A Fearless man, Robert talks about Casual sex with a German women he just picked up and had sex for 6 days Is this Normal ? It sounds Permissive ? Am I wrong I come from a Western Country for context Would a Muslim women have casual Sex like the German women did?, Would Robert try this on a Muslim or Amish women? I require your help along anyone else. Regards Kranks
When I was in college I was a parking ticket writer for a year. Everyone hated me... evil looks, scowls, the whole thing. Finally I told my partner I’m just gonna assume when people are looking at me it’s because they want me because they think I’m hot. And in less than 24 hours the entire world changed believe it or not chicks were checking me out and my female partner even noticed it more than me. It was craziness but a testament to your outlook creates reality.
It's because you had confidence in yourself, and women go crazy over that. But you are correct, because you chose to look at it differently, your self-presentation changed. Reminds me of an old saying, and I can't remember who said it, but it goes like this: "It's not what happens to you, it's how you choose to respond."
@@yonkromis7883yeah but I’m Not surprised. Guys in the younger generations actually seem more clueless than those of us that grew up in the 80s and 90s. It’s so strange that they don’t know how to make friends or Meet women or what to say to them
Eliza Mozal said she isnt watching tv or shows about negativity and gossiping, because it contamines our mind, it prevents you from finding a purpose, feel the flow. Rather do daily meditations to find purpose. But its not wrong to have a bad mood sometimes because it leads to good mood, its a process. Maybe chose a partner who also avoids a nonsense content, but follows a good content.
This is where he loses me. You know what happens when a man "lingers in public, expands his route, and get out of the house." Nothing....nothing happens. The marketing aspect of what he preaches is irrational.
This guy is excellent. He teaches you what you need to know and does it in a manner that is kind and respectful to women. It's not just about getting with women.
42:50 1) Get out of the house, 2) Expand your route, 3) Linger in public, 4) Talk to the people you meet, 5) Walk through the open doors (i.e., be interested in women who are interested in you).
My notes: Show your care for women priorities: Trim your nose hairs Trim your ear hairs Trim your nails Always clean nice shoes Remove attachment to Outcome Confidence is lovingly not giving a fuck. Uninvited Cold approach is intrusive Listen for self limiting beliefs Look for subtle sings of interest Focus on the open doors Test Boldly my IOI reads Do Body work of grounding my emotions Give women emotional tension, she craves it (we as men despise it) How to be attractive to the world: Become social animal - ask everyoneone serving you and remember their name - talk to strangers in social situations (lines, elevators) - make people's day better, make world better place Be bold (take chances) women can feel our anxiety Be comfortable in own skin and own your emotions - amazingly attractive to the feminine. She has a good emotion around you and wants more of it. Women are flaky: - thats why they are single - no reason for a woman to be single - they need attention and validation - she will give ioi and will not commit - accept the flake and go on Women's IOIs: Smiles Looking in your direction (second look) Eye contact Close standing Laughing to my jokes Touching Showing body parts Provocative positions (jet a hip) Voice intonation Moving in your line of sight
I watched this lecture last week and I ZERO-bullshit am telling you that this past weekend I woke up in the same bed with a friend-of-a-friend that I’ve flirted with for some time but never had the guts to make a move with. But once I was finally awake and aware of the attraction signals that she was sending my way, it was all smooth sailing from there. Thank You Robert Glover! I haven’t even read your book(s) yet and your insight’s already helped improve my relations with women drastically.
*I love the idea of focusing on self-confidence and authenticity as key factors in attracting women. It’s so true that being genuine makes a huge difference.*
This is brilliant. This is how the game should be: Women experience energetic attraction and send those signals, we then decide and persued them, and then everything continues more natural and easier.
If it can happen to me, it will happen to you...when you pull away and do your own thing. When I was growing up, my nickname was "ugly." Everyone in town called me that. Fast forward a few decades - I've been single for 3 years. In that time, 3 women have approached me out of the blue and hit on me HARD. Think of yourself as champagne cognac - 99.9% of people would spit it out. But one in a thousand would say, "Ooh, that's wonderful."
If I picked up the signal when I was in my youth, I would have been a different person and be married long time ago, probably a good career too since she is someone whom I will appreciate in my life to my pursue of career Ya, unfortunately that’s the truth
I found this video just after listening to the whole audiobook given by my friend. My entire view towards dating stuff changed and I realised that the "alpha" males on the internet are literally just doing business off our ignorance.
You have to force yourself out of your comfort zone and the more and more you do and live with the results, you become confident because you lived through it and it's no big deal.
This is gold! I actually did these things well before but settled for women I didn't really like. I had given up on dating after falling hard for a flake. I'm 38 and was done with women. But after seeing this, I think I might try again.
Hey Rob, That's great man. That takes courage. Check out the other videos on the channel for more inspiration and tool to move forward with women. The most important thing is being able to let go of old emotions that hang around in the background and affect us. Check out these videos and the coaching we offer at Fearless. There is a big amazing world of women out there, you can kick ass. - Andrew, TFM Staff Videos: Releasing - ua-cam.com/video/s1ofPuRZE6c/v-deo.html ua-cam.com/video/PVpzlE_dJZ8/v-deo.html Dating - ua-cam.com/video/f_lPcvaYtkM/v-deo.html Fearless Experience Intensive - 2021 Schedule www.thefearlessman.com/Experience2021 Brian’s EBook - The Art of Fearless Seduction www.thefearlessman.com/eBookFearlessSeduction
@@Dimitris_Half I don't have that much interest in women anymore, and have decided to figure out my purpose in life. They are no longer the purpose in my life, but an extra side dish like a salad dressing. I took time away from the grind and went on a spirit journey. I guess that's what you would call it. Entrepreneurship of some kind is now my main goal. To be my own boss. I've tried 3 businesses and all of them failed. I'm going back to work full time. The first time in a long time. But I will be my own boss someday. At 40 years old I've been w/ a ton of women sexually w/ one night stands. I've had fun experiences, but none of them wanted to be with me long term. So I cut them out of my brain and life. If I see a woman I like, I use direct game and approach right away. If they say no I say ok and I keep moving. It's been easier. God Bless You, and good luck on your journey.
