Trying 30 Bras I Kept Until I Was "SKINNY" Again! (4 years later) 😨

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  • @knluster21
    @knluster21 Рік тому +267

    As a former bra fitter, I recommend you try a smaller band and 1-3 cup sizes larger. If you want to find your true size, put on your best fitting bra (black savage x "scoopy" bra) with the least padding and measure under your bust right at your rib cage (band size, if odd round up) and directly across your bust around nipple height. But make sure to keep the measuring tape level while taking your measurements. Once you get your measurements, subtract your band size from your bust measurement the number of inches different will be your cup size. So, for each inch difference is 1 cup size. A 1, B 2, C 3, D 4, DD 5, DDD 6, F 7, G 8...and so on.
    Also, for your breast type/shape being more wide set, I'd recommend you stick with balconette and plunge shapes. Full coverage, push up and heavily padded bras may be too structured for how your breasts are placed on your chest which causes puckering and gaping.
    Some more fit tips: All of the support should be provided by the band. If you are tightening the straps to feel more secure it's likely the wrong size/style.
    Also, the underwire should fit flush against your chest wall. If any parts of the underwire are away from your body there is a band size issue. You should also be able to lift your arm straight up with no breast tissue coming out from under the underwire.
    Good luck!!
    P. S. My guess is your more likely a 36 DDD
    P. P. S Don't go to VS as they're vanity sized, try Dillard's or Soma.

    • @hippybecca
      @hippybecca Рік тому +13

      I was going to say she looks way bigger (in cup size) than the sizes she is saying. I have smaller boobs than her by a mile and I am a 34D. I also have wideset breasts so I feel her pain on that. We tend to wear bands that are too loose, I thought mine felt too tight at first but I evntually realized it acctually fit right.
      I have a question, VS was the first place I found my right sized bra and I am a 34D in all the other brands I have tried as well. Are they still vanity sized?

    • @knluster21
      @knluster21 Рік тому +2

      @@hippybecca with VS it might vary style to style. Who knows they might have cleaned up their act 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @grapefanta5975
      @grapefanta5975 Рік тому

      Thank you so much for sharing!!!!! ❤

    • @alex-holly
      @alex-holly Рік тому

      Great advice. I'm a 36E(DDD for the US) and I would say me and Fei are really similar waist up. It's not just the size either you really need to try on lots of styles to find out the one you suit. Like, I won't buy a bra with only two hooks, I know the band won't be wide enough.

  • @yvonnebaskett8089
    @yvonnebaskett8089 Рік тому +168

    For the last bra, the reason it was lifting in the back was because you had the shoulder straps too tight. If you feel like you need to tighten the shoulder straps (unless they are literally falling off) you actually need a smaller band size and your cup size is probably way larger than a D. I myself found a great bra place locally, small shop. In high school thought I was a 34/36 D I'm actually a 30 DDD! AND! Depending on the brand/where it comes from in the world you could be a completely different size. I have multiple different sized bras because they are different brands. My baithing suit is a 30 i. So long story short, IM GONNA SAY IT! Victoria Secret is a joke, they don't size right lol. They want to put everyone in a C cup, which obviously not everyone is. Go to a professional shot a get your True size girly ❤ once you get your true size it opens up so many possibilities 🎉

    • @chanelghostin6060
      @chanelghostin6060 Рік тому +3

      just because you can’t fit them doesn’t mean they’re not good

    • @chiirie7735
      @chiirie7735 Рік тому +2

      I went to Victoria secret during my trip in california and got great DDD bras 🤷‍♀️

    • @Honeyin2013
      @Honeyin2013 Рік тому +4

      I had that same problem with most of my bras lifting in the back. I sized up in cup size and a smaller band and that fixed it!

    • @marshakwanten7567
      @marshakwanten7567 Рік тому +10

      Yes all these bra’s she tried on didn’t fit! People tend to get miss sized because most brands only carry standard sizing and try to fit people into them instead of the bra fitting the person. In her case I think she’s a smaller band size and definitely need a few cup sizes up!!

