Lets talk about love, limerence & your (no) sense of worth
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- Опубліковано 13 вер 2023
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You explain limerence better than anyone else I've listened to on YT.
This hits hard for me. In the past five or six years, I've had limerant feelings for two high-profile actors. The feelings started during really rough patches in my life: I had work stress, relationship stress, I was unhappy with myself, and I was not fulfilled. I find out a few tidbits from interviews and appearances, and I formed ideas about who they are, and I become infatuated. The worst part is that, the second time it happened, which was seven months ago, I was fully aware of what my brain was doing, but I could not stop it from happening. (Still can't let those thoughts go.) I absolutely put these men on pedestals, even though logically I knew they were probably just as screwed in the head as I am and I just haven't seen it. With the current guy, I did notice things he would say or attitudes he would express that I wish were part of my person. I genuinely admire the way he carries himself and his talent. I also can't stop thinking about how much I want him (or the idealized version of him I should say) in my life as someone who deeply loves me and could possibly make me be as amazing as him. I don't remember getting a lot of emotional validation as a kid, and through twenty years of relationships, I tried to gain that emotional validation and basically failed. I have a lot of self-worth work to do. My self worth has pretty much always been in the toilet. It's really difficult to validate myself. I'm also completely positive that I'm neurodivergent, which adds a whole other level of muck to things. Thank you for posting this video.
Such a valuable share, thank you. This is exactly why I create this content; for people who suffer so much in what is such an isolating experience that wastes so much of our lives. More to come. Stay tuned 💜
Thank you for sharing ❤❤❤
i listend and applied: and i realized that it would confirm that "i am lovable" and "i am worth caring for" which is soooo sad for me to know. how unconscious this is to me. and how it is unconscious to so many women, with similar wound for so long. i'm so happy to find your channel. what a gift. i hope many more will find you, so that our time can belong to us now instead of chasing an idea of someone.
I loved this video,i've struggled with limerence for such a long time,its been years,i was a girl that grew up without parents and was raised by a person with mental health problems who abused me,mentally and physically,i've always had this messed up idea of love,like i need to prove my worth to be loved and accepted,i've always believed that i was an outcast,a wired girl,someone who nobody would want around,to the point that i thought everyone hated me,thats why i fell for limerence,it was an escape,a place where i was admired and loved,its really sad to look back and realize how much love i needed and was never given to me,i started healing and a lot of things shifted,i dont hate myself anymore and i feel loved,but i still have problems with confidence and self-worth,i realize that now i fell again in limerence for other reasons,because i want his confidence,i love the way he carries himself,and how brave and strong he is,thats the things i have to work on,and your video has helped me a lot,New Subscriber here ❤ You talk through your heart and express everything so well ❤ Thank you,you are helping people❤
Limerence will have your whole life in a chokehold. Recognize it and heal from it. Excellent video!
Exactly ! Thank you!
When you fall into Mutual Limerence, what a crazy painful ride it can be. I do believe there is a chance for love to flower out of limerence, but it takes battling the hardships of life together, if not, the honeymoon always ends. Then again what do I know, I'm still in limerence withdrawals. Nice job!
This channel has helped me more than my weekly therapy sessions ❤️
You have a good point right at the end, the people who do not really see your own worth for what it is need to go.
You’re one of the underrated channels! I’ve been struggling with limerence issue, i cant seem to find the one to fill up the part of me which feels emptiness. Hopefully you can talk more about this 👍🏻
Thank you! I hear you- I will be talking about it, I have a couple additional videos on it & will do many more.
Ohh my God ! Seriously hands down🙌 this is the best anyone's ever explained limerence.
So accurate and on point.👏 Please make more videos about it and how to recover. I have been held in this limerence loop from last 16 years .Need your help. Best wishes ❤
I watched this again, and it kinda sounds like having very high standards for a mate, and sticking to this high standard. And who's to say that they are a flawed person that we will see once we get to know them more. Maybe they are pretty wonderful even if they have some flaws. We know everyone has flaws of course. My LO I am trying to use to better myself. Turn this L into something positive and something that drives me to be more creative and have a bit more energy rather than sit around feeling bad, or sick in the stomach. I guess I've gotten used to craving someone nice and smart and good looking to hang around with. Upper class with a bit of education is also nice imo. That is what I see in my current LO. Damn me for wanting something of a bit of higher standards.
woww this is eye openig. Thank you
I feel like I should rewatch it everyday, just to remember
Actually, you’re on to a very valuable tactic there: being exposed to content about limerence helps in the process of healing out of it. Because reality constantly breaks down the fantasies until you’ll see that, they won’t be as easy to have anymore. Glad you are here 💜
Thank you❤
Thank you for the great content
Thanks. It's helping me a lot
Thank you for this, its so helpful
Glad it was helpful! 💜
I need help with this😔 I'm in a loop . I'm having a hard time. I don't know how to fix self worth.
I have a lot of videos about it, including one that outlines practical steps to get out of Limerence. Check them out!
I even had a song for my LO and I, Hysteria by Def Leppard
I did not choose him though. But am now in limberance over him....feel doomed
Can i stay friends with my LO'?
You can try but let me tell you its not gonna help you in any way