so i got fired.

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  • Опубліковано 8 тра 2023
  • In today's day and age it's extremely (and unfortunately) common to see tragic LinkedIn posts about being terminated, laid off, and job seeking. Unfortunately it happened to me as well....
    This video is made to provide a philosophical approach to being fired. In a world that places too much emphasis on our career, being fired really cause us to feel lost and confused. Hope this helps you in your career journey!

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  • @sarahhelmer7902
    @sarahhelmer7902 11 місяців тому +117

    Everybody gets fired at least once in their life. It’s just not talked about.

  • @cgriff1489
    @cgriff1489 4 місяці тому +35

    I just got fired. They cited poor performance. I never figured my performance was the best, but never fire worthy. Never gotten written up or talked to. I’m 30. I have a wife. We have a baby on the way. I’m feeling crushed and pathetic and angry have no idea what to do.

    • @andrewtully3622
      @andrewtully3622 4 місяці тому +1

      Hello,
      I found myself in this position a few months ago. I would suggest you do the following three things:
      1) Seek out 2-3 people who know you well (either friends or family) and run through what you are actually good at - 100% there are things you believe everyone can just 'do', which they cannot. Use this to formulate a new CV and a new criteria for a job hunt - apply for jobs you have the skills for and the capacity for, even if the roles are menial or low-paying.
      2) Fill out any benefits your country allows you - ballache, I know, but worth doing even if it comes to naught (as you at least feel you are doing something).
      3) Give your partner time to process the information. They will be scared and angry as they (like you) have been blindsided. Let them be angry for a few days before the logical part of their brain kicks in and recognises that you have been fired not for any personal failing as a father and a husband, but because your skills do not align with that role.
      Drop me an update in a few months and best of luck with fatherhood!

    • @laurasanders5050
      @laurasanders5050 2 місяці тому +3

      In this world, means you are a good person

    • @2seafoam
      @2seafoam Місяць тому +2

      Same,
      I hope for us stability for our family in all aspects of our well-being. I know this sounds cliché.. happy hunting to the both of us..
      We have a kid to so yeah, pressure is pressured 10x more... I hope this leads someplace better, and this gives us lessons we learned that will keep us away from these things happening..
      Congratulations on the baby on the way, i hope this helps the people who loves you to show up and take this opportunity to care for you and your family in this hard time..
      They said watching videos like this helps because it keeps you away from blaming yourself but understand we will grieve differently.. take time
      I hope you find strength..

  • @azyozy5943
    @azyozy5943 Рік тому +149

    just got fired today this made me feel better and its just was not meant for me .😄

    • @BasedTruth
      @BasedTruth 11 місяців тому +3

      I got fired yesterday. How are you doing

    • @azyozy5943
      @azyozy5943 11 місяців тому +4

      awwww im so sorry im doing great now i know it can feel awful but time heals hope you feel better :)@@BasedTruth

    • @richardtavarez4565
      @richardtavarez4565 8 місяців тому

      @@BasedTruthhey i got fired today did u get a new job??

    • @BasedTruth
      @BasedTruth 8 місяців тому +3

      @@richardtavarez4565 yes I did. Not in my field but I like it a lot better. Took about a month and a half

    • @BasedTruth
      @BasedTruth 8 місяців тому

      @@richardtavarez4565 get unemployment and food stamps if you can that's what I did. And it helped that I also had money saved

  • @f50koenigg
    @f50koenigg Рік тому +67

    Im watching this not because I got fired yet but to inspire myself that if I do get fired next week, im more emotionally prepared for it. I have been catastrophizing since last week, its really weighing me down.

    • @truthbetold6942
      @truthbetold6942 11 місяців тому +9

      You got this. As a HR professional for 30 years, I know first hand that people who lost their job always tell me it was the best thing that happened to them.

    • @TLJAWSIMIB
      @TLJAWSIMIB 9 місяців тому +2

      HOW!?.

    • @Minalia92
      @Minalia92 9 місяців тому +7

      I know this is 4 months old but I feel the same way and today was painful but these comments helped me feel less alone. I hope it gets better for us

    • @jaystechroom
      @jaystechroom 8 місяців тому +2

      How are you doing now?

  • @Falcon197
    @Falcon197 Рік тому +60

    I remember getting fired from my first real job straight out of grad school, due partly to restructuring and also due to me not being on the best terms with my manager (INTJ problems - what can I say?). My reaction at the time was a mix of relief and uncertainty but I was blessed to have my life and finances in order beforehand, and with the help of a career coach/mentor who I worked with in my old job I was able to get into a new role fairly quickly. Not everyone else is so fortunate. Sometimes job loss can be truly devastating and so it's good to see that you're able to pause and take a breath before going on to the next thing, career-wise.
    Wishing you the very best in your future pursuits and don't forget - we work to live, we don't live to work! Stay strong and keep going!

