Right especially w him opening about all this shit he knows about her. You're going to try to deescalate this situation without pissing the dude off bc lord knows what he might do if he's already goofy enough to lightly stalk you for info to hit on you.
@@paulengels6926a lot of awful people hide the fact they are awful until they’ve trapped their partner in marriage. Goes for both genders. You can’t always blame the partner, especially when we know literally nothing about his wife other than she’s being cheated on.
As someone stated, his reasoning for telling her that he is married is to “show” her that someone else found him desirable, and that ultimately, she should too. He didn’t think beyond that.
I think for some reason that him getting the "I have a wife and you're married with kids" out of the way that somehow he thought the girl would appreciate his honesty lmao. And then he wouldn't have to hide anything, he could be as gross as he wanted upfront so she knew exactly what to expect.
I felt her so deep when she was trying to make him understand that this shit just makes us lose faith in men and makes us scared to get married for this exact reason but just gave up because she knew it wasn’t going to go anywhere ☹️
There were two in a nearby town where I used to live, but I don't see many of them. It may be hard to get a large enough group of customers right from the start for a proper sized space because one of the two had a proper space but closed after a while and the other was in a tiny space, no way they had all the machines and weights I like to use.
While some women may prefer a women only gym to avoid this type of encounter, many more thrive on the validation that guys naturally orbiting them gives them. So while it may serve some, the customer base just may not be large enough.
you have to be nice to these creeps so they don't get angry. then they assume by the fact you were nice, their behaviour is acceptable and you actually want them. there's no way to win. you just have to hope they're not a serial killer.
Agreed. I work as a cashier. I have a default face to earn our friendliness survey up, and that means everyone gets a bonus. It also means every desperate interested person lonely enough WILL cling onto this and I HAVE endured more stalking than ANYONE deserves to endure for just working customer service. 31 fucking phone calls. Not even from a dude either. Women are VERY capable of being just as nuts. You can't win
@@gilla2092That sounds horrible, when I worked bars we could have absolutely whatever attitude we wanted, and took pleasure in telling people who deserved it to f off
Now this woman will have this creep in the back of her mind every time she goes to the gym. Which is just awful, because at least for me going to the gym is an escape from my stress.
@@methodhardie9193It’s not hard to find out that much about a person. He probably asked her out on a coffee date before, she said she doesn’t like coffee, dude tried asking for a breakfast date, she said she only eats cereal in the morning. Dinner? She has a little son and can’t leave him at home. And the age is sort of a given. But yeah he’s definitely a weird fucking creep. I think she should talk to the gym staff and tell them about the harassment. At least in the gyms I have been to, they’re pretty helpful and understanding in these scenarios.
I definitely think she should tell gym staff about this guy’s behavior. They usually don’t tolerate this and will have an eye on the guy or kick him out.
“Being married is good but sometimes you need someone you have a connection with” You would think two people would establish some sort of a connection before gettin married..
He isn’t listening to a damn word she’s saying, he just wants to hear what he wants to hear and is just saying “yeah for sure” to everything like trying to skip dialogue in a video game to get to the quest 😂😂
I bet the reason he knows she doesn't like coffee is because he's asked her to get coffee with him before and she told him she doesn't like coffee just to get him to leave her alone 😂
He shouldn't have mentioned the marriage, but I think that she was going to deny his request anyway because he didn't come across smoothly. If I had been in his situation, I would have gotten her number but probably lost interest and not contacted her because I would have thought she was too easy.
Now she has to decide if she wants to keep going to this gym and continue to deal with this loser. Creeps of the world: if you're gonna creep locally, please at least don't do it at gyms, grocery stores, libraries, parks, beloved pizza spots that are now forever ruined because of that one guy who's memorized when you usually take your lunch break....
And especially ESPECIALLY don't do it to women who are working. I work at a restaurant and I've had a few guys say some creepy stuff to me, but there's one in particular who keeps coming back, just to try and convince me to go out with him. And I keep saying no. He's even offered to drive me home, because he saw me walking to work. I had to get a coworker to drive me home I was so freaked out. Every day I go to work, I hope that he doesn't show up.
@@Ash_Carneliantalk to the cops about it and possibly get a restraining order or at least let them know he's a possible offender ,even if he isn't you have to be safe
@@Ash_Carnelian maybe you could tell a manager or higher up that you've been harrased by that customer and feel unsafe they may be able to ban him from the restaurant
I'm so glad you film these videos to talk about this sort of stuff happening. I am currently 17, but had an awful experience like this when I was 15. Two men, one of them looking at least to be 50 and the other closer to late thirties approached me when I was alone, and vulnerable. They kept on persisting that they were interested in me, and that they wish that they were the lucky guy I was texting on my phone. In an attempt to divert them in a moment of panic, I lied and said I was talking to a friend of mine from school about chemistry, hoping that them knowing I was a highschooler would get them to leave. They instead found the fact that I was "cute and nerdy" to be "absolutely adorable" and kept pestering me for around 15 minutes, even attempting to "help me" with my workout. I ended up joining a group of college girls I didn't know who working out near me to get them off of me. I couldn't go back to the gym for nearly 4 months after that experience because it shook me to my core so much and I was scared to see them again. This stuff happens more than you think, so I'm glad to see a man with such a large audience bringing attention to it.
Ugh Why do grown ass men think it’s okay to even attempt to hit on a GIRL?? By the time I was your age, I’d seen 2 men jerking off in their cars while walking home from school. How did I see that? One turned right and blocked me as I was crossing and the other honked my way, OPENED HIS DRIVERS SEAT DOOR TO SHOW ME!
Im sry that happened to you! 23 years old now and been there (since 12 yrs old)... so many times, unspeakable things Sad reality is that every girl will encounter this at least once. No way to sugar-coat it Best thing is we get told a lot its on us girls to be more reckless, confident and Establish boundaries instead of improving the root of the problem of entitled boys and men
I got kinda stuck on that part and the only reason I can come up with is that he meant to say he wanted to take her and her son to pizza. She has the patience and self-control of a saint 😮
The way she was explaining to him why women lose trust in men because of how often they cheat and then him just going "Oh yeah for sure I get it" BAFFLES me
He's not listening. When she's talking he's trying to think of the next thing to say to her instead of properly understanding and responding. People do it all the time in all different situations. This is especially pathetic
Don't worry, the cure is coming. The Y chromosome used to be the same size as the X chromosome 166 million years ago. It's since shrunk to just a third of the size with only about 55 genes compared to the X chromosome's 900 genes. If we extrapolate from the rate it is shrinking, it'll be completely gone in less than 5 million years.
@@A_UA-cam_Commentercrunchy, stands up on its own, can be shattered, smells like an odor complaint, has the face and body of an underage anime girl, rock hard pillow
Love how these creeps are being called out and how she "playing nice" to protect herself is actually explained and not looked down on. Great vid thanks for the cringe!
Sad that people need to protect themselves. My wife goes to the gym late in the evening (work,kids,food😂) and never felt unsafe. Same for other women, because there is enough staff that walks around for advice and making sure people don't invade/annoy etc other people. Maybe it's just because we live in Holland. In general you'd be hoping for police to come if you creep on women when others notice it😅. We don't have weapons but a pack of angry women jumping on you with full rage is terrifying.
@@RaveDaverIn Holland (and in that part of Europe in general) people are usually more direct than in the US. I don't think the conversation would have lasted more than a few seconds in Holland or a similar country.
@@doyourownresearch7297 incels and "nice guys" will get mad about it because of coooourse shes leading him on and "why doesnt she give him a chance?" then theres the pick me girls who will say the same thing of giving creepy men a chance and how theyd never be "weird" (uncomfortable) like that
The audacity to walk up to a stranger or someone you barley know and tell them your married and want to engage in a dating game with them is so absurd. Why even be married if your willing to treat it like it’s not a significant bond.
he's the kind of guy that has the mindset of " I know I'm married, but these ladies need to be with me right now! I don't care if they have a bf/gf/husband/wife!"
