Purging *30 Pairs of JEANS* I Kept Until I Was Skinny Enough...
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- Опубліковано 16 лис 2022
- Learning to let go of clothing items that no longer serve me and only stay to damage my mentality of body image.
If I can do it, you can too.
You're strong and worth every ounce of self love. Stay determined and encouraged!
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I just have to say that these videos are really helping me with my body image. I have years worth of clothing that I said I would wear in a year when I was skinny. Seeing someone going through the same thing and being honest is so refreshing and heart warming.
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This video is heart warming indeed. Keep the ones that is in medium size and makes you happy. I ordered 6 expensive jeans agolde and had enjoyed it until my husband passed away and I gained 20 lbs from being sad and eating more than I should to cover it. Don’t be sorry girl, let’s keep trying.
I used to tell myself that since 2021 and i tried all over again and failed multiple times. But now I actually succeeded and fit in my old clothes again. If you keep trying all over again, you will succeed someday
Girl it's okay to get emotional, it's not stupid, it's normal, and it's completely 100% valid. We've all been there. Just think of this as an opportunity to find even cooler jeans that you wont feel guilty buying because you just got rid of so many! Also you should be super proud of yourself, you seemed way more positive in this video compared to the skirt one, thats progress girl!
Is healthy to allow yourself to be sad or dissapointed when you don't achieve your goals, Fei has been struggling to lose weight most of her life, is harder to learn new habits and lifestyles.
youve almost gotta think of "clothes that dont fit" as a toxic ex, or someone you need to cut off. if they dont serve you, remove them. take your power back and start finding clothes that make you feel good. why keep things that dont serve you when there are millions of other options out there that will!! i have so much respect for you, fei, for doing this - thank you for always being vulnerable with us - but you gotta keep your head up, youre BEAUTIFUL and you DESERVE clothes that make you feel like that. period.
I hope you know we are all so proud of you! You coming on here and creating this kind of very personal content helps me and so many other girls who are going through the same thing you are. Thank you!
i’m so proud of you fei!! letting go of clothes and other belongings can be hard and you did so well!!
The best way I've been able to look at this situation as someone in the same boat is that clothes that are now small on me will NEVER look as good or be as flattering as clothes that are actually my size. Size means nothing, being comfortable and looking great in what fits is a thousand times better than trying to keep clothes that no longer serve you well. I love these videos, thanks Fei!!
Fei, I really appreciate how real you are in these videos. I’ve gone through a similar journey with my weight, and to see both the good and not so good moments of the body positivity journey. You don’t pretend like you aren’t affected when certain things don’t fit, and you give yourself grace in those moments. I think I speak for us all when I say a big THANK YOU for being you and creating the content you do ❤
Feiiii! I always look forward to your videos and literally, I just watch it to be entertained and because I've been watching you for a year. Your videos make me smile especially knowing that you care about your viewers so much. I love your content and I hope you continue it. Because, I'm certain your videos help so many young women just from watching so please continue and also know that there are so many supporting you. And just so you know, you aren't a disappointment at all. Look at it this way, the fact that you are purging and want to and have even begun getting rid of the ones you know won't work, that is considered progress. You're getting somewhere. Maybe not as quickly as you wanted but you are doing just fine. If you continue going this way, sooner or later you will get to where you want to be. Same with losing weight. I have the same issue of wanting to lose weight super quickly but it's one of those slow processes that by the end of that long process, you'll feel proud of yourself. So you should be proud that you are here purging your closet because it means you are truly getting somewhere. Good luck on your journey, you have to keep going for all of us. Fighting.✊
I really have enjoyed this series Fei. It makes me feel so much better about letting go of a lot of clothing I had when I was unhealthily skinny and embracing my new, more healthy, happy, filled-out body. I remember wanting so desperately for my 22inch (omg) jeans and other bottoms to fit perfectly like they used to, to the point where I would stuff myself so hard into them and still buy tiny jeans thinking id magically be able to fit in them again which ended up making me feel even worse about the situation and hindering my recovery and self-love journey. Although I still have ups and downs with my changed size, I am finally happy embracing clothing that fits me comfortably and well and simply getting rid of anything that just doesn't make me feel good anymore. Watching your videos makes me feel so confident and happy. I'm also a short queen like you (4'11") ! So i especially enjoy your hauls because of your style and similar body. Thanks again Fei for being incredibly vulnerable and making lovely content as always.