    • @thelydshow
      @thelydshow  Рік тому +7

      It really must be an INTJ thing. The good news is I started to apply for other jobs just in case way before this happened lmao. Reading your comment gives me hope that only better opportunities lie ahead.

    • @Falcon197
      @Falcon197 Рік тому +4

      @@thelydshow There's always something to look forward to. God's plans are often better than ours.

    • @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes
      @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes Рік тому +4

      Yes, we may have problems with authority or superiors because we consider everyone equal, no one is above or below for us.
      This is something people should learn from us.

  • @christianizaczaragoza6762
    @christianizaczaragoza6762 Рік тому +32

    I worked as an IT Technician at a local college as my 2nd IT job after I got laid off from a call center job that I worked for nearly 3 years. I wasn't skilled enough for the job yet, but I wanted the job badly that I lied my way through the job, and usually, im a quick learner, too. I didn't think I was going to get the job, but I got it and was excited about it, thinking this was going to be a perfect job for me that I can do as a career.
    Fast forward 3 months later, the college job ended up being way tougher than I thought, and my "trainer" didn't really do his job to help me improve. Every time I ask for help or need some reminder from my trainer, he would make these annoying "what-do-you-think" remarks and doesn't help me. Plus, working 10-hour shifts a day was what stressed me out the most about the job. On my last day of working there, I got to my boss's office after my first hour of the day and he told me I wasn't "progressing enough" for the job and I must be released.
    As my boss made me pack my stuff and escorted me to my car; he told me I was his worst incompetent employee, too many complaints about me not knowing what I'm doing, and this job and the IT career are not for me. All honesty, I was actually more glad that I didn't need to work there anymore than upset that I got fired. I wanted to like the job, but I couldn't and I wanted out there.

    • @maeleon
      @maeleon Рік тому +1

      Did you find another job? If so, do you like it better?

    • @pratzqwtyy
      @pratzqwtyy 10 місяців тому +3

      The bottom line is you shouldn't have lied to get the job.

    • @rjmyeke6629
      @rjmyeke6629 3 місяці тому

      I was working as an IT officer at a high school. I got fired yesterday on Month 4

  • @jasminemartinez7305
    @jasminemartinez7305 Рік тому +28

    I just got let go today from my job I wasn’t much upset as I was disappointed I was making good money as well as getting benefits but at the same time I felt like I was losing a piece of myself in it I was doing my best but I guess it wasn’t good enough and as much as I wanted to cry I didn’t I’m 26 almost 27 years old I don’t have a proper job anymore but I’m not letting this stop me because right now I want take care of myself because I’ve neglected it for too long and remind myself that nobody is perfect and chase after my dream and grasp it

  • @kcjm7345
    @kcjm7345 Рік тому +33

    I got fired today and the owner didn't have the balls to do it herself

  • @nathaliemartin2114
    @nathaliemartin2114 Рік тому +50

    It's funny that sometimes my life is so related to Lydia's. I'm also unemployed since last Friday lol. But I decided to resign cause that job was making me be stuck. It's hard to deal with unemployment, but sometimes it's a way of make us to grow and start something new

    • @thelydshow
      @thelydshow  Рік тому +2

      wow.... so in sync

    • @mini341
      @mini341 Місяць тому

      I couldn’t of said it better myself

  • @PrincessAyisha-1
    @PrincessAyisha-1 3 місяці тому +5

    Im a nurse i was fired last Thursday morning and i start my new job orientation wensday morning, 😂 i was fired for standing up for myself and i dont regret it at all i did whats right.

  • @AndreCoelhoMatos
    @AndreCoelhoMatos Рік тому +21

    I am about to lose my job. I’m freaking out. Please someone pray for my future. I don’t have much money in the bank.
    What upsets me the most is the way my employer went about it. I feel heartbroken

    • @thelydshow
      @thelydshow  Рік тому +3

      this too shall pass

    • @AndreCoelhoMatos
      @AndreCoelhoMatos Рік тому +1

      @@thelydshow Thank you a lot

    • @Eron55555
      @Eron55555 8 місяців тому

      @@AndreCoelhoMatosHow are you now?

    • @AndreCoelhoMatos
      @AndreCoelhoMatos 8 місяців тому +2

      @@Eron55555 thanks for following up - I’m much better. I hired a lawyer and won against the company. They were forced to apologise, and they made changes in the structure so I don’t have to deal with the b*tch that tried to sack me for nothing.

    • @Eron55555
      @Eron55555 8 місяців тому

      @@AndreCoelhoMatos your story sounds a bit like my current story. New process and people and I got screw jobbed by new bit*ch management. For my situation I'm screwed because I'm contact. Sucks...