When he said to make a habit of remembering peoples name and notice small details, one time i was in an employment agency, broke and unemployed. The girl i was talking to said her name, got me a coffee and came back, i said "thanks (name)". She replied "nobody ever remembers my name". It helped build attraction. We had some good interactions. I assumed people did remember her name but it was a cue because she liked me. This channel is a gold mine. ✌️
Great to hear you are getting big value from this video Diego! The next Integrated Man Summit is coming up December 4th - 6th in Miami. It’s an awesome place to hear and get to meet and spend time with leading speakers like Dr. Glover, Brain, and Zan Perrion. Stay tuned for this year's lineup. Come join us and say hi! - Andrew, The Fearless Man
Wow I usually don't watch 1 hour videos but this was so eye-opening and inspiring that I HAD to finish watching. Can't wait to implement this when I go out tomorrow!
This was a very good video seminar to watch! Dr. Glover did a great job explaining about not only going through the doors that are open to you, but to pay attention to those indicators of interests. I myself have delt with limiting beliefs in my life; and many of my close friends say I can get the type of women I want to date, but just been too afraid to "be bold" as Dr. Glover says. I will definitely make some changes in this upcoming 2021 and keep watching Fearless Man to improve. Thank you for sharing this video!
At first I didn't agree with a lot of what he was saying and I had my guard up, but after a breathe and a second look he did clarify something's for me and something's I noticed made sense to me in reflecting. This is actually is some good insight
This is nice Robert - Thanks for bringing a different perspective- I use pickup for my business. Concept such as being detached to the outcome applies to entrepreneurship too - the social thing of talking to bartenders is great - I have bet doing it in my city & trust me bartenders will scream your name every time you go to their bar - if you with clients increases your value & with women & men in the bar (social proof). Fellow men watching this..it’s very helpful apply some of the things he mentioned but it doesn’t happen overnight or instantly just keep doing and being consistent- side note I have my own channel for those interested in content that can help you improve as an entrepreneur
That anxious energy point that he brought up is SOOOO MEEEE!! That’s why I refuse to and have such a hard time approaching women or really anybody quite frankly. It’s SO off the charts and I’m not exaggerating when I say that! I realized through the years how much people catch “vibes” and anxiety is by far one of the easiest to catch. It feels uncomfortable and people want to be away from that. I don’t blame them because when I experience my crazy anxiety I feel awful! I experience the awful anxiety through the experiences that I’ve had. Specifically when I went through my teenage struggles with acne, dermatitis, and lack of a growth spurt. My scarred skin and lacking height just destroyed me psychologically and I plummeted off the face of the earth both socially and mentally ever since. I just can’t imagine anyone accepting me or liking me in any fashion, so I’m ashamed of myself to the core. I’ll likely die alone which is sad. Having a kid isn’t everything, but I feel it’ll be very disappointing, especially to my parents, if I go through life without “mating” and making something of myself socially/romantically which they’ve never seen in my life. Especially if I decide to self-delete. Idk man. Edit: On a “good” note, I’m glad that Ronald affirms my belief that cold approaching is invasive. It always just seems off though it can work out fine if you do it right, I suppose.
If you aren't getting women nowadays its because they all think they are God's gift to the world despite having achieved nothing, even the fugly ones who are ugly inside and out. They have gone insane and its a problem for them to solve not men. Don't listen to some 🫏 love guru who's gonna tell you how you can score with some simple steps. We are caught up in a massive gaslighting movement. There is nothing wrong with you, our society has gone 🦇 💩. Women know exactly what they are doing, up until the point they are in their 40's childless and alone. Hang in there my dude and God bless 🙏.
Man that was excellent advice! I been single along time and I have figured out these things do work! Look for little hints women put out there, and just be bold and talk to them. It works!
Actually when you are open minded and you are attentive to the signs girls are giving you, you can see there are a lot of open doors 😊. This is how the real law of attraction works.
Hahaha so I just listened to this and decided to take a 30 minute trip to the pub down the road…ended up talking to people, one of which was a cute super friendly gal who happens to live right down the road from me. Got her number too!
@@unknowngentt that particular one went nowhere, but it doesn’t matter. It was good practice and a good confidence builder. This advice gets you plenty of success. At the end of the day, so does luck and boldness. Do what you love to do and watch doors just start opening. It’s truly amazing what can happen.
Good advice, Aniket. Dr. Robert Glover of "No More Mr. Nice Guy" recommends variations of this. Thanks for participating in the conversation. Signed, Landon from Fearless
Sometimes, a spontaneous defensive mechanism a woman may give off is not the same as a rejection. i.e., if you you approach a woman and she says eeww or gives off a scary face its up to you to let that halt your approach or persist with your goal of getting her number because if you stop that may give off a weak vibe and they will not regret being defensive.🤔
He's spot on about women needing emotional tension. One of the fatal mistakes some masculine men make is when they fall in love they can become overly accommodative, that is they turn into Mr. Nice. Because this can kill attraction, a woman sometimes, just as Dr. Glover said, may attempt to create tension with conflict. Most feminine women love it when a man can firmly but lovingly put us in our place. That's sexy and will usually lead to sex.