We are around the same size and have similar feelings about my emotions and how it's connected to my weight. It makes me feel good to see someone else discuss their struggles with it.
I have the same mindset 😅 Keeping clothes for when I’m skinner and it’s so hard to let them go because I feel like I can fit with just a little bit more time. However seeing u do these videos really encourages me to start letting that toxic mindset go! Your feelings and emotions are valid, don’t say they aren’t. I’m really proud of you fei! ❤
I'm not sure you you will see this but I just wanted to say how proud of you I am, as someone who also struggles with their body you making these videos helps me and so many others but it also just goes to show that you really are trying to be the best you possible. i am so proud of you for making tough choices in these past few of videos and saying no to some clothing items that you loves because you know that you could find better. A saying I always like to remind myself of when trying on clothes that I like and they done fit instead of getting upset or mad at myself for how I look in the clothes I reminded myself that the clothes are meant to fit our body we are not meant to fit the clothes and if they don’t then you will find something else even better that does.
This is so relatable, you do your thing, you're not alone! I go into a really bad space where when I gain weight,i literally cycle between black jeans, a tshirt and denim jacket, and that's ALL I'll wear, and I refuse to buy new stuff because I have a ton of smaller sizes and I don't think I look pretty in bigger sizes, so why spend money on clothes.... we're all stuck in a mental journey about self love, and it looks different for all of us, thank you for your transparency
You’re super strong for facing yourself fei. I’ve struggled with my body image all my life and even now I have trouble letting things go because I’m holding onto that idea of a smaller frame I know I’ll never be again
These videos are like a detox for you Fei. As painful as it is for you to go through it. It will help you later. I know you don't need to hear this from a random person on the internet, but I just wanted to say I'm proud of you for doing this and for sharing this painful moment with us.❤️❤️❤️
I understand completely what it's like to get rid of clothes you saved in hopes it would finally fit. It's like admitting defeat and giving up on yourself but you are just making room for clothes that make you happy and confident. Clothes are meant to bring joy and expression but to get there in your mind is very hard and some days are easier than others. I am with you on this body journey so it's comforting to know I'm not alone.
Fei (If you see this, I think this is my first time commenting, sorry)... You have helped me so much in accepting my own body and given me confidence, recently i went through my whole closet to go through what works and dosen't. I suffer from depression and anxiety and left and abusive relationship a few years ago and this gives me something to do and its a good refresh to my closet. Your personality and realness have helped me so much. Thank you you for being such a beautiful and real person. ❤❤❤
i literally did a whole closet clean out, and donated 2 full trash bags of clothing that i was holding on to for years.
thank you for influencing me to accept that i am growing and changing and that it is okay
you are my inspiration for loving myself everyday and accepting that who i am is beautiful, no matter what anyone says
love you fei 🥰💛
So proud of you! At the moment it feels so bad but in the end you will feel better. You got this girl 🥰
We are so proud of you. I myself gained some weight a couple of years ago and kept the clothes. Through COVID and now after finishing most of my college courses I have lost a lot of the weight I gained and I'm able to were my old clothes again. But to be honest, the process of gaining and losing weight has always been draining for me and is so incredibly attached to myself worth. It is just ridiculous. Losing weight because you want to look better is great and all. But allowing weight to define our worth. That's not ok!
Girl you’re giving me motivation to purge my closet too. I just end up hoarding or keeping things because I think I’ll eventually fit or use them. Some things are from middle school! And I’m in college now. I could easily get rid of half my closet but I’m scared and I’m so attached to everything but I’ll try after seeing you do it!