  • @nadenglish3811
    @nadenglish3811 Рік тому +23

    That last part really hit hard.. You're completely right..
    We are focusing too much on career and achievement, we are focusing too much on the future without remembering that we live in the present, and that the present time is never gonna be here again.
    Why do we have to wait for a "cancer" for example to make us wake up and take action to liberae ourselves?!
    WE CARE TOO MUCH, about superficial things sometimes🤓
    This video woke me up, thank you...❤
    And also I'm happy that you're happy and free, make the most out of this time

  • @Lanae8199
    @Lanae8199 3 місяці тому +5

    I enjoyed the video. I was let go from my job this morning. I think I will also do a video this week. Also, I like your sense of humor.

  • @xsarauhhx3
    @xsarauhhx3 Рік тому +10

    I, too, just got let go yesterday. Thank you for this video because I felt so alone.

  • @EsmeraldaWolfsbane7777
    @EsmeraldaWolfsbane7777 Рік тому +30

    As a person who has had a history of being fired myself 😂i can tell you its definitely their loss, and maybe its for the best you will find something better most likely or maybe you can start something yourself companies are notorious for firing intelligent people and letting the slackers stay behind, not necessarily tgat your coworkers are slackers but that has happened to me, after i left my job they hired slackers for cheaper wages and the company took a dive, interesting video as usual.✌🏻💚

    • @thelydshow
      @thelydshow  Рік тому +2

      thank you for this! I am choosing to believe something much better is on its way :))

    • @danielle6718
      @danielle6718 Рік тому

      Got fired on Monday. I am 20 weeks pregnant with my first kid. The firing feels like very discriminatory but w.e. I am 30 years old,

  • @bluemethbunny
    @bluemethbunny 6 місяців тому +8

    Thank you for helping me process the difficult emotions I am going through

  • @Tre_Di
    @Tre_Di Рік тому +16

    I'm worried that I will pass all of my life working and that I won't spend enough time living

    • @thelydshow
      @thelydshow  11 місяців тому +5

      My daily crisis tbh…

    • @seriejohnson698
      @seriejohnson698 9 місяців тому +2

      Welcome to life, unless you when the lottery, inherit or invest really well.

    • @Melian07
      @Melian07 3 місяці тому

      It's surreal to imagine that before being eligible for retirement I will have to work yet for nearly 30 years. The retirement age for my generation has been lifted to 67. How will people at this age keep up with the physical and mental requirements?

  • @andyswanner6139
    @andyswanner6139 9 місяців тому +4

    Thanks for this. It was helpful to hear that others have this experience.

  • @jonathanstevey1748
    @jonathanstevey1748 Рік тому +12

    Just lost my job yesterday. I went through all the emotions too and settled on what am I going to so now. I'm one of the ones that is going to be in deep dodo even if my unemployment kicks in. I knee it was coming, I worked in credit cards...those I was fired because my stats tanked after I got a "soft" lateral promotion into training. They decided to stop hiring and threw me back on the phones.i did the bare minimum to get by and it nailed me. I hated it so it's fine that they fired me...I dont have to deal with them anymore. I'm just stressed out about my financial situation. Good luck on the future.

  • @yogib37
    @yogib37 Рік тому +15

    i lost my job in January. I am still upset over it. Even I am pushing retirement age, i feel they had it for me. I think they could of done a better job and I think I could have done something better.

    • @thelydshow
      @thelydshow  Рік тому +3

      so sad to hear :/ but we can always look at it as a sign to change things up

  • @freddiecrumb77
    @freddiecrumb77 Рік тому +5

    sorry that it happened to you. Been there done that... Yes, I went through a range of emotions. First, I know this is something I can't really argue about - I mean they made it something like a discussion setting - you know it's over and you are in the abyss in relation to the current job. It feels very personal and there is nothing they can say that will make you feel better.

  • @liakr3331
    @liakr3331 9 місяців тому +4

    You’re describing my feelings right now, thank you so much for this video!!!

    • @thelydshow
      @thelydshow  9 місяців тому

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @robertthompson5084
    @robertthompson5084 Рік тому +10

    Mac n cheese. Best comfort food. I will say this, as someone who was recently homeless. You quickly find your possessions, fancy apartment, designer clothes, don't mean shit. Simplify your life.

    • @thelydshow
      @thelydshow  Рік тому +3

      yesss really trying to be less materialistic!

  • @wendymclean4439
    @wendymclean4439 6 місяців тому

    Thank you! I was fired 4 weeks ago, other than the plane ticket, our day, feelings, how it happened mirrored each other. You helped me feel better. It's a ride to be sure but I'm forging ahead! Be well

  • @sethkang4410
    @sethkang4410 Рік тому +5

    it took me 1 week before i got affected by this. and that gut feeling you said that something is gonna happen and they call you in hr. yeah its true. but the most embarrassing thing is they walk you to your car.

