What Makes A Man Amazing In Bed: Sensuality, Aggression, Hotness
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⭐You deserve a medal for helping that Asian guy . You have probably helped his whole life, and indirectly made a lot of female happiness ⭐
I'm in my 20's and that's exactly what I love 😁 the thing is a lot of men think being dominant is not listening to the woman needs and are too aggressive they miss the sensual and passionate part
I’m a 30 yo female. I couldn’t agree more with everything she said in terms of male and female relations… our emotional needs, sexual desires (once emotional support and intimacy is established properly and genuinely). It really is a big deal… and in my personal life this is exactly where the rift comes from and makes me turn away completely… and many other girls my age and older and younger. This is very manageable… and I feel that if a man can master this aspect… he will never have female or relationship trouble. I think Every man that is lacking or potentially lacking shld take her one on one class.
I am 60 and in a great relationship now after 28 years of marriage.
Everything you say is true about letting a woman know you desire her….
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there is no "good in bed" that suits everybody. i think it's just about communicating with the person to find out what they like or dislike.
Absolutely. Attraction is a huge factor. However there are basics and that's covered in sex books.
Absolutely correct. It kills me these people who think they know what everyone likes or dislikes. This is just their opinion and what they like
@@schahrzadmorganSee no its really not. And aex books don't know anymore then you or I
This is all true! Feeling the man’s desire for me is a huge turn on.
What turns me on is no makeup, no tattoos, self aware, emotionally adventurous, orgasmic, and communicative.
Unicorns.
Amen brother. lol @@nelsonhibbert5267
I like that you have never been afraid to admit you prefer certain body types. There’s a taboo against doing that, these days. I spent a lot of my life with people I wasn’t attracted to, because I was trying not to be superficial. When I finally dated someone really attractive to me, it was mind blowing. It’s not like I refuse to work with someone I’m not attracted to, or hang out with or have discussions with them. Our intimate life is one area where it should be ok to be discriminating. When I was f*cking men I didn’t physically want, it brought back sexual abuse memories; seriously. Not if I do it for work, because I’m being remunerated, so it’s on my terms. But I shouldn’t have to sacrifice my personal life to be “fair.”
Yes, I agree! It is only practical to date/marry men to whom we are VERY ATTRACTED (and have common goals and values). Else, why would I ever put up with snoring, his childhood issues, or other annoyances?
When a guy I'm seeing says "I want to worship you" - OMG. That is such a turn-on and yes it makes me feel even more attracted to them because they are SO expressive and confident.
Thanks for the information. At 53 I like to be informed. It helps keep me grounded which in return helps me be a skillful and good lover😎💯
I love that you’re not afraid to admit to having physical characteristics you’re attracted to. Women are shamed and called superficial for considering looks, so much so I was 39 before I got with a man I was strongly attracted to. It’s not like I won’t talk to or work with men who aren’t my type, but it’s our right to have a person we’re attracted to in our intimate lives! I shouldn’t have to donate that to someone I don’t want to not be “superficial.” That’s not doing them any favors, either. Everyone deserves a mutual relationship in their personal life. Congrats on your continuing success in multiple venues, and for the balance you’ve achieved in your life!
P.S. Thanks for letting them know escorts don’t expire at 24! You are a glistening example of what I know as an older escort. Age has not hurt my business or performance any. If you use it, you don’t have to lose it. That’s a myth! People know this about older men, and baby boomer women are turning heads and changing minds, but we’re not quite there yet.
Thank you.
So nice to see you making videos, I hope you don't stop. I love listening to these
This is exactly what I needed for to hear, after perusing my career, let my self go pretty bad. I was pretty close to a sex god in high school and now I’m having a hard time getting back into to it. This is what I was missing and now it all makes sense. Thank you so much for this type of content.
Oh that makes me so happy! Thank you for your comment.
@@schahrzadmorgan YES THANK YOU
The kind of over the top neediness expressed in this video should terrify men and women alike. Any woman this extremely obsessed with copulation and “pleasure” is providing nothing more than a sugar coated version of intense self hatred and a ferocious dislike of men. Her content here denies men their humanness -reducing them to the quality of their physical attributes and skills or lack there of in the bedroom. The same goes for men who think about women in these terms.
