Not just Tiktok itself, but this entire "tiktoker" era has let so many terrible people get undeserved attention. We live in an age where narcissism isn't just accepted, it's borderline encouraged. It's nice that a few people get called out on their shit, but this happens way too damn much.
The people in the gym either do things to purposely get attention like slam weights, scream, stunts, or wear extremely tight clothing, or are literally doing nothing at all, staring at their phones. How hard is it to leave your phone in the car, go to the gym with a written plan, execute the plan, and leave within an hour and a half? America is so obese, and its people's attitudes that are having the biggest impact on health and fitness in general.
I'm gonna sound crazy but as far as I know I'm speaking the truth and even have evidence for my claims if it's needed by anyone to look it up and see for themselves, but that's because tiktok is a literal Chinese info weapon used to make the west's youth dumber and less effective adults 😅 In China, their tiktok shows science, art, and just overall just learning and creative stuff, but we are shown that you can be "famous" for being a bad person who wastes food, hurts others, ect. and they don't even make any real money from it all. They are taught to be assholes for moneyless clout by tiktok. Tiktok really needs to go the way of vine asap.
actually, ‘going to jail for staring at an under aged 21 year old’ is such a perfect representation of how people these days are desperate to manipulate a situation to fit their narrative
@@KfcOwner until you meet that woman who runs on all fours like some kind of native American skin walker. If you don't know what I am talking about just Google girl runs like a horse
@@KfcOwner I wish I could just watch and kick ALL the drama queens and ones dressing like sluts or videoing out of the gym STRAIGHT UP. ANY shenanigans of female drama, your photo is taken, you're put on a blacklist and booted from ALL GYMS the have men. If they're serious they can go to the female only gyms. But MOST are going because they ARE CHASING MALE ATTENTION and looking for a man. They literally have videos about it on tiktok. Men avoid their usual spots so they dress in leggings and a bikini to attract a man.
For real. She literally brings her camera everytime she goes to the gym just to shame people for simply looking at her once, she acts just like a child that that complains about every normal thing that a human could do.
Camera weirdness aside, men being piggish is really common and women becoming worried is common, sadly. I personally find a lot of interactions with men to be reallt tense sometimes until i KNOW they are safe
TikTok has officially destroyed our social skills to the point where people make videos like this thinking that they are being harassed when, in fact, they are experiencing the absolute bare minimum of human interaction, if you can even call it interaction.
This happened to me once at the gym when I was still a newbie. A very old male was looking at me as I was using some equipment, and ofc I was weirded out. After about 5 minutes of occasionally watching me work out, he came over and told me “you’re doing it wrong” and showed me the proper technique. I was grateful because I didn’t get hurt from using the equipment wrong. Seriously, sometimes men just want to help out.
@Anthony Fernandez Mansplaining is where men automatically assume a woman doesn’t know something without any evidence to support that assumption and proceeds to explain in detail often in a condescending manner without bothering to ask if they want/need said explanation. The OP in this case did show that they didn’t know what they were doing therefore the man going over to correct it is not mansplaining. You actually have to be pretty obnoxious in order to qualify for the mansplaining category.
@@MissCaraMint see the difference is that YOU understand that term and use it correctly while others don’t. So he’s actually right in this case. Just look at all the other terms that get used now where ppl don’t even know the real meaning behind them but blatantly uses them lol
I saw one record herself on the side of a British road doing jumping Jack's and squats and getting angry that a man in a van driving past glanced at her for like a second trying to make out his a creep going on about how this is something women have to put up with... Ignoring the fact that when driving a vehicle on the road... You HAVE to be aware of your surroundings as it's called spacial awerness. Most people called her out and of course, she made her profile private. Men... Checking their surroundings when driving a dangerous moving vechile and observing pedestrians so he doesn't end up hurting one... Yep.. Defo creep 🙄🤦 If I was driving and saw someone doing jumping Jack's near the road I'm driving past. I'd probably be aware of them because they could fall over on the road.
Another thing both Joey and Charlie haven’t brought up is that these people might have whole ass stands, lights, duffel bags, and some may even have cameras instead of a phone. Having a whole ass movie set for your lifts is going to bring attention to you.
@@nymade4130 This. These types of people act like people simply looking in their general direction is a crime, yet seem to go out of their way to be the biggest attention grabber in a 100-mile radius. Clothes are never an excuse for actually bad behavior, but if you're wearing the bare minimum with a full-on movie setup around you in a public place, people are gonna look in your general direction from time to time, and that's not a crime.
Another thing i don't get is why they need to wear the tightest cloth possible. Like DUH a guy might glance at you. Those women shouldn't be allowed to wear that to a gym. Imagine a guy wearing such tight shorts . Guys also just want to focus without having visual distraction right in front of them.
I feel embarrassed even when I have my camera faced toward me for a Snapchat response .. I don’t get how people are able to just openly film other people .. they are the gym creeps for doing that.
I agree with you on the feeling of getting someone filmed just because they happen to be there, but at the end of the day a gym is a common area, depends on the rules of each gym you can record there. On the other hand the "social media gym culture" has derived from what it actually is
Agree with the weird feeling. The only time I have felt using a camera is fine is your bud like filming a pr or something for form. Usually it’s toward the rack with no one else in the shot or with no focus of anyone else. It’s a weird fad that has come up now.
Being a overweight male, and knowing that this tends to be the stigmatization that we tend to get as males out of gym regardless of who we are, this is the exact reason why if I'm facing the wall and a woman in tight clothing walks in front of me I will actually close my eyes and literally just focus on my music instead of focusing on my form. I get so tired of feeling like I'm being made out to be creepy or whatever just because I glanced in someone's general direction for half a second because I'm always scanning around me and always looking at myself to see how my form is going, and to see if there's anyone else around me so I either don't hit somebody accidentally, or I also do that for threat analyzation. I won't deny and admit I'm paranoid, but luckily meds help manage that, but with that aside, shit like this doesn't help with that paranoia. Because now in addition to threat analyzation for the sake of someone just losing their shit for absolutely no reason, now I have to worry about women thinking I'm staring at them just because I glanced in their general direction for 3 seconds, or I did that a few times just because they're pretty and I'm trying to figure out why the fuck they keep looking over at me first before anything else, meanwhile all I was doing was just glancing around the gym to see who's there, What machines are available, and what I plan on trying to do next for a workout. Legit, I'm not kidding you, I've actually been stared at a few times by women, and I literally look at them back because I'm trying to figure out why I'm being stared at, and more often than not they're giving me dirty looks or something like that and I'm trying to figure out what the fuck I did wrong, when all I was doing was just focusing on my music, staring at the wall in front of me and just focusing on what I'm doing. I actually remember this exact video not too long ago, as it's only recently that I'm getting to this now, and actual Jim creeps, and then the falsified story of Jim creeps is to the reasons why I'm not the biggest fan of public gyms
Why did you make a whole fucking essay (not being mean also I'm very impressed that you did that, its awesome but Im just curious you did a really good job on this comment and I'm very very sorry if I hurt your feelings I'm not trying to)
Sorry to hear that. However, I think you might be overthinking it. This kind of behavior isn't the norm or standard at all. I go to the gym regularly and still have a higher body fat percentage (20-30%), and I've only had one bad interaction. With a guy. Keep heads up. There is no need for facing the walls. Internet wierdos are not that common
Keep on the grind man, I actually went to the gym as an underweight male like with barely any muscles just skin and bone by the time you wrote this and I already see myself getting better and see the muscles growing, I believe in you and exercise is for the best it just takes time and of course moderation
I hate how Tik Tok trends turn polite and genuine people into creeps, and the whole mess discourages people from interacting with someone for fear of being ridiculed or accused of harassment. this is a whole new level of bullying and I REALLY hate it
The Kingdom of God is at Hand John 3:16 King James Version 16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
This be why us guys gotta be super duper extra careful these days. One woman lies or falsely accuses us and we’re done for. These days nobody waits for due process like with Johnny Depp and just assume guilt because you’re a man.
The term "snowflake" gets thrown around so much to the point it's lost most of its meaning, but it sure as fucking hell applies real nicely to this bitch
I’ve seen people joking online for a while claiming to be adult age minors so at first I thought she’s joking and maybe she is but sometimes it’s easy to forget some people do think like this. Like those jokes started for a reason. I knew a guy who claimed just because he was 25 didn’t mean he was an adult Edit: for the folks saying he was right, unless you’re in the sort of transition point between teenager and adult you can’t pretend you’re not actually an adult just because you don’t feel like one. I know it’s devastating but it’s true
@@vibescake2175 "I think you could use even more 'em broccoli, kid... I mean sweetie. 😊 Mommy's gotta do another appology video before dinner, so that most people will forgive her sooner or later."
The real creepy part is the fact that these people likely spent hours analyzing every behavior of these random people that they’ve secretly recorded. This should honestly be a crime
Fun fact.. if you're not participating in Social Media you will never know they do that. It's like a conversation they have in their head. It doesn't matter, lol.
Ah yes, the Starbucks addict in the Target yoga pants with a tripod that sets up sting operations in order to entrap males and publicly humiliate them for personal gain. I know the type.
They're gonna have to create 2 sides of the gym. The one side that turns it into a TV set with all the Tik Toks & pictures and videos and the other side that actually just wants to exercise and get tf outta there.
And many of them don't seem to aware what they doing is bad/wrong, and post it to mass. Which is somewhat a good thing, public notice it fast and call them.
It’s more weird that she’s talking to herself. He was probably wondering who she was talking to or if she was talking to him. Plus some of the stuff she was whispering like “feral, feral, feral, f*cking feral” absolutely would garner some attention from anyone within hearing distance. Not to mention that but anyone filming kinda gets your attention anyway because you wonder what they’re doing, if you’re in the shot, etc.
I even heard about a blind guy that was accused of staring at a gym. After he told her and the one of the staff members that he wasn't staring because he was blind they were still outraged.
The Blind Surfer Pete Gustin? He recounted a story like this, said he even presented them with proof he's blind (some sort of ID card IIRC), and the manager said something like "well you still can't make people uncomfortable by staring at them". When he literally cannot even tell if he's staring at someone.
As someone with social anxiety, this is the kind of stuff I think always goes through people's heads if I ever acknowledge their existence with a glance. Knowing that there are people out there like this makes it worse for me
I'm with you on that! Worries me everytime I make eye contact with someone! "Do they think I was staring at them when I just glanced over? Do they think I'm a creep now cause of that?!"
same, i might have a problem as i do it so much i unknowingly avoid looking people in the eyes when i talk to them. or is that normal?, i dont know anymore.