  • @slowtravelvlogs
    @slowtravelvlogs Рік тому +19

    Sorry to hear Lydia, but it’s amazing the way you are dealing with it and I love the fact that you decided to openly talk about this, sharing your vulnerability and strength with us. You are so right that we often feel ashamed when things like this happen to us and you are such a great example of how we should deal with them. Make the most of your freedom and of the opportunity to reinvent your life for now! Thanks for sharing ❤

    • @thelydshow
      @thelydshow  Рік тому +2

      thanks for this comment Alice!

  • @sparkletwist15
    @sparkletwist15 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you! The same thing happened to me yesterday and I found this video massively comforting. I have been a range of emotions from silent, to sobbing, to screaming, to feeling free, to not sleeping and going to the gym. I think I'm starting to calm down now and accept it. And if a beautiful and lovely girl like you can be fired, anyone can! God has better plans for us

    • @thelydshow
      @thelydshow  5 місяців тому +1

      it gets so much better! you will see

    • @mariaandrade5675
      @mariaandrade5675 4 місяці тому

      I got fired a day ago and I’m going through the same thing , any advice ; I’m having a hard time coping

  • @lizasoliman723
    @lizasoliman723 Рік тому +11

    most intj statement..
    "you could get cancer"

  • @lydiabrianna2589
    @lydiabrianna2589 10 місяців тому +2

    I needed this so badly

  • @austinwolfdog5175
    @austinwolfdog5175 Рік тому +1

    thanks for this video. i recently got laid off and this video helped me threw the emotions.

  • @wmgmusicgroup
    @wmgmusicgroup 9 місяців тому +1

    I got let go from my job this video is very peaceful boosting my mentality that a better opportunity is coming thank you ❤

  • @mylifeasyuka
    @mylifeasyuka 4 місяці тому +1

    I'm also just got fired yesterday and ended up watching videos like this. Thankfully knowing this is not only me makes me feel better. I am happy to find another way now.

  • @pagethreemodel
    @pagethreemodel Рік тому +1

    I think it's quite natural to experience conflicting emotions about being fired. When I was let go by my first ever job, i was pissed because I didn't think what I did deserved being fired; plus I needed the money - and I wasn't sure what I was going to do. At the same time I was somewhat relieved because the environment wasn't the most ideal and it wasn't what I wanted to do with my life in general.
    Looking back almost ten years on, I don’t care anymore and I'm really grateful for the experience because it taught me a lot.
    You have already right to feel how you do about losing your job. I just wish you the best and I pray you find something much better soon. In fact, you will. In the meantime, take care of yourself and savour your newfound freedom for now.❤❤

    • @thelydshow
      @thelydshow  Рік тому

      thank you!!! its really helpful to realize that in ten years from now this will seem so trivial :)

  • @yuzan3607
    @yuzan3607 Рік тому +33

    Hello Lydia, I'm 30 years old and I also had lost my job recently. I just watched your other video about being "so mature for your age" and honestly that's how it felt watching this video. Your 'maturity' really inspires me, which is a bit embarrassing not gonna lie lol. I spent a month of panic and agony and only now I'm coming to the realisation that I should enjoy this free time, that years from now I'd be looking back and wish to get this time off (albeit it was forced on me). I'm finally at a better mental space this week and I'm actually calculating my next move calmly and not in panic. Your video was a good reminder that it's not really that deep to be in this situation, it's just how the market is going. It's easy to blame one's self (and that's what I did initially) because I thought why me? I did everything I thought was right to be able to afford a decent life, so why me? why now?
    Now I realise it's not my fault. Instead of beating myself up I should work with what I'm given. You booking a flight the moment you were fired really inspired me lol. I mean, yea god is giving us this free time, might as well enjoy it while it lasts.
    Wish you all the best luck!

    • @thelydshow
      @thelydshow  Рік тому +3

      I wouldn't be too hard on yourself for having that moment, thinking it was 'perhaps your fault'. It is completely natural and even I have had mental loops where I go back and question if it was really all my fault. The good news is that our lives are made up of so many components. While career is usually the most valued one (in terms of finances) it really isn't what life is all about. You got this!!

    • @aGumball
      @aGumball Рік тому +1

      that's good and all, but some of us need money to live. we can't just sit outside and enjoy the sunset

    • @yuzan3607
      @yuzan3607 Рік тому +1

      @@aGumball Some of us had managed to collect savings for a "black day" for years and I encourage you to do that too. That's why we now can "enjoy the sunset". You don't know when you'll be without money next time, so when you do have the money, save it for emergency.

