Trying on 90 Dresses I Kept Until I Was "SKINNY" Again (7 years later...)

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  • @heyitsfeiii
    @heyitsfeiii  Рік тому +366

    PSA: I just got notified multiple times that my TWITTER IS HACKED. We're trying to figure it out on our end. Thank you for letting me know and for all the concerns :( Please DM me on IG any updates/tweets until we get this resolved. I appreciate it Linda 😭

  • @vsprsgdby
    @vsprsgdby Рік тому +290

    The way dress 51 AGED the ever loving heck out of Fei I was like if she doesn’t get rid of that dress I’m sneaking in and doing it for her 😂

  • @skylaann3492
    @skylaann3492 Рік тому +287

    I’m just saying ladies, the look of the tatas parting is in so many beautiful pieces of art through history for a reason. We are so stunning and only our minds hold us back. Proud of you for all of your honesty and growth chica!! You’re doing amazing things for so many people. ❤🎉

    • @heyitsfeiii
      @heyitsfeiii  Рік тому +47

      This comment made me appreciate the art of my tatas more!

  • @marialouise3450
    @marialouise3450 Рік тому +81

    Aside from me being 5'11, we have the exact same bodytype and I've never seen someone who looks like me before. Your videos are just so uplifting and I loveit sm.
    thank you

  • @theamarkussen2300
    @theamarkussen2300 Рік тому +156

    Watching your videos has helped so much. Last week I went trough my closet and got ride of 50+ item I kept until I was "skinny" again❤

    • @heyitsfeiii
      @heyitsfeiii  Рік тому +7

      IM SO SO SO PROUD OF YOU! ❤️

  • @AVALT-sq3wq
    @AVALT-sq3wq Рік тому +111

    Fei I ain’t even gonna lie you been getting me through this week girl I saved some vids and I’ve been catching up 🏃‍♀️ LOVE YOU FR😭🫶

  • @alii2132
    @alii2132 Рік тому +39

    I've been bingewatching your videos specially the "Until I was Skinny again" and it helped me not only with decluttering my closet and getting rid of clothes that I never use, but it also made me realize that if something doesn't fit me it does not equate to me having failed in any aspect, and I was able to try on clothes and look at them on me without crying in front of the mirror, which is a first in a very long time, so thank you for not only being utterly entertaining but also very helpful with something that is a very real struggle to so many people. Sending love your way

  • @OddAndAbout
    @OddAndAbout Рік тому +4

    The light blue sheer overlay at 9:44 is so cute

  • @mauxw
    @mauxw Рік тому +3

    You helped me clean out my closet and get rid of stuff i thought i would still wear now I’m starting fresh and growing into my own style.

  • @stonersiren
    @stonersiren Рік тому +6

    "my asian boo phase... i mean i am asian" lmao

  • @peachfuzz7813
    @peachfuzz7813 Рік тому +8

    I've been dreading cleaning out my closet from all the clothes i've never worn and hoarded until i was skinnier, you are my best motivation to actually go through it all and clean it up! Thank you Fei

  • @rosealysse3936
    @rosealysse3936 Рік тому +38

    Fei I love you so much! I literally started watching you like 8 years ago for your contact lense videos. You have grown, shifted, and melted into such an amazing woman. So happy I've been along for the ride!

  • @Jxreann
    @Jxreann Рік тому +18

    I've been watching your channel since like beginning of middle school to now me being graduated and in college! So, I love to remember some of these dresses and see the healthy comparison, just your mindset with these dresses is completely different from when you got some of these dresses! I love to see the development and feel like as a girl from the chubby committee, I got to grow with you! Keep it up fei, love you and your videos!!

  • @ItsAllLifesJourney
    @ItsAllLifesJourney 8 місяців тому +1

    I'm so glad I found your UA-cam channel. I really needed it. I put on a lot of weight in the last few years and I'm currently working on accepting myself at this new size and body shape. Honestly it's been really difficult and I have to restart therapy because the body dismorphia is too much but your videos really have helped me. Please keep up the great work on these platforms and thank you so much for your vulnerability and honestly on here. You are really making a positive impact out here.

  • @adgmiyou
    @adgmiyou Рік тому +2

    I love watching your videos about clothes.. you helped me to love my body shape and wear clothes I'm scared to wear confidently! Continue to be an inspiration to every ladies who lacks confidence. Love you!❤❤

  • @shipofdreams7089
    @shipofdreams7089 Рік тому +6

    2:41 this part made me so happy for u bc ur literally gorgeous no matter what 😭❤️❤️

  • @letyv9071
    @letyv9071 Рік тому +1

    Fei that blue romper makes you look so elegant and elongated!! It flatters your complexion as well!!!