I used to be like that, i kind of still am, but in the end overthinking stuff like this is just gonna drive you insane. In the end you can't control what people think of you, you don't know how their head works, so why bother? Look people in the eyes Smile when you greet them Speak clearly so they can hear It's perfectly normal, in fact it's the bare minnimum. And if someone has a problem with it it's their fault.
@@bobthespam I am sort of like that. Not when someone is talking to me or me them, because I've always been in the belief that eye contact comes with talking. But otherwise I avoid looking at people.
Well I think that taking photos in the gym while you pose is a good thing so that you can track your progress and gives you more self esteem, of course always with respect of others
@Jackson Miller it is scary though. You can't even have your own opinion online without risk of people trying to cancel you. Imagine you're out with friends just messing around and one of you makes a joke that with no other context seems extremely offensive or in poor taste, that gets recorded and spread around. I've seen people lose thier job over less.
Dude Charlie where have you been this is liberal country now baby and I can explain to you what is happening in the world but I can’t understand it for you bud. This could be a product of the girl hating men cause all she sees on the internet is the bashing of men which comes from the left profusely also rape culture (not real) she could be thinking of that I mean I couldn’t even imagine being a little girl growing up in the world today
Well considering he looked at her a couple of times while she was constantly looking at him without a break to catch him looking.Wasn't she the one staring then?
Honestly the guy getting called out for being new and not knowing how to act is a source of my own anxiety. I've only ever done workouts at home because I'm afraid I'll step on toes or come across as the new weirdo just for wandering around. I'm glad to see the behaviour is being called out and hopefully addressed in the community
Don't be fooled to think this behavior is new, rampant and accepted in the gym. Many of the swole guys who show empathy and compassion at the gym have the best attitude because they too understand how it is to be that new small/skinny person at the gym. Also at this point many of us who are respectful at the gym are just going to put on our headphones and mind our own business unless something major comes up.
No one actually acts like this, that’s why these videos blow up whenever someone acts like a gym Karen. Because it’s not normal. And even if you were to step on somebody’s toes, most people wouldn’t mind. There’s no time limit, if you have to wait an extra minute because someone took your weight or is in your way, most people wouldn’t care enough to tell you off.
I once was staring cause I needed a spot and I wanted to ask but I was getting weird vibes just for doing that so I asked the dude on my right who helped me in two seconds and the interaction was done. I think these people are so self centered and used to social media attention that they think everyone wants them.
After working at a gym for 13 years, these people have always existed. They’re just able to film it to an audience now. The “I want all the attention, but I don’t want people looking at me” people. Lol
@@adrianc6534 What do you think is the more likely possibility: Literally half of the human race is genetically inclined towards this behaviour or Youve had a few bad experiences with women and are bitter and resentful and so extrapolate those experiences onto billions?
As a woman who likes to go to the gym from time to time, these women are doing nothing but making it harder for us. Now I have to be afraid that I may need help, and the men around me would be too afraid, because I might call them creeps afterwards.
Some people really believe 'creep until proven otherwise'. Tbf when ya got stalkers, catcallers gropers and worse you have to look out for its understandable but man. I just wanna be left alone, please don't lump me in with those assholes.
@@BigCarris_53_64 she's not, u misunderstood the comment. she's not saying that she's going to call them a creep, she's saying that the women who post these kinds of videos make the men in her gym feel as if she would say that when just being friendly/helping.
@@hmkily hey, I get that. As a man myself, what Jacob Yerkes did just make other men look BAD! It’s ridiculous! I misunderstood it just a little! Women can be creeps, too! Not just only men!
As someone who zones out a lot and accidentally stares people down, this scares me. I’m already terrified of being filmed without my consent and now we have tiktoker who believe that breathing in your direction is creepy.
I’ve always had a problem with spacing out and staring. It sucks cause people ALWAYS call me out for it and tell me I’m a freak and shit. It sucks lol but what can you do 🤣
Something that i dont get is how they feel confortable with sharing a recording of themselves basically from the most sketchy angle of their body but then feel atacked when someone briefly stares at their direction.
This is part of the reason the gym I go to has a very strict "No filming or recording" clause with their membership. If you're caught filming for any reason, you can be banned, and I have actually seen this happen. it sucks to see this happen at the gym, a place where people are going to literally better themselves and they can't even do that without this kind of shit happening.
it really doesn't tho,all its doing is pointing out the chronically online women that want attention. how would someone that's actualy a creep get taken less seriously
Stuff like this pisses me off because real harassment is still a thing. Some gyms will inevitably have creepy people. Setting up fake scenarios for clout does nothing but laugh in the face of people's actual experiences.
Yeah, it’s this horrid trend we’ve reached of people online essentially fantasising about being SA/SH victims and making up these wildly exaggerated situations in their head, but also POSTING THEM ONLINE? Like how braindead and insulting can you be?
i agree. i have tourettes and i feel the same for those shitty petty clout chasers faking having tourettes making it a funny matter when its not. it made my life hell as a kid in school i always got fucked with. and for people to fake it and laugh on camera for fame and attention just realy makes my blood boil
@@apokkalyps6 i think the joke is he's saying he's underage at 40 which means he's more than wrong which means by approving the apology he says the girl is dumb
No he is actually shredded hard to guess his body fat % but it’s definitely at the leaner end ripped means lean which means low body fat % how you gonna say not really ripped I wonder how ripped you are Mauricio
this is why i'm usually afraid to generally look around me, because people make a scene of it so I just end up staring at a wall or what i'm doing unfortunately
They need to enact a no recording policy at gyms. Would love to see how many people are still “passionate” about working out when they can’t film it to make weird content like this for their social media
Most gyms do, you just gotta say something because they aren’t paying attention. If you bring up privacy concern and possibly threaten civil/legal action they will enforce it.
“This is why I don’t want kids.” “Natural selection better take the weirdos out!” She’s already playing her part by not bringing more of her kind into the world.
As a person who works in the tv/film media industry, you have a right to walk up to someone and tell them they do not have permission to film you. If you are in a gym you are in a private space and they, as film makers technically need permission to film in a private establishment. Membership doesn't automatically give you the right to film. Things are different concerning violence, and definitely I would use manners when I tell someone I don't give permission to be filmed. Gyms need to absolutely start putting this into their membership contracts.
When the gym is even moderately busy, it's almost impossible NOT to look like you're staring at people. Unless you stare at the ceiling or the floor, you're going to be looking at someone.
I'm also just tired of people equating looking at someone to harassment or sexual misconduct. More often than not, people using this line of thinking are full of shit. I'd say someone looking at you is only harassment in very specific contexts.
oh and don't forget how some gyms have mirrors everywhere so no matter where you look you will definitely be looking at someone 🤣 some females need to stay at home 🤷🏻♀️
@@G0DH4ND why would we or ANYONE want to stare at the floor especially when most times I just disassociate in between sets so there is no specific thought going on, and even still I’ve looked at plenty of people simply curious as to how they do their workout or how much weight they just did on a lat pull-down we are inherently curious creatures in no way is that creepy unless taken to an extreme
The fact that she says "He should go to jail for staring at an underaged 21-year-old" makes less sense when you consider that even if she was 16 or 17, nothing he does is inherently creepy either in that case. He is not asking for her age, asking her out, or even staring. He is just treating her like a normal patron at a gym indiscriminate of age/gender.
As usual. Just like calling everything racism, nazism, abuse, ADHD, OCD or Autism. People overuse it, and then when you actually suffer these things, people don't take it serious.
@@Rocket_Man. She's staring at and filming him, but he glances in her direction and is in the wrong. What the fk? Some people need some serious mental help.
A girl actually did this in my local fitness world. And everyone and I MEAN EVERYONE looked at her with the faces of disgust. My friend who works there and is a guy, asked her if she could stop filming. And she responded with like a very offended and loud "WHY?" People in the gym just responded with all sorts of remarks, like you're being annoying, you're just a poser, that sorta stuff. Until she sorta... Cried back to the locker room and went home a few minutes later. I felt both great and awkward over the situation.
@@kylem1112 Too much worry of upseting people! I was taught as a child that "Sticks and stones can break my bones but words should never hurt me" or something along those lines and it stuck.
yha probably cause they seen videos like this one and know these girls just wants attention but good for you're gym though as most will probably do the opposite and kick your friend out.
Filming in a gym is just disgusting creepy. A lot of people already have to "force" themselves, fearing of being judged and whatnot, we don't need people filming in there. Just gtfo The only phone thing allowed in my gym is, changing your music or whatever and then you put it back into your pocket.
The thing I find mind boggling in these situations is that the people say they are uncomfortable with being observed, yet the majority have a camera pointed directly at their behind.
As a bigger guy who already feels ashamed to actually GO to the gym, this only makes it worse. It already takes a load of confidence to take those steps into the gym and keep up the routine, now people are going out of their way to attack just normal people in the gym
Fr I’m introverted af I go at like 3 am there’s normally only one other guy there we both wear our headphones and don’t even acknowledge each other’s existence it’s perfect. And no offense but the gym is the best place for bigger guys to be. U should feel ashamed about waiting in a fast food line or something not going to the gym. Who cares what those ppl think anyway there not your friends u never have to talk with them or interact with them if u don’t want to. I’ll never understand why ppl get self conscious because some random person they will prob never see again is judging them idk I’m just wired different I guess.
Trust me it's worth it,I used to be quite the big guy myself being about 290 pounds but after going to the gym for a few years I lost the weight and it is one of the best decisions I ever made
Don’t be afraid or ashamed, many started like you. Real ones will recognise you for it. The more positive you are, the better the responses you will get 🙏
I also am nervous to goto gyms, so I bought adjustable dumbbells, a bench and a pull-up bar to use at home. Don't usually comment, but just wanted to let you know that you're not alone with those feelings. Good luck dude🤘
Even small glances are creepy? Imagine how horrible it'd be if they were filming them without their consent or even knowledge, that'd be awful. Wait...
Can we all just acknowledge the irony of being "creeped out" by some guy at the gym, while simultaneously sharing your entire life online to who knows how many creepers
@@vlisto3712 No it's not, Its even worse. She literally sells her body, how is that different? She over here concerned about the "male gaze" yet she post pics for exactly that.
She also was about to lose a "major" upcoming sponsorship. (Who wants to sponsor someone like that and what for anyway?!). She is completely and utterly dishonest.Garbage human being.