I've heard all this before. My 2 cents: when I was single i was invisible to women. After marriage they would literally throw themselves at me and NOT in subtle ways. Now I'm separated and guess what I'm invisible AGAIN.
Probably because when you were committed to someone you didn't have a dominant energy of grasping, desiring, wanting, pulling energy. That pulling energy is attachment and it's repelling to women. Make sure to take responsibility for the energy you bring and be honest with yourself. When we blame others there is no progress we can make because we've put it on someone else. You have the power. Anything can happen. Best of luck out there.
@CG-wr4no yeah whatever. My 'energy' is what it is- angry and depressed and no meds or therapy can change who I am fundamentally. I was the same person while married 9 yrs but I guess I was 'safe' because I had a woman and kids at home. The minute my coworkers found out I was getting separated ALL the flirty women turned away from me. Instantly. Even though they knew my wife did ME wrong. And don't tell me to stop Giving a fuk , I've ALWAYS not gave a fuck and people just think I'm an ASSHOLE for it. And I can only fake a smile for so long before I get even MORE pissed off cause I'm lying to myself and every one else when I am NOT HAPPY EVER.
It shouldn’t be that black and white. If women notice you at all then they will feel attraction even if you aren’t married. I just struggle thinking it goes from married= lots of female attention to not married= no attention from women.
Love it, Dr Glover hits the nail on the head. This non-sense of just trying to score the hottest chick is mind numbing and counter productive. Walk through open doors and you'll find something so much better.
you should invite more guest speakers to do talks with you, a lot of good male self improvement speakers have small audiences so collaborations help each other.
17:50, is it just me or do those things very rarely happen. If a woman touches me on my arm and laughs at one of my jokes alarm bells in my mind immediately go off and I assume she’s attracted. Does he think we’re social imbeciles? We’re here because we DON’T often see clear indications of interest from women like that. The other day I was at my job and a coworker started a conversation about her dog or something and she had slight nervousness in her voice so I assume she is into me but the conversation itself was completely innocuous. Probably the clearest indication of interest I’ve seen in long time, and I don’t have social anxiety (I put myself in more social situations than most) and I’m not a terrible looking dude. I am writing this because a lot of dating coaches “only go after women who have a high level of interest in you”, but how often do women laugh and touch you on the arm?? Am I the one Quasimodo guy who that never happens to? I am also in my 20s though and this guy said that he entered the dating market in his late 40s. Much more competitive as a young person I’d assume.
My 2 takeaways from this video, become more outgoing and social and your thoughts are your reality, if u think women aren’t into then that will be the case of you think your the man that will be the case
What if the girl giving you IOI is with her parents? I got scared and didn't approach even though she stared at me for 10 seconds. I need to learn to not be scared of what might happen or getting in trouble
Hey man, You can still go and talk to her. If you are grounded with an open heart and enjoying your turn-on a lot of times the family smiles or gets a kick out of it. The tension level is higher of course but if you go in with appreciation and an open heart, no one can really be too upset with you. You're a boy, she's a girl, boys and girls want to connect, no big deal really. All the same factors apply as when a woman is by herself or with friends. When people see that you are willing to take a social risk to connect with them authentically, they appreciate it. - Andrew, TFM Staff Big Holiday Sale! www.thefearlessman.com/2020HolidaySale Fearless Experience Intensive - 2021 Schedule www.thefearlessman.com/Experience2021 Brian’s EBook - The Art of Fearless Seduction www.thefearlessman.com/eBookFearlessSeduction
While I respect Robert Glover and agree with most of his work, my criticism of him is the same as with most other relationship/men's coaches. He can give an answer or explanation but it's like he almost doesn't recognize that what he's offering might not work. It's almost like "here's the answer", but when men encounter women where that doesn't work, it's like the men then have no idea what else to do. Let me give an example. In his book he tells the story of Jake and Tisha. They're a younger, recently married couple and the problem is that when they go out, Tisha usually drinks too much, starts dancing and fliting with other men and begins to treat Jake badly. One evening when this happens, Jake calls her out on it and tells her it's time to go home. Tisha refuses so Jake leaves. Later, she makes it seem that Jake is the problem. He later tells her that if she wants to stay married to him, she's going to have to get help with her drinking problem and stop flirting with other men. Again, she makes him to be the problem and I believe she goes to stay with friends. Jake considers giving in but his men's group encourages him to stay strong. Tisha later admits she was wrong and that she shouldn't have been doing the things she'd been doing. Glover makes it sound like if men do that sort of thing, the situation will work out like in the story. Sorry, but I don't know those types of women. My experience with women is that if you call out their bad behavior, they'll double down just to show you that they're not going to let you control them. In the Jake and Tisha story, my experience with women would suggest that if you tell them not to drink so much and start flirting and dancing with other men, they'll bring one home and have sex with him in front of you, just to spite you. OK, so standing up to her didn't work. Now what? And that's where none of these coaches can give you an answer. It's "buy my book, sign up for my program, pay for personal sessions" and it will work. Didn't work? Oh well.
Agree. He seems to suggest when women lose interest in a marriage it’s the guys fault. That’s so simplistic and denies that she might be: mentally ill, substance abusing or many other factors. He’s a LMFT? Peter principle in action.