  • @kabliaxyooj300
    @kabliaxyooj300 Рік тому +3

    Girl, tell me why i felt every "ugh" when you said it. I had a wedding i attended back in may and we had to wear dresses. I have not worn dresses in years because i just dont love my body that much like i did before. Tried on so many and finally settled on one from amazon prime only to have on an apron over it the whole day 🤦🏻‍♀️.... hmong weddings are something else, lol. Had so much fun though at the wedding! We girls had matching color dresses so i felt super girly... Slowly starting to love my body again, though. I feel you and applaud you for doing this haul for us! I love these and am so thankful you share your journey of self love, so we know we are not alone either. Much love fei! ❤

  • @kidcaptainwembri
    @kidcaptainwembri Рік тому +3

    Thank you Fei, I can't say how much these videos have helped me
    These videos must be exhausting but I really appreciate it 💛

  • @Alien142011
    @Alien142011 Рік тому +4

    I didn’t even watch the whole video yet and I relate so hard to your title already. I also have a ton of dresses I bought that I liked the style of but I didn’t ever have the occasion to wear it, dresses that I thought I would eventually wear but didn’t, just having pretty dresses cause they pretty.

  • @fatimahlovesjoon6190
    @fatimahlovesjoon6190 Рік тому +3

    appreciate the emphasis you put on your explanation of why you had the hanbok!

  • @jennycubs
    @jennycubs 10 місяців тому

    ahhh i super needed this video omg! thank you so much for helping me finally have the courage to get rid of my clothes that no longer serve me!! 💜

  • @FireflyonaRadish
    @FireflyonaRadish Рік тому +6

    😍 Yas thank you for helping me let go of those “just in case” clothing

  • @wassupwe2ne1xbigbangxbtsxBPxG7

    I remember some of these dresses from the old videos!!❤love you linda

  • @MacktheWack7345
    @MacktheWack7345 Рік тому +5

    okay but 10, 21, 41, 42, and 66 i loveeeee and need. i know we will never get the links to all of these but i loveeeeeee

  • @veroniwiwa
    @veroniwiwa Рік тому

    I want to see a closet organization video so baaad! love these videos ❤❤❤

  • @lucythecookiequeen9757
    @lucythecookiequeen9757 Рік тому +4

    Hey fei love your videos and I look up to you a lot and I love your content ❤❤❤ keep it up 😊

  • @daydreamerm
    @daydreamerm Рік тому +1

    5:50 omg this one looks so pretty on you ♡

  • @gogontlesetlhare
    @gogontlesetlhare 11 місяців тому +3

    I remember fitting my clothes after gaining weight (intentionally) and I should have expected it but I couldn't help but be shocked and sad that some didn't fit. Sometimes you get so attached to clothes and letting go for the new phase you are in can be hard

  • @Fluffy_Bunny420
    @Fluffy_Bunny420 Місяць тому

    You look beautiful in all the dresses but I think all the shades of purple are defo your colour 💜 so prettyyy

  • @fascienneskytten5497
    @fascienneskytten5497 Рік тому +2

    Feii and I have a complete different body type but it's still relatable for me to watch because eventho she hardly wear or get to wear the dresses she at some point had them and confident enough to wear some. i hardly ever wear dresses in my life and i only own like- 2/3 dresses i wore out once each. I want to wear them so bad i just- idk why i couldnt. i dont feel like they look good on me but DRESSES ARE SO PRETTY I WANNA WEAR THEM TOO 😭

  • @niki_bbb
    @niki_bbb Рік тому +4

    «I’m on my 40 year old goal. And that is to be a milf» - gurl, I chocked on my protein ice cream 😂😂😂

  • @tayibahahmed33
    @tayibahahmed33 Рік тому +6

    Love your videos sm they always manage to pick me up❤❤

    • @heyitsfeiii
      @heyitsfeiii  Рік тому +3

      Besties lifting each other up 🥺

  • @TheMushuCorner
    @TheMushuCorner Рік тому +1

    Time for me to get rid of those few shorts I been holding on too 'just in case'. Needed this video! Thank you! the shorts aren't that cute and kind of old anyways. haha.