I mean you can’t get any more honest than that. If she said anything else it would clearly be a lie as she had no fuckin clue before. So I liked her apology
The scariest part of this is that they've filmed it so that people could recognize the guys irl, and didn't even consider blocking out the faces for their privacy. Just think, anyone could film you in any location (even a locker room/bathroom) at any time without even caring about your consent, and your face could be plastered all over Tiktok and the rest of the internet without your knowledge.
That’s sadly very common. There was one years ago of kids who filmed a fast food worker and claimed she was being rude to them. This poor girl (who was only 2 or 3 years older than the teens) was mocked for a while till someone told her about it and she made her own tiktok claiming the kids were being disrespectful and with proof. If no one had told her she might have continued being mocked. Or people found out who she was and went to make fun of her. That’s just one of the first I remember happening
This is why I am glad my brother built us a gym in our garage. Both of us were janitors at different gyms for most of a year and the shit people would get up to was mind boggling.
Yeah my dad and I have put together a nice setup in his garage and it is sooo much better. I sometimes go to the gym with my buddies every once in a while but yeah home gym > public every time
It absolutely blows my mind how these people film themselves specifically to be seen and watched by millions of strangers, yet they pretend to be absolutely disgusted when a stranger even glances towards their general direction irl lmao...
Hope this shows to men that women do not f*ck around when they say they don't feel safe around certain places. This is exactly the type of crap they have to deal with (of course not justifying her actions, just pointing out the obvious).
@@vorza2988 what? Not hard to get. What she did there to that guy happens x10000 to women around public places, especially bathrooms. I don’t want to hear dudes saying they exaggerate because one lady on this video decided to do something extremely stupid.
The irony is that they make such a big deal out of people looking at their face while they're recording themselves from an angle where their ass is best visible so that millions of people can stare at it as long as they want.
I also want to kinda point something out as someone who’s seen filming in gyms. The people filming aren’t covertly doing it they often have a tripod rig set up for stability. So sometimes you might look at the rig and see it’s filming a person and subconsciously because of that you tend to look at what the person is doing. The gender Doesn’t matter
Not to mention most of the clips had the girls' ass displayed loud and proud for the camera. Not to say there's anything wrong with that but if you're talking about how much you hate people "looking at you" yet you post clips to the internet with your ass as the main focal point. I can promise you're going to get 10x the sexual harassment you thought you were getting in the gym on the internet. I'm not trying to debate whether that's right or wrong I just have a hard time believing someone in this instance. This sucks because I'm sure sexual harassment has happened with the girl in a provocative position like that. However the more of these I see the more I tend to lean towards it's just the trendy new thing to do VS that guy is fucked up and needs to be kicked out.
Also i kinda get when people just glance over ur chilling working out suddenly u notice a tripod and camera pointing ur way last thing u wanna do is get all nervous and mess up thinking it can go online (prolly just me I have social anxiety and get nervous when cameras are pointing at me)
That was exactly what I was thinking when I was watching his gaze. He was probably just curious and maybe thought she was a streamer or maybe recording her form.
Reminds me of my late grandpa. He weighed about 90lbs soaking wet, 5’7, but HOT DAMN he was the STRONGEST man I’ve ever known. Dude could pick up twice his weight with no hesitation. I get the same vibe from Charlie.
One further thing I don't quite get: if I see a person in the gym I'd like to get to know, for whatever reason ... how is it harassment to just say "Hi"? Or to start a conversation? It's not a creepy thing to do, is it? I mean, if you don't want to chat, just say so. Shouldn't be a big deal.
I don't think enough credit goes toward joey and the effort he puts in trying to debunk these videos and trying to keep the Gym a Gym friendly place. He is a saint
He's a very positive influence on anyone trying to get in better shape. He also equally focuses on the positive and negative and is transparent about his own stuff. Need more such influencers.
I doubt millions but yeah. I don’t understand her outlook tbh cause I’m afraid of ppl looking at me at the gym so I just do at home workouts were no one can judge me. That said, that’s kind of a privilege especially if you do strength training.
@@hhasnohope8488 dude/dudette, literally nobody judges anybody on the gym, excluding this tick tock weirdos, every gym bro is happy to see people too skinny or too fat going to the gym and making and effort to regain shape. Trust me, is all in your mind.
As an extremely shy gym bro, I have always been terrified of someone even thinking I'm looking at them while there. To think I could be considered a creep by everyone at the gym I go to all the time for getting a towel to wipe my machine is awful af
Ah well ngl you just have to stop caring about what others do think. It’s that simple. Whatever your gym goal , all the other eyes in the gym can be watching but at the end of the day , do what you came to do , which is get in shape. Take whatever anxiety you have and use it as fuel, if they want to watch fine, let their states be the thing that turn you into a Greek god in front of them
dont worry bro, most people dont care about you in the GYM because they are focused with their goals. to be considered a creep you would need to be caught staring like 5+ times the same person
As a male who goes to the gym 5 days a week, it almost feels like I'm forced to play a game of not looking at anyone. I'm just there to go to the gym work out and go home I'm so sick of this social media generation always taking vids in public spaces. I feel like its destroying my social skills and giving me anxiety.
Seriously man it’s awful like especially at the gym where it’s a place where everyone is accepted as there is a common goal. Its not a place to take pictures or post videos to publicly shame someone just so you can get a few likes.
Do whatever you want. If anyone got a problem with you just looking like a normal human being, just tell them to fuck off and do not disturb you. Better yet just train at a proper gym, a powerlifting/strongman/oldschool bb one
@@knagen In general I agree but another huuuge problem this doesn't address is that these are posted online publicly, often leading to them being harassed- both online and irl, and/or even 'just' being labelled as perverts/sex offenders etc.
Im always super worried about coming off as a weirdo creep, and this certainly doesnt help. The prospect of being branded online as a creep for glancing in someones direction makes going to the gym a very unpleasant idea
@@honestsoul7575 women from gen z think a lot of stuff is “creepy” that I don’t understand. I’ve saw women scream “I’ve got a bf 😱” when a man was just simply asking some innocuous question like directions.
@@honestsoul7575 I'll get reamed for this, but the majority of gen z internet users are chronically online [often self-diagnosed] autistic losers who wouldn't know the first thing about normal human interactions since they're by default unable to grasp social cues and norms.
I’m so glad you shouted out Joey Swoll. That guy is one of the kindest, most genuine content creators out there. Just an all around great representative for the community
@@teamleaf8837 Research what, exactly? He's taking vids directly from Joey Swoll, removing Joey's commentary, and inserting his own commentary which is basically saying the exact same thing.
Yeah, it’s this horrid trend we’ve reached of people online essentially fantasising about being SA/SH victims and making up these wildly exaggerated situations in their head, but also POSTING THEM ONLINE? Like how braindead and insulting can you be?
thank you glad this comment isn't buried this is what i'm thinking this is gonna reverse us back to the creeps creeping and getting excused, because now glancing is creeping.
I think some people are just oversensitized. I'm not trying to protect the women in these videos but what I would like to mention is that women are faced with actual harrassment quite frequently which can cause a high sensitivity to situation that seem somewhat similar to their previous experiences. I noticed this with my girlfriend too, she doesn't like it but she can't help herself thinking like that impulsively. Obviously she doesnt make videos of these people and shames them though, lol.
As a 32 year old woman who has been a gym member since I was a teenager, you know what the best way to get ignored by other people in the gym is? Ignoring everyone yourself, and putting your attention 100% on your workout. Sometimes I notice people looking but it's none of my business if they are. If someone tries to talk to me, I answer politely but keep my headphones in and quickly go back to my workout and 99% of people will understand I'm not interested in being social. I'm certainly not going to try and "catch" people looking at me, cause that will only invite more attention.
I say 80% of people in the gym go there just to get their workout in and get out. They have a life outside that they want to get back to. You can't help but look in someone's general direction when you're at the gym. It full of people , it's unavoidable you're gonna look at someone, at least in their general direction. People are gonna look but many just give a quick glance and get back to whatever they are doing.
Lol problem is you’re female and you’d be lying if you say you didn’t go looking some type was to show “I look good” otherwise I equally doubt you’d be hitting the gym Now it’s pretty obvs which females want to be seen. I have seen some with CRAZY sweet bodies and they wear loose sweat pants and big shirts. No, they’re not fat or skinny. They just don’t want or need the attention on their body, you know they know they look good and don’t need to flaunt it. Then you have the other group who looks half naked or like they want see someone to pick them up at the gym (like these females complaining and filming themselves) and then wonder why people staring at them - 2 reasons, to check you out or to think “wow it’s a gym not a hookup bar” Clearly no female can act like “it’s just clothes” because then we wouldn’t have 2 groups behaving differently and treated differently. I mean those girls type to walk outside coochie and tatas hanging out and expect no one to bat an eye 😅😂
Agreed! I know there are men and women who creep on folks at the gym. Both of these women are wrong. I’m sorry, I also don’t wear tiny outfits or nude shorts to draw extra attention. And the dude in the locker room, I’d have kicked some butt. Go take your pics NOT in the locker room.
@@kaycep6819 the blaming it on the clothes was so unnecessary and pick-me lmao, you were fine until you started trying to make the point that people shouldnt be showing skin in an environment where they're gonna sweat and feel hot a lot
@@kaycep6819 so someone wearing a sports bra, shorts or tights means that they are doing it for attention and not for the sake of their own well-being? People seriously dont know what a real individual person is like and should get an ounce of respect for others lmfao
These ppl are the reason I have to try so hard to mask in public bc I will just stare at ppl without noticing and I’m scared they’ll think I’m creepy when I’m just zoning out
Not just Tiktok itself, but this entire "tiktoker" era has let so many terrible people get undeserved attention. We live in an age where narcissism isn't just accepted, it's borderline encouraged. It's nice that a few people get called out on their shit, but this happens way too damn much.
I'm a zoomer, so as I usually get caught in the middle of these stupid trends, I 100% agree with your assessment. Social media is a wild drug
The people in the gym either do things to purposely get attention like slam weights, scream, stunts, or wear extremely tight clothing, or are literally doing nothing at all, staring at their phones. How hard is it to leave your phone in the car, go to the gym with a written plan, execute the plan, and leave within an hour and a half? America is so obese, and its people's attitudes that are having the biggest impact on health and fitness in general.