  • @mabby5615
    @mabby5615 Рік тому +34

    Hi fei! I am a 36DDD and I think you might be a 38G! It shouldnt lift in the back as much and fully cover your chesty besties! Def get measures somewhere not VS, maybe like soma or something

  • @GrimreaperSaysHi
    @GrimreaperSaysHi Рік тому +9

    fei you seeeriously need to look into bigger cup sizes! You'll be somuch more comfortable!
    + some bra types just don't fit our droopy boopies as well. t-shirt style bras are not made for our tatas. You need to look into balconiere style bras, those fit us sooo much nicer (plus they're SUPER cute!!)

  • @agatakowalska5478
    @agatakowalska5478 Рік тому +19

    Cups on every single one are too small babe pleaaase even the ones you said fit 🥲 I used to wear a 32B bc I'm literally flat and just assumed there's no way I'm any bigger than a B, but I got sized properly and turned out to be a 30D. Use "a bra that fits" size calculator!! And make it a video:D

  • @lemonpie244
    @lemonpie244 Рік тому +51

    This is probably a sign for me to go through all of my old crusty bras that managed to survive my purges because they were “comfy”🤧

  • @thelinaelle
    @thelinaelle Рік тому +19

    This is not meant to be rude or anything, but I actually don't think any of the bras fit you right, even the ones you kept. Most of them looked like you definetly needed to go up at least 2 cup sizes (and maybe downsize the band so it doesn't ride up in the back)
    I promise, once you get a bra that fits you perfectly you will be so much more comfortable (coming from somone who also has a rather large chest)

  • @denejadavisTheBest
    @denejadavisTheBest Рік тому +62

    Tip for my big chested girlies, if you want a smaller band/ bigger cup size check ASOS. Finally found bras that fit without breaking the bank. (I'm a 38i... yes i)

    • @fluffypanda9274
      @fluffypanda9274 Рік тому +2

      There was a i😦

    • @wony_army4170
      @wony_army4170 Рік тому +3

      i cup? It must hurt your back... I hope it's not too painful😟 I've never heard of i cup before, it must be really pretty ☺️

  • @felinawell
    @felinawell Рік тому +16

    is it me or does fei's cup sizes seem too small for her

  • @georgi.e
    @georgi.e Рік тому +17

    I’d love to see you try and get your bra fitted professionally! As a bigger chested girl, bras always bring me such anxiety and I’d often keep a bra for way too long because I couldn’t bring myself to actually find one that fits.

  • @leslieelizabeth3024
    @leslieelizabeth3024 Рік тому +21

    Tip for all sizes. If you love bra and want to buy it in more than one colour, you Have To Try Every Colour On.
    Some times they are made in different factories and they won't be the exact same size as each other.
    Also. Get Professionally Measured, and ask for your Sister Size. You're more than one size, some times your sister size will fit better 😘💕
    Edit: Don't put your bras in the dryer, it kills the elastic

  • @sheFEISTY.43110
    @sheFEISTY.43110 Рік тому +27

    I stopped wearing bras since I got into college as a Dance major in 2013. That's when I experience the sports bra and how comfortable it is, and the straps not always falling off when dancing/moving around. I've been wearing sports bra ever since. Threw away majority of my bras away. Only kept like 2 or 3 that still fits pretty well.

    • @ruruville
      @ruruville Рік тому +2

      Same. But people always tell me that my boobs are going to sag because I never wear "real" bras.

    • @sheFEISTY.43110
      @sheFEISTY.43110 Рік тому

      @@ruruville 🤣 They're just trying to scare you. Boobs are going to sag regardless. It's natural. Unless you got breast implants or something.

  • @torysalinas5560
    @torysalinas5560 Рік тому +19

    Hey everyone if you have old bras try to donate them to the for the girls foundation! It helps women fleeing domestic situations/the bras get repurposed

  • @bettypark3547
    @bettypark3547 Рік тому +1

    I love u always 😭 so real! I don’t feel to bad gaining weight these days (at least I’m working on it..) but this helps me declutter and get clothes my size now instead of looking at the past! I love u Fei 💜

  • @KiaCoffee
    @KiaCoffee Рік тому +16

    The best bra's I've ever gotten were from Lane Bryant or any other plus size stores, those stores so far for me have been the only place that actually understand a good sturdy (and cute) bra for heavy chested people.

