That's a good question - it's a common problem! Since I'm not a professional and don't have a clear answer for this though (everything in this video came from resources I've consumed), I'll recommend two things: - Check out Evita PK's videos on limerence since she specializes in this topic (ua-cam.com/video/_Yj1195X-kQ/v-deo.html) - Living with Limerece - a very short booklet you can use as a guide for dealing with limerence. The author does talk about this issue and strategies for people who're already in relationships at many points if I remember right. I do also remember an instance of Evita talking about her client's experience with this. She used limerence as a way of avoiding a big problem in her life - once she focused her attention on that problem instead of just daydreaming about her limerent object, she successfully came out of it. I've had limerence all my life, so I really hope you get to the bottom of this ASAP!!
What if... the girl i started talking four weeks ago has recently told me that its better to go no contact for a while right after i told her that i need more attention from her and less hot and cold treatment? For context, she literaly got out of a really bad relationship in may, and in june she had something weird going on with another girl but she got friendzoned and weird shi. So, my opinion is that she might wanna keep getting to know me in some time cause right now i feel like she needs to live a little
Hey, sorry for the late reply. Hmm... Well, most importantly, you should obviously respect her decision. If she's just gotten out of a relationship, it doesn't matter how interested she is, you most likely need to give her the time and space she needs - which, I assume, will be a lot of it. I think that you should focus on other things, and let her come back naturally. But you already you know what to do, it seems like!
What about when you get limerance for someone else when you're already IN a relationship?
this is what im going through its not funnnnnnn
That's a good question - it's a common problem! Since I'm not a professional and don't have a clear answer for this though (everything in this video came from resources I've consumed), I'll recommend two things:
- Check out Evita PK's videos on limerence since she specializes in this topic (ua-cam.com/video/_Yj1195X-kQ/v-deo.html)
- Living with Limerece - a very short booklet you can use as a guide for dealing with limerence. The author does talk about this issue and strategies for people who're already in relationships at many points if I remember right.
I do also remember an instance of Evita talking about her client's experience with this. She used limerence as a way of avoiding a big problem in her life - once she focused her attention on that problem instead of just daydreaming about her limerent object, she successfully came out of it.
I've had limerence all my life, so I really hope you get to the bottom of this ASAP!!
This video popped up, exactly when i need it 😭😭😭
@mixielaoye7390 hope it helped 🙏
Thank you so much, this is so so helpful for me, blessings for you ❤
@laurapatriciasoriaibarra4760 happy it's helpful!
Best video yet!
SO glad you liked it - it was a long one!
Needed this
I used to have that for someone when l was young
@@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj hopefully you haven't had to re-experience it!
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Needed this not gonna watch rn tho lmao
This video is saying a lot, so take notes! Also, check the description if you haven't 😌
Ive been wondering where you were at, but this is a nice surprise :)
I've been in the hospital haha! More on that soon 🤫
I hope you feel better now! @@sia_and_her_journal
What if... the girl i started talking four weeks ago has recently told me that its better to go no contact for a while right after i told her that i need more attention from her and less hot and cold treatment? For context, she literaly got out of a really bad relationship in may, and in june she had something weird going on with another girl but she got friendzoned and weird shi. So, my opinion is that she might wanna keep getting to know me in some time cause right now i feel like she needs to live a little
Hey, sorry for the late reply. Hmm...
Well, most importantly, you should obviously respect her decision.
If she's just gotten out of a relationship, it doesn't matter how interested she is, you most likely need to give her the time and space she needs - which, I assume, will be a lot of it.
I think that you should focus on other things, and let her come back naturally.
But you already you know what to do, it seems like!
I don’t understand how fear adds in 🤨
It's usually the fear of not finding the love that a child so needs and probably never got.
Thank you
So glad it helped ☺
Thank you❤
Glad it helped 😁
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Yeap, he gave me permission so 🤭