You said it perfectly
I'm gonna sound crazy but as far as I know I'm speaking the truth and even have evidence for my claims if it's needed by anyone to look it up and see for themselves, but that's because tiktok is a literal Chinese info weapon used to make the west's youth dumber and less effective adults 😅 In China, their tiktok shows science, art, and just overall just learning and creative stuff, but we are shown that you can be "famous" for being a bad person who wastes food, hurts others, ect. and they don't even make any real money from it all. They are taught to be assholes for moneyless clout by tiktok. Tiktok really needs to go the way of vine asap.
he's the ultimate sleeper build
She deleted her first apology and and posted a new one because her first one did not take accountability.
"Fake it till you make it"
there is only bots in these replies lmao
Join the Discord motherfūcker!!!! Hahaha love your vids dude!
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Tf are these replies
actually, ‘going to jail for staring at an under aged 21 year old’ is such a perfect representation of how people these days are desperate to manipulate a situation to fit their narrative
Ngl sometimes when i see videos like this i contemplate running on all fours to jumpscare women in the night that should be terrifying enough
@@KfcOwner until you meet that woman who runs on all fours like some kind of native American skin walker.
If you don't know what I am talking about just Google girl runs like a horse
@@KfcOwner I wish I could just watch and kick ALL the drama queens and ones dressing like sluts or videoing out of the gym STRAIGHT UP. ANY shenanigans of female drama, your photo is taken, you're put on a blacklist and booted from ALL GYMS the have men. If they're serious they can go to the female only gyms. But MOST are going because they ARE CHASING MALE ATTENTION and looking for a man. They literally have videos about it on tiktok. Men avoid their usual spots so they dress in leggings and a bikini to attract a man.
@Hating for no reason ngl if you did that and then just gave them like a coupon before leaving would really stick in their mind
@@KfcOwnernormalize just running at random women at night like ✋👹🤚GGAAAHHHHH
4:16
Fun Facts!
1 - Staring is not crime.
2 - He was not staring at her.
3 - 21 is not underage.
Staring is not a crime but it is pretty weird. Agree with 2 and 3 tho
@@jonasbelrhazi7170 Fair
@jonasbelrhazi7170 You agree with 1 though, you just said it's not a crime just weird.
@@foolpersona_ you know what I mean tho
Looking at someone who's underage isn't illegal either.
The irony of accusing people of staring while she literally films them lmao
This. This right here. *UA-cam Golden Comment Award* 🥇
Not to mention that while checking out the video she probably stared at him longer than he was gazing in her direction, it's just too hypocritical.
For real. She literally brings her camera everytime she goes to the gym just to shame people for simply looking at her once, she acts just like a child that that complains about every normal thing that a human could do.
Camera weirdness aside, men being piggish is really common and women becoming worried is common, sadly. I personally find a lot of interactions with men to be reallt tense sometimes until i KNOW they are safe
@@PamSesheta its one thing to be cautious around men, but a completely different thing to film people and accuse every man of being a creep or a perv.
TikTok has officially destroyed our social skills to the point where people make videos like this thinking that they are being harassed when, in fact, they are experiencing the absolute bare minimum of human interaction, if you can even call it interaction.
This whole time, I thought I was the only one thinking this way. Thank you, stranger, a small piece of hope just came back to me. 🫶
in 2023, you give yourself autism for fun
To a TikToker, human interaction does not even exist...
Which really sucks because it leads to actual harrassment not being taken seriously anymore.
They know full well they're not being harrassed. They just pretend anyway to get fame and clicks. They're scum.
This happened to me once at the gym when I was still a newbie. A very old male was looking at me as I was using some equipment, and ofc I was weirded out. After about 5 minutes of occasionally watching me work out, he came over and told me “you’re doing it wrong” and showed me the proper technique. I was grateful because I didn’t get hurt from using the equipment wrong. Seriously, sometimes men just want to help out.
That's called "mansplaining" it this day and age. Let them get hurt instead 💀
@Anthony Fernandez Mansplaining is where men automatically assume a woman doesn’t know something without any evidence to support that assumption and proceeds to explain in detail often in a condescending manner without bothering to ask if they want/need said explanation. The OP in this case did show that they didn’t know what they were doing therefore the man going over to correct it is not mansplaining. You actually have to be pretty obnoxious in order to qualify for the mansplaining category.
@@MissCaraMint I'll have take your word on that
@@MissCaraMint see the difference is that YOU understand that term and use it correctly while others don’t. So he’s actually right in this case. Just look at all the other terms that get used now where ppl don’t even know the real meaning behind them but blatantly uses them lol
@@plutos7 well the first reply just did
Its so arrogant too. "They must be staring at me and pretending to be on their phone im sodamn beautiful.what else could they be looking at "
idk. the giant camera setup you have?
Narcissistic and self absorbed would be better synonyms.
Arrogance can apply mostly when other people aren't given a second thought.
I saw one record herself on the side of a British road doing jumping Jack's and squats and getting angry that a man in a van driving past glanced at her for like a second trying to make out his a creep going on about how this is something women have to put up with...
Ignoring the fact that when driving a vehicle on the road... You HAVE to be aware of your surroundings as it's called spacial awerness. Most people called her out and of course, she made her profile private.
Men... Checking their surroundings when driving a dangerous moving vechile and observing pedestrians so he doesn't end up hurting one... Yep.. Defo creep 🙄🤦
If I was driving and saw someone doing jumping Jack's near the road I'm driving past. I'd probably be aware of them because they could fall over on the road.
Another thing both Joey and Charlie haven’t brought up is that these people might have whole ass stands, lights, duffel bags, and some may even have cameras instead of a phone. Having a whole ass movie set for your lifts is going to bring attention to you.
Exactly if you have a whole ass setup people will be curious to know why and oh no, might glance in your general direction to find out
Literal onlyfans models shooting promo in the tightest of clothes with an entire setup complaining about slight glances. I hate it here.
@@nymade4130 literally their mentality is “ I can’t be a fucking slutty whore in my public gym without someone looking🙄”
@@nymade4130 This. These types of people act like people simply looking in their general direction is a crime, yet seem to go out of their way to be the biggest attention grabber in a 100-mile radius. Clothes are never an excuse for actually bad behavior, but if you're wearing the bare minimum with a full-on movie setup around you in a public place, people are gonna look in your general direction from time to time, and that's not a crime.
Another thing i don't get is why they need to wear the tightest cloth possible. Like DUH a guy might glance at you. Those women shouldn't be allowed to wear that to a gym. Imagine a guy wearing such tight shorts . Guys also just want to focus without having visual distraction right in front of them.
She did the equivalent of making up and winning an argument in the shower.
@Dont Read Profile Picture I’m gonna put some dirt in your eye
Fuck this bots dude fr
holy shit the bots
at this point i think we should have a gym for separated genders,so they can stay far away from us
@@toniotrussardi8126 segregation ftw
I feel embarrassed even when I have my camera faced toward me for a Snapchat response .. I don’t get how people are able to just openly film other people .. they are the gym creeps for doing that.
i sniff the farticile particles off of charlies steamwackler once a year yet YEAT's the problem???
I agree with you on the feeling of getting someone filmed just because they happen to be there, but at the end of the day a gym is a common area, depends on the rules of each gym you can record there.
On the other hand the "social media gym culture" has derived from what it actually is
not only that but if what they don't like is being looked at.. why do they film themselves and send it on the internet ?
Agree with the weird feeling. The only time I have felt using a camera is fine is your bud like filming a pr or something for form. Usually it’s toward the rack with no one else in the shot or with no focus of anyone else. It’s a weird fad that has come up now.
@@k0lpA Yeah, and if that's what they are concerned about. Just get the equipment you need and set it up on your garage and that's it
Being a overweight male, and knowing that this tends to be the stigmatization that we tend to get as males out of gym regardless of who we are, this is the exact reason why if I'm facing the wall and a woman in tight clothing walks in front of me I will actually close my eyes and literally just focus on my music instead of focusing on my form.
I get so tired of feeling like I'm being made out to be creepy or whatever just because I glanced in someone's general direction for half a second because I'm always scanning around me and always looking at myself to see how my form is going, and to see if there's anyone else around me so I either don't hit somebody accidentally, or I also do that for threat analyzation.
I won't deny and admit I'm paranoid, but luckily meds help manage that, but with that aside, shit like this doesn't help with that paranoia. Because now in addition to threat analyzation for the sake of someone just losing their shit for absolutely no reason, now I have to worry about women thinking I'm staring at them just because I glanced in their general direction for 3 seconds, or I did that a few times just because they're pretty and I'm trying to figure out why the fuck they keep looking over at me first before anything else, meanwhile all I was doing was just glancing around the gym to see who's there, What machines are available, and what I plan on trying to do next for a workout.
Legit, I'm not kidding you, I've actually been stared at a few times by women, and I literally look at them back because I'm trying to figure out why I'm being stared at, and more often than not they're giving me dirty looks or something like that and I'm trying to figure out what the fuck I did wrong, when all I was doing was just focusing on my music, staring at the wall in front of me and just focusing on what I'm doing.
I actually remember this exact video not too long ago, as it's only recently that I'm getting to this now, and actual Jim creeps, and then the falsified story of Jim creeps is to the reasons why I'm not the biggest fan of public gyms
Why did you make a whole fucking essay (not being mean also I'm very impressed that you did that, its awesome but Im just curious you did a really good job on this comment and I'm very very sorry if I hurt your feelings I'm not trying to)
Sorry to hear that. However, I think you might be overthinking it. This kind of behavior isn't the norm or standard at all. I go to the gym regularly and still have a higher body fat percentage (20-30%), and I've only had one bad interaction. With a guy. Keep heads up. There is no need for facing the walls. Internet wierdos are not that common
Keep on the grind man, I actually went to the gym as an underweight male like with barely any muscles just skin and bone by the time you wrote this and I already see myself getting better and see the muscles growing, I believe in you and exercise is for the best it just takes time and of course moderation
Jim creeps
Bro you're overthinking everything too much, this very rarely happens
Charlie flexing his bicep was the closest real-life thing I’ve seen to a Popeyes cartoon
He got that sleeper build fr 😭
And here i thought i was more ripped than Charlie
@@coldestbeer no one can beat him, not even me. im a little rock to this mf god
@@coldestbeer you probably are bro he’s small no offence to him
@@weirdchamp4601 ong he’s overrated
He is jesus
"Normal human interaction has become outlawed " epic quote by the man himself
Its why i rarely approach women in public spaces anymore
Social media is breaking people’s brains it’s like people don’t know how social interaction works anymore
@@SolidSnake240 bruh what. This stuff is rare
Jesus man speaking facts as usual
@@ryanjung4416 right.
