors in the proper direction. Instead of feeling cringe at innocent awkwardness, you should feel cringe at things like shameful or red-flag behavior
I'm not a psychologist/sociologist, so folks with that background, please chime in.
I remember seeing somewhere that it's a universal human trait (and possibly of all primates) to take social rejection very hard because, back when our ancient ancestors lived as small, wandering groups, being socially shunned was akin to a death sentence. Those social groups were vital to survive, and so being alone was almost a guarantee that you wouldn't last long. So over millenia, a high sensitivity to social norms and social expectations evolved to connect a reaction of disgust with behavior we viewed as "outside social acceptability". So "Cringe" could just the modern incarnation of this "social survivalist" evolved behavior.
I've heard of this too
@@icecreamaddictroxasisn't that like an instinct that if someone does something weird or acts weird even for views in social media are a sign of an unwell individual in the eyes of strangers. You don't wanna add ill individuals into your group if you don't want and the others to get sick.
Just as how the rejected male lions form their own group after being thrown out of a pride.
@@janinebelleestrada7096sucks cause no adays we slowly but surely take the things that should never have been normal and make em normal.
We mightve studied this in Social Psychology because this sounds very familiar
This sounds about right. I should also add that we humans are social creatures, and interaction is very important to us. When we have that many negative interactions with other humans, it can cause serious emotional and psychological damage, causing problems with self confidence, social anxiety, and possibly isolating oneself to shut them off from the negative experiences (which unfortunately also shuts them off from positive interactions as well)
feels like humanity is losing empathy at mock speed
you probably meant to write "mach" but "mock" is so hilariously fitting (and you're right)
man i sure hope you dont get mach'd too hard for this
Good one@@boopsdoops
@@Karma_3960 thank you
Mock ha! Im happy @thatguyStrike saw what i did.
the fact that charlie brought up flipping over tables in anger when he looks like jesus XD
honestly I think more people should share cringe. Everyone act as if they are on a high horse, but they are just as cringe or socially awkward as others
Nah bro. Most people aren't out here doing shit like the 'love surge', and posting it online no less.
Every single happy relationship has tiny personal quirks which, if exposed to the public, would be unimaginably embarrassing. If you disagree with this I doubt you've been in any serious loving relationships. To post it online however IS cringe and deserved ridicule at most - not death threats from lonely bitter assholes online.
Yeah but this cringe isn't genuine, it's fake which just makes it so hard to watch
@@TehAnimationSparxx i'd say seeing other people's relationships is entirely cringe, although many think it's cute
these guys probably thought they were still in the "most people are gonna think it's cute" territory
that relationship cringe is not "cringe"
it's faking being in love and wanting to show off because you're not happy amongst yourselves, while at the same time being like "oh you know why we love each other more than any couple in the world and why we're better than you?"
it's that le xd quirky attitude mixed with "im so much better thaan all yall" that's so infuriating
you know how i know its not real? me and my girl are even more cringe than this but we dont post it online.. cause we're not degenerate attention seeking little bitches
First one was a bit weird, but ultimatly harmless. I can't be mad. But the second, while a bit silly, is super wholesome. They seem to love each other very deeply, and it's sort of sad how people will just get mad at other people being happy. It's just pathetic.
Literally. Like a lot of people would love to have someone they loved like that
For the first one, hate started coming in cause the creator herself made a racist comment against a black person. What did the black person do to get such response? They simply said "The girl in the back is me, I am the girl in the back". I was hoping Charlie would comment on this but he prob did not notice.
They don’t like seeing ppl in love bc they know they’ll never find true love lol
Yeah, I don't feel cringe on that 2nd clip. It's silly and wholesome.
But then again, this is the internet, where lonely and disgusting rock dwellers feed and spit horrible stuff like they're projecting their insecurities. Twitter being the obvious example
I believe in the notion that you should keep shit you wouldn't show a group of random people you just met on the street away from the internet all the same. While it was wholesome, posting on twitter makes it a free for all for EVERYONE to see. Just send that shit to your friends, or family, even in a gc or a facebook group. While I don't condone online bullying, people who still naively think they can publicly post anything online and not expect at least one person to be a complete asshole about it is a recipe for disaster. Even your comments and mine are welcome to some asshole just strolling into this thread, not adding anything to the conversation and saying some vile shit like wishing harm upon us. It sucks, but it's what happens and you really can't fully control what everyone else does without infringing upon their own rights to express themselves. It's up to you to set up your expectations properly, and if you think what you're about to post is a bit more enticing for such douche-y people, then I don't think you should continue and just keep that shit in your own personal circle.
The love surge one was a bit goofy, but it's so cute that they are so comfortable with each other that they can share their relationship online. I hope the couple continue to have a healthy and goofy relationship! It's so wholesome and cute :3
Also that silly screech is freaking iconic
I agree but still wish I hadn't seen it
no its just cringe bro
@@Helga-fe5xl love surge or the Dean Scream?
Lol you weird
@@MasterAlpha1000 you have strong opinions about this subject, must be one of those involuntary types. xD
People hate it when others are happy. It’s almost like they’re projecting their anger onto others
Charlie’s voice is so majestical that his microphone wanted to pick up his voice twice from 11:32 onwards
had to scroll to find this comment
It's Charlie's heavenly Aura speaking for him
@@battyboio Yes the filter he uses to mask it from our fragile mortal ears was not quite strong enough to contain all of it
@cbktrugo you ain't never makin it out the hood 🗣🗣🗣🚮🚮🚮
Was it a test to see if we found it cringy??
You know, with the first clip it's quite fascinating. She's not doing anything to harm or bother anyone and yet simultaneously being insufferable.
Edit: "Schrodinger's Annoyance" was evidently used incorrectly so I removed it. Yes I am an idiot, you may now laugh at me.
its not even like most of tiktok is much better
@@grimreefer9324 I'm in agreement with you there.
Bro heard a big word and now uses it wrong 😭
It's cringey and weird and hurting no one I agree. What I don't agree with is how vitriolic people get because there is a computer screen between them.
@@LOLzum101 do tell. What word did I use wrong?
I think part of the reason why cringe is so unforgivable on the internet is the fact that people see it happen whereas in the case of people doing heinous shit, they generally do it off camera and people have this compartmentalization where if they didn't see it it didn't happen.
Yeah I forgave Colleen but that girl making a harmless tiktok 🤬
There is a lot of heinous shit that gets done on camera as well but I think the big difference is actually that with heinous shit, you don’t want to publicly share that. I mean some people do but if it is genuine awful stuff and you’re now making other people see it, you’re just kind of seen as an asshole. Not so much so for spreading “cringe” content. I mean some people can call you mean spirited and judgemental but that’s a much smaller thing and a lot less people are going to say about it
It’s not that deep mate, it’s just cringe. Everyone hates cringe wether it happens privately or online
I think its cuz everyone is more likely to do bad stuff than cringe stuff, everyone has bad secrets, so it makes them not really care as much.
I’m gonna help you out. The cringe isn’t that she’s dancing. It’s that she’s filming it for attention