  • @harfir7169
    @harfir7169 Рік тому +6

    Please donate bras! Bras are one of the most sought after items on the donation market, so please donate them no matter how bad the condition is. There will be someone out there that will fix it up and use it.
    Sorry for the PSA x), the videos really good, love the channel

  • @marzonimarisa
    @marzonimarisa Рік тому

    yt notifications not working, but my heart - always ! i felt you girlie

  • @lucythecookiequeen9757
    @lucythecookiequeen9757 Рік тому +1

    Omg hey fei I know imma ❤ this video because I love your content so much and you are truly an inspiration and one of my role models and a person I strive to be like love your content keep it up 😊

  • @radicalpinkys
    @radicalpinkys Рік тому +4

    For the last one it’s riding up in the back and lifting off your skin cause the band size is to large and the straps were too tight, also the cup looks very small for you, most of the cups look small so consider trying a larger cup, my mom taught me to put on the bra, bend over and pull your side fat in, if it doesn’t fit in the cup then you need a larger cup, there shouldn’t be any spillage.

  • @ginalim9710
    @ginalim9710 Рік тому

    Love the new opening to this video!!!! ❤ love you bestie

  • @jimberry2297
    @jimberry2297 11 місяців тому +2

    You're incredibly talented, beautiful and your brown eyes make the stars in the night sky jealous...cause they aren't as beautiful you. Your videos are awesome. OMG :)

  • @tammyterrell1641
    @tammyterrell1641 Рік тому +4

    You need to get fitted at your local bra boutique.

  • @sisabell
    @sisabell Рік тому +2

    Finding the right bra size is SUCH a trial, and then to make it even worse different brands and different styles will fit differently. It's to a point where I found a bra that I love, and will only ever repurchase that bra (and hope and pray they never change the style or discontinue it!). I'm not really sure if any of the bras in this video were really a perfect fit for you, and I mean that with only helpfulness in mind! A lot of the bras you kept seemed like you could do with a smaller band and bigger cup, which would be way more supportive and help stop the issue of the back riding up from having the straps too tight. I think a bra fitting would be super beneficial, and I know we'd love to come along for the journey!

  • @alexismeeker8194
    @alexismeeker8194 Рік тому

    I love the new end card 🥰💕✨

  • @adriannataylor222
    @adriannataylor222 Рік тому

    Look amazing on you!!!!❤

  • @meggiebyerley4330
    @meggiebyerley4330 Рік тому +1

    Feiii! Now that you've purged (almost) you're whole closet, you should do a video with a professional stylist! Get your color match and some clothes that would bring out your figure ❤ (doesn't hurt that after making the video it becomes a write off) love these body positive vids, keep them coming!

  • @anniefeng4811
    @anniefeng4811 Рік тому +8

    Your cups need to be bigger ~~

  • @anastasiafish2065
    @anastasiafish2065 Рік тому +5

    That orangey color bra at the beginning you kept was definitely too small for your cup

  • @keyannachicano7796
    @keyannachicano7796 Рік тому +11

    Heyyy, it’s been so long since I watched ur vids, since I was 15 and now I’m 21

  • @jennyydeeexs
    @jennyydeeexs Рік тому +2

    “ SKINNY “ no “ HEALTHY” hell yeah!!!!

  • @Thatgirlllk
    @Thatgirlllk Рік тому +4

    Unlined bras changed my life I will never wear a bra with any type of cushion idc how thin 😂

  • @DelphineWbt
    @DelphineWbt Рік тому

    Cute new intro 🫶🏻💕

  • @nova4476
    @nova4476 Рік тому

    I need to get rid of all the bras I kept until I ‘grew into them’. Even at my highest weight, they were too big on me and it messed with my self image badly. Thank you, Fei.

  • @Elvi9615
    @Elvi9615 Рік тому +3

    Ok I’m low key glad I’m not the only one with this toxic trait of keeping bras that’ll never fit meeee. Currently doing a garage sale and I’ve put them all out don’t need them

  • @Kiarakc_
    @Kiarakc_ Рік тому +2

    I tried that a bra that fits calculator because everyone says it accurate but the new bras I bought after i did the measurements still were too small

  • @kaylalewis2434
    @kaylalewis2434 4 місяці тому

    this made me realized i need completely new bras and to throw away all the ones i have except for maybe 4 that have the perfect fit

  • @gogontlesetlhare
    @gogontlesetlhare Рік тому

    You should do a pants version of this video

  • @tiffanyedwards6826
    @tiffanyedwards6826 Рік тому

    All my bras as ones I've kept until I'm skinny again, it's UNCOMFORTABLE

  • @Gigi_2095
    @Gigi_2095 Рік тому

    I wish you could kindly list down the brands of the pieces, so we could buy it too.