I hate how Tik Tok trends turn polite and genuine people into creeps, and the whole mess discourages people from interacting with someone for fear of being ridiculed or accused of harassment. this is a whole new level of bullying and I REALLY hate it
Really brings the highschool out of the highschool, as if anyone needed that.
The Kingdom of God is at Hand
John 3:16
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16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
@@DHunter_47 Your murderous cult is dying at the hands of its own followers, cope
This be why us guys gotta be super duper extra careful these days. One woman lies or falsely accuses us and we’re done for. These days nobody waits for due process like with Johnny Depp and just assume guilt because you’re a man.
It doesn't though. It just makes the douche filming look really awkward. Who the fuck overthinks "hey, are you using that equipment ?" lmao
9:00 the cat just teleporting in got me good
As someone with pretty bad social anxiety, she is precisely the type of person I’m afraid of encountering
ture!!! the girl that said that she should rip his dick off,HOW is that NOT SEXUAL HARASSMENT
Same.
Why u just give em the finger
@@enclavelieutenant8614 where do you put the finger?
Saaame
Filming yourself for thousands of people (probably many actual perverts) then complaining about one random person glancing is mind blowing
That's what I was thinking lmao, especially the angle that they film from, the hypocrisy 😂
Yea they’re E-thots what else do you expect.
People are so weirdly detatched from their content if they get attention / numbers / money from it on the web .. it's wild.
It gets even way worse when you realize she has an Onlyfans
YES!!!!
The fact she thinks 21 is ‘underaged’ shows how sheltered she is
Agreed
The term "snowflake" gets thrown around so much to the point it's lost most of its meaning, but it sure as fucking hell applies real nicely to this bitch
She hates being sexualized yet has an onlyfans and post thirst traps on IG 😂
@@void6573REALLY
I’ve seen people joking online for a while claiming to be adult age minors so at first I thought she’s joking and maybe she is but sometimes it’s easy to forget some people do think like this. Like those jokes started for a reason. I knew a guy who claimed just because he was 25 didn’t mean he was an adult
Edit: for the folks saying he was right, unless you’re in the sort of transition point between teenager and adult you can’t pretend you’re not actually an adult just because you don’t feel like one. I know it’s devastating but it’s true
People need to realize this is a public place. As if its their own damn home.
It's a private owned space.
@@hurtighansen1It's a gym. It's public.
@@hurtighansen1 The gym is set to public FOR the public
@@hurtighansen1yeah not by the gym goers tho😭
“This is why I don’t want kids” honestly good, because god knows how bad of a mother she would be
Atleast she's not ruining an innocent child's life for being a shit mother so that's good
"mom can u stop arguing with people online and eat dinner with us"
true..
@@vibescake2175 HAHAHAAH
@@vibescake2175 "I think you could use even more 'em broccoli, kid... I mean sweetie. 😊 Mommy's gotta do another appology video before dinner, so that most people will forgive her sooner or later."
The real creepy part is the fact that these people likely spent hours analyzing every behavior of these random people that they’ve secretly recorded. This should honestly be a crime
lol I didnt even think about the people making these videos would have to actively be watching everyone and creeping on them XD
It is in the EU :)
@@radicalbyte Even worse. A gym is not in fact a public space. Most gyms are private owned.
The gym isn't a public place. It is illegal in most places
Fun fact.. if you're not participating in Social Media you will never know they do that. It's like a conversation they have in their head. It doesn't matter, lol.
"don't want kids"
"natural selection better take the weirdos out"
This is amazing, just *chefs kiss*
Sometimes the jokes write themselves
Bahaha didn't even catch that. Amazing
@@jeanpitre5789 lol
Well she has an OF so nobody wants that anyway.
The best one was "underage 21 year old" how u underage and 21
its ironic how they call them creeps for looking at them, while they put their buts in the camera that take up 50% of the whole thing
She's unironically the kind of person that makes me feel uncomfortable for going to the gym
Exactly... Tired of going to gym because of these tiny little brains.. dedicating to calisthenics at home anyways
Ah yes, the Starbucks addict in the Target yoga pants with a tripod that sets up sting operations in order to entrap males and publicly humiliate them for personal gain. I know the type.
@@dawid_1021 gym tok ruined the gym
These chicks know nobody is watching them for their work-outs.
They're gonna have to create 2 sides of the gym. The one side that turns it into a TV set with all the Tik Toks & pictures and videos and the other side that actually just wants to exercise and get tf outta there.
Well said Charlie. People are so narcissistic these days it’s truly terrifying.
So many bots 😭
Honestly I think nowadays it’s just being recorded there isn’t any more of it
@Red Star 🅥 it’s trash tho
Yea
And many of them don't seem to aware what they doing is bad/wrong, and post it to mass. Which is somewhat a good thing, public notice it fast and call them.
3:28 he’s actually doing a pretty good job of not constantly staring at a person un-subtly muttering weird insults
Very true
It’s more weird that she’s talking to herself. He was probably wondering who she was talking to or if she was talking to him. Plus some of the stuff she was whispering like “feral, feral, feral, f*cking feral” absolutely would garner some attention from anyone within hearing distance. Not to mention that but anyone filming kinda gets your attention anyway because you wonder what they’re doing, if you’re in the shot, etc.
@@oceangravy799 ikr, dude would rather stare at the phone recording him
@@oceangravy799 yes, exactly what I was thinking. If you are talking to yourself I'm probably going to keep an eye on you !
Yeah, that would get an eyebrow raised glance from me. I can only assume she has a few screws loose and could attack someone unprovoked.
i love how he barely spends time on showing himself, he just flashes us with his insanely ripped arms sometimes 💀
I even heard about a blind guy that was accused of staring at a gym. After he told her and the one of the staff members that he wasn't staring because he was blind they were still outraged.
I love blind surfer pete
sounds like a fake story, but maybe NA is just built different 🤷♂
The Blind Surfer Pete Gustin? He recounted a story like this, said he even presented them with proof he's blind (some sort of ID card IIRC), and the manager said something like "well you still can't make people uncomfortable by staring at them". When he literally cannot even tell if he's staring at someone.
@@zyonmontango we don't care
@@nalinea18 average west gym
0:21 The fact he had to photoshop it to look smaller for our sanity really shows how much of a legend Charlie is
He knew we couldn’t handle his manly muscles
I'm still shocked over that sleeper build 😂
He's pretty cut actually. Never would have guessed.
did he actually? wow
you mean videoshopped
As someone with social anxiety, this is the kind of stuff I think always goes through people's heads if I ever acknowledge their existence with a glance. Knowing that there are people out there like this makes it worse for me
The first one has a only fans
I'm with you on that! Worries me everytime I make eye contact with someone! "Do they think I was staring at them when I just glanced over? Do they think I'm a creep now cause of that?!"
same, i might have a problem as i do it so much i unknowingly avoid looking people in the eyes when i talk to them. or is that normal?, i dont know anymore.
I used to be like that, i kind of still am, but in the end overthinking stuff like this is just gonna drive you insane. In the end you can't control what people think of you, you don't know how their head works, so why bother?
Look people in the eyes
Smile when you greet them
Speak clearly so they can hear
It's perfectly normal, in fact it's the bare minnimum. And if someone has a problem with it it's their fault.
@@bobthespam I am sort of like that. Not when someone is talking to me or me them, because I've always been in the belief that eye contact comes with talking. But otherwise I avoid looking at people.
You guys are dodging the fact that charlie is staring at us for the majority of this video, willy jiggly what a creep
fr im underage 22 year old boy, he should go to jail.
Hahahahah I love this type of sarcasm 😭😭😂
@@tommymack3210😂😂😂
Honestly disgusting me as a 45 year old underaged boy. I’m feeling insecure and uncomfortable
@@jadenissogreat9879 disgusting to me too, im underage 66,000,000 yr old here, my pet dino does not approve
We honestly need more gyms to enforce a no filming/pictures rule
Absolutely! Who wants to be filmed at the gym?
The fact this hasn’t been policy already is mind blowing...
Well I think that taking photos in the gym while you pose is a good thing so that you can track your progress and gives you more self esteem, of course always with respect of others
No I don’t even ever take pictures in the gym but it’s important to some people so why take that from them
@@federic06g67 just wait til you get home
The fact that filming people in public without their consent has nearly become the norm is fucking horrifying
In public it is legal to do so. On private property it is not legal.
@@dpurdyciv4417 norm = morality, not legality.
Horrifying? Seriously? It’s just weird, not horrifying. What are you even doing in public that you would be horrified if filmed 😂? Stop overreacting.
@@jacksonmiller7745 somebody is coping
@Jackson Miller it is scary though. You can't even have your own opinion online without risk of people trying to cancel you. Imagine you're out with friends just messing around and one of you makes a joke that with no other context seems extremely offensive or in poor taste, that gets recorded and spread around. I've seen people lose thier job over less.
He was probably wondering how she hadn’t managed a rep of 50 Kg in 15 minutes, or the fact she was intensely talking to herself.
i would have walked up and asked if she was OK. since it's really strange behavior. then again i guess those are the types of people you should avoid.
@@JewTube001 you would be labelled as a creep by her if u walked up 😅😂
@@ashwinabraham2 if you have eyes you are a creep
Very strange woman.
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Gyms should have a no filming policy. Simple as that. These TikTokers are ridiculous.
This just goes to show how weird social media has made people.
Not only that, but allowing weird people to have a place to frame "Weird people"
people have alwaus been this weird. social media gave them a way to self snitch.
Woman not people just woman
Dude Charlie where have you been this is liberal country now baby and I can explain to you what is happening in the world but I can’t understand it for you bud. This could be a product of the girl hating men cause all she sees on the internet is the bashing of men which comes from the left profusely also rape culture (not real) she could be thinking of that I mean I couldn’t even imagine being a little girl growing up in the world today
Well considering he looked at her a couple of times while she was constantly looking at him without a break to catch him looking.Wasn't she the one staring then?
@@DoDo-lf2gw no no that makes too much sense
Honestly the guy getting called out for being new and not knowing how to act is a source of my own anxiety. I've only ever done workouts at home because I'm afraid I'll step on toes or come across as the new weirdo just for wandering around. I'm glad to see the behaviour is being called out and hopefully addressed in the community
Don't be fooled to think this behavior is new, rampant and accepted in the gym. Many of the swole guys who show empathy and compassion at the gym have the best attitude because they too understand how it is to be that new small/skinny person at the gym. Also at this point many of us who are respectful at the gym are just going to put on our headphones and mind our own business unless something major comes up.