  • @angellinafosse1936
    @angellinafosse1936 Рік тому +1

    Okay but the sleeves on 30 are from my dreams!!!

  • @linag1
    @linag1 11 місяців тому

    This was an inspiring video for me. Like why am i giving clothes that aren't fitting me power over my mood and self-esteem.

  • @reloreo2899
    @reloreo2899 Рік тому +15

    Watching your videos makes me feel so much more comfortable when I try on clothes. I am nonbinary and lean a little more on the masc side. I have trouble finding masc or femme style clothes that I feel good in. Mens shirts are often slim fit and tight in all the wrong places. Women's shirts and dresses are often way too tight on my biceps or have a weird neckline that is not flattering on my broad shoulders. Now when I go thrifting I use your mantra of "this clothing isn't right for me" instead of my usual thinking of "I am not good enough for this clothing"

  • @1015SaturdayNight
    @1015SaturdayNight Рік тому

    Fit and flare really works on you!

  • @Kaeldra3
    @Kaeldra3 Рік тому +1

    “It’s like a snake swallowed up a rat up here” took me outttttt

  • @annapark9516
    @annapark9516 Рік тому +1

    Yea something I’ve been trying to learn is that everyone has their own body shape, I will never look like Lisa 😭😭😭 but I can always use her as motivation to embrace our similar body structure and be happy with the body I have, I think princess Mae and you are similar but definitely different styles of fashion

  • @maiseelee016
    @maiseelee016 11 місяців тому +1

    I just let go of 3-4 trash bags of clothes and i cant be happier. To finally let go of clothes that i hope would fit me if/when i get skinnier is the best feeling.

  • @nangamsonana6395
    @nangamsonana6395 Рік тому +2

    The first dress is REALLY beautiful on you 😍😍 and giving it up is just💔💔 how about making the part that doesn't close like a tie up(like a corset)

  • @bunny1392
    @bunny1392 Рік тому +2

    FEIIIII I’M HERE BESTIE

  • @beccagleee
    @beccagleee Рік тому +1

    "I look like a pickle" OMFG I nearly spit out my drink 😂😂😂

  • @alexnik5132
    @alexnik5132 Рік тому

    Loved the video! Felt like a hang out with girlfriend😄
    Fei is adorable)))

  • @mathildataylor7108
    @mathildataylor7108 7 місяців тому +1

    Don’t even get me started on Urban Outfitters, I’ve gained weight recently and they’re large sizes barely fit me. I love the designs, they’re really cute clothes but they do NOT fit anyone above a M. On the other hand, I appreciated this video so much! You looked amazing in these dresses and it gave me so much more confidence knowing I’m not alone. ❤

  • @Aurora-lj4gu
    @Aurora-lj4gu Рік тому

    10:15, keep it you can mop the house while wearing it because of the sleeves.

  • @gemusical29
    @gemusical29 Рік тому +3

    Wow i love you feii ive been watching you for a very long time i remember the first video ive watched it was your skin care videos when you had really bad ance it was maybe before you got into treatment ❤

    • @gemusical29
      @gemusical29 Рік тому

      You're doing such a wonderful job. Keep reaping away the things that no longer serve you ❤

  • @Louiza-06
    @Louiza-06 Рік тому

    This is me yesterday when I was with my closet and getting rid of clothes I wouldn't wear anymore

  • @PrettyPlainLife
    @PrettyPlainLife Рік тому +3

    You are so gorgeous. Glad you’re deciding on clothes you look and feel good in. Seriously it’s okay to not look good in something. All body types look good in some clothes and not as great in others. It’s all about personal feelings and confidence. Love your attitude in this video. Love you

  • @2mangamonsters
    @2mangamonsters 7 місяців тому +1

    I wished I remembered that you could cut holes into the back of the dress and thread through ribbon or laces to turn a dress into a lace up back if it's doesn't zip up. I passed on a couple of super cute dresses I owned. D;

  • @PeopleAreRealWeird
    @PeopleAreRealWeird 5 місяців тому

    I absolutely love dress up content lol

  • @Lady-Bug3
    @Lady-Bug3 Рік тому +3

    My whole closet has stopped fitting so my whole closet is now until I and skinny again because I hate throwing away money

  • @jimberry2297
    @jimberry2297 10 місяців тому +1

    Just seeing you is better than any morning cup of coffee:)

    • @heyitsfeiii
      @heyitsfeiii  10 місяців тому

      You are so sweet!

