how to stop using "love" to escape your problems (a full guide)

Reflective prompts for this video:
- What's the primary reason/s for my limerence? (Childhood experiences, lack of connection, etc.)
- What kind of people do I typically get limerent for? Can I identify any patterns?
- Do I have certain beliefs that exacerbate my limerence? (e.g. that we have soulmates, the idea of "the one", etc.)
- What is it about the person I'm limerent for (LO; limerent object) that makes them human? i.e. someone who can't love me perfectly and satisfy my fantasies.
- Can I cut contact with my LO? How can I go about it?
- What is it about my life I need to change so I can fall in love with it and myself again? Create a list.
Hope this helps, you got this :)

[@justindobner1823]

I don’t understand how fear adds in 🤨

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I used to have that for someone when l was young

[@sia_and_her_journal]

@@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj hopefully you haven't had to re-experience it!

[@laurapatriciasoriaibarra4760]

Thank you so much, this is so so helpful for me, blessings for you ❤

[@sia_and_her_journal]

@laurapatriciasoriaibarra4760 happy it's helpful!

[@ILoveHand-ClappingASMR]

I am limerence dude, Socrates!

[@Cyalater26]

Needed this

[@chimerasoldier6078]

Best video yet!

[@sia_and_her_journal]

SO glad you liked it - it was a long one!

[@Badabingbadaaaabom]

Needed this not gonna watch rn tho lmao

[@sia_and_her_journal]

This video is saying a lot, so take notes! Also, check the description if you haven't 😌

[@leander4303]

Ive been wondering where you were at, but this is a nice surprise :)

[@sia_and_her_journal]

I've been in the hospital haha! More on that soon 🤫

[@Rachelllllll2024]

I hope you feel better now! ​@@sia_and_her_journal

[@wadesagent8006]

Thank you❤

[@sia_and_her_journal]

Glad it helped 😁

[@angstyh0313]

What if... the girl i started talking four weeks ago has recently told me that its better to go no contact for a while right after i told her that i need more attention from her and less hot and cold treatment? For context, she literaly got out of a really bad relationship in may, and in june she had something weird going on with another girl but she got friendzoned and weird shi. So, my opinion is that she might wanna keep getting to know me in some time cause right now i feel like she needs to live a little

[@sia_and_her_journal]

Hey, sorry for the late reply. Hmm...
Well, most importantly, you should obviously respect her decision.
If she's just gotten out of a relationship, it doesn't matter how interested she is, you most likely need to give her the time and space she needs - which, I assume, will be a lot of it.
I think that you should focus on other things, and let her come back naturally.
But you already you know what to do, it seems like!

[@Siterus]

shameless copy of Sean's intro words

[@sia_and_her_journal]

Yeap, he gave me permission so 🤭