You have no idea how much this video helped me, I recently gained weight and was really self conscious about it. Now that is it autumn again I tried on a pair of pants and realised that they are probably too tight for me to wear. I was heartbroken, I got emotional over some cloth, then this video popped up. Seeing you be so vulnerable on the internet about your body and confidence made me realise that I´m not alone in this situation. I am incredibly thankful that I came across your video and thankful for your transparency. You are beautiful btw.
God I wish I had that many jeans 😭😭
Me too, I have 3...
These videos helped me get rid of over half my closet, clothes that were too small are now being donated and I can't that you enough. I hope we can start/continue a journey of acceptance and happiness
I really like these videos because I’ve dealt with the same cycle with clothes, anytime you need to let something go - I really like how you incorporate it into these videos (:
Feiiii, you da best girrrl ! ;3 Proud of you for getting through this and being so vulnerable, but be kind to yourself, too pls! ;o; You help so much, as a fashion and style icon and a self-love journeywoman x Loves you!
Hi Fei, i’m glad I found your videos. We have the same body type. And it’s so rare for me to find anyone who looks like us. Short, asian, round face, skinny legs and round middle and gut with boobs! I never see asian people with actual breasts. I struggled a lot when I started getting chubby at 13 and all my friends stayed skinny. But our bodies are beautiful and i’m so thankful i can relate to you! Im trying to lose weight now, and it’s going well. I’ve lost 33 lbs recently. I’m trying to forge a new relationship with my body and that means getting rid of clothes. You inspired me to discard things i have that are “for when I’m smaller.” I want to start over and buy things as I go. And i found that mindset has let me breathe easier. Anyways, I hope you’re doing well. Love your videos and congratulations on being kind to yourself. It’s an important skill and you deserve it.
Love,
Beanz
You're very strong for putting yourself through this again!❤️ Stay strong beautiful 🤗
Girl I'm a hoarder so I still have clothes from when I was in middle/high school. I finally tossed them out after your last video. I won't ever be able to get to that size again. I'm just making myself sad every time I look at them. It's time to move on.
I still fit some clothes from middle school
@@nat1578 that comment was so unnecessary, but good 4 u👍
@@kwonsoonyounghardstan4206 In hindsight I suppose it was tbh
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For real the most relatable video, I broke down crying so many times when I tried out my clothes and none of them fit. You are so beautiful and cute 😭 and I believe I am to, let’s fight this sadness ❤
I really need to do this thanks for the inspiration! I fluctuate a bit naturally so I like to keep jeans in a few adjacent sizes tucked in the back of my closet but I need to get rid of the much smaller ones altogether and re-shuffle the rest based on my current size I just need to make time to do it 😭
It is not stupid. A lot of us go through this in our closet alone. This is a journey and you're in the process of healing so it's normal that you won't be 100% perfect in making decisions. Reality is none of us are. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability as well as your journey to self acceptance. It must be so hard especially doing this in front of viewers. There's always room for healing. ❤️
these videos hae given me the confidence to do the same. i recently put on weight and many of my clothes dont fit me anymore so i need to say goodbye to the clothes that make me feel guilty. thank you fei
im so proud of you for this!
It seems that you like styles which do not flatter your body. Until you let that go, you will drive yourself crazy. It’s a state of mind.
We all did this at one time or another no matter what our size or shape. We just don’t have the guts and personality to put it on video! 😛😘
You hit the nail on the head 👏
I struggle with this in similar but somewhat opposite ways too. Clothes that were comfortable when I was bigger and more insecure I struggle to let go of despite them being a couple of sizes too big and not flattering or my style, yet bc I don't feel skinny, I buy clothes that are like an XL sometimes when I'm barely a large now. On top of this I'm like "what if I slip an need these clothes in a larger size" when in reality I need to be buying in my size for the style I currently like. Especially when my weight seems to be only going down. I recently rediscovered some of my "when I'm skinny enough clothes" and now that I'm skinny enough I don't even like them anymore. Being skinny enough wont get rid of body issues nor will it always make the clothes you think look nice flatter your body but dressing in the ways you really want for the style you like rn while trying to do the best with and for your body will allow you to live your best life with what you have
You should be so proud of yourself for actually being able to go thru your things and get rid of what isn’t serving you!! I wish I could be as organized and thorough as you but the truth is my jeans are ScATterEd everywhere 😩 I make “donate” piles that end up getting shoved in the back of my closet or in a trash bag in the corner of the room and it’s a never ending cycle.