Frankly, I won’t be surprised if he was lying to her - made it up because he heard that women would want you even more if they know you are “taken”. Legit heard this take from someone I know so yeah 🤷🏻♂️
Ngl for me personally that would be not a problem, the stalker stuff is way more beyond everything and the biggest red flag ever. The married shit is bad and you know he just wanted sexy time, but the stalker shit? God damn
Men also have to do that, they just face way less creeps. (Usually druggies or methheads, not weird stalkers etc). If you're not physically confident, (fair, cuz women are weaker), u should really try and get some kind of self-defense tool. Crazy world right now.
Yeah it happens both ways. You just have to avoid triggering some person’s anger. Guys and gals both deal with this. Same situation different reasons and circumstances
yeah her ability to stay cool under pressure makes me wanna look all her info up, find where she works out, and go tell her everything i know about her
She didn't really have much of a choice. I imagine she frequents that gym and this guy has literally stalked her without provocation. If she's too direct, she may piss him off and summon whatever wrath he's capable of (and at the least he's capable of violence). If she's too indirect, she will have this guy up her ass for the rest of her life. It's a tight rope walk and one navigated far too often by women of all shapes and sizes. Let's hope she makes the correct decision to invite him to her bed.
Unfortunately you have to be nice to creeps like this in order for them to not go ballistic. But even then theres a chance they still won't leave you alone
i am currently going through a really tough possible break up and i feel really bad about myself but seeing guys like these makes my day better. thanks charlie
100% they will that's why I'll never understand why women even run off with guys whos ex's warn them about his cheating and whatever other abuse he's got going on and they still act like they'd never do it to them. 😂 You know they will
Dumb and lazy women exist. My mom's sister is married and his husband is kinda a creep and a cheater, but she doesn't care because he works and mantains her, she gives away her dignity just to have an easy life. A lot of people will humiliate themselves for easy money, take for example the npc streams from tik tok where men and women do ridiculous and cringe things. I call them lazy people, and lazy woman take advantage of the old traditions and marry the first man who will maintain them.
the way he implies this is in her best interest too is so insane LMAOO he just can’t wrap his tiny brain around her denying this once in a lifetime opportunity
There is nothing more horrifying I can think of more than someone I don't know telling me they know about my child when I've never been to the gym with my kid
My guess would be that guy is following her on social media and that's where he's got all that info. Some people just like to share all their life there.
Idk why so many people think this video is legit. It’s Tiktok. Almost everything on here is rehearsed, scripted, fake. Just like that Cheesecake Factory video Charlie showed the other week. Or are we to believe ever single time this person goes to the gym, they have their phone recording the entire time just hoping for the rare chance something tiktok worthy happens so they can go viral?
Charlie's sleeper build always surprises me. It's like a jumpscare that you expect, doesn't happen, then happens at just that exact moment your guard is down.
Had a guy like this who would come in to the coffee shop I worked at back when and approach all the women who worked there with shit like this, just trying to casually throw in the "yeah I'm married but you wanna do some cheating??". I always felt so bad for whoever his wife was. This is giving me cringe PTSD flashbacks.
My husband and I went to starbucks 4 days ago early in the morning and we witnessed something like that, it was so uncomfortable for the Starbuck employee but she looked like she was handling it well so we didnt feel the need to step in but as soon as we got out, my husband was like yikes
I was a server at a breakfast diner and this one customer would bring his whole family, wife and 2 little kids, every weekend for brunch. But he would come alone every week day and hit on all of us, including the 15 bus girls. He once even tried offering me money to "go somewhere" with him. Such a creep and it was so hard to serve his family but most of all his wife who was so nice
As a construction worker stuff like this happens to me and some co workers I know but it's usually the married ones. It's like super weird when I can see your family photos behind you and your husband is somewhere.
"Trying to be nice" is certainly one thing she was doing, but she went way beyond that. She confronted him with eye contact and poise, she was down to earth and altruistic... she made caring statements about men and women... and all the while she was a tad condescending (the least he deserved). She deserves a Nobel Prize.
Are you an incel? please tell me how she was condescending.. also how can you describe her as down to earth and then say she was condescending.... those words are contradicting
@@CCC9437 I'd be down to hear why you disagree but you're triggered as hell. You started with just a basic insult; maybe learn to articulate your argument without losing the interest of the person you're interacting with immediately? Or just chill out? Take care. 🤟🏻
"Go With The Flow" playing in the background is the icing on the cringe cake. Just the most ironic theme song to this creepy dude fumbling through the most awkward exchange. Truly makes this a masterpiece.
She was nice because she would still see him every day, even after this interaction. It's not like he's gonna magically disappear from the gym the next day and never come back again.
Female only gyms sound like they're just going to provide a false sense of security. There was that guy who setup cameras in the women's only gym that he owned not long ago. And then in California there was that women only spa that was ordered by the courts to permit a man to use it just because he said he identified as a woman.
I used to be a massage therapist. When people called and tried to determine if they could get extra favors, something that has worked for me is saying I could pray for them and that usually shut them down fast.
Can’t tell if the guy is trying to cheat or if he has an “open” marriage, given he keeps mentioning she should meet his wife. Very scary situation, especially when he started the conversation with how much he knows about her like a stalker.
I do really appreciate Charlie saying about how women often have to be overly polite because if we’re not then things could get dangerous. I don’t think I’ve heard a man acknowledge that before and so to now have one with so much respect and with such a large audience saying it, it feels nice :)
As a man, I could not agree more about needing to be careful around these people... there are some absolutely unhinged men out there and I think a lot of men agree that there are some vile degenerates out there that i wish knew what 'no' means, and not to flip out when they hear it. I just don't think men get the option to express such awareness as it's not something tou can just bring out of the blue, but believe me, im disgusted that it's a reality that a hard no is a potential death sentence for some people
TBH I completely agree with what you're saying. We live in such a F'D UP WORLD that is getting worse as a whole over the years. People have gotten more bold and unpredictable in their actions, words, etc... Most of the population is 'All outta fu*ks to give.' LMFAO 😆 Sad but true facts. Lots of predators out there. I DESPISE SCUMBAGS, especially ones that prey on the weak. Some straight p*ssy azz s**t FR.🤔🫤
It never happened to me, but I'd always want a girl to tell me like: "Sorry, you're just not my type" or something along those lines. I have a friend who was trying to ask a girl out for a coffee, and she was always just indecisive and didn't really answer. The closest thing he got to a real NO was along the lines: "I don't know". When he said: "what do you mean you don't know?" she said: "I'm a blonde". He was literally baffled by it, he thought maybe she's too shy and don't want to say yes or something? I told him: "if she wanted it, she would have said yes", but this was also very weird. I never witnessed this behavior before that. This lasted for a week I should add! (he sent a message every couple of days along the lines "did she make a decision yet?" or something, he was trying to be cool and not too pushy or clingy, give her time so he wouldn't look creepy like a guy sending 5 messages in one hour, but don't leave her hanging for a whole week, IDK, we were 17... Luckily, I had a mutual friend with this girl so I told him to investigate and she told him: "how many cues do I have to do to make him realize I don't want to have NOTHING to do with him???" And she was kind of angry about it, called the guy ugly, stupid and I don't know what else, it was real bad. The guy just said: "one simple NO should be sufficient." Next time my friend asked her out, she said "No." and that was the end of it. ... I mean ... I realize that she probably wanted to be nice or careful or whatever the fuck was going on, but then I think - if this friend of mine was an actual creepy stalker, her actions would have been 100% interpreted as an invitation, playing hard to get, being too shy to say yes or whatever. If he was the angry type, he would be really pissed that she strung him along for a week and possibly plotted a revenge or god knows what... This guy was just thought: "why did it take her a whole week to say no, why didn't she say it immediately and save us both from embarrassment"? tl; dr: I'd want you to be polite and tell me "Sorry, but no" as soon as possible! If a guy is stupid and don't say "ok, sorry about that" then you can resort to the "be overly polite" tactics, but most of the time it would be better to just keep doing what you were doing, and don't maintain eye contact anymore because crazy people will interpret the eye contact as an invitation, and looking away as "gtfo".