I agree with all the signs of attraction with the nose/ear hair trimmings and looking for open doors but I believe you are leaving a huge gap unanswered with attraction and that’s your physical appearance. In reference to Coach Corey Wayne’s “How to be a 3% man” book he talks that you have to be perceived in that woman’s eyes as of at least a 5 or above in order to have a chance. Yes- there’s always exceptions to that rule but it’s something I’ve found very true and it has been completely left out of this video.
I feel like there’s lots of negativity in these comments. I feel like so many have missed the message. I’m pretty sure I’m a recently identified nice guy and I’m just soaking every weird up from dr glover anywhere I hear it! I listened to the audio book twice now too. I’m going to be different. I just wish the good Dr could help me directly to get started.
as a 19 year old who has never been with a girl, mostly due to my own anxiety and fear of rejection this was absolute gold. I'm done fucking around and I am going to ask out this girl at my job that I've been wanting to. Fuck it if I fail, then theres others.
How often do you get out of the house? Honestly I was a shut in because of being hurt and getting a dui. I have recently this year made it a point to go out at least 5 days a week and I'm breaking my social awkwardness. I just had a 2 week fling that kinda hurt when it was over but I feel like it has changed my mindset. (Referenceing me going out and being committed)
I realized I cannot handle emotional tension - either I have no tank at all for it or have no experience on what it really means to keep it up or going without destroying my sense of well being
The formula, if there is one, goes like this: 1. Be interested. Enough to go do something cool with your life, with your day. That has the benefit of making you interesting. 2. Find love inside of you, and give it to the world. Don’t go out seeking love from others; that just makes you a vampire. Give it, and keep giving it. That has the benefit of making you lovable. 3. Women will naturally materialize in your life if you do those things. Date those women! They are doing the same things you are doing, and therefore you already have something in common! Now the fun part…. 4. Women are drawn to men who are desirable, and the easiest way to be desirable is to be dating other women. There’s nothing like the scent of a woman on you to attract other women. So then. Get off the dating apps, and go out and live a life.
57:00 I feel like that dude kinda misinterpreted what the speaker meant by "invasive" to mean he was creep for going up to women that didn't give a signal
I dated a girl who is hot , hot enough other women would comment on her and how attractive she was when I showed her picture. I'm not an attractive guy but I had come back from overseas and was dressing very nicely. Well I was working with her and she was working with me and she would come by my desk and ask me questions all the time. I was was thinking wow she doesn't know anything. Silly me. Then one day she sat next to me and I was showing her something and she leaned in close and her leg was touching my leg and it stayed there. Like she was comfortable. I remember it was like a light bulb went off like ooohhhhh she likes me. Later on she would tell people how I was like unaware and that she used to call me daddy in the office and I never noticed.
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A Fearless man, Robert talks about Casual sex with a German women he just picked up and had sex for 6 days Is this Normal ?
It sounds Permissive ?
Am I wrong
I come from a Western Country for context
Would a Muslim women have casual Sex like the German women did?, Would Robert try this on a Muslim or Amish women?
I require your help along anyone else. Regards Kranks
When I was in college I was a parking ticket writer for a year. Everyone hated me... evil looks, scowls, the whole thing. Finally I told my partner I’m just gonna assume when people are looking at me it’s because they want me because they think I’m hot. And in less than 24 hours the entire world changed believe it or not chicks were checking me out and my female partner even noticed it more than me. It was craziness but a testament to your outlook creates reality.
Love that. Thanks for sharing that here! - Andrew, TFM Team
Totally agree. Good positivity
Couldn’t it be the same stares as before, but you forcing yourself to interpret it differently?
Totally agree !
It's because you had confidence in yourself, and women go crazy over that.
But you are correct, because you chose to look at it differently, your self-presentation changed. Reminds me of an old saying, and I can't remember who said it, but it goes like this: "It's not what happens to you, it's how you choose to respond."
1. Get out of the house
2. Expand your route
3. Linger in public
4. Mingle with the people you meet
5. Walk through open doors
It takes him an hour and 11 minutes to say that?????
@@yonkromis7883Dr. Glover is very informative 😊
@@yonkromis7883yeah but I’m
Not surprised. Guys in the younger generations actually seem more clueless than those of us that grew up in the 80s and 90s. It’s so strange that they don’t know how to make friends or
Meet women or what to say to them
Eliza Mozal said she isnt watching tv or shows about negativity and gossiping, because it contamines our mind, it prevents you from finding a purpose, feel the flow.
Rather do daily meditations to find purpose. But its not wrong to have a bad mood sometimes because it leads to good mood, its a process.
Maybe chose a partner who also avoids a nonsense content, but follows a good content.
This is where he loses me. You know what happens when a man "lingers in public, expands his route, and get out of the house." Nothing....nothing happens. The marketing aspect of what he preaches is irrational.
This guy is excellent. He teaches you what you need to know and does it in a manner that is kind and respectful to women. It's not just about getting with women.
next book how to go from nice guy to a liar.
42:50
1) Get out of the house,
2) Expand your route,
3) Linger in public,
4) Talk to the people you meet,
5) Walk through the open doors (i.e., be interested in women who are interested in you).
Crux :)
Best part of the video
And I have been doing all of this since I have opened myself up about 6 weeks ago. :)
@@josephnorris4095 have you had some success?
I want to cry. This man understands me
My notes:
Show your care for women priorities:
Trim your nose hairs
Trim your ear hairs
Trim your nails
Always clean nice shoes
Remove attachment to Outcome
Confidence is lovingly not giving a fuck.