    • @lssauce
      @lssauce Рік тому

      Good thing sunsets are free

  • @jonmikalmusic
    @jonmikalmusic Рік тому +6

    Just got fired from a roofing sales job making GREAT money😢😢so I feel you

  • @JimmySmallss
    @JimmySmallss Рік тому +18

    Hey guys, I got sacked earlier too. Just out of the blue and feel really scared but relieved at the same time

  • @mystery79
    @mystery79 10 місяців тому +2

    I got laid off 4 years ago, I was 39. My husband got laid off 2 months ago, the job market seems tougher for him than it was for me. I think a lot of us young Gen X and millennials have or will experience a layoff. It’s even more challenging if you have kids.
    If you haven’t job searched in the last 5 years, things are different. There’s a lot of assessment tests and multiple rounds of interviewing and sadly ghosting from Employers and Recruiters. Be prepared, if you have experience then an opportunity will come your way but the job search will definitely have its ups and downs.

  • @SimplySayrabi
    @SimplySayrabi Рік тому +7

    I’m glad I discovered this because I literally got fired wrongfully so for being pregnant which is insane.

    • @tijeraslack3
      @tijeraslack3 Рік тому +1

      That’s illegal like a champ. I would go to EEO.

    • @SimplySayrabi
      @SimplySayrabi Рік тому +2

      @@tijeraslack3 thank you love I’m looking into that for sure

    • @thehappywanderer6469
      @thehappywanderer6469 11 місяців тому +1

      Go after them big time. File online Canadian Human Rights complaint. Portal makes you do it in one sitting. Start talking to employment lawyers. You have a settlement coming. I would sue the manager as well personally outside of Company. No way their HR supported that. Can't hide behind them. Good luck.

  • @thriveatworkwithWaqasMalik
    @thriveatworkwithWaqasMalik 8 місяців тому +1

    I got inspiration from you, regarding how to cope with the feeling of getting fired

  • @herooftermina
    @herooftermina 9 місяців тому +1

    Thanks I needed this

  • @Tennischamp10
    @Tennischamp10 9 місяців тому +5

    I had a prestigious internship at a big CPA firm. I was not given an offer at the end of it. Hurt bad. Got another job through my network at a similar prestigious firm and never looked back. 10 years later I am a Partner living a way better life. Things happen and you learn and move on

    • @tex346
      @tex346 4 місяці тому

      Is your firm using any AI tools for Office? CoPilot? Python Integration? x CPA here now MBA-Management Information Systems

  • @1934jackson
    @1934jackson 3 місяці тому +1

    So I recently just got let go as well. The positive thing is that I had already kind of been feeling like it wasn’t going to work out for like a year now before hand. The good news is that that allowed me time to do all the work and mentally prepare myself for this day. I also had the same thought that she mentioned in the video “I’m free” when the incident finally happened. Afternoon additional research if that’s your first thought what it means is that most likely the role wasn’t for you or the company wasn’t for you. Now, is the time that you lean on your support network and move on .

    • @thelydshow
      @thelydshow  3 місяці тому

      exactly! this is good to hear

  • @fbyfunmi
    @fbyfunmi Рік тому

    i just got fired yesturday too so i commend you on being strong though this! I just subscribed to you too.

  • @Eron55555
    @Eron55555 8 місяців тому +3

    So how is everyone doin 6 months after being shitcanned?

  • @Aquamarin257samt
    @Aquamarin257samt 2 місяці тому +1

    I am really trying my best and it always the same problem - I have had trying working in several companies - and then get fired after one month.It is really depressing me that I get fired and fired over again,but I feel overwhelmed with the work.
    Always some problem happens after some days and I am tired of getting fired.
    Maybe working in first job market is not the right thing for me and I should not try working anymore ?
    Perhaps it is all too much stress for me and the companies have very high expectations which I am not able to fulfill

  • @cutebutdemonic
    @cutebutdemonic 11 місяців тому +3

    I got fired last night when my net shift would have been today. They weren't able to give me an actual reason why I was being fired. I live in Vancouver and it's so expensive here and it's scary.

    • @truthbetold6942
      @truthbetold6942 11 місяців тому

      You will find something quickly. Try to take care of yourself while you are off.

  • @jonathanjohnston1922
    @jonathanjohnston1922 7 місяців тому +2

    I got fired the day after I found out my wife of 16 years, was cheating on me. Life sucks right now but hey, I am healthy, I have a beautiful daughter, and I have the drive to bounce back!

    • @thelydshow
      @thelydshow  7 місяців тому

      as always, everything happens for a reason :)) better things lie ahead!

  • @destinydavis1421
    @destinydavis1421 7 місяців тому +2

    I got fired 2 days ago from a place I thought was my thing… I was there for over a year… and I was fired over a 1 time mistake

  • @h0tpink88
    @h0tpink88 9 місяців тому +2

    One of my best days was when I got fired: went to a butterfly exhibit, watched my friend get LASIK, and found a strangers keys and he gave me $20 for my trouble!