@@albedo9921 I wrote that I didn't get it when I was 17. Now I get it, but think it's a really bad choice. Think about it; If I didn't get it, my friend didn't get it, and everyone agrees that most men don't get it - a psycho will not only "not get it", it will either make him mad anyways, or he'll think the answer isn't NO.
Creeps like that make me curl up into a ball. Why is it so hard to say "Hi, I've been looking to add a new workout to my regiment, do you have any suggestions?" to break the ice. Or just "How's it going?" it's so cringe the way these people do it!
You know, I usually keep to myself in the gym, but some years ago a drop dead gorgeous woman started appearing. Sometimes I'd just randomly see her watching me, and it didn't help that sometimes I'd look over too. Then one day, before I packed my stuff and went to the locker room, I took the balls to speak to her. Pretty much just told her that I don't want to interrupt her or anything and simply wanted to tell her how beautiful she was. Looked at me with big eyes, seemingly surprised - but before anything, I said I just wanted to tell her, excused myself and wished her well. After a shower and getting dressed, I went out - in a crowd as in that particular moment, about a dozen people both entered and left the lockers. I saw her first, she was on training equipment right next to the locker room, looking around, seemingly in search for someone. Tried playing it off and go about my way when she saw me and called out to me "hey, um, the man that talked to me", I was literally shaking a bit and went to her. She wanted to tell me how she thought it was pretty brave that I spoke to her and that she really appreciated the compliment. We talked for like 15 minutes after that - Towards the end and before she resumed to training, she asked me when I usually come to training and we found out that our times nearly always overlap. Talking with her became a usual, but like a month later she told me she came together with her ex again. Acted surprised, but told her I wish her will with her relationship. I dropped my personal interest in her as some kind of partner, and ever since we are gym buddies, having some talks before and/or after our gym visits, it turned into a nice little friendship, and to this day I guess I'm happy to have found someone I can talk about all kinds of stuff with freely. Nobody asked but hey, I felt a little nostalgic so that's that ^^ I think it's simply important to respect boundaries even if you approach someone, and whether or not it seems you disturb someone (or not). Anyway, I drink to Lisa, a dear gym buddy of mine :)
I know what it's like to lose women to a guy like this over OkCupid. They end up going on a date with him, finding out he's extremely awkward, and then they're too guilty to continue the conversation you were having with them because I call them out on having met up with someone over the weekend. Be very wary of these online bee eye tea sea aytches. No fidelity whatsoever
@@ZenigundamLittle bro thinks he has game. A simple click on your channel reveals so many red flags, anyone who's self-respecting wouldn't wanna go on a date with you
It is kind of true. Women don't want you to NOTICE everything about them. Just the good things. Not when they fart or that random nipple hair, however small.
I met my girlfriend at the gym and later on she told me that was the worst way I could have approached someone and that I’m lucky I caught her in a good mood
@@LeeEverett1he hollered, “sup ma…you tryna go play some Fortnite and cuddle”? And she was all like “okay turbo-virgin, I’m totally into random strangers at the gym”!
No I think it's the result of past chitchat. She and he are probably both regulars at that gym, he's probably stumbled over his words in front of her plenty before that day
@@grunkleg.3110 he literally said in the video that they've only ever really said hi to each other. I seriously doubt they've ever had an actual conversation, unless you count this creepy blabbering as conversation
I agree. Either stalked socials or listened in on other people having conversations with her or perhaps phone convos she has had to take in public. You can get alot more personal yet normal info by just listening in on phone conversations. But truly if you were a sane being you can probably learn all of it by just talking to the person normally in the first place...
I refuse to believe this man is married. The only woman I can imagine that spends time with him is anime wifu pillow he keeps tucked under his bed so his mom doesn’t see it.
The worst thing is him trying to like keep her in this convo when she looks like obviously untinteresred in continuing because she is not feeling comfortable . Plus you’re interrupting a workout
Even before the married comment she looked creeped completely out. For a minute I was wondering who filmed it, then I realized she was probably recording her workout. And I'd like to thank her for her service in posting this shit.
@@Lexr294you don't sound like you know what kind of harrassment a lot of people go through and suffer a long time afterwards just because they couldn't get proof, it's completely valid to stay alert.
Lots of male gamers are pigs. I am always so proud of charlie for setting a good example. The internet was worse when he wasn’t mocking creeps back in the day.
the problem is that hes a creep, but also that he tried to plan the interaction out probably extensively. planning out an interaction like this is redpill porn-brained stuff. its an unnatural interaction and people pick up on it instantly.
@@CMP-st5whI doubt he’s actually married. It might be a kind of, “if she thinks I’m married, she might think I’m desirable enough to want to commit adultery with” situation. He’s probably assuming she’d be down to cheat since he likely thinks most women are adulterous by nature and find married men attractive.
@@gobalbucsnah I think he is, I think he would have dropped the act immediately once she rejected him for that reason alone (to his face I mean) and not because of the fact that he’s a huge creep
Ew yeah that makes it worse he planned it and had a canned speech to give because he wasn’t randomly having a nice interaction. He is trying to prey on her for one sole purpose.
I can FEEL her growing resignation and helplessness. Its so stupid, you need to find a perfect ground between not hurting their feelings and being able to hold your ground. If you are too nice, they press even more because "you aeem not so sure of your answer" and if you are too blunt you risk getting hurt or yelled at because he suddenly feels attacked now while he is harassing you.
You ever see a comment and feel terrible? Cause i just have it's heartbreaking to see women suffering against creeps like this and for me to be completely helpless to stop it, I guess I'm at least making an effort to help by not being an absolute freak and shutting down other guys with attitudes like this. I can't believe my father suggested that women get turned on by this sorta relentless treatment and actively urged me to do this... it's the only time I've struck someone with a good open handed slap and im glad my father got the point. I honestly feel bad that girls have to deal with this deadly dance between too passive and too aggressive on a regular basis, and it terrifies me that many men are taught that that's how love works.
@@foxo5464 dude im so damn happy you didnt blindly follow the path your dad wanted you to go and actually spoke up!!! Its people like you that still make me believe in a spark of humanity :)
1:13 phenomenal acting here Charlie, I found myself so immersed I was genuinely fearing for Mark. Hunger games may have left you, but you never left Hunger games
We genuinely need men like you to talk about stuff like this and call these creeps out bc it doesn’t seem to get through to them that we want to be left alone 😅❤
I doubt this has ever even happened to you 😂. In fact I’m going to assume that 99% of the men you interact with on a daily basis don’t do this. I too was harassed by a woman like this when I was 15. She was 22 at the time kept coming on to me she was my best friend’s sister. Finally she gave me a bunch of alcohol and basically graped me. I don’t blame all women for her behavior. I’m not thick enough to think all women need to pay for her crime. The reality is there are female predators just like male we just don’t make a big deal out of it. Could you imagine if I when I was 22 went out and got a 15 yr old girl drunk and then forced myself on her? 😂 I’d be in jail to this day, but women? They can get away with it.
The worst thing about this is that no matter what a woman does in that situation, it will all be wrong. Be nice and try to say 'no' gently? The guy will keep going, thinking that he can convince her otherwise. Strictly say 'no'? He will feel like his ego is hurt and might get aggressive with her or see it even more as a challenge. Which is creepy af. There's no escape. Unless you're ugly. Then men will leave you magically alone, which is nice but shouldn't be the solution here. And saying "I have a boyfriend" doesn't work either with creeps
It's sad that I'm thankful for being ugly and fat because I've never been hit on by creeps 🥲 My little sis is definitely the pretty one in the family. She's only 18 and it's so unfortunate that she's run into creeps at her work.
@@GmmBeast Same. I look like Hagrid from Harry Potter. The only people bothering me are those trying to sell me something. I'm mostly safe, thankfully.
It's always bothered me how some men will continue to ask someone out even after they say no, but the moment she says "I have a boyfriend" the majority of them will leave it at that and walk away. They'll respect a man they don't even know before they respect the woman standing right infront of them... pisses me off
@@GutPoacher Even if she says that, a concerning amount of them will start trying to list off reasons why they think she should leave her bf for them 😭
"Being married is great, but you also need someone to connect to"
My guy, that is the exact point of being married lol.
nah he wants a younger model lol
*surprisingly* some people don't get that point
His wife is just an appliance. Hope she’s divorcing him after this. Unless they have an open marriage which if they did he would have said that.