Uninvited Cold approach is intrusive
Listen for self limiting beliefs
Look for subtle sings of interest
Focus on the open doors
Test Boldly my IOI reads
Do Body work of grounding my emotions
Give women emotional tension, she craves it (we as men despise it)
How to be attractive to the world:
Become social animal
- ask everyoneone serving you and remember their name
- talk to strangers in social situations (lines, elevators)
- make people's day better, make world better place
Be bold (take chances) women can feel our anxiety
Be comfortable in own skin and own your emotions - amazingly attractive to the feminine. She has a good emotion around you and wants more of it.
Women are flaky:
- thats why they are single
- no reason for a woman to be single
- they need attention and validation
- she will give ioi and will not commit
- accept the flake and go on
Women's IOIs:
Smiles
Looking in your direction (second look)
Eye contact
Close standing
Laughing to my jokes
Touching
Showing body parts
Provocative positions (jet a hip)
Voice intonation
Moving in your line of sight
Great note taking!
Great notes
Nice 👍🏼
Helpful
“Women do not fuck a a man because they’ve gotten to know him ,they get to know the man they want to fuck”
I watched this lecture last week and I ZERO-bullshit am telling you that this past weekend I woke up in the same bed with a friend-of-a-friend that I’ve flirted with for some time but never had the guts to make a move with. But once I was finally awake and aware of the attraction signals that she was sending my way, it was all smooth sailing from there. Thank You Robert Glover! I haven’t even read your book(s) yet and your insight’s already helped improve my relations with women drastically.
I love to hear it bro!!
*I love the idea of focusing on self-confidence and authenticity as key factors in attracting women. It’s so true that being genuine makes a huge difference.*
This is brilliant. This is how the game should be: Women experience energetic attraction and send those signals, we then decide and persued them, and then everything continues more natural and easier.
If you do it right, the women pursue you. Seriously.
Yup exactly. Men shouldn't bow away from pursuing a good woman. That's some good advice :)
So basicly whats he is saying is go for the women who already like you..... Amazing advice.. I'll remember it if some day some woman likes me.. .
If it can happen to me, it will happen to you...when you pull away and do your own thing. When I was growing up, my nickname was "ugly." Everyone in town called me that. Fast forward a few decades - I've been single for 3 years. In that time, 3 women have approached me out of the blue and hit on me HARD. Think of yourself as champagne cognac - 99.9% of people would spit it out. But one in a thousand would say, "Ooh, that's wonderful."
If I picked up the signal when I was in my youth, I would have been a different person and be married long time ago, probably a good career too since she is someone whom I will appreciate in my life to my pursue of career
Ya, unfortunately that’s the truth
So glad this guy did a talk, and his book “No more Mr Nice Guy” it’s brilliant and eye-opening. I have listened to the audiobook four times already!
I found this video just after listening to the whole audiobook given by my friend. My entire view towards dating stuff changed and I realised that the "alpha" males on the internet are literally just doing business off our ignorance.
@@harryraymonddias4290 where can I find the audiobook ?
This talk should be required viewing for every young man, wow, at 23 years old It’s opened my eyes a ton! Thanks Dr. Glover
For real
Dr Robert Glover is a true integrated man
I was there that night, you two KILLED the entire night, best night I’ve had in such a long time, the vibes and music were immaculate
You have to force yourself out of your comfort zone and the more and more you do and live with the results, you become confident because you lived through it and it's no big deal.
This is gold! I actually did these things well before but settled for women I didn't really like.
I had given up on dating after falling hard for a flake. I'm 38 and was done with women.
But after seeing this, I think I might try again.
Hey Rob, That's great man. That takes courage. Check out the other videos on the channel for more inspiration and tool to move forward with women. The most important thing is being able to let go of old emotions that hang around in the background and affect us. Check out these videos and the coaching we offer at Fearless. There is a big amazing world of women out there, you can kick ass. - Andrew, TFM Staff
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ua-cam.com/video/f_lPcvaYtkM/v-deo.html
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@@Dimitris_Half I don't have that much interest in women anymore, and have decided to figure out my purpose in life. They are no longer the purpose in my life, but an extra side dish like a salad dressing.
I took time away from the grind and went on a spirit journey. I guess that's what you would call it.
Entrepreneurship of some kind is now my main goal. To be my own boss. I've tried 3 businesses and all of them failed. I'm going back to work full time. The first time in a long time. But I will be my own boss someday.
At 40 years old I've been w/ a ton of women sexually w/ one night stands. I've had fun experiences, but none of them wanted to be with me long term. So I cut them out of my brain and life.
If I see a woman I like, I use direct game and approach right away. If they say no I say ok and I keep moving. It's been easier.
God Bless You, and good luck on your journey.
When he said to make a habit of remembering peoples name and notice small details, one time i was in an employment agency, broke and unemployed. The girl i was talking to said her name, got me a coffee and came back, i said "thanks (name)". She replied "nobody ever remembers my name". It helped build attraction. We had some good interactions.
I assumed people did remember her name but it was a cue because she liked me.
This channel is a gold mine.
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Am learning that self-love/confidence radiate these qualities to others, whether face to face, or apart
The author of “No More Mr. Nice Guy”.
Wth, REALLY. 😯 i was thinking if i have heard that name
10 minutes in and I already can say this is GOLD! Thanks a lot!