On another note, those asymmetrical waist jeans are so cute and unique and I’ve seen other you tubers with them but where can I get a pair?? Cuz those looked really good on you ❤. And I want a pair 😊
I really appreciate this. I just got married and started on birth control 9 months ago and I've gained so much weight. I'm hungry all the time and my body keeps holding water so now my belly is huge. My favorite jeans won't zip up anymore and I'm afraid that my second favorite jeans r next (which these jeans were too big for me a year ago). It's weird because I started to feel alone like I'm the only woman to feel this way. But this is the reminder that it's a part of life and being a woman. So thank u. It's so easy to feel insecure and that no one can understand but it really is something we all go through.
You go girlll I am proud of you❤
Yesterday I had breakdown about my weight and today I am binging on bread lol
I recently figured out that I am nowhere near the mindset of losing weight or being healthy, and currently I just need to become mentally stable enough to do some basic functions like hygiene, some walking, and not hating myself all the time
really love the message with these videos
You are amazing !!! Keep up the good work with the videos they are inspirational, and don't beat yourself up you are a gorgeous girl
I think the ultimate goal towards body positivity is having a little variety of sizes to clothing with the mentality of acceptance that your body is going to fluctuate and that it’s ok that it fluctuates but then you also have clothes that will fit you throughout those changes. But it is definitely more important to get rid of the clothes that weigh on your conscience because they don’t make you happy. Ultimately it’s about being happy and comfortable in your current body and also being content with your body no matter which size it’s at. Go rock your skin, rolls, and bones! They are cute, sexy, and beautiful no matter where you’re at❤
Can I just say that you're one of the most realistic UA-camrs out there. You're not afraid to speak your mind and show your emotions. Love you queen 😊
That silly "who am I?" moment was so me. I swear we are total besties. I talk to myself in order to build confidence for many decisions. You are NOT alone either Fei! I love you. God bless you and stay cute. 🙏🏽😇✌🏽💕
hi, I have the same issue with jeans where they fit perfectly on my legs but not my stomach and it makes me really insecure sometimes. thanks for posting, means a lot!
I think it's less about the attachment to the clothes themselves, and more the attachment of a future that feels so, so far away - especially after trying to reach that future for so long, being in that future, losing it again, and hating yourself the ENTIRE time. These clothes that don't fit you are a constant reminder of how you "fall short." And I speak from my own experience. At some point you just get f***ing tired of being so heart broken all the time because "you're" not good enough. When I reached that point, looking back was almost laughable. Like "BITCH I GET ENOUGH TOXIC SELF ESTEEM FROM SOCIAL MEDIA NOW YOU WANT ME TO KEEP THAT SH** IN MY CLOSET, TOO?"
The biggest thing I think you've gained from this whole series is letting go these clothes that represent those detrimental ideas, and fill your life with all the things that fulfill you and validate you RIGHT NOW, as you are. This was not over dramatic or stupid at all, this was a HUGE, deeply embedded point of growth for yourself, and I hope you're proud of that because you absolutely deserve to be.
Sweetie
There’s a lot of other girls struggling with the same issue me included
It’s comforting to be expressed so feel proud
If u lost weight again just buy a better jeans
And i honestly think u look good girl don’t worry ❤️
I recently had a full mental breakdown because I was afraid of trying new jeans on the store because I was afraid to see the number of the size... I understand how it feels to not want to let go of the clothes you were so attached to, love your videos❤️
thank you for these videos, i was underweght then i got tyyroid cancer and now im overweigt, ive struggled with eatingdisorders for a long time and gaining weight after i got sick made me feel worse than having cancer.. ive saved all my old clothes hoping i can fit into them, ive gotten ridden of the smalletst ones but my ideal wheight for my leinght ive kept. it feelt soo good to have someone talk about the struggles. i have to clean out my closet but i shoukd keep the clothes that fits my healtiest wheight, not the weigth i think i shoukd be.