He is just a gross person it’s that simple
What he really means by "connection" is someone to cheat with.
How absolutely detached from reality do you have to be to say "marriage is great" while attempting to initiate adultery?! Jfc
It's a fake video, champ.
@@apk4381 Because nothing ever happens, am I right?
@@apk4381proof?
@@apk4381prove it
@@apk4381 I don’t think this level of cringe and social ineptitude can be manufactured
I would actually change gyms if I were her. This is the type of thing that can get out of control, obsessiveness, stalking etc.
I would move out too wtf
Literally I would walk over to the gym office same day and end my membership
Before that I'd report him to try get him kicked out
@@aspoon4801 absolutely. But you definitely can't go back to that gym afterwards. 😬
@@brandym3926 if they kick him out I'd feel safer there, since he can't enter, at another gym he can
This guy isnt gonna be "kinda sorta married" for long I bet
I bet not with his face creeping into frame at one point
the reason she's very nice is because gods know what'll happen if you react negatively to a creep.
Yep, thats what Charlie said
Right especially w him opening about all this shit he knows about her. You're going to try to deescalate this situation without pissing the dude off bc lord knows what he might do if he's already goofy enough to lightly stalk you for info to hit on you.
You become an internet star.
jeff the jeffer?
@@AngTheHunterwhat
The fact that this dude knows her age, what she eats, that she has a son (and says it twice), is some top tier stalker shit.
She probably told him?
@@GeneralFrankenberry Hard to believe after what happens post him telling her all that.
she def told him but still weird@@themajesticspider-man6116
It’s pretty sad that people are still filming in gyms without consent of other people.
@@The0nlyyshe was filming herself, you can see that the most we see of the guy is his hands.
I love that she told him to stop demeaning marriage and monogamy. You go Girl!
What a disgusting disgrace of a groom. Hope his wife finds someone who loves her.
Second thought is why would she marry a guy like that.
@@paulengels6926he probably listed everything he knew about her and the rest is history
@@paulengels6926a lot of awful people hide the fact they are awful until they’ve trapped their partner in marriage. Goes for both genders. You can’t always blame the partner, especially when we know literally nothing about his wife other than she’s being cheated on.
@@paulengels6926 yeah im sure he was upfront about being a cheater and she just said "well ok"
Oh come on, who hasn't used the "you're cool, you're cool, im married, you're cool, your address is..." pickup line? Its a classic!
That's how I got my first 6 wife's and 8 husbands!! Works every time!
Timeless
Lol
How to pick up chick's in 3 easy steps: 1) Express your interest, 2) show you are unafraid of commitment, 3) dox her irl to show you mean business.
We could be friends
As someone stated, his reasoning for telling her that he is married is to “show” her that someone else found him desirable, and that ultimately, she should too. He didn’t think beyond that.
I thought he brought it up to be like, you have a son, I have a wife, we both have something tying us down, let’s go cheat.
@@shanel4294 Could be either ridiculous reason.
I think for some reason that him getting the "I have a wife and you're married with kids" out of the way that somehow he thought the girl would appreciate his honesty lmao. And then he wouldn't have to hide anything, he could be as gross as he wanted upfront so she knew exactly what to expect.
@@shanel4294 but he’d be the only one cheating still
LOL! Totally. 😂
I felt her so deep when she was trying to make him understand that this shit just makes us lose faith in men and makes us scared to get married for this exact reason but just gave up because she knew it wasn’t going to go anywhere ☹️
can you tell me your profile pleaas
It’s the same thing with women just more sneaky
@@Cenatcenat902 nah
@@jagmbaksvshsh idk where it’s from at all, idk her name or what anime
@@Cenatcenat902 Eh not really.
bro surely there is a raging untapped demand for female-only gyms right now
A smart business man would never give their secrets away
@@way9895 yeah but that’s in the US specifically I think
There were two in a nearby town where I used to live, but I don't see many of them. It may be hard to get a large enough group of customers right from the start for a proper sized space because one of the two had a proper space but closed after a while and the other was in a tiny space, no way they had all the machines and weights I like to use.
While some women may prefer a women only gym to avoid this type of encounter, many more thrive on the validation that guys naturally orbiting them gives them. So while it may serve some, the customer base just may not be large enough.
@@fraxizztv6433 genuinely what
you have to be nice to these creeps so they don't get angry. then they assume by the fact you were nice, their behaviour is acceptable and you actually want them. there's no way to win. you just have to hope they're not a serial killer.
Agreed. I work as a cashier. I have a default face to earn our friendliness survey up, and that means everyone gets a bonus. It also means every desperate interested person lonely enough WILL cling onto this and I HAVE endured more stalking than ANYONE deserves to endure for just working customer service. 31 fucking phone calls. Not even from a dude either. Women are VERY capable of being just as nuts. You can't win
Honestly just sometimes you should be able to say f off you complete weirdo, we live in very sad times
@@gilla2092That sounds horrible, when I worked bars we could have absolutely whatever attitude we wanted, and took pleasure in telling people who deserved it to f off
It seemed like she wasn't sure how to take it the for the first two and then she had a realization it was just weird.
Lmao
Now this woman will have this creep in the back of her mind every time she goes to the gym. Which is just awful, because at least for me going to the gym is an escape from my stress.
Not even at the gym, a weirdo like that who finds out so much about the person likely is capable of attempting to stalk them anywhere
@@methodhardie9193It’s not hard to find out that much about a person. He probably asked her out on a coffee date before, she said she doesn’t like coffee, dude tried asking for a breakfast date, she said she only eats cereal in the morning. Dinner? She has a little son and can’t leave him at home. And the age is sort of a given.
But yeah he’s definitely a weird fucking creep. I think she should talk to the gym staff and tell them about the harassment. At least in the gyms I have been to, they’re pretty helpful and understanding in these scenarios.
I definitely think she should tell gym staff about this guy’s behavior. They usually don’t tolerate this and will have an eye on the guy or kick him out.
@@FacitOmniaVoluntas. its only sexual harassment when the person isn't attractive
@@K3vin_L interesting take, did you get it from andrew tate or did you think it on your own?
“Being married is good but sometimes you need someone you have a connection with”
You would think two people would establish some sort of a connection before gettin married..
He isn’t listening to a damn word she’s saying, he just wants to hear what he wants to hear and is just saying “yeah for sure” to everything like trying to skip dialogue in a video game to get to the quest 😂😂
This man is smashing that skip button
Literally Fallout 4
Fr, that quest being adultery
Tahaha that’s the perfect analogy
@@Random-sk6hmoptional side quest 😂😂
I bet the reason he knows she doesn't like coffee is because he's asked her to get coffee with him before and she told him she doesn't like coffee just to get him to leave her alone 😂
Well spotted lol
Ha! I buy that
Dang big brain guess! I could totally see that! Never even thought that
Punjabi @@InstagramUser2
Imagine someone saying “ no thanks I don’t like coffee” and not getting the hint and then keep trying . Zero self awareness.
The girl literally having to tell him to respect the sanctimonious bond of marriage and he still doubles down. Good for her handling this goober.
He shouldn't have mentioned the marriage, but I think that she was going to deny his request anyway because he didn't come across smoothly. If I had been in his situation, I would have gotten her number but probably lost interest and not contacted her because I would have thought she was too easy.
@@Zenigundamgigachad
ah yes, the ultimate sigma giga alpha omega phi chi chad has arrived. All our women have now left us for you.. damn you Zenigundam. @@Zenigundam
not gigachad enough, he didn't mention going back to the grind@@alejandrocortes3341
@@Zenigundambruhhh not this incel☠️☠️
Now she has to decide if she wants to keep going to this gym and continue to deal with this loser. Creeps of the world: if you're gonna creep locally, please at least don't do it at gyms, grocery stores, libraries, parks, beloved pizza spots that are now forever ruined because of that one guy who's memorized when you usually take your lunch break....