Great to hear you are getting big value from this video Diego! The next Integrated Man Summit is coming up December 4th - 6th in Miami. It’s an awesome place to hear and get to meet and spend time with leading speakers like Dr. Glover, Brain, and Zan Perrion. Stay tuned for this year's lineup. Come join us and say hi! - Andrew, The Fearless Man
Be still carefull. There are woman out there that don't mean you, they looking for a drama they can use. Not to many out there but still, be carefull.
thank you for your great book and this awesome talk. i really appreciate the wisdom and you sharing your struggles and how you overcame them
Wow I usually don't watch 1 hour videos but this was so eye-opening and inspiring that I HAD to finish watching. Can't wait to implement this when I go out tomorrow!
Robert gives a nice truth-filled balance of what works in relationship building. Eyes wide open men and happy fishing!
This was a very good video seminar to watch! Dr. Glover did a great job explaining about not only going through the doors that are open to you, but to pay attention to those indicators of interests. I myself have delt with limiting beliefs in my life; and many of my close friends say I can get the type of women I want to date, but just been too afraid to "be bold" as Dr. Glover says. I will definitely make some changes in this upcoming 2021 and keep watching Fearless Man to improve. Thank you for sharing this video!
This guy is a genius.. I've read his book "No more Mr. Nice guy" and it's really awesome..
At first I didn't agree with a lot of what he was saying and I had my guard up, but after a breathe and a second look he did clarify something's for me and something's I noticed made sense to me in reflecting. This is actually is some good insight
"You get to decide from a smorgasborg"
I love the abundance mindset. Awesome video!
Smörgåsbord = Sandwich table or buffet table in swedish
@Mailbox 2002 oof. It must suck to be one of the “uglies” huh?
went out on day 1 after hearing this,and already the shop assistant asked for my number...
This is nice Robert - Thanks for bringing a different perspective- I use pickup for my business. Concept such as being detached to the outcome applies to entrepreneurship too - the social thing of talking to bartenders is great - I have bet doing it in my city & trust me bartenders will scream your name every time you go to their bar - if you with clients increases your value & with women & men in the bar (social proof). Fellow men watching this..it’s very helpful apply some of the things he mentioned but it doesn’t happen overnight or instantly just keep doing and being consistent- side note I have my own channel for those interested in content that can help you improve as an entrepreneur
Great presentation. Down to earth and he doesn't talk down to you. Hope to see more of him on this channel.
That anxious energy point that he brought up is SOOOO MEEEE!! That’s why I refuse to and have such a hard time approaching women or really anybody quite frankly. It’s SO off the charts and I’m not exaggerating when I say that!
I realized through the years how much people catch “vibes” and anxiety is by far one of the easiest to catch. It feels uncomfortable and people want to be away from that. I don’t blame them because when I experience my crazy anxiety I feel awful!
I experience the awful anxiety through the experiences that I’ve had. Specifically when I went through my teenage struggles with acne, dermatitis, and lack of a growth spurt. My scarred skin and lacking height just destroyed me psychologically and I plummeted off the face of the earth both socially and mentally ever since. I just can’t imagine anyone accepting me or liking me in any fashion, so I’m ashamed of myself to the core.
I’ll likely die alone which is sad. Having a kid isn’t everything, but I feel it’ll be very disappointing, especially to my parents, if I go through life without “mating” and making something of myself socially/romantically which they’ve never seen in my life. Especially if I decide to self-delete. Idk man.
Edit: On a “good” note, I’m glad that Ronald affirms my belief that cold approaching is invasive. It always just seems off though it can work out fine if you do it right, I suppose.
If you aren't getting women nowadays its because they all think they are God's gift to the world despite having achieved nothing, even the fugly ones who are ugly inside and out. They have gone insane and its a problem for them to solve not men. Don't listen to some 🫏 love guru who's gonna tell you how you can score with some simple steps.
We are caught up in a massive gaslighting movement. There is nothing wrong with you, our society has gone 🦇 💩. Women know exactly what they are doing, up until the point they are in their 40's childless and alone.
Hang in there my dude and God bless 🙏.
Jeez this has taught me so much. This deserves more
Thanks Robert, I have his book and just listened to this. Can’t give up on myself now.
Man that was excellent advice! I been single along time and I have figured out these things do work! Look for little hints women put out there, and just be bold and talk to them. It works!
"Don’t hit on women who don't show IOIs first". Aproach and talk, see if there are IOIs.
Thank goodness this content is for free 😭❤️
The door metaphor is so powerfull !
Actually when you are open minded and you are attentive to the signs girls are giving you, you can see there are a lot of open doors 😊. This is how the real law of attraction works.
Maybe if there was 100 closed doors and one that is a quarter open if would actually be accurate
Coming back to this is an addiction at this point.... pure gems 🔥
I you can only get one dating advice video - this is it.
Damn, soo many nuggets and solid mentality to absorb! I wanna hear more from this guy.
I appreciate TF out of this shared wisdom, thank you very much gentlemen.
..wow - did we get a treat -:) don't know who this guy is .. but I was captivated .. thanks a lot - really appreciate it!!
100% Correct this is the voice of experience....listein up gents
Thank you for this and thank you for your channel.
This is pure GOLD!
Hahaha so I just listened to this and decided to take a 30 minute trip to the pub down the road…ended up talking to people, one of which was a cute super friendly gal who happens to live right down the road from me. Got her number too!
Great man. Update?
@@unknowngentt that particular one went nowhere, but it doesn’t matter. It was good practice and a good confidence builder. This advice gets you plenty of success. At the end of the day, so does luck and boldness. Do what you love to do and watch doors just start opening. It’s truly amazing what can happen.
You can't spend more time thinking about a woman than you do by actually being with her. Hope everyone's taking notes!