I'm darn impressed. I don't even have 30 articles of clothing in total, including my shoes, outer layers, and under layers. LOL. I just am so picky and buy quality items wearing the same stuff every day for like 17 years bc I love it. SO no shade. I'm still impressed tho. WOW. And very PROUD OF YOU for finally just letting these go. I too purged my closet of old 'Lip Service' brand clothes that just never looked great on me because I'm so long. I finally got rid of some Kill Star and Punk Rave. I just couldn't justify keeping them because they are goth and sexy when I looked very uncomfortable in them. I just was TOO LAZY TO RETURN THEM FOR A BETTER SIZE. O.O So yea. Way past return time by like 10+ years so I just Depop'ed my old clothes so I can buy new ones that spark joy instead.
Remember, Marie Kondo said, if it doesn't spark joy GET RID OF IT.
definitely keep some jeans (you can always tailor or get rid of if you stay steady) a tip i’ve learned for staying consistent is the mindset of what you like to do just dance on youtube is amazing if you get chromecast you can just do it off the tv if you don’t have a wii or xbox.. also grow with jo is an amazing channel she’s so great and is really encouraging, switching out whatever you like to find a low cal replacement (pop chips and fiber one bars are the BEST) that’ll help keep you consistent, you are beautiful and radiant and deserve endless love and happiness (that goes for anyone reading this), if you want to do it you can totally to it baby steps are still steps and you should stay proud of yourself nonetheless
I know I'm a whole year late, but i felt this video on a personal level. I defiantly broke down when I saw you tear up, but I'm so proud you decided to let go of both of those pants. Hopefully, I'll have the courage to do the same, for the clothes as well as these feelings of failure and disappointment.
I feel the same way. Before birth control, I wore size small and extra small. After a year or so,I gained more than 40 lbs and it hurts to see all of the clothes I used to fit in, but it’s okay because I’m proud of my body. It’s provided me so much and I’m learning to be grateful 💕
fei, please don't feel bad about keeping jeans if you dont want to let go of them yet! its fine, we understand. i hope you manage to find a bigger size, because they are REALLY cute!! (im talking about the grey acid wash jeans with the big rips in em, very cute pair of jeans)
I love you in the grey denim jeans! The color looks so good. You need to wear more grey denim! 🤍
Hi, really nice vid, glad in the end u were able to get rid of some jeans! What might also help is taking all the jeans you tried on and separating them into two piles. Pants that fit comfortably(1) and jeans that didn't fit but were still kept(2). look at the fit pile and then the other and ask yourself If i have a black/blue pair of jeans that fit do still need all these other black/blue that don't? then after asking, which one can I live without? hope that helps!
Crying. I beat ana* and have been struggling so much with the extra weight. So real and wonderful to see real bodies 🥰
I’m so proud of you
Fei, you gotta wear what fits. It took me a while to do this same thing and go out and buy clothes that actually fit me. It boosted my confidence and I hope you try it too.
I actually have jeans/ pants in different sizes on purpose! Our bodies, change so much based on what we eat, our hormones, water retention, etc. I learned that I gain upwards of 5lbs during my period and during the PMS period. During those times I turn to my bigger pants. Then I have some that fit just my usual body, then I have a pair that’s smaller for when I lose weight. Having them in varying sizes helps me feel better because I know more than likely I’ll always have stuff that fits me and then also it’s a reminder that my body WILL change, and that’s okay.
I appreciate this video. I don’t want to sound super ignorant as I’m very appreciative of my body and how in shape I am. That being said I’m struggle to admit I’m just not a size 0 anymore. I keep trying to squeeze myself into them. They’re pretty uncomfortable making me not even want to wear them anymore. I’m more of a 2 and it’s just really hard to admit. I keep saying I’ll slim back down but I haven’t and I don’t think I can. I had to eat nothing to stay that skinny and my body can’t handle that life style anymore.