  • @rectify2003
    @rectify2003 5 місяців тому

    I Hope things have improved for you and you have work now
    Just lost my job today
    Subscribed

    • @thelydshow
      @thelydshow  5 місяців тому +2

      i did get a job and im very happy :) it does get better!

    • @rectify2003
      @rectify2003 5 місяців тому

      @@thelydshow Thankyou xx
      Im Trusting in the Lord

  • @nitinsingh3958
    @nitinsingh3958 Рік тому +4

    I really like thelydshow & it's cool that not a lot of people know about your channel

  • @coolserverlake840
    @coolserverlake840 5 місяців тому

    2 of my co-workers who i worked with for so many years just got fired 2 days ago because of our company's recent "low" budget. both were very hard working people and had always put in all their effort in their respective roles. i wont be surprised if i'm next in line to be let go even if i consider my position very important in the company. they are also my good friends too outside of work so not having them as co-workers stings alot and its going to be a totally different working atmosphere in a bad way going forward.

  • @Mary-tj5qx
    @Mary-tj5qx 4 місяці тому

    I’ve been let go enough times that i always expect it. Four times so far. I’m in my last corporate job after which i’m going to be angling for a lay off, next Spring to be exact. My point here is that I’ve been laid off four times and am looking for a fifth, because i like the pay out, which has at times been quite generous. I’ve stayed at jobs knowing the job was going to be eliminated, or i was not one of management’s favorites, because i wanted the package. It’s a strategy worth considering.

  • @Pinkkermit17
    @Pinkkermit17 7 місяців тому +1

    Been at the same job for 20 years, they told me i needed to do better or I was gone. Everyone “above” me is acting off, my boss is actually being somewhat nice.. I am suppose to have a meeting with Hr in a few days.. I have a feeling I am a goner. Been making me sick …

  • @NB-lx6gz
    @NB-lx6gz 6 місяців тому +1

    Hi, I've binged a few of your videos...which field do you work(ed) at?

    • @thelydshow
      @thelydshow  5 місяців тому +1

      i was working in merchandising analytics

  • @slowedtwizzy
    @slowedtwizzy 8 місяців тому +2

    ngl I subbed because of how you started the vid off😂😂😂 “well it’s 5 hours no job” I’m in the same boat shit bogus man

  • @Diiful
    @Diiful 7 місяців тому

    It's my sister who got fired not me, it was a new job with a toxic environment that she wasn't enjoying but it still really shook her hard...

  • @tems__31
    @tems__31 10 місяців тому +2

    I resigned on Thursdays, i was actually emotionally pushed to resigning by my supervisor. 😢 so yep

  • @NB-lx6gz
    @NB-lx6gz 4 місяці тому +1

    I just got fired during probation.

  • @mini341
    @mini341 Місяць тому

    June 16th was a nightmare 😢 so in sync with this video right now.

  • @amoore2165
    @amoore2165 10 місяців тому +4

    I was let go during the last recession from a decent job pay wise but not a great environment.
    Was unemployed for a year, only had one job interview, eventually got hired at that job to make a long story short. I was pretty relaxed and relieved like you are when I was let go. It wasn’t personal on their part. I just accepted it. Thank goodness for unemployment paychecks.
    Now my pay is double what it was before in a way bigger company with a way better atmosphere. Not to say the same thing will happen but just some anecdotal evidence that it did work out for the better. 😃
    I did not get a plane ticket anywhere. 😂 Needed to save money.
    The boss I have now has said in the past “I wish I could have a hundred of you.” While other bosses in the past have called me a rebel and we’d just butt heads. 🤷‍♂️
    Personality differences. I’m also an INTJ.

  • @justStardust940
    @justStardust940 Рік тому +2

    were you fired or laid off?

  • @j.c.harrisassetmanagement7939
    @j.c.harrisassetmanagement7939 11 місяців тому +1

    you have a beautiful home. it literally matches you

  • @AlvinSeville1
    @AlvinSeville1 8 місяців тому +3

    Depending on the job, sometimes that's the best thing for you. You can reset your batteries, so to speak...think about what to do with your life and move on. Personally, it can be refreshing.