Good advice, Aniket. Dr. Robert Glover of "No More Mr. Nice Guy" recommends variations of this. Thanks for participating in the conversation. Signed, Landon from Fearless
@@TheFearlessMan Cheers! Delighted to have found this great channel. Keep up the good content!
Whew! That was powerful for us overthinkers and procrastinators
THIS IS A TOTAL GODSEND!!!!!
Excellent topic and outstanding truths my brother, took me many years to realize signals from females.
Thank you for your time and experience
Sometimes, a spontaneous defensive mechanism a woman may give off is not the same as a rejection. i.e., if you you approach a woman and she says eeww or gives off a scary face its up to you to let that halt your approach or persist with your goal of getting her number because if you stop that may give off a weak vibe and they will not regret being defensive.🤔
He's spot on about women needing emotional tension. One of the fatal mistakes some masculine men make is when they fall in love they can become overly accommodative, that is they turn into Mr. Nice. Because this can kill attraction, a woman sometimes, just as Dr. Glover said, may attempt to create tension with conflict. Most feminine women love it when a man can firmly but lovingly put us in our place. That's sexy and will usually lead to sex.
Almost like god designed women to be treated like sh1t and not deserve rights
I've heard all this before. My 2 cents: when I was single i was invisible to women. After marriage they would literally throw themselves at me and NOT in subtle ways. Now I'm separated and guess what I'm invisible AGAIN.
Probably because when you were committed to someone you didn't have a dominant energy of grasping, desiring, wanting, pulling energy. That pulling energy is attachment and it's repelling to women. Make sure to take responsibility for the energy you bring and be honest with yourself. When we blame others there is no progress we can make because we've put it on someone else. You have the power. Anything can happen. Best of luck out there.
@CG-wr4no yeah whatever. My 'energy' is what it is- angry and depressed and no meds or therapy can change who I am fundamentally. I was the same person while married 9 yrs but I guess I was 'safe' because I had a woman and kids at home. The minute my coworkers found out I was getting separated ALL the flirty women turned away from me. Instantly. Even though they knew my wife did ME wrong. And don't tell me to stop Giving a fuk , I've ALWAYS not gave a fuck and people just think I'm an ASSHOLE for it. And I can only fake a smile for so long before I get even MORE pissed off cause I'm lying to myself and every one else when I am NOT HAPPY EVER.
It shouldn’t be that black and white. If women notice you at all then they will feel attraction even if you aren’t married. I just struggle thinking it goes from married= lots of female attention to not married= no attention from women.
This is life changing!
great vid, first few sentences I had to keep watching, was right on.
Love it, Dr Glover hits the nail on the head. This non-sense of just trying to score the hottest chick is mind numbing and counter productive. Walk through open doors and you'll find something so much better.
you should invite more guest speakers to do talks with you, a lot of good male self improvement speakers have small audiences so collaborations help each other.
Great socializing practice advice (around 41:48).
Thanks Robert, Brian and Fearless team.
1 hour video felt like 10 minutes. Gold stuff
17:50, is it just me or do those things very rarely happen. If a woman touches me on my arm and laughs at one of my jokes alarm bells in my mind immediately go off and I assume she’s attracted. Does he think we’re social imbeciles? We’re here because we DON’T often see clear indications of interest from women like that. The other day I was at my job and a coworker started a conversation about her dog or something and she had slight nervousness in her voice so I assume she is into me but the conversation itself was completely innocuous. Probably the clearest indication of interest I’ve seen in long time, and I don’t have social anxiety (I put myself in more social situations than most) and I’m not a terrible looking dude. I am writing this because a lot of dating coaches “only go after women who have a high level of interest in you”, but how often do women laugh and touch you on the arm?? Am I the one Quasimodo guy who that never happens to? I am also in my 20s though and this guy said that he entered the dating market in his late 40s. Much more competitive as a young person I’d assume.
No attachment. Key learning there👍
My 2 takeaways from this video, become more outgoing and social and your thoughts are your reality, if u think women aren’t into then that will be the case of you think your the man that will be the case
I enjoyed every minute and learned from this and I WILL START involving the teaching in my life to become a better man. Thank you
This is brilliant I just subscribed to your channel.
This is spot on advice🔥
Super interesting video, I understanding the process better day by day.
I’m gonna watch this again and again.
Where is the 3rd part?
I do a lot this stuff it works I just had some tough luck since my Wife pass but I got some options great Video
This is the 2nd video I've seen Robert in and I think he's great!
The story at 38:00 is powerful
What if the girl giving you IOI is with her parents? I got scared and didn't approach even though she stared at me for 10 seconds. I need to learn to not be scared of what might happen or getting in trouble
Hey man, You can still go and talk to her. If you are grounded with an open heart and enjoying your turn-on a lot of times the family smiles or gets a kick out of it. The tension level is higher of course but if you go in with appreciation and an open heart, no one can really be too upset with you. You're a boy, she's a girl, boys and girls want to connect, no big deal really. All the same factors apply as when a woman is by herself or with friends. When people see that you are willing to take a social risk to connect with them authentically, they appreciate it. - Andrew, TFM Staff
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Phenomenal program. Will be listening on repeat.
While I respect Robert Glover and agree with most of his work, my criticism of him is the same as with most other relationship/men's coaches. He can give an answer or explanation but it's like he almost doesn't recognize that what he's offering might not work. It's almost like "here's the answer", but when men encounter women where that doesn't work, it's like the men then have no idea what else to do.
Let me give an example.