I SO feel you ! 💚🥺
aww my love, i feel the feelings you're experiencing
There's power in letting go 🌼
Babe, me personally i will NEVER be disappointed in you, NOT IN MILLION YEARS. Ily so much
Since the start of the pandemic, I’ve gained a decent amount of weight after being stuck at home and snacking all day. I’m now at a point where I’m not at the heaviest I’ve ever been, but I’m still pretty big and I’m struggling with finding a way to lose weight but also gain confidence/be happy with myself. My self image wasn’t always the best either, I was the biggest kid amongst other kids in my grade and that really killed my mindset. Seeing you who has a similar body type to me be confident and do these videos really makes me feel like living a fashionable and comfortable lifestyle is possible 😭
Fei nobody is gonna get mad at you or feel disappointed that you keep some jeans, you’re already getting rid of most of them!
I'm going through the same thing as you, holding onto clothing that would of fit me a couple years ago but don't right now. I gained 30 lbs from an ED that I developed cuz I lost a lot in my life. I was able to get rid of some of the stuff I held onto, but not all. It's like, every time I go on a diet now, something awful happens and I fall back into binging. Maybe I need therapy. Purging does help though, with clothing.
Edit : it's not wrong or bad to emotional, fei. It's your life and if it's affecting you, only you can decide what to do about it. When people call others dramatic for being emotional, it's cuz they don't really understand the pov of the person going through it. You can't expect others to understand, unfortunately. People are judgemental, but it's your life and only you can live it
The black ones look SO freaking good!
Last summer I got rid of everything I didn't fit anymore. It was very emotional to see all those dresses and jeans that just wasn't going to ever fit. I had some surprises of things fitting better since my health became better, but my figure became definitely more womanly. And things of my teenage years just had to go. I decided to live a more anti diet life, and that stops me binging and actually helps me stopping gaining weight. Our weight is not our worth! And feeling good about ourselves helps a healthy life style anyway.
I wish I had a friend like you! I just adore your personality and All of you videos 🎀💕💕🌸🍡🎀
i cleared my wardrobe recently and literally 90% of stuff is gone and i barely like the last 10% 🤣 its a work in progress!
Hey Fei,
I'd say keep the jeans you truly love the most and tuck it away for a rainy day because the body fluctuates in size. It helps to have a few pair of pants that range in sizes for that reason.
I am struggling with the same problem. I have been up and down with my emotions on my weight an it can be very frustrating to the point wearing clothes are no loner enjoyable for me.
But, I'm glad that I'm healthy and that I'm not the only one with that problem.
where did you get those second dark jeans? they look really nice and comfy :O also thank you so much for making this video i love how real you are with us. i too struggle with letting clothes go. i was very obese and over the span of 6 months, i lost 50 pounds but as i started getting into my senior year of highschool, i fell back into my habit of binge and gained 10 pounds thus preventing me from fitting into jeans that prefectly fit me before :') i always hesitated to comment on your videos but i just want to say that your videos make me feel safe and not alone and i love watching all of your videos! thank you for just being you
I could consider using Marie Kondo way of keeping or letting clothes go. You’ll have a better understanding of what to let go and you’ll feel better with no guilt.
I had to go shopping for new jeans and it’s been really hard. I realized the number doesn’t matter because so many brand feel so different. I even had to get a smaller size for different wash from the same brand and same cut, but even those felt different. There is this pressure that jeans need to be the perfect fit for a person compared to other bottoms. Maybe because they are considered basic or something that are essential. And then we feel like the world is ending when something simple as that isn’t there.
I kinda teared up in the process of getting new jeans from staying the same size for so long. The numbers freak you out. But rn while I’m working on myself just for health reasons I just need something to wear to feel good.