I love your presentation straight to the point brutally honest easy to understand. Unlike say, for instance, Thais Gibson, who spends too much time on self promotion, takes forever to get to her points and has poor diction. I cannot stand to view her vids no matter how pertinent the content. Thank you for such power filled content that honors owning the reality of my shadow. Heading out to rock now. Yowsa!!!
Thank you.
It's like music, 50 percent rhythm, 50 percent feeling. :)
It's very inspiring to experience your transparency. the amount of confidence and work you have done to get to this level is very admirable. It's a very transferable energy that can be brought into many forms. So I just want to say thank you for being that kind of a human
I appreciate that! Thank you.
Thank you for sharing excellent experience life observations.
You are awesome !
Just stumbled upon your channel here, and you’ve some great points and insights (which I needed to hear) so thanks for that! I wish I lived in S D, I can tell ya that.
This is another great video - I didnt know I have many hang ups with sex based on how I was raised and how I was taught to be around women.
Your content should be in schools. It helps me to understand myself as a woman! Thank you!
I'm 44 and thought I was passed it it's crazy! Thankyou for being you? Il be patient with my escorting and hopefully it pays off. I love men and want to learn as much as possible, you look Great! Your a great inspiration to me! I'm going to offer my services to younger men too!
Welcome to my channel!
Amazing.Really good to hear you love pleasing men.Hope it is really working out for you.
My wife was raised in a highly protective environment. It’s a Barbie “& Ken world-nobody has genitals, so she wasn’t a healthy person, and, half a century later is the same. She never wanted to touch me and didn’t want anything to do with my sexuality or sexual aggression. I wish I had awakened to this decades ago. It’s too late now.
It's mostly feminism. That's the problem. I know that sounds ideological. But I think it might be the truth. I'm one of the biggest sceptics. But when I ask "maybe it isn't feminism that's the problem" to my self, I struggle to find good supports for that in experience, or find a convincing alternative theory .
The best alternative I can think of is the sexes naturally misunderstand each other because they are different . So this causes men to misread women.
But it honestly looks to me like feminism had made this much worse.
Esp the idea that gender is largely a social construct. Which is a great idea in as philosophy paper but of little use in actual life.
Great content. Practical, honest, and from my experience, correct.
The best is when you do exactly what you want (going slow at first with anything non-vanilla), to see if she’s into before escalating. Or (shocker!) just ask before.
“How do to feel about…?”.
In a LTR with a great woman that has a bit of trouble “talking about it”.
Best time to talk about “what if’s” in the future, is right after great sex: basking in that glow.
If it’s a “not really”? No problem! There a lot of options at the buffet!
Great sex comes from communication.
And, young dudes: porn is not real! Going slow(er) is better than trying to play amateur porn star.
Thank you. Great advice.
The two lists - sexual turn ons and turn offs are endles. One can hope that partners are sincere in comunicating them.
Indeed. I think most women like the basics of a man who is sensual and dominant and attractive
@@schahrzadmorgan I agree. The second place, in my experience is the attitude "I don´t care" (not being needy). Then we have wild ones - a frend of mine refused an ideal man just because his fingers were kind of short.
What I do not like about erotics is that ideal situation is so rare. That part (ideal) is easy, very easy. But, when one is Danny DeVito one must compensate the thing with intelligence, money, fame and status.And the majority of people are not sexy. In such a situation there is no mercy. Check the film "Other peoples money". And I do not like people being merciless. Not even Danny liked his victory, but such are the rules and survival conditions.
Your hair looks amazing, you look amazing and I think you look about late 30s early 40s! Gives me much hope that I could still look fine in 20 years time. For me, this was uour best video your just an absolute natural at this and learnt some great tips even though it was mainly tips for men.. look forward to hearing from you soon 😊
Good point. Yes, holding your own is important.
It's simple- if you are a man who has maintained a very high level fitness throughout your life, you are in prime position to give women *exactly* what they want in bed. Regardless of what western women say, *ALL* women like being overwhelmed and dominated by a physically fit, powerful man. Develop core strength, run, cycle, go circuit training and mountain walking. Women love men with stamina and the ability to exercise self-discipline and not cum until the woman has been overwhelmed and made to orgasm. Lots of eye contact, whisper 'dirty talk' in their ear as you pound them. I've never met a woman yet who didn't like being gripping firmly and taken- they love having their hair gripping firmly from behind and ploughed senseless. Wrap your arm tight around her waist and pull her on to your shaft. A couple of years ago, I dated a woman who was very successful and had reached the very top of the nursing profession in the UK, she made executive decisions and effectively ran the clinical care of a major hospital. She absolutely loved and *wanted* to be dominated in bed and have all decisions taken away from her. She thoroughly enjoyed it and told me directly it was the best sex she'd ever had. The worse thing a man can do is pussy foot around women in the bedroom. Hook her legs over your shoulders and *DRIVE!*
*Of course, the HUGE downside for men in the west today, is finding a woman worth making love too.......*
She didn't work at a hospital in Bristol by any chance?