And especially ESPECIALLY don't do it to women who are working. I work at a restaurant and I've had a few guys say some creepy stuff to me, but there's one in particular who keeps coming back, just to try and convince me to go out with him. And I keep saying no. He's even offered to drive me home, because he saw me walking to work. I had to get a coworker to drive me home I was so freaked out. Every day I go to work, I hope that he doesn't show up.
@@Ash_Carneliantalk to the cops about it and possibly get a restraining order or at least let them know he's a possible offender ,even if he isn't you have to be safe
When u said u walk to work, i can def imagine him possible taking advantage of that. Please carry a weapon with you and be safe@@Ash_Carnelian
@@kostasboica cops are useless. they won't do anything unless she gets physically harmed first
@@Ash_Carnelian maybe you could tell a manager or higher up that you've been harrased by that customer and feel unsafe they may be able to ban him from the restaurant
I'm so glad you film these videos to talk about this sort of stuff happening. I am currently 17, but had an awful experience like this when I was 15. Two men, one of them looking at least to be 50 and the other closer to late thirties approached me when I was alone, and vulnerable. They kept on persisting that they were interested in me, and that they wish that they were the lucky guy I was texting on my phone. In an attempt to divert them in a moment of panic, I lied and said I was talking to a friend of mine from school about chemistry, hoping that them knowing I was a highschooler would get them to leave. They instead found the fact that I was "cute and nerdy" to be "absolutely adorable" and kept pestering me for around 15 minutes, even attempting to "help me" with my workout. I ended up joining a group of college girls I didn't know who working out near me to get them off of me. I couldn't go back to the gym for nearly 4 months after that experience because it shook me to my core so much and I was scared to see them again.
This stuff happens more than you think, so I'm glad to see a man with such a large audience bringing attention to it.
Ugh Why do grown ass men think it’s okay to even attempt to hit on a GIRL?? By the time I was your age, I’d seen 2 men jerking off in their cars while walking home from school. How did I see that? One turned right and blocked me as I was crossing and the other honked my way, OPENED HIS DRIVERS SEAT DOOR TO SHOW ME!
Im sry that happened to you! 23 years old now and been there (since 12 yrs old)... so many times, unspeakable things
Sad reality is that every girl will encounter this at least once. No way to sugar-coat it
Best thing is we get told a lot its on us girls to be more reckless, confident and Establish boundaries instead of improving the root of the problem of entitled boys and men
Islam is very strict on opposite gender interactions and some have the audacity to say islam is too strict
@@9876manutd well then there's a WHOLE LOT of islamists violating these rules with all the rapes they commit buddy
You need to stand up for yourself. Be loud and firm or alert gym staff.
As a parent, him saying, 'I know you've got a son' two diff times is SO unsettling
I got kinda stuck on that part and the only reason I can come up with is that he meant to say he wanted to take her and her son to pizza. She has the patience and self-control of a saint 😮
This is actually horrifying
I feel like he meant that he can look past the fact that she has a kid. As if somehow, she was worried the kid might drive him away
He probably saw her more than he saw his wife
Yeah extremely alarming
The way she was explaining to him why women lose trust in men because of how often they cheat and then him just going "Oh yeah for sure I get it" BAFFLES me
He's not listening. When she's talking he's trying to think of the next thing to say to her instead of properly understanding and responding. People do it all the time in all different situations. This is especially pathetic
My GOD that part got under my skin more than it should've
Like... dude's a shitty person in more ways than one
this is the only point where she was wrong, its proven that women cheat far more
Bros an actual buffoon
Don't worry, the cure is coming.
The Y chromosome used to be the same size as the X chromosome 166 million years ago. It's since shrunk to just a third of the size with only about 55 genes compared to the X chromosome's 900 genes. If we extrapolate from the rate it is shrinking, it'll be completely gone in less than 5 million years.
Man is fluent in yappin
Bro got negative rizz
He literally hit -100 on rizz in his character creator
If people like this can get married there’s still hope
His "wife" is a pillow.
@@A_UA-cam_Commenteror a bot like the one begging for us to translate their comment 😅
I’m better than Charles 💀💀
@@A_UA-cam_Commentercrunchy, stands up on its own, can be shattered, smells like an odor complaint, has the face and body of an underage anime girl, rock hard pillow
Right? I rarely feel optimistic after such intense cringe.
Love how these creeps are being called out and how she "playing nice" to protect herself is actually explained and not looked down on. Great vid thanks for the cringe!
You're right. We should ban women from gyms. They just fake too much to be trusted in public, really.
@@doyourownresearch7297 you'd be surprised at the amount of people who would claim she's leading him on by being nice
Sad that people need to protect themselves. My wife goes to the gym late in the evening (work,kids,food😂) and never felt unsafe. Same for other women, because there is enough staff that walks around for advice and making sure people don't invade/annoy etc other people. Maybe it's just because we live in Holland. In general you'd be hoping for police to come if you creep on women when others notice it😅. We don't have weapons but a pack of angry women jumping on you with full rage is terrifying.
@@RaveDaverIn Holland (and in that part of Europe in general) people are usually more direct than in the US. I don't think the conversation would have lasted more than a few seconds in Holland or a similar country.
@@doyourownresearch7297 incels and "nice guys" will get mad about it because of coooourse shes leading him on and "why doesnt she give him a chance?" then theres the pick me girls who will say the same thing of giving creepy men a chance and how theyd never be "weird" (uncomfortable) like that
If I were her, I'd change gyms. At the very least, I'd change my routine and stop going at the same days/times.
creeps like this everywhere duh
Sucks that she’s the one who has to change when he’s the problem
How bout change zip codes and go into the witness protection program.
she is trapped in an unskippable dialogue with an annoying npc
The audacity to walk up to a stranger or someone you barley know and tell them your married and want to engage in a dating game with them is so absurd. Why even be married if your willing to treat it like it’s not a significant bond.
he's the kind of guy that has the mindset of " I know I'm married, but these ladies need to be with me right now! I don't care if they have a bf/gf/husband/wife!"
Frankly, I won’t be surprised if he was lying to her - made it up because he heard that women would want you even more if they know you are “taken”. Legit heard this take from someone I know so yeah 🤷🏻♂️
Ngl for me personally that would be not a problem, the stalker stuff is way more beyond everything and the biggest red flag ever. The married shit is bad and you know he just wanted sexy time, but the stalker shit? God damn
😊
Plot twist: it's a skit and they both married
ah yes the classic "I've been stalking you" approach, works every time
Well he's married, so it obviously did lol.
@@CMP-st5wh He probably wasn't all that into his wife and was doing all the creepy shit on his other targets
Everyone has a type
I will never understand people who see gyms as mating area.. it's so pathetic.
It's the most uncomfortable place to be perceived, I don't want you to watch me do faces while I do my reps dude...
Literally why I stopped going to gyms. I just swim or run outside. Gyms are the utmost uncomfortable places on earth atm.@@lxkks
So why do women go to gyms to get picked up?
This is at least the fourth time he's creeped on her, and she's worried. She's gathering evidence. I don't blame her.
I hate how as women we have to be nice to creeps bc we are afraid of what will happen if we aren't and tell them to get lost.
Men also have to do that, they just face way less creeps. (Usually druggies or methheads, not weird stalkers etc). If you're not physically confident, (fair, cuz women are weaker), u should really try and get some kind of self-defense tool. Crazy world right now.
I hate as women you think you are the only thing that exists
Yeah it happens both ways. You just have to avoid triggering some person’s anger. Guys and gals both deal with this. Same situation different reasons and circumstances
Get a self-defense tool
@SuperZX49 that doesnt always work, men can overpower you
The way she handled this situation was cool, really cool. The way she kept cool, really cool under the pressure here. I sorta feel a connection here.
yeah her ability to stay cool under pressure makes me wanna look all her info up, find where she works out, and go tell her everything i know about her
@@fotisvon9943I sure she will appreciate that!
don't forget the pizza 🍕
She didn't really have much of a choice. I imagine she frequents that gym and this guy has literally stalked her without provocation. If she's too direct, she may piss him off and summon whatever wrath he's capable of (and at the least he's capable of violence). If she's too indirect, she will have this guy up her ass for the rest of her life. It's a tight rope walk and one navigated far too often by women of all shapes and sizes. Let's hope she makes the correct decision to invite him to her bed.