I think since you are stuck just ligit buy a pair of amazing jeans the style and fit that you are right now and then slowly depending on how confident you are or say if you lose weight then you can grow your collection based on the size you are, don't be so fixated on the size you could be cause honestly I felt this way and it's really mentally damaging and just stressed me so yeah. feel beautiful fei cause you bloody are! :) love you
Feii needs to spring clean her closet. We could follow along ❤
I have this problem as well. I was very skinny, 5'5 120lb. And then 140lb then lose to 130lb. And then pregnancy, stress, aging, etc. I am 33 year old and over 160lb. I let go of my 120lb clothing just 2 years ago where these clothing didnot fit me since 2019. But i kept thinking i will lose weight again.
So for me if the jeans is 1inch from zip or button i will keep, but if far from that is a no. I started to working out to lose weight last month and so far i was able to fit into a new dress i got last year (was 155lb). My weight hasnot change much, but my clothing fit me better because of the exercises i did and a better eating habit.
Yes letting clothing go are very emotional. Do what you feel its right. Keep some that donot fit now is perfectly normal.
I’m currently here. Having sims thyroid problems at my highest weight. Idk how to feel . Trying to love myself a little more.
Honestly i feel like we all do this and are in denial that our size has just changed. At least for me, i always buy a size smaller than what i know i am because i tell myself im just bloated and once i buy and use for example, a colon cleans or some random probiotic i see on all those IG weight loss ads is gonna get me to that size. Ive come to realize i just have to be true to myself and buy the L/10 🙂
Girl you're just deceiving yourself purposefully at this point. If they don't fit they don't. It's a pair of jeans, not a reflection of who you are. Cause the reality is you live in your present body not in your future body. If you want to heal your relationship with your body you should stop boycotting yourself by reminding you CONSTANTLY what body you could have and not which body you DO have.
I wish I could go shopping with you!!
Whooo needs so many jeans?!
And here I am wearing the same two jeans lol
I just got rid of most of my jeans. Haven't worn many of them just washed when they were new and gave them away
To be honest i have do much clothes like this. And i do fit in them sometimes and sometimes i dnt. Just yestrdy i was able to wear something that wouldnt fit me 3 mnths ago. I really think for being body positive you have to treat yourself from within. Just the mindset of being healthy and not just size. Just doing excercise and eating right, wat feels good for you just do this. And dont care about anythng else. If you dont have any other medical issue, then you will see positive effects on you. There is no point of beating yourself up for this yo yo weight doesnt help anyone. I have clothes which are 10 years old smh. I have started giving few items each which are not my style anyone. But givin away so many jeans, my frugal self just couldnt do that
I always keep all my clothes so that just in case I gain or lose weight I can still find clothes that fit me so I can save my money
me constantly rotating the same 4 pairs of jeans for like 7 years now. lol as my weight fluctuates i just have the same pairs that i eventually go back to. idk what i would do with 30 pairs!
Just get rid of those that dont fit. They just gonna make you feel bad about yourself. When you lose weight, you gonna be so excited to go buy new clothes. 🥰
Where did you buy the pair of jeans with the extra denim strap? It looks so nice!
I think having weight loss clothes and weight gain clothes are important to people like me. I yoyo with weight ALL the time (usually plus/minus 10 pounds) and I honestly think that's a lot more normal than people think. I don't live a life that allows me to be at the gym consistently ALL the time. During the holidays I'm gonna EAT. I work out when my chronic illness doesn't keep me in. I think people need to focus more on having clothes that FIT you and your lifestyle not clothes you WANT to fit. Having Goal fits are great but NOT essential for your LIVING EVERYDAY LIFE. I hope yall stay slaying out there
You should look into tailoring your favorites that are too small
You should get some of the long jeans hemmed so you can love them. It's less expensive than you think.
Omg I have those pants the black and the white stitching with six pockets
You’re absolutely wonderful 😘Thank you 🙏💕👍
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I’ve been purging! I’ve been trying to get rid of clothes but I have soooo much! It’s hard because I’m to emotionally attached to them. 😭 at my biggest ( 20 ) I got rid all those sizes. Then dropped down to an (18) and dropped again to a (16) im in between sizes and im scared to get rid of clothes 🥲