No one actually acts like this, that’s why these videos blow up whenever someone acts like a gym Karen. Because it’s not normal. And even if you were to step on somebody’s toes, most people wouldn’t mind. There’s no time limit, if you have to wait an extra minute because someone took your weight or is in your way, most people wouldn’t care enough to tell you off.
Usually people at the gym who are real big and swole are some of the friendliest and are even eager to help you out
@@discipleofdagon8195 True gigachads help others
I once was staring cause I needed a spot and I wanted to ask but I was getting weird vibes just for doing that so I asked the dude on my right who helped me in two seconds and the interaction was done.
I think these people are so self centered and used to social media attention that they think everyone wants them.
After working at a gym for 13 years, these people have always existed. They’re just able to film it to an audience now. The “I want all the attention, but I don’t want people looking at me” people. Lol
I think they’re called women
The girl of the "outfit" is basically saying to herself "look how i look hot in this outfit"...
@@adrianc6534 no need to generalize a large group of people and show your insecurity through misogyny Adrian🤍
@@sk8aintstr813 well said
@@adrianc6534 What do you think is the more likely possibility:
Literally half of the human race is genetically inclined towards this behaviour
or
Youve had a few bad experiences with women and are bitter and resentful and so extrapolate those experiences onto billions?
“Tell me, where did we go so wrong.” -Heavy from Tf2
As a woman who likes to go to the gym from time to time, these women are doing nothing but making it harder for us. Now I have to be afraid that I may need help, and the men around me would be too afraid, because I might call them creeps afterwards.
Some people really believe 'creep until proven otherwise'. Tbf when ya got stalkers, catcallers gropers and worse you have to look out for its understandable but man. I just wanna be left alone, please don't lump me in with those assholes.
Unless if a man’s not doing anything out of the ordinary. Never apologize for something you did not do.
@@BigCarris_53_64 she's not, u misunderstood the comment. she's not saying that she's going to call them a creep, she's saying that the women who post these kinds of videos make the men in her gym feel as if she would say that when just being friendly/helping.
100% I wouldn’t help you unless on the verge of losing your life. You can thank these women for it. Good luck and don’t over lift.
@@hmkily hey, I get that. As a man myself, what Jacob Yerkes did just make other men look BAD! It’s ridiculous! I misunderstood it just a little! Women can be creeps, too! Not just only men!
As someone who zones out a lot and accidentally stares people down, this scares me. I’m already terrified of being filmed without my consent and now we have tiktoker who believe that breathing in your direction is creepy.
at this point i dont care anymore i just stare at the wall
"If he has eyes, he's a creep"
Basically.
You just keep on spacing out! You ain't doing nothing wrong
I’ve always had a problem with spacing out and staring. It sucks cause people ALWAYS call me out for it and tell me I’m a freak and shit. It sucks lol but what can you do 🤣
“If a man looks in my direction, he’s checking me out and therefore he is a creep”
I like how she’s the “victim” for being glanced at, yet she’s filming him.
Women™
Isn't she just filming herself though?
@@tamago5765 not if I can see him in the background
She was only filming because he was staring
@@influenzzza please stop coping on behalf of obvious attention whores
Something that i dont get is how they feel confortable with sharing a recording of themselves basically from the most sketchy angle of their body but then feel atacked when someone briefly stares at their direction.
As a straight dude, I find myself staring at the ripped guys in the gym rather than the girls cause I'm like "one day I'll be like that"
Hah, Gayyyyyy!
As an anti-social sociopath I only stare at the machines, thinking, "I need to finish this soon so I can move away from people."
@@Helicidae Wanting to become a painter and observing painters doesn't make you paintersexual, in the same way, this doesn't make him gay.
@@Helicidae wow you're so hilarious, i cant believe it!!!! That joke had me rolling on the floor screaming for 2 hours!!! Except not
@@Helicidae are you coming out?
maybe we dont ask what Sigmund Freud was thinking about this...
This is part of the reason the gym I go to has a very strict "No filming or recording" clause with their membership. If you're caught filming for any reason, you can be banned, and I have actually seen this happen. it sucks to see this happen at the gym, a place where people are going to literally better themselves and they can't even do that without this kind of shit happening.
I mean, you can just take pictures or videos outside the gym
@@christophermoore6110 how do I review my form outside the gym?
@@bouclechocolat You ever heard of things called friends? no? ah my bad.
@@Long-Horse that was a bad argument....
@@Long-Horse spoken like a true weakling. many athletes need to record their sets to send to their coaches/trainers.
the worst part of this "trend" is that its making the actual problem of getting harassed at the gym be taken less seriously
it really doesn't tho,all its doing is pointing out the chronically online women that want attention. how would someone that's actualy a creep get taken less seriously
Not the worst in any way. The worst is that these people could actively cause harm to people they're accusing of false harrassment.
Man gets falsely accused. Women most affected.
@@1Plebeian ok buddy if you say so
@@lilumbra6940 not my words
8:59 me after a wizard curses me to whenever i say "reality" a cat appears on the nearest cat tree
As soon as Charlie flexed his muscles I trembled in fear
DONT READ MY USERNAME
Bro scared the shit outta me
bro got 5 replies and 4 of them are bots tf is youtube doing 💀💀
😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@Chuydoesartfr UA-cam doesn't care about comments. To be honest, it's more people to serve ads too 😉
Stuff like this pisses me off because real harassment is still a thing. Some gyms will inevitably have creepy people. Setting up fake scenarios for clout does nothing but laugh in the face of people's actual experiences.
The world will get more crazier man. I’m glad that I train at home
Yeah, it’s this horrid trend we’ve reached of people online essentially fantasising about being SA/SH victims and making up these wildly exaggerated situations in their head, but also POSTING THEM ONLINE? Like how braindead and insulting can you be?
Key word: people! Tired of people acting like women don’t harass men or even other women because it happens frequently!
It’s also just fucked up for the innocent people being posted online and portrayed as creeps for thousands to see
i agree. i have tourettes and i feel the same for those shitty petty clout chasers faking having tourettes making it a funny matter when its not. it made my life hell as a kid in school i always got fucked with. and for people to fake it and laugh on camera for fame and attention just realy makes my blood boil
As an underage 40 year old man I approve her apology
take my like sir
Is it sarcasm or a gramatically english correct sentence? How can you be underage and 40 at the same time?
@@apokkalyps6 watch the video and you will understand, before commenting..
@@apokkalyps6 i think the joke is he's saying he's underage at 40 which means he's more than wrong which means by approving the apology he says the girl is dumb
"excuse me my lady i looked at you because of your outfit, you drew my eyes to you it's your fault"
her: "natural selection better take the wierdos OUT"
also: her: *disappears*
Literally my thought too when I saw that sentence XD
Just like Marty Mcfly from Back to the Future 😂
The irony
Natural selection? You mean the shirt one of the columbine high school shooters wore?
@@bothermenone you don't know what natural selection is?
4:19 "underage 21 yo"
but the golden part is where she has "natural selection better take the weirdos out" right beside "this is why i dont want kids"
If she doesn’t want kids it’s because she still thinks like one
At least she doesn't want kids, can you imagine how absolute vile and horrific her parenting skills are?
somehow I think after this video , I don't think she is in danger of having kids anytime soon.
@@Tinyoak2 thankfully
She didn't even spell "weirdos" correctly 😂😂😂
The bicep flex was not only a jump scare, but also a new discovery telling me just how ripped this guy is.
Not really ripped, but he is is lean and has some actual solid muscle in contrary to most streamers
@@mauriciomeyer627 no homo but I’m tryna see those abs
No he is actually shredded hard to guess his body fat % but it’s definitely at the leaner end ripped means lean which means low body fat % how you gonna say not really ripped I wonder how ripped you are Mauricio
He's more buff than ripped. Though he's still in better shape than I am.
@@MrREAPERsz he’s definitely not buff, I’d say toned is more suitable
this is why i'm usually afraid to generally look around me, because people make a scene of it so I just end up staring at a wall or what i'm doing unfortunately
They need to enact a no recording policy at gyms. Would love to see how many people are still “passionate” about working out when they can’t film it to make weird content like this for their social media
Most gyms do, you just gotta say something because they aren’t paying attention. If you bring up privacy concern and possibly threaten civil/legal action they will enforce it.
Having a friend or another gym goer film your set is a great way to spot and correct mistakes in form though
I live in Australia and gyms are often packed and I have never seen someone filming in a gym, I guess it’s a uniquely American thing
This.
@@dergons Agreed, but these influencers are the reason why we can't have nice things.
Holy shit. Charlie is the living embodiment of that anime character that looks frail until he flexes and his clothes all tear off. Damn.
He's the real life Ned Flanders
He could be the real world Saitama, except instead of being bald, Charlie has his glorious mane.
the Dumbell's anime ?
I thought he was joking till he flexed his arm and I nearly spat out my coffee
roshi mode
“This is why I don’t want kids.”
“Natural selection better take the weirdos out!”
She’s already playing her part by not bringing more of her kind into the world.
"Congratulations, you played yourself"
Mostly they say "weirdo" when men are not goodlooking which is really mean.
Hate to break it to her but that guy is probably the last person being taken out by natural selection.
taking herself out of the gene pool early
She said she was an underage 21 year old. 😂
As a person who works in the tv/film media industry, you have a right to walk up to someone and tell them they do not have permission to film you. If you are in a gym you are in a private space and they, as film makers technically need permission to film in a private establishment. Membership doesn't automatically give you the right to film. Things are different concerning violence, and definitely I would use manners when I tell someone I don't give permission to be filmed. Gyms need to absolutely start putting this into their membership contracts.
When the gym is even moderately busy, it's almost impossible NOT to look like you're staring at people. Unless you stare at the ceiling or the floor, you're going to be looking at someone.
I'm also just tired of people equating looking at someone to harassment or sexual misconduct. More often than not, people using this line of thinking are full of shit. I'd say someone looking at you is only harassment in very specific contexts.
oh and don't forget how some gyms have mirrors everywhere so no matter where you look you will definitely be looking at someone 🤣 some females need to stay at home 🤷🏻♀️
Look at floor, look at the machine you're going to use next while walking to it and look at yourself in the mirror. Everyone else is irrelevant
@anakatana5943 I believe these people are asking for burkhas at the moment.