    • @jimberry2297
      @jimberry2297 10 місяців тому

      Truly your brown eyes put the stars to shame and your face and smile should be on t.v. You're a very talented videographer.@@heyitsfeiii

    • @jimberry2297
      @jimberry2297 10 місяців тому

      Sadly I got like a virus from your video. I guess warm glowing sunsets and sparkling stars in the night sky will have to suffice not seeing the most incredibly beautiful and gifted videographer:)@@heyitsfeiii

  • @kyeoptawerk93ah
    @kyeoptawerk93ah Рік тому +2

    Yo rip drama fever i had so many kdramas on my watch later list before they shut down 😭

  • @triptripp1873
    @triptripp1873 Рік тому +2

    The white bribal shower was cute nooooo!

  • @michelledd8423
    @michelledd8423 Рік тому

    Yes let it go

  • @zzoa.
    @zzoa. 4 місяці тому

    coochina 🤣 needed that laugh.. thanks fei❤

  • @Sam-ni2ef
    @Sam-ni2ef Рік тому +11

    Idk if anyone follows her in Twitter but I think she’s hacked. It keep getting hundreds of Twitter notifications by her of the same tweet and @ ppls accs

    • @ednalucas2462
      @ednalucas2462 Рік тому +1

      i had to turn off my twitter notifications

  • @dami2459
    @dami2459 9 місяців тому +1

    Slayyy bestieee

  • @N0AMI_
    @N0AMI_ Рік тому

    I need to know where’d u get number 66 romper it’s so cute!

  • @simp51
    @simp51 4 місяці тому

    I love ur videos ❤❤❤ i loved all the ones u kept! They all look so good on u, but i feel like #45 also looked pretty good on you (in my opinion) so i was sorta suprised when u didnt keep it. Does anybody know where she bought dress 45 from?

  • @CrazyCatzMom
    @CrazyCatzMom Рік тому +1

    I definitley cleaned mine out lol

  • @bananachachen8068
    @bananachachen8068 Рік тому

    21 was so flattttterrrring on god

  • @AnimeFreak-dn6zt
    @AnimeFreak-dn6zt Рік тому +1

    I been losing a lot of weight and most of all my clothes are way too big but I decided to keep two things when I cleaned out my closet last year. In other words, I need to get rid of most of my clothes and start all over.

  • @ayoits_elyssa
    @ayoits_elyssa Рік тому +1

    Feiii please restock the ivy skirt soon 😭

    • @heyitsfeiii
      @heyitsfeiii  Рік тому

      We’re working on it! 🤍🤍🤍

  • @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living

    Hi there! I really like the dress at 2:34, but I don’t see it on your Poshmark. Did it already sell?

  • @melaniesa2225
    @melaniesa2225 Рік тому

    Hi Fei, the Girls Night Out Corset is sold out, will it be restocked? I love it :) greetings from Germany :)

  • @zindagiwithpeeku3513
    @zindagiwithpeeku3513 Рік тому +5

    I love your videos ma'am

  • @Jocesuh
    @Jocesuh Рік тому +3

    5:15 omg where is this dress from?

  • @allykirschner8216
    @allykirschner8216 Рік тому +1

    Ur so funn

  • @sanrakzalia623
    @sanrakzalia623 Рік тому +2

    I'm earlier than morning birds lol!!!

  • @KateMorganStyle
    @KateMorganStyle Рік тому

    Definitely my sister at all those anime cons here. Okay. This is where you get proper shapewear to clean out your closet and eat some legumes rice and veggies

  • @chitravi77
    @chitravi77 5 місяців тому

    Ooh she got legssss I can't 😭

  • @fatpanda5801
    @fatpanda5801 Рік тому +1

    tell me why i got so sad when she talked about kpop like she grew out of it :´)

  • @KateMorganStyle
    @KateMorganStyle Рік тому

    Okay, this might be where I actually get the terms of my streaming contract up and see it May Liu at superstar art wants to do a thing and you want to come. Body positive is learning how to wear the right undergarments and blazers sometimes

  • @jelly__cat
    @jelly__cat 2 місяці тому

    Ok where’s the dress at 7:50 from? It’s cute

  • @jessa6463
    @jessa6463 Рік тому +2

    "I look like a 🥒" took me out

  • @KateMorganStyle
    @KateMorganStyle Рік тому

    This is where it needed to be black bean burgers, unsweet tea and pizzas with vegetables on blue zone from whole thirty diet and you needed to move 30 minutes or more. Right? Also once you are at 50 pieces you live it’s accessories and shoes.