In his book he tells the story of Jake and Tisha. They're a younger, recently married couple and the problem is that when they go out, Tisha usually drinks too much, starts dancing and fliting with other men and begins to treat Jake badly. One evening when this happens, Jake calls her out on it and tells her it's time to go home. Tisha refuses so Jake leaves. Later, she makes it seem that Jake is the problem. He later tells her that if she wants to stay married to him, she's going to have to get help with her drinking problem and stop flirting with other men. Again, she makes him to be the problem and I believe she goes to stay with friends. Jake considers giving in but his men's group encourages him to stay strong. Tisha later admits she was wrong and that she shouldn't have been doing the things she'd been doing.
Glover makes it sound like if men do that sort of thing, the situation will work out like in the story. Sorry, but I don't know those types of women. My experience with women is that if you call out their bad behavior, they'll double down just to show you that they're not going to let you control them. In the Jake and Tisha story, my experience with women would suggest that if you tell them not to drink so much and start flirting and dancing with other men, they'll bring one home and have sex with him in front of you, just to spite you.
OK, so standing up to her didn't work. Now what? And that's where none of these coaches can give you an answer. It's "buy my book, sign up for my program, pay for personal sessions" and it will work. Didn't work? Oh well.
Agree. He seems to suggest when women lose interest in a marriage it’s the guys fault. That’s so simplistic and denies that she might be: mentally ill, substance abusing or many other factors. He’s a LMFT? Peter principle in action.
Is there a part two to this? From the next day?
I think you may have to buy the The Integrated Man Summit Video to see it. www.thefearlessman.com/products/
Landon, True Courage
@@TheFearlessManok. Thanks
The funniest part of all of this, not one man in that room would know what to do IF they actually did catch a woman
Great point
1:04:38 I have a friend who without doing and saying absolutely anything, girls usually go talk to him I want to understand that like what the heck
I agree with all the signs of attraction with the nose/ear hair trimmings and looking for open doors but I believe you are leaving a huge gap unanswered with attraction and that’s your physical appearance. In reference to Coach Corey Wayne’s “How to be a 3% man” book he talks that you have to be perceived in that woman’s eyes as of at least a 5 or above in order to have a chance. Yes- there’s always exceptions to that rule but it’s something I’ve found very true and it has been completely left out of this video.
I feel like there’s lots of negativity in these comments. I feel like so many have missed the message. I’m pretty sure I’m a recently identified nice guy and I’m just soaking every weird up from dr glover anywhere I hear it!
I listened to the audio book twice now too.
I’m going to be different. I just wish the good Dr could help me directly to get started.
Send me an email and I can get you setup with Dr. Glover.
Landon, True Courage
landon@truecourage.io
as a 19 year old who has never been with a girl, mostly due to my own anxiety and fear of rejection this was absolute gold. I'm done fucking around and I am going to ask out this girl at my job that I've been wanting to. Fuck it if I fail, then theres others.
100% man. Let us know what happens 👍 - Andrew, TFM Team
Dude pls don't sht where you eat
update please
Update ?
It seems like this guy (Robert Glover) puts out some of the best content for Men and women...
15:41 agree but the problem is none chooses me LOL
How often do you get out of the house? Honestly I was a shut in because of being hurt and getting a dui. I have recently this year made it a point to go out at least 5 days a week and I'm breaking my social awkwardness. I just had a 2 week fling that kinda hurt when it was over but I feel like it has changed my mindset. (Referenceing me going out and being committed)
This is goldmine. People don’t even know. 🙌🏼
Thanks for sharing this Brian! 😁😁😁❤️❤️
fantastic video
I realized I cannot handle emotional tension - either I have no tank at all for it or have no experience on what it really means to keep it up or going without destroying my sense of well being
Great video 📹 👍
😇😇😇🤠🤠🤠 Great wisdom with women shared by this god level man, I feel enlightened. thanks.
The formula, if there is one, goes like this: 1. Be interested. Enough to go do something cool with your life, with your day. That has the benefit of making you interesting. 2. Find love inside of you, and give it to the world. Don’t go out seeking love from others; that just makes you a vampire. Give it, and keep giving it. That has the benefit of making you lovable. 3. Women will naturally materialize in your life if you do those things. Date those women! They are doing the same things you are doing, and therefore you already have something in common! Now the fun part…. 4. Women are drawn to men who are desirable, and the easiest way to be desirable is to be dating other women. There’s nothing like the scent of a woman on you to attract other women. So then. Get off the dating apps, and go out and live a life.
How do you find the love inside yourself ?
Let go of the emotional blocks to the love. It is already there but gets shut down our of shame, guilt, etc. - Andrew, TFM Team
57:00 I feel like that dude kinda misinterpreted what the speaker meant by "invasive" to mean he was creep for going up to women that didn't give a signal
Great video. I'm getting better at casually speaking to lots of people..building skills.
Looks are everything
“Don’t wait for a woman to put up a billboard , listen asshole come ask for my number “ 😂
I just sat through a 70 minute lecture thinking at the end, it's over already?
I dated a girl who is hot , hot enough other women would comment on her and how attractive she was when I showed her picture. I'm not an attractive guy but I had come back from overseas and was dressing very nicely. Well I was working with her and she was working with me and she would come by my desk and ask me questions all the time. I was was thinking wow she doesn't know anything. Silly me. Then one day she sat next to me and I was showing her something and she leaned in close and her leg was touching my leg and it stayed there. Like she was comfortable. I remember it was like a light bulb went off like ooohhhhh she likes me. Later on she would tell people how I was like unaware and that she used to call me daddy in the office and I never noticed.
is this video on spotify?
This is gold
Great video, thank you!
I can't seem to get any eye contact lately.