@@G0DH4ND why would we or ANYONE want to stare at the floor especially when most times I just disassociate in between sets so there is no specific thought going on, and even still I’ve looked at plenty of people simply curious as to how they do their workout or how much weight they just did on a lat pull-down we are inherently curious creatures in no way is that creepy unless taken to an extreme
The fact that she says "He should go to jail for staring at an underaged 21-year-old" makes less sense when you consider that even if she was 16 or 17, nothing he does is inherently creepy either in that case.
He is not asking for her age, asking her out, or even staring. He is just treating her like a normal patron at a gym indiscriminate of age/gender.
She should be grateful that she has never encountered a real creep like some of us have..
@@ajgumpper for real, that is actually unsettling
i think the “underage 21 year old” was a joke though i feel like i’ve heard that before on tiktok. still agree with you tho
@@alliekhani7873 i hope so lmao
you know what’s funny? she has an OnlyFans 😂
What makes this really suck is that it can make things harder for people that have actually been harassed at the gym…it creates a stigma.
yeah or just harassed in general
As usual.
Just like calling everything racism, nazism, abuse, ADHD, OCD or Autism.
People overuse it, and then when you actually suffer these things, people don't take it serious.
If anything she is the one starring at him
@@Rocket_Man. She's staring at and filming him, but he glances in her direction and is in the wrong. What the fk? Some people need some serious mental help.
@@solitarysage6848 aye, the lad was probably thinking TF is she filming
Almost had a heart attack when Charlie flexed his muscles, holy shit.
A girl actually did this in my local fitness world. And everyone and I MEAN EVERYONE looked at her with the faces of disgust. My friend who works there and is a guy, asked her if she could stop filming. And she responded with like a very offended and loud "WHY?"
People in the gym just responded with all sorts of remarks, like you're being annoying, you're just a poser, that sorta stuff. Until she sorta... Cried back to the locker room and went home a few minutes later.
I felt both great and awkward over the situation.
There needs to be more of that. They need to learn a lesson.
@@kylem1112 Too much worry of upseting people! I was taught as a child that "Sticks and stones can break my bones but words should never hurt me" or something along those lines and it stuck.
yha probably cause they seen videos like this one and know these girls just wants attention but good for you're gym though as most will probably do the opposite and kick your friend out.
That's why I love my gym , rule : "No cell phones allowed" in our gym.
Filming in a gym is just disgusting creepy. A lot of people already have to "force" themselves, fearing of being judged and whatnot, we don't need people filming in there. Just gtfo
The only phone thing allowed in my gym is, changing your music or whatever and then you put it back into your pocket.
The thing I find mind boggling in these situations is that the people say they are uncomfortable with being observed, yet the majority have a camera pointed directly at their behind.
Right? Like your okay with ppl seeing your full ass on camera but get scared when someone looks in your direction..?
Thats what brings the most views :) It has to be Skin tight....
I’ve never seen women do anything else at the gym besides hip thrusts
Goes to gym wearing paint job. Gets offended when the wrong people look
then you‘re obviously not a gym goer and just watch tiktoks about it lol @yinggamer7
As a bigger guy who already feels ashamed to actually GO to the gym, this only makes it worse. It already takes a load of confidence to take those steps into the gym and keep up the routine, now people are going out of their way to attack just normal people in the gym
Just keep going my dude. And don't feel ashamed. You are there for a reason. As long as you train hard and with a good form. People will respect that.
Fr I’m introverted af I go at like 3 am there’s normally only one other guy there we both wear our headphones and don’t even acknowledge each other’s existence it’s perfect. And no offense but the gym is the best place for bigger guys to be. U should feel ashamed about waiting in a fast food line or something not going to the gym. Who cares what those ppl think anyway there not your friends u never have to talk with them or interact with them if u don’t want to. I’ll never understand why ppl get self conscious because some random person they will prob never see again is judging them idk I’m just wired different I guess.
Trust me it's worth it,I used to be quite the big guy myself being about 290 pounds but after going to the gym for a few years I lost the weight and it is one of the best decisions I ever made
Don’t be afraid or ashamed, many started like you. Real ones will recognise you for it. The more positive you are, the better the responses you will get 🙏
I also am nervous to goto gyms, so I bought adjustable dumbbells, a bench and a pull-up bar to use at home. Don't usually comment, but just wanted to let you know that you're not alone with those feelings. Good luck dude🤘
Gyms, if not already, should just create a new house rule: "NO F**** FILMING IN HERE, FOR EVERYBODY. Permanant ban, no money back and a police report"
Even small glances are creepy?
Imagine how horrible it'd be if they were filming them without their consent or even knowledge, that'd be awful.
Wait...
filming men = good. filming women = creepy af.
@@JewTube001 not even it’s filming men = fine even see a women in your side vision = bad
@@JewTube001 or my favourite one! “MeN CaNt Be RapEd By WoMen aNd WoMeN CaN Do No WrOnG!” The problem is hypocrisy and inconsistency!
@@JewTube001 not really? Because everyone is dunking on her also, it's not like anyone is siding with her except maybe 4 insane people
@@bdsmgaming3627 Bro what’s up with your username lol
The fact that charlie just flexing his arm jumpscared me goes to show how unbelievably underestimated charlie is.
Exactly, got me shook.
Sleeper build
sleeper build
@@kuipt5672 honestly. Could be a meta build tbh
You people are pretty sad
Can we all just acknowledge the irony of being "creeped out" by some guy at the gym, while simultaneously sharing your entire life online to who knows how many creepers
Amazing analogy
Most creeps would be much more comfortable doing creepy stuff behind a screen.
She also has OnlyFans. Let that sink in.
@@perheriita2723 What she did here is wrong, but onlyfans is irrelevant. Different scenarios.
@@vlisto3712 No it's not, Its even worse. She literally sells her body, how is that different? She over here concerned about the "male gaze" yet she post pics for exactly that.
“Underage 21 year old” I’m sorry WHAT?!?!?!
😂😂😂 she’s a child obviously she doesn’t realize she’s a adult
Her apology is even more despicable and all to avoid being canceled. She only did it because so many people called her out.
☕️
typical
She also was about to lose a "major" upcoming sponsorship. (Who wants to sponsor someone like that and what for anyway?!). She is completely and utterly dishonest.Garbage human being.
I mean you can’t get any more honest than that. If she said anything else it would clearly be a lie as she had no fuckin clue before. So I liked her apology
Yes, and the ‘underage 21-yo’ thing is an ‘inside joke’, she later said. I’m not in the TikTok incrowd I’d guess 😂
The scariest part of this is that they've filmed it so that people could recognize the guys irl, and didn't even consider blocking out the faces for their privacy. Just think, anyone could film you in any location (even a locker room/bathroom) at any time without even caring about your consent, and your face could be plastered all over Tiktok and the rest of the internet without your knowledge.
That’s sadly very common. There was one years ago of kids who filmed a fast food worker and claimed she was being rude to them. This poor girl (who was only 2 or 3 years older than the teens) was mocked for a while till someone told her about it and she made her own tiktok claiming the kids were being disrespectful and with proof. If no one had told her she might have continued being mocked. Or people found out who she was and went to make fun of her. That’s just one of the first I remember happening
Depends on the laws of your country. In Many places that would be illegal.
that's just the dangers of being in public.
Horrors of our times
Clearly the don't give one f*** about anyone else's safety or privacy, they only care about making viral content...
This is why I am glad my brother built us a gym in our garage. Both of us were janitors at different gyms for most of a year and the shit people would get up to was mind boggling.
I'd love to hear more
Got any stories to share? I'd love to hear them
Story time
Yeah my dad and I have put together a nice setup in his garage and it is sooo much better. I sometimes go to the gym with my buddies every once in a while but yeah home gym > public every time
I actually dated this girl… I posted some insider info
"he's going to jail for staring at a underage 21 years old" wtf? 😂
Late to this video just like me I see lmaoo
As an underage 62 year old myself, it's disgusting when people try to talk to me
STOP LIKING THIS COMMENT! YOURE FLOODING MY NOTIFICATIONS!!!
😂😂😂
I feel so bad for you, must be horrible to get sexually harassed while being underaged aswell
Same, just turned out 63 this morning ✊
As a 69 year old I get harassed and abused and it's not nice ❌❌❌
Its disgusting to act decently in the gym like a (shudder) “good samaritan” .
It absolutely blows my mind how these people film themselves specifically to be seen and watched by millions of strangers, yet they pretend to be absolutely disgusted when a stranger even glances towards their general direction irl lmao...
Good point
My exact thought
It might be because making videos like these gets them attention, which is the goal. Just a thought.
It's like how a compliment could be harassment based on attractiveness
These *women
Ironically, Jessica has made the rest of us more uncomfortable in the gym than she was
@@j.c4924 oh good
Hope this shows to men that women do not f*ck around when they say they don't feel safe around certain places. This is exactly the type of crap they have to deal with (of course not justifying her actions, just pointing out the obvious).
@🌸 J.c 🌸 W
@@al112v4 ?
@@vorza2988 what? Not hard to get. What she did there to that guy happens x10000 to women around public places, especially bathrooms. I don’t want to hear dudes saying they exaggerate because one lady on this video decided to do something extremely stupid.
Imagine writing "hes going to jail for staring at an underage 21 year old" and at the same time being in ONLYFANS 🤣🤣🤣
That truly was a jump scare, Charlie. thank you. only more fuel for my own Body Improvement
This shocked the fuck out of me. Why is no one else talking about this?
@@PepsiCat321 cause we've known
@@PepsiCat321 right? Would not have guessed Charlie had guns
Dude really is in stealth mode
@OnSmashMedia aw shit you're right man self improvement is so cringe isn't it
I screamed so loud my neighbor came knocking on my door.
The irony is that they make such a big deal out of people looking at their face while they're recording themselves from an angle where their ass is best visible so that millions of people can stare at it as long as they want.
Searching for clout like a dog digging earth for bones.
I KNOW
Facts 💯
Yep typical attention seekers
Consent still matters. The fault is that the person filming thinks only theirs does.
I also want to kinda point something out as someone who’s seen filming in gyms. The people filming aren’t covertly doing it they often have a tripod rig set up for stability. So sometimes you might look at the rig and see it’s filming a person and subconsciously because of that you tend to look at what the person is doing. The gender Doesn’t matter
yes exactly, its hard not to notice the full stabilizer and lighting setup some of these oddballs have.