    • @thelydshow
      @thelydshow  8 місяців тому +1

      true, and everything happens for a reason

  • @Yoyoadventure
    @Yoyoadventure 8 місяців тому +3

    Just got fired as well 😂

  • @marisakennedy777
    @marisakennedy777 Рік тому +2

    My last last job, during the pandemic, my company laid off more than half the employees and I was one of them. Chicago had some stupid rules for months that only emergency dental work could be done, and my boss made high end aesthetics for dental prosthetics, so few dentists were sending in work. That combined with only so many people being allowed in each room at a time, he was forced to let go of those not absolutely necessary for running the company.
    Technically, it was my dream job, making videos and running their social media, particularly UA-cam videos. But at the same time, during the BLM stuff in Chicago, there were riots and warnings not to go driving on the roads near Chicago because people were walking in front of cars and pulling people out of their cars, beating them up, and destroying their vehicles. The Best Buy near me was looted. I didn't feel safe at all. So I was actually glad to be able to move away back to my parents house.
    I ended up getting a job at the same place I worked at while still in high school, so a bummer there. But I enjoyed it somewhat anyway, and got some bills paid off. Then they installed a new General Manager and it was terrible, so I quit. But today I start my new job and I'm excited, not my dream job, but it's a company whose products I really can stand behind. I didn't expect to find another job so quickly.
    LAST NOTE: That's cool you also feel like God tells you things about diet, I thought I was just weird or my mind was playing with me. I just found this video by accident, an interview on the channel Diary of a CEO, with the "Glucose Goddess" aka Jessie Inchauspe (French). And after that awesome video, I bought her book "Glucose Revolution" and it's been a life-changer for me!
    PS: totally agree about the gluten and toxic sprays on food.

    • @thelydshow
      @thelydshow  Рік тому +1

      wow what a trip. Hope the new job works out for you!!

  • @ernestcooper4103
    @ernestcooper4103 Рік тому

    I was fired to haven’t had a job in a month 😢

  • @moonlightstargem1006
    @moonlightstargem1006 Рік тому +3

    Being fired can set you back soooo far from your goals! You lose the money you saved up, you become financially dependent on your parents & you start to steal money or get that consent from your parents to use their credit card!! And sometimes you lose your rights to your bank account.
    If you are sitting in your car & you realize and wake up to all that happened to you try to get back on track. If you are unemployed for a long time you forget how to work. You forget how to work at a cash register & you forget how to function in a work place. You have to rebuild your skills.
    You get closer to becoming homeless.
    You have to live with your parents if you are in your 20’s.
    You have to have something that people wanna invest in or buy or purchase. So don’t give your stuff away for free! Make a profit off it. My family are narcissists and want me to be poor and financially dependent or to give them all the money i make. So i started using them for their money. And got them to give me consent to do so

  • @tex346
    @tex346 4 місяці тому +2

    It gets much worse...get busy with something.. health first

  • @Azel98
    @Azel98 Рік тому +1

    I got fired at macy's for an month.

  • @phoebe_jours
    @phoebe_jours 2 дні тому

    Wow your fired story was really same like me. I got fired calling and my boss just staring at my eyes, they're HR and boss waiting and immediately I can't access my computer 😂 and look at we're 2 right now just being okay without that company ❤

  • @anhar267
    @anhar267 8 місяців тому +2

    @thelydshow Hi 👋🏼 Thanks for the calming video. Sending a hug. Hope you are doing better by now.
    I got let go last month from my logistics operations management role in Bangladesh along with 9 of my colleagues. The company messed up badly in business, so couldn't afford us. Tried to point finger at my performance. Pressured us to 'resign due to personal reason' to reduce their liabilities. I reported their harassment to the mother company in Italy and chose termination instead 😅. I joined a Gym and enrolled in IELTS right after that. I am allowing my brain to figure out the next career step while applying.
    I think you should do voiceovers as you have a beautiful voice. I am an aspiring Narrator. Do let me know if I can help in any project that needs a deep calm male voice.
    Take care

  • @Ballerina-Girl
    @Ballerina-Girl Рік тому +6

    Being fired and getting laid off are different. Being fired, employee's at fault with something. Being laid off, company's at fault with something. Both result in termination.

    • @thelydshow
      @thelydshow  Рік тому +5

      Not if an entire team is “fired” when new management comes in ;)

    • @bidmcms3
      @bidmcms3 9 місяців тому +3

      @@thelydshowthen that would be called a layoff

  • @murielmoloney1043
    @murielmoloney1043 4 місяці тому

    I was in a job and my boss completely hated me.i.lasted 9 months

  • @Irish__Clan
    @Irish__Clan 3 місяці тому

    Fired or laid off?