  • @drradska8107
    @drradska8107 6 місяців тому

    "Pathway to MILF" 😂😂😂 That's an honest and achievable goal. You'll get there for sure. I actually liked some of the dresses that received ❌. But hey, you do you. ❤

  • @carrolltee5906
    @carrolltee5906 11 місяців тому

    hanbok cool

  • @hey_yu07
    @hey_yu07 Рік тому

    Fie, i'd be happy to receive the clothes you don't wear anymore... 😁

  • @brinny8965
    @brinny8965 Рік тому

    A wise woman did say "Piss off". That was me. Lol. Jk.

  • @christineworrall
    @christineworrall Рік тому +4

    Hiii idk if you’ll even see this but I think ur Twitter got hacked? I’m getting like 100 notifs and when I click ur whole profile is changed?

    • @heyitsfeiii
      @heyitsfeiii  Рік тому +5

      OH MY GOD. I just checked and it seems like my twitter is HACKED OMFG. Thank you for letting me know.

    • @christineworrall
      @christineworrall Рік тому

      Ur welcome, hope everything gets figured out 🤍

  • @uncletea5632
    @uncletea5632 Рік тому

    14:15 other mother dress

  • @layse2603
    @layse2603 8 місяців тому +1

    girl why did u keep so much stuff that dont even close

  • @KK-hc5oo
    @KK-hc5oo Рік тому +1

    loveeeeeee u in the black and white slip dress

  • @mayastraea2611
    @mayastraea2611 Рік тому

    waittt but #20 was a vibeeee🥲

  • @Kpopjpop638
    @Kpopjpop638 Рік тому

    Yay I'm early

  • @kristie3592
    @kristie3592 4 місяці тому

    I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but having kids actually changes your bone structure. That didn't bother me too much. What bothered me was how it changed my feet. All my amazing vintage 90s shoes didn't fit any more!!@😢😢😢

  • @KateMorganStyle
    @KateMorganStyle Рік тому

    You want to be a milf at 40. That was me not with big John on Brazzers because it just became a confessional for his crimes before the shoot. A lot of these are also just shape wear. That wavy chain shoulder is definitely Spanx.

  • @brandinstephens9933
    @brandinstephens9933 Рік тому +1

    White girlfriend marry Brandin Stephens

  • @thenaillife4466
    @thenaillife4466 Рік тому +3

    The more flowy and /short or long with a high waist will compliment your shape the best. Tight fitted clothes DO NOT.. your beautiful hunni. Sometimes we need to compromise our style a little bit to compliment our body shape. .. go short girl but you need clothes that flow around your hips, with slit’s in skirts/dresses etc.. lots of cleavage is great for you with the girls. Stay away from tight fitted clothes ❤
    The style you like does not work for you hunni. I’m sorry. You like tight fitted dresses but they just don’t work for you. Get rid of all those tight dresses nooooooowwwwwww… you need to train your brain to stsy away from thst style babes 😢❤

  • @Jo_gurll
    @Jo_gurll Рік тому +2

    Second!

  • @jaspreetkaurjuneja7636
    @jaspreetkaurjuneja7636 Рік тому +1

    Clothes can be toxic ?

  • @stonersiren
    @stonersiren Рік тому +4

    this isn't hate at all, but a lot of the things "society does to us" are actually our own narcissism

  • @marchelaquisado5243
    @marchelaquisado5243 11 місяців тому

    i got skinny back in second year, by not eating for 4 days, you should try it makes ya skinny fast

    • @imsheep123oinkoink
      @imsheep123oinkoink 3 місяці тому

      That's unhealthy. She looks fine and she said she's trying to loose it in a sustainable way.

  • @jaspreetkaurjuneja7636
    @jaspreetkaurjuneja7636 Рік тому +6

    It's not healthy to keep growing and keep getting more fat 👀

    • @abby9435
      @abby9435 Рік тому +2

      It’s not healthy going on unsustainable diets that make you yo-yo and make your mental health shit ❤
      She is at a good mental place and you shouldn’t comment on anyone’s body when you don’t know what they’ve strived for or gone through
      Keep it to yourself 💕

  • @madi7051
    @madi7051 Рік тому +1

    These “Keeping ___ until I’m skinny” videos are getting old. Stop talking about weight and do something else.

  • @kawasakirule3707
    @kawasakirule3707 Рік тому

    FEI got Back. Double Wide. 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