Not to mention most of the clips had the girls' ass displayed loud and proud for the camera. Not to say there's anything wrong with that but if you're talking about how much you hate people "looking at you" yet you post clips to the internet with your ass as the main focal point. I can promise you're going to get 10x the sexual harassment you thought you were getting in the gym on the internet. I'm not trying to debate whether that's right or wrong I just have a hard time believing someone in this instance. This sucks because I'm sure sexual harassment has happened with the girl in a provocative position like that. However the more of these I see the more I tend to lean towards it's just the trendy new thing to do VS that guy is fucked up and needs to be kicked out.
Also i kinda get when people just glance over ur chilling working out suddenly u notice a tripod and camera pointing ur way last thing u wanna do is get all nervous and mess up thinking it can go online (prolly just me I have social anxiety and get nervous when cameras are pointing at me)
That was exactly what I was thinking when I was watching his gaze. He was probably just curious and maybe thought she was a streamer or maybe recording her form.
Quickly checks phone -> "checks nothing"
Looks in her direction for an even shorter period of time -> "he's staring at my , creep"
Charlie is so skinny yet so ripped when he flexes it’s like Goku powering up
Edit:I aspire to have that kind of body 💪
You are right
LMAO
Reminds me of my late grandpa. He weighed about 90lbs soaking wet, 5’7, but HOT DAMN he was the STRONGEST man I’ve ever known. Dude could pick up twice his weight with no hesitation. I get the same vibe from Charlie.
Backhanded much
It’s called being lean bruh
0:22 I hope he's got a permit for those guns because he's concealed carrying.
lol
Was legit a jump scare
my jaw dropped
Did not expect that. Props to that man. Hope to look as lean and be able to have that kind of muscle someday so I can jump scare people also💪😂
I have never seen such a perfect example of a sleeper build.
As an underaged great grandfather I hope justice is served.
Underaged 100 year old here... I agree
Underage 26 year old here and I couldn't agree more
Underage 20 year old here
underage 36 yr old if it was older it would be ok
Underage middle age person here...
One further thing I don't quite get: if I see a person in the gym I'd like to get to know, for whatever reason ... how is it harassment to just say "Hi"? Or to start a conversation? It's not a creepy thing to do, is it? I mean, if you don't want to chat, just say so. Shouldn't be a big deal.
I don't think enough credit goes toward joey and the effort he puts in trying to debunk these videos and trying to keep the Gym a Gym friendly place.
He is a saint
He's a total dawg. Bros singlehandedly keeping gym etiquette alive
@Patrick39 ok
I really love his positivity stuff, but he's also a big crypto guy who got a lot of people into it before it crashed...
Hear, hear! 🙌
He's a very positive influence on anyone trying to get in better shape. He also equally focuses on the positive and negative and is transparent about his own stuff. Need more such influencers.
Gym lady: "I don't like it when people look at me while I work out"
Also gym lady: *puts a recording of her workout online for millions to look at*
zoomed in on her buns. You can't make this sh*t up.
She effectively put herself into the faces of 6000000000000% more weirdos
I doubt millions but yeah. I don’t understand her outlook tbh cause I’m afraid of ppl looking at me at the gym so I just do at home workouts were no one can judge me. That said, that’s kind of a privilege especially if you do strength training.
@@hhasnohope8488 dude/dudette, literally nobody judges anybody on the gym, excluding this tick tock weirdos, every gym bro is happy to see people too skinny or too fat going to the gym and making and effort to regain shape. Trust me, is all in your mind.
the problem is not people "looking at her" the problem is strangers wanting to approach her when she is working out.
As an extremely shy gym bro, I have always been terrified of someone even thinking I'm looking at them while there. To think I could be considered a creep by everyone at the gym I go to all the time for getting a towel to wipe my machine is awful af
Ah well ngl you just have to stop caring about what others do think. It’s that simple. Whatever your gym goal , all the other eyes in the gym can be watching but at the end of the day , do what you came to do , which is get in shape. Take whatever anxiety you have and use it as fuel, if they want to watch fine, let their states be the thing that turn you into a Greek god in front of them
dont worry bro, most people dont care about you in the GYM because they are focused with their goals. to be considered a creep you would need to be caught staring like 5+ times the same person
What i remind myself is only i know what my intentions are. So whatever false judgements people may make, i realize that i am above them
You should stop worrying about what women think, man
You are allowed to look at me huffing and puffing trying to get my hunt away
If you're so insecure about people "staring" at you while you're at the gym, the gym is not for you.
As a male who goes to the gym 5 days a week, it almost feels like I'm forced to play a game of not looking at anyone. I'm just there to go to the gym work out and go home I'm so sick of this social media generation always taking vids in public spaces. I feel like its destroying my social skills and giving me anxiety.
Seriously man it’s awful like especially at the gym where it’s a place where everyone is accepted as there is a common goal. Its not a place to take pictures or post videos to publicly shame someone just so you can get a few likes.
Once you find your chick, you can do you and screw the rest! Fuck what they think they don’t pay your bills
Do whatever you want. If anyone got a problem with you just looking like a normal human being, just tell them to fuck off and do not disturb you. Better yet just train at a proper gym, a powerlifting/strongman/oldschool bb one
Try to find a male only gym but they are very rare and are often under religious banner.
@@knagen In general I agree but another huuuge problem this doesn't address is that these are posted online publicly, often leading to them being harassed- both online and irl, and/or even 'just' being labelled as perverts/sex offenders etc.
Im always super worried about coming off as a weirdo creep, and this certainly doesnt help.
The prospect of being branded online as a creep for glancing in someones direction makes going to the gym a very unpleasant idea
Honestly. Like 90% of normal human behavior these days is considered "creep vibes" by the internet hivemind.
@@honestsoul7575 women from gen z think a lot of stuff is “creepy” that I don’t understand. I’ve saw women scream “I’ve got a bf 😱” when a man was just simply asking some innocuous question like directions.
@@honestsoul7575 Kinda makes you think how people used to date or even know each other before the internet. Really scary stuff.
@@honestsoul7575 I'll get reamed for this, but the majority of gen z internet users are chronically online [often self-diagnosed] autistic losers who wouldn't know the first thing about normal human interactions since they're by default unable to grasp social cues and norms.
From now on if I see a woman struggling under weights at the gym, I’m keepin it moving baby. “If she dies, she dies” Ivan Drago style.
I’m so glad you shouted out Joey Swoll. That guy is one of the kindest, most genuine content creators out there. Just an all around great representative for the community
Least he could do is should him out. Basically copying Joey's content and doing a worse version of it.
@@alugificator do a little more research, bud
@@alugificator Of all the things to get up in arms for and you choose to get mad at charlie? Not these idiot gym people? weird as hell
@@teamleaf8837 Research what, exactly? He's taking vids directly from Joey Swoll, removing Joey's commentary, and inserting his own commentary which is basically saying the exact same thing.
@@GravityTurn No one's mad, but I think it's worth pointing out when someone is profiting off recycling someone else's content.
As a tall 14 year old boy, whenever a woman bends over near me at the gym or does an excersize like that I turn around just in case they’re filming
The worst part about this isn't even that they're accusing normal people of being creepy, it's that it diminishes actual victims
@@weirdyoutubechannels I was happy for a moment but you lied to me :(
Yeah, it’s this horrid trend we’ve reached of people online essentially fantasising about being SA/SH victims and making up these wildly exaggerated situations in their head, but also POSTING THEM ONLINE? Like how braindead and insulting can you be?
thank you glad this comment isn't buried this is what i'm thinking this is gonna reverse us back to the creeps creeping and getting excused, because now glancing is creeping.
also theyre the ones with the creepy behavior. Filming others without their consent is an invasion of privacy.
I think some people are just oversensitized. I'm not trying to protect the women in these videos but what I would like to mention is that women are faced with actual harrassment quite frequently which can cause a high sensitivity to situation that seem somewhat similar to their previous experiences.
I noticed this with my girlfriend too, she doesn't like it but she can't help herself thinking like that impulsively. Obviously she doesnt make videos of these people and shames them though, lol.
As a 32 year old woman who has been a gym member since I was a teenager, you know what the best way to get ignored by other people in the gym is? Ignoring everyone yourself, and putting your attention 100% on your workout. Sometimes I notice people looking but it's none of my business if they are. If someone tries to talk to me, I answer politely but keep my headphones in and quickly go back to my workout and 99% of people will understand I'm not interested in being social. I'm certainly not going to try and "catch" people looking at me, cause that will only invite more attention.
I say 80% of people in the gym go there just to get their workout in and get out. They have a life outside that they want to get back to. You can't help but look in someone's general direction when you're at the gym. It full of people , it's unavoidable you're gonna look at someone, at least in their general direction. People are gonna look but many just give a quick glance and get back to whatever they are doing.
Underaged 32 year old.*
Lol problem is you’re female and you’d be lying if you say you didn’t go looking some type was to show “I look good” otherwise I equally doubt you’d be hitting the gym
Now it’s pretty obvs which females want to be seen. I have seen some with CRAZY sweet bodies and they wear loose sweat pants and big shirts. No, they’re not fat or skinny. They just don’t want or need the attention on their body, you know they know they look good and don’t need to flaunt it.
Then you have the other group who looks half naked or like they want see someone to pick them up at the gym (like these females complaining and filming themselves) and then wonder why people staring at them - 2 reasons, to check you out or to think “wow it’s a gym not a hookup bar”
Clearly no female can act like “it’s just clothes” because then we wouldn’t have 2 groups behaving differently and treated differently.
I mean those girls type to walk outside coochie and tatas hanging out and expect no one to bat an eye 😅😂
@@romancedoll
Stay home. Don't need your negativity
You’re inviting attention with this long ass paragraph 😅
What's annoying is this stuff does happen. But people lying makes actual cases of creeps and weirdos harassing people harder to confirm
Agreed! I know there are men and women who creep on folks at the gym. Both of these women are wrong. I’m sorry, I also don’t wear tiny outfits or nude shorts to draw extra attention. And the dude in the locker room, I’d have kicked some butt. Go take your pics NOT in the locker room.
@@kaycep6819 the third sentence of that comment was weird and unnecessary.
@@kaycep6819 the blaming it on the clothes was so unnecessary and pick-me lmao, you were fine until you started trying to make the point that people shouldnt be showing skin in an environment where they're gonna sweat and feel hot a lot
@@kaycep6819 so someone wearing a sports bra, shorts or tights means that they are doing it for attention and not for the sake of their own well-being? People seriously dont know what a real individual person is like and should get an ounce of respect for others lmfao
right, it undermines actual harassment
These ppl are the reason I have to try so hard to mask in public bc I will just stare at ppl without noticing and I’m scared they’ll think I’m creepy when I’m just zoning out