Unfortunately you have to be nice to creeps like this in order for them to not go ballistic. But even then theres a chance they still won't leave you alone
i am currently going through a really tough possible break up and i feel really bad about myself but seeing guys like these makes my day better. thanks charlie
Hey, I hope it gets better for you 🖤
Stay strong and keep your head up 🌠😎
You got this. Don't give up!
Three cheers for Charlie for actually recognising how weird and potentially dangerous these people could be. He is an empathetic and awakened man.
Fascinating how guys like this can get married.
And as the saying goes: If they'll cheat for you, then they'll cheat on you.
You'll be amazed by how far BSing can take you
100% they will that's why I'll never understand why women even run off with guys whos ex's warn them about his cheating and whatever other abuse he's got going on and they still act like they'd never do it to them. 😂 You know they will
@@HaleyBug221Frfr
Dumb and lazy women exist. My mom's sister is married and his husband is kinda a creep and a cheater, but she doesn't care because he works and mantains her, she gives away her dignity just to have an easy life. A lot of people will humiliate themselves for easy money, take for example the npc streams from tik tok where men and women do ridiculous and cringe things. I call them lazy people, and lazy woman take advantage of the old traditions and marry the first man who will maintain them.
He isn’t married
the way he implies this is in her best interest too is so insane LMAOO he just can’t wrap his tiny brain around her denying this once in a lifetime opportunity
Exactly, like "you are really NOT gonna pick up this solid bar of pure gold laying on the floor?".
Dennis: "But the thing is she's not gonna say 'no'... she would never say 'no'... because of the implication."
8:10 the fact that “Go with the flow” is playing in the background is hilarious
Even before the monologue, he already made a faux pas when he interrupted her set. That's just common gym etiquette.
There is nothing more horrifying I can think of more than someone I don't know telling me they know about my child when I've never been to the gym with my kid
My guess would be that guy is following her on social media and that's where he's got all that info. Some people just like to share all their life there.
he said he just says hi sometimes
Probably means they had small talk and she said she had a kid
videos like this make me feel bad for women to be honest
@@Wrecck12still. Its terrifying
Idk why so many people think this video is legit. It’s Tiktok. Almost everything on here is rehearsed, scripted, fake. Just like that Cheesecake Factory video Charlie showed the other week. Or are we to believe ever single time this person goes to the gym, they have their phone recording the entire time just hoping for the rare chance something tiktok worthy happens so they can go viral?
Charlie's sleeper build always surprises me. It's like a jumpscare that you expect, doesn't happen, then happens at just that exact moment your guard is down.
Crazy concept, a guy with no job has time to do a few bicep curls every once and awhile.
😂
@Pizzadawg09 his job is literally to make video games, react, stream them to his fans.
@@DrMantisToboggan2005he has a job you boomer
@@DrMantisToboggan2005 so do people with regular 9-5s. Curling for 10 minutes every other day is not a big ask, my guy.
mad respect to her for not losing her shit, there's no way I would've been able to act that sincere about that whole ordeal if I was in her position
And this shit is why I work out at home.
Had a guy like this who would come in to the coffee shop I worked at back when and approach all the women who worked there with shit like this, just trying to casually throw in the "yeah I'm married but you wanna do some cheating??". I always felt so bad for whoever his wife was. This is giving me cringe PTSD flashbacks.
That’s so tuff bro wanted to cheat on his wife so bad he would literally ask for it 😂😂🤣😭
My husband and I went to starbucks 4 days ago early in the morning and we witnessed something like that, it was so uncomfortable for the Starbuck employee but she looked like she was handling it well so we didnt feel the need to step in but as soon as we got out, my husband was like yikes
I was a server at a breakfast diner and this one customer would bring his whole family, wife and 2 little kids, every weekend for brunch. But he would come alone every week day and hit on all of us, including the 15 bus girls. He once even tried offering me money to "go somewhere" with him. Such a creep and it was so hard to serve his family but most of all his wife who was so nice
Yikes!!
As a construction worker stuff like this happens to me and some co workers I know but it's usually the married ones. It's like super weird when I can see your family photos behind you and your husband is somewhere.
"u could meet my wife" is nuts after getting rejected
"Trying to be nice" is certainly one thing she was doing, but she went way beyond that. She confronted him with eye contact and poise, she was down to earth and altruistic... she made caring statements about men and women... and all the while she was a tad condescending (the least he deserved). She deserves a Nobel Prize.
Are you an incel? please tell me how she was condescending.. also how can you describe her as down to earth and then say she was condescending.... those words are contradicting
@@CCC9437 I'd be down to hear why you disagree but you're triggered as hell. You started with just a basic insult; maybe learn to articulate your argument without losing the interest of the person you're interacting with immediately? Or just chill out? Take care. 🤟🏻
@@JustinMarshallElias2which part was condescending?
@@CCC9437 damn dude relax, youre not even making sense because an incel wouldnt have complemented her
This is the opposite of an incel comment, incels hate women, so whoever that first commenter is is an idiot
Charlie's voice is so soothing. I'm not into podcasts, but I could listen to this man talk for hours.
This is exactly why my cousin stopped going to the gym. She was driven away by all the creeps.
Didn't ask I'm way better then charlie. I just got someones channel deleted 🤣🤣😂😂,,
Didn't ask I'm way better then charlie. I just got someones channel deleted 🤣🤣😂😂,,
Didn't ask I'm way better then charlie. I just got someones channel deleted 🤣🤣😂😂,,,
I feel both honored and insulted that all the bots are replying to my comment
didnt ask i am a gym
Literally thank you so much for showing people a legitimate gym creep and not just some kind guy keeping an eye out.
The bots already got you 💀
@@blackcatcommenter I know bro 💀💀 an I'm not even close to top comment either
@@InstagramUser2 Karma comin lil punjabi
It's a fake video, already been confirmed from the source.
Stop gaslighting men.
Boogeyman!!! 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆
That poor woman, she has faith in humanity
"Go With The Flow" playing in the background is the icing on the cringe cake. Just the most ironic theme song to this creepy dude fumbling through the most awkward exchange. Truly makes this a masterpiece.
She was nice because she would still see him every day, even after this interaction. It's not like he's gonna magically disappear from the gym the next day and never come back again.
After having this video of him on the internet for the whole world to see, he just might.
I would never go back to that gym again ngl
Female only gyms sound like they're just going to provide a false sense of security. There was that guy who setup cameras in the women's only gym that he owned not long ago. And then in California there was that women only spa that was ordered by the courts to permit a man to use it just because he said he identified as a woman.
I used to be a massage therapist. When people called and tried to determine if they could get extra favors, something that has worked for me is saying I could pray for them and that usually shut them down fast.
I would be _way_ too embarrassed to even show up to my appointment after that lmao
I love that. It politely calls them godless heathens.
@@thalobluehey, don't insult godless heathens like that by comparing them to those creeps lmao
Can’t tell if the guy is trying to cheat or if he has an “open” marriage, given he keeps mentioning she should meet his wife. Very scary situation, especially when he started the conversation with how much he knows about her like a stalker.
People in open marriages tend to just _say_ that they're in open marriages. They don't dance around the subject bc there's no guilt.
@@error-try-again-later This is true, didn’t think about that.