  • @Esqm
    @Esqm Рік тому +1

    Hold on FEI! I WANT THE CORSET BUT HOW DO I WASH IT!? 😂😢

  • @im_me_n_me_is_i1150
    @im_me_n_me_is_i1150 Рік тому +1

    I have never been so early to any UA-cam videos 😂 anyways love your videos so much🥰

  • @wolflover306
    @wolflover306 Рік тому +1

    Not me reminding myself I have to buy new bras cuz I only have 2 bras for like 6 years now becauze bras are so expensive 😭😭😭
    I am also on a weight loss journey so I am very skeptical to buy a new pair 😬

  • @michellepma
    @michellepma Рік тому +2

    How do you have so many bras? i only got 4 lol

  • @xchrysantha
    @xchrysantha Рік тому

    1:49 New person meeting me: So like, what's your aesthetic?
    Me: I just look like I've ✨gone through life✨
    Not gonna lie as a 31 year old lady who's gone through sum shiet, I'm really feelin' myself in this description XD

  • @jkvrrs
    @jkvrrs Рік тому

    AAAHHH I’VE MISSED U SM (ik it’s only been a week I can’t go a day without my internet sister 😔)

  • @EliteBon
    @EliteBon Рік тому +4

    why delete comments helping people?

  • @ghostwriter568
    @ghostwriter568 Рік тому

    You are so cute fei!!

  • @oliviaisarobotnow673
    @oliviaisarobotnow673 11 місяців тому

    Take a trip to JoAnn's. Fabric glue and a travel sewing kit.

  • @livingdollgyaru
    @livingdollgyaru Рік тому

    EARLY 🎉

  • @nykkeebunny4103
    @nykkeebunny4103 Рік тому

    I don't understand how you can stand to wear anything that causes "cookie popping", i find anything digging in there painful, i hate it so much

  • @ayuparcel6617
    @ayuparcel6617 Рік тому

    10:25 oohh that bra looks amazing, what's the brand please 🥺

  • @BibbediBabbedih
    @BibbediBabbedih Рік тому

    First?? Heck yeah!!

  • @Jessyie_
    @Jessyie_ Рік тому +4

    The skims bra is too big in the band and too small in the cup

  • @Jeanniewhatnow
    @Jeanniewhatnow Рік тому +3

    Let me save you some time, throw them all away!

  • @AccountYouTube82101
    @AccountYouTube82101 Рік тому

    Hey feii when is your shop going to cater to the plus size girls the xxl to xxxl I would love to shop your tops but my booba are too big for a xl only

  • @TheLastPinkPenguin
    @TheLastPinkPenguin Рік тому +3

    14:39 the band is too big, sis. Get a size smaller

  • @daysivelasquez9239
    @daysivelasquez9239 6 місяців тому +2

    Your not too big either so their are bras you can fit into

  • @gimmyherbert8217
    @gimmyherbert8217 Рік тому

    Yo feii wish I was little younger then lol

    • @gimmyherbert8217
      @gimmyherbert8217 Рік тому

      Was over looking at other stuff on UA-cam ....thanks I came here...when I come back.... feels like home to me ...

  • @HeyItsMeChelseyOnYouTube
    @HeyItsMeChelseyOnYouTube Рік тому

    I hate my big, floppy boobs from weight gain and loss and gain and loss. Le sigh.

  • @dannygomez3497
    @dannygomez3497 Рік тому +2

    I don't understand why is she always being negative about her body? Like bodies come in all shapes and sizes, why does she give so much attention to her weight when its totally normal to not have a perfect body. If she's trying to fit the "perfect body size" thn she'll never be happy with her body or with herself.

  • @Brimmy21
    @Brimmy21 Рік тому

    dang it, i binged all ur videos fei @.@
    good use of time honestly bless thank you :3

  • @kawasakirule3707
    @kawasakirule3707 Рік тому

    Just go bra less and Bouncy Free. 😊

  • @chocolatecat5004
    @chocolatecat5004 Рік тому +1

    I SAVE BRAS TOO FOR MY WEIGHT LOSS