  • @lledyo
    @lledyo 4 місяці тому +1

    You are way more beautiful than working for any low intellectual thinkers who cant run there own life . GOD IS your boss ask him .he will help you ❤ much love 🤗 i got fired 2 months ago and i am happier than ever .if you wanna talk i am always here for 😊

  • @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes
    @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes Рік тому +6

    The universe have something better for you in the future ⭐ Take care of yourself, do what you love, enjoy yourself. Intuition always guide us to the right path.
    It also want us to be patient and focus on ourselves, let the life unfold / do its job.
    INTJ emotions that come long after what happened 🤣: "Wait ? what happened ? I am sad ? What I am supposed to feel ? Why I am not angry ? Feel nothing and everything"
    I went to something similar the 17 December 2021, it was the last day at a temporary job I loved at a place I liked. I couldn't find anything better than staring at the starry sky. A car almost hit me in front of the building of my appartement. Since this day, I see the synchronicity, signs of the unconscious/universe.
    Job, material, coworkers, friends... nothing is stable, everything constantly change and is temporary, it's life, impermanence. (I read something like this in the book I read actually : "mindfulness in plain English")

    • @thelydshow
      @thelydshow  Рік тому +2

      Couldn't have said it better myself, thanks for this comment!!

  • @cosminbryant1243
    @cosminbryant1243 10 місяців тому +1

    If she got laid off that means it mostly likely was seasonal

  • @NateVega-jm3zf
    @NateVega-jm3zf 20 днів тому

    Just got fired think I’m heading of the beach or the moutains for couple weeks or months on my own need to get out of this place

  • @dcabral00
    @dcabral00 6 місяців тому +2

    You do not look like someone who stays unemployed for long.

  • @jimbojimbo6873
    @jimbojimbo6873 10 місяців тому

    Fired or not i’d do it

  • @oliver-ci2ke
    @oliver-ci2ke 4 місяці тому +1

    how you diong now, question

    • @thelydshow
      @thelydshow  3 місяці тому +2

      life gets much better :) you never know whats in store for you

    • @oliver-ci2ke
      @oliver-ci2ke 3 місяці тому

      @@thelydshow thats right! u canadian

  • @Hi_Tamera
    @Hi_Tamera 6 місяців тому

    Welp I’m in that 40% now 😅

  • @oliver-ci2ke
    @oliver-ci2ke 4 місяці тому

    hang in there, same thing happin to me

  • @riturao6565
    @riturao6565 16 днів тому

    I got fired for Being too Strong and Well structured. Wtf

  • @twiston43
    @twiston43 Місяць тому

    Chat GTP?!? Nah...!

  • @ryans5476
    @ryans5476 9 місяців тому

    Tech jobs can be very brittle. So, most of them will die long term. Try to take the experience and move on. I've done multiple contracts, in a year. The fantasy of job security is just that,.... fantasy. If you do find it then you will be underpaid and that will be your next problem. The only real way is to go compete in the market. Everyone only talks about being in the top 4%. The other 96%-97% will always be behind. That's the way the system is working.. Always ask yourself, how much work do I own and who respects me and needs me at work?

  • @cosminbryant1243
    @cosminbryant1243 10 місяців тому

    Ps i’am also gluten free

  • @Bob-rh4zb
    @Bob-rh4zb 8 місяців тому +1

    lmao i thought the title said so i got tired let me go i just got to my new job ✌🏽

  • @BillionMoonshots
    @BillionMoonshots 6 місяців тому +1

    we can grab hot chocolate from breka and go on a walk to english beach 🥹

  • @InfernoProj
    @InfernoProj 12 днів тому

    Beautiful! Ready for OF ❤❤❤😊😍🥰😘😘😘😘

  • @tanjis.lundberglundberg3880
    @tanjis.lundberglundberg3880 4 місяці тому

    Im struggeling to find a relationship with jesus eaven If im raised in a christian family.
    Im afraid that jesus will se me as selfish because its only when I struggle i search him, like now when I got unemployed yesterday, and a stuggle to keep jobs and have no srlf worth left when I gotten fired so many times trhough life.
    To be remainded that god has a bigger plan for me was really nice.
    Thx

  • @lovebugsg84
    @lovebugsg84 Місяць тому

    So you're gonna just wallow in self pity.. Sis.... No ma'am, you have kids.. Put yourself bk out there nd only talk when necessary.. We overtalk, that's our problem💀.God tame my tongue👅😂i gotta work i have to feed my kids, that have grown up appetites.. 😢😂😭🙏..
    Sis...... You have a blessed week, kiss my niece and nephew for me... Take wat i told you nd apply it to your life... When you get discouraged😢, nd you will, that's a natural responses.. Look at my niece and nephew😂running all through the house😂😂😢.. You'll definitely get it together🤣.. That's wat worked for me.... Love yall.. 😂❤

  • @rjmyeke6629
    @rjmyeke6629 3 місяці тому

    You look like Miss Bella Hadid

  • @user-rd8hr6oh7y
    @user-rd8hr6oh7y 10 місяців тому

    Find a new job

  • @MegaAfterschool
    @MegaAfterschool 5 місяців тому

    Yea it sucks! I was 19 and cut lose from an amusement park! 😢