I do really appreciate Charlie saying about how women often have to be overly polite because if we’re not then things could get dangerous. I don’t think I’ve heard a man acknowledge that before and so to now have one with so much respect and with such a large audience saying it, it feels nice :)
As a man, I could not agree more about needing to be careful around these people... there are some absolutely unhinged men out there and I think a lot of men agree that there are some vile degenerates out there that i wish knew what 'no' means, and not to flip out when they hear it. I just don't think men get the option to express such awareness as it's not something tou can just bring out of the blue, but believe me, im disgusted that it's a reality that a hard no is a potential death sentence for some people
TBH I completely agree with what you're saying. We live in such a F'D UP WORLD that is getting worse as a whole over the years. People have gotten more bold and unpredictable in their actions, words, etc... Most of the population is 'All outta fu*ks to give.' LMFAO 😆 Sad but true facts. Lots of predators out there. I DESPISE SCUMBAGS, especially ones that prey on the weak. Some straight p*ssy azz s**t FR.🤔🫤
It never happened to me, but I'd always want a girl to tell me like: "Sorry, you're just not my type" or something along those lines.
I have a friend who was trying to ask a girl out for a coffee, and she was always just indecisive and didn't really answer. The closest thing he got to a real NO was along the lines: "I don't know". When he said: "what do you mean you don't know?" she said: "I'm a blonde". He was literally baffled by it, he thought maybe she's too shy and don't want to say yes or something? I told him: "if she wanted it, she would have said yes", but this was also very weird. I never witnessed this behavior before that. This lasted for a week I should add! (he sent a message every couple of days along the lines "did she make a decision yet?" or something, he was trying to be cool and not too pushy or clingy, give her time so he wouldn't look creepy like a guy sending 5 messages in one hour, but don't leave her hanging for a whole week, IDK, we were 17...
Luckily, I had a mutual friend with this girl so I told him to investigate and she told him: "how many cues do I have to do to make him realize I don't want to have NOTHING to do with him???" And she was kind of angry about it, called the guy ugly, stupid and I don't know what else, it was real bad. The guy just said: "one simple NO should be sufficient."
Next time my friend asked her out, she said "No." and that was the end of it.
... I mean ... I realize that she probably wanted to be nice or careful or whatever the fuck was going on, but then I think - if this friend of mine was an actual creepy stalker, her actions would have been 100% interpreted as an invitation, playing hard to get, being too shy to say yes or whatever. If he was the angry type, he would be really pissed that she strung him along for a week and possibly plotted a revenge or god knows what... This guy was just thought: "why did it take her a whole week to say no, why didn't she say it immediately and save us both from embarrassment"?
tl; dr: I'd want you to be polite and tell me "Sorry, but no" as soon as possible!
If a guy is stupid and don't say "ok, sorry about that" then you can resort to the "be overly polite" tactics, but most of the time it would be better to just keep doing what you were doing, and don't maintain eye contact anymore because crazy people will interpret the eye contact as an invitation, and looking away as "gtfo".
@@zlacfunny how in a comment about men not getting it you write a 500 word essay about you not getting it
@@albedo9921 I wrote that I didn't get it when I was 17.
Now I get it, but think it's a really bad choice.
Think about it;
If I didn't get it, my friend didn't get it, and everyone agrees that most men don't get it - a psycho will not only "not get it", it will either make him mad anyways, or he'll think the answer isn't NO.
Creeps like this are cathartic. They make me realize I'm pretty ok
Creeps like that make me curl up into a ball. Why is it so hard to say "Hi, I've been looking to add a new workout to my regiment, do you have any suggestions?" to break the ice. Or just "How's it going?" it's so cringe the way these people do it!
Punjabi at it again@@InstagramUser2
That’s why we watch these videos. That satisfying feeling of, “well I’m definitely not as pathetic as THAT guy!”
You know, I usually keep to myself in the gym, but some years ago a drop dead gorgeous woman started appearing. Sometimes I'd just randomly see her watching me, and it didn't help that sometimes I'd look over too.
Then one day, before I packed my stuff and went to the locker room, I took the balls to speak to her.
Pretty much just told her that I don't want to interrupt her or anything and simply wanted to tell her how beautiful she was. Looked at me with big eyes, seemingly surprised - but before anything, I said I just wanted to tell her, excused myself and wished her well. After a shower and getting dressed, I went out - in a crowd as in that particular moment, about a dozen people both entered and left the lockers. I saw her first, she was on training equipment right next to the locker room, looking around, seemingly in search for someone. Tried playing it off and go about my way when she saw me and called out to me "hey, um, the man that talked to me", I was literally shaking a bit and went to her. She wanted to tell me how she thought it was pretty brave that I spoke to her and that she really appreciated the compliment. We talked for like 15 minutes after that -
Towards the end and before she resumed to training, she asked me when I usually come to training and we found out that our times nearly always overlap. Talking with her became a usual, but like a month later she told me she came together with her ex again. Acted surprised, but told her I wish her will with her relationship. I dropped my personal interest in her as some kind of partner, and ever since we are gym buddies, having some talks before and/or after our gym visits, it turned into a nice little friendship, and to this day I guess I'm happy to have found someone I can talk about all kinds of stuff with freely.
Nobody asked but hey, I felt a little nostalgic so that's that ^^
I think it's simply important to respect boundaries even if you approach someone, and whether or not it seems you disturb someone (or not).
Anyway, I drink to Lisa, a dear gym buddy of mine :)
It makes me never want to have children
She is much nicer and stayed way to long listening to this creep..
My anger issues could never
Not anger issues, just a normal person. She’s a much nicer person than most of us clearly
I can feel the restraining order being writen out in her head
I like when her face goes from patiently waiting for him to make a point to WTF when he says he is married.
That's hella creepy how he just listed everything he's noticed about her. I wasn't expecting THAT creepy, but I'm not sure how it can get worse 😮💨
I’m better than Charles 💀💀
@InstagramUser2 no one's gonna sub bro,f off
I know what it's like to lose women to a guy like this over OkCupid. They end up going on a date with him, finding out he's extremely awkward, and then they're too guilty to continue the conversation you were having with them because I call them out on having met up with someone over the weekend. Be very wary of these online bee eye tea sea aytches. No fidelity whatsoever
He probably knows more bout her than his wife
@@ZenigundamLittle bro thinks he has game. A simple click on your channel reveals so many red flags, anyone who's self-respecting wouldn't wanna go on a date with you
best thing about this gym interaction was the background music.
Jesus christ charles, careful with those guns 6:50
6:50 jacked Charlie jumpscare
when a girl says she likes observant men, it doesn't mean this level of creepines
It means she likes to "observe" his material wealth lol.
@@CMP-st5whNo, it means she likes men who can tell what you like and gets what you’re feeling.
It is kind of true. Women don't want you to NOTICE everything about them. Just the good things. Not when they fart or that random nipple hair, however small.
@@CMP-st5wh I see you like to "observe" the Andrew Tate subreddit on Misogyny 101!
@CMP-st5wh kinda wild that your a real person lmao
He just needed to walk away he just kept on yapping and embarrassing himself even more.
it’s really nice that you mentioned why we are nice to rejecting people- it can really get dangerous
I met my girlfriend at the gym and later on she told me that was the worst way I could have approached someone and that I’m lucky I caught her in a good mood
How did you approach her?
@@LeeEverett1at the gym
Damn, I'm not one to question a relationship but that seems like a veiled threat the way that criticism was put, man.
@@LeeEverett1 he said "hey....mmm I completely forgot what I was gonna say, wanna go watch 50 shades of grey?"
@@LeeEverett1he hollered, “sup ma…you tryna go play some Fortnite and cuddle”? And she was all like “okay turbo-virgin, I’m totally into random strangers at the gym”!
I think it's more like he has been eavesdropping every conversations that she has with people who are honestly friendly.
Or he stalked her socials
No I think it's the result of past chitchat. She and he are probably both regulars at that gym, he's probably stumbled over his words in front of her plenty before that day
@@grunkleg.3110 he literally said in the video that they've only ever really said hi to each other. I seriously doubt they've ever had an actual conversation, unless you count this creepy blabbering as conversation
I agree. Either stalked socials or listened in on other people having conversations with her or perhaps phone convos she has had to take in public. You can get alot more personal yet normal info by just listening in on phone conversations.
But truly if you were a sane being you can probably learn all of it by just talking to the person normally in the first place...
Punjabi@@InstagramUser2
How can you be kinda sorta married?? My heart goes out to his wife😢😢
Holy shit, this guy went up and said all this in confidence. He sat there and thought this through. Then thought … yeah that’ll work
She's just looked so genuinely frustrated and exhausted with dealing with that guy.