you need to change it up and not be rigid dominant sex can be hot for awhile but it can get boring it's not for always also you're heavily generalizing women here we are individuals with prfeeremces personally if a man pull my hair that will be the last time he sleep with me that's a no-no we're different part of the reason why I don't like getting involved with men who label themselves as "dominant" is that even though the sex can be hot they want to be dominant outside of bed too most don't differentiate and a lot of them see women an inferior and have some misogyny in them which is apparent by your last phrase.
I love your videos.
I think it isn’t so much about pursuit and taking charge, it’s more about getting accused of # MeToo…
I luv you…you are the best…your content is so special…you’re the coolest…
You're right in more than one way about almost everything you covered. A lot of helpful information. Thank you for sharing.
I do somehow struggle understanding some generalizations about men that I've grown seen in women significantly more than men. A good example would be your view on men being more promiscuous than women. Meanwhile the majority of men I know are being cheated on by promiscuous women, and the promiscuous men are only seen two different women, yet the promiscuous women have up to and even more than six casual encounters per week, all with different partners (friends with benefits, co-workers, and company clients).
Yes, that does happen. Men, in general, are more sociosexual than women, taller than women. That doesn't mean every man is taller than every woman. However, men pay for porn and women don't. There are differences like that.
Are these women having one night stands or are they in love w the affair partner?
Friends they see occasionally. Co-workers, people they meet at random, the Uber and pizza delivery guy...Mostly anyone who flirts with them and want to hookup. While their boyfriends are at work or at sleep. One just jumped one of her few lovers' bones in the car at the parking lot last month. But they're not men, so their all just well-meaning outstanding citizens with an above average moral compass.
Everybody agreed that it's the men and not more so the other way around. So, I'm just here observing and learning about the real-world up-close vs what was being discussed in the usual meeting or memo lol.
You look exactly like a girlfriend I was going to marry 20 years ago in my 40s. I was so much in love with her, but she had to cheat on me and I found out. I didn't even tell her I found out. I just walked out. She got married and cheated on her hubby. He found out and got a divorce. She is now in her late 50s and the village bicycle. But I would still date her on different terms if the opportunity presented itself.
Im a wife, mother and professional, it should be an enjoyable , preferably intimate experience for both people, letting each other know what you like .
Community standards probably prevent me from saying …..…… but I’m guessing we’d both enjoy it 😎
Errah on the shout-out to the Marines!!
When you are in love you can fly to unbelievable heights..😊
Cold, alone. She so successful?
IT'S LOVE. this is thin gruel, nothing of love.
0:37, guess we can say the same goes for men. I think it's human nature to want somebody to please us in our own way, this is not a gender issue first but a subjective one second
That's the fun thing about individuality there is no one way to have sex or to do anything there's many ways and there's people who like it this way there's some people like it that way there is no one way to do anything but it all depends upon the individuals at the man wants to be dominant that's his prerogative if the woman wants to be dominated that's her prerogative as well that's what will work best for them that's the reality of individuality and there is no one standard way to do anything at this point
Yes. But let's have some sympathy for guys in their fiftees...😎
There's alot of truth in that and as guy I totally agree, but what's a tip for guys in there 40s and 50s apart from staying healthy and if we do can we penatrate you as the younger guy's if we stay passionate and healthy and we have any advantages provided we don't get bitter or mid life crisis
The messaging to men that being dominant is bad obviously wouldn't help women in bed. Some messaging would even have men asking if they can do every little thing. Definitely don't be aggressive. We constantly hear about toxic masculinity but this de-masculinizing society is actually toxic to men and that takes away what women want from men
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The part where you talk about a man's sexual aggression mixed with tenderness reminds me of this scene from Troy:
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the thing is a lot of men think being dominant is not listening to the woman needs and are too aggressive they miss the sensual and passionate part