Her patience and diplomacy is crazy
She should be hired as a hostage negotiator, clearly has practical experience
@@347Jimmyshe’s basically negotiating her own hostage situation here 💀
@@fart63 exactly! I'd hire her based on what I've seen here
Probably thinking how annoying it would be to get a refund on her gym subscription
I refuse to believe this man is married. The only woman I can imagine that spends time with him is anime wifu pillow he keeps tucked under his bed so his mom doesn’t see it.
Im loving Charlie's Shaming creeps arc
you would love when I roast my uncle then
"He is Anti-Charisma, He is the opposite of Rizz" That had me legit dying lol
In a sense, we're all legit dying every moment of our lives. :-)
Hes zzir..
@@SixerRyan no need to be depressing mate
Truly an unmatched power level.
The worst thing is him trying to like keep her in this convo when she looks like obviously untinteresred in continuing because she is not feeling comfortable . Plus you’re interrupting a workout
Even before the married comment she looked creeped completely out.
For a minute I was wondering who filmed it, then I realized she was probably recording her workout. And I'd like to thank her for her service in posting this shit.
Maybe she also just turned on the camera bc she saw him coming. Many people do that in case something bad happens. Evidence and such.
@@HumblemudNo that is just psychotic
@@Humblemudthis
@@Lexr294 its psychotic to make sure you record yourself for safety? You good homie?
@@Lexr294you don't sound like you know what kind of harrassment a lot of people go through and suffer a long time afterwards just because they couldn't get proof, it's completely valid to stay alert.
Charlie I don’t think you understand how much women out here appreciate you setting a good example of how to be a good man. Thank you 🙏 keep being you
Very well said. I couldn't agree more.
Lots of male gamers are pigs. I am always so proud of charlie for setting a good example. The internet was worse when he wasn’t mocking creeps back in the day.
Yes this guys a creep but women need to stop calling random guys creeps at the gym too 💀💀💀
@@yusuf_lixtur bro shut up you’re two months too late
@@ghoulishgreens do something about it
So what I'm learning is to carry a mace, and a taser, and a mace-infused taser.
You know it’s bad when it’s not even a minute and Charlie whips out a “goober”
the problem is that hes a creep, but also that he tried to plan the interaction out probably extensively. planning out an interaction like this is redpill porn-brained stuff. its an unnatural interaction and people pick up on it instantly.
And he's married. So it works.
A sad stare of affairs indeed, for all parties involved.
@@CMP-st5whI doubt he’s actually married. It might be a kind of, “if she thinks I’m married, she might think I’m desirable enough to want to commit adultery with” situation. He’s probably assuming she’d be down to cheat since he likely thinks most women are adulterous by nature and find married men attractive.
@@gobalbucsnah I think he is, I think he would have dropped the act immediately once she rejected him for that reason alone (to his face I mean) and not because of the fact that he’s a huge creep
Ew yeah that makes it worse he planned it and had a canned speech to give because he wasn’t randomly having a nice interaction. He is trying to prey on her for one sole purpose.
@@gobalbucshe’s married si she could get citizenship or he’s married to a boogawolf
I can FEEL her growing resignation and helplessness. Its so stupid, you need to find a perfect ground between not hurting their feelings and being able to hold your ground. If you are too nice, they press even more because "you aeem not so sure of your answer" and if you are too blunt you risk getting hurt or yelled at because he suddenly feels attacked now while he is harassing you.
You ever see a comment and feel terrible? Cause i just have
it's heartbreaking to see women suffering against creeps like this and for me to be completely helpless to stop it, I guess I'm at least making an effort to help by not being an absolute freak and shutting down other guys with attitudes like this.
I can't believe my father suggested that women get turned on by this sorta relentless treatment and actively urged me to do this... it's the only time I've struck someone with a good open handed slap and im glad my father got the point.
I honestly feel bad that girls have to deal with this deadly dance between too passive and too aggressive on a regular basis, and it terrifies me that many men are taught that that's how love works.
@@foxo5464 dude im so damn happy you didnt blindly follow the path your dad wanted you to go and actually spoke up!!! Its people like you that still make me believe in a spark of humanity :)
She was more than kind, she was honest. That was elective.
Dude...
She has to file a restraining order against him
1:13 phenomenal acting here Charlie, I found myself so immersed I was genuinely fearing for Mark. Hunger games may have left you, but you never left Hunger games
God I hope the wife does come in while she’s there, I’m sure she’d want to share everything with her.
This was one of the hardest things to listen and I feel very bad for all parties and audience involved
This is why I don’t go out much anymore and definitely don’t go to the gym I have my own set at home.
So hows this for a pick up line: Hey I'm married but I've been watching you and I think you have what it takes to be a side chick.
It's 1000% smoother than the dude from the vid 🤷🏻♂️
an era has passed. Charlie is no longer accompanying his "creep" titles with a picture of himself.
Now how did this man get married with this negative rizz
This creep knowing the information about her is major stalker alert.
We genuinely need men like you to talk about stuff like this and call these creeps out bc it doesn’t seem to get through to them that we want to be left alone 😅❤
Bring back “To catch a predator” but call it “To catch a stalker” instead
This guy is clearly not right in the head. Any normal man is obviously able to tell that this behaviour is not okay.
I doubt this has ever even happened to you 😂. In fact I’m going to assume that 99% of the men you interact with on a daily basis don’t do this.
I too was harassed by a woman like this when I was 15. She was 22 at the time kept coming on to me she was my best friend’s sister. Finally she gave me a bunch of alcohol and basically graped me.
I don’t blame all women for her behavior. I’m not thick enough to think all women need to pay for her crime. The reality is there are female predators just like male we just don’t make a big deal out of it. Could you imagine if I when I was 22 went out and got a 15 yr old girl drunk and then forced myself on her? 😂 I’d be in jail to this day, but women? They can get away with it.
@@Person0fColor lol okay 👍🏼
@@Person0fColor Tell me you're a misogynist without telling me you're a misogynist
I tried so hard not to pause and take a break from the overwhelming cringe of that whole interaction. I succeeded, but it hurt
I had to stop the video several times lol
haha yea I felt myself wanting to look down, or away, or make it stop quite strongly
I had to skip some parts to protect myself
I failed, lol. Even just listening in the background and distracting myself with another task wasn't enough to protect me
I had to stop at 30 seconds lol. No way i'm watching this. Here for the comments
And she never went back to that gym again.
"Less game than someone who is asleep" made me lol irl, it's so concise
The worst thing about this is that no matter what a woman does in that situation, it will all be wrong.
Be nice and try to say 'no' gently?
The guy will keep going, thinking that he can convince her otherwise.
Strictly say 'no'?
He will feel like his ego is hurt and might get aggressive with her or see it even more as a challenge. Which is creepy af.
There's no escape. Unless you're ugly. Then men will leave you magically alone, which is nice but shouldn't be the solution here.
And saying "I have a boyfriend" doesn't work either with creeps
It's sad that I'm thankful for being ugly and fat because I've never been hit on by creeps 🥲 My little sis is definitely the pretty one in the family. She's only 18 and it's so unfortunate that she's run into creeps at her work.
Sadly, I don't think they'll leave them alone even if they're ugly if they're just looking for a one time hookup rather than a gf.
@@GmmBeast Same. I look like Hagrid from Harry Potter. The only people bothering me are those trying to sell me something. I'm mostly safe, thankfully.
It's always bothered me how some men will continue to ask someone out even after they say no, but the moment she says "I have a boyfriend" the majority of them will leave it at that and walk away. They'll respect a man they don't even know before they respect the woman standing right infront of them... pisses me off
@@GutPoacher Even if she says that, a concerning amount of them will start trying to list off reasons why they think she should leave her bf for them 😭
Here I was thinking it was an exaggeration when people say that they die of cringe. I'm writhing with every word this man says
Count yourself lucky it took you this long to come across something that gave you that feeling
at the end she’s probably thinking ok it’s time to change gyms